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Is Edging On NoFap A Relapse? (WARNING!)
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Ever wondered if edging is a relapse on NoFap? Or if edging is a relapse on semen retention? Or if edging to porn is bad for your dopamine system? Well, if so, this video is for you.
Let's role: NoFap is edging relapse?
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Thank you!
Day 101 today free of pmo . Like any addict if you are addicted to something stay away from that .
Great job, brother! 💪
@@Aslakki07 thanks bro
Keep going
@@injured9406 Thanks 🙏🏻
505 days of no porn. Life is so much better without it
hey, have you recovered if you had PIED?
AMAZING!!!
@@Giorgi755 yes i have
@@lou3567 congrats, good job. how many months did it take to see some progress
@@Giorgi755 about 2 months for me
Edging isn't a relapse, it's worst than a relapse ...
It is THE worst thing, yes. Huhh....been there, done that :(
@@ScandinavianBob Glad that we realized early and now being aware of it ❤
What does mean Edging?
@@ammarkritous7988 masturbating to porn without ejaculating. Typically for hours. The problem is that your brain has the dopamine high for hours instead of a few minutes since you keep holding off on busting
@@ammarkritous7988 Edging means watching p, fantasizing but not ejaculating....
I remember when I was addicted I would lose hours of sleep due to edging. Never try to edge before you go to bed not worth it trust me.
Yes. And I would say, never edge at all.
Same here, It would keep me up til 3AM
Day 34 NoFap Hard Mode
The last 2 days were horrible - headaches , extreme fatigue, depression and anxiety . Today feeling alot better hopefully I have seen the worst of the withdrawals
Stay hard 💪
You're doing very well! Keep going, warrior!
@@ScandinavianBobThank you !
They will last for 6 to 8 months depending on use. U have to be strong
@jaypalnitkar4400 fuck! I'm going through the same 38 days nofap hard mode here
@suleimanmansoul6878 keep going bro after a week or two things will be better
Great video!
Very important message.
And that state of being "bathed in dopamine" as you describe is also going on when we are scrolling and scrolling and scrolling.
Not saying social media needs to be erased 100%. There are powerful benefits to learning through it and connect with like-minded people.
But scrolling needs to be cut out. Instead, always stay in control, search actively, and actively take notes when watching smth. Don't just passively consume, consume, conscume.
Good message as always Scandinavian Bob!
Thanks my brother!
Almost 2 years being on nofap and retention. I feel like a newborn baby I didn’t forget about the past few years of my life, but it feels like I’m born again. My advice for everyone is do not count your days and do not think about the topic nofap too much because the more you count your days the more you’re going to subconsciously put a day where you just decide to relax subconsciously just keep working on yourself and be your one hundred percent best version of yourself don’t count the days it’s all the ego and that’s where the downfall comes from our egos everyone is on a different journey. Some of us are just starting some of us been doing this for a while. But this is normal completely normal act like you’ve never been here before.
LoL - I heard you saying “the small sl*ts”, instead of slots at 05:54. PMO has really messed up my brain 😂.
Still going strong with NoFap - but temptations are ever present. Videos like these keep me on the right path. Thanks Bob!
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Hey Bob! This is another good one!
Thank you my friend. And thanks for always being so supportive.
If you avoid looking at stuff, you suffer because of using discipline. But if you keep doing it, it gets easier.
As far as I remember I might be wrong your utube Channel used to have a different name 1-2 years back.....I was a extreme porn addict but I started watching your videos in lockdown period.....and followed your urge surfing advice and rest videos .......now I am free from this addiction......thank u for making a change in my life....❤❤❤
That's so amazing that you turned your life around. Great job, my brother and massive congrats to you. By the way, I think my channel name was Project Stronger Self, back then.
@@ScandinavianBob yes exactly it used to be Project Stronger Self🥹
this one hit like a brick :( needed it tho ty sir
Thanks Bob 🙏
Kiitos taas! Hyvä video👍
Kiitos sulle ja hyvää päivän jatkoa....perkele!! :D
Just niin!😂🤝😎👍
Hey bob 0ersonally how long it look for your reward centre to become sensitive back to normal level again during your reboot. I am an victim of extreme edging too
Ah, very helpful video, Bob. I know you've discussed desensitization more than a few times before, but I don't think I've heard the part about your brain using a counter measure from having too much dopamine at one time.
Thanks, brother! Yeah, I have talked about desensitization many, many times. But I try to do it by varying the presentation a bit to make sure it hits home. Because I believe it's such an important topic.
@@ScandinavianBob Well it definitely hit home for me, this time. I fell off the wagon a few times now, but I'm ready to try again.
I’ve been failing and I need help, hate this
The main thing is to get back up after every slip, AND learn something from it each time. That way we can literally "fail our way to success". But, that does only happen IF we really put in effort to learn, calibrate and modify our approach. Rise again, warrior! You can do this! I believe in you!
Around day 63 ,feel bit stronger.Not feeling the full benefits maybe because i smoke cannabis,but ill stick to it and hopefully see the benefits.
It was a short enough time that I decided to get out of it . I consider it a win. I overcame it which is really hard .
Great work 💪
@@ScandinavianBob day 34 going stronger than I ever have
100k subscribers very soon 💪
Hope so!
How about edging without corn? Any research on that?
I discovered they talked about PAWS - post acute withdrawal symptoms.. i already had pied and then when I was 18 I watched a lot of crazy stuff 2-3 hours every day for 2 years.. is it likely that I need 1 year or even more before I see some benefits? Or is it PAWS? month 8 and still no libido at all
It doesn't have take a year. But, some people can have to wait that long. But you could start experiencing libido in the next week. We just don't know. Pursue patience, keep positive and you'll be out of it soon enough 💪
Gooning is one of the worst things you can do with nofap. Once you spend enough time edging you are bound to “relapse/release” I’ve done it for hours at a time once, and when I relapsed after my mind is just wrecked for quite some time. It takes some time to get back to normal after one relapse if you do this. So yes, I would consider it a relapse
It is THE ultimate relapse.
Hey Bob ! Im porn and masturbation free 8 months and in meantime practice semen retention but my question is everytime i have sex during this period i get same and maybe stronger withdrawal symptoms, why is that ? Sex with real woman supposed to be natural is it a relapse please i need help
It can happen, because the brain is still associating porn with orgasm (or even arousal with porn) , and so it kicks in the "B" process in the "Richard Solomon's opponent process theory of emotions", which is characterized by flatline or withdrawals. It's not because you are doing anything wrong. Your brain just needs a few more times experiencing how an orgasm is happening in a normal, natural situation. And eventually it will stop kicking in the "B" process (i.e. the flatline) as it sees that porn is no longer there. Just keep doing what you're doing, rewiring with a real person, and keep staying away form porn. Your brain will eventually stop giving you withdrawals after real sex.
@ScandinavianBob thanks a lot Bob for the information 😀 you really a hero
but still what about edging without porn or sex without ejaculating?
Sex without ejaculating is not a problem. In fact, for some people it can speed up one part of the rebooting process (the rewiring to real life people part). Edging without porn (only mastur**tion) is generally not a problem for a person who is not addicted PMO, because it's hard to override your natural satiation mechanism without the aid of supernormal stimuli, (e.g. online porn), but it CAN still be problematic for SOME people who are tying to overcome a PMO addiction (not everyone, though, it depends on the person). If having the slightest problem with too much po*n or even just masturb**n, then I would recommend against edging even without po*n. Because think about it; why would we even want to edge like this in the first please? All it does is leaving us frustrated because we WANT to bust, but we didn't get to. And so we can't really let the thought of that go for the rest of the day. And it is exactly those compulsive behaviors that we want to get rid of (if we are the slightest addicted to PMO). And if we constantly keep edging then how could we truly ever stop being obsessed?
Hi Bob I binged relapse on over 100 day of nofap I relapsed and after 2 weeks I relapsed again 3 times in 3 days straight and now I get back on track and still worrying about it I don't know If I get back to zero
We need to forget the term "back to zero". It isn't helpful. You set yourself back a bit, but after 100 days, all progress is NOT gone. Just keep on going, stay away from porn and you'll be back in no time.
@@ScandinavianBob and pied started to recover through that streak and after relapses the pied back again how long it will stay?
Shouldn't take long to fix. Don't worry and keep on going!
@@ScandinavianBob thanks Bob you motivated me to complete my streak and I get back to my streak like I was and forgot the relapses that happen and I forget the counting days thanks bob
Somebody says that instead of ejaculating leaving at the edge is better choice, what’s your take on this ?
Obviously it will not give results of true semen retention but is it a choice ?
Staying on the edge is the absolute worst choice ever if you're using porn.
@@ScandinavianBob ok sir.
What if i edging without looking at porn or anything? Is it a relapse?
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You better switch to those air fried tater chips because all that salt and oil uses up dopamine. I used to be so addicted to pmo that I started wanting to play video games of it. There is something unusually perverted about the animated stuff especially when it starts looking like furries, I've had some really wild fantasies that I wish simply did not happen.
Edging is definitely the biggest gateway to relapse. It starts with you laying in bed scrolling thru social media, you see something that arouses you then here comes the edging. Mind convinces you its okay to relapse just one more time, you do it and feel like crap immediately after 🤦🏽♂️💯
Edging IS the biggest relapse!
Can you make a video on how much time it takes for those who goes into flatline before nofap. What should they do. Agewise who started at 14 or before. My case is like that. Need help. I started at age of 14 and goes into flatline before starting nofap. How much time it takes to get out of flatline. Day 110 rn.
Thanks for your suggestion. I will definitely make a video on this, because many people are in your exact situation.
I‘m almost at 90 days nofap harmode +sr
The whole second month i had a really bad flatline with extreme depression and no libido. Since im in the third month my libido is back and really strong..
My question: is it bad for my journey that i think about sex (real sex) very often and get like 10 boners almost everyday just from my thoughts about it? should i try to force myself to not think about sex so much?
Getting boners just from thinking about reals sex is actually a very good sign. Don't worry so much about your thoughts. It's normal. Just as long as you don't try to recreate some specific porn scene in your mind you're ok. Because that can reactivate the old porn pathways. Real = good. Artificial = bad.
@@ScandinavianBob thank you for the quick answer:)
@@ScandinavianBob Hey Bob, couple weeks later my libido is not that high anymore just moderate+ no morning wood. But its not completely gone. Is this maybe a new mild flatline?
it's like the Aerosmith song.."Livin on the edge" 😂😂 ohh yeah! that, and "push it to the limit "
the addiction is from the journey to the edge... then if you bust it's like speeding down a highway then suddenly crashing into a wall... such is the mind of the Fapaddict.
Haha, that was a golden comment :D
If I practice nofap for over a year, does it increase the receiving receptors ?
Yes, just as long as you are having a healthy lifestyle. For most people it doesn't even take a year to fix it, but if living healthy and not doing other kinds of recreational drugs (or that much of them) it happens sooner than that.
@@ScandinavianBob 👍🏻👍🏻
Edging, sexual daydreaming and aimlessly watching RUclips- Videos for hours inevitably lead to a PMO - Relapse for me ...
on day 101❤ feeling great and strong no more strong urges i don't think so i will go back to pmo is so bad for my life
That's great. You're walking the path! It's an amazing journey!
WHAT'S EDGING PLEASE 🙏
Google is your friend
Is watching 20 sec video (with intention) a big relaps
Nah, more like a smaller slip
Nah, more like a smaller slip.
In day 34 today almost had a relapse. Alot of urges and started to feel bad and depressed and like my brain was saying: remember when you fapped and you watched porn you didnt felt so bad like now why dont you try and you may feel good like before ..
Its making me feel bad and trying to get the drug like before but deep down I know this is a lie. Also i have thoughts like : you may feel bad at least 10 20 or 30 days more why wait when can you feel good now..
A bunch of lies 🤨
Still pushing for now ..
Good job for recognizing the lies. That is what an experienced NoFap warrior is supposed to do...
@ScandinavianBob Thank you for the help and motivation Bob I really needed. Will keep pushing will keep you updated hopefully soon things will change .
Looking forward to hearing about your success! Let's keep walking the path!