I like what you said about it not being about respecting the person, but rather showing respect for the uniform or the position or title. That explanation resonated with me. I might’ve disagreed if I hadn’t heard it put that way. Thank you ❤ I just love listening to you. The perfect way to start my day.
You felt compassion and understood that she“did not know how to act any other way” at that moment. instead of condemning her for her lack of educatiion you choose to treat her with respect and kindness.
My parents raised me to be respectful of everyone. The problem is 90% of the other parents in this world, did not teach their children respect. There is a massive lack of respect on this planet.
I grew up having lots of respect for others…but no respect for myself. That was back in the ‘50s. Respect indicates that one person is more valuable than another. In my old age now, I have come to a belief : all people are of equal value. In this thought, PRIDE is unwelcome. Being Prideful is all about believing someone is more valuable or better than another. Ungodly. Honestly insisting on respect is ill thought. Think it over.
Thanks for listening!!!! The flipping mic is a pain. I never know when it is going to stop - and it doesn't allow the usual sound recorder - my phone - to take over. Then I go and load the wrong version. But yesterday was a great day - magazine published article about me! I was like a 6 year old! D
@@user-pw3tr1xg2x Pleased with it - apart from the title - do they call it a banner? It says 'I'm a kindness guru' I love the kindness bit, but guru doesn't sit well with me. Hey ho. D
Thank you Dee♥ .A good reminder of how respect starts inside of ourselves, the Mirror is often a resourceful place to begin, so true ,Take Care , Have a wonderful Day. Lynda
I agree with you that respect needs to be earned; I also think it should be given freely. I find respect most useful when interacting with teenagers. They respond so well to being respected. I learned long ago to stand up when being introduced, especially when meeting a new superior, or a healthcare provider for the first time. It immediately sets a positive tone.
As I am sitting on my deck this morning surrounded by all my beautiful flowers and oasis that I somehow created on this hot Canadian July morning with my coffee, I took in this video but felt a bit of rage because I revisited my own past and reflected on the many people that wronged in me or plain out disrespected me and thought how interesting it was that some of them got extremely angry and offended if I turned around and did the exact SAME thing to them. It bothers me that some people think respect is a one way street and some people just can’t be bothered with being kind. Oh well, I need to let go of the past. I do believe it is perfectly OKAY to not like someone, it’s OKAY to not agree with what someone else says or believes in, you don’t have to be friends with every single person you encounter and not every personality is going to get along, but in my mind it’s NEVER okay to be rude and disrespectful to anyone or even go out of your own way to be an a$$hole to someone. If you like me that is great, if you don’t like me, cest la vie, it’s not going to make any difference in my life. Another great video Dee. It helped me resonate with many things I need to work on in my life and with you, I NEVER feel like I am alone. Take care and can’t wait to see your next video.
Your deck sounds a wonderful place to be - well done for creating a wonderful space for you to be. I hope that your bit of rage settled with your further reflection. I often find that my first instinct is to feel angry. but that sort of gives me the impetus to not fob things off, but to give them proper consideration - usually to turn from me blaming myself. I am so pleased with the last line of your comments, Tomorrow's video is a very much greenery filled walk using midfulness - along the side of a canal. I hope that you enjoy it. D
That is why we have so much intense bullying these days many times leading up to violence! Disrespect is more reflected upon the one showing disrespect than the one they are disrespecting! It's a low class simple minded out of self control person who does this. This is so massively rampant these days that it has totally deligitimized the demand for equity and abolish racism platform. It's so bad that it's hard to take anyone seriously now a days, everyone's crying wolf!
I really appreciate the nature scenarios and pleasant environments where you record your vloggings, it makes me feel like i'm talking to a friend on a quiet afternoon, it makes me want to watch all your videos at once 🤍 sending love :)
As a newly elected PM, he duly deserve the respect, and then for him to be regarded as ‘one of us ordinary citizens’ is something I don’t agree with. We shouldn’t try to ask people to knowingly ‘disrespect’ us. I don’t like it when professional people, who are strangers to me call me by my first name when they should have called me as Mrs ……
For me, I feel respect should always be given, regardless of age, race, social class, title etc. because I believe all human beings should be given respect, and because I also feel what I’d like to be given is what I should give in return. And even if I am disrespected by someone, I feel as though if I reciprocate with that same disrespect, how am I any better and how do I have the moral authority or right to justify my own bad behavior simply because I didn’t start it….. Always give respect, but TRUST and integrity must be earned.
Thank you so much - sadly, many would not be willing, or find it very hard to show respect to someone disrespecting them. You are a strong person. Take care, D
I can't stand it when the PM tries to be 'one of the people' or 'relatable'. Do a good job, that's what matters, and have the courage to be proud of the Sir. Don't get me started on Hasbeen, I mean, Harry. What a disgrace to his country and family.
Ha! That song was the first thing I thought of, when I saw the title. Followed by "All I ever wanted was a little more respect from you" by Kirsty McColl. YES! I think the PM wants to be chummy with folk. It doesn't work, imo. I had great advice from the class teacher when I began to work as a TA for kids with emotional difficulties. She said, They don't have to like you. They have to respect you. And yes, you need to respect yourself....and be worthy of that respect. My daughter in law asked me once (years ago) if she needed to iron her blouse (she was going for a job interview). I said, of course. Because if you can't be bothered to do that, they will wonder what else you can't be bothered with. Lots of love, Dee. Technology, eh? 🙄😄
PS It's so funny because as soon as I saw the title of your video, and before I started watching it, Aretha Franklin's song started playing in my head. R-E-S-P-E-C-T! Find out what it means to me! ❤ I loved hearing about how you helped that lady find a class so that she could learn to read. It must have changed her life.
@Cheshirelass I really will! I think they call it an ear worm. 😂 Such a fantastic song so I don't mind! Hope you have a great day, Dee and enjoy Aretha on a loop! 😅❤
Your feelings are completely valid Dee, although if the Prime Minister prefers to be called by their first name, I would accomodate their wishes. If that is what makes them more comfortable, I beleive it is the right thing to do.
I can see both sides of the PM anecdote. So many young people are not engaged in politics but I agree that respect for the office of PM is important. Re Maggie she was not well loved or respected in Scotland and talking about belting out songs - when she died a particular radio station was "belting out" " hey ho the witch is dead!" Not respectful at all but as a person she was not respected amongst most of the population of Scotland - quite the opposite. Politics can be so divisive perhaps I shouldn't have posted a comment as I almost always do and just given you a thumbs up for valiantly getting your content uploaded 👍 big love from Scotland as always❤
Agree about politics and take your point about the younger people. Glad you did post - my fault for opening the door on politics. I didn't consider enough did I? I respect few politicians - not sure if that is the person or the role. Mrs Thatcher certainly made enemies! Love back from Cheshire. D
Everyone of us need respect and made feel valued, humble people get this without even asking they draw it to themselves. Hats off to the guys who say just call me whatever, if we worked on making the youngsters who are creating havoc to feel valued, this toxic mindset may cease. ❤me I am Mari and love it😅
Respect and giving them some kind of responsibility I feel could help a lot. A purpose - for which they can also earn respect. Not a quick fix for many who are currently disillusioned? D
greetings, was really scared when we do saw that the video was deleted but it is came back now! it is nice to see this videos. want to wish you to have a beautiful morning. as long as this world have a persons like you, we are not fucked up
This is exactly how i feel thinking about the dutch king. I absolutely like him as a public person. But because he's starting to act so loose on etiquette i see him losing his credibility as well.
I could hear you well before you got a mic, but I listen with headphones so I don't know if that makes a difference. I like how you respectfully disagree. If he's too 'easy-going' it could potentially cause problems down the track. It's like when your boss wants to be friends with you and then treat you like one of the employees during the week. It can cause awkwardness at best, although I'm sure there are positive examples of it working out long-term. I do think it can be good to lose official titles in some circumstances, to help relax people and show respect less hierarchically. But that doesn't apply to the prime minister I don't think.
Dear ma'am, I respect her you know about that story I'm talking about her, I respect her so much ma'am, I went to her again to apologise she said it is ok. I meet her again today I was showing a photo or turtle 🐢 those came out from nest I sent them to see, she was not showing interest and asking about other guy who is her colleague, ma'am I don't know why I wanted to talk her if she is not wanted to talk to me, I have childhood turma when I was child I was sexually abused by many mens ,I want love from women I have not any sexually attraction to her, i want to forget her now please help me ma'am you don't know your words are important for me.pls
Please get help from professionals who are there to help you. Put into Google 'sexual abuse help and support near me'. Explain how it impacts your life and relationships, people can help you.
I like what you said about it not being about respecting the person, but rather showing respect for the uniform or the position or title. That explanation resonated with me. I might’ve disagreed if I hadn’t heard it put that way. Thank you ❤ I just love listening to you. The perfect way to start my day.
Thank you. D
You felt compassion and understood that she“did not know how to act any other way” at that moment. instead of condemning her for her lack of educatiion you choose to treat her with respect and kindness.
My parents raised me to be respectful of everyone. The problem is 90% of the other parents in this world, did not teach their children respect. There is a massive lack of respect on this planet.
I grew up having lots of respect for others…but no respect for myself. That was back in the ‘50s. Respect indicates that one person is more valuable than another. In my old age now, I have come to a belief : all people are of equal value. In this thought, PRIDE is unwelcome. Being Prideful is all about believing someone is more valuable or better than another. Ungodly. Honestly insisting on respect is ill thought. Think it over.
Sending love dee youre such a special soul. Just wanted to say that. Your videos are always so worth the watch and filled with wisdom.
Thank you for the re-upload Dee. Nice to hear the rest of the video summary.
Thanks for listening!!!! The flipping mic is a pain. I never know when it is going to stop - and it doesn't allow the usual sound recorder - my phone - to take over. Then I go and load the wrong version. But yesterday was a great day - magazine published article about me! I was like a 6 year old! D
Congratulations on being chosen for a magazine article , Dee !
@@user-pw3tr1xg2x Pleased with it - apart from the title - do they call it a banner? It says 'I'm a kindness guru' I love the kindness bit, but guru doesn't sit well with me. Hey ho. D
Thank you Dee♥ .A good reminder of how respect starts inside of ourselves, the Mirror is often a resourceful place to begin, so true ,Take Care , Have a wonderful Day. Lynda
You too Lynda. D
I agree with you that respect needs to be earned; I also think it should be given freely. I find respect most useful when interacting with teenagers. They respond so well to being respected. I learned long ago to stand up when being introduced, especially when meeting a new superior, or a healthcare provider for the first time. It immediately sets a positive tone.
Thank you so much for sharing this - much appreciated. D
Wow, Ms. Dee! You touched on a great topic today! Great vid!
Thank you. D
For me respect for everyone is everything,especially to those in a prominent role, it has to be both taught and earned in my opinion too Dee ❤🌸🦋🌼🐝🌹xx
Love the last bit of your comment - it has to be both! D
I am from the USA. It appalls me the lack of respect that seems to be now the norm. 😢
I'm in the USA, too. When did it all go so far off the rails! Be well. See you on the channel later!
Same here! People are so rude in the US now, it makes me wonder if I should write a book on manners. Someone should!
@@doctorberkowitz That's funny! I think the same thing.
As I am sitting on my deck this morning surrounded by all my beautiful flowers and oasis that I somehow created on this hot Canadian July morning with my coffee, I took in this video but felt a bit of rage because I revisited my own past and reflected on the many people that wronged in me or plain out disrespected me and thought how interesting it was that some of them got extremely angry and offended if I turned around and did the exact SAME thing to them. It bothers me that some people think respect is a one way street and some people just can’t be bothered with being kind. Oh well, I need to let go of the past. I do believe it is perfectly OKAY to not like someone, it’s OKAY to not agree with what someone else says or believes in, you don’t have to be friends with every single person you encounter and not every personality is going to get along, but in my mind it’s NEVER okay to be rude and disrespectful to anyone or even go out of your own way to be an a$$hole to someone. If you like me that is great, if you don’t like me, cest la vie, it’s not going to make any difference in my life. Another great video Dee. It helped me resonate with many things I need to work on in my life and with you, I NEVER feel like I am alone. Take care and can’t wait to see your next video.
Your deck sounds a wonderful place to be - well done for creating a wonderful space for you to be. I hope that your bit of rage settled with your further reflection. I often find that my first instinct is to feel angry. but that sort of gives me the impetus to not fob things off, but to give them proper consideration - usually to turn from me blaming myself. I am so pleased with the last line of your comments, Tomorrow's video is a very much greenery filled walk using midfulness - along the side of a canal. I hope that you enjoy it. D
That is why we have so much intense bullying these days many times leading up to violence! Disrespect is more reflected upon the one showing disrespect than the one they are disrespecting! It's a low class simple minded out of self control person who does this. This is so massively rampant these days that it has totally deligitimized the demand for equity and abolish racism platform. It's so bad that it's hard to take anyone seriously now a days, everyone's crying wolf!
Love you , you are an incredibly honest, kind and beautiful being. You are authentic and honest.
Your light shines brightly ❤xxx
You are too kind - your words mean so much. D
@@Cheshirelass credit where credit is due…❤️xxx
I really appreciate the nature scenarios and pleasant environments where you record your vloggings, it makes me feel like i'm talking to a friend on a quiet afternoon, it makes me want to watch all your videos at once 🤍 sending love :)
Thank you for your kind words. D
As a newly elected PM, he duly deserve the respect, and then for him to be regarded as ‘one of us ordinary citizens’ is something I don’t agree with. We shouldn’t try to ask people to knowingly ‘disrespect’ us.
I don’t like it when professional people, who are strangers to me call me by my first name when they should have called me as Mrs ……
I always look forward to your videos, Dee. I very much enjoyed this one! Can you imagine Margaret Thatcher saying oh call me Maggie! 😂
Love that! No - I really can't. D
@@Cheshirelass Me neither ha ha. She was so incredibly formal. And.....she knew how much a pint of milk cost. She always had my respect for that!
For me, I feel respect should always be given, regardless of age, race, social class, title etc. because I believe all human beings should be given respect, and because I also feel what I’d like to be given is what I should give in return. And even if I am disrespected by someone, I feel as though if I reciprocate with that same disrespect, how am I any better and how do I have the moral authority or right to justify my own bad behavior simply because I didn’t start it…..
Always give respect, but TRUST and integrity must be earned.
Thank you so much - sadly, many would not be willing, or find it very hard to show respect to someone disrespecting them. You are a strong person. Take care, D
Excellent Topic.. Great Video xx
Greetings Dee! Thank you so much, I totally agree with you and I enjoyed the examples you gave. Love and blessings ♥️🙏
I can't stand it when the PM tries to be 'one of the people' or 'relatable'. Do a good job, that's what matters, and have the courage to be proud of the Sir.
Don't get me started on Hasbeen, I mean, Harry. What a disgrace to his country and family.
I see a kindred spirit here! D
Wasn’t that what got Boris Johnson into trouble when he tried to be a people pleaser too. I agree with you
Ha! That song was the first thing I thought of, when I saw the title. Followed by "All I ever wanted was a little more respect from you" by Kirsty McColl. YES! I think the PM wants to be chummy with folk. It doesn't work, imo. I had great advice from the class teacher when I began to work as a TA for kids with emotional difficulties. She said, They don't have to like you. They have to respect you. And yes, you need to respect yourself....and be worthy of that respect. My daughter in law asked me once (years ago) if she needed to iron her blouse (she was going for a job interview). I said, of course. Because if you can't be bothered to do that, they will wonder what else you can't be bothered with. Lots of love, Dee. Technology, eh? 🙄😄
Very true. D
PS It's so funny because as soon as I saw the title of your video, and before I started watching it, Aretha Franklin's song started playing in my head. R-E-S-P-E-C-T! Find out what it means to me! ❤ I loved hearing about how you helped that lady find a class so that she could learn to read. It must have changed her life.
Will you have this on repeat going through your head for the rest of the day. I did. You are lucky that I didn't burst into singing it!! D
@Cheshirelass I really will! I think they call it an ear worm. 😂 Such a fantastic song so I don't mind! Hope you have a great day, Dee and enjoy Aretha on a loop! 😅❤
@@EmmaPeacock-cc9fl Might even throw in a few moves to go with it - and why ever not? D
@@Cheshirelass Oh yes I love a dance! Go for it!!!
@@EmmaPeacock-cc9fl So long as you do too! D
Thank you for this, Dee. I always love to hear your thoughts. ^-^
Your feelings are completely valid Dee, although if the Prime Minister prefers to be called by their first name, I would accomodate their wishes. If that is what makes them more comfortable, I beleive it is the right thing to do.
you should write a book i would love to read your thoughts and advice
I have 300 podcasts/blogs from my web site. Keep wanting to make an e-book of the blogs. D
I can see both sides of the PM anecdote. So many young people are not engaged in politics but I agree that respect for the office of PM is important. Re Maggie she was not well loved or respected in Scotland and talking about belting out songs - when she died a particular radio station was "belting out" " hey ho the witch is dead!" Not respectful at all but as a person she was not respected amongst most of the population of Scotland - quite the opposite. Politics can be so divisive perhaps I shouldn't have posted a comment as I almost always do and just given you a thumbs up for valiantly getting your content uploaded 👍 big love from Scotland as always❤
Agree about politics and take your point about the younger people. Glad you did post - my fault for opening the door on politics. I didn't consider enough did I? I respect few politicians - not sure if that is the person or the role. Mrs Thatcher certainly made enemies! Love back from Cheshire. D
@@Cheshirelass it was certainly brave to mention politics or royals, but that is part of your appeal to me. You speak up. I respect that.
@@amanitamuscaria7500 Thank you. There is more important stuff that I want to talk of - but have a feeling YT wouldn't let it through. D
Good morning Ms. Dee
Happy Wednesday 🤗 have a wonderful day ❤
❤I always enjoy your you talks, thank you.
Everyone of us need respect and made feel valued, humble people get this without even asking they draw it to themselves. Hats off to the guys who say just call me whatever, if we worked on making the youngsters who are creating havoc to feel valued, this toxic mindset may cease. ❤me I am Mari and love it😅
Respect and giving them some kind of responsibility I feel could help a lot. A purpose - for which they can also earn respect. Not a quick fix for many who are currently disillusioned? D
love the video!
Thank you Dee, you are spot on
THANK YOU, for re uploading this. 🌺🙏🏻🌸
Oh, I agree with you 100%.
6:52 hey! I am wearing jeans in the office! 😊
Does everyone? D
@@Cheshirelass yes
Thank you 😊 🙏 ❤
Love you dee ❤❤❤❤
greetings,
was really scared when we do saw that the video was deleted but it is came back now! it is nice to see this videos. want to wish you to have a beautiful morning. as long as this world have a persons like you, we are not fucked up
Take care. D
aaah nice lol i hope you get it sorted soon 🥰🥰🥰
I hope so too - it is a pain! D
You are completely right,I totally agree with you
Thank you ❤
This is exactly how i feel thinking about the dutch king. I absolutely like him as a public person. But because he's starting to act so loose on etiquette i see him losing his credibility as well.
Awkward with royals isn't it especially if popularity is waning. Our changing societies? D
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How ironic that you were disrespected by your new microphone while making a video about respect.
It was - I am beginning to totally disrespect the flipping thing. D
I could hear you well before you got a mic, but I listen with headphones so I don't know if that makes a difference.
I like how you respectfully disagree. If he's too 'easy-going' it could potentially cause problems down the track. It's like when your boss wants to be friends with you and then treat you like one of the employees during the week. It can cause awkwardness at best, although I'm sure there are positive examples of it working out long-term.
I do think it can be good to lose official titles in some circumstances, to help relax people and show respect less hierarchically. But that doesn't apply to the prime minister I don't think.
thank you so much for commenting. It, means a lot. D
Dear ma'am, I respect her you know about that story I'm talking about her, I respect her so much ma'am, I went to her again to apologise she said it is ok. I meet her again today I was showing a photo or turtle 🐢 those came out from nest I sent them to see, she was not showing interest and asking about other guy who is her colleague, ma'am I don't know why I wanted to talk her if she is not wanted to talk to me, I have childhood turma when I was child I was sexually abused by many mens ,I want love from women I have not any sexually attraction to her, i want to forget her now please help me ma'am you don't know your words are important for me.pls
I am sorry - you will benefit more from seeking face to face help neaar to you, D
Please get help from professionals who are there to help you. Put into Google 'sexual abuse help and support near me'. Explain how it impacts your life and relationships, people can help you.
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thank u for liking my comment dee I love your videos u are such a sweet soul 💕
I love it when I'm first, too! Have a lovely day.
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