[Full Story] My Husband Missed Our Daughter's Birthday Party for Work, So I....
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- My Husband Missed Our Daughter's Birthday Party for Work, So I Confronted Him. He Stormed Out & Didn't Come Back for Days. Then He Said Something That Changed Everything.
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I knew 90 % sure from the title alone before watching the video that the husband cheated
DUH I don't know why it took her so freaking long to catch it
The timing with the husband confessing to a 1 night stand. His change in attitude, etc, co-ensiding with the co-worker leaving all seems very suspect to me. It was more than a 1 night stand. That was an affair.
He also apparently loved AP a lot and the thought of facing married life without the safety valve of cheating with her was traumatising to him.
The moment he left the house and didn’t come back for days, is the moment I would be filing for divorce
Why would he tell her 2 yrs later, unless he wanted a divorce.
Guilt can eat away at you for years before you finally snap
Whenever people think having a kid will SOLVE PROBLEMS it makes me laugh, then cry
The OP's marriage has ended but she's doing well in being a good mom to her daughter and take it a day at a time, good for her.
It's not your fault it's your husband's fault because he missed his daughter's birthday party because of his Big promotion at work and he missed his daughter's dance recital because of his work and cheating on her with a work colleague and that's not right and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for missing her daughter's recitals and cheating on her with a work colleague and and you don't have to apologize for anything it's his fault not yours.
"Lily" was the victim, and "Derek" is the villain. Men like him, though, learn it from one of three women in their lives: his mother, his sister, or his Affair Partner. His dismissal of her second pregnancy and miscarriage shows that he was *_hoping_* for a miscarriage. He was avoiding everything, and it is absolutely obvious this was NOT his first affair. The OP is in no way wrong! A loving husband and father does not put the kids in the middle of a crumbling marriage: that is a "intentionally divorced/single mother's" tactic. The deliberate coldness to his own daughter is outright emotionally/mentally abusive, and the OP has every right to not only divorce "Derek", but to take him for everything he is worth!!
Lastly: the two entire years of broken promises, then suddenly "returning to the old self".. that is all "guilt mode jury rigging" (not the real name for it), which is something cheating partners do in order to "delay the divorce till he is in a position to screw his wife." Most of the time, it is the wife who does that.. but men still do it as well.
Men, like Derek or not like Derek, learn "it" from the MEN in their lives, their father or father figure, uncles, brothers, peers. Don't try to put this on women. Some woman hurt you and now everything is about those evil, scheming women to you, despite the stats showing men are usually the avoidant partner in the relationship.
@@shells500tutubo , please stop. I have the misfortune of having multiple generations of the women in my family who had to deal with abusive ex-husbands.. and even THEY say that it is more likely than not it was their mothers they learned gaslighting and emotional abuse from most often. I am lucky to be happily married by the grace of God.. but get real!
Feminism (gynocentric Marxism) has done NOTHING but destroy families and marriages by telling lies. Paternity fraud, "no-fault divorce", and false SA allegations are the legacy of misandry, and now that we are headed for a second generation of the 21st Century were 60-80 of women between 30-70 (who let misandry lie to them) are going to end up alone, addicted to antidepressants they wash down with box wine. living with cats that hate them (because it is scientifically proven cats prefer MALE owners...), it is only going to get worse for abusive women.
Multiple states have laws with massive support from both men and women to not only make paternity tests mandatory not only before awarding both custody and child support in divorce, but also many of them will make it mandatory before they allow the birth certificate to be filled out. Actual legal (read that CRIMINAL LAW) penalties for proven paternity fraud, proven female spousal abuse as well as false allegations (no matter what the allegation is...) as well are coming like a freight train.. and in BLUE states to boot!
@@shells500tutubo , In fact, there are MULTIPLE stories like this one.. where it is absolutely a proven part of the story.. that it is the mother/mother-in-law.. were the chain of abuse started.
Statistically, 70% of heterosexual divorces and nearly 80% of lesbian divorces the one pursuing the divorce is "the wife".. and it is more often than not "the wife" who is guilty of both abuse and infidelity! Male homosexual divorces are FAR LOWER, at like 30-45%. and both abuse and infidelity are not even close to any reason.
His AP probably said she was going to tell the wife and it wasn't a one night stand but a several year affair. So he spins the story to try and make his own little story.
Taking a shot one minute in because the the jobs are marketing and graphic design.
I bet there's also about to be meeting a at a small cafe where a person has dark circles under their eyes, a supportive boss, OP throwing themselves into a project at work and reuniting with old friends and hobbies they neglected during the relationship, and being reminded of that time when someone did something and how it really makes them think about loyalty and/or self worth.
"A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man,"-Don Corleone
Reddit telling her she deserves better? Sure. Taking yoga classes? Huh. More girls' nights out? Now hold on a minute...
i always find fun in thinking that every op in these kinds of stories have a side they never tell, making them the most horrible people on earth because funny
What happened to counciling? Why are you asking everyone but the one person who could put it in perspective? Stupid story.
Let's be honest... No job has that many emergencies that require an executive to rush in person to handle the problem. He's been cheating for a while, probably with different people. His disappearing acts are proof enough.
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That husband 100% AH. If you have problem, talk it out. Share with your partner. And keep your zipper close.
I think OP was looking for a reason to divorce her husband. Even when everything was going well and her daughter was happy, she was still conteplating separation. Even if the one night stand didn't happen, I think she would have divorced him for a different reason.
I disagree I think either or and they could have pushed through…he literally punished her for YEARS because of a mistake HE made…this was way too much and to find out your husband made you miserable because he cheated on you…like honestly who would stay?
Not every woman thinks that way, but we know why you immediately thought that.
Yeah all those personal conversations in a coffee shop lol
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Hire a PI to investigate for peace of mind
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Thinking about it, I suspect that the infidelity also marked the start of Derek's anxiety and disconnection. He'd obviously felt trapped in a demanding relationship in which he had no joy anymore. OP really owed it as much to him as to herself to let him go or he'd end up hating and resenting her and Lily for even existing.
OP didn’t owe him shit. He’s a grown man and is capable of making grown decisions like leaving an unhappy relationship.
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There's a lot of 'I' from the OP and little of we or us. She's very selfish I think
not really?