Why Even BE Modest?? Modesty At The GYM? || Modesty Q&A, Answering YOUR Questions - Part 2
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Today, I'm answering YOUR questions about modesty! This video ended up being too long when I started editing it, so this is actually Part 2! I guess I just had a lot to say! But you guys had some great questions and I can't wait to share my thoughts. We're going to be tackling modesty at the gym, why modesty is even important, how to dress at church or synagogue, how to dress modestly as a bridesmaid, and so much more. To read more, head over to www.classicallyabby.com.
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Why on earth do I need to be modest when I go to bed with MY husband. You do know married people get naked and have sex? Yeah I don't need modesty around the man I married.
Scandalous
Whaaaaaaaat! How dare you be naked in front of a man!!
Lindsay Riddle bruh you’re literally so dimwitted, she is not saying be modest in front of your man, she is saying be modest in the streets....
When heading to bed with my husband, I don't want him to be thinking I look "cute". Sexy, beautiful or something along those lines but definitely not "cute". Also, I have to say breasts are not strictly a sexual area. They also provide nourishment to babies.
People also have children you know....... you don’t want your kids seeing you in sexy pyjamas right? Lol
boobs are for babies sis, the fact that they are sexualized is a mans issue not ours. we can wear what we want.
Yass Queen/ King/ whatever, I was like: who is this woman and why does she want me to be a conservative so bad?
Men find boobs sexy and thats a fact you cant deny. Dress however you want but be ready to face the consequences of your choice
ayo im a man and now i look different at tits bro thanks bro
naa dude everyone finds tittes sexy. these are the same people who are trying to normalize being topless and pole dancing and whatever the fuck else sexual they can pass as not sexual. and guess what, if i disagree? that's cuz i'm apparently a sexist straight male. normalizing sex has been tried before in many cultures, and most of the time, it doesn't turn out well.
This is evolutionarily ignorant. I agree, men should be able to resist primal urges but to pretent there isn't a reason that men like boobs is non scientific.
And why when a Muslim woman dresses "modestly" people call her a "terrorist"?
Honestly it’s so sad
People now pick and choose who they want instead
@@nek2327 fr
Exactly! The double standard is so sad
@@asiakhan5314 sadly muslims are accused for actions that non Muslim people did and still do :(
I'm 15 why do I keep getting these ads, I don't even wear outside clothes I'm in boarding school 😑
@Blue Crusader I have parents, and I repeat I'm 15!. I just wanted to watch TD videos
@Blue Crusader yeah, from my parents not from RUclips force feeding me ads
@Blue Crusader if you say so
@Blue Crusader a random lady explaining how she thinks the objective right way to dress *DOESNT DO ANY HARM AT ALL totally*
Boluwatife Adekoya she’ll dress however tf she wants to dress
honey, we don’t look cute for men, we’re doing it for the girls and the gays
😌 preach queen
Yesss
wtf
as a lesbian... yes
animeaintgay learn some damn respect❤️
As a person who runs track, NO WAY IN HELL WILL I WEAR SHORTS OVER LEGGING LMFAOOO hell no! Do you know how easy it is to get a heatstroke when running a mile?
LMAOO SAMEE this girl is crazyyyy
@@jas8929 right, lmfaoo
Then don’t wear shorts over leggings. I wouldn’t even wear leggings while running.
@@a.b.2405 Thanks for proving my point further.
I wore the milkmaid dress to bed, and my husband promptly divorced me. Abbey, please advise!!
He made the right choice.
LMFAOOOO
if a man can take off his shirt at the gym and work out, i’m gonna wear my sports bra and leggings. i just wanna work out and not overheat. it’s not about looking sexy at the gym girl
Exactly
EXACTLY. People wear those clothes because they are comfortable at the gym. This Abbey acts like an old women, an f-ing caveman from the year 1372. Her views are that retarted and old
I think people should just wear what they want. I get grossed out when I see girls wearing see thru pants with thongs underneath because I am concerned that they may get a yeast infection lol but it is their choice.
@Cave Depression wow this is the level of maturity of the left
@@ezekiel8660 mald
Thanks for giving me permission to wear leggings at the gym, I’m was waiting to see if you would approve!
It’s not about permission. It’s about self respect. You choose
Caroline Ashley exactly!!! I don’t understand why people are offended by her promoting positive things.
guys, this comment isn’t about hating what she’s promoting, it’s about how she phrased it. “If you want to wear leggings at the gym, *I’m* okay with that.” no one cares if she approves or not! we can dress how we want, why should she act like she’s the deciding factor to what WE wear to the gym. if you think modesty is good, then great! if you think it’s dumb, then great! regardless of whether you support this or not, this woman is acting like she gets to decide and approve what her viewers wear, which is so stupid and cringy.
Sarah Settegast self respect? But what if people like being comfortable at the gym? Why can’t people just control themselves?
Caroline Ashley true but she does tons of ads which kinda annoy non conservatives/ moderate conservatives
She sent those questions to herself
That’s what I was exactly thinking or maybe her family but I think 90% of viewers just come to bully her
Lmao on god she’s strange
Lol
100%
i wanna meet this woman wearing a mini skirt and a crop top and see if she starts crying
AGHAHAHAHAHHAJA
Do it do it
Lmfaooo 😂😂
I live in the same city as her so I guess that’s I’ll I’m wearing in case I see her
I wanna meet her wearing my short dress and fishnets 😂
How is the middle part of body sexual? Im sooooo confused 😂 how did I ended up watching this? Help?!
Exactly like what is she, the principal of a middle school? I’m pretty sure nobody gets turned on by my belly button.
@@ilenegoddard7623 as a guy, I can confirm I do get turned on by a nice toned stomach. That's me, and there are many guys like me. Not a crazy thing to say
Ilene goddard Sorry to break it to you but people definitely do 😭
A lot of school dress codes have “no showing midriff” on the rules, so there’s that.
I’m a fitness instructor & LDS. I have to dress appropriately and professionally and present myself as a fitness professional. Leggings with shorts is ridiculous & tshirts are extremely hot and when you have big sweaty pits in front of a class of 50 people, well that looks pretty awful.
I wear leggings & tank tops. I have no issues with this & it’s my personal choice. What you wear is your personal choice as well. Don’t judge others, that’s for Christ. I always tell the modesty police to worry about your own eternal salvation before you judge and worry about others.
I believe in dressing modestly but be carful to not be putting your beliefs on others and falsely judging someone because of their clothing.
I always like to tell people like you not to worry about telling others what to find acceptable. It's none of your business really, and I'm sure you do judge people yourself because it's normal human behavior. People have the right to, and will judge you no matter whether you like it or not. Furthermore, forcing someone to accept your style is beyond retarded, because they have to come to that conclusion themselves. You can't force respect onto someone. That is earned. For someone who claims she has no issues with how she dresses, you are awfully defensive and offended. Just goes to show how fragile you are in your own skin when you can't even take the lightest form of differing opinion.
Retro Progress Her response to the video was literally as respectful as you can get when disagreeing with someone, and I don’t see anywhere where she is “forcing anyone to accept her style”. You saw this then decide to rant to her, including calling her retarded, so who really is the fragile and defensive one here lol.
That’s cool, you do you. This video is just general advice.
@@RP-dy5mu - Wow. Triggered much, little snowflake??
From what I gathered, she puts shorts over the leggings to hide the curvature of her bottom. Leggings show off the natural shape of your butt, which some consider this not modest. Why are you offended by her clothing preferences and suggestions to other women seeking her modesty advice? Sheesh!
what if she’s just putting on an act to make youtube money
😁
She doesn’t monetize her ads tho-
But I think she expects us to actually start watching her other vids now lol 😂
Shutup nerd
Her background says otherwise😳
Is this channel in the "irritate the viewer" category? Ohhh i get it now!
Idk, you’re the one who chose to watch it and get mad 🤷🏻♀️ sounds like it’s on you
I thought breast were for feeding children. Nothing sexual about that.
Most men are sexually attracted to breasts...
That’s like saying a butt is only for pooping.
Akiko Kanaro men are attracted to feet to so should I never wear sandals or open heels and always cover up my legs just because some pervert can’t respect himself?😐
@@IluvAmerica Then that's on them
people argue that "breasts are sexual organs" but the thing is thats biologically incorrect. Breasts are secondary sex characteristics which come under the same category as MALE FACIAL HAIR and adams apples. There really is nothing sexual about breasts but people have made it that way.
I would have hated being in high school with you. You're the type to backstab your friends.
Lauren Y. They hate when people judge them but they’re the first ones to judge conservatives 🙄🙄🙄
CHILL
@Lauren Y. shes judging people who dont dress the way she does
aka kindergarden teacher with a tumblr blog about vintage values on how to serve her husband
@@siyae1507 she's not judging anyone. She acknowledges the people that don't act/think like her. She understands that and is fine with it. She's just giving her opinions and providing suggestions. Not forcing anyone to do anything, nor is she being condescending.
@@DavidMartinez-ce3lp that's why she pays for her garbage advertisements to be seen everywhere, right?
My uncle used to call me a nun for wearing maxi skirts. I've been getting criticism for the way I dress since I've been able to pick out my own clothes. Thanks for being a positive voice on the topic, Abby!
It's awesome you are staying strong in your convictions for how you would like to dress despite the remarks you have received!
You should show him some instagram fashion blogs. Maxi skirts are "in" and have been for a long time. Not that you need to justfiy yourself to him, its just hilarious sometimes when men try to comment on women's fashion choices. You don't even know what you're talking about so shhhh.
Your uncle sounds a little creepy. It's just off
imagine thinking a woman showing her belly button is being immodest and shouldn’t happen. ugh how tf is the mid section a sexual body part.
Imagine thinking a woman shouldn’t have different opinions on different topics ugh 🥴🥴🥴
Taylor Wilcox I never said sh can’t have an opinion. but my opinion on her opinion is that it’s complete bullshit. also, your opinion becomes less valid when you try to push it onto others in a harmful way. this youtube channel is clearly aimed at younger teen girls, and the way she presents what you SHOULD do while at the gym can and will harm the outlook that those girls have on their bodies.
Jordan Weber I do understand where you’re coming from, I really do. As you can see by my profile pic I don’t agree with what she says, as I am fine with bearing shoulders and even wearing leggings and tanks and short shorts in the gym. I don’t agree with her opinions either. But I would have to disagree with you here. Her channel is specifically targeting young conservative and Jewish women who want to be here. The media is so loud and efficient at pushing the “wear whatever the heck you want” agenda and if there is a role model for young conservative Jewish women helping them understand how to dress according to THEIR Jewish values, then great! No one else has to watch it. She was answering people’s actual questions who wanted to hear her answer. If people are mad and don’t wanna hear what she has to say, then don’t watch! Let the woman live in peace and let whoever wants to watch, watch.
Also yeah I’m sorry I was snippy with my reply I have just had enough with the internet these days xx
i don’t think breasts are necessarily involved in sex
Akiko Kanaro agreed
@Akiko Kanaro bruhhhh feet can be sexualized too that means NOTHING
@@tommyvasek5183 but any sensible person knows that breasts are way more sexual than feet... if they are on the same level why would social media platforms have a code for nipples showing.
@@ZuzuWildmonkey for female nipple showing 🤩 not men's nipples so what is the issue ?
@@tommyvasek5183 I'm saying that breasts are sexuall. that's all no issue.
I still don’t understand why leggings aren’t modest. I’ve never been allowed to wear leggings to school. What’s the difference between leggings and jeans?
Leggings are super thin and skintight and looks almost naked. A lot of jeans are much better, less revealing on that way
are my elbows sexual
Yes
Please never show them in public (or to your husband while sleeping)
i know this sounds crazy, but what if women wore things that they like and made them feel comfortable and men learned to keep it in their pants and not harass women no matter what they wear. crazy idea, huh?
Preach it
In a perfect world sure, but convincing all men to do that would be impossible without at least some AI overlords controlling all males. It isn't a dumb thing to ask yourself if your fashion tastes might be a liability in the wrong setting. Maybe wearing the sweater may be smarter in other neighborhoods or dangerous areas. As with everything, context is key regarding how to exercise your freedoms.
sneakysnickersnoopy yeah and consider why it’s dangerous. because men can’t control themselves. an AI overload? it’s called respect.
Imagine thinking you can make choices that don’t have consequences. Yikes
alix charlotte it’s dangerous because not all people are sane and are capable of having sympathy or empathy. YOU are responsible for your choices and their consequences. Ever heard of its better safe that sorry? You don’t get to have your cake and eat it too. While I understand and agree that what some men do is completely and utterly unacceptable, you can’t expect everyone to respect you because the reality is that those who rape others are not functioning members of society. Like I said, choices have consequences.
Modesty: *exists*
Hot weather: allow me to introduce myself
Wear different fabric then
Its the not letting people be comfortable in their own skin for me
She ain't forcing you, this is just advice
@@DavidMartinez-ce3lp SHUT UP, TROLL
@@thegrammarpolice6953 You're on RUclips go watch a video or something
You make a lot of other ppl uncomfortable when ppl dress half naked like they do now, not only many men. There's more to life than only caring about yourself
Oh yes. We all must where shorts over our leggings to cover our “bottoms and front areas.” It’s not like, oh I don’t know, LEGGINGS do that or anything.
Leggings are pretty sexy though
@@DavidMartinez-ce3lp Shut up, troll
@@DavidMartinez-ce3lp that’s why i wear em 😌
Somebody asked her a question about it so she clearly wanted an answer. Why are you even offended? Not like she's going to show up at your doorstep yelling what you should and shouldn't wear, touch some grass
Yeah, I don't want my husband seeing me as "adorable" or "cute" or otherwise diminutive or childlike when I ravage him. Thanks tho
I love that everybody gets so defensive about what they wear, like she’s just sharing what she believes. If you want to wear crop tops and short shorts go for it, she’s just sharing tips for the women who do want to dress modestly. And yes, she has made other videos about why she thinks you should dress modestly, but if you don’t agree then just don’t listen to her. You don’t need to dislike the video and leave a comment hating on her for her own personal choices and beliefs.
it’s HILARIOUS you think people out here worried about what “our husbands think of our pajamas” - girl BYE
Her obsession with modesty does not seem genuine. Feels like she's attributed this weird sense of personal value to being modest and now goes out of her way to live accordingly.
Also, I don't want my husband to look at me in bed and say ''adorable''. Jesus Christ.
Whats wrong with having personal values? Some people like to show off their body and be strippers, some are on the other side of the spectrum and never show anything like nuns or muslims. She even addresses how some cultures are more modest than she prefers and you should try to respect that in her other video
@@AnimeFreakish78 I think you're missing the point here. There's nothing wrong with having personal values, in fact, we all have them.
I'm all for the ''I'm gonna dress and act in a way that is comfortable for me, and you do you'' mindset, but this woman constantly implies that if you're not dressing modestly, you're attracting the wrong kind of attention, you're displaying yourself as a ''piece of ass'' (of course, she never uses this term), and this is where I spot a red flag, because she attributes personal worth to the length of one's skirt. Like I mentioned in my first comment, her concern with modesty doesn't seem genuine, doesn't seem like dressing modestly comes natural for her, instead, feels like everytime she puts on an outfit she questions whether it's modest enough because, in her head, there's such an intricate connection between modesty and how much she's worth as a woman.
I'm in no way, shape or form concerned with dressing modestly, but I do enjoy Mrs.Midwest's content on the theme. She gives off the ''you do you'' vibe and feels truly comfortable with the modest lifestyle she chose for herself.
@@carolinaladeira2165 I don't see anything wrong with what she says. She often acknowledges that there are others that don't think/act like she does, and she is personally fine with that. She's not forcing anyone to do anything. She's spreading advice and positivity. Don't see a problem with that.
@@DavidMartinez-ce3lp She equates dressing modestly to treating your body with respect, and, honestly, I kinda think that stems from low self esteem. I feel the same way about people who try to validate themselves by oversexualizing everything to show empowerment. Two sides of the same coin IMO
@@carolinaladeira2165 This is definitely a response to that kind of behavior
The fact the men can go around shirtless with no judgement but women can't even wear sportsbras in public without someone judging them is just lovely that we get to be treated like we're not human aswell
For people who get upset because they believe men should be taught to not sexualize, I agree. I’m a Muslim and the verse in the Quran that discusses modestly begins with telling men to lower their gaze. (This chapter is called “The Light”) So naturally, a woman shouldn’t have to dress modestly because she’s afraid a man will sexualize her. Regardless of how she’s dressed, men are supposed to lower their gaze. The rules of modestly apply to both men and women, not just in clothing but in conduct.
Thank you so much! its so refreshing to hear these questions and answers about being modest! Especially in this time in age where being classic and modest is looked down upon. love your videos and there is modest sportswear and swimwear modli.com
I’m curious why you didn’t mention the standards of orthodox tznius vs your own dress? It seems you wear pants, no sleeves, and don’t cover your hair at all (and didn’t mention that you cover it for shul). How do you align these two things for yourself when the school you grew up going to in your community doesn’t define those as modest? I’m a baalah teshuva and not judging you for your choice in clothing, but technically the halachic basis isn’t there for your version of modesty so I’m interested to hear!
Hey Classically Abby. Glad I found your channel. If people hate on you, it's their problem. It's probably also because they are jealous that you are a beautiful, articulate, intelligent, talented, and cultured woman.
@Wilfy Martinez just ignore the ads, simple as that.
She is pretty articulate. I don't agree with everything she says, but that trait of hers really gets her point across. It is a great trait to have.
I promise u I'm not jealous of THAT luv but keep lying to her
Im not jealous - Abby is a loser
ah, so i should make sure that i cover myself while exercising, because god forbid a man (gasp) sees me in leggings, but it's important to make sure a man thinks I look good my sleepwear? right. thanks for the advice😂
Your *husband*
5:04 what about breast feeding????
Is it just me who thinks Abby was probably the mean girl in high school. She's the smear campaign starter type. Or just a flat out snitch.
Idk you’re the one making smear campaign statements about a person you don’t know so hm let me think 😂
She seems like the kinda person that thinks she is perfect and better then everyone but everyone actually hates
@@ilenegoddard7623 She's tries to give advice and spread positivity. The people in the comments often bully and harrass her because of her views.
Can you do a fall church look book!? I would love more outfit inspiration! ❤️
Thank you for your videos Abby! Thank you for speaking up about modesty and being classic... you are one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I love all your tips and advises. God bless you girl 💓
i would really like to see you address personal preference in this series, i don't want to dress for other people all the time. some people like being modest, and i like that, but i don't think modesty is a style choice for everyone. what about personal expression? if i feel more self confident in pants as opposed to a skirt, and someone else likes a skirt as opposed to pants, shouldn't we alter our style based on our individual preferences? i would love to hear your answer
Thank you so much for this video! It really gave me good ideas and motivated me more to became a modest lady. It's a really hard path to follow when you are not used to that lifestyle and when people surrounding you found it disgusting. You do inspire some of us, keep it on mind. Must be really strong to deal with all this aggressive comments.
I'm Muslim and I support everything you stand for, modesty is a very crucial part of Islam, and I try to be as modest as I can be.
Despite me not conservative(per se) and nor do I practice Islam, or my family, but I had a friend in high school who did and she taught me the beauty of being modest. My family would shove horrible rhetoric to make me think I am smaller because I am a woman but Islam's views of modesty honestly taught me to love my feminine parts and aspects. Just wanted to give y'all a little shoutout for that.
@@sofiamartinez1583 a part of the reason I became Muslim is because of how women are held in such high regard. I really appreciate your comment, made my day 😊
@@luckylea I am really glad it did. Have a great day, love💞
@@nek2327 Yes, that is true, but I don't like to put strangers into that category. I don't believe in living IN fear but rather WITH fear. I do have to fear some sexualizing me, regardless of what I wear, but I cannot just assume that someone will be like that. And in all honesty, modesty taught me self love, self comfort, and some self respect. It really taught me to embrace myself , first, rather than for ones comfort. Thanks for responding💞
I hope you know conservatives hate Islam
Alright, I have been watching for a while now. I am not a woman, but I am supporting this channel because I have two daughters(one teenager), nieces, a wife, a mother, a grandmother, aunts, and cousins that will benefit from the info in this channel. I am a conservative, but to be accurate I am Catholic.
Abby, you're a breath of fresh air. I have been sharing your videos to my daughter, and I am glad she's beginning to see the good in modesty. I am learning a few things myself. Thank you!
Your new fan,
~ Antonio
👍
Stop teaching your daughters their bodies are inherently sexual and need to be covered. No one comments on the modesty of men, so stop sexualising young girls. This is not about protection this is about control
@@mollypayton2828 modesty isn't about just clothes and covering bodyparts, it's more than that, WAY MORE than that. Maybe you should listen to Abby, and maybe you could pickup something good.
Modesty and Humility are inseparable. You cannot be humble and immodest at the same time, and vice versa.
Modesty is all about NOT drawing attention, whether it be a Ferrari, a Mansion, an overpriced watch and jewellery, and cleavages!
Ghosted Such thing as nuance you know. You can show off your body without being boastful, I know it may come as a foreign concept but most of the time people dress for themselves and not to receive attention. And even if people do dress with the intent of garnering attention: what is the harm in that? Everything in moderation.
@@mollypayton2828 I am glad you mentioned the word "moderation", because that's what "modesty" is. Do you see the resemblance of the two words?
"Modesty" and "Moderation"?
"MODESTY is the virtue that "MODERATES" all the internal and external movements and appearance of a person according to his or her endowments, possessions, and station in life."
Source: www.catholicculture.org/culture/library/dictionary/index.cfm?id=34928
Thanks for the inspiration!❤🙂🌷 I need church outfit ideas. I didnt grow up with a mom so I have no idea what I'm doing with outfits 😂
I think it depends on your style, but I personally love wearing dresses for church. I find Ivy City co, Roolee, Jcrew, and mercari or other resale apps to be good places to look :)
@@Centerpiecegardens oh thank you! I will try looking at those sites now :) appreciate it🌻
Abby Why are you being attacked for making videos for certain people. The world baffles me also even though I'm liberal I don't want people to get attacked for their opinions.
Sincerely, a random stranger
because of all the shilling and the advertising. people dont watch her voluntary, but because the dont use an ad blocker.
@@FinnBaygan thanks for clearing this up for me 👍
Totally agree with you!
@Aine Rogers Yes but I think she should've learned from that. hope she did though
@Aine Rogers yeah I guess
yo, you might wanna turn off the image stabiliser on your camera while using a tripod. very shaky
Modesty and decorum can benefit some women, but I think what people who preach modesty fail to realize is that a lot of the concepts that drive modesty can be genuinely harmful to many women. Trying to conform to the concept of modesty and decorum made me a shell of myself. It was suffocating. I genuinely became depressed. I know people who preach modesty think all women can benefit from embracing modesty and decorum (I thought this once) but many of us *need* more freedom with our expression. Modesty and all it’s insinuations (such as showing sexualized parts of your body denotes a lack of respect for your body and dignity) don’t align with how I view the female body, and I think many women feel this way and that’s why the topic of modesty can make us feel so upset and stunted. Just want to honestly discuss this without the animosity of many of these comments.
fsf dsfa Tell me where I said modesty in general is bad? I clearly said it’s concepts preached around modesty that can be genuinely harmful. NO ONE shames women for dressing modestly. The animosity comes from people who preach modesty saying immodesty denotes a lack of respect for your body and other things along those lines. If anything it’s women who preach modesty who do the shaming or judging solely based on how a woman is dressed. People who value modesty are criticized for their IDEAS, not how they’re dressed. I dress modestly a lot of the times, and get no flack for it. However, when I don’t dress modestly THAT’S when I get shamed. When will you people realize it’s your IDEAS being criticized, not the fact that you’re not showing cleavage or something.
I was a bridesmaid in May and I have a large chest area and the dress barely covered anything and had spaghetti straps. I was so uncomfortable and I asked to wear a bandeau underneath and she got so angry. It was so bad. She ended up telling all of us bridesmaids not to even come.
Oh no! Weddings can be so stressful. It's always best to remember that the friendships and the people around you are what matter, not the details.
@@ClassicallyAbby especially a wedding during Covid-19. I felt really bad for her.
That is horrible!
I thought feminism was about each women being their own. Here is a woman that is her own, her opinion might not be yours, but if you don't like it, then click on something else. You already know her general view, it's not wrong. It's hers.
Yes but she’s making it out to seem like if you do not dress modestly you aren’t feminine and want to be portrayed as a sexual person
@@mariec357 Well yeah... like they said it's her opinion. What don't you understand? Lol.
She goes out of her way to bash other women for not being like her why would we support her for that
@@kkdraws9052 If you view her opinions as bashing, you don't have to support her. But you could just ignore her and not comment on a video that you don't like and want nothing to do with.
I love your shirt and your general style. Where do you typically shop from? I’m looking to find modest but youthful and stylish brands to shop from :) thanks!
Guys I really need help about skirts and dresses. They’re really my style so I want to wear them, but the problem is that I’m a teenager so I feel like long skirts look terrible on me. How do I make long skirts look good and not have everyone at school stare at me for wearing a midi skirt instead of mini?
I'm back with the same question as last time.
How much have you spent on ads? I'm just genuinely interested.
Will you be addressing the recent shift in your like to dislike ratio and do you think the ratio is skewed due to your recent ads being targeted at demographics who are not receptive to your message?
honestly idk, but probably a lot, ads probably aren't cheap. but the thing is like.. I know that is frustrating to people (and it would definitely frustrate me too, I'm so annoyed at the trump ads on my vids when im like??? clearly not your demographic, please stop) but on some level I do kind of respect the fact that (if it's by choice that's she's showing these ads to more liberal demographics) she's trying to engage and start a dialogue and expose the "other side" to her values. yes I watched a couple of her videos, yes I really tried to stay openminded and receptive to her message. Do I still disagree with her on a lot of points? yes. Do I think there are some parts where maybe she could have worded herself better? yes. She didn't really change any opinions on my end. but on the whole, I do respect her for at least attempting to leave a potentially religious/right-wing echo chamber...unlike a lot of liberals imo.
CathedralUntouched it should also be mentioned that she did.
She talked about it an in older Q a d A. She just said, she doesn’t care very much. That’s why she doesn’t bring it up.
K Thanks She did what? Can you be specific?
@@byebye8453 yeah sorry could you clarify what you mean? (not to be attacking, I'm thinking you might have mistyped something).
I looooove these q&as ! I hope you'll make another one
I love your videos!!!
sis is literally wearing a v-neck bye-
Alright so If you don’t wanna watch this whole video I’ve created a summary of all the talking points of this video- “don’t wear shorts, don’t wear skirts, don’t wear sports bra, don’t show stomach. Showing skin BAD. Showing your body is INNAPROPRIATE and not classic, like me. I am better than anyone ever. I am only relevant because my brother. Conservative things, biased opinion, toxic masculinity views even though I do be a woman.”
One of my favorite channels
Why are so many people hating on her? You can disagree with her, but there’s nothing wrong with wanting to dress modestly. This video is FOR those who want to dress modestly. I know that she has ads that pop up on a lot of people’s home page, but if you don’t agree with her, just don’t watch it 😊 There’s no need to spread negativity and be mean just because she has a different perspective. I wear shorts, tank tops, and short dresses all the time, but I’m not going to dislike her video just because she doesn’t agree with it.
because she bashes other women who don't dress modestly and says they're not "actual women"
Thank you Abby for this second video I always loved looking classing. I tend to do the in the winter season to wear sheer tights when I wear dress or skirts not on summer since it’s always hot where I live. Some people make me feel old fashioned when they look at me wearing it at my age.
Another point I find is helpful when discussing modesty with my peers that aren’t understanding, is explaining how I feel empowered BY choosing to dress modestly. I think it is equally empowering to choose to dress modestly because that’s what I’m comfortable with, and it was a choice and conclusion I came to after consideration of how I wanted to dress, I was never “oppressed” or “forced” into covering up, but it was a choice I’ve decided best suits my style and values!
You can dress how you want to but the line is drawn when you start telling other people how to dress!
It’s called Influencing others, and letting you see/hear her perspective, she’s not bossing you around, maybe you should calm down..🙄🙄
Lol Lots of youtubers talk about clothes and their opinions on subjects. Obviously you can wear whatever you want. She’s just giving her opinion.
They asked, so she answered. Don’t get your panties in a wad, no pun intended. She has the right to be modest just like you have the right not to.
How are you gonna stop us🙄
You keep doing you abby. I love your videos. God Bless. 🙏🏽❤
as far as modesty goes, i know God doesn’t have a problem with any of our bodies, so as long as i’m dressing for myself and not to tempt a man, i think i’m good. even nudity isn’t inherently sexual, it’s beautiful. that’s just my take on it in my interpretation of my religion, which is Christianity. personally though, i’m not super comfortable with my body which makes me more modest by default 😂 much love girl you don’t deserve all the hate 💕💕
Only asexuals wouldn't find nudity sexual lol
@@chailouai347 ummm... Chile you were born naked I hope the midwife didn't think the same😭😹
Molly O'Donnell You think finding a new born baby’s body sexual is the same thing as seeing a naked adult. Sick
@@gutsk345nd7 um... Chile now you're taking that out of context... they're the same in the way that nudity isnt sexual. even though you perceive it to be this is because the media has influenced that notion but really it isn't true. Adam and eve thought nothing of it until they ate from the tree of knowledge. there was nothing sexual about their nudity, until they were told there was. mabye someone's intention is what defines it, but women wearing what they want shouldn't be sexualised.
@@chailouai347 who says i'm not asexual? lol no but like for instance if you're not attracted to men you wouldn't find a man's body sexual because it's not inherently sexual. same applies to everyone. only in the right context is it sexual.
i love how she doesn't tell us what to wear, she simply gives examples of things we could wear, and shares what works for her. this is so helpful 💓
Aine Rogers ya i watched that video too. i don't think it's necessarily pressuring anyone into that lifestyle, she is just sharing her opinion. this is coming from an atheist who does not dress modestly lol
Weird Content Guaranteed SHE LITERALLY DID
@Aine Rogers She's Jewish, like Christians they believe showing your body for everyone to see is wrong. I agree.
Belladonna Rose, chilllee i'm an atheist
listen just sym
I don’t need your approval on what to where at the gym
You remind of a teacher I on once had keep up the good work BTW the teacher name Mrs.Hayden
This makeup in the beginning of the video is so amazing
Elliott hulse's wife:
oh lord i don't wanna hear that man's name 😂
@@cocoa8245 oh, sorry, If you're a girl I'm extra sorry. I understand the frustration just went though reading that comment 😣😥
@@cocoa8245 Thank you, I'm a girl too, and I also don't give af about her type of modesty...
I wear what i want sis
When i go to the gym i dont wear long leggings unless their light enough so i dont feel really hot in them.. but i mostly wear shorts.
I wear light t-shirts and tank tops sometimes.... in the summer i dont really wear jeans unless their rips in them so i dont feel hot in
Those jeans but i mostly wear skirts,shorts, and dresses in the summer cause of the heat and during the winter i wear jeans,
Sweat pants, and leggings so basically depending on the weather thats how i dress
Thank you for the figleaves -website tip. Another website which offers swimwear with integrated cups is called Bravissimo. I personally struggle with finding proper swimwear. I tend to wear swimshorts underneath the bathing suit to cover up a little more. Just makes me feel more comfortable. Loved the bye at the end.
I paid for the alterations to my bridesmaids dresses and I just altered everyone’s instead of one 🤷🏽♀️
I love that!
@Belladonna Rose Citations please.
I love your videos!! Great channel ❤️
Thank you so much!!
Classically Abby, how do I get your ads to stop flooding my feed? I tried to block but it didn’t work.
It is truly encouraging to see a positive woman role models teaching traditional judeo Christian ethics and modesty
LADIESSS LIVE AND LET LIVE PLEASE..
There’s literally millions of youtubers that cater towards women who have the kind of fashion sense that ignores all that is said here. So why be bothered about someone who has a different opinion?
There’s only a handful of women who share their preferences of modesty on this platform, please let them have it.
No need to feel personally attacked. She is NOT talking to all women, she us specifically addressing women who are interested in dressing modestly.
As women let’s please try to empower each other. As someone who dress modestly myself I do not look down upon anyone who doesn’t, and I hope those same women do not look down upon me because I do so.
I hope you have a good day ❤️
Thank you!
I always cover my sleeves and my dresses below the knee
I was a bridesmaid twice, I wore the same as other bridesmaids which was a pink dress but I added brighter fabric but the same style
I’m a guy and appreciate women that are modest. I know they put in a lot of effort to be modest and to make that conscious choice. I don’t think there is a father out there that would want his daughter to be immodest and if the daughter’s mother isn’t Setting an example for her I don’t see that happening.
How do you feel about waterpolo and swimming suits? How can I be modest in that sport?
Omg who is gonna tell her we can see her collar bones, not very modest 🤭
LOVE this!
I've been on a modesty journey for 2 years now so I I definetly appreciate all these tips!
So glad!
modesty journey! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wtf is "modesty journey"? Are you high??
I believe in Modesty if it makes you more comfortable. I like being modest but I'm not Conservative, if you like booty shorts and tank tops you go girl. You have full control over your body and choices in life ❤️
I think the question about culture and modesty should have been “why do you preach modesty when different FAMILIES or PEOPLE have different ideas of modesty?”
I’m a young conservative trying to figure out how to do my part in this crazy world. I’m really glad I came across your channel, it’s inspiring to see that you keep the content coming even with all the hateful comments. Keep doing you! I’ve taken your advice and am now trying to be more modest. I hope more girls like myself are able to discover your channel.
I feel the same way, I legit cried when I saw that there was someone out there who talks about how great it is being a conservative woman even though most of the comments were hate.
hm sry no i don’t want to dress like a 70 year old woman 💯🥰
Can you please react/share your thoughts about the WAP music video??
Lmao noo, this woman shoved modesty down everyone’s throats in every video and she shames women who don’t dress modestly. She will definitely have nothing good to say about WAP
Kimaya she did it... oop-
cheese toasties omg 😳
I respect her ! I am a woman of God also , we have diff convictions that God gives us. Personally I’m not as strict as her but we shouldn’t shame her just because she’s answering questions . Remember we clicked on her video , she never asked us to watch it . It seems most of you stand up for women’s rights , as do I , so I’m my opinion that’s her right to be able to dress like that . You are entitled to your opinion but so is she . So can we please be respectful!❤️🙏
why do have to be modest in pajamas like its your family and why do you care if your husband thinks you looks cute when you sleep.
i wear a bra and shorts as pajamas
Waiting for her to say something about gay marriage
I live in southern utah where it gets to 110° most days how can I stay cool and still be modest?
A regular wrap shirt paired with some high waisted shorts. Make sure to stick close to clothes of thin texture. Slightly sheer works too.
If you’re having trouble with clothes I highly recommend downloading Pinterest. It’s like an image buffet.
Abby:heeello beautiful ladies
Me:*not a female* well this is awkward.......
I like the modesty suggestions when it comes to workouts, not even because of sexualizing the body but because of SWEAT!!!!! I wish everyone would wear a t-shirt over their sports bra at the gym for common courtesy, no matter how they feel about modesty. I don't want to sit on a machine that is soaked with the previous person's back sweat. If the men at my gym arent allowed to go shirtless, then the ladies shouldnt be allowed to only be in sportsbras. Fair is fair. Haha but thats a seperate issue LOL
LMFAO
A person should always wipe down any machine or supplies they use at the gym. For reasons of sweat and germs. Pretty much everyone at my gym wipes any machine or supplies they used. If you clean the machine you use, someone will see you and more than likely clean the machine they use if they’re not inconsiderate. Sometimes you just have to be the one to start it.
Since when aren’t men allowed to be shirtless at the gym? 😂😂 most men at my gym are shirtless
You do understand that modesty is how men convinced Islamic women to wear burqas, correct? Stop telling women that they need to change their appearance to please a man or to avoid male accountability. Women, if you want to prevent men from sexualizing body parts teach your sons that it's not acceptable. Men, you do that say and take your own advice. ✌️
Lloyd Fernandes please don’t make the assumption that Muslim women are oppressed just because you don’t believe in modesty. Ask any Muslim woman, most of them made it a personal choice to wear the hijab. I’m a Muslim, and my dad has never told nor forced me to wear the hijab nor did anyone in my family but I made the choice to wear the hijab because I love the concept of modesty and the fact that people actually gave me more respect with it on then without it. Sending love ❤️
@@nek2327 I never implied oppression. Only suggested that "modesty" has been a tool to prevent a conversation about male accountability and increase control over people in the name of religion. By all means, if a woman is making that choice without outside influences than that is her right. My point is that women should not feel the need to be "modest" as a reaction to other people's (male or female) opinion of their character or sexual proclivity based on how they are dressed. I appreciate the love and the knowledge.
I see where you’re coming from but i feel like generalizing and saying that the the whole concept of modesty is bad just because a minority took advantage of it is wrong. I got far less catcalled when I wore the hijab. And I genuinely felt like people were talking to me and liking for my personality and not my body. I think not only men should be accountable for looking but women too. We often victimize women and make men guilty. I think both women and men should be taught self-respect and respect for the other. 💛
@@nek2327 Agreed. Both men and women play a role in self-respect and the respect of others. With that being said she specifically mentions that women should cover certain body parts because men sexualize those body parts.
Lloyd Fernandes there's only one and only reason why a woman should dress 'modestly' : and it's if she WANTS to. as a muslim woman who wears the hijab, i find it horrendous how i hear around me that we should wear it to 'help men contain themselves'. are they uncontrollable creatures that can't help but jump on a woman if she's sliiightly uncovered? it disgusts me.
I'm glad you try to explain these things to people. I dont think women should be forced to cover up under religious or cultural edicts. I think you can actually wear not a whole lot of clothes and look fine. But it is obvious that some people look like they are trying to highlight certain things about their body in a way that looks very narcissistic. Most of those people happen to be women and as a woman it's hard to empathize with other women who are narcissistic. For me it's more about avoiding narcissism rather than modesty per se.
Holy shit so the only two options I have are lowly sex object or a wife that has her marriage and modesty as a personality trait? I'm not liking either of these.
Would love to see a part 3! All these questions / answers are always so useful. I’m excited to see what other content you’ll be putting out!
dante no stop hyping her up
Dumb Batch why? i like the content she puts up. why would you take time out of your day to come and be negative?
dante it was like two seconds to do it and I respect that u like her and have ur opinions about her and so do I and the May not see eye to eye but they r opinions not facts
Dumb Batch You clearly don’t respect that they like her. Whether her views are portrayed as fact or not, that doesn’t mean they can not agree. As long as the notion of bringing others down comes to an end, there is no issue.
The Immure bro I said I respect that she likes her and I am just voicing my opinion
Thank you for your modesty advice. As a 23-year-old who grew up without a mom, you are a breath fresh air. I let the world guide me for the longest time and this made me so unhappy/uncomfortable. Now that I'm allowing God to guide my life, he's led me to influencers like you. Keep on doing what you do!
I’m totally with you girl! God bless you!💛💚🧡
I just wear high waisted leggings & a sports bra to the gym and it makes me comfortable when I’m working out.
Wait isn't red lipstick also immodest
False.
According to what world view?
You seem like such an amazing caregiver and wife !! I can’t wait to see your future kids and family 😍 thanks Abby for all the nice ideas 😊 new sub here xo
Welcome to the #classiccrew!