I always feel weird for feeling that way because according to my family "it's not normal and I need to snap out of it" but these skits make me feel better, thanks Gabs ❤
Sounds like you’re in an extroverted family so they just don’t get it. I once made the mistake of traveling with my friends family. They were all extroverts and were concerned I spent hours in the bedroom of the Airbnb. Why do extroverts make introverts feel weird? We never make them feel weird. I call for a Revolution tomorrow. Starting now we shall make extroverts feel weird for doing things and living life the way that they do. Like socializing all the time? Don’t need alone time? Can walk up to a stranger without a heart attack? They’re so weird! It’s not normal! Lol
I feel this so hard. People still dont understand that after interacting with people I need weeks to bounce back. I can do it fine if I have a task - like at work - but if it’s just a “social” thing? Absolutely NOT.
My family has finally learned and now respects that I need an hour alone after work. I work in marketing and hospitality, it's a highly social environment and I enjoy it but my battery is DEAD by the end of the day. I work from 7:30 AM - 3PM. Also, because of the highly social nature of my job, any planned social events outside of it need to be planned way in advance or I genuinely just can't do it. Boundaries people! Respect the introverts in your life. We are very loyal and will make a huge effort to return that respect.
The introvert can stay in, where most comfortable feels, and the extrovert can go to the party alone, where most comfortable feels, zero drama. Everyone should do whatever makes them happy without being limited by another person.
"RRRATATA!"😂😂😂 I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't deal with last-minute plans lmao give me time and I'll manage but when you first tell me, my anxiety WILL go from 0-1000
I'm already getting anxious about the holiday party my job has every year. 😂 I've been at this job for a few years now so I alternate. One year I go the next I don't. I didn't go last year so I have to this year. It's not that I don't like my job either I do and I like my coworkers. I work in marketing and hospitality. But parties are just a lot for me. People keep asking me to dance, I don't want to. Etc. You know how it is.
It's funny cuz I am very introvert but can totally throw plans out the window and handle last minute but after all that social time without alone time is soo draining and I need to not be socializing with others even communicating decision making for like a day
So relatable! I went out yesterday and felt so drained this morning. Only too going out tonight again (obligatory). I can’t deal with that many people around me. My battery is down and I’ll have to make one more appearance tomorrow. 😣 Next Weekend will be this one all over again. Used to be extroverted but now I don’t want to be around people anymore.
Ugh, that sounds exhausting!! I need a day buffer between or I have a REAL bad day. I had an overnight weekend with family we love and they are chill but it's just so the social interactions and never being able to fully relax and be at home. And then the next morning has church and my responsibilities I couldn't cancel so I needed alone time retail therapy/errands with my podcasts to veg the brain.
Frrrr, i can only hang out with my best friends every 2-3 days, then i need a break😭 if its a longer get together and with a bunch of people i need 2 weeks recovery time in my cave with no one percieving me. Which is why it usually doesn’t recharge me all the way, cuz im constantly being perceived💀
girl stop I cant even go places (like the getting there part) with my friends because I need that time to save charge my mind to get there.. same for the way back we need to part ways when it’s over please don’t say you’ll walk with me I need to breathe and air my head 😭
As an introvert, I would most likely just say yes and then think of something to not come. Cuz I don't wanna be rude but I don't wanna go too yk. (Please don't tell me I'm the only one who does this😭)
As an introvert I understand so much also one time my friends was a bit to crazy at school and my body decided to feel nauseous cramps and headaches all at once all the way threw 3rd period 😭😭😭
Okay but as an introvert who can handle a decent amount of socializing… acquaintances are fine as long as I opted in to this acquaintanceship and they don’t take up too much negative space… what I cannot handle is a room full of stranger energy and useless small talk. For the love of all things sacred, N.O.
My introverted self relates so much to this😭 I really wish I could hang out more but 10 minutes is enough for me. And an acquaintance??! I'm outta there😂
ughh yep i went to bf's brother's wedding yesterday and the other guests didn't dress up as well so i felt super overdressed and then later that night i went to a bonfire with the bf and 2 of his friends and we also have one of the bois staying at our apartment. please i am tired of being perceived
I once somehow survived going to the beach with my cousin for 60 days straight ( 3-4 hours each day ). No idea how I survived that. I was beyond exhausted. We never did it again.
Some of yall dont know the difference between social anxiety/agoraphobia and normal introversion and it SHOWS. If it's THAT bad, that is abnormal and unhealthy
"And it lasted like 2 hours..." (40 min) was too relatable.
Such an understanding partner, so considerate of her introverted partner's needs.
I’m an ambivert but I think if I dated this person I’d be happy because I don’t like going out that much either 😅
Im ambivert too i think, but for me it depends,i only go out on saturdays@@Cherrycreamsoda1
NOT WITH AN ACQUAINTANCE??!! That deserves a round of applause 👏👏👏
Did it once! Never again
The way I had a yeeesh reaction 😂😂 couldn’t be me..😊
“I did not mean to break her again”😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I loved this line.
I always feel weird for feeling that way because according to my family "it's not normal and I need to snap out of it" but these skits make me feel better, thanks Gabs ❤
It’s 100 percent normal! Introverts and extroverts thrive on opposite ends of the spectrum, but both are normal and OK! ❤
Totally normal. There are many ten ppl in the world I could be around multiple times a week. Protecting your peace is more important than a party
I always say that I like to be in company but I love to be alone with myself more 😊
Sounds like you’re in an extroverted family so they just don’t get it. I once made the mistake of traveling with my friends family. They were all extroverts and were concerned I spent hours in the bedroom of the Airbnb. Why do extroverts make introverts feel weird? We never make them feel weird. I call for a Revolution tomorrow. Starting now we shall make extroverts feel weird for doing things and living life the way that they do. Like socializing all the time? Don’t need alone time? Can walk up to a stranger without a heart attack? They’re so weird! It’s not normal! Lol
I am this! Embrace your introvert self. Set boundaries. Don't let anyone shame you for being you ❤
Even hanging out with my best friends ever is exhausting, in spite of loving them immensely.
I feel this so hard. People still dont understand that after interacting with people I need weeks to bounce back. I can do it fine if I have a task - like at work - but if it’s just a “social” thing? Absolutely NOT.
My family has finally learned and now respects that I need an hour alone after work. I work in marketing and hospitality, it's a highly social environment and I enjoy it but my battery is DEAD by the end of the day. I work from 7:30 AM - 3PM. Also, because of the highly social nature of my job, any planned social events outside of it need to be planned way in advance or I genuinely just can't do it. Boundaries people! Respect the introverts in your life. We are very loyal and will make a huge effort to return that respect.
"it's okay sweetie" SO CUTE
The introvert can stay in, where most comfortable feels, and the extrovert can go to the party alone, where most comfortable feels, zero drama. Everyone should do whatever makes them happy without being limited by another person.
"RRRATATA!"😂😂😂
I'm glad I'm not the only one who can't deal with last-minute plans lmao give me time and I'll manage but when you first tell me, my anxiety WILL go from 0-1000
I'm already getting anxious about the holiday party my job has every year. 😂 I've been at this job for a few years now so I alternate. One year I go the next I don't. I didn't go last year so I have to this year. It's not that I don't like my job either I do and I like my coworkers. I work in marketing and hospitality. But parties are just a lot for me. People keep asking me to dance, I don't want to. Etc. You know how it is.
It's funny cuz I am very introvert but can totally throw plans out the window and handle last minute but after all that social time without alone time is soo draining and I need to not be socializing with others even communicating decision making for like a day
"I look like 💀on the inside." Already very relatable. 😅
The cry after the "ratata" is so me on a daily basis. I nearly screamed😂😭😭😭😭
The audacity of suggesting going out in the first place. The book and wine IS the party
As an introvert, this is way too relatable 😅
We don't GO to parties. We thank them for the invite, and turn it down. Period.
That’s so accurate that it’s HURT.
I am happy yo see more videos of those understanding being an introvert means low energy socializing instead thinking its "shy"
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So relatable! I went out yesterday and felt so drained this morning. Only too going out tonight again (obligatory). I can’t deal with that many people around me. My battery is down and I’ll have to make one more appearance tomorrow. 😣 Next Weekend will be this one all over again.
Used to be extroverted but now I don’t want to be around people anymore.
Ugh, that sounds exhausting!! I need a day buffer between or I have a REAL bad day. I had an overnight weekend with family we love and they are chill but it's just so the social interactions and never being able to fully relax and be at home. And then the next morning has church and my responsibilities I couldn't cancel so I needed alone time retail therapy/errands with my podcasts to veg the brain.
all us introverts are soooo seen. pls respect that we need to recharge our social batteries. and sometimes, yes, we just need a night or a day in.
Stop why is this me😂😭
The first gasping cry
okay but how sweet is it for you to know exactly what kind of wine to bring? And that "I did not mean to break her" is the sweetest
Frrrr, i can only hang out with my best friends every 2-3 days, then i need a break😭 if its a longer get together and with a bunch of people i need 2 weeks recovery time in my cave with no one percieving me. Which is why it usually doesn’t recharge me all the way, cuz im constantly being perceived💀
🎯🎯🎯 @ being perceived. Good way to put it!
"I didnt mean to break her again..." -gabs
"AGAIN!!!???? HMMMM????" -ME😂😂😂
girl stop I cant even go places (like the getting there part) with my friends because I need that time to save charge my mind to get there.. same for the way back we need to part ways when it’s over please don’t say you’ll walk with me I need to breathe and air my head 😭
“I do NOT wanna break her again” is one of the good ones 💀😂
As an introvert, I would most likely just say yes and then think of something to not come. Cuz I don't wanna be rude but I don't wanna go too yk. (Please don't tell me I'm the only one who does this😭)
This is me and I feel violated by the accuracy 😂
This is so me 😂 Give me a beer and Neon Gods and I am perfectly content
As an introvert I understand so much also one time my friends was a bit to crazy at school and my body decided to feel nauseous cramps and headaches all at once all the way threw 3rd period 😭😭😭
As an introvert this is so real
Hit her with the 10-15 business days 😂
When she started breaking down ... I felt that 😂
I did NOT mean to break her again 😂😂😂
Okay but as an introvert who can handle a decent amount of socializing… acquaintances are fine as long as I opted in to this acquaintanceship and they don’t take up too much negative space… what I cannot handle is a room full of stranger energy and useless small talk. For the love of all things sacred, N.O.
“I did NOT mean to break her again” I actually laughed out loud 😭 😂
Dabbing the tears w hair is so real
“I feel like THIS on the inside”
Babes, you ARE that on the inside. Literally.
The introverted one is LITERALLY me
I am like, this sums up my whole life 😂❤
Me an introvert with crippling anxiety and adhd and i don’t have at least two weeks to mentally prepare for something in advance 😂
The neon gods book is crazy lol ❤ love the vids
My introverted self relates so much to this😭 I really wish I could hang out more but 10 minutes is enough for me. And an acquaintance??! I'm outta there😂
I thought she was overreacting, but even my heart dropped when she said two hours.
NOT NEON GODS 😂😂 I feel SEEN
This is me all day lol! 😂
I feel attacked!😂😂😂
The are you breaking down AGAIN is so real😭
That would be what it’s like dating me🤣🤣🤣
I need at least 5 days to prepare.. and sometimes my social battery runs out too fast especially around SO MANY PEOPLE.
Omg I’m an introvert and I always feel so bad for the person I’m going to the/a party with 😭
This is soo me and I married an introvert as well and now we're ignoring invites together ❤️
Very accurate, the battery recharge takes 2 weeks minimum
This is me and my husband lol. He doesn’t understand the need for recharging!!
ughh yep i went to bf's brother's wedding yesterday and the other guests didn't dress up as well so i felt super overdressed and then later that night i went to a bonfire with the bf and 2 of his friends
and we also have one of the bois staying at our apartment. please i am tired of being perceived
also also. his parents are hosting a potluck rn. i am home alone ❤❤
LMAO THIS IS SO FUNNY- 😂 ❤
You explained me so well girl . But it noodles and netflix for me😂
Using your hair to wipe away your tears 😂
this is too relatable lol
Day 244 of asking for you to please give us a tour of all the jewelry you wear and where they are from 🫶🏼
Honestly, i feel like the less time i have to prepare the better because then it’s less time to stress and overthink about it
The "it's tonight" hurted my soul, absolutely not.
OMG I LOVE THAT BOOK
Imagine going through this 10,20,30 times though. It gets exhausting. Being with an introverted partner is tough. Especially when you’re extroverted.
how r so relatable all the time 😭❤️ your content comforts meeee
Came back from a wedding last night. Need a week to recover. My gosh people drain your energy, it's real.
This is me. I am it. 😂
omg yes! Party, tonight?! Nope, nope, nope. No last minute social plans
her nail color is gorgeous 😍
It's funny how I told people that I need to know week before that there is something social happening
I had to contact people for job references today and my brain still feels like it can't settle hours later. I hope to one day sleep again.
This is so relatable and I’m crying
"I did not mean to break her again" 😂😂😂😂
this is literally me and it’s so sad
Love your videos ❤❤
Have only a day to prepare is INSANE
a truer tale has never been told
This is me when my social anxiety is peaking.
Personally I recommend Pinot Grigio for the post-I-almost-had-to-socialise breakdown.
More like social anxiety 😂
omg that was neon gods. amazing taste
So accurate. ❤
I absolutely love the idea of this just being two identical looking women with completely opposite personalities dating each other 😂😂😂
I feel like that would be one of my friends when we’re adults 😅
I once somehow survived going to the beach with my cousin for 60 days straight ( 3-4 hours each day ). No idea how I survived that. I was beyond exhausted. We never did it again.
Both my best friend and I are introverts sometimes this happens to both of us at the same time😂
Some of yall dont know the difference between social anxiety/agoraphobia and normal introversion and it SHOWS. If it's THAT bad, that is abnormal and unhealthy
I feel so normal now
no fr. i went out last night and now someone wants to go out again and I'm nooooot ready 😭
"With a book" 😭
this is how my bad trip went on shrooms 😂
Relatable 🥲
Introverts unite!!!
“I did not mean to break her again” just hit real sweet 🥹
Whenever this happens to me I get diarrhea and can’t go anyway 😂
I’m an extrovert with introverted friends and yeah it’s basically this. It’s a good thing that I play team sports lmao
This is so relatable it kinda gives me ptsd
The small yell at the beginning tho got me. 😂
Some people will never understand what needing to charge your social battery means. Thats the difference between intro and extrovert i guess.