@@kalkxxand it’s so bad and convoluted I think most of the people hating on her and other women are other women. Our world is a women hate women world, sadly.
Right.. like women are just expected to be submissive. But when they stand up for themselves they're degraded and labelled as unhinged. Chappell is changing the culture for future women artists, and I am proud of her for that.
"Harassing"? Where? I get that y'all are refreshed by her but let's not exaggerate. He wasn't even talking to her. It's fine that she yelled back, but nobody harassed her.
honestly the earplug drama is wild. Not only will it protect your hearing in such loud environments, but it is also a commonly used tool for many neurodivergent people. I am an autistic nurse, and yes, I use earplugs at work.
yeah people took something innocent and made it way too deep for no good reason lol i put cotton "plugs" in my ears when i go to the cinema even because shts just way too loud lol doesnt mean im not hearing it or shading anyone by doing it...
I went to a Hozier concert this past weekend and his music isn’t as intense as a lot of shows i’ve forgotten earplugs at….but i forgot them and I still have on and off tinnitus episodes days later. I will absolutely be taking it more seriously. Additionally, early hearing loss is linked to early onset dementia.
“chappell isn’t ready for this industry” no bestie the industry isn’t ready for HER. she’s not putting up with any of this bs that pop stars before have gone through. major societal changes don’t happen from people being nice!! chappell is making sure that she and future pop stars start getting treated with a little more respect.
Isn't the general paparazzi hate like, during normal day-to-day action, not posed photographers? Like I thought people hated that they invade privacy and bother people. Red carpets have people posing, there's an expectation that photographers will be there.
@@MasterMemo Posed photographers are also POS (not all but the glorified papparazzi section of them). There was video footage just a while ago of the Met Gala where photographers were yelling racial insults at a foreign group attending to try and get a reaction out of them so they could snap a pic of it. It's actually a very common thing and I remember a few celebs coming forward with similar stories of these posed "photographers" being creeps or just saying inappropriate things to get a rise.
I actually agree with Chappell roans reactions so intensely. Just because celebrities have generally put up with disrespect doesn’t mean they should have to.
I think celebrities are allowed to have boundaries with their fans full stop. I hate that Chappell is getting so much hate for not wanting her fans to stalk her and her family
As someone who already thinks how people usually engage with celebrities being really strange, the backlash she’s been getting is so weird to me. Like, she’s still a person bro? She’s a human being? People are known for having boundaries, so why does her being famous change that? You would think “please don’t stalk my family members” would be obvious too, but I guess not
I wanna see how this plays out, will she always be this headstrong and combative or will she slowly start to accept how being famous is as the years go by? I think ppl are going to troll her just to get a reaction like that 😅
Chappell Roan’s reactions remind me of how in environments in which abuse is tolerated or even at times encouraged, anyone who dares to fight back is viewed as funny or bitchy or both. They aren’t taken seriously. Chappell Roan doesn’t need to do better, the entertainment industry does. Ok thank you for coming to my TED Talk ✌🏼
yuppp it's very much so giving "reactive abuse" which I think is the phenomena you're referring to 🙂 chappell roan is an angel with so so so much talent and style and DRAMATICS and I would be devastated (as would anyone else with even a shred of TASTE) if she had to bail on making more music to preserve her mental health (although it would be 100% understandable of course) so it would be much appreciated if the media and her so called "fans" could stop being so fucking weird asap, like immediately, like YESTERDAY so we avoid that tragedy, thanks so much 💘
she reminds me a lot of Emma Watson when she became an adult tbh. boundary setting in the entertainment industry is treated as entitled behaviour and it sucks that it's been an individual thing rather than a movement,which it should be. i know that "era" of Watson's career is overshadowed by the whole 'no corset in beauty and the beast' but she was mainly fighting for her life against directors/producers who wanted to be the first to make her do a topless scene, script be damned
The way people react to Chappell Roan is giving parents screaming "don't talk back to me" when you defend yourself a little after they've been saying the most hurtful things for 30 minutes straight.
The controversies... my god 1. Tyla was polite, she asked for help and got it. Yall needed better upbringings if you thought that was uppity hf 2. Chappell was 100% in the right to scream at that paparazzi in the way she did, stfu forever if you side with an indignant celebrity photographer 3. Jack would've been right even if they weren't ear plugs, who the hell would willingly subject themselves to a Katy Perry performance in 2024?
Don't get me wrong, I was happy about the nostalgia but ugh those Katy Perry songs didn't age super well (in my opinion.) It was a little weird to hear rap songs and other newer songs then she like ONLY performed her old songs. I mean, her new songs aren't as loved so it's valid but.. just didn't feel like it fit to me.
Why are y’all being hateful for no reason? Katy Perry literally had hits from decades ago and she was performing all of that. Stop acting like she has never had hits before
@@smithsunleashed I'm not pretending she doesn't have hits, I just don't like her style of pop and haven't for a good while now. Plus 2000s - 2010s music isn't aging well, probably my least favourite music came out of that era's pop. It's just odd to me, personal preference.
I thought her performance was good. That 1st outfit was perfect for spinning in the air. Nice combo of songs. It surprised me that I liked it tbh but I watched it more than once
I love Chappell! But, apparently, the photographer wasn't telling her to STFU? He was arguing with another photographer, and she thought he was yelling at her (understandably). At least that's what it seems like from the video, and is the general consensus on Reddit...
@TheTinaBelcher which is f*cked and sick. Someone is sharing how her safety and the safety of her family is consistently being threatened with stalkers and hatassers... and ppl want to bandwagon with harasses and stalkers.
"I really wanna love her but..she's so exhausting". I get so annoyed when I read comments like that lately. Literally nobody is forcing anyone to engage with content about her. Just move on. If you like her music but don't care for her, just listen to her music. There are interviews of her being perfectly nice and giggly with the vma interviewers and people will be like 'I get bad vibes'. It's like they won't come right out and say they hate that she asserted her boundaries but will find a plethora of other ways to randomly hate on her.
Chappell is 100% valid. She actually said something in another carpet interview that was to the effect of her having been famous for five minutes and refusing to let the precedent be set that she was going to allow herself to be treated like that for her whole rest of her career, and honestly I respect her so much for that.
i'm glad chappell yelled back. i hope people stop harassing her when she does decide to attend events, she could very well decide to just not go at all, and she'd be completely in her right.
In another clip you can hear the photographer yelling at her and someone told her to stfu, she said she wont stfu because she didn't get a shot of chappell, and then chappell yelled back in defense of herself and whoever was telling her to chill out.
@@mchjsosde I don't know why, but I work in offices with decision makers, legal influencers, meant to show empathy to the most vulnerable at times... and they can be such P.O.S., that asking if I can believe it, unfortunately yes. I had my manager almost doing a HIPAA violation and considering a victim's record as gross and they didn't want it in their office any more and acted like it was my fault they were exposed to it. You are not a victim for being exposed to a victim's file as part of the chain of command and procedure, grow up or get out of here.
Shit reminds me of Met Gala last year with Stray Kids and how photographers made xenophobic comments to them. It seems we need photographers to take some morals and ethics classes.
Chappell being a bulldozer in the music industry is so fucking refreshing. She’s not putting up with any of the horseshit that celebrities are supposed to put up with. She is being a trailblazer for a long overdue restructure for celebrity culture and I’m totally here for it. She needs to say stfu to more rude photographers💕
@@hoordeyah lol he would've won an award. Adam Driver beat up an old woman during filming and everyone just glossed over it. A woman setting boundaries is obviously different. Also idk why im typing this comment since you're clearly just baiting/are looking for answers you want but you know 🤪
No they didn’t. They made it about celebrity entitlement with a side order of xenophobia which is just as goofy 😂. Although I do wonder if some of these celebrities ever moved into an apartment, a dorm room, etc. Did they ever take some groceries upstairs? Like how heavy can a trophy be? It is not the Heisman or the hockey trophy.
@@carrington2949 Crazy thing is I remember a lot of people turned their backs on Halle because they felt she was becoming entitled (it was some incident with a hotel if I still remember correctly) so not only is this whole thing goofy but lowkey kinda hypocritical of them
theres a good chunk of "controversies" out there that arent controversies at all, but just people online who wanted to feel intellectual by providing armchair analysis for situations where it was completely unneeded.
this is why kpop idols act a certain way at award shows. Smiling at someone for too long, oh theyre dating. Yawning during someone's song, oh theyre beefing. Talking to someone next them, oh theyre talking about x. It's like we gotta act like robots at these shows its crazyyyy
I don't wanna be that meme but hmm actually other people said that the photographer wasn't cussing at her, he was cussing at another photographer and i think Chappell stepped in to help defend the other guy or something like that
Honestly I feel like what most likely happened was the photographer yelled at another photographer, Chappell thought it was at her (she said the carpet was very overwhelming) and yelled back which honestly is valid, cursing at people loudly invites anyone to yell at you tbh, it doesn’t necessarily have to be in defense
Chappell and Jenny Ortega are just out there saying “hey we are human beings and we should be respected as fully autonomous living things” like just because women HAVE been treated like posable dolls doesn’t mean they SHOULD be. You can hate them for being rich all you want but in order to believe that all people are equally valuable simply for being alive I have to accept that are fully human with the same value as the person in the middle of the road with the sign. Neither deserves to be dehumanized.
The Tyla situation is crazy, it seems like so many people are just upset she doesn't fit into a neat box and they just take it out on her in the weirdest ways? Let my girl breathe.
Shes loved globally its only America who tries to hate. She defies stereotypes of what an African should be and American folks just don't like that it seems.
I will never stop wishing Chappell Roan the best. She went from questioning the longevity of her music career for most of a decade to massive festivals and the VMAs so incredibly quickly. It feels like she had no time for it to ramp up or to acclimate to her new degree of fame. She's already been open about how peoples' entitlement has led to her feeling unsafe, and how she's trying to navigate her mental health in this incredibly challenging industry. It makes me so deeply angry that people finally recognize how harmful the media, paparazzi, and audience entitlement was to early 2000s/2010s performers... but will then speak about Chappell like she owes people perfect responses and unlimited access to her just because "that's the job". People shouldn't have to wait a decade or two to discuss the tragic treatment of female performers and how it's impacted them. They need to start correcting how they view and speak about them in the present.
i’m so dumb. i thought everyone had the same thought process as me that when you step out of a nice bath you look best and just stare at yourself in the mirror for a while. i thought maybe people wanted to show off that look
D’Angelo, as an African who immigrated to America at 21 and now 27, I can tell you that Americans seem to have an incessant fascination with belittling Africans. Being African, intelligent, educated, and stylish doesn’t exempt you from their treatment as anomalies. It’s almost as if there’s an expectation that you’ll conform to a certain stereotype, perhaps being humble and grateful for the privilege of being in America. When you deviate from this expectation, you’re labeled as uppity, entitled, and all sorts of negative traits. The moment they hear your accent, they expect you to meet their preconceived notions, and any deviation from that is unfathomable. It’s particularly challenging when you’re queer, as it raises questions about how you can be African, queer, comfortable, and proud.
Yeah honestly such a bizarre and baffling take. I don't understand this cognitive dissonance of "Africa is a third-world continent, so poor, so underdeveloped " thinking and then the audacity of being like "actually africans are uppity" like girl what???? make up your MINDDD or better yet stop seeing africa as a monolith of one giant negative strerotype or the other
Similar treatment when you're from The Caribbean, no matter which island (every American will call you Jamaican anyway.) I suppose the worst treatment is reserved for our Haitian brothers and sisters, you can see it on the news and all over Twitter right now, and for what?
In my very limited experience, actually uppity Africans don’t have an obvious accent, as they’ve spent most of their life IN the US. But, like, that’s not really an African thing; it’s an insanely wealthy thing. It’s universal. I will say, even the brattiest of African clients I’ve worked with do an excellent job of pointing out exactly how little Americans know about Africa.
I've never listened to Chappells music, but all of the stuff I've seen online about her talking back to rude people makes me happy. She doesn't owe that photographer kindness, ESPECIALLY after him yelling to "shut the fuck up". Like she doesn't even owe him breath and could have just walked away after that, she gave him the kindness of her attention and gave him the same attitude he gave her, as is fair. Treat others the way you want to be treated or be treated how you deserve.
The reason i love Chappell the most is because she actually seems real like she actually got famous overnight and hollywood hasn't got to her and she doesn't put on a fake personality like she's actually just herself.
literally lol I've been thinking about that video all day and now I have something to watch while I eat :) Him and Film Cooper are like my *comfort* comfort yters
I am still not over how beautiful Chapell Roans outfit was. I think it was the best outfit I have ever seen. I was already obsessed with chain-mail and this was such a great look.
I got so excited because she's setting a standard for weird girlies everywhere to start wearing their favorite ethereal dresses and pull out their weapons ❤❤❤
Chappell’s stance against the stalking and harrassment that celebrities get from the paparazzi and their own fans was very much needed. I’m glad she’s being so firm about her boundaries and that she’s not afriad to set them.
no because yall are NOT gonna attack my girl tyla for not being able to hold the award, LOOK at her. she’s tiny 😭 and she was sweet about it, “can you hold this please? thank you, im sorry”. yall need to leave black women alone im over it
Totally agree. Olivia Rodrigo did the same thing previously and there was no backlash. So yes, it's about race. And yes, it's people of colour doing the backlash. Classic black on black hate.
@@ericae.6547 you cannot be fckin serious. she literally posted a tweet at people like YOU saying she never denied her blackness. she’s black, mixed with several other things. check ur facts and go away
@@ericae.6547yes she does. IN HER WORDS: “I am both coloured in South Africa and a black woman.” go away and stop denying black women of their blackness.
the Tyla hate is veery forced. it's crazy because she literally said please (twice), thank you AND sorry. not sure how much nicer she could have been about that request lmao
Thank you yes I am so tired of women's actual WORDS being ignored like literally WHAT ELSE CAN WE DO please listen to the effort coming out of our faces thanks
@@SoupSand867 it is forced because none of it makes sense. she was not rude, she has never ever been rude. it feels like people are more mad that she refuses to assimilate and is a proud young african girl on a very international platform, which is why they make comments like "entitled uppity african". they want her to perform the role of a humble quiet person, no doubt pointed specifically towards her because of the stereotype that africans are lowly and humble and should be grateful for the world's scraps - that is literally all just rooted in xenophobia. people are trying very hard to find ANYTHING to throw at her and hoping it sticks. how dreadfully boring.
You know what i think... chapell having gone through the whole "got offered a label, signed then didnt make it and is now thriving" has made her not afraid of losing it again... I love her for standing up for herself, its refreshing and im here for it ❤
Just stop harassing women (and people in general). I know when i walk to work (a one mile walk), I expect to be catcalled or heckled at least three times. Imagine how much more often Chappell Roan has to hear similar things. I'm glad someone is actually speaking about this issue. Can we just let people live their lives?
@@chandracox6814 Yikes. Not sure what happened in your personal life but only a very disturbed individual would wish that upon someone. Don't internalize your hatred towards women and find therapy so you can learn to humanize your own gender. Stay unashamed of being a woman, because you deserve basic human respect no matter guy, girl, or whichever. Hope this helped
Something that I have been enjoying is that there seems to be a community of people who have been consistently watching your videos, and it kinda makes me feel a part of something. Whether you are watching during lunch, or listening like it’s a podcast on your drive home, you a part of a little collective slice of the internet. Have a great day!!
A man screaming 'shut the fuck up' at a woman- wow, so original. I don't care the context, girl was absolutely right in telling him off. It's not simply answering rudeness with rudeness, it's protecting oneself's dignity when being confronted with degrading behavior by men.
The amount of people saying that Tyla doesn't understand American culture over the tinest things is soooo annoying. Like an American artist could do everything shes doing and no one would bat an eye. Same energy as with Chappell tbh. I personally think Chappell is pretty chill? Like how is it entitled to not want people harassing in your day to day life
No seriously because it’s literally the industry and public ganging up on her. How many Britney’s need to be sacrificed on the alter of public opinion before we learn our lesson?
@@JauntyCrepeThe media and the general public will never learn, I don’t think. Hate is the only form of expression for many people. Hate, and nothing else.
I really hate that the media paints her as "crazy" for acting the way she does, which is fucking normal. Especially because she's been open with her mental health struggles.
People being mad that Chappel Roan is telling them to stop being abusive and weird, is fucking weird. Like if you think she's being rude or ungrateful, you are telling on yourself. Clearly being nice and asking kindly doesn't work with most people- we have seen this for years. Get over it and treat everyone respectfully.
You are so right for Paris’ placement, babes did a trend (even if it was ugly) and still outdid everyone else who tried it. She just understands how to deliver a trend in her own style. Infinite Icon
"Y'all gotta stop placing celebrities and other people in these situations where there is no correct way of responding and then proceeding to get mad at said celebrities for not responding correctly." 100% on target. I do not understand why people think that just because these people are well known and got money, they are supposed to be okay with being basically stalked all the time and shouted at. They aren't robots. I don't even like most of them but people have to stop acting like just because they're famous, they have to put up with what boil down to human rights violations on the daily. If it would be okay for Joe Nobody to scream back at somebody harassing them, it shouldn't suddenly be wrong to stand up for yourself just because 10 million people recognise you.
First off, you're an absolute legend, I love your continuous, beautiful confidence. You are always stylish, and I absolutely love your intelligence and realness. As for the backlash issues, I agree w you, so goofy. I just learned of Chapelle Roan in the last 3-4 weeks, and she's grown on me. I love her music, her goofy and wonderful style, and unapologetic attitude. People love when celebs or artists are true to themselves and don't ass-kiss for the fame, but then hate them for the same thing. She is real and sticks to who she is, and I respect it. I like your opinions and grading on the many fashion choices here. I metaphorically run to see each new video you upload. You've hit an incredible stride with this type of content. Love every one!
right, reuse doesn't mean bad, it just fits the theme for this era of the channel lol it's like a uniform or dress code cause he's doing the professor bit right now
The video from yesterday made me feel so seen. It made us all feel seen. It has been a tough time finding happiness, and your video encapsulated so perfectly what a lot of us are dealing with. Thank you for sharing it with us. Can’t wait to laugh at this one :)
@@heathersnumber1fan exactly!! I'm tired of seeing women in the industry get torn apart by men in positions of power, the press, and annoying bitches on social media. these people are not exempt from criticism but the kind of vitriolic intolerance they receive from all sides constantly is borderline abusive.
I don't understand how paparazzis are even legal, like outside of events if it was just a regular joe going around and constantly following a woman taking pictures it would be considered stalking, harassment and illegal, but because she's famous it's normal and it's considered an actual job?? Make it make sense
I wish she'd have done that instead at this point. I'm not even a huge fan of her music honestly-- Arya Star is more my style. But the hate she gets for such stupid, basically xenophobic reasons is so dumb.
@@no.6377No you don’t. They would have said she was disrespectful and didn’t appreciate the award. Basically, they are fishing 🎣 because they haven’t fully embraced her.
they just hate to see women standing up for themselves or giving the same energy back... like boo hoo shes not a doormat ?? if some random person told me to shut up for no reason then i wouldnt sit there and give them what they want
@@hoordeyah i genuinely would not care omg. celebs are people too and they are entitled to the same reactions anyone else would have if someone disrespected them. so idk why youre trying to cause an argument over your own fantasies lmao
i'm more mad Chappell didn't cleave the dude in half with that sword ngl also wet hair was a trend in end 90s-mid 2000s. i partook. i thank every single god the internet wasn't a big thing back then
Seeing this after having watched your previous video, where you said you were going to film this right after, is actually so powerful because it conceptualizes how you never know what someone is going through when you look at them from afar of just at surface level. I'm happy you expressed the fun you were having with yt these days and how you've gotten better at dealing with things but as someone who thankfully doesn't deal with depression, I'm still grateful at the insight. It's one thing to know something but another to see it for yourself. Also Chappell Roan's outfit was everything. I'm praying for a knight core fashion moment actually.
Nope! Eddie Murphy wouldn’t even hold THEE Michael Jackson’s award. She was weird to ask that of someone, especially when she was seen posing and holding the award later with one hand.
@@Thedarkestblackisstillblue I guarantee you if anyone else would’ve done that and they were from the US people would’ve called them uppity or said that they were wrong
fashion girl here, wet hair trend is for sex appeal! think sirens, girls in bikinis, fresh out of a shower, a lot of wet hair situations r due to sexy things. plus it just looks pretty i think :)
10:02 did people not see Chappell also struggling to hold the award as well as her diary?? I was hoping someone would come help her hold it LMAO so go Tyla for asking?? I'm so confused lol
I'm SO here for D'Angelo just not forgiving the suits. As someone who just doesn't have opinions on fashion, I absolutely agree that men should step it up
the paparazzi guy did yell “shut the fuck up chappell” specifically and i think she was well within her rights to yell back. He definitely only said it to get a rise out of her for a picture though
Chappell Roan - Is an example to all young women and girls. This is how I wish I could be. How I hope I have brought by my daughters. I hope she keeps going. I hope the trash tabloid rags don't dull her spark. Im so so glad there is someone in the media like her standing for herself and showing younger girls its OK to take up space and say no.
The contrast between men and women outfits are wild, really reflects the social conditioning we all go through in society, are we really presenting ourselves in our own image, or in the image that compliant with societal norms, if all these wealthy men and women cant express themselves truly, how do ordinary expect to achieve this
Also another note, that the only man to actually have an interesting outfit that's a clear expression of themselves, its the one of the few gay men present. which to me, means that coming out of the closet is not just about sexuality. but it's about shedding the shell forced upon by society and letting the butterfly out
If you look at men's fashion before the 1800s, anyone who could afford it was FLASHY. Then things started to get boring, and there's plenty of content on YT about that.
For 40 long years, they’ve handed out this award, and at last, we’re able to address the unbearable burden a celebrity must endure-standing for a full minute on national television, holding that award for their achievements. I’m so relieved we’re finally talking about it because something must be done! The only place they should be expected to hold it, is when they’re getting their photos and not a minute sooner!
Nah, people are just suspicious. It is not forced at all. It is really easy in the conspiracy era of this country. Anyone can become a villain. Call it the post Demonic Diddy /Katt Williams exposing / Harvey Weinstein/ Britney Spears abuse age. A former President just accused people of eating cats and he still has a good chance of winning. Who knows who will be next? It is a weird time.
the o my thing im really upset about is them not matching the color of her undies not the necklace, dress, OR shoes 😔 not even an attempt to make it look like skin either just bright green under there
@@eclectic3454 wait really?!! i thought the neon green added a nice pop to the whole fit. but i can see where you’d coming from w wanting clean matching colors. that would’ve been fye 2
Im not mad at her im just over the fact they are overlooking well deserving afrobeats artists for her generic, watered down version of it, but i cant be mad at her for them giving her these awards...
I remember when people tried to say she isn’t “black” because she was mixed. A woman who deadass grew up in South Africa isn’t “black” but mixed artists in the US are still allowed is WILD.
I'm always surprised when people react negatively to celebrities shouting at or even striking paparazzi. Especially after Princess Diana, I'm really surprised that paparazzi aren't considered basically the scum of the earth
I'm realizing how much ppl believe folks should just shut up and take abuse. Why be polite in the face of aggression? Who does that serve? It only protects bullies.
Love Chappell Roan for telling the paparazzi to shut the f*ck up. It was very iconic and the guy needed to be humbled. Love it when celebrities set boundaries, they're not court jesters, they don't have to be nice to rude interviewers and paparazzis
Chappell's responses in general make me think of a toxic office environments. You have managers (paparazzo) micro managing, asking for overtime, expecting you to be checking work out of work hours and honestly have no job without you there for them to talk down to and direct into positions they want you, in most instances. Then someone comes in with self respect and boundaries deemed rude because the others before them bent over backwards out of fear they wouldn't get the favorable treatment and praise of those who don't even offer anything without them there doing their job.
What’s happening to Chappell is literally reaction abuse. Its when people put all the blame and criticism on the person reacting rather than on what made them react like that in the first place. People were harassing her family and someone tried to kiss her and yet her calling them out is wrong, someone yells at her and yet her yelling back is whats wrong. I honestly feel so bad for her.
Yeah no I actually kinda liked it, if she went just slightly edgier with it, it would look great. Didn’t really like the way he used the edginess/ hot topicish vibe as an insult. 😭
Agreed. It’s like the styling didn’t go far enough, so it comes off as more of a big box Halloween costume than a look. And I think there was even a way to do it AND still look more polished than punk, a la Bratz Dolls or Monster High.
no bc wearing earplugs at concerts is literally so good!!!! u still get to feel the bass in ur body and hear whats gotta b heard without having to deal w ur ears ringing for the whole next day and long-term hearing loss
It's so good to see you doing a fun thing you wanted to do! Today is a just survive day for me. It's always good to have a reminder that when the fog lifts, the fun things will still be there waiting.
D'Angelo, coming from your previous video, I want you to know how much of a light you are to my day. Since you started making RUclips videos again, I show my husband everything you make and talk about it like it's my report to him for the day. I, too, struggle with depression (OCD) and it can be difficult navigating this world feeling alone. Thank you for your strength to be vulnerable and share. I hope that you have a light to your day everyday too
Is anyone else getting the sense we've seen half of these fits back in the late 00's and early 2010's? Like the rips, the cut outs, the bra tops,, the silhouettes, it's all feeling very familiar?
I always see peoople speculating about Tyla's weight and health online so I think her being perceived as "too weak" to hold an award is probably blood in the water for the worst kind of discoursers out there. "She's body checking" or she's just trying not to hold an envelope.
I kind of love tylas look 🤭 like the MTV colour reference, the green underwear, the heels??? The hair??? Idk it’s just giving. Idk what but it’s giving
"Maybe we shouldn't eat the rich because they have no taste" THIS IS KILLING ME CAUSE ITS TRUE
And since we DO have taste, that’s another problem.
I say we shouldn’t eat them because spoiled meat makes you sick.
@@andrewollmann304 That's a good one too.
@@andrewollmann304 Correct. Also we don't know where that's been, and really, really don't want to either.
@@Narangarath Most often, it can be found up its own ass….too many rich people to mention are stuch there.
Crazy to me that ppl r mad at chappell but not the reporter harassing her
ppl will always find ways to hate on woman celebrities😭
@@kalkxxand it’s so bad and convoluted I think most of the people hating on her and other women are other women. Our world is a women hate women world, sadly.
Right.. like women are just expected to be submissive. But when they stand up for themselves they're degraded and labelled as unhinged. Chappell is changing the culture for future women artists, and I am proud of her for that.
Classic misogyny 🫣
"Harassing"? Where? I get that y'all are refreshed by her but let's not exaggerate. He wasn't even talking to her. It's fine that she yelled back, but nobody harassed her.
i mean, entitled photographers are the reason princess diana is dead. "shut the fuck up" is a kindness compared to what some of them have coming
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Facts!
As a photographer, paparazzi shouldn't be called photographers. You're not an artist, you're a creep with an expensive camera.
Amen
Exactly. I really don’t understand how they are legal, it’s just harassment with a fancy camera.
honestly the earplug drama is wild. Not only will it protect your hearing in such loud environments, but it is also a commonly used tool for many neurodivergent people. I am an autistic nurse, and yes, I use earplugs at work.
Yeah the few concerts I've gone to, I used earplugs and I paid to see the artists
esp for a music producer, he absolutely needs to protect his hearing
yeah people took something innocent and made it way too deep for no good reason lol i put cotton "plugs" in my ears when i go to the cinema even because shts just way too loud lol doesnt mean im not hearing it or shading anyone by doing it...
I went to a Hozier concert this past weekend and his music isn’t as intense as a lot of shows i’ve forgotten earplugs at….but i forgot them and I still have on and off tinnitus episodes days later. I will absolutely be taking it more seriously. Additionally, early hearing loss is linked to early onset dementia.
I was thinking this too. I have sensory issues and earplugs save my sanity on a regular basis.
“chappell isn’t ready for this industry” no bestie the industry isn’t ready for HER. she’s not putting up with any of this bs that pop stars before have gone through. major societal changes don’t happen from people being nice!! chappell is making sure that she and future pop stars start getting treated with a little more respect.
Preach!!
Eh, she keeps calling out her ex. That’s not appropriate. In that way, she’s not ready. Setting boundaries is great though.
@Username0467 other celebrities do that all the time though? i don't see why its an issue when she does it
@Username0467 what does that have to do with her "readiness" for the industry
@@Username0467 How? This is the first time I've heard of this
People always agree that paparazzi are awful until a woman talks back to them
preach!
No cuz I was in support of her yelling stfu with no context cuz I just hate the scummy paps so much
Isn't the general paparazzi hate like, during normal day-to-day action, not posed photographers? Like I thought people hated that they invade privacy and bother people. Red carpets have people posing, there's an expectation that photographers will be there.
@@MasterMemo Usually both are present.
@@MasterMemo Posed photographers are also POS (not all but the glorified papparazzi section of them). There was video footage just a while ago of the Met Gala where photographers were yelling racial insults at a foreign group attending to try and get a reaction out of them so they could snap a pic of it. It's actually a very common thing and I remember a few celebs coming forward with similar stories of these posed "photographers" being creeps or just saying inappropriate things to get a rise.
I actually agree with Chappell roans reactions so intensely. Just because celebrities have generally put up with disrespect doesn’t mean they should have to.
I think celebrities are allowed to have boundaries with their fans full stop. I hate that Chappell is getting so much hate for not wanting her fans to stalk her and her family
As someone who already thinks how people usually engage with celebrities being really strange, the backlash she’s been getting is so weird to me. Like, she’s still a person bro? She’s a human being? People are known for having boundaries, so why does her being famous change that?
You would think “please don’t stalk my family members” would be obvious too, but I guess not
@@nessie-from-earthbound1601 the craziest part is most of the response is WHY IS SHE COMPLAINING, THAT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FAMOUS???
I wanna see how this plays out, will she always be this headstrong and combative or will she slowly start to accept how being famous is as the years go by? I think ppl are going to troll her just to get a reaction like that 😅
i actually love that she's setting boundaries from the beginning
Chappell Roan’s reactions remind me of how in environments in which abuse is tolerated or even at times encouraged, anyone who dares to fight back is viewed as funny or bitchy or both. They aren’t taken seriously. Chappell Roan doesn’t need to do better, the entertainment industry does. Ok thank you for coming to my TED Talk ✌🏼
yuppp it's very much so giving "reactive abuse" which I think is the phenomena you're referring to 🙂 chappell roan is an angel with so so so much talent and style and DRAMATICS and I would be devastated (as would anyone else with even a shred of TASTE) if she had to bail on making more music to preserve her mental health (although it would be 100% understandable of course) so it would be much appreciated if the media and her so called "fans" could stop being so fucking weird asap, like immediately, like YESTERDAY so we avoid that tragedy, thanks so much 💘
she reminds me a lot of Emma Watson when she became an adult tbh. boundary setting in the entertainment industry is treated as entitled behaviour and it sucks that it's been an individual thing rather than a movement,which it should be. i know that "era" of Watson's career is overshadowed by the whole 'no corset in beauty and the beast' but she was mainly fighting for her life against directors/producers who wanted to be the first to make her do a topless scene, script be damned
The way people react to Chappell Roan is giving parents screaming "don't talk back to me" when you defend yourself a little after they've been saying the most hurtful things for 30 minutes straight.
Preach!
You're absolutely right. She's not the one who needs to do better. It's been normalized for too long and it literally gets women killed.
The controversies... my god
1. Tyla was polite, she asked for help and got it. Yall needed better upbringings if you thought that was uppity hf
2. Chappell was 100% in the right to scream at that paparazzi in the way she did, stfu forever if you side with an indignant celebrity photographer
3. Jack would've been right even if they weren't ear plugs, who the hell would willingly subject themselves to a Katy Perry performance in 2024?
Don't get me wrong, I was happy about the nostalgia but ugh those Katy Perry songs didn't age super well (in my opinion.) It was a little weird to hear rap songs and other newer songs then she like ONLY performed her old songs. I mean, her new songs aren't as loved so it's valid but.. just didn't feel like it fit to me.
Why are y’all being hateful for no reason? Katy Perry literally had hits from decades ago and she was performing all of that. Stop acting like she has never had hits before
@@smithsunleashed I'm not pretending she doesn't have hits, I just don't like her style of pop and haven't for a good while now. Plus 2000s - 2010s music isn't aging well, probably my least favourite music came out of that era's pop. It's just odd to me, personal preference.
Be fucking for real the katy hate is getting old and tired
I thought her performance was good. That 1st outfit was perfect for spinning in the air. Nice combo of songs. It surprised me that I liked it tbh but I watched it more than once
5:28 the colour difference between her legs and her face with the fake tan is insane
Holy shit, I didn't notice this on first watch! That is craaaaazy
Hose?
I always wondered what the point of pantyhose even was. Other than for crime mask
@@banquetoftheleviathan1404nah you can tell she doesn’t have them on because her toes are out (this sounds so creepy I’m sorry)
It’s giving Irish step dancing
Chappell was probably the best part. Her snapping at the reporter was so iconic.
I love Chappell! But, apparently, the photographer wasn't telling her to STFU? He was arguing with another photographer, and she thought he was yelling at her (understandably). At least that's what it seems like from the video, and is the general consensus on Reddit...
@@CherryBlossom-Babeok then she was defending the other photographer? Still justified in my opinion
@@Healey9999 well she says “not me” when she tells him to stfu, so she thought the photographer was talking to her
@@CherryBlossom-Babe I’ve heard that or that he was yelling at someone in her team idk regardless uncalled for
@@Gumbyloomy she literally hasn’t done anything wrong? I’m assuming this is rage bait
it feels like ever since chappell made that video about boundaries, people have been pulling stuff out of their asses to get mad at her for😭
I think it's a double edge sword. People would probably go out of their way to get a rise out of her now.
@TheTinaBelcher which is f*cked and sick. Someone is sharing how her safety and the safety of her family is consistently being threatened with stalkers and hatassers... and ppl want to bandwagon with harasses and stalkers.
"I really wanna love her but..she's so exhausting". I get so annoyed when I read comments like that lately. Literally nobody is forcing anyone to engage with content about her. Just move on. If you like her music but don't care for her, just listen to her music.
There are interviews of her being perfectly nice and giggly with the vma interviewers and people will be like 'I get bad vibes'. It's like they won't come right out and say they hate that she asserted her boundaries but will find a plethora of other ways to randomly hate on her.
Your video on depression is the first time I've ever felt something from a RUclips video and now I get the "you saved my life thing"
I second this. It’s not often that someone allows themselves to be like… real, like that, on camera.
Remember he just helped you save your own. He's just a normal person like us. But he showed how sharing our stories can be powerful 😊
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Why not commenting that in that video instead of reminding him of his depression just because you need instantaneous affirmation…
@@Beadlesstorhi dont think dangelo minds all that much
Chappell is 100% valid. She actually said something in another carpet interview that was to the effect of her having been famous for five minutes and refusing to let the precedent be set that she was going to allow herself to be treated like that for her whole rest of her career, and honestly I respect her so much for that.
i'm glad chappell yelled back. i hope people stop harassing her when she does decide to attend events, she could very well decide to just not go at all, and she'd be completely in her right.
Its weird to go to events like this if you want to avoid paparazzi.
In another clip you can hear the photographer yelling at her and someone told her to stfu, she said she wont stfu because she didn't get a shot of chappell, and then chappell yelled back in defense of herself and whoever was telling her to chill out.
I cannot believe paparazzi are considered "professionals." Can you imagine acting like that at your job and facing 0 repercussions. Crazy.
@@mchjsosde yeah cause honestly, no one should be yelling stfu to anyone at all!! Unless it's like someone yelling slurs lol.
Good for her
@@mchjsosde I don't know why, but I work in offices with decision makers, legal influencers, meant to show empathy to the most vulnerable at times... and they can be such P.O.S., that asking if I can believe it, unfortunately yes.
I had my manager almost doing a HIPAA violation and considering a victim's record as gross and they didn't want it in their office any more and acted like it was my fault they were exposed to it. You are not a victim for being exposed to a victim's file as part of the chain of command and procedure, grow up or get out of here.
Shit reminds me of Met Gala last year with Stray Kids and how photographers made xenophobic comments to them. It seems we need photographers to take some morals and ethics classes.
Chappell being a bulldozer in the music industry is so fucking refreshing. She’s not putting up with any of the horseshit that celebrities are supposed to put up with. She is being a trailblazer for a long overdue restructure for celebrity culture and I’m totally here for it. She needs to say stfu to more rude photographers💕
It’s giving Fiona Apple’s “this world is bullshit” acceptance speech and I’m so here for it
@lfrands yes or Courtney Love just generally not giving a f ck
@@hoordeyah lol he would've won an award. Adam Driver beat up an old woman during filming and everyone just glossed over it. A woman setting boundaries is obviously different. Also idk why im typing this comment since you're clearly just baiting/are looking for answers you want but you know 🤪
@@hoordeyah … sure pal 👍
@@hoordeyahif Chappell were a gay man people would be applauding him too.
They tried to make the Tyla situation about colorism but Halle and Tyla are the same complexion💀
😂😂😂
No fr 😭😭
No they didn’t. They made it about celebrity entitlement with a side order of xenophobia which is just as goofy 😂. Although I do wonder if some of these celebrities ever moved into an apartment, a dorm room, etc. Did they ever take some groceries upstairs? Like how heavy can a trophy be? It is not the Heisman or the hockey trophy.
@@carrington2949 Crazy thing is I remember a lot of people turned their backs on Halle because they felt she was becoming entitled (it was some incident with a hotel if I still remember correctly) so not only is this whole thing goofy but lowkey kinda hypocritical of them
nah it’s mostly xenophobia towards africans unfortunately. idk what that’s all abt tho. just messed up
theres a good chunk of "controversies" out there that arent controversies at all, but just people online who wanted to feel intellectual by providing armchair analysis for situations where it was completely unneeded.
this is why kpop idols act a certain way at award shows. Smiling at someone for too long, oh theyre dating. Yawning during someone's song, oh theyre beefing. Talking to someone next them, oh theyre talking about x. It's like we gotta act like robots at these shows its crazyyyy
Chappell Roan yelling back at that photographer who yelled and cussed at her was so refreshing.
I don't wanna be that meme but hmm actually other people said that the photographer wasn't cussing at her, he was cussing at another photographer and i think Chappell stepped in to help defend the other guy or something like that
@@BrendaNyirenda-ow1bk I believe he was mad at Chappell because she missed her mark aka her pose she was supposed to have for the photo
Both can be truth, another person said another photographer was asking him to calm down with the pics and that one just exploded saying "Stfu"
Idk how is that even rude, you can't cry if you tell someone to shut the fuck up and they tell you "you shut the fuck up", like, what did you expect
Honestly I feel like what most likely happened was the photographer yelled at another photographer, Chappell thought it was at her (she said the carpet was very overwhelming) and yelled back which honestly is valid, cursing at people loudly invites anyone to yell at you tbh, it doesn’t necessarily have to be in defense
Chappell and Jenny Ortega are just out there saying “hey we are human beings and we should be respected as fully autonomous living things” like just because women HAVE been treated like posable dolls doesn’t mean they SHOULD be. You can hate them for being rich all you want but in order to believe that all people are equally valuable simply for being alive I have to accept that are fully human with the same value as the person in the middle of the road with the sign. Neither deserves to be dehumanized.
“She looks like a Jane Austen character that’s been trapped in a Hot Topic”
Stop I can’t breathe 😂
"...like the emo store from the MALL." sent me lmao
It looks like something from early 2010s, right now it's crazy😂
100% agree, and I keep on seeing ppl say they LOVE it. Im like I didnt know so many ppl loved Hot Topic 😭😭
No shot, more like a Jane Austen character that walked outta of Pride & Prejudice & Zombies 😂
@@indiemickey well, they are saying indie sleeze is coming back…
The Tyla situation is crazy, it seems like so many people are just upset she doesn't fit into a neat box and they just take it out on her in the weirdest ways? Let my girl breathe.
People hate Tyla for NO reason. Seriously, what has she done??
Shes loved globally its only America who tries to hate. She defies stereotypes of what an African should be and American folks just don't like that it seems.
I will never stop wishing Chappell Roan the best. She went from questioning the longevity of her music career for most of a decade to massive festivals and the VMAs so incredibly quickly. It feels like she had no time for it to ramp up or to acclimate to her new degree of fame. She's already been open about how peoples' entitlement has led to her feeling unsafe, and how she's trying to navigate her mental health in this incredibly challenging industry.
It makes me so deeply angry that people finally recognize how harmful the media, paparazzi, and audience entitlement was to early 2000s/2010s performers... but will then speak about Chappell like she owes people perfect responses and unlimited access to her just because "that's the job". People shouldn't have to wait a decade or two to discuss the tragic treatment of female performers and how it's impacted them. They need to start correcting how they view and speak about them in the present.
The wet hair trend is either part of the mermaid or siren aesthetic. You need to look like you want to drown a man, or save him from drowning
I was thinking [James] Bond Girl stepping out of a swimming pool
Am I the only one who absolutely hates how they look with wet hair and would never do that cause they'd look like an ugly 300yo disney villain
i’m so dumb. i thought everyone had the same thought process as me that when you step out of a nice bath you look best and just stare at yourself in the mirror for a while. i thought maybe people wanted to show off that look
@@melanilei honestly, that too
It just looks like they didnt finish getting ready tbh
D’Angelo, as an African who immigrated to America at 21 and now 27, I can tell you that Americans seem to have an incessant fascination with belittling Africans. Being African, intelligent, educated, and stylish doesn’t exempt you from their treatment as anomalies. It’s almost as if there’s an expectation that you’ll conform to a certain stereotype, perhaps being humble and grateful for the privilege of being in America. When you deviate from this expectation, you’re labeled as uppity, entitled, and all sorts of negative traits. The moment they hear your accent, they expect you to meet their preconceived notions, and any deviation from that is unfathomable. It’s particularly challenging when you’re queer, as it raises questions about how you can be African, queer, comfortable, and proud.
Yeah honestly such a bizarre and baffling take. I don't understand this cognitive dissonance of "Africa is a third-world continent, so poor, so underdeveloped " thinking and then the audacity of being like "actually africans are uppity" like girl what???? make up your MINDDD or better yet stop seeing africa as a monolith of one giant negative strerotype or the other
Beautifully said
Similar treatment when you're from The Caribbean, no matter which island (every American will call you Jamaican anyway.) I suppose the worst treatment is reserved for our Haitian brothers and sisters, you can see it on the news and all over Twitter right now, and for what?
In my very limited experience, actually uppity Africans don’t have an obvious accent, as they’ve spent most of their life IN the US. But, like, that’s not really an African thing; it’s an insanely wealthy thing. It’s universal. I will say, even the brattiest of African clients I’ve worked with do an excellent job of pointing out exactly how little Americans know about Africa.
@shaynestanz1 what are people saying about Haitians now
I've never listened to Chappells music, but all of the stuff I've seen online about her talking back to rude people makes me happy. She doesn't owe that photographer kindness, ESPECIALLY after him yelling to "shut the fuck up". Like she doesn't even owe him breath and could have just walked away after that, she gave him the kindness of her attention and gave him the same attitude he gave her, as is fair.
Treat others the way you want to be treated or be treated how you deserve.
The reason i love Chappell the most is because she actually seems real like she actually got famous overnight and hollywood hasn't got to her and she doesn't put on a fake personality like she's actually just herself.
Me crying with you earlier this day and now see this and being happy that you actually reviewed it now
literally lol
I've been thinking about that video all day and now I have something to watch while I eat :)
Him and Film Cooper are like my *comfort* comfort yters
@@kiingsomniia omg FRRRRRR I love them both
I am still not over how beautiful Chapell Roans outfit was. I think it was the best outfit I have ever seen. I was already obsessed with chain-mail and this was such a great look.
I got so excited because she's setting a standard for weird girlies everywhere to start wearing their favorite ethereal dresses and pull out their weapons ❤❤❤
The green velvet coat with the long train that she wore over the diaphanous gown was so absolutely incredible.
and its joan of arc inspired at that!!
The reaction to Chappell roan is middle school teacher thinking. How do people act rudely towards others and not expect people to snap back
Chappell’s stance against the stalking and harrassment that celebrities get from the paparazzi and their own fans was very much needed. I’m glad she’s being so firm about her boundaries and that she’s not afriad to set them.
no because yall are NOT gonna attack my girl tyla for not being able to hold the award, LOOK at her. she’s tiny 😭 and she was sweet about it, “can you hold this please? thank you, im sorry”. yall need to leave black women alone im over it
Totally agree. Olivia Rodrigo did the same thing previously and there was no backlash. So yes, it's about race. And yes, it's people of colour doing the backlash. Classic black on black hate.
She doesn't identify as Black though.
@@ericae.6547 you cannot be fckin serious. she literally posted a tweet at people like YOU saying she never denied her blackness. she’s black, mixed with several other things. check ur facts and go away
@@ericae.6547yes she does. IN HER WORDS: “I am both coloured in South Africa and a black woman.” go away and stop denying black women of their blackness.
@@ericae.6547 correct. She is Cape Malay. In South Africa, we identify as Coloured or Cape Malay.
the Tyla hate is veery forced. it's crazy because she literally said please (twice), thank you AND sorry. not sure how much nicer she could have been about that request lmao
Thank you yes I am so tired of women's actual WORDS being ignored like literally WHAT ELSE CAN WE DO please listen to the effort coming out of our faces thanks
It’s not forced
And her arrogant fans certainly don’t help matters
@@SoupSand867 it is forced because none of it makes sense. she was not rude, she has never ever been rude. it feels like people are more mad that she refuses to assimilate and is a proud young african girl on a very international platform, which is why they make comments like "entitled uppity african". they want her to perform the role of a humble quiet person, no doubt pointed specifically towards her because of the stereotype that africans are lowly and humble and should be grateful for the world's scraps - that is literally all just rooted in xenophobia. people are trying very hard to find ANYTHING to throw at her and hoping it sticks. how dreadfully boring.
The uppity African comment gave me all I needed to know about some peoples intentions. The xenophobia is something else.
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You know what i think... chapell having gone through the whole "got offered a label, signed then didnt make it and is now thriving" has made her not afraid of losing it again... I love her for standing up for herself, its refreshing and im here for it ❤
Just stop harassing women (and people in general). I know when i walk to work (a one mile walk), I expect to be catcalled or heckled at least three times. Imagine how much more often Chappell Roan has to hear similar things. I'm glad someone is actually speaking about this issue. Can we just let people live their lives?
You definitely don't get cat called three plus times a day, and even if you do, guaranteed when that stops, you'll be wishing it didn't. Stay humble.
@@chandracox6814awww don't worry, the mysogynists who hate women will pick you all the same, sweetie.
@@chandracox6814 Yikes. Not sure what happened in your personal life but only a very disturbed individual would wish that upon someone. Don't internalize your hatred towards women and find therapy so you can learn to humanize your own gender. Stay unashamed of being a woman, because you deserve basic human respect no matter guy, girl, or whichever. Hope this helped
@@chandracox6814idk how to word this politely so I'm not gonna try. STFU 😊
@chandracox6814 crazy ass thing to say. def something someone who's never been verbally harassed would say.
Something that I have been enjoying is that there seems to be a community of people who have been consistently watching your videos, and it kinda makes me feel a part of something. Whether you are watching during lunch, or listening like it’s a podcast on your drive home, you a part of a little collective slice of the internet. Have a great day!!
A man screaming 'shut the fuck up' at a woman- wow, so original. I don't care the context, girl was absolutely right in telling him off. It's not simply answering rudeness with rudeness, it's protecting oneself's dignity when being confronted with degrading behavior by men.
The amount of people saying that Tyla doesn't understand American culture over the tinest things is soooo annoying. Like an American artist could do everything shes doing and no one would bat an eye. Same energy as with Chappell tbh. I personally think Chappell is pretty chill? Like how is it entitled to not want people harassing in your day to day life
I'll defend Chappell with my life tbh im not even into celebrity idolizing culture but she does NOT deserve all the controversy for what she did
No seriously because it’s literally the industry and public ganging up on her. How many Britney’s need to be sacrificed on the alter of public opinion before we learn our lesson?
@@JauntyCrepeThe media and the general public will never learn, I don’t think. Hate is the only form of expression for many people. Hate, and nothing else.
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I really hate that the media paints her as "crazy" for acting the way she does, which is fucking normal. Especially because she's been open with her mental health struggles.
But you are idolizing Chappell haha
I think if the plaid for taylors outfit was switched to like a leather and belts were tacked on it could be a really sick bloodborne outfit
or a first draft of a sick bloodborne outfit
The plaid would have been fine if it was a McQueen or Vivienne Westwood, but girly went to Dior for a punk/edgy look, that was her biggest mistake.
@@Soulcrash3oh, vivienne westwood would’ve KILLED this look for her. now you’ve got me mourning what could’ve been😔
@@alexmun7391 It could have been so iconic and the draft clearly had potential... thanks for commenting the right spelling btw.
Yea I wish that middle black skirt piece was pleaded also, that would have been dope.
People being mad that Chappel Roan is telling them to stop being abusive and weird, is fucking weird. Like if you think she's being rude or ungrateful, you are telling on yourself. Clearly being nice and asking kindly doesn't work with most people- we have seen this for years. Get over it and treat everyone respectfully.
Aside from Chappell, I noticed how the internet is foaming to dunk on Tyla. And its always the most “not offensive if you have common sense” ahh sht
In another video it shows that the photographer was mad and yelled at her bc she "missed the mark." Her response was 100% valid.
I never thought I'd see the day where asking for help is rude...
You are so right for Paris’ placement, babes did a trend (even if it was ugly) and still outdid everyone else who tried it. She just understands how to deliver a trend in her own style. Infinite Icon
"Y'all gotta stop placing celebrities and other people in these situations where there is no correct way of responding and then proceeding to get mad at said celebrities for not responding correctly."
100% on target. I do not understand why people think that just because these people are well known and got money, they are supposed to be okay with being basically stalked all the time and shouted at. They aren't robots. I don't even like most of them but people have to stop acting like just because they're famous, they have to put up with what boil down to human rights violations on the daily.
If it would be okay for Joe Nobody to scream back at somebody harassing them, it shouldn't suddenly be wrong to stand up for yourself just because 10 million people recognise you.
First off, you're an absolute legend, I love your continuous, beautiful confidence. You are always stylish, and I absolutely love your intelligence and realness. As for the backlash issues, I agree w you, so goofy. I just learned of Chapelle Roan in the last 3-4 weeks, and she's grown on me. I love her music, her goofy and wonderful style, and unapologetic attitude. People love when celebs or artists are true to themselves and don't ass-kiss for the fame, but then hate them for the same thing. She is real and sticks to who she is, and I respect it.
I like your opinions and grading on the many fashion choices here. I metaphorically run to see each new video you upload. You've hit an incredible stride with this type of content. Love every one!
who wouldn't think D'angelo is a fashion expert? his outfit aesthetics are off the chart
and his little background
Same outfit for 20 vids straight
@@zafaran77 is it a bad outfit tho?
no it's not. my point stands
@@brynniefresh9746 of course. it's beautiful, adds to the overall aesthetics
right, reuse doesn't mean bad, it just fits the theme for this era of the channel lol
it's like a uniform or dress code cause he's doing the professor bit right now
The video from yesterday made me feel so seen. It made us all feel seen. It has been a tough time finding happiness, and your video encapsulated so perfectly what a lot of us are dealing with. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Can’t wait to laugh at this one :)
People want diva but they can't handle Chappell Roan. she can never do any wrong in my eyes
They can't handle my girl tyla either 😭 She reminds me of an early rihanna
They can NEVER make me hate her NEVER
@@heathersnumber1fan exactly!! I'm tired of seeing women in the industry get torn apart by men in positions of power, the press, and annoying bitches on social media. these people are not exempt from criticism but the kind of vitriolic intolerance they receive from all sides constantly is borderline abusive.
I don't understand how paparazzis are even legal, like outside of events if it was just a regular joe going around and constantly following a woman taking pictures it would be considered stalking, harassment and illegal, but because she's famous it's normal and it's considered an actual job?? Make it make sense
chappell roan they could never make me hate you. she's gonna unionize the pop girlies.
Charli Xcx wasn’t physically there but her paper shredder absolutely owned the evening’s looks
Charli xbox 360 you'll always be famous 😍
She should have been there 😢
the Tyla situation is so unhinged 😂 if i were her and it was too heavy i would of been very disrespectful by putting it on the GROUND
My adhd asss would’ve left it there too after the speech 😂
Same same
I wish she'd have done that instead at this point. I'm not even a huge fan of her music honestly-- Arya Star is more my style. But the hate she gets for such stupid, basically xenophobic reasons is so dumb.
@@no.6377No you don’t. They would have said she was disrespectful and didn’t appreciate the award. Basically, they are fishing 🎣 because they haven’t fully embraced her.
they just hate to see women standing up for themselves or giving the same energy back... like boo hoo shes not a doormat ?? if some random person told me to shut up for no reason then i wouldnt sit there and give them what they want
@@hoordeyah i genuinely would not care omg. celebs are people too and they are entitled to the same reactions anyone else would have if someone disrespected them. so idk why youre trying to cause an argument over your own fantasies lmao
@@hoordeyahLol now your making stuff up and trying to pass it off as something we'd do. No, it only crossed your mind cause it's something you'd do.
@@hoordeyah Only a crazy person would say this
i'm more mad Chappell didn't cleave the dude in half with that sword ngl
also wet hair was a trend in end 90s-mid 2000s. i partook. i thank every single god the internet wasn't a big thing back then
So what Tyla was supposed to bend down in that little dress and heels?! Like?! The award is 7 lbs 💀
Seeing this after having watched your previous video, where you said you were going to film this right after, is actually so powerful because it conceptualizes how you never know what someone is going through when you look at them from afar of just at surface level. I'm happy you expressed the fun you were having with yt these days and how you've gotten better at dealing with things but as someone who thankfully doesn't deal with depression, I'm still grateful at the insight. It's one thing to know something but another to see it for yourself.
Also Chappell Roan's outfit was everything. I'm praying for a knight core fashion moment actually.
The Tyla backlash is definitely rooted in something else because it makes zero sense how desperate some people online are to cancel her.
Nope! Eddie Murphy wouldn’t even hold THEE Michael Jackson’s award. She was weird to ask that of someone, especially when she was seen posing and holding the award later with one hand.
Its probably xenophobia
Yeah it was rude for her to do that on national tv, same for Blake situation. A lot of peoples unnecessary hate is uncalled for both women.
@@Thedarkestblackisstillblue I guarantee you if anyone else would’ve done that and they were from the US people would’ve called them uppity or said that they were wrong
@simplysafiyah But in the video he showed Olivia Rodrigo doing the same thing and I haven't heard ANY controversy about her??
Sabrinas VMA dress...was actually Madonnas VMA dress first. She asked Sabrina if she would like to wear it!
love her so much
fashion girl here, wet hair trend is for sex appeal! think sirens, girls in bikinis, fresh out of a shower, a lot of wet hair situations r due to sexy things. plus it just looks pretty i think :)
10:02 did people not see Chappell also struggling to hold the award as well as her diary?? I was hoping someone would come help her hold it LMAO so go Tyla for asking?? I'm so confused lol
I'm SO here for D'Angelo just not forgiving the suits. As someone who just doesn't have opinions on fashion, I absolutely agree that men should step it up
the paparazzi guy did yell “shut the fuck up chappell” specifically and i think she was well within her rights to yell back. He definitely only said it to get a rise out of her for a picture though
"Maybe we shouldn't eat the rich bc they have no taste" 🔥🔥🔥
This whole tyla thing is exactly why a lot of people say that people on the internet are soooooo easily offended.
Chappell Roan - Is an example to all young women and girls. This is how I wish I could be. How I hope I have brought by my daughters. I hope she keeps going. I hope the trash tabloid rags don't dull her spark. Im so so glad there is someone in the media like her standing for herself and showing younger girls its OK to take up space and say no.
The contrast between men and women outfits are wild, really reflects the social conditioning we all go through in society, are we really presenting ourselves in our own image, or in the image that compliant with societal norms, if all these wealthy men and women cant express themselves truly, how do ordinary expect to achieve this
Also another note, that the only man to actually have an interesting outfit that's a clear expression of themselves, its the one of the few gay men present. which to me, means that coming out of the closet is not just about sexuality. but it's about shedding the shell forced upon by society and letting the butterfly out
If you look at men's fashion before the 1800s, anyone who could afford it was FLASHY. Then things started to get boring, and there's plenty of content on YT about that.
The trophy's weight is clearly a problem, but folks would rather blame the person who has to carry it? People are weird.
they should have a podium, she wasn’t the only one with a problem
For 40 long years, they’ve handed out this award, and at last, we’re able to address the unbearable burden a celebrity must endure-standing for a full minute on national television, holding that award for their achievements. I’m so relieved we’re finally talking about it because something must be done! The only place they should be expected to hold it, is when they’re getting their photos and not a minute sooner!
the Tyla hate train is honestly so forced, some ppl just don't like seeing a pretty face, with confidence, and raw talent take up any space
Nah, people are just suspicious. It is not forced at all. It is really easy in the conspiracy era of this country. Anyone can become a villain. Call it the post Demonic Diddy /Katt Williams exposing / Harvey Weinstein/ Britney Spears abuse age. A former President just accused people of eating cats and he still has a good chance of winning. Who knows who will be next? It is a weird time.
the o my thing im really upset about is them not matching the color of her undies not the necklace, dress, OR shoes 😔 not even an attempt to make it look like skin either just bright green under there
@@eclectic3454 wait really?!! i thought the neon green added a nice pop to the whole fit. but i can see where you’d coming from w wanting clean matching colors. that would’ve been fye 2
Im not mad at her im just over the fact they are overlooking well deserving afrobeats artists for her generic, watered down version of it, but i cant be mad at her for them giving her these awards...
I remember when people tried to say she isn’t “black” because she was mixed. A woman who deadass grew up in South Africa isn’t “black” but mixed artists in the US are still allowed is WILD.
I'm always surprised when people react negatively to celebrities shouting at or even striking paparazzi. Especially after Princess Diana, I'm really surprised that paparazzi aren't considered basically the scum of the earth
Chappell Roan was right to speak out, right to defend herself and that outfit is iconic. Keep slaying, queen, use that sword
The mention of the Umbrella academy made me realize that I would LOVE to see D’angelo tear apart s4
I would actually watch s4 just to better appreciate the video.
chappell’s outfit is SO iconic.
I want it so badly, I don’t care if I have no place to wear it, it’s so flowy soft looking
she looked sooo good UGH i love her
Who would ever think that a professional music producer would want to use HEARING PROTECTION
Yea, it was immediately obvious that he was just using earplugs. A reasonable thing to do when a room is too loud. People live to invent drama 😂
Your video yesterday was really touching. I really appreciate you putting it out there.
The same people mad at Chappell Roan are ALSO the same who loooove Trump for “being so unfiltered.” 🙄
I'm realizing how much ppl believe folks should just shut up and take abuse. Why be polite in the face of aggression? Who does that serve? It only protects bullies.
Love Chappell Roan for telling the paparazzi to shut the f*ck up. It was very iconic and the guy needed to be humbled. Love it when celebrities set boundaries, they're not court jesters, they don't have to be nice to rude interviewers and paparazzis
"We love you D'Angelo" we all say in unison
WE LOVE YOU D'ANGELO 🤖‼️📣
Yes!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
we love you d'angelo!!
Chappell's responses in general make me think of a toxic office environments. You have managers (paparazzo) micro managing, asking for overtime, expecting you to be checking work out of work hours and honestly have no job without you there for them to talk down to and direct into positions they want you, in most instances. Then someone comes in with self respect and boundaries deemed rude because the others before them bent over backwards out of fear they wouldn't get the favorable treatment and praise of those who don't even offer anything without them there doing their job.
What’s happening to Chappell is literally reaction abuse. Its when people put all the blame and criticism on the person reacting rather than on what made them react like that in the first place. People were harassing her family and someone tried to kiss her and yet her calling them out is wrong, someone yells at her and yet her yelling back is whats wrong. I honestly feel so bad for her.
Daaamn glorilla had the best look of the night those PANTS don’t even look real!!! Amazing
It would look better without the implants
@@elainekellogg6345 why are her implants any of your business?
@@JasmineBurnett-pd8bz why is my opinion any of your business
Katy Perry out here looking like the ruined baseball props from the Sandlot 💀
Hahaha 😂
Taylor Swift's outfit actually would rock on anyone willing to do something slightly fucked up with their hair to commit to the look, but uhh.
Yeah no I actually kinda liked it, if she went just slightly edgier with it, it would look great. Didn’t really like the way he used the edginess/ hot topicish vibe as an insult. 😭
Agreed. It’s like the styling didn’t go far enough, so it comes off as more of a big box Halloween costume than a look. And I think there was even a way to do it AND still look more polished than punk, a la Bratz Dolls or Monster High.
no bc wearing earplugs at concerts is literally so good!!!! u still get to feel the bass in ur body and hear whats gotta b heard without having to deal w ur ears ringing for the whole next day and long-term hearing loss
You nailed it with “ a Jane Austin character trapped in a Hot Topic”😂
It's so good to see you doing a fun thing you wanted to do! Today is a just survive day for me. It's always good to have a reminder that when the fog lifts, the fun things will still be there waiting.
D'Angelo, coming from your previous video, I want you to know how much of a light you are to my day. Since you started making RUclips videos again, I show my husband everything you make and talk about it like it's my report to him for the day. I, too, struggle with depression (OCD) and it can be difficult navigating this world feeling alone. Thank you for your strength to be vulnerable and share. I hope that you have a light to your day everyday too
Is anyone else getting the sense we've seen half of these fits back in the late 00's and early 2010's? Like the rips, the cut outs, the bra tops,, the silhouettes, it's all feeling very familiar?
from what I heard, this year was the VMA’s 40th anniversary so people were trying to dress from different eras
This series is incredible! Thank you!
8:21 that fit is actually so so so so insanely awesome. she looks straight out of a comic strip 🤯
Ngl Tyla gets a 10/10 from me for the hair alone. She’s straight up GORGEOUS even with the horrible dress 😭
wow, never been so early to Judiciary Jazz Studies class before.
Maybe I should switch from my major in astrological marketing
I always see peoople speculating about Tyla's weight and health online so I think her being perceived as "too weak" to hold an award is probably blood in the water for the worst kind of discoursers out there. "She's body checking" or she's just trying not to hold an envelope.
That's weird because it's not like she's unable to bacardi dance she's a good dance and has stamina
It's giving thin envy😂
I kind of love tylas look 🤭 like the MTV colour reference, the green underwear, the heels??? The hair??? Idk it’s just giving. Idk what but it’s giving
Uppity African is crazy. People need to get a hobby 😭