I Am Not That Girl

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @Bunnies1998.
    @Bunnies1998. 9 лет назад +971

    Any girl whose best friend is "that girl" will know how painful it can be. To walk out of your door feeling good because you styled your hair differently or because you're wearing a new outfit. Only to meet your friend who looks out of this world and suddenly that confidence is lost. Then to be out with her and watching every single guy look at her and smile at her and talk to her. While you wait at the side. To regretfully mistake a guy talking to her, talking to you and to feel your self esteem shatter as you hear "no not you. That was meant for the hot girl" and to watch her giggle and smile unaware of that small but incredibly significant moment of your life that has broken down. To feel like you live in the shadow of "that girl" that you are invisible and will never be appreciated. To fall asleep every night thinking "whats wrong with me? What is she doing that I'm not?"
    Ive realised now that I dont need to measure my confidence by male attention as said in this video. I have confidence in myself. As long as I look in the mirror before I walk out of the door and think "wow I look great" that's all that matters.

    • @Savia325
      @Savia325 9 лет назад +48

      Samantha Murray wow beautifully said! I find the easiest way to accept your flaws is to remind yourself everyday "I am enough." as simple as that sentence is , it has helped me tremendously

    • @inde9044
      @inde9044 9 лет назад +1

      Reminds me of a story from "And the Mountains Echoed" by Khaled Hosseini.

    • @kaitheianitefollower3114
      @kaitheianitefollower3114 9 лет назад +11

      I had a good friend that left me to become "That Girl" she doesn't talk to me anymore because she is now apparently too good to hang out with her old friends :(

    • @Bunnies1998.
      @Bunnies1998. 9 лет назад +11

      KaiTheIaniteFollower yeah my best friend done the same once she got into a relationship, it sucks but I realised I don't need her and honestly, im doing better now

    • @B1A4LUV
      @B1A4LUV 9 лет назад +8

      +Samantha Murray yes, I know how that feels. It's not like I don't get jealous. She even stole all my friends without meaning to. But I got over the fact and just accepted that life isn't fair, and what keeps me going I that one day, one person will find me more beautiful than her, than anyone. And I know I'm your typical ugly Asian, fat with small eyes. Not something I can help, but hey, my blobs look great!

  • @kaylavictoria5360
    @kaylavictoria5360 9 лет назад +3822

    This literally me cry because ever since I was in second grade I remember always being the girl that was quiet and not good at anything like all the other girls. I always remember being chosen last, and never being pretty compared to the other girls. Sadly it's still like this, and sometimes I wonder if I'm uglier than what I see myself

    • @gloriacamacho9294
      @gloriacamacho9294 9 лет назад +57

      I can relate to you, honestly. I still do. But you know what's important? The way you think about yourself. Your appearance shouldn't matter to anyone else. It should matter to you. If you want to dress a certain way, go ahead and do it. Make yourself appear the way you want to appear. Not the way you think someone else would want you to appear. Make yourself happy by showing yourself who you really are. Try to tell yourself everyday in the mirror, " I am beautiful." It'll be hard at first, but it will work. It will help with the way you look at yourself. I don't know you, and I don't know how you look, but you ARE beautiful. Don't let anyone or anything bring you down. Try to bring yourself up instead.

    • @sadbhmoran6970
      @sadbhmoran6970 9 лет назад +7

      +Kayla Selenator There's this rumour going around that everyone sees themselves 10x prettier than they actually are, but in reality, we all see ourselves 1.5x worse than what really really look like, so keep that in mind and try to stay strong until you find someone who loves you the way you are

    • @nicolesakwe1973
      @nicolesakwe1973 9 лет назад +8

      +Kayla Selenator oh honey...you are making me cry. You are more than what people and the world make you feel. I used to feel that way and sometimes I still do. I am still the same person who does not fit in anywhere and it gets hard and really lonely at times, but it is getting better. I learned that accepting myself for who I am and loving myself goes a long way. Most people will tell you that you will find someone or a place in the world...I say accept yourself for who you are. We cannot all be the same, what makes you even more unhappy is to try to be who you are not. Do not run from it, embrace it. We are all flawed and you just have to take deep breath everyday and let what you are meant to be, come to you. Don't chase it. Don't search for it. Just relax and it will come.

    • @gaabrielaochoa
      @gaabrielaochoa 9 лет назад +3

      You know...you might think you aren't pretty. But you are. You are beautiful for sure. Can't you see it? Look yourself in the mirror and that girl is the one i am. That girl is me and i'm happy. Keep being and trying to be happy. Because YOU are beautiful.

    • @crazycaldwell8346
      @crazycaldwell8346 9 лет назад +1

      I agree I was like that too

  • @PoonamKumari-eq4nl
    @PoonamKumari-eq4nl 6 лет назад +3319

    But I think she is really pretty! Who said that she's not beautiful? People need a beautiful heart not a beautiful face.

    • @synoviabethell949
      @synoviabethell949 5 лет назад +7

      Right

    • @1ly655
      @1ly655 5 лет назад +20

      She is speaking for everybody actually.

    • @palomavonwood3423
      @palomavonwood3423 5 лет назад +3

      💓💓💓

    • @PrincessKLS
      @PrincessKLS 5 лет назад +31

      Shreya kumari The sad truth is, it’s easier for people who are part of the “accepted beauty” culture than people who aren’t.

    • @kzn4875
      @kzn4875 5 лет назад +13

      Before you can see someones heart, you see their face and body, you judge them, we all judge others, and if that person is somewhat attractive to you, you want to get to know them, that's when you figure out their personality, beliefs, intentions etc. so called "heart"

  • @okaysouls
    @okaysouls 6 лет назад +6944

    _this is what every girl needs to hear_

  • @normanisqueen5028
    @normanisqueen5028 7 лет назад +978

    *We live in a world where pretty matters its heartbraking*

    • @pale_nail_artpalenails5431
      @pale_nail_artpalenails5431 5 лет назад +11

      Normanisqueen *heartbreaking 😅

    • @sleepypanda9374
      @sleepypanda9374 5 лет назад

      That's true

    • @synoviabethell949
      @synoviabethell949 5 лет назад

      Ikr

    • @gamerkey8278
      @gamerkey8278 5 лет назад +2

      At least it's just social standards, unlike in Korea where it's better than an education

    • @ameliataylor4012
      @ameliataylor4012 5 лет назад +1

      Bruh your comment is literally incoherent; I think you meant
      -
      “We live in a world where pretty matters: It’s heartbreaking”

  • @chumpy3224
    @chumpy3224 8 лет назад +2380

    Literally my sister is that girl, it kinda sucks to constantly be compared to her.

    • @Jules-so6lz
      @Jules-so6lz 8 лет назад +90

      Courtney Humphreys Same. I'm constantly told "your sister is so pretty and beautiful." Just the other day my "friend" went up to me and said I was the uglier version of my sister.

    • @katelessard9397
      @katelessard9397 8 лет назад +19

      xAnnaa having a twin means your constantly compared to each other and it's taking a mental toll on both of us

    • @bobe5608
      @bobe5608 8 лет назад +1

      Courtney Humphreys same

    • @unapologeticcornball1826
      @unapologeticcornball1826 7 лет назад +2

      yup..same

    • @pricilaleon2098
      @pricilaleon2098 7 лет назад

      Courtney Humphreys same

  • @milaacquanita9410
    @milaacquanita9410 9 лет назад +1350

    Honestly teared up a little bit.

  • @acelovesdiyschristopher7023
    @acelovesdiyschristopher7023 5 лет назад +537

    The amount of times I've cried in a bathroom, avoided people seeing my tears, spent time in a bathroom drying and clearing up my red eyes, asked why i was different, or asked what's wrong with me is not able to be counted.

    • @torip.9734
      @torip.9734 5 лет назад +7

      AceLovesDIYs Christopher me too

    • @lotussarah_
      @lotussarah_ 5 лет назад +8

      mee too but everything will be alright ❤❤❤

    • @fatema861
      @fatema861 4 года назад +5

      i relate too much with you. this gives me the feels

    • @fadilamk7141
      @fadilamk7141 4 года назад +2

      Mee too

    • @elberika93
      @elberika93 3 года назад +2

      Me too

  • @lolzlillie
    @lolzlillie 9 лет назад +4147

    My best friend is "that girl"....I have to walk next to her everyday acting like it doesn't bother me....I have to listen to her boast about guys and her "cooler friends" and I've always felt almost worthless but this video empowered me, it's made me think that I wasn't letting myself be the best I can be and appreciating who I am and how I was made! I don't have to be "that girl" because I am me.

    • @kendrabeewings
      @kendrabeewings 9 лет назад +78

      Lillie Bench I had a best friend who was "that girl" for my first year in college. She knew everybody, everybody knew her, and when I showed up by myself, people would ask me where she was. It got to the point where my own insecurity and jealousy made me stop being friends with her. And the sad thing is, I think I really did need to figure thing out by myself, figure out how to be content within myself, before I could handle being next to someone like her.

    • @lolzlillie
      @lolzlillie 9 лет назад +56

      Kendra Beewings I've been friends with this girl for over 6 years and watched her grow more popular and more attractive whereas I feel crap...I feel like I'm just acting jealous a lot of the time and it's ends up costing our friendship :/ I've recently fell out with her and even though I don't feel too confident when I'm out with her, I mis spending time and having a laugh with her

    • @kendrabeewings
      @kendrabeewings 9 лет назад +26

      Lillie Bench​ I totally get that. I loved my friend. And I'm still totally bummed that we didn't stay close. But I was able to grow a lot more away from her than I did with her. Sometimes you have to take yourself away from a trigger so that you can learn how to react to it.

    • @lolzlillie
      @lolzlillie 9 лет назад +14

      Kendra Beewings but she's also helped me grown as a person over the years and it's so hard to let go of a friendship you've had for so long.....at times we can be so close and like sisters but there's time where she pushes me away and get involved with random guys and go out with groups of people to drink, do drugs and I feel like she has a better time with those sort of people and that I'm almost forcing her to hang out with me!! I don't want to let go of a friendship purely because I'm jealous but idk how I feel, whether it's her or me

    • @smh6234
      @smh6234 9 лет назад +1

      Lillie Bench even though this is true for the most part, girls can get any guy they want

  • @caldwellconnolly6828
    @caldwellconnolly6828 8 лет назад +622

    I'm the girl who's not thin 'enough'.
    I'm the girl who's waist isn't small enough.
    I'm the girl who's not funny and interesting enough.
    I'm the girl no one looks at.
    I'm the girl who can't make friends.
    I'm the girl constantly worried about living my entire life alone
    I'm the girl that worries about the flaws in every single thing she does.
    I'm the girl that tries to hide herself, because she's afraid that she'll come off as annoying or arrogant.

    • @nicolettajagst1404
      @nicolettajagst1404 8 лет назад +5

      Ariana Lewis na Lewis one day there's going to be someone you'll be enough for. someone who can only look at you and doesn't understand what he (or she) did to deserve someone like you. one day you won't hide anymore and you won't think about your flaws because you realize that everyone has them and they make you perfect and exactly who you are. one day you won't worry about being alone because you see that you only need a few people in your life. and those will be your best friends and you could have never asked for better friends. so just wait and don't worry everything is hoing to fall in place soon enough

    • @Kuzcoassfart
      @Kuzcoassfart 7 лет назад +10

      I'm the girl who is never alone.
      I have boys all over me.
      Many people who want to be friends.
      Surrounded by love.
      Yet I sill feel alone.
      All eyes are on me.
      Which makes me insecure.
      I'm that girl who will never understand what others see in me.

    • @memyselfandi6184
      @memyselfandi6184 7 лет назад +1

      If you want to have a friend then here I am.. not judging you for who you are...💖

    • @karma5321
      @karma5321 7 лет назад +2

      Omg😭😭 if ya need help you can always talk to me💕

    • @averytim
      @averytim 7 лет назад +6

      Caldwell Connolly you are that girl who is confident enough to voice her insecurities and that, my beautiful friend, is true beauty. ❤️❤️

  • @ArielOnlineNow
    @ArielOnlineNow 8 лет назад +3162

    I'm the girl who's in tears right now.

  • @whzel
    @whzel 6 лет назад +1535

    0:12 am I the only one who heard him yell NOODLE and then she goes oOH

  • @nandinidhawan3916
    @nandinidhawan3916 7 лет назад +3920

    I can relate to all this, seriously. It was like this girl was just an actress and playing me.

    • @sharanyambhat3139
      @sharanyambhat3139 7 лет назад +1

      Nandini Dhawan same here

    • @RemitheRat274
      @RemitheRat274 7 лет назад +1

      Nandini Dhawan ikr

    • @jimenagomez4896
      @jimenagomez4896 6 лет назад +1

      Nandini Dhawan I'm not that girl and i feel worthless

    • @alinatheduck583
      @alinatheduck583 6 лет назад +1

      Nandini Dhawan same Here, I relate to this so much it’s scary lmao

    • @edenmortality5155
      @edenmortality5155 6 лет назад +3

      Same here sadly I hate myself so much and how I can never fit in with the other girls

  • @irisshin4975
    @irisshin4975 9 лет назад +6448

    I'm THAT girl who stays inside 24/7 and asks why I have no friends... /:

  • @Tennantphile
    @Tennantphile 9 лет назад +487

    I am not THAT girl, I am THIS girl.
    The girl who doesn't need no man or rudeness, the girl who is pretty on her own and doesn't need no ones opinion. A girl who is confident and offers hand to others, and I am sure you are THIS girl :)

    • @inacatfish2008
      @inacatfish2008 9 лет назад

      paѕтel grυnge Someone's sensitive.

    • @Tennantphile
      @Tennantphile 9 лет назад

      Ina Catfish you are lol.
      Nice name tho

    • @inacatfish2008
      @inacatfish2008 9 лет назад

      paѕтel grυnge I'm laughing out loud? This doesn't even make sense. And thanks, it's very hard for me to think of a name that doesn't sound ridiculous.

    • @Tennantphile
      @Tennantphile 9 лет назад

      Ina Catfish i ate catfish before... very nasty :/

    • @inacatfish2008
      @inacatfish2008 9 лет назад

      paѕтel grυnge Really? I generally dislike eating fish.

  • @mfclown485
    @mfclown485 5 лет назад +1990

    You don’t need
    •to be the tiniest
    •to be the healthiest
    •to be the curviest
    •to be the girliest
    •to be the most rich
    •to be the most popular
    •to be the best in your job
    •to be the best in your school
    •to be the most talkative
    •to be the most attractive
    •to have the best hair
    •to have the best skin
    •to have the best teeth
    •to have the best house
    •to have de best car
    •to have the best family
    •to have the best mental health
    Or anything like these
    To be the best you
    You just have to be and love yourself;if you love yourself, than people will love you too❤️

    • @jhonmoscoso3506
      @jhonmoscoso3506 5 лет назад +9

      I totally agree with you :) Thanks for writting it

    • @anna.9027
      @anna.9027 5 лет назад +7

      Thanks, this made my day 😄

    • @arkivetan
      @arkivetan 5 лет назад +1

      Tbh Nobody maybe she/he meant like the skinniest?

    • @sapphiresushi3437
      @sapphiresushi3437 5 лет назад +1

      Well image does send a message to the people around you. Basic hygiene is important. If people see that you love yourself enough to take care of yourself, eat healthy, brush your teeth, you know?

    • @mfclown485
      @mfclown485 5 лет назад +1

      Pastel Xz me too and people always say that but that makes me myself so I love that I talk too much,and I am happy that I am talking instead of being quiet

  • @prettyeyes3849
    @prettyeyes3849 9 лет назад +2669

    I can relate to this 100%. I used to worry about "That girl" until I saw how much more I meant. Great job! *claps claps claps*

    • @JohnSmith-wk9wv
      @JohnSmith-wk9wv 9 лет назад +1

      Don't worry about "That girl" she's just minding her own business! What you need to worry about is finding a man to validate your existence! It doesn't matter how hot, or not you are, so long as there's a man in your life who thinks you're beautiful! 👫

    • @siratisastar15
      @siratisastar15 9 лет назад +12

      John Smith are you for real

    • @siratisastar15
      @siratisastar15 9 лет назад +8

      John Smith and no, that's not a complement

    • @genirusso
      @genirusso 9 лет назад +11

      John Smith I hope you said with sarcasm :/

    • @sympeathien
      @sympeathien 9 лет назад +2

      ***** looool game of Thrones reference! Love it :D

  • @bizzlex1dxcabellox705
    @bizzlex1dxcabellox705 7 лет назад +2392

    That‘s Deep.

  • @LittleghOstGreen
    @LittleghOstGreen 8 лет назад +124

    who else wants to give a hug to the lady in the video ?

  • @pinktoadstool179
    @pinktoadstool179 5 лет назад +876

    Throws away expensive makeup
    Me : yes good statement but honey makeup is expensive

  • @pahamabg5312
    @pahamabg5312 9 лет назад +1305

    I sincerely think that flaws are what make someone beautiful, more "human", more "real". :-)

    • @youofthetube8280
      @youofthetube8280 9 лет назад +1

      Yaaassss

    • @MrPranker247
      @MrPranker247 9 лет назад +1

      Yes me too...

    • @neomint3369
      @neomint3369 9 лет назад +2

      then i guess that means i better bash in my teeth and jack up my nose if i want to be beautiful :D

    • @werewolfstrike7
      @werewolfstrike7 9 лет назад

      ***** It's unhealthy and makes the whole country look bad. Im not trying to be a dictator in what people look like. I am just saying that if you think it really is beautiful to have flaws like that, you have shit standards.

    • @glo4ever17
      @glo4ever17 9 лет назад +5

      werewolfstrike7 why do you have to be so negative though? its so unnecessary like there's enough negativity around the world why can't you be one of the few that doesn't look at everything in a bad way?

  • @ithink7241
    @ithink7241 9 лет назад +419

    I'm the girl you never notice in the halls and has her nose in her book pretending that she's occupied so no one will think she's lonely.

    • @MonicaThet
      @MonicaThet 9 лет назад +1

      Ur not the only one...... High five

    • @KaytlynDavidsonkatcrazykatie
      @KaytlynDavidsonkatcrazykatie 9 лет назад +2

      "Pretending to be occupied" omg so relatable

    • @xxJustinsTutsxx
      @xxJustinsTutsxx 9 лет назад

      +S&M same

    • @SelGomezFan825
      @SelGomezFan825 9 лет назад +1

      that's me. my friends always exclude me out of their conversations as well

    • @meebsssss71927
      @meebsssss71927 9 лет назад

      +Sabrina x same. they always leave me out and they do it as a joke but I'm just too sad to think of it that way now and they leave me out in everything and my best friend left me for this other girl and hurt me so badly. I just don't know what to do anymore. my ex best friend used to be the perfect girl who everyone likes, who can talk to boys easily, who can do makeup perfectly but she left me. please help me somebody

  • @allyyy777
    @allyyy777 6 лет назад +718

    At the end of the day I want to be that girl who loves herself

  • @idontknow7503
    @idontknow7503 5 лет назад +490

    1:50 be whatever girl you want to be but please wear socks with shoes girl

  • @missnicolearie9266
    @missnicolearie9266 7 лет назад +3819

    Anyone else think the girl in this video I REALLY pretty, especially her hair... I love it!!!!!😍😍 to me confidence is true beauty!❤️❤️

  • @saimotastars
    @saimotastars 7 лет назад +621

    I'm not that girl.
    but im this girl.
    and this girl is on FIRRRRRReeEEEEEE

  • @troopcry1235
    @troopcry1235 9 лет назад +424

    Same exact situation! Both my friends are that self centered, talkative, pretty, girls. When they start to walk away, everyone follows behind them. Me? I'm always a loner. I lack something that they have that I don't. If I try to leave, no one follows me. Less likes for instagram. My seat partner didn't even know that I went to the same school it was their first time seeing me. I'm I not that "appealing"? I try standing out. But they only talk about things they know about while I don't. World is not fair. The stronger wins and the weak dies away. Please help me....

    • @kaitheianitefollower3114
      @kaitheianitefollower3114 9 лет назад +28

      Just know that you are going to become something great, and that those people that have asked "who are you?" Will know who you are. You may feel alone, depressed, like you don't belong, I have had those same feelings, and let me tell you, it gets better. All you need to do is be you.

    • @troopcry1235
      @troopcry1235 9 лет назад +7

      KaiTheIaniteFollower Thanks! I'll try to be more confident in myself! Your comment made me cheer up ;D

    • @jessicazheng3586
      @jessicazheng3586 9 лет назад +12

      iMRS. kittcat I know exactly how you feel, I'm like that kind of girl. In my group of friends, they're all smart and pretty, but I'm always the one that's left out. They always get someone to talk to, but I'm always forgotten unless I speak up. But don't worry, you just have to let these thoughts go, don't try to be like them, you are who you are. People will soon remember who you are.

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 9 лет назад +13

      iMRS. kittcat I hate that you feel that you are weaker than other people. In my opinion, it takes strength to stand out and know how to be alone, and we have to know how to and be okay with being alone if we're ever going to be truly effective at being with others. :)

    • @deadlyshadelovesway
      @deadlyshadelovesway 9 лет назад +9

      I don't even know you but I feel the exact same way. You're not alone (:

  • @mintea5596
    @mintea5596 6 лет назад +255

    "We all know who runs the world"
    Me: Beyonce

  • @OfficialJacksonFox
    @OfficialJacksonFox 9 лет назад +1107

    I'm a guy but I can relate to everything in this.

    • @aprilwlter226
      @aprilwlter226 9 лет назад +61

      Jack Montoya Duh, of couse you do cuz your not "that girl" ur not even any girl lmao

    • @sample4751
      @sample4751 9 лет назад

      Huh ru crazy
      I only watch this i don't have anything to do

    • @ratboypopstar
      @ratboypopstar 9 лет назад +6

      I Relate dude

    • @eharry4
      @eharry4 9 лет назад +9

      Jack Montoya i am not that guy

    • @omargomez9407
      @omargomez9407 9 лет назад

      Lol

  • @aisou8334
    @aisou8334 8 лет назад +779

    My life in like 2 minutes

  • @kentiastrickland2556
    @kentiastrickland2556 9 лет назад +934

    Think about having a twin sister that's thinner than you, has beautiful long, thick hair, and flawless chocolate skin. Extroverted and everyone she meets...they love her.
    Yuh, she's THAT girl.
    Just imagine the comparisons. Ugh, it's annoying.

    • @user-oq7tj4vv5j
      @user-oq7tj4vv5j 9 лет назад +26

      Don't worry, maybe you have better qualities inside which makes you a better person! You may be smarter, wiser, or have any good qualities she doesn't have, especially if you are introverted!

    • @julestia2
      @julestia2 9 лет назад +5

      Kentia Strickland literally my life. (yes, im a twin also.)

    • @kentiastrickland2556
      @kentiastrickland2556 9 лет назад

      Bacon Yum you get mah struggle.

    • @courtney-mccaw1859
      @courtney-mccaw1859 9 лет назад +2

      Kentia Strickland I know how you feel. Everyone compares me to my twin and everyone thinks she is the better one.

    • @azza0952
      @azza0952 9 лет назад +6

      Kentia Strickland I know how you feel, i'm living in the shadow of my sister. She's the beautiful, popular, smart and skinny girl everyone likes.. And then there is me, i'm just nothing...The girl who never gets a bf because she's too ugly..I really hate it..

  • @juliabrooks3677
    @juliabrooks3677 6 лет назад +591

    I'm that girl that only has 2 friends and can't speak very well. Not to mention getting picked last in P.E. and never finding a partner since those 2 friends are younger then me. I wish I could just make some friends that aren't digital (I have a few friends on social media).

    • @viannccaa
      @viannccaa 6 лет назад +4

      Ju ju I can be your friend 😁

    • @irleen7825
      @irleen7825 6 лет назад +3

      Be yourself (I know its a cliche but i worked for me), Join clubs and try to talk to as many ppl as you can.

    • @MS-ql9he
      @MS-ql9he 6 лет назад +4

      Perfectly describes me now and when I was younger

    • @mariamalton6366
      @mariamalton6366 5 лет назад +1

      Just bear the pain you're litterally me .....

    • @KimTaeHyung-fp4pe
      @KimTaeHyung-fp4pe 5 лет назад

      girl may i just know your any fb or insta name cause i just wanna added wit u same pintch cause im also a ignore one but i just try to enjoy my own company cause everyone is busy on their own so be my friend

  • @mekamalice9698
    @mekamalice9698 9 лет назад +1183

    but she is like perfect..... her body is goals and id kill for that beautiful hair! What kinda guys would ignore her?????

    • @angellellanos8554
      @angellellanos8554 9 лет назад +113

      I agree daysha is amazing

    • @mrskissthecook
      @mrskissthecook 9 лет назад +2

      Angie Vargas She is just so cute :-)

    • @saffrodafaemax322
      @saffrodafaemax322 9 лет назад +1

      Meka Malice Omg I know right XD

    • @domhasinterests
      @domhasinterests 9 лет назад

      that's what _I'm_ tryna find out

    • @ihatethebeach2384
      @ihatethebeach2384 9 лет назад +2

      The point is that White woman get more attention then Black women, even though Black women usually have more curves and other things. Unfortunately White men are more attracted to White Women, and black men are more attracted to White women.

  • @zaarazh
    @zaarazh 7 лет назад +681

    I'm that girl who avoids social activity because of the risk of being made fun of
    I'm that girl who pretends she's okay so no one worries
    I'm that girl who wishes her skin color was lighter
    I'm that girl who can cry herself to sleep
    I'm that girl who wishes she wasn't Indian
    I'm that girl who wishes she could explain what she feeling and someone actually understand

    • @notpriya3097
      @notpriya3097 6 лет назад +36

      Gummy Bear I can relate. I am a fellow Indian girl. You're not alone. Remember that.

    • @rose-iu5ij
      @rose-iu5ij 6 лет назад +33

      Gummy Bear I'm Indian too. I'm that girl who's tired of being laughed at too

    • @samanthalollipop3832
      @samanthalollipop3832 6 лет назад +20

      Gummy Bear theres some people in this world that want to be a darker skin color like you. And that's me.

    • @j.lovaybroussard9840
      @j.lovaybroussard9840 6 лет назад +42

      Indian is beautiful. Every skin color is beautiful. You are beautiful

    • @starlygalaxy391
      @starlygalaxy391 6 лет назад +20

      Same here I hate when I'm in photos

  • @seni_oo
    @seni_oo 9 лет назад +670

    Im curious. Are there any women watching this who recognize that they are one of these girls? I know a girl who fits the first two descriptions perfectly, but if I showed her this video then I don't think she would say she is one of those girls.
    She literally broke up with her boyfriend and the next couple of days after, she had 2 boys trying to go out with her.
    Is there anyone who is aware that they are one of these girls? I'm interested.

    • @tchuuii
      @tchuuii 9 лет назад +105

      Layla Tsueen I think it's because most of the time, we consider a girl to be that kind of girl but indeed, she has complex, she doesn't believe in herself etc. For exemple, I had to reject a lot of guy, if I go to a bar, boy will offer me drink... but every day, in my mirror, I just hate myself because I think I'm fat/not beautiful etc., when I see a girl in the street I'll be like "dam' she is so beautiful/cute/funny... I want to be like her"...
      Most of the time, I think that we are "that" girl for an other girl...

    • @seni_oo
      @seni_oo 9 лет назад +1

      Melle Tchuuii ohh, I understand :) thank you

    • @PwnagePotato72
      @PwnagePotato72 9 лет назад +27

      Everyone is insecure about things.
      Even "That Girl."
      And even though to others she may seem like the most perfect and flawless person, they probably go through the many troubles just like you.
      Everyone is insecure and I don't think you say that "will a girl know she's that girl"

    • @SuziiLanette
      @SuziiLanette 9 лет назад +17

      Layla Tsueen I'm a mixture of both girls. My lack of self-confidence never allowed me to fully be the first girl. I always assumed that everyone who was nice to me and told me I was beautiful was just trying to make me look stupid when I believed them.

    • @TheChickenRiceBowl
      @TheChickenRiceBowl 9 лет назад +19

      Yes. I am aware I'm one of these girls because I've been told that since I could remember. I don't feel sorry for self described insecure wall flowers because so many of them have stabbed me in the back out of petty jealousy. It's hard to have real relationships with people because they either just want to get in your pants or you find out they talk about you behind your back out of jealousy. Insecure women like the one in this video irritate me for this reason. I don't feel sorry for them at all.

  • @violingirl4254
    @violingirl4254 4 года назад +149

    You there...
    You are beautiful, strong, smart, brave,
    And most importantly,
    You are worth it.❤

    • @sportykid7660
      @sportykid7660 4 года назад +3

      that made my night thank you

    • @preciouspayne723
      @preciouspayne723 3 года назад

      That makes my day thank u so are u u are brave and beautiful as well and don't let anyone interfere u

  • @meredith5360
    @meredith5360 7 лет назад +737

    im that girl,
    that girl who hates her body
    that girl who has a book of insecurities
    that girl who can't take a compliment, but gives them out effortlessly
    that girl who can't see what she's worth
    that girl that has what she wants but feels she doesn't deserve it
    that girl who people can laugh at
    that girl who others look at to feel better about themselves
    *I want to stop being that girl*
    I want to be that girl
    that girl who doenst think twice about self doubt
    that girl who looks in the mirror and immediately smiles
    that girl who can accept what she has
    that girl who can truly understand and accept that people love her
    that girl that turns the other cheek
    that girl who looks at herself and can say "your beautiful" almost effortlessly
    it'll take time, but some day I will be that girl
    not the girl who is conceted to a terrifying point
    not that girl who rely on makeup to his herself
    not that girl who uses male attention as a shield
    but that girl.
    that girl is different for everybody
    so really. everybody is that girl

    • @normanisqueen5028
      @normanisqueen5028 7 лет назад +7

      Meredith *your beautiful babe*

    • @arianabell8571
      @arianabell8571 7 лет назад +4

      Boi, we are legit the same person! I can’t stand myself and I hate girls like this in the video, but..... I have a man in my life who loves me and I am NOT that girl...but I am like the girl talking...

    • @anagonzaez7011
      @anagonzaez7011 7 лет назад

      Meredith thats wapa beautiful

    • @Yasmin-yc3xk
      @Yasmin-yc3xk 7 лет назад +6

      Girl i read this and i almost started crying because this relates to me so much every single sentence is true in my situation. Its not easy but we have to go through it together

    • @pleasesuggestmeauser8648
      @pleasesuggestmeauser8648 7 лет назад

      Meredith
      Same😢

  • @lestat3894
    @lestat3894 8 лет назад +575

    I love it when Daysha is in the videos ❤️ she's SOOO beautiful and just really unique

  • @swiggaswoody
    @swiggaswoody 8 лет назад +1054

    since i see everyone else doing this....
    i'm that girl who can't figure out myself.
    i'm that girl who disappoints her parents constantly.
    i'm that girl who needs help, bad.
    i'm that lonely girl who can barely make friends.
    i'm that girl that tries to be someone i'm not to make sure that no one will hate me at the end of the day.
    i'm that girl who apologizes for everything, and says excuse me nicely....but i'm also that girl who gets mad over one stupid thing, and becomes this demon in a way.
    i'm that girl who talks to my head, i'm that girl always daydreaming and just wanting something more than a brain as a coping mechanism.
    i'm that girl who is not popular, and who never wears makeup.
    i'm that crybaby girl who's bawling her eyes out 24/7.
    i'm that girl with a too fast metabolism who can't gain weight.
    i'm that weak, lazy, worthless girl.
    and i'm that girl who just doesn't care anymore.

    • @hayleygajewski5042
      @hayleygajewski5042 8 лет назад +10

      You are NOT WORTHLESS. I have been through it to, but at the time I was only eight or nine.

    • @emmahanson1734
      @emmahanson1734 8 лет назад +7

      swiggaswoody that's me but I am just a lump of fat that moves

    • @katelessard9397
      @katelessard9397 8 лет назад +12

      swiggaswoody I thought I was the only one 😞

    • @abrilguillen1439
      @abrilguillen1439 8 лет назад +1

      I agree with always apologizing for everything and always saying excuse me, but gets mad very fast over a little thing.

    • @Mia-bh2je
      @Mia-bh2je 8 лет назад +8

      swiggaswoody it's better to be skinny than fat☹️

  • @chrisxoxo1827
    @chrisxoxo1827 5 лет назад +55

    "Someone will always be prettier. Someone will always be smarter. *But they will never be you*

  • @honeysweet6325
    @honeysweet6325 9 лет назад +605

    SAME.

  • @skullmony2958
    @skullmony2958 9 лет назад +825

    Aww. I'm not that girl either. I get a tiny bit jealous that other girls can attract guys easily. One time I liked someone but he liked my bff. :(

    • @soziomulan7830
      @soziomulan7830 9 лет назад +6

      How old are you, 12?!

    • @philcrick205
      @philcrick205 9 лет назад +33

      sherlocked cumbercookie That's a good question "Sherlocked Cumbercookie"

    • @DarleneSterling
      @DarleneSterling 9 лет назад +17

      Moni Monkeemen There is always someone who will look better than us. You want the guy who thinks you are the world. If he doesn't...PASS :)

    • @kianaelizabeth2467
      @kianaelizabeth2467 9 лет назад +1

      sherlocked cumbercookie If you didn't realize phil crick was implying that you're name sounds like a 8 year old made it.

    • @smh6234
      @smh6234 9 лет назад +1

      Moni Monkeemen even though this is true for the most part, girls can get any guy they want

  • @alicewilliams7571
    @alicewilliams7571 8 лет назад +215

    Daisha is so beautiful, I love her.

  • @hurricanekatrinamorelikehu2115
    @hurricanekatrinamorelikehu2115 6 лет назад +37

    I wish I was that girl with a big happy family
    That girl with a dad
    That girl that's so beautiful
    That girl who doesn't need makeup
    That girl who's not alone
    That girl with REAL friends

  • @alexcyne9041
    @alexcyne9041 9 лет назад +459

    yes! more videos like this and NOT damn videos about people taste testing lube.

    • @ButterFluffer
      @ButterFluffer 9 лет назад +28

      ***** "I am feel uncomfortable when we are not about me?"

    • @parisjasmine5031
      @parisjasmine5031 9 лет назад +1

      ***** ........

    • @parisjasmine5031
      @parisjasmine5031 9 лет назад

      Larissa Frederickson OMG HAHA YES

    • @ohshitakimushroom
      @ohshitakimushroom 9 лет назад +9

      I love both videos.

    • @parisjasmine5031
      @parisjasmine5031 9 лет назад +12

      ***** oh no women who feel the need to empower other women intimiadates you?because we dont need a man's help for that?becauase we are perfectly capable of doing things on our own?take that sexist opinion of yours and shove it up your ass please:)

  • @blehbleh8143
    @blehbleh8143 8 лет назад +225

    I'm the girl who spends most of her time listening
    I'm the girl who rarely gets invited to hang out with other girls
    I'm the girl who doesn't have best friend
    I'm the girl who doesn't have squad or bestie like those teen films
    I'm the girl who gets chosen last
    I'm the girl who never has any guy confesses undying love, or even the smallest crush
    I'm the girl who is laughed at for eating more than most people
    I'm that girl.

    • @panicatthetwentyonediscos4421
      @panicatthetwentyonediscos4421 8 лет назад +3

      But in all, you are one of the people on this planet who are needed as are all of us for you are Irreplaceable and beautiful, not matter how tall, short, skinny, or fat you are. Just know that all of us are flawed. Those flaws can be taken within and made into strength. Sometimes it's not you who doesn't have a friend, its your friend missing out on the one thing they need and that person can be you. You are loved, cared for and strong. Be who you want to be, because at the end of the day you are one of a kind. 😃❤

    • @blehbleh8143
      @blehbleh8143 8 лет назад

      +Samantha thank you for your kind words :)

    • @panicatthetwentyonediscos4421
      @panicatthetwentyonediscos4421 8 лет назад +1

      +Kezia Hutabarat You're very welcome

    • @natdanae5945
      @natdanae5945 8 лет назад +2

      +Kezia Hutabarat Queen, lets just have a moment.
      If you listen, then that means you care.
      If you never get invited, invite yourself. Find out when they're hanging out and simply ~arrive~
      If you don't have a best friend, she/he will come in time. Some people don't get close to people until times unexpected, and maybe with someone who you've known awhile.
      If you don't have a "squad," that's good because then that means you not basic or cliquey
      If you get chosen last, it's probably because the teams want to have a challenge, and the one you're on will win easily
      If you never have a guy confess love, that's okay, because wondering who has a crush on you adds mystery.
      If you get laughed at for eating, laugh with them
      Be the girl you are, not what you want to be.

    • @blehbleh8143
      @blehbleh8143 8 лет назад

      +BooBooChicken Games thank you, that's very sweet of you :)

  • @a.m.arteaga8369
    @a.m.arteaga8369 8 лет назад +237

    Lol I'm not even able to talk to people. It's so frightening and hard

    • @lucia-vf9hr
      @lucia-vf9hr 8 лет назад

      Too true

    • @a.m.arteaga8369
      @a.m.arteaga8369 8 лет назад

      ***** Hey XD I'm good and you? Today I broke a barrier and talked to someone xP almost died tho

    • @a.m.arteaga8369
      @a.m.arteaga8369 8 лет назад +2

      ***** Yeah, but as a choice xP I actually went up to someone I didn't know and talked to them, I would've never done that before XD

    • @isabellaavalos6761
      @isabellaavalos6761 8 лет назад

      I wanna be friends

    • @isabellaavalos6761
      @isabellaavalos6761 8 лет назад +1

      friendship

  • @ciqui96
    @ciqui96 6 лет назад +10

    This is so relatable to me. I’ve always felt like I was the only girl in the world to feel like this, like I was surrounded by tons of “that girl” and I was the exception.
    This video is gold. Gonna rewatch it every time I’ll forget how special and good I am.

  • @adinam7063
    @adinam7063 8 лет назад +1001

    Im not that girl... but im THIS girl
    And this girl is better than that girl

    • @adinam7063
      @adinam7063 8 лет назад

      The little dreamer :)

    • @sonyarts6928
      @sonyarts6928 8 лет назад +1

      Adina Milea same

    • @camjammi9954
      @camjammi9954 7 лет назад +1

      Bruuh Itz Adina yasss u go girl!

    • @white1145
      @white1145 7 лет назад +11

      Bruuh Itz Adina No! Thai girl isn't better. All girls are amazing

    • @ohnorenna
      @ohnorenna 7 лет назад +22

      Nah you're beautiful and so is THAT girl. You're equals.

  • @elmaabidovic2448
    @elmaabidovic2448 7 лет назад +89

    my intentions are always to make others happy and make them feel special but I can't even make myself feel good. I feel like a disappointment

    • @sweetieave7085
      @sweetieave7085 7 лет назад

      Elma Abidovic me too, and it sucks.

    • @kayleetucker756
      @kayleetucker756 7 лет назад +1

      Elma Abidovic your intentions are to give love and kindness to other people to make them feel better about themselves because you know that they deserve it since everyone deserves it and you see the good in other people. Your criticisms are not supposed to be about putting yourself down. They are about trying to see the bad in you and change them into good. But sometimes you don’t need to. What you might see as flaws other people might see as beauty. What you see as not fitting in other people might see as being unique. And what you see as a painting full of flaws others will see as a masterpiece because that is what you are. You are an artist and when you create something you can see all the little details and flaws that you make but other people can’t. Because they aren’t flaws they are stories and memories that make you who you are and how you got this far in life. When you give out compliments you are making other people happy and brightening their day with or without you knowing it and it just shows that you have a lot of love to share which will allow you to make friendships easier and surround yourself in positive people and friends you can rely on. They will help you overcome some insecurities you have and you’ll reciprocate

  • @fionaf.s7344
    @fionaf.s7344 7 лет назад +120

    i relate to this so much. The girl who is just there. the girl, who no one really knows. the one no one votes for in a class election. that girl when giving a speech, everyone doesnt care.

    • @mariahill2356
      @mariahill2356 5 лет назад

      fiona f.s Same here. Wish the very best for u😊

    • @hyacinthgrows
      @hyacinthgrows 5 лет назад

      I relate to it as well. The girl who's invisible despite being tall. The girl that no one knows because they never let her speak. The girl who feels like such a disgusting excuse of a person. The girl who has decided to rise to the challenge and change. And everything will be alright.

  • @dumitrubriana2561
    @dumitrubriana2561 5 лет назад +73

    *that girl* is my best friend and i never saw that until now.

    • @heavenjudd7713
      @heavenjudd7713 5 лет назад +1

      which that girl, the one she was talking about at the beginning or how she wants to be that girl, Im gonna guess the first one but im stupid, so...

  • @dezaraebartlett8547
    @dezaraebartlett8547 9 лет назад +338

    I cried because I relate so much haha

    • @smh6234
      @smh6234 9 лет назад

      Dezarae Bartlett girls can get almost any guy they want

    • @jgugsu7251
      @jgugsu7251 9 лет назад +1

      smh Tell that to my past crushes.

    • @msKBrightside1
      @msKBrightside1 9 лет назад +4

      Dezarae Bartlett I cried too :"(

    • @SimmingGirl
      @SimmingGirl 9 лет назад +5

      I cried too. This video is so empowering

    • @mariafoley8063
      @mariafoley8063 9 лет назад +2

      Dezarae Bartlett Don't cry
      CRAFT

  • @brittamollmann8627
    @brittamollmann8627 8 лет назад +108

    I'm the girl who is friendly
    I'm the girl who is shy, but with right people, I'm the girl who is crazy
    I'm the girl who is weird sometimes
    I'm the girl who is sarcastic and ironic
    I'm the girl who dont knows, what Make up is for
    I'm the girl who hates the colour pink
    I'm the girl who loves Hollywood Undead, Skillet, Fall out boy, Thousand foot krutch and Cult to follow
    I'm the girl who does Karate
    I'm the girl who loves Creepypastas even if she knows, that it scares her sometimes
    I'm me and I'm proud of it.
    Thank you Buzzfeed for giving me the confidence to say (or in this case write) that.

    • @utube2412
      @utube2412 8 лет назад +7

      I'm the girl who will not be bothered to read this

    • @karolinakriauzaite
      @karolinakriauzaite 8 лет назад +3

      Your badass, I like it. I also do all of these things

    • @rayeesashah9231
      @rayeesashah9231 8 лет назад

      I am EXACTLY you, except I like the color pink, we could be twins! ❤️ Buzzfeed also gave me some confidence. :3

    • @brittamollmann8627
      @brittamollmann8627 8 лет назад

      Rayeesa Shah That's soooo cool👍

    • @tengkunurfarizah8587
      @tengkunurfarizah8587 8 лет назад

      Omg same

  • @bubna123
    @bubna123 9 лет назад +426

    I am a sophomore in high school and while all my friends are losing their virginitys, I'm here with still having not had my first kiss. I feel like I'm too mature for all of the high school boys at my school but sometimes I just feel like I'm making excuses for the fact that guys just dont like me because I'm me :/

    • @P_S_2000
      @P_S_2000 8 лет назад +3

      +mgphotography58 I've got the same problem. Anyways, maybe you'll find the right one :)

    • @yasmini1414
      @yasmini1414 8 лет назад +13

      +mgphotography58 Don't feel like you have to lose your virginity or have some random person's tongue shoved down your throat to gain a sense of validation. People make the excuse of "it's natural" or they are now "officially an adult". An adult has responsibilities and knows how to act upon them. You are more of an adult than they are.
      I can somewhat relate to how you feel though and its so awkward and uncomfortable and you just don't know what to do and you wonder what the big deal is and why nothing even remotely similar has ever happened to you and you start to wonder whats wrong with you and everything descends into chaos until you realise....something. Idk what it is but I realised something. I realised that not everybody is destined to live that life. To do everything at the expected time. Some of the greatest people are the people who did things different.
      I hope you feel better. Your time will come so don't force it. Don't worry.

    • @jadensgaming2675
      @jadensgaming2675 8 лет назад +1

      it's better than being pregnant lol

    • @valerievedette9542
      @valerievedette9542 8 лет назад

      Don't care. It's hard not to, but try. Deny it. Keep developing and become better and better. Don't stop and listen what the stupid people has to say about who you are. Eventually, someone will see you and not you on the outside.
      You don't need a guy anyway, just so you know.

    • @chantalreneehayles7976
      @chantalreneehayles7976 8 лет назад +1

      +mgphotography58 i feel the exact same way

  • @fuckoff9466
    @fuckoff9466 5 лет назад +1608

    Guess whos the most beatiful in the world?
    Me and you ❤️

  • @elianakennedy3297
    @elianakennedy3297 8 лет назад +1776

    I'm the girl who finds perfection in everyone, but not herself
    I'm the girl who hides her feelings in the internet
    I'm the girl who is alone, not lonely
    I'm the girl who avoids looking at mirrors
    I'm the girl who has no friends
    I'm the girl who avoids selfies and cameras
    I'm the girl who gives advice, but never listens to it
    I'm the girl who has trouble with the simple things
    I'm the girl who is as pale as the clouds
    I'm the girl who forgets her depression only through the internet
    I'm the girl that people look down upon
    I'm the girl who is far from popular
    I'm the girl who goes to GameStop, not sephora
    I'm the girl who people identify as a nerd, a loser, a nobody
    I'm the girl who tries to laugh it off
    I'm the girl who spends an unhealthy amount of time doing nothing
    I'm the girl who people call skinny, but I'm not that girl.
    I'm not the girl who has friends
    I'm not the popular girl who has no imperfections
    I'm me.

    • @heidithehuman5356
      @heidithehuman5356 8 лет назад +5

      Frisk Dreemur
      Lol omg I feel like such a silly person but I read your comment and I was thinking how sad it was and then I saw your username and just started fangirling 😁( I think I need help)

    • @elianakennedy3297
      @elianakennedy3297 8 лет назад +3

      hahah I understand lol I am complete fandom trash :P

    • @emdickensonn
      @emdickensonn 8 лет назад +5

      You are you and you are you because God or whatever you believe in knew you and ONLY you could handle it. You are destined to be you.

    • @lauradoesntgiveafuckabouty852
      @lauradoesntgiveafuckabouty852 8 лет назад +8

      This is my life in like 90% lol

    • @roozbeh1253
      @roozbeh1253 8 лет назад +24

      u the girl
      who is amazing
      u are the girl who is healthy
      u are the girl that u are so lucky to have a family
      u are the girl that is so beutifu
      u have so much amazing trates my dear, u just need to see them😊 every one is beutiful and unique in their own way
      including u
      so u are incredible
      never doubt that😄

  • @christinarose2877
    @christinarose2877 8 лет назад +52

    I'm that girl who hides behind jokes and confidence

  • @little-furina
    @little-furina 8 лет назад +530

    I'm the girl who loves art but can barely afford paint
    I'm the girl who sits alone but hates being lonely
    I'm the girl who hides her emotions but is full of them
    I'm the girl who hates mirrors but spends most of her time obsessing over it
    I'm the girl who says I'm just fine but really means help
    I'm the girl who seems careless but cares too much
    I'm the girl who seems intelligent but really knows nothing
    I'm the girl that notices perfections in everyone else but only flaws in myself
    I'm the girl who cries when no one else is looking so that they only see happiness so they can't feel this to....

  • @hannahjoy323
    @hannahjoy323 5 лет назад +5

    I watched this 3 times in a row with the tears flowing each time. This is so powerful, and very encouraging. 😢💞

  • @le4770
    @le4770 9 лет назад +196

    I'm THAT girl who lies in bed watching youtube all day, whilst stuffing my face with junk. #ProudToBeTHATGirl(;

  • @SilentReverie90
    @SilentReverie90 9 лет назад +916

    what is it like to be pretty? :(

    • @clitterglitter4580
      @clitterglitter4580 9 лет назад +9

      I dunno DX

    • @teasippingzombie
      @teasippingzombie 9 лет назад +18

      SilentReverie90 By being yourself ! Being pretty means eating healthilyand loving you. Beiang pretty means being nice. Being pretty means by knowing your ok and even whe your not someone still thinks you are gorgeous. Being pretty means to know you don't need compliments to FEEL pretty. Being pretty means you find yourself valid, regardless of the definiton and how people see you..pretty.

    • @teasippingzombie
      @teasippingzombie 9 лет назад

      SilentReverie90 Sorry for my grammer for you! oops!

    • @teasippingzombie
      @teasippingzombie 9 лет назад +6

      kiandra Wilson NOt to judge by your youtube icon. (could be someone else just saying) but YOU are pretty when you decide it. No one can love you and accept you greater than you, yourself can, and once you do it it means the world. It means that you are everything. Even past pretty. Basically I hope you understand the being pretty comes from the mind and the inside feeling of knowing you are JUST pretty regardles of the worlds views that has not told you "gee you look pretty today". Be pretty everyday, starting from the inside because maybe people will notice on the outside!

    • @sylviayang1
      @sylviayang1 9 лет назад +22

      SilentReverie90 look in the mirror and you'll see :) please believe and know that you are beautiful in your own way!! because it really is true

  • @J.ssssss2165
    @J.ssssss2165 7 лет назад +286

    i am that girl that the story's not about
    i am that girl that has barley any friends
    i am that girl that tries to be like everyone else but really is not
    i am the girl that fakes a smile
    i am not the cool girl...but..
    i am the girl that tries to get lead roles in the play
    i am the girl that can find the good in any problem (even if i forget it sometimes)
    i am the girl that is there for anyone who is in pain no matter what it is
    i am the girl thats your shoulder to cry on
    no matter who you are, you are amazing, there is no such thing as a bad person, no matter what you look like, what your personality is, you matter, maybe you are the background charter but think...what makes you, you? it could be what you do, what you do for people, who you are, everyone is important, you make you own story...

    • @autofillcorrection7095
      @autofillcorrection7095 6 лет назад

      Daisy Grace no one cares grow up

    • @rebeliouscatlover3376
      @rebeliouscatlover3376 6 лет назад +4

      that was actually so good.i think you have a talent i couldn`t have expressed it any better.

    • @rose-iu5ij
      @rose-iu5ij 6 лет назад +3

      Daisy Grace you go girl!! You're amazing!

    • @queenpanda3832
      @queenpanda3832 6 лет назад +2

      Daisy Grace .... you made me cry ....

    • @queenpanda3832
      @queenpanda3832 6 лет назад +3

      Daisy Grace i love your words ... it makes me feel better

  • @meerlinski
    @meerlinski Год назад +6

    I feel like this was needed to be seen. For me. I can relate so much to this because it’s literally the same with me and my big sister. She’s THAT GIRL. Knows how to flirt, gets every guy she wants, does her hair and makeup perfectly, has the fittest body, eats clean, has the best conversation and so on. I could list so much more! When comparing my sister and me, I look like an ogar. Never had a boyfriend, never flirted with a guy and only gets stressed by it, always have crusty and smudged makeup, curly hair always awfully messy, can literally not survive 1 hour without food and always in my bed. I really hope that one day I can convince myself too, that I don’t need to be THAT GIRL. I need to be myself and accept me as I am. Its going to take a while, but thats okay. This amount of time is spend for a good and I can get to know me better.

  • @maddiezabilka1997
    @maddiezabilka1997 7 лет назад +144

    I want to show you that girl isn't alone

  • @ros0ideae-1
    @ros0ideae-1 8 лет назад +278

    I'm the girl who chooses to not need a guy.
    I'm the girl who competes against the guys in competitions.
    I'm the girl who walks with confidence while crying internally.
    I'm the girl who gives advice, but doesn't take it for themselves.
    I'm the girl who likes to be a part of a band
    I'm the girl who can hang out with a guy and not think at all romantically about them.
    I'm the girl who says they're a nerd and doesn't try to hide it.

    • @XxKDHarxX0
      @XxKDHarxX0 8 лет назад

      I can relate, man.

    • @luluenciso6892
      @luluenciso6892 8 лет назад

      Dude, same. I have a lot of guy friends. I am really tomboy and I have everything in common with you

    • @sofiastallard9661
      @sofiastallard9661 8 лет назад

      Same. But this is inspiring tbh

    • @sofiastallard9661
      @sofiastallard9661 8 лет назад

      +Lourdes Enciso me too. Most of my best friends are guys. Besides 1-2

    • @isobelfaktor9581
      @isobelfaktor9581 8 лет назад

      This is exactly me!!

  • @sabrina.c9377
    @sabrina.c9377 8 лет назад +9

    this is one of the things I love about buzzfeed. These inspirational videos are what get me through tough times in my life

  • @sofias5948
    @sofias5948 6 лет назад +31

    I’m happy I’m not “ that girl” because I want someone to love of me for my personality not just for what I look like

  • @Sirjan123
    @Sirjan123 9 лет назад +474

    That guy coming up soon?
    Have an idea of what it should say I'm not Eugene I'm not Eugene and not Eugene I'm not Eugene

  • @balys2168
    @balys2168 7 лет назад +159

    I'm that guy.

    • @kyutie7556
      @kyutie7556 6 лет назад +1

      Balys i can't stop laughing😂

    • @alexei4632
      @alexei4632 6 лет назад

      Balys Hahahahahhaahha

  • @averybombastic676
    @averybombastic676 9 лет назад +312

    As soon as I saw the title I immediately thought Wicked.

    • @WorldoftheNebulous
      @WorldoftheNebulous 9 лет назад +3

      It's a great song. Heartbreaking really.

    • @sundermolly
      @sundermolly 9 лет назад +2

      Avery Bombastic SAME!!! I was just looking through the comments to see if anyone else thought that...

    • @JekkaLovely
      @JekkaLovely 9 лет назад +1

      Avery Bombastic Its the main reason why I clicked on it because the play is my absolute favorite even still the video was great

    • @sundance1372
      @sundance1372 9 лет назад

      Me too :')

    • @JesseLCH
      @JesseLCH 9 лет назад

      Avery Bombastic same.

  • @Alyjx-ug6ev
    @Alyjx-ug6ev 6 лет назад +284

    No one is “THAT GIRL” because life isn’t all a fairytale,even the people that u think are “THAT GIRL” isn’t really “THAT GIRL” because even “THAT GIRL” has secret hidden insecurities or problems,no ones perfect we all have problems sometimes ❤️💜💙

    • @rmionlyknowrapmonster5848
      @rmionlyknowrapmonster5848 5 лет назад +8

      Thank God someone finally said it

    • @ameliataylor4012
      @ameliataylor4012 5 лет назад +5

      Finally jesus

    • @lillianvalla5808
      @lillianvalla5808 5 лет назад +9

      Also men have different taste in women. No one is "that girl" in everyone's eyes

    • @veve.48
      @veve.48 4 года назад +1

      Ik I’m hecka late but thanks for saying this ❤️😂

    • @Alyjx-ug6ev
      @Alyjx-ug6ev 4 года назад

      Veve haha I forgot I commented this but your welcome 😂💓✨

  • @emmab.115
    @emmab.115 8 лет назад +7

    I just sobbed alone in my room while relating to this. You totally summed up my life and I never knew how to put it into words. Thank you.

  • @sasheeptotally1736
    @sasheeptotally1736 8 лет назад +180

    I'm the girl who is quiet but friendly.
    I'm the girl who will help you with your work and ask you about your life.
    I'm the girl that smiles at everyone and holds the door open for you.
    I'm the girl who would rather be reading a novel than going to a party on a Friday night.
    I'm the girl who has friends and is sociable but loooooves alone time.
    I'm the girl who likes to watch and play football and gets ridiculed for it.
    I'm the girl who is herself no matter what. And I love myself for it!

    • @davidportillodavila
      @davidportillodavila 8 лет назад +2

      See these are the traits that makes you and I love that about you. Don't listen to people who says that you should change, never change because that's what makes you beautiful

    • @sasheeptotally1736
      @sasheeptotally1736 8 лет назад +1

      +David Portllo Davila thank you so much, lots of love :-)

    • @sasheeptotally1736
      @sasheeptotally1736 8 лет назад +1

      +David Portllo Davila :) your brilliant do you know that?! X

    • @sasheeptotally1736
      @sasheeptotally1736 8 лет назад

      +Griffin Deal hmmm, will keep that in mind cheers xx

    • @jesus_is_god_and_you_know_1669
      @jesus_is_god_and_you_know_1669 8 лет назад +2

      we need more girls like you IMO

  • @graciegirl688
    @graciegirl688 8 лет назад +22

    I'm not that girl
    I'm the girl that never wears makeup
    The girl that feels imperfect all the time
    That girl that is depressed but hides it so well that no one knows
    That girl that people only use to get answers to questions
    That girl whose crush always likes my best friend
    And the list can continue endlessly pointing out all of my flaws

  • @Joyce-kx4jh
    @Joyce-kx4jh 6 лет назад +27

    They laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at them because they're all the same. (:
    love yourself.

  • @saraverdacchi4508
    @saraverdacchi4508 7 лет назад +23

    my bestfriend is That Girl, she's so, so beautiful, guys like her, people talk about her, she dress, move, act in the "Right Way" and everyday, when i walk with her, at school, in the corridor, i just feel...not enough, not beautiful enough, not smart enough, not interesting enough and then, at home, everyday, I cry

  • @sarathewise
    @sarathewise 8 лет назад +92

    I am not that girl that has a perfect smile

    • @sarathewise
      @sarathewise 8 лет назад

      :(

    • @anahrsak4793
      @anahrsak4793 8 лет назад

      Phanic! At My Chemical Rømance okay i know im super late but you are definetly THAT emo girl

    • @joeytheemopotato6583
      @joeytheemopotato6583 7 лет назад

      Yeah but you have a amazing taste in music ;)

    • @lopezyvonne83
      @lopezyvonne83 7 лет назад

      What does a "perfect" smile look like?

  • @natalieloves13
    @natalieloves13 9 лет назад +50

    I'm proud as hell of that girl that made this video.
    No seriously, what's her name please she's one of my new favorites on BuzzFeed.

  • @deeksha1141
    @deeksha1141 6 лет назад +557

    "that girl" doesn't exist.

    • @elvina2744
      @elvina2744 5 лет назад +84

      she does :(

    • @zeynepesercan8854
      @zeynepesercan8854 5 лет назад +3

      @@elvina2744 wow u look so beautiful

    • @elvina2744
      @elvina2744 5 лет назад +10

      Zeynep Esercan aww that’s not me just an icon.

    • @_isipsicedtea_6678
      @_isipsicedtea_6678 5 лет назад +8

      She does, it could literally be you.

    • @elvina2744
      @elvina2744 5 лет назад +1

      _ i sips iced tea _ noo definitely not

  • @nowolves870
    @nowolves870 8 лет назад +514

    I'm the guy who is always single
    I'm the guy who flees any kind of feelings
    I'm the guy who is always making jokes
    I'm the guy who tries to be happy all the time
    I'm the guy who is not that special, not that interesting.

  • @mjordan2522
    @mjordan2522 8 лет назад +65

    I love Daysha. She is so inspiring and beautiful and should live her life the way she wants and loves it. She is beautiful and amazing and fabulous. I just love of how sassy she is and loving.

  • @xxLPgirl0xx
    @xxLPgirl0xx 9 лет назад +34

    This boosted my confidence, well done Buzzfeed!

  • @7000Leafs.
    @7000Leafs. 4 года назад +9

    And who doesn't want to be "that girl?" 💙
    My strength is my beauty.

  • @bunberiii
    @bunberiii 7 лет назад +275

    I can almost relate to this, but in ways I am that girl.
    I'm consistantly bugged by boys, having them like me and tell me that.
    But I'm never able to find a relationship where I'm loved for me and not my 'looks' that don't exist. It hurts to know that no one loves you for you
    But I'm that girl
    that girl who hates her body, who curses herself for not being thin enough. I'm that girl who nearly went anorexic because my thighs were too big, despite everyone telling me I was perfect
    that girl who hates herself, her life. I'm that girl who has depression, who can never be happy for long. There are days where someone can cheer me up, but it always come crashing down on me
    that girl with anxiety, who spends her nights awake and afraid, afraid of things that don't matter.
    that girl who is terrified of the real world, who can't say anything to anyone without wanting to curl into a ball and disappear.
    that girl who took self defense out of fear of being raped or harassed by reasons she doesn't believe.
    _But maybe I can be someone else_
    Maybe I can be that girl
    That girl who loves herself because she is perfect.
    that girl who is happy because she can be and people love her
    that girl that can sleep, knowing that everything is okay
    that girl who can speak up for what she wants because nothing is stopping her from doing so
    that girl who can walk down the streets knowing that anyone who tests her will lose.
    Maybe I can be that girl. Or maybe I am already her

    • @lilyhenson2877
      @lilyhenson2877 6 лет назад +6

      Priaxio of course you can be that girl xxx work hard and don’t give up 😊 then you can achieve anything

    • @arikafdlaa172
      @arikafdlaa172 6 лет назад +9

      I doubt that any guys would even give you a second glance.

    • @tiffaniepiston7562
      @tiffaniepiston7562 6 лет назад +5

      Priaxio I can perfectly relate to that, it's almost scary... and especially the relationship thing is so true for me as well because I get compliments from guys on how I look but when they find out I want something more they're gone. Your text was really inspirational!

    • @shineinstars
      @shineinstars 6 лет назад

      im a male, but i can relate.

    • @feri5100
      @feri5100 5 лет назад +3

      I just want to say shut up. You are pretty and get all the attention.

  • @ZomberStomper
    @ZomberStomper 9 лет назад +253

    "I'm not like the other girls."
    - Every girl

    • @sodapop279
      @sodapop279 9 лет назад +2

      -Clara Clement im like the other girls.......A GIRL!

    • @sarahscorpios
      @sarahscorpios 9 лет назад +4

      that phrase is probably one of the most misogynistic things a girl could say :/

    • @sarahscorpios
      @sarahscorpios 9 лет назад +1

      김치김치 exactly, oh my god, you're comment gives me life lmfao.

    • @ashleyiceblade7460
      @ashleyiceblade7460 9 лет назад

      +Ra'mana Veekajii this is hilarious

    • @love60073
      @love60073 9 лет назад +1

      I'm like every other girl you'll ever meet, but it's taken a long time to come to grips with that

  • @melisacordoba3612
    @melisacordoba3612 8 лет назад +15

    When I'm feeling down, I always come back to watch this video. Such a bless~♡

  • @stutid582
    @stutid582 6 лет назад +61

    I'm that girl who is always there for you
    I'm the girl you can rely on
    I'm the girl who will do anything for the people I love
    But I wish I was that girl
    Who was loved by everyone
    I wish I was that girl who had real friends who loved me for me
    I wish I was that girl who didn't get replaced the moment someone better came along
    I wish I was that girl who could proudly say I love myself
    I wish I was that girl who was the first one in your contact list not the last resort
    I wish I was the girl who everyone liked to be around
    I wish I was the girl people fought for not the one who fights for someone
    I wish I was that girl who had everyone have her back
    The girl who had someone's shoulder to lean on and not be the shoulder herself for once
    I wish I was the girl who made others wish they were like me
    I wish I was That Girl
    😢😢😢😢

    • @lilacblue3331
      @lilacblue3331 4 года назад +1

      🖤

    • @afshanseher9663
      @afshanseher9663 4 года назад +1

      💜

    • @homersimpson4379
      @homersimpson4379 4 года назад +2

      Late but I love you even if I don't know you.

    • @anon9526
      @anon9526 4 года назад +3

      I relate to litterly every thing you said on a deep level and I know what that feels like and I'm so sorry you feel that way if you ever need anyone I'm here okay ❤

    • @stutid582
      @stutid582 4 года назад

      Thank you everyone for such incredibly kind comments! Thank you so much! 🙏🏻🤗

  • @jasp043
    @jasp043 8 лет назад +8

    I love Daysha so much she's honestly such an inspirational woman and deserves to be that girl who she wants to be

  • @Jeanjellybean13
    @Jeanjellybean13 9 лет назад +290

    I'm that girl who finds science more entertaining than parties

    • @jgw8603
      @jgw8603 9 лет назад +9

      ***** I`m that guy that thinks you`re dumb

    • @thelegend8092
      @thelegend8092 9 лет назад

      Yah me too, I'm more into than parties female anatomy

    • @timkaercher2459
      @timkaercher2459 9 лет назад

      ***** Marry me

    • @alexas4454
      @alexas4454 9 лет назад

      Same! Join the crew c:

    • @typocat9168
      @typocat9168 9 лет назад +6

      Im that girl that doesnt give a shit about all you guys comments and im also that girl who has a dick

  • @JurieSempai
    @JurieSempai 9 лет назад +24

    I feel like I'm "that girl" but I'm not chasing boys or relying on them. Guys used to confess to me quite often in school and even now guys walk up to me to try and talk to me or get my attention and to be honest, it makes me horribly uncomfortable and i wish people wouldn't notice me that often. I don't even know how to react to a compliment from a boy. I just wish people would understand that I'm not interested. If you wanna trade places, then please be my guest. I'd love to be left alone rather than being forced to break hearts.

    • @LifeIsYourInstrument
      @LifeIsYourInstrument 9 лет назад +3

      ***** I HATE rejecting people. I'd rather be rejected than reject, it sucks :-/

    • @JurieSempai
      @JurieSempai 9 лет назад +4

      Same, especially when they're a close friend. :c

    • @LifeIsYourInstrument
      @LifeIsYourInstrument 9 лет назад +4

      Yeah it is so much worse and then they start ignoring you after that :(

    • @ingenalls9213
      @ingenalls9213 9 лет назад

      ***** well, it might be rough having to reject people, but believe me its harder not being "that girl" cause then you constantly reject yourself. every damn day :/

    • @JurieSempai
      @JurieSempai 9 лет назад

      I don't think whether or not someone is asking you out should effect your self worth. I love myself either way but would prefer to be left alone. Being asked out takes me out of my bubble and forces face to face social interaction, and my response, usually ends up hurting the person's feelings. Everyone sees things different. I don't think people should be classified as "THAT GIRL" or "NOT THAT GIRL" cause that's just putting someone into a general cookie cutter shape rather than having people see themselves as individuals stuck in similar circumstances.

  • @sarajoshi1276
    @sarajoshi1276 5 лет назад +16

    "Sit Still, Look Pretty" by Daya shares the same message. It's a really bold song.
    Whoever feels that they're not worth it because they don't consider themselves pretty, please listen to that song and tell me how it felt. ❣️ You are beautiful!

    • @thesoursquids6800
      @thesoursquids6800 5 лет назад +2

      I listened to it but I can't "Sit still look pretty" if I'm not pretty.

  • @sarahteixeria891
    @sarahteixeria891 7 лет назад +128

    I relate to this to much.

  • @onceamoomoo829
    @onceamoomoo829 7 лет назад +762

    I'm the girl who seems to be the smartest one in the class. I'm that girl who has boys confessing their love you her. I'm that girl who is skinny and can't gain a pound. I'm the girl who has so many creative idea it'll burst out of my head. I'm the girl who cries herself to sleep at night. I'm the girl trying to study for five tests and trying to do all my homework at 4am. I'm the girl who has the same boys confessing their love joke about how awful I am. I'm the girl who's underweight and can't gain a pound to save my life. I'm the girl sitting alone in her room all day because I know I'm not good enough for the world. I'm that girl who types her feeling away because it's the only way I can. And I am the girl who is terrified to press send. But I will. Because I am that girl

    • @abominablesnowpanda5053
      @abominablesnowpanda5053 7 лет назад +37

      Royal Queen no idea how much i relate to this. top of my grade in class rank, falling out of one relationship and instantly finding another, and yet i'm exhausted and sad and tired.

    • @SS-qs4dp
      @SS-qs4dp 7 лет назад +12

      do care about you, grades, boys/girls, love & everything else is secondary. you are important

    • @SS-qs4dp
      @SS-qs4dp 7 лет назад +6

      *do care about you.

    • @anikaraybarman8826
      @anikaraybarman8826 7 лет назад +17

      Royal Queen i truly relate to you. I am 68 pounds all because of a high metabolism and my parents think it’s my fault. That or they blame each other and yell until midnight while i stress out about keeping perfect grades. Know you are not alone, i hope this comment wasn’t too late

    • @bar9886
      @bar9886 7 лет назад +5

      Royal Queen girl I am underweight too and can't gain a pound I know the struggle

  • @MillieGirl1026
    @MillieGirl1026 8 лет назад +94

    I'm the girl who is an outcast
    I'm the girl that hide her feelings to help others
    I'm the girl who loves nightcore, rock, etc
    I'm the girl who always wants to be alone or a select few
    I'm the girl that barely anyone likes
    I'm the girl who a lot of people trade in
    I'm the girl that goes up to you to ask if you're ok, but no one asks me
    I'm the girl who loves games
    I'm the girl who stays her in room all day
    I'm the girl who can't hurt someone
    I'm the girl who hates makeup
    I'm the girl who people say my life is perfect..when its far from perfect
    I'm the girl who tries so hard to feel happy
    I'm the girl who tries to escape reality
    I'm the girl who people try to correct when I'm right
    I'm the girl who is crazy, but quiet
    But, I somehow love it..

  • @kionemys
    @kionemys Год назад +1

    2023 and this one still makes me cry.

  • @_gwynbleidd8359
    @_gwynbleidd8359 8 лет назад +101

    I'm the girl who is confident
    I'm the girl who is happy in her own skin
    I'm the girl who is introverted
    I'm the girl who loves reading
    I'm the girl who loves Witcher, OITNB and Game of Thrones
    I'm the girl who loves Fall Out Boy and G-Eazy
    I'm the girl who is young and stupid
    I'm the girl who is a massive tomboy instead of being cute and girly
    I'm the girl who gives advices but never listens to them
    I'm the girl who loves memes because they are a great escape from sadness
    But i love it.
    I love myself.

  • @cozyinmycorner
    @cozyinmycorner 8 лет назад +68

    I'm that black girl, who knows that she is beautiful for who she is, with her dark skin and big lips, I am, that confident black girl, who knows how to let her inner beauty shine💟

    • @chifavoice6918
      @chifavoice6918 7 лет назад

      Rihanna's Daughter. Very good and i know that you are so beautiful i wish i have your confidence

  • @helenhaines6826
    @helenhaines6826 9 лет назад +527

    Don't be that girl
    Craft!

    • @ardensage5300
      @ardensage5300 9 лет назад +11

      DAN AND PHIL :D

    • @sissi12a14
      @sissi12a14 9 лет назад

      Hydra Novablaze attack on titan *~* eren and Armin *-*

    • @ardensage5300
      @ardensage5300 9 лет назад

      Nadine Neumann-Rystow yep >u

    • @sissi12a14
      @sissi12a14 9 лет назад

      Hydra Novablaze *~*

    • @ew2181
      @ew2181 9 лет назад +5

      I thought I could escape you guys here, I was wrong

  • @_finn_3624
    @_finn_3624 6 лет назад +13

    Aw man
    U hit the spot
    That's the thing i have depression
    Now when i know i'm not alone...
    Thanks