BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 12 - “I Think Girls Are Ignoring Red Flags”

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @emmanuelajogbor2k
    @emmanuelajogbor2k 2 года назад +501

    Lani and tion need to go on blue therapy😂

    • @cherrydrop3259
      @cherrydrop3259 2 года назад +56

      I’d pay to watch that😂😂😂

    • @Whyalwaysm0
      @Whyalwaysm0 2 года назад +24

      hands are gonna be thrown 😂😂

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 2 года назад +35

      That would break the internet and probably get over 10 million views

    • @SupremeST25
      @SupremeST25 2 года назад +18

      Lol blue therapy could afford lani idk about tion tho🤣

  • @drahcirrichard3874
    @drahcirrichard3874 2 года назад +365

    What ever “T-Wayne From The 9” did to Lani… it has tainted her soul forever… I feel like all her venom for men is directed to him 😂🤣

  • @maxine079
    @maxine079 2 года назад +1238

    The current bkchat would be nothing without Lani 😂 love her or hate her she’s the new face of bkchat 😂😂

    • @pegobrown9204
      @pegobrown9204 2 года назад +76

      And that's why the show is on the decline..

    • @shannonashdown9650
      @shannonashdown9650 2 года назад +65

      I was about to say these lot are boring thank god lani is there 😂

    • @jr5296
      @jr5296 2 года назад +48

      nah Lani is the reason I barely watch this. loud and wrong.

    • @kazi8895
      @kazi8895 2 года назад +38

      Her views are so ridiculous, hope no one takes her serious lol

    • @softgyaltimah
      @softgyaltimah 2 года назад +1

      Thank you

  • @dendenn7383
    @dendenn7383 2 года назад +324

    That's true. People ignore red flags, thinking the person will change or thinking they can live with it

    • @Kkayy020
      @Kkayy020 2 года назад +18

      And they think they special 😂😂😂

    • @Solar.Plexxus
      @Solar.Plexxus 2 года назад +5

      Story of my life unfortunately...

    • @Tinzinoo-6
      @Tinzinoo-6 2 года назад +2

      And that’s a fact ik a girl who ignored red flags and they were some HUGE RED FLAGS

  • @playgirlney8908
    @playgirlney8908 2 года назад +260

    when he said "ask her out and don't show up it'll make her like u more"
    no sir. u will end up blocked and never hear from me again lmaooo
    men are getting really sassy and bossy these days lol

    • @EfiaSerwaa
      @EfiaSerwaa 2 года назад +29

      remember his age
      he is the youngest among them and young girls might like that
      but when you are ready for marriage etc.. they won't accept that nonsense from no man

    • @Captainfanez
      @Captainfanez 2 года назад +7

      The accuracy for me

    • @doorknob2545
      @doorknob2545 2 года назад +15

      As inn, you will get blocked and deleted with the quickness tff 😂

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 2 года назад +5

      Perioddd sis

    • @BabyJellyfish
      @BabyJellyfish 2 года назад

      It’s a hypothesis only, he has not tested it on anyone lol

  • @starj5114
    @starj5114 2 года назад +216

    Lani is actually very right it’s just everyone keeps shooting the messenger

  • @officialchinz
    @officialchinz 2 года назад +615

    Lani vs Joseph
    Excellent entertainment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Feistysagi
    @Feistysagi 2 года назад +502

    Emmanuel speaking facttss. This generation is giving marriage benefits at the opening stages of relationships hence the reduced rate of marriages now

    • @Ushangg
      @Ushangg 2 года назад +13

      Omggggg this is so true!!!

    • @doorknob2545
      @doorknob2545 2 года назад +37

      Honestly!! If you're doing up wifey duties, but you're still at girlfriend status, you can't really expect the ring!

    • @nottyrese
      @nottyrese 2 года назад +2

      Tbh marriage isn’t really necessary anymore. People have only been doing it for longer than needed to keep up traditions.

    • @Feistysagi
      @Feistysagi 2 года назад +32

      @@nottyrese Marriages are still very necessary. There will always be a difference between children from solid families and children from dysfunction homes. Giving your kids a safe space with an ideal family of two guardians is a step towards giving them a healthy childhood. Not one will baby mama dramas and what not...

    • @nottyrese
      @nottyrese 2 года назад +10

      @@Feistysagi not being married doesn't mean dysfunctional. I mean marriage in the legally binding sense, u can be in a decade long loving relationship without a need to marry. Imo marriage in some cases lead to ppl staying in unhappy relationships bcos they feel binded to their vows. Just as unhealthy

  • @fabste7883
    @fabste7883 2 года назад +283

    Lani always has a story on every topic 😂😂
    All her friends have been through all the situations. She always knows some who have been through something 😂

    • @SnowmanSantana
      @SnowmanSantana 2 года назад +16

      If you realised everytime she says that shes talking about herself not her friends

    • @Goldenxbih
      @Goldenxbih 2 года назад +15

      Esther jr

    • @imabosscanubeone6620
      @imabosscanubeone6620 2 года назад

      @@SnowmanSantana why she so loud

    • @SnowmanSantana
      @SnowmanSantana 2 года назад +1

      @@imabosscanubeone6620 i think she thinks the louder she is the more we’d get her point 😂

    • @YahyaYT_10
      @YahyaYT_10 2 года назад

      You’re confusing her with season 4 Esther

  • @babysb3890
    @babysb3890 2 года назад +183

    Lani isn’t afraid to be herself and a lot of people wish to have that confidence and they hate to see it.. always disagreeing with her when she’s made a lot of valid points.. mind you she’s funny as fuk 😂😂😂 Home girl with the hat wasn’t pick me coz of her opinions it was more so her body language towards the females. Like chill

  • @keelvh.a1076
    @keelvh.a1076 2 года назад +650

    Ladies if an man says “let’s go with the flow.” Run. Run as fast as you can.🏃🏽‍♀️🚩

    • @MRLX54
      @MRLX54 2 года назад +74

      If a man says “he’s has trust issues” because of how his ex did him dirty. Run! out of there with the quickness. 🏃‍♂️ 🚩

    • @Captainfanez
      @Captainfanez 2 года назад +14

      😂😂😂😂😂
      Run run run

    • @cherrydrop3259
      @cherrydrop3259 2 года назад +33

      Or “let’s just see where this goes”

    • @djqris11
      @djqris11 2 года назад +9

      Same with mandem......if a lady says let's get with th3 flow, run with yo slide in your hands

    • @web3wizard381
      @web3wizard381 2 года назад +13

      if a woman tries to lock you down and cuff as soon as possible run because it means she chased many man off

  • @blackbunny5841
    @blackbunny5841 2 года назад +80

    Monty telling lani she cant use past experiences to judge a guy but telling Brandon she’s not sure …like baby gal are you confused???

  • @CEOSHANNYVEVO
    @CEOSHANNYVEVO 2 года назад +323

    I totally agree with Lani on this one. It’s to many untreatable diseases out there right now to just have sex without exclusivity. However when I was 18/19 I’d totally agree with JaySqurdd. I’m at a age where I’d overlook certain habits/ but it will not come before my peace. So if I address my partner about something that makes me feel uncomfortable an they don’t change. I’m out! ✌🏾

  • @JAY-jk6dh
    @JAY-jk6dh 2 года назад +196

    Lani wasn’t too bad this episode but once again towards the end she showed her brilliant knowledge 😂😂

  • @spongebobsquarepants6680
    @spongebobsquarepants6680 2 года назад +140

    monty is giving sylvia kay vibes.. just siding with the boys to make lani look ‘crazy’

    • @Sarah-jn1bp
      @Sarah-jn1bp 2 года назад +43

      She’s been talking about her “delusional” stage, she’s still stuck💀

    • @Shenice18
      @Shenice18 2 года назад +1

      @@Sarah-jn1bp 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @Goldenxbih
      @Goldenxbih 2 года назад

      @@Sarah-jn1bp EXACTLY

    • @Madeyousmileee
      @Madeyousmileee 5 месяцев назад

      fr, even tho lani says the maddest things, she was not 100% wrong with what she was saying.

  • @B1ggest4head
    @B1ggest4head 2 года назад +179

    Lani's always right but it's just the delivery that makes me mad😭😭
    Edit lol: Most of the time she's right lmao

  • @ireoluwa2478
    @ireoluwa2478 2 года назад +235

    Ani was right this episode Monty was just attacking her. Seems like Monty is trying to please the boys with her answers because she’s keeps changing it every time someone speaks

    • @adrianblake-williams5294
      @adrianblake-williams5294 2 года назад +41

      But Monty spoke the truth on a few occasions about women taking accountability.

    • @yungkingshaka1227
      @yungkingshaka1227 2 года назад +8

      no one attacked Lani, stop it 😂

    • @ireoluwa2478
      @ireoluwa2478 2 года назад +22

      @@yungkingshaka1227 are you confused. There was literally a moment where lani was trying to speak and Monty and the boys where shouting at her before she even finished

    • @yungkingshaka1227
      @yungkingshaka1227 2 года назад +9

      @@ireoluwa2478 aww so shes a victim because people spoke over her, when she speaks over people constantly. Give it a rest luv. no victims here. they are all grown ups

    • @ireoluwa2478
      @ireoluwa2478 2 года назад +10

      @@yungkingshaka1227 can you not read where did I say she was a victim

  • @user-ec9rz7xh7e
    @user-ec9rz7xh7e 2 года назад +286

    not everything has to be negative , there are good relationships. Sometimes us girls needs to see the red flags and move on. Then you can find better. But you can’t be naive

    • @OlaitanFajr
      @OlaitanFajr 2 года назад +16

      But thinking about the negative is realistic. Only 1/4 times its good, prepare for the worst so you’re not blindsided

    • @user-ec9rz7xh7e
      @user-ec9rz7xh7e 2 года назад +10

      @@OlaitanFajr very true , life isn’t a fairytale after all

  • @kobe1h353
    @kobe1h353 2 года назад +64

    All NK wanted to do was ask his question 😂😂

  • @aycehimself
    @aycehimself 2 года назад +254

    Emmanuel always speaks straight facts 💯

  • @lovelypassionsea1296
    @lovelypassionsea1296 2 года назад +153

    Monty must like Jay cause she's giving pick me

  • @ndeshipandanakanyala
    @ndeshipandanakanyala 2 года назад +17

    Iqraa's answer to any question: MONEY
    i stan a consistent queen.

  • @DemzzyTooAnti
    @DemzzyTooAnti 2 года назад +18

    Can we take a minute to appreciate how good Lani looks 😍

  • @samihaholajumoke3426
    @samihaholajumoke3426 2 года назад +81

    Iqra,girl
    Just because a man is in his 40s or whatever age bracket you talked about don't mean they're smart or experienced yo!
    Girl,you tripping

    • @chelsiemilstead7329
      @chelsiemilstead7329 2 года назад

      I’m saying. I’m 24 and I only date men in their late 30’s early 40’s and I can say with absolute certainty that they are equally as stupid. 🤣🤣

  • @ifescatch-up6609
    @ifescatch-up6609 2 года назад +151

    Lani is really holding the show, as in she’s not having it 😂😂

  • @mikeo9163
    @mikeo9163 2 года назад +78

    How can they all start laughing when Nk finally spoke, its the disrespect fa me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kaybee7824
    @kaybee7824 2 года назад +310

    The other girls acting like Pick Me’s Lani keeps it 100

    • @kaybee7824
      @kaybee7824 2 года назад +67

      Especially that girl with blue cap, the cap represents her opinion

    • @MOMO-436
      @MOMO-436 2 года назад +23

      How are they pick mes??

    • @Emmanuel-rz5tv
      @Emmanuel-rz5tv 2 года назад +40

      @@MOMO-436 I know, the word pick me is just a tactic to shame them, it thrown everywhere, just say they have a different opinion then you or you don't like what they said.

    • @MOMO-436
      @MOMO-436 2 года назад +46

      @@Emmanuel-rz5tv Lol that’s literally what it is. Just because a girl can call out the bullshit other girls do they are labelled as pick me. So stupid, lani is just blind to women’s wrongdoings she always trying to flip it on to men and bring up some specific example

    • @urfave5605
      @urfave5605 2 года назад

      Frfr

  • @moreb4real264
    @moreb4real264 2 года назад +31

    the amount of times nk was cut off is hilarious

  • @unfiltered8316
    @unfiltered8316 2 года назад +34

    Laniiiii, protect lani at all costs 🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @lilykemy4172
    @lilykemy4172 2 года назад +62

    Lani is being realistic

  • @nmesomaihunna801
    @nmesomaihunna801 2 года назад +34

    I’m so proud of Emmanuel his always making Nigeria 🇳🇬 proud in all his videos

  • @naomisaintlaurent6686
    @naomisaintlaurent6686 2 года назад +196

    Lani made some valid points tbh

    • @Azmodaeus49
      @Azmodaeus49 2 года назад +9

      She did still

    • @sinarobyn5252
      @sinarobyn5252 2 года назад +34

      she does a lot of the time but they don't be hearing her

    • @jr5296
      @jr5296 2 года назад

      What points did she make?

    • @MH-et4bo
      @MH-et4bo 2 года назад

      Yesssss

    • @xotwod_raii
      @xotwod_raii 2 года назад

      yep

  • @BigAkwes
    @BigAkwes 2 года назад +109

    LANI SHOWS EVERY EPISODE THAT SHE NEEDS SERIOUS HEALING AND A THERAPIST.

  • @tashabaitwa2259
    @tashabaitwa2259 2 года назад +20

    Lani spoke facts the entire video 👏🏾

  • @JM-tq9vx
    @JM-tq9vx 2 года назад +158

    Monty was being the biggest pick me bro😂

    • @ajj2422
      @ajj2422 2 года назад

      Frrrr

    • @freddyotempong9444
      @freddyotempong9444 2 года назад +3

      I like her. Shes being real and accountable to self.

    • @nb5878
      @nb5878 2 года назад +21

      @@freddyotempong9444 she can speak for herself but the way she is speaking is as if every woman allows themselves to be played by men and it's their fault.

    • @sentientbeings3885
      @sentientbeings3885 2 года назад

      She cute though just stupid

    • @nicolejohnson5358
      @nicolejohnson5358 Год назад +2

      She's just explaining what alot of women go through who ignore red flags and why they ignore them

  • @candyazzy
    @candyazzy 2 года назад +27

    Lani spitting facts, bad boys prey on good girls

  • @robtill3659
    @robtill3659 2 года назад +53

    we need blue therapy back!

  • @favourorjiakor3149
    @favourorjiakor3149 2 года назад +6

    I love how they all counselled Lani 🥰, she needed it

  • @cmk2278
    @cmk2278 2 года назад +70

    Jaysq said everything am thinking don’t get into a relationship with someone knowing their characters and then try to change them it won’t work

  • @jennel3717
    @jennel3717 2 года назад +114

    Feeling this cast and season wayyyy better than the old seasons

    • @jacksonshay938
      @jacksonshay938 2 года назад +58

      Just a bunch of wannabe influencers acting like they have money and talking about sex , the old seasons were 100%, this cast been not giving.

    • @mosetaaj8206
      @mosetaaj8206 2 года назад +3

      @@jacksonshay938 no 🧢

    • @Tommybotham
      @Tommybotham 2 года назад +11

      Are you trolling? This current cast are way too moist. All wanna cap when the camera is rolling so they can get famous.

    • @leticiaferreiravaz
      @leticiaferreiravaz 2 года назад +1

      Stop it

    • @ReeRee_Donita
      @ReeRee_Donita 2 года назад +6

      Nah the older seasons were iconic

  • @hudz8254
    @hudz8254 2 года назад +94

    LMAOOO 9:50 lani was defo talking about marc 😭😭😭 he is the definition of a toxic man

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 2 года назад +17

      DC and Castillo too defo especially Castillo something about the three of them don’t sit right with my soul

    • @Hurmuniie
      @Hurmuniie 2 года назад

      Listen… I peeped and screamed. I was like no she didn’t 😂😂😂😂

  • @onikapinkk
    @onikapinkk 2 года назад +52

    Bring yasminnnn mann 😩 lani and yasmin together are my favourites i cant believe shes not here anymore and they ganging up on her cause she had bad experiences with men… these girls aint it Lani you go girllll

  • @godsproperty2384
    @godsproperty2384 2 года назад +14

    Emmanuel speaks a lot of truth 💯

  • @victorohiolebo2379
    @victorohiolebo2379 2 года назад +15

    Iqra be all quiet until it's a man's money 😂😂

  • @jennel3717
    @jennel3717 2 года назад +17

    That’s a lot of sense and facts NK dropped in the end

  • @indigotarot5744
    @indigotarot5744 2 года назад +177

    Love how lani keeps it G and air everyone on bk chat!!!! 😆😆😆😆👏👏👏👏 she not scared to talk the truth about people fronting on the show 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @mosetaaj8206
      @mosetaaj8206 2 года назад +27

      She's still full of shit though

    • @officialchinz
      @officialchinz 2 года назад +14

      She needs to listen more

    • @pegobrown9204
      @pegobrown9204 2 года назад +10

      No point replying with sense, from all the emojis I can tell Nisha Green is probably a 14yr old girl excited by ratchetness

    • @Tommybotham
      @Tommybotham 2 года назад +9

      @@pegobrown9204 she got 49 thumbs up. 49 people agreed with her already. That's even more concerning.

    • @rathergetpaiid5426
      @rathergetpaiid5426 2 года назад +5

      she thinks 'her situation' is the majoritiy of what happens, when it doesn't

  • @OlaitanFajr
    @OlaitanFajr 2 года назад +31

    27:00 why did the girls esp Monty start to get mad when Lani was being realistic? Her point is it might not all be perfect, more bad times then good relationships ain’t perfect. And she’s telling Lani to shush for why???

  • @maryk4277
    @maryk4277 2 года назад +30

    Lani spits nothing but factssssssss!!!!! I love her sm

  • @Jasminpirdawdd
    @Jasminpirdawdd 2 года назад +6

    I rate lani she always speaking the truth not caring about what people think

  • @Junior-nl7dz
    @Junior-nl7dz 2 года назад +32

    every episode is a therapy session for lani😭

    • @papaee5678
      @papaee5678 2 года назад +2

      I would say that for hot desk. The people on bkchat are equally immature with their opinions so it doesn’t help her lol

  • @tonyeffik6781
    @tonyeffik6781 2 года назад +11

    joseph is so nigerian, straight comedy 😂

  • @blackbunny5841
    @blackbunny5841 2 года назад +33

    This Monty babe Dey cap everytime,can really be a pick me girl like come on

  • @coco7923
    @coco7923 2 года назад +23

    Lani and Joseph 😂😂
    Emmanuel and facts 🤝

  • @J1brils24
    @J1brils24 2 года назад +36

    I forgot NK was on this 😭

    • @ynazzra
      @ynazzra 2 года назад +8

      The amount of times he abandoned his own points mid sentence. 😂😂

    • @Crukren89
      @Crukren89 2 года назад +2

      He dropped some bars at the end though

  • @DanniA
    @DanniA 2 года назад +30

    i feel like Monty feeds off of getting validation from the guys, always against the girls, like ah ah calm down

  • @Aace23
    @Aace23 2 года назад +103

    This Iqraa girl yeah is a different breed.She’s the definition of a girl u should avoid at all cost !!

    • @kelz24s
      @kelz24s 2 года назад +8

      On my mums life

    • @tens4916
      @tens4916 2 года назад +6

      literally

    • @vanesaimafidon2791
      @vanesaimafidon2791 2 года назад +25

      For real Ikraa scares me. What comes out of her mouth is shocking

    • @alexav9328
      @alexav9328 2 года назад +6

      @@onikapinkk wtfffff 💀💀💀

    • @babsjob8729
      @babsjob8729 2 года назад +8

      @@onikapinkkwhat being somali has to do with that ?

  • @jarielojomah8311
    @jarielojomah8311 2 года назад +57

    That laughter after Joseph said “I would wait” killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @bekind3063
    @bekind3063 2 года назад +37

    This chick iqraa is dating older man 👴 for the cheque loooool

    • @Emmanuel-rz5tv
      @Emmanuel-rz5tv 2 года назад +4

      You can't really blame her, it's show she loves the money and if this guy she gets with stops spending on her, it's on to the next one 😅.

  • @Sarah-oo5lb
    @Sarah-oo5lb 2 года назад +162

    I really do like Monty but she gave me pick me behaviour this episode.

    • @waveybaby8939
      @waveybaby8939 2 года назад +36

      She’s so annoying

    • @rathergetpaiid5426
      @rathergetpaiid5426 2 года назад +14

      she hit one of your nerves lol

    • @benja303
      @benja303 2 года назад +8

      Which statement did she make that was pick me

    • @444sz
      @444sz 2 года назад +11

      Was looking for this comment😂

    • @yourdeadjack
      @yourdeadjack 2 года назад +2

      You sound like you will waste or have wasted your good years and end up dying alone because you’re no longer getting attention from men.

  • @elisha729
    @elisha729 2 года назад +10

    lani seems really hurt and i can feel it. she really needs a good guy to give her a more optimistic mood

  • @prettylittleliarsforever5902
    @prettylittleliarsforever5902 2 года назад +13

    Joeseph’s virgin freind , Maggie Mayhem?

  • @mz-hk7ie
    @mz-hk7ie 2 года назад +27

    Madam Iqra needs to be excluded from this show at this point

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 2 года назад +9

      In the words of NK last season…. she’s f***ing useless! 🔥🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @blahhaha2609
    @blahhaha2609 2 года назад +14

    Yeah if Lani wasn’t on this show, this wouldn’t be worth watching in my opinion

  • @Jasminpirdawdd
    @Jasminpirdawdd 2 года назад +14

    Monty always trying to be on the boys side

  • @edemaj778
    @edemaj778 2 года назад +6

    I liked this video just because of what Emmanuel said about our generation and marriage

  • @jennel3717
    @jennel3717 2 года назад +46

    There really should have been substitutes to this episode. Really wanted to know the opinions of the others especially Jae and Ay

  • @priscilla1592
    @priscilla1592 2 года назад +72

    the girl in the blonde wig is really giving "pick me" vibes

    • @crazercrazer
      @crazercrazer 2 года назад +2

      Typical female response to truth.

    • @nb5878
      @nb5878 2 года назад +8

      She really is

    • @Denisebell07
      @Denisebell07 2 года назад +2

      Why? Because she has her own opinion

    • @SuperSouthchick
      @SuperSouthchick 2 года назад +5

      Yup, can’t stand a woman who speaks for a man to agree, gives same energy as. Black people speaking for white acceptance. Cringe 😬

    • @Denisebell07
      @Denisebell07 2 года назад +2

      @@SuperSouthchick So if she spoke for a woman to agree it would be okay?

  • @lise4061
    @lise4061 2 года назад +15

    they almost missed the topic in the beginning 😭. Thank God for Immanuel

  • @Lavelle222
    @Lavelle222 2 года назад +8

    Lol, me as a woman here’s my opinion:
    Y’all be saying Monty is a “pick me girl” just because she actually has grown enough mentality to take accountability. Say what you want but, instead of judging a man for what he is or how he is… start judging women for what type of man they pick.
    Stop using “oh we are emotional” as an excuse for your choices.
    We are grown now, stop blaming men and go heal. 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Empressjaay
      @Empressjaay 2 года назад +1

      Thank you ppl just want her to be bias so bad😂

  • @Feistysagi
    @Feistysagi 2 года назад +36

    Dear Joseph,
    I PITY YOU 😂 ask her on a date and not show up. Honey you'll get BLOCKED and be SINGLE for a HOT MINUTE with that behaviour!

  • @nuffisha2831
    @nuffisha2831 2 года назад +59

    NK always looks nervous

    • @MOMO-436
      @MOMO-436 2 года назад +26

      He doesn’t wanna get cancelled

    • @missnaancy7442
      @missnaancy7442 2 года назад +3

      @@MOMO-436 😂😂😂

  • @Whyalwaysm0
    @Whyalwaysm0 2 года назад +8

    the girl with the cap loves capping 🤣 “pick me !“

  • @Pamedienne
    @Pamedienne 2 года назад +5

    “That’s an error, not a blip”. 🤣🤣🤣 - why’s Joseph like this?!

  • @perehh
    @perehh 2 года назад +10

    Joseph is a typical nigerian wthhh bruh😂😂😂

  • @JKM110
    @JKM110 2 года назад +73

    Lani needs therapy and to be put inside a serious prayer ohh, her relationship trauma is serious 😩

    • @Tuncapoo
      @Tuncapoo 2 года назад +2

      Fo'real

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 2 года назад +4

      Y’all some internet therapists and GEDS always saying someone needs therapy whole time y’all get way bigger issues to worry about. Worry about yourself and leave Lani alone

    • @adrianblake-williams5294
      @adrianblake-williams5294 2 года назад +2

      That’s so true. She’s been seriously hurt.

    • @adrianblake-williams5294
      @adrianblake-williams5294 2 года назад +8

      @@bentleysbugattis414 Nah bro, it’s not about being qualified to speak our opinions. Anyone who’s seen Lani since Season 4 compared to now can see she’s been seriously broken and very bitter.

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 2 года назад +1

      @@adrianblake-williams5294 During season 4 she was going through a lot also (said it in one of her story times) but she was hiding the pain with laughter, now she’s more open about how she feels and this season was filmed from January-April 2021 so it’s been over a year now

  • @Ht-wt4mv
    @Ht-wt4mv 2 года назад +3

    The type of guy you go for are those you resonate with, lets say during your life you’ve seen toxicity everywhere including in your house youre more prone to lean towards it as it’s all you know. Sometimes it can be down to how much you value yourself too, if you dont respect and love yourself you’ll go for those that are bad for you. It always comes back to you.

  • @daveolor8299
    @daveolor8299 2 года назад +7

    When Joseph said “break their heart like it’s water” dfkm😂😂

  • @Aunt-z8b
    @Aunt-z8b 2 года назад +14

    Never ignore a red flag 🚩

  • @iyanuldn715
    @iyanuldn715 2 года назад +30

    Please explain why these people never understand the question (8 marks)

  • @saheedsemiu4270
    @saheedsemiu4270 2 года назад +11

    There is absolutely something hidden between lani and Joseph cause 24:10 let just be Frank they both understand each other dark sides and always trying to attack and unattack one another... Love them both thou

    • @bentleysbugattis414
      @bentleysbugattis414 2 года назад +3

      I swear I’m starting to think they both have a crush on each other

  • @kaybee7824
    @kaybee7824 2 года назад +14

    Madam Iqra looking Beautiful on the interview ting

  • @hallex5939
    @hallex5939 2 года назад +10

    Monty is such a pick MEEEE, ah misogynistic even

    • @godrules3596
      @godrules3596 8 месяцев назад

      You're just using words not knowing what they mean mmmtchew🙄

  • @Menooy22
    @Menooy22 2 года назад +14

    "especially season 4" 😂😂😂

    • @watchm8530
      @watchm8530 2 года назад +4

      Ngl I’m thinking of Mike

  • @samihaholajumoke3426
    @samihaholajumoke3426 2 года назад +118

    Monty is capping though.... Lani is right tbh..
    Monty trying to act all realistic and backing Joseph is laughable because not everyone is emotionally capable of not reading meaning into things...
    Joseph talking about rejecting free food,lmao
    If you're serious about the boundary you wanna create so no one crosses the line,then you shouldn't take no free food tbh because you can see that a line is about to be crossed if you're eating free food (in quote),talmabout,no one asked you.

    • @Maria-qp5ov
      @Maria-qp5ov 2 года назад +21

      THANK YOU! i was thinking this Monty was just trying to back everything the guys said and ignored the things that the girls said. Giving v much pick me

    • @ThePinkApartment
      @ThePinkApartment 2 года назад +10

      Monty giving major pick mr vibes…v weird

    • @hamdi2374
      @hamdi2374 2 года назад +3

      She’s the new Esther

    • @jr5296
      @jr5296 2 года назад +11

      @@Maria-qp5ov Typical. Agrees with a man equals "pick me". lmao

    • @sammyflair1085
      @sammyflair1085 2 года назад +6

      So the woman doesn’t have the common sense to set her own boundaries y’all act like ur kids who can’t make ur own decisions

  • @nb5878
    @nb5878 2 года назад +19

    Joseph is a big red flag at his grown age, I thought this foolishness stopped as adults.

  • @MsKabz
    @MsKabz 2 года назад +10

    SAY IT LOUDERRRRR!!! “ The things we should save for marriage is what we are now giving out to one Tom Dick and Harry” 👌🏾

  • @tc644
    @tc644 2 года назад +8

    Depending on the red flag, don’t ignore it!!! If its something that will disturb you mentally and physically... go! Protect your peace ✌️.

  • @suennonaingie2441
    @suennonaingie2441 2 года назад +11

    20:53 - 21:49 Mah Guy was Spittin Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @hlumamapasa5312
    @hlumamapasa5312 2 года назад +34

    Monty is such a pick me , im tired

  • @GoldenChick01
    @GoldenChick01 2 года назад +21

    Lani speaks the most sense, someone get NK off this show.

  • @user-ec9rz7xh7e
    @user-ec9rz7xh7e 2 года назад +10

    Joseph is hilarious 🤣🤣

  • @aaaaaaa4580
    @aaaaaaa4580 2 года назад +7

    9:56 mark castilo😭😭

  • @doseofcls
    @doseofcls 2 года назад +66

    the problem with these transactions is that women are more emotional than men ... its common knowledge that the more u spend time with someone nomatter what the agreement was the more likely you're gonna start feeling them [ in this case, beyond the original agreement ] and instead of voicing that, you set yourself up thinking youll get the guy to fall for you doing more than the bare minimum you agreed to in the first place - men usually know when they want a relationship from the jump if he chose to keep you on the side roster thats where you'll forever stay LOOOOOL if by some twisted turn of events he decides to take it further he either doesnt know how to reject you, got someone he wants to be with but cant or hell be looking for someone better throughout the situationship 😂😂 "im not ready for a relationship" means "im not ready for a relationship with you" - lastly .. theres a fine line between being nice [ common decency ] and misplacing your time, love and energy cooking, running errands and constantly coming through for a man who doesnt want you beyond a transaction - big L 😂😂

    • @Azmodaeus49
      @Azmodaeus49 2 года назад +11

      That's why never agree to friends with benefits

    • @doseofcls
      @doseofcls 2 года назад

      @@Azmodaeus49 💯💯😀

    • @vicky4912
      @vicky4912 2 года назад +4

      You mean women are more in tune with our emotions and more emotionally mature. U males are more emotional and express it typically in anger

    • @civildiscourse7626
      @civildiscourse7626 2 года назад

      @@vicky4912 and women express it with moaning and outbursts… look at Lani

    • @je39981
      @je39981 2 года назад

      Made sense.

  • @wisdombenjamin1166
    @wisdombenjamin1166 2 года назад +19

    Shout out to Joseph man he's ma G, dude said it just the way it is!

  • @aliyah6670
    @aliyah6670 2 года назад +11

    Monty if you have a problem with Lani just say that Miss perfect

  • @nancy_anowai
    @nancy_anowai 2 года назад +36

    Why do they always need to repeat the question again for people to understand it? Lol

    • @user-yn9os7uc1v
      @user-yn9os7uc1v 2 года назад +5

      Cos they dumb as rocks

    • @iluvfatbitchez423
      @iluvfatbitchez423 2 года назад

      @@user-yn9os7uc1v 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Baddyusi
      @Baddyusi 2 года назад +14

      because some people take time to coprehand the question..... it is better for them to ask to be repeated again instead of going off on a q they don't understand...

  • @nyx2171
    @nyx2171 2 года назад

    One of the most sensible topic and inputs yet

  • @AJ-sp5dh
    @AJ-sp5dh 2 года назад +7

    Jaysqrd is the one with the most common sense🤣🤣

  • @wyntrrlee
    @wyntrrlee 2 года назад +10

    Monty pick me gworllll

  • @cheeta21156
    @cheeta21156 2 года назад +5

    JJ be capping like he’s a gyalis tooo much