when he said "ask her out and don't show up it'll make her like u more" no sir. u will end up blocked and never hear from me again lmaooo men are getting really sassy and bossy these days lol
remember his age he is the youngest among them and young girls might like that but when you are ready for marriage etc.. they won't accept that nonsense from no man
Lani always has a story on every topic 😂😂 All her friends have been through all the situations. She always knows some who have been through something 😂
@@nottyrese Marriages are still very necessary. There will always be a difference between children from solid families and children from dysfunction homes. Giving your kids a safe space with an ideal family of two guardians is a step towards giving them a healthy childhood. Not one will baby mama dramas and what not...
@@Feistysagi not being married doesn't mean dysfunctional. I mean marriage in the legally binding sense, u can be in a decade long loving relationship without a need to marry. Imo marriage in some cases lead to ppl staying in unhappy relationships bcos they feel binded to their vows. Just as unhealthy
Lani isn’t afraid to be herself and a lot of people wish to have that confidence and they hate to see it.. always disagreeing with her when she’s made a lot of valid points.. mind you she’s funny as fuk 😂😂😂 Home girl with the hat wasn’t pick me coz of her opinions it was more so her body language towards the females. Like chill
I totally agree with Lani on this one. It’s to many untreatable diseases out there right now to just have sex without exclusivity. However when I was 18/19 I’d totally agree with JaySqurdd. I’m at a age where I’d overlook certain habits/ but it will not come before my peace. So if I address my partner about something that makes me feel uncomfortable an they don’t change. I’m out! ✌🏾
not everything has to be negative , there are good relationships. Sometimes us girls needs to see the red flags and move on. Then you can find better. But you can’t be naive
Ani was right this episode Monty was just attacking her. Seems like Monty is trying to please the boys with her answers because she’s keeps changing it every time someone speaks
@@yungkingshaka1227 are you confused. There was literally a moment where lani was trying to speak and Monty and the boys where shouting at her before she even finished
@@ireoluwa2478 aww so shes a victim because people spoke over her, when she speaks over people constantly. Give it a rest luv. no victims here. they are all grown ups
@@MOMO-436 I know, the word pick me is just a tactic to shame them, it thrown everywhere, just say they have a different opinion then you or you don't like what they said.
@@Emmanuel-rz5tv Lol that’s literally what it is. Just because a girl can call out the bullshit other girls do they are labelled as pick me. So stupid, lani is just blind to women’s wrongdoings she always trying to flip it on to men and bring up some specific example
@@freddyotempong9444 she can speak for herself but the way she is speaking is as if every woman allows themselves to be played by men and it's their fault.
Bring yasminnnn mann 😩 lani and yasmin together are my favourites i cant believe shes not here anymore and they ganging up on her cause she had bad experiences with men… these girls aint it Lani you go girllll
27:00 why did the girls esp Monty start to get mad when Lani was being realistic? Her point is it might not all be perfect, more bad times then good relationships ain’t perfect. And she’s telling Lani to shush for why???
Lol, me as a woman here’s my opinion: Y’all be saying Monty is a “pick me girl” just because she actually has grown enough mentality to take accountability. Say what you want but, instead of judging a man for what he is or how he is… start judging women for what type of man they pick. Stop using “oh we are emotional” as an excuse for your choices. We are grown now, stop blaming men and go heal. 🤦🏾♀️
There is absolutely something hidden between lani and Joseph cause 24:10 let just be Frank they both understand each other dark sides and always trying to attack and unattack one another... Love them both thou
Y’all some internet therapists and GEDS always saying someone needs therapy whole time y’all get way bigger issues to worry about. Worry about yourself and leave Lani alone
@@bentleysbugattis414 Nah bro, it’s not about being qualified to speak our opinions. Anyone who’s seen Lani since Season 4 compared to now can see she’s been seriously broken and very bitter.
@@adrianblake-williams5294 During season 4 she was going through a lot also (said it in one of her story times) but she was hiding the pain with laughter, now she’s more open about how she feels and this season was filmed from January-April 2021 so it’s been over a year now
The type of guy you go for are those you resonate with, lets say during your life you’ve seen toxicity everywhere including in your house youre more prone to lean towards it as it’s all you know. Sometimes it can be down to how much you value yourself too, if you dont respect and love yourself you’ll go for those that are bad for you. It always comes back to you.
Monty is capping though.... Lani is right tbh.. Monty trying to act all realistic and backing Joseph is laughable because not everyone is emotionally capable of not reading meaning into things... Joseph talking about rejecting free food,lmao If you're serious about the boundary you wanna create so no one crosses the line,then you shouldn't take no free food tbh because you can see that a line is about to be crossed if you're eating free food (in quote),talmabout,no one asked you.
THANK YOU! i was thinking this Monty was just trying to back everything the guys said and ignored the things that the girls said. Giving v much pick me
Women need to listen to their intuition. You know when a guy isn’t interested but you want the guy to tell you he’s not interested. Save yourself headache and read in between the lines. The world isn’t going to baby anyone and coddle their feelings
the problem with these transactions is that women are more emotional than men ... its common knowledge that the more u spend time with someone nomatter what the agreement was the more likely you're gonna start feeling them [ in this case, beyond the original agreement ] and instead of voicing that, you set yourself up thinking youll get the guy to fall for you doing more than the bare minimum you agreed to in the first place - men usually know when they want a relationship from the jump if he chose to keep you on the side roster thats where you'll forever stay LOOOOOL if by some twisted turn of events he decides to take it further he either doesnt know how to reject you, got someone he wants to be with but cant or hell be looking for someone better throughout the situationship 😂😂 "im not ready for a relationship" means "im not ready for a relationship with you" - lastly .. theres a fine line between being nice [ common decency ] and misplacing your time, love and energy cooking, running errands and constantly coming through for a man who doesnt want you beyond a transaction - big L 😂😂
Just know there is a strong correlation between an increased number of sexual partners and an increased chance of divorce. It's been demonstrated through various studies, virgins who marry are least likely to get divorced. So when people want to enjoy their youth first. Just know you're carrying that baggage into marriage
What ever “T-Wayne From The 9” did to Lani… it has tainted her soul forever… I feel like all her venom for men is directed to him 😂🤣
Lani and tion need to go on blue therapy😂
I’d pay to watch that😂😂😂
hands are gonna be thrown 😂😂
That would break the internet and probably get over 10 million views
Lol blue therapy could afford lani idk about tion tho🤣
Lani vs Joseph
Excellent entertainment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loving ittttt 🥲
Everytime 😂😭
Secret couple
regardless of the age gap i want them together
@@rosieamber1562 how old is she
That's true. People ignore red flags, thinking the person will change or thinking they can live with it
And they think they special 😂😂😂
Story of my life unfortunately...
And that’s a fact ik a girl who ignored red flags and they were some HUGE RED FLAGS
The current bkchat would be nothing without Lani 😂 love her or hate her she’s the new face of bkchat 😂😂
And that's why the show is on the decline..
I was about to say these lot are boring thank god lani is there 😂
nah Lani is the reason I barely watch this. loud and wrong.
Her views are so ridiculous, hope no one takes her serious lol
Thank you
Lani is actually very right it’s just everyone keeps shooting the messenger
Yep
🥴
No
when he said "ask her out and don't show up it'll make her like u more"
no sir. u will end up blocked and never hear from me again lmaooo
men are getting really sassy and bossy these days lol
remember his age
he is the youngest among them and young girls might like that
but when you are ready for marriage etc.. they won't accept that nonsense from no man
The accuracy for me
As inn, you will get blocked and deleted with the quickness tff 😂
Perioddd sis
It’s a hypothesis only, he has not tested it on anyone lol
Lani always has a story on every topic 😂😂
All her friends have been through all the situations. She always knows some who have been through something 😂
If you realised everytime she says that shes talking about herself not her friends
Esther jr
@@SnowmanSantana why she so loud
@@imabosscanubeone6620 i think she thinks the louder she is the more we’d get her point 😂
You’re confusing her with season 4 Esther
Emmanuel speaking facttss. This generation is giving marriage benefits at the opening stages of relationships hence the reduced rate of marriages now
Omggggg this is so true!!!
Honestly!! If you're doing up wifey duties, but you're still at girlfriend status, you can't really expect the ring!
Tbh marriage isn’t really necessary anymore. People have only been doing it for longer than needed to keep up traditions.
@@nottyrese Marriages are still very necessary. There will always be a difference between children from solid families and children from dysfunction homes. Giving your kids a safe space with an ideal family of two guardians is a step towards giving them a healthy childhood. Not one will baby mama dramas and what not...
@@Feistysagi not being married doesn't mean dysfunctional. I mean marriage in the legally binding sense, u can be in a decade long loving relationship without a need to marry. Imo marriage in some cases lead to ppl staying in unhappy relationships bcos they feel binded to their vows. Just as unhealthy
Lani isn’t afraid to be herself and a lot of people wish to have that confidence and they hate to see it.. always disagreeing with her when she’s made a lot of valid points.. mind you she’s funny as fuk 😂😂😂 Home girl with the hat wasn’t pick me coz of her opinions it was more so her body language towards the females. Like chill
I totally agree with Lani on this one. It’s to many untreatable diseases out there right now to just have sex without exclusivity. However when I was 18/19 I’d totally agree with JaySqurdd. I’m at a age where I’d overlook certain habits/ but it will not come before my peace. So if I address my partner about something that makes me feel uncomfortable an they don’t change. I’m out! ✌🏾
Monty telling lani she cant use past experiences to judge a guy but telling Brandon she’s not sure …like baby gal are you confused???
Lani wasn’t too bad this episode but once again towards the end she showed her brilliant knowledge 😂😂
All NK wanted to do was ask his question 😂😂
Ladies if an man says “let’s go with the flow.” Run. Run as fast as you can.🏃🏽♀️🚩
If a man says “he’s has trust issues” because of how his ex did him dirty. Run! out of there with the quickness. 🏃♂️ 🚩
😂😂😂😂😂
Run run run
Or “let’s just see where this goes”
Same with mandem......if a lady says let's get with th3 flow, run with yo slide in your hands
if a woman tries to lock you down and cuff as soon as possible run because it means she chased many man off
Lani's always right but it's just the delivery that makes me mad😭😭
Edit lol: Most of the time she's right lmao
How can they all start laughing when Nk finally spoke, its the disrespect fa me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
not everything has to be negative , there are good relationships. Sometimes us girls needs to see the red flags and move on. Then you can find better. But you can’t be naive
But thinking about the negative is realistic. Only 1/4 times its good, prepare for the worst so you’re not blindsided
@@OlaitanFajr very true , life isn’t a fairytale after all
monty is giving sylvia kay vibes.. just siding with the boys to make lani look ‘crazy’
She’s been talking about her “delusional” stage, she’s still stuck💀
@@Sarah-jn1bp 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@@Sarah-jn1bp EXACTLY
fr, even tho lani says the maddest things, she was not 100% wrong with what she was saying.
Iqraa's answer to any question: MONEY
i stan a consistent queen.
Emmanuel always speaks straight facts 💯
Jessie too
Monty must like Jay cause she's giving pick me
Frrrr
Facts!!
whos monty?
@@Whyalwaysm0 the one in the hat
Telling women to be accountable and take responsibility for their choices is a pick me attitude.🤦♂️😑
Laniiiii, protect lani at all costs 🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Ani was right this episode Monty was just attacking her. Seems like Monty is trying to please the boys with her answers because she’s keeps changing it every time someone speaks
But Monty spoke the truth on a few occasions about women taking accountability.
no one attacked Lani, stop it 😂
@@yungkingshaka1227 are you confused. There was literally a moment where lani was trying to speak and Monty and the boys where shouting at her before she even finished
@@ireoluwa2478 aww so shes a victim because people spoke over her, when she speaks over people constantly. Give it a rest luv. no victims here. they are all grown ups
@@yungkingshaka1227 can you not read where did I say she was a victim
Can we take a minute to appreciate how good Lani looks 😍
Lani is really holding the show, as in she’s not having it 😂😂
the amount of times nk was cut off is hilarious
Lani is being realistic
Iqra,girl
Just because a man is in his 40s or whatever age bracket you talked about don't mean they're smart or experienced yo!
Girl,you tripping
I’m saying. I’m 24 and I only date men in their late 30’s early 40’s and I can say with absolute certainty that they are equally as stupid. 🤣🤣
I’m so proud of Emmanuel his always making Nigeria 🇳🇬 proud in all his videos
The other girls acting like Pick Me’s Lani keeps it 100
Especially that girl with blue cap, the cap represents her opinion
How are they pick mes??
@@MOMO-436 I know, the word pick me is just a tactic to shame them, it thrown everywhere, just say they have a different opinion then you or you don't like what they said.
@@Emmanuel-rz5tv Lol that’s literally what it is. Just because a girl can call out the bullshit other girls do they are labelled as pick me. So stupid, lani is just blind to women’s wrongdoings she always trying to flip it on to men and bring up some specific example
Frfr
Lani made some valid points tbh
She did still
she does a lot of the time but they don't be hearing her
What points did she make?
Yesssss
yep
Lani spoke facts the entire video 👏🏾
Monty was being the biggest pick me bro😂
Frrrr
I like her. Shes being real and accountable to self.
@@freddyotempong9444 she can speak for herself but the way she is speaking is as if every woman allows themselves to be played by men and it's their fault.
She cute though just stupid
She's just explaining what alot of women go through who ignore red flags and why they ignore them
Lani spitting facts, bad boys prey on good girls
Periodddd💯
I love how they all counselled Lani 🥰, she needed it
we need blue therapy back!
Bring yasminnnn mann 😩 lani and yasmin together are my favourites i cant believe shes not here anymore and they ganging up on her cause she had bad experiences with men… these girls aint it Lani you go girllll
LANI SHOWS EVERY EPISODE THAT SHE NEEDS SERIOUS HEALING AND A THERAPIST.
Jaysq said everything am thinking don’t get into a relationship with someone knowing their characters and then try to change them it won’t work
27:00 why did the girls esp Monty start to get mad when Lani was being realistic? Her point is it might not all be perfect, more bad times then good relationships ain’t perfect. And she’s telling Lani to shush for why???
Iqra be all quiet until it's a man's money 😂😂
Emmanuel speaks a lot of truth 💯
This Monty babe Dey cap everytime,can really be a pick me girl like come on
Lani and Joseph 😂😂
Emmanuel and facts 🤝
joseph is so nigerian, straight comedy 😂
I really do like Monty but she gave me pick me behaviour this episode.
She’s so annoying
she hit one of your nerves lol
Which statement did she make that was pick me
Was looking for this comment😂
You sound like you will waste or have wasted your good years and end up dying alone because you’re no longer getting attention from men.
LMAOOO 9:50 lani was defo talking about marc 😭😭😭 he is the definition of a toxic man
DC and Castillo too defo especially Castillo something about the three of them don’t sit right with my soul
Listen… I peeped and screamed. I was like no she didn’t 😂😂😂😂
That’s a lot of sense and facts NK dropped in the end
Joeseph’s virgin freind , Maggie Mayhem?
This chick iqraa is dating older man 👴 for the cheque loooool
You can't really blame her, it's show she loves the money and if this guy she gets with stops spending on her, it's on to the next one 😅.
I rate lani she always speaking the truth not caring about what people think
I forgot NK was on this 😭
The amount of times he abandoned his own points mid sentence. 😂😂
He dropped some bars at the end though
i feel like Monty feeds off of getting validation from the guys, always against the girls, like ah ah calm down
every episode is a therapy session for lani😭
I would say that for hot desk. The people on bkchat are equally immature with their opinions so it doesn’t help her lol
Monty always trying to be on the boys side
lani seems really hurt and i can feel it. she really needs a good guy to give her a more optimistic mood
Love how lani keeps it G and air everyone on bk chat!!!! 😆😆😆😆👏👏👏👏 she not scared to talk the truth about people fronting on the show 👏👏👏👏👏
She's still full of shit though
She needs to listen more
No point replying with sense, from all the emojis I can tell Nisha Green is probably a 14yr old girl excited by ratchetness
@@pegobrown9204 she got 49 thumbs up. 49 people agreed with her already. That's even more concerning.
she thinks 'her situation' is the majoritiy of what happens, when it doesn't
Yeah if Lani wasn’t on this show, this wouldn’t be worth watching in my opinion
Feeling this cast and season wayyyy better than the old seasons
Just a bunch of wannabe influencers acting like they have money and talking about sex , the old seasons were 100%, this cast been not giving.
@@jacksonshay938 no 🧢
Are you trolling? This current cast are way too moist. All wanna cap when the camera is rolling so they can get famous.
Stop it
Nah the older seasons were iconic
they almost missed the topic in the beginning 😭. Thank God for Immanuel
Lani spits nothing but factssssssss!!!!! I love her sm
There really should have been substitutes to this episode. Really wanted to know the opinions of the others especially Jae and Ay
“That’s an error, not a blip”. 🤣🤣🤣 - why’s Joseph like this?!
Joseph is a typical nigerian wthhh bruh😂😂😂
Madam Iqra needs to be excluded from this show at this point
In the words of NK last season…. she’s f***ing useless! 🔥🤦🏾♂️
This Iqraa girl yeah is a different breed.She’s the definition of a girl u should avoid at all cost !!
On my mums life
literally
For real Ikraa scares me. What comes out of her mouth is shocking
@@onikapinkk wtfffff 💀💀💀
@@onikapinkkwhat being somali has to do with that ?
I liked this video just because of what Emmanuel said about our generation and marriage
the girl with the cap loves capping 🤣 “pick me !“
the girl in the blonde wig is really giving "pick me" vibes
Typical female response to truth.
She really is
Why? Because she has her own opinion
Yup, can’t stand a woman who speaks for a man to agree, gives same energy as. Black people speaking for white acceptance. Cringe 😬
@@SuperSouthchick So if she spoke for a woman to agree it would be okay?
Madam Iqra looking Beautiful on the interview ting
Lol, me as a woman here’s my opinion:
Y’all be saying Monty is a “pick me girl” just because she actually has grown enough mentality to take accountability. Say what you want but, instead of judging a man for what he is or how he is… start judging women for what type of man they pick.
Stop using “oh we are emotional” as an excuse for your choices.
We are grown now, stop blaming men and go heal. 🤦🏾♀️
Thank you ppl just want her to be bias so bad😂
When Joseph said “break their heart like it’s water” dfkm😂😂
Please explain why these people never understand the question (8 marks)
🤣
Monty is such a pick me , im tired
Never ignore a red flag 🚩
Monty is such a pick MEEEE, ah misogynistic even
You're just using words not knowing what they mean mmmtchew🙄
"especially season 4" 😂😂😂
Ngl I’m thinking of Mike
Joseph is hilarious 🤣🤣
SAY IT LOUDERRRRR!!! “ The things we should save for marriage is what we are now giving out to one Tom Dick and Harry” 👌🏾
NK always looks nervous
He doesn’t wanna get cancelled
@@MOMO-436 😂😂😂
Monty if you have a problem with Lani just say that Miss perfect
That laughter after Joseph said “I would wait” killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂🤣😂😂😂😂he's such a liar
There is absolutely something hidden between lani and Joseph cause 24:10 let just be Frank they both understand each other dark sides and always trying to attack and unattack one another... Love them both thou
I swear I’m starting to think they both have a crush on each other
9:56 mark castilo😭😭
Monty pick me gworllll
Lani needs therapy and to be put inside a serious prayer ohh, her relationship trauma is serious 😩
Fo'real
Y’all some internet therapists and GEDS always saying someone needs therapy whole time y’all get way bigger issues to worry about. Worry about yourself and leave Lani alone
That’s so true. She’s been seriously hurt.
@@bentleysbugattis414 Nah bro, it’s not about being qualified to speak our opinions. Anyone who’s seen Lani since Season 4 compared to now can see she’s been seriously broken and very bitter.
@@adrianblake-williams5294 During season 4 she was going through a lot also (said it in one of her story times) but she was hiding the pain with laughter, now she’s more open about how she feels and this season was filmed from January-April 2021 so it’s been over a year now
Depending on the red flag, don’t ignore it!!! If its something that will disturb you mentally and physically... go! Protect your peace ✌️.
The type of guy you go for are those you resonate with, lets say during your life you’ve seen toxicity everywhere including in your house youre more prone to lean towards it as it’s all you know. Sometimes it can be down to how much you value yourself too, if you dont respect and love yourself you’ll go for those that are bad for you. It always comes back to you.
Dear Joseph,
I PITY YOU 😂 ask her on a date and not show up. Honey you'll get BLOCKED and be SINGLE for a HOT MINUTE with that behaviour!
Joseph is hilarious bro 🤣
Joseph is too funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Monty is capping though.... Lani is right tbh..
Monty trying to act all realistic and backing Joseph is laughable because not everyone is emotionally capable of not reading meaning into things...
Joseph talking about rejecting free food,lmao
If you're serious about the boundary you wanna create so no one crosses the line,then you shouldn't take no free food tbh because you can see that a line is about to be crossed if you're eating free food (in quote),talmabout,no one asked you.
THANK YOU! i was thinking this Monty was just trying to back everything the guys said and ignored the things that the girls said. Giving v much pick me
Monty giving major pick mr vibes…v weird
She’s the new Esther
@@Maria-qp5ov Typical. Agrees with a man equals "pick me". lmao
So the woman doesn’t have the common sense to set her own boundaries y’all act like ur kids who can’t make ur own decisions
Women need to listen to their intuition. You know when a guy isn’t interested but you want the guy to tell you he’s not interested. Save yourself headache and read in between the lines. The world isn’t going to baby anyone and coddle their feelings
the problem with these transactions is that women are more emotional than men ... its common knowledge that the more u spend time with someone nomatter what the agreement was the more likely you're gonna start feeling them [ in this case, beyond the original agreement ] and instead of voicing that, you set yourself up thinking youll get the guy to fall for you doing more than the bare minimum you agreed to in the first place - men usually know when they want a relationship from the jump if he chose to keep you on the side roster thats where you'll forever stay LOOOOOL if by some twisted turn of events he decides to take it further he either doesnt know how to reject you, got someone he wants to be with but cant or hell be looking for someone better throughout the situationship 😂😂 "im not ready for a relationship" means "im not ready for a relationship with you" - lastly .. theres a fine line between being nice [ common decency ] and misplacing your time, love and energy cooking, running errands and constantly coming through for a man who doesnt want you beyond a transaction - big L 😂😂
That's why never agree to friends with benefits
@@Azmodaeus49 💯💯😀
You mean women are more in tune with our emotions and more emotionally mature. U males are more emotional and express it typically in anger
@@vicky4912 and women express it with moaning and outbursts… look at Lani
Made sense.
Jaysqrd is the one with the most common sense🤣🤣
20:53 - 21:49 Mah Guy was Spittin Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Just know there is a strong correlation between an increased number of sexual partners and an increased chance of divorce.
It's been demonstrated through various studies, virgins who marry are least likely to get divorced.
So when people want to enjoy their youth first. Just know you're carrying that baggage into marriage
Looool what kind of propaganda is this
@@hallex5939 is it propaganda because I'm lying? Or because you're unfamiliar with the truth?
@@thefaith01 oh pls allow it, he’s chatting shit btw
😂😂😂. Jospeh is soo funny. He’s been program since he came out of his mum womb
JJ be capping like he’s a gyalis tooo much