BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 13 - “Breaking Up With Your Friend Hurts More Than Any Other BreakUp”
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- This week the cast highlight toxicity between friends and how affected one can be from a friendship breakup!
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i lowkey feel bad for Gudeh ,he stayed quite most of this episode you can just tell he did not continue to say his opinion because he knew whatever he would say some one would have a problem with it and make noise for no reason.
Exactly no one should feel silenced because if they open their mouth they will get attacked
Becoming 100% comfortable with being alone is like a superpower. It's tough at first cause you feel lonely, but after you overcome that you kinda feel invincible. It's liberating and you get WAYYYY more stuff done. And you get to do exactly what you want to do.
Facts!
True. I think once we find comfortability with being alone we’ll be more picky with the people we decide to call friends and open up to.
Yes!! I’m the opposite (of the video) I’m okay with being alone less drama and less stress. However I still get along with others but I don’t pursue it further … not that I’m bitter but I guess uneasy when it comes to friendships.
🎯 i can relate a lot 👑
I’ve always been like this tbh! Never had a problem with it and as I get older, I love it even more 😅 …spending time by yourself & loving it is definitely the best feeling 🙌🏾
a lot of people in this generation have no idea what friendship is
sadly true
this
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So true
What is friendship
the fact people chat behind your back and pretend to rate you
is scary asf
Veryyy 💯
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Those are the worst kind of people!!
It's bitchmade asf too.
The ‘friends for the sake of having friends’ people. Just be don’t hang with them if you’re like that, it’s so weird to be acting in front of someone’s face
Thank God for siblings. They’re the real MVP’s. Friendships change also with major life changes eg., getting married, having baby. True friendship relationship is one that stands the rest of time.
Yesss!! Siblings are everything 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 ..it’s a blessing to have a close knit family
Brothers and sisters fall out as well
I’ve seen plenty of siblings switch up on each other, especially after a parent dies
Couldn’t agree more siblings are indeed true friends 🤝
People who are close with their siblings are lucky or even get too see their siblings. Many people do not get that.
Monty didnt need to say that comment about why he falls out with friends. Using what he vulnerably shared, against him in front of everyone. Disrespectful. Yh you can both have ur different opinions but from when your bringing up something like that, ur taking it too far tbh.
That was very immature of her
@@nikigracevlogs yes and insensitive
Monty has hella attitude from the remarks to lani being suicidal to her saying that’s why guh deh friendship always fails , idk she just seems off
There's never an episode where she's not being a negative nancy.
it’s like she’s trying to embarrass people with their personal viewpoints instead of giving them a chance to land
monty saying that guh deh's mentality is mad is funny coming from her
Y u say that
@@sarahdight1341 monty is very quick to judge other individuals on this show,she comes off very negative & doesn’t seem like the most pleasant person because of these traits,from the way she treats others & interacts w them i’m assuming her mentality isn’t the best,so it’s surprising to hear someone with such a persona talk about another persons mentality
Right
Lack of emotional independence is why people rely on their friends too much
smartest comment fact fact fact fact
Exactly!
JAY SQAURE SPEAKING FACTS PEOPLE ARE YOUR FRIEND TO BENEFITS THEM LOUDERRR
Monty is disgusting for the way she attacked Guh Deh. She needs to fix up and I hope she reads this.
No cause she said that it’s wasn’t meant to be shade ,she was assuming
But yea it came rude
Honestlyyyyy
Guhdeh responded with a response video
What happened
@@levinlegend5253 Where
Monty's attitude stinks. She thinks she's the end all and be all of the conversations. She thinks everything she says holds more weight than the others. How dare she tries to invalidate Lani and Guh Deh's opinions like someone died and made her queen. She had no right to insinuate why Guh Deh's past friendships ended like it was facts or very personal to her. She needs to learn how to keep her opinions diplomatic and not incorporate too much of her personal biased feelings into it. She doesn't know them personally or what they're going through so her insensitivity and gaslighting tactics came off quite narcissistic.
I’m gonna say it…Monty didn’t have to be so rude to Guhdeh, he could’ve said what he meant in a better way and if you listen closely, Ade even agrees with what he’s saying. I’ve clocked on for a while the distaste Monty has for Guhdeh, idk what happened between them but the animosity is very blatant😂 Plus she was sounding bad mind at the end, a friend can support you in many different ways, just because they not doing it in the way you would like them to doesn’t mean they don’t support you. She’s giving broken energy.
THANKYOU!
@@GuhDehPhillip your welcome 🙏🏾
Righttrt
Facts! I’m starting to think Guhdeh was right about Monty claiming to be real but she’s really not and pretends to be. It’s like she goes whichever way the wind blows and has no mind of her own so she changes her opinion all the time.
He deserves it after telling me to suck my dead dad a year ago 🙄 whatever they do to him on that show he deserves.
Monty didn’t need to be rude to guhdeh idk what the back story is but she stay coming for him in certain episodes
why does lani love drawing out Joseph everytimeee😭😭
cah hes rejected her before
She loves him 🤝🥺
I know right🤣
@@urfave5605 lmaooo 😂😂😂
Monty hates Guh Deh and it really shows.
It's unsightly lol. Makes her look like a lowlife a bit.
We live in a world were people think having friends is a must
you can't trust people like that people move crazy lol you don't know how they chat to you behind your back
it's best to have a small circle of friends tbh
So still have friends?
Lani such a sweet heart loool she means well but misunderstood
THISSS 💯💯
ikr! idc what anybody says, she's my favourite female on there
ikr, she's so cute lmao.
this show is like a car crash. I can't help but watch it😩😩
not this episode tho
This episode was cool though. Let’s be positive 😭
@@EsiriE yh for once this show was good. Actually paid attention. but previous episodes😩😩. we need content like this
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣car crash
Lool
ngl i love monty but she was wrong for that. she doesn’t know nothing about what actually goes on in guh deh’s friendship. She had no right to say that.
She doesnt have to know but she was valid for saying that because his analogy was way off topic at the time and it came across as he doesn't really listen to provide feedback but he merely says whatever it is that he feels like saying. She probably should have said it in private just for discretion but still.
Monty shouldn’t have! Shutting Guh Deh up like that was in no way nice.
I get the point Gudeh was trying to make . If only he was able to make his point without everyone jumping up and down.
he’s saying rubbish. why should you feel like its a chore to support your own friend
@@princessa5096 - What I understood from what Guh Deh was saying was that there are other ways to support your friends, rather than public acts. And doing that doesn’t make you any less of a friend.
14:54 - 15:02 can't lie I was that friend. I won't tell you to your face "why didn't you invite me?" But I'd feel a way if you went out with people who are our MUTUAL friends AND I'm closer to you than them... yet you didn't even ask me if I wanted to go. And on top of all of this, you put up snaps & stories so it's like you're rubbing it in.
I'm so glad I became a loner lol. I'm at complete peace now.
Agreed, like we are supposed to be close and you didn’t even ask me to hangout. Like I have had friends that would come in town hangout with other people which I don’t care but then they would leave or not tell me they were coming in town but we are supposed to be so close they would come and then leave without saying anything. As far the communication thing I don’t think we need to talk everyday but we should definitely need to communicate with each other like do a check in.
That's true, if one of your friend is inviting your mutual friends and you're not invited then.... Those aren't your friends and they don't respect you. If they respected you then you'd be the first person to be contacted.
I’m dealing with that now honestly
I lost a 10yr friend cause he found a girl & basically kicked me to the curb. We'd been best friends throughout secondary & a couple years after. It hurt short-term but long-term it has helped cause now I don't expect nothing from no one. I roll alone & that brings me the most peace cause I obviously can't turn on myself.
I'm not anitsocial, I talk to people but I just keep them at arms distance.
Same happened to me in 2015 i've seen him years after it but once he turned his back on me after i always helped him i accepted it and the friendship was just over i never had the same connection with the guy.
@@denzel9455 Thats scary how a friendship ended like that. Friendships these days are overrated.
Rarrrr! This happened to me too just after sixth form. I literally told myself “arms length”! So peaceful when those boundaries are set, and you’re so happy within yourself, not needing to depend on friends for anything. I love my small circle of friends but I won’t be caught slipping again 😅 *btw, my friendship was only about 3 years. 10yrs is deeep*
@@nikigracevlogs I exaggerated a bit. Friends for 8 years, best friends for about 5 of them
This happened to me last October, I realised he was an awful friend to begin with & I had to grow up and be okay with being alone over having friends who drop you when literally anyone else shows up.
The fact that I lost a friendship of 8 years this video came at the right time.
I’m ngl, with the “friends have to share your content/project etc” both sides make sense to a degree. I don’t feel comfortable forcing my friends and family to support my stuff if it’s not their kinda thing because then it’s not genuine but *ultimately* , if you’re somebody’s friend and you love them you will find a way to support whether it’s sharing it or mentioning it with or to someone who might be interested etc or even encouraging them…if you love or value someone you will find a way to make them feel supported.
This was a very good discussion though. 💯
Personally, if you're out here sharing posts about the Kartrashians or footballers you even know yet you don't share my shit without me even asking, it shows me your true colours.
@@theoneandonly0099 this is very valid tbh 💯
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@@theoneandonly0099 Kartrashians? 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@theoneandonly0099 it depends on what you're uploading. If for example, I make a RUclips channel about football. I must understand that not everybody is going to be interested in my content because it's about football (something that I like), I can't force my friend to like football discussions. It might not be his taste. But that doesn't mean that he can't support what he likes. So I can't question what he's supporting because these are what he likes. So again, it depends on what you're uploading.
The main problem is a lot of these people are NOT your friends. Stop using that word.
Everything that ‘is not the deep’ is because the friendship/ relationship isn’t that deep.
The sooner we realise this the better.
People in the comments saying that they’re proud they don’t have friends, and happy to be alone and not get too close to people/investing in friendships are a waste of time etc. are missing the point. In life, friendship is a beautiful thing and should be treasured. You should be open to making friends and investing at least some time/energy to getting to know people and having meaningful relationships. Yes, sometimes you will be hurt by people, but that’s expected in life. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try maintaining friendships because you’d be missing out on a beautiful part of life. You could meet amazing people who could enrich your life by just giving it a chance. And of course, you can still be independent and focus on yourself at the same time.
Agree. I can proudly say I’ve got real ones in my corner. There are good people out there. That most friendships are seasonal doesn’t mean you give up.
I def agree. Friendship is an important aspect of life, setting boundaries and clear communication usually sets the tone for longevity. I think apart of what is too Is that they don’t like it kinda
I agree with you although I haven't experienced it.
Making friends from the age of 10 - 18 is very different from making friends from the age of 19 - 30 years old. Using the term 'Friend' or 'Friendship' shouldn't be used loosely because it makes individuals look desperate and easily-persuaded/vulnerable.
Not every friendship should be treasured, more time you have to be distance and just hang out/associate with acquaintances that you usually socialize with because nowadays 'friendship' is more than just "hanging out", if anything happened to you such as you getting lost in a city. Which friend would you call first, second and third? And would they pick up and start finding you out of their house at night or midnight? 90% of the people that I speak with can't answer that .
@@user-pj8oj7bh2x v good point
how can Monty come for all of GuhDehs friendships based on a single example he made about his dads restuarant she even went on to further sy that his mentality is mad . She has no right icl very rude shes doing wayyy to much , some loud girl.
People usually say that you have to be friends with your partner for the relationship to truly work and I feel like a friendship bond is way way stronger that a romantic one, which is why it hurts the most. During breakups, people mourn for that lost friendship, which is essentially the same type of relationship someone would have with a best friend, sans that romantic stuff, like kissing, dates and sex (for some). But it’s that bond broken. the late night calls, leaning on each other and telling each other your deepest, darkest secrets. It will most definitely hurt more if you’ve formed and established a close friendship with anyone, even with a partner if they were your friend before they were your partner.
Facts
Honestly "friends" can switch up at any moment!!! it's healthier to have and discuss boundaries if friendship is to have longevity.
First time ever Lani hasn’t annoyed me. keep it like that Lani!
Lmaooo same 😂😂😂
Cus she didn't speak 😭😭😭💀
😂😂😂😂😂
Some friends get mad when they see u doing better then them. That’s why they won’t support you. That’s not a friend.
Hey hey hey guys “This is not Destiny’s Child” I’m 💀
Why does monty always tryna be the pick me girl like when I watch this it’s always her speaking over the girls and being on the guys sides always she’s always just chatting bare seems like shes the type who acts different when guys are around pick me gyal 🤣
I thought I was the only one that noticed the pick me stuff😭😭😭even if you want to seem different from the other girls like she should make sense
I love how they stay on topic
and they’re some that try get off topic to get a valid point
@@Whyalwaysm0 always one
Vast majority of friendships are temporary, that's the cold truth.
We need to learn to STOP using the word FRIENDSHIP so loosely. 9/10 times everyone is only out for themselves, and they will be who you need them to be at a time in your life but that rarely lasts forever. Just be original with people and stick to your guns. Those that are for you, will be with you and please remember to give everyone you meet a certain criteria that they must accomplish before you air them out as your "friends".
It’s them trying to embarrass Guh Deh when his point about his dads shop was very valid for me chile
When i told my "best" friend that im planning to relocate for better pay and better job, she said i cnt do it until she gets married, i can do it after, i cnt leave her 🤷♀️ she said she meant it as a joke...it was not funny to me. Lots of ppl u consider friends actually try to hold u back for as long as they can.
Think it was a misunderstanding
It is the fact that they think they can continue being friends with you until they get married... once they get married they'll forget about you
And not the friends, it can also be family members.
I don't depend on anyone. People are quite shocked at how much I rely on SELF. I spend so much time alone I've learnt to enjoy it🤣. I don't have expectations from people.
The thing about me is, I connect with people easily so I end up having wonderful conversations with people even when I'm out alone.
But yes back to friends, if you're there, great! I'm grateful and I've been blessed with wonderful friends, but I do not expect anything. Some people are too co - dependent it's exhausting. Learn to be self reliant and work on yourself spiritually emotionally mentally and physically.
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That’s why girls ain’t friends for long. So much expectations. Sometimes take notes from guys.
The guys and girls were agreeing though
This was actually a good discussion
stop mentioning renee, she doesn't bother you lot...if she makes a comment on this you'll say she's seeking drama,just stop.
Or do you want it for tomorrow
Shuuush man honestly
Exactly like
@Stacy Mercury to be honest i don’t see the correlation with my comment & what you said, but your opinions on her are your own as are mine…one thing for certain though is she’s constantly attacked after defending herself being provoked,some people need to take accountability for their actions and stop acting like a victim after pushing someone’s buttons consistently,esp someone whose minding their own business…at that point,they’re asking for it
@Stacy Mercury and to use the word ‘humanise’ is very distasteful,just because someone doesn’t act in a manner you would prefer them to,doesn’t mean that they act in an inhumane way…don’t think you have a valid say after a statement like that
Wow, I genuinely loved this episode…nice convo and everyone had good valid points to add and felt very relatable 🙏🏾
Adefolake is beautiful 😍
☺️☺️ Thank you honey 💕💕
And speaking good points and facts
Friendship is like a family you choose and usually are an extension of your blood family to some extent, depending where you place individual relationships.
Monty needs to chill out on GuhDeh a bit... The shade is unpleasant to watch. It's making her look like a lowlife tbh.
Lani calling Joseph out had me in TEEEEEAAAAAARS 🤣🤣🤣🤣
All the time💀😭
I’m more with Lani on this one! (Not the suicidal bit). I love my friends but thinking about my long-term relationship ending. Hell naaah. Doesn’t even compare. While you’re young I understand that we spend more time with friends but as you get older, you spend most of your time with your partner/husband/wife/gf etc. Things just change. Priorities change.
If there's a start then there's always going to be an ending, friendship isn't forever.
12:33 Joseph's face when lani said "me and Joseph had a thing, yeah?"😂😂😂
The way I am just going through this rn I gave this friend of mine 600 dollars and all of the sudden they started moving differently and just decided to stop talking to me and says they don’t want to be friends and this video just came in at the right timing cause it happened today and honestly find that so fucked up
Kevin hart says that’s how u should get rid of ppl by giving them money.
Laniii u have a appointment bb y girl❤
What a horrible 'friend' - you don't need such a nasty, callous person in your life anymore
You seem super dumb, sorry I meant a great friend!! Hey buddy lemme borrow $400/£298.38?
@@pegobrown9204seems like ur not a Christian but with god and prayer I wish u well
I have friendship PTSD...hi and bye acquaintances is fine for now
Monty's comment was very cheeky, her attitude stinks. This isn't the first time shes been outright rude to guhdeh. Guhdeh's seems like a good friend to me. She says stuff to get a reaction its weird
21:56 when jay said mines affection stillll I DIEDDDD🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀 he’s too funny I swear
Toxic is a hell of a drug. 🤦🏾♂️
The word has become so normalised. Having a disagreement isn't 'toxicity.' There's no such thing as a little toxicity, it's healthy or it's toxic. People need to stop using words they don't understand.
@@theoneandonly0099 yes, seriously! 💯‼️
So true
Why the hell did Monty attack my man? 🤣
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In life you're not going to be friends with certain people forever. Put it this way if you go on public transport. It has a destination to go to. During that destination it makes many stops some of those stops you'll meet people that will either get off the same stop as you or they will get off earlier. So there is no point saying it hurts losing a friend. Unless they lost their life physically that's the only time it is suitable to get in your feelings about losing a friend.
Finally commenting something good
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The truth will always be the truth 👏🏾
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I like this analogy
Y’all should do an episode on colorism
Oof you sure I think that would cause beef lol
a few of them don’t have the brain capacity or intellect to have such a conversation,so it’s best they don’t put themselves in a predicament they can’t come back from
@@queenrainbow2718 lol yea, but it would still be interesting to see their perspective
@@lovelypassionsea1296 yea that’s true,fair enough
@@queenrainbow2718 😂😭😭
You can’t stay friends because of loyalty 💯 …your friend is clearly toxic today but because they had your back that one time, 4.5 years ago, you’re holding on 🙄 !! You don’t owe anyone anything.
No size of a circle will protect you from a snake.
First episode in a while that I didn’t want to end. It was a good discussion and well needed💓
I never experienced that because I'm already dealing with abandonment issues from not one mother but two biological/ adopted. Already messed up potential friendships I dont allow people completely in my life. Added once it ends it's easy to let go because don't have any expectations because I expect it to end soon. 🥺
Make sure you get some help babe❤️
@@ReeRee_Donita I'm in therapy thank you.
I wish there was a show w actual people that know what it means to debate. forcing someone to agree w your stance is not debate. Monty was way left field for that comment.
Why is the young lady in the leather outfit always the loudest in the room but often displays the least amount of intelligence and thinking??? I will give her credit though here, I believe that her take on the friends posting your stuff is spot on.
Cause she’s lani. Lol!
lani ? it’s her personality deal😂
shes not younger bro, 35 + with hella make up to cope lmao
She is pushing 40
@@denzel9455 Bro ... I just saw the lifts on your channel ... your a beast ! I've been lifting for 5 years and can't even come close to those numbers lmao !
I’m really convinced that there’s something between Lani and jay sqrrd
MONTY NEEDS TO GO EASY ON GUDDEH ITS PRETTY EVIDENT SHE DOESN'T LIKE HIM BUT HE WAS RIGHT 100% BUT HER SAYING SOMN ABOUT HIS FRIENDSHIPS THATS JUST WICKED TBH A LOW BLOWWW
Past 3 episodes Lanis fav word is compatibility deadass🤣
Monty is so jarring - so cringy
The point is everyone’s standards of friendship is different and ideally having people with similar standards/values will help make it easier
I just personally prefer to have a small group just bc it means less headaches
I understand montys frustration i feel like guhdeh likes to say things just for the sake of being different and bringing attention to himself
people are entitled to expressing how they feel regardless if others disagree
True friendship don’t count favors.
"Sometimes your mentality is a bit mad" ah!!!! Monty why?!!!😂😂
It’s funny bcos Guh Deh has helped build ALL his ex friends platforms. You people are piping up at the wrong person. How do you know he’s learnt from his past behaviour?
This has been a very deep episode one of best, I say, everyone showed real majority. At da end of da day Humans like to have a sense of a control when a person finds a kind hearted individual that is loyal humans take the loyalty for guaranteed and continue to take, it's all energy and in 2022 it must be protected because u cant get it back. Use your energy for those and match your. Period!💁🏾♀️
That comment Monty made about guhdehs friendship always failing is true, what do you mean you don't have to support your friends? What .🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣
He wasn’t saying that specifically, and more time it wasn’t Monty’s place to say that comment. It was highly disrespectful.😂😂I do think he could’ve worded what he meant a lot better, but for her to say that to him makes it look like she had no good home training😅🤣
It’s funny how Folake said exactly what I meant but for some reason you didn’t understand me when I was speaking lol
Where did she say this
No but you can’t always support a friend when you need to support your bloody self. What about his mental health? Why does Guhdeh have to be a back up dancer? Or anyone the matter of fact.
@@Goldenxbih you support each other. Or maybe y'all ain't ready for friendships. I always support my friend even when I'm at my lowest and vice versa y'all support when u feel like it or when your friends blow that's when u wanna show support like nah b, where was u when I really needed you. Out there supporting others who don't know or give a shit about you
I hear what Guh deh is saying no one should ever feel obligated to repost anything your friends doing unless you want to. They could be doing other things outside social media to show there support does not make you a bad friend if you don’t post it on net. Monty coming for him like that just because he didn’t agree was very much not needed and gave mean girl vibes. I doubt she knows Guh deh personally outside the show.
Not Lani talking about " A Big Pink Elephant" in the room lol. i just love her
I realised i cant really build deep relationships , most of them are just on the surface. And im fine with that. I did lose a friend of 10 years but u got to realise having "best" friends is dangerous, they know too much and if the friendship ends they can use that as a weapon. Thats why no one will know too much bout me. Ppl come and go in ur life as ur changing. U may get new job, u may move cities etc, so u will meet new ppl and create new relationships
Jesse is so intelligent 🤣🤣🤣
I’m still friends with the same 3 girls I went to secondary school. We are family ❤️ we share the same values and morals
Yessss Jay! We expect too much from friends. Like chill. My family are my closest friends tbh
Monty is such a pick me girl. Guhdeh has a very valid point. Friends are not OBLIGATED to do anything. If your friend(s) wants to support than fine, if not then that is fine too. If you go to prison for a crime you did, would you expect your friend to bail you out? NOPE. like. Monty think she owns this whole show, bye bruv.
11:37 - 11:55 This exact thing happened to me. Had a tight 3-man friendship group from primary. Went secondary & 2 ppl got added, that was cool. Then another 3 got added & it got torn apart. Fallouts, separate group chats, sides picked etc.
The initial 2 that got added were close to all 3 of us, so that's why I think they blended in seamlessly.
The next 3 that got added were only close to some of us so the separation happened from there.
I could see it happen as it was happening but what could I do? it's not like I could kick the 3 guys out cause others in the friendship group already welcomed them in.
So I just distanced myself from all of them. I couldn't do the drama.
You just grow apart from people. It’s part of life.
Too many cooks do what? 💯🧐🗣
@@qwerty1994ize no his situation wasn't that.
@@sour3000 ??
@@qwerty1994ize lol sorry typo. Not hos lol, I meant his
10:12 - 10:18 100%. And it's sad cause those people you don't even fall out with & they've never wronged you. But the friendship just comes to an end because you guys have just grown apart. I've got like 10 of those, I've only actually fell out properly with one friend.
Monty didn’t need to come for guh deh like that ,attitude was not not needed at all she misunderstood him
3:00 when my man in the pink hoodie said guys guys guys even though namdi barely said a word killed me 😭
Nah i don't do "close friends" anymore, i got friends....., like everywhere i go, people always flock around me trying to be friends with me, i agree to be friends with just a few of them but i don't allow those "few" to get too close to me, like i don't invest like the way i use to invest in the past anymore, i just grew so distant and sefish af and spend 80% of my life on ghost mode focusing on myself, like i just spend most of my time hustling for money, going to the gym and minding my business, e get why, i became like this cuz i feel like las las, everybody is temporal
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That's the best way to operate.
I need to do this
my ears were RATTLING, it’s time for me to leave Bkchat alone..
Me too!!
Best episode ever! Everyone had good points. Speak on it.
monty is a realist on a show with couple emotional train-wrecks and she’s labelled as insensitive cause of the way she reacts. this is a talking panel not therapy
Learn to be you own friend we our own worst enemy.
Msrfabulous brought Gphilips you on they both supported each other even the graphics for her label she mentioned it and I remember knowing that…
This show is so inconsistent. It’s honestly so annoying cuz the potential is so great
Guhdeh will never wear a hat correct eeh??😂😂
My OCD just can't 😂😂
we cannot base a friendship on the expectations we have from the Other. A friendship is not business . We are not here (in a friendship) for the interests , we are here to express love. your friend can do things for you, but that doesn't mean they have to do things for you. we need to remove this concept of obligation in friendship.
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Your friend isn't suppose to do 'things' for you, if that's the case then they're doing it in return for something.
I really have time for this one still, but the issue is in this day and age, no one takes the time to teach your friend how to be your friend, and for those that do, that’s why it hurts so much because you should know better one, and secondly, you know me!
About the whole supporting your business stuff
If they are your friends one way or the other they will support and encourage you
Your content,what you sell or whatever doesn’t have to be their interest but yes they have to support you
Get a dog their loyalty is unmatched