"All Your BBLs Used to Look Curvy, Now You Look Square" - BKCHAT LDN

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  • Опубликовано: 9 дек 2024

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  • @tenceyy
    @tenceyy 9 дней назад +83

    Jayde was a great panelist on this subject, she was very open and levelheaded with all of the questions coming her way. Thank you for that!

  • @smsofficial4809
    @smsofficial4809 11 дней назад +349

    It’s like Abigail never contributes to the conversation. She just comes to have smoke for people. 😂

    • @LyfWithChullow
      @LyfWithChullow 11 дней назад +28

      Likkkeee🤣🤣🤣 cause what was her point?

    • @smsofficial4809
      @smsofficial4809 11 дней назад +36

      @@LyfWithChullow she’s been on this buffoonery since episode one. Bringing up a topic and then getting annoyed. 🤣🤣

    • @Honeysmma
      @Honeysmma 10 дней назад +15

      Whenever she gets mad I am confused

    • @thatbtc3962
      @thatbtc3962 10 дней назад

      She’s so annoying and weird

    • @FavouriteColourIs
      @FavouriteColourIs 9 дней назад +1

      No contributions whatsoever, She's just a chihuahua (small loud and annoying)

  • @LondonEventClips
    @LondonEventClips 11 дней назад +392

    I see they found their RUclips password. They left us unfed for like a month😂

    • @neeciiw7840
      @neeciiw7840 10 дней назад +4

      Right now Manners 😤

    • @MatsaA-n5x
      @MatsaA-n5x 10 дней назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Simiiiyah
      @Simiiiyah 10 дней назад +1

      Is it as good as before I haven't watched in years

    • @positiveproton6406
      @positiveproton6406 9 дней назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LondonEventClips
      @LondonEventClips 9 дней назад +4

      @@Simiiiyah Kind of. Topics get a bit repetitive though

  • @dalubuhlengwenya7188
    @dalubuhlengwenya7188 11 дней назад +148

    Let’s never normalize something with the highest death rate of cosmetic surgeries. Mothers and young girls are dying for aesthetic. It’s ridiculous, I get self love but let’s fix the mind before we fix the body

  • @jonathanamponsah9347
    @jonathanamponsah9347 12 дней назад +522

    Women insecurities is a billion dollar industry 😂

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 11 дней назад

      Why are ghanaians like this? Please be nice and keep your comments to yourself. She already has low self-esteem

    • @inc0gnig
      @inc0gnig 11 дней назад

      mens’ whole personalities are literally embedded in how much they earn and can spend like yall quite literally created capitalism please stfu

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen 11 дней назад +44

      Trillion

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 11 дней назад +22

      Imagine risking one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal Surgery unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… bones and a square, it’s delusional…surgery never fixed internal issues, ask the ones that went too far, now they look like circus clowns, it’s a slippery slope.

    • @NancyBrown-vh6ze
      @NancyBrown-vh6ze 11 дней назад +1

      When transgender get bbls and plastic surgery, society cheers them on and says, Live in your truth and cheer them Keep that same energy.

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE 11 дней назад +184

    Please don't compare braces to a BBL Loyce. It is NOT the same. There are also more medical issues that braces correct (the way you speak, mouth shape, jaw alignment etc)

    • @19tashi79
      @19tashi79 11 дней назад +42

      I thought it was only me that felt it was a dunce comparison 😂

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 11 дней назад +14

      Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves! Surgery cannot fix what is inside usball

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 11 дней назад +8

      @@19tashi79 bruh I was like 💀💀💀 are fillings also comparable to BBLS 🧐🧐🧐🧐 let’s stop the CAPP just to make a point 😂

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 8 дней назад +5

      Na it was definitely far fetched 😭😂

    • @izzlemontano504
      @izzlemontano504 7 дней назад +1

      Stupid facts!!!! This should be the pin comment

  • @ReeceyboiMusic
    @ReeceyboiMusic 12 дней назад +127

    The girl that did the BBL is kind of proving that it’s all in the mind…even though she spoke about her being insecure about her bum most of her life, she still ended up doing so much more other cosmetic procedures

  • @jalexiaofori4455
    @jalexiaofori4455 12 дней назад +244

    That bbl was a complete waste of money. sorry
    Its crazy when she said " guys prefer sleeping with girls with bbls " but how many guys would marry them .
    Its not a compliment 😂😂😂

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 11 дней назад +12

      Why are ghanaian like this? Can't you just be nice and keep your comments to yourself?

    • @betterfad3d
      @betterfad3d 11 дней назад +1

      @@Kelseaeff7436great question

    • @smsofficial4809
      @smsofficial4809 11 дней назад

      @@jalexiaofori4455 exactly. Most of the ladies conflate physical attraction and commitment and that’s why many of them end up disappointed

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 11 дней назад

      Exactly. Just because a guy will sleep with you doesn't mean he likes you as a person. Guys can get an erection without any emotional investment whatsoever.

    • @JoshBoadu
      @JoshBoadu 11 дней назад +16

      They just don't understand the difference between sexual attraction and lifelong marital attraction 😂, bbls are for fantasy sex, not for life

  • @allanr9085
    @allanr9085 11 дней назад +69

    josh so respectful man good conversationist

  • @Nazgulorton
    @Nazgulorton 11 дней назад +95

    Her mum played a huge influence in her getting that BBL

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 12 дней назад +105

    Having surgery will never solve the problem of a woman not liking herself....that is delusional in itself. The issue is internal and should be addressed in that manner because you will never find peace trying to change yourself externally. However, I do sympathise with those women who struggle with their body image, I just know bbls are not a practical solution at all....besides getting the wrong attention from a man who only likes you for your body will never work out well for you as a woman.

  • @T.C200-kd9cx
    @T.C200-kd9cx 12 дней назад +243

    ‘Gym cant do enough’ is just another way to say I dont have the motivation and discipline to go to the gym.

    • @tenitinks
      @tenitinks 11 дней назад +11

      yh but some girls don’t want to look skinny or too muscular!
      they want to be shapely when you go to the gym you start looking too hard sometimes!!!

    • @lovelypassionsea1296
      @lovelypassionsea1296 11 дней назад +1

      Or the patience

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 11 дней назад +9

      ​@@tenitinksThat's not true for women, it's a myth. In any case with perimenopause/menopause, it's good to have muscle definition because we lose a lot of collagen etc. It also helps maintain bone density. All I'm saying is, it's good to get fit for a healthy lifestyle way beyond your 30s. Look how good Halle Berry looks at nearly 60. Way better than some of these women in the podcast.

    • @ampungi1
      @ampungi1 11 дней назад +9

      So gym can give u big lips. For those that get fillers. Gym can’t give u hips. It will tone wt u already have and a lot do not hv curves. That’s why when they get it done it looks like a square with hips.

    • @bna919
      @bna919 11 дней назад +8

      It's funny because you still need to exercise and manage weight in order to maintain the bbl. They could save thousands and the positive aspects that regular exercise provides would make them feel better about themselves anyway

  • @mrcritic1
    @mrcritic1 12 дней назад +184

    1. It’s her body & if she’s decided to change it, it’s her choice.
    2. Don’t waste your energy, no amount of talking will change her mind.
    3. If you can’t live with that choice, wish her luck & be on your way.
    4. If you can, stick around & enjoy the new body 🤷🏾‍♂️
    5. Gym is powerful when done properly, but don’t pretend it’ll give you big big nyash & tiny waist. (If the base wasn’t already there)
    6. Please stop deluding yourselves, part of getting BBL is for male attention.
    7. Changing aspects of your body isn’t bad. Going extreme is.

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 12 дней назад +29

      The gym CAN give you a big bum but a smaller waist has more to do with your diet and nutrition .
      If you’re built boxy with a belly if you lose a decent amount of weight as to where your stomach doesn’t propel as much as it once might have, then the only work left to do is to progressive overload on muscle building exercises that target regions of the body that will make your waist look smaller by comparison. (Upper back exercises and heavy lower body ones)
      Doing cardio can help burn calories but weightlifting can help burn fat in particular bc it takes more energy for the body to maintain muscle metabolically than it does fat so gaining muscle is definitely not anything to neglect

    • @11simonjr
      @11simonjr 11 дней назад

      @@Oyasavvi Wrong. The only thing the gym and diet can do is REVEAL. If you do not have the genetics you are cooked. Speaking as a pro Athlete and avid fan of booty. And the look that we are attracted to (as well as what these women are going for, ironically) can only be achieved genetically or through surgery anyway. (Notice how the surgeries they get ever so conveniently align with the male gaze, so clearly it's not "for you")
      Last if it's "Your body your choice" then you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. First of all, you're insecure and getting all this surgery, and even worse you're narcissistic and selfish about it too. Please stay single if that's what you think.

    • @Simplylondon_
      @Simplylondon_ 11 дней назад +18

      Literally I hate when ppl say you cannot grow a big bum from gym

    • @11simonjr
      @11simonjr 11 дней назад

      @@Simplylondon_ YOU CANNOT! The gym and diet can only REVEAL your genetic potential. If you don't have the genes you're cooked. And plus gym cannot give you hips, it does the opposite actually. If you wanna look like Kim K, Kylie, Nicki, Cardi B, Serena J Lo, Amber Rose, Bernice Burgos etc... You either need a good mom, a good dad, a good doctor or all 3.

    • @DeejaP876
      @DeejaP876 11 дней назад +2

      Thank youuu !!!

  • @tembzz7
    @tembzz7 12 дней назад +124

    The thing about insecurity, it’s deep rooted so even if you ‘FIX’ your insecurity by getting a bbl, there will be something else you’re insecure about that you feel you need to fix. This is why people that under go surgery they don’t stop at that one surgery they keep going.

    • @ProfNDKai
      @ProfNDKai 11 дней назад +11

      CLOCK IT 🫰🏾🫰🏾

    • @Hottywiththebody
      @Hottywiththebody 10 дней назад +1

      Facts

    • @zalaawity9762
      @zalaawity9762 6 дней назад +1

      I was waiting for this comment. Heal from the insecurity, don't go through surgery to fix the symptom rather than the root cause ie self perception and dysmophoria

  • @Oyasavvi
    @Oyasavvi 12 дней назад +112

    5 minutes in and already I’m seeing King Richie make all types of sense 😭
    You’re not gonna have an odeee dramatic transformation but you can DEFINITELY develop a relatively (key word) more ideal body shape if you consistently exercise well enough esp with resistance training and progressive overload . But even then that’s only part of the work . PROTEIN is your friend, but other nutritional choices matter. Caloric intake, reducing sugar, and just moving more even if it’s Liss Cardio matters for someone with a belly they trynna lose especially.
    Most people lack the lifestyle commitment that would warrant them these results

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 11 дней назад +14

      Also weekly MEAL PLANNING will help you out by a whole lot. Your body gets used to new portion sizes and you can literally pre make simple meals tailored to your goals and just buy snacks that won’t hinder that but also satisfy you also . Chlorophyll water also helps for energy and sleeeeeep is a key also

    • @Hottywiththebody
      @Hottywiththebody 10 дней назад

      @@Oyasavvifacts. I changed my body doing these things. But also, my genetics played a big part. My family’s athletically curvy

  • @LeeMade-i6r
    @LeeMade-i6r 10 дней назад +31

    Maybe jayde's mum was jealous of her or she was projecting her own insecurities onto her daughter! Because why would your own mother poison your mind like this! Even though jayde had a choice to get a bbl or not I actually feel for her, it seems like she was brainwashed from a child

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 10 дней назад +3

      Facts. A lot of mothers are jealous of their daughters but people aren't ready for that conversation.

  • @JdAutos-f2y
    @JdAutos-f2y 12 дней назад +105

    Female sprinters physiques are top tier jus saying 😅

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 11 дней назад +13

      And gymnasts

    • @AO-hk7dj
      @AO-hk7dj 11 дней назад +6

      That's how I feel as well. Watching the olympics last summer, all I saw was amazing body after amazing body

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 9 дней назад +8

      Female sprinter, pole vaulters, salsa dancers, heck some footballers...you cannot beat slim tone athletic build on a female;-)

  • @Risa-tt7qq
    @Risa-tt7qq 11 дней назад +69

    Loyce is pretty

  • @lovelypassionsea1296
    @lovelypassionsea1296 11 дней назад +39

    The first time I agree with the men. It’s always so sad seeing women side with toxic beauty standards. The reality is, women who get bbls, fillers, lipo, etc. suffer from body dysmorphia (especially the cases where they look objectively terrible). Constantly getting these procedures done doesn’t help what’s happening mentally. They’re just gonna keep running back to these procedures

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 6 дней назад

      You mean toxic femininity following what whytes do. Call it what it is!

  • @nana23ac
    @nana23ac 12 дней назад +54

    If you have body dysmorphia, please seek professional help and do not lean into your mental disorder. It will get very expensive and will keep you on a hamster wheel

    • @ZarahKnight-vq1jk
      @ZarahKnight-vq1jk 11 дней назад

      It's not easy as that

    • @nana23ac
      @nana23ac 11 дней назад +7

      @ that’s why you must seek help, the first step is to name it as a problem, the healing will start there it’s a process

    • @19tashi79
      @19tashi79 11 дней назад +1

      Then they end up looking like Lil Kim 😏

    • @ZarahKnight-vq1jk
      @ZarahKnight-vq1jk 11 дней назад

      @@19tashi79 really

  • @MaryJohnson-tu9uc
    @MaryJohnson-tu9uc 12 дней назад +75

    In my opinion, if someone has body dysmorphia and it is in their MIND by them changing their appearance on their BODY it is not resolving the issue at hand.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 11 дней назад +5

      Valid 💯 that’s what one of the guys point

    • @GSP.beats.
      @GSP.beats. 7 дней назад

      It's clearly a mental illness

  • @solomonkeliojor6958
    @solomonkeliojor6958 12 дней назад +45

    I don’t believe it’s about yourself. I believe it’s how you feel the world perceives you based on how you feel about yourself

  • @Sweetdreamz313
    @Sweetdreamz313 12 дней назад +57

    People forget even with regular bodies you need to properly work out and diet to maintain your muscle and figure

  • @jenayrandall9358
    @jenayrandall9358 12 дней назад +77

    Jayde is entitled to a refund.
    Edit: add King Richez to that tab.

  • @CourtneeG
    @CourtneeG 12 дней назад +45

    Bbl is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery. Thousands have lost their lives… that risk is high and women who have done it & still doing it, mindsets should definitely be studied. You’re willing to risk your life for vanity

  • @stosenatasha6420
    @stosenatasha6420 11 дней назад +23

    I dunno what his name is but that guy with the green eyes comes across as so mature, he’s deffo my fav

  • @KJ1-121
    @KJ1-121 12 дней назад +72

    COOKIE your lack of experience with a serious man shows!!! You do not know the power of having your soulmate uplift you. You struggle to understand what the others are saying because you’ve never experienced it.

  • @astroidroach1873
    @astroidroach1873 11 дней назад +51

    Cookie asking why can’t we be lazy 😭🤣😂

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 9 дней назад

      Hilarious. She should just look in the mirror to find the answer to that question. Yet she is so delusional thinking she is top rated and coming with chest. The west is done female wise with very few exceptions not worth weeding through the copious BS to find out

  • @Fonzworth000
    @Fonzworth000 11 дней назад +27

    Nobody has ever died getting a hair transplant. That’s why you can’t compare it to a BBL. If hair transplants came with a high mortality rate, there’d be a lot more crooked hairlines out here - men tend to not risk their lives for aesthetics.

  • @user-gm2ix2ii3k
    @user-gm2ix2ii3k 11 дней назад +36

    I’m with the guys on this one

  • @Honeysmma
    @Honeysmma 11 дней назад +24

    This reminds me of Nicki Minaj getting a BBL because the boys in young money used to make fun of her natural body….

  • @MissThaxter
    @MissThaxter 12 дней назад +41

    This is actually sad 😢

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE 11 дней назад +21

    The way King Richez expresses himself is just funny to me. Him and Gabz 😂😂

  • @19tashi79
    @19tashi79 11 дней назад +26

    These women are tapped!!!
    Some black people have lost their minds....
    The condoning of the dead out surgery is MADNESS 😂

  • @FavouriteColourIs
    @FavouriteColourIs 10 дней назад +7

    Looool Ashleigh aint lying jayde is defo attracts a certain type of men

  • @neicyk
    @neicyk 12 дней назад +26

    Yes finally a video. We missed y’all ❤

  • @StretchandFlex
    @StretchandFlex 11 дней назад +8

    Agreed. A LOT of ladies dont know what to do in the gym. Being in the gym for a year consistently and not seeing improvement is already an indication that you’re not doing the correct workouts 🥺 its doable! Either way its sad that people, especially parents are making anyone feel like theyre less than. Speak positive things over your kids man🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @immortal7436
    @immortal7436 11 дней назад +25

    I would not support my man getting a silly surgery like that, and I woudlnt want my bf to encourage and support me with getting a bbl id want him to bring me back to reality

  • @Honeysmma
    @Honeysmma 10 дней назад +17

    21 getting a bbl is insane, how are yall finding money at 21?

    • @elleem8873
      @elleem8873 7 дней назад

      She went uno for 2 months to get the student loan and dropped out

    • @cjthaboss
      @cjthaboss 7 дней назад

      ​@@elleem8873debt till 48 instead of a few years of gym is actually insane

  • @yellowforever794
    @yellowforever794 11 дней назад +12

    lets not ignore the amount of deaths linked with the bbl. Not worth risking your life for.

  • @missgirl7879
    @missgirl7879 11 дней назад +10

    "as a qualified p3 level 3" im cryin

  • @sharnachristina7504
    @sharnachristina7504 11 дней назад +27

    I got my body from working out on wii fit and i wasnt trying i was just bored😂 it was constant.. all day but ladies.. baddie body is 100% obtainable without surgery and with muscle memory ive kept my shape 10years+. Genetics helps but still... Truth is you change because you dont like yourself and beyonce said it best... its the soul that needs the surgery 🎶 nobody who thinks they are perfect got on the metal table.. remember that😏

    • @JoyfullyJoy91
      @JoyfullyJoy91 11 дней назад +6

      Let us not act like Beyoncé isn’t part of the bbl community. She had the hips but returned with the butt one day! The tummy and bubble shape never lies 😂 but yes she is right, the soul needs surgery

    • @ProfNDKai
      @ProfNDKai 11 дней назад +2

      What you know about the Wi-Fit thoooo! ppl don’t get how eternally iconic and lit it is 😅you made me feel seen at last

  • @Risa-tt7qq
    @Risa-tt7qq 11 дней назад +92

    She had bbl but her belly is still hanging

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 11 дней назад +2

      Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves!

    • @richardmurray4605
      @richardmurray4605 11 дней назад +15

      @@hustleno-filta5373 I'm pretty sure she said she had lipo as well

    • @la1576
      @la1576 11 дней назад +12

      @@hustleno-filta5373 did you even listen?.. she’s had bbl and lipo TWICE

    • @hustleno-filta5373
      @hustleno-filta5373 11 дней назад

      @la1576 ngl working progress i watched like 5mins and came off i aint a sub it just pops up..🤲🏾

    • @la1576
      @la1576 11 дней назад

      @@hustleno-filta5373 it was in the first 5mins, but I hear you

  • @Gabby239
    @Gabby239 11 дней назад +9

    So shouldn't the solution be therapy...NOT a BBL if you are suffering that badly?

  • @ampungi1
    @ampungi1 11 дней назад +29

    So he got his teeth done for girls 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 6 дней назад

      Of course, but how many have died from it, though? Stay focused.

    • @ampungi1
      @ampungi1 6 дней назад

      @@marsmith1907 do ur research. It’s not a death experience but the side effects and pain is very much unbearable that it can make u want to do things that can kill to remove it. We are not talking about death here. Fact is his teeth ain’t his. So he should not hv a voice. He didn’t get them done for health reason just bcoz he was not happy with them. 😂😂😂insecure. No different from a bbl. Let’s call his BBT.

  • @nelsona3468
    @nelsona3468 7 дней назад +2

    Not every insecurity counts as body dysmorphia. That shit is something else and most people don't have it.

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 11 дней назад +24

    Loyce & Gab 👰🏿‍♀️🤴🏾💍 2025

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 9 дней назад

      @Gabz Do not do it. RUN and don't look back. Loyce will destroy you. You deserve better than to be trying to fix an already broken and damaged post wall female with kids. Have some self esteem

  • @NajusCare
    @NajusCare 8 дней назад +3

    It’s not the body shape… it’s how you Dress. the pictures you post… the confidence, and accessibility you give people. I purposely wear baggy and casual clothing so I do not get attention. If I wear certain things. It’s a traffic jam. My body is natural but I’m genetically blessed in all areas

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 11 дней назад +9

    I think the guy is probably in the right for breaking up with her. His girl being insecure to the point that she wants a BBL shows she's not entirely mentally stable. And it could cause problems down the line. (Before anyone tries to compare this to other procedures, understand that BBL's are one of the most dangerous.)

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 11 дней назад +6

    Yes. Invest in yourself....spiritually!

  • @PETERCLAVER1
    @PETERCLAVER1 10 дней назад +6

    King Richez and Gabz are just super funny

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 11 дней назад +22

    27:36 what kind of toxic parenting is this? Absolutley atrocious

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 11 дней назад +9

    Body dysmorphia. The gentleman was CORRECT in stating that a person suffering this illness, would still be in the same position even AFTER surgery, NO? So the new large backside could/would be seen as something completely different to what it is. So how is surgery the answer?

    • @ygr1229
      @ygr1229 10 дней назад

      No they won’t be the same after 9/10. Sometimes whatever solution they have, if that being bbl, transplant,veneers etc, they are much more content and no longer insure about that thing they changed. Not saying I agree with it but I can understand that it is not surface level

  • @veeguy8750
    @veeguy8750 11 дней назад +7

    Abigail behaves like a troll.

  • @Armani_ca
    @Armani_ca 12 дней назад +26

    Wait bkchat is still a thing. I thought everyone retired ??

    • @xanesu
      @xanesu 11 дней назад +1

      Same

    • @Bombaclartt76681
      @Bombaclartt76681 8 дней назад +3

      I thought we would never see another’s episode again 😭😭

  • @KadenDhdh-rc2rp
    @KadenDhdh-rc2rp 12 дней назад +8

    Should be going in the gym working on yourself if have body dysmorphia maximise own potential instead of idolising unrealistic body type. But this conversation explains mentality behind certain group of women don’t see in gym compared to other groups because first option is a BBL above the gym.

  • @stacie8131
    @stacie8131 11 дней назад +7

    BIG UP COOKIE WHO IS THE ONLY ONE THAT HIGHLIGHTED THE PHYSIOLOGICAL ASPECT.

  • @MissThaxter
    @MissThaxter 12 дней назад +29

    My family called me black and ugly, and I don't change anything about myself, I don't wear eyelash make-up, etc.

    • @patriciarosana4476
      @patriciarosana4476 11 дней назад +14

      You're beautiful tf you ain't ugly ❤❤

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen 11 дней назад +8

      I hope you got away from that "family". You're gorgeous. Wishing you the best in life 🌞🌻

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 11 дней назад

      That is sad. It's your family who are "ugly". 🙏🏿

    • @deneciablake3192
      @deneciablake3192 4 дня назад +1

      Everyone is impacted by things differently and we all have different ways of processing things so you can't sit here and compare yourself. Not everyone may be as mentally as strong as you to overcome an insecurity or look past the insults of your appearance made by people close to you or strangers.

    • @MissThaxter
      @MissThaxter 4 дня назад

      @girlwiththemagicpen oh yesss girl I did. Thanks for your encouraging words.

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 11 дней назад +3

    Physical beauty is a moving target, and an ever-changing ideal. It is also tbh a shallow attainment considering we are talking here about dangerous surgery to achieve one's goals. If all that thought and money was put into something more long-term long lasting and beneficial, more ultimate satisfaction would be had, instead of ending up arguing the toss and throwing shade back and forth (which you can't win) on a media show.

  • @FavouriteColourIs
    @FavouriteColourIs 10 дней назад +2

    Ash is right often our community is not always aware of their influence on young children ...jayde isnt the first person we all have toxic environment you have to raise above it

  • @rezlaso2742
    @rezlaso2742 12 дней назад +21

    Damn 2 months later 😂😂

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 11 дней назад +16

    17:01 her belly's hanging over her jeans smh. She has to take her health serious instead of looking for shortcuts

  • @Swagga1234
    @Swagga1234 11 дней назад +14

    is it me or jayde capping she first saying her ex cheated after the bbl and in the last 5 min of the vid he cheated before
    the bbl

    • @deneciablake3192
      @deneciablake3192 4 дня назад

      he might have cheated before and after, some men are just never satisfied

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 11 дней назад +16

    38:14 some people honestly shouldn't have children man. This is honestly so sad 😢

  • @brainsandbeauty2832
    @brainsandbeauty2832 5 дней назад +3

    Cookie is so beautiful

  • @jessykavira7457
    @jessykavira7457 8 дней назад +3

    gabz kills me, cookie is funny and loycee... yhhh ;)

  • @GSP.beats.
    @GSP.beats. 7 дней назад +2

    If you have body dysmorphia, you should seek mental health care, not just throw money at your body. Proof women dont have the capacity and discipline to actually put the hard work into their body

  • @1NASDAQ
    @1NASDAQ 11 дней назад +9

    Jayde had TWO liposuctions? Uhh I guess she missed the part about working to keep the weight off

  • @goodnesseni
    @goodnesseni 10 дней назад +5

    bro please, guys would claim they like natural but would never look at slim girls.
    listen, 9 times out of ten, women get their bodies done because of men
    which is even just crazy to me like why should you let anyone’s opinion of how you look matter

    • @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise
      @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise 8 дней назад

      In terms of desirability thicc>skinny>fat. If fat women can draw man, I don’t know why slim girls have problems

  • @ShantolFlawless
    @ShantolFlawless 10 дней назад +4

    They always be saying they do it for them self and we know that a Big Lie the thing is have enough confidence in your self you will not need a BBL it’s the attention they want let’s talk facts

  • @__grav2798
    @__grav2798 11 дней назад +8

    Thing people are forgetting is that once you get a BBL you have to maintain it with exercise still, thats whats funny. Unless you wanna repeadtely go under the knife

  • @minahlaugh
    @minahlaugh 12 дней назад +23

    Some of the guys on this panel are mad childish smdh

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 9 дней назад +2

      Please quote lines to support this proposterous statement. On this episode the guys were cooking. It was the girls that as usual were talking nonsense and utter useless.

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 6 дней назад

      And the women willing to kill themselves for a large body part are mature? You have a flat ass and a flat brain😂

  • @emilybrown7224
    @emilybrown7224 10 дней назад +7

    I mean she ain’t confident before the bbl she ain’t going to be confident after . I mean she might for a while feel confident but after a while she going to go back for another round or get another surgery..

  • @jama24581
    @jama24581 12 дней назад +12

    Finally omdss why did you guys take soo long😂🙄

  • @se4132
    @se4132 11 дней назад +8

    Aint no way she tried to compare getting braces to a bbl

    • @TheNaphisa03
      @TheNaphisa03 10 дней назад

      Aesthetic improvement. Same thing

    • @promisemaduako7191
      @promisemaduako7191 10 дней назад

      😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 10 дней назад

      @@TheNaphisa03 Getting braces isn't for sexual attention.

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 8 дней назад

      I think I tried to hard to relate 🙊😭🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @hiitdon8630
    @hiitdon8630 11 дней назад +8

    Cookie 😂😂😂😂😂 she is too much 😂😂😂

  • @ArielMcfadden-n9y
    @ArielMcfadden-n9y 11 дней назад +14

    Why do women want unnatural bodies? Personally, I love the gym and I love my natural booty. It’s a great shape I love myself everyday. I receive compliments all the time. Be happy with your natural self. You will always have to manipulate something on your body if you focus on vanity and it will create insecurities. Build character and a beautiful heart. Marriage material men want beautiful women, but peaceful women more than anything. A relationship with honor and love. We need people with more integrity than more booty. I couldn’t watch this more than 7 minutes. It’s frustrating to see the world focusing on things that created to fade and pass away. Build your spirit first, your relationship with God, and you will always be beautiful and worthy of praise.

  • @MissSunshine_xo
    @MissSunshine_xo 11 дней назад +9

    If the insecurity is in the mind then no matter how much a guy likes her natural body it is still in HER mind she is the one who lives in HER body

  • @Keepit100-t6c
    @Keepit100-t6c 11 дней назад +1

    The truth is women's insecurities come from comparing themselves to other women, period! This BBL craze is affecting women a lot, hence the reason a lot of them want to get it done. People should just accept their body types. GOD created us all to be the way that we are.

  • @unclejamrock
    @unclejamrock 10 дней назад +2

    Self worth should never be just appearance. If you suffer with this please talk to a professional. One love.

  • @J-Snaps71474
    @J-Snaps71474 11 дней назад +5

    Women telling men what they like!!! Men like fit women. Other women have convinced other women to do these madness in the way of influence. Even this episode a women might go get bbL after listening to some of them who approve.

  • @shugssss
    @shugssss 10 дней назад +4

    she pushed all the blame on the mom loooool

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 12 дней назад +13

    Why are 12 year olds on bkchat?! It’s not working producers 😩

  • @Capitalgee84
    @Capitalgee84 11 дней назад +5

    The Uganda gyal is bangin'

  • @md-k08
    @md-k08 11 дней назад +6

    You can tell he had his teeth done. They are way to straight which is not natural looking... The men thinking that having a man means you won, like thats the main factor smh!

  • @DeejaP876
    @DeejaP876 11 дней назад +9

    It’s not that hard to just go to the dam bloodclaut GYM LADIESSSS !!!!! I get that we all have insecurities fix it by doing it the right way simple if your man love you just the way you are just the way god made you why change that

  • @AYEWHODAT
    @AYEWHODAT 8 дней назад +1

    Social media is definitely responsible 😂🔋

  • @GSP.beats.
    @GSP.beats. 7 дней назад +2

    How u gonna go and buy a bbl but not get rid of that belly fat hanging over ya jeans. These attention seekers aren't even worth talking to, no logic what-so-ever

  • @LME101_
    @LME101_ 6 дней назад

    Gabz is my favourite 😂😂😂😂 such a character 😂😂😂

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 11 дней назад +2

    Pwave drops a lot of wisdom

  • @bbysassou3807
    @bbysassou3807 8 дней назад

    They should have had me on here talking, regardless of getting a bbl you won’t ever feel won’t be 100% secure 24/7 that’s why we are human, so many woman who get bbls still have body dysmorphia thats why they go round after round, you can still get that dopamine effect of feeling good after going to the gym after years of consistency and great diet you can completely transform or alter your physic nothing is impossible, it’s important to love yourself, there’s no such thing as a perfect body we all have flaws, you just feel more confident and better wen you know you’ve physically worked hard for something and you get it. Y’all get bbls and forget you still need the gym.

  • @MizzLittleCutie1
    @MizzLittleCutie1 11 дней назад +4

    I can’t lie certain parts in this episode Josh and P Wave what they said pissed me off. I’m glad Abigail pulled Josh up on it. You call out other’s for speaking over you but do the same when others talk clock it abi!. I fully understand the having morals and values. How it will affect your future kids etc but what’s jarring is how they are choosing to be closed minded on certain things and think two things cant be right at the same time. I fully hear as your partner is what I’m saying to you is it not good enough? At the same time as someone who has body dysmorphia you can tell me how beautiful I am until the cows come home and my mind will still think somehow. Unless you are living in that person’s shoes how can you tell them how they should think and feel. I’m hearing a lot of I, I, I in this episode from them. I’m so glad cookie spoke up and I rate Jayde’s transparency she held it down this episode 💯.
    At the end of the day there is power in someone breathing life into you and speaking words of affirmation into your life. HOWEVER the person should not become co-dependent on your affirmations alone because what happens now when you and said person now break up or for whatever reason you are no longer together. The person who relied on your affirmations and you breathing life into them is now back at square one because they no longer have you feeding into their low self esteem and you making them feel good temporarily.

  • @Taypha1914
    @Taypha1914 4 дня назад +2

    24:48 can someone lemme know where this scripture is cus i aint ever heard it

  • @gbaby2460
    @gbaby2460 8 дней назад

    How a person feels about themselves sometimes is based on how others feel about them…. ( usually resulting in low self esteem) in receiving validation from public. It goes hand in hand they experience low self esteem due to public perception. If they improve the way they are perceived their esteem increases. So it’s for public opinion to in-force positive self reflection

  • @designajunkiee6903
    @designajunkiee6903 11 дней назад +2

    I’m not gunna lie I feel type bad for that girl with the bbl and the trifling momma 🥺

  • @angelicaamara62
    @angelicaamara62 3 дня назад

    I genuinely feel like insecurities are to be dealt with more on the inside. If you change your outside appearance without working on genuinely loving and accepting yourself on the inside, then you’re gonna go down a rabbit hole of cosmetic surgeries and ruin your life.

  • @CEOSHANNYVEVO
    @CEOSHANNYVEVO 5 дней назад

    That fact of the matter is Jay got her body done due to HER mothers own insecurities not actually her own. When she said she would look in the mirror and see… no she accepted her mothers projections and went an got surgery.

  • @immortal7436
    @immortal7436 11 дней назад +5

    Idk wha loyce is on about gym isnt harder for anyone bc of gender .. it’s typically harder for people with specific body shapes not gender 😭

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 8 дней назад

      Sorry sorry it was a genuine thought but I stand corrected

  • @ygr1229
    @ygr1229 10 дней назад +3

    Every time I watch this I lose brain cells

    • @Femi-
      @Femi- 10 дней назад

      Rip.

  • @gbaby2460
    @gbaby2460 8 дней назад +1

    As a black woman in the community I’ve been told by my peers I’m not of value because I don’t have a big butt. Idk why the black community shames women with flat backs and don’t expect them to want to change that part of themselves 😢

    • @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise
      @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise 8 дней назад

      In other communities they have eating disorders as well

    • @gbaby2460
      @gbaby2460 8 дней назад

      @ I’m sure like in white and Asian they are frowned upon if not thin or if they are too voluptuous. I was stating the disorder in the community that I have experienced first hand