Imagine risking one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal Surgery unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… bones and a square, it’s delusional…surgery never fixed internal issues, ask the ones that went too far, now they look like circus clowns, it’s a slippery slope.
Please don't compare braces to a BBL Loyce. It is NOT the same. There are also more medical issues that braces correct (the way you speak, mouth shape, jaw alignment etc)
Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves! Surgery cannot fix what is inside usball
Let’s never normalize something with the highest death rate of cosmetic surgeries. Mothers and young girls are dying for aesthetic. It’s ridiculous, I get self love but let’s fix the mind before we fix the body
That bbl was a complete waste of money. sorry Its crazy when she said " guys prefer sleeping with girls with bbls " but how many guys would marry them . Its not a compliment 😂😂😂
Exactly. Just because a guy will sleep with you doesn't mean he likes you as a person. Guys can get an erection without any emotional investment whatsoever.
The girl that did the BBL is kind of proving that it’s all in the mind…even though she spoke about her being insecure about her bum most of her life, she still ended up doing so much more other cosmetic procedures
1. It’s her body & if she’s decided to change it, it’s her choice. 2. Don’t waste your energy, no amount of talking will change her mind. 3. If you can’t live with that choice, wish her luck & be on your way. 4. If you can, stick around & enjoy the new body 🤷🏾♂️ 5. Gym is powerful when done properly, but don’t pretend it’ll give you big big nyash & tiny waist. (If the base wasn’t already there) 6. Please stop deluding yourselves, part of getting BBL is for male attention. 7. Changing aspects of your body isn’t bad. Going extreme is.
The gym CAN give you a big bum but a smaller waist has more to do with your diet and nutrition . If you’re built boxy with a belly if you lose a decent amount of weight as to where your stomach doesn’t propel as much as it once might have, then the only work left to do is to progressive overload on muscle building exercises that target regions of the body that will make your waist look smaller by comparison. (Upper back exercises and heavy lower body ones) Doing cardio can help burn calories but weightlifting can help burn fat in particular bc it takes more energy for the body to maintain muscle metabolically than it does fat so gaining muscle is definitely not anything to neglect
@@Oyasavvi Wrong. The only thing the gym and diet can do is REVEAL. If you do not have the genetics you are cooked. Speaking as a pro Athlete and avid fan of booty. And the look that we are attracted to (as well as what these women are going for, ironically) can only be achieved genetically or through surgery anyway. (Notice how the surgeries they get ever so conveniently align with the male gaze, so clearly it's not "for you") Last if it's "Your body your choice" then you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. First of all, you're insecure and getting all this surgery, and even worse you're narcissistic and selfish about it too. Please stay single if that's what you think.
@@Simplylondon_ YOU CANNOT! The gym and diet can only REVEAL your genetic potential. If you don't have the genes you're cooked. And plus gym cannot give you hips, it does the opposite actually. If you wanna look like Kim K, Kylie, Nicki, Cardi B, Serena J Lo, Amber Rose, Bernice Burgos etc... You either need a good mom, a good dad, a good doctor or all 3.
Having surgery will never solve the problem of a woman not liking herself....that is delusional in itself. The issue is internal and should be addressed in that manner because you will never find peace trying to change yourself externally. However, I do sympathise with those women who struggle with their body image, I just know bbls are not a practical solution at all....besides getting the wrong attention from a man who only likes you for your body will never work out well for you as a woman.
@@tenitinksThat's not true for women, it's a myth. In any case with perimenopause/menopause, it's good to have muscle definition because we lose a lot of collagen etc. It also helps maintain bone density. All I'm saying is, it's good to get fit for a healthy lifestyle way beyond your 30s. Look how good Halle Berry looks at nearly 60. Way better than some of these women in the podcast.
So gym can give u big lips. For those that get fillers. Gym can’t give u hips. It will tone wt u already have and a lot do not hv curves. That’s why when they get it done it looks like a square with hips.
It's funny because you still need to exercise and manage weight in order to maintain the bbl. They could save thousands and the positive aspects that regular exercise provides would make them feel better about themselves anyway
The thing about insecurity, it’s deep rooted so even if you ‘FIX’ your insecurity by getting a bbl, there will be something else you’re insecure about that you feel you need to fix. This is why people that under go surgery they don’t stop at that one surgery they keep going.
I was waiting for this comment. Heal from the insecurity, don't go through surgery to fix the symptom rather than the root cause ie self perception and dysmophoria
5 minutes in and already I’m seeing King Richie make all types of sense 😭 You’re not gonna have an odeee dramatic transformation but you can DEFINITELY develop a relatively (key word) more ideal body shape if you consistently exercise well enough esp with resistance training and progressive overload . But even then that’s only part of the work . PROTEIN is your friend, but other nutritional choices matter. Caloric intake, reducing sugar, and just moving more even if it’s Liss Cardio matters for someone with a belly they trynna lose especially. Most people lack the lifestyle commitment that would warrant them these results
Also weekly MEAL PLANNING will help you out by a whole lot. Your body gets used to new portion sizes and you can literally pre make simple meals tailored to your goals and just buy snacks that won’t hinder that but also satisfy you also . Chlorophyll water also helps for energy and sleeeeeep is a key also
Maybe jayde's mum was jealous of her or she was projecting her own insecurities onto her daughter! Because why would your own mother poison your mind like this! Even though jayde had a choice to get a bbl or not I actually feel for her, it seems like she was brainwashed from a child
The first time I agree with the men. It’s always so sad seeing women side with toxic beauty standards. The reality is, women who get bbls, fillers, lipo, etc. suffer from body dysmorphia (especially the cases where they look objectively terrible). Constantly getting these procedures done doesn’t help what’s happening mentally. They’re just gonna keep running back to these procedures
In my opinion, if someone has body dysmorphia and it is in their MIND by them changing their appearance on their BODY it is not resolving the issue at hand.🤷🏾♀️
Bbl is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery. Thousands have lost their lives… that risk is high and women who have done it & still doing it, mindsets should definitely be studied. You’re willing to risk your life for vanity
COOKIE your lack of experience with a serious man shows!!! You do not know the power of having your soulmate uplift you. You struggle to understand what the others are saying because you’ve never experienced it.
Hilarious. She should just look in the mirror to find the answer to that question. Yet she is so delusional thinking she is top rated and coming with chest. The west is done female wise with very few exceptions not worth weeding through the copious BS to find out
Nobody has ever died getting a hair transplant. That’s why you can’t compare it to a BBL. If hair transplants came with a high mortality rate, there’d be a lot more crooked hairlines out here - men tend to not risk their lives for aesthetics.
If you have body dysmorphia, please seek professional help and do not lean into your mental disorder. It will get very expensive and will keep you on a hamster wheel
I got my body from working out on wii fit and i wasnt trying i was just bored😂 it was constant.. all day but ladies.. baddie body is 100% obtainable without surgery and with muscle memory ive kept my shape 10years+. Genetics helps but still... Truth is you change because you dont like yourself and beyonce said it best... its the soul that needs the surgery 🎶 nobody who thinks they are perfect got on the metal table.. remember that😏
Let us not act like Beyoncé isn’t part of the bbl community. She had the hips but returned with the butt one day! The tummy and bubble shape never lies 😂 but yes she is right, the soul needs surgery
@Gabz Do not do it. RUN and don't look back. Loyce will destroy you. You deserve better than to be trying to fix an already broken and damaged post wall female with kids. Have some self esteem
I would not support my man getting a silly surgery like that, and I woudlnt want my bf to encourage and support me with getting a bbl id want him to bring me back to reality
Agreed. A LOT of ladies dont know what to do in the gym. Being in the gym for a year consistently and not seeing improvement is already an indication that you’re not doing the correct workouts 🥺 its doable! Either way its sad that people, especially parents are making anyone feel like theyre less than. Speak positive things over your kids man🤦🏾♀️
Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves!
@@marsmith1907 do ur research. It’s not a death experience but the side effects and pain is very much unbearable that it can make u want to do things that can kill to remove it. We are not talking about death here. Fact is his teeth ain’t his. So he should not hv a voice. He didn’t get them done for health reason just bcoz he was not happy with them. 😂😂😂insecure. No different from a bbl. Let’s call his BBT.
Everyone is impacted by things differently and we all have different ways of processing things so you can't sit here and compare yourself. Not everyone may be as mentally as strong as you to overcome an insecurity or look past the insults of your appearance made by people close to you or strangers.
It’s not the body shape… it’s how you Dress. the pictures you post… the confidence, and accessibility you give people. I purposely wear baggy and casual clothing so I do not get attention. If I wear certain things. It’s a traffic jam. My body is natural but I’m genetically blessed in all areas
Should be going in the gym working on yourself if have body dysmorphia maximise own potential instead of idolising unrealistic body type. But this conversation explains mentality behind certain group of women don’t see in gym compared to other groups because first option is a BBL above the gym.
Body dysmorphia. The gentleman was CORRECT in stating that a person suffering this illness, would still be in the same position even AFTER surgery, NO? So the new large backside could/would be seen as something completely different to what it is. So how is surgery the answer?
No they won’t be the same after 9/10. Sometimes whatever solution they have, if that being bbl, transplant,veneers etc, they are much more content and no longer insure about that thing they changed. Not saying I agree with it but I can understand that it is not surface level
Physical beauty is a moving target, and an ever-changing ideal. It is also tbh a shallow attainment considering we are talking here about dangerous surgery to achieve one's goals. If all that thought and money was put into something more long-term long lasting and beneficial, more ultimate satisfaction would be had, instead of ending up arguing the toss and throwing shade back and forth (which you can't win) on a media show.
I think the guy is probably in the right for breaking up with her. His girl being insecure to the point that she wants a BBL shows she's not entirely mentally stable. And it could cause problems down the line. (Before anyone tries to compare this to other procedures, understand that BBL's are one of the most dangerous.)
Please quote lines to support this proposterous statement. On this episode the guys were cooking. It was the girls that as usual were talking nonsense and utter useless.
They always be saying they do it for them self and we know that a Big Lie the thing is have enough confidence in your self you will not need a BBL it’s the attention they want let’s talk facts
Why do women want unnatural bodies? Personally, I love the gym and I love my natural booty. It’s a great shape I love myself everyday. I receive compliments all the time. Be happy with your natural self. You will always have to manipulate something on your body if you focus on vanity and it will create insecurities. Build character and a beautiful heart. Marriage material men want beautiful women, but peaceful women more than anything. A relationship with honor and love. We need people with more integrity than more booty. I couldn’t watch this more than 7 minutes. It’s frustrating to see the world focusing on things that created to fade and pass away. Build your spirit first, your relationship with God, and you will always be beautiful and worthy of praise.
bro please, guys would claim they like natural but would never look at slim girls. listen, 9 times out of ten, women get their bodies done because of men which is even just crazy to me like why should you let anyone’s opinion of how you look matter
Thing people are forgetting is that once you get a BBL you have to maintain it with exercise still, thats whats funny. Unless you wanna repeadtely go under the knife
I mean she ain’t confident before the bbl she ain’t going to be confident after . I mean she might for a while feel confident but after a while she going to go back for another round or get another surgery..
Ash is right often our community is not always aware of their influence on young children ...jayde isnt the first person we all have toxic environment you have to raise above it
Women telling men what they like!!! Men like fit women. Other women have convinced other women to do these madness in the way of influence. Even this episode a women might go get bbL after listening to some of them who approve.
It’s not that hard to just go to the dam bloodclaut GYM LADIESSSS !!!!! I get that we all have insecurities fix it by doing it the right way simple if your man love you just the way you are just the way god made you why change that
You can tell he had his teeth done. They are way to straight which is not natural looking... The men thinking that having a man means you won, like thats the main factor smh!
The truth is women's insecurities come from comparing themselves to other women, period! This BBL craze is affecting women a lot, hence the reason a lot of them want to get it done. People should just accept their body types. GOD created us all to be the way that we are.
If you have body dysmorphia, you should seek mental health care, not just throw money at your body. Proof women dont have the capacity and discipline to actually put the hard work into their body
They should have had me on here talking, regardless of getting a bbl you won’t ever feel won’t be 100% secure 24/7 that’s why we are human, so many woman who get bbls still have body dysmorphia thats why they go round after round, you can still get that dopamine effect of feeling good after going to the gym after years of consistency and great diet you can completely transform or alter your physic nothing is impossible, it’s important to love yourself, there’s no such thing as a perfect body we all have flaws, you just feel more confident and better wen you know you’ve physically worked hard for something and you get it. Y’all get bbls and forget you still need the gym.
That fact of the matter is Jay got her body done due to HER mothers own insecurities not actually her own. When she said she would look in the mirror and see… no she accepted her mothers projections and went an got surgery.
I can’t lie certain parts in this episode Josh and P Wave what they said pissed me off. I’m glad Abigail pulled Josh up on it. You call out other’s for speaking over you but do the same when others talk clock it abi!. I fully understand the having morals and values. How it will affect your future kids etc but what’s jarring is how they are choosing to be closed minded on certain things and think two things cant be right at the same time. I fully hear as your partner is what I’m saying to you is it not good enough? At the same time as someone who has body dysmorphia you can tell me how beautiful I am until the cows come home and my mind will still think somehow. Unless you are living in that person’s shoes how can you tell them how they should think and feel. I’m hearing a lot of I, I, I in this episode from them. I’m so glad cookie spoke up and I rate Jayde’s transparency she held it down this episode 💯. At the end of the day there is power in someone breathing life into you and speaking words of affirmation into your life. HOWEVER the person should not become co-dependent on your affirmations alone because what happens now when you and said person now break up or for whatever reason you are no longer together. The person who relied on your affirmations and you breathing life into them is now back at square one because they no longer have you feeding into their low self esteem and you making them feel good temporarily.
How a person feels about themselves sometimes is based on how others feel about them…. ( usually resulting in low self esteem) in receiving validation from public. It goes hand in hand they experience low self esteem due to public perception. If they improve the way they are perceived their esteem increases. So it’s for public opinion to in-force positive self reflection
I don't hear or see white or Asian men acting like this when their women get bbls and plastic surgery, and I've seen it they are so supportive and uplifting when it comes to their women. They way they treat their women is amazing. Black men can be so degrading, not all but most.
How u gonna go and buy a bbl but not get rid of that belly fat hanging over ya jeans. These attention seekers aren't even worth talking to, no logic what-so-ever
Jayde was a great panelist on this subject, she was very open and levelheaded with all of the questions coming her way. Thank you for that!
Women insecurities is a billion dollar industry 😂
Why are ghanaians like this? Please be nice and keep your comments to yourself. She already has low self-esteem
mens’ whole personalities are literally embedded in how much they earn and can spend like yall quite literally created capitalism please stfu
Trillion
Imagine risking one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal Surgery unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… bones and a square, it’s delusional…surgery never fixed internal issues, ask the ones that went too far, now they look like circus clowns, it’s a slippery slope.
When transgender get bbls and plastic surgery, society cheers them on and says, Live in your truth and cheer them Keep that same energy.
I see they found their RUclips password. They left us unfed for like a month😂
Right now Manners 😤
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Is it as good as before I haven't watched in years
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Simiiiyah Kind of. Topics get a bit repetitive though
It’s like Abigail never contributes to the conversation. She just comes to have smoke for people. 😂
Likkkeee🤣🤣🤣 cause what was her point?
@@LyfWithChullow she’s been on this buffoonery since episode one. Bringing up a topic and then getting annoyed. 🤣🤣
Whenever she gets mad I am confused
She’s so annoying and weird
No contributions whatsoever, She's just a chihuahua (small loud and annoying)
Please don't compare braces to a BBL Loyce. It is NOT the same. There are also more medical issues that braces correct (the way you speak, mouth shape, jaw alignment etc)
I thought it was only me that felt it was a dunce comparison 😂
Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves! Surgery cannot fix what is inside usball
@@19tashi79 bruh I was like 💀💀💀 are fillings also comparable to BBLS 🧐🧐🧐🧐 let’s stop the CAPP just to make a point 😂
Na it was definitely far fetched 😭😂
Stupid facts!!!! This should be the pin comment
Let’s never normalize something with the highest death rate of cosmetic surgeries. Mothers and young girls are dying for aesthetic. It’s ridiculous, I get self love but let’s fix the mind before we fix the body
Exactly. Well said.
That part
That bbl was a complete waste of money. sorry
Its crazy when she said " guys prefer sleeping with girls with bbls " but how many guys would marry them .
Its not a compliment 😂😂😂
Why are ghanaian like this? Can't you just be nice and keep your comments to yourself?
@@Kelseaeff7436great question
@@jalexiaofori4455 exactly. Most of the ladies conflate physical attraction and commitment and that’s why many of them end up disappointed
Exactly. Just because a guy will sleep with you doesn't mean he likes you as a person. Guys can get an erection without any emotional investment whatsoever.
They just don't understand the difference between sexual attraction and lifelong marital attraction 😂, bbls are for fantasy sex, not for life
The girl that did the BBL is kind of proving that it’s all in the mind…even though she spoke about her being insecure about her bum most of her life, she still ended up doing so much more other cosmetic procedures
josh so respectful man good conversationist
He's such a gentleman
1. It’s her body & if she’s decided to change it, it’s her choice.
2. Don’t waste your energy, no amount of talking will change her mind.
3. If you can’t live with that choice, wish her luck & be on your way.
4. If you can, stick around & enjoy the new body 🤷🏾♂️
5. Gym is powerful when done properly, but don’t pretend it’ll give you big big nyash & tiny waist. (If the base wasn’t already there)
6. Please stop deluding yourselves, part of getting BBL is for male attention.
7. Changing aspects of your body isn’t bad. Going extreme is.
The gym CAN give you a big bum but a smaller waist has more to do with your diet and nutrition .
If you’re built boxy with a belly if you lose a decent amount of weight as to where your stomach doesn’t propel as much as it once might have, then the only work left to do is to progressive overload on muscle building exercises that target regions of the body that will make your waist look smaller by comparison. (Upper back exercises and heavy lower body ones)
Doing cardio can help burn calories but weightlifting can help burn fat in particular bc it takes more energy for the body to maintain muscle metabolically than it does fat so gaining muscle is definitely not anything to neglect
@@Oyasavvi Wrong. The only thing the gym and diet can do is REVEAL. If you do not have the genetics you are cooked. Speaking as a pro Athlete and avid fan of booty. And the look that we are attracted to (as well as what these women are going for, ironically) can only be achieved genetically or through surgery anyway. (Notice how the surgeries they get ever so conveniently align with the male gaze, so clearly it's not "for you")
Last if it's "Your body your choice" then you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. First of all, you're insecure and getting all this surgery, and even worse you're narcissistic and selfish about it too. Please stay single if that's what you think.
Literally I hate when ppl say you cannot grow a big bum from gym
@@Simplylondon_ YOU CANNOT! The gym and diet can only REVEAL your genetic potential. If you don't have the genes you're cooked. And plus gym cannot give you hips, it does the opposite actually. If you wanna look like Kim K, Kylie, Nicki, Cardi B, Serena J Lo, Amber Rose, Bernice Burgos etc... You either need a good mom, a good dad, a good doctor or all 3.
Thank youuu !!!
Having surgery will never solve the problem of a woman not liking herself....that is delusional in itself. The issue is internal and should be addressed in that manner because you will never find peace trying to change yourself externally. However, I do sympathise with those women who struggle with their body image, I just know bbls are not a practical solution at all....besides getting the wrong attention from a man who only likes you for your body will never work out well for you as a woman.
‘Gym cant do enough’ is just another way to say I dont have the motivation and discipline to go to the gym.
yh but some girls don’t want to look skinny or too muscular!
they want to be shapely when you go to the gym you start looking too hard sometimes!!!
Or the patience
@@tenitinksThat's not true for women, it's a myth. In any case with perimenopause/menopause, it's good to have muscle definition because we lose a lot of collagen etc. It also helps maintain bone density. All I'm saying is, it's good to get fit for a healthy lifestyle way beyond your 30s. Look how good Halle Berry looks at nearly 60. Way better than some of these women in the podcast.
So gym can give u big lips. For those that get fillers. Gym can’t give u hips. It will tone wt u already have and a lot do not hv curves. That’s why when they get it done it looks like a square with hips.
It's funny because you still need to exercise and manage weight in order to maintain the bbl. They could save thousands and the positive aspects that regular exercise provides would make them feel better about themselves anyway
Her mum played a huge influence in her getting that BBL
Loyce is pretty
Very!!!
The thing about insecurity, it’s deep rooted so even if you ‘FIX’ your insecurity by getting a bbl, there will be something else you’re insecure about that you feel you need to fix. This is why people that under go surgery they don’t stop at that one surgery they keep going.
CLOCK IT 🫰🏾🫰🏾
Facts
I was waiting for this comment. Heal from the insecurity, don't go through surgery to fix the symptom rather than the root cause ie self perception and dysmophoria
5 minutes in and already I’m seeing King Richie make all types of sense 😭
You’re not gonna have an odeee dramatic transformation but you can DEFINITELY develop a relatively (key word) more ideal body shape if you consistently exercise well enough esp with resistance training and progressive overload . But even then that’s only part of the work . PROTEIN is your friend, but other nutritional choices matter. Caloric intake, reducing sugar, and just moving more even if it’s Liss Cardio matters for someone with a belly they trynna lose especially.
Most people lack the lifestyle commitment that would warrant them these results
Also weekly MEAL PLANNING will help you out by a whole lot. Your body gets used to new portion sizes and you can literally pre make simple meals tailored to your goals and just buy snacks that won’t hinder that but also satisfy you also . Chlorophyll water also helps for energy and sleeeeeep is a key also
@@Oyasavvifacts. I changed my body doing these things. But also, my genetics played a big part. My family’s athletically curvy
Female sprinters physiques are top tier jus saying 😅
And gymnasts
That's how I feel as well. Watching the olympics last summer, all I saw was amazing body after amazing body
Female sprinter, pole vaulters, salsa dancers, heck some footballers...you cannot beat slim tone athletic build on a female;-)
Maybe jayde's mum was jealous of her or she was projecting her own insecurities onto her daughter! Because why would your own mother poison your mind like this! Even though jayde had a choice to get a bbl or not I actually feel for her, it seems like she was brainwashed from a child
Facts. A lot of mothers are jealous of their daughters but people aren't ready for that conversation.
The first time I agree with the men. It’s always so sad seeing women side with toxic beauty standards. The reality is, women who get bbls, fillers, lipo, etc. suffer from body dysmorphia (especially the cases where they look objectively terrible). Constantly getting these procedures done doesn’t help what’s happening mentally. They’re just gonna keep running back to these procedures
You mean toxic femininity following what whytes do. Call it what it is!
In my opinion, if someone has body dysmorphia and it is in their MIND by them changing their appearance on their BODY it is not resolving the issue at hand.🤷🏾♀️
Valid 💯 that’s what one of the guys point
It's clearly a mental illness
I dunno what his name is but that guy with the green eyes comes across as so mature, he’s deffo my fav
josh
Bbl is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery. Thousands have lost their lives… that risk is high and women who have done it & still doing it, mindsets should definitely be studied. You’re willing to risk your life for vanity
COOKIE your lack of experience with a serious man shows!!! You do not know the power of having your soulmate uplift you. You struggle to understand what the others are saying because you’ve never experienced it.
i don’t really agree but i understand what you’re saying
People forget even with regular bodies you need to properly work out and diet to maintain your muscle and figure
I’m with the guys on this one
I don’t believe it’s about yourself. I believe it’s how you feel the world perceives you based on how you feel about yourself
Cookie asking why can’t we be lazy 😭🤣😂
Hilarious. She should just look in the mirror to find the answer to that question. Yet she is so delusional thinking she is top rated and coming with chest. The west is done female wise with very few exceptions not worth weeding through the copious BS to find out
Jayde is entitled to a refund.
Edit: add King Richez to that tab.
This is actually sad 😢
This reminds me of Nicki Minaj getting a BBL because the boys in young money used to make fun of her natural body….
Nobody has ever died getting a hair transplant. That’s why you can’t compare it to a BBL. If hair transplants came with a high mortality rate, there’d be a lot more crooked hairlines out here - men tend to not risk their lives for aesthetics.
If you have body dysmorphia, please seek professional help and do not lean into your mental disorder. It will get very expensive and will keep you on a hamster wheel
It's not easy as that
@ that’s why you must seek help, the first step is to name it as a problem, the healing will start there it’s a process
Then they end up looking like Lil Kim 😏
@@19tashi79 really
The way King Richez expresses himself is just funny to me. Him and Gabz 😂😂
Yes finally a video. We missed y’all ❤
These women are tapped!!!
Some black people have lost their minds....
The condoning of the dead out surgery is MADNESS 😂
Looool Ashleigh aint lying jayde is defo attracts a certain type of men
I got my body from working out on wii fit and i wasnt trying i was just bored😂 it was constant.. all day but ladies.. baddie body is 100% obtainable without surgery and with muscle memory ive kept my shape 10years+. Genetics helps but still... Truth is you change because you dont like yourself and beyonce said it best... its the soul that needs the surgery 🎶 nobody who thinks they are perfect got on the metal table.. remember that😏
Let us not act like Beyoncé isn’t part of the bbl community. She had the hips but returned with the butt one day! The tummy and bubble shape never lies 😂 but yes she is right, the soul needs surgery
What you know about the Wi-Fit thoooo! ppl don’t get how eternally iconic and lit it is 😅you made me feel seen at last
Loyce & Gab 👰🏿♀️🤴🏾💍 2025
@Gabz Do not do it. RUN and don't look back. Loyce will destroy you. You deserve better than to be trying to fix an already broken and damaged post wall female with kids. Have some self esteem
21 getting a bbl is insane, how are yall finding money at 21?
She went uno for 2 months to get the student loan and dropped out
@@elleem8873debt till 48 instead of a few years of gym is actually insane
I would not support my man getting a silly surgery like that, and I woudlnt want my bf to encourage and support me with getting a bbl id want him to bring me back to reality
"as a qualified p3 level 3" im cryin
Agreed. A LOT of ladies dont know what to do in the gym. Being in the gym for a year consistently and not seeing improvement is already an indication that you’re not doing the correct workouts 🥺 its doable! Either way its sad that people, especially parents are making anyone feel like theyre less than. Speak positive things over your kids man🤦🏾♀️
She had bbl but her belly is still hanging
Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves!
@@hustleno-filta5373 I'm pretty sure she said she had lipo as well
@@hustleno-filta5373 did you even listen?.. she’s had bbl and lipo TWICE
@la1576 ngl working progress i watched like 5mins and came off i aint a sub it just pops up..🤲🏾
@@hustleno-filta5373 it was in the first 5mins, but I hear you
Wait bkchat is still a thing. I thought everyone retired ??
Same
I thought we would never see another’s episode again 😭😭
So he got his teeth done for girls 😂😂😂😂😂
Of course, but how many have died from it, though? Stay focused.
@@marsmith1907 do ur research. It’s not a death experience but the side effects and pain is very much unbearable that it can make u want to do things that can kill to remove it. We are not talking about death here. Fact is his teeth ain’t his. So he should not hv a voice. He didn’t get them done for health reason just bcoz he was not happy with them. 😂😂😂insecure. No different from a bbl. Let’s call his BBT.
27:36 what kind of toxic parenting is this? Absolutley atrocious
So shouldn't the solution be therapy...NOT a BBL if you are suffering that badly?
lets not ignore the amount of deaths linked with the bbl. Not worth risking your life for.
King Richez and Gabz are just super funny
Damn 2 months later 😂😂
My family called me black and ugly, and I don't change anything about myself, I don't wear eyelash make-up, etc.
You're beautiful tf you ain't ugly ❤❤
I hope you got away from that "family". You're gorgeous. Wishing you the best in life 🌞🌻
That is sad. It's your family who are "ugly". 🙏🏿
Everyone is impacted by things differently and we all have different ways of processing things so you can't sit here and compare yourself. Not everyone may be as mentally as strong as you to overcome an insecurity or look past the insults of your appearance made by people close to you or strangers.
@girlwiththemagicpen oh yesss girl I did. Thanks for your encouraging words.
38:14 some people honestly shouldn't have children man. This is honestly so sad 😢
Yes. Invest in yourself....spiritually!
is it me or jayde capping she first saying her ex cheated after the bbl and in the last 5 min of the vid he cheated before
the bbl
he might have cheated before and after, some men are just never satisfied
Not every insecurity counts as body dysmorphia. That shit is something else and most people don't have it.
BIG UP COOKIE WHO IS THE ONLY ONE THAT HIGHLIGHTED THE PHYSIOLOGICAL ASPECT.
gabz kills me, cookie is funny and loycee... yhhh ;)
It’s not the body shape… it’s how you Dress. the pictures you post… the confidence, and accessibility you give people. I purposely wear baggy and casual clothing so I do not get attention. If I wear certain things. It’s a traffic jam. My body is natural but I’m genetically blessed in all areas
Should be going in the gym working on yourself if have body dysmorphia maximise own potential instead of idolising unrealistic body type. But this conversation explains mentality behind certain group of women don’t see in gym compared to other groups because first option is a BBL above the gym.
Body dysmorphia. The gentleman was CORRECT in stating that a person suffering this illness, would still be in the same position even AFTER surgery, NO? So the new large backside could/would be seen as something completely different to what it is. So how is surgery the answer?
No they won’t be the same after 9/10. Sometimes whatever solution they have, if that being bbl, transplant,veneers etc, they are much more content and no longer insure about that thing they changed. Not saying I agree with it but I can understand that it is not surface level
Physical beauty is a moving target, and an ever-changing ideal. It is also tbh a shallow attainment considering we are talking here about dangerous surgery to achieve one's goals. If all that thought and money was put into something more long-term long lasting and beneficial, more ultimate satisfaction would be had, instead of ending up arguing the toss and throwing shade back and forth (which you can't win) on a media show.
I think the guy is probably in the right for breaking up with her. His girl being insecure to the point that she wants a BBL shows she's not entirely mentally stable. And it could cause problems down the line. (Before anyone tries to compare this to other procedures, understand that BBL's are one of the most dangerous.)
Finally omdss why did you guys take soo long😂🙄
U get ittt
Some of the guys on this panel are mad childish smdh
Please quote lines to support this proposterous statement. On this episode the guys were cooking. It was the girls that as usual were talking nonsense and utter useless.
And the women willing to kill themselves for a large body part are mature? You have a flat ass and a flat brain😂
Why are 12 year olds on bkchat?! It’s not working producers 😩
If the insecurity is in the mind then no matter how much a guy likes her natural body it is still in HER mind she is the one who lives in HER body
They always be saying they do it for them self and we know that a Big Lie the thing is have enough confidence in your self you will not need a BBL it’s the attention they want let’s talk facts
Cookie 😂😂😂😂😂 she is too much 😂😂😂
Abigail behaves like a troll.
17:01 her belly's hanging over her jeans smh. She has to take her health serious instead of looking for shortcuts
Preachhhhh 💯
The Uganda gyal is bangin'
Thank you 🥹
@loycenagawa8638 ✊🏿❤️
Why do women want unnatural bodies? Personally, I love the gym and I love my natural booty. It’s a great shape I love myself everyday. I receive compliments all the time. Be happy with your natural self. You will always have to manipulate something on your body if you focus on vanity and it will create insecurities. Build character and a beautiful heart. Marriage material men want beautiful women, but peaceful women more than anything. A relationship with honor and love. We need people with more integrity than more booty. I couldn’t watch this more than 7 minutes. It’s frustrating to see the world focusing on things that created to fade and pass away. Build your spirit first, your relationship with God, and you will always be beautiful and worthy of praise.
That’s why us man don’t understand gyal sometimes 😂
Aint no way she tried to compare getting braces to a bbl
Aesthetic improvement. Same thing
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
@@TheNaphisa03 Getting braces isn't for sexual attention.
I think I tried to hard to relate 🙊😭🙆🏾♀️
bro please, guys would claim they like natural but would never look at slim girls.
listen, 9 times out of ten, women get their bodies done because of men
which is even just crazy to me like why should you let anyone’s opinion of how you look matter
In terms of desirability thicc>skinny>fat. If fat women can draw man, I don’t know why slim girls have problems
Thing people are forgetting is that once you get a BBL you have to maintain it with exercise still, thats whats funny. Unless you wanna repeadtely go under the knife
Plenty of people know, it’s people with no long term thinking
I mean she ain’t confident before the bbl she ain’t going to be confident after . I mean she might for a while feel confident but after a while she going to go back for another round or get another surgery..
Jayde had TWO liposuctions? Uhh I guess she missed the part about working to keep the weight off
I knew gabs was on cookieeeeeeeeeeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Pwave drops a lot of wisdom
Ash is right often our community is not always aware of their influence on young children ...jayde isnt the first person we all have toxic environment you have to raise above it
Women telling men what they like!!! Men like fit women. Other women have convinced other women to do these madness in the way of influence. Even this episode a women might go get bbL after listening to some of them who approve.
It’s not that hard to just go to the dam bloodclaut GYM LADIESSSS !!!!! I get that we all have insecurities fix it by doing it the right way simple if your man love you just the way you are just the way god made you why change that
Gabz is my favourite 😂😂😂😂 such a character 😂😂😂
You can tell he had his teeth done. They are way to straight which is not natural looking... The men thinking that having a man means you won, like thats the main factor smh!
The truth is women's insecurities come from comparing themselves to other women, period! This BBL craze is affecting women a lot, hence the reason a lot of them want to get it done. People should just accept their body types. GOD created us all to be the way that we are.
she pushed all the blame on the mom loooool
If you have body dysmorphia, you should seek mental health care, not just throw money at your body. Proof women dont have the capacity and discipline to actually put the hard work into their body
They should have had me on here talking, regardless of getting a bbl you won’t ever feel won’t be 100% secure 24/7 that’s why we are human, so many woman who get bbls still have body dysmorphia thats why they go round after round, you can still get that dopamine effect of feeling good after going to the gym after years of consistency and great diet you can completely transform or alter your physic nothing is impossible, it’s important to love yourself, there’s no such thing as a perfect body we all have flaws, you just feel more confident and better wen you know you’ve physically worked hard for something and you get it. Y’all get bbls and forget you still need the gym.
That fact of the matter is Jay got her body done due to HER mothers own insecurities not actually her own. When she said she would look in the mirror and see… no she accepted her mothers projections and went an got surgery.
Is it me or Gabriel looks like Sean Combs half brother? 😂😂😂
I can’t lie certain parts in this episode Josh and P Wave what they said pissed me off. I’m glad Abigail pulled Josh up on it. You call out other’s for speaking over you but do the same when others talk clock it abi!. I fully understand the having morals and values. How it will affect your future kids etc but what’s jarring is how they are choosing to be closed minded on certain things and think two things cant be right at the same time. I fully hear as your partner is what I’m saying to you is it not good enough? At the same time as someone who has body dysmorphia you can tell me how beautiful I am until the cows come home and my mind will still think somehow. Unless you are living in that person’s shoes how can you tell them how they should think and feel. I’m hearing a lot of I, I, I in this episode from them. I’m so glad cookie spoke up and I rate Jayde’s transparency she held it down this episode 💯.
At the end of the day there is power in someone breathing life into you and speaking words of affirmation into your life. HOWEVER the person should not become co-dependent on your affirmations alone because what happens now when you and said person now break up or for whatever reason you are no longer together. The person who relied on your affirmations and you breathing life into them is now back at square one because they no longer have you feeding into their low self esteem and you making them feel good temporarily.
I’m not gunna lie I feel type bad for that girl with the bbl and the trifling momma 🥺
Idk wha loyce is on about gym isnt harder for anyone bc of gender .. it’s typically harder for people with specific body shapes not gender 😭
Sorry sorry it was a genuine thought but I stand corrected
nah gabz is jokes i cant about daddy is here LMAOOO
How a person feels about themselves sometimes is based on how others feel about them…. ( usually resulting in low self esteem) in receiving validation from public. It goes hand in hand they experience low self esteem due to public perception. If they improve the way they are perceived their esteem increases. So it’s for public opinion to in-force positive self reflection
20 yrs down the road what's that bbl gonna look like? and what's its gonna do to your body?
I don't hear or see white or Asian men acting like this when their women get bbls and plastic surgery, and I've seen it they are so supportive and uplifting when it comes to their women. They way they treat their women is amazing. Black men can be so degrading, not all but most.
How u gonna go and buy a bbl but not get rid of that belly fat hanging over ya jeans. These attention seekers aren't even worth talking to, no logic what-so-ever
This one finna look juicy 🎉
Self worth should never be just appearance. If you suffer with this please talk to a professional. One love.