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  • @LondonEventClips
    @LondonEventClips 6 дней назад +354

    I see they found their RUclips password. They left us unfed for like a month😂

    • @neeciiw7840
      @neeciiw7840 5 дней назад +4

      Right now Manners 😤

    • @MatsaA-n5x
      @MatsaA-n5x 5 дней назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Simiiiyah
      @Simiiiyah 5 дней назад +1

      Is it as good as before I haven't watched in years

    • @positiveproton6406
      @positiveproton6406 4 дня назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LondonEventClips
      @LondonEventClips 4 дня назад +2

      @@Simiiiyah Kind of. Topics get a bit repetitive though

  • @smsofficial4809
    @smsofficial4809 6 дней назад +307

    It’s like Abigail never contributes to the conversation. She just comes to have smoke for people. 😂

    • @LyfWithChullow
      @LyfWithChullow 6 дней назад +25

      Likkkeee🤣🤣🤣 cause what was her point?

    • @smsofficial4809
      @smsofficial4809 6 дней назад +29

      @@LyfWithChullow she’s been on this buffoonery since episode one. Bringing up a topic and then getting annoyed. 🤣🤣

    • @Honeysmma
      @Honeysmma 5 дней назад +12

      Whenever she gets mad I am confused

    • @thatbtc3962
      @thatbtc3962 5 дней назад

      She’s so annoying and weird

    • @FavouriteColourIs
      @FavouriteColourIs 3 дня назад +1

      No contributions whatsoever, She's just a chihuahua (small loud and annoying)

  • @jonathanamponsah9347
    @jonathanamponsah9347 6 дней назад +476

    Women insecurities is a billion dollar industry 😂

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 6 дней назад

      Why are ghanaians like this? Please be nice and keep your comments to yourself. She already has low self-esteem

    • @inc0gnig
      @inc0gnig 6 дней назад

      mens’ whole personalities are literally embedded in how much they earn and can spend like yall quite literally created capitalism please stfu

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen 6 дней назад +41

      Trillion

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 6 дней назад +21

      Imagine risking one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal Surgery unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… bones and a square, it’s delusional…surgery never fixed internal issues, ask the ones that went too far, now they look like circus clowns, it’s a slippery slope.

    • @NancyBrown-vh6ze
      @NancyBrown-vh6ze 6 дней назад +1

      When transgender get bbls and plastic surgery, society cheers them on and says, Live in your truth and cheer them Keep that same energy.

  • @tenceyy
    @tenceyy 4 дня назад +59

    Jayde was a great panelist on this subject, she was very open and levelheaded with all of the questions coming her way. Thank you for that!

  • @jalexiaofori4455
    @jalexiaofori4455 6 дней назад +228

    That bbl was a complete waste of money. sorry
    Its crazy when she said " guys prefer sleeping with girls with bbls " but how many guys would marry them .
    Its not a compliment 😂😂😂

    • @Kelseaeff7436
      @Kelseaeff7436 6 дней назад +10

      Why are ghanaian like this? Can't you just be nice and keep your comments to yourself?

    • @betterfad3d
      @betterfad3d 6 дней назад +1

      @@Kelseaeff7436great question

    • @smsofficial4809
      @smsofficial4809 6 дней назад

      @@jalexiaofori4455 exactly. Most of the ladies conflate physical attraction and commitment and that’s why many of them end up disappointed

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 6 дней назад

      Exactly. Just because a guy will sleep with you doesn't mean he likes you as a person. Guys can get an erection without any emotional investment whatsoever.

    • @JoshBoadu
      @JoshBoadu 6 дней назад +14

      They just don't understand the difference between sexual attraction and lifelong marital attraction 😂, bbls are for fantasy sex, not for life

  • @dalubuhlengwenya7188
    @dalubuhlengwenya7188 6 дней назад +120

    Let’s never normalize something with the highest death rate of cosmetic surgeries. Mothers and young girls are dying for aesthetic. It’s ridiculous, I get self love but let’s fix the mind before we fix the body

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE 6 дней назад +156

    Please don't compare braces to a BBL Loyce. It is NOT the same. There are also more medical issues that braces correct (the way you speak, mouth shape, jaw alignment etc)

    • @19tashi79
      @19tashi79 6 дней назад +35

      I thought it was only me that felt it was a dunce comparison 😂

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 6 дней назад +12

      Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves! Surgery cannot fix what is inside usball

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 6 дней назад +6

      @@19tashi79 bruh I was like 💀💀💀 are fillings also comparable to BBLS 🧐🧐🧐🧐 let’s stop the CAPP just to make a point 😂

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 3 дня назад +2

      Na it was definitely far fetched 😭😂

    • @izzlemontano504
      @izzlemontano504 2 дня назад +1

      Stupid facts!!!! This should be the pin comment

  • @T.C200-kd9cx
    @T.C200-kd9cx 6 дней назад +228

    ‘Gym cant do enough’ is just another way to say I dont have the motivation and discipline to go to the gym.

    • @tenitinks
      @tenitinks 6 дней назад +11

      yh but some girls don’t want to look skinny or too muscular!
      they want to be shapely when you go to the gym you start looking too hard sometimes!!!

    • @lovelypassionsea1296
      @lovelypassionsea1296 6 дней назад +1

      Or the patience

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 6 дней назад +8

      ​@@tenitinksThat's not true for women, it's a myth. In any case with perimenopause/menopause, it's good to have muscle definition because we lose a lot of collagen etc. It also helps maintain bone density. All I'm saying is, it's good to get fit for a healthy lifestyle way beyond your 30s. Look how good Halle Berry looks at nearly 60. Way better than some of these women in the podcast.

    • @ampungi1
      @ampungi1 6 дней назад +9

      So gym can give u big lips. For those that get fillers. Gym can’t give u hips. It will tone wt u already have and a lot do not hv curves. That’s why when they get it done it looks like a square with hips.

    • @bna919
      @bna919 5 дней назад +8

      It's funny because you still need to exercise and manage weight in order to maintain the bbl. They could save thousands and the positive aspects that regular exercise provides would make them feel better about themselves anyway

  • @ReeceyboiMusic
    @ReeceyboiMusic 6 дней назад +114

    The girl that did the BBL is kind of proving that it’s all in the mind…even though she spoke about her being insecure about her bum most of her life, she still ended up doing so much more other cosmetic procedures

  • @mrcritic1
    @mrcritic1 6 дней назад +171

    1. It’s her body & if she’s decided to change it, it’s her choice.
    2. Don’t waste your energy, no amount of talking will change her mind.
    3. If you can’t live with that choice, wish her luck & be on your way.
    4. If you can, stick around & enjoy the new body 🤷🏾‍♂️
    5. Gym is powerful when done properly, but don’t pretend it’ll give you big big nyash & tiny waist. (If the base wasn’t already there)
    6. Please stop deluding yourselves, part of getting BBL is for male attention.
    7. Changing aspects of your body isn’t bad. Going extreme is.

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 6 дней назад +29

      The gym CAN give you a big bum but a smaller waist has more to do with your diet and nutrition .
      If you’re built boxy with a belly if you lose a decent amount of weight as to where your stomach doesn’t propel as much as it once might have, then the only work left to do is to progressive overload on muscle building exercises that target regions of the body that will make your waist look smaller by comparison. (Upper back exercises and heavy lower body ones)
      Doing cardio can help burn calories but weightlifting can help burn fat in particular bc it takes more energy for the body to maintain muscle metabolically than it does fat so gaining muscle is definitely not anything to neglect

    • @11simonjr
      @11simonjr 6 дней назад

      @@Oyasavvi Wrong. The only thing the gym and diet can do is REVEAL. If you do not have the genetics you are cooked. Speaking as a pro Athlete and avid fan of booty. And the look that we are attracted to (as well as what these women are going for, ironically) can only be achieved genetically or through surgery anyway. (Notice how the surgeries they get ever so conveniently align with the male gaze, so clearly it's not "for you")
      Last if it's "Your body your choice" then you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone. First of all, you're insecure and getting all this surgery, and even worse you're narcissistic and selfish about it too. Please stay single if that's what you think.

    • @Simplylondon_
      @Simplylondon_ 6 дней назад +18

      Literally I hate when ppl say you cannot grow a big bum from gym

    • @11simonjr
      @11simonjr 6 дней назад

      @@Simplylondon_ YOU CANNOT! The gym and diet can only REVEAL your genetic potential. If you don't have the genes you're cooked. And plus gym cannot give you hips, it does the opposite actually. If you wanna look like Kim K, Kylie, Nicki, Cardi B, Serena J Lo, Amber Rose, Bernice Burgos etc... You either need a good mom, a good dad, a good doctor or all 3.

    • @DeejaP876
      @DeejaP876 6 дней назад +2

      Thank youuu !!!

  • @Nazgulorton
    @Nazgulorton 6 дней назад +80

    Her mum played a huge influence in her getting that BBL

  • @td9997
    @td9997 6 дней назад +115

    The thing about insecurity, it’s deep rooted so even if you ‘FIX’ your insecurity by getting a bbl, there will be something else you’re insecure about that you feel you need to fix. This is why people that under go surgery they don’t stop at that one surgery they keep going.

    • @ProfNDKai
      @ProfNDKai 6 дней назад +11

      CLOCK IT 🫰🏾🫰🏾

    • @Hottywiththebody
      @Hottywiththebody 5 дней назад +1

      Facts

    • @zalaawity9762
      @zalaawity9762 День назад

      I was waiting for this comment. Heal from the insecurity, don't go through surgery to fix the symptom rather than the root cause ie self perception and dysmophoria

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 6 дней назад +99

    Having surgery will never solve the problem of a woman not liking herself....that is delusional in itself. The issue is internal and should be addressed in that manner because you will never find peace trying to change yourself externally. However, I do sympathise with those women who struggle with their body image, I just know bbls are not a practical solution at all....besides getting the wrong attention from a man who only likes you for your body will never work out well for you as a woman.

  • @allanr9085
    @allanr9085 6 дней назад +61

    josh so respectful man good conversationist

  • @JdAutos-f2y
    @JdAutos-f2y 6 дней назад +100

    Female sprinters physiques are top tier jus saying 😅

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 6 дней назад +13

      And gymnasts

    • @AO-hk7dj
      @AO-hk7dj 5 дней назад +4

      That's how I feel as well. Watching the olympics last summer, all I saw was amazing body after amazing body

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 4 дня назад +7

      Female sprinter, pole vaulters, salsa dancers, heck some footballers...you cannot beat slim tone athletic build on a female;-)

  • @LeeMade-i6r
    @LeeMade-i6r 5 дней назад +23

    Maybe jayde's mum was jealous of her or she was projecting her own insecurities onto her daughter! Because why would your own mother poison your mind like this! Even though jayde had a choice to get a bbl or not I actually feel for her, it seems like she was brainwashed from a child

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 5 дней назад +2

      Facts. A lot of mothers are jealous of their daughters but people aren't ready for that conversation.

  • @KJ1-121
    @KJ1-121 6 дней назад +69

    COOKIE your lack of experience with a serious man shows!!! You do not know the power of having your soulmate uplift you. You struggle to understand what the others are saying because you’ve never experienced it.

  • @Risa-tt7qq
    @Risa-tt7qq 6 дней назад +60

    Loyce is pretty

  • @Oyasavvi
    @Oyasavvi 6 дней назад +105

    5 minutes in and already I’m seeing King Richie make all types of sense 😭
    You’re not gonna have an odeee dramatic transformation but you can DEFINITELY develop a relatively (key word) more ideal body shape if you consistently exercise well enough esp with resistance training and progressive overload . But even then that’s only part of the work . PROTEIN is your friend, but other nutritional choices matter. Caloric intake, reducing sugar, and just moving more even if it’s Liss Cardio matters for someone with a belly they trynna lose especially.
    Most people lack the lifestyle commitment that would warrant them these results

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 6 дней назад +14

      Also weekly MEAL PLANNING will help you out by a whole lot. Your body gets used to new portion sizes and you can literally pre make simple meals tailored to your goals and just buy snacks that won’t hinder that but also satisfy you also . Chlorophyll water also helps for energy and sleeeeeep is a key also

    • @Hottywiththebody
      @Hottywiththebody 5 дней назад

      @@Oyasavvifacts. I changed my body doing these things. But also, my genetics played a big part. My family’s athletically curvy

  • @MaryJohnson-tu9uc
    @MaryJohnson-tu9uc 6 дней назад +72

    In my opinion, if someone has body dysmorphia and it is in their MIND by them changing their appearance on their BODY it is not resolving the issue at hand.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 6 дней назад +5

      Valid 💯 that’s what one of the guys point

    • @GSP.beats.
      @GSP.beats. 2 дня назад

      It's clearly a mental illness

  • @lovelypassionsea1296
    @lovelypassionsea1296 6 дней назад +35

    The first time I agree with the men. It’s always so sad seeing women side with toxic beauty standards. The reality is, women who get bbls, fillers, lipo, etc. suffer from body dysmorphia (especially the cases where they look objectively terrible). Constantly getting these procedures done doesn’t help what’s happening mentally. They’re just gonna keep running back to these procedures

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 День назад

      You mean toxic femininity following what whytes do. Call it what it is!

  • @Sweetdreamz313
    @Sweetdreamz313 6 дней назад +53

    People forget even with regular bodies you need to properly work out and diet to maintain your muscle and figure

  • @solomonkeliojor6958
    @solomonkeliojor6958 6 дней назад +37

    I don’t believe it’s about yourself. I believe it’s how you feel the world perceives you based on how you feel about yourself

  • @Fonzworth000
    @Fonzworth000 6 дней назад +25

    Nobody has ever died getting a hair transplant. That’s why you can’t compare it to a BBL. If hair transplants came with a high mortality rate, there’d be a lot more crooked hairlines out here - men tend to not risk their lives for aesthetics.

  • @CourtneeG
    @CourtneeG 6 дней назад +43

    Bbl is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery. Thousands have lost their lives… that risk is high and women who have done it & still doing it, mindsets should definitely be studied. You’re willing to risk your life for vanity

  • @jenayrandall9358
    @jenayrandall9358 6 дней назад +71

    Jayde is entitled to a refund.
    Edit: add King Richez to that tab.

  • @stosenatasha6420
    @stosenatasha6420 5 дней назад +17

    I dunno what his name is but that guy with the green eyes comes across as so mature, he’s deffo my fav

  • @nana23ac
    @nana23ac 6 дней назад +48

    If you have body dysmorphia, please seek professional help and do not lean into your mental disorder. It will get very expensive and will keep you on a hamster wheel

    • @ZarahKnight-vq1jk
      @ZarahKnight-vq1jk 6 дней назад

      It's not easy as that

    • @nana23ac
      @nana23ac 6 дней назад +6

      @ that’s why you must seek help, the first step is to name it as a problem, the healing will start there it’s a process

    • @19tashi79
      @19tashi79 6 дней назад +1

      Then they end up looking like Lil Kim 😏

    • @ZarahKnight-vq1jk
      @ZarahKnight-vq1jk 5 дней назад

      @@19tashi79 really

  • @astroidroach1873
    @astroidroach1873 6 дней назад +47

    Cookie asking why can’t we be lazy 😭🤣😂

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 4 дня назад

      Hilarious. She should just look in the mirror to find the answer to that question. Yet she is so delusional thinking she is top rated and coming with chest. The west is done female wise with very few exceptions not worth weeding through the copious BS to find out

  • @Honeysmma
    @Honeysmma 6 дней назад +20

    This reminds me of Nicki Minaj getting a BBL because the boys in young money used to make fun of her natural body….

  • @user-gm2ix2ii3k
    @user-gm2ix2ii3k 6 дней назад +30

    I’m with the guys on this one

  • @MissThaxter
    @MissThaxter 6 дней назад +28

    My family called me black and ugly, and I don't change anything about myself, I don't wear eyelash make-up, etc.

    • @patriciarosana4476
      @patriciarosana4476 6 дней назад +14

      You're beautiful tf you ain't ugly ❤❤

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen 6 дней назад +8

      I hope you got away from that "family". You're gorgeous. Wishing you the best in life 🌞🌻

    • @Coco-uk9tv
      @Coco-uk9tv 6 дней назад

      That is sad. It's your family who are "ugly". 🙏🏿

  • @immortal7436
    @immortal7436 6 дней назад +25

    I would not support my man getting a silly surgery like that, and I woudlnt want my bf to encourage and support me with getting a bbl id want him to bring me back to reality

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE 6 дней назад +19

    The way King Richez expresses himself is just funny to me. Him and Gabz 😂😂

  • @MissThaxter
    @MissThaxter 6 дней назад +40

    This is actually sad 😢

  • @19tashi79
    @19tashi79 6 дней назад +25

    These women are tapped!!!
    Some black people have lost their minds....
    The condoning of the dead out surgery is MADNESS 😂

  • @FavouriteColourIs
    @FavouriteColourIs 4 дня назад +6

    Looool Ashleigh aint lying jayde is defo attracts a certain type of men

  • @Risa-tt7qq
    @Risa-tt7qq 6 дней назад +88

    She had bbl but her belly is still hanging

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina 6 дней назад +2

      Imagine doing one of the riskiest surgeries, risking blood clots or potentially lethal risks, unnecessarily….mothers doing this Una… it’s sad. And 7/10 times it comes out square… skinny body and a square, it’s delusional… the ones that look alright, they HAD SOMETHING THERE BEFORE ITS A minor ENHANCEMENT, rather than a skinny girl getting a square bum! Embrace yourselves!

    • @richardmurray4605
      @richardmurray4605 6 дней назад +15

      @@hustleno-filta5373 I'm pretty sure she said she had lipo as well

    • @la1576
      @la1576 6 дней назад +12

      @@hustleno-filta5373 did you even listen?.. she’s had bbl and lipo TWICE

    • @hustleno-filta5373
      @hustleno-filta5373 6 дней назад

      @la1576 ngl working progress i watched like 5mins and came off i aint a sub it just pops up..🤲🏾

    • @la1576
      @la1576 6 дней назад

      @@hustleno-filta5373 it was in the first 5mins, but I hear you

  • @Swagga1234
    @Swagga1234 6 дней назад +13

    is it me or jayde capping she first saying her ex cheated after the bbl and in the last 5 min of the vid he cheated before
    the bbl

  • @yellowforever794
    @yellowforever794 6 дней назад +10

    lets not ignore the amount of deaths linked with the bbl. Not worth risking your life for.

  • @ampungi1
    @ampungi1 6 дней назад +26

    So he got his teeth done for girls 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 День назад

      Of course, but how many have died from it, though? Stay focused.

    • @ampungi1
      @ampungi1 19 часов назад

      @@marsmith1907 do ur research. It’s not a death experience but the side effects and pain is very much unbearable that it can make u want to do things that can kill to remove it. We are not talking about death here. Fact is his teeth ain’t his. So he should not hv a voice. He didn’t get them done for health reason just bcoz he was not happy with them. 😂😂😂insecure. No different from a bbl. Let’s call his BBT.

  • @Armani_ca
    @Armani_ca 6 дней назад +21

    Wait bkchat is still a thing. I thought everyone retired ??

    • @xanesu
      @xanesu 6 дней назад

      Same

    • @Bombaclartt76681
      @Bombaclartt76681 3 дня назад +2

      I thought we would never see another’s episode again 😭😭

  • @StretchandFlex
    @StretchandFlex 5 дней назад +7

    Agreed. A LOT of ladies dont know what to do in the gym. Being in the gym for a year consistently and not seeing improvement is already an indication that you’re not doing the correct workouts 🥺 its doable! Either way its sad that people, especially parents are making anyone feel like theyre less than. Speak positive things over your kids man🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @sharnachristina7504
    @sharnachristina7504 6 дней назад +27

    I got my body from working out on wii fit and i wasnt trying i was just bored😂 it was constant.. all day but ladies.. baddie body is 100% obtainable without surgery and with muscle memory ive kept my shape 10years+. Genetics helps but still... Truth is you change because you dont like yourself and beyonce said it best... its the soul that needs the surgery 🎶 nobody who thinks they are perfect got on the metal table.. remember that😏

    • @JoyfullyJoy91
      @JoyfullyJoy91 6 дней назад +6

      Let us not act like Beyoncé isn’t part of the bbl community. She had the hips but returned with the butt one day! The tummy and bubble shape never lies 😂 but yes she is right, the soul needs surgery

    • @ProfNDKai
      @ProfNDKai 6 дней назад +2

      What you know about the Wi-Fit thoooo! ppl don’t get how eternally iconic and lit it is 😅you made me feel seen at last

  • @Honeysmma
    @Honeysmma 5 дней назад +11

    21 getting a bbl is insane, how are yall finding money at 21?

    • @elleem8873
      @elleem8873 2 дня назад

      She went uno for 2 months to get the student loan and dropped out

    • @cjthaboss
      @cjthaboss День назад

      ​@@elleem8873debt till 48 instead of a few years of gym is actually insane

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 6 дней назад +22

    27:36 what kind of toxic parenting is this? Absolutley atrocious

  • @missgirl7879
    @missgirl7879 5 дней назад +10

    "as a qualified p3 level 3" im cryin

  • @Gabby239
    @Gabby239 6 дней назад +7

    So shouldn't the solution be therapy...NOT a BBL if you are suffering that badly?

  • @neicyk
    @neicyk 6 дней назад +25

    Yes finally a video. We missed y’all ❤

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 6 дней назад +8

    I think the guy is probably in the right for breaking up with her. His girl being insecure to the point that she wants a BBL shows she's not entirely mentally stable. And it could cause problems down the line. (Before anyone tries to compare this to other procedures, understand that BBL's are one of the most dangerous.)

  • @NajusCare
    @NajusCare 3 дня назад +2

    It’s not the body shape… it’s how you Dress. the pictures you post… the confidence, and accessibility you give people. I purposely wear baggy and casual clothing so I do not get attention. If I wear certain things. It’s a traffic jam. My body is natural but I’m genetically blessed in all areas

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 6 дней назад +22

    Loyce & Gab 👰🏿‍♀️🤴🏾💍 2025

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 4 дня назад

      @Gabz Do not do it. RUN and don't look back. Loyce will destroy you. You deserve better than to be trying to fix an already broken and damaged post wall female with kids. Have some self esteem

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 6 дней назад +7

    Body dysmorphia. The gentleman was CORRECT in stating that a person suffering this illness, would still be in the same position even AFTER surgery, NO? So the new large backside could/would be seen as something completely different to what it is. So how is surgery the answer?

    • @ygr1229
      @ygr1229 5 дней назад

      No they won’t be the same after 9/10. Sometimes whatever solution they have, if that being bbl, transplant,veneers etc, they are much more content and no longer insure about that thing they changed. Not saying I agree with it but I can understand that it is not surface level

  • @whyask8155
    @whyask8155 6 дней назад +16

    38:14 some people honestly shouldn't have children man. This is honestly so sad 😢

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 6 дней назад +5

    Yes. Invest in yourself....spiritually!

  • @winifredshallow6416
    @winifredshallow6416 6 дней назад +3

    Physical beauty is a moving target, and an ever-changing ideal. It is also tbh a shallow attainment considering we are talking here about dangerous surgery to achieve one's goals. If all that thought and money was put into something more long-term long lasting and beneficial, more ultimate satisfaction would be had, instead of ending up arguing the toss and throwing shade back and forth (which you can't win) on a media show.

  • @minahlaugh
    @minahlaugh 6 дней назад +23

    Some of the guys on this panel are mad childish smdh

    • @Gchild2k6
      @Gchild2k6 4 дня назад +2

      Please quote lines to support this proposterous statement. On this episode the guys were cooking. It was the girls that as usual were talking nonsense and utter useless.

    • @marsmith1907
      @marsmith1907 День назад

      And the women willing to kill themselves for a large body part are mature? You have a flat ass and a flat brain😂

  • @KadenDhdh-rc2rp
    @KadenDhdh-rc2rp 6 дней назад +8

    Should be going in the gym working on yourself if have body dysmorphia maximise own potential instead of idolising unrealistic body type. But this conversation explains mentality behind certain group of women don’t see in gym compared to other groups because first option is a BBL above the gym.

  • @stacie8131
    @stacie8131 6 дней назад +6

    BIG UP COOKIE WHO IS THE ONLY ONE THAT HIGHLIGHTED THE PHYSIOLOGICAL ASPECT.

  • @rezlaso2742
    @rezlaso2742 6 дней назад +20

    Damn 2 months later 😂😂

  • @goodnesseni
    @goodnesseni 4 дня назад +5

    bro please, guys would claim they like natural but would never look at slim girls.
    listen, 9 times out of ten, women get their bodies done because of men
    which is even just crazy to me like why should you let anyone’s opinion of how you look matter

    • @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise
      @LondonMoneyCashEnterprise 2 дня назад

      In terms of desirability thicc>skinny>fat. If fat women can draw man, I don’t know why slim girls have problems

  • @MissSunshine_xo
    @MissSunshine_xo 6 дней назад +9

    If the insecurity is in the mind then no matter how much a guy likes her natural body it is still in HER mind she is the one who lives in HER body

  • @NONYEFR
    @NONYEFR День назад +1

    I knew gabs was on cookieeeeeeeeeeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @__grav2798
    @__grav2798 6 дней назад +7

    Thing people are forgetting is that once you get a BBL you have to maintain it with exercise still, thats whats funny. Unless you wanna repeadtely go under the knife

  • @tanyciagrace9556
    @tanyciagrace9556 6 дней назад +13

    Why are 12 year olds on bkchat?! It’s not working producers 😩

  • @ShantolFlawless
    @ShantolFlawless 5 дней назад +4

    They always be saying they do it for them self and we know that a Big Lie the thing is have enough confidence in your self you will not need a BBL it’s the attention they want let’s talk facts

  • @PETERCLAVER1
    @PETERCLAVER1 5 дней назад +4

    King Richez and Gabz are just super funny

  • @se4132
    @se4132 5 дней назад +7

    Aint no way she tried to compare getting braces to a bbl

    • @TheNaphisa03
      @TheNaphisa03 5 дней назад

      Aesthetic improvement. Same thing

    • @promisemaduako7191
      @promisemaduako7191 5 дней назад

      😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 5 дней назад

      @@TheNaphisa03 Getting braces isn't for sexual attention.

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 3 дня назад

      I think I tried to hard to relate 🙊😭🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 6 дней назад +11

    17:01 her belly's hanging over her jeans smh. She has to take her health serious instead of looking for shortcuts

  • @emilybrown7224
    @emilybrown7224 5 дней назад +6

    I mean she ain’t confident before the bbl she ain’t going to be confident after . I mean she might for a while feel confident but after a while she going to go back for another round or get another surgery..

  • @ArielMcfadden-n9y
    @ArielMcfadden-n9y 6 дней назад +14

    Why do women want unnatural bodies? Personally, I love the gym and I love my natural booty. It’s a great shape I love myself everyday. I receive compliments all the time. Be happy with your natural self. You will always have to manipulate something on your body if you focus on vanity and it will create insecurities. Build character and a beautiful heart. Marriage material men want beautiful women, but peaceful women more than anything. A relationship with honor and love. We need people with more integrity than more booty. I couldn’t watch this more than 7 minutes. It’s frustrating to see the world focusing on things that created to fade and pass away. Build your spirit first, your relationship with God, and you will always be beautiful and worthy of praise.

  • @1NASDAQ
    @1NASDAQ 6 дней назад +7

    Jayde had TWO liposuctions? Uhh I guess she missed the part about working to keep the weight off

  • @jessykavira7457
    @jessykavira7457 3 дня назад +3

    gabz kills me, cookie is funny and loycee... yhhh ;)

  • @jama24581
    @jama24581 6 дней назад +11

    Finally omdss why did you guys take soo long😂🙄

  • @DeejaP876
    @DeejaP876 6 дней назад +9

    It’s not that hard to just go to the dam bloodclaut GYM LADIESSSS !!!!! I get that we all have insecurities fix it by doing it the right way simple if your man love you just the way you are just the way god made you why change that

  • @J-Snaps71474
    @J-Snaps71474 6 дней назад +5

    Women telling men what they like!!! Men like fit women. Other women have convinced other women to do these madness in the way of influence. Even this episode a women might go get bbL after listening to some of them who approve.

  • @veeguy8750
    @veeguy8750 5 дней назад +5

    Abigail behaves like a troll.

  • @Keepit100-t6c
    @Keepit100-t6c 5 дней назад +1

    The truth is women's insecurities come from comparing themselves to other women, period! This BBL craze is affecting women a lot, hence the reason a lot of them want to get it done. People should just accept their body types. GOD created us all to be the way that we are.

  • @md-k08
    @md-k08 6 дней назад +6

    You can tell he had his teeth done. They are way to straight which is not natural looking... The men thinking that having a man means you won, like thats the main factor smh!

  • @bbysassou3807
    @bbysassou3807 3 дня назад

    They should have had me on here talking, regardless of getting a bbl you won’t ever feel won’t be 100% secure 24/7 that’s why we are human, so many woman who get bbls still have body dysmorphia thats why they go round after round, you can still get that dopamine effect of feeling good after going to the gym after years of consistency and great diet you can completely transform or alter your physic nothing is impossible, it’s important to love yourself, there’s no such thing as a perfect body we all have flaws, you just feel more confident and better wen you know you’ve physically worked hard for something and you get it. Y’all get bbls and forget you still need the gym.

  • @LME101_
    @LME101_ 23 часа назад

    Gabz is my favourite 😂😂😂😂 such a character 😂😂😂

  • @Capitalgee84
    @Capitalgee84 5 дней назад +5

    The Uganda gyal is bangin'

  • @GSP.beats.
    @GSP.beats. 2 дня назад +1

    If you have body dysmorphia, you should seek mental health care, not just throw money at your body. Proof women dont have the capacity and discipline to actually put the hard work into their body

  • @immortal7436
    @immortal7436 6 дней назад +5

    Idk wha loyce is on about gym isnt harder for anyone bc of gender .. it’s typically harder for people with specific body shapes not gender 😭

    • @loycenagawa8638
      @loycenagawa8638 3 дня назад

      Sorry sorry it was a genuine thought but I stand corrected

  • @MizzLittleCutie1
    @MizzLittleCutie1 6 дней назад +4

    I can’t lie certain parts in this episode Josh and P Wave what they said pissed me off. I’m glad Abigail pulled Josh up on it. You call out other’s for speaking over you but do the same when others talk clock it abi!. I fully understand the having morals and values. How it will affect your future kids etc but what’s jarring is how they are choosing to be closed minded on certain things and think two things cant be right at the same time. I fully hear as your partner is what I’m saying to you is it not good enough? At the same time as someone who has body dysmorphia you can tell me how beautiful I am until the cows come home and my mind will still think somehow. Unless you are living in that person’s shoes how can you tell them how they should think and feel. I’m hearing a lot of I, I, I in this episode from them. I’m so glad cookie spoke up and I rate Jayde’s transparency she held it down this episode 💯.
    At the end of the day there is power in someone breathing life into you and speaking words of affirmation into your life. HOWEVER the person should not become co-dependent on your affirmations alone because what happens now when you and said person now break up or for whatever reason you are no longer together. The person who relied on your affirmations and you breathing life into them is now back at square one because they no longer have you feeding into their low self esteem and you making them feel good temporarily.

  • @hiitdon8630
    @hiitdon8630 6 дней назад +8

    Cookie 😂😂😂😂😂 she is too much 😂😂😂

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 6 дней назад +2

    Pwave drops a lot of wisdom

  • @gbaby2460
    @gbaby2460 3 дня назад

    How a person feels about themselves sometimes is based on how others feel about them…. ( usually resulting in low self esteem) in receiving validation from public. It goes hand in hand they experience low self esteem due to public perception. If they improve the way they are perceived their esteem increases. So it’s for public opinion to in-force positive self reflection

  • @iluv2pac031
    @iluv2pac031 6 дней назад +1

    nah gabz is jokes i cant about daddy is here LMAOOO

  • @ryankasdi6203
    @ryankasdi6203 6 дней назад +11

    Big up p wave!!!!!!!

  • @shugssss
    @shugssss 5 дней назад +3

    she pushed all the blame on the mom loooool

  • @2piecenobisuit763
    @2piecenobisuit763 6 дней назад +3

    20 yrs down the road what's that bbl gonna look like? and what's its gonna do to your body?

  • @unclejamrock
    @unclejamrock 4 дня назад +1

    Self worth should never be just appearance. If you suffer with this please talk to a professional. One love.

  • @designajunkiee6903
    @designajunkiee6903 5 дней назад +2

    I’m not gunna lie I feel type bad for that girl with the bbl and the trifling momma 🥺

  • @shakercongotv4529
    @shakercongotv4529 3 дня назад +2

    Be happy with the body God given you

  • @FavouriteColourIs
    @FavouriteColourIs 4 дня назад

    Ash is right often our community is not always aware of their influence on young children ...jayde isnt the first person we all have toxic environment you have to raise above it

  • @Lifeisgoodeth
    @Lifeisgoodeth 5 дней назад +1

    In this 2024 with 2025 coming- BBL should be banned, because ain’t no way I want these kids to think having such surgeries will get you somewhere in life

  • @CEOSHANNYVEVO
    @CEOSHANNYVEVO 14 часов назад

    That fact of the matter is Jay got her body done due to HER mothers own insecurities not actually her own. When she said she would look in the mirror and see… no she accepted her mothers projections and went an got surgery.

  • @GSP.beats.
    @GSP.beats. 2 дня назад +1

    How u gonna go and buy a bbl but not get rid of that belly fat hanging over ya jeans. These attention seekers aren't even worth talking to, no logic what-so-ever

  • @Chantss_xo
    @Chantss_xo 6 дней назад +5

    This one finna look juicy 🎉