"I Did Not Give You Permission To discipline My Ch1ld" | BKCHAT LDN: S6 EPISODE 6
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- *BKChat LDN Episode 6*
In Episode 6 of BKChat LDN, the cast delves into a heated discussion about the role and boundaries of a stepmother in disciplining her stepchild. The conversation explores whether it's appropriate for a stepmom to enforce discipline with or without the biological parents' permission. The episode is filled with varying perspectives and lively debates, highlighting the complexities and emotions involved in blended family dynamics. Tune in to hear the cast's candid opinions and real-life experiences as they navigate this sensitive and often controversial topic.
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Who was your MVP on this episode?
Can’t pick !
Cookie
Loyce
And tosin t are the big 3 for me as usual they make every episode 🤣🤣 they speak sense but present it so funny
Gabs is so funny 😆
Idc what anyone else is on this is my fave season so far ❤
It’s just a matter of taste. Maybe ppl can submit questions or something as a treat if we hit 1k likes or something 🙃
But it’s just messy enough for me. Not to ghetto. we get a bit of personal tea (im a nosey mothereffer 😅) & we have some natural comedians & characters in the cast
@@TRENDCNTRL Loyce is my fighter!!!!!
None of em
KING RICHEZ
The 2 jacked dudes. They spoke really.
They could be having a discussion about the sky being blue & King Richez and Chyna would turn the conversation into a podcast men vs women situation 💀💀💀
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Those two have serious issues with Women
Fr
It’s their only gimmick
Kevin Samuels warriors 😂💀
I really like this Loyce babe. I swear she's one of the only ones that consistently makes sense and is actually level-headed.
Init 😂😂
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Loyce is my fave too sensible babe. Beauty &brains too
She destroyed her marriage, I don't rate that
@@thebenevolentpatriarch424we don’t care what u don’t rate ngl 😂
LOYCE 😂😂😂 “ you weren’t even the leader of ya friendship group “ 😂 big facts!
Not leading your friendship group does not mean you cannot lead a home. The two are not mutually exclusive. There can only be one captian, one boss in anything. Does not mean the other players cannot lead in their own homes. Loyce is an utter delusional dangerous female so nothing she says if you deep it actually makes sense. Never listen to females.
Yhh but that doesn't say anything good about you! Im not the leader in my friendship group but yet you still gave me the narns 😒
they never stay on topic💀
tbh if they stayed on topic the episode would be done in 10mins
@@she.love_a2923exactly. It’ll always lead to other things
I think they do that on purpose
It would have just been don’t hit my child. Episode done if they had done that…
They're told to waffle for as long as possible for the sake of the viewing time
The way men talk about baby mums is nastyyyy like some of them don't come from single parent households themselves 😭
Preachhhhh 💯
@@awasohna3959 that's not the same to them lol
@@loishanamckenzie3307 men and their double standards astound me. They want us to accept their bs and mediocrity but want women to be beyond perfect when they bring nothing but tears and shame 😭😭
Standards
50% of single black women in the UK are single moms compared to just 20% for other races. That ls #1 reason why I don't date BW
3 abortions??? That man a serial killer 😭😭😭
A triple homicide inna réal life 😮
Did he have the abortion??? Last time I checked men cant have abortions
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Those are the abortions he knows about
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 no honestly
Gabz is so unserious 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he brings the humour to the panel
Bk chats very own Kevin hart if you will, or maybe Chris tucker 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
@@GABZ-TV You have a good mix of joking when needed whilst always highlight what needs to be. Your assessment of what to do when a child disrespect you was perfect. This degenerate show would be even more degenerate without King Richez, Chyna and yourself to speak sense. Dami should just be moved to the other side where he belongs
he would've been perfect with the original cast imagine him and biscuit together
“He wants to live that chlamydia and gonorrhoea life” sorry that’s gold 😂😂😂
Chyna as a grown man speaking like he’s 21 bout bms have the best snacks. Olorun baba 😂😂😂
I’m older now so my taste buds are more acute allow me to 😅
I hate men who get their personality from the internet
@@mynameischyna😂😂
Omo laugh wan kill me
“Leave my baby mama alone until I’m ready” this has to be quote of the year from Gabz 😭😭😭😭😭
Saying it’s your duty to find a woman but at the same breath admitting 3 women have terminated is wild.
I don't see the correlation
@@michael43567get glasses
@@michael43567 if it was so important to him surely he wudda been settled rather than havin multiple women abort bc he aint mentally ready to be a father
@@sullyballesteros fair. But it's still not a contradiction like the OP's comment insinuates. He could be dating/sleeping with women, but also have a certain type of woman he's looking for that he'd take serious. And the women aborting is ultimately their decision, so I don't see how that correlates with him as a man finding a woman as that's his decision
@@sullyballesteros Once you buss in a female, you as a man has no say into whether it lives or die so how is it his fault. How do you know he didn't want to be a father in all 3 situations but the female wanted to still be out on the streets where she belongs? Females will never grow and become better if men keep absolving them of responsibility for their bad actions
Funny how these men are screaming about women shouldn’t have babies out of wedlock, but they’re the same guys that won’t be in a sexless relationship. Make it make sense 😩
@@aishabem FR! Then they won’t pull out or use cond0ms because it doesn’t “feel good”. They need to make up their minds.
@@bentleysbugattis414you’re the same girls that go to them so stfu 😂
This cast is so discombobulated, they’re literally arguing about everything but the actual question
Bro the show would be finish in 10 mins if they only spoke on topic
“Baby mums are easy” is CRAZYYYYYY😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It’s the truth
Wild. Insane. Diabolical
@@akporesiriomene3396 Nah, we have to arrange childcare...
It's true though.💁🏿♂️
Yes easier than a childless woman l, thats a fact.
It’s weird seeing Jayde Blac and Abigail sitting right next to each other when back in December 2018 those two, Miss R Fabulous and Ivorian Doll all pulled up to Shoreditch to fight each other 😂😂😂
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@promisemaduako7191 Abigail can't fight, she got robbed for her shoe & got beaten with her own shoe this is why people called her cinderella 👠
Side note - Jayde looks beautiful 😍
@@DMain-rf3yowhich one is abigale?
@@DMain-rf3yowhattt? when 😭
@@danielpennant1948the one with the hat and yellow top
I’m sorry but King Richez is not wrong for wanting to start a family with a child free woman. As a child free woman myself I would never even consider having a child with a man that already has kids. It’s too many childless men out here to ever consider that.
Someone with intelligence
100%
He is definitely right, and so are you for the choice youve made .but the offend disrespect towards single mums and or baby mum is not needed
Alot of these men are raised by single mums and married parents who felt like single parents he should watch how he speaks women
Chyna is annoying. He talk over the whole show.
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😅😂
The fact that uncle rafool is the only one talking sense is crazy 😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭frrr,
Which one is uncle rafool 😮
@@Nushka444 dami
At least loyce took accountability and apologised, she's very mature for that 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Fake apology. Put everything she said and did in context and pay attention to her exact words and demeanor and you will see she is not mature and has not actually taken accountability. For her to cheat and break up her marriage then be worrying a single father who would look after her would still be smashing his ex is wild.
@@Gchild2k6do you know that she was abused in that marriage and she did not want to disappoint her family into getting divorced that’s why she ended up cheating
@@hannahtabiri985 Utter nonsense. Females will make up any heinous lie to hide and avoid accountability for their cheating. What irrefutable evidence did she produce that proves beyond a reasonable doubt she was abused? How does cheating to avoid divorce stop the abuse or make sense? You 304s are not just narcissistic but utterly dim with no need to make sense. PS. In marriage/relationships, Females at 70% rate are the perpetrators of abuse against men. Yeah, smoke that slowly;-) Also, if joyce was a good woman, she would have worked through any issues in her marriage even temporary separation whist he got help etc and then continue their marriage together not cheating no divorce. Simple. Her vows on which the man risked his life and earnings said til death do us part not til my feelings are hurt or abuse lies.
@@hannahtabiri985she probably brought the abuse upon herself
No one comes here for wisdom. We’re here for laughs 😂
Did Damo really say :Chlamydia life??? 😂😂
im crying😭😭😭😭😭😭
I was bussing up😂
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It’s so sad that this generation has normalised having children out of wedlock.
It’s so embarrassing for us as black people.
Not everyone wants to get married. It's a personal choice lol
@@loishanamckenzie3307 marriage is not my issue here. It’s the idea of having different child from multiple people rather than keeping one nuclear family.
They hate us for calling it out
@Junior-zf7yy it's sad I must say. I disagree too this generation has failed terribly. Our ancestors would be ashamed but you cant tell these young people anything anymore
@@loishanamckenzie3307and that’s part of the problem…
Chyna loooooool you said baby mums have good snacks , don’t kill me
He's not serious 🤣
@@shalooom2825😂😂😂
The guy in the middle only came to wear fake Gucci and spectate lol
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂man been wearing fake shit on God last time was dior 😂😂😂
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@@souvenirbabbamvogo6051not even uncle rafool is probs still spending 2018 money🫣
What ever happened to "takes a village to raise a child" 😭
Women picked the worst from the village to have babies by but expect the best from the village to raise them
Abeg the village is tired 😩
@@lisaboateng701😭😭😭
That doesn’t mean touch my kid tf?😂
@@mynameischyna 💥💥GOD BLESS YOU. 💯
Chyna and Richez are moving mad omg 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Shaq & Kobe
@@mynameischyna😭😭😭
Normal
@@KingRichezhave you gotten over that white woman who left you depressed that you had to make a whole video on it ?
@@Mamg127for real? 😂
“That chlamydia life” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Leave my baby mamma alone until I’m ready” is WILDDDDDD😂😂💀
Like someone said in the comments “there's been a rise in single mothers because there's been a change in societal standards and women have enough financial freedom to raise children on their own so they don't have to stay in marriages/relationships that may have been toxic for them and their children.“. Many women don’t pick a man who can’t look after them or their kid. Common sense people change after a while. That’s why most relationships and marriages don’t last long because a lot people aren’t how you meet them at first. So it has nothing to do with picking you can pick a bad person who becomes good or a good man who becomes bad.
Word!
Nah it’s because men don’t respect you and the reason why you’re single is because you’re mostly likely promiscuous. End of story, it’s not a flex to not have a man in your life. Imagine your children not having a father
Cookie is hilarious😂
Loyce was talking senseeeeeee keep talking
Gabz is officially our new Kevin hart from London 😂😂😂 loved this episode
You lot are killing me 😂
Sorry but I’m calling CPS 😭😭😭😭
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For once, I agree with Richez. Childless people must date childless people. Single parents must date single parents.
People get dragged for having a preference in 2024 😂
These girls are making king feel bad for having a preference, it's a choice to date a baby mother or a baby father if you don't want too then why must you get judged for it smh
100%
@@KingRichez never lower your standards king 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Facts! Imagine calling a man broke because he chooses not to date a single mother 😖 women love projecting too damn much! Like do you want a man to love you or fund your lifestyle smh
The mindsets and attitudes of some of these women shows why they are in the position they are in now. Very shallow and bitter!
I am very independent and secure in my life right now so if I choose not to date a woman with children then that's my choice, some women don't even want a man to step in they want a man to step up and provide for them and their child. I don't want a woman to look at my financial background and say "yeah he's qualified" from jayde's reaction she'll only let a man into her life if he has money she wouldn't care if the man has 3/4 baby mums but as long as he can provide then he's qualified. So if a man having money is jayde's preference then king not choosing to settle with a women with kids should be his preference 🫡
No. Dami did NOT say "that chlamydia life." 🤣🤣🤣🤣 CRAZYYYY
18:45 there's been a rise in single mothers because there's been a change in societal standards and women have enough financial freedom to raise children on their own so they don't have to stay in marriages/relationships that may have been toxic for them and their children. this should really be common sense🤦🏼♀
Except look at the fuck ups that they're churning out
Y’all should have Gabzz there every episode just to instigate “his name is Chyna” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nah 😂 he my hype man
@@mynameischyna100% 🤣, great episode bro. Keep it up!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😂😂 I’m here init
@@GABZ-TV Salute from Toronto 🇨🇦 you guys never fail to make me laugh 😂👏🏾👏🏾
@@pressuremademanu love bro 👊🏾
I remember growing up, my parents allowed my school teachers to discipline me when I stepped out of line, and honestly, I needed it. I believe that if the mom gives the stepmom permission to discipline the child, then she certainly has the right to do so. However, if there’s no permission, it’s deeply disrespectful to both the dad and the mom. Moreover, if the child is being beaten, it’s important to distinguish between abuse and discipline. Consider that the stepmom might have been raised differently, possibly being disciplined with hangers and canes, while others might only consider using their hand.
There is no distinguishing, beating a child with canes and hangers is ABUSE
I got wh00pings and it turned me to a monster so it’s not good
Teachers didn't need your parents permission to put you in detention or take away contraband from you etc aka discipline you so neither does the step mum. Whilst it may be nice as a courtesy to get permission from the mother before, the stepmother does not need permission to discipline an unruly child in her home. Spare the rod, spoil the child. Children will play parents against each other if they know one tolerates disrespect and the other does not. IT TAKES A VILLAGE and the stepmother is part of that village.
Chyna be getting too emotional with all that bicep 😂😂
😂 nah you finished me I’m just passionate what can I say but I hear you
@@mynameischyna i feel you my g, you made solid points
chlamydia life has me crying 😭😂
Loyce is wifey the rest are 💀
Spoken like a full grade smp. She cheat on her husband, left the marriage, is tattooed aka carrying emotional baggage, is a baby momma, is not submissive aka openly disrespectful of men yet you think she is a wifey? This is what is wrong with the community when we confuse rachet as wifey.
You know she’s divorced because she cheated on her husband?
@@thehonestman2288 @Trendcentrl will keep deleting any posting that raises what loyce is and call her out for it. Anything to protect females and avoid holding them accountable.
AND HIS NAME IS CHYNA!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
At least they gonna remember me this season 😂
@@mynameischynayou are an embarrassment
Tossin is jarring oh my word 😭😭 she got triggered by the men’s honest opinion by saying they will not date baby mums. She’s triggered because she was made a baby mum without someone marrying her😂😂😂. I like Loyce, she’s logical & she did understand some of the mens perspective , even though she has a child herself.
In this life, you never know tomorrow trust me
Tosin is legit just trolling everyone every episode LOL just beautiful and annoying. I love it honestly 😂
The jacked men(physically fit ) have the same opinion. There’s a reason for that. They are way more attractive and with their pool of options , they won’t advocate for someone with a child. Common sense
Finally someone smart
Even if you are not jacked and have limited options, you should still make the best decision and NOT advocate for baby mothers. Common sense = Men must do the right thing not the desperate thing.
You guys are wayward on this show because when they asked if you would date someone with kids everyone said no, EVEN THE WOMEN. then 5 minutes later they tried to convince the men that they should date women with kids. You guys need to focus man.
Can’t make this ish up 😂
imma be real these questions recently haven't had much room for a debate, moretime the outcome is common sense. this is why people go on tangents because once someone uses something personal ppl latch on to that and forget the question due to there not being much of a split in the debate. bkchat there's way too much going on in the world for these meedy questions man. I've been watching since 15-16 i'm 22 now, so imma always tune in to a degree, but this has just been disappointing. You could deffo ask some better questions
Could not said it any better🙌🏾🙌🏾
This question wasn't common sense.
if this is what majority men think we're actually doomed. Anyways... I wonder what Russell and Ciara Willson are having for dinner?
It is what most men think and they are correct into thinking so. We are doom when 70% of black females are single mother aka do not follow principle of being good women and wives to a man for life. Marry before you carry. We are doomed as baby momma who offer no benefit to men think that good black men should come clean up for their past bad mistakes so they don't have to suffer. Russell is a bad example terrible..a weak smp who took on a used ciara and she constantly disrespect him daily. Russell is very low value and should be the rare exemption not the norm.
Richez guy has had 3 abortions in his life because the woman who he has dealt with knows hes gonna be a bad father like
Rolling my eyes
Bros just waffling
No one can say who is going to be a bad father. More so, how can you assume those 3 females were going to be good mother. Also, what if they rachet and wanted to be out on the streets rather than be mum hence why they killed the children. Finally, it is the mothers that killed the children which makes them bad mum so how is it King Richez fault? Some of you should not be online talking given y'all have no sense.
@@Gchild2k6exactly at least someone has sense
Boasting about 3 different women having abortions is insane.
Abigail honestly thinks she’s above everyone about she’s cutting chyna to speak instead
And she NEVER has anything of value to add, she just asks irrelevant questions
chyna, we know it’s you
@@anyani2 chyna doesn't seem like the type to have a troll account, chyna says it with chest
Shut up man. I don’t think I’m above anyone I hardly spoke on this episode. stop being a hater it ain’t cute.
The same people that said don’t make it about money are the same ones that say you’re broke if you don’t want to raise another man’s child. How do you have a debate with illogical people?
The brother on the left looks EXACTLY like Martin Lawrence haha
“these guys are sassyyy” when will this end 😭
Gabz and Chyna were spitting icl. I feel like everyone was great this Ep tho.
Roll On Episode 7 🎉
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Don’t get with a a woman on a serious note if you can’t take her child in like your own
The child can never be your own. Live in reality. Plenty of men have tried that, bonded and she leave and takes the child and thecourt say he ain't got no rights as he ain't the biological father. It is a lose lose for men and the child.
Chyna weren't lying when he said Baby Mothers are easy, I had my experience and mi nah go back there again, plus a baby mother can never fully give herself to u, she already gave her best self to the baby father or baby fathers, sorry but da truth hurts 🤷🏽♂️😆
You tried 🤷🏾♂️
Why is chyna less angry on backchat I love this version of him
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This is him less angry??? Na wow
I'm not a father. But from what I hear, the father basically has full authority of the kid when they're in his custody. So if the father allows the step mother to physically discipline the kid, I don't think it's necessarily wrong. Regardless, the mother's issue should be with the father, not the step mother. I think the women on the panel are speaking from an emotional place
Gabz has been killing me the whole episode with the one lines and sound effects🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love gabz 😂😂😂😂
❤ 😅
😂😂 this one was good
Loyce , gabz , cookie , josh have sense
if a next man puts hand on my child his arm will be in a brace next
Noti gang lock in!!
It’s about to go down 💀🤣
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I know this is Jayde Blac’s first appearance and I like her already 🙌🏾
Another 🔥 episode this season y’all don’t miss 😂😂
Steph Curry this season
“It takes a village to raise a child” - and that doesn’t just mean childcare, that also entails discipline and structure.
I say that to say this, be it step-mum/step-dad must be vetted and given the ok by the other child’s parent. That they know this person has their child’s best interests at heart
Its a Madness Today 😂
My brudda!! KingRichez for Prime Minister! 💯💯
It always is with you blacks
AGREED 💯💯✔️
@@melow1100😮trolling or ?
@@melow1100 facts keyboard gangster
atp they need to keep the starting statement on a whiteboard or screen and leave it in the room because they never stay on topic n just start chatting about a WHOLE other scenario. gets me so mad😭😭😭😭😭
Chyna watched alot of Kevin Samuels you can tell. All the lines, i know them well 😂😂
He’s the GodFather RIP his work will live on let the baby mamas cry
@@mynameischyna Amen 🙏🏾
Am sorry but if the child is living in my house they will be discipline or keep that kid at your house
😂 Baby Mamas are so delusional
@@mynameischynaThe men had the same opinion. Some men and women are delusional
It's not nice to hear but a man and a woman without kids are allowed to have a preference to not be with someone with kids 👀🫶🏾
Wait where’s episode 7 ? 😭
Bruh
3 seconds in.....
cookie - everybody is wrooooong🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I dont want to play another mans game,I want to play my own game"
Thats why u need to do proper introductions. And ALL of u sit down TOGETHER and come to an agreement about discipline and how to raise the kid. But all this babymother and babyfather culture ruined it all. People dont want to parent just be in a messy situation. If u get to the stage that there is a stepmom....u need all 3 of u , mum, dad, stepmom/stepparent to sit down and agree on things. Simple really but many people dnt see it. Also, if the relationship is gettin serious, u need to meet each other before u meet the child. People make things difficult out of bitterness.
The one question to end this: “Ladies, before you had a child, were you looking for a man with kids?”
I won’t lie, I actually agree with the Baby Mama is not equal to Single Mother ting.🤣
I’m sorry…there really, truly is a difference if you think about it.
Of course there is 😂 the baby mamas just mad
Ah ah ma binu o
Thoughts and prayers up for uncle chyna sha he’s clearly still processing something 👀
PSA - Black people keep your hands to your damn self and stop beating Children ‼️‼️
Bible says Spare the rod and spoil the child. God knows best. PS. Society was more prosperous and better when discipline was normal compared to now when no discipline, kids are amock, social ills through the roof etc.
I am a woman and if I had a son and i put him through collage and made sure he got a good job or had a business. I would not want my son to get with a woman with kids it does not benefit him. It would benefit her and her kids but my son no so sorry ladies just being honest
Oooooh they gonna call you a pick me
Abigail every minute moving moving on the table o. Oya if you are tired of sitting stand up o
Why’s it happening at the same time as the England game
Fr :/, I’ll watch it back but I enjoy watching it live 😭
ikr gotta clock back in at halftime bruv
This is a good question
Tosin kept it real 😂
Nah cl dami killed it at the end 😭😂😭😂
They can’t raise another man’s kids, but if they broke up and bm moved on, how would they feel if another man says the same thing?
This episode was quite good
Word to gabz🤣🤣🤣🤣
You get 👊🏾
i dont want to be a seven dwarf is crazy 😂🤣🤣 and ending it with lay off the disney
2:29 - 2:40 cookieeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭 sent me
Chyna cooked, truth hurts.............easy.
Real Recognise Real
@@mynameischynaYou are the most horrible human ever. Many women have experienced very bad and toxic relationships but can’t leave because of judgmental humans like you. You think a woman in her right mind will just meet a random and sleep with them? Grow up. You are so toxic with your smokers lips
Loyce and Cookie hold dis together ibsr 😭💕
I missed cookie 😂❤
This long faced woman be doing the most!!!!! Madam rest!!!
She love projecting then backtracking 😂 she get triggered every time chyna speaks I've realised
“YOULL SHARE HIM👆🏾👆🏾YOULL SHARE HIM👆🏾👆🏾”😂😂😂
i love gabz man😂😂😂😂😂
Todays gonna be peakkkk😂😂😂
1. Why would a “stepmother” even ask the father of the child whether she can discipline the child? Strange behaviour. The fact that she wants to do this is just incredibly odd.
2. It’s not every situation where the mother and father of a child are separated, means they are still sleeping together. Not saying it doesn’t happen, but it’s a lot less common that you think. When some people decide they’re done, they actually mean it, move on and co-parent. Simple.