"If my man stops giving me a weekly allowance, I won't be happy!" BKCHAT LDN: S6 EPISODE 4
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- Опубликовано: 25 июн 2024
- Join the conversation in Episode 4 as the cast debate financial boundaries in relationships, sharing personal stories and different perspectives.
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Who's gets MVP of Episode 4?
Gabz hands down 😂
Dinalva
dinalva
Get an older intelligent person on every show who can bring the conversation bac k on point and ask pertinent questions. The topic of should modern females get traditional men or traditional benefit would have been the natural better discussion here.
Men - Dami. Women - Dina
Gabz looks like a mix of Diddy and Martin Lawrence
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 underrated comment still
😂😂😂biggest vio
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I like Loyce a lot ngl, she's very open and pretty insightful. and for the life of me I cant unsee P Diddy 😂😂 absolutely spins me
i saw pdiddy to begin with now i'm seeing a bit of martin lawrence in him too lol
😂😂
😂😂😂😂
I’m stanning Gabz. If you wanna be with a traditional man, expect him to control you. We all know whomsoever has the most bread has the upper hand.
But that’s not an expected trait of a traditional man. That’s not normal. Wanting to control your partner isn’t the same as a being a leader. Those are two different things
@@aimsfabs6147 it's not expected but we see this happen all the time whether it's our parents or the aunties down the road I know way too many women in "marriages" with men and they provide everything financially and these women are lonely in every sense of the word. they won't plan dates for you, they won't court you, they dont nuture the kids with you, he's not emotionally available or even present in the relationship this happens very regularly in "traditional marriages" and a lot of women cannot see the difference because they think he's bought me a house, car, given me children and gives me money every week
@@aimsfabs6147that’s true. But in the “traditional” context, it’s definitely easier to slip into being controlling because it’s very easy to let making the most money get to your head. But you’re right, either way it’s not Normal.
But so far people are able to work through that by being self aware then it should be fine.
Not all providers are controlling you sound insecure
What size do you take in heels you seem real sassy
They didn’t put cookie in this episode for a reason 😂😂😂
And what’s the reason
@@mscookietvthat you’re a clown! And if you dare say a man should provide for your big hairy crack ass we would laugh
@@mscookietvbecause it would be chaos 😂😂babes
Nah tosin t and loyce are giving peng on a different level it’s actually a mad ting 😍😍😍
Gabby is not okay 😂😂😂😂 "hello mother effer"
Tosin is NOT humble at all😂😂.. I like how Loyce appreciated the microwave issue… that’s a real humble person
He’s an oppressor is crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“providations”? what am i watching😂
He said it with so much conviction I really believe it was a real word 😩
I googled it and it’s not there!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg just heard this bit
@@naysx12baaaaahahahaha
Liah is actually so rude, no manners just attitude
Not for ppl i don’t really know 🤭
@@liahmonet.xCooked him 🤣🤣🤣
Yeah I know 😊
mums shes just a btec tyla from lidil
Damn😂🫣
“Can I call you gabby” THE DISRESPECT😭🤣
Pleaseeee😂😂😂
Dinalva brought it back this episode, talking sense
No she hasn't she gives masculine vibes she looks 40 lol
Dami is a gat damn imposter!
Bro what is wrong with the mixed girl with the white top..whats the need to be rude and tell that bredda to shut up like that..she got real issues. I dont even like dude but theres no reason for her to be that rude.
She just immature
Very immature
Me and richez wind each other up babes so don’t let it effect you 😂 that’s big bro
She can say whatever she wants
Tbf he does purposely wind her up😂😂😂
Simple one, the man should say no & explain why. How the girl reacts will say how much she likes him. If she wants to end the relationship, it's clear she was just using him. If she's understanding, she probably genuinely likes him
Gabz sees through the BS . Dami likes to tell women sweet nothings.
the way he was calling him out was hilarious LOOOL
Dami has the classic nigerian mindset, this is why i see so many girls nowadays online saying they like nigerian men because they spend lots, women have started looking at them as an easy finesse🤦🏽♂️
You know what reality shows. All females are buysexual and when you lie, females buy;-p
You get 😂
Women need to step out of the social media fairytale/delusion and step into reality. The average man in the uk is on £30k per year. And this is your average joe who is hardworking and disciplined not even a bum. He will not have the money to give you a lavish lifestyle and/or weekly allowance. Doesn’t mean he loves you anyless.
Tell em Zion
And especially if we’re talking about the average African/Carribean British guy.. the average is 25k a year.
A lot of these women are targeting not even the top 1% of man.. more like the 0.3% - then complain when they get passed around and cheated on by the same ‘guy’ every other woman wants.
There’s some good guys out there with morals working warehouse jobs or as accountants, assistants and even managers.
But you won’t get designer handbags, rolex’s, shopping sprees and luxury holidays..
The entitlement is crazy.
Hmmm these are london people though surely the average is higher. That 30K average is all of the UK, yes ?
@@Crukren89 Yes London.
For men aged 18-21 £22,000.
For men 22-29 £30,000.
30-49 £37,000.
40-49 £40,000
And even lower if we’re just talking about the average for African/Carribean British men.
£30,000 after tax is £24,422. That’s £2016 a month. At least £700 on rent. £1100/£1200 minimum if you live alone.. £300 food. Then gas, car, insurance, bills, leisure etc. Lucky to have even £400 left, even if you’re good at saving.
That’s your average Joe. Always has been. A big wake-up call for the women that demand a man on 100k+ a year which isn’t even 100k, it’s £67,000 after tax LOL.
@@TheSweetScienceGOAT goddamn i weren't expecting the deep dive brother lol. Appreciate the effort. Love when statistics are laid out plain to see. Yep alot of people out here dont know what average actually is
“She’s not being Understandable”and “providations”🤣🤣 I’m hearing different words and phrases today
It’s Understanding and Provisions ganggg 😭
Tbf "understandable" is a word. He just misused it
@@michael43567 I know it is lol, just the phrase “she’s not being understandable”made no sense
Loyce is just my fave, the way she just carries herself and she’s so pretty 😍😍😍
I think liah & king wind each other up & diss each other for bants behind closed doors ,i think its quiet obvious 🤷🏽♀️ i doubt she's rude on a everyday basis lol
Thank youuuu he’s litch big bro and I’m annoying lil sis atleast you get it 😂
Seggual tension for sure
@@Truthbetold-pm2co not for sure mate 😂😂😂
Loyce and Dami are the only ones with logical thinking.
Who else is glad BKChat is officially BK?
Me
Where's the full episode of Chyna and richez fight
Definitely pleased, but they need to keep this formula. Nobody wants a big brother bk chat.
@@melow1100👀👀enuh love passa
Me😊😊😊😊
The girl in the all black is beautiful 😅 the guy with the white top was right you can’t depend on anyone but if she’s a house wife that takes care of the kids and the house and the agreement is that she stays home and you provide for her unfortunately you agreed to that so you must keep up your end of the bargain (most woman would only agree to this if their man makes very good money) if your man is broke don’t agree to not work and stay home because sometimes he might not have the funds to provide for you.
Nigerian men take care of their woman they are educated and go getters so they have the funds to provide.
Pay for your woman to start her own business so that she’s being constructive with her life
I agree you can tell aswell she doesn’t like being a single mom
@@Truthbetold-pm2co it’s not about not liking it -I don’t have kids but apparently being a parent is the hardest job that you will ever have,if you are a single parent that is providing and taking care of your children alone I have nothing but respect for you.
@@arianalovelace1133 I more so said doesn’t like because her face when Dami was describing doing the bare minimum looked like she had never heard a man acc step up. Then her talking ab masculine energy and the microwave thing just a lot she’s a lovely women and I hope she re marries to a alpha
@@arianalovelace1133 btw your hairs cute in your photo x
@@Truthbetold-pm2co thank you 💗 yes I think sometimes we are raised to be strong and independent ,but sometimes we want to be looked after and that’s what every woman truly wants is a nice man that will have her back and treat her like a lady that’s the goal in most relationships to be valued 😅
Gabz had me throughout the whole episode😭😭😭😭
😅😂
Gabzz has me in stitches🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Literally please 😂😂😭
It’s when he said “Aye papa!” 🤣💀
Naaah the guy I white Tee sends me to the floor every week🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's expressions are such a meme....I wana see him animated on boondocks 😂😂😂
P Diddy coming with some good points this episode.
MVDiddy for me
I cant unsee it now ffs 😂😂😂
Tosin pretty much saying if she’s used to getting that money then he should keep going, yet when they discussed a woman who wanted to stop having sex she said what’s the problem 😂
Cook😂
@@tm_yt496it wasn’t just about sex it’s the reason for it which was for her religion. You can’t really compare them, when. The situations are too contrasting
@@raraminaj1251thank you, see sense… watching this show just worries me for the whole state of mind with my generation 😮💨
@@raraminaj1251He’s trying to build a business. That’s a legitimate reason
You need to translate Dami into a Yoruba accent to understand his vibe. “Will you be faithful?” “Will I be faithful?”, he did back to sender
46:30
Why is Gabz admiring likkle man like that 😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Literally 😐
It’s not insecurity it’s making sure that she’s not as stressed.
LOL at the guys face when he said 'providations'
I’ll leave this here: no female should ask there man to give them what their daddy CAN’T. Stay strong kings 😂😂😂
Why not
Frfrrr
You’re setting most men up for failure with that one 🤣
A lot of these weird women will tell you
‘oh my daddy treated me like a princess when I was young that’s why I’m like this and expect a certain lifestyle’
Then use that as an excuse to start expecting designer handbags, rolex’s, luxury holidays and shopping sprees from men.
😂😂😂 the entitlement is INSANE.
Another side note: ALOT of women don’t want a man, they want a father.
It’s very weird. Same with some guys that want a mother figure.
I want better for my people.
What’s my mums type got to do with mine tho 🤣
I hate to admit that I like Gabz 😂😂
Don’t fight it sweet heart 😂
Can we talk about the judicial system, cost of living, racism, finances etc. REAL life situations that will benefit EVERYONE. These are just recycled subjects from the old BKchat, I’ll still enjoy but let’s switch it up! We have more knowledge than these minuscule topics
Dami is Uncle Rafool 🤣
everyone should calm down, Dami no get money. Nah only mouth
Dami talking about protector provider whilst wearing fake Dior
Yikes
This Portuguese girl is Jarringgg bro
Imagine being pregnant and being asked business questions 😂 the stress. Might as well do it alone
Lol, now consulting with your wife is an issue? And anyway more time we know what we want to do, we're just seeing what you think
@michael43567 PREGNANT wife...yes. I run payroll maternity sessions for pregnant women and I can tell you, they don't have the capacity to make business decisions especially in their last trimester. The focus is on keeping themselves sane and the baby alive
@@Elsies_dorta I said "consulting". You're speaking as if I'm saying she's making complex business decisions alone. For example, "X is what's going on & I'm thinking we should do Y, what do you think"
@@michael43567 that is complex. Please just let them nap and eat whatever they're craving
@@Elsies_dorta fine. But then don't complain later about something that he attempted to consult with you on
Liyah is a pick me Lmao she tries to stand apart but some women agree with some of her points. She wants the boys to clap for her
😂 Gabz and loyce is my favourite.
I pray we as people will one day stray away from the idea that providing is simply financial
Dami playing the game 😂😂😂
First of all she’s a girlfriend not a WIFE
She hasn’t earned the title
Don’t Provide women that r not ur wives
P.S I’m a Muslim and we don’t do boyfriend/girlfriend relationships
W Culture
Why is Liah bring Tosin Dad into this. What a stupid question
‘Mad mileage’😂😂😂😂
Love the guy who said NAH while shaking his head😂😂😂😂
Shout to King Richez
Dami is a captain saver 😂😂😂
G-diddy speaking facts as usual
Dami is definitely an oppressor, you can tell he wants her to do maid life but he won't help with he kids
G DIDDY 🤦🏾♂️😅😭
Too many kids on this panel I can’t cope
Gold digging £200 or £150??? 😂😂😂 there are diff grades of gold so I guess 😂😂😂. People should cut their coat according to their cloth. If you can’t afford don’t give and don’t be pressurised. If you can’t afford a lifestyle don’t burden your partner or someone else to provide especially if it’s not a necessity.
Dami please don't kill me🤣 so if you gave all the girls you dated remote jobs working for you, do you fire them after you breakup, or your board of directors are a bunch of your exes
Great question. Girls that want that are very shortsighted. When the relationship ends, so does your cheque
Uncle rafool 🤣🤣🤣
I miss when BKCHAT had insightful conversations.
When was that? 😂
@@PK-ws6sm🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
@@PK-ws6smlitchhhh😂😂
If u watch this for insight then imma pray for u😂
Pov: you never watched BKChat
The way how peoples mindset changes week in week out to win the narrative is crazy 😭😂🤣
Dami tryna keep his girl at home 😂
Miss dinalva is such a pick me and a male centered woman
I agree blame the just Peary things panel she was on 😂
Extremely male cantered… dem gyal deh stay far away!
You gyal nowadays love call every woman that dont fall in line with modern day womens finessing mentality a “pick me” and love call everyman that dont fall in line with it “broke”. Them manipulation tactics dont work with everyone lol😂
She’s a pick me because she doesn’t have gold digger values lol?
🤦🏾♂️
No she is just self aware
Gabz is a hybrid if Micheal blackson and Kevin Hart 😂😂
😅😂
That’s funny 😂
Ahhhhh Cookie would’ve been soooo good on this, but “if I drop down and die” my dear can you not leave her property? Life insurance??? Oh yeah I forgot black people don’t typically have those things then when they die they will be suffocating all of us with go fund me pages.
You mean fatty? Who’s providing for that train wreck
King Richez is based asf !! I love how he isn’t politically correct
He’s a genius
Thank god I’m Muslim where my money is my money and his money is my money!! And he won’t be thinking twice about me asking him for money because he knows his rolls as a MAN 😊
And i'm sure you know your roll as a woman.
Ukthi I hope you know your role as a wife too
I like liah her and riches is funny❤😂
Thank you😂😂😂
If you got it give it at the end of the day ,don’t stress ya pockets for nuh bodyyyyyy but your owna self
Broke men cheat too. My ex husband was broke but all he had to do was pay 30% of the rent (£400), gas and electric. All our food and toiletries I paid for, even half of our furniture and majority of the rent every month and he will deny to this day Cz the type of woman I am I would never let him know how much I was contributing just so he can feel like the head of the family. To top it off. I saved myself for him (was a virgin) and didn’t ask for NOTHING but loyalty. We tried to start a business when I was pregnant and we had a 1 year old. What a shame he gave up on our business and decided to cheat on us with a prostitute, even tho he was the one that was lacking in the bedroom 😂 As a result, I can understand u gold diggers and I truly understand why you treat men the way you do Cz look how dirty they do us. When I see how u guys treat them I honestly feel relieved you’re not an idiot like I was. Well done ladies, you’re resilient and smart and allow men to take advantage of you, you charge for it instead 👏
Gabz sounded like he was hating on Dami a lil too much 🤣🤣
13:16 leah vs king rich continues😂
The TrUe KeY To Ah APpY RElaTiONsHiP
In the intro his name is King Richez but the whole episode they called him Michael.
Cookie should have been here! 😂😂
I see sometimes this show catches flack but tbh I'm a huge fan of it now. This is what certain conversations would look like unscripted in our own settings with a little less formality. Very close to realism "on camera" as you can probably get. That's not to say you agree with everyone or every stand point or topic but this isn't a Ted Talk either is it? I also really like that the convos aren't always explicitly sexual like we get with a lot of modern black podcasts which is a really big turnoff for me. I really enjoy the formula BKCHAT has going with it's Ep structure. I haven't seen any of the earlier seasons as of yet but I do plan to after watching S6's drops so far. I'm hooked. ICL. Also King Richez for Prime Minister. 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
King Richez was cooking ya get me 🍳💯
Im actually so happy this show is back man lmao
Nah Gabz is funny 😂😂😂😂😂
I'm sorry but Joyce thinking because uncle Dami said he's going to financially provide means he's also emotionally invested in the same woman? a lot of these traditional men won't even know your favourite colour and are not emotionally intelligent whatsoever is it all traditional men? of course not but most people know an aunty down the road or even family members who are in that situation
Maybe I am bugging but doesn’t Liah look like the artist Amaria BB (the girl who sang slow motion song?) but lightskin.
Where Dami get that Dior? Never seen that version in the stores
This independent women thing is nonsense it's called being a adult. A grown up unfortunately need to work to live and live to work...
Side bar, it's funny when ppl bring up work they all talk like business owner ffs.....
A man in a relationship is the protector and provider. Providing is not only financial, it's physical and emotional meaning if you wife feels like she wants to do something more than be a stay at home mum then it's putting her goal and ambition to the forefront and giving her the means to do what she wants todo. But ultimately you as a man should be the bread winner of your family!!!
I hear it but some women depend on a man still instead of being independent and an adult
Channel ati fendi😂😂😂
Tosin is so adorable with her posh Yoruba accent
Dami is on the Nigerian steez! I love it. ❤
steez of delulu
@EmyIbifik maybe its unattainable for you, but my husband gives me a monthly allowance, and I work. Ppl here are crying over 150PW. But y'all be safe out there though. 🤣
@@obibuaku how much does he make a year ?
@EmyIbifik enough that i don't have to work if i dont want to. But "rainy days and recessions" are something that can happen to any of us at any time; so its wise that we all save money where we can. Thats where my money can kick in. (Side note we are in our late 30s so it took time to get to this level. It wasn't always like this. )
@@obibuaku understandable. But I am sure Dami no get money to do what he is saying.
Michael is so jarring omg
How do people even get through the episode when everybody’s talking over each other…
Loyce please check that girl in the middle who said ur standards are in the bin 💯 she fowl for that
she said that perfectly - if you keep wasting your money on waste girls, that waste your bread youre gonna be a WASTEMAN! save and invest for your future
People are saying white crop top is bad for saying “shut up” but I think that’s just annoyance pent up from previous episodes icl. That guy she said it to has a habit of trying to control the room too much which is jarring at times.
People should have an open floor for sharing their opinions and thoughts and he just over talks people too much 😭
It's clear to me that it's just banter.
This Tosin was a Christian last week now she needs to see then zero’s,smh.
Tbf the Bible does say that the man should provide for the woman
@@tm_yt496 looking for a provider and being a gold digger is not the same thing
@@tm_yt496 the bible also says he who finds a wife, finds a good thing. Is there a good thing about a woman that’s 3 decades old with a child out of wedlock?🤔
I’m a child of God always baby ❤❤❤
@@tm_yt496Bible also speaks about sinning and greed. Don’t forget that part.
This guy Gabz actually looks like a better version of Diddy
You can easily tell Gabz is cut from a rare cloth.
Gabz is actually hilarious 😆 and Michael (King Richez) is a TROLL HAHA
As a fellow Michael, I'm wondering how he got the name "King Richez" from Michael😂
@@michael43567 same because huh? 😂
The guy in the Dior shirt, isn’t that uncle rafool, the guy that always puts on the African clothes as a mask?
I just want to know who hurt Gabz and king Riches because what 😂 why are they always against doing nice things for women like wow.
good point from that guy - its better to teach women how to fish than give them fish. she will feel less of leach to you that
Uncle Rafool 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@17:50 - div was speaking facts. You gotta understand the value of money.
Historically women will cheat on the provider regardless
Tosin is now in front of the camera. Good to see her in the spotlight ha! 😊
17:49 I’m actually surprised she said this but 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Gabz the new lucas Bkchat
they're best friends so makes sense