Panic Attack Talk Down / Comforting Talk / Breathing / Reassurance & Affirmations to Relieve Panic

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @quendelf5407
    @quendelf5407 4 года назад +3099

    Whoever you are, you’re going to be okay. I promise. This too shall pass very soon.

  • @srussia2281
    @srussia2281 7 месяцев назад +160

    I’m so terrified right now. Please someone pray for me

    • @superstar_fnaff
      @superstar_fnaff 5 месяцев назад +23

      You're going to be ok sweetheart, just trust me ok? I believe in you, we can get through this together and will, you're not alone 💗

    • @punkyduck28
      @punkyduck28 3 месяца назад

      🤗

    • @fatimaa7221
      @fatimaa7221 2 месяца назад +3

      Are you feeling better?

    • @estebangonzalez9209
      @estebangonzalez9209 20 дней назад

      Im paying for you, remember this will pass, you are safe, you are ok and eventually you will feel ok again and be able to feel peace, calmness, and rest. Some of the things that help me get over the panic are rubing a wet towel in the back of my neck and my forehead, clench fists, feel and all the muscles of my boddy, the reyes an relax as much as possible, concentrate in my breathing, in extremo cases tape a hot shower, the water touching my boddy distracts my mind and even fool my mind that I am not having a panic attak and I smart to feel much better, drink some cold Orange Juice or water and remember the anxiety tightens the muscles arround your ribbs so you might feel shortness of breath but you are ok, you are breathing fine and as you start to relax it will pass and you will feel blessed, calm and happy eventually

    • @MitchellSmith-i9o
      @MitchellSmith-i9o 16 дней назад +1

      Oh my friend I'll be praying for you cause I no how you feel Lord Jesus I pray for this dear sister to be healed in name Jesus let here and myself be healed in the name above all names

  • @gabbydintino5223
    @gabbydintino5223 2 года назад +1660

    the worst feeling is breaking your longest record of being anxiety free. needed extra help tonight. thank you

    • @dovier8911
      @dovier8911 2 года назад +29

      Yeah. Relate to this a lot.

    • @juleslaurence6790
      @juleslaurence6790 2 года назад +16

      I felt that deeply…

    • @Laura-pk2fd
      @Laura-pk2fd 2 года назад +15

      Feeling this right now

    • @kevinthornton6525
      @kevinthornton6525 2 года назад +38

      You should check out Dr.Claire Weekes, she talks about that, about bringing “the old skeleton out of the closet and realizing it doesn’t quite scare you as much anymore”. Anxiety is a natural human emotion and there’s no way to completely rid yourself or your life of it. If anything I try to be grateful In those moments like “ah there you are old friend it’s been awhile!”

    • @juleslaurence6790
      @juleslaurence6790 2 года назад +6

      @@kevinthornton6525 Thank you Kevin. I will check her out!

  • @darcyhutchcroft1797
    @darcyhutchcroft1797 Год назад +250

    I just had a Level 10 panic attack in a parking lot in my car. I didn't think I was going to be able to drive home. I found this and sat and worked through it. I'm now home. Thank you for this❤

    • @ifranksultan
      @ifranksultan Год назад +5

      Been thru a few of those untill I developed agoraphobia

    • @alysonpowell741
      @alysonpowell741 9 месяцев назад +5

      Praise God you made it home

    • @DioseAlamar
      @DioseAlamar 9 месяцев назад

      @@ifranksultanagoraphobia is crazy currently dealing with this really bad any tips?

  • @djdb1214
    @djdb1214 3 года назад +737

    You telling us that our bodies cannot stay in this panicked state is SO helpful. When panic happens it's very hard to convince ourselves what it truly is, and that it will indeed end. It feels impossible to believe sometimes. But I thank you for including this in your talk-down. We definitely need to be reassured that these feelings WILL pass and we cannot stay in this state forever.

    • @djdb1214
      @djdb1214 2 года назад +10

      @@ThoughtsBecomeThingsChannel Exactly. It looks like I posted this nine months ago and unfortunately I'm back because I suffer from panic disorder. But I'm thankful to have this on my toolkit.

    • @Marinemva
      @Marinemva 2 года назад +7

      Yes, I agree with this I’m a US Marine veteran very thought heavy and I can’t understand the concept unless it’s repeated to me…

    • @oliverjabroni9912
      @oliverjabroni9912 Год назад +2

      @@Marinemva thanks for your service Michael

    • @mywifesboyfriend5558
      @mywifesboyfriend5558 8 месяцев назад +2

      Oh, you absolutely CAN stay in a panicked state. I've been like this for 42 years. It never eases.

  • @Yangrims
    @Yangrims 4 года назад +874

    Why do I cry everytime I hear "you are ok, you are not in danger"... I can't help it... I just cry...

    • @nicholemalo1978
      @nicholemalo1978 3 года назад +67

      Because it's scary and even though you know what's happening, you still cannot control your body and mind. That's the worst part for me... Knowing I lost control of my own body.

    • @AlwaysFallingFromTheRight...
      @AlwaysFallingFromTheRight... 3 года назад +61

      I think it's a cry of relief to hear those reassuring words

    • @disarranges
      @disarranges 3 года назад +10

      ME TOO

    • @faithdella2527
      @faithdella2527 3 года назад +13

      @@nicholemalo1978 same, I listened to one and it said “Im in control” and my throat closed up. I’m not in control of my body when it happens and it scares me.

    • @paulcavigliano6388
      @paulcavigliano6388 3 года назад

      Wtf?

  • @emmafoxxe609
    @emmafoxxe609 3 года назад +648

    Please never take this down. This has helped me during every panic attack I've had since finding this video. Thank you so much for making it.

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  3 года назад +51

      I don't plan on it :) You can also download it to your phone so you can save it and always be able to use it even without wifi! Here is the link:www.relaxforawhile.com/product-page/panic-attack-talk-down

    • @BrittaSedgwick
      @BrittaSedgwick Год назад +9

      Me too. Much needed tonight 🙏

    • @emmab3342
      @emmab3342 Год назад +20

      Ditto. It’s getting to the point where just seeing the flowers calms me down because I associate this video with relief.

    • @janaray8554
      @janaray8554 Год назад +7

      Me too. It’s my first go-to.

    • @SharonSchiavone-vj8hj
      @SharonSchiavone-vj8hj Год назад +1

      ​@@relaxforawhile22:01

  • @amarisbelghiti94
    @amarisbelghiti94 Год назад +254

    Last time I used this was a year ago. Tonight I’m watching it again. I’m terrified right now. I hate going through this so much. I pray everyone finds peace from this because it’s literally one of the worst things ever. It helped me in the past to listen to this. Thank you.

    • @nyotauhura5646
      @nyotauhura5646 Год назад +7

      ❤We will be okay🙏🏾

    • @lilyhempt1144
      @lilyhempt1144 Год назад +8

      Right there myself tonight. Truly one of the worst phenomena I’ve ever experienced. I’ve had dozens of panic attacks and every time is equally terrifying. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone, but it does help to know we aren’t alone. Hope you are getting on ok, thanks for leaving your comment for others ❤

    • @Aaaykaay
      @Aaaykaay Год назад +4

      @@lilyhempt1144Thank you. It’s really hard when doctors leave people hanging. Please say a prayer for me, thank you. Best wishes.❤

    • @lilyhempt1144
      @lilyhempt1144 Год назад +1

      @@Aaaykaay My prayers are with you, I hear you! You are going to get through this, no matter what you are facing right now: it’s going to be ok. ❤️

    • @nobet-tn6lh
      @nobet-tn6lh Год назад +1

  • @Freebird-xg1kl
    @Freebird-xg1kl 2 года назад +108

    Dissociation is terrifying, the feeling of not being in touch with all the senses and purely in terror is crippling. Indeed these feelings do pass leaving me exhausted. We will get through this together. These channels help so much.

    • @maddyyyy3147
      @maddyyyy3147 6 месяцев назад

      How long did it take?

    • @animelovers303p6
      @animelovers303p6 6 месяцев назад +1

      This is so true. One of the worst symptoms with panic attacks. Truly convinces yourself youre dying or in danger.

  • @princessofthebog2053
    @princessofthebog2053 2 года назад +130

    I just started feeling so shaky and nauseous and lightheaded. I’m laying in bed now and listening to you. Thank you

    • @MrGW2fanboy
      @MrGW2fanboy 2 года назад +1

      Do you drink coffee if you don't mind me asking? Only reason is cause I felt exactly like that from coffee

    • @Jdowling357
      @Jdowling357 Год назад

      Me too.

    • @Hangie
      @Hangie Год назад +2

      Little trick I've found works for me if I'm feeling a lightness in my body as though a bit faint or dizzy, if you sit or stand at a table and put both hands on the table top and push down on it, it instantly grounds you and you don't feel as emotionally or physically 'flighty'. Give it a go next time. Just keep that pressure down on your hands whilst breathing slow and deep.

    • @untetheredmoon6971
      @untetheredmoon6971 Год назад +3

      @@Hangie I also put pressure on my head, like hold a pillow on top of my head, or wrap a blanket lightly around my head. May sound kinda nutty but the pressure helps ground the light headed/faint feeling.

    • @helenag.9386
      @helenag.9386 11 месяцев назад

      What if you are not at home? In a field with nothing to hold onto? @@Hangie

  • @lucyalexandra.
    @lucyalexandra. 4 года назад +774

    guys, we WILL get through this. i’m terrified right now but i have to know, and you have to know, that this sensation is normal. i feel nauseous and that’s my fear. but fear gives me this sensation and NOT illness. to anyone that feels the same as me, i understand. and if i don’t at least i can be here in writing. we will get through this. we have to.

    • @lillya6980
      @lillya6980 3 года назад +15

      I'm having one right now . I just want to give up

    • @flbfilms7300
      @flbfilms7300 3 года назад +17

      @@lillya6980 don’t give up we all care about you you are loved 👍

    • @yassified7913
      @yassified7913 3 года назад +47

      i also have emetophobia and it fucking sucks. i can’t even be alone for extended periods of time cause i get so damn scared. we are gonna be okay, don’t forget it!!

    • @lucyalexandra.
      @lucyalexandra. 3 года назад +2

      @@yassified7913 i completely understand that, it’s so awful but i hope you’re managing ok you’re definitely not alone x

    • @Em-wh9cc
      @Em-wh9cc 3 года назад +6

      i’m the same way!! thank u for the kind words same to you love

  • @grapesyrop
    @grapesyrop 4 года назад +723

    Having a huge panic attack because of covid19...im trembling shaking nauseous dizzy
    But my mind keeps tellin me im sick and im gonna die
    But im remind myself its just a panic attack

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  4 года назад +80

      Our mind is so powerful and can make us think we are experiencing symptoms that we fear! I just want you to know that I do this too. I am so happy to hear that you are stepping away from the fear and facing it...looking at it in the eye...and reminding yourself that its a panic attack. Wonderful!!! Sending lots of love and hugs xo

    • @reneeswanson883
      @reneeswanson883 4 года назад +5

      Same here

    • @italianstalian02
      @italianstalian02 4 года назад +7

      grapesyrop hi lovely, I know exactly how you’re feeling. It’s a scary time out there now, but through the darkness it’s important to fight through it and keep yourself active. Keep listening to this as it helps loads. Have you tried meditating? Big hugs

    • @michaelasmith2153
      @michaelasmith2153 4 года назад +18

      I’m the exact same, shaking and convinced I’ve caught the virus even though I’ve not left the house for 20 days. But I know that I’m prone to panic attacks, this video helped beyond words. Thank you x

    • @tabethajedding1375
      @tabethajedding1375 4 года назад +4

      Oh how much I relate to all of you! It’s been Hell & I’m as well trying to tell myself I’m okay. Such a sketchy time. This is a great video! Appreciate it!

  • @asilzednanreh309
    @asilzednanreh309 4 года назад +185

    I can’t keep it together at night. Once I am alone with my thoughts I am overwhelmed by fear. My heart begins to pound in my chest and my body becomes frozen, not cold but frozen. I cannot sleep. If I could sleep I would have an escape from the fear but it feels impossible to rest. My thought are focused on my daughter. What would happen to her if I died. Who would care for her. There is no one. The constant sounds of sirens as they head in the direction of the ER with another helpless Covid patient induce my fears. As I type this, the sounds of sirens scream from the street below. They are so loud that shutting the windows do not help. I don’t know how to block it. Please forgive my long rambling, but the writing seems to calm me. Please stay safe and thank you for your video. It helped stop my crying. 🌸

    • @onike1916
      @onike1916 4 года назад +10

      I feel like this from time to time, and ived used different ways to cope. How have you been feeling, a month from when you wrote this comment? I hope better.

    • @wendymckay6598
      @wendymckay6598 4 года назад +5

      That’s my panic too always about my daughter if I die who will care for her and she and I are so close what would happen to her!!! I have constant anxiety due to this!

    • @nayf7682
      @nayf7682 3 года назад +6

      I think many of us are in very similar situation to you! I hope you can find some relief.

    • @millaarmstrong1427
      @millaarmstrong1427 3 года назад +2

      Have you ever done ACT, CBT, or DBT therapy. It might be helpful.

    • @Ayushkimi
      @Ayushkimi 3 года назад +1

      @@millaarmstrong1427 this is worse than hell

  • @turner223
    @turner223 Год назад +39

    Just went through the worst panic attack of my life. Had many but this one felt like actual death was upon me. Thanks for the help

  • @14KAEGOLD
    @14KAEGOLD 3 года назад +21

    I am a 30 year old woman with Asperger’s syndrome. I’m easily overwhelmed, but I still try to act “normal” & be productive.
    Today everything felt like it was going wrong &I got so overstimulated that I had one of the worst panic attacks I’ve ever had. Unfortunately, no one was around and I was spiraling out of control.
    I just needed someone to help me out & I was stuck in fetal position crying out, but no one was around….
    But With shaky hands & tearful eyes, I quickly managed to somehow find your video on RUclips. It took the entire 20 minutes and I just wanted to let you know that you saved my life. Thank you. God bless you & Im subscribing. Thank you so much.
    Thank you for being there for me. I’m eternally grateful

  • @hawks0023
    @hawks0023 3 года назад +398

    Along with this beautiful relaxing voice talking to me, it's also the comments from everyone. Has anyone else found comfort in reading the comments as I did? What a wonderful relaxing video. Thank you

    • @avamiller2325
      @avamiller2325 3 года назад +10

      yes the comments help me a lot!

    • @ecstasy3692
      @ecstasy3692 3 года назад +1

      yes!

    • @janicenakamura1317
      @janicenakamura1317 2 года назад +10

      Yes. The comments I read help just as much as the video itself. It is SO good knowing I am not alone, even in my room right now.

    • @kwelly42079
      @kwelly42079 2 года назад +3

      Yeah once I calmed down enough to function it definitely was nice to read the comment

    • @mblack422
      @mblack422 2 года назад +3

      They've helped me too . Although I'm very sad . It's good to know and I'm not alone .

  • @jasonbarney4278
    @jasonbarney4278 4 года назад +349

    “Here’s the thing: if it feels like you can’t catch your breath, it’s because you’ve forgotten to exhale. That’s all it is.”
    -so simple yet almost no one really knows this

    • @kellyw.4610
      @kellyw.4610 4 года назад +3

      good point ,however some people have other symptoms that need more than deep breathing

    • @nicolelee6591
      @nicolelee6591 3 года назад +6

      Wow, this was so powerful to me. Reading this a light bulb 💡 literally went off in my brain. I always complain I can’t breathe, and my mom or partner will often point out well stop holding your breath!!! Now, when I feel like I can’t breathe, I’m going to remember this quote!! I wrote it on a post it, thank you.

    • @yodelissosa7791
      @yodelissosa7791 3 года назад

      @@kellyw.4610 Yeah, I think that happens to me. I'm not sure if it's related to this comment or not..... But I'm just Now learning about Breathing Exercises and whenever I do the practices, I feel out of breathe and Asthma. Like maybe it's going too fast or something?? Or is it just me?? 🤦‍♀️😓😓😓😓🤷‍♀️

    • @rebeccawillis-watkins8462
      @rebeccawillis-watkins8462 3 года назад +4

      @@yodelissosa7791 same. For some people, if you are having the kind of panic attack where you feel like you can’t breath or are having trouble, breathing exercises can make it worse because you are focusing on the thing that is causing you panic. You need to try to NOT over think the breathing haha. My therapist had me instead of breath work use other senses in that moment: get a hot bath, drink of water, nice smell, etc, and positive self talk. I think it depends on the person, but the deep breathing not helping during a panic is not uncommon! When you get to feeling better breath work can be great.

    • @yodelissosa7791
      @yodelissosa7791 3 года назад +1

      @@rebeccawillis-watkins8462 THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR UNDERSTANDING & FOR THE INFO.!!
      I tend to just distract myself when I become Anxious or when my Mental Health starts to act up (which is basical Every Day 🤦‍♀️😓). My number one is day dreaming. Making up stories in my head - mini movies. I also watch tv or something. Anything to distract me for a while until I can cool down.
      Also, what has your therapist recommended for when it happens AWAY from Home?? Like no bath, no tea, etc.?? Basically while in Public?? Just curious.
      I personally feel like the breathing exercises are a waste of time and I feel like an absolute idiot trying to do it (I guess I feel embarrassed 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️😓🤦‍♀️) Anyways, I think you're right. I'm too worried about the situation and thinking about the breathing exercises that I over think and end up pushing it away, I guess....?? Especially if I'm angry or upset. Like knowing Myself, When I'm upset, I'm NOT just gonna take a second and say: "Hey!! Breathing exercises..... Like when I'm too busy figuring out the situation or my current feelings...... Grrrr
      I guess none of this even makes sense, so sorry. Just typing up as I go. Maybe it's because I'm just starting out or maybe it's just Not for me. Like I said before, it even Feels uncomfortable. Like it triggers my Asthma even More!! 😓😓........
      ....

  • @queenofcookie3299
    @queenofcookie3299 4 года назад +198

    Having a panic attack during a zoom meeting is not something I can recommend thank you for calming me down

    • @shelbymatteson1455
      @shelbymatteson1455 3 года назад +6

      Same with a teams meeting.. the teacher telling the class they HAVE to be done with the assignment by the end of class and I’m just over here shaking not even able to see my computer:/ not a great combo

    • @jxyde9420
      @jxyde9420 3 года назад +2

      @@shelbymatteson1455 I often experience the same thing 😕

    • @retrothecake
      @retrothecake 3 года назад +3

      Tell them. You're actually lucky when you think about it. You got people to talk to. But whereas me I get them at night and there's no one to talk to. You can tell your teacher what's up, they'll understand.

    • @lucymacdonell217
      @lucymacdonell217 3 года назад +1

      This was exactly why I was here!

    • @queenofcookie3299
      @queenofcookie3299 3 года назад

      @@retrothecake buddy i know your situation is horrible but i was in a zoom meeting with my class mates who already have bren bullying me for years and yeah no i couldn't just tell them

  • @nanomania246
    @nanomania246 2 года назад +106

    This is my emergency video. My last resort. The one I just *know* will work. Let me tell you, on the worst panic attacks, when I really feel like it's different than the others, when I convinced myself there is no way out... you still manage to stop my body from shaking, somehow. It's extraordinary really.

    • @MikeyCoinSnatch
      @MikeyCoinSnatch Год назад +5

      Same. Unfortunately here rn 😢. I love you and hope you are well

    • @nanomania246
      @nanomania246 Год назад +2

      @Michael C. Snatch It will fade away, you'll see. I love you, keep breathing ❤️

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад +2

      This is the only video that helps me from the severe ones escalating.

    • @professorpenne9962
      @professorpenne9962 11 месяцев назад +3

      I've had them. I call them the "this is it" moments. it's a truly terrible feeling to have being trapped in a box of feeling like you are dying. hard to put into words how bad it feels.

    • @ZynkXe
      @ZynkXe 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@professorpenne9962had this like 2 weeks ago and i been feeling so horrible since. like itll always be like this. I know im fine and its okay but i still have that feeling and i hate it

  • @FLmade-x2j
    @FLmade-x2j 2 года назад +143

    This saved me from going to the hospital tonight. I’ve been to the hospital at least 5 times in the past year from panic attacks. This video ground me from a “panic attack level 8/10” down to an “anxiety level 4”Thank you so very much for making this video and everything you do on here.

    • @santanah2735
      @santanah2735 Год назад +12

      Omg I’m fighting going to the hospital right now. This is always my to go video it brings me to tears. I’m just so tired of going through this

    • @Mr_Santi907
      @Mr_Santi907 Год назад

      What happens when you go to the hospital? What do they do for you ?

    • @mellojenn
      @mellojenn Год назад +5

      hi im curious what happens when you go to the hospital, what do they give you? I went to the er for heart palpitations… everything came out normal, blood and ekg. thought I was having a heart attack but it was merely an anxiety attack. I left with an inhaler lol. my physician prescribed me alprazolam but I choose to soothe naturally. hope to hear from you

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад

      ​@@santanah2735you and me both friend. It's so hard but we will get through this ❤

    • @lsip0216
      @lsip0216 Год назад

      ​@jenny-pw3lp I've been before and they always gave me Ativan. Super helpful, no side effects for me. I now have a prescription from my psychiatrist that I take as needed. I only use it maybe every other month or when flying since that's a big fear of mine. Having it on hand at home and knowing it's there if I need it, helps overall tremendously! I can't be on and don't want to be on a daily med like an SSRI so Ativan or Klonopin are fantastic. Just don't abuse them. They are addictive. So just as needed.

  • @Appelpie7
    @Appelpie7 4 года назад +230

    I did not even realize that what I was experiencing was a panic attack. My whole body was numb and weak and I felt like fainting and barely held on. After 2 hours it shifted to despair and I couldn't cope anymore. This saved me. Thank you. I was afraid of what I might do to myself to make it stop.
    I am back in body now. I feel better. I wrapped myself in weighted blanket for comfort.
    Sending love and healing to all in need. ❤

  • @kittyviciousmeditates
    @kittyviciousmeditates 4 года назад +424

    I actually started to cry and talk back to this sound. The crying helps catharsis and break my anxiety. (I don't cry much.) Thank you so much for this!

    • @sammavacaist
      @sammavacaist 4 года назад +13

      Same. Crying even briefly is cathartic to me.

    • @amybrizendine1863
      @amybrizendine1863 4 года назад +15

      @@sammavacaist I have to cry to make it pass and to get any relief.

    • @fromthedragonvine1545
      @fromthedragonvine1545 3 года назад +3

      Me too oh my god-

    • @rrrrmcg408
      @rrrrmcg408 3 года назад +2

      yess crying does help lol literally have no other choice so freaked out and over it all lolol

    • @brandonjones3603
      @brandonjones3603 3 года назад +1

      I find it hard to cry with my anxiety

  • @mars8592
    @mars8592 4 года назад +282

    Woke up at 1 am and had one of the worst anxiety attacks I've had in so long and the app I normally use wasn't helping I was trembling and my eyes were filled with tears when I found your video and I clicked it and now I want to cry from how grateful I am truly thank you for making this video I will be using it in the future

    • @Z_Co95
      @Z_Co95 4 года назад +7

      Dude I’m going thru one right now and it’s 1am... this shit fucking sucks

    • @kwit7377
      @kwit7377 4 года назад

      Funny you say that cause I had that thought about anxiety and panic attacks...could it be were taking on suffering for others? I don’t know...

    • @alyssaramirez6980
      @alyssaramirez6980 4 года назад +1

      Me rn I'm scared

    • @dianeibsen5994
      @dianeibsen5994 4 года назад

      @@blisslee8157Hi Carissa. Where did you hear this? That we feel for others so they don't have to?

    • @apekshamaheshwari9666
      @apekshamaheshwari9666 3 года назад

      can i know what app? please...

  • @dylpickle2168
    @dylpickle2168 2 года назад +44

    Im literally having the worst panic attack ever and im all by myself this video is helping so much

  • @itsok8227
    @itsok8227 Год назад +43

    I listened to this 3 years ago when my panic started getting really bad. It helped me a lot. now 3 years later Im back and its the worse feeling ever. I'm trying to tell myself that I overcame it once and I can do it again. Whoever sees this there is hope for you ❤

    • @Prettibabydoll816
      @Prettibabydoll816 Год назад +2

      Thank you. I needed to hear this. I hope you’re doing better❤

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад

      How did you get out of it? It's been really bad for me for the last 8 months

  • @l.i_ps
    @l.i_ps 4 года назад +506

    I usually don’t comment on anything. But, this is a special case.
    I was having a panic attack at random tonight, likely because I wasn’t feeling very good physically. You’re right, panic attacks are scary. They scare me a lot.
    But the way you explained that it isn’t something wrong or that I should be ashamed of made me cry. It felt like a loving family member reassuring you. Many of mine don’t understand them, so thank you for making this.
    It’s the only thing that’s helped in a long time. If I could I would just, give you a hug right now. Thank you.
    I know it’s not really directed at anyone. But it made me feel cared about. Thank you again- sorry I’m saying thank you a lot but this means everything to me.

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  4 года назад +48

      you never have to apologize for offering gratitude :) I am so happy you were able to find comfort in this!! Be well xx

    • @kaylonadcox195
      @kaylonadcox195 3 года назад +15

      It gives me faith in humanity.

    • @nick84899
      @nick84899 3 года назад +3

      same

    • @shellsupertramp2682
      @shellsupertramp2682 3 года назад +4

      I was exactly the same, suffering a panic attack, thought it could be something more serious but no this worked. Its such a relief your words are so what I needed, thank you thank you. Its so good I can put this on next time, before it gets too bad xxx X xxx

  • @El-su5py
    @El-su5py 4 года назад +281

    Just had my first panic attack, I couldn’t breathe and I felt like I was going to die. This calmed me down so much, thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 4 года назад +15

      Im glad this helped you. My Mom voice is the perfect remedy for any bad situation. Im glad you came here in your time of need. If you ever feel anxious, don't hesitate to reach out and I'll make sure Joanne knows you visited here. God bless you 💫

    • @vistymisty4641
      @vistymisty4641 4 года назад

      I've been studying best natural cure for anxiety and discovered an awesome resource at 60SecondPanicSolution77.blogspot.com

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 4 года назад

      😍✌️

    • @Trump_FAN_97
      @Trump_FAN_97 4 года назад +1

      Helluu E I know how u feel I had 12 of them in November of 2019 and got diagnosed with a Generalized anxiety disorder it sucks

    • @avarowley6885
      @avarowley6885 2 года назад

      I’m so afraid of world war 3... coming to the US.. and I’m so afraid of the end of the world... and this helps a lot. Thank you.

  • @TheKlownchez
    @TheKlownchez 4 года назад +544

    Viewer: (panicking, pleading to be calmed and reassured)
    RUclips: okay, but first, watch these two ads, BUY STUFF!!!

    • @AlwaysFallingFromTheRight...
      @AlwaysFallingFromTheRight... 3 года назад +19

      My thoughts exactly! Lol

    • @janedoe2535
      @janedoe2535 3 года назад +23

      I was crying but your comment made me laugh! Thank you! ❤

    • @Okzakbbq
      @Okzakbbq 3 года назад +12

      Samee: I don’t want a new recliner or a deal on my cable I want to calm down I hate these ads the worst is when you’re in the middle of a meditation video and all the sudden it’s a man trying to sell you two recliners in a sofa

    • @nicolelee6591
      @nicolelee6591 3 года назад +4

      Hahaha yes everytime!!! 😭 😂

    • @noreaadam3501
      @noreaadam3501 3 года назад +2

      just download 'AdBlock' extension and the ads will be suppressed ; it's free and easy to install

  • @Blake-jj6dx
    @Blake-jj6dx 2 года назад +110

    I was laying here shaking so badly shivering but sweating heart rate up above 130 but this really helped calm me down, sometimes i feel so alone or that my suffering isn’t as bad as anyone else so I shouldn’t be dramatic about it.

    • @avamiller2325
      @avamiller2325 2 года назад +5

      I feel the same way 🙏🏼

    • @lilyhempt515
      @lilyhempt515 2 года назад +3

      I understand how this feels. How are you now? I hope you’re doing ok! Sending healing thoughts.

    • @Blake-jj6dx
      @Blake-jj6dx 2 года назад +2

      @@lilyhempt515 I’m good most of the time back watching the video tonight rough night and day hope your doing well

    • @x1r0n83
      @x1r0n83 2 года назад +6

      I get this way too, shivering but sweating, nausea, feeling like I'm going to pass out. Hope you're OK 🖤

    • @MikeyCoinSnatch
      @MikeyCoinSnatch Год назад +2

      Suffering is suffering my friend. Never belittle your feelings because you deserve to be happy and comfortable in your own skin. Much love to you

  • @samanthadevins8437
    @samanthadevins8437 Месяц назад +5

    i am currently having a very scary panic attack. i have been having these for a couple months now and never have before in my life. it’s the scariest feeling. i have been to the er multiple times due to these panic attacks. i feel one coming and i freak myself out so bad. my head gets heavy and my heart starts to pound like crazy. the shaking becomes uncontrollable. I found this video a week ago and i watch it everytime i feel one coming on and it works everytime. it makes me feel not so alone. i couldn’t thank you enough for making this video. i’m still anxious but im not shaking like i was. the comments definitely helped as well. thank you again.

    • @annie3413
      @annie3413 Месяц назад +1

      i hope you feel better now lovely, i'm thinking of you! you arent alone

  • @JM.TheComposer
    @JM.TheComposer 5 лет назад +275

    I swear I could listen to this woman read the dictionary and it would lower my blood pressure. I don't get panic attacks, but this is so incredibly relaxing.

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 5 лет назад +7

      I totally agree with you. My motherly friend Joanne has helped me through a lot of personal problems over the years like worrying & even depression. Her voice is that nurturing. I'm glad she helps you too 😊👍

    • @nicolewale888
      @nicolewale888 4 года назад +2

      Lucky.

    • @nataliewilliamson38
      @nataliewilliamson38 4 года назад

      🤣❤

    • @tintin30ify
      @tintin30ify 3 года назад +1

      Relax for awhile; The secret garden. 😇

    • @deloresgillard3942
      @deloresgillard3942 2 года назад +1

      Tk u so much. After weeks of being well all of a sudden anxiety comes back strong listening to your affirmations made me feel better God is using you bless u tku

  • @Dagolden1child
    @Dagolden1child 3 года назад +257

    i suffer from anxiety so much and this helped so much i gave up on therapy but i’m so happy i found you

    • @antieverything
      @antieverything 3 года назад +1

      Same🤍

    • @TheMightyBlackPearl
      @TheMightyBlackPearl 2 года назад +11

      Please, don't give up on therapy. I'm not done fighting. Please don't be done either. I know it's so hard. I have panic disorder....my heart hurts so bad right now, can barely breathe, I'm completely exhausted and I can't eat. But I refuse to let this win. I've been fighting it since I was five...I'm thirty now. We're not weak by any means. 💗🧘‍♀️

    • @michaelmullins8866
      @michaelmullins8866 2 года назад +2

      @@TheMightyBlackPearl thanks for the words of inspiration I’m having the day from hell today

    • @TheMightyBlackPearl
      @TheMightyBlackPearl 2 года назад +2

      @@michaelmullins8866 you got this! You are in charge! You tell those thoughts to go back to the trash bin they came from. I'm rooting for you! You stay strong, because you are strong. 💪❤🤗
      P.s. you can always reach out!

  • @relaxforawhile
    @relaxforawhile  5 лет назад +782

    This special requested video is a panic attack talk down, where I will try to help you calm down. Panic attacks can be so frightening! A gentle comforting talk through with lots of reassurance, some breathing and affirmations can really help you calm down and bring the panic & anxiety attack to a stop. Everything will be okay!

    • @AnnaMmusic
      @AnnaMmusic 5 лет назад +16

      Hi. Not panicked right now but will def come to this beautiful video if needed. And also direct others who may need. Only half way thru but it's perfect. Thank u so much. 💗

    • @chrisnam1603
      @chrisnam1603 5 лет назад +5

      thank you so dearly for bringing what so many need, you're a wonderful soul

    • @JennyPink29
      @JennyPink29 4 года назад +11

      I’ve had an extremely anxious day with several panic attacks. I found this video and it is very soothing. I’ve listened to it twice so far today. If I’m not able to fall asleep before this one is over, it’ll be 3 times. Thank you for making this video. It’s all the things that I need to hear when I’m panicking💕

    • @simonnurse2744
      @simonnurse2744 4 года назад +3

      Relax For A While - Meditations & Sleep Stories
      Omg - just had a massive attack. Rung 111. Got a 2 hour wait - so came here. Helped the attack but going to need help to overcome the general problem. So I have major sympathy for everyone out there. First one I’ve had for a while waking up. Obviously the current situation is a major contributor but this is not a new thing. When I spoke to the triage the questions I was given made things better - do you want to harm yourself or others? I am safe I am ok.

    • @simonjessop1929
      @simonjessop1929 4 года назад +1

      Have you any , oh jeez , maybe idk something more powerful , 😢, ears are real hurting

  • @Sunvio
    @Sunvio 2 года назад +32

    Please don’t take this the wrong way but listening to this, I feel like I’m in my mother’s arms being comforted. That’s not possible in real life but this video is the next best thing. Thank you for this.

    • @carliejanetabone
      @carliejanetabone 2 года назад

      Sweet Sunvio❤ I'm sending lots of cuddley hugs and love your way🥲🤗🤗💕 I Really loved your Beautiful comment it made me cry sooo much😥 and really love to send you comforting healing hugs and kind words We all Need to be comforted & loved 🤗❤ Joanne,s videos here are sooo comforting Nurtring to all here and it's soo soothing for All Our beautiful little souls and Snuggley too Love listening to Joannes videos 🥰🤗 Sending much love cuddley vibes Sunvio!💗 Bless you🙏💜🇦🇺🦋

  • @mcameronh
    @mcameronh 4 месяца назад +6

    My attacks last for a few hours. The next day I feel like a crazy person for how I felt the night before. My arms are tingly. My chest feels tight. I can’t focus on anything other than what I’m feeling. But I’m okay. You’re okay too. I’m sharing this so you know others feel this way too. Deep breaths. Listen to the nice lady.

  • @cherryultra
    @cherryultra 3 года назад +183

    Sometimes i get really intense palpitations, then my mind starts to race and I feel an attack coming on. This video was so brilliant, you were soft and gentle. Really relaxing. So relaxing I actually fell asleep during the video and got a full nights rest. Thank you so much ♡

    • @carliejanetabone
      @carliejanetabone 3 года назад +12

      Sweet bunnyraid🙂 Same here , I always have heart palpitations it's really scary😪 and I find my mind starts to race think something bad will happen and I feel numb like I can't get a breath & start to have panic attack I happens mostly at night that last few nights this has happened again 😥Joanne,s beautiful videos like this one is really the only thing that really helps me calm down its soooo comforting to know We can just come here to Relax for while 🥰😇when we feel alone scared having panic attacks , and to help with sleep it's just such a beautiful relaxing soft loving safe caring place to come to ,Joanne is Such a lovely gentle little sweet Blesseing to Us All🙂💕 So Greatful and appreciate her!🙏🥲 My Sweetest Blesseings Sunshine Rainbowy Twinkleing Shineing love & Light to you Lovely bunnyraid , Be well & your not alone. you are Amazing 🤗💜🦄🌺xo

    • @maryroosa7206
      @maryroosa7206 2 года назад +8

      I get the same thing. You're not alone. I'm so glad I found this video and the fact I'm not alone ❤️❤️❤️

    • @erhandyman
      @erhandyman 2 года назад +5

      It is amazing to see its common and im not alone. Im dealing with this for the first time in the last week so glad to know i can come here to deal with it. God bless you all

    • @Mashleigh
      @Mashleigh 2 года назад +2

      I've been struggling with the same for a long time now. It's hard to feel like everything will be ok. This audio helps me so very much.

    • @seanmcnicholas3153
      @seanmcnicholas3153 Год назад +3

      I'm having this exact panick attack right now. It's so overwhelming and terrifying like you are going to explode. Needed to read this so I know it's not just me

  • @katelynwhite2230
    @katelynwhite2230 4 года назад +211

    I’ve been having extreme panic attacks about death and not knowing what’s going to happen when we die that have recently just started and I found this while having one just now and it really helped me. Thank you so much.

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  4 года назад +23

      Hello Katelyn and thank you for sharing. Fear of death is a huge trigger for a lot of people. I am happy to hear this helped you! Thank you so much xo

    • @btorres5thelocosbt
      @btorres5thelocosbt 4 года назад +23

      Katelyn you’re not alone. I’m the same exactly. I just try to ride out the wave. My attacks come in waves, feels like it’s all day most days, but I just let them land and breathe. Hugs to you

    • @Aria-zt2rc
      @Aria-zt2rc 4 года назад +9

      I know this is a late reply but I experience the same thing. I try to relieve it by either taking walks, talking to someone, or even turning it into adrenaline to calm down as if I was doing a workout the whole time. Other than that I am glad to know I am not alone in this. Sending big virtual hugs

    • @sammavacaist
      @sammavacaist 4 года назад +13

      This happens to me. Every one on my father's side was hyperchondriac and terrified of death and I inherited it. It was bad as a kid, then got better from my teens into adulthood. Now that people I love have died and I'm older its begun to get worse again.

    • @ShhheilaASMR
      @ShhheilaASMR 4 года назад +8

      I’m the same. It’s a type of phobia called thanatophobia... it sucks
      :(

  • @dri_driella1227
    @dri_driella1227 3 года назад +49

    Was starting to feel derealization and then I started to get anxious this made me come back to reality and calm down before anything got out of control

  • @Every26Seconds
    @Every26Seconds 3 месяца назад +2

    I can’t count how many panic attacks you have talked me through. Thank you

  • @MikeyCoinSnatch
    @MikeyCoinSnatch Год назад +16

    This too shall pass. I love everybody who sees this and wish you the absolute best! I’m struggling with my panic attacks but it’s nice to read so many comments to know that it’s normal to feel these feelings. The hard part is convincing yourself that it is okay and these feelings will move on. Again. Peace, Love Positivity to everybody struggling ❤

  • @bluemoon9412
    @bluemoon9412 4 года назад +101

    I’m having a panic attack at random, I think my headache triggered it, I’ve got a weird headache and whenever I experience something which I haven’t much before I get consumed with anxiety thinking I’m gonna die😔 I’m trying to believe your words, but my mind is telling me my thoughts are right, it’s scary I hate emotions

    • @ernaramirezcasareno4657
      @ernaramirezcasareno4657 4 года назад +4

      Hi Blue moon. I feel for you but we will manage to get through. We will get better.

    • @annalisa10306
      @annalisa10306 3 года назад +1

      Same 🥺

    • @melissamills6629
      @melissamills6629 3 года назад +3

      Same girl I’ve had them for years but still can’t help but think it. Also I experience new panic attack symptoms all the time which really freaks me out more and I just can’t cope. I used to have clusters and multiple attacks a day with medication after experimenting with different Medication after years because some work for a little bit and some just doesn’t work I finally gotten them in control more but I still have them just not multiple ones every day that terrified me and I never wanted to get out of bed

    • @austingress82
      @austingress82 3 года назад +4

      Feel the same way right now. Major hypochondriac lately and it’s debilitating

    • @avamiller2325
      @avamiller2325 3 года назад

      @@austingress82 same here

  • @musictheatersix244
    @musictheatersix244 4 года назад +125

    This video, is my rescue. I suffer from nocturnal panic attacks/sudden awakenings- and this video calms me so well it’s like she’s right there walking through it with me. Beyond grateful, sobbing with gratitude

    • @starstar5157
      @starstar5157 2 года назад

      Aww sir❤️

    • @melaneeschwind8594
      @melaneeschwind8594 2 года назад

      Those are the worst haven't had them in awhile but I have had in the past.

    • @Shlugxbus
      @Shlugxbus 2 года назад +3

      I’m going through this right now my first ever and I am so so scared I cant stop crying

    • @NostalgiaT
      @NostalgiaT 2 года назад +1

      How r u doing now

    • @witdagreeneyz
      @witdagreeneyz Год назад +3

      I’ve never heard anyone else talk of these types of attacks but they are terrifying! Waking up unable to catch my breath and then my thoughts spiraling takes me there every time . Sending you love and calmness ❤

  • @TheWorldisALie007
    @TheWorldisALie007 2 года назад +12

    I have so many triggers and even wake up with attacks as well. I could use some prayers

  • @melissasullivan938
    @melissasullivan938 Год назад +30

    Attacks happen at work frequently and I get so dizzy that my body goes numb. Thank you so much for this FANTASTIC MENTAL HEALTH TOOL! You are LITERALLY a life saver.

  • @abigailspringsteen9930
    @abigailspringsteen9930 8 месяцев назад +1

    I woke up in the middle of the night with a level 10 panic attack. I truly convinced myself I was dying and that my body was shutting down. Your words really calmed me down. "If you can talk, you're getting anything breath." Thank you ❤

  • @starringkimesha5583
    @starringkimesha5583 3 года назад +38

    I’m having one rn and it’s been like 2 hours, I can’t sleep. It’s not easy but we’ll get through this. God’s got us🙏🏽 WE’RE stronger than our anxiety❤️

    • @nyotauhura5646
      @nyotauhura5646 Год назад +1

      ❤🙏🏾

    • @NotJaniyaa
      @NotJaniyaa Год назад +1

      are you okay now?

    • @starringkimesha5583
      @starringkimesha5583 Год назад +4

      @@NotJaniyaa yea I am, I now know that anytime I feel like I’m “dying”, it’s a panic attack and I fight it… haven’t had one in a long while🙏🏽 Thanks for asking, hope you’re ok✨

    • @fifiearthwanderer
      @fifiearthwanderer Год назад +1

      This is me right now. The worst part is knowing i have to call off work tomorrow. Because its 3am amd i have had anxiety all night long.

    • @starringkimesha5583
      @starringkimesha5583 Год назад +3

      @@fifiearthwanderer So sorry to hear that☹️, I understand and I know you will push through and it will get better🙏🏽 praying for you

  • @PeterRegel
    @PeterRegel 2 года назад +52

    I've been suffering from pretty bad anxiety attacks for most of my adult life, but especially for the last year, or so. This is my go-to when I feel one coming on. It helps a lot, but it's usually when I look at the comments that I feel the panic greatly subside and I start bawling. It helps a lot to know I'm not alone in experiencing this kind of thing. The comments of a stranger on the internet might not mean a lot to everybody, but to my surprise, they mean quite a lot to me. If it's anything to you, at all, know that you are going to be okay again, and that I'm really, genuinely rooting for you.

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  Год назад +2

      I hope you are feeling better Peter 🙏🏻💕

    • @instant_mint
      @instant_mint Год назад +1

      Thank you Peter ❤️❤️❤️ Wish you all the best

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад

      It helps to know you're not going through this alone especially when your family is not supportive to you when you're going through this like how mine isn't.

  • @WrenBiddle
    @WrenBiddle 4 года назад +43

    Usually when I get a panic attack, I try so many tactics - mindfulness/meditation, deep breathing, etc. but sometimes I get so overwhelmed I cannot talk to myself rationally. Thank you so much for this video. Having a calm voice talk me down actually put my mind at ease.

  • @jtheblock1401
    @jtheblock1401 Год назад +94

    Having a really big one rn. Been playing this on repeat thank you as always Joanne. It’s been really hard you guys always freaking out that I’m gonna be sick and overthinking every little thing happening in my body, but knowing that it pass always helps. I just hate these feelings and want them to go. I just wanna cry. But I always read the comments and knowing that I’m not alone always helps me out when times get tough. Truly you guys have been there through the 3am panic attacks, the overthinking, the sleepless nights and have all helped me through it. I thank you all for everything, idk how I will be tonight sleeping but I’m happy knowing that I can be safe here. Thank you for everything you guys ❤️✨🫶🏻

    • @TheWorldisALie007
      @TheWorldisALie007 Год назад +3

      Try running cold water over your hands until it hurts from the cold water. Pull them out do it again.

    • @juliana.x0x0
      @juliana.x0x0 Год назад +2

      Same! I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to sickness/germs as well. When I get anxiety I feel like I'm gonna be sick, I have to go to the bathroom, racing heart, can't breathe, etc. which only further increases my anxiety. It's so relieving when I find someone going through the same kind of anxiety, that I'm not alone in it. So thank you for sharing your experience, as it brings me great comfort in a sense. ❤ hope you're feeling better

    • @kongmode
      @kongmode Год назад

      ​@@TheWorldisALie007better try normal cold water, its okay to wash your face and just relax with normal cold water and be at ease, calm and relax , calm and relaxed

    • @mscarmencitaM
      @mscarmencitaM Год назад +2

      I know exactly how u feel...I've gotten to the point where I won't even take meds that have any sort of caffeine,no energy drinks ,coffee nothing that I think would make my heart race cuz I'm scared it will trigger a panic attacks. I'm so tired of feeling this way. 😢

    • @puggilove
      @puggilove Год назад +2

      ​@@mscarmencitaMif you have O type blood, you naturally have more adrenaline and cortisol so caffeine is like a rocket exploding in your body. I can't give up sugar, I've cut down. It comforts me but I think sugar aggravates anxiety, do you have anxiety from sugar too? I was on valium for ten years and had to come off it. This video works but I'm still having icy burning in my chest and arms.😢 Her voice is so lovely. If I'd had a mother like her, I wouldn't be such an emotional wreck!💜🧡💚

  • @nidavelllir6923
    @nidavelllir6923 Год назад +16

    God the past month now I’ve been getting the worst anxiety attacks, I’m so glad I just now found this video, makes me feel so much better because I don’t feel alone hearing the talking, we are not alone yall ❤️

  • @shayovertherainbow953
    @shayovertherainbow953 3 года назад +85

    I have severe ptsd and panic attacks almost daily. This helped me focus on something besides my symptoms which helped me calm down. Bless you.

    • @peanutcampbell
      @peanutcampbell 2 года назад +1

      Hope your panic attacks have gotten fewer and fewer

    • @witdagreeneyz
      @witdagreeneyz Год назад +3

      Sending love and peace your way ❤

  • @Cornstarchrr
    @Cornstarchrr 4 года назад +45

    i use this even when im NOT having a panic attack, so calming

  • @toxicsniper5548
    @toxicsniper5548 4 года назад +64

    having a lot of panic attacks lately because of covid 19 because my allergies are acting up and i swear i have the virus , i’m currently in the middle of watching this is helping me a lot right now because they get really really serve i get shaky, heart drops and i feel like i’m dying even though i’m not , my palms get sweaty and start to feel hot sometimes nauseous and dizzy and i feel like i’m the only one who deals with the exact symptoms everyday and seeing these comments made me feel 100x better because it reassures me that people are feeling the exact same thing as me right now and i didn’t even know .. this helped a lot thank you so much !!!

    • @missyk2454
      @missyk2454 4 года назад +5

      Right there with you friend. The shortness of breath and lack of smell I get from allergies has me absolutely terrified during this allergy season. Throw in a pretty serious bout of health anxiety and this has been absolutely terrifying.

    • @xtoxicangel1212
      @xtoxicangel1212 4 года назад +2

      I'm going through this I even ended up in hospital with a temperature but it ended up just being a chest infection but I genuinely thought I was going to die x

    • @rd042311
      @rd042311 4 года назад +3

      You're not alone .. I'm having the same type of reactions with my body in general .. Keep faith, this is all in our minds and it shall pass. Just keep breathing and ground yourself. God bless and feel better ..

    • @alexia8092
      @alexia8092 4 года назад +3

      Omg your not alone...this happens to me everyday and I always tell myself I have covid 19 and then I feel like a cant breathe because of my panic attack and then I feel like I have it just because I cant catch my breath because of my panic attack.

    • @popofat6382
      @popofat6382 4 года назад +1

      yesss we are not alone i get nauseous and feel like i’m going to faint or die

  • @ei446
    @ei446 3 месяца назад +2

    Found this video again after 2.5 years and am smiling right now. If this helps anyone, I used to put this video on 2.5 years ago when I was having 10ish severe panic attacks a day, when I couldnt leave the house or even the bed.
    I currently came looking for it, to download to my phone in case, as Im getting on a plane to go on holiday in 2 days and getting nervous.
    - This moment helped me look back and see how far i've come, even though 2 years ago I never thought I'd get remotely better. And it's funny how I used to listen to this to feel safe in my own bed, and now Im downloading it to feel safe on a plane !!!!
    Things ALWAYS get better. It can take years, and baby steps and a lot of courage, but things always always get better.

  • @summerdays6373
    @summerdays6373 2 года назад +32

    These are so helpful to me. I thank everyone who makes these. I am 14 and i have many many panic attacks. I have very bad anxiety and this has affected me since I was 7. I tell my parents how i feel and they yell at me. They tell me i am overthinking and never understand me. The best feeling is having someone who understands. You can never really understand how much this affects your life. It is so hard and there is nothing I can do about it. Sorry for this paragraph Ive just really been struggling lately. Thank you for this video.

    • @premium8494
      @premium8494 Год назад +1

    • @valkarcy
      @valkarcy Год назад +2

      Keep working on yourself and I promise it will get better young fellow. Lots of love to you buddy.

    • @summerdays6373
      @summerdays6373 Год назад +1

      @@valkarcy thanks :)

    • @skye3830
      @skye3830 Год назад +1

      Proud of you. I remember when I was back in your shoes 6 years ago. I can't say life gets easier, but it DOES get better and happier. You're gonna be okay, and again you're doing great, just keep being you and trying your best.

    • @summerdays6373
      @summerdays6373 Год назад +1

      @@skye3830 ty! I really needed this

  • @oscarlucero2430
    @oscarlucero2430 4 года назад +60

    Thank you I needed this my chest felt tight and I was freaking out but i feel calmer now thank you. I was diagnosed with Covid-19 on my birthday (April 2) and I’m still recovering but I’m fine right now. I’m 18 years old.

    • @UNLOCKEDWOMAN
      @UNLOCKEDWOMAN 4 года назад +1

      Hope you’re feeling better 🙏🏾

  • @hxnha
    @hxnha 4 года назад +44

    my panic attacks are getting so much worse and i need a therapist so bad. i’m shaking right now, in fact. it’s always worse every single panic attack. i’m too scared to talk to someone. this helped. thank you.

    • @hxnha
      @hxnha 4 года назад +7

      update 3 weeks later i’m using the same video for the same reason.

    • @Rooskmyster
      @Rooskmyster 4 года назад +5

      I feel the same way. I have panic attacks almost daily and it’s really affected my everyday life.

    • @chelseafrattura7742
      @chelseafrattura7742 4 года назад +4

      epxphany hey, just wanted to say that I’m in the same position as you feeling overwhelmed by panic attacks and feeling like I need a therapist so badly but don’t have access to one. It can be so scary feeling like you need help but not being able to get it. I just wanted to let you know that you got this and you are supported even when you feel alone. I hope you’re doing okay :)

    • @kwit7377
      @kwit7377 4 года назад +2

      epxphany...you’re not alone❤️

    • @rubix1651
      @rubix1651 4 года назад

      Sending lots love to you sweetheart, hope you’re feeling better xxx

  • @Ashkagiggles
    @Ashkagiggles 4 года назад +75

    This video helped calm me down after a 5.7 magnitude earthquake in Utah today... all during the Coronavirus boom...

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 4 года назад +5

      Im so glad my Mom voice helped you through that crazy situation. I heard about it on the news and im glad you are ok. I know it was scary kinda like this virus thing. But you know the good thing, just like the earthquake passed, this virus will pass too. Hang in there and stay strong. Thanks for visiting Joanne channel 😊👍💫

    • @Clintsessentials
      @Clintsessentials 4 года назад

      😍

    • @Kadeis_Lost
      @Kadeis_Lost 4 года назад +2

      Right with you! I live in Utah and I was in salt lake at the time when the quake happened and I fell

  • @kaylamiller9045
    @kaylamiller9045 10 месяцев назад +3

    Scrolling through these comments has helped so much along with this video please don’t ever delete it you have no idea how many people you’re helping

  • @morganwilliams7064
    @morganwilliams7064 4 месяца назад +2

    All I can say is thank you, this video is my go to. For everyone out there who is scared during this difficult time you are not alone. It will get better. Better days, hours, minutes, and seconds are to come. There is light at the end of the tunnel. We got this !!!

  • @heidibenjamin6923
    @heidibenjamin6923 4 года назад +36

    I suffer from severe anxiety. I'm out of my medication, this video helped me during two pretty bad attacks. It's been a very long time since I've had to work through an anxiety attack without the help of medication. Thank you for this video.

  • @missyk2454
    @missyk2454 4 года назад +47

    Thank you! Those of us that suffer from health anxiety feel like this is a special personal hell and it's so scary because so many panic attack symptoms mimic those of what they say are covid19 symptoms. Shortness of breath? Yep. Dizziness? Yep. It suuuuucks but this helped me so much. Thank you!

  • @ellapoole8606
    @ellapoole8606 3 года назад +10

    I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve watched this video when I’m having a panic attack. Thank yoy

  • @tkcoulter67
    @tkcoulter67 Месяц назад +1

    I hope this video stays up forever. It is the only one I rely on, it helps me so much. It saves me. I'm so thankful for this. Thank you for making this and making my day to days possible without going into full fledge panic.

  • @jmf33ss
    @jmf33ss Год назад +3

    I had anxiety attacks ten years ago and then I dealt with them and they went away for the most part for all this time and now 2 weeks ago they came back and it fuckin sucks. It’s hard to breath I sweat my heart races and it’s hard to come back to reality. This video is the best thing in the world and the woman literally sounds like an angel and it’s the most comforting thing to hear during one of these episodes. Thank you so much and keep being a beautiful angel.

  • @alanjones8660
    @alanjones8660 4 года назад +22

    You helped my best friend during her panic attack when I couldn’t. Thank you.

  • @alienartisan1990
    @alienartisan1990 4 года назад +60

    I was having a bad attack today and couldn’t get ahold of my fiancé at work, which is the only thing that helps me when I’m panicking. This is the only video I have ever found that actually helped me...So specific it made me feel like you understand every aspect of an attack. Thank you so much

  • @juliana.x0x0
    @juliana.x0x0 Год назад +10

    What an incredible gift you've given all of us. I've had C-PTSD and bad anxiety since I was a kid. I'm 30 now, and it still gets me just like it did in the past, sometimes worse.
    Most people don't understand the depths of my anxiety, and even if they do, I tend to isolate myself when I'm anxious as I don't know how to express it to or in front of others.
    This is like the mother I wish I had. The comfort of this reassurance is like a warm hug. The way she acknowledges these feelings exist but that they aren't facts is so helpful. This is the first time I've found this but I've saved it for quick reference. Thank you for this❤

  • @goulasleves12
    @goulasleves12 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am so grateful I found this last night. I’m getting teary just typing this. Panic attacks are so scary in the moment and all my usual logic and coping strategies were completely useless. Your video gave me the comforting, rational words I desperately needed to hear. Thank you.

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  6 месяцев назад +2

      I'm so glad! Hope you continue to feel better. sending love!💕

  • @Jack-zu8ih
    @Jack-zu8ih 2 года назад +1

    Finally smiled for the first time while having anxiety thanks so much

  • @yoghurtforbrains3053
    @yoghurtforbrains3053 4 года назад +33

    I was having a really bad panic attack because I accidentally poked myself in the eye and this really helped.

  • @ChatoyantHyena
    @ChatoyantHyena Год назад +25

    I have to extend my gratitude to everyone in the comments as well. I used to think I was ridiculous for feeling like I was dying- I have to stop myself from calling EMS, I try to panic call my family and loved ones to tell them I love them. I dont want to die and I get so desperate not to- even though that's not what's happening. Now I see that I'm not alone and it's quite a common symptom of panic attacks. It's true that the entire time I'm telling myself that I'm fine and I know rationally I'm fine- but sometimes it just takes some extra help.
    I am listening to this and breathing deep and trying to ride it out, I appreciate this video a lot.

    • @mariannemason7700
      @mariannemason7700 Год назад +3

      I can definitely identify with this. I've called EMS several times, ( I believe they have me listed as having anxiety bcuz the techs Always ask me that) And the late night "I Love U, this could be Goodbye" calls OMG! I found this video early in the pandemic and I'm soooo Grateful that I did! Joanne has calmed me down countless times. Like today... that's why I'm here in the comments 😁

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад +3

      My family treats me like I'm being dramatic and my mom talks down to me during my panic attacks. That's why I run to ems for help.

    • @Smiley35S
      @Smiley35S Год назад +1

      ​@@mariannemason7700I wondered if they take notes because the last time I called almost 2 weeks ago the lady was really annoying she asked for my address 3 times then I think she purposely hung up on me. I told her I thought I was having a panic attack and she asked if that's what it was and I said I didn't know because my step dad was burning weeds out back and there was so much smoke in the house it was triggering me. Then the fire department always shows up even when I ask for medical it makes no sense. One time I asked to go to the hospital and they had to call for an ambulance.

  • @unjoined
    @unjoined 4 года назад +38

    I now listen to this the moment I sart to feel the anxiety that comes before a panic attack. 4 minutes in and I feel way better. Thank you for making this video!! Bless you!

  • @amyharrington9733
    @amyharrington9733 4 месяца назад +2

    You are my life raft right now in the middle of a terrifying anxiety attack at work …thank you

  • @triskaidekaphile
    @triskaidekaphile 6 месяцев назад +2

    This upload is still helping people years later ❤ woke up into a panic attack after years without having one.
    Thank you!

  • @kaylamanier7053
    @kaylamanier7053 3 года назад +35

    I’m 3 months pregnant and I’ve been severely depressed and anxious. Thank you for this. It helped me calm down from a panic attack. I know this isn’t healthy for my baby and I hope I can stay calm the rest of the pregnancy. I’ve listened to podcasts, I’ve talked to my dr, talked in church. Nothing has helped. This did calm me but idk for how long, but I’m glad I have this to go back too.

    • @misskndykiss
      @misskndykiss 3 года назад +4

      I’m 2 months pregnant and feeling the same way.

    • @nunyabidness6045
      @nunyabidness6045 2 года назад +3

      I'm not pregnant, but my hormones cause me severe anxiety... it's like someone is hijacking your body! 😭

    • @sarahpuckerin667
      @sarahpuckerin667 2 года назад +2

      It's by far one of the worst experiences, 😪 😕 I'm seeing a therapist, also gonna do you tube video on my experiences with covid and panic attacks, hoping it will help someone out there also 🙏 😢 love to all, don't give up,

    • @lilyhempt515
      @lilyhempt515 2 года назад

      I hope you are doing better, sending healing hugs.

  • @5747589
    @5747589 4 года назад +27

    BELOW IS WHAT REALLY HELPS ME WHEN IM GOING THROUGH IT: This may not be the case with everyone. But notice a pattern or an environment when you don’t get panic attacks, for instance me, I don’t ever get panic attacks when I’m at work. Work is a place I feel very productive at doing what I mainly enjoy and help others so maybe that’s why even though I have to face a lot of my fears at work it feels like I’m overcoming things one at a time when i push myself out of my comfort zone. So when I am having a panic attack usually at random when I’m at home, ready to go to bed or right after I eat dinner, I remind myself “what’s happening right now is just your brains defense mechanism, it’s all a false sense of intense fear, it’s not reality, thoughts are not reality, your mind is tricking you. Don’t get tricked. It can’t last longer than this period of time anyway so worst case I can always ride it out. I am strong. Look at the way I move my body (i usually lightly exercise or stretch. I put on a nature sound music. And breath while focusing on one object at a time and analyzing the object simply.) I leave all control to this higher being (whether you believe in God or not), I don’t need to have control all the time. Whatever happens is exactly what should be happening right now. I believe in that. (And then I also think about how when im at work even if im dehydrated, hungry, just eaten etc. I don’t feel this panic attack so it must really just be the trick of my mind, not cuz I have a brain tumor or something very extreme like that my mind likes to make me believe I have. I’m also a hypochondriac so ANY physical discomfort is immediately the worst illness in the world. Knowing I’m not alone helps my anxiety. If I see others that also went to ER multiple times each time thinking the worst and was sent home with all test results negative and a 1500 dollar bill (lol), well then my brain is starting to be convinced that I really am just fine. Share your experiences too guys this is a safe space. I love you all so much. Panic attacks helped me gain a better understanding and appreciation for the things i have in my life. At one point every moment I could have without feeling like crap was a moment I would do something I really liked. It made me take on playing flute again, it made me practice painting. Before panic attacks I was very unmotivated and procrastinated everything from generalized anxiety. So keeping this in mind really helped me reduce the intensity of my panic attacks that they are manageable with the above mentioned techniques. Summary: fake it till you make it. Tell your brain using your logic what to think bcuz what it wants to think is constructed by whoever raised you and they did not do it right but it’s ok! Bcuz I can be ok on my own, I can rewire my brain to feel better and make others feel better. “I’m peaceful, relaxed, calm, at ease.”

  • @adrianread3434
    @adrianread3434 4 года назад +62

    Been having a few panic attacks lately with everything that’s goin on at the moment and this video has helped calm me down every time so helpful thank you 🙂

  • @kelseyb3501
    @kelseyb3501 2 года назад +47

    I’ve been here 4 or 5 times this April. I’m really struggling with my health anxiety and tachycardia. It’s so unsettling. Thank you for this video it truly has helped me to overcome some of my panic attacks

    • @mzshasta
      @mzshasta 2 года назад +4

      I'm also struggling with tachycardia and health anxiety panic attacks daily. This is a favorite video of mine. Has helped keep me out of the emergency room a few times.

    • @ditsydaisys
      @ditsydaisys Год назад

      Same here! I always come watch this video as I wait for my beta blocker to kick in... sounds like you guys could use a beta blocker for that tachycardia too..

  • @zendreanelson353
    @zendreanelson353 8 месяцев назад +1

    Here today! This video is a life saver! I try to block everything out and focus on her. I have really bad anxiety. Especially when driving. Glad to see this is helpful for others ❤

  • @z1u12b
    @z1u12b 4 года назад +46

    This saved my sanity last night thank you. Had the worst anxiety this morning. I am subscribing. Thank you again.

  • @laurax845
    @laurax845 2 года назад +11

    I was having a serve panic attack in the middle of the night, whist i was home alone, when I stumbled across this video. I felt instantly more relaxed within the first few minutes as the words are so reassuring and calming. They reminded me that I’m safe and what I was feeling will pass. It turned a horrible and scary situation into a one of calm and peace. The breathing and grounding techniques were brilliant. I can’t thank you enough for uploading this video and helping me easily get through a panic attack.

  • @xxchocolategalaxygamerxx5700
    @xxchocolategalaxygamerxx5700 4 года назад +22

    I have many panic attacks and I'm only so young, I feel like I'm older than what I really am and this is amazing help. Thank you for helping people!!

  • @shaniquapminajxoxo
    @shaniquapminajxoxo 4 месяца назад +2

    Literally thank you so much I thought I was going to die and I have been having back to back panic attacks lately. THISS WORKS!!!! I LITERALLY FELL ASLEEP AT THE END AFTER THAT EPISODE I HAD. THANK YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @raffaiola4979
    @raffaiola4979 3 года назад +26

    I had my first panic attack last night. I was alone and it was an absolutely terrifying experience. Your video helped me so much. Your words are so reassuring and you carried me through it ❤️ I can’t thank you enough for putting this out.

  • @JemmaDore-i1g
    @JemmaDore-i1g Год назад +6

    This video has really helped me in the past, I was driving and feeling all dizzy and anxious and played this in the whole journey home and I can’t thank you enough. I’m currently led in bed trying not to spiral into another panic attack, currently feeling pressure in my head/eyes, dizziness, tight chest.. can’t focus or read properly but I’m listening to this video whilst typing my comment. Reading through the comments has helped me a little. It really does suck we go through this and I wish you all the best with overcoming this awful situation we find ourselves in sometimes.

  • @laurenmarie7160
    @laurenmarie7160 4 года назад +39

    I’ve been having panic attacks recently brought on by the suicide of my best friend. Thank you for the video.

    • @Lesleykings
      @Lesleykings 4 года назад +7

      I’m sorry for your loss, everything will be ok

    • @meganjudd740
      @meganjudd740 4 года назад +3

      stay strong you’ve got this

    • @roninwarrior216
      @roninwarrior216 4 года назад +1

      Be strong try to do things that make you feel good

    • @giselle7488
      @giselle7488 4 года назад +2

      i'm so sorry.

    • @knowledgesimjess
      @knowledgesimjess 3 года назад +1

      @Lauren Marie I am so sorry. I hope things a better for you now.

  • @CaityINRL
    @CaityINRL Год назад +5

    I have delt with my anxiety for YEARS AND YEARS since I was little and could never find a proper way to calm myself without making things worse or just trying to ignore my emotions! This literally did the trick…I don’t know what or why lol but this will be my main go to, to calm back down from my anxiety attacks! Thank you wonderful human being❤️

  • @Hangie
    @Hangie Год назад +4

    I didn't eat anything today, then I had three Shandy's (lager and lemonade) after work and it didn't do me any favours. I've felt myself get more and more panicked and I've taken myself to bed to listen to this. It's so strange how a funny/strange sensation in your body can trigger your mind into making you feel more physical symptoms of feeling unwell and anxious. I should have known I'd feel like this, I've been a sufferer for years of anxiety and over worrying.
    Your videos have really helped me help myself through it. Thank you.

  • @craigashton1217
    @craigashton1217 Год назад +6

    Even reading the subtitles of this video is enough. I found myself in a club feeling overwhelmed and heading to the smoking area and feeling desperate for something to calm me, well as it turns out, just having the chance to read the subtitles of this video was enough to bring me back round through my attack. I praise you. Thank you. ❤

  • @ellieadkinson3657
    @ellieadkinson3657 5 лет назад +36

    Having a panic attack right now. My best friend sent me this video. Thank you so much for creating this video.

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE 5 лет назад +1

      Hey i pray your panic attack goes away 🙏🌺 You are safe & this channel along with Joanne nurturing presence will keep you safe. Sending good vibes your way. You got this

    • @relaxforawhile
      @relaxforawhile  5 лет назад +4

      I hope you are feeling better Ellie! I am glad you were able to find some comfort to help ease the unpleasant scary sensations. Much love to you! J xo

  • @haydenm3462
    @haydenm3462 4 года назад +14

    i was having a panic attack while with a friends family four hours away from where i live. the methods i usually use weren’t helping so i found this and i cannot thank you enough for what you do 🙏🏼 ❤️

  • @markokuhar670
    @markokuhar670 2 года назад +3

    I am 22 years old and never had a panic attack before. I worked back to back 12 hour shifts with minimal sleep and I must’ve been so exhausted I started to panic after work. This video really helped. Thank you.

  • @tomrowntree4745
    @tomrowntree4745 6 месяцев назад +1

    28 year old male, suffering with a trigger and traumatic anxiety attack from overwhelming stresses of work and other issues and need reassurance. I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder when I was 22 and it answers a lot of questions. I seek therapy and medication but always refer to calming affirmations and any other advice or support that is available. I'd just like to say thank you to people like yourself that give support and help with this crippling illness. It connects people and makes you feel like you are not alone and just so grateful for the help.

  • @nikolairebolloso5979
    @nikolairebolloso5979 Год назад +4

    I had a small panic attack many years ago but then all of a sudden I out of nowhere at night and it was horrible. Once I found out about this video I emidetly felt better within the first few minutes of listening, I'm glad I found this video.

  • @Jeffffers
    @Jeffffers 4 года назад +23

    Am traveling for work right now across the world and I'm currently alone. I was having such severe anxiety and was terrified. Listening to this was incredibly helpful and allowed me to calm down for the first time since being here. Thank you so much.

  • @1084perfectangel
    @1084perfectangel Год назад +5

    This video has really changed my life and helped me realize that the panic attacks are not going to last forever... that physically my body will be able to work it's way free of the anxiety. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @jelly_queen2557
    @jelly_queen2557 3 года назад +8

    I had my first panic attack awhile ago but it was a small one, but today I had a huge one on the bus I was shaking and my friends were trying to comfort me cause I was struggling to breathe and talk. When they got off the bus they FaceTimed me right away to stay with me. My panic attack started by someone throwing up near me and I have Emtophobia (fear of throw up) and I started shaking and struggling to breathe so I got my friends help and told them I was having a panic attack and they stayed with me the whole time. I love my friends ❤️

  • @seso227
    @seso227 Год назад +2

    I was feeling lonely, and because of my fear of loneliness, I had a panic attack, but reading the comments, I felt relieved that they were by my side.

  • @samantharichards2650
    @samantharichards2650 Год назад +5

    I cannot thank you enough, Joanne, for this video and this talk down. I struggle with severe panic attacks and found out last September that I was pregnant and could no longer take my anxiety medication. I come back to this video every time I’m feeling anxious and without fail it calms me down. Truly magical and I am beyond thankful for you ❤️