Story time: There were 3 attempts on my life during my 30-day escape

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 295

  • @HeyyyHR
    @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад +11

    🚨🚨PLEASE READ: I created this video to help others who are currently victims or recently separated from their abuser. This video is me explaining situations that happened over 20 YEARS AGO. If you do not have anything positive to say, PLEASE DO NOT COMMENT. Negative comments will get you blocked and reported. I do not want to turn the comments off, but I WILL if the negativity and accusations DO NOT STOP! It's sad how negative some folks are and don't even recognize it....smh‼‼

    • @CarolShook-yg9nn
      @CarolShook-yg9nn 4 месяца назад

      Thank you I'm tired of hearing how weak or stupid victims are don't judge unless you've walked a mile in their shoes

  • @Glossy2012
    @Glossy2012 2 года назад +68

    I’m glad you’re still here. You survived.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +3

      I survived & I am a survivor. Not a victim. God is good. 🙌🏾💜

    • @FreedomBuilding-fl7cb
      @FreedomBuilding-fl7cb 5 месяцев назад +1

      You were obviously with a extremely narsits man,? See if you got fight in a relationship you're not in a relationship you're attending a boxing match? After the first match that would have been it yet I know you just can't just hop out of a relationship but a man that violent he got a mama boy's problem and man like that will kill you in a heartbeat??? See if a man just be arguing too laud it's time to go right way with all your plans to yourself???? See if you got to fus and fight in a relationship it ain't worth it no matter what????

    • @FreedomBuilding-fl7cb
      @FreedomBuilding-fl7cb 5 месяцев назад +1

      I hate this type of man with this type of crap children shouldn't be around this type crazy ness I'm sorry this happened to you dudes be bugging God will certainly send you a peaceful man after all this,???

    • @biggooeyyy
      @biggooeyyy 5 месяцев назад

      Lmaooo

    • @Glossy2012
      @Glossy2012 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@biggooeyyyThere are no clowns here. I’m not sure what is funny. Are you lost?

  • @CarmelaCandela-yv4yz
    @CarmelaCandela-yv4yz Месяц назад +2

    Everytime a woman is brave enough to be vulnerable and talk about it .she helps save another woman...thank you for this 🙏❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад +1

      Thank you sooooo much💜

  • @oursweetcottageinaustria
    @oursweetcottageinaustria 2 года назад +39

    This is what internet was made for. Listening this all the way from Austria but felt right next to you. Women are so powerful. You are a proof

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      OMG! Wow! The internet keeps amazing me! Thank you sooo much!💜

  • @constancenunn
    @constancenunn Год назад +16

    I'm happy your away from him. Your safe.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💜

  • @beautythroughtea
    @beautythroughtea Год назад +61

    I left a week ago and was on the verge of going back. Thank you for being vulnerable because your story is going to give me the strength to resist answering the phone and going back.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +5

      You’re so welcome. The calls won’t stop any time soon. Ignore the calls. Find a hobby, read self help books, or get together with some positive friends. Thinking about it all of the time is hard. Distract your mind. I’m praying for you! 🙏🏽🙌🏾💜

    • @delicate1
      @delicate1 5 месяцев назад +5

      Block them

    • @margaretodonkor4747
      @margaretodonkor4747 5 месяцев назад +8

      Don't ever go back
      Can a leopard change its skin 😩

    • @cieraleal8030
      @cieraleal8030 Месяц назад

      @@HeyyyHR what did u end up doing?I'm in the same situation.I have no way of not going back im new in US no resources or home unless i go back to him.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      @@cieraleal8030 there are FAR TOO MANY resources! At the end of the video, I left a phone number that you can call. You can always call your city office or county office & ask for their victim’s advocate & they’ll point you in the right direction. That’s what I did. I use local resources to not only get away but STAY AWAY. Go & don’t look back. 💜🫶🏾

  • @karenbradley598
    @karenbradley598 7 месяцев назад +12

    Your family must’ve been devastated. I’m so sorry.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  7 месяцев назад +1

      For YEARSSSSSS they did not know, but I believe in a God who was always there. 🙌🏾Thank you so much for your empathy. 💜

  • @Kelly-nb2hr
    @Kelly-nb2hr 8 месяцев назад +12

    Girl I just saw this and it’s a year later. Bless you for making this video. This is what the internet is really for. Empowering others. Inspiring others. Yes…there’s nothing like a mother’s love. ❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Crazy thing is I made that video nearly 20 years after the incidents 🙌🏾

  • @phoenixrigel
    @phoenixrigel 5 месяцев назад +4

    Well done girl!what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. God doesn't give you what you can't handle.So proud of you.Left mine after 23years,17years of marriage and 3 kids.Left everything,no money but my life,my children and my blessings.4 years later am living my best life.Thank you

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      Wow! Sis!!!!! WE MADE IT! Thank you so much and I'm praying for MORE blessings to come your way! You and your kids deserve it!💜💜

  • @barbarajohnson6026
    @barbarajohnson6026 Год назад +8

    I'm so glad you and your child got away safely. Stay safe and I'll always be praying for you. Peace be with you.

  • @micolegreen8275
    @micolegreen8275 3 месяца назад +3

    Awwww 😢😢😢😢 there's beauty and strength in your tears

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  3 месяца назад

      💜💜💜

  • @laneebrewster6576
    @laneebrewster6576 3 месяца назад +3

    This runs deep, I was physically, emotionally and mentally abused long time ago. I won’t ever be in a relationship again! Thanks for sharing- you help many & healing takes time- take care- God bless

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  3 месяца назад

      You're so welcome. I'm sure this is the leading reason why I struggle with dating...same to you!!💜

  • @andymcgavern5131
    @andymcgavern5131 Год назад +11

    Tikema, I'm also a survivor of domestic violence, and understand the wreckage it creates in one's life and how a single being can slowly steal your soul. Some people are purely evil. You not only survived but are thriving in your carer and creating such valuable content for people like me, also hoping to switch careers after escaping domestic violence and recovering. Your content makes me feel like I've known you for years and always brightens my day. You're an inspiration to me and many others. You'll continue to be my go-to for HR on RUclips and beyond :) perhaps I can schedule a coaching session with you someday soon.
    Warmly,
    Andy

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      I’m soooo happy to hear that & thank you thank you thank you!!!!💜💜💜 I hope to meet you on a call soon.

    • @melissalooman3053
      @melissalooman3053 4 месяца назад

      Never tolerate abuse. Leave

  • @rjasiameyers9027
    @rjasiameyers9027 Год назад +15

    WoW you brought back memories as I too survived a DV and am grateful that the gunshot missed me and I was able to also escape. I probably should not have watched this while working from home or working at all because it brought up memories of me fighting for my life. THANK YOU FOR SHARING SISTER! AND IM GLAD YOU WERE ABLE TO SURVIVE TO SHARE YOUR HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE 😭

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +2

      Oh my sis. I’ve had so many survivors reach out to me telling me that they had to stop watching it after starting it. I think it’s expected to wake up emotions that we thought were dead. I’m so happy that you survived! Crazy how those animals use guns on us as if our lives doesn’t matter. Thank you for commenting. I pray for your continued healing 🙌🏾🙌🏾💜

  • @lisagonzales8163
    @lisagonzales8163 5 месяцев назад +3

    The reason you knew you could go home to your family is because they've always been supportive, you are truly blessed. Thank you for sharing your story. 🥰🥰

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!!🙌🏾

  • @lisawynne-magnuson9469
    @lisawynne-magnuson9469 Год назад +3

    I’m currently sitting in my car with my face soaked from tears after listening to your emotionally moving and powerful testimony.
    Indeed my Sis, you have been tested and what a Testimony you have!!!
    I am so proud of you and I pray to God for your continued growth and protection.
    Sisterly Love and Hugs 🤗💕

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much! I was so young & naive that I had no idea the battle I was facing or the weight I was carrying 🙌🏾💜

  • @Justhuggins
    @Justhuggins 2 года назад +25

    You are quite a jewel Timeka! We thank God that you were able to get away and we pray that your story will help others get the courage and strength to get out! I’m so very proud of you…You did it sis!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      *HUGE exhale 💜💜💜🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @yolandadotson2424
    @yolandadotson2424 2 года назад +16

    You are a survivor. God is your protector. Much love 😊to you Timeka! 🙏🏾

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Amen. Thank you soooo much! 💜

  • @tangelachapman7868
    @tangelachapman7868 5 месяцев назад +4

    I'm Proud Of You Queen Keep Going And Don't Ever Look Back.🙌🙏❤️💐

  • @joparker3648
    @joparker3648 3 месяца назад +2

    😢 I’m praying for you my sister! May God continue to bless your life and surround you with love and serenity!!!!

  • @kearrabrantley1175
    @kearrabrantley1175 Год назад +11

    I believe anybody can get out of a abusive relationship if they want it. ❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +7

      Some times, we don’t realize it think or that we want it. Wanting is so easy. Knowing is the tricky part. 💜

    • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
      @Denzelswife-rb7qz 4 месяца назад +2

      most don't want to thinking they will change

    • @demetricemerriweather9925
      @demetricemerriweather9925 3 месяца назад +2

      If you have.never been there you can't judge please

    • @CD4283
      @CD4283 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@demetricemerriweather9925 exactly...the fear is what keeps you going back because you know that if you leave, that person is gonna kill you

  • @Gigigooz
    @Gigigooz Год назад +6

    WOW Timeka!!!! We appreciate you for your transparency and bringing light to DV because so many that you would never know or even believe are experiencing DV. We thank you!!! 💜💜💜

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      You are so welcome. It wasn't an easy task but over time it's been very therapeutic. 💜

  • @Luver4lyfe
    @Luver4lyfe Год назад +7

    You survived, sister. Thank you for sharing your story. I am so happy that you and your daughter are here with us. Sending you much love warmth, and peace. God bless

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      🙌🏾 Thank you !!💜💜

  • @lilprmami1015
    @lilprmami1015 6 месяцев назад +3

    I haven’t even watched the whole video but seeing your eyes your face, I know that face, I know those eyes. They’re my eyes, and my expressions too. It happened again today. I’m praying for you. Idk you but I love you so much

    • @debralucas9519
      @debralucas9519 6 месяцев назад +3

      Please consider leaving. They *will* do it again. Don't tell him or anyone he talks to. Make a plan and zoom out of there to the rest of your life ❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      Get it out Sis. Send me an email at timeka@heyyyhr.com. I want to help.

  • @myang651943
    @myang651943 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. Your story is helping women out there. Bless you dear. ❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  10 месяцев назад +1

      You are sooo welcome and thank you! 💜

  • @mfy5528
    @mfy5528 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for your story. I left a few days ago. Thank you in tears

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      You're so welcome! You've got this! I promise you that it ONLY GETS BETTER from here!!!

  • @karenbradley598
    @karenbradley598 Год назад +2

    I am so sorry for everything that you’ve been through. Please don’t cry it’s gonna be OK. Everybody on this page here is here for you.

  • @Deon82
    @Deon82 2 года назад +5

    Wow. I had no idea you were going through this! Even while we were in school together! I'm really sorry you were put through that.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +4

      Thank you so much Deon! You know school was hard enough. I didn’t need anymore struggles but hey, I made it out 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @deevar6261
    @deevar6261 2 года назад +2

    I hear you and my memories go back 24 years ago 😢😭 I went through the same exact experience, and for more that I want to leave that in the past in very impossible not to think about it. I'm glad and very thankful with God that I was able to get away from that animal because today I wouldn't be to hear your story, neither telling you this.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Wow! I’m so happy we made it through 🙌🏾💜

  • @contress37
    @contress37 2 года назад +4

    Sis! I am in tears!!! Wow! I am so sorry that happen to you! I am so glad you are here to talk about your trauma and this will help someone. Wow

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      Thank you sooo much Sis! I pray the same thing. I’m just happy that’s behind me! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @TheChristianWitch
    @TheChristianWitch 2 года назад +4

    Girl you got me over here a mess in tears! Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being human. I am so grateful that you made it out of that situation safely with your daughter and look where you are now! Im an HR Professional as well. I just got hip to your channel and i just wanted to let you know that you're amazing ! Bless you and your baby girl and bless mama too! ❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      OMG! This video could easily pull some tears. Thank you soooo much my fellow HR professional! 💜

  • @annacatherine344
    @annacatherine344 Месяц назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. It's helped give me strength to leave my own abuser and stay gone. So grateful for the brave women sharing their stories.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      Are you serious?!? YOU were the reason I made these videos! Omgggg! I’m fighting back tears! 🥹 You deserve so much better & I know God is going to lay out more blessings than you can receive. He did it for me. I know He’ll do it for you. 🙌🏾💜🫶🏾💜

  • @simplyash4165
    @simplyash4165 2 года назад +5

    @timeka I shed tears like a baby when I watched this video. I thank god that you were able to escape! I was a victim of domestic violence, although it’s been years ago it’s still hard for me to talk about. With you sharing your story I no longer feel alone, thank you for trusting us (RUclipsrs) with your heart. I truly appreciate you. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      Awww! I know the feeling! You’re sooo welcome! 💜💜💜💜

  • @Christinababy-q4o
    @Christinababy-q4o Год назад +1

    I'm so deeply sorry you went through that my heart hurts for you and your baby but thank God you are out now and alive that's a blessing 🙏🙏🙏🙏I'm proud of you you got away it takes alotttt of strength to get out and you did you are sooooooooooo strong

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  10 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you sooo much!💜💜

  • @justice8563
    @justice8563 2 месяца назад

    I hear ya, and relate. It’s devastating when family members joined the abuse against me. I know I will never heal but I’m forced to go on for my Lord and Savior.

  • @blove2719
    @blove2719 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wow, I am so sorry this happened to you! I too escaped an abusive relationship, it's not easy. I so admire your strength to tell your story! I am sure it will help many. I pray your next relationship is with someone deserving of you, who will protect you and keep you safe, and who is equally yoked! 🙏🏼

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  8 месяцев назад

      💜🙌🏾💜

  • @msfredijr
    @msfredijr 4 месяца назад +1

    I’m from Chuck Town too. I heard your dialect right away. We are grateful to God that we escaped with our lives from those demons.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  3 месяца назад

      Hey My Geechie Sister! Ain't nothing but the Lord. frfr🙌🏾

  • @bparraz2011
    @bparraz2011 2 года назад +1

    God has truly traded your ashes for beauty. You are blessing women everywhere. You are giving me the courage to be bold and share my story. I love you as a newly found sister. God has great plans for you. 🙏🏽💜💜💜🙏🏽

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      💜💜💜 You must share! I think it will definitely help others.

  • @LadyBoBannon
    @LadyBoBannon Год назад +3

    You're here for a reason ❤️❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +1

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @tbirdboy
    @tbirdboy 2 года назад +4

    I for one am glad you made it through. I appreciate everything you do here on YT.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! 💜💜💜

  • @haliebradley6753
    @haliebradley6753 5 месяцев назад +2

    It is so scary when your dealing with someone others consider high profile they can put money on you and no one will even know the lengths these people go to

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      Good thing my daughter's dad was broke with no influence.😏

  • @LindasueLuker
    @LindasueLuker 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty and for sharing. I know you opened someone's eyes. You are a beautiful human and I thank God your still here to share your story.

  • @kieuluu5147
    @kieuluu5147 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing. I’m in a similar situation right now. But with no kids. Thank God you had your mother. I’m still trying to find the conviction to leave. This man has fractured my skull, sternum, arm, teeth all on separate occasions along with more needless to say. I never went to the hospital in fear of getting him in trouble. 2 years later I still have pain and suffer the effects of the bones in my skull being bust open. But the emotional pain and heartbreak feels hurts more. I question myself daily why I am still here. Or if I even want to get out. I always feel so hopeless like there’s no future for me.
    I hope you are doing better now ❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 месяца назад

      GET OUT!!! At the end of this video is a support number, please call it! If you’re in the Charleston, SC area then please call “My Sister’s House”.. that’s an amazing non profit that helped me. I’m praying for you!! 💜💜💜

  • @rhw4762
    @rhw4762 5 месяцев назад

    I'm Safely Away From Abuser It's been journey of healing forgiveness Loving myself and learning Thank God You Left When You Did 🙏🏾 Hearing Your Story Let's Me Know I Made The Right Decision 😊

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      You definitely made the RIGHT decision! Abusers do not deserve to have us in their lives. They have work to do and until they do it, they will continue to hurt others. I pray that things continue to go well for you and congrats on your new, safe journey!💜🙌🏾

  • @rhondabeard1363
    @rhondabeard1363 5 месяцев назад +1

    So happy you got you and your baby out ❤

  • @connerfrielinghausen9081
    @connerfrielinghausen9081 2 года назад +2

    You are an amazing woman! I cannot imagine what you went through! I am so sorry this happened! We as subscribers love you more than you know!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Awwww! Thank you Boo! 💜

  • @2intriguing1
    @2intriguing1 5 месяцев назад

    Sister, I hope you can feel the love and power I pass to you from afar. Im so very grateful you made it out and both you and baby feel safe. Take the time that you need. There isn't a such thing as timeliness on healing ❤ Asè may you journey provide the satiety you require. I love you and you matter❤

  • @KeiBeSlayin
    @KeiBeSlayin Месяц назад

    This is so relatable!!!!!! I mean every scenario I can relate to! You’ve motivated me to speak on my situation ❤❤❤ SO GLAD YOU GOT OUT!

  • @chuckorourke5298
    @chuckorourke5298 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you young lady and may God watch over you and your daughter.

  • @ES-rh4yt
    @ES-rh4yt 2 года назад +1

    I am so happy that you made it out of that situation. God is so good. 🙌🏾 🙏🏾. 💜🤗💜

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Thank you so much Erin! 💜

  • @valeriepenn5362
    @valeriepenn5362 8 месяцев назад

    Keep praying love until tears of sadness become tears of joy....Never forget how.God brought you out with a strong arm. ❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  8 месяцев назад

      💜🙌🏾💜

  • @marthacastro-valenzuela9414
    @marthacastro-valenzuela9414 2 года назад +1

    Timeka, thank you for your courage and sharing your story. As difficult as it was to share, I pray that your story will help someone.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      If I just help one person, I'm satisfied. 💜

  • @blessed1844
    @blessed1844 2 года назад +1

    You have a purpose! Thanks for your future self!!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      🙌🏾🙌🏾💜

  • @Jaileneejj0121
    @Jaileneejj0121 10 месяцев назад +1

    So proud of you that your out ❤

  • @Octaviatherealtor
    @Octaviatherealtor Месяц назад +1

    I experienced DV from the age of 15-18 years old. One day I hope I can tell my story and save lives. 💜

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад +2

      I’m so sorry you experienced this. Sharing has been healing me even more than I thought it would 💜💜

    • @Octaviatherealtor
      @Octaviatherealtor Месяц назад

      @@HeyyyHR 💜☺️

  • @nasirasheartofgold
    @nasirasheartofgold 4 месяца назад

    I praise the Lord you were able to get out! In my case my abuser had help which made it more difficult and when you are separated from resources and family sometimes you feel helpless. Stay encouraged as we continue to fight against this type of crimes against women!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      💜💜💜

  • @TheBraidFairy
    @TheBraidFairy 2 года назад +2

    This was so powerful! I see you regaining your strength and confidence!!!’ Thank you for sharing!!! I know it takes a lot to let people into the dark sides of you!!!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Heeyyyy to my favorite hair braider! You didn't mention my hair so I must be taking care of it pretty good lol! You're sooo welcome! Gosh this one tested me with recording and editing. Almost feels like it re-opened a healed wound.

  • @toccarrapasley5069
    @toccarrapasley5069 2 года назад

    Thank you boo for your vulnerability. And praise God for your strength. I love you forever and know I have and will always have your back.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Awwww! Thank you my friend for being such a support during that time in my life and continuing to be my friend ever since! I pray the Lord showers you in blessings for all the times you opened your home to my baby and me without asking for details or second-guessing your decision. I love you Tocarra and that's for forever! 💜

  • @shirleynelson3628
    @shirleynelson3628 Месяц назад

    Thank god You are still alive to speak about your life,❤❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @cyndidaniel7822
    @cyndidaniel7822 5 месяцев назад

    GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD LOVES YOU!!! don't ever lose site of that!!! When in DOUBT LOOK UP!❤❤

  • @cieraleal8030
    @cieraleal8030 Месяц назад

    it's like grief and it gets heavy talking about it.I have been through this still in an abusive marriage.stay strong.and it is extremely hard.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      @@cieraleal8030 that’s a good description bc lawwwd it’s brought some emotions out since I started sharing my story smh

  • @lifewithporshaa
    @lifewithporshaa Год назад

    Watching this on Thanksgiving Day 2023. I’m so happy you made it ok safely ❤ To God Be The Glory 🙌🏾

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      Thank you so much! 🙌🏾 Happy Thanksgiving! 🦃🍁🍽

  • @malviawalker585
    @malviawalker585 8 месяцев назад

    You made me cry, thank God you are here!!!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  8 месяцев назад

      💜🙌🏾

  • @BrwnWndr
    @BrwnWndr 2 года назад +1

    💜💜💜 Woooow!! 😢 Thank you so much for sharing. Your part 2 video came up on my new feed first. You have such a powerful testimony. Sending you luv & light!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      You’re so welcome. So happy that test turned into a testimony & that I’m alive to tell it 🙌🏾💜

  • @vimalraiharnanan9054
    @vimalraiharnanan9054 2 года назад

    OMG. Thank you for letting us in. I am in TEARS. We are here for you gurl. You are really a strong woman and I admire your courage. You and your daughter really are angels 😇. I gained so much more respect for you. Loved that you shared your story. Others in need will definitely relate and gain courage like you did on your situation. ❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜❤️💜💜❤️❤️❤️❤️💜💜

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      You're sooo sweet Vimal!! Thank you infinitely! 💜💜💜

  • @erica19201
    @erica19201 2 года назад

    Thank you for getting through it all. Your truth will help others. To God be the Glory that you are still with us.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      🙌🏾🙌🏾💜💜

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 2 года назад +1

    Praise Jesus Christ that you and your daughter are still alive and doing well! It was so courageous of you to share this testimony ❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      Gosh I didn't think it would've been so hard! Crazy how so many raw feelings are still there. Thank you so much!💜

  • @tyrellefrazier16
    @tyrellefrazier16 10 месяцев назад

    WOW❤️ I was born in Charleston and lived there for a while. I’m truly inspired by your story🙏🏽 all abusers will get their karma someday🙌🏽

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  10 месяцев назад

      🙌🏾💜💜

  • @Daisy-wc3us
    @Daisy-wc3us 2 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. You are a Queen. Wishing you only the best 💖

  • @SmoocherBean
    @SmoocherBean Месяц назад

    I’m glad you survived. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      Nothing but God! Thank you so much and you're welcome!💜

  • @everydaylifewithtaboo6698
    @everydaylifewithtaboo6698 2 года назад +2

    😭 my heart was breaking for you watching this video.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Love me some Tab! Thank you so much! 💜

  • @ambarvizcarra9656
    @ambarvizcarra9656 2 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this ❤If it wasn’t for others like you sharing these stories I wouldn’t have been able to help a close person to me out of a similar situation

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      OMG! That was the whole reason I pushed forward and posted this video. These feelings caught me off guard and had me debating about not posting it. I said to myself that if these videos helped ONE person, then it was worth it. I appreciate your comment. Thank you so much! #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth

  • @nadianorris6994
    @nadianorris6994 2 года назад +1

    ❤❤❤You survived!! I love you Tineka!!❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      I made it out and I can't be happier! Love you too! 💜

  • @pilarjohnson3326
    @pilarjohnson3326 Год назад

    I just want to say thank you for your courage! Your video is so sincere and heartfelt. This will be helping many people for years to come. Big, warm hugs from California!❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      Thank you so much. Had no idea so many emotions were still there. It was a bit therapeutic to share. I appreciate your comment. Thank you so much! #DomesticViolenceAwarenessMonth

  • @rubabduttsharma
    @rubabduttsharma 2 года назад +1

    You are very brave Timeka, more power to you and your daughter ❤️❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!💜

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Hey Rubab! Is this my product queen co-worker???

    • @rubabduttsharma
      @rubabduttsharma 2 года назад

      Haha yes I am 😀😀

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад +1

      @@rubabduttsharma omg! I had no clue!! lol!! Awwww! Thank you soooo much for watching!

  • @DrJamiWilliams
    @DrJamiWilliams 2 года назад +1

    God bless you. You are so strong. I know you helped many with your story.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      I pray I did Jamie! 💜💜💜

  • @marieesler3004
    @marieesler3004 Месяц назад

    God bless you and thank you. I hope you will be healed. You deserve to be happy and safe.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Месяц назад

      I appreciate that...thank you!💜

  • @roreo1612
    @roreo1612 Год назад +2

    i matched with a guy online and he told me he did 2 years in prison for "'false allegation"" when I did a background check it revealed he assaulted his ex girlfriend and strangled her in his family house. victims of strangulation are 700% more likely to DIE by the hands of their abusers. i sent him a goodbye text and blocked him. i am not giving him the benefit of the doubt. if a judge sentenced him then her did do it.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +1

      Wow! The power of background checks is wild! So happy you were smart ahead of time. 🙌🏾

  • @stylznailsandmore2025
    @stylznailsandmore2025 8 месяцев назад

    Blessings to you current survivor ❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  8 месяцев назад

      🙌🏾💜💜💜💜

  • @anilaj9868
    @anilaj9868 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      You are so welcome. It wasn't easy to share.

    • @anilaj9868
      @anilaj9868 Год назад

      @Heyyy HR! by Timeka Green I can only imagine, it's inspiring your story helps others know they are not alone. And it's ok to share their stories

  • @sylviafritz6726
    @sylviafritz6726 2 года назад +1

    God bless you! Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sure through you story you have helped someone❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      You’re welcome… I pray I did 🙌🏾💜

  • @theaudacityofhumans723
    @theaudacityofhumans723 2 года назад

    This is so powerful I’m sohappy for you. I’m so glad God gave you the strength to leave and even more of the strength to heal ❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      💜💜💜

  • @tch5528
    @tch5528 5 месяцев назад

    I am so sorry that you suffered like like that. Keep your head up and stay beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you, I will💜

  • @know1yewnoh
    @know1yewnoh 2 года назад +2

    💜💜💜💜 You are truly a survivor

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      💜💜💜 Yasss Trish! God is sooo good!

  • @momoonthegogo649
    @momoonthegogo649 7 месяцев назад

    Thank u 🙏 Jesus u made it out & GOD gave u another chance ❤ to serve him & telling ur testimony I’m a victim of dv as well stand stay strong sis & always continue to pray before you lay GOD bless u!

  • @kendraford87
    @kendraford87 2 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️ Hugs ❤️❤️ I’m glad that you survived ❤️🙏🏾

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Thank you so much! Life is a blessing.

  • @coachlisamoss7269
    @coachlisamoss7269 2 года назад +1

    Sending ❤Timeka and continuous healing your way…so sorry you experienced this🙏🏽Thank you for sharing your story. 🌹

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  2 года назад

      Thank you soooo much! Crazy that nearly 20years later and I'm still healing. 💜

    • @coachlisamoss7269
      @coachlisamoss7269 2 года назад

      @@HeyyyHR Healing takes time…your vulnerability is a gift to touch the lives of others who are going through DV and afraid to tell or who don’t know how to get out. God is using you greatly!😇🙏🏽🥰🙌🏽💜

  • @closingthedivide1187
    @closingthedivide1187 Год назад

    Bless you for sharing your story. I'm so glad you survived! 😭🙌🏽🤗

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      🙌🏾💜💜

  • @Tricyyyland
    @Tricyyyland 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  9 месяцев назад

      You’re so welcome! 💜🙌🏾💜

  • @thechatterbot
    @thechatterbot 10 месяцев назад

    I'm glad you still here 😊

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  10 месяцев назад +1

      💜🙌🏾🫶🏾

  • @KASHANTERHIANNA
    @KASHANTERHIANNA 5 месяцев назад

    Omg🫶🏾your strength is admirable!

  • @debwood4298
    @debwood4298 5 месяцев назад

    Prayers to you - lifting you up to the Lord

  • @TheMariapinto
    @TheMariapinto Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing… I pray God uses this for others that need help … God bless you 🙌🏼

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  10 месяцев назад

      You are sooo welcome! 💜

  • @andreaclarke161
    @andreaclarke161 5 месяцев назад

    Itching like a mothers love…glad you got way from that monster

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      💜🙌🏾

  • @donnaevans7361
    @donnaevans7361 5 месяцев назад

    I'm a victim as well of domestic abuse out 7 months..he was a narcissist and the last time Nov 5th I fled no shoes on and started my life completely over at 61.. everything I have is bc God restored me.I lost everything I had known ppl included..He fronts himself as the victim of abusing me which is sad to me that a victimizer can act as victim or hero.I do know God has me and will vindicate and restore me.I applaud all who leave them behind,your future is bright and you have purpose..

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад +1

      You have purpose too! I'm so happy you got away! Honestly, most of them do position themselves in that way and it's rare that it changes. Over 10 years later and mine said that I destroyed our "family" and that the house I bought for our daughter and I supposed to be for all of us.....THIS IS OVER 10 YEARS LATER! Move on bc the Lord has so much more for you. Sending nothing but good vibes your way. I promise life gets so much better.

    • @donnaevans7361
      @donnaevans7361 5 месяцев назад

      @@HeyyyHR thank you and it has gotten much better,my success story is I'm 2000 miles away and at Peace learning to love myself again

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  5 месяцев назад

      @@donnaevans7361 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Isaaccodenameshaq
    @Isaaccodenameshaq Год назад

    Your story is proof there is a god your a beautiful soul keep evolving and better yourself everyday❤️❤️

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @maxinegalloway3459
    @maxinegalloway3459 Год назад +3

    How are you doing now sweetheart? how is life now- your very brave.

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад +2

      God is good bc I’m amazing!!! Here’s how my 30s treated me ruclips.net/video/-tNa0rcuHfs/видео.htmlsi=teeC41-T2GyyNX5b

  • @enpointe2551
    @enpointe2551 Год назад

    I lived in Charleston too and experienced something very close to this. I ended up in Myrtle Beach, but he has family there. Bad situation…..
    Im almost at a loss for words. Counseling cud possibly help with some of the feelings. PTSD does not go away, it can only be managed. This hurt me because you were/are hurting. I cried because you were/are in pain.
    My best friend lives in the Goose Creek area. When I get down there to visit, perhaps we cud meet up. I will write to your PO Box just to let you know I am real, and will leave my phone number in it. We cud tak on the phone, then meet.
    I think……YOU ARE AMAZING! YOU ARE STRONG! YOU ARE RESILIENT! YOU ARE A FIGHTER! YOU DO NOT GIVE UP! Again: YOU ARE AMAZING. 💜 YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
    God Bless You,
    Me🎀

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  Год назад

      Thank you soooo much! I don’t check my box as often as I should but I will definitely keep an eye out for you. 💜💜

  • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
    @Denzelswife-rb7qz 4 месяца назад +1

    I was strangled with a phone cord and we fought in the 90s... I left him that night and didn't look back that was the first and last time a man put his hands on me I was 19....most women thinking he will change will stay for years or go back to their abuser WHY?/ they don't change !!!

    • @HeyyyHR
      @HeyyyHR  3 месяца назад +1

      I didn't see any change in mine and I wasn't waiting around to see. Two years was enough time for me to realize that I just needed to leave.

  • @MomTube-i9w
    @MomTube-i9w 5 месяцев назад

    Oceans of blessings ❤️❤️❤️