Glad I wasn't the only one crying. That poor brother... I can't imagine being so harsh to someone.. and his love never died 😭I'm glad OP turned for the better and realize how big of a jerk he was and apologized
Yes, I hope op figures this part out because he is feeling horrible about what he did. There also can be weird dynamics with the parents, in my family the youngest was always wonderful until a younger child came along and then the older sibling was instant trash
@@therealmouseymousethis isn't so much Pareintification. As they turned op into their oldest son's caregiver. This story sounds like op has normal childhood resentment be added to by caregiver burnout.
Dude was children do terrible things usually because of jealousy. Also he should have never had to care for his brother while still being a child himself
Story 1 op was an asshole but I think the parents where too. They seemed to have dropped the caregiving of their oldest son onto their youngest. That will definitely breed resentment.
The first story, the person is a child made to be an adult. The older brother understood that. The real responsible adults, well, not really adults. I see this all the time. I hope he grows to see what an amazing human he is. I am broken-hearted about what he has gone through.
First story, WOW. Lots of emotions. I don’t know him but I’m so proud of him. Mom and dad should be ashamed of themselves for putting him in such a stressful situation. There’s nothing wrong with giving your children a few extra responsibilities, but he’s basically a stand in parent. His brain isn’t even fully developed. Now not every child and teenager would act this same way given this huge responsibility of caring for their older brother but every human handles stress differently. I could understand his resentment, and although it’s not okay to take it out on his brother, one certainly cannot blame anyone but the parents for putting this strain on their children’s relationship. The older brother, what an absolute angel. His understanding and love for his brother, just makes me seriously love this person I don’t know. I am so glad op realized his anger and resentment is being misplaced. Therapy would be ideal for him, and I only hope he continues to grow and nurture his relationship with his wonder brother. I wish them both nothing but happiness and love. God bless them both ❤
The only responsibilty your child should technically have is to live their life as a child. if they babysit once in a while then awesome. My daughter when at her moms house is straight up turned into a parent and i cant stand it. She has to change the babies diapers, has to feed and cook them their food, has to clean up their rooms and so on. like you said when its a stand in parent roll then its just too much
This is exactly what I was thinking. He had the immaturity of a child and couldn't process the emotions he was experiencing and acted out like a child. I think at 17 it's admirable he realised at so young of age what he was doing. He counselled himself 😊
The story of the girl with cancer. Just because someone has cancer doesnt mean you automatically have to be nice to them. Sounds like she deserved the cancer. I would have no issues telling someone on their deathbed that they were the worst person ever and they deserved it.
Totally agree. An AH with cancer is still an AH. And if anyone wants to argue that "you should be nice because you don't know how bad it is". Yeah, I actually do and I hate that argument!
I don’t agree with beating someone while they’re down. It’s one thing to be a jerk to someone when they’re being a jerk to you, but another thing entirely when they’re at the lowest point in their life. It just makes you look bad.
this made me cry as someone who had 3 brothers with a disability. when I was younger I used to resent them and hated them because my parents would spend all their attention on them but as I got older i realised that my brothers needed it because they need a of help with basic daily things. they had duchenne muscular dystrophy which made it difficult for them to use their muscules
Beyond medical needs the child needed for basic living did the parents make you take care of them? did they completely ignore you at times? that kid definitely had a reason to have resentment and it most definitely was going to be put on the brother. in that particular story the parents stole their other childs childhood away from them and thats where it gets messed up
I'm sorry. Not to be a dick, but why did your parents keep having kids knowing they'd be disabled? See, I met a girl like this. She kept having babies that died as infants. She knew they'd die as infants. To me, that seemed cruel and selfish. I kinda feel the same way about your parents.
The parents who stole OP's money to buy a gaming console for the younger sibling, I'd take the gaming console and return it to wherever they got it from. Then take all the money OP has and put it in a new bank account only OP has the password for. When the parents carry on let them know that this was the only option OP could think of when the alternative under UK law was for OP to call the cops and have both parents arrested for theft. You aren't entitled to steal your teenage child's money in the UK. Banks in the UK can also refuse to give any money to the parent if they try to withdraw the money from an underage child's bank account.
i agree.... return and get a new account or at least a new password.. Reg the law.. this was not in UK or in pounds.. it was Lira.. so a totally diff. country. But we also have the same laws as UK .. i hope it is the same in OPs country.
18 months doesn’t feel to early to be in a new relationship but to be full on married definitely seems to short. Even just a year is early to get married to someone assuming your wife and daughter didn’t just die
No , he wasn't. He is a child who was put in a crappy situation by his parents and was angry with the wrong person. He got neglected and forced in a parent role.
@@clauro6153 he mentioned cleaning up his brother which he as a sibling shouldn't have to be responsible for at ALL, not even a single time. The only reason this is ok is for children who like taking care of people, and he clearly isn't one of those.
@@clauro6153Your actions aren't excused because of your circumstances. If your child was bullied by another child and killed himself over it and you found out the reason the kid was bullying your son was because he was abused at home, would you say "aw, you're not awful then, you good."
the guy that saved the money and his parents stole it for the brothers gaming pc: I would have called the police, this is absolutely NOT legal and they would have had to give it back to him
44:09 she should tell her friends to let Jeff know she is not on her deadbed so to stop trying to contact her😂😂. And he was the ahole for the way he treated her at the end, he used her and gave her hope for something else. Then he pretty much tells her he doesn't want to see her anymore unless she is dying. That is being so selfish with the other person's feelings.
Honestly she did the right thing by not telling him and she should continue to keep him away from her kid. He played with her feelings until it was convenient for him to stop and said “lol don’t contact me unless you are dead or dying.” I would not put it past this man to get up and leave when he realizes that having a kid with his ex he wants nothing to do with is very inconvenient. That will do way more damage to a kid than the kid finding out about his father later.
You are not owed another persons attention. You will never be an asshole for denying an Ex your love after the relationship is over. You will ALWAYS be an a-hole for denying a father access to their child when you have no legitimate concerns of abuse.
With step sister story: OP is valid to not see StepSis as a sibling and she doesn’t have to share the money. The fact the dad is trying to force it is gross and rude. It’s not his money. She can do what she likes with her money. It’s so sad when the parents remarry and forget about their own child and focus on the step child so much they completely neglect and abandon their own biological child
First story broke me. I'm an only child, but have always kind of wondered what having siblings would be like. However, I know what it's like to realize one day that you've been awful to someone you should love! With me, it was my grandmother. I realized suddenly one day in my teen years that I had treated her like shit. And so now I try as hard as I can to give her extra love, to be interested in her interests, and to encourage her. And our relationship has never been better. We're both better for it emotionally.
He needs to know and your child will want to know as they grow older. It happened, it might be hard but she's going to be a mum, telling your ex will be the first selfless move for her child.
In the story where the woman who is pregnant to the ex, she’s more worried for herself and how she can manage fine without him. The issue with this is that she is not thinking of the baby. The child will ask questions and want to know where they come from, and who they come from. It’s incredibly unfair to do this to the child and the Father of the baby. The Op robs both of a relationship with each other and as your child ages they will find out and go looking. When the child finds out that their Father tried so hard to find out if the child was his how do you think that child will think of the Mother then?
Absolutely! I get that she is hurting but she is begging selfish. There's still time to tell the father. All children have a right both of their parents.
he had found a new love. she proberly was afraid he would try to get full costedy soon as the child is born. we cant blame her for wanting to keep her child. plus the thing with different states complicate it.
First story *was* the AH. It seems that he not only understood his sh-t behavior, but is working really hard to be a more compassionate person. That’s all one can really hope for. Kid (depending on the laws) literally needs to withdraw all his cash and bury it in the yard (or something.) She’s going to medical school which means that when she *explains that Grandmother has dementia* after a potential outburst that all of her schoolmates should understand
Wow the first story... his years of deliberate hateful actions forgiven in a manner of what, hours or day/s? Then got the relief and validation from Reddit almost instantly. I really hope he sticks with his plans and not just use his brother/post to feel better about himself. Edit: And that father/son thing. He better be careful. News about that bastard-child fund mostly likely has spread for some reason.
The resentment and the bullying is more the parents fault than anyone elses. They actively took that childs childhood away from him and forced him to do something they should have been doing. That will absolutely breed resentment/hate. I would forgive as well because it wouldnt have happened if the parents werent assholes right from the start
@@robgillan2493right!! The brother should've never been placed in a position to hafta wipe his brother's ass or wash him or any of it. The parents should've been doing it and for relief they should've reached out to caregivers, nurses, whatever but not his brother!🤦♀️ That is a breeding ground for resentment and hatred. Helping with some things are inevitable but there should've been a line. That line was crossed over and over. Those parents are dingdongs.
@@christysivleyI have to agree. I had to care for my mom. She wasn't as physically disabled but did get to a point where she needed help with bathing, brushing her hair, things like that. But I was a teen by then and chose to do that. (I even dropped out of HS to do it.) Insurance wouldn't cover help until the last 2 years of her life. But he had to start as a very young child. At an age where he was WAY too young to be doing so much of the caregiving. It sounds like he was doing more than the parents. I can see having him help out, but they put way too much on him. Honestly I wonder if his brother realized what was going on and that's why he was so easy on him. Like when op said he told "I missed you buddy" really made me think this.
@@Insertia_Nameia yea, I didn't even think about that. He probably missed him as his brother because you know their whoooole dynamic had to have changed and not been right ever since his brother became his caregiver. I can't imagine putting that on one of my children. Helping out in small ways once in a while is ok but they should've never expected his brother to bear that weight. Adults can't even do it most of the time, much less a prepubescent/pubescent teenage sibling🤦♀️. I hope they're in a much better place and are able to just be brothers❣️
Bank account story: In the US a minor can't have their own account, it has to be under a parents name. And yes, the parent can clear it out. I don't know if it is the same in the UK
I think in the situation where the paternity turned out to not be the father case that I would at least help him through some type of therapy because even though he's not obligated to do it, this is a child that is hurting and maybe it's just my motherly instinct. But I would at least want to know that the child was mentally okay because that is something that is very devastating to learn.
the first one made me cry. although the younger brother tries to mend the relationship I don't want to know what his behavior has already done to his older brother!
I think the millionaire guy that died and left it to his university did a good thing. His kids grew up well off. The father gave this money to a students that couldn't otherwise afford to go. And it sounds like OP may be the only decent one among them.
I don't think it's uncommon for fathers to move on quickly after their wife passes. My dad when my mom died was vulnerable and started seeing a woman that my mom knew. She ended up being pretty toxic and it didn't last. It all depends on the person and when they are ready though. A lot of times they rush it because they are hurting.
Eh. A lot of guys are raised to define their value on their relationship and sex. To crave external validation from these, either fron their partner or from how their guy friends view it. Many guys really have a fear of being alone and this makes them very prone to finding a replacement rather quickly, even if they aren't ready to move on. If you add that many men aren't traditionally taught very basic life skills for care for the home and family, they wind up being really lost and and scared (even if they refuse to admit it.) So they try to fill in the hole with someone else. This tends to make them desperate )often thinking at their age they're lucky to have found anyone at all so they don't want to shale the boat,) this makes them vulnerable to toxic amd manipulative women that see an easy target. So they ignore and refuse to acknowledge all the blinding read flags. This is why I really try to tell people, not just guys, that it is perfectly okay to be single and just because you're single, doesn't mean you have to be alone.
@@Insertia_Nameiayou have a lot more grace then I do. Personally I feel like many men take for granted their wife. They never learn how to do basic things for themselves. Often the wife is barely in the ground before husband is looking for a woman to take care of him. These Men are kinda pathetic in my book. Yes they were never taught when they were young but they can't be bothered to learn how to feed themselves as an adult it's just pitiful to me.
Story 3 Im getting the feeling that Op's parents knew about the genetic disease alot sooner. And maybe they purposely had op to be a dooner child for their older child. It was and is a thing for parents to make a child to be a ready made doner for their sick child.
Oh 100% they knew she had some genetic disease and had OP for that reason. Especially when they didn’t even lie and tell OP to test to make sure he doesn’t test positive.
@@Karamarikait was actually a lot more common years ago because kids had less rights. They didn’t really have a choice so parents would have a second “spare” they’re called and they’d use that child for parts and to dump responsibility on for their whole life.
@PhancyPants12 you're gonna need to cite some sources on this. I have only heard of it being done like once, and I think they made a movie about it. So where and when was this common place? You would need a child with a condition that required "spare parts" to begin with, so it can't be that people were having a child "just in case" the first one needed something. And it would have to be a time period where medicine was advanced enough to even allow for "spare parts," which would have to put this in modern times. So, no, this was never a common practice.
@@Karamarika I said it was MORE COMMON PRACTISE, not that it happened all the time. So learn to read, okay? Secondly, I don’t have to cite anything. Do some research and stop being so lazy. I guess I should have said that it actually did use to happen. If you’ve ever been in and out children’s hospitals your whole childhood you see and overhear some crazy things.
The parents using OP’s money for a gaming setup for his brother is disgusting. It’s not the parents money, it’s his. If the brother wanted the thing so bad, he could’ve worked for it. The money was saved up for something that is way more important than a gaming set up. OP didn’t deserve that. He should say it was stolen and report the purchase. His parent stole his money, they should be treated accordingly to their actions.
Once you're 16 in UK you can remove any access your parents have to your bank accounts. OP should definitely change their pin number and passwords and have the bank note on their account to not allow access to anyone else.
The OP in the first story is having a serious moment of clarity and he’s feeling real shame, guilt and regret. I had a moment like this too with my mom and my sister but I was 22 years old and I wasn’t doing outwardly mean shit like OP was. I was just kinda cold, easily annoyed, closed off and distant. Honest Self reflection is so crucial and if you have a good heart, you’ll recognize your hurtful behavior, apologize for it and move forward on a more kind and loving way.
Bruh if I was the kid that's parents took half their money to buy the younger brother a super pc I would immediately call the police and return the PC.
First OP had reasons for being resentful. dealing with all that at 11 years old is difficult and it seems like their parents dropped the ball here. So glad they were able to fix things. OP needs to forgive himself now.
"Some of you may not think 1400 pounds is a lot of money in the real world" Are you kidding?! That's two months of my income! That's four months of rent for me! I would be HOPPING MAD if anyone stole that much money from me!
First sorry was totally fu*ked. I’m glad he straightened up and realized what he was doin that was wrong. His parents should have never ever put dude in that caregiver situation. But DUDE!!!! Just be kind and love!! This is the reason why. Shit has me cryin rn. All up in my feelz Don’t give up the college fund to stepsister!!! The woman linked up with dad and now her daughter gets more love from dad now?? It sucks that money can tear apart a family. He should have let his daughter heal before pullin in another woman and kid. Poor girl. Dads a loser fr. She ain’t the bootyhole at all. Kids parents stole his money!!!???? That kid worked hard to help his parents out!!! I don’t blame that kid for not forgiving his parents. Kid call your grandparents and move tf out. My grandpa did the same thing to me. He not my grandpa by blood and after my mamaw and my aunt passed I let him know exactly how I feel about him.
NTA so not that brat to feeling grief. 18mths is no time at all for such significant death. Its still early days. He must have been dating her within a year of deaths 😢
I do not understand how there are so many geniuses out there with no basic idea of genetics accusing their partners of infidelity 😂😂😂 Also hell yeah there are doctors listening to you guys! ❤❤ Y’all are hilarious and I am here for all the dark jokes
For the story where the father married another woman 18 months after losing his wife and daughter, that sounds more like to me. This stepmother was the other woman in the picture and when his wife died he got with her and married her because there is no way that you meet someone within really less than a year and your wife died 18 months ago???????🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 If anyone does the math on that. Unless he just met this girl and married her within less of 6 months of knowing her he had to be sleeping with her stepmother before he got married to her or was at least dating her and had her in the wings! I don't even sound like he took any time to grieve the loss of his wife and his child. That's disgusting!
27:26 I think she said I'm tired because she couldn't think other way to say let's go. She sounds like she wants you to make the moves, she doesn't want to chase. She doesn't sound like the type for one night things. And it's not in her nature to be forward.
Honestly the university one where the grandpa donated his estate I think it was good of the grandpa, because the siblings sound entitled If my kids were entitled like that suck it, this gives the other people who needed scholarships the opportunity to study
As someone that works with kids, no she isn't the asshole. She was trying to make sure the boy was safe. Ridiculous that the parent doesn't recognize that. AND THAT LADY IS A PSYCHO! WHAT IN THE HELL! Sending a guy to hurt the horses, light it on fire, etc. Those poor horses my heart breaks....
Your parents made you bathe your disabled brother at 11 years old... i had a disabled brother but my dad never made me and my other brother do more then push the wheelchair so my dad could push the shopping buggy
Im gonna be honest about the second story. Ive had people close die from cancer and they were honestly good people, maybe not with all the best morals but they were the best parts of my life while they were still with me. And its honestly nice hearing someone who sounds like they have earned the pain and fear of cancer, which i only say because i bet they have instilled pain and fear into their poor adoptive sibs when they didnt choose to not have parents. So i dont op is an asshole for saying what they said, some people need a reality check. And especially now with them having cancer they at least know what position they have put themself in, if her parents want to deal with the struggles she goes through if shes getting treatment then thats their business but dont expect op to give any support. Although i will say op maybe couldve said it in a more private manner but it is what it is.
For the sister with cancer, that made her siblings a nightmare just because they were adopted karma is a bitch. Just because you have cancer does not mean you get a pass on how you treat/treated people
The one with the women got pregnant and the guy told her to literally only contact him if she was dying made me feel for her, not the guy. He told her not to contact him unless she was literally DYING. He didn't say to contact me if you are pregnant, he said to never contact him unless it was just to say goodbye I'm dying. She was pregnant but she was respecting his wishes, even though it is very messy. I believe that he has rights to know, but how to do that when he LITERALLY told her to never contact him again unless she was dying. I'm not certain I would be willing to tell the man, that I could even trust him because the way he phrased it about respecting Grace said to me he knew that she had feelings for him, then he told her to not contact him unless she was on her deathbed.
The disabled brother should tell the parents, but I doubt that they will care. The 3rd story, the dying sister let her die. Tell her to end it all. Bad people deserve bad karma.
Okay that lady should definitely tell the other guy that she’s having his baby. It’s an AH move altogether to even THINK it’s okay to keep that from him unless he’s abusive or something. Even for the child’s sake, tell the baby daddy because the child you’re going to give birth to soon might resent you in the future for not telling (the BD) when they get older. Like that’s a recipe for a future disaster that could be avoided. But I disagreed that the BD wasn’t the AH either. BOTH of them are definitely assholes and lacked communication but I feel like the BD is a slightly bigger asshole (before she knew she was pregnant). He could’ve kept his pants up and zipper closed no matter the “slight break” he had with the other girl. He should’ve left his (unknown yet) baby mama out of that just because “he still have feelings for her and wanted to fuk one last time” before getting back with the other girl. He knew he was going to be with the other girl or really wanted to be with the other one. And BOTH of them are stupid for not using proper protection before a child was able to be conceived. The whole situation could’ve been avoided on both of their parts! Side note: I think the BM was super naïve because honestly, I think she might’ve thought if she didn’t use a condom, he might stay with her but that’s just a theory on my end.
Lol didn't the baby daddy (let's call him Ross from now on) repeatedly insist not to call him for ANY reason whatsoever unless she's dying? She's just doing what he wants. And the girl is an asshole too, because of easily opening her legs to a guy who already has a relationship (ex or not, "on a break" or not. Have some self respect and integrity ffs.), not because of not telling the guy she's pregnant. I think the best outcome would be the new gf leave Ross. He's bad news.
@@iagreewithyou3478 That’s why I said put in my my statement multiple times and capitalize BOTH. But even though guy said that, that was a different situation. There is a human child life being involved and she still supposed to tell him. That type of logic to not tell is very childish and immature and honestly I’d compare it to teens who kill their own children for no reason instead of can giving the child to adoption services and agencies. And I totally agree with you, OP needs to leave Ross alone after setting boundaries. OP needs to be an adult along with Ross they come up with boundaries with each other of things they can do with that child or rather co parent. Too late to abort it and it didn’t seem like OP wanted to put it up for adoption but OP definitely needs to change and think her situation with Ross.
The first one is kind of sad. OP was a kid himself and shouldn't have been given the responsibility of taking care of his brother. Of course, that doesn't excuse his actions, but I feel the parents should be held accountable for letting that happen knowingly or not.
The story about the seventeen year old that cheated on his girlfriend: Personally to me…I have to agree for what the father did (expect for the snooping on his personal bank statements). Why? It’s not a matter of getting back at them, it’s a lesson to teach them cheating will not be tolerated as you SHOULD lose privileges for doing something so cruel to another human being, causing to mentally hurt someone and sometimes even risking there physical health since the victim of cheating usually will go down into a spiral of emotions and self worth. I’ve been a victim of someone cheating on me, so I speculate the father might’ve been a victim of cheating before too. And that’s why he did what he did.
That mom is a terrible mom. She told Her son that her college friend was his dad and allowed him to form an attachment to a person he had never met instead of just meeting somebody and then allowing that person to be a male role model to her son or she could have just being a single parent and not fostered. This idea that there's some hole in this kid's life that could be filled by a man that he's never met. I can't believe she told him stories about this person claiming that it was his dad when she wasn't even sure if it was him. That's kind of horrible to do to somebody without their consent. Don't you think you should at least call your former friend and tell them that you think they could be your kids dad before you start telling your kid? She is the a****** she is the one who created this idea that this kid's life. All of his problems would go away if he could just meet his dad. This is the mom's fault 100% and I am sad for this kid
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18:50 I would give them the option to write a contract of payment. I would give them 30 days to return the money dont care how, lock down my account and if they dont find the money in a month I would steal the computer and sell it. Yeah it sucks for the brother losing his new computer, but the funds were not there for it.
3rd OP…Make a AITI Banner for the front of your house and let your parents see the opinions of all your neighbors. If they truly feel like they’re right for stealing your money, then it won’t embarrass them. If they fight you on it, then they knew they were stealing!
The one with the mean sister with cancer, the OP is nit the asshole, they didn't give her the cancer, they just don't care - which is beyond fair and ok.
Parents owe their descendants nothing but a life that sets them up with the best chance to make their own way. No one owes me anything. I earn mine, and I’m GRATEFUL for what I have. I would rather my parents leave their assets where it will do the most good in the world.
The inheretance story the siblings are the assholes. Clearly the dad gave them everything they needed in life. I bet if any of them actually needed the money he would have seen to it in the will.
The first one actually made me cry. The disabled brother's unshakable love for his younger brother is saintly. I wish I was even half as good as that.
Glad I wasn't the only one crying. That poor brother... I can't imagine being so harsh to someone.. and his love never died 😭I'm glad OP turned for the better and realize how big of a jerk he was and apologized
Me too it broke my heart
The first story... they put responsibilities on a kid they shouldn't have. Resentment madness sense. Glad he apologized though.
Absolutely agree. Its called Parentification I think, something like that. Its a form of abuse.
Yes, I hope op figures this part out because he is feeling horrible about what he did. There also can be weird dynamics with the parents, in my family the youngest was always wonderful until a younger child came along and then the older sibling was instant trash
@@therealmouseymousethis isn't so much Pareintification. As they turned op into their oldest son's caregiver. This story sounds like op has normal childhood resentment be added to by caregiver burnout.
I was thinking the same.
Dude was children do terrible things usually because of jealousy. Also he should have never had to care for his brother while still being a child himself
Story 1 op was an asshole but I think the parents where too. They seemed to have dropped the caregiving of their oldest son onto their youngest. That will definitely breed resentment.
The first story, the person is a child made to be an adult. The older brother understood that. The real responsible adults, well, not really adults. I see this all the time. I hope he grows to see what an amazing human he is. I am broken-hearted about what he has gone through.
Second story:
NTA are you KIDDING me?! LEGEND. Only TA for driving away without his siblings.
First story, WOW. Lots of emotions. I don’t know him but I’m so proud of him. Mom and dad should be ashamed of themselves for putting him in such a stressful situation. There’s nothing wrong with giving your children a few extra responsibilities, but he’s basically a stand in parent. His brain isn’t even fully developed. Now not every child and teenager would act this same way given this huge responsibility of caring for their older brother but every human handles stress differently. I could understand his resentment, and although it’s not okay to take it out on his brother, one certainly cannot blame anyone but the parents for putting this strain on their children’s relationship. The older brother, what an absolute angel. His understanding and love for his brother, just makes me seriously love this person I don’t know. I am so glad op realized his anger and resentment is being misplaced. Therapy would be ideal for him, and I only hope he continues to grow and nurture his relationship with his wonder brother. I wish them both nothing but happiness and love. God bless them both ❤
The only responsibilty your child should technically have is to live their life as a child. if they babysit once in a while then awesome. My daughter when at her moms house is straight up turned into a parent and i cant stand it. She has to change the babies diapers, has to feed and cook them their food, has to clean up their rooms and so on. like you said when its a stand in parent roll then its just too much
This is exactly what I was thinking. He had the immaturity of a child and couldn't process the emotions he was experiencing and acted out like a child. I think at 17 it's admirable he realised at so young of age what he was doing. He counselled himself 😊
I am so incredibly proud of the young man in the first story. Strong self awareness! They will have a beautiful relationship from her to eternity.
The story of the girl with cancer. Just because someone has cancer doesnt mean you automatically have to be nice to them. Sounds like she deserved the cancer. I would have no issues telling someone on their deathbed that they were the worst person ever and they deserved it.
Totally agree. An AH with cancer is still an AH. And if anyone wants to argue that "you should be nice because you don't know how bad it is". Yeah, I actually do and I hate that argument!
Agreed
I don’t agree with beating someone while they’re down. It’s one thing to be a jerk to someone when they’re being a jerk to you, but another thing entirely when they’re at the lowest point in their life. It just makes you look bad.
I was only going to say OP was excusable if this chick was a pedophile or a cancer faker/something ironic like that.
I hate when these don’t have updates 😂 damnit I need to know what’s going on in these complete strangers lives
😂😂 same
this made me cry as someone who had 3 brothers with a disability. when I was younger I used to resent them and hated them because my parents would spend all their attention on them but as I got older i realised that my brothers needed it because they need a of help with basic daily things. they had duchenne muscular dystrophy which made it difficult for them to use their muscules
Beyond medical needs the child needed for basic living did the parents make you take care of them? did they completely ignore you at times? that kid definitely had a reason to have resentment and it most definitely was going to be put on the brother. in that particular story the parents stole their other childs childhood away from them and thats where it gets messed up
I'm sorry. Not to be a dick, but why did your parents keep having kids knowing they'd be disabled? See, I met a girl like this. She kept having babies that died as infants. She knew they'd die as infants. To me, that seemed cruel and selfish. I kinda feel the same way about your parents.
The parents who stole OP's money to buy a gaming console for the younger sibling, I'd take the gaming console and return it to wherever they got it from. Then take all the money OP has and put it in a new bank account only OP has the password for. When the parents carry on let them know that this was the only option OP could think of when the alternative under UK law was for OP to call the cops and have both parents arrested for theft. You aren't entitled to steal your teenage child's money in the UK. Banks in the UK can also refuse to give any money to the parent if they try to withdraw the money from an underage child's bank account.
i agree.... return and get a new account or at least a new password.. Reg the law.. this was not in UK or in pounds.. it was Lira.. so a totally diff. country. But we also have the same laws as UK .. i hope it is the same in OPs country.
So many parents fail all their kids and parentify their kids . And then wonder why they don't talk /hate each other .
18 months doesn’t feel to early to be in a new relationship but to be full on married definitely seems to short. Even just a year is early to get married to someone assuming your wife and daughter didn’t just die
Yeah it's more like he had to have been getting to know her and have a relationship with her earlier than that to get to marriage
This story literally has me in tears. He was awful.
I am glad I’m not the only one. My heart was breaking. Even with the happy ending…just bothered me.
@@daniellebrady314 Exactly!!! I can't even put into words how much this story bothers me on so many levels. 😒
No , he wasn't. He is a child who was put in a crappy situation by his parents and was angry with the wrong person. He got neglected and forced in a parent role.
@@clauro6153 he mentioned cleaning up his brother which he as a sibling shouldn't have to be responsible for at ALL, not even a single time.
The only reason this is ok is for children who like taking care of people, and he clearly isn't one of those.
@@clauro6153Your actions aren't excused because of your circumstances. If your child was bullied by another child and killed himself over it and you found out the reason the kid was bullying your son was because he was abused at home, would you say "aw, you're not awful then, you good."
7:09 the siblings didn’t deserve to be left 😂😂😂
Lol, true
the guy that saved the money and his parents stole it for the brothers gaming pc: I would have called the police, this is absolutely NOT legal and they would have had to give it back to him
44:09 she should tell her friends to let Jeff know she is not on her deadbed so to stop trying to contact her😂😂. And he was the ahole for the way he treated her at the end, he used her and gave her hope for something else. Then he pretty much tells her he doesn't want to see her anymore unless she is dying. That is being so selfish with the other person's feelings.
Yeah, plus I feel Jeff is a donor more than “the father”. She wants to be a single mother so I don’t think they need to have ties
Even though I agree that he was an ass, it's not about that anymore. It's about the child's right to know their origin ❤
Honestly she did the right thing by not telling him and she should continue to keep him away from her kid. He played with her feelings until it was convenient for him to stop and said “lol don’t contact me unless you are dead or dying.” I would not put it past this man to get up and leave when he realizes that having a kid with his ex he wants nothing to do with is very inconvenient. That will do way more damage to a kid than the kid finding out about his father later.
You are not owed another persons attention. You will never be an asshole for denying an Ex your love after the relationship is over.
You will ALWAYS be an a-hole for denying a father access to their child when you have no legitimate concerns of abuse.
I cried the first story. 😮
The pool side setup is chefs kiss 👌🏾
Oh first one literally broke my heart poor brother 💔 made me cry.
My brother is disabled I couldn’t imagine treating him like this he’s my best friend
I like the way you're in your videos and present the stories. So much better than voice-over videos
With step sister story: OP is valid to not see StepSis as a sibling and she doesn’t have to share the money. The fact the dad is trying to force it is gross and rude. It’s not his money. She can do what she likes with her money. It’s so sad when the parents remarry and forget about their own child and focus on the step child so much they completely neglect and abandon their own biological child
The one with the sister getting cancer and being told she deserves it the Op is only an asshole for leaving their siblings behind
First story broke me.
I'm an only child, but have always kind of wondered what having siblings would be like. However, I know what it's like to realize one day that you've been awful to someone you should love! With me, it was my grandmother. I realized suddenly one day in my teen years that I had treated her like shit. And so now I try as hard as I can to give her extra love, to be interested in her interests, and to encourage her. And our relationship has never been better. We're both better for it emotionally.
He needs to know and your child will want to know as they grow older.
It happened, it might be hard but she's going to be a mum, telling your ex will be the first selfless move for her child.
Story 1: OP can't fix what he has done. No matter how much he does now he will never get past this guilt
In the story where the woman who is pregnant to the ex, she’s more worried for herself and how she can manage fine without him. The issue with this is that she is not thinking of the baby. The child will ask questions and want to know where they come from, and who they come from. It’s incredibly unfair to do this to the child and the Father of the baby. The Op robs both of a relationship with each other and as your child ages they will find out and go looking. When the child finds out that their Father tried so hard to find out if the child was his how do you think that child will think of the Mother then?
Absolutely! I get that she is hurting but she is begging selfish. There's still time to tell the father. All children have a right both of their parents.
he had found a new love. she proberly was afraid he would try to get full costedy soon as the child is born. we cant blame her for wanting to keep her child. plus the thing with different states complicate it.
First story *was* the AH.
It seems that he not only understood his sh-t behavior, but is working really hard to be a more compassionate person.
That’s all one can really hope for.
Kid (depending on the laws) literally needs to withdraw all his cash and bury it in the yard (or something.)
She’s going to medical school which means that when she *explains that Grandmother has dementia* after a potential outburst that all of her schoolmates should understand
Wow the first story... his years of deliberate hateful actions forgiven in a manner of what, hours or day/s? Then got the relief and validation from Reddit almost instantly. I really hope he sticks with his plans and not just use his brother/post to feel better about himself.
Edit: And that father/son thing. He better be careful. News about that bastard-child fund mostly likely has spread for some reason.
The resentment and the bullying is more the parents fault than anyone elses. They actively took that childs childhood away from him and forced him to do something they should have been doing. That will absolutely breed resentment/hate. I would forgive as well because it wouldnt have happened if the parents werent assholes right from the start
@@robgillan2493right!! The brother should've never been placed in a position to hafta wipe his brother's ass or wash him or any of it. The parents should've been doing it and for relief they should've reached out to caregivers, nurses, whatever but not his brother!🤦♀️ That is a breeding ground for resentment and hatred. Helping with some things are inevitable but there should've been a line. That line was crossed over and over. Those parents are dingdongs.
@@christysivleyI have to agree. I had to care for my mom. She wasn't as physically disabled but did get to a point where she needed help with bathing, brushing her hair, things like that. But I was a teen by then and chose to do that. (I even dropped out of HS to do it.) Insurance wouldn't cover help until the last 2 years of her life. But he had to start as a very young child. At an age where he was WAY too young to be doing so much of the caregiving. It sounds like he was doing more than the parents. I can see having him help out, but they put way too much on him. Honestly I wonder if his brother realized what was going on and that's why he was so easy on him. Like when op said he told "I missed you buddy" really made me think this.
@@Insertia_Nameia yea, I didn't even think about that. He probably missed him as his brother because you know their whoooole dynamic had to have changed and not been right ever since his brother became his caregiver. I can't imagine putting that on one of my children. Helping out in small ways once in a while is ok but they should've never expected his brother to bear that weight. Adults can't even do it most of the time, much less a prepubescent/pubescent teenage sibling🤦♀️. I hope they're in a much better place and are able to just be brothers❣️
Bank account story: In the US a minor can't have their own account, it has to be under a parents name. And yes, the parent can clear it out. I don't know if it is the same in the UK
I think in the situation where the paternity turned out to not be the father case that I would at least help him through some type of therapy because even though he's not obligated to do it, this is a child that is hurting and maybe it's just my motherly instinct. But I would at least want to know that the child was mentally okay because that is something that is very devastating to learn.
the first one made me cry. although the younger brother tries to mend the relationship I don't want to know what his behavior has already done to his older brother!
I think the millionaire guy that died and left it to his university did a good thing. His kids grew up well off. The father gave this money to a students that couldn't otherwise afford to go. And it sounds like OP may be the only decent one among them.
50%+ of money given to charity ends up in salaries and benefits for staff... not necessarily a good decision
Most of that money went into the pockets of the the dean or whoever. It didn't help students or anyone younger and not privileged
I agree with Jon. Sam's date wanted to get it on but has no game.
I don't think it's uncommon for fathers to move on quickly after their wife passes. My dad when my mom died was vulnerable and started seeing a woman that my mom knew. She ended up being pretty toxic and it didn't last. It all depends on the person and when they are ready though. A lot of times they rush it because they are hurting.
And many men don’t want to be alone and want to be taken care of. They can’t do that single so they move on and find someone else
Eh. A lot of guys are raised to define their value on their relationship and sex. To crave external validation from these, either fron their partner or from how their guy friends view it. Many guys really have a fear of being alone and this makes them very prone to finding a replacement rather quickly, even if they aren't ready to move on. If you add that many men aren't traditionally taught very basic life skills for care for the home and family, they wind up being really lost and and scared (even if they refuse to admit it.) So they try to fill in the hole with someone else. This tends to make them desperate )often thinking at their age they're lucky to have found anyone at all so they don't want to shale the boat,) this makes them vulnerable to toxic amd manipulative women that see an easy target. So they ignore and refuse to acknowledge all the blinding read flags. This is why I really try to tell people, not just guys, that it is perfectly okay to be single and just because you're single, doesn't mean you have to be alone.
@@Insertia_Nameiayou have a lot more grace then I do. Personally I feel like many men take for granted their wife. They never learn how to do basic things for themselves. Often the wife is barely in the ground before husband is looking for a woman to take care of him. These Men are kinda pathetic in my book. Yes they were never taught when they were young but they can't be bothered to learn how to feed themselves as an adult it's just pitiful to me.
11:20 I dont think you heard that right he didnt start fcking after 18 months. He REMARRIED, he moved on real quick from his dead wife and child.
Story 3 Im getting the feeling that Op's parents knew about the genetic disease alot sooner. And maybe they purposely had op to be a dooner child for their older child. It was and is a thing for parents to make a child to be a ready made doner for their sick child.
Oh 100% they knew she had some genetic disease and had OP for that reason. Especially when they didn’t even lie and tell OP to test to make sure he doesn’t test positive.
I don't think it's really a "thing." It's just something that happened once or twice.
@@Karamarikait was actually a lot more common years ago because kids had less rights. They didn’t really have a choice so parents would have a second “spare” they’re called and they’d use that child for parts and to dump responsibility on for their whole life.
@PhancyPants12 you're gonna need to cite some sources on this. I have only heard of it being done like once, and I think they made a movie about it. So where and when was this common place? You would need a child with a condition that required "spare parts" to begin with, so it can't be that people were having a child "just in case" the first one needed something. And it would have to be a time period where medicine was advanced enough to even allow for "spare parts," which would have to put this in modern times. So, no, this was never a common practice.
@@Karamarika I said it was MORE COMMON PRACTISE, not that it happened all the time. So learn to read, okay? Secondly, I don’t have to cite anything. Do some research and stop being so lazy.
I guess I should have said that it actually did use to happen. If you’ve ever been in and out children’s hospitals your whole childhood you see and overhear some crazy things.
Omg. This first story is so sad. I think this story was too much to read. What in the world.
Horse Story: The reason why the kid is such an unruly brat is because of his parents' failure to raise him properly. The parents are totally evil AHs.
3:50 My 8 year old magnificent son just came in to hug me cuz he heard me sniffling a little. This story, OMG! OP's brother is a mighty hero
The parents using OP’s money for a gaming setup for his brother is disgusting. It’s not the parents money, it’s his. If the brother wanted the thing so bad, he could’ve worked for it. The money was saved up for something that is way more important than a gaming set up. OP didn’t deserve that. He should say it was stolen and report the purchase. His parent stole his money, they should be treated accordingly to their actions.
Once you're 16 in UK you can remove any access your parents have to your bank accounts. OP should definitely change their pin number and passwords and have the bank note on their account to not allow access to anyone else.
The OP in the first story is having a serious moment of clarity and he’s feeling real shame, guilt and regret. I had a moment like this too with my mom and my sister but I was 22 years old and I wasn’t doing outwardly mean shit like OP was. I was just kinda cold, easily annoyed, closed off and distant. Honest Self reflection is so crucial and if you have a good heart, you’ll recognize your hurtful behavior, apologize for it and move forward on a more kind and loving way.
Bruh if I was the kid that's parents took half their money to buy the younger brother a super pc I would immediately call the police and return the PC.
First OP had reasons for being resentful. dealing with all that at 11 years old is difficult and it seems like their parents dropped the ball here. So glad they were able to fix things. OP needs to forgive himself now.
Haha to the MIL who tried to screw over the wedding, you forget that your kids pick the nursing home you will live in in your old age!
"Some of you may not think 1400 pounds is a lot of money in the real world" Are you kidding?! That's two months of my income! That's four months of rent for me! I would be HOPPING MAD if anyone stole that much money from me!
The 1st OP. He was just being a normal kid living an exceptional situation who came out better on the other side of growing up.
Nah, the ava story op is the ah for leave there other 2 siblings behind😂
If you're awful and you get sick, you're still awful. Being sick doesn't make you off limits for your past actions.
12:56 this dad was told no by literally EVERYONE. Take the hint my dude.
My oldest brother cooked for 12 months. I was 10.5, closing in on 11 months when my mom had labour induced. I was still only 6 lbs. 8 oz.
Oh I have a crazy wedding story, all thanks to my mom lol.
Poor guy in the wheelchair and his brother. Both of you were in a terrible situation.
As a parent hell no that is my kids money as a parent its my responsibility to get the other sibling a gift
First sorry was totally fu*ked. I’m glad he straightened up and realized what he was doin that was wrong. His parents should have never ever put dude in that caregiver situation. But DUDE!!!! Just be kind and love!! This is the reason why. Shit has me cryin rn. All up in my feelz
Don’t give up the college fund to stepsister!!! The woman linked up with dad and now her daughter gets more love from dad now?? It sucks that money can tear apart a family. He should have let his daughter heal before pullin in another woman and kid. Poor girl. Dads a loser fr. She ain’t the bootyhole at all.
Kids parents stole his money!!!???? That kid worked hard to help his parents out!!! I don’t blame that kid for not forgiving his parents. Kid call your grandparents and move tf out. My grandpa did the same thing to me. He not my grandpa by blood and after my mamaw and my aunt passed I let him know exactly how I feel about him.
18:54 OP probably didn’t have a choice in sharing info. Like, either legally or the parents demand it.
NTA so not that brat to feeling grief. 18mths is no time at all for such significant death. Its still early days. He must have been dating her within a year of deaths 😢
I do not understand how there are so many geniuses out there with no basic idea of genetics accusing their partners of infidelity 😂😂😂
Also hell yeah there are doctors listening to you guys! ❤❤ Y’all are hilarious and I am here for all the dark jokes
For the story where the father married another woman 18 months after losing his wife and daughter, that sounds more like to me. This stepmother was the other woman in the picture and when his wife died he got with her and married her because there is no way that you meet someone within really less than a year and your wife died 18 months ago???????🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 If anyone does the math on that. Unless he just met this girl and married her within less of 6 months of knowing her he had to be sleeping with her stepmother before he got married to her or was at least dating her and had her in the wings! I don't even sound like he took any time to grieve the loss of his wife and his child. That's disgusting!
Omggg... I'm crying my eyeballs out.. 😭😭
Call the police! Charge them. Omg wtf. I hope redditors adviced the teenager whose parents stole from him.
27:26 I think she said I'm tired because she couldn't think other way to say let's go. She sounds like she wants you to make the moves, she doesn't want to chase. She doesn't sound like the type for one night things. And it's not in her nature to be forward.
Been rewatching videos in between the new ones coming out and am enjoying the shirtless Sam ones 😏😅🙌🖤
Whatever happens, I think hating your siblings is sad.. :( Reconciliation should always be better
Sam’s dad told him not to sleep around and my dad told me that “You wouldn’t buy a car without test driving it first…”
The Donkey Kong music! 🤣😂🤣😂
Call the bank, report the card stolen, they'll take care of it
Honestly the university one where the grandpa donated his estate
I think it was good of the grandpa, because the siblings sound entitled
If my kids were entitled like that suck it, this gives the other people who needed scholarships the opportunity to study
10:19 id press the big red button
As someone that works with kids, no she isn't the asshole. She was trying to make sure the boy was safe. Ridiculous that the parent doesn't recognize that. AND THAT LADY IS A PSYCHO! WHAT IN THE HELL! Sending a guy to hurt the horses, light it on fire, etc. Those poor horses my heart breaks....
Your parents made you bathe your disabled brother at 11 years old... i had a disabled brother but my dad never made me and my other brother do more then push the wheelchair so my dad could push the shopping buggy
Im gonna be honest about the second story. Ive had people close die from cancer and they were honestly good people, maybe not with all the best morals but they were the best parts of my life while they were still with me. And its honestly nice hearing someone who sounds like they have earned the pain and fear of cancer, which i only say because i bet they have instilled pain and fear into their poor adoptive sibs when they didnt choose to not have parents. So i dont op is an asshole for saying what they said, some people need a reality check. And especially now with them having cancer they at least know what position they have put themself in, if her parents want to deal with the struggles she goes through if shes getting treatment then thats their business but dont expect op to give any support. Although i will say op maybe couldve said it in a more private manner but it is what it is.
For the sister with cancer, that made her siblings a nightmare just because they were adopted karma is a bitch. Just because you have cancer does not mean you get a pass on how you treat/treated people
She wanted to have a casual encounter
In the first story it’s not bullying that’s abuse!
The one with the women got pregnant and the guy told her to literally only contact him if she was dying made me feel for her, not the guy. He told her not to contact him unless she was literally DYING. He didn't say to contact me if you are pregnant, he said to never contact him unless it was just to say goodbye I'm dying. She was pregnant but she was respecting his wishes, even though it is very messy. I believe that he has rights to know, but how to do that when he LITERALLY told her to never contact him again unless she was dying. I'm not certain I would be willing to tell the man, that I could even trust him because the way he phrased it about respecting Grace said to me he knew that she had feelings for him, then he told her to not contact him unless she was on her deathbed.
The disabled brother should tell the parents, but I doubt that they will care. The 3rd story, the dying sister let her die. Tell her to end it all. Bad people deserve bad karma.
Okay that lady should definitely tell the other guy that she’s having his baby. It’s an AH move altogether to even THINK it’s okay to keep that from him unless he’s abusive or something. Even for the child’s sake, tell the baby daddy because the child you’re going to give birth to soon might resent you in the future for not telling (the BD) when they get older. Like that’s a recipe for a future disaster that could be avoided. But I disagreed that the BD wasn’t the AH either. BOTH of them are definitely assholes and lacked communication but I feel like the BD is a slightly bigger asshole (before she knew she was pregnant). He could’ve kept his pants up and zipper closed no matter the “slight break” he had with the other girl. He should’ve left his (unknown yet) baby mama out of that just because “he still have feelings for her and wanted to fuk one last time” before getting back with the other girl. He knew he was going to be with the other girl or really wanted to be with the other one. And BOTH of them are stupid for not using proper protection before a child was able to be conceived. The whole situation could’ve been avoided on both of their parts!
Side note: I think the BM was super naïve because honestly, I think she might’ve thought if she didn’t use a condom, he might stay with her but that’s just a theory on my end.
Lol didn't the baby daddy (let's call him Ross from now on) repeatedly insist not to call him for ANY reason whatsoever unless she's dying? She's just doing what he wants. And the girl is an asshole too, because of easily opening her legs to a guy who already has a relationship (ex or not, "on a break" or not. Have some self respect and integrity ffs.), not because of not telling the guy she's pregnant. I think the best outcome would be the new gf leave Ross. He's bad news.
@@iagreewithyou3478 That’s why I said put in my my statement multiple times and capitalize BOTH. But even though guy said that, that was a different situation. There is a human child life being involved and she still supposed to tell him. That type of logic to not tell is very childish and immature and honestly I’d compare it to teens who kill their own children for no reason instead of can giving the child to adoption services and agencies. And I totally agree with you, OP needs to leave Ross alone after setting boundaries. OP needs to be an adult along with Ross they come up with boundaries with each other of things they can do with that child or rather co parent. Too late to abort it and it didn’t seem like OP wanted to put it up for adoption but OP definitely needs to change and think her situation with Ross.
Malicious compliance on her end.
Also on father for putting that proviso on her as well.
The first one is kind of sad. OP was a kid himself and shouldn't have been given the responsibility of taking care of his brother. Of course, that doesn't excuse his actions, but I feel the parents should be held accountable for letting that happen knowingly or not.
The story about the seventeen year old that cheated on his girlfriend: Personally to me…I have to agree for what the father did (expect for the snooping on his personal bank statements). Why? It’s not a matter of getting back at them, it’s a lesson to teach them cheating will not be tolerated as you SHOULD lose privileges for doing something so cruel to another human being, causing to mentally hurt someone and sometimes even risking there physical health since the victim of cheating usually will go down into a spiral of emotions and self worth.
I’ve been a victim of someone cheating on me, so I speculate the father might’ve been a victim of cheating before too. And that’s why he did what he did.
That mom is a terrible mom. She told Her son that her college friend was his dad and allowed him to form an attachment to a person he had never met instead of just meeting somebody and then allowing that person to be a male role model to her son or she could have just being a single parent and not fostered. This idea that there's some hole in this kid's life that could be filled by a man that he's never met. I can't believe she told him stories about this person claiming that it was his dad when she wasn't even sure if it was him. That's kind of horrible to do to somebody without their consent. Don't you think you should at least call your former friend and tell them that you think they could be your kids dad before you start telling your kid? She is the a****** she is the one who created this idea that this kid's life. All of his problems would go away if he could just meet his dad. This is the mom's fault 100% and I am sad for this kid
I listened to your guys's content and I watch every day, however whenever I'm finished with one of your videos it brings me back to this one for some reason! Literally every single day it starts this video over ! It's safe to say that I've already seen this video I don't know why RUclips keeps on doing this
17:46 they couldn’t tell their son that they couldn’t afford his dream set, but stealing from OP was nbd?! They are TRASH!
I’m so glad u guys started to do more then read these, go over ur thoughts + move on. Ya gotta read some comments for it to not feel like a bing bang boom thanku ma’am. That’s very dissatisfying lol.
Y’all literally playing the donkey Kong music in the background had my ears perk up and now I can’t hear any whiting else lol 11:57
Forget Mom & Dad, child needs to know who their father is. Signed an adoptive mom.
18:12 call the bank and report them for theft get your money back
me and my bf are at 5 yrs. i dont count the 8 months during our two breaks
For the dad questioning jet-black hair in a baby from blonde parents, all our family’s blondest kids were born with jet-black, spiky hair. It happens.
18:50 I would give them the option to write a contract of payment. I would give them 30 days to return the money dont care how, lock down my account and if they dont find the money in a month I would steal the computer and sell it. Yeah it sucks for the brother losing his new computer, but the funds were not there for it.
3rd OP…Make a AITI Banner for the front of your house and let your parents see the opinions of all your neighbors. If they truly feel like they’re right for stealing your money, then it won’t embarrass them. If they fight you on it, then they knew they were stealing!
The one with the mean sister with cancer, the OP is nit the asshole, they didn't give her the cancer, they just don't care - which is beyond fair and ok.
It’s not about the money it’s about parents sabotaging her future and all that time she invested .. parents suck
For the sister with cancer. You never cared about him so why should care about you
Parents owe their descendants nothing but a life that sets them up with the best chance to make their own way. No one owes me anything. I earn mine, and I’m GRATEFUL for what I have. I would rather my parents leave their assets where it will do the most good in the world.
Look. The first story. The parents should never have put OP in a position to care for a severely disabled sibling.
That first story was rough omg 😢
The inheretance story the siblings are the assholes. Clearly the dad gave them everything they needed in life. I bet if any of them actually needed the money he would have seen to it in the will.
The pregnant woman is beyond selfish and it is a totally asshole move for her; every child deserves to know their father.
Wtf the parents have a younger sibling changing the sink ass diaper of their older sibling. The resentment is understandable