I’m Black & proud, he’s South Asian. We BLindian & Proud! Here’s How We Met
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- Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
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In solidarity ✊🏾💕✌🏾
love you so very much and more blessings from me.
It , so nice to here from, u keep loving, each other that , all we. have, our self, give your best every , day to each other in love, o , lot of women get up every, morning with , know one to look , at them or say I, love u tell , Jesus Christ thank everyday for, the sweet loving Man u get I, Married for . 18th years I have to, cry. My way out I, give all the love, & get back nun .
Hubby resembles Sinbad the stand up comedian
Sure why not
My husband is of Syria& Indian and i am Black the 1st July 2021 was 40 years since we met and 8th December ,2021 God willing will be 39 yrs since we married.
🤩 wooow!! Congratulations Ebony!! can we interview you?!! Please email us at radicallyBLindian@gmail.com if you want to share your love story🙏🏾
Amen .wishing u 39 yrs an beyond
Omg! That’s wonderful! Congratulations!!!
Black women no need to be ashamed that your potential mate may not be black. Honestly the numbers don't match up for every black woman to have a black husband 🤷🏾♀️ If you hope for marriage someday it's an option
Yes I like black people .my women also cute blacky.
@amalrajpc2876 please don't use the word blacky to describe a black person it's black!
@@ScorpioMami415. This person is a racist troll.
Yes that is true cause lve dated Hispanic Asian, African and black yes even dated somewhat a white guy
Yall are so cute. I'm a Black woman who has always been attracted to Indian men but I never thought they'd be interested in me. This is really refreshing to see. Thanks for sharing.
And when he said he was looking for a Black woman with natural hair!!! Yesss!!! He is a winner!!!
Girrrl, YESSS!! I said the same thing, lol
I'm bengali and I like black women 😁
Im indian and black women are my favorites, i find them to be the most attractive and beautiful
I am brown South-Asian, Maldivian & India, it is possible some of them might be intimidated thinking that Ebony ladies like you are only interested in Black men or Mixed-Race men, hence fear of approach.
You can see and feel their chemistry even on this video. They’re very much in love! They’re good looking couple!
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We Indian got one more member in our indian family.
Omg. Maybe it's better to just know a person not get stuck on appearances . My hubby and I met 20 years ago when online dating was "for serial killers" according to my parents 😅❤. I'm biracial, he's white Canadian. We got married... still living and loving 20 years.
Y'all are a cute couple! ❤
Totally Agree; if we can do that maybe we can stop discrimination, hate crimes and so forth🙏🏾
Haha serial killer😂😂😂am dead but it was common those days
You are funny!!!
She is a black angel!! I want my daughter in law to be a black woman ❤️❤️❤️🤝🤝🤝✊✊✊🤩🤩🤩
🥹wow; Thank you!
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Okay! The blk woman is not the pillar of our community it's the blk man, so that's backwards. Blk men are supposed to hold up and represent our community by marrying his queen and having blk children,keeping staying with his family. On another note I have always supported blk woman dating out side of our community bcaz blk men have done it for years and did it unapologetically, rudely, humiliating and media publicly embarrassing to blk woman. And to see a blk woman with a man of color is even more beautiful! 😘 God bless you guys you guys are awesome!
With much love to you I say unapologetically again: black women are the pillars of our community. A pillar is one that supports, that make sure the roof doesn’t crumble on the foundation. That is a black woman in our community. We are upholding the head of the household, the churches, the temples, the schools, the movements (every movement queen, every last one)… that is what a pillar does, upholds the structure- figuratively and literally.
Here’s an article for you to better understand what I mean
baylorlariat.com/2021/02/02/pillars-of-african-american-society-remembering-the-legacy-of-black-women/
it is not in disrespect to black men, it is very much acknowledging that without black women, our community would be even worse off. That’s not a discredit to black men; it’s acknowledging that we have made due with what we have under a racist society.
Black men are beautiful, capable and they hold so much in our community. But to deny what black women have done for our community is to not understand the definition of a pillar.✊🏾
@@kjmathew7 sadly there are. And guess what they are tired of that. Men have stronger shoulders they should be carrying that not BW. So BW dgaf anymore. If it crumbles it crumbles. Periodt
@@kjmathew7my apologies that's not what I meant. Blk woman do hold down the family and the community but it Should be the men. Fortunately I come from a family were the man is the pillar. My father was a very well respectable man,father and person in the community not only that but in the city where we're from. He was the pillar in our family like how it's supposed to be. My mom was his other half holding down his back and the home! My father is no longer with us but he left a tremendous legacy on how things are supposed to be done as a man. I most definitely understand what you're saying I heard and seen that all my life
@@janelleflagg7154 you are truly blessed! This country has done a number on the black family; mine is definitely witness to that fact. I love to hear when some of us preserved 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤✊🏾🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@@radicallyBLended Thank I can say I am but so are you bcaz you turned out great! God bless you and your family, you guys are a good looking couple. Love,communicate, compromise, trust and respect each other!😘
He's so handsome, certainly took looks after his mom; and she's sooo pretty
Your husband is a very handsome man im glad things worked out for you both very beautiful couple.
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This was a beautifully executed conversation and I felt like I was sitting down in a welcoming space while sipping a cup of chai while wearing my head wrap to protect my coils in the same room. 💗💗💗
Yes!! Myss Thang that's what we hope to create! We are looking to interview other Blindian and Blasian couples soon if you're down!
Damn dude she is gorgeous , love from india
What a "breath of fresh air!" So glad I found your channel. I always knew it was only an Indian man for me. He hasn't found me yet, but I know he's out there. You two look so in love and made for each other. This was meant to be! So your husband can tell ALL his Indian friends not to be afraid of BW. They are waiting to date, love, and marry. GOD bless you both. I've subscribed.
🥳I’m rooting for you!! We hope you find the love that expands your heart!
Thank you for subscribing 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
He’s such a sweet person it was hard for her not to fall for him even though he’s not black 😊
I read no lie in this post 🫶🏽
Just came across your vlog. Very inspiring. Keep them coming.
Will do! Thank you for your feedback!!
Great video guys!
I am a Trini, and couples like you are the norm. You both have brought out important points. Do the research and open the dialogue with ‘your person.’
As Africans, we are matriarchal, so the woman is the pillar of our community!
Stay strong in love and communication skills!!!👌🏾❤️❤️❤️🌺🎶😌😊🇹🇹
Enjoyed listening to how you both met, your likes etc. Very open talk. You both are meant for each other. Wishing you both and your family a very happy long life.
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Lovely couple. Continued blessings.
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Just subscribed. Blindian are one of the oldest... if not oldest... interracial communities that is still thriving. I'm so glad you are doing this and pointing out the hardships they face. Excited 💕❣
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Great convo, great story. Loved it. Okay folks, can we all get one very obvious thing out of the way that nobody has brought up so far (probably because they were terrified of being labeled as sexist or something....not sure)? She is very good looking :-) Wish you guys all the best.
You making me blush, thank you🙏🏾
She's beautiful! Nice couple🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love how he was prepped to celebrate who you were as a black woman. I think if anyone is gonna date anyone outside their race be ready to accept and embrace each other’s culture!
Yes! Thank You! It’s important to be Be ready! If you are not, I can coach you!
As long u love each other u can travel very very far in ur relationship, respect each other cultures , having trust , cooperation n understanding thatz all u guys need , u both r a lovely mix pair 😊
Nice to See you guys
First time I'm seeing you both and so love the connection...
This mix is gonna produce beautiful children I tell you mhhhh 😍😍😍😘💕
😌They are beautiful (especially on the inside), thank you for watching!
@@radicallyBLended can't wait to see them 😍😍😍😘💕
Woow she is so beautiful 😍👌
Beautiful couple. I can see some gorgeous children. GOD bless ❤🇵🇬🇵🇬
Ya'll are a beautiful couple. I like that you like the natural look and no makeup. Shes's naturally beautiful.
You both are a beautiful couple!🌺❤🌺
Thank you so much!
Wow interesting...
I just scroll down through the RUclips, I ended up clicked on one of your uploaded video that you interviewed your mother-in-law, but I left that soon after and then looking for any of your other videos and found this one.
Honestly, we share a few common thing, one of which was, you and I were black (Am from Guadalcanal Province, Honiara, Solomon Islands- a country in the South Pacific Ocean close to Fiji, Australia, PNG) our husband's were Asians, both of them were of neighbouring countries, your husband is Indian ( Indian American) and mine is Bangladeshi ( Bangladesh). Secondly and lastly, it seems you too like each other and found each other as Blessings. Me and my husband were the same....we love each other and always adore one another...we fit in to each other...At first it's little bit difficult cause we both came from different race, religious belief, likes and dislikes, food style etc, but God helps us and each seconds we see ourselves as Blessings and oneness (United in one).
We combine all the different backgrounds into a combination of Love👨❤️👨❤️
As I watched you and your husband, I kept on smiling and laughing, my husband watched a Hindi movie on his device but because of my unstopped laughters and smiling, he pause his movie, then glanced at mine....for a few seconds he watched with me on my device then lean back and resume his Pause Hindi movie❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰❤️❤️....
Thank you for sharing with us the beginning of your love story....I wish you two, happy marriage and hope to see your kids in your future RUclips channel 🙏🙏
Just came across your page. Love your channel
Thank you!! 😊
Wow, he is deep and profound. I am also 8n a multi_racial relationship and the comment about fetishsizing black women is real. Am a new subbie ! Black woman living in Austria!
Thank you!!
Ya'll are so gorgeous I had to subbb💖👌
Both yall are so gorgeous
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Interesting couple. I’m new here. Wishing you well. I love inter racial couples/dating.
✨Welcome!! ✨Let us know what you think of our other videos; we are educators ready to share so much with you all!
"He was a white man living in the hood. I should have been suspicious " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL, it's true.
I am really happy I met you here
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I never had a problem with dating out of my race, of course I have felt I would always be with a black man. However, in my day I know a lot of black women that was like you ,they would go out with white men and feel embarrassed about being seen with them. Also, in your case you were out with a melanin man. If he shaved his hair you probably wouldn’t know the difference! Also, Nowadays black men will date any race and not care what others think. I have noticed black women are hyper conscious about having a interracial relationship. Hopefully your content helps us to open our eyes and find love!
Thank you so much
I , love him he is sweet and respected .
All these beautiful couples.
Beautiful inspiring story
Please keep sharing-
We will do our best! Share our page to motivate us to keep going!
You too look soooo good together. Very beautiful looking and the chemistry between you is magical.🥰
🥰Thank you; we truly agree🙏🏾
They are both pretty - I wish them a happy life together
Nice & Sweet video. You both have so much knowledge about many things esp abt Chicago. He is handsome, polite, humble, down to earth and a heart to teach things to others. Don't take it as offensive or criticism what I'm going to say... His voice is very low. I couldn't hear what he was saying. If you could increase your voice it would be nicer. She looks Indian though she is African.
She is very beautiful, caring, loving, smart lady. Hearty congrats to you Both 👍🏻
Her voice is very deep and matured.
Love ❤️ and Wishes 💐 from Kerala 🌴 India 🇮🇳
Lol, thank you for your comment! We were so new at this. I will see how to increase the volume on our end. Would you say it was hard to hear with your volume all the way up?
Awesome 🙏
Wooooow so cute and lovely 2 people ❤ you've just given me more hope for my little thing with a Pakistan man hope we can survive and continue loving each other ☺☺🙏
I’m here if you need support!
Beautiful couple 🥰
Omg she's beautiful ❤️
Aww! Thank you!
Pay attention to the volume, please! We are interested in hearing your story.
Are you using headphones? As you can see in the comments those that are using headphones are having this problem with the hearing. The sound quality is fine if you don’t use headphones.
Beautiful couple 🙌🙌💯💯🔥🔥💖!
All good 🙏
God bless u both
May God bless you as well!
Good looking couple God bless you Wish you all the best
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Too bad for Chicagoans do they know that black people was on the earth before the other races embrace your blackness my people and other people that look like us more power to us Gods blessing
Some do; but are still oppressed despite it
Herzlich Willkommen 💅.Enduring your family’s value for ever and good chemistry enormously 👏.I like your very strong and self confident and you would be living the dream life you deserve it 🙏🇮🇳.
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Very interesting 👌
Where did you get that quilt behid you guys? Did you make it?
Pier 1🙃
You look so shy both of you but beautiful
We are; at least 35%🤣
Beautiful couple ❤❤🥰🥰🥰
love you you.blessings
Beautiful couple ❤
Just came across ur video .beautiful couple I am ur new subscriber.
🥳thank youuuu!!!
I love how u give each other time to speak will b following all dat I miss.
@@gemarambhajan876 we treats each other as an equal
She is damn preety.
This may be totally irrelevant, but you both are beautiful. Should you have children, they can't be anything but drop-dead gorgeous.
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Hi bro I am from India tamilnadu 👍👍👍
Man she is so beautiful!!
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I’ve dated some one from Pakistan and we dated for a long time and both of my parents like him he even ask me to be his wife, didn’t know he was married until later but he was my very first love I fell in love with him and got my heart broken that was years ago I’m fine even been married now divorced now and I am fine now
Wow!u both look alike!!
Lol! Really🧐? You’re the second person to say that 🤣
You guys are cute together.
Nice husband look cool nice couple
Nice 👍👍
Omg u look good girl when u talk
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Am from ethiopia and love u both
Nice couple. I am of Indian descent. From a little experience in the USA, I felt that Afro-American females do not like Indians, especially the ones with their Indian accents !
Wait until you see Keisha’s interview with Helena & Naveen. The reason we created this channel was to dismantle thoughts & assumptions like that✊🏾
Namaste Ramish, now you know. Since childhood I knew it was only an Indian man for me. My DNA is Indian. I patiently await my Raja to find me. I sing Indian songs, eat samosas, etc. Ignore all the negative things you see in the media, smile and say hello. You just may meet your life partner.
@@roses4me451 Thank you very much for your reply. Here in Trinidad, West Indies, we have equal amounts of Indians and Africans (42% each). Lots of mixed marriages and mixed people. Actually, I am 66, married for 41 years to a mixed wife, and we have a son 39 and a daughter 27. We have lots of mixed relatives too, including Caucasians.
But yet in this island, there is racialism between some Indians and Africans. Like the USA, there are people of many nationalities here, of course to a lesser extent. In the last few years we had lots of Venezuelans migrating here due to harsh conditions in their country. I try to treat all mankind with dignity and respect regardless of race, colour or nationality. Best Regards. Trinidad & Tobago.
I’ve dated Indian men with accents. With the right person that won’t be an issue. If you’re both willing to communicate it will happen naturally.
@@Katice634 In 1985, while in a crowded subway car in NYC with a box, I asked a young female Afro-American if she would like to sit on the box. She did, and we talked. She found out that I did not come from India, by my speech. Eventually, she revealed to me that she did not like Indians.......from India, that is.
In my country, there are tens of thousands of mixed-race people.....lots of Indian & African marriages. Racial incidences are extremely rare.
Respect.
Trinidad & Tobago, West Indies.
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Based Indian man.
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It's all destiny, it was meant to be because every thing that happened were coincidental, how ironic
✨We truly agree with you ✨
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I can't imagine why anyone would go to a strangers place after 1 meeting.
I know right?! My intuition led me. My logic was screaming afterwards 😳. My intuition has NEVER failed me🥰
There are Indians who are very black in color from a different part of India
Have you been told that you look and sound just like Donna Brazil?? The political commentator … when you were talking I thought I know that voice and if you look her up and listen…you will see how you look like a younger version of her and sound just like her! Just wild!
Wow, no I never have, thank you though. I do find her to be a beautiful woman. I’m trying hard to look like Angela Bassett as I age😎😁
@@radicallyBLended think there is a club for that… the others are want to age like Tina turner… lol
Even though he is not "black" he is still a colored man. U both are the same color. Ppl of every race share similar lifestyles and experiences, but from a different point of view
Totally agree; race is made up anyway. I pray our children change the way our world relates to each other in the future 🙏🏾
@@radicallyBLended and they will. Thanks to social media, ppl of diverse backgrounds (religion, race, class) are becoming more understanding and accepting of ppl from different cultures. This is the way God intend it to be. The younger generations (z)/ millennial are not too prejudice as generation y,
Is he really this calm?
Yup🤩
Cute couple
Hi good evening hw r you? I am great sorry to say kindly speak with help of Mike voice is very low pls
👋🏾have you tried turning the volume on your end? You’re the first to mention sound issues.
@@radicallyBLended Thanks for your reply I think I never usedhead phone because of that I think it's low I will check and confirm bye
Hi, is he Hindu? If yes, how did you deal with a difference in religion? Also, when it comes to children, how did it go for you?
He’s was born catholic and he’s a first generation south asian.
Y'all favor each other.
Really?! Do elaborate on that
handsome Malayalee men are such handsome hunks ..
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Were are u from
@@immortal__-__2994 i am a Malayalee too : )
Sorry I wanted to subscribe but you don’t know your history you both are Black I’m from the Caribbean and we grow up together one race you both Black
We grow up together with Indian we call them east Indian luckily we are all one race in United States 🇺🇸
We strive to get there; America is not there yet. Thank you for watching!
We actually do know our individual history; we can agree to disagree. Peace and Love. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. That’s what a true community allows.✊🏾
Your country name please
America
Is he Punjabi?
He’s Malayali
@@K7M80 cool
I have Punjabi genetics. I am from Haryana
Where is that located?
India and Pakistan
I met my ex husband through lava life lol
Why should he have paid full price for the book? Nothing happens by accident.
Are you referring to the bell hooks book he got for me?
@@radicallyBLended I watched your video on how you met. How you wanted someone black and and God granted you your want list. You said you went to his house to look at his Cd's and he had several black books. So If you could share some of those titles. Going to purchase the books your mom in love titles over the next few months. Also since everyone migrated out of Africa at differences times technically your hubby is African😃
In Jamaica race does not count.
I hope so! Not sure that’s entirely true
Cant hear...
Try taking the earbuds out🤷🏾♀️ turn up the volume 🤷🏾♀️
See above message; she had the same issue
Is he still an Atheist? A non believer wouldn't work for me.
✨Thank you for inspiring a follow up video!✨
I keep getting notification but my above question not answered.
@@janetmcconnell9328 her comment implies that they plan to do a video to answer your question
@@islandconjuration1820 Thank you Sis got it now.
@@janetmcconnell9328 as long as man will love and care for women and treat her like queen. Religious status won't matter