Biracial Children | An inside look at growing up Mixed-ish | SheSaidHeSaid

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  • Опубликовано: 21 сен 2024
  • In today’s video Rasha and Jay have a special guest on the channel. We have our own daughter Dessi on today. She’s giving an inside look at what it was like growing up as a biracial child.
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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @letty5515
    @letty5515 3 года назад +941

    Black is beautiful. White is beautiful. Latin is beautiful. Asian is beautiful. Basically all God's people in His image are beautiful. Amen and amen.

  • @cvzdez
    @cvzdez 3 года назад +527

    In the end a healthy mom and dad equals healthy children emotionally healthy

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +15

      Very true!!

    • @dalehoward3704
      @dalehoward3704 3 года назад +8

      I 💯% agree!

    • @dalehoward3704
      @dalehoward3704 3 года назад +19

      The parents are gorgeous, so naturally their daughter is! And they are emotionally very healthy and loving! You have to be in this type of world🙂 And the daughter is extremely wise/ intelligent

    • @yarekim5932
      @yarekim5932 3 года назад +8

      Such beautiful people, I think having an intact family with mom and dad like GOD designed helps children be emotionally healthy and happy.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +7

      @@dalehoward3704 thank u Dale🙏🏽❤️❤️

  • @barbaralewis-heywood3621
    @barbaralewis-heywood3621 3 года назад +61

    Your daughter seems well adjusted and comfortable with her identity
    Good job biracial parents!

  • @zoraxye4325
    @zoraxye4325 3 года назад +455

    Parents, you have raised a very confident and articulate daughter. Well done Ma and Pa. First time viewer.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +19

      Thanks for watching!

    • @Art-gb5ok
      @Art-gb5ok 3 года назад +12

      I second that. Good job. 👍

    • @dianajenkins9596
      @dianajenkins9596 3 года назад

      Im glad to see im not the only one get ask crazy question when u mix

  • @nillachild1
    @nillachild1 3 года назад +216

    Your daughter is so mature and respectful. I know that you two are very proud of her.

  • @sonderexpeditions
    @sonderexpeditions 3 года назад +239

    Your daughter carries herself so well and she's super pretty.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +10

      Thanks again😄

    • @jermarwilliamson8165
      @jermarwilliamson8165 3 года назад +5

      I HOPE SHE MARRIES A WHITE MAN AND HER BLOODLINE STAYS WHITE, NOW THATS LOVE

    • @harumanalphaessence3593
      @harumanalphaessence3593 3 года назад +3

      You are beautiful too :) I get shunned where I live partially for being biracial

    • @diegohernanchavezrojas1142
      @diegohernanchavezrojas1142 3 года назад

      Hi pretty

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 Месяц назад

      ​@@jermarwilliamson8165She's 🖤 & 🤍 mixed....So technically she'd need to marry someone else mixed like that to keep her bloodline fairly similar to herself if that's what she was 👀 for....Hopefully she is eventually able to find a good loving human being though that's able to give her genuine love & tenderness🌞👍🏻.

  • @magickaddict2960
    @magickaddict2960 3 года назад +282

    The daddy has too much swag and he’s handsome 😂😂 you guys are a very beautiful family☺️

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +17

      Thank u so much😊😂

    • @eyeAm0
      @eyeAm0 3 года назад +21

      I saw the thumbnail and KNEW he had some serious swag just by his pose. Then I started watching...soon and he started moving I was like " OH YEAH, HE FINE! I KNEW IT!"
      Then!...he started talking and I said "OOOH IS THAT NAWLINS?! OH HE *FINE* FINE!
      Had to laugh at myself🤣
      Beautiful couple and beautiful family!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +9

      @@eyeAm0 😂😂😂
      Thank u so much for watching!!🥰🙏🏽❤️

    • @NewDay47.
      @NewDay47. 3 года назад +10

      Yes he is!!! Swag on 100!

    • @BruceWayne-wu4xn
      @BruceWayne-wu4xn 3 года назад

      yeah that is an approximation of swag, he can only imitate me not be me.

  • @tinatorres4836
    @tinatorres4836 3 года назад +38

    I'm biracial and so are my twin girls, 1 has straight hair with darker skin the other is light with super curly hair, no matter what race you are it's a good thing in life to just be your true self, love your message.

    • @aussies_are_white0057
      @aussies_are_white0057 3 года назад +1

      This girl looks white or Latino - not really like the mother

    • @kingofhearts1072
      @kingofhearts1072 3 года назад +3

      @@aussies_are_white0057
      She can’t pass for Wyte at all for those who are used to seeing mixed people.

  • @kikibear12146
    @kikibear12146 4 года назад +151

    She’s very well spoken!!!! Beautiful daughter too!!❤️❤️ she should start a channel

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  4 года назад +13

      Thank u very much❤️

    • @abiodunsadiq61
      @abiodunsadiq61 3 года назад +2

      I’ll subscribe to her channel, I like her confidence and the way she addresses issues.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 Месяц назад

      People like to talk down about the younger generations.....But in reality THIS young lady is what it looks like when you actually raise your kids well, the problem just lies in too many of us not growing up in healthy stable loving homes with adequate guidance is all.

  • @christianwilliams2068
    @christianwilliams2068 3 года назад +132

    Did you know Black is a very powerful color. It's the only colour that can blend in with everything and looks beautiful. She is so pretty.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +10

      Thanks❤️

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +4

      @cruz carchevy most definitely!🥰

    • @altovise14
      @altovise14 3 года назад +8

      Actually there's no such thing as race, race was developed or used to divide people and actually the start of racism.

    • @EazyHelper
      @EazyHelper 3 года назад +5

      Black isn't a color it's the sum of all colors

    • @bunnieslemon6837
      @bunnieslemon6837 3 года назад

      ​@tiger black coffee is good by itself; coffee creamer makes it taste terrible.

  • @cleo-patra
    @cleo-patra 3 года назад +53

    She is so beautiful and well spoken. Great job mom and dad!

  • @msdollb
    @msdollb 3 года назад +36

    I love this episode! 😂 I have been married to my husband since 1995 and we have seen it all! Our mixed children have been told they look Hispanic! I have always taught my children to be themselves and always remember that they are unique and shine with that! Thank you guys! Your baby is beautiful! Keep up the good work! By the way...lol I’m black and my husband is white!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +3

      Hey👋🏽
      Thanks for watching and for sharing with us!!!🥰❤️

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      Hispanic is not a race so you can’t look Hispanic lol most Hispanics are mixed race

    • @Outlawgirl63
      @Outlawgirl63 9 месяцев назад

      I can relate to that people say that my daughter looks Cuban but she’s actually just black-and-white

  • @descendantofchaoscontrover7046
    @descendantofchaoscontrover7046 3 года назад +165

    As a biracial person with biracial children, I support this channel. Everything your daughter touched upon I had those similar experiences growing up. I mostly had people assuming I was Puerto Rican.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +6

      Thanks for watching and the support!🙏🏽

    • @elainenorvell3335
      @elainenorvell3335 3 года назад +7

      Descendant, after much rejection and discrimination my daughter is really struggling with being biracial. She says I can never get it.

    • @500blockboy2
      @500blockboy2 3 года назад +1

      How u had biracial children?

    • @descendantofchaoscontrover7046
      @descendantofchaoscontrover7046 3 года назад +2

      @Beauty B Well,considering the time I came into existence, my identity was selected for me. Adopted into an all Black family, Black was the race I identified with,even though genetically I am half white half Black. Having children with the mothers who are white well...I guess if going the percentage route,that would make my children a quarter Black and three quarters white, semantics.

    • @kingluffy9792
      @kingluffy9792 3 года назад +1

      @@500blockboy2 she probably has a mixed race boyfriend or another ethinticy

  • @HEAVYCHEVY409
    @HEAVYCHEVY409 3 года назад +445

    He aint black?🤔 Thats Jon B bro, he sounds like he could sing and they daughter is beautiful but her parents look good.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +33

      😂 appreciate it bro!
      Thanks for watching!❤️

    • @dallashenderson2204
      @dallashenderson2204 3 года назад +13

      So what determine that he isn't black

    • @leamariacreates
      @leamariacreates 3 года назад +9

      He looks like my brothers

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 3 года назад +9

      @@penetrasean yea light skin.

    • @dainnesejackson7177
      @dainnesejackson7177 3 года назад +6

      @@SheSaidHeSaid for real you do sound like jon b....forget that you black ❤

  • @SiahsM0M603
    @SiahsM0M603 3 года назад +34

    For starters "I'm HUMAN"... I love it. Beautiful family ❣She is so mature & Beautiful...

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +3

      Thank u🥰❤️🙏🏽

    • @robet478
      @robet478 8 месяцев назад +1

      Would you have children with a white man? I like black women but I have the impression of prejudice against white men.

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 Месяц назад

      ​@@robet478It's only the bitter ones that are like that.Look carefully for a 🚺 you click with well on a personal level & the rest should follow regardless of appearances.

  • @cynthiagonzales9780
    @cynthiagonzales9780 3 года назад +18

    I love the fact that you have taught your children that love, life and people come in many colors, shapes and sizes, and that understanding and accepting all will enrich their lives.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank you 🥰❤️

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 Месяц назад

      Together we are so much stronger💪🏻❤️🖤🤎🤍💛.

  • @paulmathis232
    @paulmathis232 3 года назад +32

    Both parents raised a very intelligent and wise daughter, this is a beautiful together family, well deserved respect

  • @thetransparentjerseygirl
    @thetransparentjerseygirl 3 года назад +53

    "For starters im human" 👏🏽👏🏽❤❤❤❤ YESSSSS!!!!!!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +3

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @saleemahnurid-din1733
      @saleemahnurid-din1733 3 года назад

      I remember my professor ask students to describe themselves. Each person identified their skin tone. 🤔 I thought before we entered this world, we first a humanbeing.
      Its unfortunate, that individuals are seen based upon complexion. Many people have different ethnic backgrounds.
      The word Race was created to divide individuals.
      If you compare a "white" individual with a sheet of white paper are they actually white?🤔

  • @nonameavailableatm
    @nonameavailableatm 3 года назад +66

    I was the only biracial kid in my school besides my siblings. Growing up I was thinking that we are different, but I now know that there’s only one race in the world! A human race🌎💫😇 we all cry when we are sad. We smile when we are happy. We age when the time pass.
    Btw she is so beautiful!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +6

      Straight facts!! Human race!! Thanks for watching!!🙏🏽❤️

    • @andypaulocelli109
      @andypaulocelli109 2 года назад +1

      @@SheSaidHeSaid exactly ... her future husband is going to be one lucky guy!

    • @KentPetersonmoney
      @KentPetersonmoney 4 месяца назад +1

      Biracial kids seem to be more common now then the 90's

    • @malwads1836
      @malwads1836 Месяц назад

      ​@@KentPetersonmoneyIt's been increasing quite a bit since the 60's.I believe it was only 1% back then were mixed ancestry but now it's around 10%.

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 года назад +36

    This was such a lovely conversation. I an African, husband Italian and raising our children in Italy. I recognise that people are going to treat you differently depending on where you are.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  2 года назад +2

      Thanks for watching!

    • @zararoyce319
      @zararoyce319 2 года назад +6

      There is a very big difference in day experience of a biracial person in the United States versus Europe, a lot may come down to the fact that in the United States we have the African-American community versus the African community which is distinguished separately.

    • @keymusabe7207
      @keymusabe7207 2 года назад

      Wow what a bs answer considering w….e supremacy controls how one lives and gets seen in today’s society

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 2 года назад

      Yeah but if they are passing for one race people wouldn’t notice

    • @sybil-roxanneclemons1333
      @sybil-roxanneclemons1333 2 года назад +1

      @@SheSaidHeSaid Spot on!

  • @beemocha
    @beemocha 3 года назад +102

    Dessi looks just like Alessia Cara ...I literally thought it was her when I seen the thumbnail.
    The dad 👀👀

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +14

      Lol! Somebody else said the same thing about her.
      Thanks for watching!!🥰🙏🏽❤️

    • @auntyp2980
      @auntyp2980 3 года назад +6

      The way you put those eyes by "the dad"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @fatearamines6848
      @fatearamines6848 3 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @beautyinthedark7406
    @beautyinthedark7406 3 года назад +40

    It’s obvious that the parents did an excellent job raising and are on the same accord. Beautiful family🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥰

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank u so much🙏🏽❤️

    • @zararoyce319
      @zararoyce319 2 года назад

      Being biracial is very difficult even under the best circumstances, let alone in cases where the circumstances are not ideal. For example, if one parent is racist and such

  • @jillw.2524
    @jillw.2524 3 года назад +13

    Raised your daughter beautifully. She is wise beyond her years. She will be the change. God bless you all.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Thank u🥰

    • @DoubeEdged7
      @DoubeEdged7 8 месяцев назад

      She is an adult. How's she supposed to speak and act , especially when your parents are with you?

  • @kaylamichelle7451
    @kaylamichelle7451 4 года назад +380

    Wow your daughter is gorgeous 😍

  • @tamishannaful
    @tamishannaful 3 года назад +14

    I love how blended my family is. I have African, Cherokee, Italian, and Irish. My sons father was from Thailand. My daughters father is half Cuban. My son is dark skinned, dark hair, dark eyes. My daughter is light skinned, blonde hair, blue gray eyes. She was a red head when she was born.....I guess that little bit of Irish finally came out😂I try to make sure that we are educated about all cultures. Knowledge really is power.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Absolutely!! Knowledge is power!! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽🥰❤️

  • @deborahjames8251
    @deborahjames8251 3 года назад +175

    Dad is fine as hell
    Beautiful wife and family

  • @therealleehawke3184
    @therealleehawke3184 5 лет назад +42

    you guys are having a great family conversation. yall bring so many elements to the table im hooked

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  5 лет назад +1

      Hey we appreciate it!! We try to keep it straight forward and insightful!

  • @elwandacoston7871
    @elwandacoston7871 2 года назад +16

    Beautiful daughter! Beautiful parents🤩

  • @ivanildofreitas7907
    @ivanildofreitas7907 3 года назад +12

    Great Parents. They raised Dessi very well, she's so open-minded. She's ready to conquer the world. Greetings from Angola, Africa. I'm very proud of you guys.

  • @kiriforever1
    @kiriforever1 3 года назад +53

    The more a person is exposed & surrounded to different races & ethnicities it makes one more open & less judgmental of others.

  • @wvonelovechick1
    @wvonelovechick1 3 года назад +7

    I'm 36 years old and mixed race growing up in West Virginia was tough. Thank you for making me feel comfortable in my beautiful brown skin

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      💜❤️

    • @zararoyce319
      @zararoyce319 2 года назад +1

      It is very difficult being biracial even under the best of circumstances let alone when there are additional challenges

  • @carolynfairley8550
    @carolynfairley8550 3 года назад +9

    Truly you have a beautiful daughter, love the topic and her sharing.

  • @zackbailey1
    @zackbailey1 3 года назад +6

    I really appreciate hearing this conversation. I have always been fascinated with biracial children and think they are so beautiful. Good to hear this discussion.

  • @beautifulspirit7420
    @beautifulspirit7420 3 года назад +32

    Basically Desi could be from anywhere around the Mediterranean: Morocco, Algeria, Egypt, Israel, Syria, Turkey, Greece, Sicily, Southern Italy, Spain and Portugal! She has the classic mix of people with African and European descent in that region of the world.

    • @trajictv2110
      @trajictv2110 2 года назад +1

      I’m part Moroccan and it’s true she could definitely blend in as a Moroccan

    • @smd5001
      @smd5001 2 года назад

      Sicily, Turkey, southern italy, greece don't have african decent but your right with the most ones

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 2 года назад

      @@smd5001 they do because we are 99.9 similar lol

    • @teejayangel6638
      @teejayangel6638 2 года назад

      I totally agree!

  • @angelaharvey1167
    @angelaharvey1167 5 лет назад +62

    You guys raised a wonderful daughter!!!!❤️

  • @Coldfacts535
    @Coldfacts535 3 года назад +5

    A natural beauty. She was once referred to as a half breed. What I admire is the fact that she sports not false lashes, false nails, nail polish, visible make up amd no visible tattoos. She is an epitome of natural beauty. She is ararely seen woman these days that is rarely seen these days. I sincerly hope she never changes.

  • @MotivationNAffirmations4YRLife
    @MotivationNAffirmations4YRLife 3 года назад +37

    This is Beautiful. I thought that Jay was Black also and here's why: My Mother is exactly his skin hue. We come in all different shades and we all belong to one Race...The Human Race. Blessings to you all.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Blessings!!🙏🏽🥰

    • @beverlypercival2955
      @beverlypercival2955 3 года назад +2

      Well said 👍🏾

    • @matrixundone4114
      @matrixundone4114 3 года назад +2

      If only the majority of the oppressor class felt this way, what a wonderful world it would be.

    • @ms3173
      @ms3173 3 года назад

      Your mom is not black then...

    • @MotivationNAffirmations4YRLife
      @MotivationNAffirmations4YRLife 3 года назад +2

      @@ms3173 My Mother is indeed Black...and proud to be so. Have a blessed day.

  • @told1158
    @told1158 3 года назад +12

    First time viewer and now subscriber. Your daughter's intelligence, compassion, and empathy enhances her outward beauty. Thank you for blessing this world with such a wonderful young lady. She's a mother's prayer for her son's to meet someone just as special one day in their lives to settle down to help make this world a better place. Thank you

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching and for your kind words!🙏🏽❤️

  • @angelicac5543
    @angelicac5543 3 года назад +15

    OMG this video was such a breath of fresh air! Hearing your daughters perspective on growing up biracial was so relate-able, on so many levels! I’m also biracial, my mom is Black and my father is Mexican and everything she mentioned in the beginning has been my entire experience as well 😅. It’s sometimes frustrating that people want to know my race or background first, before even asking what my name is 😩. Growing up looking predominantly Hispanic but feeling and being raised predominantly by my black side has made me soooo confused at times. Like I definitely identify with my black side more, and honestly forget that I’m half Mexican. I think it definitely falls on which parent or if both parents brought you up with educating you on their cultural practices/ beliefs. As I’ve grown older I’ve gotten even closer to my black side, and have found solace in educating myself on black history :). Maybe one day I’ll spark interest in digging deeper into my Mexican side, but until then :) like your daughter mentioned we’re humans first 🤍.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      So glad to hear you were able to relate and benefit from the video. Yes it can be very frustrating when people always want to know “what” you are. It’s like, I’m human🤷🏽‍♂️
      Some is just people’s curiosity but others may have some ill point behind it all. You also made some great points because a lot could have to do with how you are raised, meaning if you only had 1 parent or both. Definitely could make a difference. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences! Thanks for watching!!🥰🙏🏽❤️

  • @fiocherry
    @fiocherry 3 года назад +45

    Great convo! I am Indian American (my parents are from India) and people always ask "what are you?" ... i really dislike that question but wouldn't mind AT ALL if people were to ask me the correct question which is "what is your ethnicity/ethnic background?" I love talking about my background but I think asking someone "what they are?" Is kinda dehumanizing.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +5

      Yes!! Exactly!! Great point!! Thank u for your input!!❤️

    • @mhharley
      @mhharley 3 года назад +6

      IKR. It's almost like asking what breed a dog is. People are a piece of work.

    • @kingofhearts1072
      @kingofhearts1072 3 года назад +2

      Yeah, I’m sure it can be annoying.
      If that’s you in the thumbnail, then, even though it can seem like an ignorant statement from them, it could be confusing because you could EASILY pass for a person of African descent as well.
      I don’t know if you are of Dravidian descent but MANY Dravidians can pass for some East Africans, that is because Dravidians come from East Africa originally. There’s an even older small population of Black people in India in the Andaman and Nicobar, Sentinel islands who have been there for over 70,000 years.

    • @fiocherry
      @fiocherry 3 года назад +2

      @@kingofhearts1072 i dont mind being mistaken for another ethnicity (it happens all the time lol) i just dont like the way some people phrase the question. Asking "what are you?" is different to me than "what is your ethnicity/ethnic background?" .. even if it isnt meant to be malicious it just comes off negatively to me. Yes actually I would be of Dravidian background! My parents are from the southern state of Kerala in India 🙂

    • @fiocherry
      @fiocherry 3 года назад +2

      @@kingofhearts1072 i know there are Black people in India but not on those islands! Thx for that info!

  • @maseraykeita2177
    @maseraykeita2177 3 года назад +19

    She is very beautiful and intelligent mature young lady .she can others kids to feel more confident and proud like her.

  • @naomiblack21
    @naomiblack21 3 года назад +22

    Ohhh my God she is so pretty and her skin is glowing.

  • @fatbottombiker3038
    @fatbottombiker3038 3 года назад +171

    I knew Daddy had that Louisiana accent.....NOLA possibly South Louisiana somewhere

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +40

      Yes I am. Good ear. Lol. Got family all over the state.

    • @memyselfi1828
      @memyselfi1828 3 года назад +13

      I love that accent. I actually started dating a man because of his Louisana accent.

    • @shabrettefreeman6370
      @shabrettefreeman6370 3 года назад +15

      I get alot of people who say they love our Louisiana accents.

    • @vanessa_the_mindset_maven
      @vanessa_the_mindset_maven 3 года назад +2

      I knew it! I grew up in New Orleans and Roseland! Bonjour, Cher'!!!

    • @Richard-gp5tg
      @Richard-gp5tg 3 месяца назад

      My guess was Cajun.
      Nawlins accent reminds me of Brooklyn.

  • @blessedfromtx.1910
    @blessedfromtx.1910 3 года назад +39

    The water fountain joke was so funny 🤣 that was agood one. Your daughter is so intelligent.

  • @carlam.3254
    @carlam.3254 3 года назад +18

    I'm biracial and I get the same questions, but I just answer the question. My mom's white and my dad's black and then continue on with whatever the conversation is. I take no offense at all with questions. It's understandable, because people are curious and I'm more than happy to represent the best of both world 😀

    • @pinkpeony2171
      @pinkpeony2171 3 года назад +2

      Carla I think that your approach is the correct one...the young lady in the video seems to have a chip on her shoulder and tries to act smart with ppl when asked about her nationality...ur not going to make many friends with that attitude. I certainly would not want to make friends with someone that acts so defensive.

    • @harumanalphaessence3593
      @harumanalphaessence3593 3 года назад +1

      We, are biracial :)

  • @derekwalters4980
    @derekwalters4980 3 года назад +5

    I've got to say, this did kinda crack me up at first. She seems quite mature, looking back and forth between mom and dad, like she's used to sitting with two kids, very patient. She is lovely, articulate and informative. Thank you for inviting her to talk with us.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @maseraykeita2177
    @maseraykeita2177 3 года назад +8

    This is the kind of conversation we should be having as people from different backgrounds to get to know each other's to stop all this hate because at the end of the day we all are human .

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Agreed!! We should most definitely!!🙏🏽❤️

  • @ronmiranda8833
    @ronmiranda8833 3 года назад +7

    I too have kids that are mixed and appreciate your RUclips channel. My kids are Puerto Rican and Black. My kids like their title of being Afro-Latino(a). When me and my ex were married we invested in our children and made them what they are by the grace of God. They are healthy children and are very respectful. Our children face the same challenges. It's funny how we have things in common. My ex is from Baton Rouge,Louisiana (red stick) in French. It's unfortunate that our marriage didn't last after 26yrs. Life goes on and my journey isn't finished. God has other plans. I trust him in this new chptr of my life. I love seeing mixed couples. It encourages people to love and not hate. I appreciate your RUclips videos.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching and we really appreciate you sharing your story with us. God bless you and your family. 🙏🏽🥰❤️

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад +1

      Puerto Rican isn’t a race lol

  • @bdunnell33
    @bdunnell33 3 года назад +32

    You are absolutely adorable, my daughter is biracial , armenian and black , she's only 11 and have such a hard time with making friends girls don't even give her a chance to get to know her before they judge her and she has a heart of gold.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +12

      I’m sorry to hear that. Some kids can be so tough and the sad part is they get that from their parents or whoever is raising them. They are taught that mess. I pray that your girl starts to easily make friends🙏🏽. Thank you for watching.

    • @bdunnell33
      @bdunnell33 3 года назад +7

      @@SheSaidHeSaid aww I thank u for your kind words. I pray that you and your family are well during these difficult times. Btw I definitely subscribed.

    • @dommonieautry2978
      @dommonieautry2978 3 года назад +5

      You must understand when people hate on her that is pure jealousy , also it’s a compliment to her because if they are wasting the time the good lord gives hating daughter, tell her to keep her head up and keep a stepping and keep her eye in the lord.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      @@bdunnell33 your welcome and yes we are doing great. Thanks for asking and thanks for watching and subscribing!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      @@dommonieautry2978 excellent words!!! Love it!! You are absolutely right!!

  • @brtseif
    @brtseif Год назад +9

    Thanks for the discussion! My wife is ethnically Chinese and I’m as Northern European ginger as can be. People already make comments, especially to her, about our newborn daughter “she’s so light skinned!” Or “who’s the father?”. I like to believe most people are genuinely curious but you can tell some people just seem weird about it.

  • @plantsforlife1120
    @plantsforlife1120 3 года назад +13

    This is a Beautiful thing! I think Mixing within the human race is the best action to bring us altogether!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️

    • @TheBLACKboard65
      @TheBLACKboard65 3 года назад +3

      We’ve been doing that for over 500 years in the Americas and to some degree even in Africa; hasn’t changed a damn thing!

    • @musamp5513
      @musamp5513 3 года назад +1

      Well said

    • @siyabongabhongoza939
      @siyabongabhongoza939 3 года назад +1

      @@TheBLACKboard65 yes it doesn't help and I don't promote it

    • @kingofhearts1072
      @kingofhearts1072 3 года назад

      That won’t work, it didn’t work for Brazil and it didn’t for India, and India has been dealing with colorism within their own for thousands of years due to their caste system based on skin tone.

  • @shawneetate121
    @shawneetate121 2 года назад +5

    Yall made such a beautiful daughter, stay blessed.❤️💙

  • @boniacuna8573
    @boniacuna8573 3 года назад +7

    Thank you guys for sharing this I am of mixed race as well I am white from my mother and Mexican because of my father. I always felt like the black sheep of the family I’m the only one that came out looking white with freckles while my siblings look Mexican. I’m also the only one born in Mexico. Lol. But seriously thank you because of this video I have learned to not only be accepting to myself but also be proud of who I am. Many blessings and love to you all.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thanks for watching and for sharing. God bless🙏🏽🥰❤️

  • @melodyindigo550
    @melodyindigo550 3 года назад +23

    Aww she's so light hearted

  • @CrazyGIJoe81
    @CrazyGIJoe81 3 года назад +8

    We are all beautiful the way we are made! How boring would it be if we all looked the same? Don’t be afraid of change or differences! It makes up stronger 💪🏽

  • @goonertrooper
    @goonertrooper 3 года назад +5

    Proud mum & dad she exceptionally beautiful, intelligent, educated, confident and she not mouthy. She proves nobody is born racist.

  • @feliciaglover1
    @feliciaglover1 11 месяцев назад +3

    I needed to hear this! Because I go through this all the time. I think you are a beautiful family, and have raised a beautiful and bright young lady. ❤

  • @keepingitrealwithchinell7565
    @keepingitrealwithchinell7565 3 года назад +5

    I think your family should be the face of healthy unity!! Y’all are game changers❣️

  • @lydiavelazquez3881
    @lydiavelazquez3881 3 года назад +14

    Biracial kids are one the most beautiful children!!

  • @veronicalawrence4369
    @veronicalawrence4369 3 года назад +11

    Beautiful family. Your daughter is very beautiful. A wonderful combination of people that love each other. God bless

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank u so much!! God bless!🙏🏽

  • @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy
    @DoWhatMakesYouHappyy 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with us. Her outlook is beyond well rounded because she has amazing parents who share love no matter what your melanin color is💕

  • @memj89
    @memj89 3 года назад +4

    Your daughter is absolutely beautiful and very well spoken. I bet y'all are very proud of her. What a awesome job y'all did of raising her. This world needs more parents like y'all.
    She, had my attention when she said first of all I am human! Yes I totally agree.

  • @BigMamaVee
    @BigMamaVee 3 года назад +5

    Thank you for this. Your daughter spoke my life and I appreciate this being discussed. 💚

  • @litebrite2790
    @litebrite2790 3 года назад +9

    As a mixed race women blk/ Puerto Rican everything this young lady spoke of i went /still hear and i'm much older.and absolutely beautiful family.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank u so much for sharing!!🙏🏽❤️

    • @em_1801
      @em_1801 3 года назад +1

      I thought she (the daughter) was 🇵🇷 when I first saw her. The hair looks 🇵🇷

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      Puerto Rican is not a race

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      @@em_1801 that’s because Puerto Ricans are just mixed people lol

  • @dotmarceo
    @dotmarceo 3 года назад +8

    She's beautiful and she has a nice attitude.

  • @chanj2109
    @chanj2109 3 года назад +3

    Love this conversation. I've not seen a conversation with a mixed kid and their parents, usually it's one or the other. Gives insight on how normal you guys are. Just parents talking to their kid. Your daughter is very articulate and well- rounded. Great job on raising her!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank u so much for commenting!! Thanks for watching!! Much appreciated. ❤️🙏🏽

  • @dwightprice4079
    @dwightprice4079 3 года назад +5

    Interesting video. My mom is Scottish and Irish and has pale skin. My dad is Irish and Sephardic and has a dark complexion. As consequence of my dad’s family’s looks that I inherited, 90% of the people I meet think I am Italian. My mother-in-law would occasionally make quips about me being Italian, I would tell her I wasn’t. One time she got kind of cross with me when I corrected her, she called me a liar. I just ignored her comments after that.
    The “what are you” comments came when some friends from college met my dad. He had brown skin but white facial features. It bothered them because they couldn’t figure my dad out.

  • @renmswill9046
    @renmswill9046 3 года назад +6

    I can definitely relate. Funny thing is I am black as can be but the fact that I'm Latina confuses some people, and I have been told by black people that I'm not black. Lol! Cultural education definitely needed in our society so thank you for bringing this conversation to your platform.
    New subscriber 👋🏽

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thanks for watching and for sharing!! 🥰🙏🏽❤️

    • @supersaturn956
      @supersaturn956 3 года назад +3

      Latina is not a race. It is an ethnicity. A lot of people are very ignorant.

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      Latina isn’t a race , anyone can be a Latino so thoes people don’t know shit

  • @jazzyj3059
    @jazzyj3059 3 года назад +3

    For the longest time people thought I was mixed and asked me “what am I?” Growing up I didn’t really think much of it because I knew what I was, am, I am human like she put it. I’m light skinned but that never mattered to me nor the people I hung out with. I hung out with everybody, every race every type of person. I love all of my friends and color never really mattered to us. I’m in my twenties and I still believe there’s a chance for some people to see that this hate fight is pointless. We are human, that’s all that should matter. Hatred should never be an option.
    Live your lives guys ☺️

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much🙏🏽💜❤️

  • @emeraldc.8796
    @emeraldc.8796 Год назад +2

    Daughter is extremely wise & able to articulate her messages to truly help everyone understand. God bless this entire family❤️🙏🏽✝️

  • @katiyan2091
    @katiyan2091 3 года назад +7

    Your daughter is so pretty,congrats to the parents,i can imagine her responsability as the eldest just like me! New subscriber! Love your video! Love from 🇲🇽

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Thanks for subbing!! Where you from? I can’t tell which flag that is?

    • @katiyan2091
      @katiyan2091 3 года назад +2

      @@SheSaidHeSaid Mexico 😊

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      @@katiyan2091 what part?? We can’t wait to visit!!

    • @katiyan2091
      @katiyan2091 3 года назад +2

      @@SheSaidHeSaid Mexico City ,you are welcome anytime!

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 2 года назад +3

    She's so well spoken and carries herself with grace. Good work parents.

  • @MoonLightOnWater1
    @MoonLightOnWater1 3 года назад +24

    Adorable family....daughter looks a lot like mommy: both beautiful!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +3

      Thank u so much!😊

    • @Joseph-zd7kg
      @Joseph-zd7kg 3 года назад +5

      She looks like a mix of both parents. I don't think she looks just like her mom. If I seen her without her parents I would think she was hispanic or italian. She looks like Alessia Cara. I know most mix people have that look but just saying.

    • @MoonLightOnWater1
      @MoonLightOnWater1 3 года назад +3

      @@Joseph-zd7kg Hmmmmm, I don’t know Alesia Cara, but I’m sure you’re right. I see the dad’s complexion for sure, but I also can’t see beyond his sunglasses and this was the first time I have ever seen the channel.....so I can see the mom more easily.

    • @summerbreeze3445
      @summerbreeze3445 3 года назад +1

      Yes I agree ...facial features of Mom

  • @kingofhearts1072
    @kingofhearts1072 3 года назад +4

    Many blessings and prosperity to this beautiful family 🙏🏾 and to those who are reading this as well.

  • @AriesDragon888
    @AriesDragon888 3 года назад +3

    Thank you guys. Loved your video and the beauty truly lies in the mix and diversity that we all contribute to our societies and cultures. I am from Denmark and my wife is from Hong Kong. Our kid’s were born in Los Angeles and Shanghai respectively and are growing up as third culture kids and goes to school every day in Hong Kong with 42 nationalities represented on campus. Diversity is a gift to us all.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank u for sharing!! God bless🙏🏽💜❤️

  • @crazychicSHENA
    @crazychicSHENA 4 года назад +13

    Beautiful 🇺🇸💯 ♀️ family I am biracial mix 💯 black and white keep the faith always 💞

  • @jamesspencer7912
    @jamesspencer7912 3 года назад +3

    God!!!!! You have raised a beautiful minded child. I wish people can be so level headed

  • @tonia3371
    @tonia3371 3 года назад +4

    I have two biracial adult kids . My daughter always have to tell ppl she biracial and when they tell them her mother black they get really shocked. So they both went thru things in school and even now. I think when you raise them to love them and be happy with themselves things will look good for their self esteem. My daughter really struggle when she was younger and even now, but I alway tell her some ppl just don’t know and you have to be open to the conversation with them, but most of all keep God first and foremost. You guys raise an amazing beautiful young woman.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      You’re right! Keep God first!! I pray that that they are confident and strong!!

  • @renechateaubriand2645
    @renechateaubriand2645 3 года назад +2

    Excellent choice of guests. Yes, very drôle that the eldest daughter gets the spotlight, but she uses it well with strikingly thoughtful, observant, and insightful comments.

  • @sombron3832
    @sombron3832 2 года назад +3

    First time viewer and i loved your daughters insight and maturity.I have the impression that biracial kids got the bigger insight on wanting to be seen as humans becasue they dont pinpoint on where they 'should' belong between the colors. The parents are individual and thats what we as the viewers can get more inspire from. Lets be more like you, individual!👍

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching and thanks for your feedback 🙏🏽❤️💜

  • @benniemason8772
    @benniemason8772 3 года назад +3

    I just want to say congratulations. I think when you are mixed, it starts with the parents. You are the foundation, and the foundation must be strong in order for your house to stand. And your daughter is very strong in knowing who she is. My hats off to both of you. I would love to meet people like yourselves. God bless you. And all my prayers will be with you.

  • @lorihunsaker1945
    @lorihunsaker1945 3 года назад +3

    This is such a good conversation. Especially in 2021, which is when I watched this video. Your daughter is beautiful!

  • @teamjesus2407
    @teamjesus2407 3 года назад +5

    Amazing, I’m 61, Biracial and people are still asking biracial people what they are. They never guessed w/b. It was always Spanish, Puerto Rican, Mexican, Hawaiian, Italian, etc. I just started telling people “depends on where I am at the time”.

  • @claudinebrown5605
    @claudinebrown5605 4 месяца назад +1

    She is soo articulate!! Good going mom and dad

  • @tekh07
    @tekh07 Год назад +2

    You two did a great job she so confident in who she is.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  Год назад +1

      Thank you🙏🏽

    • @tekh07
      @tekh07 Год назад

      @@SheSaidHeSaid ❤️❤️❤️

  • @laetitiauwineza7230
    @laetitiauwineza7230 3 года назад +3

    Mature, confident and articulate daughter. Good job parents. 1st time visitor.

  • @jlhmyers75
    @jlhmyers75 3 года назад +3

    You’ve raised a beautiful, articulate daughter. Good job, mom and dad!

  • @caramelhoney29
    @caramelhoney29 3 года назад +36

    I wouldn’t have known he was white. He looks like he’s, possibly interracial. He also reminds me of the Cajun/creole folks from Louisiana.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +5

      Yes I am from Louisiana 🥰❤️

    • @niecedspain3568
      @niecedspain3568 3 года назад +2

      He looks white to me. I have n issue with him being white or her being black. They are what they are.

  • @abbysands9510
    @abbysands9510 9 месяцев назад +1

    Your daughter is so beautiful. The combination of both genes from both parents really created a daughter that is beyond beautiful. It is nice to hear someone comfortable with their own identity instead of always complaining how hard it is to be of both worlds.

  • @AljRest
    @AljRest 3 года назад +17

    you guys, have a gorgeous daughter, God bless your family.

  • @GandG4evr
    @GandG4evr 3 года назад +3

    Your daughter is so intelligent. I am proud of her and what she will be in future. She will make impact in this world.

  • @brownskingirl2101
    @brownskingirl2101 3 года назад +3

    That's what the rainbow is really about, how we all come in so many different beautiful colors! Beautiful family!❤

  • @JollyRancher2014
    @JollyRancher2014 3 года назад +45

    She got her beauty from her beautiful mom!

  • @sonderexpeditions
    @sonderexpeditions 3 года назад +19

    What an amazing family.

  • @open2417
    @open2417 3 года назад +8

    You all are a beautiful family!
    I’m a light skinned black woman and my ex-husband is dark skinned. My kids are my complexion. When they are with their dad, people think they must be biracial because they are so much lighter. Then they meet me and get confused. Most think I’m Hispanic because they are so light. People are so funny with the racial guessing game.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +2

      Yes it is hilarious! People are just amazing🤣
      Thanks for watching and commenting!! 🙏🏽

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 2 года назад

      Man made race up lol

  • @dinokadribasic9192
    @dinokadribasic9192 3 года назад +9

    I’m a white person born in the United States, with Bosnian parents and people think I’m Hispanic all the time. Had a guy at work yesterday ask me to read something on a Goya package because he thought I could speak Spanish, I told him no I don’t speak Spanish but I knew what it said. After he finished shopping he came up to me and said “I thought about what I said and I’m sorry that if I came off wrong, I didn’t mean to make it seem like I was racist in someway cause I thought based on your looks that you were Hispanic.” I never take to offense to it and I told him that I need to learn Spanish and creole since I live in south Florida!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching Dino and for sharing this story. 🙏🏽❤️

    • @treacherousjslither6920
      @treacherousjslither6920 3 года назад +1

      That's a pretty wholesome story

    • @Mark8-8-9-1
      @Mark8-8-9-1 3 года назад

      Hispanic is not a race.

    • @Mark8-8-9-1
      @Mark8-8-9-1 3 года назад

      @3rd Eye 99 Spanish is a language.

    • @dinokadribasic9192
      @dinokadribasic9192 3 года назад

      @@Mark8-8-9-1 sorry I meant to mean as an ethnic group. Didn’t mean for it to come out wrong. And by him saying Spanish he means by Spaniards.

  • @dnpolk6332
    @dnpolk6332 3 года назад +6

    Great video! I’m biracial also. I always get that I’m Hispanic and people will literally try and speak to me in Spanish in public😂. I can relate so well to your daughter in many things she said.

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thank u!! Thanks for sharing also!! 🙏🏽❤️

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      Those people are ignorant because Hispanic isn’t a race you there isn’t a set standard for what a Hispanic person to look like . You can be any race and be Hispanic

    • @christianr1941
      @christianr1941 Год назад

      Those people are ignorant because Hispanic isn’t a race you there isn’t a set standard for what a Hispanic person to look like . You can be any race and be Hispanic

  • @stephenwright133
    @stephenwright133 3 года назад +6

    I'm just seeing this video for the first time. You guys are such a great family. It was great to hear your daughter's perspective. I'm older than she is, but could definitely relate to her experiences as I am also mixed race. I can't tell people how many times people assumed I was of Latin American ancestry. My kids have very different experiences as well based on what people assume about them from the way they look. Thanks for sharing and good luck to all of you!

    • @SheSaidHeSaid
      @SheSaidHeSaid  3 года назад

      Thanks for sharing your perspective and for your input on the situation. God bless you!🙏🏽🙂

  • @ella5911
    @ella5911 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful daughter! Great! Mixed raced couples are great! Power to you from Germany!

    • @ella5911
      @ella5911 2 года назад

      Yeah in Germany it is' nt such a big Drama... my huband is from the Ex- Jugoslawia and i am German ( for shure) ....we have 2 kids and you can see some differences... but: we life our lives in freedom... i'd whished he could give more colour than nose..( 😅) but that is fine..he knows that..we have two healthy kids... that is enough....it is fascinating, to see the face of the mother in another colour .....it is so Great! and: beautiful!

  • @anydayanytimegarretts4400
    @anydayanytimegarretts4400 3 года назад +12

    I've dated Black, Hindi, Hispanic & White (Jew to Gentile) and married Mixedish. Folks are folks. Your daughter's correct people constantly have the questions or statements of "what are you...❓". Especially, when they see my eye color and our daughter's - our daughter's and husband's skin color. It's all about the context of when and how the questions are presented.