Wow this really gave my faith in humanity. The fact that there are people out there like these podcasters trying to ask difficult questions to build self awareness for improvement in relationships. I’m a very loyal , nurturing woman , and I started to worry that masculine men are going out of style and don’t need women like me anymore. This podcast gave me faith that if these conversations are happening, and you are getting clicks on these conversations; then there are most likely still people out there who are willing to work on their relationships. Gives me faith ❤
I absolutely adore her. She completely resonates with me. Sadia please if you haven't already, I urge you to start your own RUclips channel. Countless individuals should have the opportunity to listen to your valuable insights!
She speaks sense, but she should see a therapist to work out why she needs BOTOX even though she's naturally beautiful. I wouldn't feel comfortable taking advice from someone who is supposed to be helping others with emotional issues when they themselves turn to chemicals to deal with their own insecurities
How do you know she's had Botox. Also even if she's had Botox it's still very evident she's a smart woman who knows what she's talking about. It's a shame isn't it so smart and also so beautiful it's really something to be jealous of isn't it. Oh well good luck to the sister may God keep blessing her. And may God bless you too.
@@kendallkendall825 That is a red flag, using such techniques to enhance her beauty is a sign that she also has internal issues that needs looking at, if you have a therapist, you want them to live what they preach, would you visit a dentist who has crooked teeth ?
Love seeing all the podcasts Sadia is in. She speaks my mind without me being able to saying it that way. She has amazing skills in talking and conveying very detailed her message, I don’t know who doesn’t get what she says, but kuddo’s to you beautiful one 💜
I understand the topics in this interview. I cannot endure a woman who I deem as unintelligent and therefore I cannot find them attractive enough to pursue. Intellectual compatibility is vital.
You can filter those out usually by their reaction to humor. One who laughs with your jokes (stupid as they might be - or not) you have a match and the opposite.
i have the same problem with men. FLAT FLAT FLAT. its A. annoying B. irrotating C I get bored within 2 weeks -- I ask myself a same question "did you sleep through hs / university?" (not you personally but you got a point). Tell me something like HEY Let's go to the Getty museum or LACMA or Hungtington library.
Wow, she’s funny, down to earth, intelligent, approachable, articulate, honest, sweet, wise, graceful, warm and absolutely gorgeous! None of these instagram models have anything on her. That’s the role model we need!
I second that. Also, she does not project masculine energy, like most women nowadays and seeing that..its really rare and beautiful. Perhaps she could set up a podcast to teach women how to be confident and feminine..
I don’t agree at all with her, saying, a businessman needs a business woman who is intellectual to have common conversations. I think when a man comes home from a hard day of work, he does not care to talk to her about his business and work and he also doesn’t care to hear about how Karen from the office was getting on her nerves today he doesn’t care about her day like that. He wants to come home to peace, quiet, relaxing, femininity, and a nice cooked meal not sharing stories about their day at work when he comes home he’s done with work. He doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore. He wants to relax. Also saying that women who stay home are not intellectual, I highly disagree with that. women that decided to stay home and raise their children doesn’t mean they’re not intellectual and can’t have intelligent conversations.
So he doesnt need other person at all, he can be at peace on his own and order takeaway as warm meal. No human being should be treated like a maid or househelp in relationship where hers day or thoughts or expierience doesnt matter at all and she is waiting like a dog for her housband to get little pat at the back and then sit silently in the corner. Tou would really treat your partner like that? Of course you need someone who match you intelectually and has her own life going on. The most lonely and unhappy women are those in marriages where they are treated like halfhumans, only to take care of child and kitchen. It was like that in the 1950 and the level of alcoholism among them were crazy!!
I don’t think she is referring to conversations about Karen from the office. She means that the person needs to at least be a good conversation partner for you. What is the point of coming home to someone everyday whom you can’t even talk to? The growth of your connection is going to plateau.
I'm a female entrepreneur (i have my own consultancy company) and I work daily with male CEOs that are scaling their companies. And she is 100% right. In their younger years they want a loving, caring "mother" for their kids (and themselves). But I see time and time again that these men feel like they cannot fully be themselves and cannot express themselves with a partner who does not understand their challenges (and can be empathic about it) and where they have a sounding board for the emotional side of the job. Leading to quite a lot of divorces in their 40s. Also a woman who is truly intellectual (IQ over 130) won't be a stay-at-home mom. It would drive her crazy.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die. sober up. female suicide up 50 percent twice the number of women on mental health medication then men. sober up
No, no she is Not an inspiration at all. She is wrong on different levels. I learn Nothing from her views. Specifically men who are very much alone can always pay for sex without the nuances of a relationship. She does not deal with this specific issue.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die. sober up. female suicide up 50 percent twice the number of women on mental health medication then men. sober up
@@Makeupzised because most women today feel entitled to a top tier guy that's y men like Andrew tate came about. Feminism brainwashed modern women. This is my go to question I ask women this all the time. Nothing personal I'm just asking. Would u get married?
Beatiful conversation ❤. Its very rare someone even speaking about man's perspective. She amazingly understands cetain innate wiring in men - 'longing for intimacy'.
Love you Sadia ♥️ the world need more humans like you . I know I lot of there not happy to hear this , yes we know the true hurt . Please keep this work , we love you ♥️
Incredible conversation. We need more of these in order to move humanity forward. Better humans = better world. Sadia is a gift. Her wisdom and insights are well beyond her years. We should all just be grateful that we have access to her brilliance and that she's offering tools to help people be better.
Loved this talk. I'm currently in my first time ever long break, of relationships.. a whole 4 year.... dealing with traumas that has blocked me from allowing someone to fully come in. And be my very best self to my partners
I resonate so much with how she explained feeling like shit when she feels like she’s getting out of shape and not working out. I become a MONSTER. I’ve finally realized I need to be in the gym and eating right to be the best version of myself or my mental health takes the hit. 😫
How strange that the biggest problem or lack we have on this planet is intimacy, when there are so many of us humans around! Sadia you are so right...I think it was brave of you to even mention that men might be looking at porn even but still be looking for emotional intimacy....truth is, nothing is sexier than a genuine desire or emotional expression coming from a woman, and yet in such short supply...everything is this "performance" etc and women think they know what they are expected to look/sound like...ugh, I think the cutest thing I've ever heard with a woman was an unintentional little squeal..certainly nothing she was taught she should sound like, but it was so authentic I just adored it (summary: men cherish intimacy, though we mask it with bravado and what have you...nailed it with this interview Sadia, and Darren well done sir)
wonderful interview but ... I'm a loving and loyal woman and I have never cheated on a man I've been with. I've been cheated on so of course I'd consider that this could happen again even when I'd never done it. With everything else I do resonate. Both are doing a great job here - thank you so much!
A very intelligent conversation that makes clear where we are in terms of relationships, raising families and coping mechanisms in the modern world. Thank you. Much appreciated 🙏♥️
There are also women who don’t accept a cheating man but I never did cheat in revenge. I never did but I eventually left but it took months. So we exist and it’s a rare exception
I disagree with her on the onlyfans part. Women may be millionaires but the cost of being a mom and having your children see you porn is a curse I would not want to have.
I think your one of the few voice on social media that values human reasoning and empirical evidence unbiased as opposed to the clout chasing of most voice on social media claiming to give men and women ‘advice’ that is nothing more than extorting people for views in order to boast their social media likes and bank balance. But of course your more rigorous and of a greater analytical depth than the others because you have the academic training to contextualise the subject matter as opposed to been an internet troll and look for controversy in order to be famous and wealthy
1:07:25 The women who accept cheating husband tend to be emotionally detached from their husband. They are likely to *expect their husbands to betray them*. Because they know they are an option, and there is competing interest outside for the same resource, so they can not truly rely 100% on the husband’s loyalty. This resolves them to seek *stable* resources elsewhere.
This is so true, I didn't start off that way with my (now ex) husband but if you don't leave when they cheat you have to force yourself to emotionally detach to survive. By the time it ended (several affairs later) I was so indifferent to him that I honestly wouldn't have cared if he lived or died except for the fact that I would have felt sorry for the kids.
Just wanted to chime in as someone who was adopted by my mother only and we had no contact with her ex after the divorce. I had no issues with that and my mom was wonderful. I suspect you may have only noticed the kids who were struggling.
What a smart women.She can see the world from the male and female perspective. Spot on with all the child information regarding separating parents. 100pc spot on.
Wonderful talk with sadia khan a psychologist on human psychology well done and a great talk show Glad to be watching this show on youtube from chennai, Tamilnadu
I totally can relate to you, stadia. I’ve lost my mother in the middle of my adolescence (14/15). So I got used to do drugs, alcohol and prostitution… I had to become more mature in my life to overcome these kinda like grief feelings and today, by the age of 40 I’m clean and matured…but it’s been a hard time with a lot of struggle. But the person I’ve became now knows, finally, how Togo on in life
Love me some Sadia Khan. She is so intelligent and I agree a lot with what she is saying. And I’m 11 days sober today! Agree with her on alcohol as well
Yes, men crave emotional intimacy but most women don’t want most men. Women have been conditioned by social media and dating apps, as you stated. An average man is contemptible when there are millionaires hunks out there. To make matters worse when one of these dream guys sleep with them they feel there’s a chance maybe they can BE with them. It hardly ever happens. Time and time again women choose solitude over being with an average man even if they’re an average woman.
That's not true. I know plenty of "average" couples. Social media usually highlights the above average people. Most people are too busy living life to post so much on social media(I'm one of those people!). Average is also subjective. Some say Beyonce looks average. Go figure.
120:02 really hit hard. Been hating my dad for cheating on my mom causing my childhood to be so chaotic. My mom recently passed and my dad was there with his new wife as a bishop of the church crying while I gave the eulogy.
ooffff damn that's rough, props to you holding it together and delivering the eulogy, cause you kept the focus clear in your mind and put your mother and her funeral first, screw everything else
What we need to learn is to separate the relationship between parent and child and parents inbetween themselves. What they do to each other should nor reflect on you or affect you.
Noone talks about the only fans girl as broken, we talk about the only fans girl as being a 304 and not fit to keep or make a family with. She can keep the purse
@9:30 Sadia talks about how CEOs have to be logical/etc. at work, and that is the exact opposite of what they need to be in relationship. That makes me think of engineers and software developers, who have to be far more logical and analytical at work than CEOs. And there are so many of us -- something like 7 million in the US alone!
Amazing that we should study psychology to be in a relationship. This would have saved me 14 years of not the perfect relationship. After I healed, my relationship became heavenly. I was acting like a feminist and had hidden issues so it wasn't easy to understand myself
Amazing duscussion. I loved most points...however Peoples healing starts and looks different...if a person wants to improve how they feel it can start in the therapist office before the gym. I was really surprised she would choose such an angle. But new follower gained.🎉
An Onlyfans girl 👧 will NEVER have self esteem attached to what she did. She may think she does, but in the end it will be regret. Selling your body will always be demeaning and self destructive.
I knew a woman who was a webcam model/chat girl. She used to date musicians and celebrities. She did some stripping for 20 years. When I met her she was chronically ill and trying to get a boy toy😑. She found out how to use filters for webcam modeling. She's also using a filter on Instagram. She was constantly being evicted, couldn't keep a steady relationship and spent thousands on cosmetic surgeries. I met her when I was working retail. She told me I was pretty and could make more money. I was young and thought she was helping me😢. I'm glad we became "friends" and she told me what she really had going on. I left the friendship. I never got into that "game".
Thank you so much guys for this wonderful interview, I haven't checked your respective channels yet, but I hope to see more of you two together It's such a joy to listen to you while I'm exercising And Sadia , I have watched some of your other videos, thank you so much for everything you are doing to help people around the world understand themselves and other people better If you ever need ideas to videos you want to make (if you haven't done so already) , I would like to know more about the following subjects: Becoming a challenge to a man Different personality types men have (avoidant, sensational , independent etc) How variety creates passion in a relationship (how to do that?) And most importantly: how to create a deep emotional connection with a man (and can you do that with a player ?) Thank you ❤
Problem with many women is they try to change the man after marriage .They try to customise him as per her needs and wishes and this is what backfires .
Problem with many men is they try to change women after marriage . Don't go out with friends, cook, clean, slave for free and be the breadwinner. When that wasn't how they met her. Most likely, she was what men call 304 when you met her and it wasn't a problem. You still chased her and pursued. Then men try to customize her as per his needs and wishes and this is what backfires.
She has a slight bias towards the modern whore ie onlyfans etc. The hell with emotional damage because they getting a bag?! They will never live that shit down. They lose. Shame on you you low key feminist
Astoundingly brilliant admirable and impressive and (unfortunately) unique woman! unfortunate that she's unique. and not just for a woman but as any human overall. if the majority of anybody and everybody were fractionally as intelligent in what seems should be a self obvious undeniable blatant truths, wed all be so muych better off. So refreshing to find someone so well spoken with what you would dream would be the standard and obvious view on things, willing and patient enough to take the time to talk to people about this sort of self evident thing you would think would be frustrating to have to explain all the time. just found her today and i gotta make this my last ,multi hour interview I've watched with her today. lol will be watching more in the future without a doubt. don't understand why someone like this isn't championed as the type of woman to be admired and looked up to for all others, not just young girls, but women of all ages. simply states facts about nonsense other women will passionately screech are reasonable ideas and not just modern day embarrassing lunacy. really great. will be watching more and spreading the word. beautiful and remarkably brilliant view of modern society on so many levels! . well done
Not everyone that is entrepreneur doesn’t like authority. Some people are just push to have their own business because the work place doesn’t pay enough to be able to afford to leave a life that is confortable. Rent 3500, food 300 2 weeks electricity 120 gas 75 internet 100 phone 100 car insurance 250 gasoline 40 to fill the tank that last 3 days if you drive a lot so for a person needs minimum of 5000 a month just to survive the problem is employers don’t want to pay, so people are force to work 2 jobs and now if you have kids that amount goes up.
This conversation has been very educational in many ways, especially in connecting with our partner. Any other sources in forming strong emotional bonds with our partners?
Couldn't help but notice that money was number 1 on the list for what a man "NEEDS" to get a woman. Kindness, caring, and masculine was like the last 3. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️
Especially since she was referring to a time when most women didn’t work out of the home. Yes a man ready for a relationship knew he needed resources to care for his woman and future family. ❤
Aristotle says that good habits must be taught by the age of 5. If they are not, then it's almost impossible to change that person. There are women who are 304s because their mothers were 304s. The family unit has been broken. Therefore, you can not solve this with therapy.
A loyal woman still wants money from her partner, however, it’s not for rising up through the social ladder. It’s for security for herself, her home and her children. Furthermore, if her husband is neglecting her emotionally, more money isn’t going to make up for the lack of connection. She wants him and his attention. Women who are rising up the social ladder don’t care if the man is there or not, she cares whether what he provides is there or not.
Ok I was liking the conversation but I had to stop listening after two points that almost came back-to-back. First, there was a somewhat subtle way she tried to make it seem like women have no biological clock and their opportunities are endless because they have an Instagram account is nonsense at best and dangerous at worst. Then on the OnlyFans she basically says yeah the men are really bad and the women get a pass because she gets a "perk" and she can "change her life." Almost as if she is absolving women of accountability. While she makes some salient points her bias is quite obvious and skews the conversation.
It is unfortunately true for countless men now days in regards to video games and porn. It is rare not to meet someone who doesn't spend 3+ hours a day gaming, and also then those same men have no experience with women, but want to be married. It is a harsh reality, but we can't have everything in life. Things take sacrifice to achieve. If you as a man want to get married, then you cannot be playing 3-8 hours a day after work or even on all of your days off. You gain nothing from it. I am not demonizing video games, I might add, but rather the excess so many men are indulging in when they really haven't done anything to earn even a fraction of the time they spend looking at the screen. Working a minimum wage job (or not much better) for 5+ years with no direction in life? The last thin anyone should be doing is increasing leisure time during your most energetic years. Then the issue with porn, which is far worse. It isn't just porn either, excessive masturbation is not good for lifestyle. Sex drive is what always kept men improving, and when you temper that every single day (many guys masturbate more than once a day), then you are robbing yourself of easy motivation to gain skills and work harder.
@@TollinNirolf Here is my problem with a lot of what you said and how I feel about this split in society right now. First off, I will tell you that I believe a man is the head of a household in marriage, and that a wife should submit to her husband as an authority in the relationship. Men in general are tasked with the role of leader and with that power comes a lot more responsibility than women have. With that said, men also have a far more logical mind. Women simply do not have the same capacity for logical thought. With those things in mind, the reality is that women will never change on their own and have always and will always be tied to how men are living their lives, leading (or lack there of) and in regards to more western cultures... voting. I don't look at women and curse their existences for their twisted minds right now. I am disappointed that many generations of men (as far back as baby boomers) have chosen the feminist way of life to varying degrees and have allowed women to take control. This control was not taken by force. It was taken by men becoming too accepting of easy sex post WW2 with the sexual revolution, and instead of standing on principle and keeping premarital sex as taboo, men ever since have chosen sex over a morally upstanding life. In short. Men are to blame from the very beginning. Women were always chaotic, but when men fell, so did women as the followers.
Thank you so much for having me Darren I loved this coversation!!! x
My pleasure! Many more to come.
Shukria Baji. Great work. Jzk
You are good at selling BS because you are an attractive woman.
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Sadia.....Would love to date you.
She's right. I'll work harder. And I'll keep all my money and resources to myself.
you miss the way of life bro, if you make a money and you are young than you are supposed to spend with your girlfriend , and enjoy tog.
How dare you make money and not spend it on a woman
Enjoy sitting in your big pile of money and fancy toys all by yourself 😢
@@dolanduk7946😂
@@amiohamidovic I don't want a golddigging slut around me. Better to spend my money on myself.
Wow this really gave my faith in humanity. The fact that there are people out there like these podcasters trying to ask difficult questions to build self awareness for improvement in relationships. I’m a very loyal , nurturing woman , and I started to worry that masculine men are going out of style and don’t need women like me anymore. This podcast gave me faith that if these conversations are happening, and you are getting clicks on these conversations; then there are most likely still people out there who are willing to work on their relationships. Gives me faith ❤
Men should AVOID women… especially Western Women. There is no upside.
Men definitely need you. Marry a doctor. They are hardworking and definitely need you
I absolutely adore her. She completely resonates with me. Sadia please if you haven't already, I urge you to start your own RUclips channel. Countless individuals should have the opportunity to listen to your valuable insights!
The more I hear her, the more I find her annnoying.
She speaks sense, but she should see a therapist to work out why she needs BOTOX even though she's naturally beautiful.
I wouldn't feel comfortable taking advice from someone who is supposed to be helping others with emotional issues when they themselves turn to chemicals to deal with their own insecurities
How do you know she's had Botox. Also even if she's had Botox it's still very evident she's a smart woman who knows what she's talking about. It's a shame isn't it so smart and also so beautiful it's really something to be jealous of isn't it. Oh well good luck to the sister may God keep blessing her. And may God bless you too.
@@kendallkendall825
That is a red flag, using such techniques to enhance her beauty is a sign that she also has internal issues that needs looking at, if you have a therapist, you want them to live what they preach, would you visit a dentist who has crooked teeth ?
I get what you are saying but Sadia admits she's a insecure person she's a human being the best thing is she recognises her flaws.
Love seeing all the podcasts Sadia is in. She speaks my mind without me being able to saying it that way. She has amazing skills in talking and conveying very detailed her message, I don’t know who doesn’t get what she says, but kuddo’s to you beautiful one 💜
Absolutely! The perfect balance between entertainment and education!
I am always looking for her next interview ❤ she is so great
so true…she’s simply amazing in her job
Simps 😂
I've just watchd three videos of her and she seems to contradct herself.
I understand the topics in this interview. I cannot endure a woman who I deem as unintelligent and therefore I cannot find them attractive enough to pursue. Intellectual compatibility is vital.
Agree
You can filter those out usually by their reaction to humor. One who laughs with your jokes (stupid as they might be - or not) you have a match and the opposite.
i have the same problem with men. FLAT FLAT FLAT. its A. annoying B. irrotating C I get bored within 2 weeks -- I ask myself a same question "did you sleep through hs / university?" (not you personally but you got a point). Tell me something like HEY Let's go to the Getty museum or LACMA or Hungtington library.
Listening to how Sadia talk about fathers really changed my perspective. I will make a change in my life today!
❤❤❤
Wow, she’s funny, down to earth, intelligent, approachable, articulate, honest, sweet, wise, graceful, warm and absolutely gorgeous! None of these instagram models have anything on her. That’s the role model we need!
I second that. Also, she does not project masculine energy, like most women nowadays and seeing that..its really rare and beautiful. Perhaps she could set up a podcast to teach women how to be confident and feminine..
I don’t agree at all with her, saying, a businessman needs a business woman who is intellectual to have common conversations. I think when a man comes home from a hard day of work, he does not care to talk to her about his business and work and he also doesn’t care to hear about how Karen from the office was getting on her nerves today he doesn’t care about her day like that. He wants to come home to peace, quiet, relaxing, femininity, and a nice cooked meal not sharing stories about their day at work when he comes home he’s done with work. He doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore. He wants to relax. Also saying that women who stay home are not intellectual, I highly disagree with that. women that decided to stay home and raise their children doesn’t mean they’re not intellectual and can’t have intelligent conversations.
You make a good point
So he doesnt need other person at all, he can be at peace on his own and order takeaway as warm meal. No human being should be treated like a maid or househelp in relationship where hers day or thoughts or expierience doesnt matter at all and she is waiting like a dog for her housband to get little pat at the back and then sit silently in the corner. Tou would really treat your partner like that? Of course you need someone who match you intelectually and has her own life going on. The most lonely and unhappy women are those in marriages where they are treated like halfhumans, only to take care of child and kitchen. It was like that in the 1950 and the level of alcoholism among them were crazy!!
I don’t think she is referring to conversations about Karen from the office. She means that the person needs to at least be a good conversation partner for you. What is the point of coming home to someone everyday whom you can’t even talk to? The growth of your connection is going to plateau.
I'm a female entrepreneur (i have my own consultancy company) and I work daily with male CEOs that are scaling their companies. And she is 100% right. In their younger years they want a loving, caring "mother" for their kids (and themselves). But I see time and time again that these men feel like they cannot fully be themselves and cannot express themselves with a partner who does not understand their challenges (and can be empathic about it) and where they have a sounding board for the emotional side of the job. Leading to quite a lot of divorces in their 40s.
Also a woman who is truly intellectual (IQ over 130) won't be a stay-at-home mom. It would drive her crazy.
Agree 💯
Absolutely love this! Love how Sadia puts things together. She’s an inspiration. Beauty with brain x
She's incredible! Glad you enjoyed.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die.
sober up.
female suicide up 50 percent
twice the number of women on mental health medication then men.
sober up
No, no she is Not an inspiration at all. She is wrong on different levels. I learn Nothing from her views. Specifically men who are very much alone can always pay for sex without the nuances of a relationship. She does not deal with this specific issue.
@@victorzea1455💯 yea she couldn't care less about the average guy. As far as she's concerned go stand on a stool and fall off...
Very interesting ! It's comforting to see people having this mindset in such a loving and compassionate manner 🙌💛🙌
Sadia is so on point with everything she says. I love listening to her talk. Thanks for a great interview.
My pleasure! She's an awesome guest.
thsi post wall women needs to shut her trap. women need to work harder, men have been freed by feminism. women are now working till their eggs die.
sober up.
female suicide up 50 percent
twice the number of women on mental health medication then men.
sober up
Well done Darren! There's so much valuable wisdom in this interview. Sadia is pure gold. I'll keep it for reference as you touch on so many subjects.
Would u marry a blue collar guy. I'm curious
@@KD400_ As long as he can communicate and has manners that's all I care about. I'm a teacher, so blue collar myself. Why do you ask?
@@Makeupzised because most women today feel entitled to a top tier guy that's y men like Andrew tate came about. Feminism brainwashed modern women. This is my go to question I ask women this all the time. Nothing personal I'm just asking. Would u get married?
Beatiful conversation ❤. Its very rare someone even speaking about man's perspective. She amazingly understands cetain innate wiring in men - 'longing for intimacy'.
Love you Sadia ♥️ the world need more humans like you . I know I lot of there not happy to hear this , yes we know the true hurt . Please keep this work , we love you ♥️
That woman is very wise, her advices are on point.
Right it’s refreshing 💕
Incredible conversation. We need more of these in order to move humanity forward. Better humans = better world. Sadia is a gift. Her wisdom and insights are well beyond her years. We should all just be grateful that we have access to her brilliance and that she's offering tools to help people be better.
Loved this talk. I'm currently in my first time ever long break, of relationships.. a whole 4 year.... dealing with traumas that has blocked me from allowing someone to fully come in. And be my very best self to my partners
I resonate so much with how she explained feeling like shit when she feels like she’s getting out of shape and not working out. I become a MONSTER. I’ve finally realized I need to be in the gym and eating right to be the best version of myself or my mental health takes the hit. 😫
5 years too late.
We want more. We want more. This one was very comfortable and interesting listening to. Nice combo! Well done.
How strange that the biggest problem or lack we have on this planet is intimacy, when there are so many of us humans around! Sadia you are so right...I think it was brave of you to even mention that men might be looking at porn even but still be looking for emotional intimacy....truth is, nothing is sexier than a genuine desire or emotional expression coming from a woman, and yet in such short supply...everything is this "performance" etc and women think they know what they are expected to look/sound like...ugh, I think the cutest thing I've ever heard with a woman was an unintentional little squeal..certainly nothing she was taught she should sound like, but it was so authentic I just adored it (summary: men cherish intimacy, though we mask it with bravado and what have you...nailed it with this interview Sadia, and Darren well done sir)
What is a genuine emotional expression?
@@dasein9980 to emote means to "move out" from within, so things that are not planned or consciously executed, imitated, affectations, etc
@@ArthursAtman I guess I was asking for an example but I get you.
@@dasein9980 I thought I provided an example re the girl squealing in a totally un-rehearsed fashion, and felt I was over-sharing at that
maybe mask it less :) be brave
wonderful interview but ... I'm a loving and loyal woman and I have never cheated on a man I've been with. I've been cheated on so of course I'd consider that this could happen again even when I'd never done it. With everything else I do resonate. Both are doing a great job here - thank you so much!
Sorry for that
@@basitnazir1631 thank you :)
@@Julia-me2nd actually some deserve more than they have. Maybe you are one of them ☺️
Wish you happiness and love..cheaters deserve cheaters.
@@uroojnafees3436 thank you - you’re right!
What an eye open conversations. Great job @Sadia you are what this generation needs ❤🙏🙌
This is probably the best video/interview I’ve seen with this lady. I’ve seen her on a few RUclips channels…this is the most interesting
A very intelligent conversation that makes clear where we are in terms of relationships, raising families and coping mechanisms in the modern world. Thank you. Much appreciated 🙏♥️
Fantastic interview between both of you! And some very very useful insights for relationships. Thank you Darren and Sadia!
My pleasure thank you for listening!
Sadia is both beautiful and intelligent. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.
Relationships are so hard. I loved this interview. She is awesome ❤
There are also women who don’t accept a cheating man but I never did cheat in revenge. I never did but I eventually left but it took months. So we exist and it’s a rare exception
Absolutely.
Cheating in return does not help in any way
The most accurate counselor I have ever read or heard ...amazing
Thank you!
Oh sadia, I am learning how to be a good partner because of u!
Success is measured by how many people will be there when you are unsuccessful.
I disagree with her on the onlyfans part. Women may be millionaires but the cost of being a mom and having your children see you porn is a curse I would not want to have.
Blanket statement.
You don’t need to agree you can acknowledge how brilliant the presentation is and take all information that you need to pursue your wonderful life.
I think your one of the few voice on social media that values human reasoning and empirical evidence unbiased as opposed to the clout chasing of most voice on social media claiming to give men and women ‘advice’ that is nothing more than extorting people for views in order to boast their social media likes and bank balance. But of course your more rigorous and of a greater analytical depth than the others because you have the academic training to contextualise the subject matter as opposed to been an internet troll and look for controversy in order to be famous and wealthy
The desire to be an entrepreneur is the natural desire for freedom
100%
Facts.
Hence the war on small business.
1:07:25 The women who accept cheating husband tend to be emotionally detached from their husband. They are likely to *expect their husbands to betray them*.
Because they know they are an option, and there is competing interest outside for the same resource, so they can not truly rely 100% on the husband’s loyalty. This resolves them to seek *stable* resources elsewhere.
Women who get cheated on have come to the realization that if their man cheats on them, every man would cheat on them.
This is so true, I didn't start off that way with my (now ex) husband but if you don't leave when they cheat you have to force yourself to emotionally detach to survive. By the time it ended (several affairs later) I was so indifferent to him that I honestly wouldn't have cared if he lived or died except for the fact that I would have felt sorry for the kids.
Just wanted to chime in as someone who was adopted by my mother only and we had no contact with her ex after the divorce. I had no issues with that and my mom was wonderful. I suspect you may have only noticed the kids who were struggling.
I'm in love with Sadia Khan's mind. Beautiful, intelligent woman. Extremely rare these days😅
Intelligent ? Telling women it’s fine to have an only fans is anything but intelligent.
@@deezelkanecontext. If you're ho. Take the money. Doing it free is worse. And hos have existed since beginning of time
@@TheFaro2011 and they’ve been treated like dogs also… you want to do onlyfans, great, don’t cry about it when you’re old and single
What a smart women.She can see the world from the male and female perspective. Spot on with all the child information regarding separating parents. 100pc spot on.
Wonderful talk with sadia khan a psychologist on human psychology well done and a great talk show Glad to be watching this show on youtube from chennai, Tamilnadu
So glad you both made this happen. Best @sadiapsychology interview yet. FACTS.
Thank you brother! No holding back in this pod.
This generation need more interviews like this!!Respect and be loyal
Sadia is very smart, both of you have good ideas about mature ways to handle relationships
I love it ❤ every sentence is true and full of wisdom
Thank you!
I totally can relate to you, stadia. I’ve lost my mother in the middle of my adolescence (14/15). So I got used to do drugs, alcohol and prostitution… I had to become more mature in my life to overcome these kinda like grief feelings and today, by the age of 40 I’m clean and matured…but it’s been a hard time with a lot of struggle. But the person I’ve became now knows, finally, how Togo on in life
this was so educational and all of it was so logical and made so much sense! thank you both for creating this useful conversation
love sadia khan! she calls out the red pill men
She calls out everyone both red pills and feminists. I love her.
@@gmu6081 Ruthless. I love it.
She calls out delusional people & people who introduce view that lead to destruction of family institution..
@@syahiraamran2800how are red pill men anti family?
Love me some Sadia Khan. She is so intelligent and I agree a lot with what she is saying. And I’m 11 days sober today! Agree with her on alcohol as well
Yes, men crave emotional intimacy but most women don’t want most men. Women have been conditioned by social media and dating apps, as you stated. An average man is contemptible when there are millionaires hunks out there. To make matters worse when one of these dream guys sleep with them they feel there’s a chance maybe they can BE with them. It hardly ever happens. Time and time again women choose solitude over being with an average man even if they’re an average woman.
Exactly!
That's not true. I know plenty of "average" couples. Social media usually highlights the above average people. Most people are too busy living life to post so much on social media(I'm one of those people!). Average is also subjective. Some say Beyonce looks average. Go figure.
@@starrjohnson1327 Beyonce is average
This is my first Darren podcast, what insight you have and Sadia I’m a huge fan……. Donna in Toronto
Thank you! Really glad you enjoyed it.
120:02 really hit hard. Been hating my dad for cheating on my mom causing my childhood to be so chaotic. My mom recently passed and my dad was there with his new wife as a bishop of the church crying while I gave the eulogy.
Sorry to hear that! Hopefully the episode helped.
ooffff damn that's rough, props to you holding it together and delivering the eulogy, cause you kept the focus clear in your mind and put your mother and her funeral first, screw everything else
My condolences for your lovely mother
What was the eulogy?
What we need to learn is to separate the relationship between parent and child and parents inbetween themselves. What they do to each other should nor reflect on you or affect you.
What a great gal! Very beautiful and intelligent… insightful advice. Also a healer essentially. Thank you!
Noone talks about the only fans girl as broken, we talk about the only fans girl as being a 304 and not fit to keep or make a family with. She can keep the purse
Let's talk about the majority of people who subscribe to their OnlyFans.
@9:30 Sadia talks about how CEOs have to be logical/etc. at work, and that is the exact opposite of what they need to be in relationship. That makes me think of engineers and software developers, who have to be far more logical and analytical at work than CEOs. And there are so many of us -- something like 7 million in the US alone!
Well look at who works in IT. People without social skills mostly.
Thank you, she’s great ❤
I love Sadia ❤ The most impressive articulation with Impeccable knowledge a woman could have ❤
Great talk, thanks for teaching, correcting and setting things straight. I loved this talk and i have learned alot, ready to change .
She’s awesome I absolutely love her and her knowledge, mind blowing and mind altering thank you 🙏🏽
One of the best podcasts I've heard all year! Thanks for this ❤😊
My pleasure! Glad you enjoyed it.
Young williamson! Dude the production is TOP NOTCH
Thank you brother! Small steps.
Amazing that we should study psychology to be in a relationship. This would have saved me 14 years of not the perfect relationship.
After I healed, my relationship became heavenly.
I was acting like a feminist and had hidden issues so it wasn't easy to understand myself
Amazing duscussion. I loved most points...however Peoples healing starts and looks different...if a person wants to improve how they feel it can start in the therapist office before the gym. I was really surprised she would choose such an angle. But new follower gained.🎉
Very deep; intense and insightful conversation. Thank you
Thank you! really glad you enjoyed it!
. that I was drawn to the title of this clip says a lot. Right?! I am really impressed with this content though!
Well done all around and huge thanks.
An Onlyfans girl 👧 will NEVER have self esteem attached to what she did. She may think she does, but in the end it will be regret. Selling your body will always be demeaning and self destructive.
I knew a woman who was a webcam model/chat girl. She used to date musicians and celebrities. She did some stripping for 20 years. When I met her she was chronically ill and trying to get a boy toy😑. She found out how to use filters for webcam modeling. She's also using a filter on Instagram. She was constantly being evicted, couldn't keep a steady relationship and spent thousands on cosmetic surgeries. I met her when I was working retail. She told me I was pretty and could make more money. I was young and thought she was helping me😢. I'm glad we became "friends" and she told me what she really had going on. I left the friendship. I never got into that "game".
Thank you so much guys for this wonderful interview, I haven't checked your respective channels yet, but I hope to see more of you two together
It's such a joy to listen to you while I'm exercising
And Sadia , I have watched some of your other videos, thank you so much for everything you are doing to help people around the world understand themselves and other people better
If you ever need ideas to videos you want to make (if you haven't done so already) , I would like to know more about the following subjects:
Becoming a challenge to a man
Different personality types men have (avoidant, sensational , independent etc)
How variety creates passion in a relationship (how to do that?)
And most importantly: how to create a deep emotional connection with a man (and can you do that with a player ?)
Thank you ❤
Problem with many women is they try to change the man after marriage .They try to customise him as per her needs and wishes and this is what backfires .
And men do their equal opposite. Men stop paying attention to their wives and lazy at home and in their relationship
@@TheFaro2011 you just cant paint all men with same brush. some men and women both are lazy and dont pay much attention to there spouces .
Problem with many men is they try to change women after marriage . Don't go out with friends, cook, clean, slave for free and be the breadwinner. When that wasn't how they met her. Most likely, she was what men call 304 when you met her and it wasn't a problem. You still chased her and pursued.
Then men try to customize her as per his needs and wishes and this is what backfires.
great job done… thanks from berlin… both of you created a superb session🍀
Marriage is very important
I think that JWaller and her would make a great episode regarding the topics that were brought up.
You cannot turn only fans thots into housewives.
She has a slight bias towards the modern whore ie onlyfans etc. The hell with emotional damage because they getting a bag?! They will never live that shit down. They lose. Shame on you you low key feminist
Astoundingly brilliant admirable and impressive and (unfortunately) unique woman! unfortunate that she's unique. and not just for a woman but as any human overall. if the majority of anybody and everybody were fractionally as intelligent in what seems should be a self obvious undeniable blatant truths, wed all be so muych better off. So refreshing to find someone so well spoken with what you would dream would be the standard and obvious view on things, willing and patient enough to take the time to talk to people about this sort of self evident thing you would think would be frustrating to have to explain all the time. just found her today and i gotta make this my last ,multi hour interview I've watched with her today. lol will be watching more in the future without a doubt. don't understand why someone like this isn't championed as the type of woman to be admired and looked up to for all others, not just young girls, but women of all ages. simply states facts about nonsense other women will passionately screech are reasonable ideas and not just modern day embarrassing lunacy. really great. will be watching more and spreading the word. beautiful and remarkably brilliant view of modern society on so many levels! . well done
Not everyone that is entrepreneur doesn’t like authority. Some people are just push to have their own business because the work place doesn’t pay enough to be able to afford to leave a life that is confortable.
Rent 3500, food 300 2 weeks electricity 120 gas 75 internet 100 phone 100 car insurance 250 gasoline 40 to fill the tank that last 3 days if you drive a lot so for a person needs minimum of 5000 a month just to survive the problem is employers don’t want to pay, so people are force to work 2 jobs and now if you have kids that amount goes up.
Dont have kids if you cant afford them. Period.
@@jarkachalmovianska7812your preaching to deaf ears. These women believe in manifestation and that everything will be ok.
This conversation has been very educational in many ways, especially in connecting with our partner. Any other sources in forming strong emotional bonds with our partners?
Couldn't help but notice that money was number 1 on the list for what a man "NEEDS" to get a woman. Kindness, caring, and masculine was like the last 3. 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻♂️
Especially since she was referring to a time when most women didn’t work out of the home. Yes a man ready for a relationship knew he needed resources to care for his woman and future family. ❤
@@LadyJamieElizabeth369I think he’s talking about in this time😂
It's so true so attractive when man is so confidant and sometimes tells me what to do
This lady is amazing !!
Extremely Attractive and an Intriguing Faculty up there
Aristotle says that good habits must be taught by the age of 5. If they are not, then it's almost impossible to change that person. There are women who are 304s because their mothers were 304s. The family unit has been broken. Therefore, you can not solve this with therapy.
It's sad that the father/man wanted to sleep with a 304 in the first place.
He should have higher standards and a moral code.
@@ak-47intelligence75because mother raised him that way unfortunately...
What an uplifting fact that life should all be about work.
psychology and child psychology is so interesting
I wish I had listened to this advice years ago.
She is definitely beautiful 😍 I’m a woman and straight but she deserves her flowers 💐
Priceless interview. Amazing conversation💛
A fantastic conversation Darren and Sadia ❤
Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it!
I love Sadia, and the interviewer here is solid. Seems like a likable guy. Great stuff
A loyal woman still wants money from her partner, however, it’s not for rising up through the social ladder. It’s for security for herself, her home and her children. Furthermore, if her husband is neglecting her emotionally, more money isn’t going to make up for the lack of connection. She wants him and his attention. Women who are rising up the social ladder don’t care if the man is there or not, she cares whether what he provides is there or not.
I agree with you :)
I find your your talks insightful. When you say women don’t lie, it means that men do. It’s probably true
Ok I was liking the conversation but I had to stop listening after two points that almost came back-to-back. First, there was a somewhat subtle way she tried to make it seem like women have no biological clock and their opportunities are endless because they have an Instagram account is nonsense at best and dangerous at worst. Then on the OnlyFans she basically says yeah the men are really bad and the women get a pass because she gets a "perk" and she can "change her life." Almost as if she is absolving women of accountability. While she makes some salient points her bias is quite obvious and skews the conversation.
absolutely right
@Success is measured by the people that will be there when you aren’t successful”
One of my favorite interviews with Sadia. ❤
can't stop listening to sadia,
I love sadia,she is the best.
She's incredible at what she does.
Sadia looks gorgeous. I love it when Darren swears in his Irish accent. ❤
I love how she dress up.she never show her skin which I like so much about her.
Wonderful canned answer on what women find attractive.
It is unfortunately true for countless men now days in regards to video games and porn. It is rare not to meet someone who doesn't spend 3+ hours a day gaming, and also then those same men have no experience with women, but want to be married.
It is a harsh reality, but we can't have everything in life. Things take sacrifice to achieve. If you as a man want to get married, then you cannot be playing 3-8 hours a day after work or even on all of your days off. You gain nothing from it. I am not demonizing video games, I might add, but rather the excess so many men are indulging in when they really haven't done anything to earn even a fraction of the time they spend looking at the screen. Working a minimum wage job (or not much better) for 5+ years with no direction in life? The last thin anyone should be doing is increasing leisure time during your most energetic years.
Then the issue with porn, which is far worse. It isn't just porn either, excessive masturbation is not good for lifestyle. Sex drive is what always kept men improving, and when you temper that every single day (many guys masturbate more than once a day), then you are robbing yourself of easy motivation to gain skills and work harder.
@@TollinNirolf Here is my problem with a lot of what you said and how I feel about this split in society right now.
First off, I will tell you that I believe a man is the head of a household in marriage, and that a wife should submit to her husband as an authority in the relationship. Men in general are tasked with the role of leader and with that power comes a lot more responsibility than women have.
With that said, men also have a far more logical mind. Women simply do not have the same capacity for logical thought.
With those things in mind, the reality is that women will never change on their own and have always and will always be tied to how men are living their lives, leading (or lack there of) and in regards to more western cultures... voting.
I don't look at women and curse their existences for their twisted minds right now. I am disappointed that many generations of men (as far back as baby boomers) have chosen the feminist way of life to varying degrees and have allowed women to take control.
This control was not taken by force. It was taken by men becoming too accepting of easy sex post WW2 with the sexual revolution, and instead of standing on principle and keeping premarital sex as taboo, men ever since have chosen sex over a morally upstanding life.
In short. Men are to blame from the very beginning. Women were always chaotic, but when men fell, so did women as the followers.
I have yet to behold a host like Darren, thank you! This is awesome.
'The first thing about entrepreneurs they don't like authority ' so true 😂
No, we don’t like authorities that get our way😎
Nah we just hate stupid people. If the authorities and rules are reasonable then it's fine.
I'm dying, I refuse to be "saved" by the likes of you. Authority is all yours.
God be with you.