The Relationship Expert: We HAVE been conditioned to know MEN sleep around: Sadia Khan
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- Опубликовано: 7 июн 2024
- Join me as I chat with Sadia, a psychologist and relationship coach, about everything related to toxic relationships, cheating, and behavior patterns. Sadia shares her expert opinion on modern relationships in the age of social media and how it affects our behavior and choices. Discover the secrets to building healthy relationships and maintaining trust and respect in a world where instant gratification and temptation are just a swipe away. Don't miss out on this enlightening and informative conversation about love, trust, and the complexities of human connection. Tune in now!
Topics:
0:00 Intro
0:35 Welcome back
1:42 Moving to Dubai
4:02 Dating Women in Dubai
5:05 My FRIEND thought he was Casanova
7:39 Can you Marry Women in Dubai
8:33 Girls Comparing Themselves to Sugar Babies
11:24 What are Modern men rewarding
13:33 What MEN are desiring
14:34 Jealousy when Children are born
17:02 Why are men hard to date in Dubai
18:07 Relationships get boring
22:05 Struggles women may face?
23:24 Andrew Tate
27:37 High-Value Men Stepping out of Marriages
30:07 Rich MEN are most likely to get cheated on
32:51 How Can Women find a good man
34:34 What is A High-Value Woman
39:54 Why are Hot Women CRAZY
41:00 why do one-night stands. get paid for it
41:28 Are most Hot Women sugar babies?
46:28 Only Fans
49:15 Face App & FaceTune
52:25 Why are Women Jealous of Each Other
56:37 Signs of a Friend that's jealous of you
01:02:12 What does Sadia want to be known for
I hope you enjoy this episode! Don’t forget to like and subscribe for more videos.
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Out of nowhere RUclips offered me this podcast. I did not regret clicking on the thumbnail. What a deep, meaningful conversation! I really learned something. This episode might be your breakthrough! Greetings from Austria (Europe)
me too
I am so glad you enjoyed it!
she is brutally wrong about equating feminazi podcasts to red pill podcasts - it is very necessary to expose modern trashy liberal female behaviour which is what red pill does very well, while providing the mindset to counter and navigate it. She is a pseudo-intellectual at best.
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out of her money lol
"When the relationship loses it's excitement we assume it's lost its love. But really it's lost it's novelty." Couldn't of said it better myself. Love is boring. Life is boring. I don't think a lot of people understand that.
Exactly 👌🏻
So true
So what should one do in that situation??
@@hardrock9199 I think what one should do is look at what is valuable. Is this relationship valuable? Does it complete me, does it bring meaning and purpose to my life? I mean everything that is new is fun at first. But when it fades, what is left? I take this approach with almost everything in my life. I know this might sound oppressive and misogynist but I do look at a girl as part of my kingdom. But I take pride in my kingdom. I protect my kingdom. I take care of my kingdom. And a girl that's just fun for the first 2 months, well, you're not part of my kingdom.
@@hardrock9199 in general for bringing novelty in a relationship people should be a little bit creative., start going to dating again, dress up and have a romantic dinner once in a while, go dance tango together or ask her to put different lingerie (u can buy some expensive ones u like) u can play with different role playing, or go to a luxury hotel one night just to have fun together without the kids ect.. I mean sexuality needs work and creativity it makes the relationship fun again
If you want a virtuous woman you need to be a virtuous man. I'm so glad she touched on this.
Exactly a man needs to have the trait to attract.
Seems all the virtuous women have UGLY faces, and out of shape.
Any girl with an ounce of pretty privilege gets love bombed by the algorithm, and eventually chooses to become a 304 for the least virtuous men in every community
a virtual man
There are tons of virtuous men out there but women don't want them. They all want the same few guys then complain when he won't choose them alone. Lmao.
@@venividivici6418 we don't want virtuous women... we want beautiful and sexy women. She spoke on this in the video.
“When a relationship loses its excitement we assume its lost its love but really it’s lost its novelty, and Novelty is only available in new relationships so what happens is.. people are craving the feeling in new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships”
Big facts 😮👏🏾
Maybe you don’t need a relationship. Maybe you need a circus or an entertainment show.
@@tacorevenge87people misunderstand the function of a relationship. It is companionship. It is sharing life with another person, highs and lows. For that to be enjoyable you must love the person to the extent that their happiness and contentment is your own. I see that with my own parents and grandparents. My mothers smile means the world to my father. He values her as his equal in all regards and greater in many. Young people do not value companionship, they do not want it, they want a drama filled adrenaline rush. Young girls joke online about picking fights for the sake of it. Men cheat endlessly and justify it by their biology. So I suggest all stay on tinder and rot away in dysfunction.
Why is novelty exciting? There is nothing more exciting that being reciprocated in love and having that deep connection… even sx is just ecstasy. Like people seriously need to stop fking around and actually set to find a partner in crime for everything in life, there is no better feeling and nothing beyond that. Seems that experiencing true love is a very rare thing
@@user-yd4nk4lm6s agree. However women cheat more.
@@user-yd4nk4lm6s Funny how you mention that men are cheating. Since over 60% on men in the US from 16 to 35 are single. Who are they cheating on? Can you elaborate?
"Saving it for marriage" used to be a thing for both men and women. Having enough self control used to be traits of strong men and women. We're living in a weak society today where sleeping around, cheating and hypergamy has become normal. Somehow sex has become a symbol of freedom and being independent. We're makers of our own doom.
Hypergamy and a select few men sleeping around is not a new thing ….it has always been around and do you know how degenerate and deviant the old world used to be
It has always been around it’s just that it’s now everywhere for everybody to see
The new thing is women sleeping around that’s what’s crazy 😂😂😂😂
@@ernestbruce263 same can be said about women too then cuz who were these men sleeping with??
@@StriveforJannah2 women but the average woman was with the average man and saw the average man as a catch cos back then making money or food was extremely difficult so the average man used to be cherished and the women used to see the horrors and carnage men used to go through so they respected men and their hypergamy was satisfied
Although they still wanted the knights and top guys back then
They weren’t delusional and unaware of what they can attract and keep
It has been like this throughout tne abundance phase of any civilization. A) We didnt have social media for the whole world to see, know and comment. B) women for pleasure was a different category than wife and mother of children; and were kept as such. Now all women have cheapened themselves by sleeping around. C) the government or ruling organization in the past did not support poor behaviour, now they encourage it and take from tax payers to support poor behavior such as single mom with 4 kids from 4 different fathers getting $$$ for bad choices.
People used to sleep around as well but it was more secretive. Nothing has changed. People did not start feeling more lust all of a sudden. Wake up!
Your relationship should not be your primary source of excitement.. Your own life should be the primary source of excitement.. You can't put that on your partner.. That is your own responsibility to keep your life existing
@Devils' Advocate Completely agree.
What does that mean? What from your life should give you your excitement?
That's what 304s tell themselves when they cheat?
@@EV-EV-EV Hobbies. Goals you are pursuing. Perhaps a fulfilling career. Things you are learning. Experiences you are having. If you can't come up with exciting things outside of a romantic partner, you are suffering from a serious lack of perspective, friend.
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This lady is a treasure! Protect her at all costs. Raising a teenage daughter is a true challenge in this day and age and women who speak such wisdom are vital to the preservation of a sane society.
Feel bad for high value men who make horrible choices on women? I’m so glad Sadia said to not feel bad because they choose this life. 1000000% correct!
He isn't high value if he can't choose right. Men and women BOTH choose a reflection of themselves. Especially after the age of 25.
High value man should just be a man of integrity; not $$.
For real. Talk about not knowing your worth.
'Craving the feeling of new relationships rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationships' is so true in today's society. As Sadia said, we must recognize that marriage or long term relationships and habituating together by nature will be become boring and it is about accepting that stability, predictability rather than reaching for constant excitement and novelty.
Sadia khan embodies EVERYTHING a women should be!! Absolutely lovely and stunning
If you compare work and relationships, you'll often find similarities. Just like a job interview (first date), then getting together (getting the job) spending 2-5 years in that job, getting a promotion (marriage) spending another 5 years promoted, of course things will get boring and monotonous eventually. That's just routine. The first day on a job is always more exciting than day 458 on a job. Sometimes it's good to just appreciate what is. There's ways to fall in love all over again by spicing things up for sure but it can't always be like that.
Rich men choose the top level girl by looks but they often forget that other men too wants her. So now she has even more options and there's a high chance that she'll be cheating. It's as simple as that
Very few men have the balls to approach women to begin wtih let alone good looking women.
There is a big difference between men and hunters ! Taxidermist you don't want but deep down want a little more.
Wrong, rich men are choosing these girls just for sex, he has no intention of actually marrying her he knows this type of girl is just with him for money. You think he hasn't got other girls aswell?😂 This Sadia girl is delusional, ive never seen someone be so confident in being so wrong 😂
@@zsheikh1234 idk why people keep saying this shit. you obviously don't have any female friends
@@zsheikh1234 Yeah but it s about RICH MEN, they just approach beautiful women and women accept them right away because he is rich
Thank you for having me! Such a great host and amazing questions ❤
Found you 👍
You give bad advise, it's not so different for what passes as "red pill" today with it's touch of feminist ideology. No wonder your "about that life" because if you knew better then you wouldn't be.
Thank you Sadia! I love listening to you, I feel lucky to have the possibility to gain so much wisdom and insights 🙂
I love what Sadia said at the 33min mark about how women can find a good man. Growing up with divorced parents I watched my dad have the worst toxic arguments with whoever he's dating or married to after my mom. Watching all of that made me terrified of facing conflict in a relationship so whenever I had fights with my exes, I would dump them after the first fight :(
But then I met my boyfriend and he's very calm and fair during our fights. Even if he's mad at me he would still give me time to explain my view of the conflict, we rarely raise our voice at eachother(and if we do, we apologize within 24 hours), and since technically I'm living under his roof, he still offers to take the couch if we can't find a solution before bed. No immature silent treatment or trying to get "revenge" just to piss me off in the moment. No broken glasses. He makes the inevitable conflicts in any long term relationship a safe space to disagree. I feel so loved and feel so good for finding someone emotionally healthier than my parents.
100% agree with how many men feel. I lost a part of my wife when we had our son but I had to put it in perspective that she’s protecting my legacy..Also, toxicity is a form of attention for men. Men want excitement and attention some times NOT all the time or everyday.
I am so grateful. This podcast has opened my eyes and made me realise how lucky I am to have found my wife. No point delving in to the reasons, but thank you to the host and Sadia.
I am glad you enjoyed it ❤️
When Sadia talks she fills the room with such energy as if she is a good friend of yours and you have known each other for years
Came here from tiktok..she really gave me new insights.
If only every married woman out there listened to these two wise women... thank you, this was a really good podcast!
A lot of us know this though… just hard to find the other half
What a wonderful discussion. Very spot on I learned so many things. Sadia explained so many topics so clearly, She concisely explained why Hollywood marriages fail, the current state of relationships, and how one has to really decide what one wants out of their relationship and choose accordingly. Sadia is brilliant and seems like such a good soul.
Really good video. I love Sadia valuing balance so much. I also like her point that men allow certain behavior to thrive in society if they reward it. You're a great host, Sadia loved most of your questions and enjoyed her time. RUclips needs more of these balanced, feminine, unbiased conversations. I want to mention that as a Christian, the product of Islam can bear a lot of good fruit, and I commend that. Cheers.
The more I Watch woke librals the more I appreciate and value my Indian Culture. Great Podcast
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Tu C agar hai agar tujhe lagta hai DeGenerency india nhi aayi hai women in india cheats very much it's just that men don't open it in front of everyone and most men accept their fate because of judges like chandrachur trust me you don't even know what's going on in india specially related to marriage women are giving divorces to men so easily getting alimony, child support even after cheating on their husbands more than 350 men commit suicide in a month in india. Even the cuckold lifestyle is here in india where the man watches his wife getting railed by other men checkout clubs in Bangalore, Mumbai, Delhi, gurgaon bahar nikla Karo raat mai sab pata lag jayega kya hora hai
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I think you didnt really talked to Indian women. Indian women are more woke then the real wokes.
lmao same
I love Sadia, she articulates herself so well. Can really resonate with what she says, great podcast. Enjoyed watching it, well done both of you x
Glad you enjoyed it!
NEVER in my entire life has expressing my needs in a relationship, EVER resulted in those needs being addressed in any way that isn’t directly negative.
Literally never.
Ya.....
I have read your comment like 5 times and because of the double negative I honestly don't know what you mean
@@mackprime6975 ok, i mean that every time i bring up my needs its a negative experience. Happy?
I know. Men can be deaf, dumb, blind, uncaring and egoistic. The speaker doesn't say this. She is quite biased. Plays to the Galleries and probably gets her clients this way. Yuks.
!!! Who are u choosing for partners??? women who actually love u, LOVE finally hearing a man attempt to express his actual needs - as opposed to just acting them out. A true partner will hold your vulnerability as precious. If u are getting bad reactions/defensiveness, u need to look at the maturity of your partner and own HOW u are expressing yourself as well.
I will try to show this to everyone around me. I wish I knew this earlier. Our kids need this information. Really loved the host and the guest. We need more people like these. Love from Pakistan xx
Great interview. I wish it was longer. So you'll have to have Sadia back for another interview
One of the best interviews I've heard recently, congratulations and thank you for sharing!
So glad to see this psychologist again in a podcast :)
Great interview, I love scrolling through the comments. It’s amazing how easy it is to focus on the negative and not see the good. In the times we are living men should be respected by woman. Sad reality is so many have lost their identity. Simplicity is a sign of authenticity. We need masculine men. It’s a pity Dubai is a city of pleasure seeking, shows that soon peace will become rare few will be able to tap into it. It’s like trying to take an addict off drugs.
This was so good and interesting, you asked so many good questions and followups and Sadia gave such insightful comment. I also love that you let her speak and simply guided her instead of being overbearing.
Thank you for this wonderful interview! Many things about this I could relate to especially about women who become jealous or mean. I’ve struggled to work around other women even tho I am the youngest of 5 daughters and my sisters are my best friends, for some reason women whom I’m not related to always saw me as competition. I come from a conservative background and traditional background, focusing on care for each other and serving each other.
I think one of the biggest compliments I get is when someone tells me how thoughtful I am! That to me supersedes whatever superficial thing people think I am! Huge compliment! 🥰
Thanks again for bringing Sadia on! 🌹 🌹
I am so glad you liked it ❤️
Same here. It was refreshing to hear two other women say this. The worst behaviour I've faced has always come from women.
Wow, this is the most sane thing I have heard in a while. The messaging is quite balanced. Keep it up. First time seeing your video, I am happy that I did.
Love this podcast, been saying so much of what she’s saying; glad her education and wisdom is being broadcast bc she speaks the truth.
Great conversation, many uncomfortable truths shared, which is so needed at this time. I grew up in Dubai and it was both surprising and refreshing to hear some criticisms being made about the place on a public platform by people currently living there, because during my time there it felt like you couldn't voice even the smallest criticism of Dubai in public without getting into trouble. Also, I watched this during the Libra Full Moon, and it tickled me that there was SO much Aphrodite energy radiating from Sadia, to me she seemed like such a fabulous embodiment of Aphrodite: beauty, brains, humor, charm, balance, way with words, confidence, etc. I also liked that she gives credit to her Creator! 💖💖💖💖💖
Love this interview Hameda and Sadia! Great stuff!
This podcast with Sadia is gold. Thx
This lady really knows men and relationships! I agreed with just about everything she said. The only part is that when men express, we get the exact thing she mentioned, "Get over it". I've heard a number of women use that phrase in reference to their men's concerns. And it really is a downhill slope.
Shes basically a bimbo, with matching mentality. She knows men who use prostitutes, and what they want
No woman knows men besides what we tell them
Very refreshing discussion, thank you!
Sadia is a beautiful soul in this messed up world. Thank you Sadia for keeping it real.
This interview has so much great information. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
This podcast is a breathe of fresh air. I was wrong for thinking it was gonna be a surface level type of conversation. You guys legitimately understand nuance and different world views/perspectives and take them into account. Im hooked.
Love that point at 21:58 about how society trickles down to relationships and our tendency to get everything faster, cheaper better also makes us want to dispose of relationships. Very interesting observation. I wonder what are some tips to help with this.
Had to give this a thumbs up! You’re both beautiful inside and out
Highly amazed to hear Sadia Khan's bold and blunt talk and what impressed me the most that she never minced words while expressing her views.
May Almighty God bless both the interviewee and interviewer.
That was scintillating! Incredible Chemistry, Wonderful production - perfect camera work. Two very accomplished and polished Women. Utterly refreshing. Sadia Khan is intoxicating, refined and presidential. This video will become a reference point and stand the test of time. Thankyou both. London, UK
I am very glad you enjoyed this podcast 🙏🏾
"The men set the tone." Exactly. Unfortunately, many Western men are starting to migrate to foreign dating pools and bringing their Western values with them, and diluting the traditional values of other countries, rewarding bad behavior everywhere they go.
Ha! This is the most tone deaf comment ive read all day.
@@GangusBong1 I'm in total agreement with the overall discussion, just pointing out an unfortunate glaring contradiction in the behavior of some (not all) passport bros. perhaps you haven't seen the videos of some passport bros in other countries partying with scantily clad women. Between the music, the alcohol, the clothes, and the exhibitionism, you would think they were right here in the good 'ol usa. Can't tell the difference between the values of the women here and the values of some of the women in so-called traditional cultures. I'm not the one who is tone-deaf, or rude.
Yes, the wrong to tone it is. People are abusing facts and opinions for their own benefits. But that's nothing new😅
@@sef4610 youre literally just looking for a reason to complain and yes, BE RUDE. Like if a man so much as takes a breath, yall have something to say about it
thank you for time stamps!!!
I heard that if a person doesn't fair well with friends from their gender, it's usually something they are doing wrong.
Thank you for this!!!! I’ve been seeing so many of those alpha males and feminist podcasts and videos that lean way to far on one side that it makes me sad. This talk was definitely is more realistic and balanced
Unbelievably Wise conversation.
Wow .. just 2 girls talking .. so wholesome and back to back nuggets of wisdom ...
Beautiful discussion ... I am obsessed ..
Thank you for the impressive amount of value in this conversation.
Woow she said "people are craving the feeling in new relationship rather than enjoying the stability of existing relationship" that's what'sup ❤
Sadia's dropping bars, kudos to the host
Glad I found this, totally interesting conversation
Best video I have ever listened to! Thank you!
Really good podcast. BOTH of you were great.
Thanks for listening
This knowledge is precious. God bless
This is on point!!! I've been saying this for so long!!
Loved this chat, thanks lovelies💞💞
So glad!
Great conversation!
Glad you like it 👌🏻😊
Loved this, Sadia is a beauty and a great model for girls today
Very intelligent conversation thank you lady’s !
Very interesting video. So many nuggets about relationships.
I can see why other women would be jealous of her, she perfect. 🤩 Sadia, your my new role model, pose and smart.
Sadia, the big sister we all need
wonderful thank you guys!
not sure how i got here but it was surprisingly good - thanks!
Great Talk!
It’s not about always trying to fix boredom with more excitement. ACCEPT that life/marriage gets boring and that feeling is okay. When you go through life avoiding boredom/stillness and searching for the next exciting/active thing you’ll constantly do that forever. And never feel fulfilled. Chasing constantly is far more miserable than stillness if you ask me.
Untrue. Novelty is a key component of the human existence. There’s nothing more destructive than familiarity and complacency.
Loved this interwiew❤
This is amazing I've learned so much. Always something to learn I guess
Thank you Michael!
The ease that the speaker Miss sadia is referring to is what she doesn't understand. Its called grace of a higher power. Like we all are not built with same destiny and same purpose. Hardworking is important but some people just doing the work with out it been hard is also important. The most important is doing something and your grace will speak for you. Its on a spiritual level and people won't understand it. It also could be seeds sown by your four fathers on your lineage but it goes deeper. Which is why you should always find a safe haven in the spirit. Whatever happens in your reality physically already occurred in the spirit. You could also tell she is off a spiritual bearing and respect core values of life. She also cherish educating people it shows from her body language as she speaks. Great podcast and amazing conversation.
Sadia is the best. Classy Woman with a lot of wisdom
Thoroughly enjoyed this podcast.
So good to see positivity with a female interviewer for Sadia. She is full of good wisdom that anyone can use.
she`s absolutely gorgeous !
Those countries where women arent allowed to even show ankle isn't about not rewarding, those women are threatened...
This was cool. Thank you!
Glad you liked it!
Very informative ❤ Good job! ❤
So glad I found your podcast. This was an amazing conversation and exactly what ladies need to hear.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Sadia be speaking facts
Loved this podcast, great questions and flow!
Glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate it a lot x
Absolutely, instant gratification 💫
This was the most honest conversation I’ve seen in a while from women who were obviously raised right. A dying breed is not a stretch by any means. Sadia was 🔥
This lady is just maaan She really use that little thing we have in our head which they call it brain, I really appreciate her well done, really purely love u and really wish u all the best, and shout out to u luxe as well great host just keep up the amazing work, anyway greeting from morocco guys love u.
Thank you ❤️❤️
Great interveiw!
Great conversation 🙏❤️
A lovely watch. You’re an inspiration girl for what you’ve created ❤
Means a lot. Glad you enjoyed ❤️🙌
The only female pod cast I've subscribed to
I am so glad thank you 😊
Thanks so much for this podcast. Amazing insights
Thanks for listening
So good, I've been needing to hear something so healthy for a long time.
Even tho there are some thoughts on what I don't quite align with, for example, that investment part but in general, very well done.
Great podcast❤️
Thanks so much! ❤️👌🏻
Wow she is so so intelligent.😊
This lady is really smart and aware
Very articulate and well spoken young beautiful women, amazing convo highly informative. Love it
Glad you enjoyed it!
They said they do not need compliments on their looks, but they both would be considered at the very least as pretty. They would feel differently if they were considered less attractive.
Love this insight: maybe life gets boring and you need to accept that
Girls, you were awesome!!!Loved it!!!!Great that Sadia explained a bit of toxicity.Let's hava a hope that future moms will tea ch love, not toxicity their children.
Man, this is so relatable.