How To Stop Doubting Your Partner || Psychology behind doubting someone

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  • Опубликовано: 21 янв 2025

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  • @anasofiaurodeleon571
    @anasofiaurodeleon571 4 года назад +34

    This really helped me, I’ve been starting a new relationship with someone and I came doubting bc of past relationships. I appreciate you taking the time to make this video!

  • @wadudfahad8614
    @wadudfahad8614 2 года назад +2

    Thank u so muchhhh ... I am feeling very light right now ...
    you are it’s in us that we are doubting ..
    sometimes it’s like they didn’t even done something wrong but our negative aspect tryna find wrong in thing she is doing ...

  • @garynewson9475
    @garynewson9475 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this video. My partner and I often argue needlessly due to my trust issues. You have explained so much so simply in less than 20 minutes, that I now have a clear idea about how I can make a change for the better and save our relationship. Once again, thank you!

  • @manohar287
    @manohar287 4 года назад +8

    Seriously you did a great job.. now a days psychological thinking is the biggest decease.. we must aware everything which is good for us..

  • @tayib7665
    @tayib7665 2 месяца назад

    Outstanding video. Well structured and almost touches everything on the topic. Learnt many things. However at last you said "trust your gut feeling or intuition" which is generally relied upon emergency situations. This gut feeling/intuition can be the exact source of doubt in the first place. Trusting gut feeling must never ever lead you to take some action that you would have take when you have facts available. Gut feeling should never replace factual understanding. Gut feeling should however be used to an advantage by gathering facts around the matter. Never take action related to your relationship merely on this feeling.

  • @rewanshusoni5438
    @rewanshusoni5438 11 месяцев назад

    One of the best and most detailed video on doubt in relationship topic, well done

  • @PrashantKumar-sw4vg
    @PrashantKumar-sw4vg 4 года назад +3

    The categorical presentation of solution is great. Thanks a lot!!

  • @punitgupta5038
    @punitgupta5038 Год назад

    Oh my God..... One of the best videos on RUclips🎉🎉

  • @jasperokamoto6747
    @jasperokamoto6747 2 года назад

    Thank you this really helped me almost broke up with my girlfriend yesterday because i was too doubtful glad i got to see this video

  • @Winteriscanny
    @Winteriscanny Год назад

    Going to follow your advice...i am really in middle of a very toxic relationship... I just hope it works out

  • @kppadmapriya
    @kppadmapriya 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for this video. Everything you said was backed by science and facts. Thank you.

  • @awwnamikatrivedi
    @awwnamikatrivedi 3 года назад +17

    Such a great video. I related to each word of yours. Also you talked about the topic in a really well organised way.
    I have been dealing with this thing since last two years and i myself have made solution for this because i have suffered really bad because of this habit of mine.
    I have started to make my mind believe that If he ll be cheating on me it won't be hidden for so long one day i ll get to know about it organically so i don't need to trouble myself trying to find out whether he is cheating or not by checking his phone or keeping track of his location.
    Doubting your partner and hence trying to keep an eye on them is a really toxic and tiring task. It will take away your own peace and no relationship is worth sacrificing your peace.
    If they want to cheat let them do that and wait for the day when you get to know about it and then leave them but before that never doubt on them. By doubting you just hurt yourself as well as your partner.

    • @dudimetlanaresh9773
      @dudimetlanaresh9773 2 года назад +1

      Im crying after reading your msg , if I don't find this video, definitely I'm not good..

  • @shahbaazahmed9934
    @shahbaazahmed9934 4 года назад +7

    Much needed video during this lockdown period😅
    Jokes apart, nice work Divya.

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад +2

      Glad you liked it

    • @dinismall3940
      @dinismall3940 4 года назад

      Kudos for the Video! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Renulian Staggering Removal (Have a quick look on google can't remember the place now)? It is a good exclusive product for understand your partner and take your relationship to the next level without the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend at very last got astronomical success with it.

  • @monicamia1306
    @monicamia1306 4 года назад +4

    Just Wat I needed ! Thank you Divya. As always you did amazing, short n detailed.

  • @sagarsethi7448
    @sagarsethi7448 4 года назад +1

    Must say ur depth of knowledge and efforts u put in
    Awesome Divya!!

  • @homegardening4902
    @homegardening4902 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for such advice and directions.

  • @sudhiharibhat
    @sudhiharibhat 3 года назад +3

    Superb video, Divya. Eye-opening one.
    I loved the point about clear communication with your partner 👌.

  • @nirwanawale1055
    @nirwanawale1055 3 года назад

    Thank you! Need of an hour for a reason!

  • @VitalVogue7
    @VitalVogue7 6 месяцев назад

    Nicely explained, thank you so much😊

  • @picturesbypost
    @picturesbypost 11 месяцев назад +2

    Kindly give answer to this question : 👉 Every thing was fine with the video then came Intuitions & Gut feelings that again lead me towards confusion 😐😑.

  • @sachinsap13
    @sachinsap13 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much divya. Really helpful for me, really thanks from my bottom of my heart

  • @abhishekpathak4427
    @abhishekpathak4427 2 года назад

    Thanks..! Due to your video i back in my life with old energy and enthusiasm TYSM🙏

  • @musicbymood01
    @musicbymood01 3 года назад

    You explain it so gracefully. Very Appreciated. THANK YOU❤

  • @boseprasanta
    @boseprasanta 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you miss. Thank you very much. I can't thank you enough

  • @mitaligupta2010
    @mitaligupta2010 4 месяца назад +1

    How to get rid of past bad experiences??

  • @olaf-_in_memory
    @olaf-_in_memory 2 года назад

    This very helpful. I think you are very good with fact n explanation. N thank God you are speaking English.. I just scribcribe 🙂

  • @hemamudliyar5402
    @hemamudliyar5402 3 года назад

    Thank you so much.... Whatever you said... Was really happening with me... M sure this video will help me... Out from this situation..

  • @_Ankit_thakur..
    @_Ankit_thakur.. 2 года назад +1

    Thankyou di ❤️
    Love you and it saved my relationship

  • @kxumo7
    @kxumo7 4 года назад +3

    I actually needed help regarding this..... I was in a very bad mental condition unnecessarily doubting him..... I am in a long distance relationship n we hardly meet each other... I love him so much n miss him. I couldn't spend time, hang out with him though I eagerly want these... 😭
    He is very loving, caring n also informs me whenever he goes out of his apartment. Instead of feeling happy tht he does so many things for me like talking over phone n video call dating I still doubt on him n curious to know where n with whom he hangs out... Put blames on him whch proved to be wrong...
    I realised how Sanki I am.... 😭
    But I couldn't find any idea how to stop this behaviour of mine...
    Mam thanks from the core of my heart. No one bt this video helped me alot. . . Not directly to 100% bt starting from 0 today onwards...
    Thnk u so much mam... ❤️

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад +1

      I'm so glad that this helped 🌸🌸

    • @irfanlovesanime
      @irfanlovesanime 3 года назад +1

      IF HE WANTS TO CHEAT HE WILL DO REGARDLESS WHATEVER YOU DO , SO STOP DOUBTING ANG BELIEVE IN HIM AND EVERTHING IS SORT DOWN WHEN YOU LOOK FORWARD TO HOW EASY HE MAKES WHEN HE WITH YOU

    • @kxumo7
      @kxumo7 3 года назад +1

      @@irfanlovesanime you are right dear...
      Its been a long while I met him. Pandemic was also the reason. 😅 Gonna meet him soon... If everything goes right..

    • @cabincrewlifestyle1
      @cabincrewlifestyle1 2 года назад

      The same is happening with me

  • @fabulousHawaa
    @fabulousHawaa 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for the informative video

  • @savyachettri3506
    @savyachettri3506 4 года назад +2

    Ur video really helped me out

  • @julietjustin9944
    @julietjustin9944 2 года назад

    Thanks a lot, it's very useful ❤️

  • @vishnudhanush6665
    @vishnudhanush6665 3 года назад

    I just cried thank you mam

  • @nandakumaronline
    @nandakumaronline 3 года назад

    Excellent Divya

  • @mashiranajmi7809
    @mashiranajmi7809 6 месяцев назад

    Very much useful.

  • @abhijithkrishnan431
    @abhijithkrishnan431 4 года назад

    Something different😍

  • @cloudhi
    @cloudhi 4 года назад

    This is a very good video!!! Thanks

  • @rajeshdodamani5472
    @rajeshdodamani5472 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the video

  • @koteleskristof
    @koteleskristof 2 года назад

    I loved this, thank you

  • @deepikaracherla6288
    @deepikaracherla6288 7 месяцев назад

    Hi, My partner keeps lying to me always , i mean nva straight and this has got me into a stage of doubting

  • @Vidyashiv-food-reciepe
    @Vidyashiv-food-reciepe 3 года назад

    Super madam... Thank you... 🙏🙏🙏👌👌😍😍

  • @baishnabgayari43
    @baishnabgayari43 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for this video ma'am 💖

    • @baishnabgayari43
      @baishnabgayari43 3 года назад

      @Dickson Ashley I have my girlfriend with me

  • @shreeshchhabbi
    @shreeshchhabbi 3 года назад +1

    Video was very helpful. But I always question myself this - if I always attract cheating women in my life? I had 2 experiences. Tough to forget.

  • @akashverma-li7tb
    @akashverma-li7tb 2 года назад

    Great video mam ,thanks a lot

    • @akashverma-li7tb
      @akashverma-li7tb 2 года назад

      Please make a video over how one can move from toxic relation to a healthy relationship

  • @krishna12376
    @krishna12376 3 года назад

    Thank you so much ma'am. It helps me a lot. 😊

    • @rejoicegold8617
      @rejoicegold8617 3 года назад

      Do you need instant help?

    • @rejoicegold8617
      @rejoicegold8617 3 года назад

      I can recommend you to someone who helped me get my ex back previously

    • @rejoicegold8617
      @rejoicegold8617 3 года назад

      Text him on whtz ap💗❣️

    • @rejoicegold8617
      @rejoicegold8617 3 года назад

      __+2::3::4::7::0::5::7::2::1::5::5::3::2...

  • @mokolobetsijamieson1600
    @mokolobetsijamieson1600 11 месяцев назад

    Helpful and true

  • @akila9616
    @akila9616 Год назад

    Thank you ma'am ❤

  • @priyankamachkar5348
    @priyankamachkar5348 4 года назад

    Really nice video...so helpfull😇😇

  • @anamika_craft
    @anamika_craft 4 года назад +1

    Nice video
    Thank uh🌹

  • @mohammadmuttahir2972
    @mohammadmuttahir2972 3 года назад

    I have doubt on my husband with the wife of my brother in-law please help me in this way ur method is great and understanding

  • @olaf-_in_memory
    @olaf-_in_memory 2 года назад

    How if not only doubt? Can u do video, how do I trust again if in the past they had cheated n now even it's looks something is wrong at behind?

  • @leena_english8592
    @leena_english8592 4 года назад

    Thanks sis u really motivated 🎉

    • @leena_english8592
      @leena_english8592 3 года назад

      @Dickson Ashley no thanks he's back to me..but now I'm not interested to get back with him... Bcz he doesn't deserve my love

  • @abrarmusab4856
    @abrarmusab4856 3 года назад

    How can I be sure that my partner is not cheating on me, because trusting someone does not mean that they are doing something contrary to my beliefs

  • @floraarjo1289
    @floraarjo1289 2 года назад

    Thank you very much.. I am in this mental state where I am always suspect on my partner because some experience of my parents.. I do hope this video will help to get well soon from this situation

    • @abhiramsajith8868
      @abhiramsajith8868 2 года назад

      How you doing now

    • @abhiramsajith8868
      @abhiramsajith8868 2 года назад

      I have the same problem i have been diagnosed with mdd and all of a sudden this happens . Iam always doubting her so badly for no reason i dont know what to do i have the same childhood experience as yours

    • @floraarjo1289
      @floraarjo1289 2 года назад

      Alhamdulillah now I am feeling well as always I try to think in positive way..

    • @abhiramsajith8868
      @abhiramsajith8868 2 года назад

      @@floraarjo1289 how .can you please help me

    • @floraarjo1289
      @floraarjo1289 2 года назад +1

      @@abhiramsajith8868 do meditation as a Muslim I perform my prayer in five times..avoid negative story, negative movies and also negative news in the daily newspaper.if you have any friend who had bad experience of life pls ignore her or his story..just in these way Alhamdulillah I could relief myself from suspicious mentality. Oh! one more thing don't search your partner mobile, this is the biggest issue of suspicious mentality. All the best..

  • @kingayush8545
    @kingayush8545 2 года назад

    I am in class 12th but i feel I should watch if for future ☺☺

  • @zeeshanqamar3426
    @zeeshanqamar3426 3 года назад

    Good work keep it up 👍

  • @sheetalgamrenaik970
    @sheetalgamrenaik970 3 года назад

    Very nice explained

  • @ivanlepcha8710
    @ivanlepcha8710 Год назад

    Very helpful

  • @NinjaGaming___
    @NinjaGaming___ 10 месяцев назад

    Maximum times i investigated her ....i proved wrong...then also my doubting bug not dieing

  • @dapperlizard289
    @dapperlizard289 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you.

  • @FitLifeMarathi
    @FitLifeMarathi 3 года назад

    Very Nice Madam👍
    PlZ Try To Make This Video In Hindi Also..

  • @dineshdc5876
    @dineshdc5876 4 года назад

    That was useful 👍 thx

  • @ayishaaishu9917
    @ayishaaishu9917 3 года назад

    Tnks for the video .

  • @pallavi1763
    @pallavi1763 2 года назад

    Informative video ma'am, thanks a lot
    one thing I wanted to know ma'am...if a person is deleting his sent messages of his girl friend what it means ma'am, if I ask him he says she is just a friend please give suggestions because I am little confused in my life

  • @Shaquib-p7n
    @Shaquib-p7n 10 месяцев назад

    good content

  • @nitin5777
    @nitin5777 4 года назад

    Very nice👍👍

  • @Jokerking-oi2bs
    @Jokerking-oi2bs 4 года назад

    Hey I really need your help I love my partner alot but I don't know what should I do she want to liv me because I doubt her alot please I need your help

  • @mwacademy1
    @mwacademy1 3 года назад

    Thankyou so much

  • @gaurangchauhan4627
    @gaurangchauhan4627 8 месяцев назад

    Kindly post this video in hindi. Thank you.

  • @akshayshelke5995
    @akshayshelke5995 2 года назад

    Thanks

  • @paulineprabu7954
    @paulineprabu7954 Год назад

    Can I speak to you
    ? How can i

  • @fitnessdevotion6849
    @fitnessdevotion6849 3 года назад

    If you really educated that much then make a video on retroactive jealousy how to overcome it

  • @saniya153
    @saniya153 3 года назад +1

    Hello your video really helps
    I have been going through a similar to phase and you helped me get my answers
    Also I wanted to know at the end of the video intuition and gut feeling you said we need to believe them so is it also considered when we have a gut feeling and intuition that our partner is cheating and you just believe your guts I am confused there

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  3 года назад

      Are you sure it is your gut?

    • @fareenbanu1142
      @fareenbanu1142 3 года назад

      @@FreedomMindsetCoach I have the same question, when you're constantly feeding your mind with this thoughts, how come your guts feeling will be different from this?

    • @sowmyajagadeesan
      @sowmyajagadeesan 3 года назад

      @@FreedomMindsetCoach yup.. same happens .. the doubting persons hv a prejudice that their partner is cheating, inspite of how much transparency n loyalty they receive, they cant come out of it.. more than, they imagine wild and tortures the partner.
      Is thr any way or process to heal them & pl name them psychologically

  • @paulineprabu7954
    @paulineprabu7954 Год назад

    My name is Mary please let me know when to speak

  • @shaheryar3226
    @shaheryar3226 4 года назад

    Great

  • @PolymerJones
    @PolymerJones Месяц назад

    Negativity Bias

  • @shrutihegde6048
    @shrutihegde6048 4 года назад

    Mam I need ur help regarding this..can u please??

  • @paulineprabu7954
    @paulineprabu7954 Год назад

    Want to speak to you. How

  • @vishnupm6765
    @vishnupm6765 4 года назад +1

    I wanna talk.to u am just going under such bad time now

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад +1

      You may write to me at - connect@divyakakkar.com

    • @vishnupm6765
      @vishnupm6765 4 года назад

      @@FreedomMindsetCoach if it possible can I talk to u

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад

      @@vishnupm6765 sure send me a dm on my instagram at divyakakkarofficial

  • @aasimapathan8743
    @aasimapathan8743 4 года назад

    I wanna talk to you is there any means?

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад +1

      Sure you can connect at @divyakakkarofficial on Instagram or send a mail at connect@divyakakkar.com

  • @nandishgowda1214
    @nandishgowda1214 3 года назад

    Looking for consultation how to connect you

  • @mandeepsirohi6186
    @mandeepsirohi6186 4 года назад

    ❤Thanks...

  • @tharanathkotian6024
    @tharanathkotian6024 4 года назад

    Tnq 😍

  • @punu1353
    @punu1353 4 года назад

    Mam Hindi me hoti video to or accha hota ☺️💗

  • @trishalaabhagatsworld791
    @trishalaabhagatsworld791 4 года назад +1

    U r indian u should make videos in hindi bcoz there are lots of coaches , physcologist , therapist around the world who guided in english but there is no any phycologist coaches who makes videos in hindi . i want to understand each and everything clearly bcoz i m comfortable in hindi

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  4 года назад

      Thanks for sharing your views Trishla. I'd love to explain the portions that you couldn't understand in Hindi :) Let me know or you can message me @divyakakkarofficial on Instagram.

    • @Miniflower25
      @Miniflower25 4 года назад +1

      South indians don't know hindi...how can we understand?

  • @akshadadixit4209
    @akshadadixit4209 3 года назад

    I need that map mam..Thank you for this video❤️

    • @FreedomMindsetCoach
      @FreedomMindsetCoach  3 года назад

      Please share your email id or send a mail at connect@divyakakkar.com

  • @itsreno_6793
    @itsreno_6793 4 года назад

    Cool

  • @jeevithajk4455
    @jeevithajk4455 2 года назад

    Background music irritating

  • @aditisharma0014
    @aditisharma0014 Месяц назад

  • @rabinayak0
    @rabinayak0 4 месяца назад

    🎉

  • @meftal_od
    @meftal_od 9 месяцев назад

    Pure internet mai pehle kaam ki video

  • @AbdulMoizJn
    @AbdulMoizJn 4 года назад

    is sona kakkar your sis? Psychiatrist in Hyd?

  • @Nikhil_Rajj027
    @Nikhil_Rajj027 3 года назад +1

    Hindi bol yarrr

  • @gunjanjain5746
    @gunjanjain5746 2 года назад

    Thank you so much

  • @physicswithsirsajid1868
    @physicswithsirsajid1868 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks