This really helped me, I’ve been starting a new relationship with someone and I came doubting bc of past relationships. I appreciate you taking the time to make this video!
Thank u so muchhhh ... I am feeling very light right now ... you are it’s in us that we are doubting .. sometimes it’s like they didn’t even done something wrong but our negative aspect tryna find wrong in thing she is doing ...
Thank you so much for sharing this video. My partner and I often argue needlessly due to my trust issues. You have explained so much so simply in less than 20 minutes, that I now have a clear idea about how I can make a change for the better and save our relationship. Once again, thank you!
Outstanding video. Well structured and almost touches everything on the topic. Learnt many things. However at last you said "trust your gut feeling or intuition" which is generally relied upon emergency situations. This gut feeling/intuition can be the exact source of doubt in the first place. Trusting gut feeling must never ever lead you to take some action that you would have take when you have facts available. Gut feeling should never replace factual understanding. Gut feeling should however be used to an advantage by gathering facts around the matter. Never take action related to your relationship merely on this feeling.
Such a great video. I related to each word of yours. Also you talked about the topic in a really well organised way. I have been dealing with this thing since last two years and i myself have made solution for this because i have suffered really bad because of this habit of mine. I have started to make my mind believe that If he ll be cheating on me it won't be hidden for so long one day i ll get to know about it organically so i don't need to trouble myself trying to find out whether he is cheating or not by checking his phone or keeping track of his location. Doubting your partner and hence trying to keep an eye on them is a really toxic and tiring task. It will take away your own peace and no relationship is worth sacrificing your peace. If they want to cheat let them do that and wait for the day when you get to know about it and then leave them but before that never doubt on them. By doubting you just hurt yourself as well as your partner.
Kudos for the Video! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Renulian Staggering Removal (Have a quick look on google can't remember the place now)? It is a good exclusive product for understand your partner and take your relationship to the next level without the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend at very last got astronomical success with it.
Kindly give answer to this question : 👉 Every thing was fine with the video then came Intuitions & Gut feelings that again lead me towards confusion 😐😑.
I actually needed help regarding this..... I was in a very bad mental condition unnecessarily doubting him..... I am in a long distance relationship n we hardly meet each other... I love him so much n miss him. I couldn't spend time, hang out with him though I eagerly want these... 😭 He is very loving, caring n also informs me whenever he goes out of his apartment. Instead of feeling happy tht he does so many things for me like talking over phone n video call dating I still doubt on him n curious to know where n with whom he hangs out... Put blames on him whch proved to be wrong... I realised how Sanki I am.... 😭 But I couldn't find any idea how to stop this behaviour of mine... Mam thanks from the core of my heart. No one bt this video helped me alot. . . Not directly to 100% bt starting from 0 today onwards... Thnk u so much mam... ❤️
IF HE WANTS TO CHEAT HE WILL DO REGARDLESS WHATEVER YOU DO , SO STOP DOUBTING ANG BELIEVE IN HIM AND EVERTHING IS SORT DOWN WHEN YOU LOOK FORWARD TO HOW EASY HE MAKES WHEN HE WITH YOU
@@irfanlovesanime you are right dear... Its been a long while I met him. Pandemic was also the reason. 😅 Gonna meet him soon... If everything goes right..
Thank you very much.. I am in this mental state where I am always suspect on my partner because some experience of my parents.. I do hope this video will help to get well soon from this situation
I have the same problem i have been diagnosed with mdd and all of a sudden this happens . Iam always doubting her so badly for no reason i dont know what to do i have the same childhood experience as yours
@@abhiramsajith8868 do meditation as a Muslim I perform my prayer in five times..avoid negative story, negative movies and also negative news in the daily newspaper.if you have any friend who had bad experience of life pls ignore her or his story..just in these way Alhamdulillah I could relief myself from suspicious mentality. Oh! one more thing don't search your partner mobile, this is the biggest issue of suspicious mentality. All the best..
Informative video ma'am, thanks a lot one thing I wanted to know ma'am...if a person is deleting his sent messages of his girl friend what it means ma'am, if I ask him he says she is just a friend please give suggestions because I am little confused in my life
Hey I really need your help I love my partner alot but I don't know what should I do she want to liv me because I doubt her alot please I need your help
Hello your video really helps I have been going through a similar to phase and you helped me get my answers Also I wanted to know at the end of the video intuition and gut feeling you said we need to believe them so is it also considered when we have a gut feeling and intuition that our partner is cheating and you just believe your guts I am confused there
@@FreedomMindsetCoach I have the same question, when you're constantly feeding your mind with this thoughts, how come your guts feeling will be different from this?
@@FreedomMindsetCoach yup.. same happens .. the doubting persons hv a prejudice that their partner is cheating, inspite of how much transparency n loyalty they receive, they cant come out of it.. more than, they imagine wild and tortures the partner. Is thr any way or process to heal them & pl name them psychologically
U r indian u should make videos in hindi bcoz there are lots of coaches , physcologist , therapist around the world who guided in english but there is no any phycologist coaches who makes videos in hindi . i want to understand each and everything clearly bcoz i m comfortable in hindi
Thanks for sharing your views Trishla. I'd love to explain the portions that you couldn't understand in Hindi :) Let me know or you can message me @divyakakkarofficial on Instagram.
This really helped me, I’ve been starting a new relationship with someone and I came doubting bc of past relationships. I appreciate you taking the time to make this video!
I'm glad this helped 🌺
Thank u so muchhhh ... I am feeling very light right now ...
you are it’s in us that we are doubting ..
sometimes it’s like they didn’t even done something wrong but our negative aspect tryna find wrong in thing she is doing ...
Thank you so much for sharing this video. My partner and I often argue needlessly due to my trust issues. You have explained so much so simply in less than 20 minutes, that I now have a clear idea about how I can make a change for the better and save our relationship. Once again, thank you!
Seriously you did a great job.. now a days psychological thinking is the biggest decease.. we must aware everything which is good for us..
Outstanding video. Well structured and almost touches everything on the topic. Learnt many things. However at last you said "trust your gut feeling or intuition" which is generally relied upon emergency situations. This gut feeling/intuition can be the exact source of doubt in the first place. Trusting gut feeling must never ever lead you to take some action that you would have take when you have facts available. Gut feeling should never replace factual understanding. Gut feeling should however be used to an advantage by gathering facts around the matter. Never take action related to your relationship merely on this feeling.
One of the best and most detailed video on doubt in relationship topic, well done
The categorical presentation of solution is great. Thanks a lot!!
Oh my God..... One of the best videos on RUclips🎉🎉
Thank you this really helped me almost broke up with my girlfriend yesterday because i was too doubtful glad i got to see this video
So happy you found it useful 🌸🌸
Going to follow your advice...i am really in middle of a very toxic relationship... I just hope it works out
Thank you for this video. Everything you said was backed by science and facts. Thank you.
Such a great video. I related to each word of yours. Also you talked about the topic in a really well organised way.
I have been dealing with this thing since last two years and i myself have made solution for this because i have suffered really bad because of this habit of mine.
I have started to make my mind believe that If he ll be cheating on me it won't be hidden for so long one day i ll get to know about it organically so i don't need to trouble myself trying to find out whether he is cheating or not by checking his phone or keeping track of his location.
Doubting your partner and hence trying to keep an eye on them is a really toxic and tiring task. It will take away your own peace and no relationship is worth sacrificing your peace.
If they want to cheat let them do that and wait for the day when you get to know about it and then leave them but before that never doubt on them. By doubting you just hurt yourself as well as your partner.
Im crying after reading your msg , if I don't find this video, definitely I'm not good..
Much needed video during this lockdown period😅
Jokes apart, nice work Divya.
Glad you liked it
Kudos for the Video! Excuse me for butting in, I would love your initial thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Renulian Staggering Removal (Have a quick look on google can't remember the place now)? It is a good exclusive product for understand your partner and take your relationship to the next level without the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend at very last got astronomical success with it.
Just Wat I needed ! Thank you Divya. As always you did amazing, short n detailed.
Glad that it helped Monica :D
Must say ur depth of knowledge and efforts u put in
Awesome Divya!!
Thanks for such advice and directions.
Superb video, Divya. Eye-opening one.
I loved the point about clear communication with your partner 👌.
So glad to see you found it to be good Sudhi 🌸 Thanks
Thank you! Need of an hour for a reason!
Nicely explained, thank you so much😊
Kindly give answer to this question : 👉 Every thing was fine with the video then came Intuitions & Gut feelings that again lead me towards confusion 😐😑.
Thank you so much divya. Really helpful for me, really thanks from my bottom of my heart
Thanks..! Due to your video i back in my life with old energy and enthusiasm TYSM🙏
You explain it so gracefully. Very Appreciated. THANK YOU❤
Thank you miss. Thank you very much. I can't thank you enough
How to get rid of past bad experiences??
This very helpful. I think you are very good with fact n explanation. N thank God you are speaking English.. I just scribcribe 🙂
Thank you so much.... Whatever you said... Was really happening with me... M sure this video will help me... Out from this situation..
Thankyou di ❤️
Love you and it saved my relationship
I actually needed help regarding this..... I was in a very bad mental condition unnecessarily doubting him..... I am in a long distance relationship n we hardly meet each other... I love him so much n miss him. I couldn't spend time, hang out with him though I eagerly want these... 😭
He is very loving, caring n also informs me whenever he goes out of his apartment. Instead of feeling happy tht he does so many things for me like talking over phone n video call dating I still doubt on him n curious to know where n with whom he hangs out... Put blames on him whch proved to be wrong...
I realised how Sanki I am.... 😭
But I couldn't find any idea how to stop this behaviour of mine...
Mam thanks from the core of my heart. No one bt this video helped me alot. . . Not directly to 100% bt starting from 0 today onwards...
Thnk u so much mam... ❤️
I'm so glad that this helped 🌸🌸
IF HE WANTS TO CHEAT HE WILL DO REGARDLESS WHATEVER YOU DO , SO STOP DOUBTING ANG BELIEVE IN HIM AND EVERTHING IS SORT DOWN WHEN YOU LOOK FORWARD TO HOW EASY HE MAKES WHEN HE WITH YOU
@@irfanlovesanime you are right dear...
Its been a long while I met him. Pandemic was also the reason. 😅 Gonna meet him soon... If everything goes right..
The same is happening with me
Thank you for the informative video
Ur video really helped me out
Thanks a lot, it's very useful ❤️
I just cried thank you mam
Excellent Divya
Very much useful.
Something different😍
This is a very good video!!! Thanks
Thanks for the video
I loved this, thank you
Hi, My partner keeps lying to me always , i mean nva straight and this has got me into a stage of doubting
Super madam... Thank you... 🙏🙏🙏👌👌😍😍
Thank you so much for this video ma'am 💖
@Dickson Ashley I have my girlfriend with me
Video was very helpful. But I always question myself this - if I always attract cheating women in my life? I had 2 experiences. Tough to forget.
Great video mam ,thanks a lot
Please make a video over how one can move from toxic relation to a healthy relationship
Thank you so much ma'am. It helps me a lot. 😊
Do you need instant help?
I can recommend you to someone who helped me get my ex back previously
Text him on whtz ap💗❣️
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Helpful and true
Thank you ma'am ❤
Really nice video...so helpfull😇😇
Nice video
Thank uh🌹
So nice of you
I have doubt on my husband with the wife of my brother in-law please help me in this way ur method is great and understanding
How if not only doubt? Can u do video, how do I trust again if in the past they had cheated n now even it's looks something is wrong at behind?
Thanks sis u really motivated 🎉
@Dickson Ashley no thanks he's back to me..but now I'm not interested to get back with him... Bcz he doesn't deserve my love
How can I be sure that my partner is not cheating on me, because trusting someone does not mean that they are doing something contrary to my beliefs
Thank you very much.. I am in this mental state where I am always suspect on my partner because some experience of my parents.. I do hope this video will help to get well soon from this situation
How you doing now
I have the same problem i have been diagnosed with mdd and all of a sudden this happens . Iam always doubting her so badly for no reason i dont know what to do i have the same childhood experience as yours
Alhamdulillah now I am feeling well as always I try to think in positive way..
@@floraarjo1289 how .can you please help me
@@abhiramsajith8868 do meditation as a Muslim I perform my prayer in five times..avoid negative story, negative movies and also negative news in the daily newspaper.if you have any friend who had bad experience of life pls ignore her or his story..just in these way Alhamdulillah I could relief myself from suspicious mentality. Oh! one more thing don't search your partner mobile, this is the biggest issue of suspicious mentality. All the best..
I am in class 12th but i feel I should watch if for future ☺☺
Good work keep it up 👍
Very nice explained
Very helpful
Maximum times i investigated her ....i proved wrong...then also my doubting bug not dieing
Thank you.
Very Nice Madam👍
PlZ Try To Make This Video In Hindi Also..
That was useful 👍 thx
Tnks for the video .
Informative video ma'am, thanks a lot
one thing I wanted to know ma'am...if a person is deleting his sent messages of his girl friend what it means ma'am, if I ask him he says she is just a friend please give suggestions because I am little confused in my life
Hi
good content
Very nice👍👍
Hey I really need your help I love my partner alot but I don't know what should I do she want to liv me because I doubt her alot please I need your help
Please reach out at instagram.com/divyakakkarofficial
Thankyou so much
Kindly post this video in hindi. Thank you.
Thanks
Can I speak to you
? How can i
If you really educated that much then make a video on retroactive jealousy how to overcome it
Hello your video really helps
I have been going through a similar to phase and you helped me get my answers
Also I wanted to know at the end of the video intuition and gut feeling you said we need to believe them so is it also considered when we have a gut feeling and intuition that our partner is cheating and you just believe your guts I am confused there
Are you sure it is your gut?
@@FreedomMindsetCoach I have the same question, when you're constantly feeding your mind with this thoughts, how come your guts feeling will be different from this?
@@FreedomMindsetCoach yup.. same happens .. the doubting persons hv a prejudice that their partner is cheating, inspite of how much transparency n loyalty they receive, they cant come out of it.. more than, they imagine wild and tortures the partner.
Is thr any way or process to heal them & pl name them psychologically
My name is Mary please let me know when to speak
Great
Negativity Bias
Mam I need ur help regarding this..can u please??
Sure Shruti
We can connect on Instagram @divyakakkarofficial
Want to speak to you. How
I wanna talk.to u am just going under such bad time now
You may write to me at - connect@divyakakkar.com
@@FreedomMindsetCoach if it possible can I talk to u
@@vishnupm6765 sure send me a dm on my instagram at divyakakkarofficial
I wanna talk to you is there any means?
Sure you can connect at @divyakakkarofficial on Instagram or send a mail at connect@divyakakkar.com
Looking for consultation how to connect you
Please reach out at instagram.com/divyakakkarofficial
❤Thanks...
I need counseling... How can I get from you...
Tnq 😍
Mam Hindi me hoti video to or accha hota ☺️💗
U r indian u should make videos in hindi bcoz there are lots of coaches , physcologist , therapist around the world who guided in english but there is no any phycologist coaches who makes videos in hindi . i want to understand each and everything clearly bcoz i m comfortable in hindi
Thanks for sharing your views Trishla. I'd love to explain the portions that you couldn't understand in Hindi :) Let me know or you can message me @divyakakkarofficial on Instagram.
South indians don't know hindi...how can we understand?
I need that map mam..Thank you for this video❤️
Please share your email id or send a mail at connect@divyakakkar.com
Cool
Thanks!
Background music irritating
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🎉
Pure internet mai pehle kaam ki video
is sona kakkar your sis? Psychiatrist in Hyd?
Hi Muhammad. No I don't know anyone with this name :)
Hindi bol yarrr
Thank you so much
Thanks