@🧿andani🧿 it’s also not right for fat obese people to glorify obesity because you’re lazy to want to change your lifestyle to be happy, so now they’re trying to fake it for the public as “I lOvE mY bODY”, no you don’t, you know that big ass gut hanging and constantly looking for plus clothes isn’t cute nor fun.
Dee is just over humans, and I'm with her. As many of us as there are, finding a partner who is on that same level is surprisingly more difficult than I expected
Your problem is that you think you're better than everybody else. I understand that you want someone with your level of awareness but you gotta realize that you're human too.
@@Jay-kx5cb Do I think I'm better than everyone else? Does Dee think she's better than everyone else? I'm over myself too, and having this perspective means I'm narcissist? I don't think I'm anything other than what everyone else on the planet is.
Exactly, and the fact that everyone wants to be a victim takes away from the actual victims. People used the word “victim” so much that it started to lose its meaning.
Did she say she shouldn’t be charged for more fabric?? That’s literally a small factor in why adult sizes are more expensive than children’s sizes 🥴 I’m confused
I’m a size 15 shoe, obviously since they really don’t have my size in stores I have to get them online Abd they use more material, they’re going to be more expensive. And that’s something I can’t control and I understand how that makes sense, why can’t this chick?
@@Hdhshshs-el2h no it’s literally cheaper bc it’s less material. If u saw what I said about my shoes, it’s bc they have to use more to make it, that’s often who the price is higher for bigger sizes. Also paying less for clothes is not a right, it’s a privilege.
RIGHT? like I was trying my hardest to not judge her but like, it's a towel. no one is gonna see you in it and you're not even wearing it for a long period of time. you just drying your body off. wtf it need to fit for?
Thank You...ppl act like being black needs to be Everything to you....Yes I'm black, along with many other things that make me who I am...like how boring when ur race, gender, sex, or sexual orientation is all u are...like Evolve!!
@@azaravalerie9832 Facts like when they say “being black is not monolith” but then bash black people who apparently aren’t “black enough” (e.g goth, alternative, country, super feminine etc.)
@@azaravalerie9832 Yeah I got that alot, especially when I was younger...Like why would you want to tell someone in ur own community that they need to limit themselves, just because of the color of their skin...I travel long term, I was told Black ppl don't do that...I wanted to learn how the snowboard and surf...I was told Black ppl don't do that ..Um have u been to Africa...Who do u think is surfing there...I listen to rock music...I was told we don't listen to that...Um who do u think invented the genre...Like really 🙄 But Never listen to them...Their just small/closed minded
@@adwoa590 Yup...And then When someone else outside out race stereotypes us, ( which is wrong )...But we stereotype each other...by trying to pigeon hold what it means to be black....Btw I was thee Only black grunge/goth girl in my highschool and was proud of it...
I am a goth, mixed race, bisexual woman, who loves most types of music, horror ,black drama films, old stoner movies, video games, art, anime, I’m overweight. I am a whole ass mess of a personality. Fat isn’t a personality. It’s a body type. I don’t disregard all my other personality traits just because I’m overweight. It’s ridiculous how insanely obsessed people can get when it comes to bodies and genders, ect. 🙄🙄🙄 it gets soooo old. People don’t need to change for you. just like you don’t need to change for people. Remember when interests in certain things in pop culture and society were the things that brought people together? Why’s it so complicated these days?
The only time hate matters is when someone is in power and can make things worse for you. If a nobody is fatphobic, it doesn't matter. However, if someone's boss, or someone's doctor, treats them poorly or less of a person because they're fat, then I would consider it an issue. I would argue that people don't know how to separate their biases from thier everyday interactions.
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I've been watching Dee for years. I just love how blunt she is. She says the stuff I want to say, just not out loud.
I'm pro Black because I AM Black. But I'm tired of having those conversations because it's draining as hell. For my own mental health I just stopped because I DON'T want to live an unhappy life. I have a couple of people I met through Facebook who made that they're entire lives and for several reasons decided to stop. Because it's DRAINING AF. I'm 50 years old I don't need the stress.
Thats fair. I think when dealing with or discussing any sort of social issue, its about balance. You can be pro black without making it your whole identity. Hell, you can be pro black without even being an activist. It's just about caring about yourself and your community. People take it way too far sometimes, though. At the end of the day peace of mind and ones own happiness is even more important.
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 You make it sound as though all Black men choose Yt women. That's not the case. The MAJORITY of Black men are actually with Black women. Those who aren't are STILL not living their best lives. They still have to deal with the same bullshit that every Black man has to deal with. I'm going to support Black men and part of that is holding them ACCOUNTABLE. There's alot to hold them accountable for and not one of them is their choice in dating yt women. The only reason I'd care about that is the ones who purposely choose yt women because of their self hatred and disrespect of Black women. Black men, Black PEOPLE are not a monolith. I will never accept or support fuckery and if I had the choice which I don't I'd prefer that every Black person choose each other as partners but that's not the case. I can support them and hold them accountable. You sound bitter and that clouds your judgment. At some point I hope you'll get past that.
Let's cancel skinny people cut thats fat shaming. Let's cancel men because the fact you're not a woman is sexist. Lets cancel straight people cuz thats homophobic Edit: Wtf are yall even talkin bout.
I never got the "it was my ancestors, it wasn't me" thing. Like, who was asking you about your personal involvement in slavery? No one. It's just a deflection phrase used by people to try and avoid having to self analyze and critically think about their potential bias or outright hate.
its not really deflection in most cases, from arguments i see online its usually just a response to someone who is trying to blame a person and act like theyre guilty for the actions of people that arent even alive anymore
@@nickcrim6735 few things 1) its not their history or actions, its their ancestor's so trying to act as if they have any part of something that people who are long dead by did. 2) how exactly can you use the phrase "it was my ancestors" as a scapegoat, it literally only functions as a reply to people trying to blame you for something you didnt do. 3) replying "it was my ancestors" when youre blamed for someone elses actions screams guilt? not sure if you know this but people generally dont like being blamed for the actions of family members, let alone ancestors, so yes they will say something like this when you try to blame them for an issue their ancestors caused. 4) how exactly is blaming someone for something they werent a part of, educating them on their roots? so to be clear, if you try to blame someone for something their ancestors did, logic tells you they are gonna say they arent responsible for what those people did
@@nickcrim6735 Let people deny “their” history. At the end of the day they were not the ones that existed and the only thing that is shackling them to their past is their blood. It is very much ridiculous if you really think about it. Although the effects of the past are being carried through the present its STILL unfair to blame the newer generation for something their ancestors did. They feel guilt because people force guilt on to them, thats why it gets uncomfortable. If the one who wronged you died, you lost your chance to exact justice.
@Solaris Thats called overgeneralising.🙃 The new generation is composed of a whooole different group of people. As i said there might remnants of the past put onto the present but dont use “the new generation” as an umbrella term. By your logic the cycle will never end and you will ALWAYS hate the blood of those that abused you. But like every generation there will always be sick minded people. Talk against those that are openly racist and dont drag others who dont really care. Blame the person that is doing the wrong deed not their lineage.
I didnt know you were bi lol but I completely agree with you on not making it part of your identity, which is part of the reason I havent come out. I personally dont feel the need to come out bc I dont owe anyone an explanation and I dont want people to only think of me by my sexuality, I'm way more than that and also that's not the only thing I'd want to be remembered for after I die.
LOOOOL you were so calm and then all of a sudden “BIIITCH” during the towel part 🤣 I feel like this is me a lot everyone nowadays gets so offended by every little thing. I’m fine with differing opinions but I can’t stand people that shove theirs down your throat
Exactly. I hate how everyone either needs to be a victim or feel the need to be labeled as something. I’m so sick and tired of everyone’s petty ass problems and tired of people shoving 8 million titles in everyone’s face. I don’t care who or what you are.
This how i feel about lizzo, my good sis is talented but she has made her entire image on being overweight. Like always fighting the trolls who call ha f@t. Like gurl
Mind your business. If you were in her position and everyone constantly mentioned your body and made you feel shit about yourself you’d start getting sick of it too.
@@sasham6960 yes I understand what ur saying, but it reaches a certain point where that's what ur self image is.. the person who commented didn't lash out it was just a comment
It’s hard for the world to really agree, with statements like that. I’ve been talking a lot about how you can’t say anything to anybody anymore because everything is phobic or shaming. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️💯💯💯
Imagine talking about “Companies holding themselves accountable” but you can’t even count on yourself to loose weight so you could live a long healthy life. This woman cares more about old navy’s plus size clothing than her own well being.
I’m over everybody too, Dee. I just clock tf out when I come across people who have this victim ass mindset. And people try to make it seem like if you compare issues, you’re ‘dismissing’ emotions but idgaf. Let me be dismissive then. If someone doesn’t like you because you’re fat af, skinny af, ugly af, pretty af, black af, gay af, autistic af, whatever tf, it is what it is. There are men, women, and children on the very same planet as us being murdered in current genocides, little girls being forced into marriages with old men, people being murdered, raped, assaulted, left and right. You have parents losing children, children losing parents, wars, famine, homelessness, natural disasters destroying peoples lives and making them homeless with absolutely no certain future. But people like her want to be such victims and so oppressed just because they’re fat and self conscious about their fatness. A lot of the time when people are insecure about something, they project that onto others and assume that everybody is judging them for their insecurities because THEY are the ones constantly judging THEMSELVES, even if they’re in a room of people who are paying them no mind they will still feel like they’re important enough in random peoples lives to be the centre of attention and the focal point of judgement when in reality, a lot of us/most of us don’t give a flying fuck about you or your fat rolls. I am tired of this society we live in. People need to pull themselves tf together. That’s not to say that we can’t be upset about your our personal struggles just because of other people’s struggles (lord knows I be feeling the most fucked up, getting all types of therapy, etc) but what we’re not about to do is act like we’re the biggest, oh-so-helpless victims out of every single group of people or individuals on this planet- especially over some shit that doesn’t actually matter/has little-to-no effect on your actual life. If only people focused on ACTUAL life instead of giving themselves high blood pressure over what some randoms type online 🙃
I’m very pro-black and I love protesting and learning about black American history but I don’t broadcast it out for everyone to know lmaoo 😭 if it’s not talked about then no point in bringing it up, not everything needs to be about race and Black Lives Matter. Sometimes I wanna have fun and just live my life 💀 And I’m fat and if there’s people around that do care you’re fat then just drop them and live your life because nobody really don’t care 💀
wtf she mean “supposedly plus sized clothing takes up more fabric but that’s not how it actually works” like... Does she think an XS takes the same amount of fabric as a 2XL? I’m confused
Being over weight is a choice unless you have a medical condition. I was 18 and 290 pounds I chose to change myself I'm now 19 and 150 pounds it's about discipline and self care
Dee always spitting facts, especially when people make things their into or how they are as their whole identity and everything they do they revolve it around their “persona”💯
Maybe it's just an American thing, but why does everyone need to be a victim. Its seems like people want to be victims to one-up other people, and be like "I'm a victim and your not" type of complex and I don't know what's so satisfying about being a victim what's the perks everybody feels sympathy for you or something is that all it is people want sympathy from others?
I do feel like it's an American thing but it's mainly a first world country thing. We have people getting bombed and shot overseas and this lady and many like her are whining about useless shit. This is when you know you're priveleged af. When you can whine about trivial stuff and make up random issues.
😒Most people think because they are "fat", gay, Trans, Lesbian, ugly....w.e is the reason why people don't like them. NO! You have a horrible mentality and no one wants that energy. I seen a lot of people with these Traits get loved on and supported. Just go get your mental together. If you are focused on hate you will manifest it. period
It’s the fact that this woman literally said that clothing that fits her needing to use more material doesn’t mean she needs to pay more. Like girl, by that logic I should pay the same amount for kids and adult clothes since the amount of material used doesn’t matter
PREACH. And on my birthday too?? Damn..love it. I despiseeee the people that just wanna waste other people time by playing victim and shit..when there are actuallll people out there that seriously needs someone's attention.
What you explained is basically growing up in a nutshell . Unfortunately this generation loves victimization and doing right by your fellow man and women is overrated .
BISEXUAL QUEEN! I'm so glad I know this. I'm gay and black and neither are completely me. We are much more than what we look like, identify as, or orient towards. I agree with Dee completely.
“Some people just don’t like black people and that’s okay” Ong bruh. Like it’s just ppl who genuinely don’t like us and we can’t even change that fact.. mfs don’t understand this
I'm over it too, ugh, I didn't know Dee is bi, but coming from someone who is bi also I felt her energy, cause we naturally have an I dont give a f attitude 😂😭😭
Being fat does not make you a part of some oppressed group. Seeing this video reminds me of cringe shit I used to see on twitter that were basically edits of phrases they co-opted from actual groups that face discrimination. Stuff like "We're here. We're fat. Get used to it" which is a bastardization of "We're here. We're queer", and "Fat lives matter", which I shouldn't need to explain. It's really sad and annoying behavior.
Good Job Dee. Thats what I be saying. Everybody gotta be liked by everybody. Like thats not the world. I wake up and I'm glad that I don't have to like everyone. Also didnt know you were bi and thats how it should be.
Victim addiction is the new alcoholism. Not to say there aren't biases inherent in the system, but self-victimization is beyond pathetic. And frankly whenever I see white women complaining, my eyes roll back so far I need an optometrist.
8:47 How about she buy a bath sheet? 😂 Mad irritating tho, makes zero sense for everything to be fatphobic. She’s seeking validation and it’s sad. Like you don’t see me (a 6’5 guy with a size 17 shoe) calling companies heightphobic or footphobic lmaoo. I have to order mostly everything online and I’m completely fine with it because most of my shopping is 70% online anyways.
Wow hearing everything you said about victimization and labels just made me so much more of a fan of you 👏🙏👍 very rare to see intelligent youtubers tbh
Your intro is a whole mood. Stepping into adulthood has made me feel like that. I got more shit to worry about than you not liking my gender or skin color 🤷🏾♀️ sjwing gets old as you get older lol
Dee: who cares if someone’s racist just move on with your life. This is where I disagree because That’s all fine and dandy until the racist decides to make his or her racism your business. Like the Karens, police officers etc. Nobody’s a victim until they are so better to be vigilant but not make that your identity.
Also racist people have never met anyone of color. But if they meet, say a black person and the black person is always nice to the racist there is no way that the racist individual can remain racist so they can come around eventually.
@@ivory8492 Doing something about it especially for such a wide issue is also impractical to live your life. Your life would greatly shift if youd wish to actually make a change.
@@benshapiro8623 see the thing is I can’t be extra nice to a racist, if you hate me that’s your own problem and it’s not up to me to fix him or her. If I don’t like an individual in my life I stay far away from them, they need to do the same because at this point it’s become an obsession with people they don’t like.
@@machedari I understand I’m just saying racist people have no reason to be racist, if you guys were say, in a workplace and you were forced to work with someone who is racist. It might be a little awkward at first but eventually he or she will realise there is not reason to hate someone based in their race.
Everybody shocked your bisexual I’m just sitting here like I fucking knew it 😂 you just give me the vibes that you have experienced and experimented and found a healthy medium
I definitely get where you’re coming from when you say in today’s society, everyone claims to be victims but you’re grossly oversimplifying issues that do exist and affect some people everyday life. I’m a nurse and I have overheard HCP not taking people who are overweight seriously, or blaming them for their current health status. It’s way more than just people talking shit about another person.
Bro… I mean I wear a size 15 shoe… you know how many times I’ve been able to find that in stores?? Or on reseller sites? RARELY lmao But if it’s not in store I can always order them & keep it moving. I ain’t trippin 🤷🏽♂️
It's what Kanye meant when he said racism is a mental thing. OBVIOUSLY racism exists, but what's the point of living if you're gonna spend your whole life crying about it? Not everybody is gonna like you and that's just OK. Live YOUR life. At the end of the day, they're the ones losing sleep thinking about how much they hate you.
my main annoyance is when people try to find absolutely anything that can be remotely considered racist. If something is racist call it out, but if you legit have to look so hard to find it then odds are youre overthinking it.
she definitely wants validation and praise for just being fat. like girl just live your lifeeeeeeee. it's the internet ppl say ANYTHING. when you living in real life the stuff ppl say to you online doesn't matter and you dont owe anyone an explanation either 😂😂😂.
girl really complained that stores dont have clothes in her size, then still talked trash when they added them. Not even that they dont sell them at all, she complained that they didnt have a large selection in store and she had to buy online.
For all the tall people or women who try not to flash people after a shower: buy a bath sheet. They're much longer/larger than a typical towel and my 6 foot younger sister loves hers.
‘It’s not Bath and Body Works fault that you need a bed sheet to dry yourself off.’ He gotta chill! 😭
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I died when he said that and Dee said he didn't have to go there😂😭😭
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
He didn't have to say all that, but when he's right, he's right🤷🏿♂️
@🧿andani🧿 it’s also not right for fat obese people to glorify obesity because you’re lazy to want to change your lifestyle to be happy, so now they’re trying to fake it for the public as “I lOvE mY bODY”, no you don’t, you know that big ass gut hanging and constantly looking for plus clothes isn’t cute nor fun.
Dee is just over humans, and I'm with her. As many of us as there are, finding a partner who is on that same level is surprisingly more difficult than I expected
Your problem is that you think you're better than everybody else. I understand that you want someone with your level of awareness but you gotta realize that you're human too.
@@Jay-kx5cb Do I think I'm better than everyone else? Does Dee think she's better than everyone else? I'm over myself too, and having this perspective means I'm narcissist? I don't think I'm anything other than what everyone else on the planet is.
@@maxerinjames Ok
We humans are pretty wierd, we don't fully understand each other and sometimes ourselves. Sorry, I just wanted to say this.
All i want in a partner is two things: someone I can trust blindly and you have to be able to make me laugh.
Exactly, and the fact that everyone wants to be a victim takes away from the actual victims. People used the word “victim” so much that it started to lose its meaning.
People tend to overuse many words nowadays. Like simp or overrated, it’s becoming very annoying
@@daryeusford9696 Your right I'm so sick and tired of hearing the word simp.
@@daryeusford9696 Exactly. Any guy that shows a sliver of kindness towards a woman is called a simp. Like if someone hurt you just say that!
@@courtneythecapricorn3634 fax
Did she say she shouldn’t be charged for more fabric?? That’s literally a small factor in why adult sizes are more expensive than children’s sizes 🥴 I’m confused
I’m a size 15 shoe, obviously since they really don’t have my size in stores I have to get them online Abd they use more material, they’re going to be more expensive. And that’s something I can’t control and I understand how that makes sense, why can’t this chick?
@@awsomedude23456 15 bro that's tough
@@Prime_cod tell me about it
@@Hdhshshs-el2h no it’s literally cheaper bc it’s less material. If u saw what I said about my shoes, it’s bc they have to use more to make it, that’s often who the price is higher for bigger sizes. Also paying less for clothes is not a right, it’s a privilege.
@@LyricalIAm lmfao you know it
Im one of those people that just heard for the first time that you are Bi but have been watching for years… 🥴
Same😂
Yea she doesn’t say often at all
My mind was blown.... when she said that.🤯
Yea I keep forgetting because she doesn’t make it her personality
Lmaoooo me too 🤦🏽♀️
The towel thing was one of the most absurd complaints I've ever heard.
RIGHT? like I was trying my hardest to not judge her but like, it's a towel. no one is gonna see you in it and you're not even wearing it for a long period of time. you just drying your body off. wtf it need to fit for?
@@jaquaraolivialawton10 I mean hear me out... Some towels do be small af but all she had to was go to the extra big ones 💀
She wants the world to conform to her instead of the other way around.
@@xxxtatyonne222 that's true. lmaooo
I KNEW dee was gonna forget what she was gonna say 😂
I really wanted her to talk her shit😭
Thank You...ppl act like being black needs to be Everything to you....Yes I'm black, along with many other things that make me who I am...like how boring when ur race, gender, sex, or sexual orientation is all u are...like Evolve!!
Or at least have a personality lmao
People tell me all the time "you can't be black and do this or think that" like I'm an individual not part of a tribe or trope
@@azaravalerie9832 Facts like when they say “being black is not monolith” but then bash black people who apparently aren’t “black enough” (e.g goth, alternative, country, super feminine etc.)
@@azaravalerie9832 Yeah I got that alot, especially when I was younger...Like why would you want to tell someone in ur own community that they need to limit themselves, just because of the color of their skin...I travel long term, I was told Black ppl don't do that...I wanted to learn how the snowboard and surf...I was told Black ppl don't do that ..Um have u been to Africa...Who do u think is surfing there...I listen to rock music...I was told we don't listen to that...Um who do u think invented the genre...Like really 🙄 But Never listen to them...Their just small/closed minded
@@adwoa590 Yup...And then When someone else outside out race stereotypes us, ( which is wrong )...But we stereotype each other...by trying to pigeon hold what it means to be black....Btw I was thee Only black grunge/goth girl in my highschool and was proud of it...
I’m like you Dee. I hate and don’t wear the “I’m gay” sign as my whole identity. It is one small piece of me!
idk i wear it because i want girls to know i like girls.
@@ivory8492 you do you boo
@@ivory8492
Do you have to do it if youre straight too? Lol
@@ivory8492 ur weird asf
@@WadeWalker22 how is that weird?? you can't tell I'm lesbian by looking at me. you should mind your business idk why tf ur so bitter
I am a goth, mixed race, bisexual woman, who loves most types of music, horror ,black drama films, old stoner movies, video games, art, anime, I’m overweight. I am a whole ass mess of a personality. Fat isn’t a personality. It’s a body type. I don’t disregard all my other personality traits just because I’m overweight. It’s ridiculous how insanely obsessed people can get when it comes to bodies and genders, ect. 🙄🙄🙄 it gets soooo old. People don’t need to change for you. just like you don’t need to change for people. Remember when interests in certain things in pop culture and society were the things that brought people together? Why’s it so complicated these days?
I love dee’s opinions on these topics
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The only time hate matters is when someone is in power and can make things worse for you. If a nobody is fatphobic, it doesn't matter. However, if someone's boss, or someone's doctor, treats them poorly or less of a person because they're fat, then I would consider it an issue.
I would argue that people don't know how to separate their biases from thier everyday interactions.
I've been watching Dee for years. I just love how blunt she is. She says the stuff I want to say, just not out loud.
"Live your best fat life" 😂😂
Period😂😂😂😂
Fucking Dee 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm pro Black because I AM Black.
But I'm tired of having those conversations because it's draining as hell. For my own mental health I just stopped because I DON'T want to live an unhappy life.
I have a couple of people I met through Facebook who made that they're entire lives and for several reasons decided to stop.
Because it's DRAINING AF.
I'm 50 years old I don't need the stress.
Thats fair. I think when dealing with or discussing any sort of social issue, its about balance. You can be pro black without making it your whole identity. Hell, you can be pro black without even being an activist. It's just about caring about yourself and your community. People take it way too far sometimes, though. At the end of the day peace of mind and ones own happiness is even more important.
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Living their best lives? What world are you living in?
@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6
You make it sound as though all Black men choose Yt women. That's not the case. The MAJORITY of Black men are actually with Black women.
Those who aren't are STILL not living their best lives. They still have to deal with the same bullshit that every Black man has to deal with.
I'm going to support Black men and part of that is holding them ACCOUNTABLE.
There's alot to hold them accountable for and not one of them is their choice in dating yt women.
The only reason I'd care about that is the ones who purposely choose yt women because of their self hatred and disrespect of Black women.
Black men, Black PEOPLE are not a monolith. I will never accept or support fuckery and if I had the choice which I don't I'd prefer that every Black person choose each other as partners but that's not the case.
I can support them and hold them accountable.
You sound bitter and that clouds your judgment. At some point I hope you'll get past that.
Let's cancel skinny people cut thats fat shaming.
Let's cancel men because the fact you're not a woman is sexist.
Lets cancel straight people cuz thats homophobic
Edit: Wtf are yall even talkin bout.
« Like just be gay »
@@doxakabemba5880 like just choose to like pussy🙄🤷🏾♂️
i notice theres only people like that on tiktok when i deleted it my life wasnt full of dumb people online saying dumb shit
@@etrnlb0y twitter and tiktok the bottom of social media
@@tyreek.6815 You don't choose that, you just like it.
I was waiting for Dee to say “BITCHHH!” 😭😭😭
The beginning is literally me, Dee I relate so much I’m so over the whole “making your discrimination your entire personality” like jesus
Dee is just over it. I feel it.
I never got the "it was my ancestors, it wasn't me" thing. Like, who was asking you about your personal involvement in slavery? No one. It's just a deflection phrase used by people to try and avoid having to self analyze and critically think about their potential bias or outright hate.
its not really deflection in most cases, from arguments i see online its usually just a response to someone who is trying to blame a person and act like theyre guilty for the actions of people that arent even alive anymore
@@nickcrim6735 few things 1) its not their history or actions, its their ancestor's so trying to act as if they have any part of something that people who are long dead by did. 2) how exactly can you use the phrase "it was my ancestors" as a scapegoat, it literally only functions as a reply to people trying to blame you for something you didnt do. 3) replying "it was my ancestors" when youre blamed for someone elses actions screams guilt? not sure if you know this but people generally dont like being blamed for the actions of family members, let alone ancestors, so yes they will say something like this when you try to blame them for an issue their ancestors caused. 4) how exactly is blaming someone for something they werent a part of, educating them on their roots?
so to be clear, if you try to blame someone for something their ancestors did, logic tells you they are gonna say they arent responsible for what those people did
@@kyos85 his original comment was about people who use the phrase when no one mentioned their ancestors. He already coverd this.
@@nickcrim6735
Let people deny “their” history.
At the end of the day they were not the ones that existed and the only thing that is shackling them to their past is their blood.
It is very much ridiculous if you really think about it.
Although the effects of the past are being carried through the present its STILL unfair to blame the newer generation for something their ancestors did. They feel guilt because people force guilt on to them, thats why it gets uncomfortable.
If the one who wronged you died, you lost your chance to exact justice.
@Solaris
Thats called overgeneralising.🙃
The new generation is composed of a whooole different group of people.
As i said there might remnants of the past put onto the present but dont use “the new generation” as an umbrella term.
By your logic the cycle will never end and you will ALWAYS hate the blood of those that abused you.
But like every generation there will always be sick minded people.
Talk against those that are openly racist and dont drag others who dont really care.
Blame the person that is doing the wrong deed not their lineage.
I didnt know you were bi lol but I completely agree with you on not making it part of your identity, which is part of the reason I havent come out. I personally dont feel the need to come out bc I dont owe anyone an explanation and I dont want people to only think of me by my sexuality, I'm way more than that and also that's not the only thing I'd want to be remembered for after I die.
LOOOOL you were so calm and then all of a sudden “BIIITCH” during the towel part 🤣 I feel like this is me a lot everyone nowadays gets so offended by every little thing. I’m fine with differing opinions but I can’t stand people that shove theirs down your throat
Dee is full of mysteries. She’s Bi and was on Cops.. I bet she’s chill in person.
She was on cops??! Lol
Lmao Frfr
@@jasminelewis315 Yeah.. I’ve never seen it but she said it in a video. I’m waiting for one of the subscribers to find it and post it.😄
Someone find it ASAP 😭🤣🤣
Exactly. I hate how everyone either needs to be a victim or feel the need to be labeled as something. I’m so sick and tired of everyone’s petty ass problems and tired of people shoving 8 million titles in everyone’s face. I don’t care who or what you are.
“I’m over everybody tbh” 😩 a mood
This how i feel about lizzo, my good sis is talented but she has made her entire image on being overweight. Like always fighting the trolls who call ha f@t. Like gurl
People point it out to her every chance they get, so I'm not surprised she mentions it so often or has made it 'part of her identity'.
Mind your business. If you were in her position and everyone constantly mentioned your body and made you feel shit about yourself you’d start getting sick of it too.
@@sasham6960 yes I understand what ur saying, but it reaches a certain point where that's what ur self image is.. the person who commented didn't lash out it was just a comment
@@Nebiyu316 but they did lol what are you talking about.
She's a troll and she gets money and attention off of sympathy and it works she's kind of an evil genius
It’s hard for the world to really agree, with statements like that. I’ve been talking a lot about how you can’t say anything to anybody anymore because everything is phobic or shaming. 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️💯💯💯
Imagine talking about “Companies holding themselves accountable” but you can’t even count on yourself to loose weight so you could live a long healthy life. This woman cares more about old navy’s plus size clothing than her own well being.
I’m over everybody too, Dee. I just clock tf out when I come across people who have this victim ass mindset. And people try to make it seem like if you compare issues, you’re ‘dismissing’ emotions but idgaf. Let me be dismissive then. If someone doesn’t like you because you’re fat af, skinny af, ugly af, pretty af, black af, gay af, autistic af, whatever tf, it is what it is.
There are men, women, and children on the very same planet as us being murdered in current genocides, little girls being forced into marriages with old men, people being murdered, raped, assaulted, left and right. You have parents losing children, children losing parents, wars, famine, homelessness, natural disasters destroying peoples lives and making them homeless with absolutely no certain future.
But people like her want to be such victims and so oppressed just because they’re fat and self conscious about their fatness. A lot of the time when people are insecure about something, they project that onto others and assume that everybody is judging them for their insecurities because THEY are the ones constantly judging THEMSELVES, even if they’re in a room of people who are paying them no mind they will still feel like they’re important enough in random peoples lives to be the centre of attention and the focal point of judgement when in reality, a lot of us/most of us don’t give a flying fuck about you or your fat rolls.
I am tired of this society we live in. People need to pull themselves tf together. That’s not to say that we can’t be upset about your our personal struggles just because of other people’s struggles (lord knows I be feeling the most fucked up, getting all types of therapy, etc) but what we’re not about to do is act like we’re the biggest, oh-so-helpless victims out of every single group of people or individuals on this planet- especially over some shit that doesn’t actually matter/has little-to-no effect on your actual life. If only people focused on ACTUAL life instead of giving themselves high blood pressure over what some randoms type online 🙃
Sometimes people try so hard to sound “woke” they sound stupid.
im scared that one day dee will go viral on tiktok like she did on stan twitter and someone will try and cancel her
she won’t gaf 😭😭
I’m very pro-black and I love protesting and learning about black American history but I don’t broadcast it out for everyone to know lmaoo 😭 if it’s not talked about then no point in bringing it up, not everything needs to be about race and Black Lives Matter. Sometimes I wanna have fun and just live my life 💀
And I’m fat and if there’s people around that do care you’re fat then just drop them and live your life because nobody really don’t care 💀
I remember i used to follow a streamer on Twitter chile she was very pro black and boy I regret ever interacting with her.
wtf she mean “supposedly plus sized clothing takes up more fabric but that’s not how it actually works” like... Does she think an XS takes the same amount of fabric as a 2XL? I’m confused
@8:47 you said that with some “umph!!” 😤 I love it 😂 😂 😂
Being over weight is a choice unless you have a medical condition. I was 18 and 290 pounds I chose to change myself I'm now 19 and 150 pounds it's about discipline and self care
Dee always spitting facts, especially when people make things their into or how they are as their whole identity and everything they do they revolve it around their “persona”💯
Maybe it's just an American thing, but why does everyone need to be a victim. Its seems like people want to be victims to one-up other people, and be like "I'm a victim and your not" type of complex and I don't know what's so satisfying about being a victim what's the perks everybody feels sympathy for you or something is that all it is people want sympathy from others?
I do feel like it's an American thing but it's mainly a first world country thing.
We have people getting bombed and shot overseas and this lady and many like her are whining about useless shit.
This is when you know you're priveleged af. When you can whine about trivial stuff and make up random issues.
EXACTLY!! What does being str8/gay/bi , skin colour, religion, body type have to do with your whole identity?
"I was the social media activist" skskskksksksksks Dee!! 😭😂
😒Most people think because they are "fat", gay, Trans, Lesbian, ugly....w.e is the reason why people don't like them. NO! You have a horrible mentality and no one wants that energy. I seen a lot of people with these Traits get loved on and supported. Just go get your mental together.
If you are focused on hate you will manifest it. period
It’s the fact that this woman literally said that clothing that fits her needing to use more material doesn’t mean she needs to pay more. Like girl, by that logic I should pay the same amount for kids and adult clothes since the amount of material used doesn’t matter
“Bitch” hahahaha! I love you haha I be feeling everything you be saying girl! Ppl are annoying af lol
PREACH. And on my birthday too?? Damn..love it. I despiseeee the people that just wanna waste other people time by playing victim and shit..when there are actuallll people out there that seriously needs someone's attention.
It’s not her that thinks everything is fat phobic , it’s literally everyone in the bopo community.
everyone is trying to cry “woe is me” while i'm googling and looking at pics of the hot fish from finding nemo
You a freak. But I respect it.
A wise man once told me:
the fat movement is the only movement without movement
Why am I so surprised that she's bisexual? (Edit actually I can see her being with another woman)
LMAO WHAT??????
@@etrnlb0y Dee shanell said shes bisexual
@@Xennmeme i knew that already but when u said actually i can see her being with another woman sounded a lil weird to me
@@etrnlb0y weird how? 😭
@@etrnlb0y that’s the whole point of being bi tho…?
Those people are the worst to be around... I just straight up ignore them or don't associate with them at all, if I did my head would explode.
i love the first 2 minutes ... exactly how I've been feeling lately
I agree, tho the living ur best life is hard for people that be in certain countries where they may be restricted from doing so.
Dee you be preaching stuff people ain’t ready to hear and I love it
the fact that she has permission to dance as an audio 😭
Not me rewatching the whole video because I didn’t notice the first time 😂
What you explained is basically growing up in a nutshell . Unfortunately this generation loves victimization and doing right by your fellow man and women is overrated .
BISEXUAL QUEEN! I'm so glad I know this.
I'm gay and black and neither are completely me. We are much more than what we look like, identify as, or orient towards. I agree with Dee completely.
“Some people just don’t like black people and that’s okay”
Ong bruh. Like it’s just ppl who genuinely don’t like us and we can’t even change that fact.. mfs don’t understand this
Omg not Dee becoming my Bisexual Godmother 😭 ❤️
It’s actually scary…people like that hurt themselves…like if you only have one personality trait it’s concerning like you are more fragile
“Holding company like Old Navy Accountable”
Me: ACCOUNTABLE FOR WHAT!!!?? ACCOUNTABLE FOR YPUR CHOICES IN FOOD!!
To everything Dee said: I felt that🙌🏾😂❤️
I'm over it too, ugh, I didn't know Dee is bi, but coming from someone who is bi also I felt her energy, cause we naturally have an I dont give a f attitude 😂😭😭
9:30
He was on her ass at this point. My sides were hurting 😂🤣
I bet you this chick’s voice would sound a lot more different if her vocal cords weren’t dipped in honey mustard.
Lol 😂 she said I’m tired of ppl sound like me everyday
Being fat does not make you a part of some oppressed group. Seeing this video reminds me of cringe shit I used to see on twitter that were basically edits of phrases they co-opted from actual groups that face discrimination. Stuff like "We're here. We're fat. Get used to it" which is a bastardization of "We're here. We're queer", and "Fat lives matter", which I shouldn't need to explain. It's really sad and annoying behavior.
@ 8:48 "B@#$+"!! 🤣😂🤣😂
Overweight people are, tbh, the best kind of people actually. I love them..
Good Job Dee. Thats what I be saying. Everybody gotta be liked by everybody. Like thats not the world. I wake up and I'm glad that I don't have to like everyone. Also didnt know you were bi and thats how it should be.
That’s so facts I feel like people play oppression Olympics everyday
Victim addiction is the new alcoholism. Not to say there aren't biases inherent in the system, but self-victimization is beyond pathetic. And frankly whenever I see white women complaining, my eyes roll back so far I need an optometrist.
You are amazing and talk so much sense about EVERYTHING.
8:47 How about she buy a bath sheet? 😂
Mad irritating tho, makes zero sense for everything to be fatphobic. She’s seeking validation and it’s sad.
Like you don’t see me (a 6’5 guy with a size 17 shoe) calling companies heightphobic or footphobic lmaoo. I have to order mostly everything online and I’m completely fine with it because most of my shopping is 70% online anyways.
right like people act so dense...
8:45 "bitch" 😂😂😂😂
oh sheesh i’m really early but good video as always, finally got something to watch at lunch
Wow hearing everything you said about victimization and labels just made me so much more of a fan of you 👏🙏👍 very rare to see intelligent youtubers tbh
Your intro is a whole mood. Stepping into adulthood has made me feel like that. I got more shit to worry about than you not liking my gender or skin color 🤷🏾♀️ sjwing gets old as you get older lol
Yooo dee on the real get you a pen and pad so you could write down the stuff you wanted to say at the end because when you don't you me like wtf🤣🤣🤣
Dee: who cares if someone’s racist just move on with your life.
This is where I disagree because That’s all fine and dandy until the racist decides to make his or her racism your business. Like the Karens, police officers etc. Nobody’s a victim until they are so better to be vigilant but not make that your identity.
rightt like ignoring it is not making the problem better
Also racist people have never met anyone of color. But if they meet, say a black person and the black person is always nice to the racist there is no way that the racist individual can remain racist so they can come around eventually.
@@ivory8492
Doing something about it especially for such a wide issue is also impractical to live your life.
Your life would greatly shift if youd wish to actually make a change.
@@benshapiro8623 see the thing is I can’t be extra nice to a racist, if you hate me that’s your own problem and it’s not up to me to fix him or her. If I don’t like an individual in my life I stay far away from them, they need to do the same because at this point it’s become an obsession with people they don’t like.
@@machedari I understand I’m just saying racist people have no reason to be racist, if you guys were say, in a workplace and you were forced to work with someone who is racist. It might be a little awkward at first but eventually he or she will realise there is not reason to hate someone based in their race.
I love you ❤️ you be cracking me up literally this how I feel. If people are racist I don’t give a fuck🤣🤣🤣
This is why I'm subscribed I always 100% agree with you
Everybody shocked your bisexual I’m just sitting here like I fucking knew it 😂 you just give me the vibes that you have experienced and experimented and found a healthy medium
Wish you the best Ms Dee
"Thunder thighs are on the move, thunder thighs are loose!" Peter Griffin
😂😂😂
Family Guy gives zero f&$ks!
Omg not her saying period like she doing something
8:59 😭😭 I’m bout to use tf outta that clip
I definitely get where you’re coming from when you say in today’s society, everyone claims to be victims but you’re grossly oversimplifying issues that do exist and affect some people everyday life. I’m a nurse and I have overheard HCP not taking people who are overweight seriously, or blaming them for their current health status. It’s way more than just people talking shit about another person.
yessssss I agree Dee, is there nothing else about people? nothing else interesting? just that ? that shit is sad.
Lizzo is a prime example... I can't stand her crying every other day trynna get simpathy, then trynna be a confident queen the next day
towel.? Beach towel?! Buy a robe 😂😂😂 They have L-8X
The only thing I took from this video is that they have oversized towels out there lol Like I never knew that!!
Dee you mean your bi yourself so you need me 😏. Nah I’m playing 😂
How did yal not know she was bi? 😭😭 she said it in her videos
I don't think shops should stock fat sizes. It normalises it and it is not normal.
I'm surprised at the amount of people who didn't know Dee was bi in the comments... she's said it a bunch of times
ikr. Even if noone knew at first, why's it such a surprise to everyone xd?
@@LyricalIAm I'm not talking about people caring, I said idk how so many people didn't know when she's said it loads of times
I'm tall as fuck - I use beach towels to dry. Like it's really not hard to find a large towel.
Bro… I mean I wear a size 15 shoe… you know how many times I’ve been able to find that in stores?? Or on reseller sites? RARELY lmao But if it’s not in store I can always order them & keep it moving. I ain’t trippin 🤷🏽♂️
The little voice on in the beginning
It's what Kanye meant when he said racism is a mental thing. OBVIOUSLY racism exists, but what's the point of living if you're gonna spend your whole life crying about it? Not everybody is gonna like you and that's just OK. Live YOUR life. At the end of the day, they're the ones losing sleep thinking about how much they hate you.
my main annoyance is when people try to find absolutely anything that can be remotely considered racist. If something is racist call it out, but if you legit have to look so hard to find it then odds are youre overthinking it.
she definitely wants validation and praise for just being fat. like girl just live your lifeeeeeeee. it's the internet ppl say ANYTHING. when you living in real life the stuff ppl say to you online doesn't matter and you dont owe anyone an explanation either 😂😂😂.
girl really complained that stores dont have clothes in her size, then still talked trash when they added them. Not even that they dont sell them at all, she complained that they didnt have a large selection in store and she had to buy online.
@@kyos85 im tryna figure out how that's even inconvenient 😂😂
The entilement is baffeling. Im so over this people size 20 is not enough in wich world??!! It's 5XL 😱
For all the tall people or women who try not to flash people after a shower: buy a bath sheet. They're much longer/larger than a typical towel and my 6 foot younger sister loves hers.