That’s so stupid, she wanted to do it for herself. If these people are getting mad because people who were originally “overweight” are no longer considered “overweight” they should go outside and touch grass. Literally!
It gets tiring for ANY movement when they are over the top. Fatphobia is a problem but when people act like everything you do is against them is like "guess im against you then. Damn. Stfu." 🤷🏽♀️
Fatphobia sounds stupid. No one is afraid of fat people. And like Dee said, no one is responsible for someone else's insecurities. Don't bully people, but don't walk on eggshells either. At some point personal responsibility for your feelings, and your size should be had.
Of course no one is 'afraid' of fat people, the movement just started based on the aversion to overweight people in society. People were disgusted by fat people, people saw 'fat' as the one indication of un attractiveness that takes away the worth and beauty of an individual. (Thus, constant bullying and suicides). Not saying people don't take it too far, as with any movement, but you can't deny that fatphobia is real
@@preciousmerriweather Hon, words can have more than one meaning did you know that? Phobia in fatphobia doesn't mean fear or discontent, but prejudice. Search it up if you think I’m lying.
Can't believe the first lady is bragging about men that are using her for sex. She's really convinced herself that she wants that but I bet she'd jump at the chance at a relationship if given the chance but all those men only feel like she's only good enough to hook up. She isn't fooling anyone acting like that's what she wants.
Delusional to act like it's hard to get a man to sleep with you if you offer no strings attached sex lol. Get them to stay and then we'll be impressed.
Right? She's basically saying:"there are still plenty of men who will sleep with me so I'm attractive" completely missing the point of being proud of being a girl anyone can get. Whether big or small as a woman that's embarrassing
Me personally I just don’t care 🤷🏽♀️ Don’t care if you’re fat… don’t care if you’re skinny… lol I just mind my business. I’ll never understand why others care so much I just mind my business 💀
The redhead chick talks like that on purpose. Side note: I went from 270 to 215. I owned it and worked it off. No complaining, no hand out waiting for someone to help me. I ate right and worked out. I feel better in the morning and throughout the day. I made no excuses and I didn’t settle. Some of these people have settled. They need either stop deflecting or own up to bring overweight/fat/curvy/whatever you call it.
I agree. I don’t understand why she does it, because being that condescending to people who disagree is not a good way to change their minds. Also, that’s so amazing that you’ve lost that weight and worked to improve your lifestyle! It truly is wonderful and I hope you’re proud of yourself for that because it is not easy to be so consistent! I’ve gone from around 240 lbs to 212 lbs but I’m working to lose more weight and recover from my binge eating issues. Thank you for sharing your story… it’s always nice to hear about people taking things into their own hands and improving their own lives, even though it’s hard. God bless you :)
!!! Refusing to settle is key I think. At some point people just have an attitude around this and don't want to do the work and make changes, and if somebody gives them advice on eating better or moving their body they take it as hate instead of humbly listening.
I don’t doubt it. It’s not hard at all for a woman to get a guy to sleep with her with no strings attached. I can tell you that those guys most likely don’t give a fuck about her like she claims and just needed to bust nuts. What sane guy actually wants to be in a relationship with a woman that’s basically proud of being a public parking garage?
My youngest daughter is 5'6 and about 120lbs WET. She's skinny. She LOVES going into MY clothes and wearing them ESPECIALLY my long sleeve shirts. It annoys me but not for the reason that guy was bitching about. It annoys me because if I was to buy her said shirt she would say it's ugly but as long as its MINE she just takes it. ALL of her clothes are oversized. That's how she likes to wear them. I don't give a damn. That dude is probably jealous of smaller people. His attitude is terrible as well because of the sheer ENTITLEMENT coming out of his mouth.
The BMI thing is that I think when it was initially created it was based off of Europeans and whats normal for their bodies ( smaller body fat percentage) whereas recent studies show that people of African decent as well as other ethnicities can have a higher percentage of body fat without being considered "unhealthy". BMI also doesn't take into consideration muscle mass which can also vary greatly between ethnicities.
Yeah, in general, BMI is just a smaaaaall, imperfect piece of the potential lens you could use to understand the picture of someone's health. It can definitely be helpful, but the amount of "weight" the non-medical public puts in its use and interpretations is bordering erroneous.
Sure but it's one thing to say some one is unhealthy who is a little thick based off of BMI but I think the target here is people who are at the point of being morbidly obese. You can probably be massively overweight and relatively healthy at the time being..But that doesn't mean you are healthy. It can make you more at risk to become unhealthy/ be susceptible to health disorders that wouldn't be an issue if you were at an more appropriate weight.
@@trl2151 True, my only counterpoint would be... if someone is morbidly obese (or extremely anorexic), society probably doesn't need a BMI scale to come to that conclusion or to then extrapolate that this state is unhealthy and/or will lead to illness. I do agree that it can be used to help paint a general picture of what risks or current issues the person may have. It provides a broad but hazy snapshot of someone's body to start with.
Exactly I am 5"10 180 pounds my dr told me im over weight and need to get down to 165 or 170, I got my bmi and muscle index checked i am 14% body fat. It's not catered to everyone. And that hinders us from getting high dollar value life insurance policies which help build generational wealth
Honestly if you're overweight and insecure about it than you should be doing everything in your power to lose weight if that's what you really want. If you are overweight and are satisfied with your body, than you shouldn't have problems with such little things like in this video. If you are overweight, say you're happy as you are, and then complain about "thin people" doing whatever than obviously you are still insecure but unwilling to accept it.
After watching, I can say people are sensitive and attention whores. Who cares what others think? Are you happy? People function by what others think; what happened to the critical thinker? The sheep mentality is in full effect. And these are our future leaders?🤔
What people think or say can affect if you are happy or not. If you’re constantly being jabbed, passed over, denigrated, etc. over a long period of time that would affect anyone’s happiness/mental health big or small. It doesn’t cost anything to keep negative unsolicited comments to yourself
@@LP-ct9nk those are signs of insecurity and giving any person authority over your happiness is ridiculous. And I would say to take a close look at yourself if that is the case.
I'm a very large dude, but I still think most of these complaints are stupid. But, it might sound funny, I definitely felt that part about the toilet paper holder placement 😅. Y'all smaller people don't get how hard it is for us big folks to "maneuver" in these small ass stalls. This is why I try to do my business at home before work and not go again until I get home.
I go into the disabled stall. I'm overweight and I can fit in the stalls barely and it's uncomfortable. Those smaller stalls have toilet seats that are too low. Shit I feel for people who have long legs. My knees are bad so those smaller stalls are too much.
Public bathroom stalls suck, no argument there. It's just not feasible to remodel every public bathroom. And while the toilet paper holder might be inconvenient for people, moving it could be inconvenient to others still, like someone who is very short, or in a wheelchair if it were moved up. It's impossible to ever fully accommodate everyone. It sucks in a lot of situations. I try to remember that cramped bathroom stall is still better than a nasty outhouse or a hole in the ground lol. Things may not always be ideal, but they can always be worse, right?
The third one is true (the comment), too many people seem to forget that putting yourself online opens you up to all kinds of people and vibes negative and positive.
4:20 I HATE when people on Tik Tok put on a kindergarten teacher act when ever they wanna teach someone about something, like it isn’t funny it’s just annoying get to the point
I get being a heavier person isn't something to be put down for, but the guy complaining about there not being many clothing choices for bigger people.....you're not supposed to stay that size. Love you at whatever size you are but also try to get to a healthy weight too. And that's cap: there are plenty of plus sized clothing to go around. Ppl have too much time on their hands
Eh, some people have thyriod issues and can't lose the weight, it isn't always simple. There's a young lady 14 or 15 who can't lose weight due to a cancer she had when she was small child they had to remove a glad not sure the entire story but it makes her gain weight she can't lose there's nothing wrong with having bigger clothing. (And this is coming from someone is tall and thin)
@@basicsmoothbrain7624 I'm not talking about people who can't lose it or have extreme difficulty. I'm talking about ppl who can but won't. And like I said, there's still enough clothing to go around. I never said anything was wrong with wearing bigger clothing just that one shouldn't make it their norm if they have the option of a healthier weight
Yeah, I have PCOS and have struggled with my weight for years now. I literally have sizes 8-16 in my closet because I fluctuate a ton…… but this man is over the top. It’s like he wants to complain about something. I just don’t get it. There are plenty of places to get plus sized clothing these days. And I don’t get the toilet paper thing at all that he was talking about.
That guy who was complaining about skinny ppl buying larger clothes tripping. I wonder how he would feel if skinny ppl complained about fat ppl going to Walmart buying up all the food.
@@winglessfairy564 when fat people shop , they don’t buy out the whole isle of food . Fat people clothes are already made in small amounts , you and your friends clearing those 5 shirts is not the same . Same goes for white girls buying up all the darker shade of foundation basically making it even more difficult for black girls to find their shade in store .
This is so annoying… Instead of blaming everyone but yourself, how about you try to get to a healthier weight and try to eat healthy🤦🏽♂️ Smaller people often work on themselves, why can’t bigger people just shut up and do the same.
I agree with everything that lady said in the video except the height and weight thing. The formula for that is based off of the white body shape. And it is common knowledge that 150 on a Caucasian will look completely different on an African American, Hispanic, etc. They should go by BMI instead of age and height because it is more inclusive and a better more accurate representation of everyone's body.
@@terrencelee9366 it isn't a myth it has been proven to be true the founder of the height age and weight scale herself has stated that it was modeled for white people. And the shap of you bones has nothing to do with the shape of one's body. Muscle and fat placement on a body does differ from culture to culture. Thats why there is a such thing as body shaps a 150 on an hour glass frame is going to look different on someone with a pear shape. And then on top of that a white pear shape looks different than a black or Asian or Hispanic pear shape.
I don't think the BMI scale is racist. I think it's unrealistic. I do think its harmful for people who are insecure about their bodies to the point where they feel as though they have to absolutely fit that formula. Besides the fact that the BMI does NOT factor in body shape.
Man I'm overweight and I'm so glad I don't think like this. They are just making everything about themselves, and preaching that everything is fatphobic. Yes we get it, fat people are discriminated against to an extent but acting like this will only make people dislike your cause more.
This whole video reminds me of that Katt Williams "it's called self esteem, how the fuck can I effect how you feel about you!!!" Also after seeing other cultures in my life, America we eat for either enjoyment or cause we hungry, other places eat as a family or community bonding activity and doordash and Grubhub have made it worse.
Honestly, now they are making excuses to get pity from people cause 99.99999% of their arguments don’t make sense or don’t even connect to what we are talking about!
Look, I'm not about to fat shame anyone. I'M fat. I'm fat by choice because of my lifestyle habits which are TERRIBLE. Now I can complain about how I'm inconvenienced as a fat person or I can STFU and get up off my ass and do something about it. Are there people who are fat due to medical conditions or medications thats beyond their control? Yes. Does complaining change anything? NO. No one is going to feel sorry for us because we're fat. Society isn't going to completely change because we're fat. We can't expect it to. I'm only on this guy's 2nd video and his complaining is annoying AF.
In reality, Fatphobia is not about being mean to fat people. It's about people not wanting to be fat and unhealthy! SMH. Someone being overweight is not everyone's problem to tread carefully around. if your feelings are hurt after realizing people know ur fat, change you lifestyle and stop blaming others. I really hate how overweight people are trying to hijack high profile movements to push their self made issues.
It's not cool to make fun of fat ppl. I also don't think it's cool to make being fat a good thing. Everyone should live their life how they please. Don't try to convince ppl that being fat is a good thing, don't try to convince ppl to make fun of fat ppl.
They on some bs lol I think it’s kinda annoying how everything thinner people do has to be a problem now. Like y’all need to go up. So what if people buy plus size shirts? At least there’s still plus size clothes in the stores. And even if they’re out, it’s called ordering online. I never find clothes in my size but I’m on the other end of the spectrum. I mostly need smaller than an XS or an XS which is often not in stores. But I don’t bash overweight people about it.
You know the irony of people that preach fat acceptance? That they have to tell everyone how proud or strong they are for being fat. If you truly accept the fact that you are fat then shut up and move on with your life. We don't need you to come at us with all these videos trying to justify yourself.
*This might sound extremely bad or rude, but if your fat... maybe try losing the weight (if you are medically able to) instead of complaining then eating the most unhealthy food or having a lazy lifestyle*
I agree to be positive about ur body and not get depressed about it, but people go against fat acceptance to justify bullying them and that’s not right either. It’s one thing to be concerned about someone’s weight and another thing to straight out bully them and cover it up as a “oh bullying helps the person to make a change therefore I’m helping”
so I was on tik tok as one does and a fat acceptance video popped up on my fyu this was my first time really seeing much about this so I commented saying “in my personal opinion losing weight is a personal choice not fat phobic” when I say this girl flipped shit on me I mean she literally got so aggressive saying she didn’t ask for my opinion I just threw it right back and said neither did I but there I was on my fyp seeing your opposing opinion. she tried to go back and forth and i’m not joking called me fat phobic I laughed at my phone and blocked her. the people from this community have some type of mental disorders because after all the videos i’ve seen from other creators they are very hostile and rude to people with opposing opinions or just people who state facts. honestly really sad how delusional they are.. like if you want to be accepted as a group of people you have to be accepting of other groups too and it seems like they don’t understand that at all. they only want to hear their narrative and people who agree with that narrative. I’ve never cared if someone was fat and I never will treat someone differently because of their size nor do I think i’m more attractive than them just because i’m thinner than they are. They seem to think anyone who disagrees with their opinions is fat phobic. I understand some people are treated badly for their body and there are fat phobic people in the world but that doesn’t give them the right to shit on anyone who doesn’t agree with them or isn’t as fat as they are because as much as they say we make fun of them . they are the ones actually being hateful and mean because someone wants to be thinner or is thin in general. this rabbit hole has been so disturbing but so interesting to go down on only because of how delusional these people actually are.
Just shop online for Walmart's website! Or literally any affordable store will most likely have it, like fashion nova? My aunt is a very big woman and she shops there all the time(on sales)
Math formulas in regards to beauty like the golden ratio are a bit racist because it excludes anything out side of the Eurocentric beauty spectrum (the golden ratio was made by European mathematicians also)
Lets be honest, the guys the first girl gets arn't going to be handsome in the slightest. They will be Jeremy Kyle guest looking types . Even if they are some what handsome, she is an easy option for them, a guaranteed " Netflix and Chill" 🙃 her attitude was so cringey
They just wanted to bust nuts. 99% sure none of them give a fuck about her. No dude wants a relationship with a public parking garage. Every dude wants to bust with no strings attached, especially if it’s a desperate fat Chick.
I'm so over people complaining about their boundaries and people not respecting them. Ask any therapist, domestic violence counselor, psychiatrist... what do they say? It's important to have boundaries, and people that care like friends and family should respect them. But, if someone refuses to respect your boundaries, then don't have them in your life. You can set standards and expectations of how you want to be treated. Not everyone has to respect that. If they don't, don't have them in your life. Don't give them your time and energy. You can't control other people. You can control yourself and how you react to other people. You can walk away and ignore people that don't respect your boundaries, or you can get worked up and overreact to every little thing you don't like.
The guy I guess I kinda get it because as a fat guy my self it’s way harder to find nice clothes that’s not in lumberjack or over grown toddler look. But at the same time get creative accessorise and also just accept the fact that some styles just don’t look on all body types
I will keep on losing my weight. I have lost 18 lb going from 196 to 178. And im still losing. I am happy for all who are losing and fully support them. But i won't support people claiming to be healthy even tho their obese. Or complaining about things they have done to themseves.
My thing is everyone needs to work on themselves...why are we so consumed with how much someone weighs...if somone one is overweight it doesn't effect me personally...and yea if I had a family member who is overweight I would want them to take care of themselves physically...but before I start getting on them about what they need to do..I need to be making sure im trying to better myself as well...physically mentally or whatever
When people who are fat/overweight, they don't cry about discrimination, they are usually shunned are criticized heavily for not being fit etc. Santana is a perfect example of this he's big fem, wear feminine clothing and I rarely see him complain about it most victims of racism and discrimination don't go online to complain and act like they are something they are not, a lot of them are white women who choose to be that way
This video was interesting. I saw good points on both sides and definitely annoying things on both sides. The comment section is wild though. I mean I guess most of y’all live in a world were it’s okay to be fat and no one is worried about y’all weight. Chile, I want to live in that word because..I haven’t ever been sort of that world..and I’m a man. And apparently, men are supposed to be less targeted for their weight. So I’m just confused by it all..but hey it is what it is. If you like I love it, do you. I just really wish folks would mind they own damn business. The world would be such a better place in so many ways if everybody was mindin’!
Fat positivity would be making PCOS more well known to overweight women so that they can get checked out and stop getting told by their doctors that "You just need to lose weight". Not every overweight woman has pcos but it's a huge reason why a LOT of them have so many issues when it comes to losing it. Fat positivity is advocating for equality in the medical field so that things like lyme disease aren't overlooked as just weight issues.
Remember when they were mad at Adele for losing weight and because she wasn't "one of them" anymore 😭
That’s so stupid, she wanted to do it for herself. If these people are getting mad because people who were originally “overweight” are no longer considered “overweight” they should go outside and touch grass. Literally!
WHAT😭?? Dawg this getting out of hand now
I remember hearing about that
They did the same thing with Rebel Wilson.
@@joynerj.k.6215 true. So many ppl make fun of her on tiktok. Do people not understand shame😭
It gets tiring for ANY movement when they are over the top. Fatphobia is a problem but when people act like everything you do is against them is like "guess im against you then. Damn. Stfu." 🤷🏽♀️
Fatphobia sounds stupid. No one is afraid of fat people. And like Dee said, no one is responsible for someone else's insecurities. Don't bully people, but don't walk on eggshells either. At some point personal responsibility for your feelings, and your size should be had.
Ngl my dad is afraid of fat people or more disgusted by em lol. But he's not doing anything these people are complaining about.
Of course no one is 'afraid' of fat people, the movement just started based on the aversion to overweight people in society. People were disgusted by fat people, people saw 'fat' as the one indication of un attractiveness that takes away the worth and beauty of an individual. (Thus, constant bullying and suicides). Not saying people don't take it too far, as with any movement, but you can't deny that fatphobia is real
Apparently “phobia” is no longer used to solely describe a fear of something. It’s now used to describe discontent for. It’s annoying lol
@@preciousmerriweather Hon, words can have more than one meaning did you know that? Phobia in fatphobia doesn't mean fear or discontent, but prejudice. Search it up if you think I’m lying.
@@kaisaleh7268 if fatphobia have more than one meaning then what is a woman?
Tell me, what is a a woman.
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Does this girl think that she’s talking to preschoolers? 😭
@@dewdew4047 It makes her look super crazy lmao, she’d have more success with her points if she talked normally 😅
"are you running out of clothes to buy?"...no, he's running out of things to complain about
Can't believe the first lady is bragging about men that are using her for sex. She's really convinced herself that she wants that but I bet she'd jump at the chance at a relationship if given the chance but all those men only feel like she's only good enough to hook up. She isn't fooling anyone acting like that's what she wants.
She’s beyond delusional
I mean she is weird but she could just want sex only and it’s probably how she deals with her insecurity
Delusional to act like it's hard to get a man to sleep with you if you offer no strings attached sex lol. Get them to stay and then we'll be impressed.
Right? She's basically saying:"there are still plenty of men who will sleep with me so I'm attractive" completely missing the point of being proud of being a girl anyone can get. Whether big or small as a woman that's embarrassing
@@Tseltel 💯💯
The ginger lady was scary like huh 😕
yes definitely weird
Why does she sound like Dora though? "Can you find Boots?" *pause* "There he is!" It's so creepy.
Tess Holiday, a freak no lie.
@@bigbando9437 that is not Tess
Me personally I just don’t care 🤷🏽♀️ Don’t care if you’re fat… don’t care if you’re skinny… lol I just mind my business. I’ll never understand why others care so much I just mind my business 💀
Right
Literally lol
Some people really make their weight their SNTIRE personality.
The redhead chick talks like that on purpose.
Side note: I went from 270 to 215. I owned it and worked it off. No complaining, no hand out waiting for someone to help me. I ate right and worked out. I feel better in the morning and throughout the day. I made no excuses and I didn’t settle. Some of these people have settled. They need either stop deflecting or own up to bring overweight/fat/curvy/whatever you call it.
I agree. I don’t understand why she does it, because being that condescending to people who disagree is not a good way to change their minds. Also, that’s so amazing that you’ve lost that weight and worked to improve your lifestyle! It truly is wonderful and I hope you’re proud of yourself for that because it is not easy to be so consistent! I’ve gone from around 240 lbs to 212 lbs but I’m working to lose more weight and recover from my binge eating issues. Thank you for sharing your story… it’s always nice to hear about people taking things into their own hands and improving their own lives, even though it’s hard. God bless you :)
!!! Refusing to settle is key I think. At some point people just have an attitude around this and don't want to do the work and make changes, and if somebody gives them advice on eating better or moving their body they take it as hate instead of humbly listening.
“I had 4 guys this week” press X to doubt 😂😂
I don’t doubt it. It’s not hard at all for a woman to get a guy to sleep with her with no strings attached. I can tell you that those guys most likely don’t give a fuck about her like she claims and just needed to bust nuts. What sane guy actually wants to be in a relationship with a woman that’s basically proud of being a public parking garage?
The lady talking like a robot "Catch a bubble in your mouth" and Dee just said "you crazy" LMAO
My youngest daughter is 5'6 and about 120lbs WET. She's skinny.
She LOVES going into MY clothes and wearing them ESPECIALLY my long sleeve shirts.
It annoys me but not for the reason that guy was bitching about. It annoys me because if I was to buy her said shirt she would say it's ugly but as long as its MINE she just takes it.
ALL of her clothes are oversized. That's how she likes to wear them. I don't give a damn.
That dude is probably jealous of smaller people. His attitude is terrible as well because of the sheer ENTITLEMENT coming out of his mouth.
"You ate your way in, you can walk your way out" bill burr
That first woman was so sad. Nothing like pretending to be promiscuous to get some kind of clout. Beyond pathetic.
The BMI thing is that I think when it was initially created it was based off of Europeans and whats normal for their bodies ( smaller body fat percentage) whereas recent studies show that people of African decent as well as other ethnicities can have a higher percentage of body fat without being considered "unhealthy". BMI also doesn't take into consideration muscle mass which can also vary greatly between ethnicities.
Yeah, in general, BMI is just a smaaaaall, imperfect piece of the potential lens you could use to understand the picture of someone's health. It can definitely be helpful, but the amount of "weight" the non-medical public puts in its use and interpretations is bordering erroneous.
Sure but it's one thing to say some one is unhealthy who is a little thick based off of BMI but I think the target here is people who are at the point of being morbidly obese. You can probably be massively overweight and relatively healthy at the time being..But that doesn't mean you are healthy. It can make you more at risk to become unhealthy/ be susceptible to health disorders that wouldn't be an issue if you were at an more appropriate weight.
@@trl2151 True, my only counterpoint would be... if someone is morbidly obese (or extremely anorexic), society probably doesn't need a BMI scale to come to that conclusion or to then extrapolate that this state is unhealthy and/or will lead to illness. I do agree that it can be used to help paint a general picture of what risks or current issues the person may have. It provides a broad but hazy snapshot of someone's body to start with.
Exactly I am 5"10 180 pounds my dr told me im over weight and need to get down to 165 or 170, I got my bmi and muscle index checked i am 14% body fat. It's not catered to everyone. And that hinders us from getting high dollar value life insurance policies which help build generational wealth
@@tananyemills1808 are you a fucking bodybuilder??
Honestly if you're overweight and insecure about it than you should be doing everything in your power to lose weight if that's what you really want. If you are overweight and are satisfied with your body, than you shouldn't have problems with such little things like in this video. If you are overweight, say you're happy as you are, and then complain about "thin people" doing whatever than obviously you are still insecure but unwilling to accept it.
Dee face fucking kills me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't understand the need to come on the Internet and prove to people that people are sexually attracted to fat people
BYE
Not them saying people buying oversized clothes is stealing from obese folks and is fatphobic
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Yeah, I never even heard of that complaint. And I think even if it is valid, it's soooo far below the threshold of importance/priority.
@@theonlyonewithgum1452 it's not even valid, people can buy whatever kind of clothing not matter the size they want.
After watching, I can say people are sensitive and attention whores. Who cares what others think? Are you happy? People function by what others think; what happened to the critical thinker? The sheep mentality is in full effect. And these are our future leaders?🤔
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What people think or say can affect if you are happy or not. If you’re constantly being jabbed, passed over, denigrated, etc. over a long period of time that would affect anyone’s happiness/mental health big or small. It doesn’t cost anything to keep negative unsolicited comments to yourself
@@LP-ct9nk those are signs of insecurity and giving any person authority over your happiness is ridiculous. And I would say to take a close look at yourself if that is the case.
I'm a very large dude, but I still think most of these complaints are stupid. But, it might sound funny, I definitely felt that part about the toilet paper holder placement 😅. Y'all smaller people don't get how hard it is for us big folks to "maneuver" in these small ass stalls. This is why I try to do my business at home before work and not go again until I get home.
I go into the disabled stall. I'm overweight and I can fit in the stalls barely and it's uncomfortable. Those smaller stalls have toilet seats that are too low. Shit I feel for people who have long legs.
My knees are bad so those smaller stalls are too much.
Public bathroom stalls suck, no argument there. It's just not feasible to remodel every public bathroom. And while the toilet paper holder might be inconvenient for people, moving it could be inconvenient to others still, like someone who is very short, or in a wheelchair if it were moved up. It's impossible to ever fully accommodate everyone. It sucks in a lot of situations. I try to remember that cramped bathroom stall is still better than a nasty outhouse or a hole in the ground lol. Things may not always be ideal, but they can always be worse, right?
The third one is true (the comment), too many people seem to forget that putting yourself online opens you up to all kinds of people and vibes negative and positive.
4:20 I HATE when people on Tik Tok put on a kindergarten teacher act when ever they wanna teach someone about something, like it isn’t funny it’s just annoying get to the point
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The girl in 5:00 shows up
Me:wait for it ... waaait for it
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I get being a heavier person isn't something to be put down for, but the guy complaining about there not being many clothing choices for bigger people.....you're not supposed to stay that size. Love you at whatever size you are but also try to get to a healthy weight too. And that's cap: there are plenty of plus sized clothing to go around. Ppl have too much time on their hands
Eh, some people have thyriod issues and can't lose the weight, it isn't always simple. There's a young lady 14 or 15 who can't lose weight due to a cancer she had when she was small child they had to remove a glad not sure the entire story but it makes her gain weight she can't lose there's nothing wrong with having bigger clothing. (And this is coming from someone is tall and thin)
@@basicsmoothbrain7624 I'm not talking about people who can't lose it or have extreme difficulty. I'm talking about ppl who can but won't. And like I said, there's still enough clothing to go around. I never said anything was wrong with wearing bigger clothing just that one shouldn't make it their norm if they have the option of a healthier weight
Yeah, I have PCOS and have struggled with my weight for years now. I literally have sizes 8-16 in my closet because I fluctuate a ton…… but this man is over the top. It’s like he wants to complain about something. I just don’t get it. There are plenty of places to get plus sized clothing these days. And I don’t get the toilet paper thing at all that he was talking about.
He posts videos about how losing weight is fatphobic I don't think he cares if what he's saying is accurate or helpful... to anyone... at all.
@@Swish_God You only read the first comment not the clarification didn't you?
That guy who was complaining about skinny ppl buying larger clothes tripping. I wonder how he would feel if skinny ppl complained about fat ppl going to Walmart buying up all the food.
That’s literally not the same thing
@@nellybae1640 Yes it is wtf
@@winglessfairy564 when fat people shop , they don’t buy out the whole isle of food . Fat people clothes are already made in small amounts , you and your friends clearing those 5 shirts is not the same . Same goes for white girls buying up all the darker shade of foundation basically making it even more difficult for black girls to find their shade in store .
@@winglessfairy564 it really isn't. 😂😂
@@KyddAzor what’s the difference?
Bill burr voice.. "You put the cookies in there, not me!!"
I LOVE that you posted this!
its dee reading "with 6 different ppl" in a shocked silence for me
The toilet paper one is just so ludicrous 😭😭💀
U get any guy fresh outta jail they do not complain😂 she didn't add that they will NOT marry her🤦
This is so annoying… Instead of blaming everyone but yourself, how about you try to get to a healthier weight and try to eat healthy🤦🏽♂️
Smaller people often work on themselves, why can’t bigger people just shut up and do the same.
This can’t be real 😂😂
Da first girl- 💀💀💀💀
You should react to: ‘the deadly war in Camden’
It shows you how the streets of London are really like🇬🇧🇬🇧
I agree with everything that lady said in the video except the height and weight thing. The formula for that is based off of the white body shape. And it is common knowledge that 150 on a Caucasian will look completely different on an African American, Hispanic, etc. They should go by BMI instead of age and height because it is more inclusive and a better more accurate representation of everyone's body.
yes 100%
frr
@@terrencelee9366 it isn't a myth it has been proven to be true the founder of the height age and weight scale herself has stated that it was modeled for white people. And the shap of you bones has nothing to do with the shape of one's body. Muscle and fat placement on a body does differ from culture to culture. Thats why there is a such thing as body shaps a 150 on an hour glass frame is going to look different on someone with a pear shape. And then on top of that a white pear shape looks different than a black or Asian or Hispanic pear shape.
That first woman reeks of insecurity 💀
She says they are not one night stands. Six of them? Are they sneaking over in darkness or do any of them take you anywhere in public?
I really felt that when dee said “is he trolling?” because wtf 😭
The guy with the glasses needs to get out more.
I don't think the BMI scale is racist. I think it's unrealistic.
I do think its harmful for people who are insecure about their bodies to the point where they feel as though they have to absolutely fit that formula.
Besides the fact that the BMI does NOT factor in body shape.
Man I'm overweight and I'm so glad I don't think like this. They are just making everything about themselves, and preaching that everything is fatphobic. Yes we get it, fat people are discriminated against to an extent but acting like this will only make people dislike your cause more.
This whole video reminds me of that Katt Williams "it's called self esteem, how the fuck can I effect how you feel about you!!!"
Also after seeing other cultures in my life, America we eat for either enjoyment or cause we hungry, other places eat as a family or community bonding activity and doordash and Grubhub have made it worse.
Honestly, now they are making excuses to get pity from people cause 99.99999% of their arguments don’t make sense or don’t even connect to what we are talking about!
Look, I'm not about to fat shame anyone. I'M fat. I'm fat by choice because of my lifestyle habits which are TERRIBLE. Now I can complain about how I'm inconvenienced as a fat person or I can STFU and get up off my ass and do something about it.
Are there people who are fat due to medical conditions or medications thats beyond their control? Yes. Does complaining change anything? NO.
No one is going to feel sorry for us because we're fat. Society isn't going to completely change because we're fat. We can't expect it to.
I'm only on this guy's 2nd video and his complaining is annoying AF.
In reality, Fatphobia is not about being mean to fat people. It's about people not wanting to be fat and unhealthy! SMH. Someone being overweight is not everyone's problem to tread carefully around. if your feelings are hurt after realizing people know ur fat, change you lifestyle and stop blaming others. I really hate how overweight people are trying to hijack high profile movements to push their self made issues.
It's not cool to make fun of fat ppl. I also don't think it's cool to make being fat a good thing. Everyone should live their life how they please. Don't try to convince ppl that being fat is a good thing, don't try to convince ppl to make fun of fat ppl.
They on some bs lol I think it’s kinda annoying how everything thinner people do has to be a problem now. Like y’all need to go up. So what if people buy plus size shirts? At least there’s still plus size clothes in the stores. And even if they’re out, it’s called ordering online. I never find clothes in my size but I’m on the other end of the spectrum. I mostly need smaller than an XS or an XS which is often not in stores. But I don’t bash overweight people about it.
Idk what this is about. I'm just commenting on random stuff lol
Dee's face throughout the video😂
Haha love how you went through the 5 stages of grief during the very first video, because honestly same
You know the irony of people that preach fat acceptance? That they have to tell everyone how proud or strong they are for being fat. If you truly accept the fact that you are fat then shut up and move on with your life. We don't need you to come at us with all these videos trying to justify yourself.
I fucking love Dee 🤣🤣 her reaction at 0:35 is hilarious
I hate the internet.
I guess I'm fat phobic for not wanting to be fat and trying to lose fat and gain muscle 🙃
Funtie Times is one of the best commentary channels about these Tik Tokers. 💗💗
The first one had me creasing 💀💀
the discussions really are only online ! sure this is a real issue and topic but like in real life no one is really gonna gaf to your face.
I love you reacting to videos like this that make me LOATHE humankind. 😂
Some people have terribly low standards, Marissa
*This might sound extremely bad or rude, but if your fat... maybe try losing the weight (if you are medically able to) instead of complaining then eating the most unhealthy food or having a lazy lifestyle*
First girl really said "I don't have one night stands I CHEAT" 😂
I watch these to movitate myself to work out
I agree to be positive about ur body and not get depressed about it, but people go against fat acceptance to justify bullying them and that’s not right either. It’s one thing to be concerned about someone’s weight and another thing to straight out bully them and cover it up as a “oh bullying helps the person to make a change therefore I’m helping”
The first girl is giving Trisha Paytas with the basketball team💅🏿
If I wanna wear an oversized T-Shirt I'm gonna do it lmfao. You don't see me judging these people for their unhealthy weight size lmfao.
3:20 if you cant reach the toilet holder i think its time you start looking into health problems
Work out its that simple, I weighed 210 and I weigh 160 now.
Even when Dee tries not to be mean it’s still funny
so I was on tik tok as one does and a fat acceptance video popped up on my fyu this was my first time really seeing much about this so I commented saying “in my personal opinion losing weight is a personal choice not fat phobic” when I say this girl flipped shit on me I mean she literally got so aggressive saying she didn’t ask for my opinion I just threw it right back and said neither did I but there I was on my fyp seeing your opposing opinion. she tried to go back and forth and i’m not joking called me fat phobic I laughed at my phone and blocked her. the people from this community have some type of mental disorders because after all the videos i’ve seen from other creators they are very hostile and rude to people with opposing opinions or just people who state facts. honestly really sad how delusional they are.. like if you want to be accepted as a group of people you have to be accepting of other groups too and it seems like they don’t understand that at all. they only want to hear their narrative and people who agree with that narrative. I’ve never cared if someone was fat and I never will treat someone differently because of their size nor do I think i’m more attractive than them just because i’m thinner than they are. They seem to think anyone who disagrees with their opinions is fat phobic. I understand some people are treated badly for their body and there are fat phobic people in the world but that doesn’t give them the right to shit on anyone who doesn’t agree with them or isn’t as fat as they are because as much as they say we make fun of them . they are the ones actually being hateful and mean because someone wants to be thinner or is thin in general. this rabbit hole has been so disturbing but so interesting to go down on only because of how delusional these people actually are.
Dee: is he slow??
“The toilet paper is either too low or too high.” 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
They find you available, not desirable.
13:30 is especially insidious considering that one of the biggest risk factors for dying of COVID is obesity.
“ is he slow?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
Dee I'm going to need you to say what you're thinking. Cuz ur holding it in too much. Let it out boo 🤣🤣😂😂
Just shop online for Walmart's website! Or literally any affordable store will most likely have it, like fashion nova? My aunt is a very big woman and she shops there all the time(on sales)
Boy don't nobody care about yo irritations💀💀💀ill buy a 70x shirt if I want😭😭😭😂😂😂
We will never take an obese human as a sample/specimen. We believe in fuel efficiency.
What makes it worse is that they talk as though they're morbid obesity isn't something they can control. Laziness at its finest
Math formulas in regards to beauty like the golden ratio are a bit racist because it excludes anything out side of the Eurocentric beauty spectrum (the golden ratio was made by European mathematicians also)
Lets be honest, the guys the first girl gets arn't going to be handsome in the slightest. They will be Jeremy Kyle guest looking types . Even if they are some what handsome, she is an easy option for them, a guaranteed " Netflix and Chill" 🙃 her attitude was so cringey
They just wanted to bust nuts. 99% sure none of them give a fuck about her. No dude wants a relationship with a public parking garage. Every dude wants to bust with no strings attached, especially if it’s a desperate fat Chick.
I'm so over people complaining about their boundaries and people not respecting them. Ask any therapist, domestic violence counselor, psychiatrist... what do they say? It's important to have boundaries, and people that care like friends and family should respect them. But, if someone refuses to respect your boundaries, then don't have them in your life. You can set standards and expectations of how you want to be treated. Not everyone has to respect that. If they don't, don't have them in your life. Don't give them your time and energy. You can't control other people. You can control yourself and how you react to other people. You can walk away and ignore people that don't respect your boundaries, or you can get worked up and overreact to every little thing you don't like.
This smells like “Karen” to me lmao
I think the movement that these people are advocating for will gain as much momentum as they will
The guy I guess I kinda get it because as a fat guy my self it’s way harder to find nice clothes that’s not in lumberjack or over grown toddler look. But at the same time get creative accessorise and also just accept the fact that some styles just don’t look on all body types
If anything the toilet paper is to far away never to low or high I’m so confused
I will keep on losing my weight. I have lost 18 lb going from 196 to 178. And im still losing. I am happy for all who are losing and fully support them. But i won't support people claiming to be healthy even tho their obese. Or complaining about things they have done to themseves.
Next time eat a salad.
-TF2 scout
My thing is everyone needs to work on themselves...why are we so consumed with how much someone weighs...if somone one is overweight it doesn't effect me personally...and yea if I had a family member who is overweight I would want them to take care of themselves physically...but before I start getting on them about what they need to do..I need to be making sure im trying to better myself as well...physically mentally or whatever
They probably come back to you coz you are the only one who easily entertain them and not that hard to get, not necessarily coz you’re desirable
4:46 LMFAOOO
When people who are fat/overweight, they don't cry about discrimination, they are usually shunned are criticized heavily for not being fit etc. Santana is a perfect example of this he's big fem, wear feminine clothing and I rarely see him complain about it most victims of racism and discrimination don't go online to complain and act like they are something they are not, a lot of them are white women who choose to be that way
“The Thins always steal from fat people” 🤣😭
It’s just that’s look matters but when a nigga is desperate enough his standards drop into the danger zone
This video was interesting. I saw good points on both sides and definitely annoying things on both sides. The comment section is wild though. I mean I guess most of y’all live in a world were it’s okay to be fat and no one is worried about y’all weight. Chile, I want to live in that word because..I haven’t ever been sort of that world..and I’m a man. And apparently, men are supposed to be less targeted for their weight. So I’m just confused by it all..but hey it is what it is. If you like I love it, do you. I just really wish folks would mind they own damn business. The world would be such a better place in so many ways if everybody was mindin’!
GURLIE AT 1:06 WAS REALLY A HOME WRECKER
Fat positivity would be making PCOS more well known to overweight women so that they can get checked out and stop getting told by their doctors that "You just need to lose weight". Not every overweight woman has pcos but it's a huge reason why a LOT of them have so many issues when it comes to losing it. Fat positivity is advocating for equality in the medical field so that things like lyme disease aren't overlooked as just weight issues.
5:48 I rolled my eyes so hard reading that 🙄🙄
I really don't think the first girl could get that many men