that dude at the end was mad because they want to spread the message that being fat is ok to everyone even kids. Thats the only reason why I'd see people getting angry
Word. As a guy with a b-cup (I don't know breast sizes that well) I find this "healthy at ever size" thing really harmful and somewhat despicable to push on the impressionable.
I have a feeling he has someone in his family that he cares about that didnt take care of themselves because it sounded personal and he knew about the cutting limbs off from diabetes.
Bro that's because that's how they were trained, they have a proper work out ethic and diet fit for them like a normal athlete. You can't just say just cause they're fat they're instantly athletes, you just sound like an idiot
Did you even fucking read it or are you stupid? Being obese and being fat are two different things. Being fat means that you have extra at on your body than the average person, being obese means that you are unhealthy and as a result of that you have gained an unhealthy amount of fat. Your partially right obesity is one the leading causes of death but that's not what the body positive movement is about, it is about loving yourself even if your body is different and that doesn't just include being fat it includes all types of bodies. The body-positive movement does not say its okay to be OBESE it says to love your self no matter what your body looks like and that does not mean love yourself even if you start to have health problems. I know you think you know what you're talking about but if you actually did research than you would understand what its actually about.
@@mystomachhurts4826 no they aren't 😂 because these fat people make excuses for why their fat as if it's something wrong about them being fat and you know it's because it is. Loving how your built isn't bad but you can't tell me you love yourself if your destroying your health. Now sumo wrestlers are actually in their own league their athletics and got fat in all the right places with a correct diet for their build.
I honestly wonder if he lost a friend or a family member and that's why he went off in that video. That looked like it was coming out of pain/experience.
yeah people ignore the fact that being slim doesn't equate being healthy. I have seen slim persons have the same illness as someone who is overweight. Good nutrition and knowing your metabolic rate is key.
I support the phrase "love your body" 150%. Loving your body means treating it right. It means doing things that are healthy for it and will make you feel good. It's about loving the skin you're in by treating it with respect. If you treat your body like garbage, you will feel like garbage.
I think the last guy got a big heart and have family issues with it and its hurting him inside which is why he said dying at the bedside. He went through some shit and the movement is triggering him from these memories and he also probably train ppl so when he hears the excuse it angers him.
I'm 14 and 224lbs. Practically my entire family deals with obesity and health concerns. I'm now striving to eat healthier and lose the man boobs. When Dee didn't understand his rage it irritated me a little. Because of my mother dealing with my grandmother not teaching her who also wasn't taught, I was affected by that and now I'm motivated to change that with my children. I'm fearful that if a child takes this self-love stuff the wrong way, then that can lead to larger issues.
@@blueevolution9288 I am trying to eat more healthier too and I wish you well on your journey. Sorry to hear all that. Just keep pushing its a hard road life can be but try to not give up. i can only send you words since im powerless to help with anything else but my sincerity goes out to you and your family.
@@PikaPluff I do agree with you, but some would try and use this self love movement as an excuse to not fix the problems that they have unless they suffer from a lifechanging event.
I was overweight, ate my problems away, had some bad shit happen to me when I was little. I didn't know I was until the doctor told me. There was no one willing to help me lose weight, everyone in my family low key body shames you for being 'too skinny'. Well, it really does come down to the person. Don't be lazy, make the change, I started little my little, I ate the same stuff, in smaller portions, I added a salad in the mix, started working out once a week, and drank more water. It literally took me a year to start enjoying what I was doing, it made me more confident because I was staying focused. Now I'm an average weight, and am perfectly healthy.
And being forced to accommodate them in restaurants, shopping, and buses. I understand if you're disabled but with weight you have a choice to be thin or overweight
motown a lot of people don’t have a choice. Especially women. There are so many women who struggle with pics that causes excessive weight gain and it is very hard if not impossible to stop it.
It’s okay to be confident, but not TOO comfortable. There’s a difference, they’re misleading young people into thinking that being obese is healthy and totally ok.
I think why that last guy was so angry was because kids are growing up today with adults telling them its ok to be fat. The movement is going to affect children. Cuz what do kids do, they look at what others do and copy it for the most part.
Kids are also growing being told its okay to be skinny to the point of anorexia, but i see we aren't talking about that. Kids are being taught that if your body doesn't look a certain way then you don't fit in.
@@jaelynndavis2401 that's not true. People are constantly discussing the issues with under eating and being underweight. Being overweight and underweight is dangerous.
Nah, there’s a difference between being mean and speaking to someone adamantly about their horrible upkeep of their body. “Stay in your lane” is probably the worst phrase that someone can use nowadays, because people do exactly that. They don’t involve themselves in the lives of other people and without outside perspectives no one can better themselves. You don’t know this guys story maybe he lost someone to obesity, maybe he’s a personal trainer and is constantly seeing his clients suffer because of the lack of care and respect they have for their bodies. Don’t go saying stay in your lane or only involve yourself in their life if you do so in a certain way. Some people need tough love, somebody don’t but some do and in a day and age where everyone is concerned about being politically correct and cautious about offending someone we need a guy like that one who was getting all upset in order to spread a very serious message. Now sometimes people suffer from endocrine issues like Thyroid problems but most of the time that isn’t the case and people need to hear it straight up.
Food is a real addiction, it isn't all about laziness and the unwillingness to diet. As a drug addict I understand addiction and how hard it is to quit. This is why some people who loose all the weight can become obese again, they have a real addiction. Obsese people need both medical and psychological help to help with their addiction. All I can think of right now is where to get my next fix, I am a addict. Many obsese people think of food all the time, it's no different.
One thing I’ve noticed throughout the whole video is a people taking a backseat on mental health. There’s a reason why people have eating disorders and life threatening diets. These “harsh truth” people can’t just say that to someone and then expect them to... actually why WOULD that make someone to lose weight? It’s only going to make things worse. I’m probably not making sense, but all I’m saying is that not all overweight people are overweight bc of eating choices alone.
Dude everything is because of mental health today, being fat, doing bad in school, being stressed out, they blame everything on mental health issues today. Just put down the fukcing phones and do something productive, they dont get it.
@@avantcampbell9532 True, there are people that actually have mental health issues, and they should get all the help they need. It's not making it better now that every teen in the world blames it on mental health just cause they couldnt stop looking at social media all day long and worrying too much about how they look.
@@Ripcraze The fuck does social media have to do with mental health?? "You wouldn't be so depressed if you weren't on your damn phone so much" No, that's not how that works. Mental health isn't an excuse, its a reason. And its not so easy for people to just "get help". It depends on some people's situations.
My whole thing is that I need structure because I’m easily distracted, I don’t like the gym, but when I was in marital arts I lost a bunch of weight. But when I quit I got fat . I believe if you have structure you can loose your weight.
For real. Structure for me is the most difficult thing by far. Used to be the exact opposite, but now I can't even stick to "sleep at night. Awake at day", let alone a daytime schedule, lol...
The guys clearly has been through stuff. That movement does encourage KIDS to be obese which is NOT okay and never know he could've had weight problems when he was younger.
16:37 some people just care for others whether u rlly know them or not. Im lucky to have met some ppl like that and they are some the best ppl in the world. Humans are social creatures and we want to help.
Your body is capable of amazing things. I think learning to respect and appreciate your body is far more important than focusing on numbers, and when you truly appreciate your body, you'll begin to do things to fuel your body and seek out it's potential. I've lost 55 lbs since December 2019 (March 2021 now), and it was because I wanted to see what my body was capable of. I ran a few half marathons. My vertical increased and hit harder playing volleyball. I slept better. My body felt fueled and nourished. Do I love my body? Yes. Is it because I weigh less? No It's because I chose to treat it well and give it a chance to show me what it can do. If you're feeding yourself crap, drinking alcohol, smoking, or lacking a good sleeping schedule, you're not even giving your body the respect it deserves. If you're happy with the body you have now, think about how much happier you'll be when you truly fuel your body to perform at its peak.
I know too many people making excuses to avoid taking care of themselves, the problem about just not saying anything is that it will set a bad example to new generations. Why to be harsh about it? because other people will just ignore you no matter how nice you try to be, and need a wake up call before it's too late, you say it's their business and he shouldn't get that mad about it but if you DO care about others, you ARE going to try to make your point across no matter what
what I dont understand is, when big people are actually being active and exercising, they get even more hate and insults.. instead of telling people what they already know and see, encourage them to keep it up..
hahaha I loved her reaction to the cotton-picking comment, it was exactly the same as my reaction to it! But when I thought about the context in which he said it I'm fairly sure he meant cherry-picking lol
I liked the German ad, why limit yourself. For the sensitive types i wonder if it would of still been offence if they had a side by side screen with the opposite being an anorexic person. Take the positivity out of it. I eat healthy over 80% of the time, i have put on a stone. I wondered why? I am less active my time is spent cooking, cleaning, children activites, homework, childrens day out. I am not fat but the extra weight a stone has had its effect i.e climbing a hill that I have been climbing since I was 5 iam breathless once I reach the top. I can not imagine what an obese or morbidly obese individuals go through. Flip that I am burning that extra stone.
As an overweight person myself, I agree with pretty much everything the guy at the end said. I have made bad decisions which led me to this point (I'm not making excuses it's just the truth), and I have become aware overtime of everything that guy said on my own. I have lost 20 lbs in almost 3 months from eating right and exercising, so it is possible for you or anyone to lose weight. I'm not trying to be shady but everyone who says "I'm healthy I'll be alright even tho I'm fat" is not right. For my height I'm not even 100 lbs overweight but I feel the difference from when I was skinny and now. So no, you will probably die early and possibly have a lot of health problems if you don't get that weight off.
Idk if i'm correct but i think the germany ad is trying to say by being overweight/fat/obese you are limiting yourself from doing certain things you want to do in life and until you make the change it won't be possible for you to accomplish it......idk someone correct me if i'm wrong
I agreed with everything the last guy said . I workout and make sure my health is good . I have extremely overweight family members and they make excuses . Just keep your health good.
It's sad to see that people don't know that often obesity is related to eating disorders. No one will speak like this to someone with depression or anxiety. It's not that you can't control it. It's that it's always a journey. You never know where the person is at on their journey.
why do people who have no consideration for anyone else's feelings use the word "triggered" so much? i feel like it's cuz they love to watch people get their feelings hurt because it makes them feel like they're more stable than the person they just instigated on purpose to perpetrate their self fulfillment prophecy lol. yucky
I am a skinny person but I can’t stand any kind of hate comments towards curvy people.Anybody can be curvy because of unhealthy things but there are some people that can gain weight for ormonal reasons and other stuff so before sending hate educate yourself
Speaking on the last point you made about it not being people's business I'm going to play devil's advocate. Some people are living off the government and not able to work bc of their size. Also, healthcare is really expensive.
I understand the intro, but a lot of people are always associating “fat” with just eating unhealthy, not being active etc. That’s not always a factor. I exercise, I have to diet constantly and I still can only maintain a certain weight. I’ve never been smaller than a size 16(uk) 12/14(us) and I constantly get bullied/harassed for my weight without people realising that shoving food in your face is not always the cause. My mum has always monitored what I eat and given me a balanced diet.
13:31 “ f your feelings ‘ the dude was very aggressive but what he’s saying was pretty spot on there’s nothing wrong with being shapely or a tad plump but if you’re above 300 it’s time to change seriously that’s too far
As someone with lots of knowledge about mental health and a mental health advocate this is why I don't think it's constructive to bully, harass, and put down people who are overweight but appear to have or claim to have self-love. Being healthy is not just about your outer appearance or about your inner mechanics but also about your mental health. I could argue that someone could physically look good on the outside and have a very good inner mechanics but they are still not healthy if their mental health is greatly suffering. Now we all were privileged or not privilege to grow up around people who either showed us good or negative coping skills. we all have coping skills but some of them are negative and the other ones are positive. Emotional eating would be considered mostly a negative coping skill. I think it would be fair to say that many people, not all, who have eating disorders have emotional eating coping skills. this means that whenever they are trying to cope this is how they choose to often cope with something that greatly bothers them. So coming at someone who does not have very good or very little positive coping skills is not going to motivate them to do better. if anything it will push them further into depression and relying on these negative coping skills. If someone is having weight issues bullying, harassing, and putting them down is not constructive at all because what they really need is positive coping skills. if you have a loved one that you are truly concerned about show them compassion and offer to be their support system. Let them know that you still love them but If they choose to want to go on the path to better themselves that you will be there for them in whatever way you are able to. See another thing that we should all recognize about psychology is when you attack someone people tend to shut down mentally and not listen to your message. so even if everything you are saying is true by all accounts that person is not going to actually hear you because they're going to shut down mentally. So if anyone reads this I hope you can see why being aggressive to someone is not going to get your point across and help someone have healthier habits.
You can't force people to accept you big small short any type of everyting... Do what you want at the end its your body! Just don't push it as its fine to be you and people need to be that ting.
Fuck the bullies and those who get sadistic satisfaction by bullying fat people, that said! I don't find fat people attractive, and I have every right to disagree with their wrong belief that they're healthy, they have the right to believe they're healthy too but them demanding that I be silenced is crossing the line. My sister has an eating disorder and it has to do with abusive father who used to beat our mother regularly, but that is still not an excuse for unhealthy lifestyle and she is working hard to get healthier, she has lost a lot of weight in last 1 year and has not touched any fast food as far as I know, she goes to the gym regularly and is on a path to healthy lifestyle where she and everyone around her finds her more attractive and healthy!
It's easy to sum it up. Support fat awareness (health awareness), not fat support (encouraging fatness), and not fat shame (bullying). Support efforts to reach a healthier body. The harshness and prejudice drives the majority of fat people to eat more, not less. It's how they tend to cope, why would you induce more need to cope?
I just have a few questions. If it’s all about health why is no one yelling and belittling people who are anorexic or bulimic, which is just as unhealthy as being obese? If you can recognize that anorexia or bulimia is a mental health issue, and yelling at them to just shut up and eat and will not fix anything why can’t y’all extend the same grace to people who are obese? Why is it ok to “coddle” people who are anorexic/bulimic but shit on people who are obese?
Huh? anorexic people are always belittled and yelled at. They can even be hospitalized by force, are any obese people being hospitalized by force? No. The moment you lose too much weight a doctor weighs you and asks you if you are doing it on purpose, now with obese and fat people starting this shameful campaign most doctors are afraid to ask even if that can bring some health risks for themselves. I dont know where you live, but everywhere around me very skinny people are pointed at in the streets, random people go to them to tell them to eat and not starve themselves ...dafuq
I'll tell you sometimes it's just hate but the last dud just I guess but he seemed like someone in his family or friends group probably was sick or dying because of it cuz that level of anger with logic facts means he had to have some level of first hand knowledge
In my teens i was pretty over weight. I felt horrible, i was always sick, depressed and had horrible self esteem. The thing that changed was when people started being rude to me and pushed me to be a better version of myself. I am now down to 150lbs and ive never felt better. My goal is to be down to 128lbs by next year, (which is a standard weight for my height).
Yes, health should be a concern. But your weight should not be a determining factor to your happiness. Also, people do use the “I’m looking out for you” to discriminate or be rude towards overweight people and sometimes people need something positive to motivate, not to be yelled and cussed at.
I cringe every time you go off on people being angry. Being angry isn't always a bad thing, it can mean you're passionate and honest. You look at people being angry and you say: "Damn why you being so angry, triggered, and emotional?". I look at someone being angry and say:"If you're angry about this, you're a loser. If you're angry about THAT, I can understand and respect that". I'm all for "your life, your choice", as long as you're not hurting anybody. But I'm also free to speak out against bad behavior. Some people get fired up about things they don't agree with and they feel the need to speak out against it. It all depends on the reason, and their intentions. You can lose or gain respect from me based on that. I don't see any problem with it. Not to mention these fat positivity chicks ARE hurting the younger generation and anyone who listens to them. Some people (especially guys) sometimes need to hear someone angrily pointing them at their incompetence, because we understand that's an honest opinion, so we try to change afterwards. I'm guessing you've never experienced something like that, so you don't see the value in it.
I think it's mixed. Some people are big, because that's how they want to be, as they want to live their lives that way. For others, it really isn't an indicator of health, as a skinnier/petite person can be just as, if not more unhealthy than someone who is bigger. Genetics do play a big role, as well as, certain issues. Look at those who have PCOS, a lot of people who have it, struggle to lose weight. It affects our health, as a whole. Weight, fertility, cancer... I think it is a matter of understanding why someone is the way they are. You can be big and healthy/active. Also, that one guy, that seemed mad. He ain't wrong, there are people who literally just don't care, they sit around and do nothing and that's what's wrong. There are enough overweight/obese people who are active and go running, do pilates... however, a large cause to why people struggle to lose weight is because, they are not eating enough. Eating too little, causes the metabolism to slow down, making the body hold on to that fat
Thing with the drill sergeant sounds like he lost a loved ones. He really gets heated up about holding hands and hospital bill. Sounds like something he can relate with.
Even from a skinny person, working out to get fit is not just physically rewarding, but also mentally. If you’re comfortable in your own skin, that’s a good for you! Even working out for 10 minutes a day is better than 0 seconds. It’s all about *CONSISTENCY* rather than one day of explosive workout.
Everybody needs to face the truth. I am 250 lbs. I did this to myself. My choices in food and not exercising led to this. Mental disorders only aside. But for many of these so called disorders it is still your choice or your excuse for some to not take care of yourself. But you have to want to be healthy, many just want it without the time and effort. There is no such thing as a diet that does not combine exercise to be successful. Sitting on your ass and doing nothing will not give you a good-looking body. I don't want to exercise, so I know I will be fat. But I will not praise it, I will not celebrate it. My breathing problems and leg pains are my reward. My sleeping all the the time , complete lack of energy. High cholesterol. Are all my doing.
That last guy was pissed because fat acceptance is a movement that promotes and encourages obesity. They say its ok to eat and be unhealthy and anyone who says otherwise is "fat shaming." Telling someone its ok to have no regard for their health simply so they can have a moments satisfaction instead of pushing them to better themselves and their overall health is evil. Its like helping someone commit slow suicide while telling them its ok that they are slowly dying and to keep going.
When I was overweight I did want to be confident and wear nice clothes and still feel good about myself and not let my weight hold me back. however I had to acknowledge that this was dangerous and could get out of hand quick + major health risk that also r in my family. So I just started eating better. Not to impress anyone but for me . There’s nothing wrong with owning who u are but at the weight I was at..if I got too reckless thinking “that can’t b me” when it just could.
but the thing is fat doesn’t mean unhealthy all the time and skinny doesn’t mean healthy, obviously there’s people who are big because they do nothing and sit around and it’s very bad, but there are also bigger people who physically can’t lose weight or it might take a really long time even if they are eating healthy and working out. I know that i’m pretty thin so people assume i am healthy but tbh my eating habits aren’t that great and i don’t go to the gym but my metabolism is fast, i’d probably die before someone bigger if it has to do with “health”
The thing is the movement was made for amputees, veterans, muscular dystrophy and all of the people who actually really cannot control the way they look, that was the initial reason for the movement, than it was taken over.. by people who can control their weight if they want..
Being fat isn’t good, I agree with that. Promote healthy eating and healthy lifestyles that’s fine, live your life. I just think that berating people in any manner, about anything is uncalled for. Mind your business. Skinny, fat, whatever the case may be, nobody deserves to be ridiculed. I promise you that anything that you have to say, they already know. So....stop wasting everybody’s time and Mind. Your. Business.
I agree with Dee. I think it's fine to say you don't have to be perfectly model thin to be attractive and happy with yourself, but when you're overweight and obese, there's a problem
recent studies have proven that weight is largely genetic. obesity tends to run in families. even the individuals who eat hardly anything tend to be larger. . and its entirely possible to be both overweight and active.
All the men in my family are so skinny they're often underweight while the women are overweight. And this includes family I rarely see, so it's not that we all have the same eating habits, upbringing, lifestyle etc.
It’s not that they are lazy or anything, I think it’s mostly environment and habits. Some people don’t mind being big. For me personally being big does kinda hinder being able to do simple tasks like just tying your shoes. And I’m not big but I know when I’m out of shape I feel uncomfortable and have more aches and pains. But just telling them to lose weight won’t help it. They have bad habits. Encouragement goes a longer way than condemning.
Sounded like a lot of people are not concerned about fat people's health they're concerned that they have to see fat people especially that dude at the end. BTW stress is the number one killer, heart disease is just another symptom of chronic stress.
Me : Hey Google does stress leads to heart disease? Google : "Studies suggest that the high levels of cortisol from long-term stress can increase blood cholesterol, triglycerides, blood sugar, and blood pressure. These are common risk factors for heart disease. This stress can also cause changes that promote the buildup of plaque deposits in the arteries" BTW Cortisol is a hormone produced by the brain to deal with mental stress.
The last guy, really made me double check myself I subscribed to him. I love his channel it really help me even tho I wasn't obese but I started to work out more beacuse of him.
that dude at the end was mad because they want to spread the message that being fat is ok to everyone even kids. Thats the only reason why I'd see people getting angry
I agree, when kids are involved they have gone way past the line.
ok RON
A kid recently passed because her mom just kept feeding her even when she was around 600lbs.
@@bluegetsuga8396 omg rlly?
Yeah. My Thoughts Will Probably Offend You recently talked about it on her channel.
It’s okay to like your size, but at a certain point if you let your self get to big, that ain’t left love. I agree with Dee in the beginning
Word. As a guy with a b-cup (I don't know breast sizes that well) I find this "healthy at ever size" thing really harmful and somewhat despicable to push on the impressionable.
Naeshaun Edwards exactly if people get too freaking big they can die
I usually say it a different way: if you love your body so much, then why don't you fucking take care of it?
Souhila Seraphina anorexia?
If they like it they can have it it’s there body
Maybe that dude used to be overweight himself. Or maybe health is something he is really passionate about
I have a feeling he has someone in his family that he cares about that didnt take care of themselves because it sounded personal and he knew about the cutting limbs off from diabetes.
You actually hit the nail right on the head.
hes my friend he was in the military (Army)..and yes he used to be overweight and he lost all of it..
@@specialopssoldier1 Sorry to be one those people saying how do we know you're telling the truth?
being skiny doesnt mean being healty xddd
ok, but for the record, sumo wrestlers are actually pretty hardcore athletes.
Exactly they put on weight the correct way and doctors are actually involved.
Agreed. They put on the weight in purpose but could honestly easily lose it if they wanted to.
@@IJEMAN5 my point was that they work hard, and are in their own category
Bro that's because that's how they were trained, they have a proper work out ethic and diet fit for them like a normal athlete. You can't just say just cause they're fat they're instantly athletes, you just sound like an idiot
But their lifespan is very short
Guy at the end went OFF lmaooo😂💀💀
Gotta love John Burke.
100% true though
I agree with everything dee said in the beginning
Omg that girls so savage xD she made herself gain weight just to prove a point and then burnt it all off.
Last guy was so mad because the children are absorbing those ideas that this movement promotes. These people are not just resposible for themselves.
But he's wrong, children are absorbing ideas that they should love themselves for who they are, and it has nothing to do with being unhealthy
Did you even fucking read it or are you stupid? Being obese and being fat are two different things. Being fat means that you have extra at on your body than the average person, being obese means that you are unhealthy and as a result of that you have gained an unhealthy amount of fat. Your partially right obesity is one the leading causes of death but that's not what the body positive movement is about, it is about loving yourself even if your body is different and that doesn't just include being fat it includes all types of bodies. The body-positive movement does not say its okay to be OBESE it says to love your self no matter what your body looks like and that does not mean love yourself even if you start to have health problems. I know you think you know what you're talking about but if you actually did research than you would understand what its actually about.
@@mystomachhurts4826 no they aren't 😂 because these fat people make excuses for why their fat as if it's something wrong about them being fat and you know it's because it is. Loving how your built isn't bad but you can't tell me you love yourself if your destroying your health. Now sumo wrestlers are actually in their own league their athletics and got fat in all the right places with a correct diet for their build.
I honestly wonder if he lost a friend or a family member and that's why he went off in that video. That looked like it was coming out of pain/experience.
CJ Page he used to be obese and worked extremely hard to lose the weight
And he’s an army drill sergeant
I'm skinny but the last dude scared me into the gym😭😭
Elliot Johnson 😂
yeah people ignore the fact that being slim doesn't equate being healthy. I have seen slim persons have the same illness as someone who is overweight. Good nutrition and knowing your metabolic rate is key.
@@scratchrabbit2472 its not laughing at.
That guy ranting kinda had a point...
"kinda?" He had ALL THE FUCKING POINTS!
I support the phrase "love your body" 150%. Loving your body means treating it right. It means doing things that are healthy for it and will make you feel good. It's about loving the skin you're in by treating it with respect. If you treat your body like garbage, you will feel like garbage.
Perioddtttt
Body shaming is bad
but also fat acceptance is also bad
Extreme in anything is bad
Agreed!
Accepting your bad isn’t toxic. Acting like it comes with no repercussions is
@@uncleiroh4650 i agree but in this case it's people encourage obese people that it's okay to be obese
Not extreme yoga
Too much of anything isn't good for you
When they used whale sounds in the beginning that's messed up 🤣
Man I was dying
I was dying
Why is it messed up to say,expose the truth?
@@punmidas1890 It was all humor dude.
@fReSh bOnEs its not obese its THICCC
That last dude was motivational
I think the last guy got a big heart and have family issues with it and its hurting him inside which is why he said dying at the bedside. He went through some shit and the movement is triggering him from these memories and he also probably train ppl so when he hears the excuse it angers him.
I think so too mate I hope that it ain't true but yeah most likely have a good one alight :).
I'm 14 and 224lbs. Practically my entire family deals with obesity and health concerns. I'm now striving to eat healthier and lose the man boobs. When Dee didn't understand his rage it irritated me a little. Because of my mother dealing with my grandmother not teaching her who also wasn't taught, I was affected by that and now I'm motivated to change that with my children. I'm fearful that if a child takes this self-love stuff the wrong way, then that can lead to larger issues.
@@blueevolution9288 I am trying to eat more healthier too and I wish you well on your journey. Sorry to hear all that. Just keep pushing its a hard road life can be but try to not give up. i can only send you words since im powerless to help with anything else but my sincerity goes out to you and your family.
It could be but it could also be common sense
@@PikaPluff I do agree with you, but some would try and use this self love movement as an excuse to not fix the problems that they have unless they suffer from a lifechanging event.
DEE’S faces during the entire video has me dying laughing 🤣🤣🤣 “ 👁 👄 👁 “
I was overweight, ate my problems away, had some bad shit happen to me when I was little. I didn't know I was until the doctor told me. There was no one willing to help me lose weight, everyone in my family low key body shames you for being 'too skinny'. Well, it really does come down to the person. Don't be lazy, make the change, I started little my little, I ate the same stuff, in smaller portions, I added a salad in the mix, started working out once a week, and drank more water. It literally took me a year to start enjoying what I was doing, it made me more confident because I was staying focused. Now I'm an average weight, and am perfectly healthy.
Good for you
That dude is a drill Sargent who lost like 200 pounds.
Because we pay for their medical bills. Thats why we are angry. You wanna be fat or smoke and stuff. Take care of your own medical bills.
Not just that alone, it's when they start preaching and forcing us to look at them as healthy people
And being forced to accommodate them in restaurants, shopping, and buses. I understand if you're disabled but with weight you have a choice to be thin or overweight
Surge Killer we all pay for everyone’s medical bills 😂😂
motown a lot of people don’t have a choice. Especially women. There are so many women who struggle with pics that causes excessive weight gain and it is very hard if not impossible to stop it.
I think what yall just said is very rude and you will never know how people feel while you just pick on them.
It’s okay to be confident, but not TOO comfortable. There’s a difference, they’re misleading young people into thinking that being obese is healthy and totally ok.
i'd use passionate instead of angry for that last guy. And as for why, maybe hes just fed up of this culture of placing feelings over facts.
jay sheriffe that’s passion. He’s angry as hell
He used to be over weight and the movement kinda fit a soft spot and made him go off.
Dude that was yelling lost me at "cotton picking" he's straight wildin.
Looooooool
It's a figure of speech
Yared 1401 who’s angry??
He was honestly 100% right though. Its a saying btw, if you never heard it. Kinda similar to cherry picking
Me, my mom and some of my elementary school and middle school teachers used "cotton picking".
I think why that last guy was so angry was because kids are growing up today with adults telling them its ok to be fat. The movement is going to affect children. Cuz what do kids do, they look at what others do and copy it for the most part.
Kids are also growing being told its okay to be skinny to the point of anorexia, but i see we aren't talking about that. Kids are being taught that if your body doesn't look a certain way then you don't fit in.
@@jaelynndavis2401 that's not true. People are constantly discussing the issues with under eating and being underweight. Being overweight and underweight is dangerous.
Nah, there’s a difference between being mean and speaking to someone adamantly about their horrible upkeep of their body. “Stay in your lane” is probably the worst phrase that someone can use nowadays, because people do exactly that. They don’t involve themselves in the lives of other people and without outside perspectives no one can better themselves. You don’t know this guys story maybe he lost someone to obesity, maybe he’s a personal trainer and is constantly seeing his clients suffer because of the lack of care and respect they have for their bodies. Don’t go saying stay in your lane or only involve yourself in their life if you do so in a certain way. Some people need tough love, somebody don’t but some do and in a day and age where everyone is concerned about being politically correct and cautious about offending someone we need a guy like that one who was getting all upset in order to spread a very serious message. Now sometimes people suffer from endocrine issues like Thyroid problems but most of the time that isn’t the case and people need to hear it straight up.
Facts
Sometimes? For women in North America, Hashimoto’s Disease is incredibly common. Autoimmune diseases are absolutely horrible and I suffer with two.
That was the longest ad for a supermarket I've ever seen lmao Germany got whole short films for advertisements? 😂
Food is a real addiction, it isn't all about laziness and the unwillingness to diet. As a drug addict I understand addiction and how hard it is to quit. This is why some people who loose all the weight can become obese again, they have a real addiction. Obsese people need both medical and psychological help to help with their addiction. All I can think of right now is where to get my next fix, I am a addict. Many obsese people think of food all the time, it's no different.
One thing I’ve noticed throughout the whole video is a people taking a backseat on mental health. There’s a reason why people have eating disorders and life threatening diets. These “harsh truth” people can’t just say that to someone and then expect them to... actually why WOULD that make someone to lose weight? It’s only going to make things worse. I’m probably not making sense, but all I’m saying is that not all overweight people are overweight bc of eating choices alone.
Music Explosion X yeah that makes a lot of sense. Not everyone is looking at it in that point of view which matters the most.🤷🏾♀️
Dude everything is because of mental health today, being fat, doing bad in school, being stressed out, they blame everything on mental health issues today. Just put down the fukcing phones and do something productive, they dont get it.
@@avantcampbell9532 True, there are people that actually have mental health issues, and they should get all the help they need. It's not making it better now that every teen in the world blames it on mental health just cause they couldnt stop looking at social media all day long and worrying too much about how they look.
@@Ripcraze
The fuck does social media have to do with mental health??
"You wouldn't be so depressed if you weren't on your damn phone so much"
No, that's not how that works.
Mental health isn't an excuse, its a reason. And its not so easy for people to just "get help". It depends on some people's situations.
I get what you're saying but you dont just get that big (morbidly obese)overnight, it takes a while to get fat unless large.
The lady at 03:00 died from a heart attack.
oh- omg
Wow, what's her name?
Did she really? I saw her video at a TED talk about fat acceptance bullshit
@@ricque2331 yup she died about 2 years ago from a heart attack at the age of 34
She isn’t dead, her name is Kelli Jean Drinkwater and shes surprisingly still alive hehe, she just released some fat film last year I think
My whole thing is that I need structure because I’m easily distracted, I don’t like the gym, but when I was in marital arts I lost a bunch of weight. But when I quit I got fat . I believe if you have structure you can loose your weight.
For real. Structure for me is the most difficult thing by far. Used to be the exact opposite, but now I can't even stick to "sleep at night. Awake at day", let alone a daytime schedule, lol...
6:34 exactly, I lost 2 of my uncles due to their weight and unhealthy eating habits catching up with them. They left too soon
The guys clearly has been through stuff. That movement does encourage KIDS to be obese which is NOT okay and never know he could've had weight problems when he was younger.
To me that German ad isn’t rude these people aren’t treating their body how there supposed to and they should start
Your a sick person
@Percent aye I agree. All it’s saying is “eat healthy you’ll feel better “ 🤷🏾♀️
@@Mesiamarie why
This video really screamed, “FUCK YO FEELINGS🗣”💀💀💀💀
16:37 some people just care for others whether u rlly know them or not. Im lucky to have met some ppl like that and they are some the best ppl in the world. Humans are social creatures and we want to help.
Dee: What the fuck Germany.
That statement has probably been said several times throughout history lol.
Had to come back because why this man said cotton picking LMAOO
The last dude is tired of hearing B.S. thrown his way. Sometimes you have to be blunt!
The absolute T at the start of this video wow I love it thank you!! I’ve never seen someone react to these
I didnt find that ad insulting at all it actually made me laugh lol
Your body is capable of amazing things. I think learning to respect and appreciate your body is far more important than focusing on numbers, and when you truly appreciate your body, you'll begin to do things to fuel your body and seek out it's potential. I've lost 55 lbs since December 2019 (March 2021 now), and it was because I wanted to see what my body was capable of. I ran a few half marathons. My vertical increased and hit harder playing volleyball. I slept better. My body felt fueled and nourished.
Do I love my body? Yes.
Is it because I weigh less? No
It's because I chose to treat it well and give it a chance to show me what it can do. If you're feeding yourself crap, drinking alcohol, smoking, or lacking a good sleeping schedule, you're not even giving your body the respect it deserves. If you're happy with the body you have now, think about how much happier you'll be when you truly fuel your body to perform at its peak.
I know too many people making excuses to avoid taking care of themselves, the problem about just not saying anything is that it will set a bad example to new generations. Why to be harsh about it? because other people will just ignore you no matter how nice you try to be, and need a wake up call before it's too late, you say it's their business and he shouldn't get that mad about it but if you DO care about others, you ARE going to try to make your point across no matter what
I agree with that 100%
But that dude got a huge nose though lol.😂
Me saying yes to every thing she said at the Beginning as I eat hot Cheetos which is not healthy💀💀💀
Some people make me not even want to eat anymore
That would be as dumb as eating constantly. Must everything be all or nothing? Black or white? Always or never?
Alex Gabriel period 👏🏼
Your a sick person
I love the “LEARN THIS AND LEARN IT WELL!” YES! Hit those notes
You know at the end when he said f@&$ your feeling's I was saying to myself that they probably saying f@&$ your feeling too.😂😂😂
what I dont understand is, when big people are actually being active and exercising, they get even more hate and insults.. instead of telling people what they already know and see, encourage them to keep it up..
1:53 anybody else was not ready for that😆🤭🤮
I love what Dee said in the beginning
hahaha I loved her reaction to the cotton-picking comment, it was exactly the same as my reaction to it! But when I thought about the context in which he said it I'm fairly sure he meant cherry-picking lol
I liked the German ad, why limit yourself. For the sensitive types i wonder if it would of still been offence if they had a side by side screen with the opposite being an anorexic person. Take the positivity out of it.
I eat healthy over 80% of the time, i have put on a stone. I wondered why? I am less active my time is spent cooking, cleaning, children activites, homework, childrens day out. I am not fat but the extra weight a stone has had its effect i.e climbing a hill that I have been climbing since I was 5 iam breathless once I reach the top.
I can not imagine what an obese or morbidly obese individuals go through.
Flip that I am burning that extra stone.
As an overweight person myself, I agree with pretty much everything the guy at the end said. I have made bad decisions which led me to this point (I'm not making excuses it's just the truth), and I have become aware overtime of everything that guy said on my own. I have lost 20 lbs in almost 3 months from eating right and exercising, so it is possible for you or anyone to lose weight. I'm not trying to be shady but everyone who says "I'm healthy I'll be alright even tho I'm fat" is not right. For my height I'm not even 100 lbs overweight but I feel the difference from when I was skinny and now. So no, you will probably die early and possibly have a lot of health problems if you don't get that weight off.
“Cranky and hungry”😂😂😂😂
Idk if i'm correct but i think the germany ad is trying to say by being overweight/fat/obese you are limiting yourself from doing certain things you want to do in life and until you make the change it won't be possible for you to accomplish it......idk someone correct me if i'm wrong
I think that's a great take on it! I think you got it right!
I agreed with everything the last guy said . I workout and make sure my health is good . I have extremely overweight family members and they make excuses . Just keep your health good.
It's sad to see that people don't know that often obesity is related to eating disorders. No one will speak like this to someone with depression or anxiety. It's not that you can't control it. It's that it's always a journey. You never know where the person is at on their journey.
That last guy had every reason to be angry
why do people who have no consideration for anyone else's feelings use the word "triggered" so much? i feel like it's cuz they love to watch people get their feelings hurt because it makes them feel like they're more stable than the person they just instigated on purpose to perpetrate their self fulfillment prophecy lol. yucky
I am a skinny person but I can’t stand any kind of hate comments towards curvy people.Anybody can be curvy because of unhealthy things but there are some people that can gain weight for ormonal reasons and other stuff so before sending hate educate yourself
Speaking on the last point you made about it not being people's business I'm going to play devil's advocate. Some people are living off the government and not able to work bc of their size. Also, healthcare is really expensive.
I understand the intro, but a lot of people are always associating “fat” with just eating unhealthy, not being active etc. That’s not always a factor. I exercise, I have to diet constantly and I still can only maintain a certain weight. I’ve never been smaller than a size 16(uk) 12/14(us) and I constantly get bullied/harassed for my weight without people realising that shoving food in your face is not always the cause. My mum has always monitored what I eat and given me a balanced diet.
That’s your picture🤨
@@blujay3557 Your a sick person
13:31 “ f your feelings ‘ the dude was very aggressive but what he’s saying was pretty spot on there’s nothing wrong with being shapely or a tad plump but if you’re above 300 it’s time to change seriously that’s too far
As someone with lots of knowledge about mental health and a mental health advocate this is why I don't think it's constructive to bully, harass, and put down people who are overweight but appear to have or claim to have self-love. Being healthy is not just about your outer appearance or about your inner mechanics but also about your mental health.
I could argue that someone could physically look good on the outside and have a very good inner mechanics but they are still not healthy if their mental health is greatly suffering. Now we all were privileged or not privilege to grow up around people who either showed us good or negative coping skills. we all have coping skills but some of them are negative and the other ones are positive. Emotional eating would be considered mostly a negative coping skill. I think it would be fair to say that many people, not all, who have eating disorders have emotional eating coping skills. this means that whenever they are trying to cope this is how they choose to often cope with something that greatly bothers them. So coming at someone who does not have very good or very little positive coping skills is not going to motivate them to do better. if anything it will push them further into depression and relying on these negative coping skills. If someone is having weight issues bullying, harassing, and putting them down is not constructive at all because what they really need is positive coping skills. if you have a loved one that you are truly concerned about show them compassion and offer to be their support system. Let them know that you still love them but If they choose to want to go on the path to better themselves that you will be there for them in whatever way you are able to. See another thing that we should all recognize about psychology is when you attack someone people tend to shut down mentally and not listen to your message. so even if everything you are saying is true by all accounts that person is not going to actually hear you because they're going to shut down mentally. So if anyone reads this I hope you can see why being aggressive to someone is not going to get your point across and help someone have healthier habits.
You can't force people to accept you big small short any type of everyting... Do what you want at the end its your body!
Just don't push it as its fine to be you and people need to be that ting.
Fuck the bullies and those who get sadistic satisfaction by bullying fat people, that said! I don't find fat people attractive, and I have every right to disagree with their wrong belief that they're healthy, they have the right to believe they're healthy too but them demanding that I be silenced is crossing the line. My sister has an eating disorder and it has to do with abusive father who used to beat our mother regularly, but that is still not an excuse for unhealthy lifestyle and she is working hard to get healthier, she has lost a lot of weight in last 1 year and has not touched any fast food as far as I know, she goes to the gym regularly and is on a path to healthy lifestyle where she and everyone around her finds her more attractive and healthy!
Them sumo wrestlers were on that dragonball level.
Thank you Dee for telling it like it is!
9:50 I so thought he was gonna run after the balloon and thus start magically losing weight in the process, I was not anticipating that 😂
It's easy to sum it up. Support fat awareness (health awareness), not fat support (encouraging fatness), and not fat shame (bullying). Support efforts to reach a healthier body. The harshness and prejudice drives the majority of fat people to eat more, not less. It's how they tend to cope, why would you induce more need to cope?
I just have a few questions. If it’s all about health why is no one yelling and belittling people who are anorexic or bulimic, which is just as unhealthy as being obese? If you can recognize that anorexia or bulimia is a mental health issue, and yelling at them to just shut up and eat and will not fix anything why can’t y’all extend the same grace to people who are obese? Why is it ok to “coddle” people who are anorexic/bulimic but shit on people who are obese?
Huh? anorexic people are always belittled and yelled at. They can even be hospitalized by force, are any obese people being hospitalized by force? No. The moment you lose too much weight a doctor weighs you and asks you if you are doing it on purpose, now with obese and fat people starting this shameful campaign most doctors are afraid to ask even if that can bring some health risks for themselves. I dont know where you live, but everywhere around me very skinny people are pointed at in the streets, random people go to them to tell them to eat and not starve themselves ...dafuq
Aeternum Vale FACTS.
ruthali23 because obese isn’t a disorder. anorexic and bulimia are.
People do get on your case with that
I'll tell you sometimes it's just hate but the last dud just I guess but he seemed like someone in his family or friends group probably was sick or dying because of it cuz that level of anger with logic facts means he had to have some level of first hand knowledge
12:50 Ik he ain’t just say cotton picking?!?!
Marquez Matthews its a figure of speech
Nate Todd and where do you think that “figure of speech” came from
I'm pretty sure it means the same as cherry picking. You only talk about shit the benefits you and leave the rest out that doesnt support you
I think the pharse is cherry picking 🤔
Right but let the white people in the comments tell it it lol
That guy at the end WENT INNNN. I fucking love him lmao. Thats some workout motivation for me
In my teens i was pretty over weight. I felt horrible, i was always sick, depressed and had horrible self esteem. The thing that changed was when people started being rude to me and pushed me to be a better version of myself. I am now down to 150lbs and ive never felt better. My goal is to be down to 128lbs by next year, (which is a standard weight for my height).
Can I can't take it dee's reaction is to funny in the beginning
Yes, health should be a concern. But your weight should not be a determining factor to your happiness. Also, people do use the “I’m looking out for you” to discriminate or be rude towards overweight people and sometimes people need something positive to motivate, not to be yelled and cussed at.
I cringe every time you go off on people being angry. Being angry isn't always a bad thing, it can mean you're passionate and honest. You look at people being angry and you say: "Damn why you being so angry, triggered, and emotional?". I look at someone being angry and say:"If you're angry about this, you're a loser. If you're angry about THAT, I can understand and respect that".
I'm all for "your life, your choice", as long as you're not hurting anybody. But I'm also free to speak out against bad behavior. Some people get fired up about things they don't agree with and they feel the need to speak out against it. It all depends on the reason, and their intentions. You can lose or gain respect from me based on that. I don't see any problem with it. Not to mention these fat positivity chicks ARE hurting the younger generation and anyone who listens to them.
Some people (especially guys) sometimes need to hear someone angrily pointing them at their incompetence, because we understand that's an honest opinion, so we try to change afterwards. I'm guessing you've never experienced something like that, so you don't see the value in it.
I think it's mixed. Some people are big, because that's how they want to be, as they want to live their lives that way. For others, it really isn't an indicator of health, as a skinnier/petite person can be just as, if not more unhealthy than someone who is bigger. Genetics do play a big role, as well as, certain issues.
Look at those who have PCOS, a lot of people who have it, struggle to lose weight. It affects our health, as a whole. Weight, fertility, cancer...
I think it is a matter of understanding why someone is the way they are. You can be big and healthy/active.
Also, that one guy, that seemed mad. He ain't wrong, there are people who literally just don't care, they sit around and do nothing and that's what's wrong. There are enough overweight/obese people who are active and go running, do pilates... however, a large cause to why people struggle to lose weight is because, they are not eating enough. Eating too little, causes the metabolism to slow down, making the body hold on to that fat
Like that lady in the beginning said excuses🤷🏽♀️ stay safe
Thing with the drill sergeant sounds like he lost a loved ones. He really gets heated up about holding hands and hospital bill. Sounds like something he can relate with.
Dee be trying so hard not to laugh LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Pls explain to me why the commercial is offensive? He got thinn and was an outcast between obese people.
That advert is absolutely nuts😭😭😭😭
Even from a skinny person, working out to get fit is not just physically rewarding, but also mentally. If you’re comfortable in your own skin, that’s a good for you! Even working out for 10 minutes a day is better than 0 seconds. It’s all about *CONSISTENCY* rather than one day of explosive workout.
Everybody needs to face the truth. I am 250 lbs. I did this to myself. My choices in food and not exercising led to this. Mental disorders only aside. But for many of these so called disorders it is still your choice or your excuse for some to not take care of yourself. But you have to want to be healthy, many just want it without the time and effort. There is no such thing as a diet that does not combine exercise to be successful. Sitting on your ass and doing nothing will not give you a good-looking body. I don't want to exercise, so I know I will be fat. But I will not praise it, I will not celebrate it. My breathing problems and leg pains are my reward. My sleeping all the the time , complete lack of energy. High cholesterol. Are all my doing.
That last guy was pissed because fat acceptance is a movement that promotes and encourages obesity. They say its ok to eat and be unhealthy and anyone who says otherwise is "fat shaming." Telling someone its ok to have no regard for their health simply so they can have a moments satisfaction instead of pushing them to better themselves and their overall health is evil. Its like helping someone commit slow suicide while telling them its ok that they are slowly dying and to keep going.
When I was overweight I did want to be confident and wear nice clothes and still feel good about myself and not let my weight hold me back. however I had to acknowledge that this was dangerous and could get out of hand quick + major health risk that also r in my family. So I just started eating better. Not to impress anyone but for me . There’s nothing wrong with owning who u are but at the weight I was at..if I got too reckless thinking “that can’t b me” when it just could.
but the thing is fat doesn’t mean unhealthy all the time and skinny doesn’t mean healthy, obviously there’s people who are big because they do nothing and sit around and it’s very bad, but there are also bigger people who physically can’t lose weight or it might take a really long time even if they are eating healthy and working out. I know that i’m pretty thin so people assume i am healthy but tbh my eating habits aren’t that great and i don’t go to the gym but my metabolism is fast, i’d probably die before someone bigger if it has to do with “health”
It's more than just being lazy it's mental health and accountability for yourself.
The thing is the movement was made for amputees, veterans, muscular dystrophy and all of the people who actually really cannot control the way they look, that was the initial reason for the movement, than it was taken over.. by people who can control their weight if they want..
Family of 4 be making they cadillac a low rider 😭
Being fat isn’t good, I agree with that. Promote healthy eating and healthy lifestyles that’s fine, live your life. I just think that berating people in any manner, about anything is uncalled for. Mind your business. Skinny, fat, whatever the case may be, nobody deserves to be ridiculed. I promise you that anything that you have to say, they already know. So....stop wasting everybody’s time and Mind. Your. Business.
I agree with Dee. I think it's fine to say you don't have to be perfectly model thin to be attractive and happy with yourself, but when you're overweight and obese, there's a problem
I agree one hundred percent, I’m fat right now but I’m working hard to lose weight. I’ve already lost five pounds so I’m on the right track.
recent studies have proven that weight is largely genetic. obesity tends to run in families. even the individuals who eat hardly anything tend to be larger. . and its entirely possible to be both overweight and active.
All the men in my family are so skinny they're often underweight while the women are overweight. And this includes family I rarely see, so it's not that we all have the same eating habits, upbringing, lifestyle etc.
It’s not that they are lazy or anything, I think it’s mostly environment and habits. Some people don’t mind being big. For me personally being big does kinda hinder being able to do simple tasks like just tying your shoes. And I’m not big but I know when I’m out of shape I feel uncomfortable and have more aches and pains. But just telling them to lose weight won’t help it. They have bad habits. Encouragement goes a longer way than condemning.
Germany ain't paying no game's
Sounded like a lot of people are not concerned about fat people's health they're concerned that they have to see fat people especially that dude at the end. BTW stress is the number one killer, heart disease is just another symptom of chronic stress.
Me : Hey Google does stress leads to heart disease?
Google : "Studies suggest that the high levels of cortisol from long-term stress can increase blood cholesterol, triglycerides, blood sugar, and blood pressure. These are common risk factors for heart disease. This stress can also cause changes that promote the buildup of plaque deposits in the arteries"
BTW Cortisol is a hormone produced by the brain to deal with mental stress.
That man was speaking facts! 👏🏾
buddy at the end could’ve sent that to someone’s imessage. he was in an uproar.
The last guy, really made me double check myself I subscribed to him. I love his channel it really help me even tho I wasn't obese but I started to work out more beacuse of him.