Dating: Take It Day By Day

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @Pzycko0
    @Pzycko0 2 года назад +29

    You have taught me one of the biggest actions high achievers do. Reading a good book 10-15-20 times and applying it's principles. Thanks a lot Coach.

  • @TWIZZMAGELIKON
    @TWIZZMAGELIKON 4 года назад +82

    Honestly, having had watched almost 200 of CCW’s vidz, I found this one to be the core and the most insightful one ☝️

    • @user-dm6yo7de7k
      @user-dm6yo7de7k 3 года назад +18

      Read the book 10-15 times to learn to fundamentals. Cmon' man.

    • @drzelchivo4919
      @drzelchivo4919 3 года назад +7

      I’m on my 6th read while watching ALL his video in chronological order from May 2021 all way to September 2011 so far this how far I am I’m incredibly serious about this since I have gotten friendzoned 5 times in a row. You will all see me in coreys email videos one day as a success story mark my words!!

    • @draknov7851
      @draknov7851 3 года назад +3

      @@drzelchivo4919 good mentality man go for it

    • @RebelTitan
      @RebelTitan 18 дней назад

      ​@@drzelchivo4919any updates

  • @thej8778
    @thej8778 4 года назад +18

    The idea of “the one” is so perfect, so fulfilling, because you don’t want to think about the fact that one day you will most likely split from the woman you’re currently with. Makes it seem like a waste of time

  • @RealTommySal
    @RealTommySal 5 лет назад +30

    Read the book 10-15 times

  • @rockn1677
    @rockn1677 9 лет назад +164

    Don't trust anything a female says and feels for you during the first 90 days of dating her, (provided you make it that far) This is at a time when they are high in their infatuation and idealizing you as a potential mate. Maintain skepticism and objectivity during this time. 99% of the time, the woman's feelings and idealization for you fades.

    • @btjones874
      @btjones874 9 лет назад +38

      +Rock N Very true, I've made the mistake of getting too emotionally involved in the first 3 months. Then the girl ends up being bipolar and yea... what an emotional rollercoaster and headache that was. And it's a shame sense my attraction was through the roof for the girl. But not my job to fix her problems.

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 9 лет назад +9

      Brandon J
      Sounds like we dated the same girl, lol. I also was once involved with a girl that was bi-polar and she pursued me on the job after her and her b/f of 4 yrs split and she was going through a lot of depression, but then she'd go through manic times as well. She dumped me within about 7 weeks for another guy and I was also way too emotionally invested in her. This girl never knew exactly what she wanted and was a ball of perpetual confusion.

    • @btjones874
      @btjones874 9 лет назад +10

      +Rock N I Long story short... An argument pursued. I started walking out the door because I had enough. She stopped me and said "no no... lets talk, dont leave". So I sit down just to hear her say "Look I don't see you as anymore than a friend". I'm thinking "Ok then why did you stop me from walking out the door?" Clearly, she was worried about being the dumpee. 5 Minutes later she's crying on my shoulder and we have the most passionate love making session we ever had. Afterwards, I left as I knew that was the most positive note I could have possibly left on that night. I was confused as hell due to her up and down that day but I figured we still had something going on given the makeup sex after. Well, next time I tried to arrange a gathering, she started making excuses with no counter-offers so that's when I knew it was over. It personally hurt to end it that way after a good makeup session, but it was doomed ultimately anyways.

    • @DFreshTV
      @DFreshTV 3 года назад +13

      Yes, and always trust what she does more than what she says.

    • @michalhons1911
      @michalhons1911 2 года назад +3

      Been there

  • @flash12319
    @flash12319 2 года назад +14

    years later and Tom Brady hit his goal of playing to 45

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 9 лет назад +74

    Coach Corey Wayne often half-jokes about how after meeting a woman; most men literally start imagining things such as what their kids will look like and where they're going to live. It's important to understand that dating is a PROCESS. The same as with a job.
    For example, in my current career; I first took it day by day. I needed extra cash through college and didn't see myself here long term. HOWEVER; I still applied strong work ethic and gave it my all (I 'showed-up', as Corey Wayne would say) . My higher-ups took notice and within 6 short months, the rest was history.
    My point is that no matter what, the best thing to do is present your best self at all times and let YOU speak for YOU. That doesn't mean don't have long-term goals. But you have to see things as they are in the moment and continue to rock with the natural progression. Your skill level will determine how fast or slow that process leads to a favorable outcome. With women, it's important to see her actions as a reflection of you (how you're showing up). That way, when you KNOW you've done everything to show up properly; you can see a woman for how and who she truly is. That said...
    It's important to understand that dating is a PROCESS.

    • @lieutenantyale
      @lieutenantyale 6 лет назад

      well said

    • @FilterChain
      @FilterChain 5 лет назад

      @@lieutenantyale like in the last samurai "too many mind " - "dont mind"

    • @BlaximilianD00d
      @BlaximilianD00d 5 лет назад

      Me I think about that stuff too. And making love to her in the butt.

  • @alexanderxfit9560
    @alexanderxfit9560 9 лет назад +95

    Well Corey Wayne has helped me court a female who is an awesome communicator she is supportive has a lot of goals and on top of it all she turns into the most submissive woman during sex.
    I'll admit I made plenty of mistakes and still make plenty of them but she really helps me. It's awesome to see the results of all of the work I've put in and the struggles I've been through are all paying off. The most interesting thing about the changes that I've seen is once I stayed focused on reaching my potential financially and in the gym she found me.
    I won't get hung up on the future but I'll admit it's extremely hard to stay composed when you come across a woman that is soo kick ass. I need to keep working on the fundamentals for sure just so I can keep getting better!

    • @babensky2187
      @babensky2187 5 лет назад +7

      AlexanderxFIT keep it up my man, we are all gonna make it :)

    • @brandonschatz2504
      @brandonschatz2504 3 года назад +3

      That’s awesome bro

    • @draknov7851
      @draknov7851 3 года назад +1

      Congrats man hope it goes well

    • @imshaun4563
      @imshaun4563 3 года назад +1

      Any updates with you and the girl?

    • @juansaenz7843
      @juansaenz7843 2 года назад +1

      Stay centered man, good luck 👍🏻

  • @Fsn9HD
    @Fsn9HD 3 года назад +18

    Always a good strategy: thinking what James Bond would do.

  • @zamparra4892
    @zamparra4892 Год назад

    Hello, Kiara. Had it happen in my mini 2011 s.
    I always choose to continue driving until a failure is clear.
    It ended up being a faulty coil pack.
    In my case cylinder 2 ended up failing and like 2 months after cylinder 3 failed. I replace both coil packs and it wasn’t expensive.
    The engine did felt rough compared to now, but it was difficult to tell since its a pretty loud idle anyway.
    I let both coils fail completely, but they misbehave just as it happened with you. A check engine light turned on, then restarted the car and it went away.

  • @dusenstrahlverfahren
    @dusenstrahlverfahren 23 дня назад

    Illusion of action, great concept

  • @phantom5185
    @phantom5185 5 лет назад +1

    Corey, you're the man. I love this video, the guy you're talking about just doesn't frigging listen. Even if you spent 3-hrs of your time, explaining details. He would be coming back and mentioning he just came from dropping by her place.
    It's as like going to the Casino and playing Black Jack, people just follow this fucken card Basic Strategy, all jumping the same hoops. I stand there watching mostly guys drop hand-fulls like $1,000 to $2,000 cash on the table like no big deal at all. And the dealer racking it up and I just watched him lose it all.
    One lady once mentioned to me, you're not a team player, I said well no I'm not and a team player. I do everything the op as all other players. And I win after they all just keep busting.
    Guys are just to I'm patient, there for months or years, then they notice a foxy lady, They want it all right now.

  • @activematrix5360
    @activematrix5360 3 года назад +5

    Video starts at 11.00

  • @brownboyrm213
    @brownboyrm213 Год назад +1

    This is exactly what happened to me n this girl but her reponse for backing away was that she has been hurt so many times n she don't wanna make the same mistakes 😔 we where moving super fast n she still would send messages saying i miss you but her actions show different idk maybe she testing me idk 🤷🏾‍♂️ she is working full time on third shift when i met her she was on first shift she just got out of relationship earlier this year separation maybe she is still hurt and has a one year old an 15 year old

  • @tomschloesser4787
    @tomschloesser4787 7 лет назад +29

    Hey Corey! How many times do we have to read the book? Haha!

    • @marcosanchez500
      @marcosanchez500 5 лет назад +16

      Just for that 15 more time's lol

    • @tenant25l53
      @tenant25l53 3 года назад +4

      24 hours a day, every day for the rest of your life and take a copy with you when you died too.

  • @rigon28
    @rigon28 2 года назад +1

    Damn, called it on Tom Brady wanting to play until 45 😂

  • @kevin7431
    @kevin7431 9 лет назад +10

    Hi Corey and fellow posters, I've been watching Corey's videos for quite some time and I got to tell you, men have it hard these days. Women, at the beginning of a relationship at least, all they have to do is show up and look pretty. For men it's all about our actions. I don' t know about you guys but it's hard for me to stay in my masculine 24/7 as strange as that may be. I to would like to be vulnerable with my current girl to explore how far we have come emotionally, but I fear doing so might ruin things (is this a normal?) How do you guys feel about that?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  9 лет назад +24

      +Kevin X Save your problems for your buddies or your therapist. If you try and make your girlfriend your mommy or your therapist it will not end well.

    • @edwri9759
      @edwri9759 9 лет назад +4

      C'mon man.... What would you want to behave like a wuss? Remain present at all times and have fun, don't get all serious and talk about feelings.

  • @diamonddave16
    @diamonddave16 Год назад +1

    This is gold

  • @howtosnatch
    @howtosnatch Год назад

    "You went from being interesting to just another dude in her eyes." Daaaaaaaaammmmmmnnnn.

  • @DTMfun
    @DTMfun 9 лет назад +1

    I got a PROBLEM here.
    1 week before moving to the city my girlfriend of 4 years is living in she became cold and distant. We really had little contact and due to my insecurity I called her once and a while during that time. I could not stand it anymore and visited her to know what was going on. She said she felt guilty for me moving here. She also said she was not interested in having sex with me or kissing me. I left and did not inititate contact. The first date we made after she became that way was about two weeks after she's been that cold. She did not show up to that one. In the evening of that day she called to apologize saying she was busy but was mad after I made clear that I did not feel treated right. She later told me she also wasnt really interested in meeting me that day. A couple days after she called and we arranged another date to which she wanted to change plans shortly before the date. We planned on meeting at my place. She wanted me to come to hers because she was feeling so tired because she was partying the night before and was up until 4am. I declined and she eventually came to my place. She was totally cold that day. I however was in a good mood keeping it positive and funny. She ended the date early saying she was feeling sick. I did not call her after that day as well. She initiated contact and I asked her out to come over to my place so we could cook together. On the day of the cooking date she also wanted to change plans saying she hadn't eaten all day and was too hungry to wait until coming to my place. She asked if I couldn't come to her place now. I gave in and did. When I arrived she said she was sorry that she was not interested in having sex with me and kissing me again. A little later I told her that I actually was not cool with hanging out at hers and making spaghetti since I have actually planned what we were going to do. We eventually went to my place but she was fucking mad and cold. She asked if we could have a polygamous relationship so I could get sex. I declined. This date was yesterday.
    I know I really fucked up at some points. What am I supposed to do now. Should I continue letting her do the contact initiating, meeting up with her and letting her be cold, hoping she'll eventually losen up and we could be having fun?
    Or should I tell her that our relationship eventually turned into a platonic friendship and I am not interested in that. I would want her as a romantic partner and nothing less. Furthermore I am not happy with the way she is treating me, like not showing up on a date without cancelling etc. If she's interested in having me as a romantic partner she should contact me then, and only then!
    What should I do?

    • @DTMfun
      @DTMfun 9 лет назад

      Alex Force tell me your story on how youve been in a similar situation

  • @NDforLife5Teo
    @NDforLife5Teo 9 лет назад +7

    I recently met this girl and we seem to have pretty good chemistry. We've talked a few times but not sure if she likes me, also don't talk to her that often because I don't want to seem needy (in the past that has been a problem and ended miserably). Any advice on how to get her and not fuck it up?

    • @dreamshakegaming
      @dreamshakegaming 4 года назад +1

      Just ask her out. She’ll either agree to it or not

    • @tenant25l53
      @tenant25l53 3 года назад +4

      @@dreamshakegaming hahah you are giving advice to a comment that is 5 year old?

  • @seancassidy7188
    @seancassidy7188 4 года назад

    Thanks for the advice. I believe you have done your homework

  • @RealNzlord
    @RealNzlord 11 месяцев назад +2

    Why do you guys say best in the world for NFL yet it's not a international sport

  • @comebackk20
    @comebackk20 7 лет назад +3

    Man Ur videos and book are awsome! And I was actually going to book a coaching session, but DAM 1000 fukin bucks !! Cmon man poor people need help too 😂🤣, u shud do one week a year when u charge 100$ for a session, call it discount week or some shit like that. U would b helping even the broke people, obviously ur not having a problem getting the G but, think about us middle of the road guys too. Anyway keep the vids coming I still think ur awsome.

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 7 лет назад +1

      jo kells Man I sure as hell regret not paying the $60 fee that he used to previously charge for the coaching session...

  • @EASYDC
    @EASYDC 9 лет назад +7

    Coach, could you help your viewers by recommending some good movies that has the basic fundamentals
    like the movie Hitch, is there other movies that support your book and your advises ?

    • @mrsemifixit
      @mrsemifixit 9 лет назад +2

      Swingers; but not the main character Mikey. Use him as an example of what NOT to do.. Until the end. Vince Vaughn's character has the right attitude throughout the movie. Imo one of the best movies for guys pertaining to a break up.

    • @mrsemifixit
      @mrsemifixit 9 лет назад +1

      For a great example of carefree/abundance attitude I recommend the show Californication. Watch how hank moody approaches/banters with women. He a child like charm that women naturally are attracted to. Even when dealing with his ex in the show it's always playful and he reframed any rejection for his amusement.

  • @schube-fearless7429
    @schube-fearless7429 2 года назад +1

    Now let me ask anyone who is willing to answer in the chat. I have my girlfriend of a year and a half and I sit hear watching this realizing I characterize as a lot of these things. Overly sappy and more affectionate then her, trying to compensate by reaching out more (mind u we live 40 minutes from each other) and I constantly plan ahead and these are things she says that stress her out. Do you find it in my best interest to tell her that I’m currently working on these things through advice and training or just allow my actions to speak for themselves and hope she can sense and appreciate the difference

  • @whiskeydelta4180
    @whiskeydelta4180 Год назад

    Coach, any insight on WHY Tom Brady lost Giselle? Did it have to do with him not being clear on his purpose and waffling how long he would really try to play?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Год назад +2

      He wasn’t present. Stopped dating and courting her and she didn’t feel heard and understood.

  • @waltervillacorta32
    @waltervillacorta32 9 лет назад +3

    coach,you always mention on your vídeos to be unreactive in order to be grounded and some others "stand up for yourself" so that no one can walk all over you. so my question is how not to be reactive if you want to stand up for yourself? any ideas?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  9 лет назад +11

      +Walter Villacorta read the book and learn the fundamentals. You should take your success seriously instead of trying to half-ass things, cut corners, look for shot cuts, the easy way out or cherry picking information from my videos.

    • @waltervillacorta32
      @waltervillacorta32 9 лет назад +2

      +Coach Corey Wayne will do, thanks coach

  • @CadetinCommand
    @CadetinCommand 9 лет назад +3

    Hey coach in your book you state that "like attracts like".Which is easy to understand, but what do think of the saying "opposites attract"?

    • @btjones874
      @btjones874 9 лет назад +2

      +Raymond Dixon IV Both are true. It's good to have similarities and differences in a healthy balance.

  • @DavesArtRoom
    @DavesArtRoom 9 лет назад +7

    The example about Tom Brady is interesting, because it applies, but also, even though it applies, Brady and team are cheaters. They are truly good, but they also have got caught cheating. Repetition is the mother of success, yet in this equation, cheating is involved.

    • @DavesArtRoom
      @DavesArtRoom 9 лет назад

      Well, he may have been acquitted in court for now. The Patriots and Tom Brady and coach are good/great. I'm not saying they are not; but I am saying they are cheaters. Goodell destroyed evidence that would have shown this:
      www.sportsonearth.com/article/148132894/espn-spygate-deflategate-report-goodell-secure

  • @shaqsantiago806
    @shaqsantiago806 9 лет назад

    hey corey i've had your book for 2 years now and just noticed you have another one , i have the one that you have the slick hair. Are they the same or...?

  • @op2001
    @op2001 6 лет назад +3

    Man please, the girl from the video is just playing games. She knows she has the guy wrapped around her finger.

  • @feersty
    @feersty 4 месяца назад

    Revis Island! 🏝️

  • @MynameJeffX
    @MynameJeffX 9 лет назад +4

    Coach does tactics change when you have a girl in college setting you like? For example you see her every week in her class. After you judge her interest should you get her number right off the start?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  9 лет назад +17

      +gageTee3 If you hesitate, you will masterbate

    • @nawgee
      @nawgee 9 лет назад +1

      +Coach Corey Wayne I'm stealing this one coach!

    • @tank5617
      @tank5617 9 лет назад +1

      Read the book 10-15 times all women are the same.

    • @tank5617
      @tank5617 9 лет назад

      Read the book 10-15 times all women are the same.

  • @froqqer103
    @froqqer103 9 лет назад +1

    Hey Coach,
    Just started reading your book last week. I have a question for material I haven't got to yet.
    I got a girls number on Friday. I didn't have a chance to really talk to her and set a date on the spot, so I got her number instead. I worked Saturday (today), so I couldn't set up a date. I'm not sure where she lives, if she lives inside or outside the perimeter of my city. When I call to set the date, should I ask her where she lives, and set a place according to that, or just tell her the time and place without asking? And what are your thoughts on dating during the work week, should I only set dates for weekends? Thanks!

    • @IMIICIHIAIEIL
      @IMIICIHIAIEIL 3 года назад +2

      stalking is best. if she says no it means yes, make sure to show up to her work and home lots. dont be afraid to cry and be honest about the herpes, she will respect you and want you soo much more,.

  • @andysmith5997
    @andysmith5997 5 лет назад

    Yeah South Miami Beach sounds like Ipswich

  • @joev88
    @joev88 7 лет назад +2

    Is the audible version of the book I got for free word for word the same book?

  • @jeremyneverdahl8936
    @jeremyneverdahl8936 4 года назад

    I would like to get a copy.

  • @xaviercruz4763
    @xaviercruz4763 7 лет назад

    Why did you lived for various years with your savings...Couldn't you stay a little bit more until that you had everything planned for your business of coaching?

  • @MrJherime
    @MrJherime 8 лет назад +2

    Yeah that guy really needs to read the material more, doesn't seem like the basic fundamentals stuck at all.

  • @JCH-hn7gr
    @JCH-hn7gr 4 года назад

    Corey Wayne is the best

  • @Steffenwolff
    @Steffenwolff 4 года назад +6

    Video starts at 11.01.. you're welcome

  • @g6022
    @g6022 9 лет назад

    Joe flaco is the most pad Qb!¡ !!!! Ravens!!!!

    • @g6022
      @g6022 9 лет назад

      Yes¡!! I know we suck this year =(

  • @timson3489
    @timson3489 5 лет назад

    Tom was that one who wasn't supposed to play pro due to his ADHD. Now look at em lol

  • @cavesuki8510
    @cavesuki8510 9 лет назад

    Hoping to win the lottery soon old man so i could retire you! Thank you Corey!

  • @andrewm69
    @andrewm69 8 лет назад

    "he is the best cornerback in the world right now" (Corey Wayne on Darelle Revis) Uh Oh, Don't show Richard Sherman this video...

    • @Robsparks413
      @Robsparks413 5 лет назад

      This was 3 years ago An I'm sure it wasnt jus Richard Sherman Errbody has different opinions bout each player But go BRADY🐐 Been a fan since Drew Bledsoe #Yeabuddy!!

  • @generaldilvry69
    @generaldilvry69 3 года назад

    I have never read any book more than three times. I am interested in getting the book but at the same time is it perhaps something with the writing that requires rereading, such as a lack of clarity?

    • @cutaboveman7375
      @cutaboveman7375 2 месяца назад

      No. Its about absoring ALL the information until it becomes second nature so you know what to do for every situation and respond correctly in real time.

  • @darwynelias3336
    @darwynelias3336 9 лет назад

    Go Pats Go

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 3 года назад

    ❤️

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 6 лет назад +5

    "The one" LMAO

  • @edwardliao6643
    @edwardliao6643 4 года назад

    You forgot cristiano Ronaldo

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 4 года назад

    👍🏽

  • @sharifraya3432
    @sharifraya3432 4 года назад

    I love your content and it helped me and my Friends but can you make videos more focused and not talking a lot about other less important things

  • @cavesuki8510
    @cavesuki8510 9 лет назад +2

    Hoping to win the lottery soon old man so i could retire you! Thank you Corey!

  • @cavesuki8510
    @cavesuki8510 9 лет назад

    Hoping to win the lottery soon old man so i could retire you! Thank you Corey!