"I'm Trans For Attention" - Okay..
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
- Is gender dysphoria required to be considered trans? Let's talk and react to some differing opinions.
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So what are your thoughts? Is gender dysphoria required to be trans?
Blaire White YES!
Blaire White obviously
Hell yeah it is!
Blaire White yes lmfao
Obviously
Imagine calling out Blaire on her “transphobia”, while misgendering her at the same time.
ikr, if they're going to be stupid at least be consistent with their opinions
RIGHT!?!? Makes no damn sense.
lmao exactly
Alex Ownn that’s a joke not to mention this person looks like the knock off version of Avril Lavigne
That was so ridiculous, you could just see the sad little life behind that tweet!
People who threaten to hurt someone over having a different opinion scares me.
I agree, Ned.
Lol my dad says I'm better off dead if i was gay. 🤷🏻♀️
Sagi's Doodleverse bruh wha
I know people like this in person 👀
Ned Flanders same like it’s just an opinion not that deep 💀
"I'm trans and I don't have dysphoria"
So... you're in drag then
YES
I hate people who say you don't need to have it to be trans you do there is some trans people who have less strength with their dysphoria then most people but you still need to have it
Honestly.
Yeah i was thinking of a mesh of non binary and drag.. wich isn't trans
ikr
Their logic: *A male can be gay without being attracted to males* 🤷🏻♂️
it's literally the thinking of 6-year olds on the playground... "HEY GUYS I'M GAY/TRANS TOO!" ... they just want to feel special
actually, i say a person that goes by him and said he was lesbian and another person got mad at me for just saying he's STRAIGHT.
"Hi. I'm Shaneeqa. I was born with a girl penis. I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria. I'm also gay, but I'm only attracted to women...not that any of them are attracted to me."
@@TeamFriendship8600stinky
Why wouldnt a man be able to be gay without being atracted to males?
I'm a lesbian woman who dresses super masculine. So much so, that people will refer to me using male pronouns. I've run into people who ask me if I'm trans and who will say things like "are you sure you're not trans?" Yes! I am not dysphoric! I am comfortable being a "manly" woman. This doesnt mean I have another gender identity. Being a masculine woman is ok. Being a feminine man is ok. Those two things do not necessarily constitute a new gender identity.
Yesssss! When did that become a thing? Even Boy George is confused and they came for HIM.
I feel you! I wish I would've known sooner that it's ok to be an androgynous girl. I felt awkward for years, thinking there must be something wrong with me for dressing differently. Now I label myself as a tomboy/androgynous lesbian and I feel way better. Masc girls barely get any representation it sucks.
Preach girl. I personally don't really believe in the nonbinary (nothing against people who do) for that very reason. A masculine female isn't any less of a woman, just as a feminine male isn't any less of a man.
I am the hetero male version of yourself. YES, I really dislike how people insist you must be trans in denial, (usually stated by trans people) based on how one dresses, looks, and or acts.
THIS. I’m lesbian as well and while I don’t stray too far on either side of the femme/butch scale, I’m usually into more “manly” women, and I feel like the dating pool is slowly dwindling b/c all of them are identifying as trans now. I’m sure some of them are and they don’t mean any harm but... it kinda sucks.
Trans without gender dysphoria is like gay without same sex attraction
💀💀💀😂😂
Ursula Buffay I love your username! Friends is such a good show!
literally
Well... if you use the old deffinition of "gay"...
There are lots of "happy" heterosexual people. 🙄
It's like saying "off" is a television channel.
My hot take: Saying your trans and never experienced dysphoria is like saying I’m gay but I’ve never liked the same gender. Which if someone said that they’re gay and never have liked the gender would get lots of hate & backlash lol.
Why not though? You can call yourself whatever you want. Whether others perceive you that way is another story.
Gender dysphoria is having to do with Body, so your implying that people can't be trans if they don't feel wrong in their body?
@@trixicenby999 Yes. we are implying that.
@@Chyna55.5 So basically you don't think non binary is a thing?
@@trixicenby999 never said that. trans and non binary aren't the same, thats all dont be stupid
It's painfully obvious these people hate you because you're infinitely more attractive. It's really as simple as that
And that is 100% a fact. Jealousy is dangerous
Agree! Blaire is gorgeous and people honestly hate others for being attractive...its disgusting.
It's a big part of it; but she's also based af and doesn't get swayed by peer pressure at all.
Seems like a lot of people in the "gender" world really resent individuals who don't cave to peer pressure and shaming - the fact that Blair is also super hot is like the icing on the cake.
Thats half of it... I think it goes beyond looks, but also jealously of the fact she has self worth and esteem.
Which clearly, these haters are lacking.
Imagine having a kid and thinking you are raising them right (respectful, polite, civil) only for them to show their butt on the internet ONLY because that person is "prettier". I never understood teasing, or bullying someone for that reason (for any reason) I would lay into my kids rear hard!
“You don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans.” is like saying, “You don’t need to have a problem with your insulin to be diabetic.”
Or "you don't have to be overweight to be obese"
Someone who says "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" are the same kind of folks on tumblr who are like "you don't need trauma to have DID". 0.0
@@mikeallevesque18 or "you don't need trauma to have ptsd"
That’s a good analogy
Super egg Tarter sauce Thank you
Being trans without dysphoria is like saying “I have anxiety but I’m never anxious”
@Madeleine L
Yea
"i don't have anxiety i just like to shake and cry on command (:"
Somebody in the comments said "It's like saying 'you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian'"
oh my god your profile pic gives me life
Periodt
You can be a masculine woman without being a man. You can be a feminine man without being a woman.
Gender expression isn't the same thing as gender identity, welcome to 7th grade Health class
Do they really teach that in health class now?
@@Chelbasaur Yes, in some places
It was called being a tomboy when I was younger. Sporty Spice was like the poster girl of tomboy fashion and culture.
@@leeriches8841It's literally personality/temperament. The literature has been clear on this for decades (at least).
I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for trans people. I am fem af, but identify as androgynous with no plans of altering my gender, and people get MAD at me for it! I am constantly told I have internalized transphobia
You’re hanging out with the wrong people
Such idiots......Just do you.
Because you're not assimilating to the mob. If you're confident in yourself to do your thing, that makes you a threat because you think for yourself.
In what way do you identify as androgynous? Just curious as when I was born in the 80s, androgynous fashion was all the rage and nobody was telling anyone wearing it that they need to change their sex. I guess my style could be labelled androgynous too as I just wear simple plain clothes that either men or women could wear, I'm boring like that.
Wtf any that even mean
There is a difference between cross-dressing and being trans. A big difference.
Richard George I mean, this sort of mindset is coming from the very same brainlets who say thing like “clothes don’t have a gender” so I’m not surprised tbh. 🤷🏽♀️ This is why we need people like Blaire, Rose of Dawn, and Arielle Scarcella.
@@kiko485 I agree entirely, but the media loves their shock factor. The media is going to tend to put the crazy SJW "autismgender, genderflux, nonbinary" people in the spotlight, not Blaire.
I'm female and I wear male clothes. They're just incredibly more comfy.
A difference that a lot of transgender people and allies for some reason fail to differentiate, especially if the cross dresser is male.
@@manta-ray1980 Women being accused of being trans for “cross dressing” is rare anyway because women wearing male clothes isn’t frowned upon nor is it ground breaking in western society. Women do it all the time. Now if you’re a guy wearing a dress or something, that’s another story. Will probably be called gay, or beat up, or have actual LGBT people trying to force an identity on you.
why does every person who hates blaire always... look.... like that...
Jenna Raut Jealousy
@@Laurap01 Absolutely. That's the only explanation.
Envy
I have noticed that too.
Because they're jealous as hell and it makes them sick that Blaire transitioned so well
Your analogy of having depression and not being sad was so SPOT ON. That was the perfect most simplistic way to put it.
Actually, hilariously enough, you can have depression without being sad. Depression can affect some people with anger only, as it is one of the many things it causes. You can have ADHD without being hyper too, by having a massive daydreaming problem and attention issues
I've been diagnosed actually, it's not exactly being sad all the time, it's mostly feeling alone and unfulfilled without necessarily meaning that you are alone. Like for me at least I am surrounded by some wonderful people in my life but once I get home my motivation to do even the most simple tasks is lost like I'm making a huge effort to even get myself to study for thirty minutes, I oftentimes don't take care of my body when I don't have to go outdoors and people always tell me to text them but I don't even want to go on my Instagram feed for two minutes. So basically I'm always at home feeling like doing nothing although knowing that I have to keep up with everything for my own well being. Also my sleep schedule is terrible because I experience sleep paralysis multiple times a night.
Depression isn't simply sad.
I have had depression and a better way to describe it would be apathy.
Guys while you make a valid point, the analogy still made sense imo. Perhaps using anxiety in this context is better… but the point is the same
BLAIREE YOU LOOK SO CUTE YOU LOOK LIKE SNOW WHITE I CANT GET OVER THIS SOFT GIRL LOOK
she looks like dorothy from wizard of oz to me she's so pretty
Hello my name is Svenya. I like growing huge gardens, and hate going outside.
Me too! shes an idol of mine.
I dont usually give a fuck about celebrities but i love how she carries herself. Shes smart with a very sharp, purposeful anger about her.
i love it !♡♡
She did have more than one surgery.
She's fucking beautiful and intelligent. Very sexy
Imagine claiming that you don't need dysporia to be trans, threatening a trans woman of physical violence and misgendering her and thinking you're not transphobic lmao
I don't understand. Why are we talking about male feminists?
Whenever I see people like the trender in the video it just makes me think "bro this is just a dude who likes dressing up in women's clothing and can't leave it at that because attaching gender identity to it is more woke and less creepy"
Like a pot calling the kettle black.
Yuri Bazzone and appropriating her gender for yourself! Gawdzuh!!!!!
"Stop being transphobic, you man!"
“I could take her out from a distance” is NOT referring to milkshakes.
TravelingSolo that’s what I was thinking 😬😬😬😬😬 she taking her out with a milkshake 😭😭😭🤯🤯
Maybe they were planing on throwing a millshake at her from a car window.
It's a good setup for a joke about creamy substances and a certain deadly virus that isn't SARS-CoV-2.
TravelingSolo 😭😭😭😭😭💀
Must be a lot of acid in that milkshake if she(?) really plans on "erasing" Blaire 🙄
I love that you're respectful to all that watch! 💕 I'm not LGBTQ nor Trans, I'm just a straight Catholic girl. Even so- You still respect my beliefs without making me feel bad. You're my favorite creator! 💕
I also am a straight Catholic girl and I love Blaire! Even knowing she’s “trans”, She’s a woman, I accept her as a woman, and I wouldn’t think twice about it or he at all uncomfortable seeing her in the ladies room.
I love how much support she gets
I'm Catholic too, but I'm part of the LGBT community. You're allowed to believe whatever you want. 😄 It's okay if we don't support the same thing and if we all did, this world would be very boring. That being said, I like Blaire a lot too! I like how she's not afraid to be assertive, values her own opinions without knocking others down, and can laugh off people who are hostile instead of getting scared of them. I wish I had that much confidence!
All of the transexual people that I’ve met have just wanted to live their life in peace and pass, these people don’t want to live in peace they want everyone to cater to them, they want to be spectacles for public conversations.
This is so valid!
"Do you need gender dysphoria to be trans?" Yes. The answer is yes. Otherwise, you just like crossdressing. There's nothing wrong with that, but they're not the same thing. Not even close.
Yes omg. I'm a female who cross dresses and due to folks like this I was straight up confused about if I was trans. I'm not because I don't have body dysphoria....I just like a style of clothing!
@@andie5031 bless you and your levelheadedness
@@andie5031 Right? I have a friend who isn't trans at all, but she prefers dressing male most of the time. There you go.
I, on the other hand, am trans as *hell* but I don't have the guts to dress female a whole lot yet. Gotta let estrogen do more work first.
It's kinda like someone arguing that they're a schizophrenic even without hearing voices or seeing delusions. They just identity just because.
Her bullyin vid got leaked too
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It's like saying "you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian"
Those people are out there 🤢😷
Have you been on SJW twitter lately? “Bi lesbians” are the hip new thing 😭
You can't be non-binary and be lesbian. Non-binary is no gender and lesbian is a girl who likes girls. How does that make sense? If you are lesbian you are a girl. Idk I don't get it and I'm Lesbian.
@@jessicagoel4532 What? How do people do that though???
Ppl do it's called political lesbianism
That’s like saying I don’t medically have anxiety I just identify as having anxiety. Say what?
Not really... Because everyone can be anxious and experience anxiety. So you could absolutely say you have anxiety, without having an anxiety disorder.
@@willma2625 It’s pretty obvious in this situation they’re referring to the people identifying with the medical disorder.
@@willma2625 its you missing the point for me
“I’m trans for attention and I don’t have dysphoria”
Then your not actually transgender
Blair doesn’t like trenders but she still uses their “trans” pronouns. She’s such a an icon
Lmao. Same~ she is such a queen.
Though, I must admit. There is only one time I didn't refer to them as their preferred pronounce.
And it's because he was tricked into going transitioning and I don't condone enabling their delusions.
(I am referring to Chris Chan also, him trying to get into LBGT and going after Lesbian coochie is what sets me off)
AshShuRee using people's preferred pronouns doesn't make you an icon, it makes you a decent person. respect people's pronouns whether you agree with them or not
@@fredders1 Respect must be earned
Yes we love a consistent queen 💗
i think it’s because she can get demonetized for misgendering someone, she said it in the past in a video about jessica yaniv
Isn’t trans without gender dysphoria just cross-dressing?
That's what I thought....
Exactly. It’s simply not conforming to gender norms. It’s gender EXPRESSION. Not identity. I could dress butch and still be a woman.
Gender Variance
@Scoobi Hu That's getting off on your own gender
( which btw , wouldn't trans women prefer themselves as women in a sexual context or is that a problematic perspective ? )
@Scoobi Hu either way , where does it come in with this comment thread ?
"Usually found in males" is that part really needed or is that just a way to pin something onto the general male population ?
How TF can you flick between male and female "Even during the day?"
Like I'm a man, and I really like going in to the Body Shop and smelling all the nice smelling things, and trying all the skin creams and shit, even though I NEVER buy or wear skin cream etc. I just like doing it now and then. Now that's a stereotypically female thing to do. Does this mean I'm non-binary?
Enjoying something traditionally seen as fem or masc occasionally is not genderfluid. As someone who does Identify with genderfluidity but not necessarily considering myself trans, I'll try to explain it as clearly as I can.
So, I have days where I am comfortable in my birth gender and I am ok with being called by my birth name and the associated pronouns. But there are some days where I can hardly look at myself in the mirror when changing because I can't stand to see the parts of myself that are associated with my birth gender. Some days it makes me incredibly uncomfortable to hear people use feminine pronouns and terms in reference to me, because on that day, I might be more masculine leaning. Some days I wish I had a packer and a binder, while others I am very much comfortable and happy with my body.
Basically, my dysphoria and internal thoughts on my gender often shift, usually gradually, sometimes suddenly.
I hope this explanation was clear enough.
B9y, It seems like you just like scents. 🤷🏼 Scents and lotions are are from of self care (DBT) they are relaxing. They (scents) also are an important part of memory formation and recall, and have links to sexual attraction - (search for "pumpkin smell sexual"). There is actually erectile tissue in the nose (some people actually sneeze when they orgasm - things you learn from reading rom-com books 😂). I don't get why it'd be an issue tbh.
I mean, scents are not limited to women and there are even jobs (with men) whose only job is to smell stuff, forgot the name but smt with perfume
That’s what I will never understand about “non binary” / “gender fluid”. I just don’t believe you can “feel” you can flip like that. Especially doesn’t help their case when all they’re doing is being a feminine stereotype. That’s just clothes. Blaire said it herself that she’ll wear sweats & whatever too, not just the clothes we see her wear.
You probably a feminine male. Nothing wrong with that. There are also masculine females.
As someone who has bad dysphoria I hate when people say u don’t need it to be trans!!
It's because they aren't trans and think being LGBT is somehow special.
I don’t understand humans.
Rebecca Pople same jere
Same
Reindeers are better.
Girl me neither
This!
Dysphoria isn't just a prerequisite to be trans, it's literally the cause of being trans itself
Natatatatatat Like if you have say alzheimers and u take alzheimers meds, thats okay. In fact, its good. However if someone who doesnt have alzheimers takes alzheimers meds, they will give themselves heart conditions, etc. Being trans is the same way because transitioning is how you treat dysphoria. If you transition without dysphoria you will literally give yourself dysphoria.
@Grayson Land Sure but different causes can result in the same effect. Just because everyone with gender dysphoria is trans, does not automatically mean that everyone who is trans has gender dysphoria.
Another reason that transitioning is a big deal is that Disphoria isn't just a symptom of being transexual, it can be a symptom of many mental, physical, and psychological disorders. People need to be evaluated for things like dysmorphia first , eating disorders, untapped trauma, DID, BPD, and many other things that can cause gender or body dysphoria. This is why establishing that Gender dysphoria is a necessary symptom for being trans, people are either making mistakes they know they might regret, or they have that one disorder where they want to believe they have mental and physical disorders for attention or validity of self and it's sad and scary.
@@Clara-zr7bt Actually cholinesterase inhibitors for example (medication used for Alzheimer's) has other uses. It's not that uncommon for medication to have multiple applications. So why could transition not be a treatment for other uses? Playing devils advocate here b.t.w. Just following along with your analogy.
Exactly!
I personally know a man who actually did begin to transform into a woman. Then stopped and wanted to go back. And admitted openly to anyone that would listen that he had done it for attention. Now I’m not saying he is the majority but they does exist and it’s not transphobic to say that.
he is really responsible and brave. all the lucks to him ❤
Gender fluid sounds a lot like the old term of "cross dressing"
But it isn't. Cross dressers don't identity as another gender
I love how these people act like Blaire is invalidating trans people but they’re the ones suggesting that throwing on a wig and lipstick makes them a woman and making the entire journey of actual trans people seem like a joke..
Not only that but as a woman it's kind of offensive that they think you need to have hair and makeup like that to be a woman. There is so much more then just how you look and its very annoying to see these people act like this.
Dude no, lets not police people and demand that they go through invasive and expensive surgeries to live as the gender they want.
bedtimeat8 It’s not policing people, and nobody’s saying they can’t live how they want, but it doesn’t make them the other gender. You guys act like saying “you’re not trans” means “you’re not a valid person with valid feelings and experiences and you can’t live how you want or express yourself how you want”. No. It means you’re not the medical, scientific, factual definition of what being transgender and having actual gender dysphoria is.
Ok boomer
Eliza Meth Clever, are you 11? Just sharing facts :) Go read a book.
Aren’t these the same people that claim makeup/clothing have no gender? So why all of a sudden does changing your clothing and putting makeup on make you a totally different gender/trans? Make it make sense.
I mean makeup really doesn’t have a gender because it’s an art form to many. But surely, clothing is categorized by gender lol.
@@haydenjones5861 in that sense women shouldn't be allowed to wear trousers. Or is a cis girl suddenly a man for wearing jeans? I mean, apparently clothes have a gender..
@@fredericabernkastel8354 clothing definitely doesn't have a gender but i think when people say it's put in different gender/sex categories it's because of how the clothes are tailored women and teen girl clothing are tailored to the female body and men and teen boy clothing are tailored to the male body, the clothing that isn't categorised in both would be unisex
Sophie Meow How is a dress obviously for women when men are the ones with hanging genitals. Seems like it would be more comfortable for men.
Emily Beckett THANK YOU
Sometimes I want to do my hair nice, put on makeup and wear a dress. Sometimes I wear pants. By this crazy persons definition; I am trans.
"I was assigned male at birth" is such a weird sentence to me.
Yeah I totally agree with it cause it’s feels like whenever someone uses that term it feels like a ten years step back. And I get called “transphobic” by trans idiots whenever I refers MYSELF as mtf. So annoying ,-,
Should be 'I was CONFIRMED male at birth.' Doctors ain't 'assigning' anything at birth, it isn't a bloody multiple choice question 😂
I thought the same thing when I heard that person say that sentence.
@@CrazyBlogMoments It's a term appropriated from intersex people. The ONLY time that anyone is EVER 'assigned' a sex is if the infant is visibly intersex (ambiguous genitalia, for instance) and there's doubt as to what the raise the child as. Too often such an assignment included medically unnecessary 'corrective' surgeries which could ruin that person's sexual function for life, never mind be disastrous in the case of the intersex person developing with an identity opposite of the sex assigned. It's offensive as well as simply factually incorrect for others to claim this term.
@@diarmuidkuhle8181 I agree with your thoughts. Thank you for replying.
i don’t understand how this could possibly be a controversial idea. why would you put so much money, pain, and effort into changing your entire body and gender identity if you weren’t experiencing a motivator like gender dysphoria? it explains why so many non-dysphoric trans people don’t even try to pass-they don’t want to be seen as the gender they call themselves. it’s so bizarre that one end of the trans community suffers to be who they truly feel they are, while the other contorts their natural identity to be seen as unusual.
Because all these posers want to jump in the "trend"
And danger. Plenty of people spend a lot of money and pain in like tattoos, piercings and other body mods. But like identity?nah. Trans isn't self expression like that.
Well-said!
So if transvestites aren't changing anything except gender expression on a temporary basis, are they transgender?
To be special
As a trans woman I’ve been saying these things for years, and I get hate for it.. thank you Blaire.
Luna M you are stunning btw
Luna M off topic but you are so stunning
I remember in a time before marriage equality, making complaints about the LGBT community ignoring anything that had to do with trans people and was preaching the T should be dropped from the acronym. Mostly on the grounds that orientation and gender are two totally different concepts.
However, once same sex couples were able to get married, all of a sudden trans people mattered, like the LGBT conglomerate needed a reason to continue existing.
Though it's funny how TERFs started preaching the same thing a decade later but for a bigoted reason.
Same here, Luna!!! And it looks like we gotta keep saying it. 🙄 You have a wonderful day, okay? Much love to you and yours. ❤️
Luna M
okay but you’re drop dead gorgeous 🥺
yes!! Thanks you Blaire!! i am 40 yo gay man and i like to crossdressing when i am going to clubbing and i do a good job crossdressing that people think i am trans but i do correcting all the time because i dont have dysphoria. i have found a lot of crossdressers they do transition because they want the attention but not because they have dysphoria. Thank you Blaire !
Moral of the story, don’t say you’re transgender/transexual if you’re only a cross dresser. You can’t biologically be a transvestite.
If someone likes dressing like the opposite sex but isn't dysphoric, why don't they just call themselves cross dressers? Whatever happened to that?! There's nothing wrong with saying "I'm a cross dresser"...if being lgbt is no longer taboo than why isn't cross dressing?!
If I'm not mistaken, the second person featured in the video used to call themselves a crossdresser.
Crossdreser isn't woke enough.
Oh dear Drink Your Nail Polish... Have you not heard? By transtrender rules the umbrella for trans has expanded and now they are saying genderfluid, crossdressers, drag queens, and femboys are all trangenders. Going so far as to call femboys transphobic because they say they aren't trans. This is our world now, constantly being told by this group or another what we are by their own standards. I don't wanna fit inside a box!! Can't I be a bio female who likes pastels and kickboxing?!😭😭
DragQueens
@Tonya Antony cross dressers are drag kings/queens and they've absolutely gone beyond just being a fetish.
I’m a vegan, I eat meat. We exist. Is all I’m hearing
K E HAHAHA.
I'm a virgin, I have sex every day. Yes, we exist.
Technically that could be accurate if the meat is free. If either nobody bought it and it was donated by a grocery to a food bank, or for example, a co-worker bought it, didn't like it and offered it to others before throwing it away. Vegan is more about what you purchase and support than what you put in your mouth, and goes beyond just food. Then there's a "plant based diet," which is all about the food and what you eat. The two often overlap since most vegans are plant based, but they're not the same thing. Especially considering that many plant based eaters are not vegan. Actually I just now remembered a documentary on a group of dumpster divers in NY and a few of them were vegan but will eat whatever they find. A better example would be, "I'm vegan, but I purchase meat."
Holly Ball ok?
@@alyssaa1328 If someone doesn't contribute to animal suffering but has limited options (or even doesn't) and gets their food from a food bank or a dumpster, then I'm not going to turn them away and tell them they can't label themselves what they want or follow a certain philosophy, especially when they work so hard to follow that philosophy and avoid contributing to animal suffering. Which is what veganism was to me. A philosophy and a practice of that philosophy, not a diet. A plant based diet is just a result of veganism.
I also don't consider any being to be food, from a moral stance. But biologically speaking flesh does act as food and has done so for humans for a very long time. Since near the beginning of human evolution humans began eating flesh and started producing a special stomach acid to digest it and absorb the nutrients. So yes, flesh as food is an option for us since humans are omnivores. Biology and facts doesn't care about anyone's morals, and not everyone has the luxury of turning away free food.
My definition of veganism was developed many years ago before it became popular and the crazies took over the vegan internet space. Not that I'm complaining that it's popular now. The pros far outweigh the cons and this is what we always wanted. But in the past veganism was, first and foremost, about the animals and what we can do to end their suffering, or at least not contribute to it ourselves. When it did come to the people it was a more pleasant and open minded community. We didn't shame someone because their practice or interpretation of the philosophy didn't look exactly like ours. Now it seems to be more about the people rather than the animals, including gatekeeping and drama surrounding around who's vegan and who's not. Not my cup of tea and is partly why I distanced myself from the label. I just hope the concept is able to forge ahead despite the nonsense drama.
I love how you break everything down. I am a heterosexual female. But I am watching your videos to help learn about others because i am ignorant right now on the subject because I have never opened myself up to it. Love you Blaire!
"To deny it is... to be in denial". I just love Blaire so much.
I'm a drug addict but haven't used any drugs in my entire life...
This is deep
Make it make sense!
ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร and I hope you don’t actually think they’re being serious
Lie's Exposed TRUTH Restored I’m an Atheist but I pray to Jesus. I’m vegan but I eat meat. I’m a virgin but I have sex.
it is very possible to be a drug addict without using drugs your whole life, far more possible than really being trans without being dysphoric. wanting to be a dragqueen doesn't make you trans.
I love Blaire. She simply makes sense. I don’t understand how she is controversial.
Katie J I think 90% of the reason why Blaire is considered “controversial” by the people who think so is because she’s openly right wing/republican
I love her too she’s awesome
PC culture sadly. Full of nonsense and easily offended people.
@@lilak7181 honestly like lmao, you don't have to agree wit someone's every single opinion to like em. Stan blaire😌
Honestly half of them don’t watch her and just follow rumors or shit someone else has told them about her.
Blaire is actually such an intelligent woman, I absolutely love all your videos
I'm non-binary, and I have dysphoria. There are different levels of dysphoria, but you shouldn't transition if you don't have dysphoria
I see what you mean, I am a cis male but sometimes I feel dysforia when people tell me "you can't do this, you're a guy"
Threatening to drive to a woman's house and kill her is un-ladylike.
Yeah whats happened to assassination by poison, much more refined if you ask me.
@@dextrician5932 Real women still do that lol. Trenders didnt get the manual.
Not very gentlemanly, either, lol.
This person is obviously disturbed.
Facts aha 😂
*not very humanly*
that’s like me saying, i’m a lesbian but I could never be with a girl, ew!!
This is already happening with he/him lesbians (men who call themselves lesbians) and lesbians that are married to guys, not girls, guys. but their lesbian identity is still "valid"
Annie Dominguez some lesbians or gays are married to the opposite gender because they didn’t know any better. There could also be a slew of other reasons
kenny If you identify with masculinity to the point where you need to call yourself He/him then.. You don’t identify as a woman. So you can’t be a lesbian.
@@PrunelleLeroux It wasn't done because they were so masculine they identified as a man(or didn't identify as a woman) it was because it was *unsafe* for people to know they were a lesbian so in order to safely date women and present masculinely they referred to themselves as a male. It was for safety, they didn't ACTUALLY identify as men.
kenny He/Him lesbians who go by that for safety reasons are valid and understandable. What is not valid nor understandable is lesbians exclusively going by he/him pronouns. Saying that pronouns do not equal gender (e.g. I’m a female but I only go by he/him) is an open alleyway for people to misconstrue the importance of pronouns. Recently, TERFs have been saying pronouns don’t equal gender therefore misgendering a transperson is okay. That is what saying “I use he/him but I’m a women” is causing. It is allowing more transphobia to arise whether intentionally or not. Pronouns were made for the reason to identify someone as a male, female, or otherwise. He/him pronouns are male pronouns for men, not masculine identifying woman/GNC women. She/her pronouns are female pronouns for females, not feminine identifying men/GNC men.
My mother told me about transgender people when I was very young. She had a friend who had had the surgery. It was no big deal in my house. It was just a given that sometimes something happens and people are born into the wrong body. It was a very easy way for five year old me to understand things. I’m gen x btw. In the 1990s I learned about the Kinsey scale in psychology class. That scale wasn’t new then and it certainly isn’t now. I also learned that if the wrong hormone is released or the right one isn’t released during the gestational stage in which genitals are formed that it can result in any number of things happening one of these things is that babies who are genetically male but at the stage of gestation where genitals are formed the testosterone is disrupted then that baby would be born as genetically male but anatomically female or the opposite in the case of a person who is anatomically male but genetically female.
That idiot who threatened you is a menace.
firstly- her makeup looks so good in this video! ahh
second, people forget dysphoria can be felt in different ways for ppl. when i was younger my dysphoria was extremely crippling, but now that i’m older and know how to manage my mental state and pass to how i’m comfortable, it eases me most of the time. as long as you’re uncomfortable with your assigned gender, you don’t have to constantly feel like u wanna kys over it like how a lot of ppl think dysphoria is
I'm a millionaire .. I just don't have the money.
😂😂
Playbackjunkie you need more likes on this lmao
@@geminislytherin949 That one is actually possible.
Yet;)
I wish I was the exact opposite of this statement...
Imagine calling someone a scum and a bigot and then misgendering them *ON PURPOSE* that is so hypocritical
Then threatening to K I L L someone who has an opposing opinion
It's not surprising... They go to extremes for attention... Like their parents didn't hug them enough or their creepy uncle hugged them too much...
@@rebeccaconlon9743 LOL omg
They view Blaire as the “wrong kind” of trans, but don’t you dare misgender Yaniv ya fuckin bigot!
‘Being bald without having hair’ 😂☠️
I’ve been bingeing your channel ALL. DAMN. DAY. And I am loving everything. I feel called out when you look right at me and say ‘I know this isn’t your first video, I know you’re going to watch a few more’.
I'm asexual and I understand so much about how all these people changing definitions of my sexuality so they can fit into that bubble. Like for the longest time I thought being asexual was having the lack of desire for sex and now it's just about the "attraction" and having "low libido" doesn't make you asexual and it's really frustrating that i feel like I'm being pushed out of the asexual umbrella in a way.
,,Hi, I'm asexual, I'm sexually attracted people."
If you feel like your asexual and don't feel need to do the act nor want you, then identify as asexual:). It's a big spectrum afterall
I've read many people say shit like, "I am in a romantic relationship, we have sex, I initiate sex at least half the time. I also watch porn regularly and masturbate. I'm asexual." So many losers out there are so desperate to be some kind of label. Sadly, the LGBT+ community is suffering the most from these assholes who want to be "opperical." JLongbone came up with that word.
This also! I thought asexual meant having no desire to have sex whatsoever. But now it means not experiencing sexual attraction but you can still enjoy sex. And they are doing this with every sexuality now. Things used to have strict definitions, but now everything is an umbrella term and fluid.
I had low libido too
Imagine it.
All these men dressed as women saying they are trans haven't done 10% of the work Blaire has done to become a woman, yet have the balls (hehe) to claim Blaire, who actually looks like a woman, is doing it for attention.
The difference, when I first saw Blaire, I thought she was a woman. When I first see them, I immediately know they are men dressed as women.
Edit: It's OK to be a cross dresser. There is NOTHING wrong with dressing up like a woman to make yourself feel good. But don't call yourself trans, when you are clearly not, then attack others for doing it better than you.
@JW McCabe Agreed. I'm a delivery driver. I spent at least 4-6 hours a day alone in my car and I use that time to talk out loud and deal with my current financial or person problems. Doesn't mean I'm gonna go on meds.
I'm the "one of the guys" chick because I grew up with all boys and liked video games and legos and played in the dirt and mud, collected bugs and lizards. Back then it was called "Tom Boy". Thank God I was born back then or I'd probably be some poor 5 year old little girl forced to be a boy by stupid parents.
There's no such thing as ppl doing it better than others it's not a competition
@@kennethcouncillor6713 If it wasn't a competition to them, they wouldn't be using their platform to put Blaire down for having different ideas. Do you even watch the videos? Did you not read the death threats? The hate comments? It is a competition to them. It isn't to you or me, because it doesn't directly affect us. Take a step back and REALLY look at the difference between REAL trans women and cross dressers, then see which group is more aggressive towards to other.
I am more passable when I dress up for CosDay then most of these trans-trenders
@@trumpydog9441 There is a lot to gain defaming someone to prove they aren't a wolf in sheep's clothing, deflect, blend in and project.
in all seriousness, why is it when someone disagrees with blaire, their first move is to misgender her? like i don’t get how that makes their argument any more valid, it just makes them seem like a child.
Bc they belive its ok to be transphobic to ppl like Blaire, myself and other trans ppl that disagree with them.
Also they say he, while looking like men.
Grim Darhk yeah, that guy Blair was talking about is just a dude in drag. He’s also a transphobe.
I've had a girl litterally deny my race because I disagreed with judging black woman for their choices with their hair. The mindset is, if you don't agree with me obviously your not legit and therefore I can deny who you are
Especially when it often seems to be the same people who relentlessly bitch and moan about being misgendered themselves (and when they clearly haven't put the work into transitioning like Blaire has which just 🤷♀️🤦♀️). It doesn't make sense.
8:45 they just described being gender fluid. that is not transgender.
Blair you are absolutely right! What you say makes perfect sense. I understand gender dysphoria and I think most straight people can understand and accept that. It’s harder for straight people like myself to accept or understand the “I’m trans for attention “ people. It’s not that I’m transphobic or un accepting, it’s that it doesn’t make sense
I think they’re getting transgender and “cross dressing” mixed up
and gender expression 😑
Izzy what
Eddie Izzard calls himself trans now just because he's a transvestite.
I'm a cis-straight gal but I'mma just say... The concept of gender fluidity and non-binary gender is sooooooo dumb
Everyone gets way too offended these days. Blaire is a straight talker, she is very logical and that's why I like her.
Zoe Austin I couldn't agree more. She is very level headed and quite often misrepresented by her detractors.
Yess, also her videos are getting better and she's really respectfully explaining the topic so I don't get it
That's what made me Sub to her in the first place. I seen my first vid of hers last year and She is straight to the point, Doesnt beat around the Bush and goes straight into a discussion about the topic of her videos.
@Brittany D where did you get this from ahahabahha
@Brittany D how tho when she brings up the logic in almost everything 😂
being someone who at an early age realized people treat you differently when they feel sorry for you. i truly think others like me may have realized and continued to use this as a tactic or skill to "survive" in life for lack of better terms.
victimhood mentality seems to be close to the root of many of the problems we see arising today. the further root would be are there entities or groups out there conciously attempting to foster victimhood mentality in the population of ours and other cultures?
Trans community: "Science validates transgenders
Blaire: "Gender Dysphoria is the real trans science"
Trans community: YOU'RE A BIGOT!!!!
This person: doesn't respect Blair's pronouns
Also this person: Blair is transphobic!!!1!
Katherine Byers seeing blair you gonna reach so hard to call her a he !!
WHILE Blair respects THERE dysphoria!
Brittany D Well i mean, she won’t respect them but she’ll use they/them pronouns for them, rather than purposefully calling them other pronouns
Brittany D At least she'll use they/them pronouns most of time instead of acting childish like the other person was.
You can disrespect someone and still hold an opinion about them .. That's usually why you don't respect them ... It's childish but it's how most people act at some point or another ...
The second that person referred to Blaire with male pronouns they took any validity or believability for anything they might’ve said afterward.
David Pavlas Yeah, when I first found Blaire’s channel a few years ago, I was honestly shocked to find out she was trans.
“You’re invalidating trans people”
>Continues to use the wrong pronouns with Blaire
Uhhh...hypocrite much???
Agreed
5:07 shirt says "Forever Alone"
This is self awareness at its finest!!
There are different labels for trans specifically, Transvestite, Transgender, and TransSexual. I still don’t like that Trans and/or Transgender became an umbrella term to cover all three and more. This person seems like a cross-dresser or gender fluid maybe?
I'm pretty sure 'transvestite' is taken as a slur these days even though that's what this person is.
say it with me: gender expression is not the same as transitioning/being transgender.
Nobody sais it is, and that has nothing to do with genderfluid people
yes exactly thank you
RosesBubble genderfluid isn’t a thing
YES
I had an Annie Hall period(suits n ties, and am not nor was I male identifying.
Back in the 80s, everyone knew that Boy George was a man with makeup and Annie Lennox was a woman with short hair and a suit. No one made up these weird categories. It's just fashion...
Yet they had internalised homophobia and transphobia
I agree. Tomboys and femboys were a thing. Same goes for crossdressing and drag.
Now drag queens need to have ridiculous amount of make-up to not be confused for transtrenders.
Being a tombo/femboy is labelled as being trans. I'm rather feminime guy, but I'm not trans ffs. My sis is so tomboy people are confused what pronouns should they use.
@@emilian7052 that's why he said his sister is a tomboy🙄
Edit: wow you removing your comment and replying with the same emoji.
@@QueenHannah oh sorry hannah🙄
Lenny Pearl I know it's madness
I know I’m late but I completely agree with Blaire. Why does “Trans” have to be this umbrella term for anyone who isn’t cis? Why can’t “Gender” be the umbrella term if people really need one. Everyone has a different path in life and a different journey. The journeys of a transgender person and someone who is gender fluid, where they may be similar in some respects, are not the same. We experience different things, we live different lives. The word transgender literally comes from the Latin prefix “Trans” meaning “to change from” or “to change to”. That’s why we have cisgender from the Latin prefix “Cis” meaning “the same as”
If you say you dont need it to be trans, it takes away it not being a choice.
So basically, he just wants to wear makeup, dresses and lingerie. Definitely not transgender, but a cross dresser.
And that is fine as well! I think nowadays it's easier to 'just be trans' than to be a crossdresser. One is seen as part of LGBTQ+, the other as creepy
For sure its great but as someone who has lived 35 years on this earth and having struggled with gender dysphoria its a little hurtful to have been seen as someone recently transitioning just for attention.
@@jessicadeines It’s bloody ridiculous what people will do for attention. I’m so sorry about your very real struggle, unlike the idiot Blaire is talking about.
@@karinisvetcool you may be onto something. Perhaps this is why the meaning of trans has changed to become an umbrella term for most people
@@jessicadeines oof, people actually think you would do that? I believe trans can be used as an umbrella term, but to actually physically transition is such a big deal its not something done lightly in most cases. Like, I would never assume someone would go to those lengths simply for attention. That's awful.
On the overall topic, I'm not sure. Maybe transexual needs to become a popular term again to identify those who wish to physically transition, but trans could still be used as an umbrella term for other gender identities? I dunno, I'm a gender nonconforming cis woman, so I don't know if I have much room for input here.
knew a "gender-fluid" girl who said she felt masculine when she was angry and feminine when she was feeling caring towards someone and stuff.. I'm sorry but that's stupid and sexist. women are allowed to feel anger and men should feel caring and nurturing too, there's no limitation to that. often I feel that "trans by essence" is just perpetuating stereotypes.
We all are masculine. We all are feminine. No matter who you are you have both and they aquire different traits. Its just like yin and yang, we have balance that makes us whole (when we are healthy and at our most optimal the balance is where it needs to be).
But its REALLY strange how that person felt as though the more aggressive "maculine" and more peaceful "feminine" were changing her gender and making it fluid. I feel as though THAT mindset specifically is very unhealthy because it invalidates tomboys for instance, and pretty boys for example... i feel as tho that kid needs to read a book and do some more critical thinking on their own for a few years before they go on calling themselves "gender fluid" based on something so.... elementary to literally everyone 🤔 despite the fact that everyone is different, its something we ALL have in common- its just at varying degrees and can wane and wax throughout people's lives.
I like what you said about stereotypes though, because i think you are right on, there's definitely something to that- i gotta think more about that!
@@katatonic726 lol my thoughts reading every comment on this video
Transgenderism *IS* perpetuating stereotypes. I'm not saying that gender dysphoria isn't real -- it is. But pretty much any form of transitioning involves stereotypes, which is why trans women often appear more feminine than actual women. Some trans people rise above it, but for a lot of others, especially those that *don't* even experience GD, being female basically amounts to "I like high heels and pink lace", which is stereotypically associated with femininity.
My two cents: you definetely need gender dysphoria to be transsexual, not necessarily to be transgender (a broader term). I firmly believe the use of the term transsexual would solve all our semantic issues. Unfortunately many extremists in the community don't seem to like that term being used and I was often lectured/attacked/silenced.
People don't like that term because transsexual implies changing one's sex which is impossible. Stick with transgender.
@@chcamerica22 Nah, I am not sticking to an extremely broad term if my medical record is on stake. I get what you mean, but I am sure those people will live on.
This video should be re-released as it has EXTREMELY valuable information
I met a girl last year who has been pretending to be on Testosterone for 3 years. Her voice has not changed a bit, she posts T updates with literally no physical change. There are absolutely people out there who use the trans label for attention.
Wow imagine being that sad to pretend to be on t
Pim WOW 😳
wtf
@@emilian7052 What bothers me the most is that people enable it. Usually she posts "it's my t anniversary :)))" on a certain date and every one just falls for it and sucks up. It's very sad, yes
don’t be shy, give us the @ :)
Blaire could sneeze and at least 12 people would be offended
How dare she sneeze 😒, she's so arggggggggg
This comment just proves that you have no idea about what the other side is like but it surely must be compfy in your little echo chamber.
Takke Okay good for you sir/ma’am/pal. ☺️
@@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man I'm surely enjoying myself in open discourse.
well at a time when a sneeze can put you on a ventilator thats understadable
that gender fluid person"Vera" needs to watch silence of the lambs, a lot of similarity ...it puts the lotion on it's skin.
I'm glad you safe and didn't get hurt from that one crazy person!
I also agree with you, the point of being trans is having gender dysphoria! That's 100% a fact.
Notice how none of these non dysphoria 'trans' people ever actually transition and just wear clown makeup lol
And this is why clowns are creepy. lol
It's when most of them take the extreme image of a woman, take Picasso and food colouring and crayons and go "bam" I'm a woman because I coloured my face to look like a panto dame
I'm willing to bet its just a classic case of man with weird fetish likes dressing up as a woman but that that's weird and you don't get any woke points for that
Exactly ! And shitty horrible makeup at that. Doesn’t even look cute !
They got their dress on sale, but they got their body for free.
Imagine looking like a literal ogre and calling Blaire "he"
You have so many relationships in this life
Only one or two will last
You go through all the pain and strife
Then you turn your back and they're gone so fast
Oh yeah
And they're gone so fast, yeah
Oh, so hold on the ones who really care
In the end they'll be the only ones there
And when you get old and start losing your hair
Can you tell me who will still care?
Can you tell me who will still care?
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁what
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁 I’m confused.
@@keeganstershic1522 Of you know, you know 😄
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁 uh?
"Im trans but i dont have dysphoria"
NO NO NO!
But what about if u change in every way to being female, and completly lived that way but don't have dyshoria?
What happened to like 5 years ago when everyone was against labels 😂
Can we talk about how Pretty Blaire looks
when does she not look that pretty? im lowkey jealous
Yeah her hair and skin looks great in this video
yes we can
No
@@Jo_Wardy I can see why...
It's like people forget that cross dressing is a thing and has been forever. Cross dressing ad being trans are different.
Exactly. Sometimes I dress like a guy for fun, but I am still a woman.
exactly. nowadays, the internet brings things into the extreme. i've heard a few stories of people who were told they were trans when they werent
Yep that's right and I think alot of these so called trans that put no effort beside dying there hair and a lil makeup are just loving being labelled trans and getting the attention of either being a woman or a trans .
When my mates dresses in drag and gets all done up you can't tell but it takes him a good couple of hrs he live getting the attention from men a woman might get and gets flirty ASF but it's just having fun.
It's not he's identity and alot of these teams at the end of the day are just cross dressing with long hair and a lil make up...
@@shanebeckett3557 But Vera is not only make up and long hair. She is on testosterone, she had physical changes in her body. She IS genderfluid, so sometimes she tends to be more masculine and she still has her male genitals, but it's not fair to her to just put her in the crossdressing group, knowing that her transition was more than just pink hair and make up. I agree is more complicated, because it's not a full transition. But I think is something else than just crossdressing. This is a part of her identity
People who were cross dressing as part of everyday life used to be transvestites. No surgery - transvestite. Surgery - transgender. Was easy to tell the difference because the words hadn't lost their meaning into the void of the politically correct.
I used to have such extreme gender dysphoria that it would drive me insane. As I've gotten older, I started to just.. accept myself for who I am rather than drive myself crazy for something that I will never have physically. I wish I could be a certain way but I can't honestly and I've accepted that y'know?
I used to wish every night I'd wake up as the opposite gender. As I grew older, the dysphoria started to resolve and now at 30, I can remember what it felt like but I don't have those feelings anymore. Wish I knew what it was that 'fixed' it but I think for a lot of people it resolves itself. Scares me how many kids are going on puberty blockers and never have the chance to organically decide after growing into their body if transitioning is something they really want. I had dysphoria all the way up through my mid 20s but it was manageable starting around age 18. I don't know the answer to this 'debate' other than case by case and that it's really not my place to decide for anyone else or their kids. Shrug.
@@lqa77 Exactly--case by case makes the most sense here.
I feel like life would be so much easier if we didn’t need to label things for people that don’t understand. If we could all just be who we are and love who we love without judgment from other people we would not be fighting this fight. I refuse to label myself. I love who I love and I am who I am. And I accept all that you are! Do you ❤️
blaire with her hair curled hits different
Sean Edmonson she wears them rn, just curled them instead of straightening
Oh sorry I couldn’t tell, I don’t know too much about hair lol. I just knew that recently she hadn’t been wearing them in a few videos
@@seeawn probably bc extensions blend in more with curled hair
Regardless, Blair always looks amazing.
It’s so cuuuuuuuuuuuuute I can’t 🥺🤍 totally support her doing more ‘romantic’ styles (or whatever you call this)
why is it that ever trans person without dysphoria so aggressive when it comes to dealing with people with dysphoria？ like wth
They literally shouldn't be speaking, but they are so loud that they speak over everyone else
Calling trans people a literal actual slur is totally okay if they happen to think you need dysphoria to be trans lol.
They probably know deep down they're a trender and they get super defensive about it too feel better.
that's how they force their way into the community, sadly
@@JamesLacroixx uh.. no? Why?
I love how you speak the truth about the trans community and you’re a trans person you know what they’re doing to children and things like that and I am praising you for it you go girl❤
A doctor with a PhD on this app made a few videos about this and she said dysphoria can be very mild to the point of just discomfort to very severe which most trans people go through. I'm currently trying to figure out my gender identity and being raised as the typical boy all my life I just got used to it but now and for a couple years on and off I question myself and know that I'd feel Happier as a woman but I don't want to make any major changes because I don't want to be looked down upon by even the trans community for experiencing only mild dysphoria. I'm really just trying to find myself here.
"I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria" .... then you're not trans....
Anybody can be anything and everything they want all at the same time...
As said by half of all residents in every psych ward in the world.
I feel like people forget that tomboys exist and feminine men exist. It's like if you don't fit into this box of what men and women stereotypically are, you must be trans which is not the case. It's also kind of ironic that these same people will talk about how they hate gender roles, but decide if someone is trans or not based on whether or not they fit into these little boxes. I personally used to think I was trans, I questioned it on and off for years. But recently I came to the conclusion that I am just a lesbian (a butch one at that). I also talked a lot with a couple of friends about my feelings of being trans and one of them told me that we don't have to fit into these boxes of what men and women are "supposed" to be. It really helped me, honestly.
I'm not sure if anything I said make sense, but I hope my point still gets across.
I grew up as a big tomboy I still am at 24, but I also really like to dress pretty and girly. This doesn't make me trans or whatever this gender fluid is or even gay! I'm a female. I know I am I just like to do my hair and dress in skirts but loves to hunt, go fishing and muscle cars and video games. What ever happened to masculine women or women that just like different things? This whole trans thing has put everyone in a spin. You can't just be like what I mentioned above you gotta be trans now because you're different. It irritates me to the core. On a side note as well being a lesbian seems to be fading out of the LGBT community. Just IMO. I never hear about lesbians anymore its either gay bi or trans and non binary. It's like they threw the lesbians under the rug. And I think it's because it goes against the "communities" new beliefs. Yes girls can be girls but like girls without being trans or such. But not to the "community" you not only gotta hate straight guys but also anything feminine now too. That probably doeant makes sense and requires more info but I'm on my phone typing this 😂
It's like some groups of the alphabet soup people are desperate for more people to be included in their special little group.
I'm a bisexual tomboy. I am NOT trans anything!
I've gotten into arguments with people that tomboy/femboys is the exact same thing as "gender fluid" since some times we're more feminine/masculine then others.
@@resurrectionevil6581 I agree, bisexuality is the most common sexuality among lgbt I believe which is fine and all, but there really aren't a lot of lesbians. There's a lot of trans men though, I've noticed. I'm in some lgbt groups online and younger people will talk about how they're questioning if they're trans, but then they just describe being a tomboy. It's okay to question, but you really don't need to be like, hyperfeminine to be a girl and it seems like people forget that.
@@1everydayperson Right! Sometimes it feels like it's more about the label than anything and it's really frustrating.
@@lordjreen it's a huge part of why I left them.
We don't need new words when we have old words that describe the exact same things as the new words.
I don't understand wanting to identify as trans AND genderfluid/nonbinary... it's kind of an oxymoron isn't it?
Thank you for explaining this concept. I was confused, but you have clarified this for me.
I love how Blaire is treated as a radical person when all she's doing is being sensible lmao
In this day and age, it's radical to be sensible...
@@rebeccaconlon9743 these days, it's radical for you to be anything except an SJW fourth wave feminist
Not necessarily sensible to gatekeep and give transphobes ammo to hate trans people even more. Just let people express themselves Jesus fuck.
Yes, folk have become so progressive that they’re regressive and being a sensible, sane person who uses science somehow means you’re a “radical”.
I hate 2020, so fucking much.
@@angelexperiment1698 The people that claim to be trans without gender disphoria are the ones that give ammo to transphobes. I do agree with letting people express themselves but many of these people take it too far.
One of my best friends in highschool transitioned when she was in grade 10. She had to change schools because of the bullying and hate. She got hate for not passing, she got hate for passing 'too well' because straight boys were upset, she got hate for coming out of the closet as a lesbian.
Her new school treated her (mildly) better, but she was struggling much harder pre-transition. She went from low, sometimes failing grades, to honour roll status, and now she's a municipal politician in my home town.
A lot of the same people who bullied her in grade ten, (2011) became "trans" in 2016 when it was "cool" to be gender non-conforming. None of them are currently trans, none of them did anything beyond occasional cross dressing, if that. It broke my heart honestly.
Your friend is a very strong, very cool woman. Please let her know she inspired me 😎👍
Your friend's awesome.
Also, 2011 still doesn't feel like that long ago and she seems so young to be a politician already! @__@!!!
"I'm depressed, I don't have depression."
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