The Trans Community Is Mad At Me (What's New?)
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- Опубликовано: 31 авг 2021
- Reacting to backlash from the trans community and a bunch of Trans Tik Toks!
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These people really be like "gender reveal parties are sO wEiRd" as if they're not throwing a constant gender reveal party for THEMSELVES... Okay.
yep I can't believe that person kept pushing their genitals in my face, disgusting
@@antzooma oh sweetie, we don't give a dam
@@but_iWantedTo_speakGerman oh dear
@@but_iWantedTo_speakGerman ooh someone is triggered
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Blair is a great example of a Trans person that is centered/grounded. Others hate her because they aren’t. That’s it. Nothing more.
interesting how she even appears normal (doesn't have colored hair, piercings or clown like makeup like all the people with extreme thoughts do)
@@EmilyPorter Leave me and my weirdly-coloured hair alone! 😭
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He is a man
Biological male why are you calling him a female
And because Blair is drop dead gorgeous and a lovely person.
She's beautiful, funny and so grounded!
I had a small gender reveal for my pregnancy. I cried from joy when I found out I was having a daughter. I'm so glad I have that memory. People trying to make it about genitals is perverse.
I didn't really understand your comment until that tiktok came on. What I can't fathom is how these people would prefer to teach their children that they're just one big question mark. Their own parent's can't figure out what they are for them. What children need is security and a strong base. I feel like these people are going to take pride in the fact that their children started soul searching before they were potty trained. What all these people have in common is narcism, everything revolves about them .
That's so weird too the gender is obviously only one 🤦
@Percilott yeah theirs a new law in Florida so that teachers can't interfere with these things bc it is none of their buisness
Same people that want to talk about genitals constantly.
@Percilott There used to be stricter rules. You used to be required to go through years of therapy and living as the gender you identify with before receiving hormones or surgeries. As the years have gone on from 20-30 years ago, those requirements have been removed because people didn't want to wait or examine why they identify the way they do or feel they identify the way they do.
Blaire is so lovely for not giving her nieces and nephew a hard time over them calling her uncle. She is such a sweet lady.
Lol that’s a whole dude. Of course he’s not gonna force children into calling him something he’s not.
@@ninalempicka2948 if you don’t believe blaire is a woman why do you even watch her??? obviously she isn’t a biological woman but it makes no sense to even call her he, she doesn’t look like a guy at all. apply this to real world situations, people are gonna be confused as fuck if you started calling someone who looks female “he”
@@ninalempicka2948 it’s not a dude tho…
@@tylerxxc1783 he has a whole wee-wee. it's a dude.
@Nina Lempicka
*She
This modern woke culture has really ruinined my preception of trans people. But I found you and I just cannot describe the amount of respect I felt for you.
Agreed. With all these cringey woke people I honestly turned off against a few movements. Mainly cuz they harm the cause their fighting for than do actual good.
Those are just the people in the community that yell the loudest. I know a few Trans people who honestly just want to live their life in peace and hope to pass for the gender they identify with, but definitely don't want to call attention to themselves.
These guys arw making people hate lgbtq community lol… good way to go
I agree. The more I watch the news, the more polarized I can feel myself becoming, so I like to watch moderate politics to clear my head.
@@nekomimi5861 non-binary aren't trans they don't transition! They want to feel like they are special for dying their hair and getting face piercings no participation trophies for you in life babies
There was a time the LGBT community detested labels, now they want to label EVERYTHING. And anything that is slightly different, needs their own label.
Well except for straight 😂
I’ve seen a feminine guy and a masculine girl couple on TikTok call themselves LGBT because they don’t act typically for their gender, they’re literally just straight lmao
Pansexual vs Bisexual..
It’s like the flag one flag for all no one left out now the flags been split up everyone has their own it’s heartbreaking we were all one unit but now divided thanks to fucking idiots like shown here
Can someone explain to me, whyyyyyyy do all these non-binary people ALL HAVE ATTITUDE PROBLEMS??? They ALWAYS try to force people to change how they speak. And when you don't change, they try to make you out as a bigot.
Whyyyyyyy do they always have such big stuck-up mouths about their identities? Whyyyyyyy do they always act so up their own backsides like everything they say is just the word of God, so you better don't disagree. What's wrong with them?
When gay was new, gays never had any of this attitude problem. They were just campaigning for rights. No more than that
I love how that person felt that coming out as nonbinary is as significant to humanity as finding out the earth is round.
Exactly . Off-the-charts narcissism
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"It's literally a way for people to feel special."
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Participation trophies
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LOL If they didn't have this no one would notice them. These people need attention much. Seriously a generation of people who won't grow up. They think that people should be subject to there rules. I don't scratch my head unless it itches i don't grab my stomach if i'm not hungry . I am not going to be intimidated.
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The funny thing is that most of these people are hypocrites. They talk about how they don't want labels but ends up labelling every single sexuality, gender, feelings. They are putting themselves in a box.
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It blows my mind how much people are willing and expecting to be labeled and put into specific categories nowadays. Growing up, I remember my generation, gen xer here, not wanting to be labeled or shoved into boxes. Now people want to be shoved into a box?
YUP. "We don't want to be labeled. Now respect my labels or we'll get you fired from your job"
They want power. Making it the norm to "validate my identity or I'll get you fired and doxxed" gives people a lot to wield.
@@NotAdultingToday As an early Millennial (born in 1980), I completely agree with everything in your statement. (Please don’t tell my Gen Z daughter though, she would crucify me for this, or even for commenting on one of Blair’s ”complicated” RUclips videos!😂)
“I don’t care what they [nephew/niece] call me, all I care is that I’m in their life and they love me”
That’s true family love and support right there, all around with everyone. I’m glad you have that in your life!
You literally being “she who must not be named” is actually hard, that’s badass
Okay, I HAVE to say this. I'm 50+ years old. As far as I know, I had never even met a trans person until about 7 years ago, and I didn't even know she was trans until she told me. I didn't even know what trans WAS until she told me. Now it seems everywhere I go there is trans politics, gender identity politics, non-binary, gender fluid, the list goes on, with new labels coming out every other day. If you people can't keep everything straight, how do you expect the rest of us to?!? I feel like my brain is imploding, melting and seeping out of my ears!!!
If you look like a guy, sound like a guy, and act like a guy, my brain and my upbringing says 'guy' and that's what I call you. If you look like a girl, sound like a girl, and act like a girl, my brain and upbringing says 'girl' and the same applies. I don't believe in more than two genders. Science only sees 2 genders, male and female, except for certain species that are a-sexual, but that doesn't relate to homo-sapiens.
I am a tough old 'tell it like I see it' B**** and I am not going to apologize for not erasing 50+ years of education and upbringing just to cater to the world's current hysteria.
No one's asking you to apologize, you're not being attacked lol.
@@313eve you are absolutely correct :). No one has attacked me, in THIS comment section. But believe me, I've been called everything under the sun in other places when I've made similar comments.
lady, i don’t like this gender nonsense either but how is your brain imploding and melting at neo genders lol i hope i don’t grow up to be that dumb when im older
@@naturalbornbabe I guess you don't understand metaphors. The fact that an ever-growing amount of the population are stupid enough to buy into this insane drivel blows my mind.
I remember about four years ago when I was working part-time at my community college, they had added a "gender neutral" bathroom in my building, which was around the time we started seeing people use all these different pronouns and stuff. When I asked my boss what she meant by "gender neutral", she told me that it was for people who identified as male, female, transgender, bisexual, etc. Then I realized that it was basically a unisex bathroom but with a different name 🤣
I always feel like the “genders” they describe is just secretly means “personalities”
Yes. That's exactly it. They're accepting traditional gender roles while pretending they're not.
True, I don't think they get it tho 😂
100%. Look on the reddits around gender. It's probably 99% 10-17 year olds who seem to think gender is the same as personality... It's sad.
@@caitthecat yesss that's exactly what I've thought about this all too. If you have to define yourself so minisculy you are looking at gender roles or their perspective in what is feminine or masculine you are reinforcing those. Me and my husband had traits in each of us that could be by some culture or time masculine or feminine.
Or dress sense
People who say they have "fluid" genders just confuse genders with stereotypical personality traits and mood
Yep
@@scarwars in Polish there's a word "samopoczucie" which literally means self-feel. It describes one's general well-being, mood, mental state at the moment. Google translate suggests: fettle, fig, frame of mind. IDK which one of those is the closest to the Polish term, if any. But that's what they're confusing with gender.
@@Sylkis89
'Frame of Mind' is by far the better fit ...
Many, if not most, have a pretty solid grasp of their 'Frame of Mind' when it comes to whom they are, who they see themselves as being, and their understanding of what their sexuality is.
But that still leaves, statistically speaking, enough room for people like me who, in my case, experienced such severe trauma in my childhood all the way through to my early adulthood, that any 'reference frame' I have of myself is not 100% affixed, and, in many aspects, the boundaries are really blurry.
It is, then, easy to point to people like these, and either call them clowns, or so boring, they have to make something up to make themselves interesting, especially to themselves.
But that leaves out a huge number of people that went through trauma, in their childhood, that any sense of that 'frame' feels like it's almost broken.
And no, that trauma need not be always sexual in nature. Since my mum died nearly two years ago, the thing that I have had being ignoring the most is her rôle in the mental, emotional, and psychological neglect of my sister and I, that almost gave permission to allow my dad to do what he did, over years, because of the co-dependant relationship they had, and especially her narcissistic personality. Our mum did way more to ruin my sister and I than our dad could ever do ...
Hence, my gut instinct says that these people aren't crazy, per-se, but, if you take an especially Jungian approach to their childhood, you may find, in each individual case, just enough that, at least, that 'frame of mind' is tilted, to being totally non-existent; they they try to compensate for that, but then over-compensate, in trying, as I have done for so long, to anchor myself to something solid rather than just sand ...
I don't want to denigrate anyone, especially anyone whom when through a truly horrific childhood, but, again going with my gut instinct, the reason why so much of this has cropped up recently is due, in part, to mental health care being even lower in many places, including here in the UK, where there is already a crisis in public health ...
So, in other words, what we are seeing is the possible result of enough of at least the last two generations, feeling utterly detached from themselves, but, without a kind of bedrock beneath them, with the combination of a lack of a decent anchor, and left to their own devices, they are simply to 'muddle through', thus creating a system of deeply troubled logic, which, for us looking outside-in, makes no sense, whatsoever, but, for those within, makes sense, abet due to the deeply flawed logic created ...
I'm not saying pity them, but don't judge them too harshly, either ...
Couldn't have said it better myself
@@nigelft I'm very sorry you had to go through that trauma. In my opinion, the best way to go about the skewed or unsureness of the frame of mind is to NOT try to label yourself. Instead, just BE. Do what makes you happy and comfortable without feeling the need to attach anything to it. And if someone asks your gender/sexuality, just say that you're testing the waters. It's okay to not know who you are. I have no idea about certain aspects of myself because of my own traumas. It took my until I was 20 to solidly confirm I was a woman, which was great for me because now I feel more comfortable in expressing myself... Which is exactly why I give this advice, had I not tried to label myself, I would have been able to feel this level of comfort before without questioning everything about myself.
I'm still not entirely sure of my sexuality, but now I try to shrug it off and just say that I love whoever I love and whether I feel sexual attraction towards them doesn't matter.
Not actual trans people calling a sane actual transwoman transphobic. Ah wow.
Well, if they won't accept you, a ton of us people will and have.
I just met someone like you recently and I'm so happy you both exist. I'd gladly use your pronouns, but that's because of respect, nothing to do with validation or you seeking attention. You and my friend give respect to my opinions, biology and position. So you get mine in return. Thank you for being you! ❤🥰
This is my take on the baby gender reveal thing. At the time I found it I was pregnant I was still woke but becoming a bit weary of it. I had friends ask me if I was going to assign my baby a gender or if I was going to raise them gender neutral. I thought about it a lot and I realized. Raising your baby gender neutral is STILL assigning your baby a gender. It's just gender neutral. And I started realizing that if my baby grows up and identifies as the sex she was born as which but the bigger likelihood I would be stealing her chance at having a normal childhood AND her girlhood away from her. On the off chance that she did decide to be trans her life would not be over. We would still love and support them best we can but raising them in a very strange and unusual fashion that would make them the prime target for bullying on the very small chance of that happening wouldn't be doing them a service. It would be comparable to preemptively removing your child's appendix just in CASE they get appendicitis. Why would I do that to them? Lol.
Yep. Exactly. The chance of your daughter being transsexual is so rare.
I definitely don't like the way raising your kid "gender neutral" is perceived today. Like, of course, let your kid be a girl or a boy but in my opinion raising kids neutral is simply just treating boys and girls the same. Which should not be ground breaking lol. I grew up with a conservative baby boomer dad and even he got it. I had 1 younger brother close in age and we were always treated the same. We got whatever toys we wanted and since we were siblings they often had to be the same ones or someone would get mad lol. We both had to mow the lawn, fold laundry, same curfews, rules etc. We dressed up and played princesses and then we'd pay football outside. Both of us identify as our assigned sexes. I just don't like it when people try to force kids to be a certain way just because of their sex. I feel like trying to enforce gender rules on kids could confuse them into thinking they're trans when they're not.
It's not our job as parents to decide who our kids are gunna be. That's up to them. We are there to teach a value system and moral code. Right vs wrong. Basic courtesy and life skills. Their identity is 100% all them. Idc if my son decides to be gay, Trans or anything else as long as he still handles his shit in life. Safely. It's not my choice either way.
Imagine if all these people who spend so much time learning about new gender identities and pronouns that change and are added to daily, actually used that effort to learn something useful and productive 🤷♀️
So true, or used that time or energy to empower themselves to feel more confident from within and to come to terms with their place in the world in order to begin pursuing their goals.... Seems they are seeking to belong to “something”, as opposed to just being comfortable within their self. It may be more productive to channel that into just being who they are, without labels or rules to being accepted, or the desire to belong to something outside of themselves. But then again, maybe that’s just thinking about it in an overly simplistic way, and perhaps the issue or root of the problem goes deeper and is actually an affliction imposed by our parents or society as a whole and the design on which our social structure has been built....
Or actually used that energy to fight for real change.
Or just learn about themselves in a real way. They have no idea who they are actually. They’re all on a bandwagon and it’s desperately sad. They’re wasting their best years and will truly regret it in ten years. A wasted generation. This is exactly why parents need to parent and not indulge every whim your children have. Children need to learn what disappointment feels like and how to overcome it. They need to learn it’s more than ok to be just like everyone else. You find your happiness within yourself, not from faceless likes and shares on a screen. It is really depressing to think about. So glad I grew up before all of this.
They are mostly marxists. Productivity is oppression.
It's sad because most of the people doing this have great potential for intelligence in other ways, yet they choose this route deemed by the internet. They have the capacity but not the direction. This is why it's important for parent to guide their children to learn in ways they are interested in before this happens. So much potential being lost because they have no direction other than things like tiktok.
Identity is a part of the ego. The more Self-absorbed you are the more you're going to care about what people think of you and how people interact with you. It's egotistical to think that everyone that comes into contact with you needs to adjust their vocabulary for an interaction with someone. Do you know how many times as a gay man I've heard ma'am in the drive thru or on the phone. I don't correct them, because it's not a big deal.
How about we call you a she then?
@@takke9830 Just don't call me Shirley
@@takke9830 Girl, I'm gay. People call me she / her / b*tch /F*g whatevs
This is the most privileged and obtuse--
.oh wait...A white cis gay man...Ok. checks out.
@@takke9830 You came. You tried. You failed.... owned 😂
Gen Z is ruining the LGBT+ community and they don't even realise it.
Blossom isn't gen Z.... But that dude is definitely helping ruin that community.
Gen z and some millennials.
Im a straight 45yr old woman who’s been “accused” of being a homophobe/bigot.
I ABSOLUTELY love your content!
You’re leading the charge in getting “actual” trans folks to be taken seriously. Bc these crazy ass woke fakers are bringing “legitimate and true” trans folks down.
Keep fighting the good fight!
Peace and Love for all….!
Some one called me transphobic because I didn't use the right pronouns I just laughed at them
the entitlement to insist people remember you go by they/them, when most people use he and she based on a visual representation. its subconscious, no ones trying to insult you, you just dont occupy that much space in most peoples brains. i have a hard enough time remembering peoples names.
Not to mention the English-centrism. Lots of languages do not have a singular neutral term, and many others have a designated singular-neutral term. I bet in those languages, they would still come up with a new pronoun that they want people to use.
Exactly!! They are so obsessed with themselves they can't comprehend others not being even slightly interested in their lives. Like do whatever you want but don't expect me to know you go by moon frog princess as your gender 😐
Thank you!!! I’ve been saying this for some time now and it’s true. I’ve never heard of they/them till I got in my last college and god damn the times I mispronounced someone, I was getting eye rolled and pissed off looks from these bitches with a purple or green mullet. I can’t remember a name for the life of me, how am I suppose to remember what you go by when all I see is a born female with feminine features and tits standing before me.
@@ukallii Latinx grinds my gears. They try to implement thee gender neutral terms in LATIN LANGUAGES and it always pisses me off so much, people, why is it so important to you? Normal, functioning people don't get that upset when someone mistakes them for the opposite gender unless they're really insecure about themselves.
Most people who are non binary physically look like a woman/man which is ironically within the very binary they claim they dont relate to.vLike Demi Lovato who hasnt physically changed. No wonder people dont take it seriously.
"Uncle." That's putting your family first without even giving it a second thought. I bet your nieces and nephews give you lots of kisses and cuddles and love. Because that's what loving others brings. More power to you, Blaire.
It's just gonna confuse them when they get older. Idk why she doesn't gently correct them now while they're still young and have flexible minds. Little kids don't give a shit.
@@ross3015 As long as those kids are healthy, happy, well-adjusted members of society full of love for others, I'm good. I see no problem. I haven't taken a single step in Blaire's shoes, so I dare not presume how she should interact with her nieces and nephews.
@@time4jesus Agreed. Blaire is clearly a sensible, based person - AND I suspect she discussed how to approach this issue with the kids parents. I'd 100% trust her to act with tact and integrity. Some people just have to fault find, no matter what.
@@ross3015 correct what? She feels fine with THEM taking the decision to call her uncle or aunt. Stop this BS
@@ross3015 im pretty sure her nephew is like 15
I’m trans woman and i am not mad at Blaire at all. She is amazing. Ignore them all Blaire..
I was banned from a Discord server the other day for posting one of Blaire's recent Tweets in the politics channel. This is insanity.
it’s a politics channel yet you can’t talk about politics? that’s just unreal
“You just said dad” lmfao. These people are impossible to reason with.
Do the even hear themselves, it's so funny
It’s like people saying they are non-binary lesbian. Like, hello? If I am not mistaken, being lesbian is defined as a woman having attractions to other women.
@@snipermonkey3269 lmaoo. so accurate
@@kirinirlf yeahhh. i have some non-binary 'lesbian' friends. i have known them a long while and during the pandemic they cane out as enby. so..idk. i think the pandemic has made a lot of people confused.
@@kirinirlf this!!!
She’s just so brutally honest and I’m sorry but she is just saying what we are afraid to
Never be sorry about what you mean. Stand by what you say! Even if it's not true, that doesn't matter. To you it is true and that should be more than enough ^^
Blaires gotten much kinder over the years, to be honest. There's a gentle tone in this video that she hasn't always had.
Never be sorry hun!
And she doesn't do it in a way that's hateful or strawman-ish like most conservatives do.
@@minoru8391 🧐
Once I started seeing pronouns on LinkedIn and resumes I just wanted to shove my head into the ground and forget the world.
Welcome to Texas!!
I just discovered your videos and absolutely love you! I see myself as a mostly conservative, Christian, female American.
I've been watching your videos and I see so much compassion and wanted to say hello to you. I truly hope you find your happiness here in Texas. Good luck in your new home and God bless you, Sweetheart. You give me hope that more people have love in their heart and will not judge others based on their appearance but what's in their heart. You obviously have a lot of love in your heart.
Love you, Gorgeous!
Conservative Christian American Woman here to say me too!
You guys are a joke. God doesn’t condone transgender people no matter how conservative they pretend to be. Don’t call yourself a Christian if you get fooled so easily.
Same
I’m Australian and if I could live anywhere in America it’d be Texas probably Houston
I just LOVE that you look 1000 times better than every one of these haters
Yes how very superficial of you
Pretty low bar, just sayin XD
That's probably half the reason they have an issue with her, lol.
Nair
@@littleceaser7268 ohhh ouch I was called superficial, how will i continue to live XDD
Honestly, the misEHder person actually has the right idea. If people (especially strangers) don't automatically call you the exact way you want, just shrug and don't let it affect you.
yeah I agree
Same, she/he/they (don’t know them) we’re really funny and I enjoyed their video clip.
But why make up a whole new word for it? Just seems attention seeking.
@@voodooprincess11 it's called 'joking'
Exactly. Offence is taken. Not given.
What you said about being an uncle to your nieces and nephews is so relatable. I’m the oldest of my siblings & the youngest still call me their brother because that’s how they first knew me. It’s never out of hate, or not accepting me.
What should be relatable that you were born as one sex and you cannot change this fact. Blair can't either, yet he think he is a woman. Being woman/man is a biolohical fact, not a custom which you and Blair van pick and wear.
People trying to explain all these genders feels like listening to a breakdown of the omegaverse
Don't you DARE disrespect the omegaverse like that 😂😂
Does it ever feel like they’re conflating gender with personality traits and just naming them as a gender. Becoming Pokémon so to speak to appear even more unique than they actually are. New ones every year.
Yes! 🙄 they’re so focused on feminine and masculine traits and correlating them to “genders”, completely ignore the fact that being feminine doesn’t make you female, and being masculine doesn’t make you male. You can have more feminine traits and be male and have more masculine traits and be female.
exactly!
@@mystique592 *boy
@@deathhwishh3072 Good luck little one. Keep growing.
@@deathhwishh3072 you're only 13 yo. You don't know what you will feel at 20 or 30. I just hope that you didn't get surgery or invasive meds. You're still a child, it's normal for teenagers and tweens to be lost and to dislike their body/genre. I don't understand the urge of being trans at such a young age but hey, you do you and I wish you happiness and balance in your life
I think it's really sweet that Blair would still let her neices and nephews call her "uncle" and still keep them in her life. She knows one day they might have to adapt to call her "Auntie" but instead of being mad she just loves them
They call him uncle , because they know he is a man no matter what he has done to look otherwise. No one can change that. I can put feathers on a dog , but it won't make him a chicken will it .
@@AndresRodriguez-sm1fr you are part of the problem
Blair is awesome
@@patchworkvrc6693 no your part of the problem for throwing a hissy fit whenever someone doesnt agree with you
@@AndresRodriguez-sm1fr calm down ma'am. It's not that serious.
I’m a straight 48 year old woman who loves your channel. I consider myself a kind person who wants the best for everyone but sometimes trans advocates make my head spin. I want to understand and be an ally but sometimes it’s hard when what they are saying makes no sense. Especially when it comes to kids. Thank you for being a voice of reason.
I'll give the "misEHndering" girl some credit. People are way too quick to get pissed and call you a bigot when you dare to accidentally use a term that you subconsciously register but that they don't like. I appreciate that she can just take it which is much more than you can say about most people who call themselves non-binary
You can tell these people have never lived in third world country where the last worry will be your “pronouns”.
I've encountered a lot of people that say the want to get rid of the American flag and replace it with the Pride flag at their work, for example.....I take much happiness in telling them "one of those flags very likely wouldn't exist without the other."
Blaire’s light shines brightly! She’s beautiful, strong, independent, smart, intelligent, thoughtful, caring, and so much more. I think that bothers some people. Especially these days.
NO! NO! NO! Many people say I am sick in the head. NOOOO!!!! I don't believe them. But there are so many people commenting this stuff on my videos, that I have 1% doubt. So I have to ask you right now: Do you think I am sick in the head? Thanks for helping, my dear tra
@@AxxLAfriku ???????
She also lacks a back bone lol
@@santinocermelo7330 that person keeps commenting random, out-of-context things under many RUclipsrs videos pretty sure they're a troll just ignore them lol
Couldn't have said it any better myself. If only there were more people like her. Love you Blaire!
I don’t understand how anyone can not like Blaire? It’s thoroughly confusing and I don’t get it. I discovered Blaire only a couple of months ago and I adore her. She is so level headed and logical!! Logic is what this whole society is missing and I guess that answers my initial point of people not liking her. I feel comforted by Blaire honestly in so many ways. She fights for kids rights, basic human rights, goes against the psycho bullshjt that is actually evil and dividing and I am all for it. You are amazing girl
11:00 so since I’m a gay man, does that make me a misogynist for not wanting to sleep with women? 😂😂😂 I can’t
Ikr
Obviously it does😱😱🙄🙄🙄 (Dw I’m lesbian LMAO)
i just want to say that i recently came out to my religious family & showing them channels/videos of people like blaire was so helpful. thank you for showing the world that not everyone within the lgbtq community thinks the same
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Yes I hope Blare knows that not all trans people are against her haha. I don't agree with her 100% of the time (of course, I don't agree with anyone 100% of the time!) but I thought she made a lot of very reasonable points in this video, and I'm trans
Just wanted to shout you out, Alex. I am also a religious person in a religious family, and yeah, being out has led to some difficult conversations and situations, but it's worth it. It's not easy, but I'm honestly glad that my family is invested in being charitable, kind, forgiving and grateful because we are Christians. It makes a difficult situation easier. Best of luck on your journey, and God Bless!
Yeah, I'd rather my kid came out as anything except leftist.
That would have me wondering where I went wrong.
@@rockguitar2012 nobody should agree with anyone 100%. If you do you're a cult follower, not an individual.
Im listening to these people and I don’t understand why they don’t just live their life and not be so obsessed with it. It’s this word salad and forcing it on people that is putting people off and it’s actually hurting the lbtq community more than it helps it
Exactly!
Word salad! lol. Never heard that term in this context and I love it.
Because their lifescene is talking about shit like this! Like fr.
Facts
Because they can’t get constant attention by just living their lives. And when they are constantly confrontational, they get attention and get to be victims. It’s all bs.
Blaire, you touched my heart in a way that rarely does. You touched on such an important point when you spoke about your nieces and nephews that I stopped what I was doing and really payed attention. It not only shows how sometimes mispronouning people isn’t always out of malicious intent but also shows how STRONG and simply down to earth you are, being able to remove yourself and your own struggles (because I’m sure it took something from you to be able to hear uncle) and simply be, love and enjoy. Wow sis, you inspire 🎉
The person saying “if people really care about you, they’re going to get your pronouns right.” YET they freak out when someone they JUST met doesn’t use their “preferred pronouns”. How am I supposed to know what you prefer? I just met you!!
the children and most of the young adults on tiktok need a reality check. they’re SOOOO sensitive it’s honestly such a real issue for the future generations i’m concerned
I know right
This is why I cannot download the tiktok app, it’s a trainwreck all around
I think it’s because they’re so sick and tired of people misgendering, using incorrect pronouns, and just not treating them with basic human rights.
that and twitter.
@@shrekxreader17 yeah but you also need to take some personal responsibility for your own emotions. You can’t force people to conform to your ideals, that’s tryanny in all reality lol. Grow a thicker skin. Yeah people are assholes, but like don’t let them effect you? Move on. When did people start giving a shit about what every single person thought about them? Who cares. If your not someone’s cup of tea… move on… find people that are your cup of tea and vice versa. Everyone’s different and entitled to their own beliefs and feelings, gives you zero right to force someone to change their beliefs to yours and take responsibility over YOUR FEELINGS.
Oh my god Blair before you said “I swear this pronoun shit is literally just a way to feel special.”
That is exactly what I was thinking. I have no idea why so many of these people are obsessed with labeling themselves and then talking about their labels incessantly. No one cares.
The ridiculous hair, make up and outfits they all have scream LOOK AT ME I'M SPECIAL
Thank youuuu, god it’s so difficult to say that to gen z and I hate the fact I’m even in this generation. Snowflakes, attention seekers, everything above. They’re just wack.
I do notice cis ppl get pretty mad if you use the wrong pronoun as well.... Men usually take being a man pretty serious, and it's usually very important to women that they are women
Right?! Like, it’s so confusing. When I was in HS it was “don’t put a label on it”… now it seems like it’s nothing but labels 🤦🏻♀️
(3rd person) pronouns are mostly used out of earshot of these saddos anyway. Doesn't that just scream narcissism?!
I used to have this friend who is my age I’m 13 and she uses “he/it” pronouns and her bio in everything is “a furry uwu gamer boy” and being blunt they are unwell, and are extremely toxi and I wish she gets help
I feel you Blaire. Even though as a feminist and think female bodied folks are too often taught and expected to just endure disrespect, I don't have the heart to tell my kids not to call me mom.
They know I'm genderqueer and philosophically opposed to gender roles and the binary but they are allowed to call me whatever they want. So is everyone.
If a new acquaintance were to ask me about my pronouns, then I will say they/them (no weird stuff) but it doesn't really matter. A word can't take away someone's identity.
Because you are a secure person, sure of what you are.
These people on tik tok are trying desperately to affirm themselves through external validation. They need therapy and introspection to figure out themselves. Not constantly yelling at people over a pronoun
"I feel like the whole pronoun thing is just a way for people to feel special"
Seemed pretty obvious to me.
The person with the green hair at the end is "Noxtelli." On TikTok, he rants and raves against white people, gay people, men, America and capitalism. IRL, he is a Starbuck's barista.
Wow if that isn’t hypocritical..
lol Damn!
It’s soo sad to see
So he/she "tweets that capitalism is dumb while he stares at an I phone and sips on a starbucks?"
Bastardizing a Tom mcdonald song lol
So he’s communist. Imagine my shock.
I feel like remembering pronouns is like when a friend changes their name. My brain naturally wants to call them by the name I’ve always known, but of course I make an effort to call them by what they want to be called. I might slip, but then I’ll correct myself. It just takes time.
For me my parents didn’t call me every nickname I came up with as a kid that I wanted to be called, they picked my name with strong intention and that’s what they called me by. After I used to be more into feminism and liberalism but I’m now more Republican and conservative, I have the same attitude I just call people by their names unless I feel like giving them a nickname but you just can’t pick your own nicknames that’s how I personally feel
@@LifeDiaryGedi you absolutely can pick your own nickname
this is what true transition is - acceptance and real self awareness and also empathy for other people more power to ur channel Blaire 🤗
Sometimes it's honestly hard for people to not accidentally let a wrong pronoun slip even if they respect you and your transition.
Before you told them about your pronoun change, they have likely said "she" or "he" a thousand times and it takes a huge mental effort to shift something that ingrained into our unconscious thoughts
ok but not really bro, if you see a person every single day it's really not hard to make that little change. you might slip up a couple times, but if you care about someone, youll put effort into learning their pronouns regardless of your stance on pronouns/transgender people
@@jenson7645 okay, but you don't see most people you know every single day unless you are in high-school. And if your at a bar a little tipsy I've seen friends make a slip without meaning too and I don't hold that against them. It's all about context
I’m not being funny. But I call my son by his dad’s name. And vice versa. My son is ASD and pronouns are a literal nightmare for him. He does speech therapy and knows pronouns but for the LIFE of him, he mistakes them in sentences daily. Hourly. He calls me HE and his dad SHE. Bless him.
@@jenson7645 I mean it’s pretty hard to not slip up when some people don’t even look like they’re trying to transition.
@@jenson7645 ok, but yes really bro. Your brain is literally programmed to acknowledge to recognize secondary sexual traits and to think of that sex. It's basically a part of how we are hardwired to read body language to gauge if people are aggressive or not, you read sex as part of that subconscious assessment. It is how we are built and how our forms of communication has always needed it to be.
I really like Blaire White. Mostly because she understands how hard it must be for me as a person to understand what she is going through and is willing to have an adult conversation about it. Other trans people tend to act like petulant children when they don't get their way. Massive difference and definitely a good way to win the hearts and minds of others with her wonderful self.
Well said ! So true.
Agreed , been watching Blaire for years and she’s a different breed. Awesome all the same :)
Gosh, trans online spaces 100%.
I fucking hate it.
thank you so much, like deeply thank you because not everyone is willing to see the trans community as yes a community with a shared experience, but not as a monolith........ we do not alll think the same, we dont all act the same, and the same things dont offend us......
When she said she doesn't care there her niece and nephew call her uncle, I legit cried.
I’ve always said, it’s not just a transition for me, it’s a transition for everyone in my life. So I completely agree with you
You’re an exceptional human being. I just wanted to know that you give me faith that the LGBT community might have a fighting chance in living in a civil society.
Blaire is absolutely right, and these youngsters are super upset about that. Imagine being an “old” LGBT like the vast majority of us and having to put up with literal kids screeching about utter BS, when we just wanna live in peace. They’ve turned out community into a massive joke and it’s little wonder LGBT support has gone down for the first time in over a decade.
Ikr it's ridiculous
Reminds me of Dorian Corey in Paris is Burning. The paraphrase: If the only thing interesting about you is that you're gay, that's really sad and you need a hobby. You're in the gay community, everyone's gay. That's not special.
Nowadays everyone wants an award for *just* being gay. Not gonna cut it.
They think it's a game, honestly. To most of them the community is just a fad.
On. Point. 👌
@@Benanov I disagree, since being gay isn't that special anymore, these people try to make new things up to feel more unique
So glad to see someone with common sense in the trans community.
I really think Blaire is not as big of an exception as people think. I have been around other trans women for ages, and the weirdos were few and far between. The dilemma of the transsexual is that they want to integrate into normal society, not stand apart from in in obvious, weird ways. This crop of oddballs is a very new phenomenon among trans people, but because we live in this spectacle-oriented culture, it is the human spectacles who get all the attention. Look at the person @7:42. That's not a person any more, that's an exploded makeup case.
Fr
Agreed, really changed my view
@Maria yep
@Maria I'm so sorry about that. That must have been such a terrible thing to deal with. I don't understand why trans people feel like they are so entitled to the point where they call anyone transphobic who simply isn't attracted to them.
Just a sidenote on the topic of gender reveals- I chose not to find out the gender of my children while pregnant and it was the best choice of my life. Hearing the doctor say "it's a girl!" and "they are boys!" were some of the best moments of my entire life
👍🏼Same for me.
My daughters are now 23 and almost 25.
I didn't want to know the sex before hand.
And being in Germany there was no gender reveal party or baby shower
(although it is getting more popular here).
You don't have to have a party for everything.
as someone with extreme body and gender dysmorphia, i am really thankful you exist. I need to see a dr for my problems cause i want to become transsexual but watching all of this makes me feel like im just mentally ill
That second one is literally saying the world revolves around her. If one person asked people to refer to them with different pronouns, it’d be easy to remember. With a ton of people demanding literally a million different pronouns, it’s hard to remember. Especially under the stress of fearing that they will lash out the first time you forget or make a mistake.
Not that I care enough to make the effort for anyone who isn’t in my immediate circle anyway.
Reason #1 why I don't associate with nonbinaries/trenders.
Yup these are the people that are going off on employees too. I was reported and yelled at by different clients that I accidentally misgendered bc I couldn't remember what each person went by. I eventually just left being a front desk receptionist. I'm from the south, manners are taught at a young age to say sir and ma'am.
@@shananoni My grandparents were from the south. They instilled into my parents who instilled into me about human decency and respect. I also say "Sir" and "ma'am" depending on what I see. It's incredibly rude to ask someone "What are you're pronouns" especially when 99% of people don't know what the hell you're talking about.
her example about the knowledge of the Earth being round instead of flat is also wrong lol, people took years and years to actually have a general consensus that the Earth wasn't flat after it was discovered
absolutely agree. I can't keep up with all these identities. im old! ill accept being gay and what have you. I won't keep up coz I don't care. there's more worse things in the world to care or worry about!
I'm transgender woman and I love your videos and im glad you stand up for LGBTQ people
No q tho
Preach!!
@@blairewhiteradicalextremis7765 right, I'm bi, I will fight u if u call me queer. I appear straight, I will fight u if u call me queer. I've been argued with by "pansexuals" how bisexuality isn't real and I'm just queer or pansexual. These psycho gate keepers.
@Gucci Pane IKR. Before the Q joined the LGBT it just meant gay didn't it? ...even if it was kind of derogatory for the most part.
@@Turtletoots3 it's a term used for all LGBT people indiscriminately.
God I love you! That “Uncle Blaire” story was so wholesome ❤️❤️ you are a beautiful person inside and out xx
As a doctor, with a foreign name, I definitely get treated better if people don’t know my gender for example by email. That’s what that academic was talking about
I love the "uncle" part. It's really wholesome. And it puts things into perspective!
“The trans community is mad at me” in other news the sky is blue.
This just in: Water is WET!!
Upcoming news: Grass grows, birds sing and the Scout hurts people.
My 7 year old nephew has straight hair all the way down to his thighs and looks very much like his mother, very feminine. Anytime someone sees him someone always says "omg she's so cute and pretty!!" And he always has to correct them.
The fact that our brains are naturally inclined to notice a feminine or female appearance is NOT OUR FAULT AS HUMAN BEINGS. if you LOOK male or LOOK female you cannot expect us to just automatically note your pronouns every single time we look at your or even think about you.
Referring to the they/them at minute 4:00.
I am so tired of people getting so butt hurt over pronouns like there are more important things in the world. Like we get it, do you but please stop berating people JUST because they miss label you.
You cant force someone to do something. Accept what you get from them and just let the other shit roll off like everyone else in the world has to do.
Good for you Uncle Blaire. I have more respect for you everytime I hear you talk. Just a good ass person.
(Some) trans people:
Complain about bullying.
Also (some) trans people:
Bully people into being attracted to them and having sex with them.
Yes! & if you don’t want to date them at all your transphobic
When are they not mad at you Blaire? I wouldn't pay it no mind
Hearing you talk about your niece and nephew was really sweet! Honestly I’m happy for you
0:08 i mean COME ON!!! 😭😭😭😭
If you're intentionally dressing up like a clown, you should expect to be laughed at.
Jeeze, i haven't laughed like this in a while. I guess i owe that clown (on the left) a big thanks for brightening my day. Lol
I would date a trans person if I was physically attracted to them, But the kinds of trans people that preach "you're transphobic if you don't date me" usually have a certain look....
With that guys logic every gay man is femalephobic and every lesbian is malephobic🤣
It's called preference it doesn't = hate or phobia.
They have incel vibes...
I love how the nb dad guy gave Blaire a headache just for the next person to talk what's the difference between libra/whatever gender to give her even bigger headache 😂
These people are gonna give Blaire an ulcer.
Anything beyond the "T" in LGBT is just one big migraine for normal people, definitely one of the reasons that acceptance is going *down* for the first time in several years. I don't even get the Queer thing; four years ago, there were leftists that would have you arrested for using that word, but now it's an identity? What even...
That Libra chick was a space cadet! Just do your drugs, honey, but stay off the internet. That's like millennial drunk dialing. Don't do it. Just stay the F away from social network platforms when your brain isn't working right! You can think that shit but just keep it inside your swirling head. Don't try to sell it on line to the masses.
@@cielizzy8860 I feel like if there was an honest poll taken at this point whether or not to include the T it would probably be 50/50..
Considering it's not an orientation I personally feel like they shouldn't be included. Tbh neither should bisexuals only because if you're truly bisexual it's such a rare occurrence there's not enough of them. I wish the entire alphabet thing would disappear.
@@yumyumbumblebee Why? How are bisexuals too rare to count?
Here in my country (Finland), more than the equivalent of the lgbt acronym, we use the phrase 'gender and sexual minorities' or 'rainbow folk' and I like it better. It doesn't specify individual identities and leaves room for more privacy.
🥺 I LOVE the part when you said you don't care what pronoun your loved ones call you because you know they love you and you love them 🥰 #💯
God, I forgot how much I loved your videos. Whenever Im sad or depressed, etc, I come on here to watch you react to stupidity, and it brings me back to life. Please don't ever stop making videos :)
Want to really trigger them? Tell them the term Transgender was coined for transvestites and Transsexual deals with someone that actually medically transitions as opposed to just cross dressing. They really hate it when I refer to myself as a Transsexual.
They must hate Rocky Horror Picture Show then it's got a whole song in there about that
yooo Tatiana speaking straight facts over here
Ok I'm confused lol
you must have been absent the day they decided its transphobic to correlate being trans with transitioning medically 😂
@@stella251 the song was literally playing in my head as I read the OPs comment.
my kids call me Dad, "This is my Dad, her name is Kate" - when I came out to them they were 7-12yrs old and I gave them a choice and respect their choice. I don't have issues with Tranny - its a word, I've been called it on the street and respond, "hey! thanks for noticing!" - funny, it deflates any negative impact intended. Love your videos and glad to see there is another person in the trans spectrum that doesn't follow the "expected" :)
I love that reaction! Just spread the positivity
That's a great response. It has no power in it if you don't take offense
Won't it be "his name is kate" because they introduce you as dad. Please fix the grammer skills
@@xijinping3317 no, sorry, it's 2021, my name is Kate and I use she/her pronouns, and yes I'm still my children's Dad
@@xijinping3317 Says the person who doesn't know how to use question marks.
What it really shows is that your role of "uncle" or "aunt" are up to them (your neices and nephews) and honesty amazing of you to be so open minded to young folks who might be confused. You are not a female. But you are a beautiful and worthy human being, with an interesting and rare vantage point, you are the necessary shade of grey. Thank you Blaire, you are beautiful in every sense of the word ❤️🙏💕
Blaire thank you so much for sharing your experience with your niece and nephew. My older brother transitioned only about 2 or 3 years ago something like that and the moment my older sibling shared that he was going to be transitioning from male to female it was expected that we use the she pronoun immediately. I didn't even get time to properly process everything that was said to me. I spent my whole life having a brother and then I had all these emotions and I couldn't help but cry and I kept having crying spells that I wasn't even allowed to fully get out of my system. I had to just be quiet and swallow the information immediately without any regard to how I was raised knowing one thing and then I had to completely just adapt Superfast to the new information that really shocked me and took me on this huge roller coaster spin that I felt the only way for me to really get a grasp on things was to take some time to myself and sort of counsel myself through it LOL what people didn't understand was that I had a completely different life experience with my brother and different memories and then it didn't help that my older siblings sometimes brags about the women that he used to be able to get easily.... anyways I digress because I've been told many times to support even though I thought I was when I gave plenty of my wigs away to my sibling and outfits but yet I have to be forced to look at the crotch area even though I don't want to because I'm uncomfortable just so that my older sibling can try to feel accepted and I'm just not okay with certain things because I prefer if we just carry on in a very conservative way rather than the whole look at me look at me look at me routine. I call my sibling by my siblings name since it didn't really change just the spelling changed. So that's sort of made it easy for me not to get anything wrong but sometimes I slip. My sibling is around 40 years of age and so the transition is very new and my parents didn't get a chance to process it properly either but everybody is on board with just kind of going along with it and that's because we would rather have my older sibling in our lives and happy rather than not in our lives at all. It's true that a lot of times the girl act comes on when it does for my older sibling it's a bit exaggerated because I'm a female and I don't behave that way but that's okay it is what it is. It's still hard and emotional. I learned a lot about the process from both sides however. I learned that it's not just about going along with someone's transition in just accepting by just doing exactly what they say. I learned that the person who has to accept the other person transitioning actually goes through their own process and it could be traumatizing as well as a lot of other things but that gets easily dismissed because if feelings or emotions are shared then the person gets called a bigot or transphobic. My daughter misses calling my older sibling uncle. She calls my older sibling by my older siblings name and so far is been sort of okay but we're still forced to push out pronouns that were not ready to say or it just doesn't come to our minds yet. My mother calls my older sibling my sister and it just doesn't feel true to me. I say older sibling so that it makes it easier and then I say my older siblings name. But in any case the story that you shared was something that I appreciate it and it felt relieving to hear someone actually be reasonable for someone else who is not the person transitioning but they still accept the person who is transitioning. I don't think I said that but I tried LOL
Im cis, but my brother is trans. It was really hard to start calling him a he, not because I had some opinion about the change, its just hard to change my vocabulary when I literally came out the womb being told this is your big sister and this is her name. Years of reffering to someone a certain way takes a lot of effort to change, really it mostly changed when I met new people that I could introduce him as a he
Hello 😊 I hope you don't mind me asking but what is cis?
@@realityslidersmandelaeffec6594 short for cisgender. Just means that you identify with the biological sex you were born with, whereas transgender people dont
@@realityslidersmandelaeffec6594 it is a term for people who do not have gender dysphoria. It's like coming up with a term for people who are not autistic or a term for people who are not schizophrenic
@@patsayjack402 personally I don't find it weird to have a special word for it, especially when you are discussing trans issues. Saying "normal" can sound pretty rude, regardless if it's trans, autistic or schizophrenic people
@@Coppergasm you are SOOOO misguided ,I pity you
The uncle thing is very cool.
That shows a lot of maturity and actual empathy.
Having nieces and nephews is the best.
I can imagine it quietly irked her a bit at first but now it’s a meh thing. We all have relatives who do things that occasionally irk us but we love them all the same.
@@durkin9664 i'm gonna go ahead and just take her at her word
Yeah that made me emotional. Blaire is an intelligent person. I absolutely love her!
You hit the nail on the head with so much of what you said. Especially the part about people making up genders and sexualities bc of how uncomfortable they are with themselves and really need acceptance. I truly have noticed that the people that have the most issue with you and others like you are the ones that do not pass as whatever sex they want to visually be perceived as.
They just be coming up with words 😂 😂😂😂 I can’t it’s hilarious 🤣
The reference to your nieces and nephews was very endearing and shows how much you love them. They will change when they are ready, and good on you for being a wonderful auntie
As much as I hate this overused term, these are literally the BIGGEST Karens 😂
trans-karens 😂
Moving is so stressful yet you still found time to make a video. You’re the GOAT!!
I'm so glad you show the logical stuff . Gives me confidence to explain it to the teenagers around me.. Because I respect people being trans but I'm so tired of all these kids using it as a trend
You’re just so frigging reasonable, it’s refreshing.
literally
"Frigging" What are you, seven?
SO refreshing
Why is buffalo bill on my suggestion feed?
she isnt.
Imagine trying to bully someone into being sexually attracted to specific genitals by saying they are hateful because they don’t feel the same as you. That’s being discriminatory! You can be sexually attracted to only opposite genitals or only same genitals and still be supportive to everyone!
Fr, like ultimately most gay people want someone which has the same genitals as them.
I think people need to realize there’s a difference between “ew transpeople” and “I’m not attracted to transpeople”
People are more than genitalia
@@Patrick3183 ofc they are, but that doesn’t change the fact that most gay people want a guy with a dick. If you think otherwise you obliviously have never been on dating apps.
@@Patrick3183 Nobody reduces people to a trait when they say they're turned off by that trait fyi
I really like the uncle and auntie Analogy really nice way of letting others .eg your relatives take there time with understanding every thing
Just started watching your videos, and you’re awesome! Great personality and gorgeous! I really like your opinions on different topics like these. 💕
I used to outwardly identify as NB. I don't anymore because my gender identity isn't that important to me, and I feel like I can just feel a certain way internally and keep it there, like my private person. Anyway, I had a fellow NB pal who was also biologically female, and when I told them that pronouns didn't matter to me and I didn't mind being called by feminine pronouns because I present as a female, they replied, "Oh, cool", and then never spoke to me again 😅😂🤣.
Its very sad and such a hateful thing for them to unfriend you just because you don't identify as a nb no more and are okay with using the she/her pronouns... People like them are slowly becoming the same thing they so much hate and fight against.
The irony is those that believe they are the most open-minded are actually becoming the most narrow-minded individuals. Anyone who stops speaking to you over a personal preference needs to look at themselves in the mirror.
Damn, that was ignorant of them. These types will always claim you're ignorant, but when you have your own way of identifying that doesn't align with theirs, they won't accept it. If you're chill with being seen as a GNC woman by strangers, what's it to them? It's not hurting them.
@Popstar Ahri sick roast
The community isn’t inclusive at all like they claim
The personal story about your niece and nephew actually touched me. I could hear how much you care about them. Being able to put your ego aside to focus on the growth and emotional well-being of the next generation is admirable. You're allowing them to be kids. To do whatever feels right and comfortable FOR THEM and not just you. Everything is not about pushing a political agenda. Some things are wayy deeper. I wish the pronoun police on tiktok understood that.
That’s what an adult does. They act like an adult.
Kinda reminds me when ppl questioned Kendall and Kylie calling Caitlyn dad still. It wasn't their (the publics) business but kylie and caitlyn explained their reasoning and it was really sweet
You expect too much common sense from people who actively use tiktok
Hope Blaire becomes a parent, you can tell she'd be stellar at it.
@@EmmaxoOCE it reminded me of that too.
Thats tough. Loved ones know us like they know us. Its really hard to change what we know. It isnt for lack of love, I think.
Omg! I just found you! I am a conservative trans man and I am so glad you do these videos. Thank you for everything you do, sincerely, a self assured transgender who is sick of being lumped in with these sad lonely desperate people.
I’m just tired of actual transexuals being lumped in and erased by heterosexual men who transition. (Agp)
❤️
The entire world is on a gender spectrum but most people don't feel the need to lable it. No one is 100% masculine or 100% feminine!!
We used to call girls with masculine interests "tomboys." The feminine-male counterparts were sometimes referred to as "femboys." That's it; that's literally all there is. What's wrong with that?!
Yeah! And people who fell between were called "androgynous". There's nothing wrong with not being 100% a manic pixie dream girl or an alpha male (I'd actually consider both of those extremes to often be bad but that's a different conversation)
Exactly!!! This is what I’ve been saying!! It’s just straight people wanting to be in the lgbt
I'm over here listening to these new words and I look like a mom who goes into any McDonald's drive through. Confused as fuck and not knowing the price of all of it
OMG…I effin ADORE YOU!!! Thank you for continuously bringing clarity to the ever growing grey cloud of ridiculousness and purposeful confusion.
What I love about the "Uncle" thing is that you love them so much and just accept that they are just kids and kids tend to be uncomplicated and it has nothing to do with respect or disrespect. You love them enough to keep it uncomplicated and that you all love each other is all that matters
Exactly. Some trans women are still called dad by their kids because that's what they are and have been. Accepting that is the graceful way to go about it. Forcing your kids to call you their mother when you are the male parent is taking away from the fact that these kids already have a mother, the person who gave birth to them.
My mom transitioned after i turned 18. It feels wrong to call her "he, him, dad", especially since i have reconnected with my actual dad, but didn't have one until i was 28. I call my mom "he, him" and by her new male name when I'm around her new family and people who don't need to know about the transition, but when talking to my friends, it's "mom, she, her". I don't make friends with the types of people who wouldn't accept and respect my mom being trans, and would certainly never bring them around her, but that's a personality type thing, not exclusive to accepting LGBT people.
'Uncle blaire' is like calling your teacher 'mom', it's a combo of mixed wires, being young, and being comfortable with saying the one word for maternal/paternal figure. Eventually you stop, but it's never meant to be mean or rude.
My ex wifes father had the full sex change op and she still called him dad…..She was the only one who was allowed to refer to her father as male.
If anyone who knew him before he had the operation and became a woman, let slip with the male name they knew him by, it was an instant flip out/aggression towards them……I can totally understand why the old male name would slip out sometimes, especially if you’d know the person as a male for decades.