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  • @BlaireWhiteX
    @BlaireWhiteX  5 лет назад +18235

    Can't wait for the hate on this video lol

  • @JaytheblueJ
    @JaytheblueJ 5 лет назад +6833

    "theyby?" The word "baby" is already gender neutral .

    • @bluebear1146
      @bluebear1146 5 лет назад +160

      J Anonymous exactly 👏

    • @europeansovietunion7372
      @europeansovietunion7372 5 лет назад +130

      Baby isn't newspeak tho... The authoritarians want to decree how one ought to speak. This is only about power.

    • @Verrssailless
      @Verrssailless 5 лет назад +14

      J Anonymous i mean right ????? Like wtf

    • @lewlavabra6811
      @lewlavabra6811 5 лет назад +11

      I KNOW RIGHT

    • @mommamia5060
      @mommamia5060 5 лет назад +134

      No because baby has an "a" in it. "Man" has an "a" in it, but "womon" doesn't.

  • @ciaragoering
    @ciaragoering 5 лет назад +8458

    "Jumping around, being crazy and tackling everybody" isnt just "boy activities"
    Thats being a child.

    • @lucy9036
      @lucy9036 5 лет назад +264

      EXACTLY. stupid.

    • @hannahporter9234
      @hannahporter9234 5 лет назад +558

      if they didnt want gender to be forced on their child why give certain activities genders... 🤷‍♀️

    • @unknowna8056
      @unknowna8056 5 лет назад +266

      And yet they are labeling that as a boy thing. Hypocrite -_-

    • @lucy9036
      @lucy9036 5 лет назад +214

      @@hannahporter9234 literally what I always say ahaha. they're obsessed with gender roles not being important yet are obsessed with sticking to them (otherwise you're automatically transgender!)

    • @jennarenteria5526
      @jennarenteria5526 5 лет назад +56

      If anything those comments are reenforcing genderroles, which I hate.

  • @itzmikeyangelo
    @itzmikeyangelo 5 лет назад +3785

    > "Let's break gender stereotypes!"
    > "Jumping around is a boy activity."
    K.

    • @michellemcgill9328
      @michellemcgill9328 5 лет назад +106

      M¡key Λngelo yes! sexist double standards anyone?

    • @karens.manager.2023
      @karens.manager.2023 4 года назад +86

      That's the problem I have always had with these issues and "non-binarism". The main reason they tell you they aren't either a woman or a man is that they don't like stuff labeled as one or another's. See the problem here? these are almost always the people complaining about gender roles, yet they reinforce them A LOT 😂😂 it's kinda hilarious actually.

    • @Vix_Vi
      @Vix_Vi 4 года назад +48

      @@karens.manager.2023 What would've been a tomboy girl before, now is a nonbinary transman, it's insane.

    • @haileybranscum6289
      @haileybranscum6289 4 года назад

      Bahahaha

    • @zaynab6284
      @zaynab6284 4 года назад +1

      ikr wtf

  • @velzinha
    @velzinha 3 года назад +2045

    My son, at 5, wanted to be an elephant. He even had a timeline: that he would first be a giraffe at five, then a lion at ten, then an elephant at twenty.

    • @starrbeamknight8571
      @starrbeamknight8571 3 года назад +78

      Your son's story just changed my life... I can't look at anything the same... MIND BLOWN... So stinkin cute!

    • @TheDalinkwent
      @TheDalinkwent 3 года назад +24

      Lmao...thats hilarious.

    • @gumigumi6692
      @gumigumi6692 3 года назад +38

      ur sons an animorph 😱

    • @gabe7120
      @gabe7120 3 года назад +68

      How dare you mock your shape-shifting savanna creature. What an awful mom 😉

    • @kaoticmess456
      @kaoticmess456 3 года назад +9

      YASSS I LOVE IT

  • @sybil3087
    @sybil3087 5 лет назад +14257

    It’s funny how these parents claim to be “raising without gender” yet they make every single thing their child does about gender.

    • @G_Robb
      @G_Robb 5 лет назад +433

      Amen sister, or brother, or them. I'm soooo confused!

    • @shyblonde
      @shyblonde 5 лет назад +52

      Yes!!

    • @nicoledukich
      @nicoledukich 5 лет назад +75

      YES... OMG.... THANK YOU!

    • @Shy00rca
      @Shy00rca 5 лет назад +33

      Truuee

    • @pharenzix
      @pharenzix 5 лет назад +45

      Best comment ever.

  • @margueritedepompadour7031
    @margueritedepompadour7031 5 лет назад +1530

    Saying the child is a boy because she likes running around is one of the craziest and most sexist things I've ever heard

    • @arek5985
      @arek5985 5 лет назад +57

      Marguerite de Pompadour right lol? What child didn’t run around or did things the other gender liked!? Children are just children, they just wanna have fun!

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 5 лет назад +31

      Marguerite de Pompadour I lost my shit when I heard that. The child likes running around so she has to transition and become a boy?? What??????

    • @mynamo12
      @mynamo12 5 лет назад +43

      If they want to destroy gender roles not sure how this is helping. They are basically saying girls act ONLY like this, and boys act ONLY like this. I’m sure there are plenty of people out there who don’t act like their gender but it doesn’t mean they want to become someone else!! Ever heard of tomboys? This is ridiculous.

    • @songbird7450
      @songbird7450 5 лет назад +7

      The 2010's left is the 1850's right...

    • @louwinters508
      @louwinters508 Год назад

      No wonder some states are investigating this stuff. I used to think that it was all based in prejudice. But I'm waking up to it. When you hear some of these people talk. They are setting their kid up to be confused for no reason.
      My mum used to think gays shouldn't adopt. Probably because she didn't really know many gay people. And that most are just boring normal people.
      I'd hope that the majority of trans people are not like this. But these morons are ruining it.

  • @randylynch4330
    @randylynch4330 4 года назад +2739

    "You like this right?" "You're not a boy right?". In court that's called leading the witness.

    • @raye769
      @raye769 4 года назад +78

      Ik I heard that I’m like, if the kid knows so much about who they are let them speak for themselves.

    • @Madmatt18
      @Madmatt18 4 года назад +92

      yup. and in a home setting its called being manipulative

    • @iyambeanz
      @iyambeanz 4 года назад +18

      Coercion.

    • @RoyalRoses
      @RoyalRoses 4 года назад +27

      No, in court thats called COACHING. (Since its dealing with a child)

    • @tarastevens2036
      @tarastevens2036 4 года назад +15

      What bs labelling a five year old as transgender. Child protection should be called

  • @jerrystauffer2351
    @jerrystauffer2351 3 года назад +848

    I'm a 41 year old man and I have no idea what it means to"feel like a man". I'm just here.

    • @irmar
      @irmar 2 года назад +70

      This comment is gold!

    • @alaia-awakened
      @alaia-awakened 2 года назад +46

      Extremely underrated comment!

    • @zeinabelbatoulsbaiti4308
      @zeinabelbatoulsbaiti4308 2 года назад +12

      Golddddddd!

    • @rabiespuddings1735
      @rabiespuddings1735 2 года назад +47

      It's kind of annoying when the non-binary community constantly says "oh I didn't FEEL female" or "I didn't FEEL male" which is fine but they always follow that up with "I didn't like traditionally masculine or traditionally feminine stuff so that must mean I'm some other gender" when I was growing up I was VERY masculine as a little girl, I played with cars, the majority of my friend group was that of boys that I would go over to their house and play with their massive collection of Hot wheel cars, I didn't like pink or any clothing that I deemed "too girly". I loved getting dirty playing with my friends miniature four wheeler and tracking mud into the house, and going ice fishing with my dad. Guess what? Still 100% female... If I was born a decade later my physicians would probably be pressuring my mom to seek gender counseling. We seem to have a very, very superficial understanding on what constitutes being transgender. And I see being trans or non-binary being glorified a lot in the media. The non-binary thing seems to be even worse because there is a huge trend in raising your kid "genderless" nowadays which is basically raising your kid to be non-binary until they say otherwise, which is pretty difficult to distinguish whether or not that would be harmful in the long run. Because what constitutes someone being non-binary is even less understood than what constitutes someone being trans and this whole "I'm non-binary because I don't do traditionally girly or manly things" seems to be the new "I'm not like other girls".

    • @Kerastalise
      @Kerastalise 2 года назад +4

      This!!!

  • @kassi3538
    @kassi3538 4 года назад +5453

    “Do you like girl things like being quiet or boy things like running around.” 10/10 job for destroying gender roles dude 🙄

    • @jesusmywholehaschanged
      @jesusmywholehaschanged 4 года назад +283

      Right. Transgenderism reinforces gender stereotypes.

    • @lennonmcbird06
      @lennonmcbird06 4 года назад +11

      LMNOP explain that to me, please.

    • @jesusmywholehaschanged
      @jesusmywholehaschanged 4 года назад +78

      Transgenders literally perform their best rendition of whichever gender they identity with.

    • @liky6539
      @liky6539 4 года назад +184

      right- and “running around” is just called being a kid not being a boy

    • @camidavis1335
      @camidavis1335 4 года назад +63

      Right that question was mad biased how tf can you even answer that😂😭

  • @blackswan1983
    @blackswan1983 5 лет назад +7659

    Who else grew up as a tomboy and is immensely grateful we weren't asked or told we should transition?

    • @morganfreeman9106
      @morganfreeman9106 5 лет назад +387

      blackswan1983 YES. I had 3 brothers and wanted nothing to do with typically “feminine” toys or activities (except reading, which is apparently a girly thing now?). I never felt out of place though, or like I was a boy in a girl’s body, and I’m glad my parents never pushed anything like that on me.

    • @veganfitmumma2364
      @veganfitmumma2364 5 лет назад +212

      Yep me
      Tom boy by nature
      Def not a boy
      Love my gender not changing it

    • @C4ssieRose
      @C4ssieRose 5 лет назад +21

      blackswan1983 me!

    • @Firebyrd11
      @Firebyrd11 5 лет назад +148

      Yes. I even remember thinking as young as three that I should have been a boy and I didn't fit in and whatever. My parents let me play with whatever (I had a toy engine block and TMNT action figures and enough My Little Ponies to fill a small country and enough stuffed animals to smother in. My brothers had toy vacuums and lawn mowers and a pony each and TMNT action figures. We all had what we were interested in and were allowed to explore different things to determine what those interests might be). I grew out of thinking I must not be right as a girl just because I was different. Just because I was (and am) a tomboy didn't mean I wasn't a girl and shouldn't be a girl. It was stereotypes that made me feel that way and people like those shown in the video are pushing those stereotypes even worse than before.

    • @ashleyduffy2088
      @ashleyduffy2088 5 лет назад +40

      Played with my cousins wwe toys. Im married to a man with a kid.

  • @bojohnson5387
    @bojohnson5387 4 года назад +3574

    When I was 5 I thought I was a horse. So glad my parents didn’t let me transition then.

    • @heiroot
      @heiroot 4 года назад +141

      Imagine your d size tho

    • @wendyokoopa7048
      @wendyokoopa7048 4 года назад +10

      Bo that reminds me of a minor character in a book series I like

    • @juanrodriguez9971
      @juanrodriguez9971 4 года назад +71

      When I was 6 I thought I was an Earth Bender, too sad my parents didn't let me have my transition

    • @xan_1309
      @xan_1309 4 года назад +20

      Bo Johnson Horseman

    • @homurastan2927
      @homurastan2927 4 года назад +14

      ok but YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE A HORSE SKSJDMANSKJDNSJBD WHOW DID THAT EVEN WORK

  • @MsSponlie
    @MsSponlie 2 года назад +258

    "Quite girly activities..." the sexism actually makes my blood boil!

  • @Basstyle1
    @Basstyle1 4 года назад +1842

    I don’t understand why they can’t just let boys who like feminine stuff just be boys who like feminine stuff. And let girls who like boy-ish stuff be girls who like boy-ish stuff.

    • @Wolfbitten14
      @Wolfbitten14 4 года назад +68

      I also had that conversation with a mother that was fearful of her son liking girly things and I brought up that a Japanese man loves Hello Kitty enough to make his whole home hello kitty themed and his wife is okay with it. And that whatever he does want to be that she would probably still love her kid for who they were. She smiled at me and shook her head yes to confirm how I put it into words. I just happen to be unsure how kids would treat him cause kids are usually assholes not gonna lie.

    • @seelevollerei7224
      @seelevollerei7224 4 года назад +17

      please just say masculine instead of boy-ish it’s killing me hahaha

    • @airforceshadow765
      @airforceshadow765 4 года назад +34

      fork chan! Doesn’t matter she got the point across

    • @heath6802
      @heath6802 4 года назад +19

      Pretty sure that if their kids are trans, they’ll tell them when they’re sure, they’ll know that something isn’t right, but until that time comes (if it ever does at all) let them have whatever interests they want, you know?

    • @airforceshadow765
      @airforceshadow765 4 года назад +3

      Basstyle1 This is my exact thoughts

  • @yvettezilla
    @yvettezilla 5 лет назад +2359

    Child: Does something slightly less feminine
    Parent: *HES TRANSGENDER*

    • @beets3255
      @beets3255 5 лет назад +14

      Okay here to say I FUCKING LOVE UR NORMAN PROFILE PIC AAHHHH

    • @jeffgrey2746
      @jeffgrey2746 5 лет назад +123

      My oldest daughter started saying she was a boy at around age three, my wife and I ignored it, she grew out of it and is now a cheerleader who loves clothes and makeup. How badly would we have screwed her up if we'd cut her hair short, changed her name, and pumped her full of hormones, instead of being reasonable rational about it?

    • @Neo_Geisha
      @Neo_Geisha 5 лет назад +28

      Their ideology is nothing but gender roles.

    • @rioreason
      @rioreason 5 лет назад +7

      ruusty cat my little boy hates bugs. You don’t think... 😨
      Never mind the love of Lego, Minecraft, trucks, dirt, farts, poop jokes, fascination with what Pop Pop can build in his shop, and his competitive nature - he MUST be a girl! 🙄

    • @keridib8309
      @keridib8309 5 лет назад

      ruusty cat haha

  • @joannalewis1721
    @joannalewis1721 4 года назад +2664

    “Quiet girl things” because girls have to be quiet and do quiet things, right? Great message that parent teaching.

    • @jessaguilar4747
      @jessaguilar4747 4 года назад +274

      Right?! They hate “gender norms” but then they say things like “quite girl activities or jumping around being crazy?” Stupid people.

    • @tweakheir6093
      @tweakheir6093 4 года назад +147

      Really I feel like a lot of this is just reinforcing stereotypes we know aren't even biological. Like if you don't like dresses and but like climbing trees you can NOT possibly be a girl, for no girl in history has ever liked trees.

    • @Jes356
      @Jes356 4 года назад +5

      He's also nuts.....

    • @GhoulishTeatime
      @GhoulishTeatime 4 года назад +2

      jelly beans saaaaaaaame

    • @georgiawilksch5708
      @georgiawilksch5708 4 года назад +37

      It’s getting pretty insulting. There are books about it for young people that show how someone can act boyish and girlish in the one day. Basically ditsy, frivolous, caring = female. messy, aggressive, decisive = male.
      Pretty insulting all around

  • @annlouise526
    @annlouise526 3 года назад +174

    “Teach your kids to be kind to people who are different from them. Teach your kids that it’s okay to be themselves and they will figure it out for themselves”. Wiser and truer words were never spoken.

  • @Valkoinenhai
    @Valkoinenhai 5 лет назад +8930

    I asked my two year old kiddo if she was a boy or a girl or a cat. She said "a cat". Guess I'm raising a NYANbinary child then.

    • @toughntiny
      @toughntiny 5 лет назад +105

      Lmaooooo

    • @maja2393
      @maja2393 5 лет назад +312

      She’s a fury ofc.

    • @pollixo5701
      @pollixo5701 5 лет назад +192

      You would make a great dad with those kind of jokes

    • @hazelmaylebrun6243
      @hazelmaylebrun6243 5 лет назад +86

      Well... Meow Mix is nutritionally complete for a cat, I hear. Should make feeding time much easier. LOL

    • @lurkinlikeaboss
      @lurkinlikeaboss 5 лет назад +32

      Take my like you punny monster

  • @graciemay6377
    @graciemay6377 4 года назад +3427

    Being a tomboy as a young child doing "boy activities" or wanting "boy toys" doesn't make you trans

    • @nathangreen6896
      @nathangreen6896 4 года назад +123

      Kid might not even be a tomboy. If you notice, the kid's being pressed to reply as the parents want them to.

    • @kinkyxkitten666
      @kinkyxkitten666 4 года назад +63

      Gracie may I was a tomboy. Now I’m a complete republican girly girl. Tf is wrong with these people?

    • @youngski249
      @youngski249 4 года назад +43

      Becca Ann Same here girl. As a kid I played outside in our backyard swamp, and I loved video games. Still love video games, but I love wearing dresses now. Republican/conservative and absolutely love tradition. If my parents would have made me take hormones and make me trans, I probably would have ended up severely depressed. God help the children nowadays.

    • @dokidoki719
      @dokidoki719 4 года назад +26

      I don’t say this out loud for the fear of offending someone but the twitter cancel culture coupled with the worst form of political correctness is destroying our world. Crazy people are being led to think that anyone can be anything and then they are forcing their opinions on others. It is okay and valid to be transgender but now other people are coming up with trans species and trans baked and what not. I think real trans people must feel so insulted.

    • @kinkyxkitten666
      @kinkyxkitten666 4 года назад +4

      Estha Lensherr we must stop fearing cancel culture. I’m done being quiet. Fuck those liberal fucks.

  • @pixie9818
    @pixie9818 4 года назад +7125

    but... baby is a gender neutral term... why would you need to call them a “theybie” that’s just kinda dumb,,,

  • @chlo_xo333
    @chlo_xo333 3 года назад +189

    "we hate labels! thats why we're going to make our entire child's life about labels and gain money and fame from said labels!"

    • @aesthetix3398
      @aesthetix3398 Год назад +1

      Yup that pretty much sums it up

    • @Ben-zr4ho
      @Ben-zr4ho 4 месяца назад

      Label McLabel Face

  • @musicman8881
    @musicman8881 5 лет назад +705

    I saw a comment on reddit that perfectly describes this situation. “ A non-binary child is like a vegan dog. We all know who’s making the decisions.”

    • @TheHypernaught
      @TheHypernaught 5 лет назад +5

      The oldest dog on Earth was vegan and lived until it was 27 in the UK It was a Collie too. They live for 12 years usually. Yes, I'm vegan and no my dog is not.

    • @user-ui9nj3dj4u
      @user-ui9nj3dj4u 5 лет назад +12

      @@TheHypernaught why isn't your dog transgender?

    • @peters160
      @peters160 5 лет назад +4

      @@TheHypernaught the dog you are referring to is the 4th oldest dog, he lived to be a total of 27years 211days. The oldest dog is Bluey who lived to be 29years.

    • @Mwothyman
      @Mwothyman 5 лет назад +2

      @@bunnyy404 Dogs are actually Omnivorous, just like us. Yes in the wild they usually eat meat, thats why feeding your dogs veggies doesn't have a negative impact on them like a cat would. You would have to take a lot of effort for your dog to have this lifestyle, but dogs normally should eat a good amount of meat and veggies too.

    • @leehalloway8787
      @leehalloway8787 5 лет назад

      That's a caption. I'm stealing it.

  • @CrybabyDai
    @CrybabyDai 5 лет назад +1757

    "the B word and the G word"
    damn even the names of two genders are offensive now

    • @fullmoonhunter8293
      @fullmoonhunter8293 5 лет назад +67

      Boy girl boy girl boy girl boy girl

    • @eljefe5957
      @eljefe5957 5 лет назад +3

      Shim

    • @iamatoaster2693
      @iamatoaster2693 5 лет назад +14

      @@fullmoonhunter8293 "I'M TELLING!"

    • @fullmoonhunter8293
      @fullmoonhunter8293 5 лет назад +9

      @@iamatoaster2693 I'll just play victim it works for them

    • @scooscotch1535
      @scooscotch1535 5 лет назад +21

      Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl, Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl Boy, girl

  • @asiaglaspie1394
    @asiaglaspie1394 4 года назад +2041

    The word “baby” is already GENDER NEUTRAL.

    • @livewellwitheds6885
      @livewellwitheds6885 4 года назад +117

      So is kid/child

    • @kayr2901
      @kayr2901 4 года назад +72

      Asia Glaspie so is adult

    • @mycatisthecutestcatonearth199
      @mycatisthecutestcatonearth199 4 года назад +8

      Nah I call small boys bebehs

    • @otosonet6693
      @otosonet6693 4 года назад +3

      So now it is meta neutral. Neutralization of neutral.

    • @corrupt1user
      @corrupt1user 2 года назад +4

      Well, it can't be pronounced without "babe", but then again, "woman" can't be pronounced without "man".

  • @heatherwoodley8244
    @heatherwoodley8244 Год назад +14

    Anyone with even the slightest knowledge about child psychology knows instantly that these kids are simply parroting what they think their parents want in order to impress them. They have no idea how they really feel because they haven't even discovered themselves yet! It's maddening and sick.

  • @tam-i-am2022
    @tam-i-am2022 5 лет назад +3520

    As a social worker, I view this as a type of child abuse.

    • @elleciagregory5713
      @elleciagregory5713 5 лет назад +160

      Tami Moore as do I I’ve commented something the same this is child abuse and should be punished I think it’s so gross children are being forced to be trans or this non binary

    • @stonedimmaculate2942
      @stonedimmaculate2942 5 лет назад +10

      agreed

    • @tam-i-am2022
      @tam-i-am2022 5 лет назад +72

      Michael Ayling I wish I had that power. We would have to start with state legislation to try to make this behavior illegal. That would not be an easy task, as Tolerance is being forced into society.

    • @shirol2180
      @shirol2180 5 лет назад +18

      Honestly agree. People like this make me both sad and embarrassed to be trans.

    • @kimboinlimbo8466
      @kimboinlimbo8466 5 лет назад +3

      Ageee

  • @veeeter8402
    @veeeter8402 5 лет назад +3479

    “theybie”
    do they not know that baby is already gender neutral lmao

    • @dankendabby9227
      @dankendabby9227 5 лет назад +216

      Just people making shit up as we go along in life.

    • @breeny09
      @breeny09 5 лет назад +66

      MY THOUGHTS LOL

    • @coreyS33
      @coreyS33 5 лет назад +36

      They are unique and they use unique language wake up bro

    • @Charleeh3
      @Charleeh3 5 лет назад +9

      They’re assuming

    • @laura.loverich
      @laura.loverich 5 лет назад +1

      Omg yes 😂😂

  • @Apache32D
    @Apache32D 5 лет назад +3062

    Lots of women like guy activities and doesn’t make them trans

    • @hannahmiller6178
      @hannahmiller6178 5 лет назад +151

      James Smith yeah when I was young it just made me a tomboy... apparently if my parents were decent parents they should’ve started transitioning me

    • @your_belief_vs_everything
      @your_belief_vs_everything 5 лет назад +3

      You bigot.

    • @pixeldragon7899
      @pixeldragon7899 5 лет назад +61

      @@your_belief_vs_everything But it's true. I play videogames, used to play with hot wheels, hate shopping, hate makeup and hate dresses. I pretty much always wear tracksuit pants and hoodies. I am completely fine identifying as a girl, my biological sex and don't experience dysphoria. Just because I'd rather play Minecraft than go shopping, doesn't mean I'm a boy.

    • @amim4701
      @amim4701 5 лет назад +34

      I was a tomboy, played with the boys in neighborhood, but am a girl...

    • @Taylor_mamaof2
      @Taylor_mamaof2 5 лет назад +20

      James Smith exactly. I was a tomboy growing up. I hated wearing dresses, brushing my hair, I played with a lot of boy toys (esp hot wheels), always wanted to be the tough girl tomboy character, etc. I had a lot of boy friends as I got along with them better. But I also loved dance class (especially ballet) & dolls. Then when I was a teenager I was much more on the girly side.
      Now I’m both, and that is NORMAL lol. I honestly feel bad for those people who are so wrapped up in their gender identity.. I’m so thankful I didn’t have cuckoo banana parents that brainwashed me to believe I was transgender.

  • @Tcpix02
    @Tcpix02 3 года назад +27

    This is just child abuse. The parent is causing so much confusion and damage to this childs self identifty. Blaire I have so much respect for you for speaking out and addressing these issues. Thank you!

  • @hjc9114
    @hjc9114 5 лет назад +2618

    Them: gender is a social construct
    Also them: You like running around therefore you are a boy

    • @amymills9228
      @amymills9228 5 лет назад +86

      THIS

    • @I_scooter_fast
      @I_scooter_fast 5 лет назад +134

      Precisely. The argument eats itself.

    • @ALu-nq8rf
      @ALu-nq8rf 5 лет назад +126

      YES
      This is insane how they're taking regular kid activities and assigning them to a gender.

    • @atropabelladonna3120
      @atropabelladonna3120 5 лет назад +77

      This is what I have been saying for years now.
      These people are full of shit.
      Let the kids grow and figure out things on their own, fuck's sake!

    • @las8883
      @las8883 5 лет назад +40

      The hypocrisy is irritating

  • @nataliewilson4788
    @nataliewilson4788 5 лет назад +1100

    “So you were born a girl but you feel like a boy right? That kinda means your transgender...”
    Your honor... leading the witness!!

    • @lah67
      @lah67 5 лет назад +22

      totally. someone needs to forensic interviews of these "transgender" kids.

    • @davidkane1658
      @davidkane1658 5 лет назад +1

      Right!!!!!

    • @keerya4179
      @keerya4179 5 лет назад +46

      Specifically children. It's a well know fact in investigations, you don't ask direct questions to children.
      Because children try to please adults, if you ask a question they'll try to give you the answer you want to hear instead of the truth, because for them the right answer is the answer who make the other happy.
      So when interrogating a child you can't ask "is THIS what happened ?", you have to ask "what happened ?".
      So in this case the non-leading question would be "how do you feel like concerning gender ?". But then the child wouldn't be able to answer because I'm pretty sure they don't understand the concept of gender.

    • @t.j.watson7112
      @t.j.watson7112 5 лет назад +3

      @@keerya4179 facts! I couldn't have said it better

    • @refinnej5302
      @refinnej5302 5 лет назад +7

      and asking the poor child if they like doing quiet things or having fun.... uhmmm.... telling your child they can only have fun if they are a boy is gross!

  • @gabyg1210
    @gabyg1210 5 лет назад +2633

    In 18 years we will see “my parents forced me to change gender” all over the news

  • @ryanbickel3656
    @ryanbickel3656 3 года назад +52

    This genuinely makes me feel so sad. These poor kids are going to have to deal with a lot growing up. Imagine the damage...

  • @legendarywatermelon946
    @legendarywatermelon946 5 лет назад +738

    “At five years old I didn’t want to be a boy or a girl. I wanted to be a Power Ranger”
    Why is this a mood

  • @ladyyoruichichan9006
    @ladyyoruichichan9006 4 года назад +1209

    "I didn't want to be a boy or a girl. I wanted to be a power ranger"
    - Blair White.
    BEST QUOTE EVER!

    • @tjhooker824
      @tjhooker824 4 года назад +21

      Seriously. That encapsulates how kids think.

    • @blehbloop6584
      @blehbloop6584 4 года назад +8

      I wanted to be a ninja from the village hidden in the leaves loool

    • @AliLiz91
      @AliLiz91 4 года назад +2

      I wanted to be a Pokémon Master ):

    • @bloodeagle2234
      @bloodeagle2234 4 года назад +1

      I wanted to be the last airbender and danny phantom, or a transformer am I airbender sexual? Or ghostsexual? Or robotsexual?

    • @khfan4life365
      @khfan4life365 4 года назад

      I wanted to be a mermaid but my parents didn’t stitch my legs together and put gills on me. That poor child doesn’t have a chance.

  • @emjay600
    @emjay600 5 лет назад +2424

    “Do you like doing quiet _girly_ activities or being loud and bouncy and annoying people like a _boy_ ?”
    Sexism much?

    • @zessazzenessa1345
      @zessazzenessa1345 5 лет назад +242

      Em Jay I agree....... it's manipulative to talk to children like that, and worse to use the gender descriptions that person uses.

    • @risingsuperstarfrost3096
      @risingsuperstarfrost3096 5 лет назад +14

      Doesn’t Blaire reinforce strict gender roles herself?

    • @helenaj9436
      @helenaj9436 5 лет назад +137

      Right? My daughter loves to fish, play in the dirt, get dirty.... She also loves to use my make-up and shoes for dress up.
      She's 9.
      She's not trans. She's not a lesbian. She's who she is.
      Just bc she is a "she" doesn't mean she has to be a secretary.
      This whole "theybie" notion makes my head hurt.

    • @no_where_land9947
      @no_where_land9947 5 лет назад +75

      Agreed. Girls can be just as rowdy and boys can be just as quiet

    • @kristyklaws3925
      @kristyklaws3925 5 лет назад +29

      That dude or wtf ever it is should not have a kid. Straight up manipulation and abuse

  • @JanaVanana
    @JanaVanana 2 года назад +50

    I was very boy-like until maybe 16 years old and it scares me that if I had such crazy parents, they would totally get me on hormones.

    • @Northstar54
      @Northstar54 Год назад +2

      I was friends with almost entirely boys in middle school, and thinking about how hormone pumped and sliced up I'd be if my parents were like this scares me.

  • @burtmiller3652
    @burtmiller3652 4 года назад +1960

    The “B” word and the “G” word? Really? Wtf? Are these people serious? So saying boy or girl is now inappropriate?

    • @myra961
      @myra961 4 года назад +90

      Its getting more ridiculous.

    • @Voornaz
      @Voornaz 4 года назад +5

      Yt gone to trash

    • @kpi4162
      @kpi4162 4 года назад +10

      This is amazing, the first steps to transhumanism, remember all this in 30-50 years

    • @awesomeone465
      @awesomeone465 4 года назад +7

      So, according to this guy( the man with the black out screen part) if his girl was a tomboy he'd think she wanted to be a boy. It's just how that age acts. Tomboys end up wanting babies& getting married after grow up. At least 2 transgender same sex can't have baby only thing I can feel better about. Survival of the fittest& true biology of actually carrying a baby produced by sperm entering HER.

    • @billrogers1122
      @billrogers1122 4 года назад +8

      Voornaz YT trash needs correction world gone to trash. These "parents" need a good slap with a pillow case filled with pop cans. Let your kids be kids. Media attention is what's driving these limelite whores

  • @nothanks150
    @nothanks150 4 года назад +2914

    It scares me that I was a tom boy in the 90s and if I was a kid now I’d be considered trans.

    • @awaitingaugust1681
      @awaitingaugust1681 4 года назад +314

      EXACTLY. Thank God our parents weren't insane.

    • @chelsmac3179
      @chelsmac3179 4 года назад +104

      This!! Was literally thinking the same thing while scrolling

    • @user-js8dp9iy9s
      @user-js8dp9iy9s 4 года назад +148

      Literally same here. I’m the only girl and have three brothers. Was a complete and total Tom boy and then I started puberty and had huge boobs and was totally uncomfortably with them bc of how people treated me because of them-- it know for a fact if I were a kid now, and said I like “guy” things and don’t feel comfortable with my body, I’d be told I was a guy. Terrifying

    • @respectalgebra
      @respectalgebra 4 года назад +29

      Well most people have the common sense not to assume that but there are these people yes. Not to say that these kids aren't trans but you really don't know.

    • @annabelleew.9090
      @annabelleew.9090 4 года назад +52

      No Thanks SERIOUSLY! when i was like 5 i used to hate wearing girl swimsuits. i would always wear swim shorts w no shirt. so glad my parents didn’t turn me into a boy😟 cuz now i’m pretty girly or w.e

  • @orangebanana9182
    @orangebanana9182 5 лет назад +2580

    "Do you want to do boring lame GIRLY things, or do want to do fun cool BOY things? You like BOY things right? RIGHT?"

    • @tinadailey1297
      @tinadailey1297 5 лет назад +207

      Makes me utterly sick!!! Child abuse ppl. Easy to see easy to understand!!!! Demonic bull shit forced in these innocent little kids

    • @carolinejoy8563
      @carolinejoy8563 5 лет назад +165

      Orange Banana I know!! That part upset me so much! Like hello girls can identify as girls and still like to run and tackle and do typical “boy” actives.

    • @courtnrysalamone7677
      @courtnrysalamone7677 5 лет назад +33

      Omfg thats exactly what they said and im disappointed that its not an exaggeration

    • @ciaragoering
      @ciaragoering 5 лет назад +5

      Exactly.

    • @ciaragoering
      @ciaragoering 5 лет назад +77

      *Breaking news: only boys ever have fun.*

  • @patrickhart7458
    @patrickhart7458 3 года назад +29

    "I didn't want to be a boy or a girl. I wanted to be a Power Ranger." That's iconic 😂😂😂

    • @cradica
      @cradica 7 месяцев назад

      Honestly I just wanted to live in my imagination

  • @sophie-yn7rr
    @sophie-yn7rr 3 года назад +1608

    people will say “abolish gender roles” and then say that their child is trans because they engage in “boy activities”

    • @NoOne-wt6om
      @NoOne-wt6om 3 года назад +141

      If running around and having fun is a boy activity then majority of kids are boys.

    • @ReallyMartha
      @ReallyMartha 3 года назад +80

      Kid wants to wear a dress? Must be a girl!
      The logic. Where is it?

    • @darrinstanfill6846
      @darrinstanfill6846 3 года назад +9

      @@ReallyMartha omfg if that poor kid showed any real interest whatsoever in doing that they’d be in the fng bedroom with him performing the surgery themselves

    • @sparkly3tchr
      @sparkly3tchr 3 года назад +57

      I always find this confusing about non binary. The actual explanation about non binary reinforces gender stereotypes

    • @omgitshanaaa
      @omgitshanaaa 3 года назад +2

      I swear to God.

  • @hirovillion892
    @hirovillion892 5 лет назад +867

    I'm calling it: in twenty years, we're going to see those same children posting videos/messages on social medias saying how their parents ruined their kids lives

    • @TheSoulgirl
      @TheSoulgirl 5 лет назад +1

      Look at many recorded cases back through the years and massive regret is expressed

    • @mysmirandam.6618
      @mysmirandam.6618 5 лет назад +5

      YES just like when they would do automatic surgery on intersex babies. Poor things aren't old enough to know anything.

    • @givemethefuckingcereal7646
      @givemethefuckingcereal7646 5 лет назад +3

      If they haven’t committed suicide yet because they wanted to be the gender they were born with
      I’m LGBT but this is awful

    • @paulsmith1690
      @paulsmith1690 5 лет назад

      @David Vanpatten im gay as well. btw LGB are based on sexual orientation , not T.

    • @jeremydelgadillo3205
      @jeremydelgadillo3205 5 лет назад

      so gay people raised by straight parents do that all the time?

  • @hellradiolives
    @hellradiolives 5 лет назад +826

    It is infuriating how many times that it is said to that child "You feel like you are a boy, right? That's how you feel, RIGHT? RIGHT?"

    • @CandyApples4ever
      @CandyApples4ever 5 лет назад +99

      hellradiolives
      That’s called coaxing.

    • @mattflanagan3498
      @mattflanagan3498 5 лет назад +19

      Literally is. Especially because gender isn't a feeling uwu

    • @byronschroedel432
      @byronschroedel432 5 лет назад +64

      More disturbing was the gender rule reinforcement stereo type. You like to run and play, be crazy right. You do not want to sit quite playing with dolls, it's because you are a boy.

    • @rapunzelagain
      @rapunzelagain 5 лет назад +6

      That made me CRAZY.

    • @finkamain1621
      @finkamain1621 5 лет назад +8

      The children that are corrupted by these parents will be broken so bad that they'll either commit suicide, or have such a vengeance for their twisted upbringing that they''ll be in a right-wing death squad. Either outcome is not good and could have been prevented if the parent's frontal cortex functioned with higher processing power than that of a sloth's rectum!

  • @alexandraschinteie9058
    @alexandraschinteie9058 3 года назад +44

    Almost every girl goes in the boy stage, MEANING that we like playing like boys do, but that doesn’t mean nothing!!! We like to experiment, every human does. Thank you for doing this video!!! Hope other people see it.

  • @keithtynan7469
    @keithtynan7469 5 лет назад +1151

    The fact that you’re trans and that you are speaking so sensibly about this may be the most hopeful thing I have heard in a decade.

    • @RandoYoutubeAccount
      @RandoYoutubeAccount 5 лет назад +54

      Yup. Don't worry. As a trans person I can vouch and say most trans people I'm friends with have similar points of view on this topic (Including me). Unfortunately just like cisgendered people we have crazies too, and that's where the spotlight often goes.

    • @papi4805
      @papi4805 5 лет назад +2

      I absolutely agree.

    • @ogbunnygirl
      @ogbunnygirl 5 лет назад

      Keith Tynan exactly

    • @material-cheshirekhatter2413
      @material-cheshirekhatter2413 2 года назад

      1k like

  • @robyn6898
    @robyn6898 5 лет назад +822

    I love when people try to prove their kids are trans by asking leading questions.
    “You were born a girl but feel like a boy, RIGHT?”

    • @Aloysius_OHare
      @Aloysius_OHare 5 лет назад +86

      Rachel B the ‘right’ makes kids think their parents are right 100%

    • @claire315
      @claire315 5 лет назад +13

      I saw that too....and that's "leading the witness"

    • @sabihasayeed1670
      @sabihasayeed1670 5 лет назад +19

      Especially cause kids have a natural tendency to just nod their head or say "yes" to yes/no questions, even if they don't understand the question. I noticed that with my little cousins.

    • @easybreezy9666
      @easybreezy9666 5 лет назад +3

      What does it feel like to be a girl as compared to a boy I’ve only ever been in this one body

    • @azadalamiq
      @azadalamiq 5 лет назад +2

      @Blunt Bandit 509 transgender is a thing, but chances are none of these parents are, they are just fad following since being "diverse" and "oppressed" is the new IN thing. like how teens of the late 90s and 2000s all considered being depressed and suicidal was the "in" thing.

  • @CaptainCocaine
    @CaptainCocaine 5 лет назад +3934

    "A transgender 3 year old is like a vegan cat.
    We all know who's making the lifestyle choices."

    • @girrl88
      @girrl88 5 лет назад +95

      I am so writing this down. Not the transgender bit but the overall burn.

    • @electromancer2645
      @electromancer2645 5 лет назад +2

      Rogan?

    • @d.johnson9957
      @d.johnson9957 5 лет назад +9

      This comment is gold!

    • @karfomachet7265
      @karfomachet7265 5 лет назад +63

      I had to cry when I read your comment because my ex had decided to go vegan and they took our little kitty . Guess what that cat died a few months latter .

    • @morganthesloth8816
      @morganthesloth8816 5 лет назад +13

      girrl88 don’t compare us vegans to this bullshit💀

  • @izzie-8807
    @izzie-8807 Год назад +16

    When I was 5, I was raised around my male cousins. As a girl, I rough housed with my male cousins. Just because I enjoyed rough housing didn't mean I was immediately told I should be a boy. What a concept! Girls can be tomboys, boys can be feminine. It's not a problem! Not everyone has to be trans and fall into this when they're still babies!

  • @xbravocat
    @xbravocat 5 лет назад +2961

    the “b word” and the “g word” okay this is just getting ridiculous ;-;

  • @juliefreeman7477
    @juliefreeman7477 5 лет назад +876

    its almost as if these types of people are perpetuating the very gender stereotypes that they claim to want to destroy

    • @Sofia-og4qw
      @Sofia-og4qw 5 лет назад +15

      SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

    • @ookipuki
      @ookipuki 5 лет назад +1

      They would rather a cis person be transgender , and they would rather a transgender be transgender.... 🙃 fuck humans

    • @valley5617
      @valley5617 5 лет назад

      Julie Freeman yep. It’s like racism - you have to be a racist to recognize racism.

    • @meganneedham5272
      @meganneedham5272 5 лет назад +5

      Well said. That was some judgmental sexist bull shit.

    • @FriedEggsWithChips
      @FriedEggsWithChips 5 лет назад +2

      Not all trans people want to destroy gender stereotypes, some may actually feel that they fit them. Trans boys/men in my area are often aggressive (random punch ups!) and trans women often present as extremely, almost exaggeratedly feminine (extra high heels, OTT makeup). From what I’ve seen they embrace stereotypes!

  • @_ViTU
    @_ViTU 4 года назад +718

    I can already see these poor kids hating their parents when they become teenagers. And honestly, I can't blame them

    • @arcoirissystem433
      @arcoirissystem433 4 года назад +37

      I was raised by a sociopath (I'm not calling them that just because. They are actually what I'm saying. ) who controlled every aspect of my life and to keep control always kept that down is up up is down with life. They may not be sociopaths but they sure as fuck are going to cause the kid to have a number of issues. (I'm not just saying that. I mean it literally. This could cause a number of disorders because of the way there brains are being forced to develop.) I second that they will hate there parents.

  • @Irv885
    @Irv885 3 года назад +29

    These so called "Parents" that force their gender ideologies onto their children should be sent to prison for child abuse.

  • @tylerforde87
    @tylerforde87 4 года назад +2198

    My son pretends to be a dog. I'm starting his canine replacement therapy on Monday

    • @corystockley3107
      @corystockley3107 4 года назад +27

      Reminds me of that Cyanide and Happiness short about the trigender pyrofox.

    • @bitchybitch9517
      @bitchybitch9517 4 года назад +18

      Seriously: when i was a kid i used to pretend that i was a dog; i'd drink and eat out of the dogs dishes, and crawl around the floor and stuff. The dog would freak out and get peed off. Eventually: i got tapeworm by drinking out of the dogs bowl, the doctor gave me an antibiotic and told me to never do that again. Trust me... I haven't since then! Don't let your kids get around the doggie-smelling water.

    • @bitchybitch9517
      @bitchybitch9517 4 года назад +3

      @synchromorph walmart sells BB guns.

    • @Mallayah004
      @Mallayah004 4 года назад +3

      Lol!!!

    • @bitchybitch9517
      @bitchybitch9517 4 года назад +1

      @synchromorph for target practice and having a fun time - doing stupid people off. 😅😂🤣😎

  • @addiemorrison4274
    @addiemorrison4274 5 лет назад +826

    Did everyone forget about the word “tomboy”? Just because a girl like rough things, that makes them a strong woman, or masculine. THEY DONT NEED TO CHANGE GENDERS FOR THAT! 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @scraw6389
      @scraw6389 5 лет назад +53

      Addie Morrison oh yeah back in the 90s. I loved wearing baggy jeans and playing Pokémon with the boys. And I’m so glad my parents didn’t see that as me something it wasn’t

    • @dc_ox
      @dc_ox 5 лет назад +64

      Seriously, by assuming their child is transgender because if their interests - they're the ones reinforcing gender stereotypes

    • @ligaskirbauska8652
      @ligaskirbauska8652 5 лет назад +10

      Addie Morrison I was tomboy,running all day with boys,fighting with them,jumping in river from bridge,hate skirts and love very comfy closes,preferably pants and t-shirt..I’m not trans and I’m not even lesbian...I’m just very strong,dominant boss woman...I think it’s stupid to even ask kids what they are or what they consider they are..kids don’t know shit about nothing..need to grow,develop,learn,enjoy life,get to puberty and discover what they want when they’re grown.life is given precisely to discover what you want..to experiment and to find you’re self...no one is born knowing what kind of sexual partner they will prefer like they don’t know what they gonna be by profesión when they’ll grow up,they just listen what other kids,people say,what options are there and chose whatever...I didn’t became firefighter and didn’t went to space...with parents like this I would have had dick before I’m even understanding what I’m searching in this life...

    • @azadalamiq
      @azadalamiq 5 лет назад +4

      @@dc_ox yup ppl think "gender roles" is an identity. gender roles change with the race/ culture and species. all the animals in the animal kingdom have roles based on the sex, but it doesn't make their identity, just the roles they play in their community.
      Like lionesses doing the hunting, while the lion will scare animals into the trap of the lionesses, or watch the cubs when cubs are born. or like how female hyenas are the dominate of the species and males are treated like trash.
      for humans gender roles changes with the cultures and the trends, like wearing make up, professions, and exceptions to those existed. Like having female cooks in manor houses, when its was a male dominate job.
      During the PC era of the 80s, the word "sex" was a no no so ppl grew up saying "gender" now a days "sex" is more acceptable, and gender became a heated thing because now with everyone suddenly trans (since its popular to be trans now) you gotta separate physical sex and gender of person. the fact that all these ppl just blindly accept these trends is alarming.
      I rather have concrete scientific proof. not "i feels"
      to top it off these ppl are damaging their kids and they are gonna grow up lost and confused with a high rate of suicide because the kid will not be developmentally balance person.

    • @LovelyAngel.
      @LovelyAngel. 5 лет назад +6

      Another thing that irritates me is assuming every tomboy to be a lesbian. I remember watching a wedding video of a tomboy girl with her husband and lesbians in the comments we're all like "MY GAYDAR IS GOING CRAZY", "SHE'S DEFINITELY GONNA LEAVE HIM FOR A GIRL" and when called out they were defending themselves that "nobody can understand a joke" but that was going beyond appropriate...

  • @trenicejohnson15
    @trenicejohnson15 4 года назад +1496

    When my brother was younger he got mad when we called him a boy and not a chicken nugget.

    • @PeekABoooXP
      @PeekABoooXP 4 года назад +88

      At 22 I relate so much to your brother

    • @graciamaria9218
      @graciamaria9218 4 года назад +2

      🤣

    • @catherineparis8678
      @catherineparis8678 4 года назад +44

      Bruh I'm dead not a chicken nugget. Was he regular or Wendy's spicy nugg

    • @erb1998
      @erb1998 4 года назад +5

      HAHAHA TRENIIICE I LOVE THIS

    • @krowsilva3467
      @krowsilva3467 4 года назад +13

      This actually caused me to break out laughing

  • @waveafterwave0723
    @waveafterwave0723 3 года назад +13

    Do NOT push your children to be anything but children. 💯

  • @evvyrose1928
    @evvyrose1928 4 года назад +1784

    My older sister refused to wear girl clothes until high school... and now she is one of the most feminine women I know. People evolve, people change, and figure out who they really are.

    • @CandyKitty_Doll
      @CandyKitty_Doll 3 года назад +36

      Same for me, but opposite.

    • @godhateseveryonewhodoesntr5977
      @godhateseveryonewhodoesntr5977 3 года назад +38

      I hated wearing dresses as a kid, hated pink, liked stereotypically boy things,... I still do, but I don't feel the need to identify as anything other than a woman. Masculinity and feminity are just stereotypes and don't mean anything when it comes to what you are.

    • @veronicapetrov184
      @veronicapetrov184 3 года назад +10

      ikr and you can like "boy" clothes but still be a girl

    • @vnovice
      @vnovice 3 года назад +14

      I'm 53 and don't own a dress lol. I'm more comfortable in jeans and a men's t-shirt, but I feel very much like a woman.

    • @reginapriest5287
      @reginapriest5287 3 года назад +5

      When I was a kid I hated pink and red with passion! I also didn't like wearing dresses. I loved blue and played with cars and guns in boys all company. I am attracted to both genders. Now I do wear dresses occasionally, blue is my absolute favorite color and I have an amazing husband, so...
      Yes, you're right. People change and evolve.

  • @PanDaL0v3r11
    @PanDaL0v3r11 5 лет назад +452

    Moral of the story: don’t force anything onto your child. Period.

    • @jocelyncooper1738
      @jocelyncooper1738 5 лет назад +18

      As a child who grew up having this forced on them (not stuff like this) I can say that these parents are setting themselves up to have very angry and resentful children in the future.

    • @theliberalrepublican
      @theliberalrepublican 5 лет назад +15

      What about fruits and vegetables? ( to eat)

    • @ilovepandas5387
      @ilovepandas5387 5 лет назад +1

      Except veggies

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 5 лет назад +1

      @a v When you said "clean his room" all I thought was Jordan Peterson

  • @Lakeviewmom
    @Lakeviewmom 5 лет назад +586

    It is now “trendy “ to have a trans kid and show how open you are to it.. it is about the parent not the kid ...

    • @tobyroyson9336
      @tobyroyson9336 5 лет назад +25

      exactly. Its not about the kid in the slightest its about bringing attention to the moron adults so everyone can see how 'with it' they are but nevermind about psychologically confusing the childs head as long as they look good its fine apparently.

    • @trishl.3796
      @trishl.3796 5 лет назад +6

      They try to act like cis people are trying to force things on their kids when their the ones forcing their lifestyle on their kids. Let your child decide what they want to do. No one should be forcing their kid to believe or so anything. LET THEM TELL YOU WHAT THEY WANT. I hate parents like this

    • @mariceladaini9304
      @mariceladaini9304 5 лет назад

      I have a 5 year old who born male identifies as female. The amount of money and time I spend on seeing doctors and the amount of worry I experience is not so I can look "trendy". And just because I do consider myself open doesn't mean I'm blind to the fact that my child will have to face the opinions of folks like you.

    • @Bioniking
      @Bioniking 5 лет назад

      Trendy amongst morons!

    • @N3207H05
      @N3207H05 5 лет назад

      @@mariceladaini9304 a 5 y old... with 5 i wanted to be spider man and sometimes simba from lion king... why would you take it soooo serious what your 5 old want to be... if he wants a tatoo on his face you also dont go to the next tatoo studio, its just a 5 y dont make fun of his wishes but he is just 5 and therefore unable to even grasp what gender or gender roles in society rly means.

  • @blaisetzu
    @blaisetzu 2 года назад +11

    This is insane!!!!!!!! These kids at 4 & 5 are still learning how to speak and cannot even articulate their feelings in-depth.

  • @cupcakexlindsay
    @cupcakexlindsay 4 года назад +3173

    What the heck is this “theyby” term?! It’s a baby. Not a “sheby” or a “heby.” The word “baby” is already gender neutral!

    • @mamamarianovits9029
      @mamamarianovits9029 4 года назад +54

      cupcakexlindsay
      Thank you.!!!

    • @shaheedawilliam498
      @shaheedawilliam498 4 года назад +8

      You and I know that, but these delusional morons will not stop at anything to promote their agenda

    • @shaheedawilliam498
      @shaheedawilliam498 4 года назад +5

      @Andrew MurrayDo your homework! FGM is either forced, coerced, or accepted by the victim by "subliminal messaging" under the guise of it being a right of passage, that it is what a woman is meant to be, that a woman has to be " neutered" to curb her GOD GIVEN, desires by altering her GOD GIVEN physiology.

    • @cameronhowe1110
      @cameronhowe1110 4 года назад +1

      Shaheeda William actually most of the women don’t know they are going to have it happen

    • @claudiamachado8032
      @claudiamachado8032 4 года назад

      This!!!!

  • @darlynn4736
    @darlynn4736 5 лет назад +889

    "so do you wanna be quiet and girly or have fun and jump around like a boy?"
    um... I thought these people think gender roles are harmful? but that person just said that only girls are quiet and gentle and only boys can have fun. that's sexist in and of itself. seriously? of course the child's going to pick the latter. I'm concerned for him/her.
    edit: damn thx guys glad to see others noticed that too lol

    • @irreligiousidiot3541
      @irreligiousidiot3541 5 лет назад +6

      They were mocking gender stereotypes.

    • @soliloquys
      @soliloquys 5 лет назад +19

      My daughter likes jumping around and acting crazy. She also likes princess stuff.

    • @No1More1Mr1Nice1Guy1
      @No1More1Mr1Nice1Guy1 5 лет назад +31

      the harder they try to be non conformist, the more conformist they become.

    • @SadChatt
      @SadChatt 5 лет назад +8

      Apparently I was a boy when I was little

    • @GamingBT
      @GamingBT 5 лет назад +2

      Completely agree with your statement. Allow me to chip in with a linguist remark : it's said "In and of itself", not "on of itself". Not sure if that's a typo or not, just wanted to let you know.

  • @hyunjinsbread2826
    @hyunjinsbread2826 5 лет назад +1320

    I was the biggest tomboy as a child and I’m still a cis female... why do activities determine gender

    • @poisonedcupcake6860
      @poisonedcupcake6860 5 лет назад +65

      You can say you're just a female, you don't have to use pc terms.

    • @phoenixbillion1842
      @phoenixbillion1842 5 лет назад +22

      I won't call myself "cis," because they can go fuck themselves, if they wanna turn me into a Cissy.

    • @madmouse1016
      @madmouse1016 5 лет назад +28

      Same! I used to be a huge Tomboy, and even have a small collection of hot wheels and I used to have multiple car toys x3 of course now I dress in whatever I think looks good, but know I'm a girl lol

    • @Robin-kp1jg
      @Robin-kp1jg 5 лет назад +1

      hyunjin’s bread same

    • @jagp135
      @jagp135 5 лет назад +3

      Aubrey Garoutte Yes

  • @JaninaPetersJ9
    @JaninaPetersJ9 2 года назад +12

    I remember hearing a story about some distant relatives not baptizing their daughter because they wanted their daughter to select her religion when their daughter was old enough and everyone thought that was wild.

  • @xersys
    @xersys 5 лет назад +3767

    A transgender child is like a vegan cat. we all know who's making that choice.

    • @vaeringjar1387
      @vaeringjar1387 5 лет назад +112

      My favorite comment, right here.

    • @caz155
      @caz155 5 лет назад +70

      Best way to describe it ever!!

    • @alexgordonson7729
      @alexgordonson7729 5 лет назад +37

      This is perfect

    • @BiancaZombie
      @BiancaZombie 5 лет назад +50

      It's pure parental projection to virtue signal on social media for dopamine "likes"

    • @catimperator6783
      @catimperator6783 5 лет назад +8

      Paul Joseph Watson said that

  • @jessy7796
    @jessy7796 5 лет назад +394

    That was so toxic. Sitting there TELLING your kid they’re trans and then making them think if they like ”running around, jumping and tackling people” over playing with dolls it means they want to be a boy. I can’t. That was the stupidest example

    • @Amber-cv7ir
      @Amber-cv7ir 5 лет назад +21

      Yup.. I did that as a little girl, I was referred to as a tomboy, I just found action figures sticks and wrestling fun. D; but I’m still a girl, and I think I became more girlie at 15 but I still enjoy male activities. :/

    • @johnbishop9621
      @johnbishop9621 5 лет назад +32

      It's not even that. It's just reinforcing gender stereotypes by blindly assuming girls can't have the same fun as boys and vice versa.

    • @ivytaylor1494
      @ivytaylor1494 5 лет назад +17

      Imagine a typical hetero couple telling their son that running around and tackling people is what “boys do” and that’s why they can’t be a girl. It would be considered sexist, close minded, and “reinforcing harmful gender rolls” but if you’re making the case for your child to be trans, suddenly gender is simplified down to what toys you like to play with. And like Blair mentioned, it’s such a tiny part of the population that is actually trans, honestly less than 0.01% but these people want to base their entire approach to parenting on the off chance their child isn’t normal. Why can’t we just let kids be kids and leave it at that???

    • @TheLadyIntegra
      @TheLadyIntegra 5 лет назад +4

      @@Amber-cv7ir Omg same, total rough and tumble tomboy until I hit puberty, then I hit my girly phase with respect to fashion, but I was still basically the same person with the same interests. I just matured out of my energy and started wanting to look pretty. I like being a woman, but I doubt I had any opinion about it either way as a little kid :/

    • @shell3037
      @shell3037 5 лет назад +2

      As a girl who plays football, they’re discouraging sports which need more female representation.

  • @remimartin5642
    @remimartin5642 4 года назад +1683

    When my brother was younger, he wanted to be a princess, he would wear those Disney princess dresses, wear those plastic heels and wear that cheep ass makeup, but he still called himself a boy. He wasn’t trans he just liked princesses

    • @eddiefisher3093
      @eddiefisher3093 4 года назад +244

      Exactly. They say gender doesn't matter but then if a boy likes feminine things they say "well he clearly is transgender" 😂 its very sad.

    • @vforsejrv7801
      @vforsejrv7801 4 года назад +83

      Dominic Francis All boys can play with “girls” toys and still be a normal boy. Transgender is something else!

    • @eddiefisher3093
      @eddiefisher3093 4 года назад +8

      @@vforsejrv7801 I know.

    • @CC-yh2yq
      @CC-yh2yq 4 года назад +64

      Doesn’t even make u gay or anything 😂 like u can like what u like and it shouldn’t have to mean anything in terms of ur sexuality or gender

    • @dimmiecandy2928
      @dimmiecandy2928 4 года назад +30

      My brother loved playing dolls with me when he was younger and he's not trans

  • @patricekanagy5898
    @patricekanagy5898 Год назад +11

    Omgosh. We are living in the end times. In order not to hurt peoples feelings, we have allowed their mental illness to overcome common sense and decency. We need to stop the madness with the children. It’s disturbing on many levels.

  • @weeewooo467
    @weeewooo467 5 лет назад +675

    “So you were born a girl, right”
    *silence*
    “But you wanna be a boy, so that kinda means your transgender.”
    *even more silence*

    • @sharonritchie7115
      @sharonritchie7115 5 лет назад +16

      Sparklepuppy00 Aj I was in a store where a mother was speaking incredibly loudly (so we all knew how woke she was), to her 2-3 year old boy. She wanted to know which girl clothes he liked best and if he wanted her to buy him the pretty scarves. The boy was pretty much non-verbal (occasional grunting) and ignoring her because he was looking at a toy. She acted like they were having an in depth conversation about which dress he preferred. The cognitive dissonance was amazing. I found myself absolutely enthralled with the way she was brainwashing this kid who had no clue what was going on.
      My son loved wearing his sisters princess shoes when he was two because they lit up. We thought it was cute and in no way used that situation as a defining moment of his sexuality. This is nuts!

    • @noeliatejeda1702
      @noeliatejeda1702 5 лет назад +2

      Sparklepuppy00 Aj I thought I was the only one that kind of picked up in the child being awkwardly silent, I was wondering if maybe I was missing something because of the black box or they cut out the kids voice.

    • @femboyrules7594
      @femboyrules7594 5 лет назад

      That guy isn't a guy who was born a female so she is a she. And looks hella ugly and creepy.

    • @dr.watson226
      @dr.watson226 5 лет назад

      dude literally answered his own question

    • @lilia8545
      @lilia8545 5 лет назад

      RIGHT?!!!

  • @leonoraerskine5848
    @leonoraerskine5848 4 года назад +1848

    My best mate since childhood used to cry if she had to wear skirts. Never had dolls and played with trunks. She's now a lesbian and wait for it, she loves to wear dresses and is super femme. Five is a ridiculous age to make assumptions about.

    • @eddiefisher3093
      @eddiefisher3093 4 года назад +143

      Totally agree. It's basically child abuse. Kids minds are still developing and they're experiencing so many new thoughts and feelings. Parents shouldn't be doing stuff like this. Let the child grow up and if they do end up being transgender don't transition them at such a young age as it can have serious problems later on

    • @godsballroom5298
      @godsballroom5298 4 года назад +59

      I was the same way growing up. Very Tom boy in clothing , I would cry a few times if people didn’t call me ‘’he” (I’m female). Today I’m a grown woman totally indulging on all the feminine joys life can offer . I’m an athletic, strong willed woman - not a man . My parents let me do my thing and they didn’t encourage male as an identity

    • @Human-kk6yo
      @Human-kk6yo 4 года назад +6

      I kind of did the opposite-- As a smol child I was really feminine and pushed into feminine things, as soon as I could dress myself that changed and I only wore dresses if I had no escape (school plays made me wear them even if I protested. Which I did. A lot) and its stayed that way. I'm now pretty sure I'm trans or under the trans umbrella somewhere. My parents may have their suspensions but they weren't going to raise me as non binary just because they didn't want to push me into something. It would still be pushing me into something. Parents can parent their kid how they want as long and the kid is safe, and let them do what they want (within reason) at that age. Just be prepared to support them no matter what

    • @tulip5210
      @tulip5210 4 года назад +20

      I was a tomboy as a kid, I got really annoyed when people assumed being a tomboy meant you were lesbian. Lesbians can be super girly like your friend became or super tomboyish, that isn’t an indicator of that. xD (not argueing with you agreeing and adding my story)

    • @shakiramulcahy9069
      @shakiramulcahy9069 4 года назад +6

      Idk, I want my child to just enjoy what they like, if I’m doing my makeup and my future son wants to wear it I’ll let him, if my future daughter wants to dress as superman for Halloween I’m going to let her.

  • @intuitive_duck
    @intuitive_duck 5 лет назад +674

    Only 3 minutes in. So this person is saying if she wants to be rambunctious that she must be a boy? Only girls play quiet games and things like that? Seems sexist to me. 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @mannyquinn5190
      @mannyquinn5190 5 лет назад +16

      D B uh uh girls sit quiet boys jump and act crazy. Which do u wanna be. Ugh

    • @papirojo4228
      @papirojo4228 5 лет назад +22

      My wife and I have twins. My son has always been a typical little boy. His sister always wanted pigtails, wear pink and purple princess dresses, and play in the mud and wrestled with him. She knows she’s a girl.

    • @alexnovak905
      @alexnovak905 5 лет назад +5

      Yeah, weird how it's always the ones advocating against something that are (sometimes even publicly) doing those exact things.

    • @charleyycharley9859
      @charleyycharley9859 5 лет назад +1

      Intuitive Duck exactly.

    • @deedeepinup
      @deedeepinup 5 лет назад +3

      Intuitive Duck my daughter is rowdy asf.. but loves being a lady! My son loves the quiet.. he is a thinker.. so is that wrong? It does seem that the stereotypes are being brought on by those who swear they are not a stereotype!

  • @TropicLarry69
    @TropicLarry69 2 года назад +11

    I loved to fight, play in the mud, and play with cars/action figures as a child. I was what was called a TOMBOY, which apparently is such a foreign concept nowadays. Just because a little girl enjoys more “boyish” activities doesn’t mean she’s a boy. smh. I’m so glad this stuff wasn’t around when I was a kid.

  • @KhorneDog
    @KhorneDog 5 лет назад +693

    Blaire, you hit the nail on the head, to paraphrase :"Teach them to be themselves and they'll figure it out for themselves. They always will."

  • @r4wrzi610
    @r4wrzi610 5 лет назад +559

    I think it's sad because those parents forgot what the words "tomboy" and "girly" are and like its gonna be sad when they regret transitioning when they are older

    • @Nosferata138
      @Nosferata138 5 лет назад +21

      My.kid doesn't remember what she told me when she was five. Imagine that..."I have weird hormones now because I said I wanted to be a boy when I was five? I don't even remember saying that."

    • @bunnysanae6019
      @bunnysanae6019 5 лет назад +21

      I was a tomboy as a child and liked both boys and girls (knew about sex when i was like, 5 from things I've seen). I grew up as a bisexual girly girl. Sure, i wanted a penis because it seemed way easier (no periods and pee easily) but i never wanted to switch my gender. Those kids could've experienced what i went through. they are forcing the whole nonbinary thing and agreeing to whatever their parents are saying when they aren't truly giving their child an ootion to pick what gender they are. Just a transgender because you like girl stuff or boy stuff. No option to oh, you must be a tomboy or girly. It's ridiculous.

    • @bearandrocky1
      @bearandrocky1 5 лет назад +6

      Sanae Mcmurray I swear we have lived the same life. I agree with/relate to everything you just said

    • @rosee8140
      @rosee8140 5 лет назад +1

      They probably think those terms are offensive.

    • @pooperscooper9176
      @pooperscooper9176 5 лет назад +1

      Livveh D; your right good point

  • @ThatGastrodon
    @ThatGastrodon 5 лет назад +929

    They're trying to get rid of tomboys and sensitive guys

    • @midgelionhart
      @midgelionhart 5 лет назад +25

      😯😯😓😓😓 sad world..

    • @susanfromcanton7908
      @susanfromcanton7908 4 года назад +7

      Exactly

    • @tasia3236
      @tasia3236 4 года назад +7

      Seriously

    • @goldieyesgods
      @goldieyesgods 4 года назад +5

      Bingo...its a movement they trying to do😔

    • @mariaj4573
      @mariaj4573 4 года назад +11

      I love wearing bow ties and funnel shirts and I've been told by people that I have to identify as genderfluid 😅

  • @artificer5372
    @artificer5372 3 года назад +16

    Although I disagree with trans ideology in general I'm glad there are people in the movement who aren't stupid

  • @ihateyou3557
    @ihateyou3557 5 лет назад +448

    Little kids can’t understand the concept of gender. Just let them be kids.

    • @agatakornacka9843
      @agatakornacka9843 5 лет назад +10

      If they do, then it's very basic, but regardless, kids don't even care if they're a boy or a girl, they're not bothered at all.

    • @KuromiLaBella
      @KuromiLaBella 5 лет назад +4

      Lol when I was 5, other kids I met didn't even know the difference between "him" or "her". They'd call everyone a him or her no matter their gender. Kids don't know shit because they're innocent and growing into the world.

    • @myyummybiologicallyfemalep6577
      @myyummybiologicallyfemalep6577 5 лет назад

      That's racist!

    • @totallyanonymousbish9599
      @totallyanonymousbish9599 5 лет назад

      Of course they do.

  • @lsltorres12
    @lsltorres12 5 лет назад +2862

    My son is four and he tells me he is a Ninja Turtle 🐢 should I be raising him as a Ninja Turtle instead of a human child 👶🏼?

    • @olabaskerville
      @olabaskerville 5 лет назад +88

      Leslie Torres my cousin, when he was a child, told about himself as a girl. It was so funny! 😂 Later he stopped and never returned to this. I think that probably because he has older (1 year difference) sister and he imitated her.

    • @romaholcomb7768
      @romaholcomb7768 5 лет назад +2

      Yes

    • @Sheppard3rd
      @Sheppard3rd 5 лет назад +43

      Get him a rat and let him give him the name splinter and its perfect

    • @mikebrown7143
      @mikebrown7143 5 лет назад +2

      Daaaaaaaamn

    • @anitaposa9164
      @anitaposa9164 5 лет назад +47

      Of course. How dare you limit your ninja turtle son?

  • @iceicetina5876
    @iceicetina5876 5 лет назад +500

    I was a tom boy as a little girl and I’m glad my mom and dad weren’t like this because I’m definitely not transgender.. let kids be kids this is ridiculous

    • @ChrisBrown-wk4qt
      @ChrisBrown-wk4qt 5 лет назад +17

      dude we had several tom-boys at my school even my cousins....they still loved men and grew up to marry men.

    • @kailynlaven
      @kailynlaven 5 лет назад +23

      legit. i wore only “boy” clothes, played “boy” games, and even wore boxers but i never considered myself a boy and not a girl. and my mom never said oh she obviously wants to be a boy, she just knew as a CHILD you’re allowed to like whatever the f you want without it being specific to one gender

    • @kailynlaven
      @kailynlaven 5 лет назад +3

      Where Is Waldo lol i didn’t 😂 i would just use them like normal underwear. they’re just mad comfy. i’m super girly now and don’t wear them anymore but shit i’ll still lounge around in them

    • @iceicetina5876
      @iceicetina5876 5 лет назад +4

      kailynlaven yep me too! I don’t think children really even grasp gender roles fully at that age so it’s probably confusing as hell to have parents like this. It’s going to cause an issues in their relationship one day I’m sure

    • @kailynlaven
      @kailynlaven 5 лет назад

      Lana Joy the hole isn’t just hanging out like the fabric covers but has an opening. so it doesn’t really matter if you don’t use it

  • @AnimalsAreBetterThanPeople
    @AnimalsAreBetterThanPeople 3 года назад +13

    Im just saying when i was 4 or 5 years old i used to shave my face with my dad (without blades obviously I was raised primarily by a single father) and for my and my dad it was a bonding thing but it didn't make me any less of a female.

  • @espressobliss5685
    @espressobliss5685 4 года назад +4846

    I asked my daughter what she wants to be when she gets older. She said a unicorn. She’s 4 is it too late to start the transition?

    • @kristinahamner5823
      @kristinahamner5823 4 года назад +377

      Shit, that was an option!?

    • @randomsillinessx3
      @randomsillinessx3 4 года назад +297

      It’s never too late to be a magical unicorn.

    • @mastermindslt1982
      @mastermindslt1982 4 года назад +239

      It's not too late, we can get her a horn, a tail and other parts quickly get in touch with the right to be dragons and unicorns movement, we eagerly expect your call.

    • @randomsillinessx3
      @randomsillinessx3 4 года назад +168

      @@mastermindslt1982 glitter is optional, but heavily suggested.

    • @espressobliss5685
      @espressobliss5685 4 года назад +47

      Thank you for all the suggestions!

  • @flowersforever5970
    @flowersforever5970 5 лет назад +526

    This is totally being forced on these children! People are too focused on being “different” than just being themselves!

    • @edamamebiru3960
      @edamamebiru3960 5 лет назад +2

      So true! Good comment. Thks.

    • @G3RM3X617
      @G3RM3X617 5 лет назад +8

      This is just fucked up I'm sorry they shouldn't be allowed to make that choice before 18 and 16 would be pushing it .... this shit is just fucking insane 5 year olds who haven't even gone through puberty cant seriously make dumb decisions and as adults we cant allow them to

    • @JJ1234J5
      @JJ1234J5 5 лет назад +1

      Being cis is forced on trans people like...... waaaaaay more......

  • @nj7969
    @nj7969 3 года назад +19

    “You’re a transgender boy. Do you know what that means?”
    IF SHE DOESN’T... THEN SHE ISN’T!!! Leading question like that, yeah lol we’re not pushing her at all.

  • @dawnmana5876
    @dawnmana5876 5 лет назад +1499

    I was very tomboyish as a child. I'm so glad I wasn't raised by this type of parent because I'm not trans at all. I was just a little girl who liked Ninja Turtles. Also, at 5, I wanted to be a horse. I even kept trying to eat grass.

    • @lefu7812
      @lefu7812 5 лет назад +23

      Yey ninja turtles. My favourite was Leo

    • @dontdiscriminatehateeveryo9263
      @dontdiscriminatehateeveryo9263 5 лет назад +68

      If you were a kid now your parents could let you live in a stable and wear a saddle.

    • @MusaKitty
      @MusaKitty 5 лет назад +3

      lol

    • @sunleo6161
      @sunleo6161 5 лет назад +26

      i was so tom boyish to. i say the same thing. now a days parents think its us having dysphoria... btw transitioning for minors causes a permanent condition of gender dysphoria and does not decrease suicide... it’s actually really bad to transition minors

    • @tilxfy3478
      @tilxfy3478 5 лет назад +8

      Lmao u was a horse girl 😭

  • @elliesteller499
    @elliesteller499 5 лет назад +305

    them: "gendering is harmful"
    Also them: *shoving they them pronouns down their kids throats and not allowing them to have any identity with their brand new gender*

    • @claireteaspeaks461
      @claireteaspeaks461 5 лет назад +22

      telling girls they don’t count as girls because they like ‘boy activities/are loud’ is putting them in the very box OG feminists pushed so hard to break

    • @IDK-bw7sb
      @IDK-bw7sb 5 лет назад +1

      @@claireteaspeaks461 UGH I FELT THIS

    • @AltairScuti777
      @AltairScuti777 5 лет назад

      Also, "not saying the b word or the g word" is gonna mess up that kid once they go to school...

  • @carolinablue6987
    @carolinablue6987 5 лет назад +758

    “Do you like sitting quietly or do you like playing?” Yup, that’s all the proof we need.

    • @Rosie-uf5ox
      @Rosie-uf5ox 5 лет назад +55

      Clearly, this transwoman parent has no idea what it's like to be a little girl.

    • @MackenziiRivers
      @MackenziiRivers 5 лет назад

      @@Rosie-uf5ox clearly they do as she's a woman. aint that hard

    • @Solaceon
      @Solaceon 5 лет назад +3

      Fascinating. The same diagnostic criteria used to diagnose kids with ADHD in the early 2000's, or autism in 2019. Let kids be kids, for fucking Christ sakes.

    • @neongrump6213
      @neongrump6213 5 лет назад +1

      I was just thinking that like of course a kid who loves fun isn’t gonna want sit quietly wth it makes no sense if I told my niece if she wants to sit quietly or run around and play she’d most definitely say play

    • @MadamoftheCatHouse
      @MadamoftheCatHouse 5 лет назад

      They were waiting 4 any excuse, that's as good one as any.

  • @saltwithlove2269
    @saltwithlove2269 3 года назад +8

    ''Let kids be kids ... '' : thank you Blaire . Love your channel . and respect you .

  • @sara-ws7se
    @sara-ws7se 5 лет назад +479

    I was a massive tomboy when I was younger. and now I'm very feminine. and i feel like if my parents forced me to adapt to being 'transgender', I would go along with it at that age. but seriously regret it later.

    • @sirijaw
      @sirijaw 5 лет назад +37

      Same as you, as a kid I wanted to be a "masculine girl" (real words I said) and now I embracing my femininity and my childhood masculinity.

    • @danacampbell8331
      @danacampbell8331 5 лет назад +18

      My daughter was a tomboy, but, as an adult, she says it's because she wanted to be like her big brother. She's very feminine.

    • @slion9914
      @slion9914 5 лет назад +15

      I was a major tomboy as a kid and now I'm a lot more feminine. It's a phase, not an identity

    • @b4bybl0e
      @b4bybl0e 5 лет назад +1

      i was very feminine as a kid but i soon realised it was very forced and not the real me, I'm more masculine and dysphoric as fuck now so yeah

    • @JemiQui77
      @JemiQui77 5 лет назад

      Yeah same

  • @YourDailyTorment
    @YourDailyTorment 5 лет назад +708

    The brain isn't even done maturing until around age 25. smh

    • @svenssonefternamn7044
      @svenssonefternamn7044 5 лет назад +51

      Not allowed to drive, vote, drink... etc but permanently make a Life altering desition is ok👍 🤔
      🤦‍♂️🏳️‍🌈🌍

    • @cendraf8989
      @cendraf8989 5 лет назад +8

      thank you so much !! someone finally pointed this out. like it’s a CHILD. a child.

    • @FuckYouTubeTheySuck
      @FuckYouTubeTheySuck 5 лет назад

      Truth

    • @melip3114
      @melip3114 5 лет назад

      The left doesn't care about science unless it comes to climate change 🤷‍♀️

    • @l9kl294
      @l9kl294 5 лет назад

      And yet teens drink, smoke, drive cars etc. at 13. What a world

  • @sonafan5834
    @sonafan5834 5 лет назад +291

    Blaire said it perfectly, “Teach you kids it’s okay to be themselves and in the end THEY will figure it out.” MUH KWEEN states nothing but the truth 🥺💖💖💖💖

    • @humanbeing5546
      @humanbeing5546 5 лет назад +1

      Zach Trelenberg exactly!!!!!

    • @juliencastle2953
      @juliencastle2953 5 лет назад +1

      Exactly! At this age they're not even aware of what they will become so they need time and to make their own decisions when it comes to such a personal subject. Blaire's wonderful! :)

  • @Sammy_the_nana
    @Sammy_the_nana 10 месяцев назад +8

    Blair you were so ahead of the time❤

  • @raisetheroof1492
    @raisetheroof1492 5 лет назад +1471

    R.I.P. tomboys and tomgirls. The days when not conforming with gender stereotypes didn't mean you had gender dysphoria. Good times.

    • @raisetheroof1492
      @raisetheroof1492 5 лет назад +72

      @k b That's funny lol. I wore boy clothes and even asked my dad to "cut my hair like a boy". If my parents were anything like the one's in this video, then my whole identity would've been destroyed because now I'm happy to be a woman.

    • @land417
      @land417 5 лет назад +7

      I was the tomboy too. Still am!

    • @sumdankdawg
      @sumdankdawg 5 лет назад +25

      RaiseTheRoof seriously! I was such a tomboy growing up, I liked to dress like a boy and hang out with boys but I never once thought I was a boy. I can only imagine what my life would be like if I had grown up with parents trying to push this agenda...

    • @starlit-rain
      @starlit-rain 5 лет назад +7

      RaiseTheRoof i agree, this is so so getting out of hand

    • @anamf247
      @anamf247 5 лет назад +10

      RaiseTheRoof i grew up a major tomboy! i grew up on a farm and was expected to work and pull my weight just like the boys, so a lot of the time i was treated like one. i loved it. but i also love being a girl! i love being a girl who loves girls! i know that i don’t have to be hyper-feminine to be a woman. if i had parents like this i would have been completely fucked up because even though i enjoy a lot of typically masculine interests, i’m definitely by no accounts a man!

  • @yonna9560
    @yonna9560 5 лет назад +1311

    "My child decided they were non binary at 4."
    My son is 5 and has no idea what the hell non-binary is.
    Edit: I'm about to pop another baby out... I'm not calling her a "theybie" 😂

    • @kristelxx
      @kristelxx 5 лет назад +81

      Adults don't even know what it means lolol

    • @DeviousMilk
      @DeviousMilk 5 лет назад +36

      I'm 15 and I barely know what non binary is *-*

    • @angelbarajas9180
      @angelbarajas9180 5 лет назад +2

      @graham lexing True

    • @yonna9560
      @yonna9560 5 лет назад +14

      @Richard Honaker My Grandma who is in her late 60s doesn't even know what it is. Nobody has heard of this non-binary shit until a few years ago.

    • @RipleysSanatorium
      @RipleysSanatorium 5 лет назад +8

      Mine wanted to be Darth Vader

  • @monicakelly6273
    @monicakelly6273 4 года назад +724

    It's child abuse, psychological child abuse.

  • @kinseywilson4566
    @kinseywilson4566 2 года назад +5

    As a child, I loved boy things… playing in the dirt, having toy cars/trucks, and my favorite movie was Cars. If my parents had taken this as me wanting to be a boy, I would have regretted it. For, I don’t have gender dysphoria, I just like playing with those things. Gender is nothing but a societal opinion on what a girl should like and what a boy should like. I am now an adult and still a girl and still happy. Love you Blair!!

  • @loveshell007
    @loveshell007 4 года назад +435

    For people who call themselves gender-neutral, they sure are OBSESSED with gender. Blaire, the work you're doing is so important. It might actually save a few kids.

    • @moxygirlhey
      @moxygirlhey 4 года назад +10

      Right, I imagine their way of speaking and behaving has a lot of rules and limitations in their home

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 4 года назад +15

      Exactly. I imagine gender neutral would be like how my kids were raised. They always played with each others toys an wore each other's clothes and we never spoke about it lol. The opposite of what these gender neutral parents are doing. Those poor kids are probably so confused.

  • @hollyjohnson1442
    @hollyjohnson1442 4 года назад +2235

    Can't stop imagining the titles of documentaries we'll see 10 years from now... "my parent brainwashed me into thinking Xyz"

    • @li4m198
      @li4m198 4 года назад +33

      "my parents brainwashed me into thinking corona wasn't real and everyone else are
      lying zombies"

    • @RED-my9hl
      @RED-my9hl 4 года назад +9

      If they even realise that they were brainwashed

    • @Henri-zh6kf
      @Henri-zh6kf 4 года назад

      The hype is real. At least for me lmao

    • @simona_sigmund1001
      @simona_sigmund1001 4 года назад +4

      @nordic bear Yep 😢

    • @stephsnotfluffy
      @stephsnotfluffy 4 года назад +3

      @nordic bear stop that. Not everybody thinks the same way. Ignorance must really be bliss huh?

  • @BenjiXAddictX4Ever
    @BenjiXAddictX4Ever 5 лет назад +723

    These people need to knock this shít off and leave the kids alone. LET KIDS BE KIDS.

    • @ChanelRose
      @ChanelRose 5 лет назад +8

      Exactly!!

    • @juniper7611
      @juniper7611 5 лет назад +31

      Exactly! My brother played in dresses and painted his nails when he was little, he also had a 6 month period where he would dress up in a gorilla costume and call himself Bigfoot. Jesus, kids are expressive and just like being themselves.
      If he had dysphoria during puberty then that's when a discussion would come in, not when he's just an eccentric kid.

    • @briannabrickey444
      @briannabrickey444 5 лет назад +2

      @@juniper7611 exactly

    • @vane909090
      @vane909090 5 лет назад

      Kids are political tools, dinchu know?!

    • @DavideonJ
      @DavideonJ 5 лет назад

      Amen💯❤️

  • @Phoenix-rising
    @Phoenix-rising 3 года назад +10

    These "parents" just belong into jail for life.