I’m a grown man and still can’t figure out if a woman is interested in me or not, I had some ladies give me all the signs and wasn’t interested and I had some who gave me a few and come to find out they wanted me to make a move, I’m sorry ladies yall are confusing lol
I like listening to Stephen’s voice, kind of like how some people have the TV on all day. That’s me with his videos. I ran out of women’s content, so I’m here. 😂 He’s right though, about every point. The money one is spot on-I always worry if he thinks I’m with him for money. I even have to learn how to accept gestures of appreciation. 😅 The touching one is tricky cuz I touch everyone equally that’s how I communicate 🤚🤚🤚
One can be truly interested and not flirt or receive flirting, because they are do not want it to turn sexual or are scared and does not trust or are unsure that the guy has pure motives.
In my case, I feel some kind of way if I’m accepting a lavish dinner date for a first date. I much prefer simpler first dates that allow for conversation and/or fun interaction (like walking the city or park, mini golf, bowling, pool, etc)…I like to date on purpose and see if the “vibe” is present.
I feel you on this one!! It seems like too much pressure to be wined and dined or taken to a club on a first date. Personally, I like to keep it simple. Go to the zoo. Walk around the park. Go hiking to a waterfall, if you are fit enough. In broad daylight, on a well populated trail, of course!! LOL. There are PLENTY of simple, inexpensive things to do to connect and get to know one another. Spending a whole lotta money isn't necessary, fellas.
An impressive man never has to be impressive. We just test women to see if they are impressive enough for us. I've taught men for years and currently dating the girl of my dreams. 1 for 1 scale. I'm not currently teaching but to make my life easier... I will start back soon.
This is what i also want in a woman. Some women try to impress us so hard and act in a way they are not themselves. It is just hard for me to make my move on her, because if i do, she will think whatever the act she is putting on works which is why she would assume i am doing those things, but i am not. So i feel pralysed with inaction as i dont wany her to think that i like her because of her fake act. I wish people just felt comfortable in their own shoes. All that social media about lifestyles and how people are meant to be fked people up.
Agreed. It's different for everyone obviously but as a single woman, I feel uncomfortable and intimidated by anything pretentious. I want emotional connection, not over the top dates or to talk about his money.
Stephan, what you said about the date cost stuff reminded me about what @anthonyoneal went through with that girl who stopped communication with him because he would not go outside of his dating budget for the month to take her to a certain restaurant that she wanted to right away just to please her. (For those who don't know the story, he did agree to plan it in his budget for the next month, so he wasn't ignoring her request.). I hope that you two will do another show together if you feel led to. I still rewatch the first one.
Thanks for this. From my experience even though a woman gives you her number does not equate to genuine interest, I have seen it short lived. I like the fact that towards the end you mentioned taking this to the God in prayer for those who are inclined in that way for clarity. This may in the end prevent time wasting or deception.
I am often impressed when i see in videos that women have this thing for money. I never dated a woman like that and i never would. But this catches my attention in the sense that i think north american culture is so capitalist, consumist and individualist that these things are very specific of that country. I come from a third world country and i never even heard any of my friends mention women with this fetiche.
This was insightful especially the part about once you see the indicators....there is still action behind moving things along. Please do that video. Otherwise, Im taking the hint that you're not interested.
U R Doing Great Work Bro! - Appreciated! - May you always be led by The Lord! * Our community has been in need of such sound realistic/practical counselling/advice/support, for forever and a day. * Like the fact that you're balanced in dealing with perspectives from each side, so we can all relate. * Fabulous that you always include reference to your faith in Almighty GOD.
Women have to approach Men directly at this point period. (I refuse to risk my life along with everything that I built to get falsely accused, disrespected, me too, being labeled weird/creepy, having the interaction get posted online in order to clown you, etc)
I want women to do better with showing interest or even being direct, but I don’t want men to just be blind to signs of interest. There are ways to investigate without it going completely left.
Women may show interest but also depends on if the guy is interested. So they too must be prepared to what seems like rejection, afterall men go through this without complain. com si com sa (in french means neither good or bad), Welcome to the real world.
@StephanSpeaksforMen being direct as a lady is being too vulnerable and setting myself up for rejection in case the guy does not feel the same way. Men deal with rejection all the time so it's a lot more difficult for a lady when faced with male rejection. The guys should do better at reading the signs..
I hate when women show interest initially. I love to win and the only women I date are beautiful women who first showed me they had no interest. If you know how to win, you'd know is no fun when you win immediately. The fun is when you can pretend you are capable of losing.
Lord knows I cant wait until I go out on a date and flirt right back with him🥰🥰🥰. This would be my first date in a long time and I promise I will behave 😊. Keep going Labossiere this is great advice for everyone 💜💙❤.
If a woman doesn’t want to exchange numbers with you, she is not interested. When a woman really is interested in you things will be easy-going and free-flowing conversations, setting updates and access to intimacy.
Very well said Stephan👏🏾👏🏾. I am a woman and I don't think it's that difficult to flirt with a man that I'm interested in 🤷🏾♀️. I know it can be difficult for a men to approach a women; so if I had to approach a man I really like, I would try my best to be as matured as possible and try not to scared him away...🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾
The acceptance of women dating multiple men is whats wrong with dating today. I don't accept it. And other men shouldn't. What happened to people/women having shame??
This is not detailed enough. How about she puts herself in your orbit, she gets nervous around you. She plays with her hair and fugits a lot and sometimes even avoids you. Playful teasing and eye contact.
As an actual woman, I completely disagree with most of these things, but especially with the dates part. A coffee/ice cream date would be fine. A walk in the park or any other kind of completely free date? Heck no. Even if I considered him a "perfect 10".
Good advice. I really appreciate this for our men. Putting God first is essential. God listens, but trusting his timing and directions is key.❣️🙏🏼
I’m a grown man and still can’t figure out if a woman is interested in me or not, I had some ladies give me all the signs and wasn’t interested and I had some who gave me a few and come to find out they wanted me to make a move, I’m sorry ladies yall are confusing lol
Dude if you're interested just tell them. Worst is they say no and you move on😊
Yes, be clear, be honest and don't be afraid to say it or ask it. Simple.
Pray and ask God Almighty for discernment so you won’t waste your time going after the wrong women and missing out on the right ones.
A interested woman can really stare into your eyes for a long time, soft eyes and smiling, love emotions
Dead ass
"In what direction should I send my smoke signals" This works for me
I like listening to Stephen’s voice, kind of like how some people have the TV on all day. That’s me with his videos. I ran out of women’s content, so I’m here. 😂
He’s right though, about every point. The money one is spot on-I always worry if he thinks I’m with him for money. I even have to learn how to accept gestures of appreciation. 😅
The touching one is tricky cuz I touch everyone equally that’s how I communicate 🤚🤚🤚
@Mm-abscony 😂 Going from one gender channel to the other is pretty much standard procedure with Stephan videos. 😂
It's hard to determine when a woman is interested especially when mixed messages are being sent...
One can be truly interested and not flirt or receive flirting, because they are do not want it to turn sexual or are scared and does not trust or are unsure that the guy has pure motives.
In my case, I feel some kind of way if I’m accepting a lavish dinner date for a first date. I much prefer simpler first dates that allow for conversation and/or fun interaction (like walking the city or park, mini golf, bowling, pool, etc)…I like to date on purpose and see if the “vibe” is present.
I agree 💯
I feel you on this one!! It seems like too much pressure to be wined and dined or taken to a club on a first date. Personally, I like to keep it simple. Go to the zoo. Walk around the park. Go hiking to a waterfall, if you are fit enough. In broad daylight, on a well populated trail, of course!! LOL. There are PLENTY of simple, inexpensive things to do to connect and get to know one another. Spending a whole lotta money isn't necessary, fellas.
Some of us women don’t want a man that tries to impress us with their money. We just want you to be honest and real.
An impressive man never has to be impressive. We just test women to see if they are impressive enough for us. I've taught men for years and currently dating the girl of my dreams. 1 for 1 scale. I'm not currently teaching but to make my life easier... I will start back soon.
This is how my Wife is. Dudes came at her trying to flex their money and lost her.🤦🏾🤣
This is what i also want in a woman.
Some women try to impress us so hard and act in a way they are not themselves.
It is just hard for me to make my move on her, because if i do, she will think whatever the act she is putting on works which is why she would assume i am doing those things, but i am not. So i feel pralysed with inaction as i dont wany her to think that i like her because of her fake act.
I wish people just felt comfortable in their own shoes. All that social media about lifestyles and how people are meant to be fked people up.
Agreed. It's different for everyone obviously but as a single woman, I feel uncomfortable and intimidated by anything pretentious. I want emotional connection, not over the top dates or to talk about his money.
Stephan, what you said about the date cost stuff reminded me about what @anthonyoneal went through with that girl who stopped communication with him because he would not go outside of his dating budget for the month to take her to a certain restaurant that she wanted to right away just to please her. (For those who don't know the story, he did agree to plan it in his budget for the next month, so he wasn't ignoring her request.). I hope that you two will do another show together if you feel led to. I still rewatch the first one.
I’m going to see about making another show with him happen
Thank u bra for explaining how to Kno if a woman is truly interested in me I've been struggling to figure it out
No problem man. Glad it was helpful to you
All women are into you until you change that
Bra? Lol..WTF is WRONG with you?
Hello Stephan it's been a lil while since I tuned in. I enjoyed listening to this all the way in Trinidad and Tobago 🇹🇹. Blessings everyone.
Thank you for watching
I agreed with you, why accept the ghost that want to dominate his intrusion!!!
Thanks for this. From my experience even though a woman gives you her number does not equate to genuine interest, I have seen it short lived. I like the fact that towards the end you mentioned taking this to the God in prayer for those who are inclined in that way for clarity. This may in the end prevent time wasting or deception.
Excellent content bro
I am often impressed when i see in videos that women have this thing for money. I never dated a woman like that and i never would. But this catches my attention in the sense that i think north american culture is so capitalist, consumist and individualist that these things are very specific of that country. I come from a third world country and i never even heard any of my friends mention women with this fetiche.
This was insightful especially the part about once you see the indicators....there is still action behind moving things along. Please do that video. Otherwise, Im taking the hint that you're not interested.
Excellent video! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I love it! 💗💯
What if the woman is interested but she’s just really shy?
U R Doing Great Work Bro! - Appreciated! - May you always be led by The Lord!
* Our community has been in need of such sound realistic/practical counselling/advice/support, for forever and a day.
* Like the fact that you're balanced in dealing with perspectives from each side, so we can all relate.
* Fabulous that you always include reference to your faith in Almighty GOD.
Great work? Huh? It's common sense!!
Women have to approach Men directly at this point period. (I refuse to risk my life along with everything that I built to get falsely accused, disrespected, me too, being labeled weird/creepy, having the interaction get posted online in order to clown you, etc)
I want women to do better with showing interest or even being direct, but I don’t want men to just be blind to signs of interest. There are ways to investigate without it going completely left.
Real
Women may show interest but also depends on if the guy is interested. So they too must be prepared to what seems like rejection, afterall men go through this without complain. com si com sa (in french means neither good or bad), Welcome to the real world.
@StephanSpeaksforMen being direct as a lady is being too vulnerable and setting myself up for rejection in case the guy does not feel the same way. Men deal with rejection all the time so it's a lot more difficult for a lady when faced with male rejection. The guys should do better at reading the signs..
I hate when women show interest initially. I love to win and the only women I date are beautiful women who first showed me they had no interest. If you know how to win, you'd know is no fun when you win immediately. The fun is when you can pretend you are capable of losing.
Lord knows I cant wait until I go out on a date and flirt right back with him🥰🥰🥰. This would be my first date in a long time and I promise I will behave 😊. Keep going Labossiere this is great advice for everyone 💜💙❤.
Most likely she knew your name before you met. Of course she would ask her friends "who is that ? "... Before even flirting with you.
I Love You 😊❤!
If a woman doesn’t want to exchange numbers with you, she is not interested. When a woman really is interested in you things will be easy-going and free-flowing conversations, setting updates and access to intimacy.
Very well said Stephan👏🏾👏🏾. I am a woman and I don't think it's that difficult to flirt with a man that I'm interested in 🤷🏾♀️. I know it can be difficult for a men to approach a women; so if I had to approach a man I really like, I would try my best to be as matured as possible and try not to scared him away...🙏🏽💚💚🙌🏾
So how long should u expect this man to call you once you give him your number? Is their a time frame? I LOVED THIS podcast! God 1st baby.
Ngl. Sometimes men just get numbers to test what they could get.
I've gotten the number from women that seemed super interested at the time. Aaaaand crickets. Kinda tired of this bs.
The acceptance of women dating multiple men is whats wrong with dating today. I don't accept it. And other men shouldn't.
What happened to people/women having shame??
This is not detailed enough. How about she puts herself in your orbit, she gets nervous around you. She plays with her hair and fugits a lot and sometimes even avoids you. Playful teasing and eye contact.
Sounds to me shy, and not sure about her feelings toward you. She feels awkward as well. Not confident in herself or her feelings.
Or she flirting. Just ask her. Simple.
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As an actual woman, I completely disagree with most of these things, but especially with the dates part. A coffee/ice cream date would be fine. A walk in the park or any other kind of completely free date? Heck no. Even if I considered him a "perfect 10".