*Acknowledge what went wrong, sincerely apologize, and show her through your consistent actions that you’ve learned from the mistake. Trust is rebuilt over time, not through words alone.*
My current girlfriend really like me in 2023 in October but I was not interested in her, we did our thing within the honeymoon phase but I still didn’t want her. After she started complaining half a year later in her car I said to her that I’m getting out of the car and walk away. I spoke to her a week later, she was in tears and she said that she wanted to forget me so I told her to do so, but one week later I called her up and told her that I made a mistake. Her trust was lost so she wanted to move on but at the same time still hanging out with me, meanwhile I researched so many videos and followed the steps of most videos and changed my perspective on relationships. Now 2 weeks ago she is back as the same girl that she was in the honeymoon phase. It took some time and we had so many conflicts in these two months with both of us wanted to walk away from the situation but she really wanted to make it work and me too so here we are. Thank you very much, your videos really helped a lot!
Acknowledge, beautiful. Take accountability, wonderful. Don't dismiss feelings, Awesome. Neglect isn't good, attentiveness is very important in relationships, because whoever is being neglected, no doubt someone else is always interested in paying attention to who you're in relationship with. That's why men & women in relationships should continue do what they did to get them in the beginning & continue to do that to keep them satisfied for a life time. Course of action, Excellent solution for resolution. Respect the process & give time, Magnificent. Communication, Incredible. Growth to be better, Growth is always good. Great video. Vice versa also, women should also be willing to do these things you've mentioned if they're wrong. It goes both ways. Effort and council is a form of healing & growing, if seen from a positive perspective instead of a negative perspective. This video is definitely on point Stephan. Tears don't make a man weak, Jesus wept. It takes a real masculine man to express feelings with tears and sincerely still know he's a man with or without tears, and should not be seen as weakness, because men have feelings also.
The timing of this video was such a blessing in my life. My ex had just reached out after a few weeks of no contact and I didn’t know what to say or do. This advice allowed me to successfully re-attract her. She told me she never thought we would see each other again. Thanks so much 🙏
Trust is paramount for me. Without it I struggle to maintain any relationship whether romantic or platonic (family & friends). Depending on the situation I do give second chances. But if you show me that your actions are more of a behavioral pattern than a mistake made, I'm going to create and keep my distance.
Good stuff🔥🔥🔥 As a woman personally, if I was in a relationship & my man set boundaries for me to call before I show up to his house, it would be a RED FLAG 📍to me and make me feel some type of way about it. He would make me think he's not that "serious" about our relationship because I wouldn't do that to a man who shows he's into me & putting in effort to make our relationship beautiful to make it last 4EVER❣️✨️
Great video! When a man says that he is sorry, he needs to state exactly what it is that he's sorry about and then make every effort to correct the behavior. If the behavior isn't corrected that's going to cause the women to bring up prior offenses and that will affect trust which will eventually turn into resentment. We don't want that. Resolve issues quickly. I also think that if a man asks for forgiveness (when he KNOWS he's wrong)...that's a game-changer because It shows humility, character and accountability and most people don't do that. It's so much easier to forgive when asked and it helps to regain trust. (at least for me anyways). Last, I think the points are very applicable for both men and women! Excellent job Stephan! Thank you! Oh...and sharing!
If she's making you work for it harder than you should or if you're confused and she's making it worst for you. She's not it. If she's not making it easier for you, she don't like you.
I think the video got cut off at the end because it seems like you were still wrapping things up… but overall great insights. I pulled a couple nuggets from this as well to help me recognize when a man is trying to repair things when he messes up
How can i if she block me and throwing away our good friendship. I will love to get to the next level with her. She even called me her love of her life. Months later she dump me and i have no closure but i would love to have her back.... i just wish she know how i feel
I’m sorry “if” is not a true apology plus it negates the accountability you were attempting to convey. I’ve learned recently, the best apologies are changed behavior-otherwise it’s just a form of manipulation.
If you don’t have to work to regain the trust….the same mistakes will repeat later….🤷🏽♀️ and it will repeat because now there’s a sense of acceptance to the disrespect. Majority of women have experienced that already.
*Acknowledge what went wrong, sincerely apologize, and show her through your consistent actions that you’ve learned from the mistake. Trust is rebuilt over time, not through words alone.*
My current girlfriend really like me in 2023 in October but I was not interested in her, we did our thing within the honeymoon phase but I still didn’t want her. After she started complaining half a year later in her car I said to her that I’m getting out of the car and walk away. I spoke to her a week later, she was in tears and she said that she wanted to forget me so I told her to do so, but one week later I called her up and told her that I made a mistake.
Her trust was lost so she wanted to move on but at the same time still hanging out with me, meanwhile I researched so many videos and followed the steps of most videos and changed my perspective on relationships.
Now 2 weeks ago she is back as the same girl that she was in the honeymoon phase. It took some time and we had so many conflicts in these two months with both of us wanted to walk away from the situation but she really wanted to make it work and me too so here we are.
Thank you very much, your videos really helped a lot!
Bless y’all my guy!
Acknowledge, beautiful.
Take accountability, wonderful.
Don't dismiss feelings, Awesome.
Neglect isn't good, attentiveness is very important in relationships, because whoever is being neglected, no doubt someone else is always interested in paying attention to who you're in relationship with.
That's why men & women in relationships should continue do what they did to get them in the beginning & continue to do that to keep them satisfied for a life time.
Course of action, Excellent solution for resolution.
Respect the process & give time, Magnificent.
Communication, Incredible.
Growth to be better, Growth is always good. Great video.
Vice versa also, women should also be willing to do these things you've mentioned if they're wrong. It goes both ways.
Effort and council is a form of healing & growing, if seen from a positive perspective instead of a negative perspective.
This video is definitely on point Stephan.
Tears don't make a man weak, Jesus wept.
It takes a real masculine man to express feelings with tears and sincerely still know he's a man with or without tears, and should not be seen as weakness, because men have feelings also.
🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥💎💎💎👑👑👑
Stephan, you are 100% correct and this goes for us women as well✨
Great example of being vulnerable yet still masculine, my sentiments exactly ❤...nothing but respect.
The timing of this video was such a blessing in my life. My ex had just reached out after a few weeks of no contact and I didn’t know what to say or do. This advice allowed me to successfully re-attract her. She told me she never thought we would see each other again. Thanks so much 🙏
Trust is paramount for me. Without it I struggle to maintain any relationship whether romantic or platonic (family & friends). Depending on the situation I do give second chances. But if you show me that your actions are more of a behavioral pattern than a mistake made, I'm going to create and keep my distance.
Kinda going thru something like this now I enjoyed this post ty
Good stuff🔥🔥🔥 As a woman personally, if I was in a relationship & my man set boundaries for me to call before I show up to his house, it would be a RED FLAG 📍to me and make me feel some type of way about it. He would make me think he's not that "serious" about our relationship because I wouldn't do that to a man who shows he's into me & putting in effort to make our relationship beautiful to make it last 4EVER❣️✨️
Life's a big gray area.... But, yes genuine connection is key.
Absolutely!
If I ever need counseling, in the future Stephan, I will ask you for assistance. You are excellent! Thank you!
This goes both ways, we have hold on to each other no matter what, with all the ups and downs, healthy communication is necessary.
Great video! When a man says that he is sorry, he needs to state exactly what it is that he's sorry about and then make every effort to correct the behavior. If the behavior isn't corrected that's going to cause the women to bring up prior offenses and that will affect trust which will eventually turn into resentment. We don't want that. Resolve issues quickly. I also think that if a man asks for forgiveness (when he KNOWS he's wrong)...that's a game-changer because It shows humility, character and accountability and most people don't do that. It's so much easier to forgive when asked and it helps to regain trust. (at least for me anyways). Last, I think the points are very applicable for both men and women! Excellent job Stephan! Thank you! Oh...and sharing!
Can you make one about if the women messed up please? Perspective is everything! Thank you
“Has traumas” would’ve been nicer 😂
If she's making you work for it harder than you should or if you're confused and she's making it worst for you. She's not it. If she's not making it easier for you, she don't like you.
I think the video got cut off at the end because it seems like you were still wrapping things up… but overall great insights. I pulled a couple nuggets from this as well to help me recognize when a man is trying to repair things when he messes up
Awesome video i needed this teaching
Excellent video! 💯
I love it! 💗
I absolutely agree with you & your topics of discussions. 👏🏼
At 8:17 just FACTS
ngl this video is on the nail for me 🗣️
How do you nature a man feeling without stimulating on the same issue?
I fully understand what you are saying and yes I do agree it goes for us woman as well💯🙏🏽💚💚
How can i if she block me and throwing away our good friendship. I will love to get to the next level with her. She even called me her love of her life. Months later she dump me and i have no closure but i would love to have her back.... i just wish she know how i feel
So sorry this happened to you. I'm no coach, but I would suggest writing her a love letter and mail it to her. Best wishes❣️🙏🏽
Hello sir how to talk personaly with you, i have some problem and it need to change😢😢 i am from india
THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN …ONCE TRUST IS BROKEN STAYS THAT WAY…..AND IT GOES BOTH WAYS .
So good
Women please leave from under these comments. Dang. Let the men have this side of his youtube. Goodness.
Never got the opportunity, but man I tried
Does this work both ways? I need to regain my man’s trust. I never cheated on him. It’s been other issues.
A process
Fam. Idk if she’s coming back man. Giving her space right now but I’m hurting and feeling like an idiot
You build a house!!!!
I’m sorry “if” is not a true apology plus it negates the accountability you were attempting to convey. I’ve learned recently, the best apologies are changed behavior-otherwise it’s just a form of manipulation.
If you don’t have to work to regain the trust….the same mistakes will repeat later….🤷🏽♀️ and it will repeat because now there’s a sense of acceptance to the disrespect. Majority of women have experienced that already.