What Are You Living For? // I Made it to Colorado!! (Story 13)
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- As my cross country trip in my unconverted Skoolie comes to an end, I think about where I'm going. We like to live in this illusion, of knowing where we're going. To see our lives decades into the future. Five year plan, ten year plan, career plan, retirement plan. It's all planned. It's meant to bring security, stability. Which don't get me wrong, are wonderful things. But what do we lose by resisting the unknown and the unstable? And why do we view the unknown and unstable as bad in the first place?
I make an unexpected pit stop in Kansas to visit with some fellow nomads, then finally arrive to the Chrome Yellow shop in Denver where I will be building out my bus with my good friend Charlie Kern. I feel so lucky to be here, and welcome the journey ahead. Cheers to the unknown.
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Anyone else going through an existential crisis enjoying these?? Thank you for sharing your life for us who are a bit too frightened to make drastic change.
Me
Me too!
This ol' guy too.
Always.
"I refuse to live a dull life for the illusion of safety." - Regretlyss so insightful...I love it! Have fun in Colorado beautiful girls!
I'm not giving in, to security under pressure
Rush - The Enemy Within
@Eidelmania some of us were born quiet and old,some loud and forever young,some never stop blooming ,,a wish to you oh wisdom one
I agree
Your story telling is such a gift.
As someone who did vanlyfe, carlyfe, packlyfe and even just flat out being homeless off and on since 2014 I can say that while I miss roaming and the freedom and exchange of a different kind of stress (and fun!), it does get old after a while. In the end, I want both. A home base and a home on wheels. Because things constantly go wrong on the road, and while you make friends all over the place and get help from random strangers most of the time, sometimes... you don't get the help you need. I also don't have a family to lean on so it made it more risky for me if I did have a major failure. Now I'm 37 and my body is really slowing down, so I have to build a self reliance base. I still crave that adventure, but not the risk. I wouldn't completely forgo the life plans, just ensure they are flexible. Stability is still important. Best wishes out there you are doing awesome!
… some of us are doing it still-at 60. Feels weird to have roots. The longest roots for me are 5 years, twice, 2 to 3 years somewhere here & there. The biggest issue is letting “stuff” go. Once its gone, seems ppl give you more “stuff” they dont want or need, when you stay somewhere a while. Then you have to get rid of all or most of it when you’re on the road again..And now stuff feels cumbersome. I love plants, books and funky things, but have learned to let MOST of it go…we have to choose to have it all and stay somewhere, or let it go… and move on. UNLESS, you are fortunate enough to own a spot of your own and have “stuff” there waiting for your return…But then, it ends up being more of a storage unit when youre away.
@@jules9628 Yeah it's easy to have stuff pile up when you have more space. I stay pretty mindful of that and even now that Ive been apartment living for a bit, I could be out in a day. Minimalism is definitely a practice lol.
A shop to do repairs, some living quarters, and a small garden would be perfect. I wouldnt want to be there all the time. But it would be there when Ive had enough of the road, or the road enough of me haha. That can be a lot for some, but it would bring me a lot of peace personally.
Welcome to Colorado! Our state brightened up as soon as you got here!🙂
Needless to say... The dancing part was my favorite... Let us all rejoice and dance to the sound of crickets! Lol
You have a talent for expression and film making
I couldn't stop laughing at the 9 min mark when the announcement came on about the weather cause all it did was remind me of the song Chop Suey (Grab a brush and put a little make-up
Hide the scars to fade away the shake-up).
Can't wait to see this premiere... Really looking forward to this one. Lyss, the answer to your question is fear. Generally, humans are not very good with NOT knowing exactly what is going to happen in the near future... let alone the future 5 years from now. However, when you realize this, and address it for what it is... FEAR - False Evidence Appearing Real... then you enter a paradigm shift and everything gets a lot more chill. ✌
Amen girl, wish I had been able to start traveling younger, but we can't look back we got keep looking forward. From one old dude I hope your build is exactly like you want it
I would never expect a Ladie to be nothing more than here self and do what makes here happy and joking laughing acting silly all those qualities are what makes people beautiful .
Happy Sunday with Regretlyss!!!!
A little bit of philosophy, a little bit of a travel log, and a lot of human and dog interaction and some dog days of summer on your journey. It was a great video.
There are so many roads in front of you. Take them all, I have for 62 years. I'm running out of them but I yearn for them
When the hippies of the era of peace and love were looked at as escentrics and today they all do the same ... lol ,,Humanity is waking up at last, because life is something else... I bless you beautiful...
And it's always nice to see a smile on your face every time you will appear to see the ones that you love and that been there for you
I can’t wait either and love your narrative blogs! They make you think 🤔
It's funny. I live in a small town in ks. I have a stable life. I own my home, a manager of a local store, my family and friends are here, I have a shop full of tools for all my hobbies, my 3 dream vehicles.....but for some reason for the past couple years this care free style of living has been calling me. I can't explain it. I've often thought of selling everything except the bare necessities and buy a bus and head out. I don't want to do it by myself and not sure how to fund it all on the road. Plus the security and everything I've worked for my whole entire life I'm not willing to give up. It's a constant struggle. I enjoy your build videos very much. Thank you
Life is whatever we make it to be.....Once we step out of our comfort zone new opportunities and experiences present themselves. After living on the road for a while we brought a 50'yacht. Lots of work getting set up right but we love living off grid and on the edge.. My wife often reminds me, "normal" is only a setting on the dryer
Everyday I make new memories to replace the horrific memories of Iraq. It's working, watching yours and other videos is helping me to achieve that. Thank you Lyssa! Peas!
You are such a precious soul. Loving your new journey with your beautiful Rio. You are a fabulous "storyteller"....could listen to you for hours. You are wise beyond your years dear and are very thought provoking and inspirational. Your ending statement..
What are you living for?
Begs to be answered.
God bless you!!💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏
"I'd rather befriend the unknown, live in harmony with it, rather than pretend like I can limit it's impact on my life by watering down my day to day existence. ....I refuse to live a dull life for the illusion of safety.."
I have nothing to add to that. I am with you my lady, of a different capacity. yet very similar......
Most people want security and stability out of fear. The unknown is too much for them, so they stay in the predictable and complacent rut of safety. Routine, dull and and sometimes lifeless existence because that's what they can control. But even that "control" is an illusion. None of us ever have full control.
I truly love your heartfelt videos! I’m looking forward to seeing you soon! 😀
I have never heard what your profession or trade was prior to Covid. I have just heard you have postponed for time being. I am seeing more and more of this lifestyle today. I have no issue as long as folks can support themselves. I’m,obviously attracted to it myself, because I watch many videos of such and off the grid living/homesteads. I lived the grind for my entire life, because I had responsibilities, a career, family and children to raise. Now I’m 60, debt free, healthy, fit and children have their own families. I tell them to live simply and that material things have little meaning in life. The more you own, the more you have to work, the more time and money it takes to maintain. Stress. I’d like to hit the road, but my wife has no desire. So I feel stuck at the moment.
Thanks for the ride.
Glad you made it to CO. Your friend and his shop look perfect for your build. Best wishes.
Hi from the UK. I just love watching your videos, in my mind you are the bravest young woman I've seen in a while. You are living the life that I've secretly always yearned for. I love witnessing your inner journey and search for your own truths, and absolutely living in the now. Take care and keep safe lovely lady. Your little companion Ria is so adorable, her eyes are astonishing. 🚌 🐕 😎❤
I watched this episode again just now. I think it’s one of your best. It gave me an idea for a name to go where “Lucky” was on the old one. I think the word “ Forward” would do nicely. It says it all.
The stability found with planing is an illusion because we are not able to see what kinda battles will come.... Stability is only found when confronted with diversity and change that is where our true power and courage is found....
Almost everyone falls into these plans, careers and schemes about how to live life. Nothing wrong with that just don't forget it's all premade scheme and you don't have to follow any of it. Enjoy your life!
The purpose of life to me is to live life and enjoy the gift and magic it truly has to offer while we can.do no harm and value ALL that it has.
Looking forward to your new build and just want to say its great to see that big smile on your lovely face
Dogs make everything better and Rio seems to be a good fit for this adventure.
I have to say that if I wanted to explain my existence out here I would direct them to your videos because you speak what I'm living more than just a life I feel like I'm really living thank you
Excellent video! The sights, sounds, narration and message…Top notch!
I like your narration. It's well thought out and easy to understand. Lots of other RUclipsrs will ramble on about stuff without considering what they're saying. I like the music montage at 3:58 as it's reminiscent of Fleetwood Mac's "The Chain" which ties in nicely to your previous words.
I am a nurse in Al and enjoy your vids I was a nurse traveler for 10 years but home now with the aging parent responsibilities. Enjoy your travels and thanks for taking us with you.
I REFUSE TO LIVE A DULL LIFE FOR THE ILLUSION OF SAFETY. Hit me in my soul. Bless up.
Tomorrow....because at 65 I know a few things: Every day without a tag on your toes is a good day. And....No Expectations, No Disappointments. Life is full of them, so your ATTITUDE towards them determines your "altitude".
" I refuse to live a dull life, for the illusion of safety"... i guess Rio agrees with that statement🤣 , or maybe that's the last need she intend to fulfill; keep on rolling to Colorado sweetie 👍 🤸♂️
I'm sitting at work on 3rd shift, 12 hour days dreaming of my bus build. What I'm doing I would not call "life". However, my wife and kids have stability and that matters. But soon the debt will be paid, the bus will be built, and I will get my chance at life.
Your dog is just so stressed all the time. LOL cant wait for your next video.
I just came across your channel and not by chance I feel. Great story - it's got me hooked. Making up plans as we go is freedom. You know in the moment. Hope you van works out. I'm sure it will. All the best. Mark UK
I live for sobriety and my children. Grateful for both and greatest joys of my life 💞 thank you for some how always reminding me of this!
Best thing I can say is, Welcome to Colorado.
CHEERS from Colorado
Just found your channel. Binged your old one and now this one. Your story telling is amazing and is bringing my own inner crisis into view. Thanks for sharing your story.
For your new bus build...another cool divided light window door? Always liked that feature on the Lucky Bus. Made it look unique.
"We like to live in this illusion of knowing where we're going" and your elaboration on that is being very perceptive and aware, especially for your age. I'm a new sub and found you through Cole. But I like how you think and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos.
Catching up with all your videos and love the deep introspection of oneself, which we all need. But in all my years I’ve learned that I only need to please myself and no others but my puppies, because it always leads to disappointment and disillusionment for those around me for not meeting their standards or expectations.
Can’t wait to see what your future holds with your Skoolie!!! BLESSINGS!!! Wanda Rios
Enjoyed the contemplation of life's plans and the direction we choose. Glad you made it to where you were headed. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for being honest and so spirit lifting!!! God Bless you and your journey!!! Love it ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
We also stopped at that rest area and made sandwiches instead of fast food, on our way out west. It was great, I remembered the NOAA weather on the speaker. Thanks girl, stay safe!
Charlie is great. Our bus is at his shop right now. We feel lucky :)
🐾hi Lyss & Rio 💖🐾OMG YOU & BRITNEY cd be sisters!!! Nice guys too👌😆good friends are hard to comeby😉🤘💖🐾
You are a writer! Yes! I love your videos and watching your life! I too find a lot in common with you! Recently moved into my SUV until I find a bus as well!! However I’m still working full time but def not something that I will do anymore than 5 more years God willing ✊✊ God bless you beautiful!!! Love your journey! You are authentic! Love it!
I appreciate the messaging that you put into your story telling, all with a touch of fun thrown in. Well done! Thank You
Like I said living on the street for four years and finally got two puppies that I'm happy to have
God bless you Sidney and your fur babies
I love these 10 to 15 minute breaks to my day that can get me thinking about everything else. Well done, you are getting really good at the editing!
cute & beautiful..and the most important thing is to prioritize safety on the road, take care of your health 😊
Thank you for your insight. Lessons learned. Adjustments made. Hope to see you in Colorado. BTW; I’m living for the adventure that awaits and the lives we can touch.
Hello. Wianka here from South Africa 🇿🇦. I'm 42, have 3 beautiful girls, 17, 18 and 9. Watching your videos has brought such calmness and clarity to me, and has opened my eyes...to what is waiting, and thanks for inspiring me and I'm sure so many other. We need to life that's what life is for...not what u have bec non if that can go.with u to the grave, so it's the here and the now. Thanks for sharing your life. All the best and can't wait for your next post. Take care and be aafe🐶🦋🌹🌻
.....live...
Our feeling nature is the secret to being human. Don't want to end up like Mr. Spock in computer land, as much as I am addicted to them. Maybe it's just to meet someone like you.
Well we presume so far all is going to plan and you have your learners hat affixed to that head of yours? It is never easy starting afresh but we have to take the risks involved to succeed in out final destiny. Cheers for sharing.
Interesting and captivating first video I’ve seen. I subscribed. Looking forward to other videos. Jim and Sara from Arizona
Can’t wait to see what you do with this bus! And I’m sure you hear this often but you remind not of Jenna Duwan. Took 13 episodes to figure out why you looked familiar 😆
you are looking fine and good luck on your build do come to Canada we have a lot of great places to visit, your friend from the north like I always say live free or die trying till next time
I'm in, the lifestyle, the attitude, and the hotness don't hurt! Where do I sign up??? Sell my home and roll! Gotta take the race car along though!!!
Passing thru St. Louis. Saw our bridge in this vid. Wander of the unknown! Love it.
The narration on these past few videos has been spot on!
Eek! That was one sketchy gas pump.
Oooooooo, seen a sneek peek on another channel! Skoolie's lookin SUPER GOOD!!!
Your words are giving me all of the courage!! Thank you!
beeuatiful video from you. hope your skoolie is soon finish. lovely dog you have
That 7.3 is just trucking along like a champ !
That’s what I was thinking that blue buss just buzzing down the road!
Love this! So true everything you say..👌💜Enjoy your life & travels now...Adventure is better than the illusion of stability 🙏
When you show the shot of you driving and have that little smile is priceless. Your smile could melt chocolate. Be safe.
glad I stumbled upon your channel. I'm allready a fan. You're gifted in in interacting with your audience. you're doing a great job like taking the viewers along on the trip with you. Besides Colorado especially western Colorado is beautiful. Also check out the mighty 5 national parks in Utah. Happy and safe travel's to you. I'm a fan of your channel.
Nothing but the raw truth is spoken here. Cheers to that!
"Illusion of safety" Couldn't agree more!
Not sure what it is… But I love those moments when you’re driving and you glance of the camera and give a wry smile… Beautiful
Iowa 80 truck stop is awesomeness..biggest one as of right now in the United States 🇺🇸
Awesome storytelling... You're awesome. Hope the travels and conversion go AWESOME!!
What a completely clear and powerful perspective you put forward here. I just love your way and storytelling ability. Being on my own journey, I have yet to set out. The desire to get in my van and drive away is so great. I do appreciate what you said about the stability and security that is had on the traditional route, but how we completely miss out on the unknown. You are so right. Anyway, keep doing this amazing thing. No regrets! As soon as I saw the cup of coffee shot, I knew that you weren’t going to like it. Haha. Then the bitter face sitting at front of bus. Lol. Made me laugh. Hey, blessings and safety, and all the joy to ya. 😊
What a trip we used the same song in our recent videos. Love your narration by the way.
Your window treatments or lack of say so much! I think your rig is awesome! Your message is loud and clear. I hear the beat of the drummer. I’ve listen to it a long long time and it’s finally pushed me out into the world I want to create. Happy you’re doing what you’re doing and doing it well.
Girl, you are amazing! I'm 44 and the things you are saying now are the things that I have been coming to in the last couple of years. It makes me really happy to see you learn all of this so much earlier than I did. xo
Also, you are 100% right in "the illusion of safety". I have chased that fantasy for many, many years. So much time wasted in Corporate America only to be lied to and betrayed. You are very smart!
Safe travels to you wherever they may take you & be well ……🙏🥰👍
Wow just wow!! You are such and insightful story teller. I'm so glad you made it safely!! Have you thought about an Amazon wish list?! I'd love to send my favorite you tuber and Rio somethings!!
I would like to put in a small request Deleah, wish list for sure but not Amazon... pleeeease
I see great things for you in your future.... Let the healing begin.... Praying for you guys keep shining your light 🙏😇🕯️🌅✌️
Subbed to this nice channel💜💜I enjoy the buzz again and againlovrly dog and bus
Great video. I believe so many of us are held back by the fear of not living up to the expectations of family and friends. One of the things I have enjoyed about getting old is that I have stopped worrying what others might think about me . It is really pleasing to see another young person throw off such shackles and live life the way that suits them. You go girl, live it love it. Cheers from Australia.
Well sad Ian. 64 here...and have wasted far to much time on fear/playing it safe.
But this beautiful young lady has inspired me
BIG RESPECT from the UK 👍🏻😎👊🏻💯💚
You, my dear... are wise beyond your years!
Welcome to Colorado... enjoy all we have to offer...
Can’t wait to see what you do with this bus!
9:21 the driver's ready 😂 bless Rio's heart
i am truly amazed of ur bravery and sense of independence.. just love it! how i wish ur mind set now is my mind set when i am ur age.. now im living alone.. not on the road tho but i like what u're doing..
may i know how much u spent for this bus' renovations?
hmmm.. been watching ur videos for 2months already..
sending hugs to u and rio.. nice dog.. a variant of huskies i guess..
ciao.. ciao❤️
I have family that lives there! Was there just 6weeks ago. On my Triumph motorcycle ride! 🥰
Very well said about plans and uncertainty. I fully agree. As much as we plan, the best things happen unexpectedly.
I bate with his help your motor vehicle
it will look usome and pretty. Take care
and my Gid Bless❤🙏🇺🇸.