Zach's Surprise Marriage Proposal To Maggie - The TryPod. Ep. 75

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    Zach planned an elaborate wedding proposal, and it went adorably. Eugene interviews the guys about what a wedding is, and Miles has some very sticky advice.
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Комментарии • 1,7 тыс.

  • @boogaloooooo2616
    @boogaloooooo2616 4 года назад +3944

    Maggie: if we were married....
    Zach: in THIS ECONOMY? In THIS PANDEMIC?

    • @zohasidd2641
      @zohasidd2641 4 года назад +18

      hahaha

    • @boogaloooooo2616
      @boogaloooooo2616 4 года назад +9

      Aditi Ravuri oh omg I can’t believe I actually got that many likes thanks!

  • @nvm104
    @nvm104 4 года назад +1687

    ned telling their engagement story: i almost cried
    ariel telling their engagement story: he was SOBBING

  • @anika719
    @anika719 4 года назад +3626

    Zach: *nervous as heck*
    Maggie: bRead

    • @sarahjeddi150
      @sarahjeddi150 4 года назад +73

      maggie is a mood xD

    • @sweet_peas_studio
      @sweet_peas_studio 4 года назад +63

      I relate to Maggie on a
      Hunger level
      I dont even know if it makes sense

    • @laurafalzon3054
      @laurafalzon3054 4 года назад +4

      @@sarahjeddi150 so trueeee

    • @laurafalzon3054
      @laurafalzon3054 4 года назад +1

      @@sweet_peas_studio me toooooo

    • @isabelmedinilla1319
      @isabelmedinilla1319 4 года назад +11

      This is so me!!! I’m such a moment killer cause I hate being the center of attention.

  • @TheLoserface45
    @TheLoserface45 4 года назад +2335

    “I have no further questions about straight people” should be a monthly segment with Eugene

    • @liamr3362
      @liamr3362 4 года назад +12

      It should be weekly 🖤

    • @SpicyKiwiWasabi
      @SpicyKiwiWasabi 4 года назад +14

      Nah, the straights get enough attention

    • @lilundead1964
      @lilundead1964 3 года назад +1

      Time stamp😂

    • @logofpenguin7579
      @logofpenguin7579 Год назад

      his face at 9:43 when z admits to being a dick on purpose to throw her off is priceless. Pure AretheStraightsOk.

  • @laurawestenra
    @laurawestenra 4 года назад +3553

    It's so different to see a bunch of dudes getting all giddy and goonie over marriage and engagements. Y'all are such wholesome boys. It's wonderful!

    • @nkathryn93
      @nkathryn93 4 года назад +97

      Love these boys. They are the absolute antithesis of toxic masculinity, and we love them for it ❤️

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna 4 года назад +54

      They’re all Real Men.

    • @laurawestenra
      @laurawestenra 4 года назад +19

      @@nkathryn93 indeed! It gives me hope!

    • @nadialucia9038
      @nadialucia9038 4 года назад +10

      Wholesome men*

    • @meghanr9639
      @meghanr9639 4 года назад +3

      Love it :))

  • @iSharShar
    @iSharShar 4 года назад +299

    When my best friend got married, her husband took her name because she has no brothers to carry on the family name.
    She’s also in an interracial marriage: she’s Pakistani and he’s White.

  • @bartho5212
    @bartho5212 4 года назад +8517

    It would be so Eugene to already be married and just not even tell us.

    • @willfontana8838
      @willfontana8838 4 года назад +430

      That’s the true gay agenda

    • @shramanadasdutta3006
      @shramanadasdutta3006 4 года назад +659

      Zaggie were also engaged for a month or so before telling us. And they completely deserve and need that personal time. Did you see what people asked Eugene on his comment on Zach's announcement post? That was so not cool. Just be happy for Zaggie for once and stop bugging people about their personma lives when they already do show us so much.

    • @ananya8269
      @ananya8269 4 года назад +197

      @@shramanadasdutta3006 this!!! People really need to learn their boundaries and celebrate what is being shared!

    • @C_M_R
      @C_M_R 4 года назад +100

      Congrats to Zach and Maggie! However, Zach accidentally announced his engagement in a previous podcast. But glad it is now official.

    • @ameliasteijger1767
      @ameliasteijger1767 4 года назад +5

      @@shramanadasdutta3006 what did they ask

  • @carolinethompson8357
    @carolinethompson8357 4 года назад +3872

    Eugene's eyebrows match the beams on his ceiling.

  • @shrotcake
    @shrotcake 4 года назад +1628

    Can we petition to have the introduction be “ Ariel’s husband, Becky’s husband, Maggie’s fiancée, Matty’s partner and not Rachel?”

    • @shrotcake
      @shrotcake 4 года назад +129

      Grandpa that’s what Eugene said last time. He called miles “not Rachel”

    • @makardeku
      @makardeku 4 года назад +25

      shrotcake OH OKAY i was confused at what you meant by that too lmao i completely forgot eugene had made that joke before lmfao

    • @ninjafixie13
      @ninjafixie13 3 года назад

      Heck yeah

    • @mariaelizabeth1401
      @mariaelizabeth1401 3 года назад +2

      Eugene has not smiled once as of half way through the video. Not surprising, but still makes me giggle.

    • @quackerzsis99
      @quackerzsis99 2 года назад

      Change Ariel’s husband to cheating asshole and then it’s accurate

  • @savvygatton
    @savvygatton 4 года назад +883

    Omg please have Miles officiate.
    "Do YOUUU...
    ...take this woman...."

  • @krishinaramani7892
    @krishinaramani7892 4 года назад +1657

    Love how Ned’s like ‘MONTHS of planning?’ Since he did it spontaneously lmao

    • @sleepywatermelon4583
      @sleepywatermelon4583 4 года назад +24

      Ikr he married Ariel in the parking lot 😂😂

    • @elt2773
      @elt2773 4 года назад +10

      @@sleepywatermelon4583 not married, proposed :) r u Japanese?

    • @arielleg852
      @arielleg852 4 года назад +42

      this proposal story was so incredibly heartwarming and so in character for them

    • @sleepywatermelon4583
      @sleepywatermelon4583 4 года назад

      El T nah but thanks

    • @evans.4872
      @evans.4872 4 года назад +8

      Lol right! His story reminds me of Link’s from GMM, he was explicitly told by his wife’s parents to wait and asked her moments after, also sans ring 😅

  • @marisamartinez1477
    @marisamartinez1477 4 года назад +1450

    "Keeping up w the straights w Eugene " is actually a great segment idea

    • @rieschelleannjavier-basina7371
      @rieschelleannjavier-basina7371 4 года назад +3

      Somebody make it happy. Thanks.

    • @azurea1769
      @azurea1769 4 года назад +9

      I was just thinking that would love to listen Eugene's talking for hours, he has so interesting questions, views etc

    • @АнюткаСухарева-ш8з
      @АнюткаСухарева-ш8з 3 года назад +5

      Can we petition to have the introduction be “ Ariel’s husband, Becky’s husband, Maggie’s fiancée, Matty’s partner and not Rachel?”

  • @kkitsunekami651
    @kkitsunekami651 4 года назад +1470

    zach: months of planning...
    ned, who proposed on a whim without a ring: ( ' O ')

    • @pinkbunny7254
      @pinkbunny7254 4 года назад +2

      Wait what’s neds engagement story

    • @isabelmedinilla1319
      @isabelmedinilla1319 4 года назад +31

      pinkbunny go watch Ariel tell it in the last episode of you can sit with us

    • @robyncorson4002
      @robyncorson4002 4 года назад +29

      He had a near death experience. Ned did it right

    • @thegajuar4459
      @thegajuar4459 4 года назад +2

      @@pinkbunny7254 it's on buzzfeed's channel too "ned's proposal story"

  • @stephc9708
    @stephc9708 4 года назад +260

    I love that Zach is saying that each stage is something to be cherished, like the "dating" phase, the "moving in" phase, then the "fiance/e"...just knowing that he and Maggie really took their time is so sweet and shows their love and respect for each other. It's not the only way (as evidenced by Ned and Ariel) but it's what worked for them and that's beautiful.

  • @Anipue
    @Anipue 4 года назад +5649

    Who else is here after hearing Maggie’s side of the story

    • @laurafalzon3054
      @laurafalzon3054 4 года назад +21

      Me !!!! Maggie and Zach are so cute
      eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @chendror872
      @chendror872 4 года назад +2

      Me

    • @mykaylaarielle2007
      @mykaylaarielle2007 4 года назад +2

      🙋‍♀️

    • @Writerbyhand
      @Writerbyhand 4 года назад +2

      i am!

    • @kaybee5314
      @kaybee5314 4 года назад +40

      I really enjoy the "He said/She said" moments where we get to hear both sides of the story

  • @BirchOfficial
    @BirchOfficial 4 года назад +739

    We have the four stages of love:
    Eugene / Couple
    Zach / Engaged
    Keith / Maried
    Ned / Parents

    • @calista5811
      @calista5811 4 года назад +67

      I / Single 😭😭

    • @Sid369
      @Sid369 3 года назад +14

      Cant wait for grandparents

    • @MrLrebelo1
      @MrLrebelo1 3 года назад

      @@Sid369 :O

    • @Sid369
      @Sid369 3 года назад +2

      @@MrLrebelo1 its gonna happen

    • @isabel8926
      @isabel8926 2 года назад

      @@Sid369 Will the try guys still be a thing then? 😂

  • @aditiravuri9285
    @aditiravuri9285 4 года назад +1279

    Everyone while Zach was talking about the proposal:
    Keith: **Relating to it all**
    Ned: **Not relating to it at all**
    Miles: **Amused**
    Eugene: **Taking mental notes**

    • @QuotedGem02
      @QuotedGem02 4 года назад +2

      True

    • @mozhangashteh639
      @mozhangashteh639 4 года назад +3

      HAHAHAHAHA

    • @renataftorres
      @renataftorres 4 года назад +38

      Eugene looks like he wants to quit the gang hahahha

    • @mossking2815
      @mossking2815 4 года назад +44

      @@renataftorres He lost his dad recently so I think he may be struggling a little :(

    • @thumaido264
      @thumaido264 4 года назад

      @@mossking2815 what?

  • @bethanypreston4010
    @bethanypreston4010 4 года назад +132

    I was in a Costa Rican hospital where my parents lived having just found out my mother had terminal cancer. I called my boyfriend of 5 years and told him we had to get married because I didn’t want to get married without my mom. He bought the ring while I was gone. I got it the day he picked us up from the airport. I planned our wedding in a month. We only invited 50 people. My mom passed away 11 months later.

    • @annaeeee7516
      @annaeeee7516 4 года назад +12

      I'm glad your mom got to be in your wedding, that's a beautiful story ❤️

    • @shwetasethi9199
      @shwetasethi9199 4 года назад +3

      Lets hope she is happy

    • @bilodolo11
      @bilodolo11 3 года назад +1

      i'm so sorry x

  • @annaflanders1345
    @annaflanders1345 4 года назад +2259

    Zach suggested getting married on a Tuesday because he’s trying to sabotage You Can Sit with Us.

    • @lovella3914
      @lovella3914 4 года назад +6

      omg yes

    • @apricity99
      @apricity99 4 года назад +52

      The girls would be all dressed up and they will probably take us through with Maggie getting ready

    • @space_penquin
      @space_penquin 4 года назад +15

      It’s likely that they just record it beforehand and just post it tuesdays

    • @aggghghhdhg5065
      @aggghghhdhg5065 4 года назад +31

      'This episode is sponsored by our wedding planner!'

    • @cassidybrewer
      @cassidybrewer 4 года назад +1

      Rude 😂

  • @MaggieD
    @MaggieD 4 года назад +301

    I've attended two bachelorette parties that met with the other party later in the evening. One was my favorite story because they kept it secret from the bride and groom (and most of the party members). We had our own separate parties at other locations, and then moved on to laser tag. They planned the arrivals so we wouldn't pass each other in the entrance and we (the bachelorette party) were told we were playing against a group of Eagle Scouts (so we were expecting taller dudes). Then, in the dark, slowly but surely you'd hear shouts of excitement, as everyone realized we were playing the other partner's party. It was a total blast. 10/10 would recommend some sort of similar set up.

    • @Eontologist
      @Eontologist 3 года назад +6

      OMG THIS! I so want my future bridal party to do this!

  • @laineysteffus41
    @laineysteffus41 4 года назад +1322

    IM SO HAPPY FOR THE KORNSTAMANTES

    • @rivadesai5874
      @rivadesai5874 4 года назад +8

      Underatted

    • @Blackcanvasart
      @Blackcanvasart 4 года назад +16

      KORNSTAMANTES!!!

    • @juliagross3136
      @juliagross3136 4 года назад +15

      If they wanted to create a new last name this one is actually awesome!

    • @Introburp
      @Introburp 4 года назад +16

      Why cant couples just combine surnames when they get married?

    • @elmiraadili
      @elmiraadili 4 года назад +6

      IntroBurp some ppl actually do!

  • @caliwies1389
    @caliwies1389 4 года назад +1212

    I'm really annoyed at the fanbase for asking about Eugene getting married. Newsflash... not everyone needs to get married to validate their love and feelings for another person. Stop assuming and stop asking.

    • @_gremlinboy
      @_gremlinboy 4 года назад +73

      This :/ I know people are excited and want another dose of vicarious serotonin, but we really shouldn't be weird and act like eugene has to get married just because everyone else is doing it.

    • @nadialucia9038
      @nadialucia9038 4 года назад +19

      Yea I feel like at this point they might be saying it just to get like on their comments :/

    • @sleepywatermelon4583
      @sleepywatermelon4583 4 года назад +20

      yeah just because they all got married dosent mean he has to also

    • @Scrofar
      @Scrofar 4 года назад +33

      It feels like out of all the guys, most of the audience want a piece of Eugene's life the most. Not sure if it's a "plz tell us about your gay life" thing, (though I feel like sometimes it is and it grosses me out to think someone might fantasize the homosexual aspect or put it on a high, assumably wholesome uwu pedestal) but please chill and respect someone's privacy, y'all

    • @sleepywatermelon4583
      @sleepywatermelon4583 4 года назад +14

      Scrofar agreed it’s not cool to sexualize gays gays (keep in mind we are talking about real living people)

  • @SamK31
    @SamK31 4 года назад +754

    I really appreciate that Zach let the when and how be the surprise, but not the engagement. It’s so important that you have these conversations with your significant other, and know that you both have the same vision of your future.

    • @lindseycarpenter86
      @lindseycarpenter86 4 года назад +68

      People should not get engaged out of the blue. There should be several discussions about marriage, if planning on kids, religion, family beliefs, finances, etc.
      Couples who don't discuss are not mature enough to be married.

    • @MichelleD2023
      @MichelleD2023 4 года назад +30

      Letting the when and how of a proposal be a surprise is literally how every proposal should be. It's so terrifying that there's a giant misconception that something as important as asking for someone's hand in marriage is a surprise to one partner of a relationship. Engagement itself should never be a surprise to anyone. Marriage and family are important things that must be discussed and consented to by both parties.

    • @Izzyprobably
      @Izzyprobably 4 года назад +24

      A proposal should be a surprise, an engagement shouldn't be!

  • @chloechiapco5884
    @chloechiapco5884 4 года назад +606

    zack and maggie are engaged, betrothed, and affianced!

  • @ariabakura
    @ariabakura 4 года назад +1983

    Do I have a child? No. Will I listen to a parenting podcast hosted by Ned and Ariel? YEP.

    • @chendror872
      @chendror872 4 года назад +7

      Definitely same

    • @michellemendoza7949
      @michellemendoza7949 4 года назад +5

      I’m so excited

    • @missmidnight8497
      @missmidnight8497 4 года назад +2

      Same

    • @kaylapatricia3425
      @kaylapatricia3425 4 года назад +2

      Same 😂

    • @alyssalincoln5159
      @alyssalincoln5159 4 года назад +11

      Lmao same. I have a degree in Early childhood development, professional experience for 6 years, no kids (not planning on it for a while) yet still wanna listen to “prepare” lol

  • @staceycarv
    @staceycarv 4 года назад +474

    Joint bachelor party?
    Ned: Hell no!
    Eugene: It's contemporary
    Zach: Maggie has brought it up
    Keith: SHUT IT DOWN

  • @damianporter942
    @damianporter942 4 года назад +2434

    hmmmm i only ever watch You Can Sit With Us but this episode IS maggie related.....
    AND ALSO NEW PODCAST ANNOUNCMENT WITH ARIEL! WOOOO!

    • @briannaberning4330
      @briannaberning4330 4 года назад +23

      Same tbh

    • @franziskamaria5157
      @franziskamaria5157 4 года назад +209

      Poor guys, they work to have a brand for years and their wife’s snatch the title of more successful podcast since the release 😂

    • @Odhil95
      @Odhil95 4 года назад +124

      @@franziskamaria5157 Its because the ladies are so classy and fascinating. Sorry guys, but I'm with Matt in this: My favorite Try Guy is Becky, Ariel and Maggie lol

    • @Claireannette77
      @Claireannette77 4 года назад +5

      You’re missing out!!

    • @ceciliatapioca
      @ceciliatapioca 4 года назад +69

      @Odhil95
      Agree!! I think it has to do with the fact that they’re relatable, actually listen to one another, don’t crack jokes at every opportunity and don’t talk over each other. I love the Try Guys’ content but when it comes to the podcasts I prefer the TryWives one.

  • @leahay8871
    @leahay8871 4 года назад +109

    I didn’t take my husbands last name. My last name is Hay, his is Swartzentruber. He tried to take my last name, when we went to get our marriage license. Found out that in the state of Florida, it’s FREE for the woman to take the mans last name, BUT COSTS THE MAN $500+ for a legal name change to take his wife’s last name. But CONGRATULATIONS ZACH AND MAGGIE!!!!

  • @meepmorp1022
    @meepmorp1022 4 года назад +1937

    I can't wait for the comment that says "who's here after the pandemic"

    • @samwich3k
      @samwich3k 4 года назад +10

      Ikr

    • @MrsLawrence47
      @MrsLawrence47 4 года назад +49

      What about the comment that will say, who’s been here since before the pandemic?

    • @AgentKuro
      @AgentKuro 4 года назад +31

      Hahahaha like this pandemic ever going to end.

    • @novo4101
      @novo4101 4 года назад +7

      @Patrick Cadiz vaccine that's tested? Immunity? It desapiering? I think it's up to people

    • @Blue-xt7kc
      @Blue-xt7kc 4 года назад +7

      It depends. In California, a vaccine, therapies, and less than 5 cases a day.

  • @espressodepresssotm7623
    @espressodepresssotm7623 4 года назад +357

    Eugene’s “I have no further questions about straight people” is such a mood

  • @girllawrin
    @girllawrin 4 года назад +198

    I love Eugene wearing his step dads robe... everyone should indeed have a robe...

  • @birdseed2217
    @birdseed2217 4 года назад +109

    "I've loved Maggie for a very long time" barely four minutes in and I'm crying already

  • @CatalinaCNV
    @CatalinaCNV 4 года назад +537

    Looove Matt deliverying coffee to Eugene!

    • @stefwoods838
      @stefwoods838 4 года назад +6

      I missed that!!! What's the time stamp?

    • @nubblyglambert
      @nubblyglambert 4 года назад +33

      2:16

    • @annaflanders1345
      @annaflanders1345 4 года назад +5

      @@nubblyglambert I missed it the first time around, thank you!

    • @mayormayo1853
      @mayormayo1853 4 года назад +4

      Oop I missed that because I was only listening lol thanks for pointing it out :)

    • @marenwalsh148
      @marenwalsh148 4 года назад +2

      @@nubblyglambert Just so you know, I love your username.

  • @cm.4407
    @cm.4407 4 года назад +383

    Can’t believe Zach missed the opportunity to call his ‘betrothed’ his Beyoncé

  • @nahidtasniajahan4154
    @nahidtasniajahan4154 4 года назад +1349

    I legit thought Eugene's screen is freezed, as he was not moving at all.

    • @caiyascamera
      @caiyascamera 4 года назад +38

      He barley talked in the beginning 🙁

    • @Theadhdentrepreneur
      @Theadhdentrepreneur 4 года назад +145

      He did just recently lose his dad so he’s probably struggling a little

    • @kamileecosta2787
      @kamileecosta2787 4 года назад +32

      @@Theadhdentrepreneur I hope he's doing okay :(

    • @caiyascamera
      @caiyascamera 4 года назад +5

      Brionys Journey aww. 😞

    • @jellocat4100
      @jellocat4100 4 года назад +3

      Brionys Journey grandpa right

  • @rebekahmyrick5736
    @rebekahmyrick5736 4 года назад +109

    Eugene sitting in robe having a cocktail being hand delivered to him by his man is EVERYTHING I didn’t know I needed lol Love you guys

  • @dubadu944
    @dubadu944 4 года назад +367

    Am I the the only one who finds Keith's ability to come up with rhymes and songs on the spot really impressive..Rappers these days could never lol

    • @Odhil95
      @Odhil95 4 года назад +28

      YES THIS SO MUCH. I'M OFFENDED NO ONE MENTIONS THAT BEFORE. Apparently he also composed the music for their tour. Well, he studied french horn. I suppose his musical abilities have to be great.

  • @missybarbour6885
    @missybarbour6885 4 года назад +71

    My parents have a pretty perfect engagement story. Dad scheduled a date on the anniversary of their first date at the same location. It had gone from a hot dog shop to a coffee shop in the intervening years, so the waitstaff were confused when he asked to reserve a specific table for 6:00 on Friday night. "Sir, this is a coffee shop. Sit where you want." "I'm proposing to my girlfriend. We had our first date at that table on that day." One of the waitresses said "Aww, can you do it earlier? My shift ends at 5:00!" He told her to buy a cup of coffee right before 6:00. On the date, he handed her her anniversary card and after a long paragraph about how much he loved her there was a sticky note that said "Wait. Special preparation required." He got down on one knee, pulled out the ring, and said "Ok, take off the sticky note." "Will you marry me?" was written underneath.

  • @CharlestonAES
    @CharlestonAES 4 года назад +110

    Damn.. Ned's description of his emotions and his need to let Ariel know just how important she was to him... was incredibly romantic and sweet. It got me in the feels.

  • @gamersloth9175
    @gamersloth9175 4 года назад +83

    Zach: Each stage should be it's own thing
    Lesbian: You wanna see some real speed

  • @ananya8269
    @ananya8269 4 года назад +904

    The Habersbergers are really captaining this ship 🚢👮👮‍♀️😍

    • @Clio..
      @Clio.. 4 года назад +5

      I know right?! Becky on their podcast is just over the moon giddy! 😍

  • @derecto56
    @derecto56 4 года назад +156

    Ned and Ariel are goals. The way Ned talked about proposing to Ariel has me smiling ear to ear. He is too precious and needs to be protected at all cost.

  • @MsNowWhat
    @MsNowWhat 4 года назад +102

    I remember those good ol’ days when Zach pioneered the Single AF status at Buzzfeed, and now look at where we are! Congrats! Can’t wait to hear you say “MA WIFE”

  • @Ameliapetrified
    @Ameliapetrified 4 года назад +35

    "...and there were Macarons..."
    Miles: GASP

  • @yasssica
    @yasssica 4 года назад +115

    As a Queer* person, I really appreciated Eugene’s questions! They were all genuine questions I had, and I loved that they were discussed so openly! Deconstruct heteronormativity!! Thank you Eugene 🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @xLauralie
    @xLauralie 4 года назад +27

    Professional wedding photographer here: you don't HAVE to take engagement photos, but it's super helpful to learn how you and the photographer vibe together before the stress of the wedding day (plus extra photos of you two together!). I usually recommend that your wedding photographer be the person that takes your engagement photos just so you have that time to meet each other and work together beforehand.
    I also LOVE that you talked about smaller weddings--I am so here for mini weddings and I hope they stay around even beyond just corona times!

    • @tarmanda1116
      @tarmanda1116 4 года назад +3

      We weren’t going to do engagement photos when I was getting married. And our photographer explained it’s a good way for them to get to know us, our likes, style when shooting, and also to get a chance to photograph/edit us before the big day. And I was like MAKES PERFECT SENSE SOLD!!!

    • @xLauralie
      @xLauralie 4 года назад

      tarmanda1116 YES!!!

  • @zoro4me3
    @zoro4me3 4 года назад +357

    Eugene, you are SO right! Guys go out of their way to make the surprise perfect but something always seems to put a wrench in it haha I remember when my husband proposed I was such a pain saying things like "no I don't wanna go there...." or "it's too hot why are we doing this?" etc and just making it harder on him (poor guy) haha So it's true, the outcome is romantic but the set up is the tricky part XD

    • @veronicanunez2535
      @veronicanunez2535 4 года назад +5

      Dude was I the only one who thought about BDSM when Miles said Fuck tape? I was like damn Miles you kinkky lil' man

  • @sayemasalahuddin4639
    @sayemasalahuddin4639 4 года назад +125

    Who else thinks Eugene is secretly listening to his playlist on his earpods and not to a single thing the guys are saying? 😂

    • @chelsea2592
      @chelsea2592 4 года назад +1

      @Chloe Smith what if, you started singing? I'm curious because I can't listening my playlist without singing or dance

    • @hola542
      @hola542 3 года назад +1

      @@chelsea2592 mute your microphone if you're singing.

    • @chelsea2592
      @chelsea2592 3 года назад

      @@hola542 yeah but how about dances?

  • @adriannadeiters2612
    @adriannadeiters2612 4 года назад +166

    I asked my husband over dinner "so we getting married or what?" No "engagement", no engagement ring, and we went to the court house 2 months later with a few family members as witnesses. We took everyone who came to lunch, went home, hubs played video games, and I took a nap. Best day ever.

    • @yesliehernandez1347
      @yesliehernandez1347 4 года назад +8

      Lmao same girl, no pictures or anything except we got married 2 weeks after we both agree marriage was the next step. Now i kind of want some photos for our 2 year anniversary... you know just to have "something" for our kids to see

    • @adriannadeiters2612
      @adriannadeiters2612 4 года назад +10

      @@yesliehernandez1347 one of our witnesses brought a good camera and we went to a small park near the courthouse for pics. So nice.

    • @shinobusora
      @shinobusora 4 года назад +2

      I want a courthouse ceremony. Just go to a in, request the "short short version" of the vows like in Spaceballs, and spend all of my money I would have spent on a fancy wedding money on the honeymoon. Who needs a overly fancy, stressful party when you can tour Europe for a month instead?

    • @Lisa_Flowers
      @Lisa_Flowers 3 года назад +2

      This is exactly what I want!!!!

  • @xw7081
    @xw7081 4 года назад +27

    Finally!
    Like Keith said: "Uh yeah, nothing better is coming your way, Zach!" And not because Zach can't get great women but Maggie is perfect. She's so kind and sweet and a good fit and lovely and gets along with his friends and their partners and there just isn't a better FIT for Zach. ❤️

  • @natalianunez2714
    @natalianunez2714 4 года назад +331

    Ned: Didn’t you do it over the holidays, Keith?
    Me coming from YCSWU: Uh no... it was during Easter, Ned. Duh.

  • @sweaterpause7862
    @sweaterpause7862 4 года назад +54

    Eugene: I'm gonna be the dumb, gay, single person in the audience-
    Me: Omg I feel so seen!

  • @piperashley
    @piperashley 4 года назад +176

    Ok but when my fiance got down on one knee (on Christmas eve, oops we are lame 😂) I thought he was hurt and was hunching over in pain so I said babe are you ok?? Is it a charley horse?? 😂😂😂

    • @08ranaiu
      @08ranaiu 4 года назад +5

      I had a Christmas Eve proposal too🥰 not lame at all; to each their own!!

    • @mehh9364
      @mehh9364 4 года назад +2

      That's cuuuuute😂😂

  • @sungshineev8732
    @sungshineev8732 4 года назад +101

    Eugene, under his breath: “god, everything with straight couples.”
    Needless to say I lost it, it was so funny.

  • @Abby_cat47
    @Abby_cat47 4 года назад +308

    I stan non-tradional weddings. As a woman, I proposed to my dude with my grandpa's ring. I'm going to wear a suit to the wedding as well, being way taller than him. It's going to be great~

    • @ananya8269
      @ananya8269 4 года назад +22

      Congratulations on your upcoming wedding and hope you have a happy marriage! ❤

    • @Abby_cat47
      @Abby_cat47 4 года назад +16

      We've been together for 9 years, so what's a few decades more? 🥰 thank you!

    • @shaivikadam3923
      @shaivikadam3923 4 года назад +7

      That's like the coolest thing ever
      Congratulations ❤️❤️

    • @frostyskeletons8950
      @frostyskeletons8950 4 года назад +3

      Cute ❤️

    • @sandpiperr
      @sandpiperr 4 года назад +12

      What would you being taller than him have to do with what you're wearing?
      No judgement. If you want to wear a suit, wear a suit.
      I just don't see the correlation between height and what you wear.

  • @gemie72
    @gemie72 4 года назад +53

    Oh my gosh, I'm such a dummy. I've watched Maggie's side and now 21 minutes into Zach's story, I finally realized that they've been yelling "Fiance!" at each other, not "Beyonce!" 🤦‍♂️ It all makes sense now

  • @historyofsloths
    @historyofsloths 4 года назад +92

    I was so excited to hear Maggie’s side of the story and now I’m excited to hear Zach’s side! Congrats, Zach!

  • @YoungFrancestein
    @YoungFrancestein 4 года назад +23

    Ned talking about how he felt about Ariel when he decided to propose to her was very beautiful.

  • @shryab15
    @shryab15 4 года назад +414

    Of course Eugene had a segment to roast straight couples

    • @ariciastorch3532
      @ariciastorch3532 4 года назад +16

      tbh I'm surprised he managed to take only a segment to do that cause I would do it the whole episode

    • @shryab15
      @shryab15 4 года назад +8

      @@ariciastorch3532 They probably edited it out worried because of haters......oh and not worried about them...worried for them when Eugene comes for their bloody lives

    • @Gladiva19
      @Gladiva19 4 года назад +11

      @@ariciastorch3532 or we could just not hate people for existing? Big yikes

    • @ariciastorch3532
      @ariciastorch3532 4 года назад +5

      @@Gladiva19 it was a joke. get over it.

  • @marifazekas5650
    @marifazekas5650 4 года назад +55

    “Duh, nothing better is coming” AOJFJSICOWOODOWOS spoken like a true best friend, though

  • @ananya8269
    @ananya8269 4 года назад +75

    Keith's idea of a bachelor/bachelorette party is like a meet up between rival spies for exchange of confidential information

  • @RacyXue
    @RacyXue 4 года назад +30

    Eugene's older sister's engagement is pretty much what mine was. My now husband turned to look at me in bed and said "so I guess we should get married eh?". He went home that Christmas to see his parents and came back with his great grandmother's engagement ring (1911 art deco solitaire ... my dream ring) and did the whole romantic supper at his house and presented the ring for New Years. Best of both worlds because I am a bit more pragmatic and he has a lovely romantic streak.

  • @banirattan2859
    @banirattan2859 4 года назад +1017

    Who else was waiting for this episode on the trypod?

  • @dougbagg_
    @dougbagg_ 4 года назад +36

    All the New Zealanders be thinking, there aren’t kangaroos here 😂

  • @ishitamathur1614
    @ishitamathur1614 4 года назад +59

    I love seeing Zach and Maggie this happy, a small kernel of joy in this pandemic that is providing a lot of light to me 💕

  • @brittanyelisha
    @brittanyelisha Год назад +7

    The Becky story reminded me of the time that the doctor's office called me to congratulate me on my pregnancy and asked if I'd like to come in for an appointment to discuss my options.
    I was most definitely NOT the correct Brittany, and the receptionist was correctly horrified at her mistake.

  • @annaflanders1345
    @annaflanders1345 4 года назад +329

    Really glad Zach and Ned did not ask for Maggie’s parents’ or Ariel's parents' permission! Also enjoyed hearing that the guy would not have minded their wives keeping their maiden names. We stan some good feminist men!

    • @shezs.2322
      @shezs.2322 4 года назад +38

      I’m sorry, I’m just curious. Why is it a bad thing to ask for the parents blessing? I’m not trying to be rude but I always thought of it as a cute thing. Idk please educate me on your point of view? I want to hear it🙂

    • @joannaw9793
      @joannaw9793 4 года назад +100

      @@shezs.2322 Asking for their blessing is fine in my opinion. But asking for 'permission' makes it sound like the person is a piece of property that belongs to them to give away? Very traditional view.

    • @annaflanders1345
      @annaflanders1345 4 года назад +70

      @@shezs.2322 I personally agree with the way that Zach explained it. A woman can make her own decisions. Some people say that it shows respect, but to me it seems more disrespectful to the woman because it makes it seem like you value the parents' (and especially the dad's) opinion of you over the woman herself. It kind of minimizes her agency as an individual and in the relationship. A lot of times it's also just a formality. Like if the parent says "no" would that stop the guy from proposing? Of course, if you are close to your parents you want them to love your significant other and approve of the relationship, but by the time you get to engagement, you probably already know how the parents feel. Everyone is different, and if it's something that's important to you, that's okay! It's just refreshing for me to hear them not do something that's traditional for the sake of tradition.

    • @frostyskeletons8950
      @frostyskeletons8950 4 года назад +6

      Anna Flanders agree!

    • @JUJU-._.-
      @JUJU-._.- 4 года назад +6

      I actually wouldn't of mind if my husband would've asked my dad for my hand I'm very traditional though

  • @naturegeek33
    @naturegeek33 4 года назад +46

    “In New Zealand with a kangaroo looking at you”

  • @carissasimmers7714
    @carissasimmers7714 4 года назад +42

    First we were given the announcement of Ned and ariels baby which brightened my life with joy now Zach the man who was single for so long is getting MARRIED AHHHHH YYAYYAYAYAYYAYYAYAYY

  • @killme7692
    @killme7692 2 года назад +32

    This video stings. I hope Ariel and the babies come out of this stronger

  • @jimmby12jommoz19
    @jimmby12jommoz19 4 года назад +295

    Keith do you think you’ll be married in the next 10 years
    Zach yes
    Me wow that aged greatly and definitely faster then I thought

  • @jandy321
    @jandy321 4 года назад +14

    "we could've been anywhere in the world" got me bAWLING

  • @alyssaferry600
    @alyssaferry600 4 года назад +248

    Here's the thing about getting married in this day and age... you don't HAVE to do anything. Some of the traditions around marriage are so dated and heterosexually centered, it just doesn't fit all couples anymore. Also, the wedding industry is crazy town banana pants and in some cases it just isn't financially responsible to spend exorbitant amounts of money on one party. We were engaged for 2 years, got married at an express window at our county building with our 2 year old in our arms. Then a few months later we had a huge ceremony and party. It was perfect for us.

    • @seannanana84
      @seannanana84 4 года назад +21

      I'm not even in a relationship but I know when the day comes I want a simple ceremony and then just a big backyard party with fun food and dancing and just easy going and fun. People get so stressed out and worried over family expectations and I've had friends who didn't even enjoy their wedding day because of the stress and I wouldn't want to start a marriage that way. I am glad more and more people are going away from the traditional wedding concepts

    • @Mariajose-qt5ey
      @Mariajose-qt5ey 4 года назад +14

      I agree that you don't have to do the tradition when you are getting married. If you and your partner don't want a traditional wedding that's ok. If you and your partner don't want to go through the tradional way of proposing, that's ok as well. However, i do belive that if people want to go the tradional way, that is also aceptable. We need to remeber that those "traditions around marriage that are so dated and heterosexually centered" are still important for a group of people and, we need to respect that. More than that, there are couples that are not heterosexual but still decide to have a more "tradional" proposing and wedding ceremony because they want to. I think we need to stop this view of this tradition as something we have to do and more of choice for everyone.

    • @mossking2815
      @mossking2815 4 года назад +9

      @@Mariajose-qt5ey I agree with everything you said, but nobody here said that you can't have a traditional wedding, just that you dont need to have one if you don't want to.

  • @satansalsa1611
    @satansalsa1611 4 года назад +381

    does anyone remember when the try wives had a tarot card reading and she said that Maggie is gonna marry someone *super* white??

    • @sweaterpause7862
      @sweaterpause7862 4 года назад +20

      OOOOOHHH MMYYYYYY GOOOOODD I FORGOT ABOUT THAT!!!

    • @calista5811
      @calista5811 4 года назад +15

      I DO! AND I WAS LIKE OHOHOHOH THATS DEFINITELY ZACH

    • @phyrestorm999
      @phyrestorm999 3 года назад +11

      No, but I do remember when she said Maggie should wait for him to propose.

    • @mei1194
      @mei1194 3 года назад +12

      @Ava Bartlett wow if you don't like him why are you here

    • @Fer_Cezario
      @Fer_Cezario 3 года назад +4

      @Ava Bartlett A group of disrespectful, non sense people

  • @maygirl1595
    @maygirl1595 4 года назад +38

    Eugene asks all the important questions love himmmm

  • @lejlaketa6781
    @lejlaketa6781 4 года назад +13

    The whole time Eugen was talking about proposals I was thinking about the day I got engaged and how my now husband intentionally piss me off the whole day and pretended to forget my birthday in order to surprise me to the point were I was contemplating the whole of our relationship to that point before this man proposed.

  • @ckellyisme
    @ckellyisme 4 года назад +107

    I love that the clickbait for the TryPod is You Can Sit With Us since the TryWives are killin' the PodCast game :)

  • @goosebump801
    @goosebump801 4 года назад +11

    I loved Zach’s observation that in the end, the setting didn’t really matter. So true. Guys, really, don’t stress so much. 😄

  • @fruitbythebecbec7165
    @fruitbythebecbec7165 4 года назад +63

    i love how many podcasts are happening simultaneously

  • @anluip2950
    @anluip2950 4 года назад +165

    Try guys podcast, try wives podcast, try parents baby podcast, hmm?Does this mean we can anticipate an lgbtq centered podcast with Eugene!!!!!!!?

  • @RBNobody
    @RBNobody 4 года назад +72

    Wait wait wait ... can we all take a moment to appreciate Mile’s background !?!? And the interior design element of it ! That paint , YAS . That Rug, YAS. That shelf, YAS .
    If he’s been in it before my apologies for not recognizing sooner . 😂❤️
    For me ... it’s the aesthetic 😂😂😂😂

  • @idm0001
    @idm0001 4 года назад +24

    I Hope eugene is doing ok💔 it must be so hard loosing somebody that close, especially being such a emotionally closed person as him. We love you Eugene❤️❤️🥺 really wish you all well.

  • @kmosh8333
    @kmosh8333 4 года назад +33

    Eugene's sister and I have very similar engagement stories. We got in a bit of a shouting match while pumping fuel. I didn't actually know he was serious until a day or two later when my dad called to congratulate me. I picked out my own engagement ring. It was $20 and we got married in a parking lot with two witnesses and an online minister. No photos. Do what is true to your story ❤
    Congratulations.

    • @valeriebrown391
      @valeriebrown391 4 года назад +1

      Congrats! ❤ You do you! We had to make up a romantic proposal story involving our cat. It was "Hypothetically, if we got married, let's not do this." "How about make it for real?" "Wait...are you serious?" "Yeah. Let's get married." It took 3 months choosing my ring, and my fiance then sweated bullets asking for my dad's blessing while dad cut through his steak with a sharp knife.

  • @clemenciaharmon1753
    @clemenciaharmon1753 2 года назад +20

    Watching this after what happened between Ned and Alex im sooo 💔💔💔💔

  • @astrangermagi
    @astrangermagi 4 года назад +180

    Zach: "I've been dating Maggie for a long time"
    Me: glances at Eugene
    "Long time", man?

  • @Stephanie-ki5oz
    @Stephanie-ki5oz 4 года назад +21

    Competition for best man is a series I’m expecting. Thank you

  • @brittanybrown1134
    @brittanybrown1134 4 года назад +28

    Engagement photo shoots are a great way to connect with a photographer, so if you hire them for the wedding, you are more comfortable with them

  • @viarodriguez325
    @viarodriguez325 4 года назад +26

    Me when Matt came out: “ OMGGG MATTTT YOU’RE IN THE WRONG PODCAST!” 😍😍😍
    I can’t wait for the day he’ll join the trywives 😍

    • @MF-Dog-Mom
      @MF-Dog-Mom 3 года назад

      Try Partners!

    • @danivaav
      @danivaav 3 года назад +1

      @@MF-Dog-Mom Try Wives! Matt invented the name and everything. 😂

  • @graceklopp1715
    @graceklopp1715 4 года назад +12

    I got engaged Aug 2019 and planned a wedding for May 2020 but ended up getting married in July 2020 in an intimate ceremony. I told my fiancé/future husband that he could ask for a blessing from my parents but not permission because I'm my own person, not property. Happy for Maggie and Zach, good luck with your wedding plans.

  • @bce4au
    @bce4au 4 года назад +20

    Maggie’s excitement in “You Can Sit with Us” version literally brought me to tears! Side Note: In Alabama, we’d refer to it as “asking for her dad’s blessing.” Permission does sound icky.

  • @erauprcwa
    @erauprcwa 4 года назад +41

    23:52 Eugene was on the money. When my husband proposed to me, prior, he was a complete asshole that day. We were on our way to the airport (at the time I was a college student training to become a professional pilot, so we were going to my local airport to take graduation pics). Before we left my apartment, my mother called me, and he kept rushing me off the phone and also refused to stop and get food before we went to the airport. Unbeknownst to me, he told my parents what he was going to do and he was worried my mother was going to spoil it.
    I remember thinking, geeze, why is he being so annoying and pushy?

  • @LaceFX
    @LaceFX 4 года назад +17

    LMAO🤣 Keith: “Duh there’s nothing better coming”

  • @bellavolkl9518
    @bellavolkl9518 4 года назад +85

    AWHHH YAYYY I CANT WAIT TO HEAR ZACHS SIDE OF THE STORY

  • @HSfox
    @HSfox 4 года назад +4

    My mood is connected to Eugene's questions/expressions, listening to the str8 people talk about marriage and asking things about their strange lives 🙌🙌😏

  • @statnoise5843
    @statnoise5843 4 года назад +51

    Okay, when Ned switched to talking about BabySteps, I realized it's so they can both monetize the pregnancy _and_ get free stuff to test. This is so Yale.

  • @yumisayama4110
    @yumisayama4110 Год назад +16

    Ned's proposal story is just sad now... 😕😕😕

  • @shramanadasdutta3006
    @shramanadasdutta3006 4 года назад +207

    Thumbnail conspiracy theory : Did Maggie leave out the Spiderman part of the proposal that Zach's gonna tell us today? Would be pretty on character for Zach. And maybe she wants to erase that part from her memory.

    • @mrunmaiparab9705
      @mrunmaiparab9705 4 года назад +6

      Maggie was emotional so probably it's likely that she didn't even noticed. Idk that's just a theory, a youtube comment theory! Thanks for reading

  • @karasmith4509
    @karasmith4509 4 года назад +3

    26:24 this was always my dads wisdom and im glad to hear it from others, it doesnt matter when or how it matter more about the people and their love, this carries on not just for the engagement but the wedding as well so many ppl focus on the wedding which is just one day, but never put that kind of effort into their marriage. Hearing this just makes me happy that others know this wisdom too 💕

  • @ryuzaki8556
    @ryuzaki8556 Год назад +11

    im happy that ned is not gonna plan zach's bachelor party now.

  • @genevaberry3135
    @genevaberry3135 4 года назад +12

    My husband purposed to me on the pier where we had our first kiss, it was a surprise but not a surprise, I had been hinting for a while. When he purposed he didn't exactly ask the question he just said he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and he said so what's your answer, and I said you didn't ask the question 😂 it was so perfectly us, we got married at a court house because a hurricane ruined our wedding plans and destroyed our venue. I am so glad we did though because those two moments we're just for us, no family or friends, it made it really special.