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Curious. u stated the one girl was an hour and a half late. Being a westerner male after a half hour I would informed the two young ladies we are going to do an interview with just the two of you. Recorded the interview , packed up and headed back home. In my thoughts, the girl who was late was inconsiderate and disrespectful to me, Lucy and the two ladies who showed up on time. Your thoughts as a Filipino woman?
Pea, I don't know if you can answer this question, I think I could be happy with a provincial woman; if she would be just as happy staying with me in the Philippines and occasionally visiting the US and seeing the world as long as we can come home, it would be more beneficial if we lived in the city as oppose to the province because of the business that I created here which I could better provide for our family. So I guess my question would be, Do you think that a provincial girl would accept a foreigner who want's to make the Philippines their home and just be happy staying with me in the Philippines and occasionally visiting the US and traveling to other places for a short time on business even when our children are growing, that we could live in the city because of the business that I created here in the Philippines which I could better provide for our family because if we are in a committed relationship her family becomes my family and my family which only consist of my son, becomes her family and family takes care of each other; would she accept going to school and getting her education with her husband paying her tuition and books? I have so many questions because out of all your videos, this is the one that has shown me what I am looking for and I like and need a provincial girl for a wife.
These young ladies are an example of true feminine beauty. Physically and mentally. Anyone lucky enough to marry someone like this should be grateful. I am married to a beautiful Filipina from the province. We have 2 children and a wonderful life.
I love the pure, natural, expression of femininity that comes from a Filipina. She doesn't even realize it because it's such an innate part of who she is. In America, women have denounced femininity like it's a plague when in reality they gave up their power as women. They spend years denegrating men then wonder where all the good men are. They spent their life kicking the good men to the curb because they weren't their idea of perfect. And now as they get older they just expect those good men should want to be with them. No way! The real women who have value to a man are in the east, particularly filipinas. They are the best. Thanks again, Pea. You are not one in a million. You are one in a lifetime. Keep up the good work.
yeah westrn women r lost, insecure have no id due 2 v toxic feminists, n we all sufer as a result. seeing ves pinays is like seeing a water fountain in a desert, gives one hope.
Feminism is cancer. American women I've known a few I'm trying to forget. They were so beautiful but ohh so boring. I'm wondering what was I doing there. So beautiful but oh so boring I'm wondering does anyone out there really care about the colour of your hair. My little golden baby where have all your brains flown to
@@jacobwheeler6136 simp? ..how young are you lmao all I see is facts a simp is someone who stays in a one-sided relationship and giving a huge amount of love and attention when it's not even reciprocated y'all need to stop misusing this word.. you gotta be a jitt ...SMH
@@jacobwheeler6136 Simpin is giving credit to and doing things for women who don't deserve it. These women from Asia and Eastern Europe deserve it. Of course I'm generalizing but for the most part that's true. Could never make a statement like that about western women without being a simp, that much we agree on.
Jesse makes my heart fly. I could see myself helping her family on their land, getting to know her, and asking for her hand in marriage. Someone like her anyway, you know.
I love Jessie, 20 yrs old and she says "we're not getting any younger"! How young do you want to be? She is beautiful and earthy. Province girls are the best.
Family-first vs spouse-first is a very interesting conversation to have, and probably should be navigated earlier rather than later during dating. This seems like the number one potential problem that may cause potentially severe issues in a foreign/local relationship.
That's the major downside if you are to get serious with a Filipina is that she comes with a FAMILY package, And as i understand is not something you could talk her out of since it will foster major resentment in the relationship plus she still will go behind your back to help the family.
Part of vetting your potential girl is to vet her family. Don't think for a second that you, yourself, won't become resentful if she spends years or even decades sending money that you earn back to family members that you think are not good people.
I understand family loyalty but the "spouse" supercede extended family. It is unrealistic for her to require the provide support for her family. If required then she i as immediately disqualified as marriage material.
@@decwow exactly Pinay will always choose family first over husband even if family is nothing but greedy blood suckers. That is why it is very crucial to not only vet the girl but vet the entire family. Pinay do not understand concept of sometimes family can be toxic and not good for you. I think that is also partly the reason why many pinoy also fuck and leave a girl pregnant is rampant there. Pinoy fully understand what pinay are like and will be expected to support an entire family. What some foreigners forget is that Western men as long as you a good man you are the prize. Make women earn your loyalty. If she wants you to marry her make sure she is obedient to you and only you. Make her understand that if she does not value you as a man she can easily be replaced by someone else. In return if she is a good woman take care of her.
@r.leonnewby7884 I was highly considering going to the Philippines to find a wife as I am a 12 year Navy vet, and seen a few sailors marry a Filipina.. But I had no Idea that this was apart of the deal.. I wonder if those sailors subscribed to this norm just to have a Filipina wife.. After seeing this.. it's a Huge pass for me.. Watching this made my stomach turn.. As I've seen American Women suck the life and finances out of US also.. Some women are just evil.. We can't win..
Such a huge gap between Western women and the women of the Philippines. Integrity cannot be doubted with these pure hearts. There are no gold-plated dreams, just warmth and love. This is why I chose to be with a Filipina. Thanks for another great video 👏👏
LMAO ,, intehity and Filipina's ,, I suggest you spend time there with eyes open. There are indeed gems but a heck of a lot of users and scammers in between
You said it brother, how wonderful to hear these lovely girls telling it how it should be everywhere in the world, they are still very young and have much to learn, but they are the reason I moved to the Philippines and married a Filipina, this is a good example of why so many foreigners fail when they come here to find a wife or gf they dont spend time to undrstand her culture
Ive watched tons of dating videos where western women are interviewed and asked what theyre looking for in a man... they always, always lead with physical attributes... eastern women, to include eastern europeans.. lead with personality traits... thats why westen women have so many failed marriages and relationships.. they are looking for the tall, handsome man with money and abs, and then hopefully.. he will be a good guy doesnt work that way
Jess was gorgeous very well spoken,can see she has the smarts even my wife said that Jess is very intelligent 🤓... all three beautiful Jess won’t have a problem getting a man she wants when she’s ready
I'm not that old, but I remember a time when North American women were almost as feminine and beautiful as these amazing Filipinas... So sad, the angry and bitter wokeness that's been sold to them...
Come'on, with the made up political stuff! Woke??...geezus some dumba** sold you that and you bought it.?. smh. No wonder there is a major wedge in our country when one loser party attacks the other loser party. I am old enough to remember the JFK days and people did not but any politicians words...they could tell when they were full of donkey sh*t..the only thing different these days is you see the one babbling buffoon in action 24/7 on TV and social media telling you how great he is ..and another who looks half asleep , at least in the (media selected clips) the other guy telling you some other country is gonna build a wall to keep out the boogeyman...You know the guys that for years kept the produce prices down...I can't believe how gullible Americans in general are "Woke" is an ignoramous's way of telling others " Look, I'm a stupid Fook!"...smh
I love Jessie‘s outlook on life and her education and willing to learn. I find it very refreshing that a 20-year-old woman is very mature in her way of thinking. I definitely applaud her I love your channels honestly it gives me a lot of insight into the Filipino women
These women will have no problem finding a good husband, especially from the west where these morals and values have been gutted by our society even though many men still seek this out. I would tell them to be very choosy with some men in the west though... I'll just leave that there... Thank you for another great glimpse into your country, and your culture...🙂
I married a girl from the province who was working in the city. She had a good mix of experience, was able to show me around the city, teaching me how to ride jeepneys, etc., but the real fun and adventure came when it was time to visit her family home in the province. I wish that every American teenager would be compelled to spend a month in The Philippines. It would be a wonderful educational experience. They might even learn to appreciate their own country.
One MANDATORY year abroad in high school might help the next generation of US citizens dismantle our 800 offshore military bases and the enforced injustice of our USA's 5% of global population consuming and controlling 25% of global resources and finances. Appreciate that we, in a world where 50% of people earn less than $3.00 PER DAY, have become worse than the Nazis could even dream about, and so full social injustice based upon petty discrimination by skin tone, called "race" which does not exist, like Flat Earth, Geocentrism, Spontaneous Generation, sunrise and sunset, etc. So yeah, I agree with you, but I don't think you truly appreciate the USA's role in history; Philippines, Hawaii, Iran 1953, Guatemala 1954, Central America 1970s, Latin America 1950s - 1990s, Africa, Etc. Philippines? Our puppet dictator Ferdinand Marcos stayed in power q7 years ONLY because of USA support, and took Asia's #2 economy straight into poverty while amassing fortunes for family and friends. And Imelda, and probably too many of her shoes, still weilds spooky power! Watch the film "The Kingmaker" for her incredible take on life, like the DVD cover quote "perceptions are real, the truth is not." Our, and European, consumerism may so influence a fast change in climates that ecosystems will collapse, along with crop failures, causing widespread famines in that 50% trying to live on $3 PER DAY. Appreciate that.
People that travel and see the world know all people have the same wants and needs. America is a more advanced country so the women are more advance as for as education . But in the end most women want a family and friends. Consumerism in America and $$ is # 1 for to many people. Family & friends come 1st in the end.
I am an Aussie and constantly say this about Australian teenage boys.... They should all be given a free ticket to travel Philippines upon graduating Highschool!!
Just found this video/channel. Glad to see that there are still women who feel that being modest and honest are things to be valued. It's not easy to find in the US. There is beauty to the modesty and femininity that goes beyond physical beauty (not that these ladies aren't attractive...). Thanks for this! :)
I was so charmed by Jess bringing her cow to graze. I hope she doesn’t abandon that beautiful place. It may be a hard life. But she has riches far greater than money!
Thank you for asking your last question. Unfortunately, many Asian girls, (not just from the Philippines) do not realise that when they get married, they are creating a new family, their own. Their own kids, their own husband, they are now the mother, with the mother's responsibilities. One line of questions never asked is, "Would you financially support your husband's family? You expect him to support your family, so why shouldn't you support his?" I AM married to a Filipina. Her thoughts on these subjects have changed. She has seen the damage to relationships, the excessive greed of families who can never be satisfied no matter how much they are given because they see the foreigner as an ATM, not as a member of their family. Not all are like this, some truly do welcome and include the girl's husband into the family.
Stuart you stole the words right out my mouth regarding them not realizing at marriage they are creating a new family of their own just like their parents before them. I always continue on by saying "if they keep up this mentality then their lineage ends at that point." In other words, they never pass on to the next generation because they are obsessed with their loyalty to their family. So her parents and grand parents get to meet together and create a family while she destroys her chances of following in their footsteps.
To answer your question filipina for sure willing to support the husband fmily especially if she have a gold heart .. yet foreigners family have earning good money than fmily in the philippines
@@CindysBisvlog here in america more people in poverty than rich, only 1 percent are rich, yes we make what seems like good money, but it cost alot to live. I know many filipinos here in usa, they are shocked how hard it is to have a decent living here.
That is why it seems that most young Filipinas are targeting those retirees who are in their 60-70s, whereby they are financially independent and is willing to relocate to live with her. Most of us in our 20-30s are busy paying off college loans, housing loans, bills etc. If those girls truly understand what it means to date a "foreigner", they should understand most of us have a full time job that we can't leave to make ends meet, meaning most likely its going to be a long-distance relationship. They should also understand that there is a cultural difference and be fully expected to learn and adjust, or compromise with the foreigner, not expecting others to blend in their culture. As for red flags, it seems apparent to me that most issues occur when her immediate and external family chose to stick to their belief that foreigners are rich and can constantly give them money anytime they want like an ATM. In this context, city girls are far more superior than province girls as they are more exposed to different living conditions out there. Some people said the reasons why their local man impregnate them and left is due to the lack of loyalty and responsibility in the man. However, I felt the Filipina's obsession with their family over their husband quite absurd and could potentially be 1 main factor contributing to spouse departure. *Context: I gave my parents small amount of my salary every month as a form of gratitude, without them asking for it. It is done provided I set aside my expenses and savings/investments. We also had an agreement which they are fully supportive that I will stop giving them after marriage as cost of living is expected to rise substantially. There is no way I will expect my spouse to support my family. Marriage is about trust between 2 parties and willingness to support each other emotionally and financially for new family (spouse, self and kids). If the mindset is still on current family, then quite frankly I have to say those girls are not ready for marriage. Another issue of constant support is the encouragement of laziness within the family. Supporting retired parents are fine, but able-bodied siblings, relatives and cousins are just plain ridiculous. *Personal opinion: Most of us here would preferably hire a maid/ housekeeper if we are looking for someone to excel in household chores. They should seriously take time to understand what the term "wife" is about. Take some time to see success marriage stories instead of typical assumptions.
I agree with you Stuart. Thus, I made it clear to my capable Filipino family members especially my siblings to work for themselves and be independent cause I will be having my own family now. Of course, my husband will help them in certain cases but not support them like our own kids.
These young ladies offer a refreshing contrast to what young women in the West have to offer. Any man would be fortunate to have one for a lifetime partner. Honorable shout out to the caribou in the background 😛
I already can see a lot of my western brothers raising their eyebrows at the thought of our future wife putting their family’s 1st and expecting us to support them. As someone who is married to a local Asian and has lived in Asia for 6+ yrs I can tell you to take those answers with a grain of salt. You have to realize that in general Asian men see their wive’s as a important household accessory (not saying they don’t love them) which means they’re primary focus is not having a loving, equal and caring relationship with their wives. That’s why (at least where my wife is from) husbands physically abusing their wives or just doing their own thing without considering their wife’s opinion and feelings is more normal. So when you look at the same answers by these girls who need love, affection and somebody for all their emotional needs, it makes sense why they would pick their family first because they are not expecting their husband to meet all those needs. From my experience if you are even a half decent husband by western cultures standards and actually treat your Asian wife as a life partner and friend she will quickly change her mindset and as you continue to prove to her that she can come to you for her needs her family albeit still important, quickly fade into that background. In the situation of finically supporting her family it also generally fades into the background if she feels like you are including her in your financial future. When she realizes that you value her opinion on money and you are invested in being finically set for the future of your new family she will be way less quick to just give away that future to her family unless they really need it. For example I trust my wife 100% to make the right decision in that regard and although we do sometimes send small amounts of money she will always make sure it’s for a actual important or emergency reason and holds her family accountable, plus she always asks me which is cute and gives me a chance say no if needed or say yes and feel good about helping:) Basically if you show your Asian wife that she is actually everything to you and that your excited to be married to her and her opinion is important in your future goals you will be surprised at how quickly your wife will prioritize you and your future above all else. PS. They will have family and friendship drama that you most likely will not understand…it’s okay:) just be her shoulder to cry on and remember the names of those important to her as she will quiz you to see if your paying attention:) PS. To all my military brothers out there I just want to add that having an Asian wife is so great for multiple reasons. Having someone to come home to who is not selfish and yelling at you after getting yelled at by your NCO all day is so relaxing. Someone who enjoys supporting and taking pride in her husbands happiness, taking care of the house, Isn’t superficial or high maintenance, either enjoys or dosen’t mind adventure and travel, Isn’t likely to cheat on you while your away and who just realizes and appreciates the things most western woman just expect, it all adds up to a way less drama filled relationship in a occupation that is not known for helping a marriage to last:)
The real name of Negros island 🏝 is Buglas not Negros when Spanish conquistadors arrived in the island in 1565 the conquistadors they saw dark skin people and they said Negro so they call the island 🏝 Negros.
These young ladies appear to have their heads on straight. Properly reared with strong values. Self respect shines through. Education cannot be overestimated. Go as far as possible--the kind of lady I would want my son to marry.
In my opinion, these young ladies gave the best responses to "what do you bring to the table?" They clearly understand how valuable they are in creating a happy home and a loving family. I do find it strange that many Filipina's don't understand that a marriage contract does not include her parents, siblings, cousins, neighbors, etc. I would never even consider marrying a woman who puts me second in her life. Putting your spouse first is what marriage is all about.
I'm currently watching 👀 this video with several guys at a new home building construction site, and these guys are freaking out over these ladies and the comments....these guys are drooling!
Wow, Claren Joy sure nailed it on so many points. They all seem like they'd be easy to talk with. I like that they are in touch with what's important. Thanks Pea of the Province. We're blessed to have you.
Argielyn, I enjoy her commentary and her voice. Her looks too. Miss Pea, you can't do this to me now I called dibs for you as my tour guide already!!! Kalbo is here!!
It's not even close. The culture difference for me mainly is supporting her family financially. Who doesn't want to help your wife's family when they need help? however, I don't want to be an ATM. Were anytime someone in their family needs help cousin, nephew, second cousin they always come to us for Assistants. Where do you draw the line?
True, but be careful going too far down that rabbit hole. Filipinas are still women. Hypergamy still exists. The real difference imo is the bar is at a different level. Western women might consider a man's income of $20k/mo as a minimum while a Filipina's minimum might be $800/mo. Western women are much taller in general, want a man 6"+ taller than them and so do Filipinas but they generally can be under 5' so a 5'6 man is "tall". And of course there is skin color, eye color, western features that Filipinas value which Western women take for granted. Then there's just the exotic part too. Women all over the globe generally are attracted to different...North American women often like a British or Australian accent just because it's different. I think this is a genetic thing, wanting mixed babies = chance for better genes. Consider all this from the Filipino men's perspective. Filipinas are chasing Chads. The only difference is you foreign men are all Chads for Filipinas. So really there is no difference between Filipinas and Western women except who they think is Chad. If suddenly millions of young 6' wealthy blue eyed men appeared in the Philippines you would see an instant change in Filipinas' minimum standards. I don't see hypergamy as evil. It's just the reality of how humans evolved. There's a reason for it in our past. Same reason men are attracted to young attractive women.
I am an American, been in military service, seen the world and different cities. I am from a small town in the south. If I were to start talking or seeing a Filipino, I would much rather see one from province than one from a city. I enjoyed this video, a big difference in city and province that I can see and hear in this video. I would have a great deal more in common with a province lady. Thanks for sharing, stay safe.
Man, all these ladies understand and have a more mature outlook on dating than almost the entire American population. So many people here, especially at 20, don't date to marry, they date to hook up, and most don't marry for the sake of being married, a lot of them marry to have a wedding. Jessie is especially spot on in her answers. Also, on the topic of loyalties being divided between family and spouse, I could see some guys having an issue with them saying family first, but for the right guy, it won't be a problem for them. The right guy will support them in all their decisions and won't even make them choose family or spouse. As long as the husband knows she's loyal and faithful to him, it shouldn't matter if she values family slightly higher. Only insecure guys will have a problem with this. Great video.
Only insecure guys will have a problem with this. How very feminist of you. I suppose only an insecure woman would be upset if her husband values his western children above his Filipino family. There is nothing wrong with being very close to their families but husband and children must come first. That’s what a family is. Or do you want your mother-in-law dictating what YOUR children can wear or eat? Think about it, if she doesn’t put you first then eventually someone else will.
Looking forward to part 2. I been studying the Philippines for over 3 years and the question of it being such a religious country and most women putting their family's above their husbands has puzzled me. I had a daughter and grand daughter that recently left to start their family and it was painful at first but I want more than anything for them to be happy. She knows I will always be there for them and I know she will have my back when I need her. Just glad they only live 20 minutes away. She fully supported me when I was going to Philippines to meet a lady younger than her that I have been talking to for 3 years now. Thank you Pea for helping us to understand your country and people better. I have seen your channel grow so much and its not only your beauty but the good content you have thats growing it. Thanks
Hi Pea you may remember that I was one of your earlier Patreons , that’s not germain to my forthcoming comments . What a great interview as always but this is a level above , beautiful young women and very intelligent responses, it was a pleasure to watch. I wish these ladies all the success and I’m sure they will achieve whatever they desire in life as will you . Always remember my moto in life is “ your attitude not your aptitude will determine your altitude “ 🥰😀😀
I have watched a few of your videos now Pea, but this one truly blew my mind! Young women who show gratitude to their parents, are serious about life and marriage, and actually feel that they need to contribute something to a marriage? Do these ladies really live on planet earth? They would get kicked out of the US in a hot minute for expressing any of these thoughts! What wonderful people, and what a great interview.
Imagine that , " We are 20 years old and not getting any younger " It never ceases to amaze me how different ( better ) things are there in the Phillipinnes :)
Pea… you never disappoint… thank you for another great interview - no one does it better…. but maybe next time your panel could be ladies residing deeper in the Province…. girls not in college. College is an introduction to liberalism and feminism, and maybe these ladies in a small way are already on the path……their loyalty responses prove this out.
Thank you for raising an issue that almost no one raises because it is probably the most difficult question you can ask a woman because the issue arouses mixed feelings. The question is - What do you bring to the marriage.
I'm impressed. I was actually thinking about that scripture in The Bible, when you asked them where their loyalties are. And then you asked them about that scripture.good job! I can't wait to hear the answer
True, these 3 girls very different from the other panel , at 20 Jesse thinks serious. these girls have Good Honor , i like this interview The Cow walking in and out really proves this is the Province , would like to visit with Claren Joy and learn more about province with her . A good son inlaw will help his wife and inlaws
Having lived roughly half my life in rural areas and the other half in urban areas I think there are some fairly universal differences between urban and rural ladies. Rural ladies tend to be traditional, more conservative, more family oriented and tend to be more practical wife’s. Particularly if your mule or carabao up and dies on you.
Salamat Ms. Pea for being not just gwapa, but also for being always so informative. I admire , greatly respect these women. In my opinion these ladies are classy, high family value oriented, but also spiritual. No matter what happens I hope and pray that all these women are found and/or find men who will honor, respect, treat right as they deserve to be. Blessings to u. Ms. Pea, stay safe, stay well. Keep up the good videos:)
- OK Pea, loved this interview! This is the first video you've made that had me wishing I was 30yrs younger (30yrs, jeez🙄). If I was, I'd be headed straight for the provinces. All 3 of today's guests are absolutely beautiful as is the location you used as a backdrop, both what I used to imagine the Philippines to be when I first became interested in it, years ago. Right now, at 52, I am definitely not looking for a 20yr old, but the differences between 20yo women in the Philippines and 20yo women in the US is night & day & I think I'd be more open to an age gap relationship with a Filipina. Nothing wrong with being family oriented and looking after mom & dad as they age and I would definitely be open to helping out the parents. But being expected to support brothers, sisters, nieces & nephews, cousins aunts & uncles is out of the question, not going to happen. Claren Joy has my vote for having a successful relationship, imo she got the loyalty question right and she has witnessed what leads to a failed marriage. Oh, & there's a very distinguishable difference in accents between provence and city women. This was a great video Pea👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾Thank you 🙏🏾😊
Hot Wheels Jones; You aren't old yet (68 talkin') stop whining, just DO IT!!! All these men posting inanities about "husband first" or provincial "purity" and other simplistic traditional projections of "Western women's missing Feminine qualities" reveal their brutish traditional Macho value systems, and their shallow understanding of family, because they barely know grandparents, as babies cried themselves to sleep in a crib, got put in day care, home alone after school, booted out of the house at 18 years old, and feel "ashamed" to ask for help or return to live at their parents' address. The Nuclear Family creates toxic, dysfunctional, subhumans who ascribe to "rugged individualism" which can never stand up to people networked, and also creates a culture of anxious consumers that find it easy to judge, blame, and hate (thanks, Religion!). If you guys can't PUT THEIR FAMILY FIRST, stay home. 50% of humans earn LESS THAN $3,00 PER DAY. Human history depended on family, and the West (although not quite so extreme in Europeans who have a sense of multigenerational history) allowed the USA's experiment in "nucleation" to fail spectactularly by over-mortgaging family homes ( 1st time buyers escaping parents) and created Capitalism's meltdown in 2008, bailed out by taxpayers - the big "national family."
@@markplimsoll I'm curious, can you explain for me, what's brutish about wanting a woman with traditional values if I am a man with traditional values?
I loved this Pea. These young ladies from the province are amazing. I would love to see a show with these 3 ladies and 3 twenty yr olds from the US answering these same questions. Can't wait till Friday.
I absolutely love Claron, I am so sorry that I don't have the proper spelling because she is so amazing!! Her simple values are adorable. I share the same with her, my parents were divorced twice. I grew up with nothing positive, does not matter, keep your chin up and live your dreams! Life is short, God Bless to all of you!!!
Just got to say, I really dig the dress on the left. I'm old fashioned though and have a real weakness for a girl in a nice dress. It's funny 'cause I don't think western women know how much power over men they gave up when they stopped wearing dresses.
I whole heartedly agree with this statement. I love seeing a woman in a dress. Married a province girl 4 years ago and it was a best decision of my life. Great interview pea! Looking forward to part 2.
@@TheFilipinaPea I agree with Ale8One: there is real appreciation and pleasure created by subtle subjecting, rather than bluntly exposing. Much erotic pleasure is given, and received, by anticipation, and the excitement of discovering, slowly revealing hidden beauty. For both parties: the chase and being chased away.
Definitely a refreshing view on the view of relationships. Hopefully they can continue to live their goals and see what they want achieved. I can definitely see their points and why they do what they do. Another great video as always.
What a really superb, educational and topical video in every way! Sensational breathtaking and really beautiful scenery, so well framed and perfectly filmed! 🎥 How clever of you to include a carabao in the background of the set! Pea spoiling her subscribers by creating such a dramatic pastoral painting worthy of Gauguin. I could see you Pea climbing up the mountain and arriving singing “The Hills Are Alive with The Sound of Music” 🎶 “ … Filipina style. Your guests are exquisitely remarkable, so young and so charming, kind, but also, at the same time, so mature and so honest, proud and perfectly balanced young ladies. Only in the Philippines could you find such beauty and integrity, essentially feminine, desarmingly oozing with gentle innocence. 😇 It shows clearly the advantages, the real pleasure of real womanhood and feminity over the terminal cancer of feminism and feminists that is rotting the “Western females” to the core. No wonder that thousands of western males desert the sunking ship. You are so right dear Pea : “Feminist heads certainly exploded all over the world!”😂 You leave us with yet another Hitchcockian suspense that will definitely keep our attention till Friday for part 2, in true Filipina Pea tradition. Ah Pea, I so wish I was much, much, much younger.
I hope someday I can go to the Philippines. What a wonderful culture and these young ladies are so beautiful and so Charming and there's an innocence about them which is absolutely truly amazing and extremely rare in the United States and in Miami Florida where I'm from. These young ladies deserve the best .. whoever man marries any one of these young ladies are truly blessed.. wonderful video thank you for posting it❤️🌹
@@CB_4216 I also agree, going into a relationship starting in 2nd place is not good. Also, if there are children the best you can do is 3rd place. Not a happy ever after for the husband. Pea I'd also like you to ask the ladies how they would feel if the westerner put their own family before them and required they also assist in supporting their own family? I'd be curious to find out how they feel about that.
Very true. If their loyalty is not first to the husband and their children, that goes against the whole joining of a man and a woman that they say are 1 and then they become 2 when they meet and then they are supposed to become 1 after the commitment of marriage. They contradict themselves if they say their loyalty to their parents and siblings is first. They may be mature in many ways for their age but they still don't understand a lot about the loyalty and unity of a relationship to their partner. Maybe they will learn more as they go through life.
@@lmoral222 That's not what they are looking for idiot. When you marry your wife comes first and the same is true for the wife her husband should come first. When you have kids the child usually comes first. I'd die for my wife and son without hesitation. I would expect nothing less from my wife. That isn't slavery that's what it means to be a family.
Another excellent video, Pea! Wow, bringing us three bachelorettes who epitomize both beauty & brains. As The Bachelor, at first I thought to choose bachelorette #3, Miss Jessie, for her beauty, modesty and extreme clarity of thought in expressing her views. THEN, came the fateful question of "Would you put your family first, or your husband first?", she said "My family" ☹ 《BZZZZT》Wrong answer! How would she feel if I told her "Sorry, Jessie, but my parents and five siblings come before I consider you & your needs". I doubt that would be well-received. SO, then my choice is bachelorette #1, Miss Claren Joy, as she is also beautiful, well-spoken, feminine and prioritizes her partner before her family 《DING DING DING》right answer - we have a winner! Until we see Part 2 .... what surprises await us, Miss Pea?
William I totally understand where you're coming from but in the Philippines they are very family-orientated that's one of their top believes and their culture which is a beautiful thing before anything else a lot of us can't comprehend this for the fact that we do not live with these values in most countries because we believe love goes above our family I've been in relationships where my girlfriend took high priority over my family because I believe in supporting my woman protecting her from my family. I think Family First is a beautiful thing unfortunately we've lost that along the way in most countries and civilizations
the "Sorry, Jessie, my parents and five siblings come before I consider you & your needs" could be a good way to start this conversation early on. See whether she is willing to understand your point of view and compromise. If she doesn't see the problem or is fully unwilling to compromise on something important to you, you're probably better off looking further (next).
4 beautiful young ladies 😍 I can only hope to meet a nice province girl whenever I can actually travel to the Philippines... I'm really enjoying learning about the culture difference between city and provinces 🤔 the simple life looks more pleasant and enjoyable I'm a family kind of guy so the Philippines is looking more and more attractive than the crazy lifestyle here in the United states.
I'm looking at the scenery behind everyone. It seems a nice area to be in. In my past visits, I have to admit that I enjoyed the time spent in the provincial areas more so than the city environments. The village festivals were especially fun as the whole community comes together to celebrate, and the life style is more relaxed, instead of the hustle and bustle of city life. Nice interview and informative. I hope everyone is well and stays safe coming into the holiday season.
Provincial girls seem so genuine and wholesome. When I retire to the Philippines, i will definitely look there to live and possibly find a life partner
I fully understand where the girls are coming from with regard to family loyalty, that said, I believe that it is important to realise that if you are expecting your husband to help support the family then she needs to primarily most loyal to the husband first to give him more incentive to help his new family. If he feels that he is second place, why should she be first in his eyes... Just my thoughts and experiences...
It is so heartwarming and comforting to know that there are still- in 2021-such ladies with traditional, conservative values. A 27 hour flight is a small price to pay to meet someone like these ladies ( preferably a little older ) Thank you again Pea. This is the best content on You Tube
my trip going there is around 30 hours from I enter the plane in Faroe Islands until I get of the 4.th flight in Clark 2 long stops changing plane a 1 2hour stop in Cebu before I get to hug my love, and it's been worth it every time
WRONG. Use the dictionary and compare "traditional" and "conservative" to liberal and progressive. "Traditions should be seen, and not taken seriously." - Mark Plimsoll. REAL Feminists don't explode when women can handle chores (although "stereotypical") but when MEN refuse to do them. Jesse, what you have to offer isn't the "cooking" etc. but your education. Education separates the past (traditions that limit) from now, and all future accomplishment. All these men posting inanities about "husband first" or provincial "purity" and other simplistic traditional projections of "Western women's missing Feminine qualities" reveal their brutish traditional Macho value systems, and their shallow understanding of family, because they barely know gradparents, as babies cried themselves to sleep in a crib, got put in day care, home alone after school, booted out of the house at 18 years old, and feel "ashamed" to ask for help or return to live at their parents' address. The Nuclear Family creates toxic, dysfunctional, subhumans who ascribe to "rugged individualism" which can never stand up to people networked, and also creates a culture of anxious consumers that find it easy to judge, blame, and hate (thanks, Religion!). If you guys can't PUT THEIR FAMILY FIRST, stay home. 50% of humans earn LESS THAN $3,00 PER DAY. Human history depended on family, and the West (although not quite so extreme in Europeans who have a sense of multigenerational history) allowed the USA's experiment in "nucleation" to fail spectactularly by over-mortgaging family homes ( 1st time buyers escaping parents) and created Capitalism's meltdown in 2008, bailed out by taxpayers - the big "national family."
If your are second to her family you aren’t worth much. Think about the trouble you went to get there to be a coat in the closet you did this to yourself. Nothing we with helping them make sense . But you should be first only God should be more important.
Hi, Pea, Great interview! I enjoyed this one much better than your other interviews with whom I'm guessing were "city girls." My father was raised on a farm in Georgia, and he was in the US Navy. Whenever he was stationed in a big city (like San Francisco, Denver, Charleston, etc.), we would always live in a tiny town at least 20 miles away from the city. Because of that I became a small town, country (you would say "province") kind of guy. I can't stand big cities. That's why I live in a small town outside Atlanta instead of in Atlanta. I loved the answers your province friends gave to your questions. Well, except for the chores part. I've been doing my own laundry for so long, I've often thought that if I were to ever get married, I would do my own laundry and my wife would take care of her laundry. As for cooking... When I took in my grandmother to take care of her for the last several years of her life, we worked out a system: when I cooked, she would wash the dishes; when she cooked, I would wash the dishes. I have a lot of my own recipes, which she enjoyed and which I hope any woman I marry would like, as well. I am so very happy to discover that there are still women who are "old-fashioned" and hold to traditional values. From what I've learned, Filipinas are that way, but province girls are more traditional than city girls. I wish it was possible for me to visit the Philippines and meet some of your province girls. They are very different from women in the USA, even those that might be considered province girls, what we call country girls. I also like what your friends said about marriage being a lifetime vow. When you get married, that's it... no changing your mind later and trying to get out of it. You're married, and you support your spouse through thick and thin, through both the good times and the bad. My parents felt that way. When my father passed away, my mother never re-married; she never even went out on a date, though her friends tried to get her to date many times. They had a true love, one for the ages. That's what I looked for but never found. Sigh. Anyway, this was a great video, and I'm looking forward to Part 2.
I really love when you go to the provinces to interview who I consider to be the heart of the Philippines. The girls are so pretty and have such a wonderful attitude and outlook on life. I can't wait to make it my home. Things got a little crossways at the end though. 😊 When the question of expecting support for the family and having a loyalty to the family before her husband was a real deal killer. They seem like wonderful ladies that it would be a pleasure to meet but I'm pretty sure that I can speak for most American men when I say that those 2 questions were the deal breakers. 😊 I'm only being honest. I know American men and what they want. It's not biblical. God was very clear about where a wife's loyalty should lie as well as the man's. Anything else is going to put dissention and strain on the marriage. I have personal experience with that and it doesn't work. I loved seeing her bring her cow to the interview 🥰 That's the kind of girl that I am looking for. ❤
I married a probinsyana, she was valedictorian of her high school and at UOP. She knows how to plow with a carabao, garden and raise chickens and pigs. She knows the fruit trees and can climb buko trees. She knows how to use a computer and get around and do business in the cities. Best of all, she's my best friend I ever had. I'd rather have a probinsyana than a city girl. I was a probinsyano in the US and it's a good match for me.
Had fun watching this.. this is also why foreigners have problems with Filipinas because there loyalty lies with their families not with their husband or mates.. It's not that us foreigners don't want the family in our lives it's just that we expect the women to put us 1st as we put her first in our lives.
I love these kind of chats you do! I think there are many similarities with UK culture. The internet and TV does spread culture to all corners so the differences are less pronounced. I have found younger people from outlying areas who complain about it being 'too quiet'. I grew up in a small town near the sea so I prefer the peace! Thank you lovely Pea for wonderful insights! 🥰❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea in all the best ways. TBH, I’m kind of afraid about bringing her back to the west because I’d like her to stay just the way she is, a gem.
Elephant in the room here: The setting! Holy smokes! Look at that gorgeous landscape and sky! Incredibly peaceful scene...moving to a gorgeous place with friendly people and reasonable costs of living...? Sign me up!
Great question..... since they all mostly claim to be catholic and the Bible says that the Husband comes first... they are his help mate. From the few I have talked to, not only are they more loyal to their family but expect you to be loyal to their family also....
@@guyandre4946 oh but it does.. once a woman pair bonds with a man, especially if she is a virgin and she bleeds on the man when the hyman is broken... biblically that is a lifetime blood contract with that man... her loyalty and duty still belongs to him.. not her family.
I would add that culture plays a big part in their lives as well as religion. I can’t imagine marrying a Filipina means you’re now paying her parents’ mortgage. My experience in Asia and the South Pacific taught me that everyone in the family helps out the the benefit of the whole. Seems ideal to me. 😊
I think it's a balance between family and partner ... It will vary hugely depending on many factors. Love the backdrop here, I love the mountains in the Philippines. The attitude of all the girls is lovely also.
Another interesting interview. Proof positive that you are an expert in this field. And the background confirms we can expect no bull. Kind of funny to hear these 20 year olds talk about how they are getting old. While everybody confirms province life is simple & laid back - they all have Facebook! So maybe NOT as simple as one might expect. Some men prefer province girls specifically for the fact that they would bring their cow to an interview. You then know for certain that they aren't horsing around.
UTANG NA LOOB , I never forgot that Unfortunately, it doesn't wash with me. As a parent, I would not want the added pressure on my child , especially at the beginning of a relationship or marriage . I understand tradition and values , so there are exceptions. Like when the parents are in there 70,s or 80,s , yet most are quite capable to fend for themselves. As an alternative, I would most likely set them up in business. I've met many province girls and they come across more shy and cautious and many are better educated and financial than some city girls ( usually slum girls ) Either way , don't ever take a PH girl at face value These woman are masters of Ambiguity. It's a survival instinct So don't rush in , take your time as there are great ones out there
The thing is, UTANG NA LOOB, is more of a necessity in Phils. In the west we can earn decent money, save money and provide ourselves with a decent pension in retirement, or have the Govt pay us a pension at retirement age. In contrast many Filipinos are living hand to mouth and don't even have a bank account, never mind savings, their only pension plan is their children. If the parents are providing you with a decent partner then there's no harm in giving them a bit of financial comfort in return. Just something to think about as I realise there are many variables..
Are you taking from experience?? I've supported a family of 11 for 20 mths. Oddly the family occupants has grown since my contribution Cousins kids grandparents etc So I built a extension and doubled the house size And about a 1000 other things . Oddly , there's a life or death situation every day And I know it's the parents pushing These parents are going to ruin Their kids life if I snap I also take care of other families and people. In 20 mths it's cost me around $ 2.4 m php so it's not a money issue it's a moral issue
Jessie made a very good point about establishing a healthy relationship...Get to know the other person first by building a friendship. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾💖🌷 So many are in a hurried rush to just blindly jump right in...Infatuation...Not good. 🥴
Another cliff hanger from Pea, having to wait for part two. Dang cute and smart women. It's sad they are already thinking about being old. Sure miss one or two big plates of lumpia and it is only-5.2C here this morning. Have a good evening Pea, stay warm & happy.
Thank you buddy. I am very in love with my province lady. Thank God for country girls. I am looking forward to your video telling us all that the United states is on the green list for travel to the Philippines.
That was a great interview. It displayed the beauty that can be seen in the landscape and all four women, as well as the beauty of character of all four. Thank you.
The fact they can have a civil discussion and take turns speaking... Here the first moment of discomfort women interrupt the other person and try to coerce others to their view point to make sure there is no dissent. Married or not, it would be so much nicer to be able to speak like this with women.
I like the way they answered the question about what they bring to the table. They know that they bring great value to the relationship by doing the more traditional things.
Really love this hearing the answers from the province girls. I would love to see the differences what city girls the same age would say about life and province girls. Great episode Pea. Really like these girls
Once again another great interview and the 3 ladies were beautiful, smart and endearing. I understand the loyalty to their families, but if I were to marry any of them I would have to come first, and only second to our children. I would assume I'd be the provider in our relationship as well as providing for her family, being second to her family would be a dealbreaker for me. I would ask upfront and if her answer was the family, I would walk away. Also I would never marry someone this young. 😀. Love ya Pea ❤
Mark Shaw.. I have to agree with you on this, i did live in Philippines with a girl ( 33 yrs old ) i met and lived with her for 2 yrs overseas before she and i went to her country, When there we lived in her house 70% completed with funds from her overseas working, the house was next door to her parents and siblings, her parents both had very good incomes, she would never make any decisions with out asking mum first, in ever thing, but after she never told me her decisions either, 100% her loyalties with her family. She some times just disappear for many hours and spent much of her day and eve next door with them. I was never allowed out of the house alone to walk or go into town alone * always a chaperone every where, i have never felt so alone yet been surrounded by so many !.Eight months i was considerate and supporting because i loved her very much, but in the end i could take no more of feeling alone and unsupported i had to leaver her and the Philippines !
Mark i totally agree with you, your coming 8000 miles to be 2nd place or even 3rd place, if you do go over, bring her into your world, i dont believe in living very close to her family, thats a deal breaker,
@@maathejayandyjohns1343 I understand having love for one's family, but she needs to be independent as well. This is where I think the age of the girl can be a factor. If you marry a child, you get a child.
@@michaelcann280 Sorry to hear about your bad experience here in the Philippines. I’m sure she’s not ready to settle down yet. Since she worked abroad, maybe that’s why most of the time she’s with her family.
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Curious. u stated the one girl was an hour and a half late. Being a westerner male after a half hour I would informed the two young ladies we are going to do an interview with just the two of you. Recorded the interview , packed up and headed back home. In my thoughts, the girl who was late was inconsiderate and disrespectful to me, Lucy and the two ladies who showed up on time. Your thoughts as a Filipino woman?
Pea, I don't know if you can answer this question, I think I could be happy with a provincial woman; if she would be just as happy staying with me in the Philippines and occasionally visiting the US and seeing the world as long as we can come home, it would be more beneficial if we lived in the city as oppose to the province because of the business that I created here which I could better provide for our family. So I guess my question would be, Do you think that a provincial girl would accept a foreigner who want's to make the Philippines their home and just be happy staying with me in the Philippines and occasionally visiting the US and traveling to other places for a short time on business even when our children are growing, that we could live in the city because of the business that I created here in the Philippines which I could better provide for our family because if we are in a committed relationship her family becomes my family and my family which only consist of my son, becomes her family and family takes care of each other; would she accept going to school and getting her education with her husband paying her tuition and books? I have so many questions because out of all your videos, this is the one that has shown me what I am looking for and I like and need a provincial girl for a wife.
Pea enjoy the videos. I am working in China but want to visit my gf family. Can we do that now?
These young ladies are an example of true feminine beauty. Physically and mentally. Anyone lucky enough to marry someone like this should be grateful. I am married to a beautiful Filipina from the province. We have 2 children and a wonderful life.
I love the pure, natural, expression of femininity that comes from a Filipina. She doesn't even realize it because it's such an innate part of who she is. In America, women have denounced femininity like it's a plague when in reality they gave up their power as women. They spend years denegrating men then wonder where all the good men are. They spent their life kicking the good men to the curb because they weren't their idea of perfect. And now as they get older they just expect those good men should want to be with them. No way! The real women who have value to a man are in the east, particularly filipinas. They are the best. Thanks again, Pea. You are not one in a million. You are one in a lifetime. Keep up the good work.
yeah westrn women r lost, insecure have no id due 2 v toxic feminists, n we all sufer as a result. seeing ves pinays is like seeing a water fountain in a desert, gives one hope.
Feminism is cancer. American women I've known a few I'm trying to forget. They were so beautiful but ohh so boring. I'm wondering what was I doing there. So beautiful but oh so boring I'm wondering does anyone out there really care about the colour of your hair. My little golden baby where have all your brains flown to
The things simps say 😆 🤣 😂
@@jacobwheeler6136 simp? ..how young are you lmao all I see is facts a simp is someone who stays in a one-sided relationship and giving a huge amount of love and attention when it's not even reciprocated y'all need to stop misusing this word.. you gotta be a jitt ...SMH
@@jacobwheeler6136
Simpin is giving credit to and doing things for women who don't deserve it. These women from Asia and Eastern Europe deserve it. Of course I'm generalizing but for the most part that's true. Could never make a statement like that about western women without being a simp, that much we agree on.
Jesse makes my heart fly. I could see myself helping her family on their land, getting to know her, and asking for her hand in marriage.
Someone like her anyway, you know.
I love Jessie, 20 yrs old and she says "we're not getting any younger"!
How young do you want to be? She is beautiful and earthy. Province girls are the best.
Family-first vs spouse-first is a very interesting conversation to have, and probably should be navigated earlier rather than later during dating. This seems like the number one potential problem that may cause potentially severe issues in a foreign/local relationship.
That's the major downside if you are to get serious with a Filipina is that she comes with a FAMILY package, And as i understand is not something you could talk her out of since it will foster major resentment in the relationship plus she still will go behind your back to help the family.
Part of vetting your potential girl is to vet her family.
Don't think for a second that you, yourself, won't become resentful if she spends years or even decades sending money that you earn back to family members that you think are not good people.
I understand family loyalty but the "spouse" supercede extended family. It is unrealistic for her to require the provide support for her family. If required then she i as immediately disqualified as marriage material.
@@decwow exactly Pinay will always choose family first over husband even if family is nothing but greedy blood suckers. That is why it is very crucial to not only vet the girl but vet the entire family. Pinay do not understand concept of sometimes family can be toxic and not good for you. I think that is also partly the reason why many pinoy also fuck and leave a girl pregnant is rampant there. Pinoy fully understand what pinay are like and will be expected to support an entire family. What some foreigners forget is that Western men as long as you a good man you are the prize. Make women earn your loyalty. If she wants you to marry her make sure she is obedient to you and only you. Make her understand that if she does not value you as a man she can easily be replaced by someone else. In return if she is a good woman take care of her.
@r.leonnewby7884 I was highly considering going to the Philippines to find a wife as I am a 12 year Navy vet, and seen a few sailors marry a Filipina.. But I had no Idea that this was apart of the deal.. I wonder if those sailors subscribed to this norm just to have a Filipina wife.. After seeing this.. it's a Huge pass for me.. Watching this made my stomach turn.. As I've seen American Women suck the life and finances out of US also.. Some women are just evil.. We can't win..
Such a huge gap between Western women and the women of the Philippines. Integrity cannot be doubted with these pure hearts. There are no gold-plated dreams, just warmth and love. This is why I chose to be with a Filipina. Thanks for another great video 👏👏
LMAO ,, intehity and Filipina's ,, I suggest you spend time there with eyes open. There are indeed gems but a heck of a lot of users and scammers in between
@@tilapiadave3234 betwen provincies???????
You said it brother, how wonderful to hear these lovely girls telling it how it should be everywhere in the world, they are still very young and have much to learn, but they are the reason I moved to the Philippines and married a Filipina, this is a good example of why so many foreigners fail when they come here to find a wife or gf they dont spend time to undrstand her culture
Ive watched tons of dating videos where western women are interviewed and asked what theyre looking for in a man... they always, always lead with physical attributes... eastern women, to include eastern europeans.. lead with personality traits... thats why westen women have so many failed marriages and relationships.. they are looking for the tall, handsome man with money and abs, and then hopefully.. he will be a good guy
doesnt work that way
Lmao sure
These women are so beautiful! 💞
Incredibly confident in their femininity!
So attractive!
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Yes, well said - “confident in their femininity” ❤️👍
Jess was gorgeous very well spoken,can see she has the smarts even my wife said that Jess is very intelligent 🤓... all three beautiful Jess won’t have a problem getting a man she wants when she’s ready
I'm not that old, but I remember a time when North American women were almost as feminine and beautiful as these amazing Filipinas...
So sad, the angry and bitter wokeness that's been sold to them...
Not in the last 50 years
Well most of our women are hanging tough 👍
Come'on, with the made up political stuff! Woke??...geezus some dumba** sold you that and you bought it.?. smh. No wonder there is a major wedge in our country when one loser party attacks the other loser party. I am old enough to remember the JFK days and people did not but any politicians words...they could tell when they were full of donkey sh*t..the only thing different these days is you see the one babbling buffoon in action 24/7 on TV and social media telling you how great he is ..and another who looks half asleep , at least in the (media selected clips) the other guy telling you some other country is gonna build a wall to keep out the boogeyman...You know the guys that for years kept the produce prices down...I can't believe how gullible Americans in general are "Woke" is an ignoramous's way of telling others " Look, I'm a stupid Fook!"...smh
That had to be over 50 years ago
@@trainrecked and your own comments shows hatred and divide, how hypocritical
I believe I may have been born on the wrong continent.😳
Another great job Pea. These ladies are so impressive and thoughtful and intelligent.
I love Jessie‘s outlook on life and her education and willing to learn. I find it very refreshing that a 20-year-old woman is very mature in her way of thinking. I definitely applaud her I love your channels honestly it gives me a lot of insight into the Filipino women
These women will have no problem finding a good husband, especially from the west where these morals and values have been gutted by our society even though many men still seek this out. I would tell them to be very choosy with some men in the west though... I'll just leave that there... Thank you for another great glimpse into your country, and your culture...🙂
@John Grigg To be safe never take the flower out of the garden:)
Going on 4 years of marriage with my Filipina queen. She is definately my soulmate. I love her more everyday.
@@christopherpittman8054 Did you stay in the Phillipines or relocate to another country?
@@marcellogenovese199 we are here in the states. I am not willing to give up my guns and other weapons.
Totally right!
I have a family friend that married a Filipina. She is a delight. So friendly, cute, resourceful, a great mother of their 2 boys. We just love her!
Did she relocate from the Phillipines to the West?
I married a girl from the province who was working in the city. She had a good mix of experience, was able to show me around the city, teaching me how to ride jeepneys, etc., but the real fun and adventure came when it was time to visit her family home in the province.
I wish that every American teenager would be compelled to spend a month in The Philippines. It would be a wonderful educational experience. They might even learn to appreciate their own country.
One MANDATORY year abroad in high school might help the next generation of US citizens dismantle our 800 offshore military bases and the enforced injustice of our USA's 5% of global population consuming and controlling 25% of global resources and finances. Appreciate that we, in a world where 50% of people earn less than $3.00 PER DAY, have become worse than the Nazis could even dream about, and so full social injustice based upon petty discrimination by skin tone, called "race" which does not exist, like Flat Earth, Geocentrism, Spontaneous Generation, sunrise and sunset, etc. So yeah, I agree with you, but I don't think you truly appreciate the USA's role in history; Philippines, Hawaii, Iran 1953, Guatemala 1954, Central America 1970s, Latin America 1950s - 1990s, Africa, Etc. Philippines? Our puppet dictator Ferdinand Marcos stayed in power q7 years ONLY because of USA support, and took Asia's #2 economy straight into poverty while amassing fortunes for family and friends. And Imelda, and probably too many of her shoes, still weilds spooky power! Watch the film "The Kingmaker" for her incredible take on life, like the DVD cover quote "perceptions are real, the truth is not." Our, and European, consumerism may so influence a fast change in climates that ecosystems will collapse, along with crop failures, causing widespread famines in that 50% trying to live on $3 PER DAY. Appreciate that.
@@markplimsoll I'm Curious, is there anything about the united States that you like or admire?
People that travel and see the world know all people have the same wants and needs. America is a more advanced country so the women are more advance as for as education . But in the end most women want a family and friends. Consumerism in America and $$ is # 1 for to many people. Family & friends come 1st in the end.
I am an Aussie and constantly say this about Australian teenage boys.... They should all be given a free ticket to travel Philippines upon graduating Highschool!!
All sweet girls. But RG is my favorite!
Just found this video/channel. Glad to see that there are still women who feel that being modest and honest are things to be valued. It's not easy to find in the US. There is beauty to the modesty and femininity that goes beyond physical beauty (not that these ladies aren't attractive...). Thanks for this! :)
I was so charmed by Jess bringing her cow to graze. I hope she doesn’t abandon that beautiful place. It may be a hard life. But she has riches far greater than money!
Thank you for asking your last question. Unfortunately, many Asian girls, (not just from the Philippines) do not realise that when they get married, they are creating a new family, their own. Their own kids, their own husband, they are now the mother, with the mother's responsibilities.
One line of questions never asked is, "Would you financially support your husband's family? You expect him to support your family, so why shouldn't you support his?"
I AM married to a Filipina. Her thoughts on these subjects have changed. She has seen the damage to relationships, the excessive greed of families who can never be satisfied no matter how much they are given because they see the foreigner as an ATM, not as a member of their family. Not all are like this, some truly do welcome and include the girl's husband into the family.
Stuart you stole the words right out my mouth regarding them not realizing at marriage they are creating a new family of their own just like their parents before them. I always continue on by saying "if they keep up this mentality then their lineage ends at that point." In other words, they never pass on to the next generation because they are obsessed with their loyalty to their family. So her parents and grand parents get to meet together and create a family while she destroys her chances of following in their footsteps.
To answer your question filipina for sure willing to support the husband fmily especially if she have a gold heart .. yet foreigners family have earning good money than fmily in the philippines
@@CindysBisvlog here in america more people in poverty than rich, only 1 percent are rich, yes we make what seems like good money, but it cost alot to live. I know many filipinos here in usa, they are shocked how hard it is to have a decent living here.
That is why it seems that most young Filipinas are targeting those retirees who are in their 60-70s, whereby they are financially independent and is willing to relocate to live with her. Most of us in our 20-30s are busy paying off college loans, housing loans, bills etc. If those girls truly understand what it means to date a "foreigner", they should understand most of us have a full time job that we can't leave to make ends meet, meaning most likely its going to be a long-distance relationship. They should also understand that there is a cultural difference and be fully expected to learn and adjust, or compromise with the foreigner, not expecting others to blend in their culture.
As for red flags, it seems apparent to me that most issues occur when her immediate and external family chose to stick to their belief that foreigners are rich and can constantly give them money anytime they want like an ATM.
In this context, city girls are far more superior than province girls as they are more exposed to different living conditions out there. Some people said the reasons why their local man impregnate them and left is due to the lack of loyalty and responsibility in the man. However, I felt the Filipina's obsession with their family over their husband quite absurd and could potentially be 1 main factor contributing to spouse departure.
*Context: I gave my parents small amount of my salary every month as a form of gratitude, without them asking for it. It is done provided I set aside my expenses and savings/investments. We also had an agreement which they are fully supportive that I will stop giving them after marriage as cost of living is expected to rise substantially. There is no way I will expect my spouse to support my family. Marriage is about trust between 2 parties and willingness to support each other emotionally and financially for new family (spouse, self and kids). If the mindset is still on current family, then quite frankly I have to say those girls are not ready for marriage.
Another issue of constant support is the encouragement of laziness within the family. Supporting retired parents are fine, but able-bodied siblings, relatives and cousins are just plain ridiculous.
*Personal opinion: Most of us here would preferably hire a maid/ housekeeper if we are looking for someone to excel in household chores. They should seriously take time to understand what the term "wife" is about. Take some time to see success marriage stories instead of typical assumptions.
I agree with you Stuart. Thus, I made it clear to my capable Filipino family members especially my siblings to work for themselves and be independent cause I will be having my own family now. Of course, my husband will help them in certain cases but not support them like our own kids.
These young ladies offer a refreshing contrast to what young women in the West have to offer. Any man would be fortunate to have one for a lifetime partner.
Honorable shout out to the caribou in the background 😛
I liked their answers about daring..it showed that they are very decent girls..I wish them all the best
what is daring ?
@@TRICK-OR-TREAT236 I am certain that he meant "dating" due to context.
I already can see a lot of my western brothers raising their eyebrows at the thought of our future wife putting their family’s 1st and expecting us to support them. As someone who is married to a local Asian and has lived in Asia for 6+ yrs I can tell you to take those answers with a grain of salt. You have to realize that in general Asian men see their wive’s as a important household accessory (not saying they don’t love them) which means they’re primary focus is not having a loving, equal and caring relationship with their wives. That’s why (at least where my wife is from) husbands physically abusing their wives or just doing their own thing without considering their wife’s opinion and feelings is more normal. So when you look at the same answers by these girls who need love, affection and somebody for all their emotional needs, it makes sense why they would pick their family first because they are not expecting their husband to meet all those needs. From my experience if you are even a half decent husband by western cultures standards and actually treat your Asian wife as a life partner and friend she will quickly change her mindset and as you continue to prove to her that she can come to you for her needs her family albeit still important, quickly fade into that background. In the situation of finically supporting her family it also generally fades into the background if she feels like you are including her in your financial future. When she realizes that you value her opinion on money and you are invested in being finically set for the future of your new family she will be way less quick to just give away that future to her family unless they really need it. For example I trust my wife 100% to make the right decision in that regard and although we do sometimes send small amounts of money she will always make sure it’s for a actual important or emergency reason and holds her family accountable, plus she always asks me which is cute and gives me a chance say no if needed or say yes and feel good about helping:) Basically if you show your Asian wife that she is actually everything to you and that your excited to be married to her and her opinion is important in your future goals you will be surprised at how quickly your wife will prioritize you and your future above all else.
PS. They will have family and friendship drama that you most likely will not understand…it’s okay:) just be her shoulder to cry on and remember the names of those important to her as she will quiz you to see if your paying attention:)
PS. To all my military brothers out there I just want to add that having an Asian wife is so great for multiple reasons. Having someone to come home to who is not selfish and yelling at you after getting yelled at by your NCO all day is so relaxing. Someone who enjoys supporting and taking pride in her husbands happiness, taking care of the house, Isn’t superficial or high maintenance, either enjoys or dosen’t mind adventure and travel, Isn’t likely to cheat on you while your away and who just realizes and appreciates the things most western woman just expect, it all adds up to a way less drama filled relationship in a occupation that is not known for helping a marriage to last:)
thanks for the education brother.This is the most informative comment on thigs thread.
All three of the girls gave well considered and seemingly honest answers. Good interview.
My God that background view is amazing! I cant wait until travel opens back up there!!
I was having flashbacks to Austria and Switzerland.
Same thing I noticed. I wanted to know more about where is that place.
I was thinking the same thing...I cant wait to get back.
The real name of Negros island 🏝 is Buglas not Negros when Spanish conquistadors arrived in the island in 1565 the conquistadors they saw dark skin people and they said Negro so they call the island 🏝 Negros.
These young ladies appear to have their heads on straight. Properly reared with strong values. Self respect shines through. Education cannot be overestimated. Go as far as possible--the kind of lady I would want my son to marry.
Very beautiful woman, inward and outward. No wonder men are heading there for a real partner.
In my opinion, these young ladies gave the best responses to "what do you bring to the table?" They clearly understand how valuable they are in creating a happy home and a loving family. I do find it strange that many Filipina's don't understand that a marriage contract does not include her parents, siblings, cousins, neighbors, etc. I would never even consider marrying a woman who puts me second in her life. Putting your spouse first is what marriage is all about.
I sure wish I could talk to Jessie. Sweet, and intelligent, and someone who would think that would love someone who is at heart, a comedian.
Yes, she’s a sweetie 😊👍
I'm currently watching 👀 this video with several guys at a new home building construction site, and these guys are freaking out over these ladies and the comments....these guys are drooling!
Wow, Claren Joy sure nailed it on so many points. They all seem like they'd be easy to talk with. I like that they are in touch with what's important. Thanks Pea of the Province. We're blessed to have you.
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Totally agree, she nailed it. Pea puts the fire to the feet of the other two in part 2 lol. Well done Pea, your content is top notch.
Praise God!
Yep Claren joy would be my pick.
The best backround in an interview EVER!
Thanks, and I agree! 👍
Our Pea is an artist 👩🎨 a painter and a perfect subject worthy of Gauguin 😀
Love the cow moving in and out.
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@@TheFilipinaPea What is that plume of smoke in the background? A volcano?
Charlie Angels goes Country ! Three beautiful ladies that seem to have great values. Im very impressed. Thanks Pea
Argielyn, I enjoy her commentary and her voice. Her looks too. Miss Pea, you can't do this to me now I called dibs for you as my tour guide already!!! Kalbo is here!!
I like and respect your hard work. I’m sending you love from Canada 🇨🇦✊🏿
North American women have NOTHING on these beautiful Filipinas... such natural beauty and natural confidence!
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Europeans are pretty much the same. Except for those in eastern Europe and maybe in the Balkans.
Sad but true
It's not even close. The culture difference for me mainly is supporting her family financially. Who doesn't want to help your wife's family when they need help? however, I don't want to be an ATM. Were anytime someone in their family needs help cousin, nephew, second cousin they always come to us for Assistants. Where do you draw the line?
True, but be careful going too far down that rabbit hole. Filipinas are still women. Hypergamy still exists. The real difference imo is the bar is at a different level. Western women might consider a man's income of $20k/mo as a minimum while a Filipina's minimum might be $800/mo. Western women are much taller in general, want a man 6"+ taller than them and so do Filipinas but they generally can be under 5' so a 5'6 man is "tall". And of course there is skin color, eye color, western features that Filipinas value which Western women take for granted. Then there's just the exotic part too. Women all over the globe generally are attracted to different...North American women often like a British or Australian accent just because it's different. I think this is a genetic thing, wanting mixed babies = chance for better genes.
Consider all this from the Filipino men's perspective. Filipinas are chasing Chads. The only difference is you foreign men are all Chads for Filipinas. So really there is no difference between Filipinas and Western women except who they think is Chad. If suddenly millions of young 6' wealthy blue eyed men appeared in the Philippines you would see an instant change in Filipinas' minimum standards.
I don't see hypergamy as evil. It's just the reality of how humans evolved. There's a reason for it in our past. Same reason men are attracted to young attractive women.
@@Horatio_Jones yeap
Yes P province girls are more natural beauty they don’t try to bleach their skin more down to earth I love the dark complexion just like yours
100%agree
In 1565 the Spanish conquistadors arrived in the island and they saw dark skin people and they said negro so they call the island Negros.
Bravo! Another wonderful interview, providing us with a broader view of your country and culture. Beautiful people! Thanks.
Thanks JMD! It was a gorgeous location, yes 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea mostly because of you 😘
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I am an American, been in military service, seen the world and different cities. I am from a small town in the south. If I were to start talking or seeing a Filipino, I would much rather see one from province than one from a city. I enjoyed this video, a big difference in city and province that I can see and hear in this video. I would have a great deal more in common with a province lady. Thanks for sharing, stay safe.
Man, all these ladies understand and have a more mature outlook on dating than almost the entire American population. So many people here, especially at 20, don't date to marry, they date to hook up, and most don't marry for the sake of being married, a lot of them marry to have a wedding. Jessie is especially spot on in her answers.
Also, on the topic of loyalties being divided between family and spouse, I could see some guys having an issue with them saying family first, but for the right guy, it won't be a problem for them. The right guy will support them in all their decisions and won't even make them choose family or spouse. As long as the husband knows she's loyal and faithful to him, it shouldn't matter if she values family slightly higher. Only insecure guys will have a problem with this.
Great video.
Only insecure guys will have a problem with this. How very feminist of you. I suppose only an insecure woman would be upset if her husband values his western children above his Filipino family. There is nothing wrong with being very close to their families but husband and children must come first. That’s what a family is. Or do you want your mother-in-law dictating what YOUR children can wear or eat? Think about it, if she doesn’t put you first then eventually someone else will.
Philippines 🇵🇭 looks like such a beautiful country!
This mountain village certainly is 👍
@@TheFilipinaPea can you tell us what part of the Philippines this is in?
Looking forward to part 2. I been studying the Philippines for over 3 years and the question of it being such a religious country and most women putting their family's above their husbands has puzzled me. I had a daughter and grand daughter that recently left to start their family and it was painful at first but I want more than anything for them to be happy. She knows I will always be there for them and I know she will have my back when I need her. Just glad they only live 20 minutes away. She fully supported me when I was going to Philippines to meet a lady younger than her that I have been talking to for 3 years now. Thank you Pea for helping us to understand your country and people better. I have seen your channel grow so much and its not only your beauty but the good content you have thats growing it. Thanks
Hi Pea you may remember that I was one of your earlier Patreons , that’s not germain to my forthcoming comments . What a great interview as always but this is a level above , beautiful young women and very intelligent responses, it was a pleasure to watch. I wish these ladies all the success and I’m sure they will achieve whatever they desire in life as will you . Always remember my moto in life is “ your attitude not your aptitude will determine your altitude “ 🥰😀😀
I have watched a few of your videos now Pea, but this one truly blew my mind! Young women who show gratitude to their parents, are serious about life and marriage, and actually feel that they need to contribute something to a marriage? Do these ladies really live on planet earth? They would get kicked out of the US in a hot minute for expressing any of these thoughts! What wonderful people, and what a great interview.
Imagine that , " We are 20 years old and not getting any younger " It never ceases to amaze me how different ( better ) things are there in the Phillipinnes :)
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Thank you for clarifying what the Bible says about marriage! I love the Philippines it’s a beautiful country and great people. Well done Miss Pea!🙏🏾❤️
Pea… you never disappoint… thank you for another great interview - no one does it better…. but maybe next time your panel could be ladies residing deeper in the Province…. girls not in college. College is an introduction to liberalism and feminism, and maybe these ladies in a small way are already on the path……their loyalty responses prove this out.
Wow not only are these girls beautiful but they are smart and seem to have their priorities stright
Thank you for raising an issue that almost no one raises because it is probably the most difficult question you can ask a woman because the issue arouses mixed feelings. The question is - What do you bring to the marriage.
I'm impressed. I was actually thinking about that scripture in The Bible, when you asked them where their loyalties are. And then you asked them about that scripture.good job! I can't wait to hear the answer
True, these 3 girls very different from the other panel , at 20 Jesse thinks serious. these girls have Good Honor , i like this interview
The Cow walking in and out really proves this is the Province ,
would like to visit with Claren Joy and learn more about province with her .
A good son inlaw will help his wife and inlaws
Ya ayayay I agree love the cow , its perfect
Love the carabao- he’s right! It was perfect!!!
That's a caribao! LOL
Correction a water buffalo 🐃 or carabaw.
Having lived roughly half my life in rural areas and the other half in urban areas I think there are some fairly universal differences between urban and rural ladies. Rural ladies tend to be traditional, more conservative, more family oriented and tend to be more practical wife’s. Particularly if your mule or carabao up and dies on you.
Salamat Ms. Pea for being not just gwapa, but also for being always so informative. I admire , greatly respect these women. In my opinion these ladies are classy, high family value oriented, but also spiritual. No matter what happens I hope and pray that all these women are found and/or find men who will honor, respect, treat right as they deserve to be. Blessings to u. Ms. Pea, stay safe, stay well. Keep up the good videos:)
Jessie just takes my breath away. She seems so sweet, sincere and open. She has a wonderful smile & her hair is very pretty.
- OK Pea, loved this interview! This is the first video you've made that had me wishing I was 30yrs younger (30yrs, jeez🙄). If I was, I'd be headed straight for the provinces. All 3 of today's guests are absolutely beautiful as is the location you used as a backdrop, both what I used to imagine the Philippines to be when I first became interested in it, years ago. Right now, at 52, I am definitely not looking for a 20yr old, but the differences between 20yo women in the Philippines and 20yo women in the US is night & day & I think I'd be more open to an age gap relationship with a Filipina. Nothing wrong with being family oriented and looking after mom & dad as they age and I would definitely be open to helping out the parents. But being expected to support brothers, sisters, nieces & nephews, cousins aunts & uncles is out of the question, not going to happen. Claren Joy has my vote for having a successful relationship, imo she got the loyalty question right and she has witnessed what leads to a failed marriage. Oh, & there's a very distinguishable difference in accents between provence and city women. This was a great video Pea👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾Thank you 🙏🏾😊
I hear ya
Hot Wheels Jones; You aren't old yet (68 talkin') stop whining, just DO IT!!! All these men posting inanities about "husband first" or provincial "purity" and other simplistic traditional projections of "Western women's missing Feminine qualities" reveal their brutish traditional Macho value systems, and their shallow understanding of family, because they barely know grandparents, as babies cried themselves to sleep in a crib, got put in day care, home alone after school, booted out of the house at 18 years old, and feel "ashamed" to ask for help or return to live at their parents' address. The Nuclear Family creates toxic, dysfunctional, subhumans who ascribe to "rugged individualism" which can never stand up to people networked, and also creates a culture of anxious consumers that find it easy to judge, blame, and hate (thanks, Religion!). If you guys can't PUT THEIR FAMILY FIRST, stay home. 50% of humans earn LESS THAN $3,00 PER DAY. Human history depended on family, and the West (although not quite so extreme in Europeans who have a sense of multigenerational history) allowed the USA's experiment in "nucleation" to fail spectactularly by over-mortgaging family homes ( 1st time buyers escaping parents) and created Capitalism's meltdown in 2008, bailed out by taxpayers - the big "national family."
@@markplimsoll you had me first in the first few sentences but then you went off on a tangent and just rambling. What is your point?
@@markplimsoll I'm curious, can you explain for me, what's brutish about wanting a woman with traditional values if I am a man with traditional values?
I'm 62, and my fiance is 33 from the Provinces. No worries about the age gap.
I loved this Pea. These young ladies from the province are amazing. I would love to see a show with these 3 ladies and 3 twenty yr olds from the US answering these same questions. Can't wait till Friday.
Love this content Pea, you're continuing to showcase all the very best parts of the Philippines. Nicely done!
I absolutely love Claron, I am so sorry that I don't have the proper spelling because she is so amazing!! Her simple values are adorable. I share the same with her, my parents were divorced twice. I grew up with nothing positive, does not matter, keep your chin up and live your dreams! Life is short, God Bless to all of you!!!
Another excellent production.
Just got to say, I really dig the dress on the left. I'm old fashioned though and have a real weakness for a girl in a nice dress. It's funny 'cause I don't think western women know how much power over men they gave up when they stopped wearing dresses.
Really?
Put on those dresses, ladies!! 😂👍
I whole heartedly agree with this statement. I love seeing a woman in a dress. Married a
province girl 4 years ago and it was a best decision of my life. Great interview pea! Looking forward to part 2.
@@TheFilipinaPea I agree with Ale8One: there is real appreciation and pleasure created by subtle subjecting, rather than bluntly exposing. Much erotic pleasure is given, and received, by anticipation, and the excitement of discovering, slowly revealing hidden beauty. For both parties: the chase and being chased away.
A girl in a dress will be treated like a lady. A girl in jeans will be treated like one of the guys.
BABOOM!I totally love that look.It works for more than just looks, too...
Definitely a refreshing view on the view of relationships. Hopefully they can continue to live their goals and see what they want achieved. I can definitely see their points and why they do what they do. Another great video as always.
What a really superb, educational and topical video in every way!
Sensational breathtaking and really beautiful scenery, so well framed and perfectly filmed! 🎥
How clever of you to include a carabao in the background of the set!
Pea spoiling her subscribers by creating such a dramatic pastoral painting worthy of Gauguin.
I could see you Pea climbing up the mountain and arriving singing “The Hills Are Alive with The Sound of Music” 🎶 “ … Filipina style.
Your guests are exquisitely remarkable, so young and so charming, kind, but also, at the same time, so mature and so honest, proud and perfectly balanced young ladies.
Only in the Philippines could you find such beauty and integrity, essentially feminine, desarmingly oozing with gentle innocence. 😇
It shows clearly the advantages, the real pleasure of real womanhood and feminity over the terminal cancer of feminism and feminists that is rotting the “Western females” to the core.
No wonder that thousands of western males desert the sunking ship.
You are so right dear Pea : “Feminist heads certainly exploded all over the world!”😂
You leave us with yet another Hitchcockian suspense that will definitely keep our attention till Friday for part 2, in true Filipina Pea tradition.
Ah Pea, I so wish I was much, much, much younger.
I hope someday I can go to the Philippines. What a wonderful culture and these young ladies are so beautiful and so Charming and there's an innocence about them which is absolutely truly amazing and extremely rare in the United States and in Miami Florida where I'm from. These young ladies deserve the best .. whoever man marries any one of these young ladies are truly blessed.. wonderful video thank you for posting it❤️🌹
What wholesome attitudes. So refreshing to hear…especially from such young ladies.
Your loyalty should be to your spouse first! Then your family if you can't do that then your love for your spouse isn't strong enough. IMO
Agreed. The back burner is never a good place to be.
@@CB_4216 I also agree, going into a relationship starting in 2nd place is not good. Also, if there are children the best you can do is 3rd place. Not a happy ever after for the husband. Pea I'd also like you to ask the ladies how they would feel if the westerner put their own family before them and required they also assist in supporting their own family? I'd be curious to find out how they feel about that.
Retarded comment IMO. What you're looking for is a slave. Stay single creepazoids.
Very true. If their loyalty is not first to the husband and their children, that goes against the whole joining of a man and a woman that they say are 1 and then they become 2 when they meet and then they are supposed to become 1 after the commitment of marriage. They contradict themselves if they say their loyalty to their parents and siblings is first. They may be mature in many ways for their age but they still don't understand a lot about the loyalty and unity of a relationship to their partner. Maybe they will learn more as they go through life.
@@lmoral222 That's not what they are looking for idiot. When you marry your wife comes first and the same is true for the wife her husband should come first. When you have kids the child usually comes first. I'd die for my wife and son without hesitation. I would expect nothing less from my wife. That isn't slavery that's what it means to be a family.
Another excellent video, Pea!
Wow, bringing us three bachelorettes who epitomize both beauty & brains.
As The Bachelor, at first I thought to choose bachelorette #3, Miss Jessie, for her beauty, modesty and extreme clarity of thought in expressing her views. THEN, came the fateful question of "Would you put your family first, or your husband first?", she said "My family" ☹ 《BZZZZT》Wrong answer! How would she feel if I told her "Sorry, Jessie, but my parents and five siblings come before I consider you & your needs". I doubt that would be well-received.
SO, then my choice is bachelorette #1, Miss Claren Joy, as she is also beautiful, well-spoken, feminine and prioritizes her partner before her family 《DING DING DING》right answer - we have a winner!
Until we see Part 2 .... what surprises await us, Miss Pea?
I agree with you partner should come first. Then if you can afford to help her family a little not a problem.... But not at the expense of your own
William I totally understand where you're coming from but in the Philippines they are very family-orientated that's one of their top believes and their culture which is a beautiful thing before anything else a lot of us can't comprehend this for the fact that we do not live with these values in most countries because we believe love goes above our family I've been in relationships where my girlfriend took high priority over my family because I believe in supporting my woman protecting her from my family. I think Family First is a beautiful thing unfortunately we've lost that along the way in most countries and civilizations
the "Sorry, Jessie, my parents and five siblings come before I consider you & your needs" could be a good way to start this conversation early on. See whether she is willing to understand your point of view and compromise. If she doesn't see the problem or is fully unwilling to compromise on something important to you, you're probably better off looking further (next).
@@stopit4uca "Family-oriented" just sounds adorable and perfect, - - - until we name the family we are referring to!
4 beautiful young ladies 😍 I can only hope to meet a nice province girl whenever I can actually travel to the Philippines... I'm really enjoying learning about the culture difference between city and provinces 🤔 the simple life looks more pleasant and enjoyable I'm a family kind of guy so the Philippines is looking more and more attractive than the crazy lifestyle here in the United states.
I'm looking at the scenery behind everyone. It seems a nice area to be in. In my past visits, I have to admit that I enjoyed the time spent in the provincial areas more so than the city environments. The village festivals were especially fun as the whole community comes together to celebrate, and the life style is more relaxed, instead of the hustle and bustle of city life.
Nice interview and informative. I hope everyone is well and stays safe coming into the holiday season.
Provincial girls seem so genuine and wholesome. When I retire to the Philippines, i will definitely look there to live and possibly find a life partner
I fully understand where the girls are coming from with regard to family loyalty, that said, I believe that it is important to realise that if you are expecting your husband to help support the family then she needs to primarily most loyal to the husband first to give him more incentive to help his new family.
If he feels that he is second place, why should she be first in his eyes...
Just my thoughts and experiences...
It is so heartwarming and comforting to know that there are still- in 2021-such ladies with traditional, conservative values. A 27 hour flight is a small price to pay to meet someone like these ladies ( preferably a little older ) Thank you again Pea. This is the best content on You Tube
Thanks so much Dale 👍❤️👍
my trip going there is around 30 hours from I enter the plane in Faroe Islands until I get of the 4.th flight in Clark 2 long stops changing plane a 1 2hour stop in Cebu before I get to hug my love, and it's been worth it every time
WRONG. Use the dictionary and compare "traditional" and "conservative" to liberal and progressive. "Traditions should be seen, and not taken seriously." - Mark Plimsoll. REAL Feminists don't explode when women can handle chores (although "stereotypical") but when MEN refuse to do them. Jesse, what you have to offer isn't the "cooking" etc. but your education. Education separates the past (traditions that limit) from now, and all future accomplishment. All these men posting inanities about "husband first" or provincial "purity" and other simplistic traditional projections of "Western women's missing Feminine qualities" reveal their brutish traditional Macho value systems, and their shallow understanding of family, because they barely know gradparents, as babies cried themselves to sleep in a crib, got put in day care, home alone after school, booted out of the house at 18 years old, and feel "ashamed" to ask for help or return to live at their parents' address. The Nuclear Family creates toxic, dysfunctional, subhumans who ascribe to "rugged individualism" which can never stand up to people networked, and also creates a culture of anxious consumers that find it easy to judge, blame, and hate (thanks, Religion!). If you guys can't PUT THEIR FAMILY FIRST, stay home. 50% of humans earn LESS THAN $3,00 PER DAY. Human history depended on family, and the West (although not quite so extreme in Europeans who have a sense of multigenerational history) allowed the USA's experiment in "nucleation" to fail spectactularly by over-mortgaging family homes ( 1st time buyers escaping parents) and created Capitalism's meltdown in 2008, bailed out by taxpayers - the big "national family."
@@markplimsoll Wow. Project much?
If your are second to her family you aren’t worth much. Think about the trouble you went to get there to be a coat in the closet you did this to yourself. Nothing we with helping them make sense . But you should be first only God should be more important.
Hi, Pea,
Great interview!
I enjoyed this one much better than your other interviews with whom I'm guessing were "city girls."
My father was raised on a farm in Georgia, and he was in the US Navy. Whenever he was stationed in a big city (like San Francisco, Denver, Charleston, etc.), we would always live in a tiny town at least 20 miles away from the city. Because of that I became a small town, country (you would say "province") kind of guy. I can't stand big cities. That's why I live in a small town outside Atlanta instead of in Atlanta.
I loved the answers your province friends gave to your questions. Well, except for the chores part. I've been doing my own laundry for so long, I've often thought that if I were to ever get married, I would do my own laundry and my wife would take care of her laundry.
As for cooking... When I took in my grandmother to take care of her for the last several years of her life, we worked out a system: when I cooked, she would wash the dishes; when she cooked, I would wash the dishes. I have a lot of my own recipes, which she enjoyed and which I hope any woman I marry would like, as well.
I am so very happy to discover that there are still women who are "old-fashioned" and hold to traditional values. From what I've learned, Filipinas are that way, but province girls are more traditional than city girls. I wish it was possible for me to visit the Philippines and meet some of your province girls. They are very different from women in the USA, even those that might be considered province girls, what we call country girls.
I also like what your friends said about marriage being a lifetime vow. When you get married, that's it... no changing your mind later and trying to get out of it. You're married, and you support your spouse through thick and thin, through both the good times and the bad. My parents felt that way. When my father passed away, my mother never re-married; she never even went out on a date, though her friends tried to get her to date many times. They had a true love, one for the ages. That's what I looked for but never found. Sigh.
Anyway, this was a great video, and I'm looking forward to Part 2.
I really love when you go to the provinces to interview who I consider to be the heart of the Philippines. The girls are so pretty and have such a wonderful attitude and outlook on life. I can't wait to make it my home. Things got a little crossways at the end though. 😊 When the question of expecting support for the family and having a loyalty to the family before her husband was a real deal killer. They seem like wonderful ladies that it would be a pleasure to meet but I'm pretty sure that I can speak for most American men when I say that those 2 questions were the deal breakers. 😊 I'm only being honest. I know American men and what they want. It's not biblical. God was very clear about where a wife's loyalty should lie as well as the man's. Anything else is going to put dissention and strain on the marriage. I have personal experience with that and it doesn't work. I loved seeing her bring her cow to the interview 🥰 That's the kind of girl that I am looking for. ❤
Love the setting and great job with the interviews.
I married a probinsyana, she was valedictorian of her high school and at UOP. She knows how to plow with a carabao, garden and raise chickens and pigs. She knows the fruit trees and can climb buko trees. She knows how to use a computer and get around and do business in the cities. Best of all, she's my best friend I ever had. I'd rather have a probinsyana than a city girl. I was a probinsyano in the US and it's a good match for me.
Same for me pal! 👍
Very impressed with their english skills. Good job.
Filipina Pea!
I 💘 your vids so much, that I let EVERY ad play for you!
Keep up your great work!
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WOW THANKS, Jay! That’s really nice of you 👍❤️👍
So many comments! Not surprizing. Thank you Pea, for bringing reality to this topic.
Great interview, I'm headed to part two. I do love your dance at the end of your videos. It's such a cute ending.
Had fun watching this..
this is also why foreigners have problems with Filipinas because there loyalty lies with their families not with their husband or mates.. It's not that us foreigners don't want the family in our lives it's just that we expect the women to put us 1st as we put her first in our lives.
I love these kind of chats you do! I think there are many similarities with UK culture. The internet and TV does spread culture to all corners so the differences are less pronounced. I have found younger people from outlying areas who complain about it being 'too quiet'. I grew up in a small town near the sea so I prefer the peace! Thank you lovely Pea for wonderful insights! 🥰❤️
Thank you! I have been looking forward to this video! My Pinay gf is 30 and also from the province.
Does she remind you of these girls? 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea in all the best ways. TBH, I’m kind of afraid about bringing her back to the west because I’d like her to stay just the way she is, a gem.
Elephant in the room here:
The setting! Holy smokes! Look at that gorgeous landscape and sky! Incredibly peaceful scene...moving to a gorgeous place with friendly people and reasonable costs of living...? Sign me up!
Philippina women just amazed me. They really still have traditional values? Wow, I am sold.🤩
Filipina Pea is a fantastic interviewer!🙂🙂
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SHE'S GORGEOUS! 😍😍
Awww thanks Jay 👍❤️😊
Province girls are more pure and a better choice for a wife 🇨🇦👍
Most, not all.
I so agree with this 1000000% starting with Pea LOL
One million percent... nearly astronomical!
Met one from the province..online..well 😭
If a wife has loyalty to her family first, does she still expect to be first in her husbands loyalty?
Great question..... since they all mostly claim to be catholic and the Bible says that the Husband comes first... they are his help mate. From the few I have talked to, not only are they more loyal to their family but expect you to be loyal to their family also....
I would say that there is a difference between loyalty and duty. One doesn’t prevent the other. There is beauty and dignity in both. 😊😘
@@guyandre4946 oh but it does.. once a woman pair bonds with a man, especially if she is a virgin and she bleeds on the man when the hyman is broken... biblically that is a lifetime blood contract with that man... her loyalty and duty still belongs to him.. not her family.
I would add that culture plays a big part in their lives as well as religion. I can’t imagine marrying a Filipina means you’re now paying her parents’ mortgage. My experience in Asia and the South Pacific taught me that everyone in the family helps out the the benefit of the whole. Seems ideal to me. 😊
Exactly
Beautiful scenery, beautiful ladies. Great camera too. Sharp and clear. These girls are just lovely!
I'm married to a Provincial woman, and so are 2 other men that I know. We are all happy being married to traditional and feminine women.
I think it's a balance between family and partner ... It will vary hugely depending on many factors.
Love the backdrop here, I love the mountains in the Philippines.
The attitude of all the girls is lovely also.
Another interesting interview. Proof positive that you are an expert in this field. And the background confirms we can expect no bull. Kind of funny to hear these 20 year olds talk about how they are getting old. While everybody confirms province life is simple & laid back - they all have Facebook! So maybe NOT as simple as one might expect. Some men prefer province girls specifically for the fact that they would bring their cow to an interview. You then know for certain that they aren't horsing around.
No Bull …… Hahahahaha
Excellent witty comments! 👍
UTANG NA LOOB , I never forgot that
Unfortunately, it doesn't wash with me.
As a parent, I would not want the added pressure on my child , especially at the beginning of a relationship or marriage .
I understand tradition and values , so there are exceptions.
Like when the parents are in there 70,s or 80,s , yet most are quite capable to fend for themselves.
As an alternative, I would most likely set them up in business.
I've met many province girls and they come across more shy and cautious and many are better educated and financial than some city girls ( usually slum girls )
Either way , don't ever take a PH girl at face value
These woman are masters of Ambiguity. It's a survival instinct
So don't rush in , take your time as there are great ones out there
The thing is, UTANG NA LOOB, is more of a necessity in Phils. In the west we can earn decent money, save money and provide ourselves with a decent pension in retirement, or have the Govt pay us a pension at retirement age. In contrast many Filipinos are living hand to mouth and don't even have a bank account, never mind savings, their only pension plan is their children. If the parents are providing you with a decent partner then there's no harm in giving them a bit of financial comfort in return. Just something to think about as I realise there are many variables..
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Are you taking from experience??
I've supported a family of 11 for 20 mths.
Oddly the family occupants has grown since my contribution
Cousins kids grandparents etc
So I built a extension and doubled the house size
And about a 1000 other things .
Oddly , there's a life or death situation every day
And I know it's the parents pushing
These parents are going to ruin Their kids life if I snap
I also take care of other families and people.
In 20 mths it's cost me around $ 2.4 m php so it's not a money issue it's a moral issue
Jessie made a very good point about establishing a healthy relationship...Get to know the other person first by building a friendship. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾💖🌷 So many are in a hurried rush to just blindly jump right in...Infatuation...Not good. 🥴
these ladies are stunning. Not all bling bling like the city women.
Another cliff hanger from Pea, having to wait for part two.
Dang cute and smart women.
It's sad they are already thinking about being old.
Sure miss one or two big plates of lumpia and it is only-5.2C here this morning.
Have a good evening Pea, stay warm & happy.
Thank you buddy. I am very in love with my province lady. Thank God for country girls. I am looking forward to your video telling us all that the United states is on the green list for travel to the Philippines.
That was a great interview.
It displayed the beauty that can be seen in the landscape and all four women, as well as the beauty of character of all four.
Thank you.
The fact they can have a civil discussion and take turns speaking... Here the first moment of discomfort women interrupt the other person and try to coerce others to their view point to make sure there is no dissent. Married or not, it would be so much nicer to be able to speak like this with women.
I like the way they answered the question about what they bring to the table. They know that they bring great value to the relationship by doing the more traditional things.
Province girls are absolutely beautiful and down to earth!!! 😍😍😍
Yes we are! 😂😂😂👍❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea I’m asking Santa to leave one under my tree this year!!! 😂
Really love this hearing the answers from the province girls. I would love to see the differences what city girls the same age would say about life and province girls. Great episode Pea. Really like these girls
Once again another great interview and the 3 ladies were beautiful, smart and endearing. I understand the loyalty to their families, but if I were to marry any of them I would have to come first, and only second to our children. I would assume I'd be the provider in our relationship as well as providing for her family, being second to her family would be a dealbreaker for me. I would ask upfront and if her answer was the family, I would walk away. Also I would never marry someone this young. 😀. Love ya Pea ❤
Mark Shaw.. I have to agree with you on this, i did live in Philippines with a girl ( 33 yrs old ) i met and lived with her for 2 yrs overseas before she and i went to her country,
When there we lived in her house 70% completed with funds from her overseas working, the house was next door to her parents and siblings, her parents both had very good incomes, she would never make any decisions with out asking mum first, in ever thing, but after she never told me her decisions either, 100% her loyalties with her family.
She some times just disappear for many hours and spent much of her day and eve next door with them. I was never allowed out of the house alone to walk or go into town alone * always a chaperone every where, i have never felt so alone yet been surrounded by so many !.Eight months i was considerate and supporting because i loved her very much, but in the end i could take no more of feeling alone and unsupported i had to leaver her and the Philippines !
Mark i totally agree with you, your coming 8000 miles to be 2nd place or even 3rd place, if you do go over, bring her into your world, i dont believe in living very close to her family, thats a deal breaker,
@@michaelcann280 damn, that's unfortunate. You lasted longer than I would've.
@@maathejayandyjohns1343 I understand having love for one's family, but she needs to be independent as well. This is where I think the age of the girl can be a factor. If you marry a child, you get a child.
@@michaelcann280 Sorry to hear about your bad experience here in the Philippines. I’m sure she’s not ready to settle down yet. Since she worked abroad, maybe that’s why most of the time she’s with her family.
Pea, your work is truly appreciated. Your channel is literally the only one I follow where I watch all of the advertisements. You should be proud of yourself! From a fan!
The question about what they bring to the table is a question that baffles and stumbles western women, yet these girls just breeze through it. Wow!