PROVINCIAL LIFE IN THE PHILIPPINES / Real Filipinas Real Talk
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- Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2021
- Provincial Life In The Philippines, Real Filipinas Real Talk is an interview that will open your eyes to many questions, including provincial girls vs city girls? How to tell if she's from the province? Dating province women vs city women is often a question that foreigners face. Provincial women have advantages, but what are they? Join me as I attempt to shed light on province life in the Philippines! @TheFilipinaPea
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This part two can only confirm the resounding success of part one dear Pea. 😃
You graciously offered a splendid study of XXI century culture and philosophy.
Pertinent and thoughts searching questions, so well balanced, genuine, interesting and lovely warm answers.
There is so much maturity and seriousness within those 20 years old young women!
This is extraordinary and very impressive!
They already know what they want to do in their life, they think of their family first, but their main concern is their husbands.
Filipinas are light years ahead of any 20 years old western girls: llaw ng tahanan !
If I may say so, a connote:
Men don’t have to be 100% perfect to make a woman happy.
All a man, a husband, really needs to do is love her like he promised when they first dated.
So true for those lovely young ladies.
Province girls rhyme with beauty within brilliant minds.
Enjoying your high quality videos has only one downside: I wish I was much much younger to have had the opportunity to benefit from them. 😃😘
It's a bit bizarre watching you promote the Bible. Are you a Catholic?
It’s interesting that you think I was promoting the Bible - I was just using it to point out inconsistencies with their belief system like a good interviewer would 😊
@@barrystevenyoung4818 Philippines population is 79.6 % Roman Catholic, a 88.7 % Christian. People are therefore bound to have a good Bible knowledge.
Mentioning the Bible is part of the local culture and traditions.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that people are fervent believers nor Bible bashers.
What’s important is their own personality, their integrity and proverbial kindness and superb hospitality regardless of origins or beliefs.
My own experience is that most Filipinas respect religion and hope that their partner could show the same respect, without the need to be converted, if not originally Christians.
@@TheFilipinaPea I agree that you were merely playing the part of an interviewer, but if my memory is correct, this is the first time you have challenged your subjects
Submitting to your husband isn't about not having your own opinion or being a second class citizen in the relationship. Submission is about complete trust. If you can't trust your man enough to submit to him completely, they you shouldn't marry him. The correct man will value your opinions and treat you as his equal. It would be no burden to submit to this kind of man.
Couldn't agree more.
All that goes out the window in the foreigner sweepstakes. They will just say whatever men want to hear to get chosen. it’s interesting though hearing these young girls comments.
In the Bible it talks about the woman being the weaker vessel. For thousands of years that passage has been used to subjugate women. What it actually means though is quite different. Imagine a 3lb metal coffee can and a pure crystal champagne flute. The man is the coffee can, you can put nuts and bolts in it or dirt or oil all sorts of dirty nasty things. When you need it for something else you dump it out and use it for whatever. The woman is the crystal champagne flute which you only put the finest of champagne in. When you finish the champagne you don’t toss it in the dishwasher either. You carefully wash it by hand and then with a clean towel you carefully dry it until it is spotless and sparkles ✨. Then you carefully put it on a high shelf behind a door with a glass front. It’s kept there so nobody but you can touch it and it’s behind the glass fronted door so others can see it but not touch it. The coffee can is used for all the dirty day to day stuff because it can handle it and yes it may get a little beat up or dented here and there but it will continue to do it’s job and function as it always has. The crystal flute is only for the finest things in life and is treated as the most special and valuable thing in your kitchen and your world. It’s not for the day to day grime and dirt of life. That is the true meaning of that passage. I used to teach a class for young men preparing for marriage and that passage as well as Ephesians chapter 5 is what I used the most.
Think about what I wrote, men and apply it to your life. This woman that you call wife who loves you and cares for you, who is going to give you children. This woman who will care for your children and be with you through all of what life is going to throw at you. Do you want her to be your “helpmate” or as a resentful adversary? It’s actually up to you which one she becomes and you would do well to remember that.
Cheers
@@angryhd2976 what is the foreigner sweepstakes? I don’t understand
I think only a person who has already submitted to a man could have such a strong opinion about it
I could never get tired of looking at all their smiles
I first moved to the Philippines when I was 7 in 1961. I have been happily married to a Filipina for many years. Our youngest is 22. I think the Provincial girls will give you a better chance at a long term happy marriage. More sincere and less scammers. Remember this is a contact sport. The more contacts the better are your chances. You will catch what you are fishing for. Look for a good wife in good places. You cannot catch a Salmon in a septic tank.
Good advice sir!
Imagine for *one minute, one had* to choose from these 3 lovely young ladies . They are all beautiful, charming, intelligent, practical (LOL) loyal, attentive, hard working and any other adjective you want to throw in there. I find it impossible to choose, as each of them has the same amazing qualities, you'd have to flip a coin! Pea, thank you so much for bringing these 3 lovely young ladies onto your amazing platform. In retrospect, it would bee a good lesson to teach to MOST American women, Its no wonder, any man would take the 8500 mile journey to find his beloved companion. Peace !
Yes, it would be nice to find one closer to home...
All 3 are very nice indeed, however I would still choose Pea😀
Well I have no problem choosing #1, #2 and #3. Too bad there is no contact information, as this rich and ugly guy would buy a plane ticket. :)
@@KeepingWatch95 ...and get a divorce ?
Most importantly, they can change their minds instantly. Who would like to spend their lives with a stubborn wife, right!
These last 2 video interviews of these 3 amazing provincial gals have been such a treat. The world is changing so fast and I hope these 4 beautiful angels, and all those who reside in the provinces can keep their strong fundamental values so the rest of us won't forget.
So refreshing to see girls that are humble enough to admit when they're wrong
This was a joy to watch. I can only hope these young provincial women will find the partners they deserve and will not be taken advantage of by bad apples. All men should treasure women like this. I'm too old now, but had I known sooner about Filipino women I could've had the family life I always dreamed of..
Again Pea , the content of your video topic shows just how wonderful the culture of the Philippines is. Great women with proper morals.
The internet has brought education to a higher level in the provinces now, and it hasn’t polluted the loving kindness of good character.
Thank you.
Don't forget the other half of that verse from Ephesian 5:24. In 5:25 it also says that Husbands are to love their wives as Christ so loved the church and sacrificed himself for her.
@RJ Sandefur "I hold a doctorate in pastoral theology" That and $5 will get you a cup of coffee in some parts of the world.
@RJ Sandefur does your doctorate shed some light on women going for the rich husbands?
@@Dana-ie2bh yes, it really make you wonder about the world. lol
I’m relieved they changed their minds regarding loyalty…, big thumbs up to Provincial girls.
They could just as easily change back!
Edited the following day: after watching this group of young ladies and thinking about this interview. These girls level of maturity from the “city” girls was very pronounced. They appeared naive and might be easily manipulated by a “bad” sort. They were not as well spoken and I detected a western women attitude. It’s not in your face but certainly is shifting away from Pea’s previous guests and light years away from Pea herself. I think Pea even commented about this shift many videos ago.
I suppose Pea sets the bar that all other Filipina are judged…….grin
Yeah they could flip mental thoughts.. the one that stated loyalty to her husband in part one may actually believe it... the other two may flip flop based on their feelings
Except that their first response was youthful emotion with no man to attach the question to for balance. Honest mistake. When confronted with GODS word they reconsidered in a nano second and realized the depth of the question and the implications. So they put God first and that says alot. Remember most Philipinas unlike western women are more godly and less egocentric.
@@michaelpettit9706 Define "More godly". or for that matter "Less egocentric".
Based on what, besides your opinion?
@@judd_s5643 yes if taken to America and become westernised
I learned something today -- mothers are the light of the family and fathers are the foundation. That's a really good way to look at it. I actually subscribed to your channel to gain insight into the cultural differences between the philippines and the west. You do a really good job at presenting those differences, Pea! As someone who is filipino (born there) but grew up in the west I find your channel very helpful. Thank you!
Wow, thanks Tony 👍❤️😊
Thank you for this Pea, the woman I am dating currently is from the province, she is amazing and one reason why is because she does not care about money (I make enough that it is not an issue for me), but she is humble and honest, she grew up with her brothers and sisters, her dad passed away when she was young and her mother raised them on her own... I admire and respect the heart of the women in the Philippines, you are all strong women, thank you for this
Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
The naivete is brutally refreshing. And precious.
These young women are so adorable it’s a crime , amazingly pretty and really nice.
It’s great that they want equality too , they are very right in saying they deserve to have an equal voice .
Women are the best builders so money is their primary concern , this is only natural given their role .
I’m surprised by their honesty , but also impressed.
Tough and beautiful is what you province girls are . I respect that
Pea, let's be practical like the young ladies said. Saying that province girls are naive or inexperienced with 'The ways of the world' isn't something derogatory its simply a fact. Your question of 'rent don't buy' proves this because they can't even conceptualize why a man wouldn't want to get married. Their perspective is more pure and hasn't been tainted by the pain and hurt of another person being selfish and cruel with their feelings. They have probably no frame of reference that there would be guys out there that would promise to marry them just to sleep with them and leave. Also, my wife is from the province and before we met she had never tried many things like steak, real Italian food (not Jolly Bee spaghetti or pizza), and many other things because they simply aren't available in her native area. It doesn't mean you are stupid, its just that you are inexperienced with those things. Much like someone that grew up in the city would be shocked if exposed to the life in many provincial areas. Keep up the good work.
I agree. They can't conceive that there is a benefit for men to not get married. They can't conceive that marriage is the huge "cost" for men (commitment, loyalty, sacrifice). But at the same time they DO see the benefit of marriage, the commitment, the loyalty, the companionship, support through the difficult times. Are they naive? Or just raised with a different point of view? Are they wrong? I don't think so. I hope they don't get deceived by a man who does as you say, I hope they filter those guys out of their lives.
But yes, there are many things those women have never experienced. And yet, some of those experiences that *I* have experienced are the very reason these girls' lives appeal to me.
I'm yet to meet a Filipina lady, but if I do, I hope I enrich her life, and she mine, and live a simple honest naive life.
Yeah, came to post something similar. Ignorant is not derogatory to their intelligence, it simply means lack of exposure. Lack of exposure can be fixed, lack of intelligence can't. These ladies and other like them have plenty of life experiences that their city raised or western counterparts are quite ignorant of as well. In fact, the areas they lack ignorance of and value differently are likely a reason for guys to seek relationships with them.
And spaghetti isn’t supposed to have weenies
@@bluebehir I think this is the type of question where the mouth answers different than the rest of the body, even these girls will likely end up long time rentals, and might have been already (I think they said they've had boyfriends, I'm going to assume not 100 one-night-stands!). I mean sure, they want to get married, just like 95% of the women I've ever met or heard speaking, but if the alternative is staying home and miserable then they do end up with boyfriends, As for the "cost" on the man's side, Pea made a wonderful case for men never to get married in Phi in a previous episode, but even provincial girls know what price a man does not want to pay, never ever: give up on younger women!
@@jonathonstiles1471 right on, BUT it makes It taste so good
As someone who's seriously considering moving to the Philippines your content is superb. We hear all the horror stories of older foreigners being targeted by women there so it's very refreshing to get a glimpse into the attitudes of women who don't fall into that category. Keep up the good work Pea!
I'm one of those old ugly ATM's. It's a two way street. She gets a better stable life.
Us old ugly guys get a pretty young woman, who isn't a Western Karen Whale bringing nothing to the table, except her toxic attitude.
@@49525Bob to be honest a Western Karen Whale would also treat you as an ATM.
Guess it's better to be an ATM that is not in constant negative balance, because the young Filipina has more reasonable lifestyle than a Western Karen Whale
Pea out here PREACHIN’!
Hahahahaha
Only to make a point 😂
A good point at that! Well ✔ done 😀
Pea you single ?
I recently saw a photo of my mother at my aunt's wedding when she was 26 years old. That was probably the first time I ever thought of her as a young beautiful woman with hopes and dreams of her future. Watching these four beautiful women talk and laugh brings a little tear to my eye. I hope they all live full and happy lives and all their wishes come true.
Amazing interview. Such sweet souls you girls have. Amazing upbringing in your culture.
I watched the first video which also was fabulous. Can I suggest you add "part 2" in the title so your viewers can locate the second one faster? Or is that even possible. Thanks for such amazing work 😉
Any relationship and marriage needs to be a team and partnership. Both partners should not be 1 sided, but both should compliment each other. Finding the synergy of meshing together and making their lives complete. There must be trust, loyalty, and open communications. But there also needs to be compatibility in emotional, moral and physical needs.
I been waiting for the second episode. Thanks Pea!!
Thank you. Pea! I am watching the video link you sent me for Part 2 right now!!!
I love how Jess brought her cow to the interview. That's dedication
Love the second part as much as the first one… thank you Pea for all the work you do to make these videos
Oh youth! I hope they all find good partners for life. All three seem to have a good character, but are very innocent. The world is not so kind, unfortunately.
I just chuckled, thinking about trying to do a similar interview with three average 20-year-olds in the U.S. What a train wreck that could be :)
Not could be....would be
I wish I could do that! Maybe I can interview some in the west 😊
OMG JH u said it~!! lol it would be like a valley girls contest, like... a wow, like kewl , omg, oh my, gag me with a spoon.... giggle giggle. 😅
That would be a train wreck I would love to watch, lol.
That women like this exist is one of the reasons I'll be retiring in the Philippines. As always Pea good job interviewing. Also a very beautiful spot to film.
Thank you for the video sweet Pea, another great job x
At long last! I nearly had to wait! 😂😘
Wow, jessi and Argi dumped their family really fast. I am sure that it can change back just as fast. But the concept will also apply to his family. Will he dump his family, I am not so sure. I think that my mom said it best: "When you get married, move at least 50 miles from your parents house just so that they don't show up without calling first." Great Advice
Its not a matter of "dumping one's parents after marriage " The Bible just teaches to put them in a close second
A guy like me doesn't have a family to 'dump'. I wouldn't ask a girl to dump her family, but the situations can occur where the family opposes the husband's needs and the wife must choose. She needs to stand with her husband. That's all it is. The family needs to understand that as well. But it's communication that gets through all that
My in-laws live in Switzerland and don't speak English and I don't speak the Swiss dialect of German. Win win for me.
My father said the same :: Children should be close enough to visit, But far enough to think about it first
I don't think that they were "dumping" their families so much as taking a different perspective in regard to the new questions.
You're a great interviewer, Pea. You really brought out these young women's sincerity, honesty, honor, family values and wholesomeness. What a refreshing change it is compared to women of the western world. Feminists can hate on that comment all they want, my opinion stands.
Thanks Pea! I appreciate the content and insight.
Pea, what a great series! My gf is a provincial girl, but has been working in the city for awhile now. She still refers to herself as "simple" (meaning lifestyle, not intellect). Can't wait to get there and move to the province with her. I expect to greatly benefit from her knowledge of provincial life as we start our new adventure together.
Not simple. Honest!
@@dennisdragomir7572 A very RARE commodity
most girls that say they're simple, are far from it and are often quite complicated, especially emotionally.
Good interview, people only know what they experience. A luxury once tasted can become a necessity. One idea I came up with is this. For an older man put your wealth in a trust. Let the interest be an income. That way when you die instead of dumping 700,000 or more after you die on someone not prepared to handle that kind of money. They can use the interest every year for the rest of their life. And eventually the trust when there are no more people can be moved over to a charity to help feed the poor. I think this is the best compromise for those of us who don't want to see our life savings squandered after we move on.
I absolutely love that they were willing to change their minds. What a lovely group of sweethearts!
I have seen all of your videos and they are awesome. I especially like the ones where u interview the ladies. Keep up the good work.
"I can't eat the handsome face". Hilarious.
I was a bit critical of Argielyn after part 1, but she turned my opinion in this one. Great job Pea.
Salamat po pea 🙏❤️ excellent video it has the seal of approval on educational and information e/ I
His was really different listening to the opinions of the province ladies I really can't wait for a mashup video between city ladies and province ladies I see a three or four part video if it happens. Pea you have also Polish your self as a moderator for the different views in the Philippines
I think we all appreciate your hard effort, labor and work marami salamat po and blessings 🙏 keep on recording Pea 🙏 ❤️👑
A mash up is such a great idea.
Awesome insight. Thank you Pea
Great interviews and content!!! The Pea Rocks!!
Many thanks for both videos Pea, interesting and intelligent replies to your questions from the 3 ladies, thankfully that they changed their opinion to the loyalty question - definitely a deal breaker, it's great to see that all of them have managed to keep themselves going to college, especially when some of them are the oldest child, hope they find their 'forever' partner , best wishes and good luck to them
Ms. Pea used the Bible to counter the young women's possible erroneous thinking about obligations to parents, (all three are religious). I will add some Gibran. "Parents are a vehicle through which children are born. But children are not possessions of their parents. Each of us is holding our children in trust for the future."
I like the choice on you who to start the answer from in these questions. I couldnt be happier
Great video Pea. I just love how the Caribou walks around chewing on grass just leading a peaceful life while you girls make your video.
How awesome it is that you are shining a light on the fact that province girls are bright, witty, intelligent and beautiful. I can say that I prefer provincial girls over city girls. They seem to have a better grasp on what's really important. I hope that those gals know how much we appreciate them for taking time to answer a few questions. As far as what some believe about province girls. My current girlfriend is from the province and will be graduating soon with two degrees (nursing and business). Provincial girls rock!!!! Stay awesome, sweet Pea.
Well said 👍 Yes… their warmth, honesty, sunny disposition & delightfully disarming humour are fine qualities indeed- “You cannot eat a handsome face…”☝️😆🤣 🤷🏻♀️🏝
city girls? Might as well marry an American wife
You Are On The Air! Lol. "I changed my mind". 😂😂 Province girls: adaptable, adorable, resilient and not spoiled. ❤
Very well done and appreciated.
Great interview. Always good to hear different opinions on subjects. Love the outdoor setting. Keep smiling and stay safe
Damn .... too bad Jessie is so young, she's like a angel ....
My favourite to she gorgeous and smart and funny ... 😋👀💐
age is less important to them. They smarter ones choose an older guy so he does not step out, drink, cheat and assault her
I think that the verse you are quoting is one of the most missing understood verse of the Bible. The verse after wives submit to your husband's is directly followed by husband's love your wife as Christ loved the church. Remember Christ loved the church so much that he gave his life so that they might live. Submitting to your husband DOESNT not mean you have no say in you relationship. A relationship is 50/50. Its like a row boat. You can each row separately and end up going in circles or you can row together to make progress. This submission just means you have someone keeping you timed together not squashing you down.
If any of these women had said "I want a poor ugly husband", I'd be there with a ring in seconds.
your value there is four times what it is (where you are). Plus, rich isn't always about money. And then, how rich do you need to be, to seem rich to a poor person?
That's shows that these girls are not mature enough, and they don't the real life. They are just like another gold diggers, the only diffrence is that they are polite and small, that's it.
I agree
Waiting for this, great perspective 🌻
Great Video Pea ... kept me smiling throughout :) Keep up the good work !
This interview is so refreshing. It is great to how family and marriage-minded/lineage/legacy these lovely ladies are. Comparing this to watching Britteny Renner' interview with @KevinSamuels this morning, I know that Filipinas make great wives as compared to this madness with modern western women like Britteny. Thank you, Pea for continuing to push the narrative for Filipinas as wives.
The Bible does in fact ask that "Wives, submit to your own husbands". However it baffles me why people stop there. The passage goes on to describe a husbands duties to his wife.
Verse 25-27: Husbands are to so love and sacrifice themselves for their wives that the wife can remain "blameless"-that is, he should make sure he never puts her in a position where she has to risk her integrity.
Verses 28-31: Husbands should remember that in marriage, the two became one. Everything the husband does reflects on his wife. Every disgrace he subjects her to stains him. Every time he makes her life difficult, he makes his own difficult. But every time he respects and builds up his wife, his own dignity shines.
Verse 33: Husbands are to show agape to their wives-that hard, sacrificial love that puts another's needs above one's own. At the same time, wives are to phobeo their husbands-to treat with deference or reverential obedience.
Also the English translation of all of this leads to it being taken out of context and loses much of the original meaning. If a couple has come to the conclusion that for wives to "submit" means the husband makes all the decisions and the wife makes all the meals, they have a very skewed view of the world in which we live
Here is the problem. Women do not and will not submit to a husband, because there are no longer any repercussions for them to act otherwise. Even in the Philippines, feminism has crept in little by little. The modern woman no longer respects a man’s sacrifice…they now feel entitled to it,. The modern woman is so misguided, they no longer feel that they have to earn anything. Even in this interview, some used the term “deserve.” That term today, sets men off. Men have to earn everything in life, while the modern woman think they just have to show up. These ladies thinking companionship is a value they bring to a relationship underlines how little they know about men. Of course, modern women around the globe know nothing about men…why would they? They consider men a disposable resource. Every man I have know that got married, sacrificed for his family. The problem is not with men fulfilling their role, it is women’s refusal to accept their God given role. You can’t run any organization without a leader and structure. Women wanting an equal partnership creates a family with no leader and no structure, and goes against Biblical teaching. In the West, we gave women “no fault “ divorce and the welfare state, so they could blow up the family and rely on the government to take care of them. Fortunately, the Philippines has no welfare state, and there are still social pressures on women to act properly. The ladies in the interview are obviously young and impressionable, with very little knowledge of how the real world works. They will eventually make good wives, as long as they stay in the Philippines. There were enough signs of feminism and hypergamy, that they would not do well in the West.
Yeah and you also neglect the trubal marriage of a man and multiple wives... ooops
@@rednab2001 You have some good points her. These ladies "will make great/awesome wives, as long as they stay in the Philippines". They are young and still can be strongly "influenced" by Western ways if they are taken to an Western country. You are correct that, in modern times especially in the West, modern women do believe men are disposable but in reverse but I will not let men off for that same reason. The appeal of marrying these women is permanent companionship and not worry about her leaving (there is always a possibility but nowhere near like in the West).
@@rednab2001 You're not wrong, sadly. :(
John A.
Thanks for saving me all that typing! 100% agree however to expand on the "leader" and "submit" verses it was primarily concerning Spiritual Leadership not master/slave as is often portrayed. And there is no such thing as a 50/50 decision making process, thats called a deadlock. Someone has to have the final say in certain matters. In this context its the husband as guided by Biblical principles because he is the one that will answer directly to GOD.
"He that has the responsibility has the authority. He that has the authority has the responsibility".
Again this submit/leadership instruction does not absolve the husband from compromise or honoring his wife's wishes where she has authority, more so it requires it.
So feminists don't spontaneously combust please. If you do, "I ain't cleaning that up" (Berta).....besides cleaning is woman's work so clean yourself up and go make me a sandwich. 🤣🤣🤣
Like hearing them expressing their views..great part two Pea🤗😊
Thanks, my friend ❤️👍
Thanks for the video . I agree you both have to live with the decision. So it's better if you both make it. Thank you Pea .and to the guests.
I truly believes everyman needs to experience and marry a filipina!
My wife is from Trinidad bohol and marring her was the best decision I ever made.
Good evening Pea. Very good questions. You truly are multi talented. I think you will also make a great preacher. Hope you have a great weekend 🌹 😍 😍 ❤️ ❤️
Hahahahaha
I definitely won’t be a preacher 😂
@@TheFilipinaPea why? You will do very well 😘 😘
@@TheFilipinaPea BTW I feel sorry for all the poor handsome guys
Dear Pea, Very good work, very insightful !!!
It was lovely to hear the opinions of province girls, Miss Pea. Salamat!
This was very interesting and fun to check their thoughts against their religion. Often there is a discrepancy 😁. As a die hard atheist i sometimes do the same, jokingly.
I think the girls are right on 'being practical' and indeed 'you cannot eat a pretty face'. Women are understandably hardwired to look for someone who can provide. Nothing wrong with that.
Yes, for some reason, I’m fascinated by contradictory beliefs 😂
I think the bottom line from this is that a Filipina will conform to the marriage if she really loves her husband and is considerate of his culture also. And of course all of these things must be discussed and agreed upon before marriage. Maybe even a written contract. I think it mostly depends on how much the man can improve the quality of life of the Filipina. After all, they are practical people. (P.S. I still want the skinny one!)
OMG!!! RG is sooo cute! You could see the moment when her mind said: you have to submit to your husband, but her heart could not allow her mouth to freely say it, and she looked like she might cry! If I was a bit younger I would sacrifice everything in this world to find her and marry her. They are all really sweet, and beautiful, but that moment of that response got my heart. Wow!
You have what it takes! Great program.
Greetings Pea, lovely episode. As stated by previous commenters, the scripture does say in Ephesians 5: 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
I'm glad you are using the Bible to educate these young ladies 🙌. It adds depth to your show. Having order in any relationship is ideal and essential. Continued blessings and success 🙏 Thanks for your content. 🤗
Marriage is a commitment to each other. To connect and share each other's lives together. To love and grow together. This means that communication is to discuss things together. We have dreams and goals to travel, to go to school, to have children. To work and build a house together. All of these things are important but the most important thing is to be happy with one's self. No person can make you happy no woman or man to marry you need to be happy first. Then you can be happy together. Another great video Pea.
What wonderful sweeties! 🥰. Thanks Pea!
My wife is from Baybay City Leyte province and she is the love of my life. She did travel to Manila for work for some years but her roots in the province could not be broken. She is the most intelligent resourceful person that I have ever meant and she now is the mother of our two children. The best decision I ever made was getting married to her. Her devotion to our family makes me smile everyday and she is the best mommy ever to our children. May God bless the people of the Philippines always because they are truly among the best people you will ever meet.
Interesting interview. Their youth is on display, and I have to give credit to their willingness to be questioned, and even get challenged on a couple answers.
I think I saw the wheels turning in Pea's head a couple times, but as usual she stayed on track. Good interview Pea.
But I was tempted ….. 😂
The USA has a similar saying: why buy the cow if the milk is free.
Little did they know when they made that saying that one day in the 21st century feminists would start to resemble cows...
@@DefendUSA1776 BBW, more to love LOL
Excellent video Pea. Thank you
Excellent interview! Enjoyed to get there views and can even adopt and change there minds! :)
Jess is beautiful and she was the first one to change her mind. Sometimes it takes a few years to find a balance.
Each girl is beautiful & Jess changed her mind first, because she was asked the question first.
@@tman5634 Okay thanks for the expert commentary. I must have been away making coffee and missed it all.
What an ingenious setting for such a lovely interview! Is that background real, or a green screen? How did you get that cow to stay in the picture? She is a star! Not to mention the interview itself. Brilliant. 👍👍👍👍
No green screen, we’re on a mountain top 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Wow. Such perfect composition, with the gentle smoke rising in the center, and that cow. Can’t get over the cow! (I think it’s a cow). And the quality of the audio, nice and clear, no wind issues. And the lighting balance, everything works. Like watching a beautiful landscape painting in a museum that talks! 😉
@@TheFilipinaPea I am impressed by the lighting on them. Its so nice and even. Did you use any umbrellas or diffusers to control the lighting.
@@TheFilipinaPea And very pleasant on 4K at my 58 Inch tv .... your upgrade has been noticed :)
This was really nice.
I saw somewhere in the comments of having a mix of city and provincial girls. That would be very interesting to watch!
Especially if you could get a few girls from Manila and then the province all together!
Once again you hit the nail again dear Pea!I believe what is saying is completely true since your have balance and adatable aswell.And resourceful to any problems that you face with intelligence and maturity too.Thank you again dear Pea.
An interesting part of the conversation was in reference to a husband being "in charge", so to speak. All three of your guests were opposed to that possibility. Being very young, I think there are aspects to that subject that are not really apparent, that take experience in life to perceive.
In my marriage, my wife and I are very much partners, though we could accurately say that I am the more dominant partner. My wife has repeatedly insisted that she is quite satisfied with our arrangement, but again, there's more to this than meets the eye.
While I may not always strive to be a nice guy, I always strive to be a good guy and to be a good husband. Part of that being a good husband is that even if I am ultimately going to make a decision, I always discuss important decisions with my wife. I listen to her thoughts, her concerns and in fact her wisdom, weighing her thoughts equally with my own in making decisions.
It may seem to be a strange set of dynamics, but my wife likes me to be a strong, dominant factor in many aspects of our relationship. I do this with her agreement. For me, to not discuss any important decision with her and truly hear her thoughts on it and weigh them equally with my own would be disrespectful to her. I owe her every bit as much respect as I expect.
Thank you for your time!
Most province girls are dedicated to their parents, I have learned that earlier and it was so apparent. If you get the milk free why buy the cow, a lot of man think that way and act like a sow. I like the province girl more they so practical, with the way they're thinking it's very tactical. Thank you Pea for all that you show, for it helps us men for more than you know. (Ricky)===:::
My girl is humble and tells me constantly that she does not need any financial help and is very self sufficient but I tell her that I WANT to send and will only send when IIIII feel like it. I send her once a month to help cover expenses not because she asked for help but because it's the money I would have spent going to a club/bar looking for a woman and it also helps her stretch her income more.
@@tanguman2 you’re very lucky don’t lose that girl. My experience with Filipina is they ask money after you date them for a month or so. Once you give money they expect every month. What’s worse is they tell you there birthdays and want something expensive but when it comes to your birthday they have an excuse that they have no money to get you anything and ask for money to get you a gift even when they are working. Need to keep looking for the right Filipina.
Well said Pea, invaluable information service to help us understand the path we might travel, thank you, very enjoyed this episode.
Very important information, thank you for sharing Pea!! It is nice to see genuine conversations about these things! Thank you ladies!
A great topic, Pea!
My thoughts, if I may.
1. A woman will always put her children first... It's just nature.
2. As these lovely young women are proclaiming to be Bible belieing Christian's I find it interesting that they would believe in some parts of scripture and not in other verses. That's kind of like saying , Well, the Bible says to forgive but I disagree with God on that one!...lol
3. Money over looks means security for her children. Of course, that's a given if she's a responsible woman.
4. Yes, ladies, don't be a rental for a guy!
It's all or nothing! 😇
Well said, great analysis
It's great that they can change their minds, that shows they are still learning and are open to new ideas. With regard to Matthew 19:5 and Mark 10:8 (leaving parents and becoming one flesh), the idea is that they no longer use their parents as a system of references and form a new bond with the husband. And they don't accept being subservient, great! I think the Philippines is probably the only country where I would consider marriage because things are so messed up in the West.
Dont ya think they are just sayn it because they got called out
@@kevingonzalez3673 There only young ladies, but Filipina’s feel a duty to there families ..it’s all one. Husband and immediate family first. Refreshing views.
It's a red flag they are making up stuff as they go along
They probably didn't really change their minds, the just realized that they weren't telling us what we want to hear. Proceed with caution!
@@kevingonzalez3673 Spot on Kevin! You’ll come after the water Buffalo, just like in Thailand. Same Same But Different.
Pea, you're a great interviewer. I'm more impressed with your content the more I watch.
Great show thank you ladies
Lot's of "growing" and "Wisdom" needed for this beautiful naive girls. With that said, a mature husband is needed to complement each other's Lives. Love, loyalty, respect, trust and faithfulness from the heart are needed to fullfill a great relationship as a couple.
I dearly love your videos but I feel it to one sided.
I came away thinking they were
so shallow.
Willing to change their minds at the drop of a hat especially when it's their choice to pick a old ugly over what they really want.
To me ( I'm sorry but I think they're easy to sell their life for money )
How about you ask the men similar questions like is it better to be married or single and what does he get.
Thanks pea ( sorry )
Actually, I’ve got the men coming right up 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea fantastic thanks for the reply
@@TheFilipinaPea That is a good idea.......(men's perspective). In regards to the girls, we received good answers to your questions. It showed us that the girls were sincere in their own minds. (easily enfatuated and attracted to the financial facts of life). I've considered the "Phil's" for a short time retirement location BUT having researched all the Laws that are Bias or I should say? unfair to "us retirees", it is not worth the agravation. (Extremely Beautiful Country and good looking females too.)
@@TheFilipinaPea Local men or foreign men ?
Good line of questions and nice ending, I hope this breaks the fantasy and is a dose of reality to guys that think they're going to hop on a plane, run to the province and find a push over girl that bends to their every whim. You need to be able to take care of these women and treat them with respect, while being strong yourself. There are some universal things that are true about women wherever you go. If you're spineless and weak to women in your own country, you might get a little leeway in the Philippines but not much. That little one on the end is already letting you guys know she's not taking any bull😅😅😅
I agree😊
Yes they aren’t quite the doormats many guys think they are.
Great video as usual Pea. I sat through 15 minutes worth of ads just to show my loyalty to your channel 😀
Now THAT’S true loyalty, and I thank you for giving me a paycheck 👍😂❤️
@@TheFilipinaPea You're worth it!
I really enjoyed these two interviews
Great interview pea beautiful ladies. I wish i could meet Jessie
Family considerations have made it difficult for me to find the right Filipina. I am retired and want to travel. I understand family is important to a Filipina and would be happy to support a SINGLE Filipina with a child. I realize family, and support are part of the package. If I found the right woman, she would need to spend half her time between her family and traveling overseas. I think it is possible, but a difficult hurdle. I don't think I am selfish. I am honest. Perhaps others feel the same as I.
Maybe you should consider retiring in the nursing home. You're old
You won't have any problem selling that deal the family is not joined at the hip but they do want to see her.
I am in the situation and I give my wife a small bidget just for her family support because she has been known to sacfrifice her whole month's budget to the detreiment of her own 2 children so keep contrtol over your money and pay the main bills rent and utilities your self and let her have pocket money and let her do as she will..Don't get sucking into the sob stories of someone is always sick or in a jam, poverty is notmal there and you can't change that or be the bread winner for a lazy mob of 10 siblings and parents who did never provide for themselves just made a lot of kids to carry them, it is a tradition and you will see it all over and really when it comes right down to it you have the right to DEMAND LOYALTY to the marriage to the exclusion of ALL OTHERS including the outlaws...if you GF can't give you her vows with honesty and sincerity dump her now you will save your self a lot of heartache and don't forget "No Divorce" in the Phillippines so choose wisely and make sure you GF is true of heart and not just interested in your percieved weakth becasuse if you are white and from the west you must be rich! of course you are compared to them and yes expect the que of people wanting to get a hand out and learn to say "NO" and mean it otherwise you will regret your generous heart is going to be abused. When you say NO they will curse you as a tight fisted ugly westerner...learn to own that title with pride, you will figure this out quick smart coz it is all smiles till you marry the family? yes, so be smart and move away to another island and just go home for Chirstmas or celebrations and there will be many times you have to go to a family "DO" and that is more than enough family time for your wife and yeah that bloody phone and Facebook and yeah blinky Messenger...Have a household rule of no phones after dinner if you want your wife to be attentive and watch a movie together and not messnger...We will be going OS a bit too but going around Phills first then Thailand & Vuetnam and Japan as well as a return trip to Oz when the kids are old enough to appreciate it..good luck and have a good happy life, just set boundaries day one you will be happier if it is understood what is on and what is never gonna happen with you.
@@Filo-Joe Doesn't it just burn knowing others will have happiness and love that you will never know because you are sick. You are filled with hate and evil.....and quite impotent to manifest either.
If you met me, you wouldn't say that. Your knees would be shaking...
Great job FP its your buddy AFE keep up the great work. Muah
Thank you for this video. Finally a serious look at what is important in life (for me anyway).
As a whole I think country girls are lower maintenance. 😁👍
They were willing to change their views when they were given more information and insight. That means they're smart and flexible. Their initial response of holding to family first shows that they love their families, so there was no bad intentions at all. They simply want to care for the ones they love.
As others have stated already, the submission issue is a real thing that cannot be ignored or minimized, and in today's world especially, it is misunderstood and therefore initially rejected. But I think just with the issue of "leave and cleave", they will learn and gain more insight and understanding as they grow. All of us humans need to learn and grow, since none of us are born with full and complete knowledge and understanding. Hopefully they will find good and decent men who will make it all worthwhile, and that they will do the same for him.
Also, Filipinas tend to have very cute names!
This was a great set of videos to watch and listen to. The ladies being willing to change their mind on their views when you ask them the question in a different way shows that they are open to change. It would be interesting at some point in time to do a follow up with them to see how are things in their lives are going. Thank you as always for the videos and until next time I will partake of chef 👩🍳 Peas menu so I won’t get hungry.
Thank you for another honest and informational video! It would be interesting to hear your personal perspective and answers for all of the interview questions. P.S. You are all smart and beautiful (inside and out) 🤗
At 4:58 if you don’t trust him with his decisions then you shouldn’t marry him.
Most of not all of his decisions as Head of the Household with deal with him also having to fix any problems that occur within his area. Women very seldom have to work longer hours to make up from mistakes they make.
My wife makes all the decisions until it affects the money or the hours I work.
Cute they change their mind. Argielyn said almost exactly my comment on. their first vid. "I will start my new family with my husband so he is first loyalty" Her answer to ;Will you follow husbands lead; "No, we both have opinions and what if my opinion is better!" haha Classic wife response These girls are very smart and so sweet
Very refreshing. You should have reunions with all of your guests twenty years from now (or even one year) to see how they have all evolved.
PS. And see how you have evolved, too :)
Pea, your hair is so long! You look great as always! Thank you for your videos!