For those of you saying it's her fault and it was her choice, her breasts were taken before she was 15 and transition began at 11. She was a child. The doctors failed her
@@Fading_with_beauty she was just a tom boy girl, and her parents along with her guidance counselor "immediately" diagnosed her and told her it would be best for her to transition. They mutilated her body before she was even 15, the doctors and parents should be held accountable. Those hormone shots literally eat bone marrow and do irreversible damage to the DNA strands and RNA strands that send signals to the DNA
No the doctors didn't fail her, her parents did. The doctors could not have done this without the parents permission. Parents that would allow this to happen to their child should be behind bars the rest of their lives. I do agree that the doctor that would even agreed to do this are nothing but scums anyway. This is such a screwed-up world now. And our poor children are paying for it.
@@jeannetteblocker1801 Screwed up world indeed. Check it out: Washington state just passed a bill allowing children to legally be taken away from the parents that refuse to consent to gender transition procedures for the child.
I half agree half disagree. while we should allow trans kids to transition whenever they’re comfortable,definitely wait on medically transitioning for at-least a few years.
They doctor was sketchy if they did that to a pre puberty child yes. Because it was completely unnecessary if it wasn't because of medical reasons. However there are no issues for a 15 or 16 yo getting a top surgery
She is NOT saying, “trans is bad so don’t transition.” She is saying, “Transitioning is a massive and life-changing decision, so choose wisely and educate yourself on the risks.” That is a valuable lesson for anyone!
Its so frustrating. People act like you can walk into a surgeon's office and go "I'll take one transition please" like its fucking McDonalds. No, surgeries take several referrals and she had so many chances to change her mind during the months and months it probably took her to get the appointment. You dont do surgery on your body without being 100% certain.
@@darealboby4017 Her choice. No one forced her. The risks were explained to her on several occasions and she still signed the paper to approve their removal.
Children need to be protected from this. That is the main point. An impressionable child can be exploited by adults for profit. I cant imagine how a sirgeon could remove a 15 year old girls breast and not think anything of it. I hope Chloe Cole wins her lawsuits and laws get put into place to protect minors.
Bro, when I was a teenager, I never think about identity crisis and shit, like how class books talk about teenagers' issues and their hormones. All I think about is, "man, my family is so broke. We got no spending money to do awesome shit." I survived the school years with jamaican patty and starburst and bought $5 tshirts at Family Dollar. So yea. If these youngsters are thinking about "not being in the right body, I wanna surgically change myself or consume hormone blockers," that just tells me that "wow, money is not an issue to your family. You have enough leeway to think something to feed what you WANT instead of what you need." Money is the source of evil, whether it's direct or indirect, or passive or hidden. Why did the health care providers agreed to do the elective surgery operation on youngsters? Money. How these youngsters have the option to explore their whims and wants? Money.
As a detransitionner myself I would never say butchered, and i wouldn’t blame the specialists, it was my decision and my mistake and instead of blaming others, i work on forgiving myself, because blaming the institutions and taking those steps will lead actual trans people to a living hell and that is absolutely not better I see that this comment is having a lot of visibility and I do want to clear up that I’m absolutely agreeing that minors cant consent to these life changing medical procedures, but you have to understand that a lot of times, its between that, or extreme emotional distress that can eventually lead to s*icide and sometimes medical teams have to make difficult decisions, they are wrong sometimes, as any human is, keep this in mind
THANK. YOU. im seeing so many people in the comments saying "this is why trans people shouldn't transition" and like "good for her for speaking up" but it was her decision and blaming the people who do the surgeries convinces people that all transitioning is bad
The sad thing is that people are warning these kids…and they simply get mad, start crying and accusing others of being offensive…No One can talk to them
@silchusilvu well that's the beauty of making something the law. No medical transition before a minimum of 6-12 mos of weekly counseling & not before they reach being a legal adult. The sad thing is that 18 is no magic number of maturity. The actual age of frontal lobe maturity is 25 yo. So technically, it would be best to wait til then. But there are some adults who make the decision as adults, yet later regret the transition & are detransitioning too. They have said if the system can convince them it's the right thing, then kids stand no chance against these supposed professionals & health care givers!
@@erinkitner7978 lmfao. Yall are morons. Banning a procedure doesn't prevent it, it just creates more danger around getting the procedure. Just look at abortions. If people need healthcare, then they'll get it. Through any means necessary.
@@erinkitner7978 people who regret transitioning are less than %1 so don’t push that narrative. Yes 25 is when the brain develops, so then why do we let people have kids before then? Why do we let them get married?
I've been tattooing for 22 years. I got to a point I didn't like working on anyone under the age of 21 because they're just not mature and make decisions they regret and nothing I could say would make a difference then a few years they come back and tell me I was right and have regrets. I stopped working in a shop because it started really bothering me I didn't wanna mess these people up for life. And that is no where near what children are going through now. It's disgusting that they're incouraged to massacre they're bodies before they even know who they are by people they thought they could trust
Fr I also think tattoos should be something of value and meaning, something that was earned in life or the things you went through, not just buying one cause you can and just cause it looks cool at the time
This is why I tell everyone I know who's my age (18) to get temporary tattoos. I do the same as well. Yet somehow a 7 year old can decide to get their balls lopped off. Unbelievable. It's like we're living in the end times.
When I was young, the social pressure was to be thin. I recall throwing my guts up til I couldn't stop the nose bleeds or hold my food down.. Back then not ONE counselor confirmed my flawed self-perception.. One night, alone in my dorm, bent over a basement bathroom toilet, I was reaching for the toiletpaper to wipe the tears, blood, and vomit off my face and realized the toiletpaper ring was empty... But as I looked closer, I saw faintly written on the brown empty ring the words "Jesus understands" G0D met me at that dark time in my life... I pray NOW He sends His loving Spirit and His angels on a beautiful rescue mission to meet others --Worldwide.. "He is near to the broken hearted and He saves those who are crushed in spirit" Ps 34:18
I am so so sorry that everyone you had in your life that you depended on failed you. 😢 11 years old is far too young to make decisions like that. You are very brave for standing up and telling your story, I hope that the kids that are considering following your path pay attention and listen to you. I hope that you get the help you need, thank you for trying to help others, I wish the best for you.
I don't know about this one ... Probably shouldn't be allowed until 18 ... but they should not be allowed to drug kids before age 12 at least! Why is nobody talking about that?!
@@pthompson2113there is a witness testifying before you about how bad of an idea the whole thing is, and you still try to justify the very thing they have witnessed against. You have serious mental issues. You actually might be to far gone. They got you and they're laughing all the way to the bank.
As a breast cancer patient who had no choice but to have her breasts removed, I would like to say that people need to be fully informed about this procedure and reconstruction procedures. They are a big deal. It’s not like getting your ears pierced.
I don't trust anything that comes out of these peoples mouth. There was a lady who had her breast removed because she had some gene for cancer and she asked the doctor to remove more of certain muscle and he advised against and asked her to think about it in case she needs implants in the future. It was important not to remove those muscled. She made video and called him fear monger. You can't win with them
I have the gene which met I would have the surgery with or without cemo. Watched too many family members die of cancer. My mother, grandmother. My young cousin who was the flower girl at my wedding. So I had the preventative surgery. I also ended up with infection. I am terrified of surgery of any type now. The fact that this is being done to innocent children for no reason other than a sick, WEF agenda is sick.
This is why I agree with the therapy that comes before the transition. Without it, it can cause these problems. As a trans person, she's got my support.
I agree. Transitioning should only be a last resort. As in, they figured out the dysphoria was NOT caused by anything else. (Schizophrenia and other conditions can cause dysphoric feelings, and more often than not those feelings wont last)
Bullshit. She was 11 years old when she told her mom she thought she was a boy. She was then diagnosed with gender dysphoria by a therapist. 6 months after that diagnosis she was put on hormone blockers and testosterone. Still just 11 years old. By the time she was 15 she had a double mastectomy. Shes now 18 years old. All of you trans people think this is ok? You really think that an 11 year old child has the ability to make these kinds of decisions?
I've watched a video of a trans that saying he thought being a trans would make him feel better, but no it's not. Instead he feels regret because he can't change himself back to before. So yeah, it's really important for therapy before the transition.
@@yutube4130 Do what you want when your a full grown adult be sure with the decision you make because there's no going back. But this message is they are coming for the children and brainwashing children and parents to make big money on the weak and vulnerable which is what happened to this girl Chloe because she didn't get the right help she needed.
@@group555_2 is just false unless you provide a real source. Nobody who is Trans is unironically happy, and if they are? They are definitely crying themselves to sleep at night 😂😂
I saw someone else say that at one of her speeches, a bunch of people, presumably trans, lgbt people and allies, chanted "F U fascist" and called her transphobic. As a queer person myself, It's scary to think that trying to spark light on the dangers of transition, even if you've experienced it firsthand, could result in getting attacked by a community that claims to be accepting. She is a victim, and people like her NEED their voices amplified!!!
Omg that's so horrible that they would do that to her when she is only sharing her experience. Sometimes I feel like the community is only accepting to like minded individuals and this is not the first instance I have heard about them being rude to detransitioners.
I'll say it then: DON'T "TRANSITION"! Humans can't change sex, people who have cosmetic surgery on the most innervated areas of their bodies to mimic the opposite sex have HIGHER (not lower) rates of suicide, and transgenderism is a postmodernist death cult lining the pockets of already rich elites. It is the ultimate act of consumerism is a sick society divested of its own humanity.
@@claireh0 Nah. There's no destiny, sorry. We're all randomly put on this earth, and life is whatever we make it. Transitioning, if done correctly, makes people happy, and that's all that matters.
@@claireh0 I’m really happy for you that you feel comfortable in your body as it is. But sometimes it makes people feel much more like themselves by changing their body. And that’s their decision to make, not ours. Obviously they shouldn’t rush into it though, and make sure it’ll really help them feel comfortable in their skin.
@DuskDeepens even in their fucked up minds, how does that make sense? She fuckin went gusto into being "male" which is more then most of these trans people can say
Yeah because she's allying with people who want trans people dead to try to get life-saving healthcare banned because of a miniscule amount of people who regret that treatment. The regret rate for transition is less than 1%. That's one of the highest satisfaction rates of any medical treatment.
I hope her testimony reaches ad many people as possible. We can't understand anymore what is going on. But normally this kind of testimony doesn't go to TV channels, they just show " the happy men that trasitioned to women" but they never show people who went through it and regretted. Please share this message specially to teenagers. Because hormonar changes specially when you are a teenager can't be reversed. Thank you madam for using your experience to help other people. I hope you find healing in any way ❤ stay blessed
THEY SHOULD MAKE A LAW STATING THAT ONLY AT THE AGE OF 21 CAN THESE SURGERIES BE PERFORMED. THE DOCTORS DON'T CARE WHO THEY'RE CUTTING UP THEY'RE GETTING PAID AND THAT'S WHAT THEY CARE ABOUT PERIOD.
No they should make a law saying "A man is any person with xy chromosomes and produces sperms while a woman is any person with xx chromosomes, produces ova and menstruate"
They should have to go through strict mental health care first. There’s mental conditions where people view their limbs as foreign objects and not apart of their body and they don’t have them chopped off. Gender reaffirming surgeries if any kind should be left for the small percentage who are actually trans and not those who view it as a trend and are confused.
As a trans person, I feel like you should go to gender therapy, and make sure that that’s completely what you want. It takes more than just a split second decision to decide. If you’re considering getting surgery, get gender therapy, and don’t rush into it. You need to decide whether or not that’s what you really want to do. Please don’t come in the comments saying what I’m doing is outright wrong. However, I am open to questions.
Your reply was polite.. and i respect that immensely. However, no child.. Zero, zilch, nada should be allowed to do anything that will screw with their physical bodies or natural hormonal transition into adulthood.
When I was 4 to even after 10 years old I really wanted to be a boy and hated to be a girl, but it was all because of the inequality and injustice I faced and saw unchangeable. As a teenager I dreamed with hormonal treatment, but I couldn't afford it and my parents just wouldnt support it.... I'm 30 years old now, a mom of two, and I'm glad I didn't do it. Now I know it was never me wanting to be a man, but to be equally important and respected as them. I wonder how many trans stories actually started like mine. They need ALL the support they can get
This is something that a lot of trans people are cautioned against; I know I was encouraged to make sure I was thinking about who I actually was, rather than about a perceived social benefit of being seen as a man or woman.
This isxwhat happens when Satan gets in your head!! His goal is to destroy God's creation and you are one of his greatest, therefore a target of his anger and desire for ruin!!
I wanted to be a man so bad for most of my life...... I identified as nonbinary..... I changed my name, my hair, my clothes, my personality. I didn't realize until this year that I am a woman..... I just hate that I am...... I hate myself for being born biologically female.... Because of how we are treated..... What society makes us believe to be true about ourselves from birth until death..... It's devastating...... I am a woman.... Not trans, not enby, not anything other than a woman..... I'm simply not proud of it.....
@@bizzarebear My friend identified as non-binary until recently. She realised she was just uncomfortable with feminine talks and she said she learned to deal with it and embrace being a woman despite the struggles.
@@nightshade3782 they know, my bestie was hit out the blue with her son wanting to be female. They know and cry after when it doesn’t work out like they want it. They should make a law, no surgeries for kids until 18, if cosmetic and unnecessary. Or they will blame you later...the fkin nerves lol makes me laugh
@@victorious1929 I agree that cosmetic surgery of that kind should be ban before 18, puberty blockers too. The child should be able to fully develop because there are serious consequences if the body isn’t able to finish growing. Take males who may want to transition to female, if they don’t let their body fully develop then they won’t have enough material to invert their penis into a vagina. As far as your response of not feeling sorry for this person Chloe, you may be project your experience of your bestie having an ungrateful trans kid who was willful. This persons therapist told the parents that she was suicidal when she wasn’t, which is the blackmail these therapists use saying “do you want a trans kid or a dead kid” the medical field has lost its fucking mind, and society with it. I have empathy for her because of my experience of being a tomboy and not wanting anything to do with being female. Not until I had a child did it all click for me. So yeah our response to her plight is different.
Chloe, thanks for sharing this very personal and painful experience you went through. A lot of kids and parents and the medical professionals needs to hear this.
Sorry bout yer confused state, it isn't the taxpayers problem to figure out! We have ppl WITH CANCER yet we're wasting time n money. Tryin ta figure out year mental health issues
@Brad Grier Yeah, I do. " Sorry about your confused state, but it isn't the taxpayers problem to figure it out! We have people dying of cancer, yet we are wasting our time and money trying to figure out your mental health issues." The user @Falcon Alley was saying we need to stop this pandemic of insanity by telling the parents and doctors the truth and what is happening to these people. Here in America at least, the taxpayers aren't paying anything to help these mentally ill people.
yes her poor surgery she had the option to reject and knew the consequences yes poor her blame the doctors she paid and knew the cost of what she was losing 😂
Just a quick reminder to be careful before going through any life-changing surgery! This woman may have changed her mind, which is completely valid and I sympathize with her struggles, but that doesn’t mean all transgender surgery is bad. Just make sure to choose wisely!! ❤
I was born AFAB and felt male for the longest time, turns out I was nonbinary/genderfluid. When I was younger I wanted a flat chest and nearly got kicked out for wanting a chest binder. Now that I have one, and can wear it and take it off when I want (with safety in mind) I feel more confident and comfortable in my body. If I just had a supportive household I would have realized I was enby sooner.
The best solution is to love and accept yourself. No need to change anything because God makes no mistakes. Males were meant to be men and Females were meant to be women. If there is any confusion, it's from the enemy 🙏
@@Azaryahuplease tell everyone in the video you posted to stop wearing glasses, they're in violation of god, he created them to have flawed vision and they are defying him >:( if god created everything perfectly, he gave them (trans folks) the desire to change, and they're perfectly fine to follow it with the tools that he also created and gave to them. let them be, their lives aren't worth sacrificing just to conform to whatever ideals they don't share with you. if you believe that means they're going to be damned, then why would you knowingly harass them, adding to the pain they'll suffer? it'd be better to support them through their struggling time rather than trying to convert them, because you should know you won't be able to change their minds. alleviate suffering rather than adding to it- that's what you need to do if you truly care, which... I think you do, you sound dedicated enough.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I know you hear people getting angry at you for speaking out. That proves how important it is to keep talking. This is a fight of good against evil.
Chloe, I am so sorry this happened to you and I am praying for you. I am also praying that you DO NOT give up telling everyone who will listen about your experience. Please. Continue to help those who do not know what they are getting into. Prayers for a swift resolution to the infections that you are fighting. Stay strong!
Chloe, I am a stage 4 breast cancer survivor. I wear lymphadema gloves every day and have scars as well. The radiation makes my left shoulder stiff, but I am alive and moving. I am reaching out because I felt for you when you spoke about your scars. I am now 5 years out of my surgery and just finished my treatment. We went aggressive with treatment because I am so young. Words of wisdom... find beauty in yourself. It is hard, I understand believe me, but find what makes you happy, what makes you get out of bed everyday and makes you smile, and gives you enjoyment. Find happiness with the person you are. It takes time and soul searching. I wish you all of this and hope you some day find what I have for myself and my loved ones.
But you have to remember you had to have the surgery to save your life. She made the conscious choice to have this done now she's wishing she didn't. That is why kids shouldn't be allowed to make them decisions. Trust that god made you perfect.
This is why people need to be in close communication with their doctors, and that doctors actually listen to and understand their patients, to make sure that altering the body is the right choice for them. Such a surgery has saved the lives of so many trans people, and most people who get it don't regret it, but it's a tragedy when it's approved for the wrong person.
Fr, it’s not an issue of “the trans agenda is ruining our kids!”, it’s the fact that the experience of being transgender is incredibly mysterious and unknown due to the discrimination that trans people faced for so long. If someone has experienced dysphoria their entire life and has always felt strongly that they wish they were viewed a different gender and were born a different sex, then I think it’s okay to have them get surgeries earlier than usual (16-18). However for someone like me who’s almost always been confused by their gender, I think it’s best to wait until you’re an adult and have given it lots of thought yourself until you make any big decisions, even with a doctor.
@@gozue869 I'm sorry, but I don't agree with that. Im alot older than you, and I'm not saying that like, I'm smarter than u..it's just that, I've lived more years, and have more experience than u. It just, is what it is.... and with age, there comes a different kind of wisdom. You really do think differently when u get older... you realize things u didn't before... u may feel differently about things...... it's just.. with age comes experience..... and as an older person- I absolutely do NOT feel it should be legal to do this until the age of 18- and even then I feel like thats pushing it. I think 21 is more appropriate, to be honest. Hell- u gotta be 21 just to drink legally!!!!!!! So. It's ludicrous to me, that ppl can do this, before the age of 18..... I'm sorry, but. I think it's just, irresponsible. These are people's LIVES we are talking about. Lives that can be irrevocably changed, for the worse..... That's nothing to play with. And that wisdom that comes with age that I'm talking about? .. that's exactly what's in this video...... she made a decision too young, and now she regrets it. We should stop other people from doing the same.
@@gozue869 Nonsense. 16-18? At that age hormones are still rampant, can't make a career choice, high school is at the fore, love may be in the air....and you think you know enough to have your genitals amputated or a mastectomy?? C'mon.....
@@gozue869+ Exactly. There so many cases where the person is nonbinary or genderfluid and think they need to transition to the other gender before coming to terms with who they actually are. I thought I was trans for awhile but after letting it sit and settle, I realized that I'm not trans and was just curious about the possibilities of being the opposite sex. It's extremely important to let people explore their gender identity properly and not interfere. Showing support=/=interfering and more people need to realize this. (This also goes for sexual identity and lables. People should be allowed to explore themselves to truely understand and appreciate themselves to avoid suppression. Suppression of one's self can be extremely detrimental; often being the root cause of suicidal ideation/tendencies.)
There are thousands of detransitioners but the get shunned and harassed by the “all inclusive community” or “alphabet mafia” as I like to call them. Even jazz that kid on tlc show. She is refusing to do the maintenance and is extremely depressed
@@maryjane4432the abc mafia lacks any sympathy for the detransitioners they only care about themselves and exploiting themselves with their sexuality....
@@maryjane4432Jazz from tlc, his parents especially his mother, are insane. They only saw an opportunity to be famous and saw the money. There should be a law making any transgender who was transitioned as a child to be able to sue their parents and the doctos for the mental and physical trauma they caused them.
This is why trans people are supposed to speak with professionals to make sure they're absolutely 110% sure they want surgery before they get it. Detransitioners are a very small percentage who didn't think before they acted. It's always best to socially transition before a medical transition or just don't medically transition at all if you aren't sure so it's fully reversible.
That’s exactly what they are doing. They are seeing professionals but those same “professionals” aren’t doing what they are supposed to do! Hence, the video!? Especially when it comes to minors. They’re literally lying to parents and making children feel confused about who they are. Versus uplifting them.
Detransitioners absolutely thought before they acted, I have never heard of a detransitioner who impulsively rushed into a surgical transition, there is a process they have to go through to get approved for the surgery. Every detransitioner believed 110% that they were trans and that the surgery is what they wanted and had to talk to multiple professionals to get to that point. They all socially transitioned before medically transitioning. The common theme with detransitioners is that they were all extremely uncomfortable with their bodies and as a result were diagnosed as dysphoric. What needs to happen is that more of the professionals who diagnose dysphoria and approve people for surgery need to be educated about other reasons why somebody might be uncomfortable with their body, like sensory processing disorders. What happens with these detransitioners is that they are so uncomfortable in their own bodies and they truly believe that it’s their gender that is making them uncomfortable, so if only they could change their gender, they would finally feel comfortable, but then once the surgery happens, they realize that they still feel that discomfort and it didn’t solve their problem. The medical community needs to make it more clear that being uncomfortable with your body is not necessarily the same thing as gender dysphoria. Here’s my take: I developed very large breasts really suddenly as a 12-year-old girl and everybody in my community basically treated me like I was a slut, as if having big boobs suddenly made me slutty even tho I was a nerdy awkward middle schooler, I hated them, and I wanted to get rid of them because of the horrible way the adults and my peers at my school and church treated me, I begged my parents to let me get surgery to get rid of them, but they wouldn’t do it. If I had the choice to get that surgery to remove my boobs as an underage kid, I absolutely would’ve done it and I would’ve been 1000% sure. I began to wish I was a boy felt like if I lived as a boy I wouldn’t be constantly made to feel ashamed of an aspect of my body that I couldn’t control. It wasn’t until I became an adult and could see through the horrible behavior around me and realized that my body was never the problem, it was the adults around me who failed me as a child and made me feel that self-hatred. But if a therapist had spoken with me around that time, maybe they would have thought I was gender dysphoric, because I absolutely hated being a girl, and wanted to remove my boobs more than anything. I read the DSM criteria for gender dysphoria and I would definitely have fit at the time. I think it’s very telling that the vast majority of detransitioners are FTM who returned to being female, many of them may have been shamed for their bodies as young girls just like I was and then realized only too late that their bodies were never really the cause of the problem. Of course, gender dysphoria is a real thing and the vast majority of trans people are happy with their transition. I’m not disputing or downplaying that, I just think that the professionals who talk to young women (because women are the vast majority of detransitioners) need to do a better job of zeroing in on the specific reasons why women and girls are made to feel ashamed of their bodies and see how that maybe influencing their desire to medically transition
I feel like you can go to professionals and they still write it off as you being trans. They need to dig harder into girls and women because they're more likely to transition especially since they could be doing it as a response to trauma against them committed by men.
@@whatevs4531 That’s not how God is at all, if you think that way you have never read the Bible. God is a Father of endless forgiveness and love. He is especially compassionate towards children. He loves her immensely.
I am so sorry you have suffered such things and I pray for your healing. You have done so much good bringing your story to a hurting world. Thank you for reaching out to others. You are a beautiful blessing to us all.
This didn't happen to her. She willingly signed up for the surgery. She made the choices, and the doctors listened to her. I'm sorry that you made poor choices. I wish you the best of luck in life. I hope you find peace.
I’m so sorry this happened to you and no one was there to speak up for you. Idk what age you were, it was not old enough. You were the child. I hope you know that even if that community dropped you, you have a bigger community now who are here for you ❤ love and prayers 🙏
No , it’s not about what you have , it’s what are ! God made you perfect - learn to love who you are and know that God made you in his image . Why mess up a master piece ?
She may never nurse her own young- yet she is filled with mama bear energy, putting herself in danger to protect children. What a strong, brave young woman.
I'm confused. Was her breast removed because person was transitioning to male? But, now is identifying again as a female? I think person should speak to an attorney if the surgery was botched..
All of these Dr.’s that performed sexual reassignment surgery on a minor, even with the parents consent, should be arrested for not calling CPS on them.
Amen to that it's sick that parents would even be okay with that I've told all 4 of my kids at 18 when your an adult you make your own choices you got to live with just make sure you have the heart to do so and I love my children and will support them but they have to know I won't support anything under the legal age this ain't a horror show
@@john-qz3fu People and Kids are different John, you can't possibly suggest a little child under the age of 16 is mature enough to be held the same as an adult... both the doctor and the parents are at fault
Shes talking abt a mastectomy,not a breast reduction. Breast reductions are primarily done to maintain the integrety of the spine when ur titties are WAY too big,and is a medical necessity,including for minors and is still a voluntary procedure. Unlike american circumcisions,which i also disagree with.
I'd seriously get checked immediately at the local a&e for Necrotising fasciitis, especially from the symptoms you have described and the fact its spreading, this needs to be looked at immediately.
That spreads within hours. She would be dead and not speaking at a conference, but it could be an infection which could become septic. I know as I had NF back in 2015. Gotta love America charging for medical fees, craziness.
She's lying, she's getting paid to spread anti trans messages and can afford to see a doctor, how would she have paid for all of her transition costs? Edit for clarity: I'm not interested in discussing your insurance policies, I'm calling the girl a liar, and these talks aren't cheap.
If the doctor DOES give a shit and tries to talk someone out of something, they run the risk of being called a bigot. Its not the doctors faults. Its these fuckin crazy people that refuse to get help from the correct kind of doctor.
Hey lots of ppl speak out, and we get called transphobic, racist, + the dems support this. WEF supports this. It should NEVER be allowed. Never should a person who isn't allowed to smoke or vote or drink, be allowed to make decisions to " transition " I hope this young woman goes to schools, and talks to the kids who think this is cool.
Ya Kaiser. There’s your problem. One time I was helping a client get to doctors appointment at Kaiser. She was 90 years old. I got off the bus and went inside to get her a wheel chair. All the wheel chairs were locked up with a cable and lock. When I asked for a wheelchair they refused to give me one. Things began to get a little heated and the woman at reception barked at me. She said she couldn’t give me a wheelchair because then if someone needed one she wouldn’t have one to give. I SWEAR TO YOU THATS WHAT SHE SAID! I explained I had someone who needed one! She screamed “You’re not hearing what I’m telling you sir!” So I shouted back then some doctor got involved and very loudly demanded I LEAVE NOW! I yelled back at him and walked away without a chair. I had to scour the hospital for a little bit until I found a random chair. Finally was able to help sweet little Mable get to her appointment despite Kaisers efforts to make it as hard as possible. And that’s just one instance out of MANY! But that one was particularly crazy! Ya Kaiser SUCKS!!!!
All hospital staff that does trans gender surgery on any child under the age of 18. Need prison time why isn't our government tslking against this child abuse going on i schools
@@suzy5166 you are not confused, you have the correct view. She was not held down and butchered. She asked for her breasts to be removed. She knew the risks. She has buyers remorse on a transaction she cannot reverse. She spent 2 years on hrt before having surgery. She has only herself to blame for the regret. Most trans people are happy with their surgeries.
It's sad that she was mislead by all the nonsense out there. Transitioning is such a dangerous process and her story isn't the only one like this. These people need to be heard. All aspects of transitioning need to be heard so the full spectrum can be known for people who are looking into transitioning themselves
@@torresalxndr propaganda and indoctrination is one hell a way for others to make you think a certain way. prime example, 1930 germen populous. this woke pelage is tearing apart the basic fundamentals of America.
@@torresalxndr in Canada if a child tells a teacher or doctor they believe they are the opposite sex it is now LAW that the teachers or doctors must tell that child they are the opposite sex. Teachers and doctors have already been fired for even suggesting these kids get therapy first before pushing the idea.
Surgery didn't change what he is so it's a he not a her. Surgery does not change dna. You are what you are born and no matter what you do that is what you will always be no matter what a disturbed confused mind thinks you are.
The whole premise of that speech is that she will never get better. Things will never go back to how they were before, not even close. As sad as that is, it is the reality of the situation.
Im not, im sure that when she was transitioning, she was so sure she was born into the wrong body. Now you mad cuz you butchered yourself and can't breastfeed😅
Im not sorry! I like Jesus believe in mercy, love and forgiveness...but the wages of sin have consequences. She at one time believed science more than God. It seems now she understands her sins...hopefully!
This is so horrible and sad! I am so blessed to be able to breastfeed my 4 month old son, and my two older kids when they were younger! My heart goes out to her! God bless and protect her!!!❤🕆🇺🇸📿
@@leevy6753 Some. There's always someone on the fence that just needs that last fact from someone who did it, whatever IT is regarding whatever they're unsure about, to push them over onto one side or the other. It's why debating is so important. You're not trying to convince the other person, as that rarely works with extremists. It's the readers and listeners that you're trying to help. That sad, lonely, hurting person sitting way up front that's so desperate for an answer that they don't know if they want to stay or leave, but they're there for some semblance of hope to get through whatever it is they're dealing with.
Yeah be sure to get a good plastic surgeon lol and take responsibility for your own mistakes instead of blaming everyone else, typical childish behavior
@@leevy6753 it will never work on the 100% of the group/community. And am not only talking about the trans community but all the communities... But sharing this will deter the more sensible ones, and pretty sure the extremists won't listen at all
Bro the statistic is literally less than one of a percentile that ever regret getting transitional surgery, if a cure for cancer is found but kills every 1/500 people that use it, it will still be used, same situation
Thank God she was given a platform. Detransitioners deserve a voice. Parents need to know what they're pushing kids into. Kids need to know what they're agreeing to. If you can't buy cigarettes or drink alcohol in a bar legally, or CONSENT to sex with an adult, you cannot consent to permanently alter your body.
They actually can't have surgery until, they're adults. You're misinformed. Nobody is pushing their Children to transition. Some people are transgender. Recently, society has accepted social transition for minors... They might have done this before but, it was more private. Hormone blockers are the only medical treatment given to people under 18... It's reversible. The number of people who actually feel being trans/transitioning was a mistake is very low. These are normally private matters. It's actually very difficult to be approved for transgender surgeries: 1. You have to be completely sober. You can't even, smoke cigarettes or have a beer/ glass of wine, once in a while. 2. A therapist has to approve of your housing/ after care plan. 3. You're likely to be rejected if you have psychological problems. | I was rejected for smoking weed 🌲, drinking alcohol,risk of homeless (b/c I was late on my rent), mental health (PTSD), & legal problems. | The approval process is tough as an adult & that's why you have to be mature (18).|
The surgeon and hospital just see $ dollar signs with these easily influenced people. Typical exploitation but the crazy minority of unhinged people that we let run popular culture in America says that’s (insert anything)-phobic
she signed the medical document on doing the surgery, she willingly wamted her breasts Gone so that she can be transgender. it is her fault and nobody elses. the scar and pain, i dont care, because they only happened due to her own choice in going through with the surgery.
This is a lie, nobody waits for shit. You start telling them this bullshit when they're fuckin eight years old. It's okay, be who you are, changes are okay. Then, you fuck up a totally normal kids life permanently because you like to spread your own agenda on what you see as acceptable.
Btw, these surgeries are nothing more than cash grabs, no one in that institution gives a single fuck about the trans delusion, but they do care about that precious $$$$ that you're willing to spend to mutilate yourselves. The side effects of this is solely on you. Should work through your problems instead of taking to hormones and surgeries to be something you can never be.
I had full transition surgeries when I was 42 years old. It was the absolute best thing I ever did in my life. I have absolutely zero regrets. I feel so sorry for anyone who regrets their transition and feels that they didn’t have the right mindset, attitude, or guidance.
@@savannahjackson8513 A lot of people care AND share the same opinion. But since you’re a mental patient that’s allowed to run wild, instead of being institutionalized and treated, you think your delusional perspective on life is validated. It’s not.
I think transitioning can be terrible for some and amazing for others. I think the age for it should be 18 so it doesn’t ruin lives, but should still be available to save the lives of those who need it (like the og commenter)
But you were 42...and totally convinced that this step was right for you. She was a child. There is a huge difference in maturity, for starters. The adults in her life failed her and made the wrong decision. I think that if you are 21 and older and convinced you are transgender, then it is your choice to make. But under 21, it's a totally different situation. No surgery should be performed before 21.
This is why I fully believe that no gender changing surgery should be done before you're old enough to drink. A full psychiatric evaluation should be required before all gender changing surgery. Too many young people are being pushed into these life-changing scenarios and regretting it later. And the fact that our government not only allows this but encourages this is damaging our youth. A full psychiatric evaluation would help in a lot of cases to ensure that nobody is making a decision that they could potentially regret.
psychological evaluations are pretty much required in all parts of the world, but you also have to take into consideration that a big portion of trans people know even before puberty that they are trans. lets say someone knows at 10 that theyre trans, then they have 5 entire years before they can reach the medical age of consent in parts of the united states. theres a lot of consideration going on in peoples heads, trust me, thats why the regret rates are so low :)
And by a professional that isn't gonna sit there and push transgernderism on them too. Unfortunately, some psychiatrists nowadays are also pushing it on people, including children. There are some that are in this crap movement helping the surgeons make more money.
The regret rates of detransitioning may only be in the 3% percentile, but the rate of suicide is 40% and that of transitioning youth who have had suicidal thoughts it’s 85%. There has to be more we can do to lend support.
I agree wholeheartedly with you Erica. I don’t care how young you are when you realize you are not the sex you we’re born with but another, that does not give you or your parents the right to visit a doctor that may or may not wish to do this kind of surgery on a child. There has to be an age set that this type of surgery is prohibited from be done before……if not these are the things that will happen. The numbers may be low right now but the way this world is going, that can increase in a flash.
Chloe Cole is a treasure. I’m sorry they did that to her, but her bravery in speaking out WILL save future children. I hope she finds peace and happiness on this journey.
@@colbythom223 but a child that can sign medical document for surgery in order to go through with it, it is not a child but a stupid choice. i know what you mean, but she has to live with the hard reality that she basically did it to herself alone.
@@AngelosRitter yea but to let a minor sign any forms mutilating their body is a failure of the system, and the LGBT community grooms these kids and tells them it’s the only way to be happy. She was confused, and medical system preyed on that for profit. If it was only her I’d say she made a bad decision on her own, but it’s lots of people this has happened to.
@@colbythom223 of course the system uses that to their benefit to make ez money, but thats how this Nasty world works in the first place. Naivity takes you nowhere but drags you down. Yes, it happened to many and she is one of those that willingly went through it, But it doesnt change the fact that she probably didnt even listen to the warnings of doing such thing in the first place. Im not sorry for what happened to her and i dont think i will care more than that; she cries now that its Beyond recoverable, but she was happy when it was already starting. Im simply stating that all she says in the video might Sound sad, but it was her Choice that started her own misery. Also there is more than breastfeeding to raise your baby. Now lets drop this, i know yoi know this goes nowhere and we might have better things to do. Have a goodnight sir.
Dear girl, I'm so sorry they put you through so much. I'm so sorry. Bless you. You are lovely. You are perfect. The mutilation needs to stop. Any parent who puts their child through this should face criminal charges. You didn't deserve this...😔
Instead of recommending more cognitive therapy and counselling, the physicians at the clinic told her parents that they could have a live son or a dead daughter even though she had no suicidal ideations.
Her parents allowed strangers into the home, bedroom, bathroom, etc., to raise her. (Internet, cell phones, mTV). Yes, they failed her......like most likely most on here are allowing strangers to raise their kids too. Yuri Bezmenov warned us.
You don't know that though.. putting blame on the parents for their GROWN kid decisions is just equally disgusting .. for all we know her parents probably were against it but since she's grown and can make her own decisions she decide to trust all these mental asylum lunatic patient instead.
Do you mind if I ask, do you know the typical length of time it takes from first seeing a medical facility to get diagnosed with gender dysphoria to getting top surgery done?
@@vvonderweiss I don’t know the average time but for my sibling who got top surgery because of gender dysphoria, it took 2 years from the first consultation to actually get the surgery.
@@vvonderweiss You need to experience dysphoria for 6 months at least to get a diagnosis and then several more months of documented gender dysphoria to get top surgery. So from beginning to end it could be up to a year or more of identifying as trans til you get the surgery. The duration period probably depends where you are.
The alphabet cult and it's followers don't understand that minors should not be consenting to having body parts removed. You can't even get a tatoo at 15 but you can get your breasts slices off? What is wrong with you?
@@vvonderweiss As someone who has been trying for 4 years to get top surgery. I had to get diagnosed by a therapist for at least 6 months to get the diagnosis of dysphoria. I have had this diagnosis for 4 years and my doctor still tells me need to talk to a doctor while I am crying because my chest will never look the way I want. my therapist also recently got top surgery and it took her 10 years so for everybpersonnit varies
Me being a transitioning teen, i think major surgeries like these really need to be done after theyre in their right state of mind and as an adult, this is why many places still dont give hormones to underage children who want to transition but give rhem puberty blockers to give them time to decide and think if what they want is right for them or not. I think it should be made clear that children cannot decide for themselves until much later in their teej years.
This is my issue on being silent, they tell us to live and let live. But we all share in the responsibility of what is happening to these kids. Our silence is the same as preforming the operation ourselves. We need to speak up and protect these kids.
@@MeagainIA2011 your stupid if think that. They know about harming others but not about anything medical related. This why they called MINORS. There even studies that unless 25 their brains still developing This why parents have sign for everything.
@@TransKidsMafia yeah because 18year olds make good choices especially the life altering kind. Mix that natural stupidity with some grooming like chloe here and you got a mentally fucked individual.
@@quirkoffate4090 God gave humans the ability to do things. It's up to you if you want to make things worse or better. Heaven and Hell exist for a reason.
Her parents failed her too. By not allowing her to grow up enough before asking this decision. I saw an earlier vid and she was a minor when this happened.
Hahahaha...He f00led everyone who are against trans female athlete joining women's sports and f00led everyone who are against Trans female in women's bathroom by going public claiming he has detransitioned from transmale. He actually is a biological male now dressed as a Detransitioned female.
@SilverGram -The people speaking out against this and getting violently assaulted BY the Trans people pushing this agenda are ALSO 'VERY BRAVE'... they could have been killed. - See Posie Parker and Women rights campaign recently in New Zealand more to my point. Speaking out against this 'incites violence' in Trans people. If this is such a great thing ... why the violence to the push back?
That’s sad but it’s just crazy how some people don’t know the full extent of these procedures when initially following through with it. That’s why it’s important to get a doctor that will constantly warn you of the risks that may be associated with said procedure. I hope she gets better treatment soon.
The process to get any sex altering procedure done averages about 5 years. You have to be evaluated by a psychologist, go into therapy, consult multiple specialists and complete mandatory education before they will even consider referring you to someone who might perform a procedure. You have to fight hard to get these approved being asked at ever step of the way if this is really what you want. Have you ever heard of an insurance company handy out expensive surgeries willy nilly?
@@cuddlemonster468sadly, and even after ALL of the therapy sessions,being asked constantly-and all that time “transitioning” emotionally, physically..etc. You can still be wrong. These young people don’t understand doctors and insurance companies are just using them as Guinea pigs in so many ways, when it comes to transition surgery. My heart goes out to this girl!! You’re perfect just the way you are!!!! ( yea you, I’m talking to you!🫵🏻🫵🏻😂)
What a horrifying thing to experience. I couldn’t fathom adults letting me make this decision as a child, and I could imagine the hate and anger I’d feel at them for letting my childish whims dictate such an impactful decision. Disgusting.
No person under the age of 18 should even be permitted to visit a Dr that does this. This is criminal. It's just insanity,removing the sex organs of minors based on the minors word as they're going through puberty or prepubescent. Teenage angst has existed since humans have existed and offering up a change of gender to the kids going through these completely normal confusing times is criminal. Removing the sex organs of a person any person is crazy but doing so to A MINOR is criminal as far as I'm concerned
It's so hypocritical that we were crying out about the mutilated women in the East a few years back. Is this not worse? 😢 I hope her voice reaches as far as it needs to and she has the strength to keep going.
@@moparjay143 how is this virtue signaling? Thats what the radical leftist lunatics do. Because she can relate to this girl and see that the people around her have failed her? She is virtue signaling?
Well Jesus (not your gardener the bible zombie guy) said something like: and if your hand tempts you CUT IT OFF; if your eyes tempt you TEAR IT OUT. As far as I can see, cutting of something of yourself seems to be very christian to me. Just kidding...
@@ifeifesi it’s actually irritating. Insurance doesn’t want to pay for this crap. This individual demanded money for the procedure. They threatened to unalive themselves. Everyone else is happy with their transition. People need to practice responsibility. What you do to “others” you have to pay for. What you do to “yourself” you have to live with. We can’t keep creating laws for everyone small occurrences, because one person has a regret. The information is out there. Warnings were in full view.
@@cyberzenASMR It’s not one person. Many people are regretting this because they’re being sucked into a fad! The number of “detransitioners” (and lawsuits) are growing daily! It’s become a trend now 🤦🏽♂️
@Lil Boozi Bert correct, no organ transplants 🚫🤣🤣🙄 nah, I think in that case I would make an exception, especially if one's life depends on it. I'm speaking more in terms of cosmetic procedures, surgeries that your life does not explicitly depend on.
@Black Magic still curious as to what you meant by your question. Are you referring to the Covid shot? If so, I never got it. Not enough testing done prior to its release for me to be comfortable having its contents injected into my body, as well as lack of knowledge of its known side-effects. Just not something I was willing to risk, and luckily I didn't have to get it in order to secure a job or fly anywhere in/out of the country. Very grateful for that.
This literally made me sick to my stomach and my body hurt. I was grabbing my chest on pain. I just feel so bad for her. This is just me listening to it I can’t imagine the pain she is in. So much love and compassion and healing to you I’m just so sorry this happened to you.
@Andy Gadd where’s your companion man? Why so cold and irreverent? She made a mistake and admits it. Now she has been abandoned by the advocates that manipulated her, leaving her in this hell, alone in despair. How does that end for her if everyone turns their back?
@Andy Gadd I’m not putting anything on you but simple human decency and understanding. She didn’t put the knife to her flesh. She didn’t act alone in this. This needs to be rectified and professionals held accountable. She needs to be made whole by the people who sold her this bogus bill of goods. She deserves corrective surgery. She deserves SUPPORT to encourage her bravery. It doesn’t have to come from you, but why pile on bro?
We live in a world that tells us, we can be anything we want to be. The truth is, we can try to be anything we want to be but sometimes the consequences of those goals are beyond our imaginations. The question you need to ask isn't, "can I?" But, "Should I".
When they told you you could be anything you wanted to be they Mint within the realm of reality And maybe a lesson on irony would have been good . Claiming to be the opposite of which we actually are to some people It's kind of funny And it's like some of you can't see it at all Which makes me think some of you are not wise To learn this very important part of life which is. If you're self worth and Happiness is going to depend upon what a bunch of strangers think You will never be happy . Maybe this will help you hearing it from me The random person online . My opinion should not matter to you at all .
@@DTreatz Being trans isn't biological. Wanting to look "more like a woman" means wanting to look like a cis woman, for example. The idea that trans people always envy the sex they weren't born as is wrong. There are a lot of trans people who are perfectly happy with their genitals. This is something people confuse so often with trans people, the surgery isn't a consequence of wanting to be something you're not, it's a consequence of wanting to look more like who you are on the inside. And kids don't know who they are but that doesn't mean that their feelings aren't real in the moment. Personally, kids should have access to gender affirmation. That doesn't mean operations, and to an extent it doesn't mean HRT. There are puberty blockers, that current data from researchers and universities suggests leaves no permanent side-effects, which can stop teens' bodies from changing. I think that's fair enough, it gives them a much easier way to transition when they decide to as adults, without impeding their progress. And hey, if they choose not to transition, it's all fine, no permanent effects.
Chloe is brave and her voice must be heard and shared. Adults should have protected her and given her counselling when she was confused, not given her irreversible surgery.
The sad thing is that she WAS given counseling and the counselor and doctors told her and her parents this was the only way to prevent suicide. Hence why she no longer has trust.
@stardustgirl being told by experts it will save your kids life is pretty compelling. This isn't some whack job blue haired teachers. This is doctors with PhD saying it.
I feel like, at this point, we normal-haired teachers with Psych degrees, the blue-haired teachers, the Phd's...everyone...are so confused and too scared to even say that the child might be confused...
Men crying like babies and trying to gaslight women and silence their voices. Nothing new under the sun. It comes in all shapes and forms. I'm proud of her for speaking up 🩷♀️
Why do you want to transition in the first place? Gender disorder can be handled by a therapist, but of course money, lies and trends have got a generation of young people confused and butchering themselves inhumanly. It's evil what the institutions and advocates of these terrible ideology are doing to teens and children
This is a confusing time. Some argue that their choices should be respected and their wishes should be fulfilled and that include Drs to assist them to it otherwise it is discrimination... Then, when things horribly go wrong, independent adults blame others for their poor choices.
It’s about time someone is making sense in these comments. She uses the word “butchered.” As if this was something done to her rather than with her consent. It’s one way or the other, we let everyone have a choice or no one. If they regret their decision it is no different than plastic surgery or dentures. You chose an unnecessary medical procedure.
Thank God Chloe you stopped in time before getting a hysterectomy. I hope your wounds heal, I hope your heart heals. You are doing an amazing job by speaking up about your experience. God bless you.
It IS a "fad" and its leaving a plethora of maimed, confused and mentally traumatized young people in its wake. The tide will eventually turn again, but for so many including this poor girl, its turning comes too late.
@@ellenreyes7874 no she didn't. The lame ass people in her life that she thought she could trust and who she should have been able to trust did this to her.
@@ellenreyes7874 she was a kid. It's her parents fault. Even then, if she did it herself as an adult and learned from it to try to teach others what could happen that's worthy of empathy
I love this. She is speaking out against transitioning. They usually try to hide it and show the happy people, however they can’t hide the amount of kids who killed themselves because they transitioned
For those of you saying it's her fault and it was her choice, her breasts were taken before she was 15 and transition began at 11. She was a child. The doctors failed her
Rubbish.
Did she have one point try to transition to a male is that what happened?
@@Fading_with_beauty she was just a tom boy girl, and her parents along with her guidance counselor "immediately" diagnosed her and told her it would be best for her to transition. They mutilated her body before she was even 15, the doctors and parents should be held accountable. Those hormone shots literally eat bone marrow and do irreversible damage to the DNA strands and RNA strands that send signals to the DNA
No the doctors didn't fail her, her parents did. The doctors could not have done this without the parents permission. Parents that would allow this to happen to their child should be behind bars the rest of their lives. I do agree that the doctor that would even agreed to do this are nothing but scums anyway. This is such a screwed-up world now. And our poor children are paying for it.
@@jeannetteblocker1801 Screwed up world indeed. Check it out: Washington state just passed a bill allowing children to legally be taken away from the parents that refuse to consent to gender transition procedures for the child.
Yea I’m pretty sure the message here is: Don’t do this to CHILDREN!
I half agree half disagree. while we should allow trans kids to transition whenever they’re comfortable,definitely wait on medically transitioning for at-least a few years.
@@mayo_1 what you said is so stupid, did you even watch the video? You people are like a deadly plague spreading and killing everything in it's wake
@@mayo_1 how can you trust someone who isn't trustworthy enough to drink to make such a big irreversible decision like transitioning?
also uh puberty blockers are fine in my opinion 👍
They doctor was sketchy if they did that to a pre puberty child yes. Because it was completely unnecessary if it wasn't because of medical reasons. However there are no issues for a 15 or 16 yo getting a top surgery
She is NOT saying, “trans is bad so don’t transition.” She is saying, “Transitioning is a massive and life-changing decision, so choose wisely and educate yourself on the risks.” That is a valuable lesson for anyone!
Very well said. Thank you.
Even though that's true she didn't say that though, she only said she regretted getting a surgery with a shitty doctor.
I disagree, wholeheartedly, with you! -- Her words, "Butchered", "Those organs are gone forever..." etc.
Its so frustrating. People act like you can walk into a surgeon's office and go "I'll take one transition please" like its fucking McDonalds. No, surgeries take several referrals and she had so many chances to change her mind during the months and months it probably took her to get the appointment. You dont do surgery on your body without being 100% certain.
@@darealboby4017 Her choice. No one forced her. The risks were explained to her on several occasions and she still signed the paper to approve their removal.
Children need to be protected from this. That is the main point. An impressionable child can be exploited by adults for profit. I cant imagine how a sirgeon could remove a 15 year old girls breast and not think anything of it. I hope Chloe Cole wins her lawsuits and laws get put into place to protect minors.
Apparently it is a not so uncommon fetish.
Bro, when I was a teenager, I never think about identity crisis and shit, like how class books talk about teenagers' issues and their hormones. All I think about is, "man, my family is so broke. We got no spending money to do awesome shit." I survived the school years with jamaican patty and starburst and bought $5 tshirts at Family Dollar.
So yea. If these youngsters are thinking about "not being in the right body, I wanna surgically change myself or consume hormone blockers," that just tells me that "wow, money is not an issue to your family. You have enough leeway to think something to feed what you WANT instead of what you need."
Money is the source of evil, whether it's direct or indirect, or passive or hidden. Why did the health care providers agreed to do the elective surgery operation on youngsters? Money. How these youngsters have the option to explore their whims and wants? Money.
@@Quicktwostepsso your experience accounts for every child’s experience. Empathy is not ur strong suit
@@bluBlaq33maybe learn to listen he didn’t say that weirdo
@@Noah-jb9omhe did though.
As a detransitionner myself I would never say butchered, and i wouldn’t blame the specialists, it was my decision and my mistake and instead of blaming others, i work on forgiving myself, because blaming the institutions and taking those steps will lead actual trans people to a living hell and that is absolutely not better
I see that this comment is having a lot of visibility and I do want to clear up that I’m absolutely agreeing that minors cant consent to these life changing medical procedures, but you have to understand that a lot of times, its between that, or extreme emotional distress that can eventually lead to s*icide and sometimes medical teams have to make difficult decisions, they are wrong sometimes, as any human is, keep this in mind
Agree
THANK. YOU. im seeing so many people in the comments saying "this is why trans people shouldn't transition" and like "good for her for speaking up" but it was her decision and blaming the people who do the surgeries convinces people that all transitioning is bad
@@thecollector263 exactly, people just jump to stupid uncomplex conclusions so fast
OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! May you live your happyest life and may good good things come to you!!! You have made my day! Your so awesome
thank you. even seeing one comment like this is giving me a little hope
She was 15 people!! 15! Chopping appendages off healthy young people is a crime against humanity!
The sad thing is that people are warning these kids…and they simply get mad, start crying and accusing others of being offensive…No
One can talk to them
@silchusilvu well that's the beauty of making something the law. No medical transition before a minimum of 6-12 mos of weekly counseling & not before they reach being a legal adult. The sad thing is that 18 is no magic number of maturity. The actual age of frontal lobe maturity is 25 yo. So technically, it would be best to wait til then. But there are some adults who make the decision as adults, yet later regret the transition & are detransitioning too. They have said if the system can convince them it's the right thing, then kids stand no chance against these supposed professionals & health care givers!
@@erinkitner7978 lmfao. Yall are morons. Banning a procedure doesn't prevent it, it just creates more danger around getting the procedure.
Just look at abortions. If people need healthcare, then they'll get it. Through any means necessary.
@@erinkitner7978 people who regret transitioning are less than %1 so don’t push that narrative. Yes 25 is when the brain develops, so then why do we let people have kids before then? Why do we let them get married?
@@fart63 well trans people are less than 1%, so why do we even care about their problems? Do you see the flaw in your previous comment?
I've been tattooing for 22 years. I got to a point I didn't like working on anyone under the age of 21 because they're just not mature and make decisions they regret and nothing I could say would make a difference then a few years they come back and tell me I was right and have regrets. I stopped working in a shop because it started really bothering me I didn't wanna mess these people up for life. And that is no where near what children are going through now. It's disgusting that they're incouraged to massacre they're bodies before they even know who they are by people they thought they could trust
Its great that you are responsible in your work. I like the drawings you've got on your channel. They are really good.
Fr I also think tattoos should be something of value and meaning, something that was earned in life or the things you went through, not just buying one cause you can and just cause it looks cool at the time
I mean your tattooing mate don't act like it's a major thing come to the UK were your council estate neighbours are tattooing 13-14 year olds
This is why I tell everyone I know who's my age (18) to get temporary tattoos. I do the same as well. Yet somehow a 7 year old can decide to get their balls lopped off. Unbelievable. It's like we're living in the end times.
When I was young, the social pressure was to be thin.
I recall throwing my guts up til I couldn't stop the nose bleeds or hold my food down.. Back then not ONE counselor confirmed my flawed self-perception..
One night, alone in my dorm, bent over a basement bathroom toilet, I was reaching for the toiletpaper to wipe the tears, blood, and vomit off my face and realized the toiletpaper ring was empty... But as I looked closer, I saw faintly written on the brown empty ring the words "Jesus understands"
G0D met me at that dark time in my life... I pray NOW He sends His loving Spirit and His angels on a beautiful rescue mission to meet others --Worldwide..
"He is near to the broken hearted and He saves those who are crushed in spirit"
Ps 34:18
I am so so sorry that everyone you had in your life that you depended on failed you. 😢 11 years old is far too young to make decisions like that. You are very brave for standing up and telling your story, I hope that the kids that are considering following your path pay attention and listen to you. I hope that you get the help you need, thank you for trying to help others, I wish the best for you.
The kids should not be allowed to any transition till 21 years old!
Parents are not allowed to interfere in child treatment. Thats the rule from leftist.
I don't know about this one ... Probably shouldn't be allowed until 18 ... but they should not be allowed to drug kids before age 12 at least!
Why is nobody talking about that?!
@@liliivanova2920how about, not ever.
@@pthompson2113there is a witness testifying before you about how bad of an idea the whole thing is, and you still try to justify the very thing they have witnessed against. You have serious mental issues. You actually might be to far gone. They got you and they're laughing all the way to the bank.
As a breast cancer patient who had no choice but to have her breasts removed, I would like to say that people need to be fully informed about this procedure and reconstruction procedures. They are a big deal. It’s not like getting your ears pierced.
I don't trust anything that comes out of these peoples mouth. There was a lady who had her breast removed because she had some gene for cancer and she asked the doctor to remove more of certain muscle and he advised against and asked her to think about it in case she needs implants in the future. It was important not to remove those muscled. She made video and called him fear monger. You can't win with them
I just have to say, you are one incredibly beautiful woman. ❤️
I have the gene which met I would have the surgery with or without cemo. Watched too many family members die of cancer. My mother, grandmother. My young cousin who was the flower girl at my wedding. So I had the preventative surgery.
I also ended up with infection. I am terrified of surgery of any type now. The fact that this is being done to innocent children for no reason other than a sick, WEF agenda is sick.
It goes further than understanding the procedures. It shouldn’t be done to children. Ever. Under no circumstances.
@@makeupwithsandra5801have you looked in the mirror?! 😊
This is why I agree with the therapy that comes before the transition. Without it, it can cause these problems. As a trans person, she's got my support.
I agree. Transitioning should only be a last resort. As in, they figured out the dysphoria was NOT caused by anything else. (Schizophrenia and other conditions can cause dysphoric feelings, and more often than not those feelings wont last)
As another trans person, I also agree.
as another trans person, I can agree
Bullshit.
She was 11 years old when she told her mom she thought she was a boy. She was then diagnosed with gender dysphoria by a therapist.
6 months after that diagnosis she was put on hormone blockers and testosterone. Still just 11 years old.
By the time she was 15 she had a double mastectomy. Shes now 18 years old.
All of you trans people think this is ok? You really think that an 11 year old child has the ability to make these kinds of decisions?
I've watched a video of a trans that saying he thought being a trans would make him feel better, but no it's not. Instead he feels regret because he can't change himself back to before. So yeah, it's really important for therapy before the transition.
CHILDREN should NOT under ANY circumstances be allowed to do this. How can you even do this kind of thing to person?!
How did she even get it? That shit is highly illegal and they had yo have gone around a lot of safeguards to get surgeries that young
@@group555_ in 2024 Canada and some parts of USA this fuckshit is called "gender-affirming care".
If I wanted to it's my body, not for anyone to say
WHAT?! They let CHILDREN do that?
@@yutube4130 Do what you want when your a full grown adult be sure with the decision you make because there's no going back. But this message is they are coming for the children and brainwashing children and parents to make big money on the weak and vulnerable which is what happened to this girl Chloe because she didn't get the right help she needed.
This is why kids cannot make these changes to their bodies... I appluad her for speaking out
1. She got treatments earlier than legally allowed
2.for everyone like her there are 99 that have a majorly improved quality of life
@@group555_2 is just false unless you provide a real source.
Nobody who is Trans is unironically happy, and if they are? They are definitely crying themselves to sleep at night 😂😂
@@Vase94 jamie dodger. Trans person happy, you're wrong
I saw someone else say that at one of her speeches, a bunch of people, presumably trans, lgbt people and allies, chanted "F U fascist" and called her transphobic. As a queer person myself, It's scary to think that trying to spark light on the dangers of transition, even if you've experienced it firsthand, could result in getting attacked by a community that claims to be accepting. She is a victim, and people like her NEED their voices amplified!!!
Omg that's so horrible that they would do that to her when she is only sharing her experience.
Sometimes I feel like the community is only accepting to like minded individuals and this is not the first instance I have heard about them being rude to detransitioners.
@@kma531 They absolutely only accept like-minded individuals. They'll even turn on their own members if that person has one different opinion.
Cult like mentality
Need their voices amplified for wrongfully destroying their body
Well said until the caps at the end. It didn't emphasize your point but hurt it a little...
I like that she’s not saying
don’t transition!’ But instead saying ‘don’t rush into it, and know it’s what you want
and yet transphobes are taking it the first way instead of the latter
I'll say it then: DON'T "TRANSITION"! Humans can't change sex, people who have cosmetic surgery on the most innervated areas of their bodies to mimic the opposite sex have HIGHER (not lower) rates of suicide, and transgenderism is a postmodernist death cult lining the pockets of already rich elites. It is the ultimate act of consumerism is a sick society divested of its own humanity.
@@claireh0 Nah. There's no destiny, sorry. We're all randomly put on this earth, and life is whatever we make it. Transitioning, if done correctly, makes people happy, and that's all that matters.
@@claireh0 I’m really happy for you that you feel comfortable in your body as it is. But sometimes it makes people feel much more like themselves by changing their body. And that’s their decision to make, not ours. Obviously they shouldn’t rush into it though, and make sure it’ll really help them feel comfortable in their skin.
@@claireh0 Shut up.
What's odd is this once trans person is now referred to by other trans people as transphobic. I feel nothing but empathy for this young lady
@DuskDeepens even in their fucked up minds, how does that make sense? She fuckin went gusto into being "male" which is more then most of these trans people can say
Empathy for this brave woman, and nothing but contempt for those butchers...
I hope the future legal suits will destroy them.
@DuskDeepens Yup, i've seen that.
Those people are sickening.
they made up the word transphobic and by their definition she is transphobic. But, that's not a bad thing.
Yeah because she's allying with people who want trans people dead to try to get life-saving healthcare banned because of a miniscule amount of people who regret that treatment. The regret rate for transition is less than 1%. That's one of the highest satisfaction rates of any medical treatment.
I hope her testimony reaches ad many people as possible. We can't understand anymore what is going on. But normally this kind of testimony doesn't go to TV channels, they just show " the happy men that trasitioned to women" but they never show people who went through it and regretted. Please share this message specially to teenagers. Because hormonar changes specially when you are a teenager can't be reversed. Thank you madam for using your experience to help other people. I hope you find healing in any way ❤ stay blessed
THEY SHOULD MAKE A LAW STATING THAT ONLY AT THE AGE OF 21 CAN THESE SURGERIES BE PERFORMED. THE DOCTORS DON'T CARE WHO THEY'RE CUTTING UP THEY'RE GETTING PAID AND THAT'S WHAT THEY CARE ABOUT PERIOD.
Good point. Considering you can’t drink until you 21 BUT you can vote at 18.
No they should make a law saying
"A man is any person with xy chromosomes and produces sperms while a woman is any person with xx chromosomes, produces ova and menstruate"
They should have to go through strict mental health care first. There’s mental conditions where people view their limbs as foreign objects and not apart of their body and they don’t have them chopped off. Gender reaffirming surgeries if any kind should be left for the small percentage who are actually trans and not those who view it as a trend and are confused.
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Have fun getting breast cancer underage then???? Whats your point???
As a trans person, I feel like you should go to gender therapy, and make sure that that’s completely what you want. It takes more than just a split second decision to decide. If you’re considering getting surgery, get gender therapy, and don’t rush into it. You need to decide whether or not that’s what you really want to do. Please don’t come in the comments saying what I’m doing is outright wrong. However, I am open to questions.
"As a Trans Person" *BOT*
@@zacktinayoutube lmao no 💀
@@zacktinayoutube Whar 💀
@@zacktinayoutube bot
Your reply was polite.. and i respect that immensely. However, no child.. Zero, zilch, nada should be allowed to do anything that will screw with their physical bodies or natural hormonal transition into adulthood.
When I was 4 to even after 10 years old I really wanted to be a boy and hated to be a girl, but it was all because of the inequality and injustice I faced and saw unchangeable. As a teenager I dreamed with hormonal treatment, but I couldn't afford it and my parents just wouldnt support it.... I'm 30 years old now, a mom of two, and I'm glad I didn't do it. Now I know it was never me wanting to be a man, but to be equally important and respected as them. I wonder how many trans stories actually started like mine. They need ALL the support they can get
This is something that a lot of trans people are cautioned against; I know I was encouraged to make sure I was thinking about who I actually was, rather than about a perceived social benefit of being seen as a man or woman.
This isxwhat happens when Satan gets in your head!! His goal is to destroy God's creation and you are one of his greatest, therefore a target of his anger and desire for ruin!!
@@gvgv3515 very true and sad
I wanted to be a man so bad for most of my life...... I identified as nonbinary..... I changed my name, my hair, my clothes, my personality. I didn't realize until this year that I am a woman..... I just hate that I am...... I hate myself for being born biologically female.... Because of how we are treated..... What society makes us believe to be true about ourselves from birth until death..... It's devastating...... I am a woman.... Not trans, not enby, not anything other than a woman..... I'm simply not proud of it.....
@@bizzarebear My friend identified as non-binary until recently. She realised she was just uncomfortable with feminine talks and she said she learned to deal with it and embrace being a woman despite the struggles.
She was 12 .It's not her fault. She was a child!!!!!
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for being brave and sharing your painful story, hopefully this may help someone.
This person did it to himself. He drank satan's potion and is now poisoned. "I'm so sorry you chopped your penis off." NOT
I’m not, we learn from being hardheaded, nobody’s fault but hers
@@victorious1929yeah, but it's still sad no one made her aware of consequences, everybody cheer this idea
@@nightshade3782 they know, my bestie was hit out the blue with her son wanting to be female. They know and cry after when it doesn’t work out like they want it. They should make a law, no surgeries for kids until 18, if cosmetic and unnecessary. Or they will blame you later...the fkin nerves lol makes me laugh
@@victorious1929 I agree that cosmetic surgery of that kind should be ban before 18, puberty blockers too. The child should be able to fully develop because there are serious consequences if the body isn’t able to finish growing. Take males who may want to transition to female, if they don’t let their body fully develop then they won’t have enough material to invert their penis into a vagina. As far as your response of not feeling sorry for this person Chloe, you may be project your experience of your bestie having an ungrateful trans kid who was willful. This persons therapist told the parents that she was suicidal when she wasn’t, which is the blackmail these therapists use saying “do you want a trans kid or a dead kid” the medical field has lost its fucking mind, and society with it. I have empathy for her because of my experience of being a tomboy and not wanting anything to do with being female. Not until I had a child did it all click for me. So yeah our response to her plight is different.
She was a child, all involved should be prosecuted for child abuse. Bless her for being brave enough to speak out.
Thankfully, her voice didn't change much..some sound like men when they detrans
We need more of them to speak out but they have been bullied into silence like she was.
Chloe, thanks for sharing this very personal and painful experience you went through. A lot of kids and parents and the medical professionals needs to hear this.
Sorry bout yer confused state, it isn't the taxpayers problem to figure out! We have ppl WITH CANCER yet we're wasting time n money. Tryin ta figure out year mental health issues
@Brad Grier are you being for real?? I can barely tell what you're saying😂
@@kiramiller7033 yep I'm bein for real, you must have a great command of the English language
@Brad Grier Yeah, I do. " Sorry about your confused state, but it isn't the taxpayers problem to figure it out! We have people dying of cancer, yet we are wasting our time and money trying to figure out your mental health issues." The user @Falcon Alley was saying we need to stop this pandemic of insanity by telling the parents and doctors the truth and what is happening to these people. Here in America at least, the taxpayers aren't paying anything to help these mentally ill people.
No I'm not thank you
I applaud your courage.
When she said “I will never be able to breast-feed my children”, it almost brought tears to my eyes.
Me too. 😔
it is very likely she might never have biological children let alone not be able to breast feed them due to the hormone therapy at such a young age.
Bro...nobody forced her
@kkrata8221 you've never been manipulated or lied to or coerced, got it.
@@kkrata8221YOUR IGNORANT!!! SHE WAS 12.A CHILD. ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!!??
Thank you Chloe for finding the strength to share your painful and vulnerable story.
yes her poor surgery she had the option to reject and knew the consequences yes poor her blame the doctors she paid and knew the cost of what she was losing 😂
Just a quick reminder to be careful before going through any life-changing surgery! This woman may have changed her mind, which is completely valid and I sympathize with her struggles, but that doesn’t mean all transgender surgery is bad. Just make sure to choose wisely!! ❤
I was born AFAB and felt male for the longest time, turns out I was nonbinary/genderfluid. When I was younger I wanted a flat chest and nearly got kicked out for wanting a chest binder. Now that I have one, and can wear it and take it off when I want (with safety in mind) I feel more confident and comfortable in my body. If I just had a supportive household I would have realized I was enby sooner.
The best solution is to love and accept yourself. No need to change anything because God makes no mistakes. Males were meant to be men and Females were meant to be women. If there is any confusion, it's from the enemy 🙏
@@Azaryahu I’d rather go to hell than have tits lmfao
@@Azaryahu quiet
@@Azaryahuplease tell everyone in the video you posted to stop wearing glasses, they're in violation of god, he created them to have flawed vision and they are defying him >:(
if god created everything perfectly, he gave them (trans folks) the desire to change, and they're perfectly fine to follow it with the tools that he also created and gave to them. let them be, their lives aren't worth sacrificing just to conform to whatever ideals they don't share with you. if you believe that means they're going to be damned, then why would you knowingly harass them, adding to the pain they'll suffer? it'd be better to support them through their struggling time rather than trying to convert them, because you should know you won't be able to change their minds. alleviate suffering rather than adding to it- that's what you need to do if you truly care, which... I think you do, you sound dedicated enough.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I know you hear people getting angry at you for speaking out. That proves how important it is to keep talking. This is a fight of good against evil.
Chloe, I am so sorry this happened to you and I am praying for you. I am also praying that you DO NOT give up telling everyone who will listen about your experience. Please. Continue to help those who do not know what they are getting into. Prayers for a swift resolution to the infections that you are fighting. Stay strong!
🙏❤🙏
Chloe, I am a stage 4 breast cancer survivor. I wear lymphadema gloves every day and have scars as well. The radiation makes my left shoulder stiff, but I am alive and moving. I am reaching out because I felt for you when you spoke about your scars. I am now 5 years out of my surgery and just finished my treatment. We went aggressive with treatment because I am so young. Words of wisdom... find beauty in yourself. It is hard, I understand believe me, but find what makes you happy, what makes you get out of bed everyday and makes you smile, and gives you enjoyment. Find happiness with the person you are. It takes time and soul searching. I wish you all of this and hope you some day find what I have for myself and my loved ones.
❤❤
But you have to remember you had to have the surgery to save your life. She made the conscious choice to have this done now she's wishing she didn't. That is why kids shouldn't be allowed to make them decisions. Trust that god made you perfect.
This is why people need to be in close communication with their doctors, and that doctors actually listen to and understand their patients, to make sure that altering the body is the right choice for them. Such a surgery has saved the lives of so many trans people, and most people who get it don't regret it, but it's a tragedy when it's approved for the wrong person.
Fr, it’s not an issue of “the trans agenda is ruining our kids!”, it’s the fact that the experience of being transgender is incredibly mysterious and unknown due to the discrimination that trans people faced for so long. If someone has experienced dysphoria their entire life and has always felt strongly that they wish they were viewed a different gender and were born a different sex, then I think it’s okay to have them get surgeries earlier than usual (16-18). However for someone like me who’s almost always been confused by their gender, I think it’s best to wait until you’re an adult and have given it lots of thought yourself until you make any big decisions, even with a doctor.
@@gozue869 I'm sorry, but I don't agree with that. Im alot older than you, and I'm not saying that like, I'm smarter than u..it's just that, I've lived more years, and have more experience than u. It just, is what it is.... and with age, there comes a different kind of wisdom. You really do think differently when u get older... you realize things u didn't before... u may feel differently about things...... it's just.. with age comes experience..... and as an older person- I absolutely do NOT feel it should be legal to do this until the age of 18- and even then I feel like thats pushing it. I think 21 is more appropriate, to be honest. Hell- u gotta be 21 just to drink legally!!!!!!! So. It's ludicrous to me, that ppl can do this, before the age of 18..... I'm sorry, but. I think it's just, irresponsible. These are people's LIVES we are talking about. Lives that can be irrevocably changed, for the worse.....
That's nothing to play with.
And that wisdom that comes with age that I'm talking about? .. that's exactly what's in this video...... she made a decision too young, and now she regrets it. We should stop other people from doing the same.
Doctors make money by butchering you or giving you med. I don’t even trust my own doctor who is a friend of the family
@@gozue869 Nonsense. 16-18? At that age hormones are still rampant, can't make a career choice, high school is at the fore, love may be in the air....and you think you know enough to have your genitals amputated or a mastectomy?? C'mon.....
@@gozue869+
Exactly. There so many cases where the person is nonbinary or genderfluid and think they need to transition to the other gender before coming to terms with who they actually are. I thought I was trans for awhile but after letting it sit and settle, I realized that I'm not trans and was just curious about the possibilities of being the opposite sex.
It's extremely important to let people explore their gender identity properly and not interfere. Showing support=/=interfering and more people need to realize this. (This also goes for sexual identity and lables. People should be allowed to explore themselves to truely understand and appreciate themselves to avoid suppression. Suppression of one's self can be extremely detrimental; often being the root cause of suicidal ideation/tendencies.)
Cosmetic/plastic surgery should be illegal for individuals under the age of 18. They can choose to proceed when they are adults.
I'm sad for Chloe. And I'm glad she's speaking out. I truly hope that people listen to her.
There are thousands of detransitioners but the get shunned and harassed by the “all inclusive community” or “alphabet mafia” as I like to call them. Even jazz that kid on tlc show. She is refusing to do the maintenance and is extremely depressed
It was her fault she's the one that decided on getting a surgery. Now she's playing victim?? Fuck that.
@@maryjane4432the abc mafia lacks any sympathy for the detransitioners they only care about themselves and exploiting themselves with their sexuality....
@@maryjane4432Jazz from tlc, his parents especially his mother, are insane. They only saw an opportunity to be famous and saw the money. There should be a law making any transgender who was transitioned as a child to be able to sue their parents and the doctos for the mental and physical trauma they caused them.
I’m sure she fought just as hard to have that surgery as she is fighting now to blame someone else for her disappointment 😔
This is why trans people are supposed to speak with professionals to make sure they're absolutely 110% sure they want surgery before they get it. Detransitioners are a very small percentage who didn't think before they acted. It's always best to socially transition before a medical transition or just don't medically transition at all if you aren't sure so it's fully reversible.
That’s exactly what they are doing. They are seeing professionals but those same “professionals” aren’t doing what they are supposed to do!
Hence, the video!? Especially when it comes to minors. They’re literally lying to parents and making children feel confused about who they are. Versus uplifting them.
Detransitioners absolutely thought before they acted, I have never heard of a detransitioner who impulsively rushed into a surgical transition, there is a process they have to go through to get approved for the surgery. Every detransitioner believed 110% that they were trans and that the surgery is what they wanted and had to talk to multiple professionals to get to that point. They all socially transitioned before medically transitioning.
The common theme with detransitioners is that they were all extremely uncomfortable with their bodies and as a result were diagnosed as dysphoric. What needs to happen is that more of the professionals who diagnose dysphoria and approve people for surgery need to be educated about other reasons why somebody might be uncomfortable with their body, like sensory processing disorders. What happens with these detransitioners is that they are so uncomfortable in their own bodies and they truly believe that it’s their gender that is making them uncomfortable, so if only they could change their gender, they would finally feel comfortable, but then once the surgery happens, they realize that they still feel that discomfort and it didn’t solve their problem. The medical community needs to make it more clear that being uncomfortable with your body is not necessarily the same thing as gender dysphoria.
Here’s my take: I developed very large breasts really suddenly as a 12-year-old girl and everybody in my community basically treated me like I was a slut, as if having big boobs suddenly made me slutty even tho I was a nerdy awkward middle schooler, I hated them, and I wanted to get rid of them because of the horrible way the adults and my peers at my school and church treated me, I begged my parents to let me get surgery to get rid of them, but they wouldn’t do it. If I had the choice to get that surgery to remove my boobs as an underage kid, I absolutely would’ve done it and I would’ve been 1000% sure. I began to wish I was a boy felt like if I lived as a boy I wouldn’t be constantly made to feel ashamed of an aspect of my body that I couldn’t control. It wasn’t until I became an adult and could see through the horrible behavior around me and realized that my body was never the problem, it was the adults around me who failed me as a child and made me feel that self-hatred. But if a therapist had spoken with me around that time, maybe they would have thought I was gender dysphoric, because I absolutely hated being a girl, and wanted to remove my boobs more than anything. I read the DSM criteria for gender dysphoria and I would definitely have fit at the time. I think it’s very telling that the vast majority of detransitioners are FTM who returned to being female, many of them may have been shamed for their bodies as young girls just like I was and then realized only too late that their bodies were never really the cause of the problem.
Of course, gender dysphoria is a real thing and the vast majority of trans people are happy with their transition. I’m not disputing or downplaying that, I just think that the professionals who talk to young women (because women are the vast majority of detransitioners) need to do a better job of zeroing in on the specific reasons why women and girls are made to feel ashamed of their bodies and see how that maybe influencing their desire to medically transition
But how was breastfeeding going to be possible if the organs weren't there? Confuse here, as we females have breast given by God, not doctors.
Detransitioners are actually becoming the majority amongst the trans population.
I feel like you can go to professionals and they still write it off as you being trans. They need to dig harder into girls and women because they're more likely to transition especially since they could be doing it as a response to trauma against them committed by men.
This gave me chills it made me want to cry. Praying she finds peace, love and even more purpose in her story. God’s not done with you yet Chloe 🤍
We must pray for our enemies and hope to see them saved
Lady you’re wrong God is absolutely done with her and all her kind. Read your Bible you fool
Yea your right he's likely to send her to hell for butchering the body God gave her
Shut the fuck up god made this person a man stay a fucking man.
@@whatevs4531 That’s not how God is at all, if you think that way you have never read the Bible. God is a Father of endless forgiveness and love. He is especially compassionate towards children. He loves her immensely.
I am so sorry you have suffered such things and I pray for your healing. You have done so much good bringing your story to a hurting world. Thank you for reaching out to others. You are a beautiful blessing to us all.
I am so so sorry this happened to you, and thank you so much for speaking out
This didn't happen to her. She willingly signed up for the surgery. She made the choices, and the doctors listened to her. I'm sorry that you made poor choices. I wish you the best of luck in life. I hope you find peace.
@Buddy Harderthanyou lol, you switched people that you were talking to mid sentence...
Your pity is need in other places.
She is not the only one. I work in behavioral health and believe me, there are others.
If you do then STOP this absolute madness! You have the power!!!
Yea and Amen. As an R.N. I know.
Iodine is great for healing the physical scars....
@@abbyynorman2874conversion therapy ur disgusting
I think this video makes it abundantly clear that we must be supportive of our minor children. Sometimes they need therapy not surgery.
Never surgery. Never.
@@MsChitterchat Unless it's something physical, like cancer.
When was it not clear? Abundance is after clarity thought.
@james-cn8uo it's the way I word things. I'm not trying to impress anyone by leaving a simple comment. Srry, you're not impressed.
Most definitely counseling
I’m so sorry this happened to you and no one was there to speak up for you. Idk what age you were, it was not old enough. You were the child. I hope you know that even if that community dropped you, you have a bigger community now who are here for you ❤ love and prayers 🙏
Learn to love what you have. Because when loose it, it ain't coming back. Fact 100%
True, so true .. For many, its ok to be a tom boy when your young.. it means nothin.
*lose. You're so right!
No , it’s not about what you have , it’s what are ! God made you perfect - learn to love who you are and know that God made you in his image . Why mess up a master piece ?
LOSE
@@elaineelliott3138 i thought the bible said no one is perfect lol
She may never nurse her own young- yet she is filled with mama bear energy, putting herself in danger to protect children. What a strong, brave young woman.
I'm confused. Was her breast removed because person was transitioning to male? But, now is identifying again as a female? I think person should speak to an attorney if the surgery was botched..
This was such a sweet comment and I 100% agree
Now she a mama bear now that she turned her self into a monster she looked for it its all on her
@@enrique12338 she was a child. Children can’t consent. End of story.
Agree! Chloe is helping so many see and understand
God bless you Chloe❤
All of these Dr.’s that performed sexual reassignment surgery on a minor, even with the parents consent, should be arrested for not calling CPS on them.
Amen to that it's sick that parents would even be okay with that I've told all 4 of my kids at 18 when your an adult you make your own choices you got to live with just make sure you have the heart to do so and I love my children and will support them but they have to know I won't support anything under the legal age this ain't a horror show
Nobody performs sexual reassignment surgery on children
The parents need arrested!
No doctors provided a service. I don’t like that they do this but people need to live with their choices and be accountable. There was consent.
@@john-qz3fu People and Kids are different John, you can't possibly suggest a little child under the age of 16 is mature enough to be held the same as an adult... both the doctor and the parents are at fault
I so agree. Finally people that will stop breast reduction surgery and circumcision on all people under 18. You're doing gods work, thank you.
Shes talking abt a mastectomy,not a breast reduction. Breast reductions are primarily done to maintain the integrety of the spine when ur titties are WAY too big,and is a medical necessity,including for minors and is still a voluntary procedure. Unlike american circumcisions,which i also disagree with.
I admire this girl so much for seeking healing and speaking out. I wish her all the best.
she was seeking to change her self not recover she's dumb and main a dumb choice
I'd seriously get checked immediately at the local a&e for Necrotising fasciitis, especially from the symptoms you have described and the fact its spreading, this needs to be looked at immediately.
That spreads within hours. She would be dead and not speaking at a conference, but it could be an infection which could become septic. I know as I had NF back in 2015. Gotta love America charging for medical fees, craziness.
Nah, those are scars. Nasty keloid scars.
Her doctor shouldve suggested silicone gel/patches
@@kristin1980uk i have died from end stage sepsis, now live with Post Sepsis Syndrome. it's horrible
She's lying, she's getting paid to spread anti trans messages and can afford to see a doctor, how would she have paid for all of her transition costs?
Edit for clarity: I'm not interested in discussing your insurance policies, I'm calling the girl a liar, and these talks aren't cheap.
@@ImMarkiee "anti trans" lmao okay.
This is spreading like wildfire. Too many doctors don't give a shit, people have to stand up for themselves like this brave young soul here
If the doctor DOES give a shit and tries to talk someone out of something, they run the risk of being called a bigot. Its not the doctors faults. Its these fuckin crazy people that refuse to get help from the correct kind of doctor.
I agree, but how can parents intervene to save their children?
they want money
Hey lots of ppl speak out, and we get called transphobic, racist, + the dems support this. WEF supports this. It should NEVER be allowed. Never should a person who isn't allowed to smoke or vote or drink, be allowed to make decisions to
" transition " I hope this young woman goes to schools, and talks to the kids who think this is cool.
It isn't the doctors fault, nobody is putting a pistol on their heads for this bs, they are doing it to themselves,it's called accountability
Ya Kaiser.
There’s your problem.
One time I was helping a client get to doctors appointment at Kaiser. She was 90 years old. I got off the bus and went inside to get her a wheel chair. All the wheel chairs were locked up with a cable and lock. When I asked for a wheelchair they refused to give me one. Things began to get a little heated and the woman at reception barked at me. She said she couldn’t give me a wheelchair because then if someone needed one she wouldn’t have one to give. I SWEAR TO YOU THATS WHAT SHE SAID! I explained I had someone who needed one! She screamed “You’re not hearing what I’m telling you sir!” So I shouted back then some doctor got involved and very loudly demanded I LEAVE NOW!
I yelled back at him and walked away without a chair. I had to scour the hospital for a little bit until I found a random chair. Finally was able to help sweet little Mable get to her appointment despite Kaisers efforts to make it as hard as possible.
And that’s just one instance out of MANY! But that one was particularly crazy!
Ya Kaiser SUCKS!!!!
She is so beautiful. I wish she would have realized that prior to surgery. Prayers for healing emotionally and physically 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Very beautiful.
All hospital staff that does trans gender surgery on any child under the age of 18. Need prison time why isn't our government tslking against this child abuse going on i schools
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This is what happens when we don't think things through. My condolences.
Condolances might be a bit rough, but for the rest I completely support this comment
She was probably lying under the age of reasoning. I bet her parents hold blame in this.
Everyone need counseling because there's a deeper underlying issue
@@sandral.mckinley5315 Amen!!! 💯 You can’t fix something on the outside (with surgery) that is happening on the inside.
@@sandral.mckinley5315 You cant get any gender affirming surgeries without a referral from a therapist of psychiatrist.
I'm so very sorry that this happened to you. May you heal both physically and spiritually.
She had good care. Got what she ask for. She didn't get good ADVICE.
And mentally😢
I am confused🤔 she wanted to change when it didn't work out she blamed others!! 😰
She can't heal, it's irreversible! Physically and mentally. She can only be brave and live her life as good as she can.
@@suzy5166 you are not confused, you have the correct view. She was not held down and butchered. She asked for her breasts to be removed. She knew the risks. She has buyers remorse on a transaction she cannot reverse. She spent 2 years on hrt before having surgery. She has only herself to blame for the regret. Most trans people are happy with their surgeries.
When I first saw this incident I was shocked that it happened, and even more shocked that it happened to a biological female who was 12 years old.
It's sad that she was mislead by all the nonsense out there. Transitioning is such a dangerous process and her story isn't the only one like this. These people need to be heard. All aspects of transitioning need to be heard so the full spectrum can be known for people who are looking into transitioning themselves
Thats why people need to have a mind of their own. NO ONE should be able to influence you to do something like that.
Exactly!
@@torresalxndr propaganda and indoctrination is one hell a way for others to make you think a certain way. prime example, 1930 germen populous. this woke pelage is tearing apart the basic fundamentals of America.
@@torresalxndr in Canada if a child tells a teacher or doctor they believe they are the opposite sex it is now LAW that the teachers or doctors must tell that child they are the opposite sex. Teachers and doctors have already been fired for even suggesting these kids get therapy first before pushing the idea.
But... Then how would the doctors afford bigger yachts?! Think of the poor unfortunate surgeons being mocked fot their little yachts.
Much respect to her for speaking out she’s an extremely brave woman
We’re they born a woman?
Surgery didn't change what he is so it's a he not a her. Surgery does not change dna. You are what you are born and no matter what you do that is what you will always be no matter what a disturbed confused mind thinks you are.
Man*
She is a biological woman
@@firstazrael1939 yes she’s tried to become a man with surgeries
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. No one deserves this. Please get well soon.
Wait! What! She chose to transition to a dude. Sounds like she changed her mind. Hopefully things will work out for her.
Amen. This is SO tragic!
The whole premise of that speech is that she will never get better. Things will never go back to how they were before, not even close. As sad as that is, it is the reality of the situation.
Im not, im sure that when she was transitioning, she was so sure she was born into the wrong body. Now you mad cuz you butchered yourself and can't breastfeed😅
Im not sorry! I like Jesus believe in mercy, love and forgiveness...but the wages of sin have consequences. She at one time believed science more than God. It seems now she understands her sins...hopefully!
This is the type of person we should be helping not blaming.
This is so horrible and sad! I am so blessed to be able to breastfeed my 4 month old son, and my two older kids when they were younger! My heart goes out to her! God bless and protect her!!!❤🕆🇺🇸📿
Every trans person needs to hear this
Do you actually think it would deter them?
@@leevy6753 Some.
There's always someone on the fence that just needs that last fact from someone who did it, whatever IT is regarding whatever they're unsure about, to push them over onto one side or the other.
It's why debating is so important.
You're not trying to convince the other person, as that rarely works with extremists. It's the readers and listeners that you're trying to help. That sad, lonely, hurting person sitting way up front that's so desperate for an answer that they don't know if they want to stay or leave, but they're there for some semblance of hope to get through whatever it is they're dealing with.
Yeah be sure to get a good plastic surgeon lol and take responsibility for your own mistakes instead of blaming everyone else, typical childish behavior
@@leevy6753 it will never work on the 100% of the group/community. And am not only talking about the trans community but all the communities... But sharing this will deter the more sensible ones, and pretty sure the extremists won't listen at all
Bro the statistic is literally less than one of a percentile that ever regret getting transitional surgery, if a cure for cancer is found but kills every 1/500 people that use it, it will still be used, same situation
The medical community needs to be held accountable for this type of behavior.
The medical community did not make her choice to change the gender
Lol
It’s parents and society. We’re the ones normalising this .
@@ladan3208 medical professionals swear an oath. It’s on them too. Period.
The parents should be. The medical community gets attacked by both sides. They can't win.
Now Chloe is under attack for speaking her opinion.
Thank God she was given a platform. Detransitioners deserve a voice. Parents need to know what they're pushing kids into. Kids need to know what they're agreeing to. If you can't buy cigarettes or drink alcohol in a bar legally, or CONSENT to sex with an adult, you cannot consent to permanently alter your body.
They actually can't have surgery until, they're adults. You're misinformed. Nobody is pushing their Children to transition. Some people are transgender. Recently, society has accepted social transition for minors... They might have done this before but, it was more private. Hormone blockers are the only medical treatment given to people under 18... It's reversible. The number of people who actually feel being trans/transitioning was a mistake is very low. These are normally private matters. It's actually very difficult to be approved for transgender surgeries: 1. You have to be completely sober. You can't even, smoke cigarettes or have a beer/ glass of wine, once in a while. 2. A therapist has to approve of your housing/ after care plan. 3. You're likely to be rejected if you have psychological problems. | I was rejected for smoking weed 🌲, drinking alcohol,risk of homeless (b/c I was late on my rent), mental health (PTSD), & legal problems. | The approval process is tough as an adult & that's why you have to be mature (18).|
Cosmetics surgery is only legal for someone underaged if the parents sign off on it, so look at the parents.
In most cases kids are pushing parents, not vice versa
This is truly heartbreaking. And her story is not the only such case, by any means. God bless Chloe for having the courage to speak up about this.
God ain't got nothin to do with this
They made a decision, and they learned that life sucks. Live with it. Why didn't they listen to a parent or a church leader?
The surgeon and hospital just see $ dollar signs with these easily influenced people. Typical exploitation but the crazy minority of unhinged people that we let run popular culture in America says that’s (insert anything)-phobic
she signed the medical document on doing the surgery, she willingly wamted her breasts Gone so that she can be transgender. it is her fault and nobody elses. the scar and pain, i dont care, because they only happened due to her own choice in going through with the surgery.
@@catholictp434 so you accept there is no god
As a trans person. You need to be sure before you get these surgeries. You need to be 100% sure. That’s why we encourage you to wait so long.
She was a child.
God was 100% sure when he made you
This is a lie, nobody waits for shit. You start telling them this bullshit when they're fuckin eight years old. It's okay, be who you are, changes are okay. Then, you fuck up a totally normal kids life permanently because you like to spread your own agenda on what you see as acceptable.
@@LaurenKozurwhich is why it is encouraged to wait longer.
Btw, these surgeries are nothing more than cash grabs, no one in that institution gives a single fuck about the trans delusion, but they do care about that precious $$$$ that you're willing to spend to mutilate yourselves. The side effects of this is solely on you. Should work through your problems instead of taking to hormones and surgeries to be something you can never be.
I had full transition surgeries when I was 42 years old. It was the absolute best thing I ever did in my life. I have absolutely zero regrets. I feel so sorry for anyone who regrets their transition and feels that they didn’t have the right mindset, attitude, or guidance.
You’re also an adult. The point is, this shouldn’t be an option for anyone under 18. Hell, I think it should be outlawed all together.
@@EDCPrideoutlawed all together? Sounds like you really have no idea what you’re talking about. Good thing no one cares about your opinion.
@@savannahjackson8513 A lot of people care AND share the same opinion. But since you’re a mental patient that’s allowed to run wild, instead of being institutionalized and treated, you think your delusional perspective on life is validated. It’s not.
I think transitioning can be terrible for some and amazing for others. I think the age for it should be 18 so it doesn’t ruin lives, but should still be available to save the lives of those who need it (like the og commenter)
But you were 42...and totally convinced that this step was right for you. She was a child. There is a huge difference in maturity, for starters. The adults in her life failed her and made the wrong decision. I think that if you are 21 and older and convinced you are transgender, then it is your choice to make. But under 21, it's a totally different situation. No surgery should be performed before 21.
This is why I fully believe that no gender changing surgery should be done before you're old enough to drink. A full psychiatric evaluation should be required before all gender changing surgery. Too many young people are being pushed into these life-changing scenarios and regretting it later. And the fact that our government not only allows this but encourages this is damaging our youth. A full psychiatric evaluation would help in a lot of cases to ensure that nobody is making a decision that they could potentially regret.
psychological evaluations are pretty much required in all parts of the world, but you also have to take into consideration that a big portion of trans people know even before puberty that they are trans. lets say someone knows at 10 that theyre trans, then they have 5 entire years before they can reach the medical age of consent in parts of the united states. theres a lot of consideration going on in peoples heads, trust me, thats why the regret rates are so low :)
And by a professional that isn't gonna sit there and push transgernderism on them too. Unfortunately, some psychiatrists nowadays are also pushing it on people, including children. There are some that are in this crap movement helping the surgeons make more money.
The regret rates of detransitioning may only be in the 3% percentile, but the rate of suicide is 40% and that of transitioning youth who have had suicidal thoughts it’s 85%. There has to be more we can do to lend support.
Actress encourage and support this too they are bad too. They have to be accountable for e courage and supports the public.
I agree wholeheartedly with you Erica. I don’t care how young you are when you realize you are not the sex you we’re born with but another, that does not give you or your parents the right to visit a doctor that may or may not wish to do this kind of surgery on a child. There has to be an age set that this type of surgery is prohibited from be done before……if not these are the things that will happen. The numbers may be low right now but the way this world is going, that can increase in a flash.
Chloe Cole is a treasure. I’m sorry they did that to her, but her bravery in speaking out WILL save future children. I hope she finds peace and happiness on this journey.
She wanted it, she did it to herself
@@harry4454 yes, but sometimes a child doesnt know whats best.. thats why there are consent laws.
@@colbythom223 but a child that can sign medical document for surgery in order to go through with it, it is not a child but a stupid choice.
i know what you mean, but she has to live with the hard reality that she basically did it to herself alone.
@@AngelosRitter yea but to let a minor sign any forms mutilating their body is a failure of the system, and the LGBT community grooms these kids and tells them it’s the only way to be happy. She was confused, and medical system preyed on that for profit. If it was only her I’d say she made a bad decision on her own, but it’s lots of people this has happened to.
@@colbythom223 of course the system uses that to their benefit to make ez money, but thats how this Nasty world works in the first place. Naivity takes you nowhere but drags you down.
Yes, it happened to many and she is one of those that willingly went through it, But it doesnt change the fact that she probably didnt even listen to the warnings of doing such thing in the first place.
Im not sorry for what happened to her and i dont think i will care more than that; she cries now that its Beyond recoverable, but she was happy when it was already starting.
Im simply stating that all she says in the video might Sound sad, but it was her Choice that started her own misery.
Also there is more than breastfeeding to raise your baby.
Now lets drop this, i know yoi know this goes nowhere and we might have better things to do. Have a goodnight sir.
It's quite sad how surgeries can go so horribly wrong. I hope they're ok and get the treatment necessary.
She*
@@charlotte8299 Actually "they" is correct, since it's plural. There's nothing to correct here.
@@leopartanen8752chloe is not plural. She is one person
Dear girl, I'm so sorry they put you through so much. I'm so sorry. Bless you. You are lovely. You are perfect. The mutilation needs to stop. Any parent who puts their child through this should face criminal charges. You didn't deserve this...😔
Her parents failed her. Poor little girl just needed to be raised with love is heartbreaking man
Instead of recommending more cognitive therapy and counselling, the physicians at the clinic told her parents that they could have a live son or a dead daughter even though she had no suicidal ideations.
Her parents allowed strangers into the home, bedroom, bathroom, etc., to raise her. (Internet, cell phones, mTV). Yes, they failed her......like most likely most on here are allowing strangers to raise their kids too. Yuri Bezmenov warned us.
You don't know that though.. putting blame on the parents for their GROWN kid decisions is just equally disgusting .. for all we know her parents probably were against it but since she's grown and can make her own decisions she decide to trust all these mental asylum lunatic patient instead.
@@RexarGamingYT she wasn’t grown….
@@RexarGamingYT anything that happens to a child is the parents fault. Good or bad
people don’t understand how many times they literally sit you down and talk to you about transitioning like this, they have full blown conversations
Do you mind if I ask, do you know the typical length of time it takes from first seeing a medical facility to get diagnosed with gender dysphoria to getting top surgery done?
@@vvonderweiss I don’t know the average time but for my sibling who got top surgery because of gender dysphoria, it took 2 years from the first consultation to actually get the surgery.
@@vvonderweiss You need to experience dysphoria for 6 months at least to get a diagnosis and then several more months of documented gender dysphoria to get top surgery. So from beginning to end it could be up to a year or more of identifying as trans til you get the surgery. The duration period probably depends where you are.
The alphabet cult and it's followers don't understand that minors should not be consenting to having body parts removed. You can't even get a tatoo at 15 but you can get your breasts slices off? What is wrong with you?
@@vvonderweiss As someone who has been trying for 4 years to get top surgery. I had to get diagnosed by a therapist for at least 6 months to get the diagnosis of dysphoria. I have had this diagnosis for 4 years and my doctor still tells me need to talk to a doctor while I am crying because my chest will never look the way I want. my therapist also recently got top surgery and it took her 10 years so for everybpersonnit varies
Me being a transitioning teen, i think major surgeries like these really need to be done after theyre in their right state of mind and as an adult, this is why many places still dont give hormones to underage children who want to transition but give rhem puberty blockers to give them time to decide and think if what they want is right for them or not. I think it should be made clear that children cannot decide for themselves until much later in their teej years.
This is my issue on being silent, they tell us to live and let live. But we all share in the responsibility of what is happening to these kids. Our silence is the same as preforming the operation ourselves. We need to speak up and protect these kids.
You are right,
Well said. I totally agree 🙏👏
The Parents responsibility first and foremost ..
We cannot go back we can only move forward. You will heal in time and we will be here to listen. God's speed in your recovery.
So, so sad. She was lied to by those she thought she could trust.
What a brave young woman to be speaking out and warning others.
When a person of authority tells you to take some action, realize that they will not bear the consequences if something goes wrong.
Everything you do has a consequence. Bad or good. I was always told this.
@@Claudiiasart 12 is the age of accountability.
@@Claudiiasart be real
@@MeagainIA2011I believe it’s 16.
@@MeagainIA2011 your stupid if think that. They know about harming others but not about anything medical related. This why they called MINORS. There even studies that unless 25 their brains still developing
This why parents have sign for everything.
I love & need your comment for my grandchildren I'm caring for, it's perfect ❤
Let's make a law that says people can't do anything like this until they're an adult.
Age of.30 too
That they’re not minors is all a lot of “phobic” people ask for. 18 and developed? Live your chosen lifestyle
@@TransKidsMafia yeah because 18year olds make good choices especially the life altering kind. Mix that natural stupidity with some grooming like chloe here and you got a mentally fucked individual.
Never... human is not a god... he does not create ....
@@quirkoffate4090 God gave humans the ability to do things. It's up to you if you want to make things worse or better. Heaven and Hell exist for a reason.
My heart breaks for this woman. Breastfeeding is such an incredible bonding tool for mothers. Sweet girl, I am so sorry they failed you. ❤
She'll survive. Let's hope she can even have a child..
SHE did it...
Her parents failed her too. By not allowing her to grow up enough before asking this decision. I saw an earlier vid and she was a minor when this happened.
That's a guy so
@@jpb1231000 SHE was a MINOR
Where are her parents? Are they being held accountable any? This is sad and this is also why we need to keep the young innocent!
She is so brave for speaking out and telling her story.
For once, I actually _see_ the stunning and brave....going in the opposite direction though!
Unfortunately this is the fairy tale ending they will all eventually experience horrible ending to a sickness that could have been avoided seek God
Hahahaha...He f00led everyone who are against trans female athlete joining women's sports and f00led everyone who are against Trans female in women's bathroom by going public claiming he has detransitioned from transmale. He actually is a biological male now dressed as a Detransitioned female.
@SilverGram -The people speaking out against this and getting violently assaulted BY the Trans people pushing this agenda are ALSO 'VERY BRAVE'... they could have been killed. - See Posie Parker and Women rights campaign recently in New Zealand more to my point.
Speaking out against this 'incites violence' in Trans people. If this is such a great thing ... why the violence to the push back?
You mean he
That’s sad but it’s just crazy how some people don’t know the full extent of these procedures when initially following through with it. That’s why it’s important to get a doctor that will constantly warn you of the risks that may be associated with said procedure. I hope she gets better treatment soon.
Some people? Most people don’t know and the ones who do are the ones who are pushing this agenda
Did anyone read the insert for.the covid vaccine before they got it? No because the insert was blank, point they don't want you to know the risks.
The process to get any sex altering procedure done averages about 5 years. You have to be evaluated by a psychologist, go into therapy, consult multiple specialists and complete mandatory education before they will even consider referring you to someone who might perform a procedure. You have to fight hard to get these approved being asked at ever step of the way if this is really what you want. Have you ever heard of an insurance company handy out expensive surgeries willy nilly?
@@cuddlemonster468sadly, and even after ALL of the therapy sessions,being asked constantly-and all that time “transitioning” emotionally, physically..etc.
You can still be wrong. These young people don’t understand doctors and insurance companies are just using them as Guinea pigs in so many ways, when it comes to transition surgery. My heart goes out to this girl!!
You’re perfect just the way you are!!!! ( yea you, I’m talking to you!🫵🏻🫵🏻😂)
As a trans person, I agree you should at least be an adult before transitioning
Chloe, thank you for your bravery. I'm praying for you. Because of you, so many others will be saved.
She needs to reach out to the Breast Cancer community. We will help her, listen to her and advise her. We will not judge.
Um, did she have breast cancer, or did she have her breasts removed because she didn't want them?
Don't blame the Dr.s or institutions...it's the result of changing something God gave you! Don't test God!!!
She didn’t have cancer
@@LuckyMommy0710their talking about reconstruction which the community does
Why would you feel the need to mention you won't judge?
That should be a given...
Very odd
What a horrifying thing to experience. I couldn’t fathom adults letting me make this decision as a child, and I could imagine the hate and anger I’d feel at them for letting my childish whims dictate such an impactful decision. Disgusting.
I was put on benzos age 9 by Kaiser ruined my life
The truth that most pro-affirming people and organizations chose not to acknowledge.
No person under the age of 18 should even be permitted to visit a Dr that does this. This is criminal. It's just insanity,removing the sex organs of minors based on the minors word as they're going through puberty or prepubescent. Teenage angst has existed since humans have existed and offering up a change of gender to the kids going through these completely normal confusing times is criminal. Removing the sex organs of a person any person is crazy but doing so to A MINOR is criminal as far as I'm concerned
new idaho law, now protecting children from perverts and groomers like her doctor, and many other transitioners' doctors.
Oh gosh, that’s heartbreaking 💔 I definitely was teary after listening to this.
Virtue Signaling
It's so hypocritical that we were crying out about the mutilated women in the East a few years back. Is this not worse? 😢 I hope her voice reaches as far as it needs to and she has the strength to keep going.
@@moparjay143 how is this virtue signaling? Thats what the radical leftist lunatics do. Because she can relate to this girl and see that the people around her have failed her? She is virtue signaling?
here’s a piece of valid advice for everyone: don’t cut off healthy pieces of yourself ❤
Well Jesus (not your gardener the bible zombie guy) said something like: and if your hand tempts you CUT IT OFF; if your eyes tempt you TEAR IT OUT. As far as I can see, cutting of something of yourself seems to be very christian to me. Just kidding...
You would think that is common sense but no!
@@ifeifesi it’s actually irritating. Insurance doesn’t want to pay for this crap. This individual demanded money for the procedure. They threatened to unalive themselves.
Everyone else is happy with their transition. People need to practice responsibility. What you do to “others” you have to pay for. What you do to “yourself” you have to live with.
We can’t keep creating laws for everyone small occurrences, because one person has a regret. The information is out there. Warnings were in full view.
Foreskins of your infant children.
@@cyberzenASMR It’s not one person. Many people are regretting this because they’re being sucked into a fad! The number of “detransitioners” (and lawsuits) are growing daily! It’s become a trend now 🤦🏽♂️
NEVER allow someone to legally alter your body permanently. You never know what you'll want to do in the future.
Quick Question; What is your opinion on those who took the "vacation" shot?
@Black Magic sorry, what is the "vacation shot"?
So, no organ transplants?
@Lil Boozi Bert correct, no organ transplants 🚫🤣🤣🙄 nah, I think in that case I would make an exception, especially if one's life depends on it. I'm speaking more in terms of cosmetic procedures, surgeries that your life does not explicitly depend on.
@Black Magic still curious as to what you meant by your question. Are you referring to the Covid shot? If so, I never got it. Not enough testing done prior to its release for me to be comfortable having its contents injected into my body, as well as lack of knowledge of its known side-effects. Just not something I was willing to risk, and luckily I didn't have to get it in order to secure a job or fly anywhere in/out of the country. Very grateful for that.
Anyone who has ANYTHING but empathy for her is an absolute MONSTER!!!
This literally made me sick to my stomach and my body hurt. I was grabbing my chest on pain. I just feel so bad for her. This is just me listening to it I can’t imagine the pain she is in. So much love and compassion and healing to you I’m just so sorry this happened to you.
Meanwhile, we get H. Page conversion poster showcased around.
@Andy Gadd where’s your companion man? Why so cold and irreverent? She made a mistake and admits it. Now she has been abandoned by the advocates that manipulated her, leaving her in this hell, alone in despair. How does that end for her if everyone turns their back?
@@andygadd793Andy - Again, she was a confused CHILD, she was manipulated, and taken advantage of.
This current gender ideology is pure poison.
@Andy Gadd I’m not putting anything on you but simple human decency and understanding. She didn’t put the knife to her flesh. She didn’t act alone in this. This needs to be rectified and professionals held accountable. She needs to be made whole by the people who sold her this bogus bill of goods. She deserves corrective surgery. She deserves SUPPORT to encourage her bravery. It doesn’t have to come from you, but why pile on bro?
We live in a world that tells us, we can be anything we want to be. The truth is, we can try to be anything we want to be but sometimes the consequences of those goals are beyond our imaginations.
The question you need to ask isn't, "can I?" But, "Should I".
Yeah...the world saying that wasn't talking about being whatever we want to be _biologically_
When they told you you could be anything you wanted to be they Mint within the realm of reality And maybe a lesson on irony would have been good . Claiming to be the opposite of which we actually are to some people It's kind of funny And it's like some of you can't see it at all Which makes me think some of you are not wise To learn this very important part of life which is. If you're self worth and Happiness is going to depend upon what a bunch of strangers think You will never be happy . Maybe this will help you hearing it from me The random person online . My opinion should not matter to you at all .
We've been so focused on trying to be anything we wanted to be, we only thought if we could, not if we should
@@DTreatz Being trans isn't biological. Wanting to look "more like a woman" means wanting to look like a cis woman, for example. The idea that trans people always envy the sex they weren't born as is wrong. There are a lot of trans people who are perfectly happy with their genitals. This is something people confuse so often with trans people, the surgery isn't a consequence of wanting to be something you're not, it's a consequence of wanting to look more like who you are on the inside. And kids don't know who they are but that doesn't mean that their feelings aren't real in the moment. Personally, kids should have access to gender affirmation. That doesn't mean operations, and to an extent it doesn't mean HRT. There are puberty blockers, that current data from researchers and universities suggests leaves no permanent side-effects, which can stop teens' bodies from changing. I think that's fair enough, it gives them a much easier way to transition when they decide to as adults, without impeding their progress. And hey, if they choose not to transition, it's all fine, no permanent effects.
Chloe is brave and her voice must be heard and shared. Adults should have protected her and given her counselling when she was confused, not given her irreversible surgery.
The sad thing is that she WAS given counseling and the counselor and doctors told her and her parents this was the only way to prevent suicide. Hence why she no longer has trust.
I can't believe PARENTS FALL FOR THIS CRAP❗
@stardustgirl being told by experts it will save your kids life is pretty compelling. This isn't some whack job blue haired teachers. This is doctors with PhD saying it.
I feel like, at this point, we normal-haired teachers with Psych degrees, the blue-haired teachers, the Phd's...everyone...are so confused and too scared to even say that the child might be confused...
Parents should be first in line with abuse charges
Men crying like babies and trying to gaslight women and silence their voices. Nothing new under the sun. It comes in all shapes and forms. I'm proud of her for speaking up 🩷♀️
i like how shes saying "dont rush into it" instead of "dont transition"
Is that what she’s saying? You know this is gonna be taken out of context 😔
Why do you want to transition in the first place? Gender disorder can be handled by a therapist, but of course money, lies and trends have got a generation of young people confused and butchering themselves inhumanly.
It's evil what the institutions and advocates of these terrible ideology are doing to teens and children
I cannot tell if you mean this in the way I think you do but if so I agree
I'm so very sorry that you're going through this. You'll be in my prayers 💛
This is a confusing time. Some argue that their choices should be respected and their wishes should be fulfilled and that include Drs to assist them to it otherwise it is discrimination... Then, when things horribly go wrong, independent adults blame others for their poor choices.
right?
Yuppp
It’s about time someone is making sense in these comments. She uses the word “butchered.” As if this was something done to her rather than with her consent. It’s one way or the other, we let everyone have a choice or no one. If they regret their decision it is no different than plastic surgery or dentures. You chose an unnecessary medical procedure.
@ItsJustKittyGames She was a minor, though. And doctors basically manipulated her parents into agreeing to the surgery to "save her life."
Wondering .
Thank God Chloe you stopped in time before getting a hysterectomy. I hope your wounds heal, I hope your heart heals. You are doing an amazing job by speaking up about your experience. God bless you.
Bless this child. She needs to stand up tall and yell her story, to stop what has become an overwhelming fad in this country.
It IS a "fad" and its leaving a plethora of maimed, confused and mentally traumatized young people in its wake.
The tide will eventually turn again, but for so many including this poor girl, its turning comes too late.
Have you lost your mind? She did this to herself😢
@@ellenreyes7874 no she didn't. The lame ass people in her life that she thought she could trust and who she should have been able to trust did this to her.
@@ellenreyes7874 i know her story she was a teen. So no her parents are to blame. She was a kid
@@ellenreyes7874 she was a kid. It's her parents fault. Even then, if she did it herself as an adult and learned from it to try to teach others what could happen that's worthy of empathy
I love this. She is speaking out against transitioning. They usually try to hide it and show the happy people, however they can’t hide the amount of kids who killed themselves because they transitioned
People also try and hide when kids or adults kill themselves because they're no able to transition
have you seem the post-transition suicide rates? There's clearly some deep rooted issues there