Everyone who is able to come to their senses and seeks to "de-transition" back to their actual gender should be supported fully by each and every one of us.
@@blueprince2330 What is normal? Isn't normal for one person different for another? I wholeheartedly agree that transitioning as a minor is dangerous and I don't know how anyone at such a young age is deemed able to make such a life changing decision. That doesn't negate the fact that grown adults feel the need to transition though and once someone is old enough to understand the ramifications of their decision, it should be up to them.
I'm a detransitioned woman myself. I find that every story I hear about other women in my situation, is like a broken record playing my life story over and over. I'm so glad that mental healthcare professionals are seeing this pattern and shedding real, objective light on it. I developed gender/body dysphoria in early puberty, and the psychological distress would increase parallell to my body development as puberty progressed. At the age of 12/13 I concluded that I was trans and wanted to be a boy, and at 18 I changed my name and got on testosterone for three years, during this time I also had a double mastectomy. In 2020, after 3 years of body-altering hormones and 1 year post-breast removal, it finally dawned on me that this was not what I wanted or needed in life and I began to detransition. Having to announce this to everyone in my life was stressful, I couldn't help but feel a bit ashamed of myself- the idiot who had loudly proclaimed for several years that "I am a trans man, this is my truth". So there I was, at the end of my transition, masculinized and flat chested. My voice was undeniably male, facial hair, body hair, masculine distribution of fat and muscle from top to toe. For two whole years after I got off hormones, I was too physcially masculine to pass as a woman and everyone perceived me as a boy in a dress. It was shameful, frightening and disheartening not being able to blend in with my own sex. I felt like the testosterone had done far too much damage, I thought there was no coming back from this terrible mistake. I didn't want to be seen or heard, I wanted to disappear in my regret and despair. Only in the last year and a half am I finally being read as a woman again by strangers, I think my body just needed time to readjust. . Surprisingly, I never received backlash for undoing my transition. I think my family was quite relieved to have me back to my normal self. Despite coming from a non-religious background; I found peace and hope in the christian faith during the worst days of my detransition. I was unable to forgive myself, or love myself, for what I'd done to my body and for the stress I had put my loved ones through when I transitioned. But if God can forgive me and love me regardless, then I can consider my suffering atonement enough, I forgive myself finally and move on. Estrogen, time and patience helped me reclaim my femininity. I've done some voice training to help me sound less masculine. I'm still undergoing painful hair removal laser therapy but I think I'll be finished by the end of this year. I feel young and sweet and radiant again. I'm happily engaged to a wonderful man, and I've found ways to reconcile with my past choices. I know I am very lucky to have come out the other side of this as a happier, stronger person - I know several people in the detrans community who still anguish over their situation many many years after detransitioning. We have to speak up about this growing epidemic, and learn how to deal with gender dysphoria properly. I wouldn't wish this journey on anyone.
Yes. In my opinion all sane people must speak up. Especially those like yourself who have gone down this path. Perhaps this sounds stupid but even starting a petition, or petitions in support of Dr Peterson and against Canadian authority who wants to take his license or "re-educate" him would be a good place to start. If such a thing "went viral" it could turn the tide. PS. My father was an engineer and Mom a Jehovah's witness (want to be architect who chose being a wife and mother instead). I am neither but have great love for both (deceased) I was a tomboy but no one worried about that. Simpler times ? I was a teenager in the 1970's . Being a feminist in those days meant burning your bra and being angry at men.. Why would I want to do that? All the "men" in my life (father and bro) were wonderfully considerate and protective. And I needed that bra to stuff cotton balls in...🤣🤮
Amazing story. I would say that society in general is not responsible for what you got through, society is simply ignorant, they have no idea what these “transitions” actually do to your body and brain, but politicians and elites who promote this horror deserve something I cant say in youtube. Sadly, and being crude, to these people your issue is nothing but an opportunity to make profits and gain power, cause it does not only feed a monstrous medical industry, but also helps to play the political game of getting one part of the society to fight with the other, which gives then power. Its the golden egg chicken, just at the cost of people like you and society in general. Again, big congrats for having been brave enough to come back to the real you without comiting suic**e in the process, cause the amount of stress, sadness, lonelyness and frustation that go along with it can be overwhelming.
Seeing her tear up and ask, "How was I supposed to know?" Absolutely crushed me. She was taken advantage of corrupt doctors who put dollar signs before a girl's mental health. It makes my heart sink that this is being done to more young children.
You're so right. It's a scam. It's all about performing unnecessary procedures in order to Make Money. Our lawmakers should step in to protect our very young and vulnerable from this sort of things.
Yeah this is absolutely horrible. In the future people will think "what in the world people were doing to each other in the name of this sick ideology"
Absolutely. He's explaining and assuring her that what happened to her was not her fault and that what has been done to her is horrific and cruel but is actively being fought against. Poor girl. Wish I could hug her and let her know there are so many of us that acknowledge her pain and support her in this necessary fight.
Chloe shows a healthy respect for herself by suing the "professionals" who mutilated her at 15 years old. And her action may save many others from this horror that no child should go through.
Chloe, you are an engaging, courageous and an attractive young Woman. Stay strong, your life is just beginning. Get the help you need and know we are with you.
So that same child has no accountability... how many people was in her life telling her/ him, no that's not right, you're not old enough to make these decisions, I bet she/ he thought they knew everything, that's the consequences that everybody is subject to...
@@zorroshadowblade3502 That’s why minors can’t have “informed consent”. Especially now where the young are finding their role models on TikTok and other social media. Chloe is just the tip of the iceberg. Right now drug companies and surgeons are getting rich on the gender disphoric. The tide will shift and they’ll get rich on de-transitioners. Hopefully Chloe and others suing those responsible for sterilizing and butchering the confused and disphoric will be successful and the profit motive will dry up for those monsters.
I'm only 30 minutes in this interview and I can't stop thinking about lunatics trying to take away Jordan Peterson's clinical licence. This man is whole world's treasure, so caring and focused on the person he's talking to. Such a noble man! Thank you, Mr. Peterson!
Hard to believe the collage of psychologist are trying to take his license. While letting the doctors do what they did to this child. What a brave girl. Breaks my heart.
I think his brilliance and compassion is the main reason they want to take it. Because I cannot believe the things I heard here. If they insist they are opposite of what they physically are, the doctor has to agree?? And then they give these wild untrue "facts" about suicide if they don't proceed with transitioning?? Rather than trying to help them understand themselves and the effects of transition, they choose something that shouldn't even be an option for a child .. I can't even believe this shit is legal can you imagine how many children like her have been victim to this I can't even find the correct words right now to make sense here it's difficult to wrap my mind around this. I just wonder who decided all of this was okay and the kind of people that actually agree with it Jeez.
@@sallymote-yaffe6185 The goal behind pushing trans surgery & new sexual alternatives such as fluidity, pan-sexual, et al- is population control- a globalist priority. Tweens are an easy target. Dr. Josef Mengele is laughing from Hell.
My 15 year old daughter has just sat and watched this with me. She just said all young girls should see this to help them understand how they feel when they're young.
Your daughter sounds more mature than most teenagers at that age. Good job momma. And I agree wholeheartedly, we need to educate more kids, not just girls, but also teenage boys so they won't get taken advantage by these perverted agendas.
@@Langley_Ackerman19 She's a fantastic young woman 🙂 Her mom left 11 years ago thou...her and her brother were raised by me 😁 And a very proud dad I am. Yes education of the the youth is critical.
Yes, and if any of this had been around in the 60,s i would, mistakenly, have thought i should have been made into a male. As it turned out, after much heart ache and 2 children, i was just this sort of woman. Sterotypes for females in earlier decades were stultifying. I believe that witnessing abuse can also be an issue for young girls.l would like to commend this womans honesty, thankyou.
Well done Dad. Children are smart, if you show them truth they will see it. In my case, as a divorced Dad it was all happening under my nose for years. It wasn't until the day before leaving for college that she dropped the bomb on me. It devastated me. Not because of the choice but because a I realized my own daughter had made me a stranger. It wasn't long before I became the enemy. I haven't seen her in a year and a half.....
@@chrislyman6946 I'm sorry to hear that mate. I can't even imagine how I would feel. Keep the lines open to her if you can. Communicate if you can also....never give up.
Imagine having gone through all of this, then getting a 2-hour interview. You remain emotionally stable while reminiscing EVERYTHING and then hearing what should have been done instead. You remain articulate in a way that is impressive for an 18yo anyhow. You say you are hopeful for the future. AND you somehow find the energy to change society by suing those who wronged you. Strongest, most resilient kid ever. Awe-inspiring to me, personally. Edit: It´s heart-warming to see a supportive and respectable comment section developing! Keep it up.
I agree with most everything you said but I don't think mr. Peterson said anything to Chloe about what she should have done. He's clearly saying that she was failed by every adult especially and sadly the medical community who has enough education and understanding of The Human Condition to make all of this borderline Criminal. The tragedy in all of this according to what he thinks should have been avoided at many different times and she stresses that by pointing out what they should have done in most instances and it's what they been trained to do. He is quite a credible Authority on all of this because he has the same education, and probably more, as these professionals should have and I think that he points out quite often that they know there's something fundamentally wrong with what is happening but are too afraid to do what's right because of the system they are in.
@@jilltooma6895 just to clarify i think he meant that what should have been done is the part that the "professionals" failed, nothing to do with what she did. I think we all realice she was a victim of the politics and current agenda on gender
The woman is like God, the life giver WOW! The woman, the counterpart of man, is named Eve, because she is the life-giver. Are you as astonished as I am at this? Who is the first Giver of life? Jehovah God! He envisioned the universe, a universe that would not be empty: it would have life. So God gave life to plants, and a higher form of life, the breath of life, to animals. And finally he created the human, the reflection of His image. WOW! Amazing! Wonderful! But then what did he do? He envisioned and created the woman to replicate what He had done. She was conceived, designed and purposed to be a LIFE-GIVER! Oh, my dear sisters in both Eve and in Christ, do you stand in wonder over who you are? Do you understand that you are the mother of all living? Do you understand that life would cease without you? Do you realize that your call is not only to conceive life, but, as Lydia Sigourney reminds us, to light the lamp of the eternal soul? To my dear brothers in Adam and in Christ, do you not realize that you would not be alive without the life-giver? Do you honor and respect women as your coheirs and coequals? Or do you see yourself as superior to women? If so, stop right now and thank God for giving you life through the life-giver. Thank God that He has provided the “crescendo of creation” to share your life. Be the husband God intended, one who honors the bride He gave you.
I watched this through my therapist lens and I've determined: he's incredibly tender, patient, and empathic with his clients. He carefully listens to her tone changing during traumatic recalling and he doesn't miss a note. I know he has become many things, but he's a clinical psychologist at his core.
I can see Therapy at a psychological level but seeing this philosophical, it shows that people struggle with morality and pressured by the culture based on their ideology. It is truly saddening.
Let’s all give this girl credit for sharing her story and struggles. These topics are personal and intimate but she chose to share her experience to help others and I think she’s amazing and extremely brave.
Please use his real pronouns People who are and have been pushing his fantasy on thinking that he could become a woman are the problem quite frankly evil
I'm 28 and female, I have a toddler at home and I'm currently pregnant. I started this video expecting my hormonal self to cry at some point. I didn't think it would happen in the first min... 😭 This sweet, beautiful young woman deserved so much better than this... I can't stop weeping for her and other young girls and boys going through this. I had "gender dysphoria" and I was a tom boy with mostly male friends. I was lucky that I grew up right before all of this craziness 🥺 I'm so so sorry Chloe... You'll always be one of the girls.
i felt the same way in the first minute! 😭 ...my son is 10yo, i'm a 48yo mother... i was so moved by her retrospective that i was compelled to comment with my own experience, quite parallel to hers esp in body development. and same as you, i luckily grew up during a time not too far before this craziness. 1992 saw the birth of internet AND my HS graduation haha. yes. very lucky. and important to note, i think, how Dr Peterson responds to what she says. he qualifies it by telling her how her individual story fits into what is 'commonly' known about gender, puberty, and physiological development et al. no judgment AT ALL, no leading her to any conclusions. it must be a relief of sorts to hear that in response to her telling her story. what a confusing time made even more confusing by the confusion around gender etc and the confusion propogated by the maelstrom of expressed opinion in social media. i can't even imagine how solitary her experience has been! and never knowing how, for the most part, it was the same for most of her peers. social media really puts this 'third man' in the mix - the other personality/character created by the mix of the exchange between people...
Same.... This is absolutely gut wrenching and heartbreaking. I was also a tomboy. Wishing I was born a boy. Hating that my budding breasts showed. Being a hardcore gamer mostly hanging with boys. I would've been mutilated if I grew up today. I didn't want to be a girl. But when I got older, I wanted to be a woman. I've breastfed two children for two years each. It would've broken me to not be able to..
How she describes herself was me. I'm 40 now, was finally diagnosed both on the spectrum and ADHD, and struggled with all the same things growing up. Artistic, always been a tomboy, developed wonky, related more with boys, etc. Luckily I was left alone and allowed to figure things out on my own, and am now a happily married mom of 2. Had society been then what it is today, I could very easily have been deceived, as she was. My heart breaks for her and the youth of today.
in a way this is an area that she needs to explore/understand to help her find peacefulness. The element of resentment pushing her new direction could be a part of it..... (as well as grief/ self disappointment for past path etc.)...... but also she needs to being mindful to ensure this path taking is not similar to the last..... aka...... gravitating toward a path that is giving her temporary positive affirmations... instead of one that is giving her a more balanced long term peace in the soul. It is going to be a long road. She will overcome though.... in time.
@Louis Steven sounds like your daughter's issues that classify her in Autism Spectrum were environmental related. Glad that worked out for you. It does some. Your a good dad to have pursued that avenue. You don't know till you try.
As a breast cancer survivor and one who received a single mastectomy, I cannot even believe these type of procedures are allowed on kids. My god, I am floored and heartbroken. Do you know how much therapy I needed after losing one of my breasts? My god, I made a medically informed decision that I didn’t want to have to make, but one that ultimately more than likely saved my life. I am almost 4 years out and I still struggle, I am 53!!
Sorr to hear this kelley, i imagine that is a huge loss that has you grieving too, its abominable that such procedures are promoted on children these days, what has happened to our world. i hope you get some peace and healing each and everyday.
This makes me so concerned for young people today. As a biological woman, I can say without a doubt that I couldn’t have anticipated how much certain things would mean to me down the road from childhood and adolescence. I couldn’t have known how much I would want a child from my own womb and to have the chance to feed that child with my own breasts. Having lost a baby was devastating so I can’t even imagine what it would have been like to wake up one day and realize I gave up the ability to even try entirely. And not being able to breastfeed my rainbow baby that we were blessed with after the loss was another horrible experience even though I am fully abled and breastfed my babies prior to that. It breaks my heart to hear that people are giving this choice to kids when they have no idea what they are accepting to put themselves through.
I'm in a similar position to you and I was thinking how much physical pain I Still experience from my mastectomy 6 years on let alone the upset emotionally... and just feel so much sadness for this young lady......
My mom survived stage 4 breast cancer she had to have an breast removed she's doing OK now, I lost an child hood cousin two months ago from breast cancer and an aunt it's bad in my family.
The “how was I supposed to know”, that one sentence in this entire interview just wrings my heart. In a big hug, I want to tell her, “baby, you weren’t, the adults should have protected you and guided you to the right resources and provided you with all options before resorting to what you went through.
@@lisagow1482 the problem is we don't have the punishments anymore for what these people deserve. As far as I'm concerned (and I will never change my mind on this) if they participated in doing this shit to kids then their life is forfeit. They have fundamentally failed as a human being and have crossed a line that cannot be crossed.
This is so gut wrenching to watch, as a teen I was exactly like chloe, to the point of coming out to a couple of friends as trans, creating social media profiles where I presented as a boy, binding my chest, only ever cutting my hair short and so on. My only difference is I never came out to my parents as I knew they wouldn't support me, and therefore was never able to get medicated or even remotely close to having that surgery. But just like her, at around 16, I realized that that gender indentity was not for me and that I was indeed a woman, just more masculine then some, but had I had different parents, had I been affirmed by medical profesionals at that age, had I been socially incentivized to go through it, I 100% would've, and that is a scary thought, I was a confused and insecure teen, easily convinced by the internet and my peers, desperately seeking acceptance and some form of happiness with how I looked, I thought that being a man would "fix everything" I'd be more handsome as a man than I was pretty as a woman, I'd be stronger, more athletic, I'd be able to wear masculine clothes without judgement, get attention from the girls I was into at the time, not have to suffer through the "horrible reality of being a woman", this could've been me, and I'm so glad it didn't turn out like that.
Just imagine how common this story will be in 10yrs... the maturity and intellence she displays at such a young age, after having endured so much trauma is inspiring... best of luck to her.
you act as if being trans is new? There are plenty of examples of hundreds of years ago trans people existing. We'd know more if the college of sex wasnt destroyed by Christians in Germany during the dark ages. For every de-transition story there are hundreds of successes. We should all remember that trans people make up about 2% of our population, less of those people get surgery, and far less of those people de-transition. So, there seem to be a lot of Cis straight people watching very long documentaries about people they very well may never meet. but sure have a lot of ways they want to use the federal and state governments to remove their freedom.
Parents need to listen to Dr Peterson talking with this young woman and her traumatic experience to get some insight into normal development. Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens.
@@helenmacphee6594 There is no question thar "Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens." HOWEVER, just as importantly, parents really need to work to end the indoctrination, the grooming, of children by tv, by Big Tech, by schools, which is where the damage creating confusion in the children's minds starts! DAMMIT!
I used to hate my parents for not letting me "erase" my female parts. I hated looking and feeling like a girl as a teen, and I hated that I was so unattractive. I thought if i was just an "Ugly Person" it would be less hurtful than being an "Ugly Girl". I am so happy and thankful that my mom and dad, who were strong enough and so forward thinking that I would grow into my looks, that I'd hit a "glow up" after a few years. Now at 20, I feel like a beautiful woman, I love the stereotypical makeup and dress, that I would have hated as a kid. I feel more valuable now that I'm not in competition for approval from my peers. (Sorry if there were bad English grammer, still learning)
Absolutely agree. I was the girly girl but my young years say junior year into my college years is where I became pretty. I had naturally curly hair and I hated it. This was in the 80’s. It was just a lot of work and frizzy and rain just ruined my hair. Swimming, which I lived on a lake, was a nightmare for me. All the girls hair dried so nice and strange and I’m sitting there with a giant head of fuzz. I love it now. People compliment it all the time. My daughter has it and goes through the same things I did but she has me and way better products. Her hair drys In beautiful spirals so I think she’s nuts for hating it. Lol
@@SanctifiedLadyinsane? I wouldn't call them that. They just trusted what medical professionals told them. It's either this or a dead child. Like mr Peterson said, they were backed into a corner where they seemed to have to pick between bad choices, one being fatal. It's very very sad.
I'm 65 and find I gotten hots for for her. I'll do the right and have her over at my place. We sit and talk watch some movie. Trust me no bedtime together just bit fun no hanky panky at first. Just nice relaxing time together.
I got a double mastectomy at 30 because of breast cancer and it was BRUTAL, I felt mutilated. I cannot understand how a parent lets a child go through this.
My God. She said "how was I supposed to know" that just broke my heart. I remember being an adolescent and how confusing and conflicting that time of life was, and wanting to be something different. How can adults allow this to happen to a child who has no life perspective and at that isn't even fully developed?
Your question has only a singular, tragically simple answer: ideology. When following a predetermined set of ideals handed to us by others, then logic and rational thinking are the first to leave.
At that moment, that broke me too. When she started to cry, I felt her pain and sorrow. And seeing Jordan also tear up, made it such a pathetically emotional moment. This poor girl is living with the legacy of the crazed trans agenda, which is supported by crazed trans medical so called professionals!! Yet, she is the strongest person to be leading the charge of detransitioners, with such dignity and grace, whilst trying to come to terms with what has been done to her body and psyche. Amazing human being.....
When I was in puberty I stayed off of social media if someone told me to cut my junk off I would have told them to go fuck themselves I can't imagine doing it because your so called "friends" told you to
I am a 52-year-old female, married 27 years to a wonderful man with two adult sons. I grew up at a time when (thankfully) kids were allowed to go through all the normal growing pains, without having those pains (physical and emotional) used to manipulate their young thoughts and feelings. But I was a tom boy. I hung out with boys, rode dirt bikes and BMX bikes - hated dolls and Barbies. I developed earlier than my friends, and definitely had what we now call 'body dysmorphia' ... but what girl didn't? I have thought about girls like me, tom boys growing up in this broken world, not allowed to just grow into themselves. I think how different my experience would be, if I were a child now, and it's terrifying ... and then to listen to this girl, this younger version of me, having actually lived through it. It just makes me weep. Yeah, I was a tom boy - but I am fully and happily female. Enjoyed pregnancy, and breastfeeding, and nurturing my children. And that all could have been taken away .. just as it is being taken away now, but so-called "well-meaning" adults. It should be a crime. Instead - it's a crime to speak against it.
You nailed it exactly. It's terrifying to imagine how psychologically derailed we would all have been had we been manipulated by psychologists to disorient ourselves away from our biological sex before having had a chance to come to understand ourselves in terms of our own biological sex. I knew tomboys who grew up to be unbelievably beautiful women. I agree with you that this is terrifying. My heart breaks for children the way adults have complicated growing up.
That's my story also. I was a tom boy, I played guitar, learned judo, my fav book characters who I wanted to become were males. The only female characters I could rely to was Eowina from Tolkien. Also a tom boy, who hated being a women. I hated my body, it grosed me out. And I felt it more or less until I became a mother and felt and learned what it means to be a women. I love my feminine energy, I love everything from body to soul. I think that if I would be growing up now I would've been trans. Or at least a non- binary. This would be a total f*ck up.
I’m 50 and this young woman was me back in the day! I too had major issues with not fitting in, body insecurities, fear of pregnancy, absolute stress about periods. Was surrounded with negative comments about being a woman. Not to mention the fear of being overpowered physically by men and their unwanted sexual advances. I actually wanted to be a boy, I wanted the safety of being a boy. If I had been born 30 years later I know I would have been in this young woman’s shoes! 😢 With a mutilated body too😟. I am balling my eyes out for this young woman! She was not given a chance, to become fully what she was meant to be. A mature woman! Because I was left alone to mature I became a Mother of three and now a grandmother! What is the matter with us humans! Let our children mature, let Mother nature be😢
Thanks so much for sharing an insight here. I hope people in going back to the 70's and 80's growing up it should have been okay to either be a "tomboy" or actually be attracted to one. I was born in 1982 in a small town where I had two notable crushes both on very assertive and competitive girls, both tomboys & still wonderfully cute in my opinion & respectfully "shapely", who may be considered Tomboyish yet masculine in ways to a limited degree. They both crushed hard on me also. One might laugh at this but I considered them both great people. I could imagine if they were bombarded with the literature of today they may have seriously considered physical changes. I am In no way against this, but now as a 40yr old my first thought is this: "Why is no one putting forward the contention that perhaps "The wisest time to make the best decision with bodily physical alternations with results that will repercuss into the next 40 to 50yrs of your remaining life may not be at best during puberty where ones ability to make rational thoughts and considerations is probably not just inopportune but terrible". Since those times I've only ever had heterosexual relationships, with obvious women lol. My proclivity has always been hetero & with no phobia I can honestly say women in a honorable & non-objectifying way are my thing. I'm into the normalities, with one exception which has carried on since those childhood years: A woman who cannot deal with a spider on their own is the biggest turnoff I've ever experienced. Not joking at all.
I am a 47 year old, current security professional, former 82nd Airborne Division paratrooper and combat veteran. I am not given to tears, but the end segment had me crying for all that has been stolen from this young woman. She should have had a protector, an advocate. I can't begin to imagine the kind of hell she went through and is going through. This madness has to STOP.
I had a comment for you but I guess it was censored out I don't know, anyway people do have feelings especially when it comes to kids that's what makes us human, thank you for your service in the 82nd Airborne
Yes, I agree with you, sir! Also, I can't help, but think about the song titled "82nd all the way" by Sabaton... sorry, haha. Jokes aside, thank you for your service.
I was surprised that she started her transition mainly because she didn't think she was voluptuous enough and didn't think her breasts were large enough. But she was only 13. She could have looked more voluptuous by the time she reached her later teens. It's sad that it seems like nobody told her that. Plus, body trends change. In some eras, being thin instead of voluptuous was the trend. And men like various body types. But what really matters the most in the end is health, as she found out.
At the age of 13 ive been miss informed, badly manipulated into a surgery ( not about my gender but i listened to the whole interview and i can relate) , the doctor never explained to me what they were going to do to me, never gave me details, i just trusted my Mother who was under heavy depression at that time. Anyway they ruined my body and face at 14, all for nothing. Im 37 now , still recovering to heal . This woman is very strong, Peterson has usual , deep true therapist
I can tell she felt embarrassed talking about some of her situation, but she’s helping so many people. It takes so much courage to talk about it. You’re amazing & beautiful Chloe!!
It doesn't take "courage" it takes selfishness and self-pity to blame others for your mistakes. He/She/It is just trying to get money for nothing with this frivolous lawsuit. Why does it not blame it's parents who allowed it to go through with this? Because the parents probably don't have a pot to piss in and there is no money there.
@@jasonknight9679 I don’t understand why you’re trying to talk logic about a young girl with an undeveloped frontal lobe and institutions and cultures who demonize and sometimes straight up remove children from homes unless their parents affirm their decided gender. It makes no sense to you? congratulations it doesn’t to most of the population. The reason why parents cannot be blamed is because they’re are guilt tripped and scared into believing this because of the threat of their kids removing themselves from the earth (you know what i mean). It’s straight up manipulation by the medical establishment to comply. Parents SEEK help through medical professionals, wouldn’t it make sense to believe mental health personnel who went to school for these things? They let them down and should be held accountable and responsible. The child is automatically free from responsibility because they have no idea what’s going on! Even with parental consent if medical providers provide this type of “treatment” to kids, they should be brought to the courts. it shouldn’t be PARENTS to tell doctors “please don’t take the healthy body parts off my daughter”. they should KNOW that it’s a bad idea. FULL STOP.
@@L_E_D_777 It is illegal to deny your child sex change if they want it. They will call it child abuse and take your child from you, raise it in poverty in a group home, and give them a sex change anyways. The parents are powerless because we allow people with bad ideas to vote. This is why democracy is dangerous, idiots are allowed to rule us.
@@cobar5342 The parents can say "well sorry you feel that way, we all make decisions in life and have to deal with them. You made the decision to transition, therefore it is not our fault".
I have followed JBP for about 5 years now, almost from the beginning of C16 in Canada. We don't often get to see him in full "clinical psychologist" mode. What a gift he has for enlightening people without telling them what to think or feel. Brilliant.
Absolutely x Chloe was just a perfect example of bravery n strength within x How one can go through what Chloe did and still appear unharmed is beyond belief 🕉
Despite the trauma she has experienced, Chloe is strong and brave. My prayers that she will continue to heal from the abuse, physical and emotional damage caused to her.
@@swedannashe can take the doctors to court, not the cancer community that pushed the child into doing this, is the sad part. I would beat them with Bamboo sticks for this...
When she said, "I feel like a broken woman..." and she's only 18 yrs old, it broke my heart. This is a heartbreaking story. I'm so sorry for what she went through. It is maddening and sickening that so-called professionals are so cavalier and even pathological in their practice that they could do this to a teenage girl. My heart goes out to her and I wish her health, happiness and a full recovery.
@@hops4284 HE RAPES (ANIMALS TOO): L = LESBIAN (WOMAN ON WOMAN - HUMAN) GAY = (MAN ON MAN - HUMAN) BI SEXUAL = (MAN AND WOMAN COMBINED - HUMAN). T = TRANSGENDER (FRANKENSTEIN MEN AND WOMEN - HUMAN) Q = QUEER (ALL IN ORGIES, BI, GAY, AND LESBIAN). SO THAT COVERS ALL HUMAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOR. NOW, WHAT IS THE "+" FOR??? WE'LL SEE VERY SHORTLY. + = 🐈 🐕 🐢 🐇 🐒 🐴 🐍 🐦 YEAH, I LEARNED THIS ON JSTOR. THEY SAID THE "+" FULLY RESPRESENTS ZOOPHILIA. I GUESS THEY WERE ALL BORN WITH THE GENE TO PENETRSTE BEASTS ABD OR LET THE BEASTS KISS, LICK, AND FONDAL ON THEIR GENITALIA. WHAT NARRATIVE WILL WE HAVE NEXT??? WE MUST GET RID IF THE NOUNS "HUMAN," "BEAST," AND "ANIMALS".
This is amazing to me. I'm 33 years old, I started developing at 9 years old, got my period at 11, HATED IT, hated my body, hated the experience - everything. I would lay in bed and cry about being a girl. It felt so unfair. My mom told me I would grow out of it, and I did, but oh my god was that a visceral feeling back then. I can't imagine if someone had enabled that delusion.
It wasn't being a girl, it was about growing up and and stop being a child. I am 61 and still remember how I hated having a chest and God forgive me, pubic hair. Hated, hated it. I put on the largest T shirt or sweat shirt I could find. Then at 40 you would find me in my best shape in form fitting clothes. Dr Peterson is so right. Most of us go through about 3 years of misery. You don't see a handsome boy in middle school, they all look goofy and covered with pimples. I didn't own a dress or skirt till about 10th grade. I think we all want to conserve the innocence and carelessness of being a child.
Do you think that may happen because most parents avoid talking about period? Here in Brazil, we speak openly about this, and no one seems to feel uncomfortable with it; even little boys know women go through it and understand they can get emotionally unstable sometimes. But when I went on a cultural exchange to the US, it seemed a tabu to talk about period, and they also considered it extremely disgusting, which I believe contributes to girls hating their bodies and the experience. They should know about it from an early age and they must understand that it is something natural, part of who they are; there's nothing wrong or unfair about it.
@@anacarolinarochasantos I think a lot of it is being sorted into the "woman" category. Adults tend to mostly treat boys and girls the same. And suddenly puberty hits and people stop thinking of you as "a kid" and suddenly there are expectations and restrictions that weren't there before. For myself, I was happy to be a girl, never wanted to be a boy, but I didn't want to grow up and be a woman. I saw that my dad and uncles were jolly and relaxed during family gatherings, and my mom and aunts were constantly working. And when I was about 13, my preferred ways of helping became strange. Like, while setting something up, I might find myself being pushed away from carrying tables and chairs, and toward wiping down the tables and getting the food ready. This pressure came from the adults' example mostly, but also from the boys not wanting me there and the girls giving me "you're so immature unlike us" vibes. I was pretty disgruntled about the whole thing for a while. (Honestly, still am, but I don't have the teen fervour, lol) I think that's natural. I'm a grown woman now, and am fine with myself not fitting into some kind of feminine mold. It feels weird and self-conscious as a teen, but you grow into yourself and it's fine. I'm not the stereotype of the anxious, gentle mother who loves to feed her family, but I'm fine with that. I'm the mom who encourages the kids to do things that in hindsight, were pretty dangerous and maybe a mistake, because it was fun and stretching for their confidence. I was the one to rough house with them, because it's fun! I'm definitely the emotional supporter and the one they run to for hugs like a "proper mother", but also I do wish that these creatures didn't have to eat so often, as I hate cooking! I have never felt "mom guilt" about leaving kids at a babysitter for the evening to go out and have fun, but I'm also completely obsessed with my children and love being a SAHM. I'm naturally quite strong, and much prefer physically difficult work to tediously detailed work, which apparently is more "masculine". However, I have a close group of friends that I need to see often, just to talk, which apparently is "feminine". I don't really wear makeup, but I like getting dressed up once in a while. What I'm saying is that I think the teens these days think that everyone needs to fit into a stereotype, and if they don't completely fit this mold, probably they need to change themselves to fit another mold. I feel very sorry for them. Life isn't like that, and I wish that was more acknowledged. It's so strange to me that in the age of "acceptance", it can't be okay to be a woman who doesn't think, look, and act like everyone might expect without having some sort of identity crisis. The lines are even more rigid than when I grew up in a very traditional area in the 80s and 90s. For me, although it was weird and embarrassing, the physical changes were not the biggest part of it. I felt quite strongly that I was not beautiful and never would be because I was big, round face, glasses, and there was a bit of despair and hopelessness there. I had accepted at age ten that I'd never look like a princess, I was more like a giant. So I decided that I wouldn't worry about it, and wouldn't try to be pretty with make-up because that would make it worse by making me look ridiculous. At least I didn't look hideous, and I'd work on having a good personality and hope that would be acceptable. Only in my 30s did I look back and think "oh, actually I was quite beautiful". I was Jennifer Lawrence (obviously not as pretty) during a time when beautiful meant Kiera Knightley.
@@er6730 Loved it. I find it a little funny cause i went through some similar things and others things quite the oposite 🤣 Unfortunately people don't learn with the mistakes from the past, i don't even know why we had history classes.. I agree 💯 that we should talk openly with our children, not only is our duty and responsibility, but also because we are in a world now where all the information about anything is in everywhere. So If we (as their safe people) don't talk about those things, first they will not be prepared, and second they will feel ir atracted to it (example sex) or reject it (body changes, etc) What is most important is people start to understand this, and understand how things work, specially mentally. We must accept ourselfs, and work to be the best version that we can be. Accepting our virtues, and our weaknessess. Because we are unique. A lot of people should do shadow work honestly. 🦋
I tried to get my tubes tied when I was 18 and my doctor said I was not allowed to unless I had given birth to three children. I am 34 now and have only just started wanting kids and am glad I was never allowed to do anything medical to myself even at 18.
Very unfortunately my older brother had a vasectomy at 18!. He is now 62 and has gone on to help raise 3 children and 2 more for a short time. He was only 21 when he put his name on his future wife’s just born child’s birth certificate. That was only 3 years that he went from vasectomy to being dad when he didn’t have to be.
@@jesusofbulletsTubals are not reversed successfully hardly if ever. Most now are completely taken out. Vasectomy reversal is the same. Scar tissue developed in both cases but tubals are usually a removal and not "tied." Also have to account for ovarian dysfunction after a tubal......both my mom and sister went into menopause at 39-40 after theirs.
I had one of my ovaries taken out 3 years ago when I was 32. Yes I ready have 2 children but want more and I'm having extreme anger and regret that my doctor said I should remove the whole ovary instead of just the cysts. My new obgyn said in young women they usually don't want to remove the whole ovary unless it's cancer so it seems my other doctor went against the stand of care but there's nothing I can do about it now.
@@Fred-wy7bt Actually it is the politicians that promote laws allowing children to have these life altering operations when they are going through puberty and are confused. These politicians should be charged with crimes against humanity.
98-99% of transitioners have no regrets over their decision. And the minority not in that percentage primarily de-transitioned due to pressure around societal stigma and harassments afterwards, which makes sense. I have no monkey in this fight. I only follow what science and studies say. And so far 27 studies of over 8000 cases and medical professionals all side with these therapies. So like... I don't understand the passion people like you have against helping people live the lives that evidence heavily indicates they want to. Gender dysphoria has real consequences on quality of life (and I'd assume lifespan in general when you consider the high number of suicides) for these 98-99% of people, as real as this girl's alleged consequences. So I mean, mistakes can happen, sure, but like it seems to me this is a matter of which is doing the greater good for these individuals... and it's pretty clear this girl is in the extreme minority, but willing to sacrifice the potential improvements to live and pursuits of happiness of a huge majority of people. I dunno man sounds effed.
@@johnjingleheimersmith9259 not true. Like JP points out, no long term studies exist. It is taking YEARS for these folks to realize that transitioning didn't heal their traumas and did then. They THINK they are satisfied for years until they realize they're still plagued by their past. All we have as of now for evidence of long term outcome is anecdotal information. And what I am seeing is 2 to 3 new videos EVERY day onb you tube of detransitioners who've destroyed they natural bodies and are warning others not to do this until they've had the MONTHS, if not YEARS of weekly therapy that JP describes during this interview. Accepting your biology as it is naturally is healthy! These poor people are not mentally healthy.
These surgeons and hospital executives need to be in prison. What they're doing to kids is unforgivable. This is so heartbreaking, I can't even fully grasp it.
They need to be housed with the "General" prison population. And when an incarcerated father who loves his own Daughter(s) despite his own crime finds out what a Doctor ? has done to a young girl....well....there will soon be a vacant bed.
We are very long overdue with this "civilized" nonsense. Tolerance is abused to cover for literal evil. Time to embrace some more direct approach. If actions and deeds go without consequences, civilization is already abandoned. Than it is anarchy and barbarism. If that is what they want, SO BE IT!
@@steveclujhawkins8063 Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
"How was I supposed to know?" That broke me, every aspect of her tone tells of story of her being betrayed, misled and cheated. This is the definition of cruelty and injustice.
It’s riveting to see JP in action in his role as a clinical psychologist. Simultaneously, brilliant, incisive and caring. I wish I had had this guy to talk to when I was a kid.
@JordanPeterson- Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
It’s definitely something. Don’t think he is playing that role exactly, but we can see a lot of those practical techniques and sensitivities shine through.
No, Chloe, it wasn't all for nothing. You could be the person that causes all this madness to stop and to help prevent this happening from other girls and boys. You are already making a huge impact by coming here and sharing these details with the world. Thank you for being so brave...one of those traits you were seeking in the beginning, you had it all along ❤️
She's still so young, I hope that eventually she understands and realizes what you just said. She is far beyond most adults already,so I can't imagine her not.
How is it in a country where the legal drinking age is 21, that children can be 'allowed' to make such life altering decisions? As a mother, this video hurt to watch and I am appalled that this was allowed to happen. Be brave and stand strong Chloe, regardless of what your detractors may try to throw at you. Thank you Dr. Peterson and Chloe for this video.
How? The surgeries are anywhere from $30-$70,000 it’s pretty easy to see why why they are allowing it. Have a lot a foreign born physicians in this country who will do anything for money which is a factor.
The protections we have in place today are sadly the results of tragedies that have happened over the years. Safety-seals on pill bottles, child-proofing products for households, seatbelts, and many more we made _after_ the loss of innocent lives. This will one day be looked at as another terrible mistake, like doctors telling patients to smoke cigarettes to help with a cough.
What always surprises me is that. Drinking and even tattooing requires a certain age. Which is minor and easy to reverse while changing your gender is possible at 12? What a paradox. Kids are kids and are in the hands of their parents because they don’t think right. Who are this people who allowed this a 12 years old ? In Australia it is 16. That is not even enough. It should be 25 when a persons brain is 100% developed. ….. I don’t know where this is going.
Dear Chloe, I've been following your story for a year or so. I must comment on what beautiful and intelligent and well-spoken woman you are. To have come through all of this with such a balanced and sound mind is a testament to what a strong and courageous woman you are. I believe that through your pain, what you have learned will be instrumental to the healing of many others who are suffering. You have experienced this for a great purpose. You will go so far in life with your depth of understanding and insight. You've come through this as the courageous and strong person that you had longed to be as a child! And, you are beautiful and feminine in all of that strength! I pray that knowing these things to be true will imbue you with a well-earned sense of confidence. I imagine that your parents have provided you much support despite their bewilderedment through all of this as well. It shows in your resilience and ability to express yourself, that despite the mistakes they made in parenting, they love and support you immensely! I am so proud of you as a human being and young woman!
..and what a beautiful smart girl. Puberty are such tough years and to go thru it at such a young age, before her other little friends, then coupled with self-image doubts. Shame she did not have soomeone like Dr. Peterson when she was younger.
With the huge disrespect and forceful changes to womanhood experience daily dictionary, more and more detransitioners speak, when people started objecting to factual heresies. So we should support them as much as we can, as they are the living warning that no one listens to when it comes from women, warning towards vulnerable. We're only named and shamed as being phobic.
I am stunned, that while going through everything Chloe went through, she managed to grow up to be such a smart, eloquent, articulate, calm and composed person. I hope she manages to open the eyes of many people, to save others from going through what she went through.
I was so close to suffering this same thing. About 3 years ago I was taught in my elementary school about the lgbt and that if I didn’t like my body I was trans. Me only being 12, I went along with it. It wasn’t until just about a month ago when I started to realize the truth. Thankfully, I never took any blockers or hormones or anything. The furthest I got was wearing a binder and legally changing my name (which I’ve now just legally changed back). I thank god and my guides everyday for not letting me go any further to mutilate my body. I’ve now lost quite a few friends because of my views on being trans, but that’s ok. Im gonna fight for what I believe
You are powerful and continue to speak your truth bc it is so inspirational. Don’t fret those lost bc they weren’t your real friends. We have to ultimately live with our choices, not those who try to impose their ideals on us. You done what was right for you and it will continue to serve you ❤
In the book, Man's Search for Meaning, by Viktor E. Frankl, who was a concentration camp victim, Frankl talks about how tragedies can make you a better person, or a terrible person. You can rise above it spiritually, or you can become no better than an animal. Your struggles are still ongoing, as such things are, but it's made you a better person, Shelena. And that's really the whole point of life: to be tried and tested and refined. God bless you and don't ever stop fighting.
I am an old man and I cried while listening to the tragedy of this most beautiful, most intelligent, most courageous young lady. My God! What a lesson in humility as well as outpouring strength that emanates from her. Also, what a vivid view of the deep empathy and concern from Jordan for this girl in particular but also for any, all kids that face similar personal, social and institutional experiences. At the same time that my love just sprouts out of me for Chloe, there is an equally significant amount of hatred, anger, and horrific disgust for the "professionals" who tossed Chloe into a tornado of emotional turbulence that will probably follow her throughout her life. Chloe's strength in accepting her own actions, and being aware of the consequences for her future life, becomes even more striking when we realize that she will use her position to help turn around the current insanity of "professionals" in our society to remain as an emotionally untouched gang of ghetto-camp-like executioners and thus save innumerable kids from suffering like she did and still does.
It's ironic that she initially wanted to transition so she could become strong and brave because after watching this video, it's evident that she is one incredibly strong, brave young woman. May God guide and bless you Chloe. ❤
Well said! I'm not a praying kinda person, but I know a strong person when I see one! Incredibly interesting and informative interview. Thank you so much, young lady, for allowing us to hear/learn about your very real, very personal experience. I hope life continues to SMILE on you, every step of the way! Take care!
Excellent diagnoses from this doctor. He addressed all the key factors that would help others to avoid getting to an extreme, almost irreversible situation. And this young lady was so brave to share her story. Thank you for getting this much needed information out into the world.
I want to give Chloe a hug so badly. None of this EVER should have happened to her, she should NEVER have been put through it. But she has the power now to affect the lives of so many kids, teens and young adults. She's an incredibly strong young woman.
No one is put through this fake medical practice that doesn't WANT it. I have no love for the surgeons, the establishment, OR the "tr@nz" people. Work on creating drugs that will fix their brains. We have stuff we can give people who think they are Napoleon. Do the same type of thing here.
Thank you Chloe Cole for your honesty. You add to the picture. I once watched a documentation about another woman that went through de-tranformation. She said the thing she regretted the most was, that she lost her original voice after the breaking of the voice. That stirred me very deeply. I'm very sensitive to voices. It is a very intimate thing to me, it touches something unbodily I can't really grab. When I heard the deep voice of Chloe, I was reminded of that.
This could have been me. I was bullied by all the boys in my 6th grade class because I developed early. I too was assaulted. I too hated my changing body. My older sister was pretty and graceful, I was the opposite. I thank God I was able to grow up and accept my body. I have breast fed my 7 children and I thanked God for that gift every time. I am so sorry for all those girls that suffer through puberty and are not given the help they need.
There are men that act a bit feminine, and women that act a bit masculine, and that's just the diversity of men and women in the world. If everyone could just accept themselves as who they are, there shouldn't be a need for transition, especially for children and teens.
@@dark3031 This is a narrative that the hard-left seems to have a big problem with. When the conversation about the nuanced crossover between male and female behavior comes up, they demand that people frame this phenomenon as gender-fluidity or gender-neutrality when that particular relationship with gender is merely their prerogative. I'm gay and I view the subtle differences in my gender expression as only the flexibility of the male gender. I do not identify as a woman at all and I am very uncomfortable expressing myself in a feminine way. I recognize the femininity inside of me and embrace it, but all that nuance gets boiled down into a sense of maleness on my own terms. Sadly, the folks on the hard-left really don't like that. They think the system should have no rules, and I think it has rules, but that they can be bent and occasionally broken. They want to fixate on gender and turn it into their whole identity, I want my gender identity to be on the back-burner at all times. My identity far outweighs my gender identity. This all being said, the right is only coming around to issues like transitioning and gender expression because the left led the charge. Maybe the left goes too far sometimes, but they are also the champions of real freedom of expression. These conversations needed to be had.
@@Eragarev I'm sure everyone is OK with having these conversations, at an appropriate age. But watching at Chloe talked about her experiences in the video, it's just heart breaking how children and teens are being pushed into doing something so drastic and irreversible. Like some girls may just be feeling depressed or anxiety due to early puberty, and possibly a bit tomboyish, then there will be doctors or experts coming in to say "You're definitely a trans and you should transition, that's better for you".
When I was growing up, transitioning was unheard of. But as she told of her childhood, growing up and her feelings, I realized with horror that this could’ve been me. The thing that makes this so difficult today is that it’s been politicized.
Same. I had early periods, terrible cramps. I saw how much easier it was for my brother - I wanted to have that ease and “be a boy”. I had to stay home from school on the first 2 days of my period it was so bad. TG I didn’t grow up in the current environment. No way is a child that young able to comprehend the reality and consequences
of course, it was but those operations failed back then just like they do right now it was not pushed since we had the last 4 clowns who are in office Hillery Bill Obama and Biden why hillery been all over the news saying joe biden doing a good job
I started to experience severe gender dysphoria symptoms at the age of 16. Never had I ever had doubts regarding my gender before that. And then, suddenly it started. I would spend hours convincing myself I was meant to be a boy and with some help of social media and an "accepting" environment I was at some point hundred per cent sure about me being transgender. When people tried to tell me the opposite, I opposed it with all my might. I was lonely, exhausted, full of self-hatred and shame. Every single day for several months was a living hell. I was waiting for my 18th birthday to come just to start transitioning. And then, one day I visited a therapist. She was a brilliant woman I admired and she told me many beautiful things about womanhood. From that moment something changed inside of me. Dysphoria started slowly vanishing and I eventually realized it was there not because I was transgender. I was just a hurt, vulnerable woman with traumas and I needed to do something about that, definitely not about my genitals. It's been almost a year and I am now glad to say that I live happily as a woman, have wonderful relationship and fully embrace my femininity. Circumstances saved me from the horrible things I wanted to do to myself. But if I had had a chance back then, I would have immediately started irreversible procedures. It scares me to even think about that. Thanks God for saving my body and soul
I hope many more confused teenagers/adults get the chance to have such a good therapist like her. I am so worried for all those who seek help but land in the hands of one of those only gender confirming, woke therapists that just push this ideology without even addressing the underlying problems. And those problems continue to hunt their patients even after they convinced them to mutilate their bodies for ever 😖
I hope you know that was satan lying to you. That was a direct attack from satan. You need to fight him and you do it with your Salvation in Christ and by the Word of God. It's powerful and iy is beautiful! Try Jesus Christ! Call out to Him, I dare you! 🤍
Thank you for sharing your story! So glad you're in a better position now :). Keep spreading the message, we need to stop more people from getting hurt and lied to.
This is the most candid, raw and perfect video I have seen on the subject. If each person that questioned his/her gender could have an interview like this...
How many sadistic bullies has this poor young woman encountered through life...the one in school who groped her causing massive trauma...the former friends who told her she deserved to feel bad for wanting to detransition...I mean, the fact that she has come out this and is so articulate and mature is a miracle. Wishing her the best.
That's actually pretty normal and even below-average amount of bullying, at least where I grew up. I'm way more worried about the adults in her life, and their choices
It's weird cuz it's not right in any way and there's no excuse, but I think that happened after she started the treatment, so technically she look like a guy,,,
@@boxman2645 That sounds ok, good for you that you're so tough, but people are diverse and many get scarred for life by bullying. Is that the fault of the one bullied or of the bully? And it's never a 'fair game'. Victims get selected on character traits predicting 'weakness'. Bullies seldomly pick a known fighter as a victim, but tend to prey on physically weaker kids. Often of a much younger age. Bullies are after all about the most cowardous people around. They hide it by bullying. Every year again, kids get depressed because of bullying. Kids even die from being bullied. Now, you might think that's not a problem, I do.
Chloe's story makes me cry. She is the true definition of "stunning and brave" ... No one seems less accepted in this day and age than those who dare detransition and tell their stories.
It's extremely sad that these certain individuals who use children to push and agenda.. Is PURE EVIL!! I feel horrible for the children who need help and protection but don't get it do to all the 🤬 brainwashing these individuals bestow upon the most vulnerable!! I hope this young lady can cope and get justice she/ so many others very much deserve!!
@@nellanellaperched6767 they don't actually support trans people either, they're only using them for their political goals, and when they don't have enough for their goals? they prey in children like this and mutilate them, how disgusting
Jordan's level of compassion, empathy, and parental outrage really speaks to his character. I love this man, truly. I so admire his intellect and courage. I also admire Chloe for so bravely marching forth and speaking out when it is clearly so difficult for her to do. This was a touching interview and I wish Chloe had this level of care before seeking transition. 💚
God i hate this biological essentialism bullshit in the beggining, do people NOT realise that this "women are weak fatigued creatures meant to nurture and not be a person, tortured by their hormones eternally" IS THE FUCKING REASON GIRLS ARE DYSPHORIC
I must admit Peterson makes for a very solid therapist. Sensible, considers all angles, professional & considerate. This is a great interview for anyone to see who's in the difficult situation this young woman was in. Well done Peterson 👏
He also makes unfounded assertions of fact with no context or evidence to support them. Only suckers buy this single case as indicative of the entire issue.
@@hermannshermann6786 How about making an interview with a few dozens of people that are similar to this case? It's an example. Of course it's not all of the evidences, but it's one of them.
Same! I took my daughters phone. She’s 15. She hates it but the social media is too much. There is no real way to monitor it accept to deny access. Adults can’t even handle social media. Children definitely can’t.
When I was around the same age I also felt like I was a boy. I talked about it with my parents and they supported me. They let me cut my hair short, let me wear male clothes all that stuff but they always stood firm in that I was not to go on hormones untill I was 16. I am forever grateful that that is my reality and I still have my entire body in tact. Discovered when I was 14 that I was in fact not trans just confused, depressed and selfhating.
Thank you for sharing your story! I'm very proud of your parents for listening to you but not allowing any rash decisions. You should share your story on an even bigger platform and in a bigger way! You could save another child from so much heartache and maybe even save lives! May God bless you ❤
SATAN'S TOLD YOU THAT YOU OUR A GUY BOTTOM LINE THIS IS WHY YOU SEEK JESUS CHRIST AND GET THE TRUTH ALL EVIL COMES FROM SATAN SATAN WANTS MORE SOULS TO TAKE BACK TO HELL DEMONS WILL TORTURE THEM NON STOP FOR ETERNITY
I entered puberty at 9 as well and definitely had fear and negative feelings, insecurity etc. But my mom made such a positive response, celebrating my womanhood journey, about my changes that the negative feelings left and confidence grew. Thank you mom!!! You're amazing
It's great this was your experience, but my mom celebrating my journey when puberty started only made me hate it more. I HATED puberty and I just wanted someone to tell me those were normal feelings and that they understood where I was coming from; not celebrate it.
Chloe, you may not be able to breastfeed, but you can still do kangaroo care and hold your child to your chest while you bottle feed. My grandmother did that for all 6 of her children because she was unable to nurse back in the 1940's and 50's. Your child hearing your heartbeat and feeling the warmth of your skin is just as valuable. I hope a doctor comes forward after listening to this that can help her with her current medical complications.
GET THIS HIGHER UP We had twins and my wife couldn’t possibly breast feed all the time. It isn’t ideal but it is ok. You can find so many other ways to connect and provide for your children.
I have a client and her breastfeeding was compromised by the hospital staff, where she had her baby. But she was stubborn to breastfeed for connection, so what she did was a combination of babywearing and faux breastfeeding through a tube attached to her nipple. In my clients case after several months of this she recovered her lactation fully. Of course not the case for Chloe after the surgery, but at the very least a viable alternative option to use with donated milk, once she gets to this point in her life. I wish her all the best. Great fighter
What a testimony,touched me to the core especially her last moment when she said how was I supposed to know, the response to that is “you are a kid you couldn’t” but shows the essential role and authority of parents, and bond of love that goes in the family to have helped her get out of her insecurities. Aside from how corrupt is the medical system, what was also poignant was the role of social media how damaging is to the kids, she wouldn’t have been in this situation of wanting to do it had she not been using instagram and filled with horrific biased posts, she compared herself with the others not knowing how unique she is...May God heal her
Children aren’t even legally allowed to consent to having sex until they are 18, but they are allowed to consent to change their sex before 18. These so called medical professionals destroyed her, bur she is so one of the worst resilient people I have ever heard and she is beyond brave for sharing her story. My heart goes out to Chloe and I pray that she can fulfil all her dreams and have a happy life ❤
In my country, it is 16. But they are not allowed alcohol or cigarettes until they are 18 and not allowed to vote for an MP for Westminster until 18. We often joke that people can get married here at 16, but cannot celebrate it properly with a few drinks or even vote on matters that concern them. It should be 18 across the board in my view because internationally, under unicef guidelines, you are a minor until the age of 18. Although I do know some 16 year olds who are a lot more mature than their peers, but across the board as an age group, they are immature. In fact, we are all immature until the age of 25 because our rational logical parts of our brains, do not mature until then. So I reckon then that anyone under the age of 5, should not be transitioning to anything because they are too immature and to do anything that will disrupt brain development will cause untold damage. The same for drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes etc. I fully believe it should be upped to 25, based on the brain still developing before then.
@@MrGerryo70The states can make all the laws they want but if no medical professional would do this it would not be a thing. There is crap Drs that want the money and know dam well they should not remove a 16 year olds healthy breasts.
Her level of introspection and vulnerability is beyond admirable. Her journey was a sacrifice and a gift for those of us to learn from in this day and age. I am saddened by her pain. In the name of truth and knowledge, we should applaud this brave young lady. And to Jordan, who compassionately, and gracefully gave her this platform.
This is the definition of true bravery. You can see how profoundly deep she thinks. I have so much respect for this person and all I have is this podcast. Wish we could be friends.
Both of you are showing that caring is the part of medicine, that seems to be controlled from out side of the medical fields; and by none medical people with their own biases trying to control every part of humanity ! your both very brave !.
I came here to write the same thing. A brave young lady. Such a sad story. Unfortunately, this is the realization of my fears for these poor adolescents.
After all she has been through she is still becoming a stunning woman physically, emotionally and intellectually! I applaud her determination to recover what she sacrificed.
I was thinking the same thing. Her initial "fantasy" was to become a very attractive woman, and even after taking these horrible drugs, she has already started to become what she initially dreamed that she would be. She is stunningly beautiful, and she is no dummy. I pray that God would reverse the damage that was caused by all of this ridiculously insane ideology.
Agree, never in my life I could be able to deal with that much bullshit from life. She reminds me of Mikhaila a bit consideing how much she been through and her ability to deal with that (as well as Jordrdans and Tammys).
What she is describing as she entered puberty is so normal and common in my culture and society that it is shocking to hear how it was interpreted and dealt with in her culture. Her situation seems like it could have been totally avoided. Glad that she was able to overcome this and she should be supported fully for as long as she needs. I hope she succeeds in her efforts to stop this child abuse.
When she began crying and asking, “How was I supposed to know?” as the father of a young girl, my heart broke. If your heart doesn’t break, I question your ability to empathize with others, which is a real issue, which also should not be vilified reflexively. I truly thank Chloe for being courageous enough to share and for Dr. Peterson for creating a safe, supportive, caring and professional forum for this discussion to happen. This should be required watching for any parent with preteens (and now based on public education standards even younger). These are confusing and treacherous times that our children are trying to desperately navigate. I pray that this young woman is able to experience true joy in her life regardless of what happens from here. I also hope she is able to realize her dreams of motherhood, but know that it’s not what totally defines her as a woman. It’s her character which undeniably shines through in this interview which truly makes her beautiful! God bless.
I'm transgender and going through a full male puberty until 18 before I realised I was trans, I feel like I'm in the same shoes as Chole where I have all these male sex characteristics from my puberty that shouldn't be there and I need to transition to be perceived by people in life as a woman so I can just live like everyone else. I'm 20 now and on feminising hormones and my life is getting better and better but just like Chole, I will always have the effects of those years of testosterone for life and it hurts sometimes. Chole and I may have different circumstances with her being a cisgender woman who's biologically female being given testosterone treatment to essentially go through a male puberty whilst I'm a transgender woman who's biologically male and went through a male puberty naturally but we ultimately face the same consequences now of having to live with getting rid of reversible male sex characteristics and living with irreversible ones for life. The point is that my side of the story is not the only side that exists here and there will always be some detransitioners out there who need support after a detransition and ideally more help and support before gender-affirming care is provided to ensure that there are no other mental health issues like EDs, Social Anxiety, Sexual Trauma (as a symptom of sex abuse is wanting to be rid of one's genitals) or neurodivergence. - And if any other these are present, then they are treated with very special care and the patient is challenged much more so that they can fully separate the part of the their experiences of life rooting in gender dysphoria from the other experiences and parts of their life rooted in these other problems before any further action is taken. They should also be made fully aware of the fact that puberty blockers alone will flatline bone density development and stops sexual function, which can be especially irreversible when cross-sex hormones are added to start the development of the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex. - But this is a sad reality that trans people have to face regardless of what they do in life because of the uncontrollable consequence of simply being born with a defect in their sex chromosomes that leads the sex anatomy of one biological sex and a brain structure that make it feel normal and natural to have the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex to what they are. And because of this, them having to choose between either having the correct sex characteristics for them to live their lives whilst losing their fertility or keeping their fertility but having all the wrong sex characteristics on their body, some being for life. And just as equally importantly, Chole's side of the story is not the only side that exists either and whilst there are kids born cisgender who mistakenly go down this pathway, there are kdis who are born transgender and their brain structures are wired in birth from birth for it to just feel completely natural to have sex characteristics of the opposite biological sex to what they are and there is no such therapy or magical neurosurgery that can change this immutable part of their personhood they are born with. Gender affirming care (NOT SURGERY FOR MINORS. - I ABSOLUTELY BELIEVE ANY SURGERY RELATING TO GENDER-AFFIRMATION SHOULD BE 18+ AND NEVER PERFORMED ON MINORS, WHICH IS THE ONE THING I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH FOR CHOLE TO NOT HAVE HAD ANY SURGERY BELOW THE AGE OF 18) is still very much necessary for these kids if they figure out they're trans and can proceed with caution with people around them certain that there is absolutely no other mental health issue that could be the root of this experience of life and them being fully aware of the aforementioned implications of blockers without a cross-sex hormone for the critical period of bone density growth and the loss of fertility. Both of these sides, transgender transitioners and cisgender destransitioners, need to find a middle ground and unite to help make more people aware of trans people, what they truly experience so that people, especially teens, who suspect they're trans can have a very open-minded, safe, slow and comfortable exploration into what the immutable lifelong transgender experience of life from birth is like and if it is truly what they're experiencing or if there are mental health issues with self esteem, eating disorders, anxiety, depression or suicidality are the cause of discontent with thoughts of developing / a need to get rid of already existing sex characteristics on their bodies. This is to help the kids who are born trans and are trans for life, whether they or you like it or not, have a safe transition with support around them so that they develop the right sex characteristics that they need for life to thrive and for kids who are born cisgender and are cisgender for life to be directed away from transitioning when there is actually a different underlying cause for the dysphoria they are experiencing. If a teen transitions, realises that they were cisgender all along and then has to face a detransition with all the mental struggles with that then I believe hey should have all the love and support of people including the trans community on their side to help them through it.
I was a tomboy, and I still am, kind of, at the age of 60. I have never fit in with the girly girls. I have been married and have 3 grown children. I am still an outlier. I have accepted that this is how God has made me. This type of presentation is great for education. Thank you.
thanks for sharing. as someone that is younger i’ve always been insecure about the fact that i don’t fit in like others. makes me happy to see others lik me
I’m 57 and have three beautiful, grown children, and happily married for 36 years to their father. When I was 13-14 years old, I was tall, skinny, flat chested, with hairy legs and a small, whisper of mustache that I didn’t dare to tweeze, because I was so worried it would grow back stronger. I didn’t get my period until I was a couple of months away from my 14th birthday. I was attending a small private school with about 16 kids in my class, 9 girls and 7 boys. We, the girls, kept tracking who got started menstruating and I was the very last one. There was one girl who developed giant breast as a young child. She got her period at 9 years old. At first, I was happy that I didn’t have to deal with that, but by the time I was 14 and hardly started to show any development, I was seriously worried that I was actually a male who was born with a female organ between my legs. I also got along with boys much easier and found them more interesting. Anyway, when finally I got my first period, it was a big relief and slowly the next couple of years I forgot about my thoughts of being a male. However, even now I feel that men are much easier to understand than women. I do have some male and female friends, but the female friendships are so much more complex and difficult to navigate.
@@timeabiro674 we share a very similar experience, & I still prefer to hang out with the guys, although I have enjoyed many female friendships as well. I was really surprised to learn as an adult, how many women felt as awkward & self conscious as I did as an adolescent/teenager. I also learned that the girls who were bigger chested were jealous of us flatter chested girls. It's the old "the grass is always greener" scenario.
@@nasch008 yeah i think growing up as a kid if youre gay can confuse the hell out of you especially if nobody around you talks about what homosexuality is and media and people in your life are straight or in the closet. you don’t even have sexual urges as a kid you just know you’re different and you don’t know what it is exactly you can’t pin point it until you get older
In Melbourne Australia there’s a law that’s been passed. If your child tells you that they’re trans then you must accept it. You must allow them to start being treated as the opposite text. If you deny they are & offer to pray for them you will be gaoled. If you refuse treatment then you will lose custody of your child. This is horrific & true.
As a father to both a son and a daughter, this absolutely breaks my heart. Listening to this beautiful and poised young lady speak of her victimization reminds me of the horror and human shame I felt when reading the crimes of Dr. Josef Mengele. These medical practitioners are butchers, experimenting on children. These are crimes against humanity. 😢
Your first reaction should be all it takes - where were her parents? parents are not supposed to be fixtures only to take advice from "experts" in raising their kids; they were not handcuffed while Mengele rolled over their daughter with experiments, they are supposed to be parents, not friends letting schools and social media raise their kids, or allow them to be isolated socially with fear during a BS COVID pandemic. Dang people wake the F-up and be parents and never trust your government and medical establishment without using your brain first.
My feelings exactly,I couldn’t help in my mind putting my sons and daughters in this situation and rage comes to me.We have got to put a stop to this pedofilia and sexual abuse
He is the therapist that she should have had. She needed to know she wasn't alone in her fears, loneliness, and broken self image. Many of us growing up felt exactly like her and some still feel these issues at some level, as adults. I hope that her lawsuit has serious consequences to those who had a hand in her suffering.
@@markprendergast2365 I don't think any of them are intending to cause harm. That is what makes the really heavy issues so polarizing. The idea of "can't we all get along" is kind of hard when it means giving in on something that is morally wrong to you. The problem is God.
@@georgeorwellsghost3833 My last sentence was meant to be provocative, but in a sense it is true. Not the concept of god, which as far as I can deduce in my astounding ignorance (and also based on a bible verse that specifically confirms, if that is the only way you can percieve something to be true) God is love... period. The way religion is used to influence, confuse and determine law is very much the same as evil. I don't think it is wrong for a well-informed adult to transition to whatever it is they feel necessary in order feel comfortable... I think influencing a child in any way in that respect is despicable. I was honestly thinking more along the lines of abortion with the God comment, since it is an obvious encroachment of church upon state,
Remember at school you had the different 'groups'? The goths, the nerds, the jocks, the theatre kids, but now you have the alphabet group (TQI+++). When you go to a school reunion, how many are still goths? How many of those nerds have blossomed and have beautiful partners? How many of those jocks no longer hit the gym and have put on a few pounds? For most of us it was just bad hairstyles and spots, but these things pass. Spots go and we change our hair. We grow up. Our thinking changes. We MATURE. Taking drugs and drastic surgeries, there is no turning back from that.
This interview just broke my heart. Unfortunately I predict that Chloe’s story will become all too familiar over the coming years. What have we become ? 😢 A society that enables, advocates and supports the mutualisation and sterilisation of children is a society falling into the pits of hell. Praying for you Chloe
There are two great options for a girl, (teens) to be a polygamist or filthy rogue or a man like option where she can disguise her mess if she thinks or has really messed both. And there are chavanists that are filthy at all levels to get them anywhere of those for an extra sexually transmitted diseases... Slaughter crimes on women basically.
@@jtjones4081 the issue is, its being pressured. Look at Bidens administration, young kids seeing people of power whilst going through Chloe's issues? Easy to decide what to do. Or schools pushing it into the curiculum to children less than 8 years old. The grooming has been in full effect. Im 32, i live in a very diverse city. In the last 5 years or so there has easily been an increase of 80% of young kids just coming out saying i identify as this and i wanna be this etc etc.. its getting very dangerous.
@@jtjones4081 2022 numbers in the UK alone, shows an increase of 67% over the last 2 years, in the number of minors on the waiting list for transitioning therapy now.
Despite all of the horror and complete lack of responsible care, Chloe is an extremely intelligent, aware, remarkably resilient individual. The level of courage it must have taken to share this degree of intimate detail is unfathomable to me. I am not fully able to express my gratitude for this courage, but I think that her sharing her story is going to help a lot of vulnerable and confused children and parents who find themselves in this difficult predicament. She is going to save lives. She is absolutely a hero. Bless you, Chloe. I wish you nothing but strength, prosperity, and luck in your future endeavors.
@Sura Kura my sincerest apologies, I forgot to mention that the anonymous "Sura Kura" is the supreme, omnipotent intelligence in the universe and all other beings are subordinate in their ability and must request permission before making remarks of any kind, particularly when it challenges their fragile sense of superiority.
Chloe, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m a 50yo mother of 3 sons. It broke my heart to watch you talk about what you’ve been through. I wish I could give you a big hug and tell you that everything going to be ok (something tells me you know this deep down). You’re a strong young lady. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you. ❤
It’s incredible to watch this because it’s not an interview, it’s like watching a session with a patient. The fact he’s telling her things that are so basic and she didn’t know back when someone should have informed her is so heartbreaking. He’s so compassionate and empathetic while being informing and educating.
She is so measured and thoughtful, and he is so forthright and perfectly gentle in his manner. My goodness. Just JP pulling up his socks added something warming to the interview. What a man. (On a perfectly selfish note, what wouldn't I give to have a 90-minute confab/therapy session with Jordan Peterson? The clarity alone would be priceless...)
Its like he coached her but that cant be learned like that fast. But she stops b4 she answers, makes long pauses and all without äähms or the sounds people usually make, exactly like him.
My question is what kind of idiot said she was a dude when she was attracted to writing and art? These are attributes of W on the Freud-Weininger scale. Just another example of how psychologists are absolutely clueless about what a woman is. Most of them could not get a normal date and probably only use brute force money and prestige to get the dates. Psychology should be proven in the raw. Accademic medals and theories completely skew the actual knowledge and abilities perceptions of these people when they otherwise would be complete basket cases when “naked”. Because, let us face it, no one really likes to be “a girl”, whether a boy or girl. That distaste is irrelevant, especially in our age of schizophrenia refusing to grow up with adult organs. Puberty blockers should be called Schizophrenia enablers!
@@EmilyRose0 Oh she's likely autistic and masking by copying his personality. Masking is common amongst women with autism and adds difficulties to diagnosis.
My son told me a year and a half ago that he thought he was a girl. When asked how he know this. He couldn’t tell me. I was freaking out inside. I’m a Christian and I believe people can do what they want but when I looked into the transition process I was even more freaked out. My husband turn me onto one of Jorden’s videos and After watching it. I started to feel more in control. My son now states he is neutral as not to make anyone upset. I’m appalled by what society is doing to children and even more so that they are making it so the child thinks the parent is wrong. We need more people coming out and talking to the teens and child of the county about what is happening and how it will effect them in the future. Mutilation of children and teens is wrong. Thank you Jordan from the bottom of my heart for your inspiring and encouraging words/videos. ❤😊
Do be careful not to dismiss what he says, don't just tell him 'don't upset people' and then think that fixed it obviously(i imagine you are already very aware of this), but I thank you and your husband for taking the appropriate care and caution. All the love to you and your son.
This is the most I have seen JP listen to anyone other than his daughter. He cut himself off, and asked real questions. This was a true therapy session filled with concern and compassion for this persons upbringing, trama, and current wellbeing 💜 Very fatherly interview. I have enjoyed it and learned about how to ask these difficult questions and retort with positive feedback
You must not watch a lot of JP. Anyone who says he's a bad guy, and not compassionate or caring doesn't actually know anything about him. He's known for his patience and empathy. He listens to everyone he talks to. The only time he doesn't is when he knows the person he's talking to is merely trying to disguise an attack as a discussion, or opinions as fact and vice versa.
@@billmcgubbins1476 I'm a big Peterson fan, and I watch all his podcasts. He does have a tendency to talk more than the guest. It's not that he isn't listening to what his guests are saying, it's that he sometimes he dominates the conversation. It's not just when people are attacking him.
I don't think the OP meant that Jordan usually doesn't care. Jordan just has a tendency of doing all the talking, especially i notice with his younger guests.
What an articulate, courageous, intelligent young woman who has suffered to such a horrible degree and continues to suffer. My heart goes out to her and my hope is that she only gains in strength. What an admirable person.
Yep, she seems to be a beautiful person on the inside and out. What’s happened to her breaks my heart, but she keeps pushing on so no other child will have to go through what she has. Courage and selflessness. We need more people like her.
@@crocodilegrundee4514 .. Chloe Cole is a CON ARTIST trying to scam her way into millions rather than work for it. Don't be a SUCKER because you desperately want to believe her.
@@JohnCarterRocks Don’t be a sucker and believe what the gender bender community tells you. She is fighting an evil ideology, and I support her. If you don’t, then don’t!
When I was an RN in Med-Surg, I cared for quite a few mastectomy patients. Mastectomies are a very traumatic surgery. It's hard to believe Chloe went through a double mastectomy at 15 years old. Shame on those surgeons for not stopping it.
@ Margaret Bailey. You made a valid point. I didn't want children. @ 25 I asked/ begged to have my tubes tied & denied!!!!! Told I needed to think things out a little more... SMH Yet Dr's will agree to lop breasts off a 15 yr old coz she wants to transition.
Right god forbid a doctor make the horrendous mistake of breaking a hepa regulation or being so incompetent as to prescribe a patient ivermectin when they ask for it but it's just a regular day to rip sexual organs out of a child or to attempt to chop up a male childs organ and attempt the impossible task of turning it into a female part. I've talked with boys that have had bottom surgery and they are in a perpetual state of infection, pain and horrible odor from the infection that never heals. Not to mention never able to remedy the strongest desire in every living thing that is the mechanism to insure the existence of the next generation of their species. I still just can't wrap my mind around the reality that in the United States where everyone gets triggered over someone speaking the wrong word society isn't in an absolute uproar over the fact that a doctor is allowed to mutilate children. LOL there are men in prison for being in a relationship with a 17 year old girl when they were 18 but we just hand younger children over to doctors to horrifically destroy the child's bodies for an elective surgery that they claim is safe and will magically change their gender.
Shame on the nurses that went along with it. This is exactly an example of when a nurse can decline to participate by being a conscientious objector. A nurse’s job is to protect their Pt. On a rare occasion, this means protecting the Pt from a physician. On a rarer occasion, a nurse may need to physically prevent a physician from putting a Pt in danger by putting time and space between the Pt and physician. This synario sometimes occurs in a teaching hospital where a surgical resident is reckless and a nurse must put the brakes on to keep a Pt safe. Lastly, the anesthesiologist should have put the brakes on and cancelled a double mastectomy on a 15 year old. The surgeon may be a candidate for child endangerment charges and/or child neglect if it’s within the statue of limitations and applies to what occured. A double mastectomy without a valid therapeutic indication for the necessary treatment of a diagnosable physical ailment on a child is reckless endangerment.
I wish you the best, you have been put in this position by people that did not have your best interests at heart. I'm sure that is evident to you now and that must be really hard to come to terms with!
My condolences for that experience. Its hard to fathom it. It'd be bad enough if just the medical effects, but the social effects, of people often vilifying detransitioners, its awful.
@@pardontheopinion8679 Do you use any of the following terms? • gay • homophobia/homophobe • transphobia/transphobe • trans-sexual • transgender • cis gender • sex worker • capitalism/capitalist • any gender-specific pronoun other than he/she, him/her or his/her Then CONGRATULATIONS - you are (either knowingly or unwittingly) a shill for the loony left!
Absolutely heartbreaking! What a terrible loss for this beautiful brave girl! How amazingly kind she is to share her story that hopefully will help others 😢
@@yonagwy5826 right I didn’t say he wasn’t a therapist. I’m actually complimenting the interview for being useful to Chloe rather than useless but thank you for stating the most obvious thing you could come up with.
As a graduate of Master’s in Psychology, everything that Chloe said about her therapist is so appaling. I agree with Dr. Peterson 100%. This is so sad what other therapists are doing with children😢💔and also with parents who relied on them for help. It’s making me mad. As a mother with a daughter, my heart goes out to Chloe and her parents.
The thing is, you don't even have to be a graduate of masters in psychology to understand that "wanting to be a boy", or "feeling like a boy trapped in a female body", wasn't even the issue to begin with. All you have to do is to listen to her and it becomes more than clear. In her distorted self image, She thought she doesn't look female enough and thought she could be a boy, as an alternative. That has been made clear in the fist half an hour of this conversation.
@ozicrypto6671 Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
@@abduljalilmahama5682 ... If you can somehow invert knowledge and nievity, the modern World becomes understandable. If you can't, the world is unravellingly insane ...
As the 60 year old grandparent of 8 grandchildren I found this interview heartbreaking. Your quiet grace talking about this was a lesson for all 18 year olds. This is a message that needs to be shared, and who better than someone that's had to walk the walk. What adults choose to do with their bodies is up to them (as long as they pay for it) and what they call themselves is up to them as long as it's within the law. However, mutilating children like this is appalling and needs to be stopped.
I can't stand this topic and in my 60's too. It's gets me so mad that this has become trendy...and a money maker for those physicians that are involved. Since when have we ever solved a mental/emotional problem with a physical solution. This is absolutely criminal . .
@@annaka5000 Yep, it's the used car dealership of today's world. The quickest and easiest way to make A LOT of $$...and get to say - "I/we solved the problem". And the politicians just love it, claiming the "moral" high ground and then able to place an -ism or -phobic name upon those who argue against it. One hell of a bright future we're looking at right now huh?
Chloe is so BRAVE to speak truth on a subject obscured to anyone who speaks against it. She should be championed for the bravery exemplified here! Thank you so much for everything.
I know someone that wants to detransition. I'm helping him but don't know what to do. I'm proud he has found out that HE is a man AND NOT A WOMAN. THIS IS THE MAN THAT NEEDS TO BE Interviewed. HIS STORY SHOULD HAVE A BOOK. His story is jaw dropping.
@@endotimez4552 You are helping a lot by being a friend and standing by him. OK, then comes the other options. The question is how much your friend wants to be done. (publicity???). How about “Support me” and then advertising it on RUclips and other platforms? Contacting Prague University on your RUclips, DailyWire, the Body image guy, also has an anti-woke channel. And of contact Dr. Petersson!
@@joycleckley2881 we now have an appointment to see what will happen after he stops with the hormones and go frome there... Trying to talk him into vlogging on RUclips but we have no set up so now I got to figure it out
Chloe, doing this interview must have been impossibly difficult for you, after the rest of the horrible experiences you've suffered. Speaking out this way is positively heroic. I hope that many kids who are considering this path, and their parents, see this interview before getting too deep into this treatment.
I'd like to see this video become required viewing to any parent who, after their child expresses any negative opinion about their gender, seeks any external advice.
I’m 31 and sometimes I am still anxious and self conscious. To do this to a child is disgusting. Be well Chloe. And amazing work as always DR Peterson.
We will keep hearing from Chloe, she is such a strong and brave young woman. Wow… nothing but my admiration. I hope she keeps healing and shining through this process ❤
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Everyone who is able to come to their senses and seeks to "de-transition" back to their actual gender should be supported fully by each and every one of us.
@@andrewlennox4436 True but those rare few are welcome. The Shire did need to clean house 😂
Yes agree
Especially considering the MSM is actively brainwashing them
Great comment, and I agree wholeheartedly. A "return to normalcy" so to speak.
@@blueprince2330 What is normal? Isn't normal for one person different for another? I wholeheartedly agree that transitioning as a minor is dangerous and I don't know how anyone at such a young age is deemed able to make such a life changing decision. That doesn't negate the fact that grown adults feel the need to transition though and once someone is old enough to understand the ramifications of their decision, it should be up to them.
I'm a detransitioned woman myself. I find that every story I hear about other women in my situation, is like a broken record playing my life story over and over. I'm so glad that mental healthcare professionals are seeing this pattern and shedding real, objective light on it. I developed gender/body dysphoria in early puberty, and the psychological distress would increase parallell to my body development as puberty progressed. At the age of 12/13 I concluded that I was trans and wanted to be a boy, and at 18 I changed my name and got on testosterone for three years, during this time I also had a double mastectomy. In 2020, after 3 years of body-altering hormones and 1 year post-breast removal, it finally dawned on me that this was not what I wanted or needed in life and I began to detransition. Having to announce this to everyone in my life was stressful, I couldn't help but feel a bit ashamed of myself- the idiot who had loudly proclaimed for several years that "I am a trans man, this is my truth". So there I was, at the end of my transition, masculinized and flat chested. My voice was undeniably male, facial hair, body hair, masculine distribution of fat and muscle from top to toe. For two whole years after I got off hormones, I was too physcially masculine to pass as a woman and everyone perceived me as a boy in a dress. It was shameful, frightening and disheartening not being able to blend in with my own sex. I felt like the testosterone had done far too much damage, I thought there was no coming back from this terrible mistake. I didn't want to be seen or heard, I wanted to disappear in my regret and despair. Only in the last year and a half am I finally being read as a woman again by strangers, I think my body just needed time to readjust. . Surprisingly, I never received backlash for undoing my transition. I think my family was quite relieved to have me back to my normal self. Despite coming from a non-religious background; I found peace and hope in the christian faith during the worst days of my detransition. I was unable to forgive myself, or love myself, for what I'd done to my body and for the stress I had put my loved ones through when I transitioned. But if God can forgive me and love me regardless, then I can consider my suffering atonement enough, I forgive myself finally and move on. Estrogen, time and patience helped me reclaim my femininity. I've done some voice training to help me sound less masculine. I'm still undergoing painful hair removal laser therapy but I think I'll be finished by the end of this year. I feel young and sweet and radiant again. I'm happily engaged to a wonderful man, and I've found ways to reconcile with my past choices. I know I am very lucky to have come out the other side of this as a happier, stronger person - I know several people in the detrans community who still anguish over their situation many many years after detransitioning. We have to speak up about this growing epidemic, and learn how to deal with gender dysphoria properly. I wouldn't wish this journey on anyone.
Yes. In my opinion all sane people must speak up. Especially those like yourself who have gone down this path. Perhaps this sounds stupid but even starting a petition, or petitions in support of Dr Peterson and against Canadian authority who wants to take his license or "re-educate" him would be a good place to start. If such a thing "went viral" it could turn the tide.
PS. My father was an engineer and Mom a Jehovah's witness (want to be architect who chose being a wife and mother instead). I am neither but have great love for both (deceased) I was a tomboy but no one worried about that.
Simpler times ? I was a teenager in the 1970's . Being a feminist in those days meant burning your bra and being angry at men.. Why would I want to do that? All the "men" in my life (father and bro) were wonderfully considerate and protective. And I needed that bra to stuff cotton balls in...🤣🤮
Amazing story. I would say that society in general is not responsible for what you got through, society is simply ignorant, they have no idea what these “transitions” actually do to your body and brain, but politicians and elites who promote this horror deserve something I cant say in youtube.
Sadly, and being crude, to these people your issue is nothing but an opportunity to make profits and gain power, cause it does not only feed a monstrous medical industry, but also helps to play the political game of getting one part of the society to fight with the other, which gives then power.
Its the golden egg chicken, just at the cost of people like you and society in general.
Again, big congrats for having been brave enough to come back to the real you without comiting suic**e in the process, cause the amount of stress, sadness, lonelyness and frustation that go along with it can be overwhelming.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I’m so glad that you are in a good place and God Willing it will continue. All the best❤
Beautifully articulated. God is faithful still 💚
Wow...
Seeing her tear up and ask, "How was I supposed to know?" Absolutely crushed me. She was taken advantage of corrupt doctors who put dollar signs before a girl's mental health. It makes my heart sink that this is being done to more young children.
You're so right. It's a scam. It's all about performing unnecessary procedures in order to Make Money. Our lawmakers should step in to protect our very young and vulnerable from this sort of things.
Me too. It's devastating how young people are being treated and not really given choices. They seem to only get one side of the story.
Chloe is so strong. Going against the woke tide. But there are those of us who have her back! 🫂 to Chloe and everyone in her shoes.
Yeah this is absolutely horrible. In the future people will think "what in the world people were doing to each other in the name of this sick ideology"
@@mary-janereallynotsarah684Cole
I love that he validates her experiences and explains how she SHOULD HAVE been treated. That is SO important for trauma survivors.
Yea, I highly agree!!!
It is.
Absolutely. He's explaining and assuring her that what happened to her was not her fault and that what has been done to her is horrific and cruel but is actively being fought against. Poor girl. Wish I could hug her and let her know there are so many of us that acknowledge her pain and support her in this necessary fight.
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Yes, his affirming words were incredible.
Chloe shows a healthy respect for herself by suing the "professionals" who mutilated her at 15 years old. And her action may save many others from this horror that no child should go through.
Chloe, you are an engaging, courageous and an attractive young Woman. Stay strong, your life is just beginning. Get the help you need and know we are with you.
Yeah, those sick evil people were banking on their “patients” to kill themselves considering the trans suicide rate.
So that same child has no accountability... how many people was in her life telling her/ him, no that's not right, you're not old enough to make these decisions, I bet she/ he thought they knew everything, that's the consequences that everybody is subject to...
Why is it objectionable that 15 old boys didn't react positively? Were they wrong or was the psychopaths in the medical profession wrong?
@@zorroshadowblade3502 That’s why minors can’t have “informed consent”. Especially now where the young are finding their role models on TikTok and other social media. Chloe is just the tip of the iceberg. Right now drug companies and surgeons are getting rich on the gender disphoric. The tide will shift and they’ll get rich on de-transitioners. Hopefully Chloe and others suing those responsible for sterilizing and butchering the confused and disphoric will be successful and the profit motive will dry up for those monsters.
I'm only 30 minutes in this interview and I can't stop thinking about lunatics trying to take away Jordan Peterson's clinical licence. This man is whole world's treasure, so caring and focused on the person he's talking to. Such a noble man! Thank you, Mr. Peterson!
I was thinking the same thing! Jordan is a national treasure of reason, intellect, and compassion! Why is he being silenced??!!
If they take his licence ..i just dont know what to say...as a fan it hurts me to think of how hurt he will be
@UCMMxCh0ArSs-dAT2kyc1fKw why the hell are you here?
Go away
@@antpage4106 what in the world are even you talking about?
Hard to believe the collage of psychologist are trying to take his license. While letting the doctors do what they did to this child. What a brave girl. Breaks my heart.
He is so brilliant that it is hard to believe they are trying to take his license. We live in a very crazy world!
I think his brilliance and compassion is the main reason they want to take it. Because I cannot believe the things I heard here. If they insist they are opposite of what they physically are, the doctor has to agree?? And then they give these wild untrue "facts" about suicide if they don't proceed with transitioning?? Rather than trying to help them understand themselves and the effects of transition, they choose something that shouldn't even be an option for a child .. I can't even believe this shit is legal can you imagine how many children like her have been victim to this
I can't even find the correct words right now to make sense here it's difficult to wrap my mind around this. I just wonder who decided all of this was okay and the kind of people that actually agree with it
Jeez.
My thoughts exactly!!
@@sallymote-yaffe6185 The goal behind pushing trans surgery & new sexual alternatives such as fluidity, pan-sexual, et al- is population control- a globalist priority. Tweens are an easy target. Dr. Josef Mengele is laughing from Hell.
The doctors didn't do this. She did it. She made the decision.
“How was I supposed to know?” My heart broke for her.
Mine too
just realize how evil this world really is. Sit with it. This is TRUTH
Me too, when I heard that my heart just broke.
Mine too
was so heart breaking
Can we all appreciate how well-spoken and articulate and brave this young woman is?
Its crazy they consider her autistic like they didn't even let her mature first
Agree, agree, agree. Well said
Actually, I actually was thinking the actually actual same actual thing. 😂
@@DinsAFK She has autism. She got diagnosed with it as an adult.
More mature than parents and the doctors that treated her apparently.
My 15 year old daughter has just sat and watched this with me. She just said all young girls should see this to help them understand how they feel when they're young.
Your daughter sounds more mature than most teenagers at that age. Good job momma. And I agree wholeheartedly, we need to educate more kids, not just girls, but also teenage boys so they won't get taken advantage by these perverted agendas.
@@Langley_Ackerman19 She's a fantastic young woman 🙂 Her mom left 11 years ago thou...her and her brother were raised by me 😁 And a very proud dad I am.
Yes education of the the youth is critical.
Yes, and if any of this had been around in the 60,s i would, mistakenly, have thought i should have been made into a male. As it turned out, after much heart ache and 2 children, i was just this sort of woman. Sterotypes for females in earlier decades were stultifying. I believe that witnessing abuse can also be an issue for young girls.l would like to commend this womans honesty, thankyou.
Well done Dad. Children are smart, if you show them truth they will see it. In my case, as a divorced Dad it was all happening under my nose for years. It wasn't until the day before leaving for college that she dropped the bomb on me. It devastated me. Not because of the choice but because a I realized my own daughter had made me a stranger. It wasn't long before I became the enemy. I haven't seen her in a year and a half.....
@@chrislyman6946 I'm sorry to hear that mate. I can't even imagine how I would feel. Keep the lines open to her if you can. Communicate if you can also....never give up.
Imagine having gone through all of this, then getting a 2-hour interview. You remain emotionally stable while reminiscing EVERYTHING and then hearing what should have been done instead. You remain articulate in a way that is impressive for an 18yo anyhow. You say you are hopeful for the future. AND you somehow find the energy to change society by suing those who wronged you. Strongest, most resilient kid ever. Awe-inspiring to me, personally.
Edit: It´s heart-warming to see a supportive and respectable comment section developing! Keep it up.
I agree with most everything you said but I don't think mr. Peterson said anything to Chloe about what she should have done. He's clearly saying that she was failed by every adult especially and sadly the medical community who has enough education and understanding of The Human Condition to make all of this borderline Criminal. The tragedy in all of this according to what he thinks should have been avoided at many different times and she stresses that by pointing out what they should have done in most instances and it's what they been trained to do. He is quite a credible Authority on all of this because he has the same education, and probably more, as these professionals should have and I think that he points out quite often that they know there's something fundamentally wrong with what is happening but are too afraid to do what's right because of the system they are in.
@@jilltooma6895 just to clarify i think he meant that what should have been done is the part that the "professionals" failed, nothing to do with what she did. I think we all realice she was a victim of the politics and current agenda on gender
mad respect for chloe
wtf was wrong with her parents? Or his parents? i cannot tell.
@@niledemitri3079 she’s a biological girl, she just has a deep voice because of the voice-drop cause by testosterone
Almighty God bless her for having the courage to go public; her testimony will literally save lives.
God doesn't exist
@@aeyorhyno you won't be saying that in the end
@@elijahjksn fr
Why will it save lives ?
The woman is like God, the life giver
WOW! The woman, the counterpart of man, is named Eve, because she is the life-giver. Are you as astonished as I am at this?
Who is the first Giver of life? Jehovah God! He envisioned the universe, a universe that would not be empty: it would have life. So God gave life to plants, and a higher form of life, the breath of life, to animals. And finally he created the human, the reflection of His image. WOW! Amazing! Wonderful!
But then what did he do? He envisioned and created the woman to replicate what He had done. She was conceived, designed and purposed to be a LIFE-GIVER!
Oh, my dear sisters in both Eve and in Christ, do you stand in wonder over who you are? Do you understand that you are the mother of all living? Do you understand that life would cease without you? Do you realize that your call is not only to conceive life, but, as Lydia Sigourney reminds us, to light the lamp of the eternal soul?
To my dear brothers in Adam and in Christ, do you not realize that you would not be alive without the life-giver? Do you honor and respect women as your coheirs and coequals? Or do you see yourself as superior to women? If so, stop right now and thank God for giving you life through the life-giver. Thank God that He has provided the “crescendo of creation” to share your life. Be the husband God intended, one who honors the bride He gave you.
I watched this through my therapist lens and I've determined: he's incredibly tender, patient, and empathic with his clients. He carefully listens to her tone changing during traumatic recalling and he doesn't miss a note. I know he has become many things, but he's a clinical psychologist at his core.
Ikr?
Imagine this guy being your dad.
A remarkable human being. I would give him refuge in my home anytime. The guys honesty is something to behold.
@@wiederganger1959 I imagine his children are very psychologically balanced.
I can see Therapy at a psychological level but seeing this philosophical, it shows that people struggle with morality and pressured by the culture based on their ideology.
It is truly saddening.
I sincerely feel for her. The adults didn't protect the child.
Let’s all give this girl credit for sharing her story and struggles. These topics are personal and intimate but she chose to share her experience to help others and I think she’s amazing and extremely brave.
Please use his right pronouns him and he
@@christinacunnard9914 no, she transitioned to a he, now she is back to where she started
@@christinacunnard9914 please tell me you’re joking…
Chloe, she s a girl. Maybe you weren t pay attention
Please use his real pronouns
People who are and have been pushing his fantasy on thinking that he could become a woman are the problem quite frankly evil
I'm 28 and female, I have a toddler at home and I'm currently pregnant. I started this video expecting my hormonal self to cry at some point. I didn't think it would happen in the first min... 😭 This sweet, beautiful young woman deserved so much better than this... I can't stop weeping for her and other young girls and boys going through this. I had "gender dysphoria" and I was a tom boy with mostly male friends. I was lucky that I grew up right before all of this craziness 🥺 I'm so so sorry Chloe... You'll always be one of the girls.
@@ross_ulbright7779 😂
Agreed
i felt the same way in the first minute! 😭 ...my son is 10yo, i'm a 48yo mother... i was so moved by her retrospective that i was compelled to comment with my own experience, quite parallel to hers esp in body development. and same as you, i luckily grew up during a time not too far before this craziness. 1992 saw the birth of internet AND my HS graduation haha. yes. very lucky.
and important to note, i think, how Dr Peterson responds to what she says. he qualifies it by telling her how her individual story fits into what is 'commonly' known about gender, puberty, and physiological development et al. no judgment AT ALL, no leading her to any conclusions. it must be a relief of sorts to hear that in response to her telling her story. what a confusing time made even more confusing by the confusion around gender etc and the confusion propogated by the maelstrom of expressed opinion in social media. i can't even imagine how solitary her experience has been! and never knowing how, for the most part, it was the same for most of her peers. social media really puts this 'third man' in the mix - the other personality/character created by the mix of the exchange between people...
I’m 27, female and currently pregnant. I didn’t cry at all over this, rather I’m purely disgusted this happened and is happening to many.
Same.... This is absolutely gut wrenching and heartbreaking.
I was also a tomboy. Wishing I was born a boy. Hating that my budding breasts showed. Being a hardcore gamer mostly hanging with boys.
I would've been mutilated if I grew up today.
I didn't want to be a girl. But when I got older, I wanted to be a woman.
I've breastfed two children for two years each. It would've broken me to not be able to..
How she describes herself was me. I'm 40 now, was finally diagnosed both on the spectrum and ADHD, and struggled with all the same things growing up. Artistic, always been a tomboy, developed wonky, related more with boys, etc. Luckily I was left alone and allowed to figure things out on my own, and am now a happily married mom of 2. Had society been then what it is today, I could very easily have been deceived, as she was. My heart breaks for her and the youth of today.
You have to be an incredibly gracious individual to not let the resentment consume you after a tragedy like this.
For sure. Most of our childhoods were stolen. But this is an entirely different animal masked as a good societal deed
Amen! Well stated
God bless her soul.
in a way this is an area that she needs to explore/understand to help her find peacefulness. The element of resentment pushing her new direction could be a part of it..... (as well as grief/ self disappointment for past path etc.)...... but also she needs to being mindful to ensure this path taking is not similar to the last..... aka...... gravitating toward a path that is giving her temporary positive affirmations... instead of one that is giving her a more balanced long term peace in the soul.
It is going to be a long road. She will overcome though.... in time.
@Louis Steven sounds like your daughter's issues that classify her in Autism Spectrum were environmental related. Glad that worked out for you. It does some. Your a good dad to have pursued that avenue. You don't know till you try.
As a breast cancer survivor and one who received a single mastectomy, I cannot even believe these type of procedures are allowed on kids. My god, I am floored and heartbroken. Do you know how much therapy I needed after losing one of my breasts? My god, I made a medically informed decision that I didn’t want to have to make, but one that ultimately more than likely saved my life. I am almost 4 years out and I still struggle, I am 53!!
Sorr to hear this kelley, i imagine that is a huge loss that has you grieving too, its abominable that such procedures are promoted on children these days, what has happened to our world. i hope you get some peace and healing each and everyday.
God bless you. I can't imagine how hard that must've been let alone for a child to go through a mastectomy for vanity purposes.
This makes me so concerned for young people today. As a biological woman, I can say without a doubt that I couldn’t have anticipated how much certain things would mean to me down the road from childhood and adolescence. I couldn’t have known how much I would want a child from my own womb and to have the chance to feed that child with my own breasts. Having lost a baby was devastating so I can’t even imagine what it would have been like to wake up one day and realize I gave up the ability to even try entirely. And not being able to breastfeed my rainbow baby that we were blessed with after the loss was another horrible experience even though I am fully abled and breastfed my babies prior to that. It breaks my heart to hear that people are giving this choice to kids when they have no idea what they are accepting to put themselves through.
I'm in a similar position to you and I was thinking how much physical pain I Still experience from my mastectomy 6 years on let alone the upset emotionally... and just feel so much sadness for this young lady......
My mom survived stage 4 breast cancer she had to have an breast removed she's doing OK now, I lost an child hood cousin two months ago from breast cancer and an aunt it's bad in my family.
The “how was I supposed to know”, that one sentence in this entire interview just wrings my heart. In a big hug, I want to tell her, “baby, you weren’t, the adults should have protected you and guided you to the right resources and provided you with all options before resorting to what you went through.
Thank you! The adults and doctors in her life should be held accountable for not helping her properly OR giving her ALL THE FACTS!!!
@@lisagow1482 and they too don't know any different! "Should" does not exist only reality exists!
@@lisagow1482 the problem is we don't have the punishments anymore for what these people deserve. As far as I'm concerned (and I will never change my mind on this) if they participated in doing this shit to kids then their life is forfeit. They have fundamentally failed as a human being and have crossed a line that cannot be crossed.
When she said "I was just a kid" that really hit me, how do we let this happen to children I can't wrap my head around it.
Agree 110%🙌
This is so gut wrenching to watch, as a teen I was exactly like chloe, to the point of coming out to a couple of friends as trans, creating social media profiles where I presented as a boy, binding my chest, only ever cutting my hair short and so on. My only difference is I never came out to my parents as I knew they wouldn't support me, and therefore was never able to get medicated or even remotely close to having that surgery. But just like her, at around 16, I realized that that gender indentity was not for me and that I was indeed a woman, just more masculine then some, but had I had different parents, had I been affirmed by medical profesionals at that age, had I been socially incentivized to go through it, I 100% would've, and that is a scary thought, I was a confused and insecure teen, easily convinced by the internet and my peers, desperately seeking acceptance and some form of happiness with how I looked, I thought that being a man would "fix everything" I'd be more handsome as a man than I was pretty as a woman, I'd be stronger, more athletic, I'd be able to wear masculine clothes without judgement, get attention from the girls I was into at the time, not have to suffer through the "horrible reality of being a woman", this could've been me, and I'm so glad it didn't turn out like that.
Just imagine how common this story will be in 10yrs... the maturity and intellence she displays at such a young age, after having endured so much trauma is inspiring... best of luck to her.
you act as if being trans is new?
There are plenty of examples of hundreds of years ago trans people existing. We'd know more if the college of sex wasnt destroyed by Christians in Germany during the dark ages.
For every de-transition story there are hundreds of successes.
We should all remember that trans people make up about 2% of our population, less of those people get surgery, and far less of those people de-transition. So, there seem to be a lot of Cis straight people watching very long documentaries about people they very well may never meet. but sure have a lot of ways they want to use the federal and state governments to remove their freedom.
Parents need to listen to Dr Peterson talking with this young woman and her traumatic experience to get some insight into normal development.
Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens.
@@helenmacphee6594 There is no question thar "Parents need to talk and listen to their young teens." HOWEVER, just as importantly, parents really need to work to end the indoctrination, the grooming, of children by tv, by Big Tech, by schools, which is where the damage creating confusion in the children's minds starts! DAMMIT!
He's pretty.
@@Stefan-ox5sk wdym "he" ?
I used to hate my parents for not letting me "erase" my female parts. I hated looking and feeling like a girl as a teen, and I hated that I was so unattractive. I thought if i was just an "Ugly Person" it would be less hurtful than being an "Ugly Girl". I am so happy and thankful that my mom and dad, who were strong enough and so forward thinking that I would grow into my looks, that I'd hit a "glow up" after a few years. Now at 20, I feel like a beautiful woman, I love the stereotypical makeup and dress, that I would have hated as a kid. I feel more valuable now that I'm not in competition for approval from my peers.
(Sorry if there were bad English grammer, still learning)
Your English is perfect and thank you for sharing your story!
Sorry for my bad English
Proceeds to write the most perfect comment known to mankind.. I was just joking.. you're English is perfect buddy. Godspeed 👍
@@literallyme12 Thank you, I am really glad to hear it. 💕
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Absolutely agree. I was the girly girl but my young years say junior year into my college years is where I became pretty. I had naturally curly hair and I hated it. This was in the 80’s. It was just a lot of work and frizzy and rain just ruined my hair. Swimming, which I lived on a lake, was a nightmare for me. All the girls hair dried so nice and strange and I’m sitting there with a giant head of fuzz. I love it now. People compliment it all the time. My daughter has it and goes through the same things I did but she has me and way better products. Her hair drys In beautiful spirals so I think she’s nuts for hating it. Lol
Let's all take a moment to give Chloe our upmost love and support!
Chloe! You are my hero. You can be an inspiration. Ask God to guide You!!
She’s going to save so many… her parents are insane!!! Love you Chloe not your fault! ❤
@@SanctifiedLadyinsane? I wouldn't call them that. They just trusted what medical professionals told them. It's either this or a dead child. Like mr Peterson said, they were backed into a corner where they seemed to have to pick between bad choices, one being fatal. It's very very sad.
@@SanctifiedLadyshe doesn’t blame her parents.
I'm 65 and find I gotten hots for for her. I'll do the right and have her over at my place. We sit and talk watch some movie. Trust me no bedtime together just bit fun no hanky panky at first. Just nice relaxing time together.
I got a double mastectomy at 30 because of breast cancer and it was BRUTAL, I felt mutilated. I cannot understand how a parent lets a child go through this.
My God. She said "how was I supposed to know" that just broke my heart. I remember being an adolescent and how confusing and conflicting that time of life was, and wanting to be something different. How can adults allow this to happen to a child who has no life perspective and at that isn't even fully developed?
Yeah, that was pretty heartbreaking...
I know. It hurt me so much to see how hurt she is. And she started at 12! Imagine the kids who start taking crap as young as 8-9.
Your question has only a singular, tragically simple answer: ideology.
When following a predetermined set of ideals handed to us by others, then logic and rational thinking are the first to leave.
At that moment, that broke me too. When she started to cry, I felt her pain and sorrow. And seeing Jordan also tear up, made it such a pathetically emotional moment. This poor girl is living with the legacy of the crazed trans agenda, which is supported by crazed trans medical so called professionals!! Yet, she is the strongest person to be leading the charge of detransitioners, with such dignity and grace, whilst trying to come to terms with what has been done to her body and psyche. Amazing human being.....
When I was in puberty I stayed off of social media if someone told me to cut my junk off I would have told them to go fuck themselves I can't imagine doing it because your so called "friends" told you to
I am a 52-year-old female, married 27 years to a wonderful man with two adult sons. I grew up at a time when (thankfully) kids were allowed to go through all the normal growing pains, without having those pains (physical and emotional) used to manipulate their young thoughts and feelings. But I was a tom boy. I hung out with boys, rode dirt bikes and BMX bikes - hated dolls and Barbies. I developed earlier than my friends, and definitely had what we now call 'body dysmorphia' ... but what girl didn't? I have thought about girls like me, tom boys growing up in this broken world, not allowed to just grow into themselves. I think how different my experience would be, if I were a child now, and it's terrifying ... and then to listen to this girl, this younger version of me, having actually lived through it. It just makes me weep. Yeah, I was a tom boy - but I am fully and happily female. Enjoyed pregnancy, and breastfeeding, and nurturing my children. And that all could have been taken away .. just as it is being taken away now, but so-called "well-meaning" adults. It should be a crime. Instead - it's a crime to speak against it.
You nailed it exactly. It's terrifying to imagine how psychologically derailed we would all have been had we been manipulated by psychologists to disorient ourselves away from our biological sex before having had a chance to come to understand ourselves in terms of our own biological sex. I knew tomboys who grew up to be unbelievably beautiful women. I agree with you that this is terrifying. My heart breaks for children the way adults have complicated growing up.
Very well said, at 12 I thought I should be a boy, but grew out of the phase. Still a tomboy to this day, and a happy mother. I fear for these kids.
That's my story also. I was a tom boy, I played guitar, learned judo, my fav book characters who I wanted to become were males. The only female characters I could rely to was Eowina from Tolkien. Also a tom boy, who hated being a women. I hated my body, it grosed me out. And I felt it more or less until I became a mother and felt and learned what it means to be a women. I love my feminine energy, I love everything from body to soul. I think that if I would be growing up now I would've been trans. Or at least a non- binary. This would be a total f*ck up.
I’m 50 and this young woman was me back in the day! I too had major issues with not fitting in, body insecurities, fear of pregnancy, absolute stress about periods. Was surrounded with negative comments about being a woman. Not to mention the fear of being overpowered physically by men and their unwanted sexual advances.
I actually wanted to be a boy, I wanted the safety of being a boy. If I had been born 30 years later I know I would have been in this young woman’s shoes! 😢 With a mutilated body too😟. I am balling my eyes out for this young woman! She was not given a chance, to become fully what she was meant to be. A mature woman!
Because I was left alone to mature I became a Mother of three and now a grandmother! What is the matter with us humans! Let our children mature, let Mother nature be😢
Thanks so much for sharing an insight here. I hope people in going back to the 70's and 80's growing up it should have been okay to either be a "tomboy" or actually be attracted to one. I was born in 1982 in a small town where I had two notable crushes both on very assertive and competitive girls, both tomboys & still wonderfully cute in my opinion & respectfully "shapely", who may be considered Tomboyish yet masculine in ways to a limited degree. They both crushed hard on me also. One might laugh at this but I considered them both great people.
I could imagine if they were bombarded with the literature of today they may have seriously considered physical changes. I am In no way against this, but now as a 40yr old my first thought is this:
"Why is no one putting forward the contention that perhaps "The wisest time to make the best decision with bodily physical alternations with results that will repercuss into the next 40 to 50yrs of your remaining life may not be at best during puberty where ones ability to make rational thoughts and considerations is probably not just inopportune but terrible".
Since those times I've only ever had heterosexual relationships, with obvious women lol. My proclivity has always been hetero & with no phobia I can honestly say women in a honorable & non-objectifying way are my thing. I'm into the normalities, with one exception which has carried on since those childhood years: A woman who cannot deal with a spider on their own is the biggest turnoff I've ever experienced. Not joking at all.
I am a 47 year old, current security professional, former 82nd Airborne Division paratrooper and combat veteran. I am not given to tears, but the end segment had me crying for all that has been stolen from this young woman. She should have had a protector, an advocate. I can't begin to imagine the kind of hell she went through and is going through. This madness has to STOP.
I had a comment for you but I guess it was censored out I don't know, anyway people do have feelings especially when it comes to kids that's what makes us human, thank you for your service in the 82nd Airborne
Yes, I agree with you, sir! Also, I can't help, but think about the song titled "82nd all the way" by Sabaton... sorry, haha. Jokes aside, thank you for your service.
Amen, thank you for your service. ✝️
You're not the only one.
Who isn't wrecked seeing that?
I was surprised that she started her transition mainly because she didn't think she was voluptuous enough and didn't think her breasts were large enough. But she was only 13. She could have looked more voluptuous by the time she reached her later teens. It's sad that it seems like nobody told her that. Plus, body trends change. In some eras, being thin instead of voluptuous was the trend. And men like various body types. But what really matters the most in the end is health, as she found out.
At the age of 13 ive been miss informed, badly manipulated into a surgery ( not about my gender but i listened to the whole interview and i can relate) , the doctor never explained to me what they were going to do to me, never gave me details, i just trusted my Mother who was under heavy depression at that time. Anyway they ruined my body and face at 14, all for nothing. Im 37 now , still recovering to heal .
This woman is very strong, Peterson has usual , deep true therapist
I can tell she felt embarrassed talking about some of her situation, but she’s helping so many people. It takes so much courage to talk about it. You’re amazing & beautiful Chloe!!
She is.
Agreed. So brave and eloquent and intelligent. Very impressed by this young woman and so sad for her struggle to put her life back together
Agree completely she is beautiful and strong 😊
It doesn't take "courage" it takes selfishness and self-pity to blame others for your mistakes. He/She/It is just trying to get money for nothing with this frivolous lawsuit. Why does it not blame it's parents who allowed it to go through with this? Because the parents probably don't have a pot to piss in and there is no money there.
@@jasonknight9679 I don’t understand why you’re trying to talk logic about a young girl with an undeveloped frontal lobe and institutions and cultures who demonize and sometimes straight up remove children from homes unless their parents affirm their decided gender. It makes no sense to you? congratulations it doesn’t to most of the population.
The reason why parents cannot be blamed is because they’re are guilt tripped and scared into believing this because of the threat of their kids removing themselves from the earth (you know what i mean). It’s straight up manipulation by the medical establishment to comply. Parents SEEK help through medical professionals, wouldn’t it make sense to believe mental health personnel who went to school for these things? They let them down and should be held accountable and responsible.
The child is automatically free from responsibility because they have no idea what’s going on! Even with parental consent if medical providers provide this type of “treatment” to kids, they should be brought to the courts. it shouldn’t be PARENTS to tell doctors “please don’t take the healthy body parts off my daughter”. they should KNOW that it’s a bad idea. FULL STOP.
"How was I supposed to know?" And like that, I broke with her in tears. We have to protect our children!
Where are the parents?
@@L_E_D_777 It is illegal to deny your child sex change if they want it. They will call it child abuse and take your child from you, raise it in poverty in a group home, and give them a sex change anyways. The parents are powerless because we allow people with bad ideas to vote. This is why democracy is dangerous, idiots are allowed to rule us.
That is where parents step in. They would have signed the surgical Consent Forms.
Shame on them
@@cobar5342 The parents can say "well sorry you feel that way, we all make decisions in life and have to deal with them. You made the decision to transition, therefore it is not our fault".
@@cobar5342
Did you actually listen to this interview?
I have followed JBP for about 5 years now, almost from the beginning of C16 in Canada. We don't often get to see him in full "clinical psychologist" mode. What a gift he has for enlightening people without telling them what to think or feel. Brilliant.
same here
Here’s three ❤
Yesssss
Absolutely x Chloe was just a perfect example of bravery n strength within x How one can go through what Chloe did and still appear unharmed is beyond belief
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We saw the truth of it then and knew it would lead here,
Despite the trauma she has experienced, Chloe is strong and brave. My prayers that she will continue to heal from the abuse, physical and emotional damage caused to her.
What these people did to this young girl is reprehensible and unforgivable. So heartbreaking.
She is taking them to court!!!!
God bless this brave girl and her family. May the Great Spirit be with them and may Karma be paid.
I don't care about these messes, transitioned or not lol. Have fun with your broken brain, people.
@@swedanna Well, she asked for it. Screw her and her buyer's remorse.
@@swedannashe can take the doctors to court, not the cancer community that pushed the child into doing this, is the sad part. I would beat them with Bamboo sticks for this...
When she said, "I feel like a broken woman..." and she's only 18 yrs old, it broke my heart. This is a heartbreaking story. I'm so sorry for what she went through. It is maddening and sickening that so-called professionals are so cavalier and even pathological in their practice that they could do this to a teenage girl. My heart goes out to her and I wish her health, happiness and a full recovery.
jordan peterson sounds like a transman, just like ben shapiro
@@alphabetpeople2902Looks like we’ve got a groomer in the chat.
@@hops4284 HE RAPES (ANIMALS TOO):
L = LESBIAN (WOMAN ON WOMAN - HUMAN)
GAY = (MAN ON MAN - HUMAN)
BI SEXUAL = (MAN AND WOMAN COMBINED - HUMAN).
T = TRANSGENDER (FRANKENSTEIN MEN AND WOMEN - HUMAN)
Q = QUEER (ALL IN ORGIES, BI, GAY, AND LESBIAN).
SO THAT COVERS ALL HUMAN SEXUAL BEHAVIOR.
NOW, WHAT IS THE "+" FOR??? WE'LL SEE VERY SHORTLY.
+ = 🐈 🐕 🐢 🐇 🐒 🐴 🐍 🐦
YEAH, I LEARNED THIS ON JSTOR. THEY SAID THE "+" FULLY RESPRESENTS ZOOPHILIA.
I GUESS THEY WERE ALL BORN WITH THE GENE TO PENETRSTE BEASTS ABD OR LET THE BEASTS KISS, LICK, AND FONDAL ON THEIR GENITALIA.
WHAT NARRATIVE WILL WE HAVE NEXT??? WE MUST GET RID IF THE NOUNS "HUMAN," "BEAST," AND "ANIMALS".
@@jamesmullins1990 you are evil
I sincerely feel for her. The adults didn't protect the child.
This is amazing to me. I'm 33 years old, I started developing at 9 years old, got my period at 11, HATED IT, hated my body, hated the experience - everything. I would lay in bed and cry about being a girl. It felt so unfair. My mom told me I would grow out of it, and I did, but oh my god was that a visceral feeling back then. I can't imagine if someone had enabled that delusion.
It wasn't being a girl, it was about growing up and and stop being a child. I am 61 and still remember how I hated having a chest and God forgive me, pubic hair. Hated, hated it. I put on the largest T shirt or sweat shirt I could find. Then at 40 you would find me in my best shape in form fitting clothes. Dr Peterson is so right. Most of us go through about 3 years of misery. You don't see a handsome boy in middle school, they all look goofy and covered with pimples. I didn't own a dress or skirt till about 10th grade. I think we all want to conserve the innocence and carelessness of being a child.
Do you think that may happen because most parents avoid talking about period? Here in Brazil, we speak openly about this, and no one seems to feel uncomfortable with it; even little boys know women go through it and understand they can get emotionally unstable sometimes. But when I went on a cultural exchange to the US, it seemed a tabu to talk about period, and they also considered it extremely disgusting, which I believe contributes to girls hating their bodies and the experience. They should know about it from an early age and they must understand that it is something natural, part of who they are; there's nothing wrong or unfair about it.
@@anacarolinarochasantos I think a lot of it is being sorted into the "woman" category. Adults tend to mostly treat boys and girls the same. And suddenly puberty hits and people stop thinking of you as "a kid" and suddenly there are expectations and restrictions that weren't there before.
For myself, I was happy to be a girl, never wanted to be a boy, but I didn't want to grow up and be a woman. I saw that my dad and uncles were jolly and relaxed during family gatherings, and my mom and aunts were constantly working.
And when I was about 13, my preferred ways of helping became strange. Like, while setting something up, I might find myself being pushed away from carrying tables and chairs, and toward wiping down the tables and getting the food ready. This pressure came from the adults' example mostly, but also from the boys not wanting me there and the girls giving me "you're so immature unlike us" vibes.
I was pretty disgruntled about the whole thing for a while. (Honestly, still am, but I don't have the teen fervour, lol) I think that's natural.
I'm a grown woman now, and am fine with myself not fitting into some kind of feminine mold. It feels weird and self-conscious as a teen, but you grow into yourself and it's fine. I'm not the stereotype of the anxious, gentle mother who loves to feed her family, but I'm fine with that. I'm the mom who encourages the kids to do things that in hindsight, were pretty dangerous and maybe a mistake, because it was fun and stretching for their confidence. I was the one to rough house with them, because it's fun! I'm definitely the emotional supporter and the one they run to for hugs like a "proper mother", but also I do wish that these creatures didn't have to eat so often, as I hate cooking! I have never felt "mom guilt" about leaving kids at a babysitter for the evening to go out and have fun, but I'm also completely obsessed with my children and love being a SAHM. I'm naturally quite strong, and much prefer physically difficult work to tediously detailed work, which apparently is more "masculine". However, I have a close group of friends that I need to see often, just to talk, which apparently is "feminine". I don't really wear makeup, but I like getting dressed up once in a while.
What I'm saying is that I think the teens these days think that everyone needs to fit into a stereotype, and if they don't completely fit this mold, probably they need to change themselves to fit another mold.
I feel very sorry for them. Life isn't like that, and I wish that was more acknowledged. It's so strange to me that in the age of "acceptance", it can't be okay to be a woman who doesn't think, look, and act like everyone might expect without having some sort of identity crisis. The lines are even more rigid than when I grew up in a very traditional area in the 80s and 90s.
For me, although it was weird and embarrassing, the physical changes were not the biggest part of it. I felt quite strongly that I was not beautiful and never would be because I was big, round face, glasses, and there was a bit of despair and hopelessness there. I had accepted at age ten that I'd never look like a princess, I was more like a giant. So I decided that I wouldn't worry about it, and wouldn't try to be pretty with make-up because that would make it worse by making me look ridiculous. At least I didn't look hideous, and I'd work on having a good personality and hope that would be acceptable. Only in my 30s did I look back and think "oh, actually I was quite beautiful". I was Jennifer Lawrence (obviously not as pretty) during a time when beautiful meant Kiera Knightley.
@@er6730 Loved it.
I find it a little funny cause i went through some similar things and others things quite the oposite 🤣
Unfortunately people don't learn with the mistakes from the past, i don't even know why we had history classes..
I agree 💯 that we should talk openly with our children, not only is our duty and responsibility, but also because we are in a world now where all the information about anything is in everywhere. So If we (as their safe people) don't talk about those things, first they will not be prepared, and second they will feel ir atracted to it (example sex) or reject it (body changes, etc)
What is most important is people start to understand this, and understand how things work, specially mentally. We must accept ourselfs, and work to be the best version that we can be. Accepting our virtues, and our weaknessess. Because we are unique.
A lot of people should do shadow work honestly. 🦋
@@furerorban1488 What in the world are you talking about?! 🤣
This should be REQUIRED VIEWING for anyone looking to transition.
I tried to get my tubes tied when I was 18 and my doctor said I was not allowed to unless I had given birth to three children. I am 34 now and have only just started wanting kids and am glad I was never allowed to do anything medical to myself even at 18.
Very unfortunately my older brother had a vasectomy at 18!. He is now 62 and has gone on to help raise 3 children and 2 more for a short time. He was only 21 when he put his name on his future wife’s just born child’s birth certificate. That was only 3 years that he went from vasectomy to being dad when he didn’t have to be.
you know the fact the doctor around her let her do this is so disgusting
when she herself barely understood what she was doing
Well at least tube tying and vasectomies are mostly reversible. Imagine if it was that easy to just get your ovaries removed.
@@jesusofbulletsTubals are not reversed successfully hardly if ever. Most now are completely taken out. Vasectomy reversal is the same. Scar tissue developed in both cases but tubals are usually a removal and not "tied." Also have to account for ovarian dysfunction after a tubal......both my mom and sister went into menopause at 39-40 after theirs.
I had one of my ovaries taken out 3 years ago when I was 32. Yes I ready have 2 children but want more and I'm having extreme anger and regret that my doctor said I should remove the whole ovary instead of just the cysts. My new obgyn said in young women they usually don't want to remove the whole ovary unless it's cancer so it seems my other doctor went against the stand of care but there's nothing I can do about it now.
This young lady is going to help a lot of people. She is so strong. I hope she receives a lot of money from the lawsuits against her doctors.
More than just the money. I hope they seize those doctors licenses. It’s time we start banning the psychopaths from hospitals.
@@Fred-wy7bt Actually it is the politicians that promote laws allowing children to have these life altering operations when they are going through puberty and are confused. These politicians should be charged with crimes against humanity.
She should sue her parents as well.
98-99% of transitioners have no regrets over their decision. And the minority not in that percentage primarily de-transitioned due to pressure around societal stigma and harassments afterwards, which makes sense. I have no monkey in this fight. I only follow what science and studies say. And so far 27 studies of over 8000 cases and medical professionals all side with these therapies. So like... I don't understand the passion people like you have against helping people live the lives that evidence heavily indicates they want to. Gender dysphoria has real consequences on quality of life (and I'd assume lifespan in general when you consider the high number of suicides) for these 98-99% of people, as real as this girl's alleged consequences. So I mean, mistakes can happen, sure, but like it seems to me this is a matter of which is doing the greater good for these individuals... and it's pretty clear this girl is in the extreme minority, but willing to sacrifice the potential improvements to live and pursuits of happiness of a huge majority of people. I dunno man sounds effed.
@@johnjingleheimersmith9259 not true. Like JP points out, no long term studies exist. It is taking YEARS for these folks to realize that transitioning didn't heal their traumas and did then. They THINK they are satisfied for years until they realize they're still plagued by their past. All we have as of now for evidence of long term outcome is anecdotal information. And what I am seeing is 2 to 3 new videos EVERY day onb you tube of detransitioners who've destroyed they natural bodies and are warning others not to do this until they've had the MONTHS, if not YEARS of weekly therapy that JP describes during this interview.
Accepting your biology as it is naturally is healthy! These poor people are not mentally healthy.
These surgeons and hospital executives need to be in prison. What they're doing to kids is unforgivable. This is so heartbreaking, I can't even fully grasp it.
They need to be housed with the "General" prison population. And when an incarcerated father who loves his own Daughter(s) despite his own crime finds out what a Doctor ? has done to a young girl....well....there will soon be a vacant bed.
@@steveclujhawkins8063 I'm with you on that!!!
We are very long overdue with this "civilized" nonsense. Tolerance is abused to cover for literal evil.
Time to embrace some more direct approach.
If actions and deeds go without consequences, civilization is already abandoned. Than it is anarchy and barbarism. If that is what they want, SO BE IT!
They need to be jailed
@@steveclujhawkins8063 Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
"How was I supposed to know?"
That broke me, every aspect of her tone tells of story of her being betrayed, misled and cheated. This is the definition of cruelty and injustice.
It’s riveting to see JP in action in his role as a clinical psychologist. Simultaneously, brilliant, incisive and caring. I wish I had had this guy to talk to when I was a kid.
@JordanPeterson- Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
It’s definitely something. Don’t think he is playing that role exactly, but we can see a lot of those practical techniques and sensitivities shine through.
thanks for making me throw up
@@rickmcmillan6442 I’m sorry to hear that.
@@dvango7090 Yes, that’s a more accurate depiction.
No, Chloe, it wasn't all for nothing. You could be the person that causes all this madness to stop and to help prevent this happening from other girls and boys. You are already making a huge impact by coming here and sharing these details with the world. Thank you for being so brave...one of those traits you were seeking in the beginning, you had it all along ❤️
She's still so young, I hope that eventually she understands and realizes what you just said. She is far beyond most adults already,so I can't imagine her not.
so..nothing then?
Wonderfully said. Thank you.❤
@highroller 1207 yes, exactly 🙄
@highroller 1207 so you don't believe this is modern-day genital mutilation being performed on little children?
How is it in a country where the legal drinking age is 21, that children can be 'allowed' to make such life altering decisions? As a mother, this video hurt to watch and I am appalled that this was allowed to happen. Be brave and stand strong Chloe, regardless of what your detractors may try to throw at you. Thank you Dr. Peterson and Chloe for this video.
How? The surgeries are anywhere from $30-$70,000 it’s pretty easy to see why why they are allowing it. Have a lot a foreign born physicians in this country who will do anything for money which is a factor.
unrelated
@@pilipollo6193 ?
The protections we have in place today are sadly the results of tragedies that have happened over the years. Safety-seals on pill bottles, child-proofing products for households, seatbelts, and many more we made _after_ the loss of innocent lives. This will one day be looked at as another terrible mistake, like doctors telling patients to smoke cigarettes to help with a cough.
What always surprises me is that. Drinking and even tattooing requires a certain age. Which is minor and easy to reverse while changing your gender is possible at 12? What a paradox. Kids are kids and are in the hands of their parents because they don’t think right. Who are this people who allowed this a 12 years old ? In Australia it is 16. That is not even enough. It should be 25 when a persons brain is 100% developed. ….. I don’t know where this is going.
Dear Chloe, I've been following your story for a year or so. I must comment on what beautiful and intelligent and well-spoken woman you are. To have come through all of this with such a balanced and sound mind is a testament to what a strong and courageous woman you are. I believe that through your pain, what you have learned will be instrumental to the healing of many others who are suffering. You have experienced this for a great purpose. You will go so far in life with your depth of understanding and insight. You've come through this as the courageous and strong person that you had longed to be as a child! And, you are beautiful and feminine in all of that strength! I pray that knowing these things to be true will imbue you with a well-earned sense of confidence. I imagine that your parents have provided you much support despite their bewilderedment through all of this as well. It shows in your resilience and ability to express yourself, that despite the mistakes they made in parenting, they love and support you immensely! I am so proud of you as a human being and young woman!
Chloe is so amazing!!! How many people are brave enough to speak about their demons publicly??? She's awesome!!!
And she's beautiful for me she still looks like a beautiful girl 😍
..and what a beautiful smart girl. Puberty are such tough years and to go thru it at such a young age, before her other little friends, then coupled with self-image doubts. Shame she did not have soomeone like Dr. Peterson when she was younger.
Amazing!!!
With the huge disrespect and forceful changes to womanhood experience daily dictionary, more and more detransitioners speak, when people started objecting to factual heresies. So we should support them as much as we can, as they are the living warning that no one listens to when it comes from women, warning towards vulnerable. We're only named and shamed as being phobic.
OMG true! It's a rollarcoster of emotions, It's inspiring. sad and brave. I could've never do such interview. This is the only reason I avoid therapy.
I am stunned, that while going through everything Chloe went through, she managed to grow up to be such a smart, eloquent, articulate, calm and composed person. I hope she manages to open the eyes of many people, to save others from going through what she went through.
Anyone can be saved from going through that, it's simple: don't be a mentally ill disaster demanding to be cut up.
I was so close to suffering this same thing. About 3 years ago I was taught in my elementary school about the lgbt and that if I didn’t like my body I was trans. Me only being 12, I went along with it. It wasn’t until just about a month ago when I started to realize the truth. Thankfully, I never took any blockers or hormones or anything. The furthest I got was wearing a binder and legally changing my name (which I’ve now just legally changed back). I thank god and my guides everyday for not letting me go any further to mutilate my body. I’ve now lost quite a few friends because of my views on being trans, but that’s ok. Im gonna fight for what I believe
Good on you! ❤
You have lived experience, don't let them invalidate it.
You are powerful and continue to speak your truth bc it is so inspirational. Don’t fret those lost bc they weren’t your real friends. We have to ultimately live with our choices, not those who try to impose their ideals on us. You done what was right for you and it will continue to serve you ❤
In the book, Man's Search for Meaning, by Viktor E. Frankl, who was a concentration camp victim, Frankl talks about how tragedies can make you a better person, or a terrible person. You can rise above it spiritually, or you can become no better than an animal. Your struggles are still ongoing, as such things are, but it's made you a better person, Shelena. And that's really the whole point of life: to be tried and tested and refined. God bless you and don't ever stop fighting.
Sending prayers and strength your way to continuously make the right decision.
Those psychopaths,who destroying life of our children and families should be accountable!!
And parents or legal guardians too .
I am an old man and I cried while listening to the tragedy of this most beautiful, most intelligent, most courageous young lady. My God! What a lesson in humility as well as outpouring strength that emanates from her. Also, what a vivid view of the deep empathy and concern from Jordan for this girl in particular but also for any, all kids that face similar personal, social and institutional experiences. At the same time that my love just sprouts out of me for Chloe, there is an equally significant amount of hatred, anger, and horrific disgust for the "professionals" who tossed Chloe into a tornado of emotional turbulence that will probably follow her throughout her life. Chloe's strength in accepting her own actions, and being aware of the consequences for her future life, becomes even more striking when we realize that she will use her position to help turn around the current insanity of "professionals" in our society to remain as an emotionally untouched gang of ghetto-camp-like executioners and thus save innumerable kids from suffering like she did and still does.
Well said, Sir!
I’m here crying 😭 I’m an hour and twenty minutes in 1:20
Check out Boyce of Reason Podcast. He interviews detransitioners in an effort to get the word out about what's going on with children.
@jenny hubbock you may be right, that does happen. But I believe this man is sincere, cut Gaetano a break. This is a harrowing tale
Seriously buddy. I’m a grown ass man with a tear in my eye for this poor, misled, and butchered child. This stuff has to stop.
It's ironic that she initially wanted to transition so she could become strong and brave because after watching this video, it's evident that she is one incredibly strong, brave young woman. May God guide and bless you Chloe. ❤
Very well said! Amen, I'll be praying for her during the Triduum..
Incredibly strong, yes! I hope she sees and knows this in herself now. I truly pray for her wellbeing mentally and physically.
People like you are very dangerous to society
Well said! I'm not a praying kinda person, but I know a strong person when I see one! Incredibly interesting and informative interview. Thank you so much, young lady, for allowing us to hear/learn about your very real, very personal experience. I hope life continues to SMILE on you, every step of the way! Take care!
Excellent diagnoses from this doctor. He addressed all the key factors that would help others to avoid getting to an extreme, almost irreversible situation. And this young lady was so brave to share her story. Thank you for getting this much needed information out into the world.
I want to give Chloe a hug so badly. None of this EVER should have happened to her, she should NEVER have been put through it. But she has the power now to affect the lives of so many kids, teens and young adults. She's an incredibly strong young woman.
No one is put through this fake medical practice that doesn't WANT it. I have no love for the surgeons, the establishment, OR the "tr@nz" people. Work on creating drugs that will fix their brains. We have stuff we can give people who think they are Napoleon. Do the same type of thing here.
She's a hero 😊🙏🛐💞
Cole not chloe
Thank you Chloe Cole for your honesty.
You add to the picture.
I once watched a documentation about another woman that went through de-tranformation. She said the thing she regretted the most was, that she lost her original voice after the breaking of the voice. That stirred me very deeply. I'm very sensitive to voices. It is a very intimate thing to me, it touches something unbodily I can't really grab. When I heard the deep voice of Chloe, I was reminded of that.
This could have been me. I was bullied by all the boys in my 6th grade class because I developed early. I too was assaulted. I too hated my changing body. My older sister was pretty and graceful, I was the opposite. I thank God I was able to grow up and accept my body. I have breast fed my 7 children and I thanked God for that gift every time. I am so sorry for all those girls that suffer through puberty and are not given the help they need.
I suspect what saved you was time…being born into a cohort where this wasn’t a thing like it is now :-0
There are men that act a bit feminine, and women that act a bit masculine, and that's just the diversity of men and women in the world.
If everyone could just accept themselves as who they are, there shouldn't be a need for transition, especially for children and teens.
@@dark3031 This is a narrative that the hard-left seems to have a big problem with. When the conversation about the nuanced crossover between male and female behavior comes up, they demand that people frame this phenomenon as gender-fluidity or gender-neutrality when that particular relationship with gender is merely their prerogative. I'm gay and I view the subtle differences in my gender expression as only the flexibility of the male gender. I do not identify as a woman at all and I am very uncomfortable expressing myself in a feminine way. I recognize the femininity inside of me and embrace it, but all that nuance gets boiled down into a sense of maleness on my own terms.
Sadly, the folks on the hard-left really don't like that. They think the system should have no rules, and I think it has rules, but that they can be bent and occasionally broken. They want to fixate on gender and turn it into their whole identity, I want my gender identity to be on the back-burner at all times. My identity far outweighs my gender identity.
This all being said, the right is only coming around to issues like transitioning and gender expression because the left led the charge. Maybe the left goes too far sometimes, but they are also the champions of real freedom of expression. These conversations needed to be had.
@@Eragarev I'm sure everyone is OK with having these conversations, at an appropriate age. But watching at Chloe talked about her experiences in the video, it's just heart breaking how children and teens are being pushed into doing something so drastic and irreversible.
Like some girls may just be feeling depressed or anxiety due to early puberty, and possibly a bit tomboyish, then there will be doctors or experts coming in to say "You're definitely a trans and you should transition, that's better for you".
I wonder why God doesn’t give people the help they need? 🤔
When I was growing up, transitioning was unheard of. But as she told of her childhood, growing up and her feelings, I realized with horror that this could’ve been me. The thing that makes this so difficult today is that it’s been politicized.
Same. I had early periods, terrible cramps. I saw how much easier it was for my brother - I wanted to have that ease and “be a boy”. I had to stay home from school on the first 2 days of my period it was so bad. TG I didn’t grow up in the current environment. No way is a child that young able to comprehend the reality and consequences
Same here. I'm a tomboy and still am at the age of 50. Just because I like hanging out with the guys doesn't mean I want to turn into a man.
of course, it was but those operations failed back then just like they do right now it was not pushed since we had the last 4 clowns who are in office Hillery Bill Obama and Biden why hillery been all over the news saying joe biden doing a good job
this is so heartbreaking bc I was so much like her as a child and I turned out totally straight and fully feminine
I was a total Tom boy and am so grateful I was allowed to be one without being butchered!
I started to experience severe gender dysphoria symptoms at the age of 16. Never had I ever had doubts regarding my gender before that. And then, suddenly it started. I would spend hours convincing myself I was meant to be a boy and with some help of social media and an "accepting" environment I was at some point hundred per cent sure about me being transgender. When people tried to tell me the opposite, I opposed it with all my might. I was lonely, exhausted, full of self-hatred and shame. Every single day for several months was a living hell. I was waiting for my 18th birthday to come just to start transitioning. And then, one day I visited a therapist. She was a brilliant woman I admired and she told me many beautiful things about womanhood. From that moment something changed inside of me. Dysphoria started slowly vanishing and I eventually realized it was there not because I was transgender. I was just a hurt, vulnerable woman with traumas and I needed to do something about that, definitely not about my genitals. It's been almost a year and I am now glad to say that I live happily as a woman, have wonderful relationship and fully embrace my femininity.
Circumstances saved me from the horrible things I wanted to do to myself. But if I had had a chance back then, I would have immediately started irreversible procedures. It scares me to even think about that. Thanks God for saving my body and soul
God bless that therapist
I hope many more confused teenagers/adults get the chance to have such a good therapist like her. I am so worried for all those who seek help but land in the hands of one of those only gender confirming, woke therapists that just push this ideology without even addressing the underlying problems. And those problems continue to hunt their patients even after they convinced them to mutilate their bodies for ever 😖
I hope you know that was satan lying to you. That was a direct attack from satan. You need to fight him and you do it with your Salvation in Christ and by the Word of God. It's powerful and iy is beautiful!
Try Jesus Christ! Call out to Him, I dare you!
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You should tell your story like this girl!
Thank you for sharing your story! So glad you're in a better position now :). Keep spreading the message, we need to stop more people from getting hurt and lied to.
This is the most candid, raw and perfect video I have seen on the subject. If each person that questioned his/her gender could have an interview like this...
How many sadistic bullies has this poor young woman encountered through life...the one in school who groped her causing massive trauma...the former friends who told her she deserved to feel bad for wanting to detransition...I mean, the fact that she has come out this and is so articulate and mature is a miracle. Wishing her the best.
That's actually pretty normal and even below-average amount of bullying, at least where I grew up. I'm way more worried about the adults in her life, and their choices
It's weird cuz it's not right in any way and there's no excuse, but I think that happened after she started the treatment, so technically she look like a guy,,,
called being human, we deal with bullshit and overcome to become stronger
@@boxman2645 That sounds ok, good for you that you're so tough, but people are diverse and many get scarred for life by bullying. Is that the fault of the one bullied or of the bully? And it's never a 'fair game'. Victims get selected on character traits predicting 'weakness'. Bullies seldomly pick a known fighter as a victim, but tend to prey on physically weaker kids. Often of a much younger age. Bullies are after all about the most cowardous people around. They hide it by bullying. Every year again, kids get depressed because of bullying. Kids even die from being bullied. Now, you might think that's not a problem, I do.
@@arturama8581 you can learn to be tough.and beat man if you want.gyms and books out their
Chloe's story makes me cry. She is the true definition of "stunning and brave" ... No one seems less accepted in this day and age than those who dare detransition and tell their stories.
@@wijnandross3475 they don't support humans, only Trans-humans. It's as prejudice as it gets.
It's extremely sad that these certain individuals who use children to push and agenda.. Is PURE EVIL!! I feel horrible for the children who need help and protection but don't get it do to all the 🤬 brainwashing these individuals bestow upon the most vulnerable!! I hope this young lady can cope and get justice she/ so many others very much deserve!!
@@nellanellaperched6767 they don't actually support trans people either, they're only using them for their political goals, and when they don't have enough for their goals? they prey in children like this and mutilate them, how disgusting
You seem the kind to call her “stunning and brace” when he was transitioning in the first place.
@@greyson7379 so you show contempt for that sort of thing? Please remember that those words exist outside of leftist political shit.
Jordan's level of compassion, empathy, and parental outrage really speaks to his character. I love this man, truly. I so admire his intellect and courage. I also admire Chloe for so bravely marching forth and speaking out when it is clearly so difficult for her to do. This was a touching interview and I wish Chloe had this level of care before seeking transition. 💚
@@SAdam-j9v he hates no one. except charlatans and slackards
@@SAdam-j9v who said that Jordan hates women ?
Great words
God i hate this biological essentialism bullshit in the beggining, do people NOT realise that this "women are weak fatigued creatures meant to nurture and not be a person, tortured by their hormones eternally" IS THE FUCKING REASON GIRLS ARE DYSPHORIC
It is because he lived a hell before becoming who he is now! He understands difficulties
Such a brave girl passing on the horrendous information.
“How was I supposed to know” was sooo heart wrenching!
This is insanity. She is beyond courageous to tell her story. Wow.
I must admit Peterson makes for a very solid therapist. Sensible, considers all angles, professional & considerate. This is a great interview for anyone to see who's in the difficult situation this young woman was in. Well done Peterson 👏
He also makes unfounded assertions of fact with no context or evidence to support them. Only suckers buy this single case as indicative of the entire issue.
@@hermannshermann6786 ugh
@@hermannshermann6786 🤮 ughhh
@@hermannshermann6786 How about making an interview with a few dozens of people that are similar to this case?
It's an example. Of course it's not all of the evidences, but it's one of them.
@Hermann citing studies is not unfounded
One of the main points that I am taking away from this girl’s courageous story is, keep your children off of social media!!
Exactly who would of thought a childhood w ur friends, playing chicken with the local train would be a far safer and socially beneficial upbringing🤙
Yes I also received this message
Absolutely!!
That is the message, but how to to achieve it? It would almost be impossible to avoid it.
Same! I took my daughters phone. She’s 15. She hates it but the social media is too much. There is no real way to monitor it accept to deny access. Adults can’t even handle social media. Children definitely can’t.
Her strength in sharing her story is remarkable. Thank Jordan Peterson for facilitating such a respectful, safe, insightful interview ❤
When I was around the same age I also felt like I was a boy. I talked about it with my parents and they supported me. They let me cut my hair short, let me wear male clothes all that stuff but they always stood firm in that I was not to go on hormones untill I was 16. I am forever grateful that that is my reality and I still have my entire body in tact. Discovered when I was 14 that I was in fact not trans just confused, depressed and selfhating.
Thank you for sharing your story! I'm very proud of your parents for listening to you but not allowing any rash decisions. You should share your story on an even bigger platform and in a bigger way! You could save another child from so much heartache and maybe even save lives! May God bless you ❤
SATAN'S TOLD YOU THAT YOU OUR A GUY BOTTOM LINE THIS IS WHY YOU SEEK JESUS CHRIST AND GET THE TRUTH ALL EVIL COMES FROM SATAN SATAN WANTS MORE SOULS TO TAKE BACK TO HELL DEMONS WILL TORTURE THEM NON STOP FOR ETERNITY
That's called being a tomboy, you're supposed to enjoy it's as a natural phase
@@daisy7066 aka lesbian
You are truly so very blessed!
🙏🏼💞🙏🏼
Thank you so much for sharing your experience!
I entered puberty at 9 as well and definitely had fear and negative feelings, insecurity etc. But my mom made such a positive response, celebrating my womanhood journey, about my changes that the negative feelings left and confidence grew. Thank you mom!!! You're amazing
Me too. It's so confusing when you're that young and getting boobs and hips. Thank God my parents just let me be
I am so happy about your relationship with your mother.
So happy..
Motherly connection can overcome a lot of obstacles in a kind's life
It's great this was your experience, but my mom celebrating my journey when puberty started only made me hate it more. I HATED puberty and I just wanted someone to tell me those were normal feelings and that they understood where I was coming from; not celebrate it.
I think that’s a retrospective that our moms can be not wrong but still make us feel bad. A relic of puberty in itself honestly
@@ashleypg1708 why does everyone make it sound like such an ordeal? Its not genuine.
Chloe, you may not be able to breastfeed, but you can still do kangaroo care and hold your child to your chest while you bottle feed. My grandmother did that for all 6 of her children because she was unable to nurse back in the 1940's and 50's. Your child hearing your heartbeat and feeling the warmth of your skin is just as valuable.
I hope a doctor comes forward after listening to this that can help her with her current medical complications.
Chloe will hopefully be able to grit her teeth and get through this life by realizing that all of our bodies are just temporary housing.
GET THIS HIGHER UP
We had twins and my wife couldn’t possibly breast feed all the time. It isn’t ideal but it is ok. You can find so many other ways to connect and provide for your children.
There are amazing mothers out there who donate their breastmilk to milk banks. Pasteurized Donor Human Milk. Safe and accessible❤️
I have a client and her breastfeeding was compromised by the hospital staff, where she had her baby. But she was stubborn to breastfeed for connection, so what she did was a combination of babywearing and faux breastfeeding through a tube attached to her nipple.
In my clients case after several months of this she recovered her lactation fully.
Of course not the case for Chloe after the surgery, but at the very least a viable alternative option to use with donated milk, once she gets to this point in her life.
I wish her all the best. Great fighter
@@getarasciuc3612 Love your comment! And love your client! Way to be, both of you ❤️😊
What a testimony,touched me to the core especially her last moment when she said how was I supposed to know, the response to that is “you are a kid you couldn’t” but shows the essential role and authority of parents, and bond of love that goes in the family to have helped her get out of her insecurities. Aside from how corrupt is the medical system, what was also poignant was the role of social media how damaging is to the kids, she wouldn’t have been in this situation of wanting to do it had she not been using instagram and filled with horrific biased posts, she compared herself with the others not knowing how unique she is...May God heal her
Children aren’t even legally allowed to consent to having sex until they are 18, but they are allowed to consent to change their sex before 18. These so called medical professionals destroyed her, bur she is so one of the worst resilient people I have ever heard and she is beyond brave for sharing her story. My heart goes out to Chloe and I pray that she can fulfil all her dreams and have a happy life ❤
In my country, it is 16. But they are not allowed alcohol or cigarettes until they are 18 and not allowed to vote for an MP for Westminster until 18. We often joke that people can get married here at 16, but cannot celebrate it properly with a few drinks or even vote on matters that concern them. It should be 18 across the board in my view because internationally, under unicef guidelines, you are a minor until the age of 18. Although I do know some 16 year olds who are a lot more mature than their peers, but across the board as an age group, they are immature. In fact, we are all immature until the age of 25 because our rational logical parts of our brains, do not mature until then. So I reckon then that anyone under the age of 5, should not be transitioning to anything because they are too immature and to do anything that will disrupt brain development will cause untold damage. The same for drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes etc. I fully believe it should be upped to 25, based on the brain still developing before then.
That is shocking to me too. Why no wait after 18 at least that is odd
This is the truth.
It is not the medical professionals responsibility only but mainly the law makers of every single state 🤬😡🤬😡
@@MrGerryo70The states can make all the laws they want but if no medical professional would do this it would not be a thing. There is crap Drs that want the money and know dam well they should not remove a 16 year olds healthy breasts.
Her level of introspection and vulnerability is beyond admirable. Her journey was a sacrifice and a gift for those of us to learn from in this day and age. I am saddened by her pain. In the name of truth and knowledge, we should applaud this brave young lady. And to Jordan, who compassionately, and gracefully gave her this platform.
Jordan is now paying the price for exposing this very sad story that the world is realy keeping hidden at such great a priice to these young wemin. 🙏
This is the definition of true bravery. You can see how profoundly deep she thinks. I have so much respect for this person and all I have is this podcast. Wish we could be friends.
Both of you are showing that caring is the part of medicine, that seems to be controlled from out side of the medical fields; and by none medical people with their own biases trying to control every part of humanity ! your both very brave !.
Agreed. And she’s only 18 years old! It’s absolutely criminal what is taking place!
I came here to write the same thing. A brave young lady. Such a sad story. Unfortunately, this is the realization of my fears for these poor adolescents.
After all she has been through she is still becoming a stunning woman physically, emotionally and intellectually! I applaud her determination to recover what she sacrificed.
Absolutely agree. She is stunning indeed.
She is very beautiful in every way.
She is a very beautiful woman and she has a steadiness now that many her age do not.
I was thinking the same thing. Her initial "fantasy" was to become a very attractive woman, and even after taking these horrible drugs, she has already started to become what she initially dreamed that she would be. She is stunningly beautiful, and she is no dummy. I pray that God would reverse the damage that was caused by all of this ridiculously insane ideology.
Agree, never in my life I could be able to deal with that much bullshit from life. She reminds me of Mikhaila a bit consideing how much she been through and her ability to deal with that (as well as Jordrdans and Tammys).
What she is describing as she entered puberty is so normal and common in my culture and society that it is shocking to hear how it was interpreted and dealt with in her culture. Her situation seems like it could have been totally avoided. Glad that she was able to overcome this and she should be supported fully for as long as she needs. I hope she succeeds in her efforts to stop this child abuse.
I am heartbroken for Chloe but glad she is speaking out, for being brave enough to share these very personal experiences. I wish the best for her. 🙏❤️
@Dan Schneider how so?
The first answer, "p!nned by JBP". That's a scam for sure so please report it.
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When she began crying and asking, “How was I supposed to know?” as the father of a young girl, my heart broke. If your heart doesn’t break, I question your ability to empathize with others, which is a real issue, which also should not be vilified reflexively. I truly thank Chloe for being courageous enough to share and for Dr. Peterson for creating a safe, supportive, caring and professional forum for this discussion to happen. This should be required watching for any parent with preteens (and now based on public education standards even younger). These are confusing and treacherous times that our children are trying to desperately navigate. I pray that this young woman is able to experience true joy in her life regardless of what happens from here. I also hope she is able to realize her dreams of motherhood, but know that it’s not what totally defines her as a woman. It’s her character which undeniably shines through in this interview which truly makes her beautiful! God bless.
Your mom's character undeniably shines through. She did good raising you
She Is so brave and eloquent
Totally agree she is strong an will be able to help many with her voice.
I mean, this might sound crazy ... but ... she could try not LYING TO HER PARENTS AND HEALTHCARE PROVIDERS FOR YEARS. Just a thought.
I'm transgender and going through a full male puberty until 18 before I realised I was trans, I feel like I'm in the same shoes as Chole where I have all these male sex characteristics from my puberty that shouldn't be there and I need to transition to be perceived by people in life as a woman so I can just live like everyone else. I'm 20 now and on feminising hormones and my life is getting better and better but just like Chole, I will always have the effects of those years of testosterone for life and it hurts sometimes.
Chole and I may have different circumstances with her being a cisgender woman who's biologically female being given testosterone treatment to essentially go through a male puberty whilst I'm a transgender woman who's biologically male and went through a male puberty naturally but we ultimately face the same consequences now of having to live with getting rid of reversible male sex characteristics and living with irreversible ones for life.
The point is that my side of the story is not the only side that exists here and there will always be some detransitioners out there who need support after a detransition and ideally more help and support before gender-affirming care is provided to ensure that there are no other mental health issues like EDs, Social Anxiety, Sexual Trauma (as a symptom of sex abuse is wanting to be rid of one's genitals) or neurodivergence. - And if any other these are present, then they are treated with very special care and the patient is challenged much more so that they can fully separate the part of the their experiences of life rooting in gender dysphoria from the other experiences and parts of their life rooted in these other problems before any further action is taken. They should also be made fully aware of the fact that puberty blockers alone will flatline bone density development and stops sexual function, which can be especially irreversible when cross-sex hormones are added to start the development of the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex. - But this is a sad reality that trans people have to face regardless of what they do in life because of the uncontrollable consequence of simply being born with a defect in their sex chromosomes that leads the sex anatomy of one biological sex and a brain structure that make it feel normal and natural to have the sex characteristics typically associated with the opposite biological sex to what they are. And because of this, them having to choose between either having the correct sex characteristics for them to live their lives whilst losing their fertility or keeping their fertility but having all the wrong sex characteristics on their body, some being for life.
And just as equally importantly, Chole's side of the story is not the only side that exists either and whilst there are kids born cisgender who mistakenly go down this pathway, there are kdis who are born transgender and their brain structures are wired in birth from birth for it to just feel completely natural to have sex characteristics of the opposite biological sex to what they are and there is no such therapy or magical neurosurgery that can change this immutable part of their personhood they are born with. Gender affirming care (NOT SURGERY FOR MINORS. - I ABSOLUTELY BELIEVE ANY SURGERY RELATING TO GENDER-AFFIRMATION SHOULD BE 18+ AND NEVER PERFORMED ON MINORS, WHICH IS THE ONE THING I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH FOR CHOLE TO NOT HAVE HAD ANY SURGERY BELOW THE AGE OF 18) is still very much necessary for these kids if they figure out they're trans and can proceed with caution with people around them certain that there is absolutely no other mental health issue that could be the root of this experience of life and them being fully aware of the aforementioned implications of blockers without a cross-sex hormone for the critical period of bone density growth and the loss of fertility.
Both of these sides, transgender transitioners and cisgender destransitioners, need to find a middle ground and unite to help make more people aware of trans people, what they truly experience so that people, especially teens, who suspect they're trans can have a very open-minded, safe, slow and comfortable exploration into what the immutable lifelong transgender experience of life from birth is like and if it is truly what they're experiencing or if there are mental health issues with self esteem, eating disorders, anxiety, depression or suicidality are the cause of discontent with thoughts of developing / a need to get rid of already existing sex characteristics on their bodies. This is to help the kids who are born trans and are trans for life, whether they or you like it or not, have a safe transition with support around them so that they develop the right sex characteristics that they need for life to thrive and for kids who are born cisgender and are cisgender for life to be directed away from transitioning when there is actually a different underlying cause for the dysphoria they are experiencing. If a teen transitions, realises that they were cisgender all along and then has to face a detransition with all the mental struggles with that then I believe hey should have all the love and support of people including the trans community on their side to help them through it.
I was a tomboy, and I still am, kind of, at the age of 60. I have never fit in with the girly girls. I have been married and have 3 grown children. I am still an outlier. I have accepted that this is how God has made me. This type of presentation is great for education. Thank you.
Same here. I was always boyish, far from voluptuous, and now have 6 children and adore who I have become.
thanks for sharing. as someone that is younger i’ve always been insecure about the fact that i don’t fit in like others. makes me happy to see others lik me
I’m 57 and have three beautiful, grown children, and happily married for 36 years to their father. When I was 13-14 years old, I was tall, skinny, flat chested, with hairy legs and a small, whisper of mustache that I didn’t dare to tweeze, because I was so worried it would grow back stronger. I didn’t get my period until I was a couple of months away from my 14th birthday. I was attending a small private school with about 16 kids in my class, 9 girls and 7 boys. We, the girls, kept tracking who got started menstruating and I was the very last one. There was one girl who developed giant breast as a young child. She got her period at 9 years old. At first, I was happy that I didn’t have to deal with that, but by the time I was 14 and hardly started to show any development, I was seriously worried that I was actually a male who was born with a female organ between my legs. I also got along with boys much easier and found them more interesting.
Anyway, when finally I got my first period, it was a big relief and slowly the next couple of years I forgot about my thoughts of being a male. However, even now I feel that men are much easier to understand than women. I do have some male and female friends, but the female friendships are so much more complex and difficult to navigate.
@@timeabiro674 we share a very similar experience, & I still prefer to hang out with the guys, although I have enjoyed many female friendships as well. I was really surprised to learn as an adult, how many women felt as awkward & self conscious as I did as an adolescent/teenager. I also learned that the girls who were bigger chested were jealous of us flatter chested girls. It's the old "the grass is always greener" scenario.
@@bubblesxo Welcome to the club, we have lots of members! 😊 Don't worry about fitting in. Just be you. You're probably much cooler than you think. 👍
She is so articulate and well spoken. She’s always been this way and had been taken advantage of. I wish her the most peace that a person can have ❤
What scares me is I had these same exact feelings. I'm so glad my parents didn't let me go through with it or give into my childish thoughts.
@🍄 FunGusAmonGus 🍄 fiscally poor :P
So did I and I did not transition. I am a female and I am also gay
@@nasch008 yeah i think growing up as a kid if youre gay can confuse the hell out of you especially if nobody around you talks about what homosexuality is and media and people in your life are straight or in the closet. you don’t even have sexual urges as a kid you just know you’re different and you don’t know what it is exactly you can’t pin point it until you get older
I'm so glad your parents didn't let you run with that. You were fortunate. Very happy for you !
In Melbourne Australia there’s a law that’s been passed. If your child tells you that they’re trans then you must accept it. You must allow them to start being treated as the opposite text. If you deny they are & offer to pray for them you will be gaoled. If you refuse treatment then you will lose custody of your child. This is horrific & true.
As a father to both a son and a daughter, this absolutely breaks my heart. Listening to this beautiful and poised young lady speak of her victimization reminds me of the horror and human shame I felt when reading the crimes of Dr. Josef Mengele. These medical practitioners are butchers, experimenting on children. These are crimes against humanity. 😢
preach brother ✊
OMG
Your first reaction should be all it takes - where were her parents? parents are not supposed to be fixtures only to take advice from "experts" in raising their kids; they were not handcuffed while Mengele rolled over their daughter with experiments, they are supposed to be parents, not friends letting schools and social media raise their kids, or allow them to be isolated socially with fear during a BS COVID pandemic. Dang people wake the F-up and be parents and never trust your government and medical establishment without using your brain first.
Very true. Blood thirsty butchers!
My feelings exactly,I couldn’t help in my mind putting my sons and daughters in this situation and rage comes to me.We have got to put a stop to this pedofilia and sexual abuse
He is the therapist that she should have had. She needed to know she wasn't alone in her fears, loneliness, and broken self image. Many of us growing up felt exactly like her and some still feel these issues at some level, as adults. I hope that her lawsuit has serious consequences to those who had a hand in her suffering.
Exactly. Says a lot that the "establishment" are attempting to strip him of his licence.
I agree ,these arrogant doctors playing god needs to be stopped , what a evil way to make a living!
If only all therapists were like him. He is remarkable and heaven sent.
@@markprendergast2365 I don't think any of them are intending to cause harm. That is what makes the really heavy issues so polarizing. The idea of "can't we all get along" is kind of hard when it means giving in on something that is morally wrong to you. The problem is God.
@@georgeorwellsghost3833 My last sentence was meant to be provocative, but in a sense it is true. Not the concept of god, which as far as I can deduce in my astounding ignorance (and also based on a bible verse that specifically confirms, if that is the only way you can percieve something to be true) God is love... period. The way religion is used to influence, confuse and determine law is very much the same as evil. I don't think it is wrong for a well-informed adult to transition to whatever it is they feel necessary in order feel comfortable... I think influencing a child in any way in that respect is despicable. I was honestly thinking more along the lines of abortion with the God comment, since it is an obvious encroachment of church upon state,
Remember at school you had the different 'groups'? The goths, the nerds, the jocks, the theatre kids, but now you have the alphabet group (TQI+++). When you go to a school reunion, how many are still goths? How many of those nerds have blossomed and have beautiful partners? How many of those jocks no longer hit the gym and have put on a few pounds? For most of us it was just bad hairstyles and spots, but these things pass. Spots go and we change our hair. We grow up. Our thinking changes. We MATURE. Taking drugs and drastic surgeries, there is no turning back from that.
This interview just broke my heart. Unfortunately I predict that Chloe’s story will become all too familiar over the coming years. What have we become ? 😢 A society that enables, advocates and supports the mutualisation and sterilisation of children is a society falling into the pits of hell. Praying for you Chloe
@@jtjones4081 Those are old numbers . Did you watch this video? He has nothing but compassion for people going through this
There are two great options for a girl, (teens) to be a polygamist or filthy rogue or a man like option where she can disguise her mess if she thinks or has really messed both. And there are chavanists that are filthy at all levels to get them anywhere of those for an extra sexually transmitted diseases... Slaughter crimes on women basically.
@@jtjones4081 the issue is, its being pressured. Look at Bidens administration, young kids seeing people of power whilst going through Chloe's issues? Easy to decide what to do. Or schools pushing it into the curiculum to children less than 8 years old. The grooming has been in full effect. Im 32, i live in a very diverse city. In the last 5 years or so there has easily been an increase of 80% of young kids just coming out saying i identify as this and i wanna be this etc etc.. its getting very dangerous.
@@jtjones4081 2022 numbers in the UK alone, shows an increase of 67% over the last 2 years, in the number of minors on the waiting list for transitioning therapy now.
@@jtjones4081 you are too naive.
Despite all of the horror and complete lack of responsible care, Chloe is an extremely intelligent, aware, remarkably resilient individual. The level of courage it must have taken to share this degree of intimate detail is unfathomable to me. I am not fully able to express my gratitude for this courage, but I think that her sharing her story is going to help a lot of vulnerable and confused children and parents who find themselves in this difficult predicament. She is going to save lives. She is absolutely a hero. Bless you, Chloe. I wish you nothing but strength, prosperity, and luck in your future endeavors.
She is an amazing young lady. My heart goes out to her.
I couldn’t have said it better!
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You lost me at "extremely intelligent". GOOF
@Sura Kura my sincerest apologies, I forgot to mention that the anonymous "Sura Kura" is the supreme, omnipotent intelligence in the universe and all other beings are subordinate in their ability and must request permission before making remarks of any kind, particularly when it challenges their fragile sense of superiority.
@@kylenordio96 Bend the knee goof. Cute that you edit full essays on youtube. No lifer lmao
Chloe, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m a 50yo mother of 3 sons. It broke my heart to watch you talk about what you’ve been through. I wish I could give you a big hug and tell you that everything going to be ok (something tells me you know this deep down). You’re a strong young lady. I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you. ❤
It’s incredible to watch this because it’s not an interview, it’s like watching a session with a patient. The fact he’s telling her things that are so basic and she didn’t know back when someone should have informed her is so heartbreaking. He’s so compassionate and empathetic while being informing and educating.
She is so measured and thoughtful, and he is so forthright and perfectly gentle in his manner. My goodness.
Just JP pulling up his socks added something warming to the interview. What a man.
(On a perfectly selfish note, what wouldn't I give to have a 90-minute confab/therapy session with Jordan Peterson? The clarity alone would be priceless...)
He’s incredibly kind. A true mench.
She's obviously a girl. The adults that "helped" her, need to be in jail.
Its like he coached her but that cant be learned like that fast. But she stops b4 she answers, makes long pauses and all without äähms or the sounds people usually make, exactly like him.
My question is what kind of idiot said she was a dude when she was attracted to writing and art? These are attributes of W on the Freud-Weininger scale. Just another example of how psychologists are absolutely clueless about what a woman is. Most of them could not get a normal date and probably only use brute force money and prestige to get the dates. Psychology should be proven in the raw. Accademic medals and theories completely skew the actual knowledge and abilities perceptions of these people when they otherwise would be complete basket cases when “naked”. Because, let us face it, no one really likes to be “a girl”, whether a boy or girl. That distaste is irrelevant, especially in our age of schizophrenia refusing to grow up with adult organs. Puberty blockers should be called Schizophrenia enablers!
@@EmilyRose0 Oh she's likely autistic and masking by copying his personality. Masking is common amongst women with autism and adds difficulties to diagnosis.
My son told me a year and a half ago that he thought he was a girl. When asked how he know this. He couldn’t tell me. I was freaking out inside. I’m a Christian and I believe people can do what they want but when I looked into the transition process I was even more freaked out. My husband turn me onto one of Jorden’s videos and After watching it. I started to feel more in control. My son now states he is neutral as not to make anyone upset. I’m appalled by what society is doing to children and even more so that they are making it so the child thinks the parent is wrong. We need more people coming out and talking to the teens and child of the county about what is happening and how it will effect them in the future. Mutilation of children and teens is wrong. Thank you Jordan from the bottom of my heart for your inspiring and encouraging words/videos. ❤😊
Do be careful not to dismiss what he says, don't just tell him 'don't upset people' and then think that fixed it obviously(i imagine you are already very aware of this), but I thank you and your husband for taking the appropriate care and caution. All the love to you and your son.
Ask the risen Lord Jesus to manifest His truth and grace in your family …
@@hzjc9680 I have had many talks with the lord about this. Thank you. 😊
@@vyrv6719 we actually never said it. He said it to my husband. We talked about facts and that seemed to help. Thank you 😊
God doesn't make mistakes. 🥰🙏
This is the most I have seen JP listen to anyone other than his daughter. He cut himself off, and asked real questions. This was a true therapy session filled with concern and compassion for this persons upbringing, trama, and current wellbeing 💜 Very fatherly interview. I have enjoyed it and learned about how to ask these difficult questions and retort with positive feedback
You must not watch a lot of JP. Anyone who says he's a bad guy, and not compassionate or caring doesn't actually know anything about him. He's known for his patience and empathy. He listens to everyone he talks to. The only time he doesn't is when he knows the person he's talking to is merely trying to disguise an attack as a discussion, or opinions as fact and vice versa.
@@billmcgubbins1476 I'm a big Peterson fan, and I watch all his podcasts. He does have a tendency to talk more than the guest. It's not that he isn't listening to what his guests are saying, it's that he sometimes he dominates the conversation. It's not just when people are attacking him.
I don't think the OP meant that Jordan usually doesn't care. Jordan just has a tendency of doing all the talking, especially i notice with his younger guests.
My thoughts exactly. Perfect critique!
@@billmcgubbins1476 I've seen everything the man's done and you're 100% correct for pre-benzo withdrawl peterson but 100% wrong about new Peterson
What a smart Man. I wish I would have known who he was YEARS ago. His explanation of neurodiversity alone is priceless.
What an articulate, courageous, intelligent young woman who has suffered to such a horrible degree and continues to suffer. My heart goes out to her and my hope is that she only gains in strength. What an admirable person.
Chloe Cole is CONNING people by committing fraud. She wants to be transitioned and she wants money like a reality TV personality. Don't be a sucker.
Yep, she seems to be a beautiful person on the inside and out. What’s happened to her breaks my heart, but she keeps pushing on so no other child will have to go through what she has. Courage and selflessness. We need more people like her.
@@crocodilegrundee4514 .. Chloe Cole is a CON ARTIST trying to scam her way into millions rather than work for it.
Don't be a SUCKER because you desperately want to believe her.
@@JohnCarterRocks
Don’t be a sucker and believe what the gender bender community tells you. She is fighting an evil ideology, and I support her. If you don’t, then don’t!
@@JohnCarterRocks
And stop liking your own replies!
When I was an RN in Med-Surg, I cared for quite a few mastectomy patients. Mastectomies are a very traumatic surgery. It's hard to believe Chloe went through a double mastectomy at 15 years old. Shame on those surgeons for not stopping it.
@ Margaret Bailey.
You made a valid point.
I didn't want children. @ 25 I asked/ begged to have my tubes tied & denied!!!!! Told I needed to think things out a little more... SMH
Yet Dr's will agree to lop breasts off a 15 yr old coz she wants to transition.
Right god forbid a doctor make the horrendous mistake of breaking a hepa regulation or being so incompetent as to prescribe a patient ivermectin when they ask for it but it's just a regular day to rip sexual organs out of a child or to attempt to chop up a male childs organ and attempt the impossible task of turning it into a female part. I've talked with boys that have had bottom surgery and they are in a perpetual state of infection, pain and horrible odor from the infection that never heals. Not to mention never able to remedy the strongest desire in every living thing that is the mechanism to insure the existence of the next generation of their species.
I still just can't wrap my mind around the reality that in the United States where everyone gets triggered over someone speaking the wrong word society isn't in an absolute uproar over the fact that a doctor is allowed to mutilate children. LOL there are men in prison for being in a relationship with a 17 year old girl when they were 18 but we just hand younger children over to doctors to horrifically destroy the child's bodies for an elective surgery that they claim is safe and will magically change their gender.
Well, money
Shame on the nurses that went along with it. This is exactly an example of when a nurse can decline to participate by being a conscientious objector. A nurse’s job is to protect their Pt. On a rare occasion, this means protecting the Pt from a physician. On a rarer occasion, a nurse may need to physically prevent a physician from putting a Pt in danger by putting time and space between the Pt and physician. This synario sometimes occurs in a teaching hospital where a surgical resident is reckless and a nurse must put the brakes on to keep a Pt safe. Lastly, the anesthesiologist should have put the brakes on and cancelled a double mastectomy on a 15 year old. The surgeon may be a candidate for child endangerment charges and/or child neglect if it’s within the statue of limitations and applies to what occured. A double mastectomy without a valid therapeutic indication for the necessary treatment of a diagnosable physical ailment on a child is reckless endangerment.
@@debmadden4157hey shouldn't tie tubes before 35 unless you already have children or chop boobs off unless necessary before 35
As a fellow detrans woman, I wish all the best, courage and love for Chloe.
Thank you, Jordan B P for giving a voice to her.
I wish you the best, you have been put in this position by people that did not have your best interests at heart. I'm sure that is evident to you now and that must be really hard to come to terms with!
why did you detransition if i may ask?
Best wishes for you too!
My condolences for that experience. Its hard to fathom it. It'd be bad enough if just the medical effects, but the social effects, of people often vilifying detransitioners, its awful.
@@pardontheopinion8679 Do you use any of the following terms?
• gay
• homophobia/homophobe
• transphobia/transphobe
• trans-sexual
• transgender
• cis gender
• sex worker
• capitalism/capitalist
• any gender-specific pronoun other than he/she, him/her or his/her
Then CONGRATULATIONS - you are (either knowingly or unwittingly) a shill for the loony left!
Absolutely heartbreaking! What a terrible loss for this beautiful brave girl! How amazingly kind she is to share her story that hopefully will help others 😢
This interview felt like a therapy session rather than just rapid fire questions. I hope it helped Chloe make progress in healing.
Definitely, I kept thinking the same thing!
And that's a good thing!
Because that's what he is.
@@yonagwy5826 right I didn’t say he wasn’t a therapist. I’m actually complimenting the interview for being useful to Chloe rather than useless but thank you for stating the most obvious thing you could come up with.
I'm glad it was more like therapy. For opening herself up and being laid bare for all the world like this, She is owed some healing.
As a graduate of Master’s in Psychology, everything that Chloe said about her therapist is so appaling. I agree with Dr. Peterson 100%. This is so sad what other therapists are doing with children😢💔and also with parents who relied on them for help. It’s making me mad. As a mother with a daughter, my heart goes out to Chloe and her parents.
The thing is, you don't even have to be a graduate of masters in psychology to understand that "wanting to be a boy", or "feeling like a boy trapped in a female body", wasn't even the issue to begin with. All you have to do is to listen to her and it becomes more than clear. In her distorted self image, She thought she doesn't look female enough and thought she could be a boy, as an alternative. That has been made clear in the fist half an hour of this conversation.
@ozicrypto6671 Sad to see so many people tolerating the alphabetical indoctrination in schools, private corporations and public institutions…we are at war against evil people running the country
The doctors dealing with this issue should be in prison by now
@@abduljalilmahama5682 ... If you can somehow invert knowledge and nievity, the modern World becomes understandable. If you can't, the world is unravellingly insane ...
As the 60 year old grandparent of 8 grandchildren I found this interview heartbreaking. Your quiet grace talking about this was a lesson for all 18 year olds. This is a message that needs to be shared, and who better than someone that's had to walk the walk. What adults choose to do with their bodies is up to them (as long as they pay for it) and what they call themselves is up to them as long as it's within the law. However, mutilating children like this is appalling and needs to be stopped.
Amen. I couldn't agree more.
Trans ideologues are present-day incarnations of the nazis
I can't stand this topic and in my 60's too. It's gets me so mad that this has become trendy...and a money maker for those physicians that are involved. Since when have we ever solved a mental/emotional problem with a physical solution. This is absolutely criminal .
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@@annaka5000 Yep, it's the used car dealership of today's world. The quickest and easiest way to make A LOT of $$...and get to say - "I/we solved the problem". And the politicians just love it, claiming the "moral" high ground and then able to place an -ism or -phobic name upon those who argue against it. One hell of a bright future we're looking at right now huh?
How can ANYONE not have deep emotions listening to this intervoew.and what is happening to our children
Chloe is so BRAVE to speak truth on a subject obscured to anyone who speaks against it. She should be championed for the bravery exemplified here!
Thank you so much for everything.
If u are watching this and want to detransition, just know, there's an ENTIRE army of people behind you and ready to support you.
I know someone that wants to detransition. I'm helping him but don't know what to do. I'm proud he has found out that HE is a man AND NOT A WOMAN. THIS IS THE MAN THAT NEEDS TO BE Interviewed. HIS STORY SHOULD HAVE A BOOK. His story is jaw dropping.
How u can support them detrans Sergary is almost 70k dollars I feel bad for those who got thrown in this busition
@@endotimez4552 You are helping a lot by being a friend and standing by him. OK, then comes the other options. The question is how much your friend wants to be done. (publicity???). How about “Support me” and then advertising it on RUclips and other platforms? Contacting Prague University on your RUclips, DailyWire, the Body image guy, also has an anti-woke channel.
And of contact Dr. Petersson!
Amen people. I will help you in any way I can!!!!!!!
@@joycleckley2881 we now have an appointment to see what will happen after he stops with the hormones and go frome there... Trying to talk him into vlogging on RUclips but we have no set up so now I got to figure it out
Chloe, doing this interview must have been impossibly difficult for you, after the rest of the horrible experiences you've suffered. Speaking out this way is positively heroic. I hope that many kids who are considering this path, and their parents, see this interview before getting too deep into this treatment.
I'd like to see this video become required viewing to any parent who, after their child expresses any negative opinion about their gender, seeks any external advice.
Jordan Peterson sounds and cries like a transman... like ben shapiro or jesus
I’m 31 and sometimes I am still anxious and self conscious. To do this to a child is disgusting. Be well Chloe. And amazing work as always DR Peterson.
We will keep hearing from Chloe, she is such a strong and brave young woman. Wow… nothing but my admiration. I hope she keeps healing and shining through this process ❤