I should have seen this video 5 months ago, then I could stop his "game". But now I just watch, nod and say "uh-huh", "that's right", "exactly", etc. I wish someone is watching this video just in time
My boyfriend was a player and I know it from the start so I didn't expect anything much from him. I expected that we would just be in a casual relationship and that was fine with me. Yet, he keeps proving that he's serious about me and he also doesn't show the signs that are mentioned in this video but I'm still doubtful of him.
yesterday my crush was talking to me saying i was pretty, and that he liked me. we were flirting a lot, and today he says he doesn’t like me and he “doesn’t know what got inside of him, and he didn’t find me attractive at all”, i’m now crying and it’s my birthday.
My crush never compliments me. I said *crush!... Its cool. I can find plenty others who will. *I didnt say to f. They just wont be at work. Tho plenty of them do. 😤 F him
I was in a relationship for two months and when we became friends he remembered everything I told him he used to talk about me to his show me o of allowed me to play on his tablet and see his phone he gave me his password the only thing that we broke up for is my depression I lost something I truly loved and can't get back because I was inscer about myself but he made me feel like a queen he was not a player and I met his friends now there mine to and I've meet his family we shared everything😢😭
Andrews ten signs he’s a player , (followed by my annoying commentary tally/scoreboard based on my current fwb/crush) #1 he’s bad texter Tally : 0 #2 he hides his phone from you/is secretive about it Tally:0 #3 he makes allll the decisions for u Tally:0 (wow I’m doing better than I thot!) #4 he is overly/TOO confident Tally: 1 (I am back and forth on this one but I gotta say yeah he is....🤷♀️👎🏻) #5 tries to invite u over on the first date Tally :1 (oof) #6 he doesn’t remember things u tell him Tally: 0 #7 dude has no interest in meeting your friends Tally: 0 #8 dudebro refuses to show affection in public Tally: big ol 0. He def shows it! #9 doesn’t wanna go out on dates. Just Netflix and chill Tally: ugh. 1/2 point. We’ve done both but more of the latter. But that’s my call. I choose that mostly. I’m too sexual for my own good #10 doesn’t wanna call u his girlfriend (could be from 1-10 months of dating) Tally: too soon to rate. But if I had to I’d say 1 for now Score 3 1/2.
Something that I feel like should be mentioned in this video is if he’s on his phone during the date. It’s not only a bad sign but it tells you that he is thinking of something else(or someone else) while he’s with you. All of my exes were players(I was at the time too) and I noticed that every time I was on a date with the player, they’d be on their phones and not listening to a word I say. And while that may be ok if something important came up, but when you’re on a date, you shouldn’t have to be on your phone. And they may also find you to be boring, but it’s hard saying that they were bored or they were just texting some other bitch. That to me is a very key ingredient to what his intentions are along with all of these points made.
Yeah I got dumped by a player a few days ago. They misspoke like all the time yeah going to watch a movie with my Girlfriend oh wait I mean my best buddy ha ha. so I saw the dumping coming from a long way. and they had the guts to dump me over text not even in person. He definitly had a side girl. or maybe I was even a side girl I hope not. I am happy to be free from them
Just wanted to watch this video because the title was really intimidating.. And u know what u get it, the whole thing and yes I'll be careful to date a player🙅😁✌!! By the way love all ur advices, it helped me a lot! ❤
Some guys are just bad at texting in general, and the good guys don't mean any harm in it, they'd just rather talk to you in person. I'm dating a really nice guy who will actually text me and say, "Hey, I'm sorry I didn't get back to you right away, I had to work late", or something to that effect. I know he's not lying, because he's been honest from the start. If he can't make it to come see me, he says it. If he's coming to town to see me, he'll follow through. He'll say, "I'll be there in like 20 minutes", and then he's here within that timeframe. So, I like that about him. He doesn't ghost me or not reply. I'd rather a man say, "Hey, I can't make it tonight" than to be stood up altogether. A man who likes you will not leave you hanging. Sometimes the guy I'm dating will only do one-word replies right around the time he starts to fall asleep, and if he doesn't reply after a half hour around the time he goes to bed, I know he's fallen asleep and thus, do not disturb him for the rest of the night. Now, if he doesn't get back to me during the day, he's working and his boss won't let him and his co-workers play with their phones, so that's understandable. (He works in construction) But my guy is quick to reply any time he's free and I really appreciate that. Our conversations flow smoothly and he does mostly reply with long paragraphs, so I can tell he's smitten. Haha. Just watch out for the men who only text you or call you around the late hours or here and there with no apology explaining the tardiness or abscence of his text or calls. Trust your intuition. If you think you're getting played, you probably are. Ditch him and move onto the next.
I feel like this guy is a player cuz some of these apply to him except for the public affection one cuz he has hugged me and held my hand but I still feel like he's a player😂💀
His so handsome and his doesn’t have a password on his phone , our relationship moved too quickly first date , feels like i moved in ... everyday where together . But when i told in i have to leave after 2months staying with him , he asked me to leave my stuff at his place than he stopped calling n texting me .
Hey! I’ve got a strange situation. A boy in my class that I’ve known since I was 3 that I drifted away from when I was 8 because people would say that we where going out. He never really talks to me except small talk but he told his friends that he has a crush on me! So I thought I would start to talk to him, get to know better. But he again makes small talk. I’m so confused. I mean if he asked me out I wouldn’t know what to say... so does he even have a crush on me. But he isn’t “ popular “ and I’m friends with some of his friends and they don’t like drama. HELP ME
I'm so confused coz the guy I'm dating shows these signs and also doesn't. Like he wants me to be his girlfriend and wants to go out on dates but he is still ticking boxes of player
Just found u and have been bingeing ur video all night and learning alot!!! Thank u very kindly!! Im always being taken advantage off my guy who i now know he is a player owes me 65$ but never gets back to me or answer the money question when i text.... he is so a player:((((
Yo so I liked this dude. I told the dude how I felt, and I wrote like A LOT, like it was pretty excessive (probably didnt use that correctly but oh well). The day after he started talking about some girl from his school, he said he liked her and was planning on asking her out after the summer. I was kinda hurt since I literally just poured my heart out to him but just brushed it off and I forgot about it. This was about 3 months ago, in those three months hes been spending a lot of time with me over his friends, "teasing" me, and other flirtatious things. Just yesterday he told me that he no longer liked the girl from his school, and he liked someone new. He said he was nervous to tell me. Since Im a girl I overthink like A LOT, so I was wondering why he would be saying this if he didnt like me (new flash- he didnt), he wanted me to try and guess who he liked, I first asked him a couple questions that are related to things I do. He said yes to everything that realted to me. When I finaly didnt have anything more to ask I started to guess who it was. I wasnt going to flat out ask if he liked me, so I guessed a couple of names. I guessed who he liked (ill just call her suzy). When I said suzy's name, I could tell he was a little shocked (this is over text btw), a little embarassed, and yeah. Suzy and I used to be friends, she broke my trust big time and I wasnt really ok with that, I learned to forgive her, but she continued to be rude, not trustworthy, and over all a pretty bad friend, we eventually grew farther away and now we dont really talk Ok, back to the story, I didnt want to let him know that I was pretty upset, because I didnt want to make him feel bad. I just played it off, and let it go. The same day he told me, I saw him and suzy. Me and this dude used to be really close and everything, but I deffinatley felt like a third wheel even tho they arent dating. I decided to let this go, and let suzy and him figure things out. Clearly it wasnt meant to work out and there is someone else out there better for me, its really tough letting something go, but ik in the future ill be glad I did this. The dude was problamatic, obliviant, and egotistic. Since I dont want to end the friendship with the guy I told him I ust needed some space, and to have him give me some time. I didnt want to make a stupid decission that I would regret so when i told him this I had given myself some time to cool off, I dont know why I decided to write this on this video, but now that i have written this to complete strangers I feel way better, Im still not back to 100%, but if youve made it to the end, thanks, if you have any advice I would love to hear it, and anything else you think would help. Adios everyone, I hope you have good luck with relationships, and I hope you have a great, happy, stress free day. (also ik this has nothing to do with this video, we never dated like or anything)
What if my crush and I are in the same friend group and constantly are being mean to each other (I guess teasing) and saying the other is better? Does that mean I still have a chance?
Gosh. I felt like so many swords stabbed me with all your explanations. The thing is, he IS a player but he also didn't want to be labelled as one because he thinks that all the dates we've been doing were for friendship when we've gone beyond it. Even my family and and friends saw us as a "thing." Two months passed after I chose to break things (the relationship lasted 6months) of but we're still friends, he casually mentions to me that we had a thing after hearing nothing back from in weeks. Ironic because he was blatantly denying before that we we're *just* friends LMFAO He is one pos if I had to say so.
Awwwwwwww andrew gotcha a girlfriiiiieeeend 😊😊😊😊 Not gonna lie, this paradoxically breaks my heart (because i have a HUGE crush on you) and makes me hapy ( because i want to see you happy )
K, so basically, I was talking with my Crush about two days ago and he sent me a GIF of Thanos. And I said Thanos was ugly, and then continued to go on to my crush that he was Good looking, Hot, Handsome, and Sexy in a way I thought he wouldn't notice. But then I said I realized I called him these things and said that if he didn't notice then he should ignore what I'm saying, he replied " oh I definitely noticed, :'D." Pls tell me what I've done... I'm kinda scared cos' I haven't talk to him since, but will be going to his house soon. Should I be scared? or just die in a small hole and over think things whilst he ponders about his next meal? please send help
If it makes anyone feel better guys get played too. Every guy I dated in college I had no intention of being that serious with or even just being with beyond college I now know it was wrong but ey a girl was bored 🤷🏽♀️
What should I do? I’ve been talking to this guy for months, but we’ve never gone out. He has a best friend that’s a girl, every time he and I make plans she’ll make last minute plans on that same day and this guy will cancel everything. I’ve told him how I felt, and his response every time is “Amanda and I are just friends, we don’t like each other like that”. He makes me feel guilty for feeling upset every time he puts her before me. I hate being jealous, and I especially hate having to complete for his time. He’s a really nice guy, but I don’t know anymore.. What should I do?
My first boyfriend was a player and at that time I couldn't tell coz it was my first relationship. Every single time we would meet up his friends would be around and they would be really wired around. But one day his mom came home early and asked who I was and he said I was a friend and before we left he want to the bathroom and I was talking to his mom and she asked if I was friends with his girlfriend. I told I was his girl we ,thinking she's trying to fish something out but then she told me that he was with another girl they have been together for 2 years. At first I didn't believe it then she showed me pictures of them . I was heartbroken
Ohhh... I am such a loser I was talking with a boy I rreally liked but in fact he was just playing with me now everyone at school looks at me like I've done smth wrong.BTW thx for the video and these sings are true
I notice men who marry but never post on their private stories or profile. The wire would change her photo to their wedding pic and he would not. Is this weird?
I am so confused what my boyfriend wants. The first time we met at a camp and we ended up making out and doing the basic stuff. The first red flag is that he thinks my friends are annoying and he talks about his exes and sex a little more than he should. He is super sweet and likes public affection but he is the worst texter ever. He isn't telling his friends about me at all, he hasn't even told them he has in any way been seeing me since it's long distance. He has been through rough times and I've helped him as much as I could and he told me that im the only thing that really makes him happy before we even got that sexual but he doesnt show much interest in when I'm feeling down. He was the first one to tell me he has feelings for me but he is lew key for the most part after sex. The only thing he likes to talk about is us having sex or what he did with other people and if I ever try to change subject, he ignores it. We've been together for only 3 months but I don't think it's good to see this many red flags in the start and I feel so lost, please help me.
i date a boy 10 years older than me. When we stood on a street corner and kissed a car came and I was sure that they were friends of mine, so I turned away. He asked, "Am I embarrassing?" is that a good sign?
so my mom knows a guy and i met him we been talking he smiles alot makes alot of eye contact now we been getting relly close touchy and laughing alot hanging out more he even let me have his jaket hes sweet he winks at me is he a fraind or does he like me he stares at me from descent but I think he gets nerves and excticed around me he rubs his neck and rubs his arms what I do and figets advice please
I just noticed... You lost weight (I think). Tbh you are one of the best. all my guy friends try to give advice and you take less time and just to the point. Thank you
So. I tell my bf hey he says hey I say wyd he takes like 15 minutes to answer does that mean he’s a player... bc I watched another vid about like they take a little long to pretend there actually busy then what they are?
were was this gift when i was in a realtionship that was the biggest player it was so off and on he thought i should move in with him and have his kid i got sick of him and left
".. because you are not the only girl that he is texting." wow
*moms have left the chat*
That part hit me harddd!
*Mothers have left the chat*
*Sisters have left the chat*
*Best friends have left the chat*
He shouldn't be the only guy you're texting either time to level the playing field ladies you have so much power 👌🙏🍀🌻✌
Winnie 위니 forealllsss
I should have seen this video 5 months ago, then I could stop his "game". But now I just watch, nod and say "uh-huh", "that's right", "exactly", etc. I wish someone is watching this video just in time
Эстер Лексар ...me too
@ROZES lihn good for you!)
I should watch this 2 weeks ago 😓
Where is this boys house I just wanna talk *grabs hammer*
SAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why am I watching this when no one likes me?
Saaya Mistuboshi Same!!
Mood
Aww come don't say tht honey 🤗
Same but your beautiful/handsome no matter what
I'm asking myself the same question but hey you can't be to prepared 😂😂I dunno why I'm dealing with relationships like war or something😂😂
ur always coming for my neck w these videos
I'm gonna die single. I am incapable of feeling feelings 😭
AzzyVlogs aww it just takes the right person sometimes. I’m sure one day it’ll happen for you
Same here sis :)))
Haha same
🖤🌹
Lucky you! I feel to much
Or you can just stalk him
Works great
Oof, truth has been spoken
Shoto Todoroki yikes lmao
Hahaha
@Rebecca Daltonnot if he doesn't find out
Shoto Todoroki really 😂😂😂😂😂
I've been played and I approve this video
Insert inframercial with emailing person and thumbs up😂
Mennatullah Mostafa oh darn :/
Yupp
The 10 dislikes are the players😂
I think now you mean 22
@@devon273 I think you mean 32
Facts
a f r o g i r l y I think u mean 36
i love you so much and this was so helpful thank you!
OMG QUO IS BACKKKK!!!
My boyfriend was a player and I know it from the start so I didn't expect anything much from him. I expected that we would just be in a casual relationship and that was fine with me. Yet, he keeps proving that he's serious about me and he also doesn't show the signs that are mentioned in this video but I'm still doubtful of him.
Girl, I feel for you. The guy I had thing with IS JUST LIKE THAT. He's a player though.
yesterday my crush was talking to me saying i was pretty, and that he liked me. we were flirting a lot, and today he says he doesn’t like me and he “doesn’t know what got inside of him, and he didn’t find me attractive at all”, i’m now crying and it’s my birthday.
Awwww omg im sorry😣i feel so bad
He is an asshole.. your worth far better
My crush never compliments me. I said *crush!... Its cool. I can find plenty others who will. *I didnt say to f. They just wont be at work. Tho plenty of them do. 😤 F him
Finally uploaded, i miss ur content 💕
I was in a relationship for two months and when we became friends he remembered everything I told him he used to talk about me to his show me o of allowed me to play on his tablet and see his phone he gave me his password the only thing that we broke up for is my depression I lost something I truly loved and can't get back because I was inscer about myself but he made me feel like a queen he was not a player and I met his friends now there mine to and I've meet his family we shared everything😢😭
I love your videos they help me so much 😁
Please upload more often 😩 I love your videos
Finally you’re back!!!❤️
Love your videos sooo much
Xxx
Andrews ten signs he’s a player , (followed by my annoying commentary tally/scoreboard based on my current fwb/crush)
#1 he’s bad texter
Tally : 0
#2 he hides his phone from you/is secretive about it
Tally:0
#3 he makes allll the decisions for u
Tally:0 (wow I’m doing better than I thot!)
#4 he is overly/TOO confident
Tally: 1 (I am back and forth on this one but I gotta say yeah he is....🤷♀️👎🏻)
#5 tries to invite u over on the first date
Tally :1 (oof)
#6 he doesn’t remember things u tell him
Tally: 0
#7 dude has no interest in meeting your friends
Tally: 0
#8 dudebro refuses to show affection in public
Tally: big ol 0. He def shows it!
#9 doesn’t wanna go out on dates. Just Netflix and chill
Tally: ugh. 1/2 point. We’ve done both but more of the latter. But that’s my call. I choose that mostly. I’m too sexual for my own good
#10 doesn’t wanna call u his girlfriend (could be from 1-10 months of dating)
Tally: too soon to rate. But if I had to I’d say 1 for now
Score 3 1/2.
My score is like 5/6 ... fuck
I wish you were around in my 20’s and 30’s . I’m over 45 . This was a great video! Keep up the good work !
Wow thanks for all your advice. Super happy to find out the guy I'm dating is opposite to all these😏
I like how you always sit in that chair for the stories that are about to go down.
Something that I feel like should be mentioned in this video is if he’s on his phone during the date. It’s not only a bad sign but it tells you that he is thinking of something else(or someone else) while he’s with you. All of my exes were players(I was at the time too) and I noticed that every time I was on a date with the player, they’d be on their phones and not listening to a word I say. And while that may be ok if something important came up, but when you’re on a date, you shouldn’t have to be on your phone. And they may also find you to be boring, but it’s hard saying that they were bored or they were just texting some other bitch. That to me is a very key ingredient to what his intentions are along with all of these points made.
Effu Nikki,you look Charming 🌷🌺🌹 🌹🥀🥀 🥀🌺 🌺🌺🌺
What If you are in a 5 years relationship but he texts short, forgets things because of memory, no public affection??
He doesn't love you anymore. Sorry.😥😥
Or he's cheating. Or both.
Thank you for replying.At the same time, he calls me every night but our meeting became less. I am very confused
@@taylorthenatural5509 ?
Lmao don’t let it go to 6 years😂💀
I should've watched this video before my boyfriend broke up with me 💔
Soe Ta eh thank you :)
Loved the video! What should you do when a guy is taking ages to reply or ignoring bits of ur conversation.... it’s getting annoying 🙄😂 xx
Ignore him too then pshhh. These vids def help. At least to vent 😀
You're right and you're also awesome the best uncut uncensored truthful stuff I've ever heard thanks so much
Yeah I got dumped by a player a few days ago. They misspoke like all the time yeah going to watch a movie with my Girlfriend oh wait I mean my best buddy ha ha. so I saw the dumping coming from a long way. and they had the guts to dump me over text not even in person. He definitly had a side girl. or maybe I was even a side girl I hope not. I am happy to be free from them
As soon as a guy tells me he wants to come to my house I just laugh and then I become a total bi$(@
He’s back !!!!!
Thank you Andrew it’s so true!!❤️❤️
also ur skin? GO OFF
Thank you for this 😢😢 this sounds like my boyfriend 😂😕
Monecia Kristen run sis
Sarah Jayne I agree
Girl, DUMP HIS ASS AND RUNNNNN
I did😆😆 but I'm stuck living with his ass till the end of the year, mxm😴you guys are soul sisters😢😢😢😢❤💙❤💙❤
Just wanted to watch this video because the title was really intimidating.. And u know what u get it, the whole thing and yes I'll be careful to date a player🙅😁✌!!
By the way love all ur advices, it helped me a lot! ❤
Your a good boy. Most of us can figure this out on just by observing his behavior. They need to grow up.
Some guys are just bad at texting in general, and the good guys don't mean any harm in it, they'd just rather talk to you in person. I'm dating a really nice guy who will actually text me and say, "Hey, I'm sorry I didn't get back to you right away, I had to work late", or something to that effect. I know he's not lying, because he's been honest from the start. If he can't make it to come see me, he says it. If he's coming to town to see me, he'll follow through. He'll say, "I'll be there in like 20 minutes", and then he's here within that timeframe. So, I like that about him. He doesn't ghost me or not reply. I'd rather a man say, "Hey, I can't make it tonight" than to be stood up altogether. A man who likes you will not leave you hanging. Sometimes the guy I'm dating will only do one-word replies right around the time he starts to fall asleep, and if he doesn't reply after a half hour around the time he goes to bed, I know he's fallen asleep and thus, do not disturb him for the rest of the night. Now, if he doesn't get back to me during the day, he's working and his boss won't let him and his co-workers play with their phones, so that's understandable. (He works in construction) But my guy is quick to reply any time he's free and I really appreciate that. Our conversations flow smoothly and he does mostly reply with long paragraphs, so I can tell he's smitten. Haha. Just watch out for the men who only text you or call you around the late hours or here and there with no apology explaining the tardiness or abscence of his text or calls. Trust your intuition. If you think you're getting played, you probably are. Ditch him and move onto the next.
i wish id seen this video years ago with my first boyfriend back in highschool hahahaha. the advice here is great and really accurate
OMG, i'm going to have a date in a few days and i will check on most signs!! Thank you so much, love to watch your videos ❤
Good luck, I hope it goes well!! ❤️
i have a "casual meet up" on friday . still thinking if i should go or not 😂😂😂 first time in like 3 years since ive been single so idk..
@@lindsay9868 ohh thanx, i'm soo nervous 🙈
@@JD34969 Yeah i know how that feels, this upcoming date is my first after beeing married for 5 years... 😯
Awe goodluck! :)
Andrew who ever gets a hold of me o will be very loyal,Faithfully, No drama, NP lieing ,And No Cheating, !!!! I am a love Masus, !!!! Truly and Really
This video is all the way real. 💯
OH SHIET HE IS STILL ALIVE
I feel like this guy is a player cuz some of these apply to him except for the public affection one cuz he has hugged me and held my hand but I still feel like he's a player😂💀
This helped a lot thank you
His so handsome and his doesn’t have a password on his phone , our relationship moved too quickly first date , feels like i moved in ... everyday where together . But when i told in i have to leave after 2months staying with him , he asked me to leave my stuff at his place than he stopped calling n texting me .
Thank you so much. Needed to hear this.
this was helpful to watch. thank you dude
Hey! I’ve got a strange situation. A boy in my class that I’ve known since I was 3 that I drifted away from when I was 8 because people would say that we where going out. He never really talks to me except small talk but he told his friends that he has a crush on me! So I thought I would start to talk to him, get to know better. But he again makes small talk. I’m so confused. I mean if he asked me out I wouldn’t know what to say... so does he even have a crush on me. But he isn’t “ popular “ and I’m friends with some of his friends and they don’t like drama. HELP ME
I wanna cry because one guy that I liked in a long time being like that...
I should've watched this before. Quality!
Thanks for this! It's very helpful to know :)
Has anybody ever told you that you a little like a young Brandon Fraser?
I'm so confused coz the guy I'm dating shows these signs and also doesn't. Like he wants me to be his girlfriend and wants to go out on dates but he is still ticking boxes of player
You need to drop this guy
Just found u and have been bingeing ur video all night and learning alot!!! Thank u very kindly!! Im always being taken advantage off my guy who i now know he is a player owes me 65$ but never gets back to me or answer the money question when i text.... he is so a player:((((
Megan Louise,you look gorgeous 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌷🌺🌹 🌹🌺
@@oscarwilliamson1264 awe thank u thats really nice of u to say and i kicked him to the curb:)))
@@meganlouise1125 you are welcome my dearest 🌹 🌹🌷 🌷🌷🌷🌺🌹 🌹🌺🌺.I'm Oscar Williamson from Alabama.You?
@@oscarwilliamson1264 im Megan from Canada:))
Yo so I liked this dude. I told the dude how I felt, and I wrote like A LOT, like it was pretty excessive (probably didnt use that correctly but oh well). The day after he started talking about some girl from his school, he said he liked her and was planning on asking her out after the summer. I was kinda hurt since I literally just poured my heart out to him but just brushed it off and I forgot about it. This was about 3 months ago, in those three months hes been spending a lot of time with me over his friends, "teasing" me, and other flirtatious things. Just yesterday he told me that he no longer liked the girl from his school, and he liked someone new. He said he was nervous to tell me. Since Im a girl I overthink like A LOT, so I was wondering why he would be saying this if he didnt like me (new flash- he didnt), he wanted me to try and guess who he liked, I first asked him a couple questions that are related to things I do. He said yes to everything that realted to me. When I finaly didnt have anything more to ask I started to guess who it was. I wasnt going to flat out ask if he liked me, so I guessed a couple of names. I guessed who he liked (ill just call her suzy). When I said suzy's name, I could tell he was a little shocked (this is over text btw), a little embarassed, and yeah.
Suzy and I used to be friends, she broke my trust big time and I wasnt really ok with that, I learned to forgive her, but she continued to be rude, not trustworthy, and over all a pretty bad friend, we eventually grew farther away and now we dont really talk
Ok, back to the story, I didnt want to let him know that I was pretty upset, because I didnt want to make him feel bad. I just played it off, and let it go. The same day he told me, I saw him and suzy. Me and this dude used to be really close and everything, but I deffinatley felt like a third wheel even tho they arent dating. I decided to let this go, and let suzy and him figure things out. Clearly it wasnt meant to work out and there is someone else out there better for me, its really tough letting something go, but ik in the future ill be glad I did this. The dude was problamatic, obliviant, and egotistic. Since I dont want to end the friendship with the guy I told him I ust needed some space, and to have him give me some time. I didnt want to make a stupid decission that I would regret so when i told him this I had given myself some time to cool off, I dont know why I decided to write this on this video, but now that i have written this to complete strangers I feel way better, Im still not back to 100%, but if youve made it to the end, thanks, if you have any advice I would love to hear it, and anything else you think would help. Adios everyone, I hope you have good luck with relationships, and I hope you have a great, happy, stress free day.
(also ik this has nothing to do with this video, we never dated like or anything)
1st date - he asked me what my name was, invited me to his home
I deadass should’ve watched this 3 days ago...😔
Ok how do you break up with a player then?
Thank u now I know what to do to not get called out
thanks ❤️
What if my crush and I are in the same friend group and constantly are being mean to each other (I guess teasing) and saying the other is better? Does that mean I still have a chance?
I went and like all of your insta posts because I just found your channel and I’m gonna subscribe as well!!
Gosh. I felt like so many swords stabbed me with all your explanations. The thing is, he IS a player but he also didn't want to be labelled as one because he thinks that all the dates we've been doing were for friendship when we've gone beyond it. Even my family and and friends saw us as a "thing." Two months passed after I chose to break things (the relationship lasted 6months) of but we're still friends, he casually mentions to me that we had a thing after hearing nothing back from in weeks. Ironic because he was blatantly denying before that we we're *just* friends LMFAO He is one pos if I had to say so.
Do one about how to tell if a guys wants more out of a hook-up!!
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Thank u for this
he is a player.
Awwwwwwww andrew gotcha a girlfriiiiieeeend 😊😊😊😊
Not gonna lie, this paradoxically breaks my heart (because i have a HUGE crush on you) and makes me hapy ( because i want to see you happy )
Ayeee love seeing the Irish at the start 😂 being Irish pub crawls are a typical Saturday night for us
Can u do a video of a long distance relationship??
It’s my first time to watch your video,now I have Idea thanks ,
I’m starting to watching your video
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I needed this... a month ago.
K, so basically, I was talking with my Crush about two days ago and he sent me a GIF of Thanos. And I said Thanos was ugly, and then continued to go on to my crush that he was Good looking, Hot, Handsome, and Sexy in a way I thought he wouldn't notice. But then I said I realized I called him these things and said that if he didn't notice then he should ignore what I'm saying, he replied " oh I definitely noticed, :'D." Pls tell me what I've done... I'm kinda scared cos' I haven't talk to him since, but will be going to his house soon. Should I be scared? or just die in a small hole and over think things whilst he ponders about his next meal?
please send help
lol should’ve been watching this a couple months ago, coulda saved myself some heartache 😅
If it makes anyone feel better guys get played too. Every guy I dated in college I had no intention of being that serious with or even just being with beyond college I now know it was wrong but ey a girl was bored 🤷🏽♀️
What should I do?
I’ve been talking to this guy for months, but we’ve never gone out. He has a best friend that’s a girl, every time he and I make plans she’ll make last minute plans on that same day and this guy will cancel everything. I’ve told him how I felt, and his response every time is “Amanda and I are just friends, we don’t like each other like that”. He makes me feel guilty for feeling upset every time he puts her before me. I hate being jealous, and I especially hate having to complete for his time. He’s a really nice guy, but I don’t know anymore..
What should I do?
I Luv your videos!
My first boyfriend was a player and at that time I couldn't tell coz it was my first relationship. Every single time we would meet up his friends would be around and they would be really wired around. But one day his mom came home early and asked who I was and he said I was a friend and before we left he want to the bathroom and I was talking to his mom and she asked if I was friends with his girlfriend. I told I was his girl we ,thinking she's trying to fish something out but then she told me that he was with another girl they have been together for 2 years. At first I didn't believe it then she showed me pictures of them . I was heartbroken
You deserve better. Something real will come to you ❤️
When I find out if my bf is a player 😂😂 jokes btw
Same boat 😟❤
Ohhh... I am such a loser I was talking with a boy I rreally liked but in fact he was just playing with me now everyone at school looks at me like I've done smth wrong.BTW thx for the video and these sings are true
I notice men who marry but never post on their private stories or profile. The wire would change her photo to their wedding pic and he would not. Is this weird?
Yay! Everything that was described about a player is the exact oppsite of muh bf 😊
The first time I spot a player coming at me, Oi wait....
I am so confused what my boyfriend wants. The first time we met at a camp and we ended up making out and doing the basic stuff. The first red flag is that he thinks my friends are annoying and he talks about his exes and sex a little more than he should. He is super sweet and likes public affection but he is the worst texter ever. He isn't telling his friends about me at all, he hasn't even told them he has in any way been seeing me since it's long distance. He has been through rough times and I've helped him as much as I could and he told me that im the only thing that really makes him happy before we even got that sexual but he doesnt show much interest in when I'm feeling down. He was the first one to tell me he has feelings for me but he is lew key for the most part after sex. The only thing he likes to talk about is us having sex or what he did with other people and if I ever try to change subject, he ignores it. We've been together for only 3 months but I don't think it's good to see this many red flags in the start and I feel so lost, please help me.
And is it often that the American guys say "I want to marry you" and hook up with others girls ??!!
i date a boy 10 years older than me. When we stood on a street corner and kissed a car came and I was sure that they were friends of mine, so I turned away. He asked, "Am I embarrassing?" is that a good sign?
so my mom knows a guy and i met him we been talking he smiles alot makes alot of eye contact now we been getting relly close touchy and laughing alot hanging out more he even let me have his jaket hes sweet he winks at me is he a fraind or does he like me he stares at me from descent but I think he gets nerves and excticed around me he rubs his neck and rubs his arms what I do and figets advice please
Can you do a video on how to get over a guy? Im really struggling and i would really appreciate it so much
He's great for this.
if a guy argues with you and doea it alot does that make him interested
I just noticed... You lost weight (I think).
Tbh you are one of the best. all my guy friends try to give advice and you take less time and just to the point.
Thank you
Lol I knew a player but I knew it from the start, his vibes were off.
I just came here to cry
I find you so intriguing to watch
I love u so much ur vids are so helpful 💜💜
So. I tell my bf hey he says hey I say wyd he takes like 15 minutes to answer does that mean he’s a player... bc I watched another vid about like they take a little long to pretend there actually busy then what they are?
*he’s player, but i really loved playing his game...*
Wow, listening to you talk about things guys do when they are players makes me think, "I'm such a guy!! Ugh!".
Omg I just noticed that we got the same birthday 👌🏻
Spot on x
were was this gift when i was in a realtionship that was the biggest player it was so off and on he thought i should move in with him and have his kid i got sick of him and left
He wonders if it is alright to French kiss you, projects in the future about having kids and meeting your parents