Compliment him... Oh and make him feel manly and needed around you... Like for example ask him for help... The oldest and the kost simple trick ever is to ask him to open a bottlle for you... I use it all the time and it works... And laugh at his jokes even if they are not that funny...
If it actually does make the guy chase you when you make him jealous it won't mean he likes you, it will mean he likes the chase, the game. Your feelings for him will become like the irresistible price in the game. And when he's got you and when you're with him he'll be happy he did it and succeed at first. But then he'll become bored sooner or later and move on to the next game, the next girl he wants to "win". Because after he's won the game and got the price and jumped in the air a couple of times, there's nothing more to it. He's done. Next. Guys who chase girls that make them jealous do it out of insecurity. They want to prove to themselves and to people around them that they can get someone hot and they can get a lot of women. And that's why they chase you. Not because they like YOU.
Yeah guys who are slaves to their emotions rather than logic. I don't respect girls that try to make me jealous because it shows a level of immaturity. If your going to acrew with my head then that shows me that you will do this the entire relationship and a relationship should be about respect and honesty not immature head games. This type of shit pushes me away and its not about insecurity on my part if I have made my intentions pretty clear it's about find a girl who isn't a narcissistic selfish attention seeking child. What ever happened to just being straight up?
Im a cancer... I really do, do some bipolar push & pull sh, come to think of it :/. I cant help it. My moods really are like ⬆️↗️↩️↔️↕️↖️⬅️↙️⬇️↘️➡️🔄🔃⤵️⤴️↪️from 0-100 in no time. They moon rules me & thats my excuse. Anywho me intentionally trying to make a guy jealous is kinda funny. Bc on all reality its like inner voice: ahem, you gotta like actually talk to other guys to bring on some weird attention. Also me: yeah no. F that. The hell do i look like flirting w/ ppl im not even interested in? Oh. Oh yeah... Crush: yeah, i know youre looking like that for me tho. Me: 🤔🤷🏻♀️ yeah, ok. Whatever. We'll go w/ that 😍. .. but me not intentionally doing sh is crush: acts annoying. .. me: youre on damn dead mode. I give no fs... Keep playing. I can either be the light in your dark, i can be in the shadows, or i can just simply get gone. Ur pick.
It would help greatly if you make a bullet point list for every video, like so: 1. Be less available 2. Live your best life & be happy 3. Texting guys in his company 4. Talk about another guy 5. Post pics you look great in 6. Be happy with other dudes 7. Post girl night out pics
I remember one time I was talking to this guy and he sent me a snap and I opened it like 4 hrs later and he freaked out and texted my best friend telling her that I didn't open his snap and my snap score is higher than it was before.I was shook
Andrews top 7: “These make him beg for your attention “ 1. Be less available. (“Don’t reply to every text. Don’t pick up every phone call, take awhile to respond etc”) 2. (“The easiest way to make him jealous “) live ur best life and be happy. 3. Texting other guys when he’s around 4. Talk about another guy a lot Even if u have to make a name up. (Oof) 5. Posting pictures u look great in 6. Genuinely be happy with other dudes around. Be a little extra. Compliment them around him. 7. Dress up with ur girlfriends and post photos of y’all together having fun/dancing/whatev
Anna S than stop trying to make him jealous... If it pushes him away you've gone too far, so next time know when to stop. Dating someone doesn't only mean that you have to feel good and wanted. He wants to feel the same way so stop making it too hard for him.
The problem with getting a guy jealous is that he may chase you but out of a feeling of jealousy. Once he knows he's got you he goes back to taking you for granted. I think a better strategy is to make him think no one else is interested (even though they are) and he will take you for granted, show his jerkier side etc. Essentially, you will see the real him. He will not be there for you etc. He will filter himself out of your life and open up space for the better guys (who deserve you) to get you. He will be jealous later but it will be too late for him. You will be walking down the aisle with a better guy that you like more and you won't even care about whether he's jealous. You might even feel bad for him because you know he truly did lose you for real -- no games, no using other guys to get him jealous. You never want a guy to chase you because of his insecurities. It won't last. Let him filter himself out!
I've been seeing a guy who's in an open relationship for some time now and I just can't tell if he gets jealous or not. He and his girlfriend literally encourage each other to hit on other people and he does the same with me, it's so weird. But at the same time, he seems to be a bit too interested in who else I'm seeing. Like, I'd be completely over a guy for some time, but he'd still ask about him. He literally doesn't remember the friends I introduce to him, but he remembers the guys I had flings with.
I hate game playing but I'm 29 so that's probably why! Anyone who starts to act like a tool by trying to get me jealous, makes me want to turn and run the other way. Try to make me jealous and you've just made yourself an option instead of a priority. I'm competitive but not with who I date. There are too many other people out there who are willing to date me that would treat me better and that's self confidence for you, not me being conceited. Know what you want. If the other person doesn't know what they want or if the timing is off, move on and come back to it if it finds you later on when the time is right.
Yeah same. I'm not a man, but men do the same and think it'll make the woman want them more lol. Some men think that if they look as if they're really popular with women and then walk around surrounded by and low key flirting with other women just to make me want him more - they're dumb. I'll be saying bye after a minute of that shit lol. A relationship built on insecurities and jealousy is so unhealthy, and probably won't even last.
I think my crush thinks its cute that i get jealous. I fn find him annoying. Then if i diss any females, its like i can score hot ones. Give me validation. 🤔: Idk dude. Youre being weird! Im not really catty. But i dont really want to tolerate disrespect either
nah man that's childish. if they want to play games they can walk idgaf. don't do this girls. the dude will drop you when he gets bored with the chase and manages to get a chance. you're worth more then that.
Why do I actually want to try these things out though to see how other guys react, although there’s no one I currently want to make jealous? Lol. Although subconsciously I think I do a few these things without actually thinking about it. Haha.
THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING about the counseling, Andrew! I went to counselors for years & they REALLY helped! Also--GREAT POINT about switching & costing more money! GREAT EPISODE ALL OVER, Andrew! I appreciate you!
I’ve unintentionally done all of these things and I can say without a doubt that they all work. I’m so happy a guy choose to do this video o. This topic.
Thanks for mentioning Better Help! As a therapist I totally agree that getting some help or someone to talk to is pretty inaccessible. As a person who recently got out of a toxic relationship, I wonder how long before I should get back out there? I've been doing a lot to get over my ex, improving my life, killing it at my job and taking care of me and now I'm thinking it might be good to start dating again. I like your videos...you're cute
Hey Andrew!! I really agree with the idea of 'not answering right away when he calls ....' or ' texting him pretty laaate' when it comes to someone we like. How about the guys that chase us and we want to get rid of? I mean, if we do the same thing to them because we truly don't want to give them attention, then we are actually making them fall for us .... don't you think so?!!!!
Hi Andrew. Great video by the way. In my case, the thing you said about texting someone while talking to the person you want to make jealous, i actually had a guy do it to me. At first I thought it was a bit rude, but soon after that I realized that the fact that he was having a fun conversation with another girl while I was there, drove me insane. I couldn't stop wondering what he was saying. But yeah, if that was his intention it worked... Anyway, I hope you have a wonderful/night and thank you so much!
lowkey just realized I kinda did this stuff to my ex right before we dated and didnt even notice. just the first few tho. bc I have a lot of guy friends and he always wanted to kno who I was talking to
6:57 A guy commented on one of my instagram pic and the guy I love dm me and literally asked me like:" who is this guy?" And he asked me if i could delete his flirty comment😂😂
I've already done number 3!! And he was all like "who's Benny?". I said, "Oh just a friend from school" which is true, but I could still tell that he was jealous!!
Doesn't it feel so much more better, to have his affection without manipulation? I think respecting him and having respect for your own self is a healthy balance.
I imagine I am your oldest follower (63) but I enjoy your patio and information!!!! It’s like my son is giving me great dating advise. Which he would never do!!!
i recently watch a vid saying "how to know if a guy likes you back" and my crush did all of those things. and then i watched "how to know if a boy DOESNT like you back" and my crush did those things too.... and now i am watching this.
So for me, these are actually tactics to make a guy know that he is friend-zoned, but it seems to go in one ear and out the other. They think it's manipulation, but it's totally not. If I'm talking about how much I like another guy, I'm not trying to make him jealous. I'm being honest, and I really enjoy the friendship. A guy I really freaking like, I'm not going to risk it. He'll be jealous if he just sees me talking to another guy. Though, there have been times where more than one guy was after me, and I was not exclusive, and they were all jealous. It happens. But never-the-less, I'm not gonna say, "omg, that other guy is so hott!" when I'm talking to a guy I wanna sleep with, lol! (Anyway, I've been enjoying your videos, but I disagreed with this one....Just wanted to explain my perspective.)
This guy Is one of the closest people in my life I talk to him about everything,but we were dating and i was sooo happy with him. Now I'm kinda falling into a dark hole of thinking he hates me when he tells me over and over he doesn't I can't believe he loves or use to love me. I'm actually in love with him and its killing me that he has a single self concious thought about himself, hes the coolest sweetest person I know. I can't be happy without him and I have a new boyfriend who i dont love and I can't get over my ex,I don't think I ever will
Ironically I can vouch for the "when you go out take pics with your friends post videos on snapchat dancing with your girls or friends." The dude will text you. And guess what after the first reply you send. Leave it at that and reply to him the next day. Cause he will reply back. True story: this dude made me jealous by kissing a girl on the cheek on his snapchat. So I went out the next night with a group of both guys and girls. I took snaps. He saw them he texted me "looks like you're having fun" I took a picture of what I was drinking (fireball) I was tipsy but not too tipsy. We all know guys associate alcohol with naughty flirty behavior so I didnt reply back to him until the next day at 5pm. He unfriended from snapchat. But still talks to me at work. Were coworkers. And now hes all up on me. But hes still stubborn to fall. Either way I got the last laugh that night. It bothered him so much he decided to "ground me" those were his words. I sit here unphased because I know he unfriended me for ignoring him while I was out dancing and possibly flirting and dancing with other dudes. Lol
I like this guy, and he shows signs that he likes me, but then he acts like he’s not interested. So I used your method by making him jealous by talking and flirting with other guys, it worked, he looked so pissed. He didn’t say anything about it to me tho, would that matter?
He probably doesnt want you to know that he likes you. Maybe if you keep on making him jealous he'll probably confess or be more clingy and want your attention (i think its adorable when they do that) but dont take it too far. He'll then think that you aren't intrested at all so he'll just go with it too and loose interest in you completely. Be careful. Wish ya luck.
OH GOSH.... I had alot of guy friends but had never had a boyfriend, so I told some of my guyfriends I was going on a date. about a week or two later ALL OF THEM, I mean the ones I told I was going on a date with a dude, confessed to me.
My ex is just a big player ;-; he dated me for 2 WEEKS and then left me cuz he had fallen for my bff. A week later two of his best friends confessed to me but I rejected the both cuz I didn't have feelings for them...but I had feelings for his best best friend :3 I confessed to him and he likes me back ..he's now my boyfriend :3 a good revenge huh? (he knows that i'm dating his bestfriend) :3
One time my guy friend (that I secretly had a crush on) texted me and when I asked him what's up? He said he was on a date. So why is he texting me? Shady... and made me completely jealous
The problem with the points on this video is that if the guy isn't super into you, instead of making him jealous, you will just be pushing him away and he will find someone else.
Some of these think that you are cheating, like texting another dude and look like you are enjoying it and that may make them mad, and enjoying yourself with other dudes and , compliment and flirting with another dude in front of them🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Yo so I liked this dude. I told the dude how I felt, and I wrote like A LOT, like it was pretty excessive (probably didnt use that correctly but oh well). The day after he started talking about some girl from his school, he said he liked her and was planning on asking her out after the summer. I was kinda hurt since I literally just poured my heart out to him but just brushed it off and I forgot about it. This was about 3 months ago, in those three months hes been spending a lot of time with me over his friends, "teasing" me, and other flirtatious things. Just yesterday he told me that he no longer liked the girl from his school, and he liked someone new. He said he was nervous to tell me. Since Im a girl I overthink like A LOT, so I was wondering why he would be saying this if he didnt like me (new flash- he didnt), he wanted me to try and guess who he liked, I first asked him a couple questions that are related to things I do. He said yes to everything that realted to me. When I finaly didnt have anything more to ask I started to guess who it was. I wasnt going to flat out ask if he liked me, so I guessed a couple of names. I guessed who he liked (ill just call her suzy). When I said suzy's name, I could tell he was a little shocked (this is over text btw), a little embarassed, and yeah. Suzy and I used to be friends, she broke my trust big time and I wasnt really ok with that, I learned to forgive her, but she continued to be rude, not trustworthy, and over all a pretty bad friend, we eventually grew farther away and now we dont really talk Ok, back to the story, I didnt want to let him know that I was pretty upset, because I didnt want to make him feel bad. I just played it off, and let it go. The same day he told me, I saw him and suzy. Me and this dude used to be really close and everything, but I deffinatley felt like a third wheel even tho they arent dating. I decided to let this go, and let suzy and him figure things out. Clearly it wasnt meant to work out and there is someone else out there better for me, its really tough letting something go, but ik in the future ill be glad I did this. The dude was problamatic, obliviant, and egotistic. Since I dont want to end the friendship with the guy I told him I ust needed some space, and to have him give me some time. I didnt want to make a stupid decission that I would regret so when i told him this I had given myself some time to cool off, I dont know why I decided to write this on this video, but now that i have written this to complete strangers I feel way better, Im still not back to 100%, but if youve made it to the end, thanks, if you have any advice I would love to hear it, and anything else you think would help. Adios everyone, I hope you have good luck with relationships, and I hope you have a great, happy, stress free day.
I want ur advice guys !!! My crush was talking to me happily till i said "avicii is love" he lets to me "vu" and didnt answerex till tomorrow "sorry i fall asleep" and he didnt answered the whole dayyy !!!! UR ADVICE PLZ GUYS
I've been seeing a guy who's in an open relationship for some time now and I just can't tell if he gets jealous or not. He and his girlfriend literally encourage each other to hit on other people and he does the same with me, it's so weird. But at the same time, he seems to be a bit too interested in who else I'm seeing. Like, I'd be completely over a guy for some time, but he'd still ask about him. He literally doesn't remember the friends I introduce to him, but he remembers the guys I had flings with.
my college crush doesnt approach me unless i am alone or i dont approach him unless he's alone. yesterday i sat with 2 other guys from our class and i told him to come sit with me through text and he totally ignored it and didn't even come over, i was laughing so much with these 2 other guys because they are funny and we were just having a good time and i kept looking back to see my crush, he clearly is looking at me and my small group having a good time with jealousy lol. he gets easily jealous when he sees someone talk to me especially other guys but is too nervous to approach me.
Thanks Andrew for your amazing tips...well I've tried one of them that's what he tried to text me when I was enjoying with my freinds and I replied him the next day just to make him jealous..and he replied back saying"wow..u replied so early 👏👏" .Haha well that really worked out to make him jealous 😂😂 . Again thank you so much for your tips.. I'll try these too 😄 Well ur simply amazing guy.. love you ☺️
Tell me why the “post a photo on social media” advice actually worked for me, even tho I’m 23 and he’s 29. We both are barely on Facebook, and I haven’t posted a selfie with just me in it, probably in like a year. I posted a cute ass mirror pic, and the next fucking day he’s asking me to come over, even tho we barely talked to week before, and he didn’t even like the photo. But he had to have seen it because all of our mutual friends liked it. I can’t believe that shit actually worked.
No guarantee that a person will speak with a licensed professional on betterhelp. It even says that (unless they deleted it by now) you get paid a couple hundred dollars every time someone uses your name with betterhelp, but you lose parts of your soul. It's a scam to destroy already vulnerable people.
question: does he still like me and what should I do? backstory: this guy and I met and we were friendly and stuff and then I found out he had a gf and then he asked if I liked him and I said yea and he didn’t take it awkwardly at all and then he started flirting with me and I flirted back because I obviously like him but then it got to the point where we were talking about doing unspeakable things and I kinda put a stop to it because I realized that I was horrible person and he had a gf. his gf is super nice and pretty and I would never want them to breakup, although I do like him a lot and yes I would date him right away if they broke up. so after that happened he told me he still wanted to be friends and get to know eachother better and I was like okay. and now i’m the one who’s always starting the conversations and it’s getting kinda annoying and I want to give up on him but I still like him. he’s even told me that he loves his gf. he is truly a nice guy and all but like I said, i’m always the one starting the conversations, and stuff. but like once we get into the conversation he’s super engaged in it and then i’m usually the one that has to end because I want to sleep and it’s 2 in the morning. and I really want the answers to my questions (above) and it would really help if I got advice from anyone really.
I feel like making people jealous only works for certain circumstances or when you’re trying to get a guy’s attention in the beginning when things aren’t super serious. If you’ve already been talking to the person for awhile, even if you aren’t officially together, I don’t recommend it. It creates trust issues and can hurt the other person before it can even turn into anything. If you really like the person, why mess with their head and play with their emotions? I feel like if anything it would make the other person want to make YOU jealous back and eventually you both might be confused on how the other person feels. You might even psych each other out and drift away from one another because of it even if you both were interested in each other all along, you’ll confuse the one you really like! Idk it’s an interesting tactic but this is just my take on it. To each their own but be careful! ):
*this dude is breaking the guy code HARD*
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haha don't hate him cause you ain't him!
Keep Breaking It 👹👹👹
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Rylee Williams I sure would lol
How to make a guy feel good? (Not in a sexual way, but like feeling all warm and bubbly and really happy to be around you)
The best way? Talk to him. A lot :)
this is so wholesome :’)) good luck
Compliment him... Oh and make him feel manly and needed around you... Like for example ask him for help... The oldest and the kost simple trick ever is to ask him to open a bottlle for you... I use it all the time and it works... And laugh at his jokes even if they are not that funny...
Chloe Cleaver YEAAHH
This is such a pure comment
"I'd never condone lying" *a second later* give advice on how to lie to your crush
Luiza Del Poz but he would NEVER ConDoNe LyINg
Luiza Del Poz That part made me laugh so hard 😂🙌🏼
Lol ikr probs gonna try that one out tho😂
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I don't even know why I'm here. I don't even like anybody.
Saaaame!
I want a crush to try and impress him
Same
Same
Queen Moonxis same
I realized making a guy jealous is the best way to make him like you
Just ignore him , if it doesn't work just drop his ass you can do better anyway
NO IT DOesnt PLz stop like how would I know if you like me or not I’d just be confused and shy to approach until it dies out
If it actually does make the guy chase you when you make him jealous it won't mean he likes you, it will mean he likes the chase, the game. Your feelings for him will become like the irresistible price in the game. And when he's got you and when you're with him he'll be happy he did it and succeed at first. But then he'll become bored sooner or later and move on to the next game, the next girl he wants to "win". Because after he's won the game and got the price and jumped in the air a couple of times, there's nothing more to it. He's done. Next.
Guys who chase girls that make them jealous do it out of insecurity. They want to prove to themselves and to people around them that they can get someone hot and they can get a lot of women. And that's why they chase you. Not because they like YOU.
Yeah guys who are slaves to their emotions rather than logic. I don't respect girls that try to make me jealous because it shows a level of immaturity. If your going to acrew with my head then that shows me that you will do this the entire relationship and a relationship should be about respect and honesty not immature head games. This type of shit pushes me away and its not about insecurity on my part if I have made my intentions pretty clear it's about find a girl who isn't a narcissistic selfish attention seeking child. What ever happened to just being straight up?
Im a cancer... I really do, do some bipolar push & pull sh, come to think of it :/. I cant help it. My moods really are like ⬆️↗️↩️↔️↕️↖️⬅️↙️⬇️↘️➡️🔄🔃⤵️⤴️↪️from 0-100 in no time. They moon rules me & thats my excuse. Anywho me intentionally trying to make a guy jealous is kinda funny. Bc on all reality its like inner voice: ahem, you gotta like actually talk to other guys to bring on some weird attention. Also me: yeah no. F that. The hell do i look like flirting w/ ppl im not even interested in? Oh. Oh yeah... Crush: yeah, i know youre looking like that for me tho. Me: 🤔🤷🏻♀️ yeah, ok. Whatever. We'll go w/ that 😍. .. but me not intentionally doing sh is crush: acts annoying. .. me: youre on damn dead mode. I give no fs... Keep playing. I can either be the light in your dark, i can be in the shadows, or i can just simply get gone. Ur pick.
It would help greatly if you make a bullet point list for every video, like so:
1. Be less available
2. Live your best life & be happy
3. Texting guys in his company
4. Talk about another guy
5. Post pics you look great in
6. Be happy with other dudes
7. Post girl night out pics
I remember one time I was talking to this guy and he sent me a snap and I opened it like 4 hrs later and he freaked out and texted my best friend telling her that I didn't open his snap and my snap score is higher than it was before.I was shook
Alexandra Stefanie pretty shook 😂
damn he was into you
Omg same thing happened to me but Instead he called me telling me if everything is alright Because I always text in one minute 😂
He’s obsessive
RUN AWAYYYYY
Andrews top 7: “These make him beg for your attention “
1. Be less available. (“Don’t reply to every text. Don’t pick up every phone call, take awhile to respond etc”)
2. (“The easiest way to make him jealous “) live ur best life and be happy.
3. Texting other guys when he’s around
4. Talk about another guy a lot Even if u have to make a name up. (Oof)
5. Posting pictures u look great in
6. Genuinely be happy with other dudes around. Be a little extra. Compliment them around him.
7. Dress up with ur girlfriends and post photos of y’all together having fun/dancing/whatev
Thank you
Binar Kurdi 🥰😍🤗🤗
what if making him jealous pushes him away?? advice??
Anna S than stop trying to make him jealous... If it pushes him away you've gone too far, so next time know when to stop. Dating someone doesn't only mean that you have to feel good and wanted. He wants to feel the same way so stop making it too hard for him.
If he’s jealous he will actually get closer to u and try to not be jealous anymore lol idk if u get my point
You say whoops and stop.
moDeRatiOn is tHe kEy
Then it was not worth it, move on
Me busy watching this and so very single 😏😂
Same
Me too
I love your comfortable but insecure vibes your giving off. It's to cute. I enjoy your videos!
The problem with getting a guy jealous is that he may chase you but out of a feeling of jealousy. Once he knows he's got you he goes back to taking you for granted. I think a better strategy is to make him think no one else is interested (even though they are) and he will take you for granted, show his jerkier side etc. Essentially, you will see the real him. He will not be there for you etc. He will filter himself out of your life and open up space for the better guys (who deserve you) to get you. He will be jealous later but it will be too late for him. You will be walking down the aisle with a better guy that you like more and you won't even care about whether he's jealous. You might even feel bad for him because you know he truly did lose you for real -- no games, no using other guys to get him jealous. You never want a guy to chase you because of his insecurities. It won't last. Let him filter himself out!
That is like..sooooo so true!!!! Preach it girl!!!!
Yesss 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Mature speaking great
I've been seeing a guy who's in an open relationship for some time now and I just can't tell if he gets jealous or not. He and his girlfriend literally encourage each other to hit on other people and he does the same with me, it's so weird.
But at the same time, he seems to be a bit too interested in who else I'm seeing. Like, I'd be completely over a guy for some time, but he'd still ask about him. He literally doesn't remember the friends I introduce to him, but he remembers the guys I had flings with.
I hate game playing but I'm 29 so that's probably why! Anyone who starts to act like a tool by trying to get me jealous, makes me want to turn and run the other way. Try to make me jealous and you've just made yourself an option instead of a priority. I'm competitive but not with who I date. There are too many other people out there who are willing to date me that would treat me better and that's self confidence for you, not me being conceited. Know what you want. If the other person doesn't know what they want or if the timing is off, move on and come back to it if it finds you later on when the time is right.
Rachel Ramsey now that's mature talking here ❤ hope u find ur soulmate soon
What is your zodiac sign ?
This is how I see things as well. 24 years old here, but I've always thought of it like that.
Ladies, not all men respond the way you want if you make him jealous. I know that would push me away fast. So be wise about how you go about this.
Yeah same. I'm not a man, but men do the same and think it'll make the woman want them more lol. Some men think that if they look as if they're really popular with women and then walk around surrounded by and low key flirting with other women just to make me want him more - they're dumb. I'll be saying bye after a minute of that shit lol. A relationship built on insecurities and jealousy is so unhealthy, and probably won't even last.
I agree
I think my crush thinks its cute that i get jealous.
I fn find him annoying. Then if i diss any females, its like i can score hot ones. Give me validation. 🤔: Idk dude. Youre being weird! Im not really catty. But i dont really want to tolerate disrespect either
nah man that's childish. if they want to play games they can walk idgaf. don't do this girls. the dude will drop you when he gets bored with the chase and manages to get a chance. you're worth more then that.
completely agree, this is NOT a soundproof way to secure a healthy/stable relationship
Agreed. This is such a game. Can we all just be ourselves and be honest and not play games. So over it 🙄
I do pretty much all of these without even realising it most times tbh 😂
Why do I actually want to try these things out though to see how other guys react, although there’s no one I currently want to make jealous? Lol. Although subconsciously I think I do a few these things without actually thinking about it. Haha.
peaceloveGen Hahahah ikr same! After watching this, I was wondering if I actually already do these things
Sameeeeee
"Give him a girl compliment" BEST ADVICE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING about the counseling, Andrew! I went to counselors for years & they REALLY helped! Also--GREAT POINT about switching & costing more money! GREAT EPISODE ALL OVER, Andrew! I appreciate you!
The best thing about your ex is you ;)
I agree
"Give them a girl compliment." 😄
Yessss boy get those sponsors
looool every single point you just mentioned is literally what I do all the time...
still no boyfriend :D
TheKatieSmile you’re so gorgeous idk how girls like you are single!! i’m single too so mood.
@@blackhatter011 tf is wrong with you ?
🤣🤣😂😂😂
I like how you warn us about sponsorship in the beginning and get it over with after 3 minutes. It's refreshing and you do it naturally😎
ANDREW ALWAYS COME THRUUUUUUUU WITH QUALITY CONTENT
my boyfriend got jealous because i took a picture hugging a celebrity smh
Anisa LaMora aw😍
You kinda look like Shane Dawson's camera guy... His name is Andrew too
THAT’S WHAT I THOUGHT TOO 😂😂
Jenna Funk I am sHOOK
I don’t see any resemblance 😅🤔 Andrew is a hot piece of meat though 😍
Jenna Funk CONSPIRACY THEORIES
It looks like Andrew and Garrett had a love child 😂
dAmN yOu'Ve bEeN wOrKiNg oUt? Lmfao
"This just in...Justin's great." Oh Andrew, I love your corny jokes 😂
"Give him a girl compliment" Best advice i've heard.
yeah if the guy you're chasing is mature, he'll see through you and think you'll be playing games and take you even less seriously.
It's so cruel making someone feel jealous and insecure. I don't understand this
Kaylee S someone understands and will catch him as well as possible and u will be single for your whole life!!
@@pegahrezaei7825 stfu
Because you told so many times that guys are insecure, I finally am starting to believe it. Thank you so much Andrew.
I’ve unintentionally done all of these things and I can say without a doubt that they all work. I’m so happy a guy choose to do this video o. This topic.
If you want someone to be jealous just be awesome 😉
Thanks for mentioning Better Help! As a therapist I totally agree that getting some help or someone to talk to is pretty inaccessible. As a person who recently got out of a toxic relationship, I wonder how long before I should get back out there? I've been doing a lot to get over my ex, improving my life, killing it at my job and taking care of me and now I'm thinking it might be good to start dating again. I like your videos...you're cute
GIRLS NIGHT!
Ok that was way too manly..
hahahaha 😊😊
Hey Andrew!! I really agree with the idea of 'not answering right away when he calls ....' or ' texting him pretty laaate' when it comes to someone we like. How about the guys that chase us and we want to get rid of? I mean, if we do the same thing to them because we truly don't want to give them attention, then we are actually making them fall for us .... don't you think so?!!!!
“I would never condone lying but...” ... He is my spirit animal.
#2: just exist and be happy while doing it
Hi Andrew. Great video by the way. In my case, the thing you said about texting someone while talking to the person you want to make jealous, i actually had a guy do it to me. At first I thought it was a bit rude, but soon after that I realized that the fact that he was having a fun conversation with another girl while I was there, drove me insane. I couldn't stop wondering what he was saying. But yeah, if that was his intention it worked...
Anyway, I hope you have a wonderful/night and thank you so much!
"I'll never condone lying"
*Condones lying*
😂
lowkey just realized I kinda did this stuff to my ex right before we dated and didnt even notice. just the first few tho. bc I have a lot of guy friends and he always wanted to kno who I was talking to
2 minutes in the video and I like him already. My man u just earned yourself a subscriber dude
6:57 A guy commented on one of my instagram pic and the guy I love dm me and literally asked me like:" who is this guy?" And he asked me if i could delete his flirty comment😂😂
Do you have a crush on justin? Hahahahahahahah 😂😂😂🙈
Nikita anastazija Ahnstrøm I do!!!
Lol I literally saw this comment right after I saw that part 😂😂😂
Aww no .. I would never let my guy go through this depression 😝
I've already done number 3!! And he was all like "who's Benny?". I said, "Oh just a friend from school" which is true, but I could still tell that he was jealous!!
Doesn't it feel so much more better, to have his affection without manipulation? I think respecting him and having respect for your own self is a healthy balance.
I've seen people interested in someone, the other person goes over board with these techniques and the person loses interest. So it can backfire.
I like how you segwayed into that sponsor that was smooth.
Love how he's helping us mess with his fellow guys 😂👌
You talk like you’re such a good and funny person. No hesitation at all, just you and your bunch of ideas. 😄 And I like that.
I text everyone, if I like them or not, straight away. Like I really like talking to my friends and the people I like I ain’t gonna wait for a convo
THIS IS SO HELPFUL KING especially the last one!!!
Can better help help my grades?
What if she doesn't intentionally make him jealous but he's get's jealous based on his own doing? How is it possible to handle that?
4:31 lol “MAYBE HES NOT INTO GIRLS”🤣🤣🤣
I don't ever look good...
goddam I need friends like you.
'and you know what? he can use better help next' i dieddddd
I imagine I am your oldest follower (63) but I enjoy your patio and information!!!! It’s like my son is giving me great dating advise. Which he would never do!!!
When i discover a youtuber it usually takes me to watch like 2 or 4 videos, this is the first video and i subcribe
Girls, he’s not thinking ‘bout you, start being productive, and save your damn feelings for someone that cares
i recently watch a vid saying "how to know if a guy likes you back" and my crush did all of those things. and then i watched "how to know if a boy DOESNT like you back" and my crush did those things too....
and now i am watching this.
So for me, these are actually tactics to make a guy know that he is friend-zoned, but it seems to go in one ear and out the other. They think it's manipulation, but it's totally not. If I'm talking about how much I like another guy, I'm not trying to make him jealous. I'm being honest, and I really enjoy the friendship. A guy I really freaking like, I'm not going to risk it. He'll be jealous if he just sees me talking to another guy. Though, there have been times where more than one guy was after me, and I was not exclusive, and they were all jealous. It happens. But never-the-less, I'm not gonna say, "omg, that other guy is so hott!" when I'm talking to a guy I wanna sleep with, lol! (Anyway, I've been enjoying your videos, but I disagreed with this one....Just wanted to explain my perspective.)
This guy Is one of the closest people in my life I talk to him about everything,but we were dating and i was sooo happy with him. Now I'm kinda falling into a dark hole of thinking he hates me when he tells me over and over he doesn't I can't believe he loves or use to love me. I'm actually in love with him and its killing me that he has a single self concious thought about himself, hes the coolest sweetest person I know. I can't be happy without him and I have a new boyfriend who i dont love and I can't get over my ex,I don't think I ever will
Ironically I can vouch for the "when you go out take pics with your friends post videos on snapchat dancing with your girls or friends." The dude will text you. And guess what after the first reply you send. Leave it at that and reply to him the next day. Cause he will reply back. True story: this dude made me jealous by kissing a girl on the cheek on his snapchat. So I went out the next night with a group of both guys and girls. I took snaps. He saw them he texted me "looks like you're having fun" I took a picture of what I was drinking (fireball) I was tipsy but not too tipsy. We all know guys associate alcohol with naughty flirty behavior so I didnt reply back to him until the next day at 5pm. He unfriended from snapchat. But still talks to me at work. Were coworkers. And now hes all up on me. But hes still stubborn to fall. Either way I got the last laugh that night. It bothered him so much he decided to "ground me" those were his words. I sit here unphased because I know he unfriended me for ignoring him while I was out dancing and possibly flirting and dancing with other dudes. Lol
Look at the state of these women!!
“And he’ll wonder what you’re up to and you know what he can use better help next!” LMAOOOOOO
Him: Girls nigt
Me: I dont have friends
I like this guy, and he shows signs that he likes me, but then he acts like he’s not interested. So I used your method by making him jealous by talking and flirting with other guys, it worked, he looked so pissed. He didn’t say anything about it to me tho, would that matter?
He probably doesnt want you to know that he likes you. Maybe if you keep on making him jealous he'll probably confess or be more clingy and want your attention (i think its adorable when they do that) but dont take it too far. He'll then think that you aren't intrested at all so he'll just go with it too and loose interest in you completely. Be careful. Wish ya luck.
OH GOSH....
I had alot of guy friends but had never had a boyfriend, so I told some of my guyfriends I was going on a date.
about a week or two later ALL OF THEM, I mean the ones I told I was going on a date with a dude, confessed to me.
My ex is just a big player ;-; he dated me for 2 WEEKS and then left me cuz he had fallen for my bff.
A week later two of his best friends confessed to me but I rejected the both cuz I didn't have feelings for them...but I had feelings for his best best friend :3 I confessed to him and he likes me back ..he's now my boyfriend :3 a good revenge huh? (he knows that i'm dating his bestfriend) :3
I'm going to make people jealous if I can. That seems sadistic, I'm just joking.
One time my guy friend (that I secretly had a crush on) texted me and when I asked him what's up? He said he was on a date. So why is he texting me? Shady... and made me completely jealous
Brittany Sims confront him ! maybe he didn’t like her
Sherine elmasry he's currently dating a different girl who happens to be a mutual friend
The problem with the points on this video is that if the guy isn't super into you, instead of making him jealous, you will just be pushing him away and he will find someone else.
You’re hilarious! Thanks for making these videos with great advice and making me laugh at the same time.
thank you you always help me with boys
Some of these think that you are cheating, like texting another dude and look like you are enjoying it and that may make them mad, and enjoying yourself with other dudes and , compliment and flirting with another dude in front of them🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Yo so I liked this dude. I told the dude how I felt, and I wrote like A LOT, like it was pretty excessive (probably didnt use that correctly but oh well). The day after he started talking about some girl from his school, he said he liked her and was planning on asking her out after the summer. I was kinda hurt since I literally just poured my heart out to him but just brushed it off and I forgot about it. This was about 3 months ago, in those three months hes been spending a lot of time with me over his friends, "teasing" me, and other flirtatious things. Just yesterday he told me that he no longer liked the girl from his school, and he liked someone new. He said he was nervous to tell me. Since Im a girl I overthink like A LOT, so I was wondering why he would be saying this if he didnt like me (new flash- he didnt), he wanted me to try and guess who he liked, I first asked him a couple questions that are related to things I do. He said yes to everything that realted to me. When I finaly didnt have anything more to ask I started to guess who it was. I wasnt going to flat out ask if he liked me, so I guessed a couple of names. I guessed who he liked (ill just call her suzy). When I said suzy's name, I could tell he was a little shocked (this is over text btw), a little embarassed, and yeah.
Suzy and I used to be friends, she broke my trust big time and I wasnt really ok with that, I learned to forgive her, but she continued to be rude, not trustworthy, and over all a pretty bad friend, we eventually grew farther away and now we dont really talk
Ok, back to the story, I didnt want to let him know that I was pretty upset, because I didnt want to make him feel bad. I just played it off, and let it go. The same day he told me, I saw him and suzy. Me and this dude used to be really close and everything, but I deffinatley felt like a third wheel even tho they arent dating. I decided to let this go, and let suzy and him figure things out. Clearly it wasnt meant to work out and there is someone else out there better for me, its really tough letting something go, but ik in the future ill be glad I did this. The dude was problamatic, obliviant, and egotistic. Since I dont want to end the friendship with the guy I told him I ust needed some space, and to have him give me some time. I didnt want to make a stupid decission that I would regret so when i told him this I had given myself some time to cool off, I dont know why I decided to write this on this video, but now that i have written this to complete strangers I feel way better, Im still not back to 100%, but if youve made it to the end, thanks, if you have any advice I would love to hear it, and anything else you think would help. Adios everyone, I hope you have good luck with relationships, and I hope you have a great, happy, stress free day.
you did the right thing💯🙌
All I did was talk to his friend and he got super jealous.
I want ur advice guys !!!
My crush was talking to me happily till i said "avicii is love" he lets to me "vu" and didnt answerex till tomorrow "sorry i fall asleep" and he didnt answered the whole dayyy !!!!
UR ADVICE PLZ GUYS
I'm kind of shocked when he mentioned betterhelp. I did the same thing when I was going though a broke up.
Justin
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Justin's great!!!
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Him.. Justin Justin Justin...
Me. JUSTIN IS GREAT!
Him... oh well yea let’s get back with the vid
Him. Ohh wait Justin!!😂😂😔
I've been seeing a guy who's in an open relationship for some time now and I just can't tell if he gets jealous or not. He and his girlfriend literally encourage each other to hit on other people and he does the same with me, it's so weird.
But at the same time, he seems to be a bit too interested in who else I'm seeing. Like, I'd be completely over a guy for some time, but he'd still ask about him. He literally doesn't remember the friends I introduce to him, but he remembers the guys I had flings with.
3:26
Hit or miss
Crowd:
I GUESS THEY NEVER MISS HUH,
YOU GOT A BOYFRIEND I BET HE DOESN'T MISS YA
(I'm sorry. I had to do this XD)
Shadow Cotton 4:45
my college crush doesnt approach me unless i am alone or i dont approach him unless he's alone. yesterday i sat with 2 other guys from our class and i told him to come sit with me through text and he totally ignored it and didn't even come over, i was laughing so much with these 2 other guys because they are funny and we were just having a good time and i kept looking back to see my crush, he clearly is looking at me and my small group having a good time with jealousy lol. he gets easily jealous when he sees someone talk to me especially other guys but is too nervous to approach me.
Thanks Andrew for your amazing tips...well I've tried one of them that's what he tried to text me when I was enjoying with my freinds and I replied him the next day just to make him jealous..and he replied back saying"wow..u replied so early 👏👏" .Haha well that really worked out to make him jealous 😂😂 . Again thank you so much for your tips.. I'll try these too 😄 Well ur simply amazing guy.. love you ☺️
"I would never condone lying *but* ... "
The enough people tell me she’s pretty thing is the same thing if my friends or people keep saying I like someone I will fall for them
Ya know, give em a girl compliment
Tell me why the “post a photo on social media” advice actually worked for me, even tho I’m 23 and he’s 29.
We both are barely on Facebook, and I haven’t posted a selfie with just me in it, probably in like a year. I posted a cute ass mirror pic, and the next fucking day he’s asking me to come over, even tho we barely talked to week before, and he didn’t even like the photo.
But he had to have seen it because all of our mutual friends liked it.
I can’t believe that shit actually worked.
"Justine,Justine,Justine...The point of this video is just in...I said Just in again" xD
well done my friend
Just came across your channel and I'm already loving it! Great vid :)
*Justin Y. wants to know your location*
I'm binge watching ur videos! Good job
No guarantee that a person will speak with a licensed professional on betterhelp. It even says that (unless they deleted it by now) you get paid a couple hundred dollars every time someone uses your name with betterhelp, but you lose parts of your soul. It's a scam to destroy already vulnerable people.
question: does he still like me and what should I do?
backstory: this guy and I met and we were friendly and stuff and then I found out he had a gf and then he asked if I liked him and I said yea and he didn’t take it awkwardly at all and then he started flirting with me and I flirted back because I obviously like him but then it got to the point where we were talking about doing unspeakable things and I kinda put a stop to it because I realized that I was horrible person and he had a gf. his gf is super nice and pretty and I would never want them to breakup, although I do like him a lot and yes I would date him right away if they broke up. so after that happened he told me he still wanted to be friends and get to know eachother better and I was like okay. and now i’m the one who’s always starting the conversations and it’s getting kinda annoying and I want to give up on him but I still like him. he’s even told me that he loves his gf. he is truly a nice guy and all but like I said, i’m always the one starting the conversations, and stuff. but like once we get into the conversation he’s super engaged in it and then i’m usually the one that has to end because I want to sleep and it’s 2 in the morning. and I really want the answers to my questions (above) and it would really help if I got advice from anyone really.
Don`t pick up..... Bruh i don`t have that option!!! We`re long distance..... That`s all the time we have to talk.....
I feel like making people jealous only works for certain circumstances or when you’re trying to get a guy’s attention in the beginning when things aren’t super serious. If you’ve already been talking to the person for awhile, even if you aren’t officially together, I don’t recommend it. It creates trust issues and can hurt the other person before it can even turn into anything. If you really like the person, why mess with their head and play with their emotions? I feel like if anything it would make the other person want to make YOU jealous back and eventually you both might be confused on how the other person feels. You might even psych each other out and drift away from one another because of it even if you both were interested in each other all along, you’ll confuse the one you really like! Idk it’s an interesting tactic but this is just my take on it. To each their own but be careful! ):