Mine does but doesn’t : he doesn’t truly understand it with me , he knows I am highly sensitive and anxiety and depression and adhd and being adhd gets me in trouble a lot as in fighting bc I constantly interrupt and right now “we are working on me doing that “ I wish he could be more supportive about my conditions and he does think most of them I make up more than I really have or been diagnosed but that’s beyond not true.... it isn’t that he doesn’t but it’s just how he is and grew up and his out look on life , he has issues as well just he handles his differently and I thinks I should be able to handle mine like his ... if this made any sense
Amanda Wilson umm... your comment is dead identical to my situation ...do you want or need someone to talk to that can relate to you if so I’m your girl
One unattractive thing that guys do that turns me off is look for physical flaws and immediately judge a girl's character by one thing she might feel self-conscious about. Like yellow teeth.
@@JH-cy7rk even if we do, what this dude said is wrong on so many levels. He's basically saying "keep your problems to yourself, no-one wants to hear them, you're a bother" . I'm sorry, but this was too much:/
Boy, I was BORN with yellow teeth. If you got pearly whites just by brushing your teeth, I would have the whiter teeth than the ones in toothpaste commercials. And that applies to a lot of people. And also, isn’t the point of this list to be about things that people can change by choice? Depression is never a choice, it’s an illness. Please educate yourself.
Depression is not a choice but it is your choice how you live with it. If you go on a first date in full depression mode. Why would anyone be interesting. If a guy or girl gets to know you on your good days and likes you they are more likely to stick around on the bad days, I see it all the time in the medical field. A person isn't depressed, they have depression and they deal or don't, the choice to fight is always more attractive than the choice to wallow.
Kat ly kind of makes sense, but I personally think that you should first know the person quite well before going on a date, but I think that’s just me. My point was that if a person has depression, the depression is not the person. Judging people by an illness is very unfair. An illness is just a tiny part of a person, and labeling people with depression as a ’turn-off’ is just wrong.
Right?, and the colour differs naturally. I mean I have pretty damn yellow teeth, and I brush them twice a day, floss, and use flour water. I have a great dental procedure and they've been yellow since I was born😂 Also, I've already tried whitening and it works a little bit for like a day haha.
ArtLover Animation, you don't need teeth whiteners to have whiter teeth. Just brush your teeth. And baking soda (either derictly on teeth, or mixed in with tooth-paste works) helps wuth whitening.
Alisneedstosleep I’ve never had caffeine. I don’t even like soda. It’s just that I find it kind of odd that he assumes that if you have yellow teeth, it must mean you don’t have good hygeine. That’s just not true. Whitening teeth is like wearing makeup. It’s something we think looks pretty and therefore everyone should have or they won’t look pretty. But that doesn’t mean we are unhealthy/unclean.
+Figum Mariana Actally baking soda could be a really bad idea, because it damages the enamel. (Plus the times I've tried it it didn't help, and I'm pretty sure I didn't drink coffee as a child - not that I do now..) Just because getting white teeth are easy for you, doesn't mean it's easy for everyone else - no matter how good their dental hygiene is, their caffeine consumption low etc. People are born with different shades, many times we can discolour our teeth - yes, and then it helps to whiten with kits or similar things. But, if your enamel is naturally yellow or darker, you should really go to a dentist (which is super expensive and not permanent - so you have to redo it every so often).
1. When a guy plays video games too much 2. Leaving their girl in the dark and not telling them how they feel 3. When they're mire focused on "having" you rather than getting to know you. 4. When they vape or do drugs 5. Dirty humor 6. When they don't wear deodorant 7. When they aren't polite/ not being a gentleman 8. Pressuring you to do things below your standards 9. Asking for "pics" 10. When they don't know how to clean up
5 isnt true for me and my friends... If they make those kinds of jokes every once in awhile, or if we're all making those jokes, I enjoy it. It means they can tag along and join the fun. But if they are just SUPER pervy, to the point where they sexualize everyone and everything all the time, its unattractive. That's my opinion tho, and everyone has different standards.
Mary Beth Dew Why not getting into a relationship? If your partner knows about it and he decides to be with you, I dont see what the problem is. Oh and depresion may come over again, then what? Staying lonely forever?
Mary Beth Dew depression doesn't go away for a vast majority of people, just like any physical illness. It can be managed, but not gone. You can't just "take care of it". It's something many people struggle with for the entirety of their lives. Being depressed and being diagnosed with depression are different.
Coca Cola haha wait wait wait, dont speak before knowing people please, its not cool. First, I dont have any mental illness, thank god, and Im totally not desperate. Depresion is something very serious and I will repeat if for you...If the partner knows about this issue and still have feelings for the depressed person, then why fucking not? Being in a relationship with a depressed person doesnt mean you have to watch out for him like a baby. It means you love this person and you are sure that you can deal with that
Denica Krusteva thank you for saying that. I just want to point out that being depressed and being diagnosed with depression are 2 different things. One's being down and sad, and the other is a mental illness that doesn't normally go away ever. I agree with you 100% otherwise. :)
Imagine being a girl with depression, already feeling unloved and like a burden, and then coming to watch this video because it may help her feel less lonely, only to hear from someone she may admire that they think it’s unfair to date if you’re depressed.
Kendall Seekins love if it makes you feel any better some friends and I talked with Andrew in a group chat and he meant that you should try to learn to love yourself before loving someone else. He didn't mean to imply that people suffering from depression shouldn't date others, he meant to just try to get yourself to be in a good spot before starting a new experience/relationship. ♡ if you ever want to talk I'm here. Depression sucks but it can suck less when you have someone who understands. :) my twitter is @beyoutifulgrin
yup here I am watching this because of depression and dating advice. Completely untrue that you have to love yourself completely before you can have a relationship. He was right about everything except for the depression thing, nobody can control the fact they have a chemical imbalance
Kendall Seekins Not only is it unfair to burden someone with your depression, its selfish and unhealthy. I had depression for 2.5 years and it ruined a lot of potential relationships and friendships I could have had. People aren't wrong for avoiding someone with crippling depression because it rubs off eventually. Mental illness, like any other disease, spreads and destroys lives. Today if I were friends with someone with depression I would advise them to seek help and still support them through their journey.
Scarface Forever counseling and medication management make it possible to have a normal life with your depression under control. I have several mental disorders including depression and used to not be able to function in life but thanks to my parents I was able to get the help I needed before turning 18. I'm 20 now and have a stable life and I love myself. Never make excuses for not loving yourself completely because its absolutely acheivable.
Why focus on features instead of personality,no ones perfect 😡.We do try get the stain out but it doesn't work,who are you to look at our mouths,I mean our breath won't stink if our teeth are yellow.And what your not trying to say but are is that we shouldn't eat anything that could ruin our features,I actually like drinking coffee but apparently I'm not suppose to because, I'm sorry to say,a stupid boy doesn't think it's hot or attractive *#¥^dat (sorry for the language)I'm really mad 😤
@@ayandakhuzwayo2795 that is not what I said at all. I was just stating a fact about what coffee can do to your teeth. I never once said that you should give up coffee. I believe if it makes you happy, drink it. It doesn't matter what a boy thinks. I was so angry, like you, and that is why I commented about the coffee. I was trying to prove a point against this video. This is not a hate comment, I am just trying to clear up a misunderstanding. I'm sorry my original comment offended you so much. Have a great day!!!
Phoebes gaming channel but in some way he is kind of right coz i have experienced it ,when i was in depression and also when my bf was in depression so it is kind of true
@@TyanaAlexandra The guy in the video is being honest he is telling the truth instead of this guy in the comment kissing girls ass. The video is telling the truth honestly it's obvious this guy in the comment is just kissing ass.
1. Have yellow teeth 2. Bad breath 3. Cracked or dry lips 4. Having no life 5. Having a big ego and treating other people like shit 6. Be a very negative person and always needing reassurance or being depressed 7. Being too agreeable 8. Girls who obsess over their features and looks 9. Girls that think they know everything and are always right 10 Girls that never take the lead
@@EasyPianoMusic omgg samee :(( but u dont have to prove ppl if u know ur dont know everything and ur not always right :) I just feel confident about what i say and i dont intentionally try to hurt someone or be better than them I jsut want to be myself :)))
And ALL of this applies to things guys do that turn us women off. Including the lack of adequate foreplay before sex. This is why we "fake" orgasms...we're just getting warmed up by the time they're almost done. Its not even worth doing it. Take time to warm up the engine if you wanna drive this car. Imagine trying to enjoy sex w/o an erection? Right! Thats exactly what its like for us when you don't take the time to get us ready...
What if a girl has depression and anxiety and finds it hard to go out, and has “no life” And can I just say I have only just realised he is basically calling depression a burden, he says it’s bad to pass your depression on to someone else. People with depression already feel like burdens confirming that makes them feel worse.
I cried when he brought that up, because I have anxiety and depression and don't talk or go out a lot because of that. So does It mean I will not have a boyfriend/girlfriend because of something I can't control? I'll be sad and alone my entire life then 😕😕😕😕
Sad gurl I have yellow teeth too, this is not because I don’t brush them, it’s because that’s the way my teeth are.....(I brush my teeth about 3 times a day)
Sad gurl Im in depression too, I literally have no friends. My daily routine is like this: Wake up( brush my teeth) Go to school Finish school Reach home(brush my teeth) Do homework Sleep( brush my teeth) And the cycle continues I don’t really do anything in the weekend...
I don't know why that happens And for some reason I brush three times a day and it doesn't work. Also it's like I am a magnet to depressed people cuz I have a lot of depressed friends. I don't judge them I help them.
I can't have white teeth beacuse i have asthma and...yea i just don't want brush my teeth everytime when i use the thing (i don't know english that much xD) that help me to breath...
The depression thing is bs, i have an amazing boyfriend and Im clinically depressed, he doesn’t take it as a burden, if you are depressed you can still be in a relationship
Don't get all salty about this comment but, I think he meant it in a general outlook. As in, he saw and said what he thought or experienced and not so the small little groups of people that are strong enough to deal with that. As well as, it is a big thing to deal with and that there are different levels of depression making relationships with it different, so what he said (from what I read in the comments) is true for certain types/levels of depression. I hope you understand as well as get better because any life matters no matter who.
Depression is a mental illness. It is not something that you decide to have. I personally don't think anyone would like to have depression. It hurts so much to think that you see it as something that people should just stop... when they didn't even start it. And it definetly hurts more to know that you are more worried on how YOU are going to have to deal with your partner's depression than their actual illness.
when I said "something that people should just stop" I meant "something that people can easily stop". Depression is very hard to deal with and people that suffer from this illness can not press a button and make it stop. It takes time and effort. People with depression go through a really hard time and I personally do not like the idea that you made them look as if they are not worth dating, when they deserve all the love in the world.
he mentioned in one his previous videos, that he had a girlfriend who had depression and anxiety issues, and it came in the way of their relationship, so i'm pretty sure that's what he's referencing.
Think about it tho... when you have depression and you don’t love yourself how can you love some else. He is saying first you have to love yourself before you can love himself. Most people who are commenting on this video are not think about it from the opposite gender. In my opinion I agree with most of the stuff he’s saying such as the bad breath thing why would you want to eat onion on the first day if you want to kiss the person I know I wouldn’t. All I’m saying is don’t take this video the wrong way. Yes, he said it the wrong way but the reasoning behind is meaningful. You should be in the right state of mind when you want to be with someone. This is just my opinion and I saw that people were hating so I just wanted to explain the reasoning behind his comments.
If you can’t even love yourself, it’s not healthy to fall in love. Most relationships don’t last forever, and that stuff can make it a lot worse. Trust me, I know. That’s what they’re trying to say
The first time I came to one of his videos I thought that he was giving advice about what men like because he REALLY knew about that. U know based on some experience with other men.
“Don’t have cracked lips”, yes because one swipe of the chapstick will solve everything. I personally use chapstick everyday and my lips are still dry, who cares get over it.
"I don't think it's fair to start dating someone if you're going through depression" yikes dude. wtf made you think this video was a good idea? depression is not a choice and a lot of people have it chronically and probably their entire lives, that doesn't mean they're incapable of being in a healthy relationship. It just means finding someone less selfish and more compassionate than someone who thinks her depression is a burden to them. Delete this video, and apologize. This isn't "unattractive things girls do," this is "things I don't like in people that I think are #relatable but really I'm just insensitive."
im not defending him or anything, and it came out wrong, but he mentioned in one his previous videos, that he had a girlfriend who had depression and anxiety issues, and it came in the way of their relationship, so i'm pretty sure that's what he's referencing.
Now a days everything is a sensitive topic. The reason why. Because loads of people use it as an excuse to blame what they CAN control in their own life's but won't take that responsibility. Because I've seen loads of people in that situation. Then there are people who really suffer from the mental illness; depression. And yeah I do agree with him in some way, it's not the healthiest foundation to start a relationship but they don't need to suffer to stay alone forever.
Tbh these things could go for a boy too so....plus i think it was kind of rude to say that if we're depressed we shouldn't date anyone. Thats just my opinion though
That's not what he was saying. He was simply stating that you can't make the other person happy if you are not happy with yourself. You will only drag that person down with you, especially if you don't think that you need help with your depression. I learned this from personal experience and I'm a girl.
And if you like don't seek help the person may try to get out of the relationship, even friends. Because when you don't seek professional help, you seek your friend, and maybe he doesn't know how to act when this happens. If you seek them frequently, they will eventually become more sad because you're sad and then they will jump out of that unhealthy friendship. Personal experience.
Boop Boop aren’t you the one that clicked on this video knowing this is RUclips and this is what people do and watched it just to go to the comment section to complain.....I thought so
Yeah I was subscribed but once you brought up the point about depression I had to unsubscribe. It’s not a choice and as someone who has been diagnosed with chronic depression I can’t help it. And for your information I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. Another thing that has nothing to do with depression but I feel like all the other point should be for all genders.
Thank you so much! I have depression, and when he said that if you have depression don't try to get into a relationship, I though that that wasn't fair, but I was too scared to post anything about it. You've made me feel like I'm not alone, so thank you! 😊
People don’t want your burdens. I’ve learned that and now I’m getting happier and people are liking me more now that I’m happy and confident. It’s just the way the world goes.
things turn off girl that guys do - the guy who is in this video - can't accept your flaws like this guy in this video - guy who want a perfect girfriend based on their physic *sorry if my english bad
The thing that honestly made me mad was the whole depression thing. So many people suffer from depression; it's not right to say that they should't be dating someone because of that. It's a mental illness that someone can't control. Saying that people who have depression shouldn't date other people is like saying people who have IBS or another certain disease shouldn't date people because they would share their medical burdens and limitations with that person. No one controls that. I personally suffer from depression *and* GAD *and* IBS *and* have a boyfriend. I feel guilty enough when I'm not doing well BECAUSE I don't want to burden him. He always reminds me that he's there for me whenever I want to talk and asks if there's anything I need that he can help me with. I almost always never take him up on that so I can seem normal. When I missed a lot of school (about a month) due to medical issues, he checked in on me daily but understood I had to do school work when I was feeling better until I caught up, and he gave me space. That's a man right there. One who knows that you're trying your best and UNDERSTANDS how hard managing your illnesses can be. I'm sorry Andrew but your point could have not been more messed up.
exactly... like you can't just be like "stop being depressed it will make you more attractive".... depression isn't a quality... it's a part of somebody's life... I'm so heated
Mary Beth Dew did you not read my comment? Depression is a mental illness that cannot be controlled. Depression doesn't go away for the vast majority of people who have it. The burdens that come with mental illnesses are similar to physical ones. It is not right to say that someone should not be dating because of an illness they have. That's ignorant and wrong.
BEYOUtifulgrin nope, it’s unfair of you to make your depression your boyfriends problem. Depression can be overcome, I know from experience. It takes a lot of work on yourself, by yourself. And mental health is a very different thing from physical health. Your boyfriend is dating your mind, he’s not dating your bowel. He knows he can’t do anything about your physical issues because he’s not a physician, but people do feel responsible to make their partners happy and your depression will take a toll on him, whether you’re mature enough to realize that or not. Unfortunately, he probably doesn’t even realize the toll you’re taking on him. So sad.
Coca Cola I'm happy that you overcame depression. Just because it was possible for you, does not mean it's going to happen for everybody, and you need to realize that. I have been struggling with it for years, and have been able to manage it most of the time. My boyfriend is dating ME. My physical self *and* my mental self. I'm not just a brain. I'm a human. I'm a human who makes him happy and makes him laugh, just as he does to me. I'm not stupid, he's not stupid; I know that it's difficult to deal with and he knows it too. He also knows that mental illnesses are not black and white, which seems to me like you think they are. He's very educated on the subject. It's not 'sad'. Depression isn't just being happy or sad. If you've truly gone through it/have it, you would know that. Having a mental illness and/or a physical illness both takes tolls on relationships. And I am not making it my boyfriend's problem. It's his choice if he wants to be with me or not. I'm not making him stay. As I said in my original comment, I try not to get him involved with my depression. He can tell when I'm going through an extra rough patch and no matter how I try to shake it off and hide it, he still tries to help in any way he can. He understands that it might never go away no matter how hard I try. I'm very sorry to hear that you went through it on your own. You don't have to deal with it alone. I've been lucky enough to find someone who really cares about me and wants to see me fight it and wants to help me fight it. I'm sorry you didn't have that.
You should have said unattractive things all people do, not just girls. Also, I really did not like the first two 'physical' points. They are not things that just brushing your teeth will fix for everyone, it's not that simple. Also, I really didn't like how you said if you're depressed you shouldn't be going into a relationship. The person you're in a relationship with should be brightening up your life and making you happier, regardless of how happy you were going into the relationship!
So this dude literally said that “all guys” would leave you when you have depression other than help you with it. I had depression and anxiety starting at the age of 8. But because of my first boyfriend at 16, everything changed. I now see the world in a positive light. Thanks to him, I’m enjoying life, but sadly he had to move away. We broke up but we are still friends. We communicate with each other and meet up if we can. So in conclusion, not all guys are assholes.
10 unattractive things girls do? Here's 11 unattractive things you did in JUST THIS VIDEO. 1. You judge a woman by her physical attributes. 2. You act like you're never wrong. 3. You act like a relationship is a one way experience 4. You act like women deserve only what men want 5. You act like women cannot be themselves around a guy 6. You act like a relationship must favor the man 7. You act like we do everything wrong 8. You have no positivity in your opinions 9. You act like a women MUST be perfect 10. You act like a relationship doesn't have trials and hardships and that the women MUST be problem-free. 11. You act like couples don't help eachother and that they cannot count on eachother in times of need.
1. True 2. False 3.yeah he kinda did but a lot of the things he said was that it shouldn’t be 4. I don’t know what that sentence even means 5. Kinda yeah 6. Yeah he was leaning a bit to that side, I see it 7. Incorrect 8. Actually he does but for a video that is based off “unattractive things” it is about the negatives so it would make sense for this to be the case 9. Nah 10. Well yeah it’s obviously easier that way but not every relationship will be easy so I see you 11. Ok That’s my thoughts on your opinions, feel free to continue the conversation
I garuntee you have judged a man based on his physical characteristics. It is BIOLOGY to be attracted to someone who looks healthy. We look for strong healthy mates to breed with.
@@sydneybuffington7563 Yeah. Healthy. I don't care if they have nice muscles or pearly whites. Take it from a girl who's dad has diabetes, missing toes, rotting teeth, but protects his daughter from an abusive mother. I judge, but I love a person for who they are on the inside, not the outside.
Captain Marie why does everything have to be inclusive though. Sure, what he has said applies also to men BUT Andrew quo as a heterosexual dude is simply showing things from his POV. People would probably be less offended if it were a woman talking. Simply double standards.
DONT date someone if you have depression! Umm excuse me ☝️ I have depression I can definitely be in any relationship I want and they are great relationships!
Ha you're basiclly saying ''If you have depression, deal with it on your own'' You know some people have it for a reason. Maybe it's just genetics. There are people who were trying to get rid of it for years. And I have a friend who is depressed, but still have a boyfriend. When a depressed person loves you, that love is just sooo deep. Also teeth are naturally yellow. Some people ''don't have a life'' because they are trying to find a job. In the country i live in it's really hard to find a job. People even go to bigger countries looking for a job. The one with dry lips. Ok, I get it. But sometimes it just happens that you don't have a chapstick at that moment. The one with bad breath. Yeah.. I get it, it can be really unattractive. I wash my teeth 3-4 times a day, and I still have bad breah sometimes.. so it doesn't always mean that the person is not washing their teeth. And you can't just expect to find a perfect girl. You're not perfect youself eighter.
I think the issue here is if the guy ends up feeling like he's the only thing pulling you through it all. Like, if he suddenly realized that he couldn't see a future with you for reasons besides your depression, how can he leave you without feeling responsible for any breakdowns afterwards? It's not good to attach your self-worth to any one person because you can lose it after they leave. Just like we deserve happiness despite our depression, they deserve their own happiness even if it isn't with us. Anyhow, I totally agree that we need people to be there for us to help us recover, but it's also up to us to realize that we need to persevere even when they're not their for us. Ok, now that I've said all that, I will admit that his wording was really bad and it did make me feel self-conscious. That's obviously upsetting and is entirely on him, but I can also understand where he may be coming from. Hopefully what I'm saying can help some people see it as something not to take personally, for their sake. He needs to understand where he went wrong with this.
Wait isn't that normal, real depression doesn't go away just bc you get into a relationship, those problems remain there and will surface sooner than later. Depression is a might foe only you yourself can conquer, i'm not saying proffessional help or friends, gf/bf's, can't help but it isn't a quick fix, it doesn't dissapear after a week or 2. Eventually ppl who are trying to help will give up and say stuff like, "you just wanna be depressed", but its not that simple
All he's saying is he wouldn't want to be with someone that would be forever damaged if they ever broke up. I would have nothing wrong dating someone with depression, but I too would be constantly worrying and it might be a little difficult to focus on the relationship if you're so scared that they won't make it if you ever broke up. Personally, that would just really stress me out. But on the other hand, being in a relationship is good stability and your partner could help you get through it. Just don't judge him for saying what he feels, because you did too. Everyone gets to think what they would like, and feel free to be in a relationship if that works for you and your partner.❤
Literally never seen this dude's videos before and don't plan on watching anymore after he said that. I developed PTSD at a very young age and had been dealing with the depression it has caused, since I no longer produce serotonin on my own, and I most likely never will. I have tried to get off my meds so many times but I can't do it. Like screw this dude, everyone deserves love. Just because you're depressed doesn't mean you shouldn't date. You should have a plan to work with/through your depression seek therapy and you'll probably be better of psychologically than any non depressed person. I also noticed depressed people are real asf, and don't bull shit, overall creating a great relationship.
@@samanthaoliver6294 Ya ik it will b good for the person suffering with depression bt think about the one who's normal, their life will surely become a hell...lol I have been there and I know they r so fucked up in the head that no matter how much love and care you show them it's never enough. When he says that depressed ppl shouldn't date , I agree with him 101℅.😂
He didnt say dont date, he meant that you need to be positive when you are with him. Of course not all the time, but like, just because you are sad doesn't mean he has to always be fixing your problems or making you feel better. Men are human too and they have depression too and they feel things too.
@@daivikkaushik143 but i have depression and i got help, but the guy i liked also had some issues, and he made me worry, but i know he will be ok, cause even if we arent close ill still make sure hes happy, EVERYONE should date. Depressed people shouldnt be judged for something that could be from genes or from somthing that happened, my mother has ptsd from boot camp and has had depression, shes been married for 14 years to my biological father. Dont say people shouldnt date. And he was saying that people who have depression shouldnt keep saying how they see life and make others see that way, not how they shouldnt date -_-
I unsubscribed as well. Not because I took it personally, but because this was at some points not too far from hate speech. I agree with most of the comments about teeth yellowness and depression. Andrew, what the heck?..
Gabrielle Hill Well, she could have just been curious and thought he was actually going to give some decent advice...and how was she supposed to know he was gonna say something along the lines of: "hAvInG nO lifE iS a bIg TuRnofF"
@mr. Wldasoldmysoul4pussyasateen teeth are naturally yellow by the way. not white. i brush 3 times a day, have healthy teeth and good breath still my teeth are yellow. what do u have to say about this now? that i dont maintain hygiene?
Exactly. I immediately looked at his teeth after he said that and I was like, “Are you kidding? You don’t even have white teeth”. He probably meant mustard yellow teeth
Wow. What an ignorant video. This is exactly why mental health is still something we (as a society) are unable to handle. Also about the teeth thing. I have not so great teeth and trust me I hate it. But I have them because I was so sick at one point of my life that taking care of them was impossible. I almost died. I beat that illness but it has consequences, one of them being this. And if someone is judging me for it, than there you go. I don't need you in my life. So again, next time think more before you speak, and stop generalizing so bluntly.
Most peoples teeth are yellow and not a bright shining white color unless they get them bleached which is bad for the theeth. I also got irritated about the bad breath...yes most cases it's dental hygiene but sometimes it's stomach issues which can't always be fixed (like mine). Sorry for taking over your comment, I hope you're doing better by now :)
I unsubscribed. That depression one was bad. It shouldn't matter what someone goes through. I've struggled with depression all my life and I'm very happy in my two almost three year relationship. I find this post really offensive to a ton of people. And sure you can have your opinions but think of other people before you say something, especially because your posting what you say for the whole world to see. You never know who might here it.
Of course it matters what a person you're dating goes through - but only on behalf of what you yourself are willing and capable (!) of handling. Relationships are about sharing and that includes the unpleasantries as well. You have to be clear about what you can and can't do for the other. The comment he made was a wrong generalization and not thought through, we all agree on that. But so are too many of the reactions on depression itself.
I literally can't believe he said that, literally same. I've had depression for years but I'm still in a healthy relationship. What he said really hurt me and I think it hurt many people too. He should be ashamed of himself.
So I like your videos. But this video makes me uncomfortable. I think it's because you're tackling hard issues such as depression and mental illnesses in such a callous and hurtful way. I understand from your perspective, a mental illness is a burden but you don't have to be so mean about speaking about it. It's not something you can control.
brwood33 I don't agree with that. I had depression for a while (about four years) but I'm much better now. You want to know how I did it? I found people to love. I found friends, idols and a boyfriend. And you know what? They were my cure. By loving them, I learned to love myself. But, hey. Everyone's different I guess.
You all have a point, actually... Every person is different and every person's way of handling depression is different... What's true for one may not be true for the other. What's important is to respect everyone. And that's where Adriana L's point comes in.... I like this guy and he usually puts out good content but the tip about depression was insensitive...even just the delivery and construction should've been better.
I'm sorry, but it is. I struggled with depression for a few years and god knows what I was putting through people close to me. It's one thing though to do that to your parents, your close friends who knew you for a long time, heck, even if you're already in a relationship that's stable it's ok. Those people will be there to help you. But to be depressed and go on a dating scene is a big no because being all negative and sad can quickly ruin the mood. I'm sorry, but if you're half a decent person, you won't think just about yourself but others too and won't be putting strangers through all that just to make yourself feel slightly better about yourself.
What's the point of this post? Everyone has things to work on. That doesn't mean someone can't see your flaws and still love and care about you. Unless you think you're literally perfect... Then you're a narcissist.
Reading the comments so many offended girls , what do they expect on a video about unattractive things about girls ? . Heck l have yellow teeth no matter how many times l brush , no life and have depression .Yes the truth hurts but it's better than fake love .For me l need to find peace and love myself first before committing in a relationship because how can l expect someone to love all of me when l dont even love myself .It's not fair .Having a bf or gf doesn't mean you will find true happiness. Accept that life is not perfect ,love yourself , respect yourself , have faith and go on with your journey in life like a fighter we all are
That means you are responsible and mature. I respect you. I think they didn't understand the video. People in general don't like to hang with sad and melancholic people. It just cuts the mood you know. But seek professional help if you have depression. That's it
I think he mainly said that if you're struggling with depression, you shouldn't let it become your partner's problem. Not that people with depression do not deserve relationship.
Infinite turtlesenses that's not what depression is. Feeling unhaply with yourself and your life is one thing, and actually dealing with depression (a mental illness) is another. There's so much more to it than that. Someone can't control if they have a mental illness or not.
Well depression is often a mental health issue, would you tell someone with kidney issues not to date? The stigma around mental health in our society is a huge problem. Telling someone with a mental health issue, especially if they are doing everything they can to manage it, they are not worthy of love and shouldn't date is a very ignorant, harmful statement. People with health issues deserve romantic love too!!!
I sent this to all 27 of my guy friends and they all told me that this was pure assholery. They also told me that they look for girls insecurities so they can point them out and say that it looks good. 2: This video made me question myself. I have depression, yellow teeth, and bad breath. 3: This video needs more dislikes.
Same I have all the same trates if. they don't like my yellow teeth , stinky ass breath, and can't handle my depression. than go find some dame model mr.rude ass.sorry for my language but this upsets me
so if you were interested in a girl and found out they had depression and were trying to figure it out you wouldn’t be interested in them anymore? you’re saying it’s something you can get rid of. it’s really unattractive when someone is insensitive and not caring or willing to help out someone they like so that you can have a happy relationship with them. but ok...
That actually happened with my crush, we had good chemistry, endless convos, such good times, and people noticed we were getting close... but when I told him about my depression (because he wouldn't stop asking about my sudden depressive moods and I trusted him enough to tell him this which is so personal to me...) boom, he stopped talking to me :( Last thing he said to me after that was "We have to go to the movies someday!"; it's been 9 months and I talked to him today and caught him avoiding me. It was written all over his face, that he didn't want to talk to me *sighs. Maybe I said something wrong that time? Idk... I'm never telling anyone again about my illnesses. I rather be alone if its going to be like this. Sorry I needed to vent.
I honestly wouldn’t get into a relationship if I couldn’t manage my depression. I think it’s selfish. Depression isn’t curable, but if you can’t find a way to manage it then you shouldn’t get into a relationship. If my bf is happy then I’m happy. If he’s sad then I’m sad. Your problems become theirs whether you want it to or not. It’s ok to be depressed In a relationship, but you should learn to manage it. Btw I’m depressed and I just hate seeing someone I love cry because of my depression. (This is a general statement. Every situation is different, but for the most part I say this is true)
You definitely should not have made this video. Not only is it not saying ANYTHING every woman has heard and had pushed down our throats, but also people with depression or any other mental health issue deserve just as many healthy romantic or platonic relationships as people who do not suffer with mental health. Do not increase the stigma.
He’s not increasing the stigma. One healthy person meets another healthy person, they date and form a healthy relationship. One unhealthy person meets a healthy person, they date and form an unhealthy relationship. People who are depressed deserve love, he’s not saying they don’t. But they should not get into a romantic relationship until they’re emotionally stable, which depressed people are not.
Coca Cola you're correct, depressed people should become emotionally stable when wanting to be in a relationship. But Andrew also said that people with *depression* should not be in relationships. Being depressed is different than being diagnosed with depression. Depression is a mental illness that doesn't go away most of the time. It can be managed like any other illness/disease, but it doesn't go away, so therefore he's saying that people who suffer from this illness should never date.
BEYOUtifulgrin I’ve had enough of reading your same comments over and over saying diagnosed depression and depression are different and that one is not curable. I disagree with you, I think you need to educate yourself before blasting that people will ALWAYS have depression if they’re diagnosed. Maybe you’ll figure it out one day. Good luck with your mental health ✌🏻
What if I told you I. Always negative and depressed bc three of my family members are dying and I might be sent to an orphanage when they pass. So do not tell us that being negative is most of the problem.
I can't RN. I've cried so much because my teeth are messed up. Its just in my genes to have yellow teeth. But not only that, I also have like 2 small vampire teeth near my 2 front teeth. I can't afford to get it fixed and it breaks my heart because I always watch these videos and everyone says having a pearly white straight smile is very attractive and when u have yellow and weird shaped teeth is not. I don't know what else to is. It's killing me because I can't change it. I've wanted veneers but my family can't afford it and I don't wanna force it :/
Renee Grigoryan girl, dont worry, if someone loves you for who u are, he’ll oversee it. Having yellow healthy teeth are so common in asia, so ure not alone.
Renee Grigoryan: Society makes people feel bad for not being this 'perfect' being. but in truth society is far from the truth. Your yellow teeth make you perfect. I love the fact that you have vampire teeth. I too have 2 on my bottom row and I am so very happy I kept them. But just having a smile is even more so attractive then the teeth that are being shown. Your teeth work the same as mine, the same as everybody's. Yellow teeth are BEAUTIFUL! If I also remember right, white teeth are not actually healthy for you nor are white strips. Please do not feel the need to change them, be proud of them because you are a attractive person who has what quite a few people don't. You are the perfect you and if a person judges you for your teeth they are not seeing the true you. Love your teeth, love every bit of you because it is you! Show that confidence and if anyone says you are being conceited tell them no. it is none of their business to say one way or the other about you. Even about there teeth.
Excuse me! Yellow teeth are common everywhere. You shouldn't change yourself for people! I mean, I knew this girl who had something like a gap around her front teeth, some people thought she looked weird , and I could tell she was self conscious about it with how often she suddenly shut her mouth if she was smiling or laughing. I thought she was the cutest thing ever. Simply, because I befriended her. I thought her smile was the most adorable thing i have ever seen because she was so helpful and funny. Honestly, smiling is all about personality and whether or not the person in question is good enough to know you. Because once you get to know someone, that will be a part of them you adore. My friends told me they hate their smiles, I told them I adore them and tried to make them laugh just to see it. Your looks don't define you! Smile, be happy, and if they can't even bother to overlook a tiny detail, then they don't deserve to know you, and you shouldn't know them, either. Because these kind of people want to change you to the perfect human being. There is no such. A. Thing. You are perfect just the way you are, dear.
(Before anyone wants to come for me, this isn't a hate comment! I don't mean to be aggressive or rude in any way💗) I was so excited when I got this notification because I typically love Andrews content, but this video has left me with so many mixed emotions. Personally as someone who was diagnosed with depression and anxiety at age 12/13 (I am turning 18 next month), I don't necessarily find this offensive as at the end of the day it is just a RUclips video and I don't believe this had a malicious intent, but it's more just disappointing. I really do not think this was handled well because I can see that if a person was more vulnerable and less confident in themselves and heard this, it could potentially be very damaging and could lead someone to think that this is another aspect of life that their mental illness will interfere with. I can understand that mental health is something that should be taken into consideration when dating, however I don't think it should be seen as a burden to share with someone else. Yes, there is an added element of strain to a relationship but that's just part of it. Nothing is ever smooth sailing, you just have to work with the waves rather than against them💗
say it louder for the people in the back! I don't find it offensive either, I just find it misleading and disappointing as well. He kinda implied depression and being depressed are the same thing. Some people find a way to overcome depression, some find a way to cope, and some try their best to just try. It won't every go away for EVERYONE, and it is something that can be handled within a relationship if both people really care about each other. 💗
I understand that you think he said it broadly as depression itself but the title of the number was negative attitude and when he said that he meant a depressive period, meaning more short term. Not someone struggling with long term or serious depression.
Ashley Harmony I understand that, however I stand by the fact that those who are possible vulnerable could potentially take these comments the wrong way. It was a matter of the wording and personally I think he should have chosen his words more carefully but regardless Andrew is human and you're not going to like everything someone does and that's okay💗
So many people here seem to be upset that he listed a negative attitude and depression as unattractive. I’ve had depression really badly during certain stretches of my life and I can totally see why somebody could find that state of mind as unattractive. I wouldn’t have wanted to date me back then either. I can’t sit here and say that people should ignore their needs and still date me. If someone can’t handle it that doesn’t mean they’re a bad person, it just means they’re not necessarily my person, and that’s ok. Honestly I’d be scared if someone found my depression attractive because it probably means they’re one of those people who feels the need to “fix” others and might get bored of me when my depression is better.
You are mean. I suffer from depression and anxiety and PTSD. My boyfriend helps me. And he is very happy helping me. so you are wrong about so many things.
@@sidneyvicious1128 thats the one thing i dont really agree with what he says. everything else i can agree with. if you look at the topics themself, they sound really mean, but the way he explains them make sense to me
You suffer from depression and anxiety because you won't stop drinking or doing some form of recreational drug, or both, and you won't balance yourself with meditation, exercise, therapy (possibly) and appropriate diet. You don't take care of yourself. Take care of yourself - get yourself straight, and let a new boyfriend come into your atmosphere. Your current boyfriend is a fool and likely hangs in their with you because you spread your legs for him.
2:25 I’ve had severe eczema since I was a baby and still have it now, no matter how many lotions I put on I still have insanely flakey skin. Don’t be an asshole.
Yeah, I think judging a girl (,or anyone, for that matter,) based on physical appearance is kinda unfair, considering you never really know what’s going on behind closed doors.
@@Freyjatheundercoverwerewolf "the fuck? Leave [them] alone. You didn't need to go at them like that. I thought the whole feminists thing was to 'have each other's back because girls have to stick together?' fuck off and leaver [them] alone. You dont know [them] at all..." Bruh, who hurt you?
Yes, true. BUT THAT'S NOT THE POINT OF THE VIDEO! It's not to insult girls. Please go back and read the videos title. It's main focus is the female gender. He never said that guys don't do these things.
Plenty of guys do these things. I have only once seen a straight man put any lip balm on. And I'm only assuming he was straight. Also plenty of men get depressed and then throw themselves into relationships. If someone can manage it then its only a problem if they see it as a problem.
A man who helps you with your depression and accepts you it’s the right man
Hmm🤔🤔🤔 thought that was what everyone does
you are very correct!!!! lol i love me some depression curing men/women
Mine does but doesn’t : he doesn’t truly understand it with me , he knows I am highly sensitive and anxiety and depression and adhd and being adhd gets me in trouble a lot as in fighting bc I constantly interrupt and right now “we are working on me doing that “ I wish he could be more supportive about my conditions and he does think most of them I make up more than I really have or been diagnosed but that’s beyond not true.... it isn’t that he doesn’t but it’s just how he is and grew up and his out look on life , he has issues as well just he handles his differently and I thinks I should be able to handle mine like his ... if this made any sense
Amanda Wilson umm... your comment is dead identical to my situation ...do you want or need someone to talk to that can relate to you if so I’m your girl
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Then I mUsT bE rEalLy uNaTrAcTiVe
Aubree lol
Same
Were in this together
@@lilanoying6124 yay im not alone
@@novideogang4637 u r never alone
One unattractive thing that guys do that turns me off is look for physical flaws and immediately judge a girl's character by one thing she might feel self-conscious about. Like yellow teeth.
Oh my, hunny yes!!
I have an eating disorder. I’m SUPER self cauntous and I’ve had people say that actually find those flaws cute
👌 finally a perfect comment
Thank you!
True
"have a life"
Me: *Well I'm screwed.*
Lol..me 2 but I love being by myself I dont have close friends but I love my job and people I work with . And I have fun so what's the problem? lol...
LMAAAOOOO SAME
Meee
@@Shmoo77 at least you have a job 😂
same :(
Well, the most unattractive thing guys do is constantly complain about things women do.
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harry is awesome yeah. It’s not like girls complain about men all the time, probably more than guys
@@JH-cy7rk even if we do, what this dude said is wrong on so many levels. He's basically saying "keep your problems to yourself, no-one wants to hear them, you're a bother" . I'm sorry, but this was too much:/
Boy, I was BORN with yellow teeth. If you got pearly whites just by brushing your teeth, I would have the whiter teeth than the ones in toothpaste commercials. And that applies to a lot of people.
And also, isn’t the point of this list to be about things that people can change by choice? Depression is never a choice, it’s an illness. Please educate yourself.
I literally had to stop and scroll down hoping that someone pointed this out!
Depression is not a choice but it is your choice how you live with it. If you go on a first date in full depression mode. Why would anyone be interesting. If a guy or girl gets to know you on your good days and likes you they are more likely to stick around on the bad days, I see it all the time in the medical field. A person isn't depressed, they have depression and they deal or don't, the choice to fight is always more attractive than the choice to wallow.
Kat ly kind of makes sense, but I personally think that you should first know the person quite well before going on a date, but I think that’s just me. My point was that if a person has depression, the depression is not the person. Judging people by an illness is very unfair. An illness is just a tiny part of a person, and labeling people with depression as a ’turn-off’ is just wrong.
I thought the same thing! I’ve been so insecure about my teeth ever since my adult teeth started growing in. Sometimes, it’s genetic.
Greenpeniwrite sameee the title should be "10 Unattractive Things Girls Do (my pov)" instead of saying ALL guys feel this way....
I’m assuming when you say “yellow teeth” you mean unhealthy yellow, because not everyone gets their hands on teeth-whiteners.
Right?, and the colour differs naturally. I mean I have pretty damn yellow teeth, and I brush them twice a day, floss, and use flour water. I have a great dental procedure and they've been yellow since I was born😂 Also, I've already tried whitening and it works a little bit for like a day haha.
ArtLover Animation, you don't need teeth whiteners to have whiter teeth. Just brush your teeth. And baking soda (either derictly on teeth, or mixed in with tooth-paste works) helps wuth whitening.
Figum Mariana yess! And also trying to avoid coffee and caffeine helps a bunch!
Alisneedstosleep I’ve never had caffeine. I don’t even like soda. It’s just that I find it kind of odd that he assumes that if you have yellow teeth, it must mean you don’t have good hygeine. That’s just not true. Whitening teeth is like wearing makeup. It’s something we think looks pretty and therefore everyone should have or they won’t look pretty. But that doesn’t mean we are unhealthy/unclean.
+Figum Mariana Actally baking soda could be a really bad idea, because it damages the enamel. (Plus the times I've tried it it didn't help, and I'm pretty sure I didn't drink coffee as a child - not that I do now..) Just because getting white teeth are easy for you, doesn't mean it's easy for everyone else - no matter how good their dental hygiene is, their caffeine consumption low etc. People are born with different shades, many times we can discolour our teeth - yes, and then it helps to whiten with kits or similar things. But, if your enamel is naturally yellow or darker, you should really go to a dentist (which is super expensive and not permanent - so you have to redo it every so often).
1. When a guy plays video games too much
2. Leaving their girl in the dark and not telling them how they feel
3. When they're mire focused on "having" you rather than getting to know you.
4. When they vape or do drugs
5. Dirty humor
6. When they don't wear deodorant
7. When they aren't polite/ not being a gentleman
8. Pressuring you to do things below your standards
9. Asking for "pics"
10. When they don't know how to clean up
Ummm...
four and five are not turns offs for most girls (including me)...
Taylor Steinagel i totally agree only about the vape prt. Im from amsterdam so everyone smokes a doobie
5 isnt true for me and my friends... If they make those kinds of jokes every once in awhile, or if we're all making those jokes, I enjoy it. It means they can tag along and join the fun. But if they are just SUPER pervy, to the point where they sexualize everyone and everything all the time, its unattractive. That's my opinion tho, and everyone has different standards.
I agree
My aunt used to have that guy.
Depression is not a choice, its a mental illness and its something you can't predict but giving up to it or fighting against it-that is your choice
Denica Krusteva ok? So take care of it and don’t get into a relationship until you are mentally healthy.
Mary Beth Dew Why not getting into a relationship? If your partner knows about it and he decides to be with you, I dont see what the problem is. Oh and depresion may come over again, then what? Staying lonely forever?
Mary Beth Dew depression doesn't go away for a vast majority of people, just like any physical illness. It can be managed, but not gone. You can't just "take care of it". It's something many people struggle with for the entirety of their lives. Being depressed and being diagnosed with depression are different.
Coca Cola haha wait wait wait, dont speak before knowing people please, its not cool. First, I dont have any mental illness, thank god, and Im totally not desperate. Depresion is something very serious and I will repeat if for you...If the partner knows about this issue and still have feelings for the depressed person, then why fucking not? Being in a relationship with a depressed person doesnt mean you have to watch out for him like a baby. It means you love this person and you are sure that you can deal with that
Denica Krusteva thank you for saying that. I just want to point out that being depressed and being diagnosed with depression are 2 different things. One's being down and sad, and the other is a mental illness that doesn't normally go away ever. I agree with you 100% otherwise. :)
Imagine being a girl with depression, already feeling unloved and like a burden, and then coming to watch this video because it may help her feel less lonely, only to hear from someone she may admire that they think it’s unfair to date if you’re depressed.
Kendall Seekins love if it makes you feel any better some friends and I talked with Andrew in a group chat and he meant that you should try to learn to love yourself before loving someone else. He didn't mean to imply that people suffering from depression shouldn't date others, he meant to just try to get yourself to be in a good spot before starting a new experience/relationship. ♡ if you ever want to talk I'm here. Depression sucks but it can suck less when you have someone who understands. :) my twitter is @beyoutifulgrin
Kendall Seekins hah... Yeah, I should really stop watching these videos...
yup here I am watching this because of depression and dating advice. Completely untrue that you have to love yourself completely before you can have a relationship. He was right about everything except for the depression thing, nobody can control the fact they have a chemical imbalance
Kendall Seekins Not only is it unfair to burden someone with your depression, its selfish and unhealthy. I had depression for 2.5 years and it ruined a lot of potential relationships and friendships I could have had. People aren't wrong for avoiding someone with crippling depression because it rubs off eventually. Mental illness, like any other disease, spreads and destroys lives. Today if I were friends with someone with depression I would advise them to seek help and still support them through their journey.
Scarface Forever counseling and medication management make it possible to have a normal life with your depression under control. I have several mental disorders including depression and used to not be able to function in life but thanks to my parents I was able to get the help I needed before turning 18. I'm 20 now and have a stable life and I love myself. Never make excuses for not loving yourself completely because its absolutely acheivable.
even if you consistently brush your teeth, that does not mean your teeth will be white, because things like coffee can stain them.
Maya Schweiger you are so right
that's why mine are kinda yellow :/
Why focus on features instead of personality,no ones perfect 😡.We do try get the stain out but it doesn't work,who are you to look at our mouths,I mean our breath won't stink if our teeth are yellow.And what your not trying to say but are is that we shouldn't eat anything that could ruin our features,I actually like drinking coffee but apparently I'm not suppose to because, I'm sorry to say,a stupid boy doesn't think it's hot or attractive *#¥^dat (sorry for the language)I'm really mad 😤
exactly! and I ain't gonna stop drinking my holy precious coffee for NO MAN for sure ^^
@@ayandakhuzwayo2795 that is not what I said at all. I was just stating a fact about what coffee can do to your teeth. I never once said that you should give up coffee. I believe if it makes you happy, drink it. It doesn't matter what a boy thinks. I was so angry, like you, and that is why I commented about the coffee. I was trying to prove a point against this video. This is not a hate comment, I am just trying to clear up a misunderstanding. I'm sorry my original comment offended you so much. Have a great day!!!
"having no life"
Me as an Introverted person: .....
Lol right? Buuuuut. Introverts have amazing career options where you can be independent!😁 I.e having your own business, writing your own books.
Same
Hey really?! Im an introvert too i understand you..😭😓
Sammy Schmidt outside, not inside
I understand you. I'm an introvert too😢
Um hello? Teeth are not yellow because you don't brush them. Some people's teeth are naturally yellow no matter how good or bad their hygiene is...
totally. genetics involved
Coffee and tea to
I had to take medication for the first year of my life and it totally fucked up my teeth. It really pisses me off 😂😡
carly mckishen same especially after my surgeries.
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Damn depression is unattractive?
THROW THE WHOLE MAN AWAY
If depression is unattractive then how the hecc do i get rid of something ive been trying to rid of for years
@@bdukidraws4963 therapy
Therapy
Phoebes gaming channel but in some way he is kind of right coz i have experienced it ,when i was in depression and also when my bf was in depression so it is kind of true
I thought when someone going through with something terrible they actually need someone to be with them in order to be or to get better. Dont they?
Nah
The only thing that girls have to do is:
1. Be yourself ALWAYS
2. shower
3. Brush teeth everyday
4. And be confident
Have a nice day!😊💖👑
Sarai Olan that’s nice ☺️ i wish you had made this video instead lool
All I do is 2 and 3 XD
Being smart too!
I'm so not 4 XD
@@TyanaAlexandra The guy in the video is being honest he is telling the truth instead of this guy in the comment kissing girls ass. The video is telling the truth honestly it's obvious this guy in the comment is just kissing ass.
1. Have yellow teeth
2. Bad breath
3. Cracked or dry lips
4. Having no life
5. Having a big ego and treating other people like shit
6. Be a very negative person and always needing reassurance or being depressed
7. Being too agreeable
8. Girls who obsess over their features and looks
9. Girls that think they know everything and are always right
10 Girls that never take the lead
Thank you!
Thank you
I was going great, then I red the nine point :((
@@EasyPianoMusic omgg samee :(( but u dont have to prove ppl if u know ur dont know everything and ur not always right :) I just feel confident about what i say and i dont intentionally try to hurt someone or be better than them I jsut want to be myself :)))
And ALL of this applies to things guys do that turn us women off. Including the lack of adequate foreplay before sex. This is why we "fake" orgasms...we're just getting warmed up by the time they're almost done. Its not even worth doing it. Take time to warm up the engine if you wanna drive this car. Imagine trying to enjoy sex w/o an erection? Right! Thats exactly what its like for us when you don't take the time to get us ready...
What if a girl has depression and anxiety and finds it hard to go out, and has “no life”
And can I just say I have only just realised he is basically calling depression a burden, he says it’s bad to pass your depression on to someone else. People with depression already feel like burdens confirming that makes them feel worse.
Neve Woods that is literally me. this video was genuinely offensive to me
Neve Woods RIGHT THO
Then Andrew Quo won't date you, which is great.
Ikr
I cried when he brought that up, because I have anxiety and depression and don't talk or go out a lot because of that. So does It mean I will not have a boyfriend/girlfriend because of something I can't control? I'll be sad and alone my entire life then 😕😕😕😕
I brush my teeth every day. They are still yellow.
And sorry, I can’t help that i’m depressed. I take antidepressants but it doesn’t really help.
and also, people don’t genetically have pearly white teeth.....
Sad gurl I have yellow teeth too, this is not because I don’t brush them, it’s because that’s the way my teeth are.....(I brush my teeth about 3 times a day)
Sad gurl Im in depression too, I literally have no friends. My daily routine is like this:
Wake up( brush my teeth)
Go to school
Finish school
Reach home(brush my teeth)
Do homework
Sleep( brush my teeth)
And the cycle continues
I don’t really do anything in the weekend...
I don't know why that happens
And for some reason I brush three times a day and it doesn't work.
Also it's like I am a magnet to depressed people cuz I have a lot of depressed friends. I don't judge them I help them.
I can't have white teeth beacuse i have asthma and...yea i just don't want brush my teeth everytime when i use the thing (i don't know english that much xD) that help me to breath...
Don't obsess over your appearance.... but god forbid you have cracked lips or teeth that aren't perfectly white
thehalfbloodserb THANK YOU! 🙌🏻
thehalfbloodserb 👏👏👏
Andrew: “Being obsessed with the way you look”
Also Andrew: “your teeth shouldbe white & your lips should be smooth”
juliaxeliza there’s a difference between being obsessed with how you look and having basic hygiene.
Kaia S so white theeth are basic hygiene
@@irishuiberts8714 not blindingly white, but natural white-ish that comes from regular toothbrushing yes
I think he more of means not to have full-on yellow teeth, like a light tint of yellow would be fine
Yea but that’s not being obsessed
The depression thing is bs, i have an amazing boyfriend and Im clinically depressed, he doesn’t take it as a burden, if you are depressed you can still be in a relationship
Don't get all salty about this comment but, I think he meant it in a general outlook. As in, he saw and said what he thought or experienced and not so the small little groups of people that are strong enough to deal with that. As well as, it is a big thing to deal with and that there are different levels of depression making relationships with it different, so what he said (from what I read in the comments) is true for certain types/levels of depression. I hope you understand as well as get better because any life matters no matter who.
@@themagnificentgabster1989 thank you. A senseable person in the comment section.
@@isthatajojosreference1389 Glad I'm not the only one that thought this
Something unattractive that guys do is act different in front of their friends😪
True
AHHH IKRRR
Kenya Ceballos OH MY FUCKING GOOD PREACH I LOVE YOU SO MUCHH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌😌
Kenya Ceballos COULDNT AGREE MORE!
Imo I find it kinda cute in some cases
Depression is a mental illness. It is not something that you decide to have. I personally don't think anyone would like to have depression. It hurts so much to think that you see it as something that people should just stop... when they didn't even start it. And it definetly hurts more to know that you are more worried on how YOU are going to have to deal with your partner's depression than their actual illness.
when I said "something that people should just stop" I meant "something that people can easily stop". Depression is very hard to deal with and people that suffer from this illness can not press a button and make it stop. It takes time and effort. People with depression go through a really hard time and I personally do not like the idea that you made them look as if they are not worth dating, when they deserve all the love in the world.
P R E A C H 👏👏🙏🙏✨
Irene SG ❤❤
“Having no life” ahh shit, found out why I’ve always been single.
and all of this is because of hulu, netflx and having cats.
Sameee
I have a part time job, but not often. I only have a partial life
Me threeeee
"your depression is a big problem to give to someone" yikes ...
It is.
+Coca Cola you are the problem. you can't waint until you are perfect so you can date someone, no one is perfect!
he mentioned in one his previous videos, that he had a girlfriend who had depression and anxiety issues, and it came in the way of their relationship, so i'm pretty sure that's what he's referencing.
i mean, if you know the heavy weight of depression would you put it in someone else?
this guy is shallow....love to you sweetheart
"It's not fair to be dating when you have depression" Excuse me
That sentence was so wrong that I still can't believe he actually said it
Still triggered omg
Think about it tho... when you have depression and you don’t love yourself how can you love some else. He is saying first you have to love yourself before you can love himself. Most people who are commenting on this video are not think about it from the opposite gender. In my opinion I agree with most of the stuff he’s saying such as the bad breath thing why would you want to eat onion on the first day if you want to kiss the person I know I wouldn’t. All I’m saying is don’t take this video the wrong way. Yes, he said it the wrong way but the reasoning behind is meaningful. You should be in the right state of mind when you want to be with someone. This is just my opinion and I saw that people were hating so I just wanted to explain the reasoning behind his comments.
@@jennaelbanna1127 Who said you need to love yourself to love someone else?
People should stop putting rules for love.
If you can’t even love yourself, it’s not healthy to fall in love. Most relationships don’t last forever, and that stuff can make it a lot worse. Trust me, I know. That’s what they’re trying to say
Something I hate that guys do is pretending they know everything about a woman and can completely relate to us.
Kate Dancer :D ohhhhh!! I really hate that too😤
Fax, luckily that’s not happening in the video
worddd
Kate Dancer :D Literally what girls do all the time
Ikr. I fucking hate it
IM A *BIG* FAN OF WOMEN.
me: oh wow... that's great sir..... um...
Jordan Kosick lol yeah that was a bit weird
It's funny you say you're a big fan of women but I legit thought you were low key gay. 😂
Lol saaame
..and I thought I'm the only one..
Don't be such an asshole
John Palermo truer words have never been spoken
The first time I came to one of his videos I thought that he was giving advice about what men like because he REALLY knew about that. U know based on some experience with other men.
“Don’t have cracked lips”, yes because one swipe of the chapstick will solve everything. I personally use chapstick everyday and my lips are still dry, who cares get over it.
Chapsticks actually makes them more dry
I agree lol
Yeah I liked this video but I gotta say dry lips isn’t something chapstick can always fix😅
Chapstick irritates my lips
Honestly Vaseline is so much better XD (at least for me since my lips are constantly dry)
"I don't think it's fair to start dating someone if you're going through depression" yikes dude. wtf made you think this video was a good idea? depression is not a choice and a lot of people have it chronically and probably their entire lives, that doesn't mean they're incapable of being in a healthy relationship. It just means finding someone less selfish and more compassionate than someone who thinks her depression is a burden to them. Delete this video, and apologize. This isn't "unattractive things girls do," this is "things I don't like in people that I think are #relatable but really I'm just insensitive."
im not defending him or anything, and it came out wrong, but he mentioned in one his previous videos, that he had a girlfriend who had depression and anxiety issues, and it came in the way of their relationship, so i'm pretty sure that's what he's referencing.
makes sense! It would have been great for him to re-reference that again here, since it is such a sensitive topic.
Lily Ardalan ...you really need to throw away your phone and shut up... no body likes a hater... except you, of course
Naudia Vestal okay...... you are hating on someone for hating........ don’t you find that a little..... hypocritical?
Now a days everything is a sensitive topic. The reason why. Because loads of people use it as an excuse to blame what they CAN control in their own life's but won't take that responsibility. Because I've seen loads of people in that situation. Then there are people who really suffer from the mental illness; depression. And yeah I do agree with him in some way, it's not the healthiest foundation to start a relationship but they don't need to suffer to stay alone forever.
Tbh these things could go for a boy too so....plus i think it was kind of rude to say that if we're depressed we shouldn't date anyone. Thats just my opinion though
Honestly, yeah. It just shows that he has a basic understanding of what having depression means.
I mean yes, but I think he was saying that to save the person with depression from getting more hurt. And he could have put that in better words too
Jesus holy shit the depression part is what pissed me off the most bc ppl can't control it it's not their fault
Taylor Behner yep, I agree. Situations can go nuts in a snap
one thing:
*wtf*
Polish DanceGirl IKR 😩🙌🏻
5:00, what the heck??? YOU CAN’T JUST GET RID OF DEPRESSION, like WHAT
That's not what he was saying. He was simply stating that you can't make the other person happy if you are not happy with yourself. You will only drag that person down with you, especially if you don't think that you need help with your depression. I learned this from personal experience and I'm a girl.
It's just sad it's the truth it's hard making everyone else the same
You could seek professional help tho. It helps. A lot.
And if you like don't seek help the person may try to get out of the relationship, even friends. Because when you don't seek professional help, you seek your friend, and maybe he doesn't know how to act when this happens. If you seek them frequently, they will eventually become more sad because you're sad and then they will jump out of that unhealthy friendship. Personal experience.
Simple Witch I can’t tell my mom she won’t believe me and I don’t even know why
“I’m a big fan of women.”
Who says that?!?
Irene yeah that sounded kinda weird
Irene this guy is talking about women like they had their own fandom
Didn't Joey or somebody say that?
jayna kim like in Friends? I think so?
@@irene8183 Yup! Joey tribbiani 🤣
Depression?!! Well I have that but the guy I liked still accept me, he actually helped me :') I love him so much💕😌
Happy for you ❤
Good for u
Good stuff
Same 💕 we're just lucky. But my crush, still can't move on from his first one
Then why u watchin this vid😐😐
Good luck finding a girl
Shut up.
Its a joke
StarDustwolf 77 it kinda isnt
Not sure if this was a joke..it better be
he said he hated to say these things
Umm I brush my teeth 3 times a day
And I still have yellow teeth 🌚🤦🏼♀️
U shouldn't brush Ur teeth 3 times a day that is not good for Ur teeth it just damages them
neko baka sakura no the dentist just told me
then thats okay....sorry if i was being rude
Ya I thought it wears off enamel or somthing like that 😂
Ava Ryan 🤷🏼♀️
Him: "Have a life"
Me: arent you the one talking to a camera alone about things girls should fix because they are not to your liking? . . . ok
Boop Boop aren’t you the one that clicked on this video knowing this is RUclips and this is what people do and watched it just to go to the comment section to complain.....I thought so
Knew there would be tons of triggered girls 😂😂
@@watsuptwok9948 don't assume this is a girl?
Boop Boop you really thought you did some
@@totallynotryan9107 ok stop XD
Yeah I was subscribed but once you brought up the point about depression I had to unsubscribe. It’s not a choice and as someone who has been diagnosed with chronic depression I can’t help it. And for your information I have been with my boyfriend for over a year.
Another thing that has nothing to do with depression but I feel like all the other point should be for all genders.
Thank you so much! I have depression, and when he said that if you have depression don't try to get into a relationship, I though that that wasn't fair, but I was too scared to post anything about it. You've made me feel like I'm not alone, so thank you! 😊
@@plantchicken I think he was meaning you have to love yourself before loving someone else..? I'm not sure tho
@@ariatrotman764 I think that to
oh boy I love men who make women feel bad about their insecurities by calling them unattractive 🙄
i wOn'T hEsiTatE biTch love your name 😂😂
NO REBECA ITS NOT WHAT U THINK
People don’t want your burdens. I’ve learned that and now I’m getting happier and people are liking me more now that I’m happy and confident. It’s just the way the world goes.
Well you saw the title if you didn't want to be '' offended " then don't watch it
Tony Gunk wrong, NO ONE should do this, not men, not women
I can see why you're single.
Bunny Shark lol
Lol lol lol
Me to 😬
True tho
Oh 😂😂
"It's time for these to stop"
Uhhhmmmm? Do _YOU_ want my depression?
things turn off girl that guys do
- the guy who is in this video
- can't accept your flaws like this guy in this video
- guy who want a perfect girfriend based on their physic
*sorry if my english bad
Hahaha😂🤣
Pretty much
Wait at least he has good eyebrows😂
Preach girl, Preach!
Preach
The thing that honestly made me mad was the whole depression thing. So many people suffer from depression; it's not right to say that they should't be dating someone because of that. It's a mental illness that someone can't control. Saying that people who have depression shouldn't date other people is like saying people who have IBS or another certain disease shouldn't date people because they would share their medical burdens and limitations with that person. No one controls that. I personally suffer from depression *and* GAD *and* IBS *and* have a boyfriend. I feel guilty enough when I'm not doing well BECAUSE I don't want to burden him. He always reminds me that he's there for me whenever I want to talk and asks if there's anything I need that he can help me with. I almost always never take him up on that so I can seem normal. When I missed a lot of school (about a month) due to medical issues, he checked in on me daily but understood I had to do school work when I was feeling better until I caught up, and he gave me space. That's a man right there. One who knows that you're trying your best and UNDERSTANDS how hard managing your illnesses can be. I'm sorry Andrew but your point could have not been more messed up.
exactly... like you can't just be like "stop being depressed it will make you more attractive".... depression isn't a quality... it's a part of somebody's life... I'm so heated
If you are not Mentally healthy then honestly you should not be dating somebody in a serious manner
Mary Beth Dew did you not read my comment? Depression is a mental illness that cannot be controlled. Depression doesn't go away for the vast majority of people who have it. The burdens that come with mental illnesses are similar to physical ones. It is not right to say that someone should not be dating because of an illness they have. That's ignorant and wrong.
BEYOUtifulgrin nope, it’s unfair of you to make your depression your boyfriends problem. Depression can be overcome, I know from experience. It takes a lot of work on yourself, by yourself.
And mental health is a very different thing from physical health. Your boyfriend is dating your mind, he’s not dating your bowel. He knows he can’t do anything about your physical issues because he’s not a physician, but people do feel responsible to make their partners happy and your depression will take a toll on him, whether you’re mature enough to realize that or not. Unfortunately, he probably doesn’t even realize the toll you’re taking on him. So sad.
Coca Cola I'm happy that you overcame depression. Just because it was possible for you, does not mean it's going to happen for everybody, and you need to realize that. I have been struggling with it for years, and have been able to manage it most of the time.
My boyfriend is dating ME. My physical self *and* my mental self. I'm not just a brain. I'm a human. I'm a human who makes him happy and makes him laugh, just as he does to me. I'm not stupid, he's not stupid; I know that it's difficult to deal with and he knows it too. He also knows that mental illnesses are not black and white, which seems to me like you think they are. He's very educated on the subject. It's not 'sad'.
Depression isn't just being happy or sad. If you've truly gone through it/have it, you would know that. Having a mental illness and/or a physical illness both takes tolls on relationships.
And I am not making it my boyfriend's problem. It's his choice if he wants to be with me or not. I'm not making him stay. As I said in my original comment, I try not to get him involved with my depression. He can tell when I'm going through an extra rough patch and no matter how I try to shake it off and hide it, he still tries to help in any way he can. He understands that it might never go away no matter how hard I try.
I'm very sorry to hear that you went through it on your own. You don't have to deal with it alone. I've been lucky enough to find someone who really cares about me and wants to see me fight it and wants to help me fight it. I'm sorry you didn't have that.
Funny that this is specifically targeted towards girls when this applies to EVERYONE
Rachel Simon debatable
Crouton Bitch, what? So it's not a turn off when a guy has smelly breath, yellow teeth, bad personality, but it does when a girl has those things? 🙄
ur ass is grass I love ur username 😂
I brush and floss my teeth every single day twice. It is just because my teeth are naturally yellow
I understand though
Same it is genetic
@@l_amy_0 not genetic, the underlayer of your teeth is always naturally yellow.
Ignore him. He knows nothing about us.😒
@the spaghetti cat t h e e t
@Xcat rose it's good you brush your "theet"
You should have said unattractive things all people do, not just girls. Also, I really did not like the first two 'physical' points. They are not things that just brushing your teeth will fix for everyone, it's not that simple. Also, I really didn't like how you said if you're depressed you shouldn't be going into a relationship. The person you're in a relationship with should be brightening up your life and making you happier, regardless of how happy you were going into the relationship!
So this dude literally said that “all guys” would leave you when you have depression other than help you with it.
I had depression and anxiety starting at the age of 8. But because of my first boyfriend at 16, everything changed. I now see the world in a positive light. Thanks to him, I’m enjoying life, but sadly he had to move away. We broke up but we are still friends. We communicate with each other and meet up if we can.
So in conclusion, not all guys are assholes.
Less Creative yee
So, I’m depressed. Now I can’t date anyone *great*
10 unattractive things girls do?
Here's 11 unattractive things you did in JUST THIS VIDEO.
1. You judge a woman by her physical attributes.
2. You act like you're never wrong.
3. You act like a relationship is a one way experience
4. You act like women deserve only what men want
5. You act like women cannot be themselves around a guy
6. You act like a relationship must favor the man
7. You act like we do everything wrong
8. You have no positivity in your opinions
9. You act like a women MUST be perfect
10. You act like a relationship doesn't have trials and hardships and that the women MUST be problem-free.
11. You act like couples don't help eachother and that they cannot count on eachother in times of need.
1. True
2. False
3.yeah he kinda did but a lot of the things he said was that it shouldn’t be
4. I don’t know what that sentence even means
5. Kinda yeah
6. Yeah he was leaning a bit to that side, I see it
7. Incorrect
8. Actually he does but for a video that is based off “unattractive things” it is about the negatives so it would make sense for this to be the case
9. Nah
10. Well yeah it’s obviously easier that way but not every relationship will be easy so I see you
11. Ok
That’s my thoughts on your opinions, feel free to continue the conversation
XD
PREACH 👏 SIS 👏 PREACH 👏
I garuntee you have judged a man based on his physical characteristics. It is BIOLOGY to be attracted to someone who looks healthy. We look for strong healthy mates to breed with.
@@sydneybuffington7563 Yeah. Healthy. I don't care if they have nice muscles or pearly whites. Take it from a girl who's dad has diabetes, missing toes, rotting teeth, but protects his daughter from an abusive mother. I judge, but I love a person for who they are on the inside, not the outside.
Dude, these are things that aren't just considered for girls. This sounds like things everyone needs to do. I suggest renaming your title 🙄
Yeah it should be like turn offs in dating or something along the lines of that
i agree, so many of these go for both sexes. this guys certainty as advise being #1 (your number 7 buddy)
100% true
Agree. These apply to both sexes and these are good points.
Captain Marie why does everything have to be inclusive though. Sure, what he has said applies also to men BUT Andrew quo as a heterosexual dude is simply showing things from his POV. People would probably be less offended if it were a woman talking. Simply double standards.
#4 having a life: Sometimes a person is physically unable to work or go to school. It sucks but sometimes a person can't do anything about that!
True
Yes ...my life.
Wow! I'm so sorry about your illness, hope it gets better quickly!
DONT date someone if you have depression! Umm excuse me ☝️ I have depression I can definitely be in any relationship I want and they are great relationships!
Amy Ullrich Please don’t
Amy Ullrich I have chronic depression and I’m married lol
If you’re in a great relationship and your happy, then it kinda doesn’t even apply to you since “great relationships” aren’t made negative.
Ok
Amy Ullrich exactly !
"i'm a big fan of women" already want to stop watching
Keep Your Thoughts To Yourself.
@@myhappyplaceisinhisarms why don't you? The internet is a free space and he isn't harming anyone.
=3=
never said it wasn't.
Then why didn't you?
This guy thinks he’s that handsome making people more insecure
??
LOL IKR
Simply Althea you said it 🙏🏻
Bruh u right he *FUGLY*
Lol 😂
Ha you're basiclly saying ''If you have depression, deal with it on your own''
You know some people have it for a reason. Maybe it's just genetics. There are people who were trying to get rid of it for years. And I have a friend who is depressed, but still have a boyfriend. When a depressed person loves you, that love is just sooo deep.
Also teeth are naturally yellow.
Some people ''don't have a life'' because they are trying to find a job. In the country i live in it's really hard to find a job. People even go to bigger countries looking for a job.
The one with dry lips. Ok, I get it. But sometimes it just happens that you don't have a chapstick at that moment.
The one with bad breath. Yeah.. I get it, it can be really unattractive. I wash my teeth 3-4 times a day, and I still have bad breah sometimes.. so it doesn't always mean that the person is not washing their teeth.
And you can't just expect to find a perfect girl. You're not perfect youself eighter.
PREACH, ARMY
Lol don't get a boyfriend, get a therapist.
Im probably like the only prsn that red ur hole comment
Ikr
Yeah this was pretty close to my thoughts on the vid
ooof guess i can't find love in life because i have depression
Same
Aww of course u can find love in life ...it's not that u can't😊
No this man is an idiot
Of course you can. Don't listen to this fool. I hope you get over your depression.
I know I was being half-sarcastic. xD But thanks for the nice comments though!
"Dont date someone if you're depressed"
Because not having someone there for you will cure it! Surely! You wont become even more depressed at all!
That’s selfish being in a relationship with someone if you’re depressed
@@Errupt how is that selfish if you are in a relationship while having an illness that no nobody can control not even the person with it
I think the issue here is if the guy ends up feeling like he's the only thing pulling you through it all. Like, if he suddenly realized that he couldn't see a future with you for reasons besides your depression, how can he leave you without feeling responsible for any breakdowns afterwards? It's not good to attach your self-worth to any one person because you can lose it after they leave. Just like we deserve happiness despite our depression, they deserve their own happiness even if it isn't with us. Anyhow, I totally agree that we need people to be there for us to help us recover, but it's also up to us to realize that we need to persevere even when they're not their for us.
Ok, now that I've said all that, I will admit that his wording was really bad and it did make me feel self-conscious. That's obviously upsetting and is entirely on him, but I can also understand where he may be coming from. Hopefully what I'm saying can help some people see it as something not to take personally, for their sake. He needs to understand where he went wrong with this.
Depression isn’t a choice you have no idea what your on about
he's pretty much saying if you have depression deal with it on your own bc you ain't gonna find a mans to help you get through that NO HONTY NOOOO
Wait isn't that normal, real depression doesn't go away just bc you get into a relationship, those problems remain there and will surface sooner than later. Depression is a might foe only you yourself can conquer, i'm not saying proffessional help or friends, gf/bf's, can't help but it isn't a quick fix, it doesn't dissapear after a week or 2. Eventually ppl who are trying to help will give up and say stuff like, "you just wanna be depressed", but its not that simple
@@bene5594 True. I mean I am not clinically depressed or anything but I did some research and relapses are a constant and can be draining.
ben eeckman that’s true but a lot of people want someone to go through it with them instead of feeling alone all the time
No he is saying that when you have depression you have doubts and you may drag your partner into feeling like they aren’t good enough
Personally I don't like guys with patchy facial hair and dark circles around there eyes sooooooo... 🙄😑
He's unattractiveeeee
Thank youuuuu. Like why is this puffy eyed monster tryna tell me how unattractive I am? 😂😂😂
What if I’m a girl with dark circles and hairy af arms and legs
Heidi Andrew what if I'm a girl with hairy legs and arms
Heidi Andrew the Dolan twins have both of those and I’m #TRIGGERED😂😂😂
So you are saying that depressed people shouldn't date.
I unsubscribed because of this.
All he's saying is he wouldn't want to be with someone that would be forever damaged if they ever broke up. I would have nothing wrong dating someone with depression, but I too would be constantly worrying and it might be a little difficult to focus on the relationship if you're so scared that they won't make it if you ever broke up. Personally, that would just really stress me out. But on the other hand, being in a relationship is good stability and your partner could help you get through it. Just don't judge him for saying what he feels, because you did too. Everyone gets to think what they would like, and feel free to be in a relationship if that works for you and your partner.❤
Literally never seen this dude's videos before and don't plan on watching anymore after he said that. I developed PTSD at a very young age and had been dealing with the depression it has caused, since I no longer produce serotonin on my own, and I most likely never will. I have tried to get off my meds so many times but I can't do it. Like screw this dude, everyone deserves love. Just because you're depressed doesn't mean you shouldn't date. You should have a plan to work with/through your depression seek therapy and you'll probably be better of psychologically than any non depressed person. I also noticed depressed people are real asf, and don't bull shit, overall creating a great relationship.
@@samanthaoliver6294 Ya ik it will b good for the person suffering with depression bt think about the one who's normal, their life will surely become a hell...lol
I have been there and I know they r so fucked up in the head that no matter how much love and care you show them it's never enough.
When he says that depressed ppl shouldn't date , I agree with him 101℅.😂
He didnt say dont date, he meant that you need to be positive when you are with him. Of course not all the time, but like, just because you are sad doesn't mean he has to always be fixing your problems or making you feel better. Men are human too and they have depression too and they feel things too.
@@daivikkaushik143 but i have depression and i got help, but the guy i liked also had some issues, and he made me worry, but i know he will be ok, cause even if we arent close ill still make sure hes happy, EVERYONE should date. Depressed people shouldnt be judged for something that could be from genes or from somthing that happened, my mother has ptsd from boot camp and has had depression, shes been married for 14 years to my biological father. Dont say people shouldnt date. And he was saying that people who have depression shouldnt keep saying how they see life and make others see that way, not how they shouldnt date -_-
the depression part pissed me off. people cant control it, and they can still be in relationships.
I unsubscribed as well. Not because I took it personally, but because this was at some points not too far from hate speech. I agree with most of the comments about teeth yellowness and depression. Andrew, what the heck?..
i felt attacked about having no life... let me be friendless in peace and do ur thing damn LMAO
Same
You do realize YOU clicked on the video obviously wanting to watch right?
Gabrielle Hill thank u ! i didn't realize i did click to watch this 😩 and chose to leave a public comment on this public video omf thank u
Gabrielle Hill Well, she could have just been curious and thought he was actually going to give some decent advice...and how was she supposed to know he was gonna say something along the lines of: "hAvInG nO lifE iS a bIg TuRnofF"
i like how he talks about yellow teeth like its easy to controll, he also acts like he doesnt have yellow teeth.
@mr. Wldasoldmysoul4pussyasateen teeth are naturally yellow by the way. not white. i brush 3 times a day, have healthy teeth and good breath still my teeth are yellow. what do u have to say about this now? that i dont maintain hygiene?
Exactly. I immediately looked at his teeth after he said that and I was like, “Are you kidding? You don’t even have white teeth”. He probably meant mustard yellow teeth
Wow. What an ignorant video. This is exactly why mental health is still something we (as a society) are unable to handle.
Also about the teeth thing. I have not so great teeth and trust me I hate it. But I have them because I was so sick at one point of my life that taking care of them was impossible. I almost died. I beat that illness but it has consequences, one of them being this. And if someone is judging me for it, than there you go. I don't need you in my life.
So again, next time think more before you speak, and stop generalizing so bluntly.
Orsi Dirda true I have a friend where her teeth is squeaky clean but it’s natural colour is light yellow. I mean, the world is not perfect
Most peoples teeth are yellow and not a bright shining white color unless they get them bleached which is bad for the theeth. I also got irritated about the bad breath...yes most cases it's dental hygiene but sometimes it's stomach issues which can't always be fixed (like mine). Sorry for taking over your comment, I hope you're doing better by now :)
I unsubscribed. That depression one was bad. It shouldn't matter what someone goes through. I've struggled with depression all my life and I'm very happy in my two almost three year relationship. I find this post really offensive to a ton of people. And sure you can have your opinions but think of other people before you say something, especially because your posting what you say for the whole world to see. You never know who might here it.
Of course it matters what a person you're dating goes through - but only on behalf of what you yourself are willing and capable (!) of handling. Relationships are about sharing and that includes the unpleasantries as well. You have to be clear about what you can and can't do for the other. The comment he made was a wrong generalization and not thought through, we all agree on that. But so are too many of the reactions on depression itself.
Hear*
100th like
I literally can't believe he said that, literally same. I've had depression for years but I'm still in a healthy relationship. What he said really hurt me and I think it hurt many people too. He should be ashamed of himself.
So I like your videos. But this video makes me uncomfortable. I think it's because you're tackling hard issues such as depression and mental illnesses in such a callous and hurtful way. I understand from your perspective, a mental illness is a burden but you don't have to be so mean about speaking about it. It's not something you can control.
Adriana L he still has a point..if u have depression..sort it out first before dating. You can't love someone else until you love yourself.
brwood33 I don't agree with that. I had depression for a while (about four years) but I'm much better now. You want to know how I did it? I found people to love. I found friends, idols and a boyfriend. And you know what? They were my cure. By loving them, I learned to love myself. But, hey. Everyone's different I guess.
FireBow 💕
You all have a point, actually...
Every person is different and every person's way of handling depression is different... What's true for one may not be true for the other. What's important is to respect everyone. And that's where Adriana L's point comes in.... I like this guy and he usually puts out good content but the tip about depression was insensitive...even just the delivery and construction should've been better.
brwood33 well it’s not that easy and if it’s a burden to you then go away
And how the heck is depression unattractive like wtf, who says that.
I'm sorry, but it is. I struggled with depression for a few years and god knows what I was putting through people close to me. It's one thing though to do that to your parents, your close friends who knew you for a long time, heck, even if you're already in a relationship that's stable it's ok. Those people will be there to help you. But to be depressed and go on a dating scene is a big no because being all negative and sad can quickly ruin the mood. I'm sorry, but if you're half a decent person, you won't think just about yourself but others too and won't be putting strangers through all that just to make yourself feel slightly better about yourself.
It’s so fucken unattractive wtf do u mean
0:05 "I'm a big fan of women"
0:26 "take some steps to change."
What's the point of this post?
Everyone has things to work on. That doesn't mean someone can't see your flaws and still love and care about you. Unless you think you're literally perfect... Then you're a narcissist.
He’s a big hypocrite for that
Hey are you an ARMY???
Anyone would be depressed living up to your expectations.
Nice
Ooooooff
Stop being triggered and offended, he's just giving advice and if you don't like it why watch?
Yep
@@TalaR04 because we didn't expect it you dumbfuck
Reading the comments so many offended girls , what do they expect on a video about unattractive things about girls ? . Heck l have yellow teeth no matter how many times l brush , no life and have depression .Yes the truth hurts but it's better than fake love .For me l need to find peace and love myself first before committing in a relationship because how can l expect someone to love all of me when l dont even love myself .It's not fair .Having a bf or gf doesn't mean you will find true happiness. Accept that life is not perfect ,love yourself , respect yourself , have faith and go on with your journey in life like a fighter we all are
Really thanks for this comment 💓
That means you are responsible and mature. I respect you. I think they didn't understand the video. People in general don't like to hang with sad and melancholic people. It just cuts the mood you know. But seek professional help if you have depression. That's it
"You got it dude"
*what show us that from?*
sally sally Exactly! Thank you so much
Totally agree!
Being conceited is a big turn off. says the one who literally just pointed out flaws some girls cant help. 🙄
It’s hard to do but easy to say, but I think we should just be ourselves. If people don’t like you for you, they don’t deserve you.
i love this comment
I don't think I'll ever be in the mood to watch a video of a man telling me what is unattractive about me.
Gaf Hadly don’t watch then
Okay wow reallyyyyyyyy are you honestly gonna say people with depression shouldn't get into a relationship?? How dare you
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I think he mainly said that if you're struggling with depression, you shouldn't let it become your partner's problem. Not that people with depression do not deserve relationship.
Anna P "And honestly, I don't believe that it's fair to start dating someone if you're going through depression"
Fall_Out Boy depends on the person your dating.
"UGH, he wants me to be happy with myself and my life first before getting into a relationship. What a douchebag". 😒 girl 👏👏 wake up.
Infinite turtlesenses that's not what depression is. Feeling unhaply with yourself and your life is one thing, and actually dealing with depression (a mental illness) is another. There's so much more to it than that. Someone can't control if they have a mental illness or not.
Well depression is often a mental health issue, would you tell someone with kidney issues not to date? The stigma around mental health in our society is a huge problem. Telling someone with a mental health issue, especially if they are doing everything they can to manage it, they are not worthy of love and shouldn't date is a very ignorant, harmful statement. People with health issues deserve romantic love too!!!
I sent this to all 27 of my guy friends and they all told me that this was pure assholery. They also told me that they look for girls insecurities so they can point them out and say that it looks good.
2: This video made me question myself. I have depression, yellow teeth, and bad breath.
3: This video needs more dislikes.
Absolutely! This is just pure negativity used to tear others apart and it's just not right. Any good man would tell you that!
Mew mew
Same I have all the same trates if. they don't like my yellow teeth , stinky ass breath, and can't handle my depression. than go find some dame model mr.rude ass.sorry for my language but this upsets me
MewMew Animations I can relate to #2
MewMew Animations girl I don’t even have 27 friends let alone guy friends oof
so if you were interested in a girl and found out they had depression and were trying to figure it out you wouldn’t be interested in them anymore? you’re saying it’s something you can get rid of. it’s really unattractive when someone is insensitive and not caring or willing to help out someone they like so that you can have a happy relationship with them. but ok...
That actually happened with my crush, we had good chemistry, endless convos, such good times, and people noticed we were getting close... but when I told him about my depression (because he wouldn't stop asking about my sudden depressive moods and I trusted him enough to tell him this which is so personal to me...) boom, he stopped talking to me :( Last thing he said to me after that was "We have to go to the movies someday!"; it's been 9 months and I talked to him today and caught him avoiding me. It was written all over his face, that he didn't want to talk to me *sighs. Maybe I said something wrong that time? Idk... I'm never telling anyone again about my illnesses. I rather be alone if its going to be like this. Sorry I needed to vent.
Miko Hikari i’m so sorry. it shouldn’t be that way
@@blakeboyle5881 Thanks... It helps have someone to listen, even if they're a stranger :).
I honestly wouldn’t get into a relationship if I couldn’t manage my depression. I think it’s selfish. Depression isn’t curable, but if you can’t find a way to manage it then you shouldn’t get into a relationship. If my bf is happy then I’m happy. If he’s sad then I’m sad. Your problems become theirs whether you want it to or not. It’s ok to be depressed In a relationship, but you should learn to manage it. Btw I’m depressed and I just hate seeing someone I love cry because of my depression. (This is a general statement. Every situation is different, but for the most part I say this is true)
You definitely should not have made this video. Not only is it not saying ANYTHING every woman has heard and had pushed down our throats, but also people with depression or any other mental health issue deserve just as many healthy romantic or platonic relationships as people who do not suffer with mental health. Do not increase the stigma.
Crouton I know. Male issues are just as important as female issues.
Fall_Out Boy then why are you getting offended by a video towards women when his videos towards men are more well received and loved smh
He’s not increasing the stigma.
One healthy person meets another healthy person, they date and form a healthy relationship.
One unhealthy person meets a healthy person, they date and form an unhealthy relationship.
People who are depressed deserve love, he’s not saying they don’t. But they should not get into a romantic relationship until they’re emotionally stable, which depressed people are not.
Coca Cola you're correct, depressed people should become emotionally stable when wanting to be in a relationship. But Andrew also said that people with *depression* should not be in relationships. Being depressed is different than being diagnosed with depression. Depression is a mental illness that doesn't go away most of the time. It can be managed like any other illness/disease, but it doesn't go away, so therefore he's saying that people who suffer from this illness should never date.
BEYOUtifulgrin I’ve had enough of reading your same comments over and over saying diagnosed depression and depression are different and that one is not curable.
I disagree with you, I think you need to educate yourself before blasting that people will ALWAYS have depression if they’re diagnosed. Maybe you’ll figure it out one day.
Good luck with your mental health ✌🏻
What if I told you I. Always negative and depressed bc three of my family members are dying and I might be sent to an orphanage when they pass. So do not tell us that being negative is most of the problem.
foxhunter 78 I’m so sorry if your family members are dying😭
Stay strong! my friend♡♡
I am so sorry to hear that!😢 I hope everyone is ok!
I can't RN. I've cried so much because my teeth are messed up. Its just in my genes to have yellow teeth. But not only that, I also have like 2 small vampire teeth near my 2 front teeth. I can't afford to get it fixed and it breaks my heart because I always watch these videos and everyone says having a pearly white straight smile is very attractive and when u have yellow and weird shaped teeth is not. I don't know what else to is. It's killing me because I can't change it. I've wanted veneers but my family can't afford it and I don't wanna force it :/
Renee Grigoryan girl, dont worry, if someone loves you for who u are, he’ll oversee it. Having yellow healthy teeth are so common in asia, so ure not alone.
Nguyen Lala aw that made me smile. Tysmm
Renee Grigoryan: Society makes people feel bad for not being this 'perfect' being. but in truth society is far from the truth. Your yellow teeth make you perfect. I love the fact that you have vampire teeth. I too have 2 on my bottom row and I am so very happy I kept them. But just having a smile is even more so attractive then the teeth that are being shown. Your teeth work the same as mine, the same as everybody's. Yellow teeth are BEAUTIFUL! If I also remember right, white teeth are not actually healthy for you nor are white strips. Please do not feel the need to change them, be proud of them because you are a attractive person who has what quite a few people don't. You are the perfect you and if a person judges you for your teeth they are not seeing the true you. Love your teeth, love every bit of you because it is you! Show that confidence and if anyone says you are being conceited tell them no. it is none of their business to say one way or the other about you. Even about there teeth.
@@CelticGoddessEpona thank you so much. That honestly means alot
Excuse me! Yellow teeth are common everywhere. You shouldn't change yourself for people! I mean, I knew this girl who had something like a gap around her front teeth, some people thought she looked weird , and I could tell she was self conscious about it with how often she suddenly shut her mouth if she was smiling or laughing. I thought she was the cutest thing ever. Simply, because I befriended her. I thought her smile was the most adorable thing i have ever seen because she was so helpful and funny. Honestly, smiling is all about personality and whether or not the person in question is good enough to know you. Because once you get to know someone, that will be a part of them you adore. My friends told me they hate their smiles, I told them I adore them and tried to make them laugh just to see it.
Your looks don't define you! Smile, be happy, and if they can't even bother to overlook a tiny detail, then they don't deserve to know you, and you shouldn't know them, either. Because these kind of people want to change you to the perfect human being. There is no such. A. Thing.
You are perfect just the way you are, dear.
(Before anyone wants to come for me, this isn't a hate comment! I don't mean to be aggressive or rude in any way💗) I was so excited when I got this notification because I typically love Andrews content, but this video has left me with so many mixed emotions. Personally as someone who was diagnosed with depression and anxiety at age 12/13 (I am turning 18 next month), I don't necessarily find this offensive as at the end of the day it is just a RUclips video and I don't believe this had a malicious intent, but it's more just disappointing. I really do not think this was handled well because I can see that if a person was more vulnerable and less confident in themselves and heard this, it could potentially be very damaging and could lead someone to think that this is another aspect of life that their mental illness will interfere with. I can understand that mental health is something that should be taken into consideration when dating, however I don't think it should be seen as a burden to share with someone else. Yes, there is an added element of strain to a relationship but that's just part of it. Nothing is ever smooth sailing, you just have to work with the waves rather than against them💗
say it louder for the people in the back! I don't find it offensive either, I just find it misleading and disappointing as well. He kinda implied depression and being depressed are the same thing. Some people find a way to overcome depression, some find a way to cope, and some try their best to just try. It won't every go away for EVERYONE, and it is something that can be handled within a relationship if both people really care about each other. 💗
BEYOUtifulgrin Absolutely! 100% agree with you!💗
I understand that you think he said it broadly as depression itself but the title of the number was negative attitude and when he said that he meant a depressive period, meaning more short term. Not someone struggling with long term or serious depression.
Ashley Harmony I understand that, however I stand by the fact that those who are possible vulnerable could potentially take these comments the wrong way. It was a matter of the wording and personally I think he should have chosen his words more carefully but regardless Andrew is human and you're not going to like everything someone does and that's okay💗
Merryn Dyer - well put...
as if every girl is dying to date you
lol exactly
For real
Lol his just giving advice stop being an ass about it 😂
LMFAO fr
Ikr
So many people here seem to be upset that he listed a negative attitude and depression as unattractive. I’ve had depression really badly during certain stretches of my life and I can totally see why somebody could find that state of mind as unattractive. I wouldn’t have wanted to date me back then either. I can’t sit here and say that people should ignore their needs and still date me. If someone can’t handle it that doesn’t mean they’re a bad person, it just means they’re not necessarily my person, and that’s ok. Honestly I’d be scared if someone found my depression attractive because it probably means they’re one of those people who feels the need to “fix” others and might get bored of me when my depression is better.
I couldn't agree more. I've had depression, too and this is exactly how I feel about this whole thing
Ah yes, fuel my depression more by pointing out that we will just be a burden to others this is why it's hard for us to reach out
I know right? He is so insensitive to OUR situations.
Who does this guy think he is???
Julia D A nigga with a RUclips channel
Crouton 😂😂😭💀
Andrew Quo, dating advice youtuber.
Got a problem?
Coca Cola and crouton replying on every comment :/
OMG! Is he an expert?
I just wanna know.... How many girlfriends has this guy had??😂
Julie Delgado Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂 seems like new gf each day
Hopefully not a lot cuz he’s a bad Person
Negative 20
The number of videos he has is the number of girls LOL
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You are mean. I suffer from depression and anxiety and PTSD. My boyfriend helps me. And he is very happy helping me. so you are wrong about so many things.
He is talking about people who are untreated.
@@sidneyvicious1128 thats the one thing i dont really agree with what he says. everything else i can agree with. if you look at the topics themself, they sound really mean, but the way he explains them make sense to me
You suffer from depression and anxiety because you won't stop drinking or doing some form of recreational drug, or both, and you won't balance yourself with meditation, exercise, therapy (possibly) and appropriate diet. You don't take care of yourself. Take care of yourself - get yourself straight, and let a new boyfriend come into your atmosphere. Your current boyfriend is a fool and likely hangs in their with you because you spread your legs for him.
U r lying u r single
@mr. Wldasoldmysoul4pussyasateen Clinical
Hunny what is you doing??/?
2:25 I’ve had severe eczema since I was a baby and still have it now, no matter how many lotions I put on I still have insanely flakey skin. Don’t be an asshole.
My friend too ! This guy apparently just wants a sex bot , or a relationship with no actual relation just sex
Yeah, I think judging a girl (,or anyone, for that matter,) based on physical appearance is kinda unfair, considering you never really know what’s going on behind closed doors.
PREACH GIRL ME TOO!
I don't think he is talking about you in particular or people who can't do anything about it. He is saying in general.
God bless
Are you salty about someone????
heyheyitsjenn No he’s just saying things that turn him off about girls.
Mary Beth Dew idk, it sounds like he’s speaking from experience
heyheyitsjenn I’m sure he is. So?
I was just asking... You're responding to me as if I was attacking him.
"I'm a big fan of women"
"no one wants to feel inferior"
"no one wants someone whos always negative"
Makes a video to point out flaws in women 🤔
jessica colbert ikr what a hypocrite
Watch me whip
Some people are naturally born with yellow teeth.😑
i hope you never find a girlfriend lowkey all u gonna do is complain
stellaa Haha girls complain more than men
It’s not a competition of who complains more
Why even be like that. I hope you never find a boyfriend because he'll just leave you after realizing what a bitch you are
Tf like someone's gonna listen to you with your crying Bart Simpson ass profile pic, edgy
@@Freyjatheundercoverwerewolf "the fuck? Leave [them] alone. You didn't need to go at them like that. I thought the whole feminists thing was to 'have each other's back because girls have to stick together?' fuck off and leaver [them] alone. You dont know [them] at all..." Bruh, who hurt you?
Some boys do these things too
Yes, true. BUT THAT'S NOT THE POINT OF THE VIDEO! It's not to insult girls. Please go back and read the videos title. It's main focus is the female gender. He never said that guys don't do these things.
Plenty of guys do these things. I have only once seen a straight man put any lip balm on. And I'm only assuming he was straight.
Also plenty of men get depressed and then throw themselves into relationships. If someone can manage it then its only a problem if they see it as a problem.
Isthatajojosreference ? Thank you
"A big fan of women"
VERY UNATTRACTIVE RIGHT THERE!