I have been saying for a long time that the reason so many people are so messed up is due to going through a phase of depression... and instead of seeing in through they turn to meds... and live with an unresolved issue for the rest of their life... in a drone like state of comfort and numbness.... All while filling the pockets of pharma.
I like the thumbnail, Jean Delville is one of my favorite artists, especially the darker occult stuff. I really don't like the AI thumbnails they affect how I view the videos to be honest
I remember Jim Carrey quoting another person that the word "depressed" can mean "deep rest" - deep rest from the persona that we present to the world but is not our true authentic self. Sometimes depression is a signal that we are out of alignment with our inner self.
@@thec0untess It is because it doesn’t take into account wether or not there is actually a distinct inner and a distinct outer self. This is where philosophy NEEDS science. You can make up any philosophical concept you want to but if it doesn’t fit the evidence…..
I am a 19 yo guy from a third world country, I have to tell your channel is a blessing man. I have learnt alot and became a better person ever since stumbling upon your channel. Never stop posting videos and thanks alot!
I'm a bit older than you, but same here. This and other philosophy channels have introduced me to topics I've never knew I'd be interested in. The term "Self exploration" always seemed like nonsense to me until I started learning about the phylosophy of Carl Jung, Nietszche, Schopenhauer, And the sages of antiquity
@@cda6590The way out comes from within. Hell confines you through fear and illusion. The way out is the process of faith and facing your fear. When I was in my own Hell, living was a constant torture, and I could not imagine anything worse, no matter how much I tried. Even the idea of being physically tortured by another person couldn't invoke the possibility of making me more miserable.
As someone who did, my favorite quote of all time is from Albert Camus' book summer - "It was in the midst of winter, that I found within me an invincible summer."
My father passed away at the age of 75 last month. He had been bedridden for a few years leading up to his death. I thought that once he passed, the pain of letting him go would be easier than losing him all together. It wasn't. My father was my hero, my protector, and the one man who loved me unconditionally. He is a man who will be truly and forever missed by me. I am in a depressed state of mind. I have been here before but tried to drink and smoke (p@t) my way out of it. Today, I let myself feel the hurt that needs to be felt. It ebbs and flows, but, regardless, I FEEL it! I cry, I sit with myself, and I let myself understand that I have experienced one of the greatest losses I will ever feel in my life. It is huge to me, and I should respect it.
Grief is the most intense emotion a human can experience. I am too grieving the loss of my mom and i never thought i could feel so much pain. It hurts our soul, our body, our mind. It's hard.
As someone who lost his father at age 73 after a long, bed-ridden, illness in which he had multiple amputation surgeries. First it was his toe, then it was his toes, then his leg above the knee, then the other leg. Not to mention the dialysis-ridden diabetes he had, and the three heart attacks, the latter in which what finally took his life. At first I was relieved for him to be relieved of his suffering. But having my wife leave me 4 months before I lost my Dad (who I was caring for 5 days a week) and then my Grandma (his mom) exact two weeks after my Dad, well, I've been deeply depressed ever since. So you are not alone in your suffering. Nor are you alone in your hope. Hold on to the latter. There are many of us out there with similar life experiences. Through it all I know one thing God is good.
Allow yourself to feel it, despite how much it hurts. Your father still lives within you and permeates the invisible Life energy that makes up all of the world ❤
Depression is like a roaring wave: you either embrace it and ride it out or work against it and sink to the bottom, but even at the bottom, you can find your way back to the surface. There’s a spark of optimism there
This video came at the right time lol . Im currently in a mental battle trying to fight off my old self. Its been a VERY tough battle these past days but I wont give up .
@@IDoThings490 appreciate the advice. I’m just trying to be consistent in being my natural self without going back to my old self but it's been hard. I just have a hard time people-pleasing, going back to negative friends, and relationships. The root issue is honestly not being loved and accepted when I was younger. Idk why im venting but I think it's the right time to lol. I grew up in an environment where I had to be someone I wasn't to fit in. Being smart, and having intellectual conversations wasn't accepted and looked upon as cool. I grew up in low-income housing Community ( the hood ) & they would praise the kid thats doing bad & accept the kid that funny so I had to become that kid. Like I mention, I always wanted to be accepted and loved and I would fill that hole by having friends and being in relationships but im tired of it. I want to honestly be my natural true self. I have seen visions of my true self & know exactly who he is … Im just ready for this fight to be over with. This is the loneliest I have ever been in my life. Changed my number, deactivated my Instagram, and just started to be by myself. It's a depressed feeling of being alone & it's uncomfortable. There’s One quote that has pushed me through these dark times.…. “To get to heaven, you have to go through hell “. Sorry if my grammar is bad lol, Im currently at the library and been meditating for a couple of minutes. I guess I needed to let this out.
No one will know the cost of this battle but yourself, I can only wish you good luck and know that there is someone who wishes you strength, take care of yourself.
You must never have had depression if you think it's an uplifting phenomenon. I assure you, as someone who has dealt with it for lost of my life, it is not.
This means so much to me. I'm 40 and have struggled with depression since I was a teenager. But now I'm confronting it and have been since the pandemic, and no longer see it as a bad thing.
This resonates with me so much. My whole life I have fought major depression. Recently I decided to "give up" fighting and just be depressed, and paradoxically I found relief in that action.
Thank you for sharing your Truth 🙏🏽💯 I’m 51 years old and I felt like I been going thru this my whole life Today I realize thru my real eyes all the real lies that I been telling myself. Always trying to teach and please people and family Being a people pleaser I Now know and understand that I was Blessed to be in a position to have to deal with my depression deep resting and my true self going thru the understudies and the under world of the sub conscious mind Which where all true power ( ability to tell my truth ) dwells . THE KINGDOM IS TRULY WITHIN 🙏🏽✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️✨🦋😍😎😇
Working my way thru a divorce after 14-years. Easily the most isolating and depressive state I’ve ever experienced. This video was incredibly encouraging in all the isolation and darkness. Thank you.
This aligns perfectly with my experience. Lifelong suicidal depression that culminated in personal and spiritual growth that I never expected. Never imagined possible. I had to face the darkness with no deceit or distraction. A lonely and painful process, the truth as merciless as it is necessary. It very nearly killed me. Yet now I feel so grateful to have suffered all of this that I laugh and cry in joy about it all. Academy of Ideas, your team is brilliant. Truly exceptional. You all have my gratitude and love. ❤
Take all your suffering- sorrows, pains, losses, fears, misery and the miseries of the world, and use them. They’re all vehicles for awakening. Each birth is precious and useful, a gift and a blessing. ~Ram Dass
Today, i couldn't not get out of bed, i was swarmed with the feeling of totally hopeless, meaningless like i have no power to overcome it in anyways, i was contemplating of taking my own life god forgive me. I am so grateful for these video it has given me a great perspective to look at.
I think this explains the all to common scenario where a man breaks up with his significant other, and through the depression caused by that relationship he comes out a better person over the coming years. You are put into a position where you have to dig down into your subconscious for gold.
Very true in my life. Some yrs ago I was battling depression and anxiety.. it became hard to laugh to eat, sleep.. i would stay awake and start my day and battle with depression with no rest. Those were some difficult days man.. it came to the point where I asked my self, either I move or stay here and die.I ended a relationship where I wasnt happy , I went back to my familys roots back home for the first time in my life it was beautiful.. I got to spend Soo much time with my grandparents I got to learn so much from them we were able to have a beautiful relationship together. I received love from family that only knew me from pictures. I traveled my home country. I got to know a new part of my self , it was amazing beautiful, I would go threw the hell just to relive that again,sad to say my grandparents have passed , but I'm grateful that I went thew that, I would have never done it by my own accord.
Brilliant, I went through a 3+ year MDD. Imagine your worst FLU: no energy, no light, and it does not go away. On the other side, life is full of joy. I would not trade this for anything.
I will always be adamant that my 1.5 year long depression was the most important & best thing to ever happen to me. This is not to diminish the damage of depression, sadly a young man, whom I didn't know, who my friends worked with didn't make it out. But if you can endure your souls cry for help it will change you into someone you never thought you could be. Its a long struggle, but stay strong
Depression makes you realise what you don’t want in life (negativity). And after recovering, one’s mental health will be better than a person who hasn’t experienced depression because it’s a universal law that blessing is doubled after being tested
What if i told you that i felt this way but i relapsed in another episode Many episodes theought the past 10 years In total of them 4 years in isolation And diagnosed bipolar ! But it’s worst than that and i don’t take medication it’s all about environment family childhood and betrayal from loved once and of course all of this leads you to having nothing for yourself cause you lived to please others and in fear and traumatised you can achieve 0 goals in life and it makes more joyful 😂😂.
It fees like a higher force showed me this video at the exact right moment. I have been struggling with a very dark depression ever since I moved countries but this gave me an understanding of the purpose behind it. Thank you so much for making this video!
There is an aspect of depression not addressed....some of it can be physiological. I had an underlying gum disease that led to low grade fevers, lethargy and impotence. Curing that, my outlook improved. Sugar, junk food, being out of shape can also cause a physical depression that no amount of therepy and or antidepressants can affect. If you had severe trauma, or family history is one thing, but also look for physical reason, which can be ameliorated physically.
@@di3486 yes but existential depression can be triggered by an underlying physiological cause, so this persons comment makes a very relevant point about the connection between physical health and mental health. They were just adding some nuance this video was missing, this channel has actually covered this topic in other videos though.
I have all of this severe trauma comlexe ptsd with a leaky gut problems 😂😂 Growing up in a like war environment made me this creature now!! Isolated for 9 months lost everything Or should i say i never had anything really i fought this demons since i was a kid and searched for an exit but people used me and made it worse !! Thank god i have lived all of this to know truly what it means that only our creator is the one to save us !! But first you need to save yourself or delete yourself !! I wish I’ll be dead soon even if everything becomes better and happier I’m done of this s.
I think trying to put a single cause to something like depression is always fruitless. You have to look to at every aspect of your life, it doesn’t seem to ever be just “this is the single reason I’m depressed”.
Reading through the comments, so many young people enduring hardships. For anyone reading this, the video presented here is very insightful and will be worth referring to for years to come. Save it or create a playlist specifically for this kind of viewing material.
What should i do I've been suffering from chronic depression, ADHD, severe anxiety attacks, panic attacks from the time covid started i went to a pyschiatrist he prescribed me sertraline oloft which is itself a drug that is very difficult to taper or leave as I've tried several times to stop taking those pills i have taken them for almost 5 years till today just switched from sertraline to venflaxine and im so done with life these pills make my every emotion numbed I'm still so young & i dont know what to do with life I'm turning 22 this year. The withdrawal symptoms are worst then anxiety attacks and depression. I don't know what to do man the doctors are of no help they just want their medicine to be sold. I've digged alot into this and the root cause analysis of depression and anxiety is not due to the low level of serotonin in brain but the brain getting adjusted to that addition of serotonin (by pills) that it certainly stops producing itself which causes the symptoms to explode I've tried tappering hyperbolically too I've had insanse thoughts of suicide recently had a breakup life's been a mess for me man it's hard alot hard. Hope you would understand of what I'm going through there's just so many things that i would want to say but aaaaaughh the suffering won't stop.
Carl Jung, although seeming sometimes absurd, is really a profound thinker. The grandioseness first suggested a sense of falsity to me at first, but now I that I know better, I can't think of anyone who had more profound thoughts about human beings.
Ever heard the 80s hit “Saved By Zero” by The Fixx? This is what they were singing about. Being saved by hitting rock bottom and having nothing left to lose and lifting up from there.
I had my first-ever session with my new therapist today. She asked me this exact question: what is the meaning of your depression? I couldn’t answer, but I felt the question land. It felt like a knot of simultaneous truths. It might haven taken me weeks to put it to words, but as it happens I came across this. This explanation was the knot’s loose end for me. This is the way through. Thank you.
I was severaly depressed for at least 2.5 years and this video describes what i went through. I had to become creative and i had to destroy the biggest concepts i have ever imagined. I now am grateful for having unlocking my brains potential
One of your best episodes ever. I almost teared up at so many moments. This will be a great reminded next time i find myself in a depressive state. I love and appreciate depth and now i will look at suffering and depression through a new lens instead of resisting
Today I was driving my bike on my way home from work and I realized that I don't feel sad or depressed as I used felt like 5 years ago. I know that I change a lot during that time, but if you ask me what changed and why I don't feel these kind of feelings anymore I can't tell you exactly. There is a lot of things that I want to improve I'm myself and in my life, I'm working for it, slowly but steady. I'm 26 yo.
This channel gives much insight to help understand oneself and our human experiences. For me, life's difficulties has brought much pain. For a long time, I used to avoid processing the pain because that feels even more painful , causes tears to flow and my head to ache and often made me sleepless. But it is through walking thro that dark valley of acknowledging the things done to me, and my immature reactions, and letting go things as I understand them, that healing slowly begins. And the Scriptures have been my solace in that process. At first nothing I read made sense. I looked for spiritual fast food. A word to make me feel ok in the moment, but the next moment I'm reeling under a wave of fear. But as I persevered and the depression raged (many years now), I got quieter on the outside, and my heart started dwelling in the Scriptures, looking at it, turning them over and over, and I must say a certain stillness has come to the raging and striving. And it says in Galations, that if the inheritance(good things?) is of the Law (my understanding, my work and striving), then it is no longer of promise, but God gave it to Abraham by promise. So God does the work, we give Him our trust, and in that way we aid Him in the process.
You don't know what other people are experiencing. There are different kinds of depression and different levels of depression. You may as well give the same advice to someone with schizophrenia, "just don't let it consume you, that's how you beat it."
This is one of the best videos on RUclips I have seen in a while. You give such an in depth analysis from a psychoanalyst point of view and your explanations go far deeper than most ‘psychology’ RUclips channels out there. I’m going through a dark night of the soul and your video has given me some peace to know that I can make it through and given me the courage to explore my own inner darkness to find my own treasures! Thank you!!! New sub!
Depends on the level of depression, some times it’s so extreme with anxiety and insomnia and ocd rumination that it seems very hard to see anything positive in it when you feel agitated and sui cidal
So true! …the extreme anxiety and insomnia is the most torturous form of depression… there is no break, at all. The relentlessness of it is terrifying, depleting, consuming, to the point of wanting it all to end. The medical world tries to force sleep, force numbing and drag you back up to some kind of dull but stable state. The fortunate ones this will not work for. The key is, to discover the lie, that the black hole is just a hole. There are tunnels!…that when faced, crawled through… away from the old and false light, truth is gradually, gradually discovered! Rising into new light and back down repeatedly, making progress… through. The body needs support physically and a glimmer within and the most amazing journey can begin. With Truth at the heart.
OCD is a condition that is on a whole other level than depression and is analogous to being terrified of light switches rather than being terrified of dying alone, never getting married, etc. etc. As much as depression *can* be caused by a chemical imbalance, it isn't a sufficient condition; whereas OCD is definitively a faulty reaction of the brain. There are definitely times in certain people's lives where they just have to "toughen through it to the other side even if it's alone," but OCD isn't one of them. So if you're the person you are describing in this comment, please do not feel bad by conflating yourself with the audience of this video, who may simply need to overcome an existential crisis, and yourself. With that said, I was born with another neurological condition that has a high comorbidity rate with OCD and have thus known more than a handful of folks with OCD. Some of them, not agoraphobic in the slightest, found themselves unable to leave their houses for nearly a decade. One of them today is a bestselling author and travels the English-speaking world and the other is college-educated and happily married.
Very hard to see, but no less positive. I would actually argue that the worse the depression, the greater the potential for growth from it. Journal out your thoughts, introspect without any distractions.
Great timing as always! Being 19 and experiencing the psychological hell for almost 4 years now. I am so glad dwelling on these type of videos and it really helps more than a lot! As I struggle to tell anyone, even my closest families and friends what I have been really feeling down there. Truly, one must delve deeper into their soul and find out what must rather be accepted than to be fixed. Really, no one wants to stay in the same place for the rest of their lives, the world out there is big and there is much to see. Thank you please keep making more videos!
This would only make sense to those who have hit bottom. When I went through harrowing depression I couldn't believe I made it through! I made it to the other side! I now see this as a process-and I am grateful 🙏
Dabrowski has a similar theory called positive disintegration, they highlight, overexcited, tendencies, or sensitivities… In progressing ones growth, it’s shedding the old layers and merging into ones most authentic self. Anyway, I’m progressing along the path of positive disintegration, but not without the help of JUNG, of course.
Ive been in a void, a mental wilderness, a mild form of depression for 4 and half years now ~ all i can say is that it is impossible to see the way out, there are no new revelations, everything is just grey and boring, in essence everything becomes nothing, and the only light that stays lit is the everlasting faith and hope that endures forever. As it is written, these three remain, faith, hope and love.
Thru my real eyes My third 👁️ Divine mind and Scared Heart💚 I realize all the lies I have told myself as well as the lies this world tell us to prevent one becoming his full and true self the Almighty because of my ego the false self ! However today I realize everything I went thru with depression my whole been a blessing in disguise Thank you Almighty within for all experiences lessons blessings and Supreme Divine Love 🙏🏽✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️✨🦋😍😎😇
It’s time you started digging into Rudolf Steiner’s ideas on every subject matter. You’re bringing up. This is a fantastic service to mankind you’re doing.
I just lost my grandma, and my mom just lost her only remaining parent. It has been so hard the last week, but I'm trying to let it make me better and stronger
Thank you for the video. Each time I watch your videos it feels like I'm improving my understanding of being and this world. It's a therapy session of its own.
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
For the past few years I occasionally get a video of yours recommended to me, I always finish watching them in complete focus, they are so interesting! Only some history channels manage to get me in a state like that. Thank you, also I never comment on videos so that should say something in and of itself haha
a great topic for a future video would be how to break free from self sabotage. AOI did a video on it years ago but I think it would be worth revisiting or doing a follow up video. Like why we self sabotage, how to recognize we're doing it, and how anxiety and low self-esteem can be contributing factors. With social media influencers we see it on full display a lot, people enjoy watching it and even cheer it on and/or encourage it. I think it's a bigger problem than we'd like to acknowledge, and almost everyone does it whether they know they're doing it or not.
I remember when i was much younger, i used to understand the utility of pain and its perception as it is the single factor that unites every phenomenon in life under the most significant relevance of all, since there is no more important question than of pain, whether somethings brings me pain or lessens it. Specifically, i noticed the same lesson that fellow who ran a business 8 months after his depression in this video mentioned, that once you've experienced the worst of the worst, everything seems easier in comparison and thus works in your favor as fear no longer blinds and restricts you. Aside from mere benefits of comparative perspectives, i also derived more technical benefits: perspective comes from contrast. As the saying goes, you don't know what you have until you lose it. That's because when perceiving a situation antithetical to the one before, i.e. having something then not having something, usually of high implicit value, you're now able to imagine both scenario X and anti-X, and see where the differences lie, thus seeing both individually. Without anti-X, you wouldn't be able to see X, just as how without a left, you wouldn't have a right. It's a bit abstract, but if i had to use an analogous concept, it's probably similar to triangulation in a sense, deducing the precise and valid location of a concept from two independent sources of data. And often times, i would notice that finding out this anti- perspective would be accompanied with pain. I lost my girlfriend because she cheated on me, but sifting through my past, i could see now my precise traits that rationally link to this break up: i had been boring and neglectful as a partner. Knowing this, i can change and move forward. Pain teaches. That is what i learned, just as what this video is getting at but deeper. So the natural optimal utilization of this is to seek pain everywhere every second. However, along the way, i'd gotten lost and forgotten or neglected this lesson of mine, and started allowing myself to indulge in expedient pleasures which shifted my perspectives and values to more local, fleeting ones. I started playing games, binging youtube, spending frivolously on drinks and snacks more often. I'd even forgotten my entire meaning for life: the deep satisfaction and excitement from learning the most important things in life, i.e. those pertaining to pain. I'd cushioned my routine so much that i nigh completely forgotten what pain felt like and how to derive from it an X and anti-X deduction again. Having about to graduate high school, hopefully i can pick up this lesson again and return myself on the right track. Maybe that should start by closing my phone and going to sleep as it is 1 am right now...
You sound so much older and very much more experienced than a high school graduate to be. You must have unfathomable potential. I hope you will make the best and the most of it. You certainly have a talent for writing.
@@victoryamartin9773 ah why thank you, I know plenty of people legitimately smarter than me and I always have the default assumption that I'm stupid and clueless. Truth be told, i believe I was much smarter 10 years ago than I am now - not wiser perhaps but certainly smarter. But I appreciate the kind compliment. I hope I can utilize this potential as well as you'd hoped, hopefully further beyond even.
_I have tested you in the furnace of affliction_ Imagine living a life without any agonizing, oppressive sort of condition or experience. What stories would you have to share with the world? What resiliences and insights would you be able to wield? What inspiration would you arouse in those who look to your example? While you may skip through life like a well thrown, slick stone, you’ll fail to penetrate the surface of reality, venture down into the darkness, and leave a radiant, resounding ripple from whence you sank.
I think this is the best video I've seen on this channel, and given it's good content, that is saying a lot. Glad a buddy of mine recommended this channel and thought I'd find it interesting.
I lost my hearing to a head injury at 22. i lost my fiancee,who i loved and loved me back. I did this exact work, at the recovery.. Its made me unstoppable. Im now a viltrumite, for lack of a better term, but i kind of misplaced my soul.
This episode is quite profound. I have to ask the following questions. How do I as an individual discover the purpose of my depression. How long does this search last. During that search, how do i retain my sanity. Any and all answers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you and stay blessed...
I agree with the thesis of this video and take it further into all sorts of negative incidents. I like to call it, Evil's Silver Lining. In my life, injuries, conflicts and depression have been very helpful in accelerating my personal growth. I've learned that taking time to ask the divine consciousness within my heart, "Why has this difficulty emerged?" "What is the lesson?" Surely we can follow our hearts to navigate life most perfectly, however, when we fail to follow the middle path of the heart a good kick in the ass can help us to find our way back to the straight and narrow. One of Jung's associates revealed that he believed in a divine inner consciousness, what I call the Superconscious-Soul. However, he rarely mentioned it and never wrote about it. During his life the inner divine soul was discarded from psychology. This was needed to allow psychology to sit at the table of materialistic science. In spite of that, more recently, materialism is being overturned to place consciousness at the foundation of reality. Even the pioneer of silicon microprocessors, Federico Faggin has become a supporter of a consciousness based reality. Videos featuring his personal transformation can be found on RUclips.
Sobriety greets us with the cold reality that pain and suffering constitute life, most substances and distraction act as a warm numbing agent to the truth of being. To accomplish anything in life requires sacrifice and struggle, yet we innoculate ourselves to forget the hard truths we all must bear to achieve success in any long meaningful endeavour. If you wish to feel good find something worth struggling for, otherwise relinquish yourself to mediocrity, half-assery, inebriation, and self espoused illusion. Find joy, solace, and freedom in meaningful pain, and liberate your mind from perceived dependence on the myriad distractions. The struggle never ends until you draw your last breath. Sober up, suck it up, and move on to find your path of personal virtue, reiterate this mantra and believe you can overcome the obstacles ahead.
Depression is the feeling, but the goal is growth and learning. You can be depressed and not learn, just as you dont have to be depressed to learn, but the depression may be the effect of deep learning where much of a person must be burned off. This does not make the thing go away, but it does call attention to it, and the depression may come back if its not rectified. The goal has and always will be to know what part of you is good and keepable, and what must be discarded.
I wish I could have heard this message 10+ years ago when I was suicidal and felt like there was no hope for me. But even now I still struggle with depression. Not nearly as bad but more like down episodes and sometimes I feel fine too. This whole time I've struggled the most to just accept reality, that I will never get my old self back. But the message that I can transform into something better is something I never thought about. This whole time I felt like I was transforming into a worse version of myself, that depression has made me cynical and not able to trust. I felt like I was forever ruined. Yes I was a happy go lucky kid that turned into cynicism after depression. I'm basically the opposite now. But that's because I was severely naive and thus people took advantage of me for many years until I could not take it anymore. My ability to be more selective now with what people I give my trust to is something I did not have before the depression. So I guess it depends how you look at it. Good or bad? Both? I only could have stayed happy go lucky in a perfect world where people do not manipulate for selfish agendas. So my depression hit me at full force once my world view was shattered, I thought the world was good because I was good and I assumed people were like me. I did not know the concept of greed or manipulation back then. (struggles of being autistic with high morals)
Been feeling bad for 10 years and I have to say that there is nothing positive about it. It makes you bitter towards life and people and turns your heart into a stone.
@@IN-FactoryI think the Bible means that suffering is more useful than laughter. As the video explains accurately, one can overcome their adversity once they face their suffering head on. Grace out of sorrow is increasingly rare, but a cause for grateful laughter just the same.
@@IN-FactoryBrother, a rock that hardens and hardens becomes brittle, and can be shattered easier. Underneath the rocky exterior is fullness of love. Contemplate your situation, are you making it worse than it is, how is being negative helping it, what steps are there to be taken? After that, just focus on your breath, keep coming back to it, let the mind do it's thing, but keep coming back to the breath. Do this daily and you will be able to sort out your issues, or at least approach them in an impersonal manner.
So true! If hit rock bottom several times. I'm greatful for those dark days because now the success, happiness and living a great life tastes even better. Stay Uncommon!
From childhood we all form a "self" to get through life, as the world is so overwhelming. That self is a supportive structure but temporary, because life changes. At some point the self will constrict us and no longer suffice. Think of the hermit crab, who borrows a shell that fits perfectly. Until one day it doesn't, because he has grown. So he must leave the shell and be fully vulnerable until he can find a new fit.
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I have been saying for a long time that the reason so many people are so messed up is due to going through a phase of depression... and instead of seeing in through they turn to meds... and live with an unresolved issue for the rest of their life... in a drone like state of comfort and numbness.... All while filling the pockets of pharma.
@@psyoperatorWell said…❤
I like the thumbnail, Jean Delville is one of my favorite artists, especially the darker occult stuff. I really don't like the AI thumbnails they affect how I view the videos to be honest
Another great video.
The video was so good as broke as I am, I feel like I should support you. 😭🤣💯🇬🇧🇬🇧
I remember Jim Carrey quoting another person that the word "depressed" can mean "deep rest" - deep rest from the persona that we present to the world but is not our true authentic self. Sometimes depression is a signal that we are out of alignment with our inner self.
a true depression with anhedonia is rare. What we call depression is largely DSM and drug company marketing
Compression is better to say than depression
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Idk I always thought that was lame
@@thec0untess It is because it doesn’t take into account wether or not there is actually a distinct inner and a distinct outer self. This is where philosophy NEEDS science. You can make up any philosophical concept you want to but if it doesn’t fit the evidence…..
I am a 19 yo guy from a third world country, I have to tell your channel is a blessing man. I have learnt alot and became a better person ever since stumbling upon your channel. Never stop posting videos and thanks alot!
I advise you to read more about Robert Adams. It's a well known secret of understanding life, which nobody follows
@@dobrenkijbog5156 sure, I will look into it.
Great! Kudos to you and your people, wherever you are!
I'm a bit older than you, but same here. This and other philosophy channels have introduced me to topics I've never knew I'd be interested in. The term "Self exploration" always seemed like nonsense to me until I started learning about the phylosophy of Carl Jung, Nietszche, Schopenhauer, And the sages of antiquity
“Third world” countries don’t exist. That’s only a way to enslave people’s minds. Such a derogatory term.
The greatest moment in your life is when you realise that if you can endure hell, then you can endure anything else, including the way out.
That is, unless some asshole at the top severed the ties that had bound the rope leading to your own way out.
@@cda6590the fact that you realize that, means there was always a different way. No one else can stop it
@@cda6590 externalizing blame for an internal problem means you have yet to learn what you need to learn
@@cda6590The way out comes from within. Hell confines you through fear and illusion. The way out is the process of faith and facing your fear.
When I was in my own Hell, living was a constant torture, and I could not imagine anything worse, no matter how much I tried. Even the idea of being physically tortured by another person couldn't invoke the possibility of making me more miserable.
As someone who did, my favorite quote of all time is from Albert Camus' book summer - "It was in the midst of winter, that I found within me an invincible summer."
My father passed away at the age of 75 last month. He had been bedridden for a few years leading up to his death. I thought that once he passed, the pain of letting him go would be easier than losing him all together. It wasn't. My father was my hero, my protector, and the one man who loved me unconditionally. He is a man who will be truly and forever missed by me.
I am in a depressed state of mind. I have been here before but tried to drink and smoke (p@t) my way out of it. Today, I let myself feel the hurt that needs to be felt. It ebbs and flows, but, regardless, I FEEL it! I cry, I sit with myself, and I let myself understand that I have experienced one of the greatest losses I will ever feel in my life. It is huge to me, and I should respect it.
Sorry for your loss. I dont believe we ever really let go. It takes time ... to learn how to live with it.
@@shellbells339 Thank you.
Grief is the most intense emotion a human can experience. I am too grieving the loss of my mom and i never thought i could feel so much pain. It hurts our soul, our body, our mind. It's hard.
As someone who lost his father at age 73 after a long, bed-ridden, illness in which he had multiple amputation surgeries. First it was his toe, then it was his toes, then his leg above the knee, then the other leg. Not to mention the dialysis-ridden diabetes he had, and the three heart attacks, the latter in which what finally took his life.
At first I was relieved for him to be relieved of his suffering. But having my wife leave me 4 months before I lost my Dad (who I was caring for 5 days a week) and then my Grandma (his mom) exact two weeks after my Dad, well, I've been deeply depressed ever since. So you are not alone in your suffering.
Nor are you alone in your hope. Hold on to the latter. There are many of us out there with similar life experiences. Through it all I know one thing
God is good.
Allow yourself to feel it, despite how much it hurts. Your father still lives within you and permeates the invisible Life energy that makes up all of the world ❤
"Most people shoot for happiness but feel formed through suffering."
So true.
That last comment sticks with me too.
that comment says something about existence that is not pleasant. Happiness is secondary in life. Suffering is Life's true purpose.
It's inarguably resonant, couldn't deny it
Depression is like a roaring wave: you either embrace it and ride it out or work against it and sink to the bottom, but even at the bottom, you can find your way back to the surface. There’s a spark of optimism there
This video came at the right time lol . Im currently in a mental battle trying to fight off my old self. Its been a VERY tough battle these past days but I wont give up .
Same I stumbled upon it and am mind blown 🤯 I feel the change wanting to come out and it’s time transform and grow
@@Shewhocreatesforhim many blessings on your journey 🙌🏿
Be who you naturally are, I don't suppressing a side of yourself will ever be fruitful
Yes brother! Right there w you we got this tho!
@@IDoThings490 appreciate the advice. I’m just trying to be consistent in being my natural self without going back to my old self but it's been hard. I just have a hard time people-pleasing, going back to negative friends, and relationships. The root issue is honestly not being loved and accepted when I was younger. Idk why im venting but I think it's the right time to lol.
I grew up in an environment where I had to be someone I wasn't to fit in. Being smart, and having intellectual conversations wasn't accepted and looked upon as cool. I grew up in low-income housing Community ( the hood ) & they would praise the kid thats doing bad & accept the kid that funny so I had to become that kid. Like I mention, I always wanted to be accepted and loved and I would fill that hole by having friends and being in relationships but im tired of it. I want to honestly be my natural true self. I have seen visions of my true self & know exactly who he is … Im just ready for this fight to be over with. This is the loneliest I have ever been in my life. Changed my number, deactivated my Instagram, and just started to be by myself. It's a depressed feeling of being alone & it's uncomfortable. There’s One quote that has pushed me through these dark times.…. “To get to heaven, you have to go through hell “. Sorry if my grammar is bad lol, Im currently at the library and been meditating for a couple of minutes. I guess I needed to let this out.
No one will know the cost of this battle but yourself, I can only wish you good luck and know that there is someone who wishes you strength, take care of yourself.
And the same to you! Thank you! And fight the good fight!❤❤❤
Suffering is fire, a phoenix cannot rise from his own ash without being burned in the first place. Depression is like gas enhancing the fire.
The suffering is anomie
Anything which gives light must endure burning. Victor Frankl
It’s spelled Phoenix.
You must never have had depression if you think it's an uplifting phenomenon. I assure you, as someone who has dealt with it for lost of my life, it is not.
@@iExploder🤗 💪🏼❤️🔥💪🏼 I feel your pain…
This means so much to me. I'm 40 and have struggled with depression since I was a teenager. But now I'm confronting it and have been since the pandemic, and no longer see it as a bad thing.
This resonates with me so much. My whole life I have fought major depression. Recently I decided to "give up" fighting and just be depressed, and paradoxically I found relief in that action.
Hey, whatever works 👍
That makes sense tbb
Thank you for sharing your Truth 🙏🏽💯
I’m 51 years old and I felt like I been going thru this my whole life
Today I realize thru my real eyes all the real lies that I been telling myself.
Always trying to teach and please people and family Being a people pleaser
I Now know and understand that I was Blessed to be in a position to have to deal with my depression deep resting and my true self going thru the understudies and the under world of the sub conscious mind
Which where all true power ( ability to tell my truth ) dwells .
THE KINGDOM IS TRULY WITHIN 🙏🏽✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️✨🦋😍😎😇
Working my way thru a divorce after 14-years. Easily the most isolating and depressive state I’ve ever experienced. This video was incredibly encouraging in all the isolation and darkness. Thank you.
This aligns perfectly with my experience. Lifelong suicidal depression that culminated in personal and spiritual growth that I never expected. Never imagined possible. I had to face the darkness with no deceit or distraction. A lonely and painful process, the truth as merciless as it is necessary. It very nearly killed me. Yet now I feel so grateful to have suffered all of this that I laugh and cry in joy about it all.
Academy of Ideas, your team is brilliant. Truly exceptional. You all have my gratitude and love. ❤
What was the length of the journey if I can ask?
2-8 months? Longer?
What were your changes?
Take all your suffering- sorrows, pains, losses, fears, misery and the miseries of the world, and use them. They’re all vehicles for awakening. Each birth is precious and useful, a gift and a blessing.
~Ram Dass
Today, i couldn't not get out of bed, i was swarmed with the feeling of totally hopeless, meaningless like i have no power to overcome it in anyways, i was contemplating of taking my own life god forgive me. I am so grateful for these video it has given me a great perspective to look at.
I think this explains the all to common scenario where a man breaks up with his significant other, and through the depression caused by that relationship he comes out a better person over the coming years. You are put into a position where you have to dig down into your subconscious for gold.
Very true in my life. Some yrs ago I was battling depression and anxiety.. it became hard to laugh to eat, sleep.. i would stay awake and start my day and battle with depression with no rest. Those were some difficult days man.. it came to the point where I asked my self, either I move or stay here and die.I ended a relationship where I wasnt happy , I went back to my familys roots back home for the first time in my life it was beautiful.. I got to spend Soo much time with my grandparents I got to learn so much from them we were able to have a beautiful relationship together. I received love from family that only knew me from pictures. I traveled my home country. I got to know a new part of my self , it was amazing beautiful, I would go threw the hell just to relive that again,sad to say my grandparents have passed , but I'm grateful that I went thew that, I would have never done it by my own accord.
Right
Brilliant, I went through a 3+ year MDD. Imagine your worst FLU: no energy, no light, and it does not go away. On the other side, life is full of joy. I would not trade this for anything.
I will always be adamant that my 1.5 year long depression was the most important & best thing to ever happen to me. This is not to diminish the damage of depression, sadly a young man, whom I didn't know, who my friends worked with didn't make it out. But if you can endure your souls cry for help it will change you into someone you never thought you could be. Its a long struggle, but stay strong
It’s true, if you truly hit rock bottom you becomes stronger, but I miss the innocence of being weak and I resent the disquiet of strength
Depression makes you realise what you don’t want in life (negativity). And after recovering, one’s mental health will be better than a person who hasn’t experienced depression because it’s a universal law that blessing is doubled after being tested
What if i told you that i felt this way but i relapsed in another episode
Many episodes theought the past 10 years
In total of them 4 years in isolation
And diagnosed bipolar !
But it’s worst than that and i don’t take medication it’s all about environment family childhood and betrayal from loved once and of course all of this leads you to having nothing for yourself cause you lived to please others and in fear and traumatised you can achieve 0 goals in life and it makes more joyful 😂😂.
Iosif Andriasov Quote: “A person’s will is worked on for many years and is expressed in overcoming harmful attachments.”
this is the best channel on youtube
It is
This channel and eternalised are both alchemical gold!
It fees like a higher force showed me this video at the exact right moment.
I have been struggling with a very dark depression ever since I moved countries but this gave me an understanding of the purpose behind it. Thank you so much for making this video!
There is an aspect of depression not addressed....some of it can be physiological. I had an underlying gum disease that led to low grade fevers, lethargy and impotence. Curing that, my outlook improved. Sugar, junk food, being out of shape can also cause a physical depression that no amount of therepy and or antidepressants can affect. If you had severe trauma, or family history is one thing, but also look for physical reason, which can be ameliorated physically.
Existential depression is very specific of this video.
@@di3486 yes but existential depression can be triggered by an underlying physiological cause, so this persons comment makes a very relevant point about the connection between physical health and mental health. They were just adding some nuance this video was missing, this channel has actually covered this topic in other videos though.
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I have all of this severe trauma comlexe ptsd with a leaky gut problems 😂😂
Growing up in a like war environment made me this creature now!!
Isolated for 9 months lost everything
Or should i say i never had anything really i fought this demons since i was a kid and searched for an exit but people used me and made it worse !!
Thank god i have lived all of this to know truly what it means that only our creator is the one to save us !!
But first you need to save yourself or delete yourself !!
I wish I’ll be dead soon even if everything becomes better and happier I’m done of this s.
I think trying to put a single cause to something like depression is always fruitless. You have to look to at every aspect of your life, it doesn’t seem to ever be just “this is the single reason I’m depressed”.
Reading through the comments, so many young people enduring hardships. For anyone reading this, the video presented here is very insightful and will be worth referring to for years to come.
Save it or create a playlist specifically for this kind of viewing material.
What should i do I've been suffering from chronic depression, ADHD, severe anxiety attacks, panic attacks from the time covid started i went to a pyschiatrist he prescribed me sertraline oloft which is itself a drug that is very difficult to taper or leave as I've tried several times to stop taking those pills i have taken them for almost 5 years till today just switched from sertraline to venflaxine and im so done with life these pills make my every emotion numbed I'm still so young & i dont know what to do with life I'm turning 22 this year. The withdrawal symptoms are worst then anxiety attacks and depression. I don't know what to do man the doctors are of no help they just want their medicine to be sold. I've digged alot into this and the root cause analysis of depression and anxiety is not due to the low level of serotonin in brain but the brain getting adjusted to that addition of serotonin (by pills) that it certainly stops producing itself which causes the symptoms to explode I've tried tappering hyperbolically too I've had insanse thoughts of suicide recently had a breakup life's been a mess for me man it's hard alot hard. Hope you would understand of what I'm going through there's just so many things that i would want to say but aaaaaughh the suffering won't stop.
We are the sacrifice made by the elders and the sick society that they complied for creating it in dystopian matter
This channel is a rare gem in the mud of RUclips. Thank you for the many well thought out videos.
Carl Jung, although seeming sometimes absurd, is really a profound thinker. The grandioseness first suggested a sense of falsity to me at first, but now I that I know better, I can't think of anyone who had more profound thoughts about human beings.
Depression gave me my greatest power, introspection.
Ever heard the 80s hit “Saved By Zero” by The Fixx? This is what they were singing about. Being saved by hitting rock bottom and having nothing left to lose and lifting up from there.
Wow nice
Thank you for making this. Some of us needed to hear this message today.
My worry with depression is when it gets so bad it truly is the call of the void.
Family, pets and friends help
Underrated channel, I have learned so much about my own life from this channel, and a lot about the world and how people think.
I couldn’t have said it better myself! Literally a blessing
I had my first-ever session with my new therapist today. She asked me this exact question: what is the meaning of your depression?
I couldn’t answer, but I felt the question land. It felt like a knot of simultaneous truths. It might haven taken me weeks to put it to words, but as it happens I came across this. This explanation was the knot’s loose end for me. This is the way through.
Thank you.
This RUclips channel is a blessing, I’ve been watching these videos from 18-21 years old and it’s been a great attribution for me to develop and grow.
I was severaly depressed for at least 2.5 years and this video describes what i went through. I had to become creative and i had to destroy the biggest concepts i have ever imagined. I now am grateful for having unlocking my brains potential
One of your best episodes ever. I almost teared up at so many moments. This will be a great reminded next time i find myself in a depressive state. I love and appreciate depth and now i will look at suffering and depression through a new lens instead of resisting
Today I was driving my bike on my way home from work and I realized that I don't feel sad or depressed as I used felt like 5 years ago. I know that I change a lot during that time, but if you ask me what changed and why I don't feel these kind of feelings anymore I can't tell you exactly. There is a lot of things that I want to improve I'm myself and in my life, I'm working for it, slowly but steady. I'm 26 yo.
This channel gives much insight to help understand oneself and our human experiences.
For me, life's difficulties has brought much pain. For a long time, I used to avoid processing the pain because that feels even more painful , causes tears to flow and my head to ache and often made me sleepless.
But it is through walking thro that dark valley of acknowledging the things done to me, and my immature reactions, and letting go things as I understand them, that healing slowly begins.
And the Scriptures have been my solace in that process. At first nothing I read made sense. I looked for spiritual fast food. A word to make me feel ok in the moment, but the next moment I'm reeling under a wave of fear. But as I persevered and the depression raged (many years now), I got quieter on the outside, and my heart started dwelling in the Scriptures, looking at it, turning them over and over, and I must say a certain stillness has come to the raging and striving.
And it says in Galations, that if the inheritance(good things?) is of the Law (my understanding, my work and striving), then it is no longer of promise, but God gave it to Abraham by promise. So God does the work, we give Him our trust, and in that way we aid Him in the process.
I cried reading the end of it we should give our trust to our creator.
There is always two sides to every coin. Not letting depression or any mental illness consume you is where the victory lies.
You don't know what other people are experiencing. There are different kinds of depression and different levels of depression. You may as well give the same advice to someone with schizophrenia, "just don't let it consume you, that's how you beat it."
This is one of the best videos on RUclips I have seen in a while. You give such an in depth analysis from a psychoanalyst point of view and your explanations go far deeper than most ‘psychology’ RUclips channels out there. I’m going through a dark night of the soul and your video has given me some peace to know that I can make it through and given me the courage to explore my own inner darkness to find my own treasures! Thank you!!! New sub!
This really helps with understanding my depression journey. Thank you
Depends on the level of depression, some times it’s so extreme with anxiety and insomnia and ocd rumination that it seems very hard to see anything positive in it when you feel agitated and sui cidal
So true! …the extreme anxiety and insomnia is the most torturous form of depression… there is no break, at all. The relentlessness of it is terrifying, depleting, consuming, to the point of wanting it all to end.
The medical world tries to force sleep, force numbing and drag you back up to some kind of dull but stable state.
The fortunate ones this will not work for.
The key is, to discover the lie, that the black hole is just a hole.
There are tunnels!…that when faced, crawled through… away from the old and false light, truth is gradually, gradually discovered!
Rising into new light and back down repeatedly, making progress… through.
The body needs support physically and a glimmer within and the most amazing journey can begin.
With Truth at the heart.
That’s very relatable and understandable and is addressed quite astutely in this video.
OCD is a condition that is on a whole other level than depression and is analogous to being terrified of light switches rather than being terrified of dying alone, never getting married, etc. etc. As much as depression *can* be caused by a chemical imbalance, it isn't a sufficient condition; whereas OCD is definitively a faulty reaction of the brain.
There are definitely times in certain people's lives where they just have to "toughen through it to the other side even if it's alone," but OCD isn't one of them.
So if you're the person you are describing in this comment, please do not feel bad by conflating yourself with the audience of this video, who may simply need to overcome an existential crisis, and yourself.
With that said, I was born with another neurological condition that has a high comorbidity rate with OCD and have thus known more than a handful of folks with OCD. Some of them, not agoraphobic in the slightest, found themselves unable to leave their houses for nearly a decade.
One of them today is a bestselling author and travels the English-speaking world and the other is college-educated and happily married.
I think ocd was meant hyperbolically. When your mind is ruminating compulsively, and it’s difficult to stop.
Very hard to see, but no less positive. I would actually argue that the worse the depression, the greater the potential for growth from it. Journal out your thoughts, introspect without any distractions.
Great timing as always! Being 19 and experiencing the psychological hell for almost 4 years now. I am so glad dwelling on these type of videos and it really helps more than a lot! As I struggle to tell anyone, even my closest families and friends what I have been really feeling down there. Truly, one must delve deeper into their soul and find out what must rather be accepted than to be fixed. Really, no one wants to stay in the same place for the rest of their lives, the world out there is big and there is much to see. Thank you please keep making more videos!
Thank you. Most relevant information one could run across as a depression takes hold of me after a traumatic loss. You’ve just gained a new member.
This would only make sense to those who have hit bottom. When I went through harrowing depression I couldn't believe I made it through! I made it to the other side! I now see this as a process-and I am grateful 🙏
Dabrowski has a similar theory called positive disintegration, they highlight, overexcited, tendencies, or sensitivities… In progressing ones growth, it’s shedding the old layers and merging into ones most authentic self. Anyway, I’m progressing along the path of positive disintegration, but not without the help of JUNG, of course.
I have learned in my 55 years there is GREAT strength in suffering. I used to hate it now I wouldn’t trade it. God is found in your suffering ❤
Me too
Ive been in a void, a mental wilderness, a mild form of depression for 4 and half years now ~ all i can say is that it is impossible to see the way out, there are no new revelations, everything is just grey and boring, in essence everything becomes nothing, and the only light that stays lit is the everlasting faith and hope that endures forever. As it is written, these three remain, faith, hope and love.
I am with you in that
I felt the same way
The days just keep coming though
And im beginning to feel the strength to mold my new path
@@ryryry_25 the lord gave me a vision, and its that same vision that sustains me in the void, i hope you find your purpose, as i am still searching
Thru my real eyes
My third 👁️ Divine mind and Scared Heart💚
I realize all the lies I have told myself as well as the lies this world tell us to prevent one becoming his full and true self the Almighty
because of my ego the false self !
However today I realize everything I went thru with depression my whole been a blessing in disguise
Thank you Almighty within for all experiences lessons blessings and Supreme Divine Love
🙏🏽✨🔥❤️💚🌹👁️✨🦋😍😎😇
Been listening for years. This is your best work. Perfect timing. Many thanks
Bedankt
Excellent content and excellent narrator. Among the best I've seen and heard on RUclips.
Sometimes....a break down is a break through.
Man thank you so much God bless you🙏🏼
It’s time you started digging into Rudolf Steiner’s ideas on every subject matter. You’re bringing up. This is a fantastic service to mankind you’re doing.
Beautiful video. It made see my depression in another light. Thank you.
I just lost my grandma, and my mom just lost her only remaining parent. It has been so hard the last week, but I'm trying to let it make me better and stronger
This was an excellent video. Couldn't come at a more appropriate time in my life. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for the video. Each time I watch your videos it feels like I'm improving my understanding of being and this world. It's a therapy session of its own.
Life changing this perspective. Thank you so much.
Whoever is reading this, I pray for you: a heart free of sorrow, a mind free of worries, a life filled with joy, an abundant source of financial wealth, a body free of disease disability and a day filled with God's blessings
Thank you! Sending love your way!❤
@@johng65000 GOD bless you🩷
TY.
All my best.
Send Blessings on the Prophet ﷺ 🏵️
Bless you 😊
This is the best view and description of a the true depressive experience that I have EVER come across. Thank you! 👍👏💥 Wow!
For the past few years I occasionally get a video of yours recommended to me, I always finish watching them in complete focus, they are so interesting! Only some history channels manage to get me in a state like that. Thank you, also I never comment on videos so that should say something in and of itself haha
This was timely and profound. Perfect quotes. Thank you. Much food for thought.
a great topic for a future video would be how to break free from self sabotage. AOI did a video on it years ago but I think it would be worth revisiting or doing a follow up video. Like why we self sabotage, how to recognize we're doing it, and how anxiety and low self-esteem can be contributing factors. With social media influencers we see it on full display a lot, people enjoy watching it and even cheer it on and/or encourage it. I think it's a bigger problem than we'd like to acknowledge, and almost everyone does it whether they know they're doing it or not.
Depression is stop finding meaning in life to the point that being alive or dead does not make any diference. Depression is living in hell.
Right?
Who thinks depression is good
Accept depression? Then we'll be dead
I remember when i was much younger, i used to understand the utility of pain and its perception as it is the single factor that unites every phenomenon in life under the most significant relevance of all, since there is no more important question than of pain, whether somethings brings me pain or lessens it.
Specifically, i noticed the same lesson that fellow who ran a business 8 months after his depression in this video mentioned, that once you've experienced the worst of the worst, everything seems easier in comparison and thus works in your favor as fear no longer blinds and restricts you. Aside from mere benefits of comparative perspectives, i also derived more technical benefits: perspective comes from contrast. As the saying goes, you don't know what you have until you lose it. That's because when perceiving a situation antithetical to the one before, i.e. having something then not having something, usually of high implicit value, you're now able to imagine both scenario X and anti-X, and see where the differences lie, thus seeing both individually. Without anti-X, you wouldn't be able to see X, just as how without a left, you wouldn't have a right. It's a bit abstract, but if i had to use an analogous concept, it's probably similar to triangulation in a sense, deducing the precise and valid location of a concept from two independent sources of data.
And often times, i would notice that finding out this anti- perspective would be accompanied with pain. I lost my girlfriend because she cheated on me, but sifting through my past, i could see now my precise traits that rationally link to this break up: i had been boring and neglectful as a partner. Knowing this, i can change and move forward.
Pain teaches. That is what i learned, just as what this video is getting at but deeper.
So the natural optimal utilization of this is to seek pain everywhere every second.
However, along the way, i'd gotten lost and forgotten or neglected this lesson of mine, and started allowing myself to indulge in expedient pleasures which shifted my perspectives and values to more local, fleeting ones. I started playing games, binging youtube, spending frivolously on drinks and snacks more often. I'd even forgotten my entire meaning for life: the deep satisfaction and excitement from learning the most important things in life, i.e. those pertaining to pain. I'd cushioned my routine so much that i nigh completely forgotten what pain felt like and how to derive from it an X and anti-X deduction again.
Having about to graduate high school, hopefully i can pick up this lesson again and return myself on the right track. Maybe that should start by closing my phone and going to sleep as it is 1 am right now...
You sound so much older and very much more experienced than a high school graduate to be. You must have unfathomable potential. I hope you will make the best and the most of it. You certainly have a talent for writing.
@@victoryamartin9773 ah why thank you, I know plenty of people legitimately smarter than me and I always have the default assumption that I'm stupid and clueless. Truth be told, i believe I was much smarter 10 years ago than I am now - not wiser perhaps but certainly smarter. But I appreciate the kind compliment. I hope I can utilize this potential as well as you'd hoped, hopefully further beyond even.
_I have tested you in the furnace of affliction_
Imagine living a life without any agonizing, oppressive sort of condition or experience. What stories would you have to share with the world? What resiliences and insights would you be able to wield? What inspiration would you arouse in those who look to your example? While you may skip through life like a well thrown, slick stone, you’ll fail to penetrate the surface of reality, venture down into the darkness, and leave a radiant, resounding ripple from whence you sank.
Depression is like a psychological fever. It’s literally burning the old you away.
Bam!💥 That’s awesome Natalie. Thank you for sharing! 🔥 😊
Old me?
It's always been here
I wish I could have your delusions
Mushrooms do that, too
Great topics covered in your videos. Love your delivery too, so calm and soothing.
I think this is the best video I've seen on this channel, and given it's good content, that is saying a lot. Glad a buddy of mine recommended this channel and thought I'd find it interesting.
I lost my hearing to a head injury at 22. i lost my fiancee,who i loved and loved me back.
I did this exact work, at the recovery..
Its made me unstoppable. Im now a viltrumite, for lack of a better term, but i kind of misplaced my soul.
Throughout this discussion, I kept thinking about the question of whether free will exists. I may not have free will, but my depression has a purpose.
I hope you all find the courage to be a light in the darkness. Never give up! Everything is going to be alright!
By itself?
I think i have some depression right now, and this video might help me, thanks a lot, i love it!
This is just brilliant stuff. Profound. Thank you for this. 😊
This episode is quite profound. I have to ask the following questions. How do I as an individual discover the purpose of my depression. How long does this search last. During that search, how do i retain my sanity. Any and all answers would be greatly appreciated. Thank you and stay blessed...
This vid comes just in time. Thank you 🙏
Your skillful art curating is an art in itself. Thanks you for these beautiful and edifying videos 💜
I really needed this video, thankyou.
I agree with the thesis of this video and take it further into all sorts of negative incidents. I like to call it, Evil's Silver Lining. In my life, injuries, conflicts and depression have been very helpful in accelerating my personal growth. I've learned that taking time to ask the divine consciousness within my heart, "Why has this difficulty emerged?" "What is the lesson?" Surely we can follow our hearts to navigate life most perfectly, however, when we fail to follow the middle path of the heart a good kick in the ass can help us to find our way back to the straight and narrow. One of Jung's associates revealed that he believed in a divine inner consciousness, what I call the Superconscious-Soul. However, he rarely mentioned it and never wrote about it. During his life the inner divine soul was discarded from psychology. This was needed to allow psychology to sit at the table of materialistic science. In spite of that, more recently, materialism is being overturned to place consciousness at the foundation of reality. Even the pioneer of silicon microprocessors, Federico Faggin has become a supporter of a consciousness based reality. Videos featuring his personal transformation can be found on RUclips.
Sobriety greets us with the cold reality that pain and suffering constitute life, most substances and distraction act as a warm numbing agent to the truth of being. To accomplish anything in life requires sacrifice and struggle, yet we innoculate ourselves to forget the hard truths we all must bear to achieve success in any long meaningful endeavour. If you wish to feel good find something worth struggling for, otherwise relinquish yourself to mediocrity, half-assery, inebriation, and self espoused illusion. Find joy, solace, and freedom in meaningful pain, and liberate your mind from perceived dependence on the myriad distractions. The struggle never ends until you draw your last breath. Sober up, suck it up, and move on to find your path of personal virtue, reiterate this mantra and believe you can overcome the obstacles ahead.
sobriety is not that important
depression --> Insomnia --> Survive that shit = reconstruct your DNA --> rebirth of a new corporeal body...
I love how you quote the ogs may they never fade out!!
BACK WITH ANOTHER BANGER ⚔️
God I thank you.
I fully agree with these revelations and have allways maintained my belief in the transformative and autonomous nature of the unconcious.
Depression is the feeling, but the goal is growth and learning. You can be depressed and not learn, just as you dont have to be depressed to learn, but the depression may be the effect of deep learning where much of a person must be burned off. This does not make the thing go away, but it does call attention to it, and the depression may come back if its not rectified.
The goal has and always will be to know what part of you is good and keepable, and what must be discarded.
I'm eternally grateful for ALL of the videos on chis channel! The brothers behind it are true alchemists of truth, love & wisdom.
I wish I could have heard this message 10+ years ago when I was suicidal and felt like there was no hope for me. But even now I still struggle with depression. Not nearly as bad but more like down episodes and sometimes I feel fine too. This whole time I've struggled the most to just accept reality, that I will never get my old self back. But the message that I can transform into something better is something I never thought about. This whole time I felt like I was transforming into a worse version of myself, that depression has made me cynical and not able to trust. I felt like I was forever ruined. Yes I was a happy go lucky kid that turned into cynicism after depression. I'm basically the opposite now. But that's because I was severely naive and thus people took advantage of me for many years until I could not take it anymore. My ability to be more selective now with what people I give my trust to is something I did not have before the depression. So I guess it depends how you look at it. Good or bad? Both? I only could have stayed happy go lucky in a perfect world where people do not manipulate for selfish agendas. So my depression hit me at full force once my world view was shattered, I thought the world was good because I was good and I assumed people were like me. I did not know the concept of greed or manipulation back then. (struggles of being autistic with high morals)
You described my psychological life to a tee, including the autistic conclusion. Amazing.
The best video I have ever watched about depression. Useful, really useful.
Excellent piece!
I really needed this man
Ecclesiastes 7:3 Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.
Been feeling bad for 10 years and I have to say that there is nothing positive about it. It makes you bitter towards life and people and turns your heart into a stone.
@@IN-FactoryI think the Bible means that suffering is more useful than laughter. As the video explains accurately, one can overcome their adversity once they face their suffering head on. Grace out of sorrow is increasingly rare, but a cause for grateful laughter just the same.
@@IN-FactoryBrother, a rock that hardens and hardens becomes brittle, and can be shattered easier. Underneath the rocky exterior is fullness of love.
Contemplate your situation, are you making it worse than it is, how is being negative helping it, what steps are there to be taken?
After that, just focus on your breath, keep coming back to it, let the mind do it's thing, but keep coming back to the breath.
Do this daily and you will be able to sort out your issues, or at least approach them in an impersonal manner.
My depression led me to move to a new city. It has been a very very rough 3 years. I hope i have this self transformation.
Moving cities helped me a lot! Hope it’s going well for you.
So true! If hit rock bottom several times. I'm greatful for those dark days because now the success, happiness and living a great life tastes even better. Stay Uncommon!
Pure Gold.
From childhood we all form a "self" to get through life, as the world is so overwhelming. That self is a supportive structure but temporary, because life changes. At some point the self will constrict us and no longer suffice. Think of the hermit crab, who borrows a shell that fits perfectly. Until one day it doesn't, because he has grown. So he must leave the shell and be fully vulnerable until he can find a new fit.