This is likely the most valuable video yet for those of us who have been left and are in an absolute panic. I now hear someone explaining what my husband cannot to me-and I thank you for this.
Thank you so much for publishing this story. This sounds like mine in so many ways, although we are earlier in the process and roles are reversed. My husband isn’t dealing with grief and caregiver burnout from caring for a terminally I’ll child in a way in which we lean into each other and he instead took me by surprise by asking for a separation and more after 20 years of marriage. I pray we can get to your point and beyond. He attended the workshop with me, but currently voices no interest in reconciliation. Praying to hold onto SMART contact and my PIES and I know they are working for me, I hope they work for us.
Thank you so much IsaacMakana. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on RUclips. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/ Blessings,
She's never let me concentrate on myself. Anything I do that doesn't directly benefit her or the kids is bad, to my wife. I used to have hobbies. I used to have friends. I used to play less guitar in a band. I used to go do things without her. But she guilt-tripped me until I quit all of it ."You were never here!" "You always were more interested in your stuff than me." "You never helped with the kids. You never help with anything!" None of this is true, but to her it is.
I’m sorry to read these Chris, From the experience of Amanda and my own I think one of our biggest problems is not knowing what are healthy boundaries for ourself and within the couple. Focusing first in re finding ourselves maybe will help us see the things from another perspective, also try to understand our spouses perspective too.. I’d really like to get to that! Its already good we’ve found these channel! : ) There’s so much to learn but we’re on the way ! Wish you the best 🙏
A pretty selfish spouse,you're happy when you're partner is happy I would think it's okay to have outside interests and come together still. Toxic just is so selfish in relationships.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
This was a blessing to me today. I needed to hear all this and the encouragement it gave me to do the solo classes and try and find me again instead of having my whole life wrapped up in a man who didn't appreciate me. Thank you so much for sharing and your honesty. I wish you a solid future with your husband and children.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
All these stories are so helpful! It will help me with my experiences and how to cope. PLEASE continue presenting such interviews. It will help hundreds of spouses. Again THANKS!!! P. S. Gemma, you're a great interviewer 😉👍
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
So basically as long as she keeps talking about the weather and Not her emotional needs/her marraige/her feelings her husband is happy to co-exist with her in a weird undefined way. But if she brings up any of that, or the fact that she's keeping herself waiting on his timeline he becomes annoyed/argumentative. Sounds like a him problem to me.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Interesting to hear. I do feel for her but I agree with her initial view since she left she was more the one who should have fixed it. Like…you can’t bail, even if your spouse messes up, and then expect for them to just forgive after she treated him without emotion first.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
There’s no help when we are already divorced..? He told the judge that he did not want counseling for our marriage. So maybe if you can help with marriage counseling then maybe I could ask about divorce counseling?
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
@@halimamustap5671 I am very happy for you… I wish you the absolute best! However, this just isn’t something that “one specific person” can fix…. I just have to move on. But I’m so happy it worked out for you!
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
This doesn't sounds good at all. He emotionally neglected her most of their marriage, she starts to pull away, he gets overly involved but not out of love. Now he is emotionally neglecting her again and telling her she can't control him. She isn't trying to control him but they are married. He doesn't want to fix the marriage and for years she is hanging on by a thread. She is still hanging in there while he is still neglecting her and their marriage. He is a grown adult who needs to face his issues in the marriage and deal with them. He sounds very resentful and bitter, mad at her because she was upset over his emotional neglect in the first place. I'm glad she is working on herself, I am at that point. She is getting dismissed constantly and allowing him to push her boundaries with no consequence.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
If your husband have been for months away, are you sure he’s not meeting his needs with somebody else, like maybe a second family? Just saying because have seen that with many marriages in trouble. You seems like a very nice lady and wish you find real true love.I can’t see any reason why a marriage like yours can survive with all kinds of struggles ,disappointments and heartaches. Maybe just move on and find yourself somebody who will love you, the way you deserve to be love. God help you and take care. By Amelia just move on and find happiness
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
This is likely the most valuable video yet for those of us who have been left and are in an absolute panic. I now hear someone explaining what my husband cannot to me-and I thank you for this.
Thank you so much for publishing this story. This sounds like mine in so many ways, although we are earlier in the process and roles are reversed. My husband isn’t dealing with grief and caregiver burnout from caring for a terminally I’ll child in a way in which we lean into each other and he instead took me by surprise by asking for a separation and more after 20 years of marriage. I pray we can get to your point and beyond. He attended the workshop with me, but currently voices no interest in reconciliation. Praying to hold onto SMART contact and my PIES and I know they are working for me, I hope they work for us.
Thank you so much IsaacMakana. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on RUclips. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
Blessings,
She's never let me concentrate on myself. Anything I do that doesn't directly benefit her or the kids is bad, to my wife. I used to have hobbies. I used to have friends. I used to play less guitar in a band. I used to go do things without her. But she guilt-tripped me until I quit all of it ."You were never here!" "You always were more interested in your stuff than me." "You never helped with the kids. You never help with anything!" None of this is true, but to her it is.
I’m sorry to read these Chris,
From the experience of Amanda and my own I think one of our biggest problems is not knowing what are healthy boundaries for ourself and within the couple.
Focusing first in re finding ourselves maybe will help us see the things from another perspective, also try to understand our spouses perspective too..
I’d really like to get to that!
Its already good we’ve found these channel! : )
There’s so much to learn but we’re on the way !
Wish you the best 🙏
A pretty selfish spouse,you're happy when you're partner is happy I would think it's okay to have outside interests and come together still. Toxic just is so selfish in relationships.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
Hey Man...are we married to the same woman lol
Self love is 🔑 key, my friend an older woman always said "I don't want someone that doesn't want me"!! I guess that pretty much says it all.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
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This was a blessing to me today. I needed to hear all this and the encouragement it gave me to do the solo classes and try and find me again instead of having my whole life wrapped up in a man who didn't appreciate me. Thank you so much for sharing and your honesty. I wish you a solid future with your husband and children.
So cool to see Amanda on the show! Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable 💖
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
All these stories are so helpful! It will help me with my experiences and how to cope. PLEASE continue presenting such interviews. It will help hundreds of spouses. Again THANKS!!! P. S. Gemma, you're a great interviewer 😉👍
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
So basically as long as she keeps talking about the weather and Not her emotional needs/her marraige/her feelings her husband is happy to co-exist with her in a weird undefined way. But if she brings up any of that, or the fact that she's keeping herself waiting on his timeline he becomes annoyed/argumentative. Sounds like a him problem to me.
Bravo lady.wise.composed.inspiration❤️✌️...what she is telling I know all ....she is brave.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
This is heartbreaking. Hope Amanda will find true love. You deserve so much better - and glad you're on the path to finding that out 💕
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
Interesting to hear. I do feel for her but I agree with her initial view since she left she was more the one who should have fixed it. Like…you can’t bail, even if your spouse messes up, and then expect for them to just forgive after she treated him without emotion first.
Such a beautiful testimony. I've heard it takes two to tango. I now believe it takes three to tango- wife, husband, and God.....
The Key is making good memories for yourself. It is contagious.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
There’s no help when we are already divorced..? He told the judge that he did not want counseling for our marriage. So maybe if you can help with marriage counseling then maybe I could ask about divorce counseling?
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
@@halimamustap5671 I am very happy for you… I wish you the absolute best! However, this just isn’t something that “one specific person” can fix…. I just have to move on. But I’m so happy it worked out for you!
Thank you this was perfect
I asked my wife for a divorce… and she still wants to control me.
This is me right now !
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
This doesn't sounds good at all. He emotionally neglected her most of their marriage, she starts to pull away, he gets overly involved but not out of love. Now he is emotionally neglecting her again and telling her she can't control him. She isn't trying to control him but they are married. He doesn't want to fix the marriage and for years she is hanging on by a thread. She is still hanging in there while he is still neglecting her and their marriage. He is a grown adult who needs to face his issues in the marriage and deal with them. He sounds very resentful and bitter, mad at her because she was upset over his emotional neglect in the first place. I'm glad she is working on herself, I am at that point. She is getting dismissed constantly and allowing him to push her boundaries with no consequence.
This sounds so much like my story
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
IF HE Doesn't see you for months at a time I would wonder if he is getting his needs met elsewhere. Just saying...check it out .
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝
If your husband have been for months away, are you sure he’s not meeting his needs with somebody else, like maybe a second family? Just saying
because have seen that with many marriages in trouble. You seems like a very nice lady and wish you find real true love.I can’t see any reason why
a marriage like yours can survive with all kinds of struggles ,disappointments and heartaches. Maybe just move on and find yourself somebody
who will love you, the way you deserve to be love. God help you and take care. By Amelia
just move on and find happiness
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..
十2348170575769♻️♻️🎦🚻识你..
Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝