How To Stand For Your Marriage Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @mgoodlin1
    @mgoodlin1 4 года назад +296

    I don't know if you will see this but I want to thank you. Most of all for helping me keep hope alive. I was separated for nearly 4 months. My wife comes back TODAY!!! I didn't do it perfect but I followed your PIES. Made changes to myself to stop being controlling. Your advice WORKS. My Wife was slow to see the changes but she did a 180 and is coming back home today to stay. Your videos really kept me going during some dark days. Thank you for helping me with hope and to not give up!.

  • @clintmiller8579
    @clintmiller8579 3 года назад +149

    I’m standing for my marriage. I need tons of prayers! I’m not giving up. I don’t think she is either. We talk everyday, we text everyday, I believe God will save my marriage. I need everyone here to pray for me and Lacey!

    • @odiagodwin7325
      @odiagodwin7325 3 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who restore my marriage back within two days after two years of separation ???

    • @odiagodwin7325
      @odiagodwin7325 3 года назад

      +2348084512925

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB 3 года назад +2

      🙏

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 3 года назад +4

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    • @janetterodriguez71
      @janetterodriguez71 2 года назад +2

      Praying for u guys

  • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks
    @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks 2 года назад +49

    I'm standing alone for my marriage. It's been seven months and she is finally starting some marriage counseling. I returned to church, started working on myself. Please pray for our family of four 🙏

    • @ameliajones8727
      @ameliajones8727 2 года назад

      ✛2347030894892(☉。☉)!!!

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Wha'tsapp him for help

    • @LavenderGardenia
      @LavenderGardenia Год назад

      How are things going brother?

    • @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks
      @TimMillernapavalleyfilmworks Год назад

      @@LavenderGardenia unfortunately divorced but hopeful to find someone new!

  • @katiebr
    @katiebr 4 года назад +167

    This channel is my last and only hope , very inspiring! For those who are standing for your marriage, like me, you’re not standing alone, Christ is standing with you! This morning I cried to God that I’m done with this husband!! I’m tired to try... but when I watch this I have a little hope, the best Channel and professionals I’ve ever seen!!! hard to do it, so hard!’ God help us all!!!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  4 года назад +6

      Katie, thank you for the kind words. You are NOT alone. We're here to help you.

    • @eliezerespinosa3130
      @eliezerespinosa3130 4 года назад +5

      I needed to hear this! Im standing. God bless

    • @deniseboynton7913
      @deniseboynton7913 4 года назад +4

      Amen!! It is so hard but I am standing for my marriage too

    • @dr.inglishmorgan6952
      @dr.inglishmorgan6952 4 года назад +1

      This is soo helpful.

    • @deehodge5947
      @deehodge5947 4 года назад

      Your phone number doesn't work

  • @tyrinp6882
    @tyrinp6882 3 года назад +142

    The most painful thing is to stand alone for a marriage when your partner doesn’t care😢

  • @johnmshaw49
    @johnmshaw49 4 года назад +129

    Been standing for two-and-a-half years. I have no intention of stopping

    • @kimjd2
      @kimjd2 4 года назад +5

      John Shaw Me too! Almost 2 years! 💪🏼

    • @angelinabaranova2099
      @angelinabaranova2099 4 года назад +4

      Pathetic

    • @St.Irenaeus
      @St.Irenaeus 4 года назад +27

      @@angelinabaranova2099 your comment is pathetic

    • @St.Irenaeus
      @St.Irenaeus 4 года назад +5

      Good for you john god bless i hope your marriage thrives

    • @jefflep1
      @jefflep1 4 года назад +4

      I love this. Thank you!!!

  • @MemphisBBQ640
    @MemphisBBQ640 Год назад +9

    "...truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.” --Matthew 17:20

    • @robina3443
      @robina3443 10 месяцев назад

      AMEN!!!!

    • @robina3443
      @robina3443 10 месяцев назад

      ✝️🔯

    • @Originalman360
      @Originalman360 9 месяцев назад

      Sounds exactly like what the Quran says 🙏🏾

  • @mattcastro1093
    @mattcastro1093 4 года назад +67

    My wife wants out of the marriage. I do understand why. I wasn't the best husband or parent. I've realized that too late. Prayers well needed here. I don't want to lose my family...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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    • @thebossupacademy7261
      @thebossupacademy7261 3 года назад +7

      How come y’all never wanna do right until you get left ?

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 3 года назад +1

      @@thebossupacademy7261 demonic strongholds

  • @mrhunterf2869
    @mrhunterf2869 4 года назад +30

    Thank you so much Kimberley my wife and I have been married 8 years and she left me August last year. I'm a Christian and I'm believing God to help me. I'm not going to stop standing for my marriage.

  • @MarkieMcG.
    @MarkieMcG. 2 года назад +14

    I stood. Let my ego go and acknowledged my part in it. We're better than ever. Passion, love, and forgiveness is abundant here.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 года назад

      That's amazing!!! So glad things are working out! Let us know if there's anything else we can do for you!

  • @OhStewardess
    @OhStewardess 3 года назад +30

    I have been standing for four months now, and I plan to STAND for however long it takes!

    • @codemonkeyguru6779
      @codemonkeyguru6779 3 года назад +3

      I've been standing for my marriage for a month. My wife is cold and distant when we're alone but happy when we are surrounded by our children.

    • @ted2136
      @ted2136 2 года назад

      @@codemonkeyguru6779 good on you! Any advice for me! I am 4+ months in. And working on me. Struggling with the do something.any ideas from your perspective?

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 2 года назад

      How’s your marriage going?

  • @aforjesus2413
    @aforjesus2413 3 года назад +48

    Pray for me and my marriage, as I want to stand for my marriage and wish everyone here a blessing to you all. NZ Wellington loves you all.

  • @pumkinlove6056
    @pumkinlove6056 4 года назад +53

    I whole heartly believe my marriage will be saved. It's just extremely difficult to not be impulsive. The waiting process is very lonely. Thank you sharing the advice. I was extremely lost but now at least I know where to start. Prayers for all whom are here. God and love conquer all.🙏🙏🙏💕

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB 3 года назад

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @sunshineorraiin
      @sunshineorraiin 3 года назад +5

      How is your marriage now? Did it get saved? I’m currently on 2.5 weeks of a separation, and I’m terrified. Trying to have faith in God.

    • @jerryanddiannedennison5644
      @jerryanddiannedennison5644 2 года назад

      @@BdDaBOMB sir, you do need help if what you think the way you stated. Don't give up. Keep studying and listening to these marriage help coaching videos. Best wishes.

  • @shannonvest2599
    @shannonvest2599 Год назад +7

    My husband left me a couple weeks ago he suffers with PTSD and other trauma related disorders. He always says it’s me but in my heart I know it’s his own pain and trauma. I am working on myself and trying to be the wife he needs me to be to deal with all of this but it is so hard when he thinks getting away from a 30 year marriage is the only answer. I’m giving him space and it’s so hard, we have leaned on one and other for everything for so long. My daughter is 14 and it’s just so hard to watch her go through this with us. Please pray for our family. I do believe we will be reconciled, it’s just so hard in the meantime

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Год назад

      Hey @shannonvest2599, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @jjwiggs28
    @jjwiggs28 Год назад +7

    Im going to stand for my marriage. It will be an uphill battle as I wasn't a good husband, lover or father. I'm turning to God and entering Celebrate Recovery to heal and love myself again. I ask for prayer for my journey. Thank you in advance. 🙏

    • @veronicahancock3245
      @veronicahancock3245 6 месяцев назад

      How are you doing? Still going to Celebrate Recovery? Hope all is well 😊

  • @saraszerlag6916
    @saraszerlag6916 4 года назад +30

    I feel like Kimberly was talking directly to me in this video. This is so hard. But I’m going to be strong, calm, and gentle. I’m all I got right now, and if he comes back, I will be his safe place to land.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  4 года назад +5

      Sara, we know that it can be painful. But, there IS hope. You can do this!

  • @denisecabral3511
    @denisecabral3511 4 года назад +62

    I have been standing for my marriage, prayers and changing myself with Gods help

    • @lipinghe4921
      @lipinghe4921 4 года назад +3

      May God heal both of you and restore your marriage in Jesus’s name.

    • @makhrr30
      @makhrr30 4 года назад +2

      Don't give up!

    • @nicolefae1956
      @nicolefae1956 4 года назад +2

      How’s it going?

    • @makhrr30
      @makhrr30 4 года назад

      Just improve yourself.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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  • @cindycastaneda320
    @cindycastaneda320 4 года назад +33

    So much prayer. Main hurdle is when we take several steps forward and then he pulls back. Another setback is passage of time as it’s hard to stay hopeful the more time that passes and the more that we both get used to being apart. Thank you for this story of hope.

  • @AlexMartinez-dy6qs
    @AlexMartinez-dy6qs Год назад +4

    I moved out yesterday. I'm going to be standing alone for my marriage. I will begin the process of healing and recovery. I need prayers please.

  • @nbholladay
    @nbholladay 4 года назад +27

    There are multiple good suggestions in this video. It occurred to me that one thing that can change us most and that leads us to do the things she has mentioned here is charity-- selfless love: "charity suffereth long, and is kind... seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil...hopeth all things, endureth all things". I am still in the middle of my own crisis, but as she said, I know that at least I have changed. My love for God and others is increasing. I have realized that past mistakes and problems with handling things is that I have been focused on myself rather than them.

  • @joeygavronsky635
    @joeygavronsky635 4 года назад +17

    I am praying for my marriage daily..she just ended it 2 weeks ago... I know praying is what I need to do ,we all need to pray for what we want God to do a work in but like a farmer praying for rain is not enough without preparing that field with seeds first ... if we really expect God to do a work in our marriage we must prepare while praying..is there anything God cant fix if we prepare the way as we ask for his help daily.. and then we must say to him God even if my marriage doesn't succeed to where I want it I will still follow you lord.. because in the light of Eternity these worldly things won't matter either way.. most important thing we need to do right now is work on pleasing the God who made you..

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my love back to me after separation...

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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  • @sunshineorraiin
    @sunshineorraiin 3 года назад +4

    I have been dealing with the temptation to just give up since he left. I don’t want that. I don’t want my marriage to end. I keep reading the Bible to help me, but I’m so absorbed in how I’m feeling that I lose sight on what is important. I feel like I’m becoming bitter and I’m trying to stop that seed from growing.

  • @janetcorpin9765
    @janetcorpin9765 2 года назад +6

    I've been standing alone with God to save our marriage for 23 years. I have no plan of giving up. I just come and listen to this video everytime it's difficult for me to handle. I know God is speaking to me through you marriage helper. Thank you.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

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  • @marvinrichardsonj.r.6979
    @marvinrichardsonj.r.6979 Год назад +2

    I'm 2 weeks away from the marriage intensive and can't wait as I'm standing for my marriage alone.

  • @dicemimics38
    @dicemimics38 Год назад +3

    I am standing alone for my marriage these videos are helping. I wish I had the money to take the courses. Please send prayers as I work to make the hard changes. I did all of the things you said not to do and they do not work.

  • @neighbors_pta3239
    @neighbors_pta3239 Год назад +4

    Today starts when I choose to stand for my marriage when everything feels so hopeless and impossible.

  • @Tngirl1980
    @Tngirl1980 4 года назад +14

    I felt like Kimberly was talking directly to me. Im working so hard to save my marriage, if he decides to come back this will be his safe place. Thanks so much for all your videos.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB 3 года назад

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @ghhm2705
      @ghhm2705 3 года назад +1

      Why are there identical comments like this one posted by different users? Bot much?

  • @deniseboynton7913
    @deniseboynton7913 4 года назад +11

    I am so happy I found this channel. I am in that place -my identity seems to be wrapped up in my husband and I want to be a better version of myself for me, my kids and of course to save my marriage. ❤️ God bless you for doing these videos-that last story made me cry 😭 of course watching your videos makes me cry.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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  • @jeffryanpangatungan4868
    @jeffryanpangatungan4868 3 года назад +8

    Thank you. I am fighting my marriage life on my own. Still hoping that one day everything will come back to normal.

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

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      @ghhm2705 3 года назад

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  • @tomculbertson5569
    @tomculbertson5569 3 года назад +4

    I wish I had found your help videos before I had made and done so many of the things I shouldn't be doing. At least I have found them now and am very thankful there is someone like you that genuinely is looking to help people save their marriages. Thank you so much for all your heart felt advise. You've given me and others the tools needed to possibly save our marriages and at the very least become a better version of ourselves. Sincerely thank you!

  • @mace2gorc872
    @mace2gorc872 Год назад +1

    I needed to hear the lady's story today. My situation really feels hopeless. My wife recently told me some very hurtful things on top of reminding me of many of the bad things i did. My situation isnt even as bad as some of these stories, but my wife wants nothing to with reconciliation. It hurts and im doing my best to stand for my marriage, but some days i feel i juat cant go on.

  • @mariw2185
    @mariw2185 4 года назад +42

    This was amazing! It made me feel excited again! Either way it goes I’ll be alright! ♥️

  • @TrashyJayys
    @TrashyJayys Год назад

    I’m glad that I came across this video, I was so selfish in my marriage with my goals and made my wife feel inadequate. We are now separated, but through this month in a half of separation and reflection I realized that I was in the wrong and I want to save my marriage. Right now she doesn’t seem to want it, however I’m holding out faith that in the end that it’ll work. I’m still in love with her and I couldn’t see it then, but I do now. Thank you for the advice!

  • @ryanrobertson8951
    @ryanrobertson8951 Год назад

    Listening to these gives me hope. Even if it's unrealistic hope, I'll take whatever keeps me from giving up on my life.

  • @bendudavies3368
    @bendudavies3368 9 месяцев назад

    I was just giving up.trying to tell my partner that I need a divorce tomorrow.but I was looking for a way to present it.then I came to ur video that just changed my mind.thanks so much I'm watching from Liberia

  • @andrewm2459
    @andrewm2459 2 года назад +3

    This is very encouraging. Currently separated and the future is unknown. But this is so helpful if the marriage dissolves or not. These are all good practices to have to just be a better person

  • @alanpyropyro7707
    @alanpyropyro7707 2 года назад +1

    I am Watching this Video And I will stand of For My Marriage and give my Partner Time 💪 . Time will tell I won't give up

  • @RichardTClark396
    @RichardTClark396 2 года назад +2

    I’m doing it ! my spouse filed after 30 years right out of the blue I’m devestated but I take wedding vows serious . It takes two to make it work but at moment I’m all alone . Absolutely devastated!😢

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 года назад

      Hey Elizabeth Coburg, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @komododragon4242
    @komododragon4242 3 года назад +1

    After watching this video I realized how selfish I was. My wife is terrible with money, but she is my wife. I gave her an allowance. I now realized how demeaning that was to her.
    That allowance started pushing her away.
    I'll put to work the other suggestions and update this post.
    I love her so much.

  • @sherrybyrd9419
    @sherrybyrd9419 3 года назад +5

    Having hope during this difficult time means everything. Thank you for your videos.

  • @royrodgers567
    @royrodgers567 Год назад +2

    I'm 6 months in and so far the worst parts are waiting, loneliness in the bed, fighting the thoughts of what "they" are doing, talking with her on the phone and hearing him right next to her, most of the time she won't talk unless her AP is right there, and more waiting.

  • @caydewalker9449
    @caydewalker9449 4 года назад +2

    Been married for over 3 years. My wife filed for divorce while being deployed. I’m standing for my marriage. It’s hard. I’m not going to lie. It hit me hard, it hit me out of nowhere, I worked nonstop every day and took care of our child by myself. These videos are helping me keep focus. She dropped it on me on our 3rd anniversary. Not religious. I’m wanting our marriage because it’s what I believe is the best for my child, wife and myself.

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      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

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      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

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  • @kimjd2
    @kimjd2 4 года назад +8

    Thanks for another great video! My marriage has been “over” nearly 2 years now. What a twisted mess! A story of husband being in limerance with a narcissist 😔. But I have hope.... once in a while I get glimpses and I refuse to quit standing. 💪🏼🙏

  • @RickyGraham-v9c
    @RickyGraham-v9c Год назад +2

    My wife is in a relationship but I'm standing tall she wants to be friends and work on our selves had to go with that idea now we talk

  • @geraldbannan434
    @geraldbannan434 2 года назад +5

    Not giving up on my marriage but it feels like I'm fighting a losing battle

  • @eveleneevelene
    @eveleneevelene 2 года назад +3

    This video gave me a whole new perspective about HOPE. Thank you for sharing, I am so blessed by the testimony

  • @chrisburton5584
    @chrisburton5584 3 года назад +1

    I am standing for our marriage.

  • @williambernaby7523
    @williambernaby7523 2 года назад +3

    Thank you. You are doing such a wonderful job saving marriages. Mine is on the brink of a divorce but am trusting on God to restore. God bless..

    • @estheragbo6153
      @estheragbo6153 2 года назад

      Hello this really works for me. I know of a man| who helped me bring my ex back, he can aIso heIp you, he does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @estheragbo6153
      @estheragbo6153 2 года назад

      Wh'atsap him for heIp

    • @googlecritic2773
      @googlecritic2773 2 года назад

      How’s your marriage going?

  • @EagleVireo
    @EagleVireo Год назад +2

    I’m on the brink of divorce, I have made some mistakes that I’m trying to atone for, my wife is not cooperating and is already moved on and dating other people. I can say I have a little flicker of hope.

  • @michellesooklal4111
    @michellesooklal4111 4 года назад +2

    I have been standing for my marriage and will continue too

  • @michaelhammermeister1655
    @michaelhammermeister1655 4 года назад +3

    I have had an affair, I have lied, I have cheated. We "worked" past it then everything became an issue. She finally asked for space. Found out she is now seeing another guy. I am changing, found my religion again, seeing a therapist. I am changing to be a better man, I am changing to be the man she and my kids deserve. I am standing alone, I will continue to stand and will always stand no matter what. Thank you for your wise words!

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my love back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      What.sApp him...

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

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  • @joeyfisher68
    @joeyfisher68 3 года назад +5

    I have been seeing a therapist and grooming better . .have been separated. . .and went anxiety crazy n pushed her far away, now I have moved out but went over and held her when she had a very rough day . She wants to be friends but saving the marriage is not on the table . .nights alone are the worst . .can't eat can't sleep . And have to force myself to minimize contact all the time . .I wish I had a sign that there was hope

    • @cassielindsey4970
      @cassielindsey4970 3 года назад

      Hello 👋👋....
      I can recommend you to a man who bring my husband back within two days...

    • @cassielindsey4970
      @cassielindsey4970 3 года назад

      + 2 3 4 8 0 8 4 5 1 2 9 2 5

  • @Michele-xi1zg
    @Michele-xi1zg 3 года назад +4

    Been listening to your videos since my husband of 39 years moved out and wants a divorce. I want to save our marriage and listening to your advice gives me hope. Praying everyday that God gives me the strength to go on. I know he is with me always. Working on my Pies and want to thank you so much for your words of encouragement.

  • @JacobHerrman-sh4dz
    @JacobHerrman-sh4dz 5 месяцев назад +1

    Stand on it. Until it's gone

  • @torres7918
    @torres7918 4 года назад +16

    wow, I'm going through this right now, I am 40 years old and have been with my wife since i was 17.5 years old, 6 months ago she tells me she wants to separate, I went ape shit ,because I have been with her 22.5 years and my identity is tied to her, i have no idea how to move forward and i do not want to i still love her and have feelings for her, is been 6 months and 6 days, i am very depressed and have lost 59lbs, we communicate because of the kids, but it is the worst thing I have ever gone through, my life seem awesome before all this, life was great. now I'm lost without her and want happiness again in my life but it doesn't seem possible.

    • @Inkpuls_Content_Solution
      @Inkpuls_Content_Solution 4 года назад +4

      It's the worst feeling ever, am going thru the same staff right now

    • @jeroenboekhoorn
      @jeroenboekhoorn 4 года назад +2

      Focus on God and the plans he has for your life. I’m a stander too but God can turn around this awful situation and bring her back but you have to thrust him

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios 3 года назад +1

      Gerald same here. she met someone at 48 at work and acts like she doesnt know me now. The identity comment you made opened my eyes maybe thats the problem.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад +1

      @@efthimios ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my wife back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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  • @papichuloishere9811
    @papichuloishere9811 4 года назад +11

    Thank you for putting videos like these out

  • @singingspree84
    @singingspree84 4 года назад +4

    Read “it is not suppose to be this way.” It will help with dealing with grief and acceptance from a Christian perspective.

  • @freddavidson286
    @freddavidson286 10 месяцев назад

    Father im not giving up on my marriage it is in your hands please heal and change has only you can

  • @eriks3883
    @eriks3883 4 года назад +4

    I have needed this validation for focusing on others so badly. Thank you.

  • @felipevillegas1031
    @felipevillegas1031 3 года назад +3

    I'm standing for our marriage alone. I'm defending the divorce petition of my wife in court!
    I do believed something wrong with my wife mental and emotional health because if self neglect.

    • @clintmiller8579
      @clintmiller8579 3 года назад +2

      Keep working my friend. God will save your marriage with prayer and hard work. I, myself, am in counseling for my emotional Heath issue. Just have faith and pray for your wife!

    • @felipevillegas1031
      @felipevillegas1031 3 года назад +1

      @@clintmiller8579 I won't loose hope!
      I love my family!I need to protect my kids!
      I'm away from home,anyway so no need to
      approved the divorce petition!
      I believe my wife will be enlighten in time,
      I'm not doing this for myself,it's for our kids
      and our family!GOD has its own way!
      Nothing is impossible to HIM!

  • @Kelly-ps3ci
    @Kelly-ps3ci 4 года назад +4

    Brings me to tears each time I hear the story of the one that waited 4 years. Standing is hard, long at times but I know it will be worth it. This may seem weird but I love my H more each day during my stand.

  • @deepikaraj6866
    @deepikaraj6866 3 года назад +1

    I stand for my marriage...

  • @coachkelly116
    @coachkelly116 2 года назад +1

    He says he is done, has removed his ring and filing next pay-day. He says I snapped out of my depression too late and doing all he has ever wanted me to do only shows we can amicably share custody. I told him I still keep praying and believing for reconciliation. He says he can't stop me from praying but it's too late. I told him it is never too late.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 года назад

      Hey Coach Kelly, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Because of the complexity of this situation, we would strongly advise you reach out to us directly! You can call us at 1 (866) 903 0990 and be connected with one of our Client Representatives who will guide you to the best resources we have available for your situation. You can also schedule the call yourself for a time that works best for you by following this link: marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
      We look forward to speaking with you directly if you will allow it!

  • @stevennorris9575
    @stevennorris9575 3 года назад +3

    Obviously it hasn't been easy to stand humbly vulnerable for redemption and possible reconciliation of the marriage I once had with my ex-wife for the glory of God,and ministry of healing.Though I know that I've been working on being rest assured from love in God.

  • @nolayupsgolf716
    @nolayupsgolf716 3 года назад +2

    These videos have helped me so much today. Today the real fight begins. I'm not ready to let go

    • @okayshe8681
      @okayshe8681 3 года назад

      I know of a man who can help you get your ex back because he have help me to get my ex back.....

    • @okayshe8681
      @okayshe8681 3 года назад

      Text him
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      @okayshe8681 3 года назад

      +2 3 4 8 1 7 0 7 5 1 6 9 0

  • @ahindle78
    @ahindle78 4 года назад +8

    My husband has been in another state living with this women for 4 months now and I am working on myself but when he does text or I text back about finances or the dog he is still short and cold. The girlfriend is still playing games on social media as well but I ignore it. I pray multiple times a day for him to come home

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад +1

      ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my love back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      What.sApp him..

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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  • @dawnlapka3782
    @dawnlapka3782 2 года назад

    I can't tell you if he wants out or not. I can only say that these things that you are saying are in line with my Faith Values and that trying to be the best that I can be now before we get married, because hoping that things work out is better than becoming a hermit. This is my 2nd marital partner in my life. I know that he's the right person for me.

  • @chrisburton5584
    @chrisburton5584 3 года назад +3

    I believe our marriage is worth saving.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      ___
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my love back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      What.sApp him..

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

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  • @SRave69
    @SRave69 2 года назад +1

    Breathed a little life back into with this. My wife has said she doesn't want that marriage back. And neither do I. That marriage was no good for either of us. I want new and improved. She has recently filed change of address taking over her own bills and so on. That hurt. That tells me shes out. And moving on. But I'm not. She hasn't filed yet. So like to believe there's a slim chance. But still preparing for the other outcome

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 2 года назад

      My ex came back to me a few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back. Also attracting SP, soulmate, and removing Third parties which works within 48hours...

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 2 года назад

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  • @valclub479
    @valclub479 4 года назад +4

    Better advice for me then PIES. Thank you

  • @treschicmama6293
    @treschicmama6293 3 года назад +6

    This is really the advise I needed right now. Especially in times when I feel like giving up

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

      Hello to whom it may concern I can recommend you to someone that helped me fix my broken marriage and he can also help you as he did mine too ✅✅🇺🇸🇺🇸

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

      Whtspp for help

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      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

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  • @queenjosannedouglas3038
    @queenjosannedouglas3038 3 года назад +1

    Yessssssss because Of the environment I am living in and the influence of toxic People they walked out on me seriously and Truthfully

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

      Hello someone that helped me restore back my broken marriage and he can also help you as he did mine too

    • @euliebernette4108
      @euliebernette4108 3 года назад

      Whtspp him

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  • @juanmadera5180
    @juanmadera5180 4 года назад +11

    Im standind alone for marriage... my wife have separeted from me since 4/1/2020..... and i miss her so much... i cant even have fun. I try yesterday and just kept thinking on my wife... and then i have to go to an empty apartment.

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      ____
      I recommend you to someone who helped me attract my wife back to me after separation...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      What.sApp him..

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

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    • @robina3443
      @robina3443 10 месяцев назад

      I feel the going to an empty apartment - it is the worst.

  • @biblefirst5691
    @biblefirst5691 Год назад

    I will stay calm .. I will fight through this by the Grace and Power of God I will change.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Год назад

      Hey @biblefirst5691, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
      bit.ly/3FAr9Vg

    • @biblefirst5691
      @biblefirst5691 Год назад

      @@MarriageHelper Yes I have ! It was great. Thank you for contacting me and reaching out.

    • @biblefirst5691
      @biblefirst5691 Год назад

      @@MarriageHelper Is their a phone number to talk to a coach for advice?

  • @missthang4982
    @missthang4982 9 дней назад

    I'm exhausted. It's lonely in here. Worse thing ever is not being alone but being married to someone who makes you feel like you are.

  • @deborahpaul5227
    @deborahpaul5227 Год назад +2

    18 months separated with no financial support so my life is work & paying bills. except for going to work & church, I can’t go anywhere bc don’t have $. So I’m stuck home by myself in the house & bed I shared with H with only tv. H wants nothing to do with me.

  • @emiliardrichard4095
    @emiliardrichard4095 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for giving me hope i'm trying to stay possitif and be strong but it's very hard your video's inspires me to keep fighting

  • @bryguy4golf
    @bryguy4golf 4 месяца назад

    My wife and I are separating. Im moving out this week. She wants to move on and start dating. I refuse to quit. Im going to give her the space she wants and work on becoming better. I want my family back and i don't care what it takes.

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m feeling very tired to be honest

  • @papijay84
    @papijay84 3 года назад +2

    I am standing right now for a few weeks, it's been really difficult since she seem to be grossed by me and my voice, I've been praying for it and my kids but it can be overwhelming and I'm afraid that it is going to be longer than I can think.

  • @EricaPinkLady
    @EricaPinkLady 4 года назад +6

    Yes, I'm stuck trying to get myself out of it.

    • @calgal7828
      @calgal7828 4 года назад

      Erica Hermann Me too...

    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      @@calgal7828 ___
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    • @bailynewcity2069
      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      What.sApp him...

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      @bailynewcity2069 3 года назад

      Thanks__ +2348119132200.

    • @calgal7828
      @calgal7828 3 года назад

      @@bailynewcity2069 Thanks but no thanks.I got him back but I’m sorry I did!

  • @floroseguillermo9533
    @floroseguillermo9533 4 года назад +2

    wow....thank you ma'am..God will fight for you..

  • @rpjcpa
    @rpjcpa 4 года назад +3

    This is so helpful. It came at the right time for me. Thanks Marriage Helper!!

  • @Inkpuls_Content_Solution
    @Inkpuls_Content_Solution 4 года назад +2

    It's the worst feeling ever, standing alone for my marriage, this really hurts, but am not giving up or her, not at all

  • @MrNormandaniel
    @MrNormandaniel 8 месяцев назад

    My wife took my whole life, my kids, her side of the family, all my money, I saw last week she’s already selling anniversary jewelry I bought her, left every gift I made or gave her since highschool and left it all in a storage unit we share out of town 13:01

  • @sisterstaketoo1981
    @sisterstaketoo1981 3 года назад +2

    The people here standing for your marriage are you the ones that cheated? Is there a reason that you are standing now, what happened? Right now my husband wants us to stay together after his infidelity and I am so depressed I can’t think straight. My first thought is to stay but all my other thoughts are about leaving

    • @ryanbates7259
      @ryanbates7259 2 года назад

      Hey there, I'm a volunteer with Marriage Helper. Marriage Helper sees couples and people from all sides of conflict, both those who have had an affair and those who are standing in spite of their spouse's affair. One question members are encouraged to ask themselves is "Is my spouse a good person doing/who did a bad thing, or just a bad person?" The answer to this can help direct you. It absolutely is possible to heal from this event, reconcile, and THRIVE after it, but it's not without effort. We often say it's a marathon and not a sprint. Here's another good video explaining why people cheat and some questions to ask about "what do I do now": ruclips.net/video/RmuISMPe4vo/видео.html

  • @minmyochit6689
    @minmyochit6689 3 года назад +2

    Thanks a lot for this advice.

  • @vidasnyder
    @vidasnyder 3 года назад +2

    Thank you! I am encouraged! ❤️

  • @darinhannay1324
    @darinhannay1324 3 года назад +1

    I love you all and I will pray for all of you because like you i also need to be a better husband and father.....I'm not giving up either

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      ±2348119132200⏭⏭
      WHAR'SAP HIM.

  • @AllStarFilms
    @AllStarFilms 7 месяцев назад +1

    How do you deal with the pain and loneliness while standing for a couple of years

  • @gracenowases345
    @gracenowases345 3 года назад

    @3:42. I've been standing through all this alone for my marriage

  • @josephdupreez9186
    @josephdupreez9186 2 года назад +1

    My wife of 12 years asked for a break. I thought all was great and we were even playfully arguing the day before about who loves each other more. Then she asked for a break, she made friends with another man and chatting to him the whole time before she asked for a break. Things now seem to escalate quickly between them. What do I do?????? I feel broken and lost. I love her with all that I am.....we also have a 9yr daughter. I am not strong enough to deal with it.....

  • @laraelawrence9451
    @laraelawrence9451 3 года назад +1

    30 years of a distant, cold, marriage tried everything.
    Counseling, retreats, separations.
    Unloving marriage sux!!!!

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 3 года назад

      ±2348119132200⏭⏭
      WHAR'SAP HIM.

  • @stevenkilage4920
    @stevenkilage4920 2 года назад +1

    Thank you this has really helped me love ❤️ you I will work on myself and let my wife come back when she's ready

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 2 года назад

      I'm so happy having my former partner back, after being separated 💔 for months. All thanks to Mr Steve whom helped me to get back my ex again, Also he attract soulmate and SP, removing third party. I will suggest y'all to get help from him and it works within 48hours

    • @joanwater2050
      @joanwater2050 2 года назад

      Whatsaap him"**

  • @wheelmangames5366
    @wheelmangames5366 4 года назад +1

    My wife and i were just starting to change and reconcile..
    But when her mom came to live with us, all she has done is fill my whole family, children included, WITH LIES!!!
    Getting teamed up by them every day for every little this is costing me my sanity....
    But.....
    I. AM. STANDING. FOR. MY. MARRIAGE!!!!!!!...

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

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  • @Celestin566
    @Celestin566 Год назад

    Thank you this gives me hope to keep standing for my marriage. Is there a video of the woman you shared her testimony. I would like to hear the woman testimony and how she got through.

    • @mwjc2
      @mwjc2 Год назад

      Yes, me too; how can we hear from that woman? That is way too close to my situation as well.

  • @LarsLasse
    @LarsLasse 2 года назад

    A month ago, my wife asked for a divorce. Since then, I have been working on improving myself. I must become the best version of myself for myself and my kids. But at times, I feel lost, alone. Will she find love for me again? I don't know, but I hope against hope.

  • @ingridaccount
    @ingridaccount 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Marriage Helper!

  • @genasoriano559
    @genasoriano559 4 года назад +3

    Thank you very much for helping us with your powerful positive video messages in Marriage. I really love your advice.

    • @BdDaBOMB
      @BdDaBOMB 3 года назад

      I'm of the younger generation, as a Male I am uncertain how to put some wisdom in the wife & oversee and letting her do what she's going to do because no one will instruct me on what are the Wholistic ways to use a woman & what are her true roles?
      Forgive the baseness of my concern but it is foundational to seek to know this.

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......

    • @halimataliyu3316
      @halimataliyu3316 2 года назад

      Whatsazzz him👇👇👇

  • @sheelaraj9645
    @sheelaraj9645 4 года назад +3

    GOD BLESS YOU 🙌& UR TEAM🙌🙏