My husband left 10 months ago. I did all the things she mentioned cried, begged, fought, etc… Recently I have just accepted this might be my future alone. I backed off,but still made my self available to talk. I stopped yelling and crying. I have seen a change. Recently he told me he missed me , the first time in 10 months. Praying healing on our broken hearts. Praying healing on all your broken hearts.
He’s never stopped thinking of you. Mending a marriage takes so much time and the waiting is so hard. As the betrayed spouse we are at the mercy of someone else. After I saw positive changes in my husband, telling me he wanted to come home, moving some things back, making plans, he told me last night that he’s changed his mind and it’s all being moved out again. He’s so confused and this has nearly killed me. Life just sucks right now. I pray my husband never stops thinking of me and in time will reach out the way your husband has. I will pray for us both.
@@LaurieHiggins-wx1tb I will pray for you too. I'm a non-believer, but with the pain that I see over and over in the comments on these videos, and the pain that I'm going through, prayer is all that I have left.
Painful is an understatement, I'm going through it now and it feels like I'm going insane. My heart and soul are bleeding, never knew it would hurt THIS much. Divorce is destructive and nothing short of torture.
Ester Graham today I have fully lost my wife and daughter she has packed up n gone different from any other time she keeps telling her mum any lil arguments we have it’s so sad I read the conversations on her WhatsApp how she don’t feel attracted to me etc n her mum is just encouraging her to move out n finish our marriage lol like come on
@@templarslayer1620 wow so sorry that your going that and it's such that were have to deal with betrayal and hurt & nobody understands it but at least you got to see her conversation on WhatsApp idk how to do it my husband is sleeping with someone and I cant figure out who she is
I regret so much all the mistakes I made in my marriage. I truly love my wife. I miss her so much. Being away from her has literally destroyed me on the inside. Please pray for me and my marriage. I want more than life itself to get back with my wife. She is my heart song.
@@michaelwebster2041 we are doing this but neither of us moved out. I have hurt her for years, and have come around but I fear that it's too late. I love her so much.
I have been separated for 2 weeks now is there anyway I can save my marriage my wife has told me she fell out of love for me and on mother day she come over to celebrate her day and she had sex with me and went home and told me she was done
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@@RichardNehme marriage is actually a contract which is needed to enforce the fact that women need social security and gives us a sense of belonging, only when two people want to live together.
I was involved in a marriage separation and honestly and truly the only one thing that helped was consistent prayer that now has brought my family back stronger than ever. A prayer to pray every morning. God I so love you and I need you. I confess that Jesus is the Christ, the son of the living God, my Lord, my saviour and my king and I confess this day and every day that I am highly favoured by God and man. Please come into my life Lord Jesus Christ and change my heart now. Almighty Jesus Christ, my everlasting father, walk through my house and take away all my worries and illnesses and please watch over and heal my family in Jesus name. Amen Thank you God
I did the prayers. Ive learned to not rely on a higher person. Noone will fix whats been broken. The broken is broken. As i see prayed harder the worse it got. As i told my wife, you have taken everything from me, my love, my life, my faith. I hope one day i can regain my faith. As of now i do not feel peace. I do not feel love. I dont even hate my spouse. I just feel emotionally drained. I do hope that i am wrong and im shown a bit of light to guide me back. I hope everyone is able to find the peace and move forward.
I just want to tell you thank you so much for leaving this comment your obedience has brought tears of joy to my eyes bless you mighty servant The Lord has spoken through you
@Luis Ram brother I just want to encourage you to seek out the holy spirit and repent the Lord can reveal things to us we would have never found out on our own... blessings and love brother
So glad I found this, I am torn apart by my husband leaving. It was a total blindside. I can’t seem to get myself together and the hurt is ripping my guts out. It’s only been a week. I am comforted knowing I’m not alone. Thank you everyone and I hope for a positive resolution for you all.
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It makes me so Angry and Sad that she doesn't even care enough to send a text to make sure I'm okay when it's 10 degrees outside. I am so mad at myself thoug, I know that I have done a lot of things to break her down mentally regarding my past addictions, and she also said that I can make her feel insecure about herself. So I hope she changes her mind, then I can once and for all prove to her that I intend to be the best husband I can be for her, and start our whole marriage over again.
The first days, weeks, and (could be months). It’s awful and it hurts like nothing else. It does get easier, I promise. I don’t have the answers but my husband left and it does get easier. My prayers for you
@@debras2430 Thanks Debra. I appreciate you replying. It certainly has been awful. I saw a counsellor who said I’m suffering from trauma and I seem to have all physical symptoms. It’s only been three weeks but today I felt a bit better. Makes you realize the strength that is inside you. I didn’t know I had that kind of strength.
My Wife and I have been separated a week(since October 11th)and I do not want us to divorce. I pray to GOD everyday to save My Marriage. All I can do is keep praying,keep faith and keep hope
A R thank you very much. I pray alot that me and my wife reconcile. Being seperated from my wife makes me appreciate her soooo much. When me and my wife do reconcile I promise she will be the happiest woman on earth. I'm a new man. I've started going to Church. I'm seeking GOD more. Thank you
God, I ask that you soften mine and Shera heart for each other, that you remove any blocks to our communicate. Remove any outside negativity, jealousy, influences, pride, ego, anger and resentment we may knowingly or unknowingly have towards one another. End Physical separation between us and bring us together in a harmony union. So we can rebuild our foundation on your rock. Thank you Lord God for hearing my prayer 🙏🏼 I love you.
If that person ever had any type of love at all for you, there's a good chance that it will work. Or at least, it will calm things down. But you have to go slow
@@ultimate7719 It is so very difficult to be patient in the beginning stages of separation. Heartbreak clouds judgement. But you are right. It takes time. I am having a hard time.
@@BlessedLifeOriginal my wife and I have been separated for 7 months and it's the hardest thing I've ever been through. I found recently when I can curb my emotions and resist my hopeless thoughts when I'm with her and just be supportive and kind and show concern for her well being, she opens up to me! It definitely hard though.
Thank you very much. My wife and I have separated for several weeks now and I've been going out of my mind. I've caused it because of problems in myself and infidelity with social media. Watching this video has calmed and focused me. Again thank you! Since the separation I've stopped all behaviors. Apologized asked for forgiveness and taking steps proving my love and devotion for her. Also have started counseling weekly to repair our marriage. I hope to regain my wifes love and trust one day. I try pray and show I love her daily. She means the world to me and im truly a broken man without her. Guys listen to me!!! Stupid behaviors comments texting talking anything online to another woman will break your woman's heart and make her walk away. Love your woman. Show her and tell her! Be faithful. Don't be cocky or naive thinking she's not going to leave you because she will eventually. Don't take her love for granted. Reciprocate to her what she has given you. Make her life easier not difficult. Don't say things do them! Prove you love her before its too late! Thank you.
Stop "push" behaviors--begging, whining, unnecessary crying (lowers your apparent value) Don't start fights Don't "hover" (spoken like a helicopter pilot's wife!)--don't track, monitor, stalk; destroys trust Manage "business" items together: areas for which you'll have to talk--taxes, children, mortgages; DO keep spouse updated here. Avoid negative interactions, even if they want to fight! Be strong, calm, and gentle. Calling is preferred to text messages due to possibility for misinterpretation/escalation. Then, once trust is built, you can start asking simple, non-emotional questions: "How was your day at work?" Then, allow your spouse to start conversations with you. VERY important that you remain safe, calm, strong, and gentle (even playful/friendly as appropriate?) if your spouse engages you, no matter how he/she has been toward you--but of course, don't tolerate abuse. Be gentle with yourself, too, because you won't be perfect every time. Take it one day at a time. Some days will be better than others. May seem like your relationship is regressing. *My notes from Kimberly's video excellent video above
I’m praying for restoration and healing in my marriage. I’m praying my husband will surrender to Jesus and return home. I feel very strongly that God is telling me to be patient and wait on him. I’m praying for a miracle and I believe for God nothing is impossible.
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Did it work out with you and your husband? If not, hit me up! I'm going through the same right now. And would much rather get advice from a female on this topic.
@@joycebaily5543 Thank you but I think God is the ultimate solver of all our daily life problems. I trust Him more than anything so no human is bigger than Him. His plans for our presence and future are good. So my hope is only in my true Maker.The Lord of Lord's and King of Kings
Been separated for two years, finally realizing what peace of crap I was, trying to rebuild or at least not lose a true friend. Great video, thank you.
I have been separated for 7 months and I'm just realizing how much my actions and behaviour hurt my wife. She asked me to leave and it took awhile for me to see what I was doing to her. Now that I know I'm trying to be the best me for our 2 kids and for her. I dont think she will come back but I hope I can salvage a friendship. Shes the best person I know and she deserved better. Feeling a lot of guilt lately.
Superb advice. I'm currently in the process of divorce and I've read and watched a LOT since my wife told me she had her lawyer send the papers to court, and this is very to the point. Crisp and clear. I've already tried some of this and had some successes but sadly it's not enough, my wife's very headstrong and convinced she's going to get a better life away from me, even though I've changed so much and grown for the better as a person. Good luck to anyone going through this process... it is hell.
@@alyakbackwards8972 Thanks Kayla, my heart goes out to you as well, and everyone who has to suffer through this nightmare, this storm of emotion and loss.
I hate that all of the videos I've watched on "what to do" and "what NOT to do" have made me realize that I've made every mistake possible along the way.
My wife moved out two days ago, we spoke today and luckily, I unknowingly followed these steps pretty close. In a nutshell, we have a big misunderstanding of what we both perceived to be doing correctly for each other and didn't verify if we were doing what we both asked from each other. Unfortunately, it's been an emotional erosion for her, and I heard her and understood more when I asked her to explain, because I really thought I was on track. A good thing is that I didn't plead, cry, I listened strong, calm and gentle to consider her explanations and emotions. Now, One-day-at-a-time. God will not give me a challenge I cannot over overcome, and he will give me the strength to overcome it.
Im in a temporary separation and I swear, this video made me feel better and it indicates what I need to brush up on...to be a better me and a better person.
@@acemany1126 Pretty good actuall , I was too attached and realized that a person needs their personal space at times, I've understand that my own insecurities can and will backfire against me, but I've learned how to trust and communicate...without trust and compassionate communication in a relationship you have nothing. Today we have an healthy relationship...not perfect but a good level of satisfactory
I’m going to employ this method ASAP. My wife of twenty years is leaving me 😢 We have two young children together and its killing me our family is breaking up. I am currently guilty of the push behaviours and it’s true, all it does is push your spouse further away. I am humbly asking for prayers for myself and my wife Ilynne (pronounced Eileen) to work things out. Thank you 🙏
See sir am really sorry about that I can grant you a favor there is a man that can help you the same way he helped me okay and now mine is back to me so don’t be afraid+2348079501455
Everyone wanting others to pray on their marriage because they don't want to be separated or divorced, and I'm just here accepting the fact that divorce can also be a blessing.
Pray for me and our marriage too. My husband told me that he doesn't love me. It is devastating, as we're still living under the same roof, most of the conversations are him swearing at me, hating everything that I do, act and say. Will called me liar, devil, worse person he ever met etc. He doesn't listen to any of my explanation, I'm on the bridge of telling him to leave. But I don't have the heart to tell him that straight on his face. Please keep us in prayer, I want to have our marriage restored but I can't live with so much cruelty and hostility. MY God bless us all, as we're standing for our marriages. I know that only God can do it for us!
@@douzkie may the the Lord bring peace, healing and restoration to your home. Spend some time alone with God asking him for help. He is compassionate and faithful.
@@milob6208 My husband left last 6th of Oct. I believe that God allows for us to be separated for me to go back to my first love. God loves me so much that with everything that happened between me and my husband, I need to seek Gods peace and joy even in the midst of the storm. So I am trusting Gods will for our marriage. Knowing that God will work things out together for our good. He is faithful God and He is always good with marriage restoration or not, I will always put my Trust and Faith in one that loves me unconditionally and he is our father who is in Heaven.
I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex husband is back after he left me for another woman I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
My husband and i are separated. The tough part of this situation is he is seeing someone else as well. He filed for a divorce few days ago. I'm praying this advice will restore our marriage. I hope he sees that what he is doing to me and our son is wrong.
This is really good solid advice for folks who miss their spouse and want to get them back. This is assuming that someone wants their spouse back and to save their marriage after their spouse leaves them. For those going through this difficulty I send you prayers that no matter what happens you find your own strength, resilience, and independence so you are happy no matter the outcome. 🙏🏻
I am doing everything that you are talking about in this video. Crying, begging, pleading and trying to convince her that I am a good guy. I realize after this that I am pushing her further away. I really hope i can be strong enough to do what you are saying and implement this into how I am acting. Besides, she hates me and wants me gone because of the things I’ve done since or relationship started. Just because I am loyal, honest, not abusive loving and caring and do everything I can to make her happy doesn’t mean that I am a good guy. I realize it now and I just hope it’s not to late. I’m going to do what you say I should be doing and hope that it works. It’s hard hearing how much she doesn’t like me when I love her with all of my heart.
This video and teaching has literally transformed our separation and has allowed my wife and I to reconnect and start rebuilding our marriage. I did it and it works! Thank you so much and God bless!
Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific
God brought my wife and I together. The devil tore us apart....but God is all powerful and He can restore our marriage. We must put Him first in our lives. Focus on Christ, love Him above all else, then the rest will make sense. I love my family more than words can say. All together we made a remarkable team.
@@joek550 that is how I feel about my husband too. I thought we were great together too. I could tell something wasn’t right and I discovered he was talking to another woman and trying to have relations with her. We are separated now and I miss our life before it all happened. We had fun together and was in love. I feel so lost without him. I pray we can find a way to get thru this and come back stronger together.
We all go through hard times. Be the person your spouse want you to become. Most of them does not work coz it lacked effort. If its gonna take a lifetime or even more thats okay. As long as you know your spouse love you from the bottom of the heart. Even though they say they dont see the future with you at the moment do not forget to notice how hurt they are inside, just dont believe them at the time. Do not cheat stay calm. Do your thing in your career, next day you are the boss again.
Hello I'm so excited my broken 💔💔 relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we leaving and happily together, I got help from a great man he's real and specific
I’ve been separated for a couple of months I know I’m the one who is the problem I’m working on my issues and I’m open to her coming back but totally ready to let her go cause I know I’ve hurt her. Live and learn folks.
She has given the best advice I've found so far.... Although it's probably too late for me. But I can see how this advice would have helped and made differences
The absolute ironic thing about this advice (and I’m not in anyway disagreeing with nor am I against this advice) is that in order to achieve the true S.M.A.R.T acronym status, it generally means one has come to terms with the fact that the marriage is indeed over. It’s when we haven’t accepted it that we are most likely to have adopted the push behaviours, the inability to manage things together without asking or showing we want more, the getting your own point across, the irrational or emotionally driven responses. To be “smart” means you have generally begun the process of moving on.
This is a lot of work for someone that doesn't want to stay! My advice, try to let go and just maybe there is someone else that will love you just as you are.
Pray for communication with my wife. I want to restore my marriage to a stronger, very special one. I've managed to change my points of view and my goals and they are now very compatible with my wife's but she doesn't trust me. Pray please
Please pray for me. This is the most painful thing I’ve experienced in my life…my husband abandoning me while he is miles and miles away in another country. Ending our marriage over the phone… I am hopeless and contemplating ending my life. How do I get through this…Lord please help me…
Separation is a bummer, Pray, give space, don’t beg or show weakness but strength in who you are, and why you are the one for her or him through silent strength and in all things do them out of love.
My wife and I have been seperated for a month while living in the same house and we are making some progress. I failed step one for the first month, but now I realize it is the best way to go about it. Steps 2-5 have been perfect and I know I can get my wife back. She is so amazing. I love her so much and will do anything to become the man she deserves. Celebrating 30 days of sobriety and yes there is a correlation there. I will let her breathe and figure out herself while making myself the best version of myself that I can be. Forever and ever Great video. Great advice!
I know this is an old post but how did you guys behave together under the same roof? What helped improve your marriage? I just started separation, not my choice.
Recently separated. Already fallen into doing some of the 'donts'. Glad I found your video because I had no idea how my actions were making things worse.
@hello Becky Barham after many years of being separated from my spouse,i can tell you its not an easy thing and not what one we wish for with my kids. if you love your spouse i advice you stop at nothing to get him/her back because love is life.if not for my very goodfriend at work place who gave me advice and showed me way out, i would have still be lost now. to cut the long story short ,i and my spouse are back together because i never gave up on love and i encourage you not to.if you want a way out , i will advice you reach out to the source i used and has no side effects.
I got help from someone, he was the only on who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he saved and solve my relation-ship problem.…
Hi, my wife and I separated in July, on Friday she called me to say she that she thinks our marriage is over, that she has started to date, I’m asking for prayer for marriage reconciliation, that God would change me to the husband she wants back in her life,
One huge key is to understand why divorce and remarriage is sin and adultery worked for us! So the only option is to make it work! There is great reward for those who perceive and stay together. So if you can see the hell and turmoil that is involved in divorce and remarriage adultery, both of them will likely to find a way to make it work, and not entertain the horrible thought of "trading up" to another perfect match. IT DOES NOT WORK. Marriage is until death do you part.
That’s your opinion, close minded one at that! Let’s say the husband is abusing the wife or is a cheater. God has nothing to with that. Praying has nothing to do with that. To tell people remarriage is a sin is blasphemy!
My wife divorced me back in January. I wasn’t the loving, nurturing husband that I should have been. I’ve been working on myself to be the best person I can be. Please pray for my wife to give me a second chance. I love her so much.
Great advice and after a long time and many difficult months I have almost mastered the SMART communication. Much of it stems from how much time I spend with God in the Bible. My identity and worth come from the Lord and honestly I have totally and completely forgiven my spouse for everything I felt was (done) to me. This has released power to love him and not be so emotional.
My husband just drove away. I was so upset then I gave it to God. God made it very clear that my husband left him/GOD and our marriage was just a casualty . My husband is leaving GOD's will 1st. Of course if he can leave God who am I??
@@tiffanycontreras6614 My husband just basically packed up in the middle of a day when he pretended to go to work and he just drove off as well. He later told me that he gave up on God, me and himself as a Christian. He chose to be a cheater with a new person he found. What am I to him now as he has given up on his God. It's the same story written with different names and faces, but basically the same evil story. Broken relationships, broken promises, broken faith in God. Sin has consequences though and he will reap what he has now sown. "There's a way that seems right to a man, but in the end, it leads to death"
Many woman makes the same mistake in marriage. Simply because you do not want to accept your Godly position in marriage. Remember what the bible say about God,s creation. When he brought all the animals infront of Adam so that Adam can give them names ? And God find out that its not good for a man to be alone. I have to give him a help... So Do not take Adam,s position. Play you Godly position then everything will be well. Trust God in that. ..
I'm so happy I found this page. I'm currently going thru a separation, rights after my battle with cancer. I need all the advice I can soak up. Thank you!
You might want to take hint from the word separation. If it was intentional, you don’t get the fact that it’s pertains to the fact that either both parties feel a mutual intended separation or even one spouse. It implies the fact that they do not want to be around you anymore, to force the relationship to remain by mostly a lot of talk is prolonging the inevitable.
I am going through separation with my husband we both do not want divorce but we need the space to really think through before we make any drastic decisions I will apply this i pray it works... Thank you
I’m going through separation now. It hurts because I’m the cause of a lot of the dysfunction my wife and I have gone through from the lies and manipulation to not sacrificing pillars of my toxic traits. I have a lot of work to do…thank you for this video, it will help bridge the gap in my marriage
@Deondre, hey there. I can relate. I paved a path for my wife to walk down for 22 years. Her "GAF" finally broke and we went through our own crisis. I had to do a TON of self reflection during that time. I knew I needed to change, but not for my wife, for me. If I did not change, I would be in the same situation again, be that with my wife or a new relationship. Can I encourage you to dive deep and learn all you can about yourself? Change is possible. Reconciliation is possible. It's not easy, but it's not impossible. Marriage Helper helped me through this process. Control was my vice of choice. Marriage Helper has a ton of free resources and some paid resources. It took time, but eventually I was able to see my changes and my marriage was saved. I believe very strongly in the mission of Marriage Helper and volunteer with them today. Not sure where to start? Here's the first podcast I listened to. It seemed to make sense. www.marriagehelper.com/first-step-podcast
The best way to overcome pain is to let go of the things that you cant change.keep your eyes on God open up your hearts to him. he heals and he fills that void in your heart.the lord jesus christ wants to give you his true pure love thats the real love you need. i promise you when you allow him to enter your heart you will be complete healed. you will never feel the need of anything to try to fill your heart. he is the most important puzzle to your life.pray to him. start building a relationship with your creator. open up to him from your heart no empty words.
NoLongerHuman I’m realizing that I was attracted to the nurturing side of women we grow up hearing about. Now I know that is simply a stereotype. Having any expectations repels many women. Also.... I don’t see any I’m attracted to now.
Men have to be strong and silent. And we also have to be in control of our emotions. I agree sharing with other men with some beers. Getting it out of your system. Men you can trust, that have good balance advice.
My husband just left me I feel like the whole world is coming down on me I am trying my best to hold it together please advise me I've been married for over 20 yrs
My husband left me too and I felt my World was coming to an end. Now that he is gone and I have a clear mind I see that he was toxic, lying, cheating snake who is worth getting over. Put Jesus Christ first and always let him be your first husband even if your husband come back and you will never lose. He went abroad cuss me out and send me divorce papers I was devastated but God healed my broken heart and I am happy.
I am going through the same thing, because of all of my mistakes. I have hurt her so much, she cannot feel affection for me anymore. We just separated and I am destroyed. Having faith and going day by day, I pray to God that something or someone will touch her heart and make her reflect and give me another chance, a last chance at some point.
The most painful and devastating thing I ever experienced was being separated from my wife of 25 yrs, it was killing me from the inside out, she of course acted like it didnt bother her at all, we never got back together but I'm ok and she seems to be ok, so all is good,
Yes my point to lots here exactly men do suffer but the women don't most of the time, they can move on without a second thought because they were already doing the dirty for a long time before found out or even sometimes you never find out. Yes it hurts been there done that in my youth but once I learned the hard way know one takes advantage and wins now I would just walk away without a word. You learn to cultivate a mindset of Indifference to protect yourself from bad people.
If you make an honest effort to make the marriage work and your spouse still walks away then you've done your part. That's all you can do. If they walk then they walk.
We would agree, but with a slant. If you make an honest effort and do the RIGHT things to make the marriage work, and your spouse still walks away, then you can have peace knowing you've done all you can do. We are also understanding that the only person you can control is yourself. And sometimes, a spouse still chooses to walk away. That's why we always recommend you work on your PIES! Find our more about the PIES by watching this video: ruclips.net/video/MoxFmmbSeRI/видео.html
Very informative thank you 🙏🏻 If you contact that specific person all you gonna get is ether no response or they will definitely over power you and you will feel even worse than before , when someone truly loves you from the heart they will always come to you . If they don’t. Don’t waste any more tears and let it go. That’s when miracles begin to happen. I’m heart broken myself but Thank God I just realize Things happens for a reason and we have to live life putting our trust in God and the universe. You will see magical things happen to you ✨🙏🏻
Trying to be s.m.a.r.t As well as pray and stay positive. Wife of 10 years and four beautiful children is leaving, says she needs space and time apart. I just wish I had a time machine sometimes.. Good luck to you too if you’re going through it. Maybe it gets better but right now I wanna die just to escape this pain.
I just separated from my wife last night and kids haven't slept in two days,man and I truly miss my wife and kids,I no I'm a better husband and father than this, I'm so far away tore down can't explain, I have an awesome beautiful wife and kids
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I been married 10 years. My wife,accuse me of cheating on her with a female co worker. We have a 10 year old daughter. My wife and i arr seperated for 3 years now. My wife told me to stop asking her when are we going back together becsuse we will never go back together. She said look for someone else. We are not divorce because i can not afford the divorce. I belive my marriage is not worth saving. Just pray for me maybe i will find someone else someday
Yeah, you better look for someone else and make it clear what should be counted as cheating in your next relationship. I wonder, an accusation that lead to separation? 🤔
I have been married for 7 years to my high school sweetheart. We are separated now because i cannot control my emotions. I have anger that stems ftom frustration from employment. What some women dont realize is most men identity is assiociated with their career. We have 3 beautiful children and because i am so emotionally unstable and get angry at things that are small. Its a sick cycle... i hate being here, separated from my family. Divorce seems imminent. You can tell when someone doubts you. Calis conversation, this video is good but typing this is more therapeutic. I feel i always have to talk with someone cause i hate being by myself, to fight i sleep cause i hate being up. My family is doing their best to support but i am empty.
@Ron Garvin That is true but i know what i did and didnt do. Feminism only takes over when we as men fail to love our wives as christ loved the church. Ask yourself, did you pray for your wife, children,etc? I know i didnt. Now im here and hurt and in a discord and she has my whold life with her meaning my children.
@Ron Garvin I understand Ron, God puts us in situations for us 2 see if we're willing to cast all your cares upon Him. I almost bet matter fact I guarantee each Time You Prayed during either one of those situations you beat them you beat which is why you were able to beat the cases and and feel better when you were going through your divorces. God put you in those situations because he tested your resilience however marriage is a matrimony brought by two people is beautiful if done right now you're absolutely right for the first comment about feminism and things like that because you know being emasculated as a man you intend to challenge the female but that's just due to headship. Things were out of order in your house although you prayed things were still out of order. As they are mine, I am unable 2 discipline my children properly. I'm unable to love unconditionally. The wife's duty is to respect the husband however when they when the husband is doing things that the wife can't respect it's almost like how. They think they could do bad all by themselves and that's the feminism birth. They can do bad by themselves why do they need us now your situation is unique bro why did your first wife feel that she could do that what were you not giving her at home that she thought she could cheat the second wife why does she feel that she can emasculate you those are questions I would ask myself verses put all the blame on feminism. Now I am not saying this to disrespect you at all.
@Ron Garvin totally agreed but remember this feminism only came about truly after World War II. Now feminism continues to be ostracized and pushed because we as men continue to manipulate and use our power and whatever we have to overstep women. Think about it Dartmouth the case going on there where the professor's use their authority to pretty much over take woman. Think about it and just stay home and watch the kids. Back in the day more domestic violence was occurring now domestic violence still does occur in at a higher rate because there's more people but back then men felt the need to take their frustrations out on women. No I want someone like my grandma mother call did not graduate college Nor high School. She relied solely on my grandpa who by the way was a minister. Good at times I feel like he used his authority to kind of rule over her yes. However he showed her love which in turn show she showed him respect. Now like you said the legal system is built to destroy all men and ripped the money from Men's pockets. Children are used as lottery tickets but we are at fault for that. Call me what you want but I don't blame myself for our separation. the reason why I said I do not blame myself is because I was not myself throughout this marriage. As you weren't as well and either one now it's how you is your perspective man like what yo I love to talk to you on the phone let's chat man
I can’t believe how many of us are doing the EXACT SAME BEHAVIOURS….even if our marriages are past reconciliation, being “the best you” cannot be a bad thing. Especially when young kids are involved, their needs gotta be put first…and putting that other parent thru all YOUR emotions is robbing the children of both parents. Accept the new reality, don’t lean on the kids but remember YOU and your ex are all those little ones have to depend on. They need you both. We can get thru this. It’s our choice.
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My wife and I split up yesterday. Words can’t explain how much it hurts! I regret a lot of things I did. I hope by giving her space and time she will give our relationship another shot.
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going through the same thing with my wife. Last week she told me she wasn't happy in the marriage anymore and the day before our 5th year wedding anniversary she has left the house. I'm also hoping giving her a little bit of space may change things as it hurts so much.
I just moved out yesterday. I'm so scared the my marriage of 24 years is over. We are HS sweethearts and she is my best friend. I'm in so much pain and it's all my fault. She's tired of the pain I caused and wants me out to see of she still loves and misses me.
@@AlexMartinez-dy6qs I feel your pain. My fiancé just told me last month she’s not happy and wanted to seperate. I was completely blind sighted. I’ve now had to step back and give her space which is definitely killing me. I also like you made many mistakes over the relationship, that I don’t think will ever have the opportunity to fix. It’s hard, everyday is a struggle, and it’s so sad that it got to this point.
Please pray that my husband and I can restore our marriage and fix what is broken inside ourselves and can save our marriage . he just seems so cold and distant with me. Please pray for me as well. I send all of you prayers too. Separation and divorce is so hard and heartbreaking.
Thankyou. I'm at the end of a long rope. We're separating everything down to food in the fridge. no physical contact in a year. she is still having an affair. I've been trying everything i can do, read, or anything....counsseling for months....I been working on me but we still snip or fight at times. Its a slow anxiety filled sad destruction of what was a wonderful marriage. I need to hear this and it gives me something to do in a vacuum.
I've been praying for my marriage to be restored. I'm past the anger stage and now I just want my family to be together again. In spite of the fact that he hurt me, I still love him. I know I can live without him but I don't really want to. I realized yesterday I'm not angry anymore and I still love him, so I've asked God to restore my marriage if it be His will. Then first thing this morning, I get on RUclips and this is the first video I see. 🙏🙏🙏 I watched this video and realized I have been doing everything she said not to do. I'm going to try this way and see what happens.
"Failing and doing it over again" is really great advice. Every time I meet with my wife I say the things I think are perfect at the time, but realize immediately that my approach was anything but perfect.
I'm in between a real rock and a hard place.. I love my wife so much and I ruined everything, I need her back so badly... I pray God can help me I pray everyday
These are good points, however are most effective when rooted in Christ through time in prayer and His Word. During my separation I would pray if the Lord would have me contact my spouse or be silent/wait. This was so helpful in building the bridge of communication that glorifies God and set us up for restoration. God led me, showed me what to do and kept His promises in restoring my marriage.
My wife and I are separated,but I’m not giving up hope to my marriage.Its just so hard for me right now because she is dating/seeing someone else but I know I’m strong inside.
Yes, it takes time to be the stronger person after being betrayed by your spouse. I am working on this & it does take time..patience. Life is not always easy but it is a learning experience. We are doing good & say I love yous. It will take time & nice gentle conversations are definitely the key.
Allow and accept one hundred percent whatever your mate does, thinks and feels. In this way their negative feelings will weaken rapidly because their negative feelings is always looking for something in you to fight with. But when you stop fighting back, talking back and just go along with them ..just agree ..their negative feelings will have nothing to fight with. So you now no longer defend yourself . When they see this they will want to defend you.
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My husband left 10 months ago. I did all the things she mentioned cried, begged, fought, etc… Recently I have just accepted this might be my future alone. I backed off,but still made my self available to talk. I stopped yelling and crying. I have seen a change. Recently he told me he missed me , the first time in 10 months. Praying healing on our broken hearts. Praying healing on all your broken hearts.
He’s never stopped thinking of you. Mending a marriage takes so much time and the waiting is so hard. As the betrayed spouse we are at the mercy of someone else. After I saw positive changes in my husband, telling me he wanted to come home, moving some things back, making plans, he told me last night that he’s changed his mind and it’s all being moved out again. He’s so confused and this has nearly killed me. Life just sucks right now. I pray my husband never stops thinking of me and in time will reach out the way your husband has. I will pray for us both.
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@@LaurieHiggins-wx1tb I will pray for you too. I'm a non-believer, but with the pain that I see over and over in the comments on these videos, and the pain that I'm going through, prayer is all that I have left.
@@ST-cy6we Thank you. I wish you the very best too.
I pray that God to protect all those married out there. Separation is painful.
I am going through it now and it is depressing. Pray for me please because I want my family back.
Painful is an understatement, I'm going through it now and it feels like I'm going insane. My heart and soul are bleeding, never knew it would hurt THIS much. Divorce is destructive and nothing short of torture.
I'm going thru it now and I cant stop crying cuz hes fading away
Ester Graham today I have fully lost my wife and daughter she has packed up n gone different from any other time she keeps telling her mum any lil arguments we have it’s so sad I read the conversations on her WhatsApp how she don’t feel attracted to me etc n her mum is just encouraging her to move out n finish our marriage lol like come on
@@templarslayer1620 wow so sorry that your going that and it's such that were have to deal with betrayal and hurt & nobody understands it but at least you got to see her conversation on WhatsApp idk how to do it my husband is sleeping with someone and I cant figure out who she is
I regret so much all the mistakes I made in my marriage. I truly love my wife. I miss her so much. Being away from her has literally destroyed me on the inside. Please pray for me and my marriage. I want more than life itself to get back with my wife. She is my heart song.
Be strong im going through the same
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@@michaelwebster2041 we are doing this but neither of us moved out. I have hurt her for years, and have come around but I fear that it's too late. I love her so much.
@@wayward03 exactly the same situation. I've driven my wife away. We are still together, but she's really close to calling it quits
My story is similar to u. I can feel ur pain.
Please pray with me for the restoration of my marriage
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I have been separated for 2 weeks now is there anyway I can save my marriage my wife has told me she fell out of love for me and on mother day she come over to celebrate her day and she had sex with me and went home and told me she was done
@@ianschmid9611 sorry to hear that brother. My wife separeted from 4/1/2020. And its killing me i want my family and my wife back.
God will help you, if you really want it. Pray with your heart
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that is rare. most women these days have no devotion, marriage became a contract enforced by lawyers.
@crooked truth83 ?? Arr you having an emotional crisis? What is the attack for? Did i insult you by stating my opinion?
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@@RichardNehme marriage is actually a contract which is needed to enforce the fact that women need social security and gives us a sense of belonging, only when two people want to live together.
I was involved in a marriage separation and honestly and truly the only one thing that helped was consistent prayer that now has brought my family back stronger than ever.
A prayer to pray every morning.
God I so love you and I need you. I confess that Jesus is the Christ, the son of the living God, my Lord, my saviour and my king and I confess this day and every day that I am highly favoured by God and man.
Please come into my life Lord Jesus Christ and change my heart now.
Almighty Jesus Christ, my everlasting father, walk through my house and take away all my worries and illnesses and please watch over and heal my family in Jesus name.
Amen
Thank you God
Amen yes I agree I stay in prayer for my wife and family continously
I did the prayers. Ive learned to not rely on a higher person. Noone will fix whats been broken. The broken is broken. As i see prayed harder the worse it got. As i told my wife, you have taken everything from me, my love, my life, my faith. I hope one day i can regain my faith. As of now i do not feel peace. I do not feel love. I dont even hate my spouse. I just feel emotionally drained. I do hope that i am wrong and im shown a bit of light to guide me back. I hope everyone is able to find the peace and move forward.
I just want to tell you thank you so much for leaving this comment your obedience has brought tears of joy to my eyes bless you mighty servant
The Lord has spoken through you
@Luis Ram brother I just want to encourage you to seek out the holy spirit and repent the Lord can reveal things to us we would have never found out on our own... blessings and love brother
Thank you, amen
So glad I found this, I am torn apart by my husband leaving. It was a total blindside. I can’t seem to get myself together and the hurt is ripping my guts out. It’s only been a week. I am comforted knowing I’m not alone. Thank you everyone and I hope for a positive resolution for you all.
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It makes me so Angry and Sad that she doesn't even care enough to send a text to make sure I'm okay when it's 10 degrees outside. I am so mad at myself thoug, I know that I have done a lot of things to break her down mentally regarding my past addictions, and she also said that I can make her feel insecure about herself. So I hope she changes her mind, then I can once and for all prove to her that I intend to be the best husband I can be for her, and start our whole marriage over again.
Sorry about my long messages. This loneliness, sadness, confusion, depression, etc, etc, is testing how strong mental health is.
The first days, weeks, and (could be months). It’s awful and it hurts like nothing else. It does get easier, I promise. I don’t have the answers but my husband left and it does get easier. My prayers for you
@@debras2430 Thanks Debra. I appreciate you replying. It certainly has been awful. I saw a counsellor who said I’m suffering from trauma and I seem to have all physical symptoms. It’s only been three weeks but today I felt a bit better. Makes you realize the strength that is inside you. I didn’t know I had that kind of strength.
My Wife and I have been separated a week(since October 11th)and I do not want us to divorce. I pray to GOD everyday to save My Marriage. All I can do is keep praying,keep faith and keep hope
Devil wants to separate all couples pray to Abba father jesus and holy spirit 💕
A R thank you very much. I pray alot that me and my wife reconcile. Being seperated from my wife makes me appreciate her soooo much. When me and my wife do reconcile I promise she will be the happiest woman on earth. I'm a new man. I've started going to Church. I'm seeking GOD more. Thank you
Did you make it work?
Did you guys get back together. I'm in the same place right now
Same here praying and praying
I believe in God.let your husband come back to you
Thank you 🙏🏼, yes Trust GOD, He knows Our Heart ♥️
Amen
Amen o receive marital restoration in my marriage
God,
I ask that you soften mine and Shera heart for each other, that you remove any blocks to our communicate. Remove any outside negativity, jealousy, influences, pride, ego, anger and resentment we may knowingly or unknowingly have towards one another. End Physical separation between us and bring us together in a harmony union. So we can rebuild our foundation on your rock. Thank you Lord God for hearing my prayer 🙏🏼 I love you.
Beautiful prayer friend! We are praying and believing with you. ❤
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In JESUS name
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This sounds like something that would only work when both parties are communicating properly
If that person ever had any type of love at all for you, there's a good chance that it will work. Or at least, it will calm things down. But you have to go slow
@@ultimate7719 It is so very difficult to be patient in the beginning stages of separation. Heartbreak clouds judgement. But you are right. It takes time. I am having a hard time.
@@BlessedLifeOriginal my wife and I have been separated for 7 months and it's the hardest thing I've ever been through. I found recently when I can curb my emotions and resist my hopeless thoughts when I'm with her and just be supportive and kind and show concern for her well being, she opens up to me! It definitely hard though.
Probably
nope even if the contact is for business matter like the children it will work.
Thank you very much. My wife and I have separated for several weeks now and I've been going out of my mind. I've caused it because of problems in myself and infidelity with social media. Watching this video has calmed and focused me. Again thank you! Since the separation I've stopped all behaviors. Apologized asked for forgiveness and taking steps proving my love and devotion for her. Also have started counseling weekly to repair our marriage. I hope to regain my wifes love and trust one day. I try pray and show I love her daily. She means the world to me and im truly a broken man without her.
Guys listen to me!!! Stupid behaviors comments texting talking anything online to another woman will break your woman's heart and make her walk away. Love your woman. Show her and tell her! Be faithful. Don't be cocky or naive thinking she's not going to leave you because she will eventually. Don't take her love for granted. Reciprocate to her what she has given you. Make her life easier not difficult. Don't say things do them! Prove you love her before its too late! Thank you.
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Prayers for you from a wounded soul.
Don't plead, don't cry, don't start fights, don't stalk them
Stop "push" behaviors--begging, whining, unnecessary crying (lowers your apparent value)
Don't start fights
Don't "hover" (spoken like a helicopter pilot's wife!)--don't track, monitor, stalk; destroys trust
Manage "business" items together: areas for which you'll have to talk--taxes, children, mortgages; DO keep spouse updated here. Avoid negative interactions, even if they want to fight! Be strong, calm, and gentle. Calling is preferred to text messages due to possibility for misinterpretation/escalation. Then, once trust is built, you can start asking simple, non-emotional questions: "How was your day at work?" Then, allow your spouse to start conversations with you. VERY important that you remain safe, calm, strong, and gentle (even playful/friendly as appropriate?) if your spouse engages you, no matter how he/she has been toward you--but of course, don't tolerate abuse. Be gentle with yourself, too, because you won't be perfect every time.
Take it one day at a time. Some days will be better than others. May seem like your relationship is regressing.
*My notes from Kimberly's video excellent video above
You’re a hero for doing this
Maaaaaan, these notes should be included in the video description.. SPOT ON, true hero status for sharing this!!
I’m praying for restoration and healing in my marriage. I’m praying my husband will surrender to Jesus and return home. I feel very strongly that God is telling me to be patient and wait on him. I’m praying for a miracle and I believe for God nothing is impossible.
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Pray for my marriage please in Jesus name
I love my husband so much. I pray we get another chance to do this right. 🙏
Did it work out with you and your husband? If not, hit me up! I'm going through the same right now. And would much rather get advice from a female on this topic.
I read the Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage… it helps
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Did u get one?
Never try to force someone to stay in your life if they chose to leave you. I learned the hard way.
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@@lydiasarange1674 no thanks, that’s in the past. I choose to look forward now.
@@joycebaily5543 I wouldn’t take that cheating piece of shit back if you paid off my mortgage.
@@joycebaily5543 Thank you but I think God is the ultimate solver of all our daily life problems. I trust Him more than anything so no human is bigger than Him. His plans for our presence and future are good. So my hope is only in my true Maker.The Lord of Lord's and King of Kings
Been separated for two years, finally realizing what peace of crap I was, trying to rebuild or at least not lose a true friend. Great video, thank you.
I have been separated for 7 months and I'm just realizing how much my actions and behaviour hurt my wife. She asked me to leave and it took awhile for me to see what I was doing to her. Now that I know I'm trying to be the best me for our 2 kids and for her. I dont think she will come back but I hope I can salvage a friendship. Shes the best person I know and she deserved better. Feeling a lot of guilt lately.
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Superb advice. I'm currently in the process of divorce and I've read and watched a LOT since my wife told me she had her lawyer send the papers to court, and this is very to the point. Crisp and clear. I've already tried some of this and had some successes but sadly it's not enough, my wife's very headstrong and convinced she's going to get a better life away from me, even though I've changed so much and grown for the better as a person. Good luck to anyone going through this process... it is hell.
RayF I’m in the same situation Ray. I’m going to remember your name and pray for you.
@@alyakbackwards8972 Thanks Kayla, my heart goes out to you as well, and everyone who has to suffer through this nightmare, this storm of emotion and loss.
Same here bro
I am going through same hell bro..
It feels like a long funeral service
I hate that all of the videos I've watched on "what to do" and "what NOT to do" have made me realize that I've made every mistake possible along the way.
know all about it
My wife moved out two days ago, we spoke today and luckily, I unknowingly followed these steps pretty close. In a nutshell, we have a big misunderstanding of what we both perceived to be doing correctly for each other and didn't verify if we were doing what we both asked from each other. Unfortunately, it's been an emotional erosion for her, and I heard her and understood more when I asked her to explain, because I really thought I was on track. A good thing is that I didn't plead, cry, I listened strong, calm and gentle to consider her explanations and emotions. Now, One-day-at-a-time. God will not give me a challenge I cannot over overcome, and he will give me the strength to overcome it.
Wish you the best bud, hope you get again together
Im in a temporary separation and I swear, this video made me feel better and it indicates what I need to brush up on...to be a better me and a better person.
Exactly!!! Let the Power of Love be with you >
Jazwaun Brooks how has it worked out?
It's been a year. How are u doing?
@@acemany1126 Pretty good actuall , I was too attached and realized that a person needs their personal space at times, I've understand that my own insecurities can and will backfire against me, but I've learned how to trust and communicate...without trust and compassionate communication in a relationship you have nothing.
Today we have an healthy relationship...not perfect but a good level of satisfactory
@@jazwaun1 that’s great! Are you back together?
Ive been separated 2 years now were working it out together
Only pray patient is good
Don’t see the bads things
Dam long time but very glad you guys are back I hope am lucky
Good for you brother.
Gives me a ray of hope after being seperated for 10+ months.... I hope and pray I can reconcile....
Louie Paul so you guys dated others in between that time?
I’m going to employ this method ASAP. My wife of twenty years is leaving me 😢 We have two young children together and its killing me our family is breaking up. I am currently guilty of the push behaviours and it’s true, all it does is push your spouse further away. I am humbly asking for prayers for myself and my wife Ilynne (pronounced Eileen) to work things out. Thank you 🙏
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Vincent Berry, same here. Just let her go, go to God & read your Bible and Use this as a motivation to succeed
Vincent Berry, same here. Just let her go, go to God & read your Bible and Use this as a motivation to succeed
Prayers your way sir.
Everyone wanting others to pray on their marriage because they don't want to be separated or divorced, and I'm just here accepting the fact that divorce can also be a blessing.
I pray that your separation/divorce continues to be a blessing for you.
@@denisecatlett7203 at the beginning it felt like a blessing somewhat, now months later like a curse
Pray for me and our marriage too. My husband told me that he doesn't love me. It is devastating, as we're still living under the same roof, most of the conversations are him swearing at me, hating everything that I do, act and say. Will called me liar, devil, worse person he ever met etc. He doesn't listen to any of my explanation, I'm on the bridge of telling him to leave. But I don't have the heart to tell him that straight on his face.
Please keep us in prayer, I want to have our marriage restored but I can't live with so much cruelty and hostility.
MY God bless us all, as we're standing for our marriages.
I know that only God can do it for us!
@@douzkie may the the Lord bring peace, healing and restoration to your home. Spend some time alone with God asking him for help. He is compassionate and faithful.
@@milob6208 amen
@@milob6208 My husband left last 6th of Oct. I believe that God allows for us to be separated for me to go back to my first love. God loves me so much that with everything that happened between me and my husband, I need to seek Gods peace and joy even in the midst of the storm. So I am trusting Gods will for our marriage. Knowing that God will work things out together for our good. He is faithful God and He is always good with marriage restoration or not, I will always put my Trust and Faith in one that loves me unconditionally and he is our father who is in Heaven.
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My husband and i are separated. The tough part of this situation is he is seeing someone else as well. He filed for a divorce few days ago. I'm praying this advice will restore our marriage. I hope he sees that what he is doing to me and our son is wrong.
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This is really good solid advice for folks who miss their spouse and want to get them back. This is assuming that someone wants their spouse back and to save their marriage after their spouse leaves them. For those going through this difficulty I send you prayers that no matter what happens you find your own strength, resilience, and independence so you are happy no matter the outcome. 🙏🏻
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God brought my wife and I together. The devil tore us apart....but God is all powerful and He can restore our marriage. We must put Him first in our lives. Focus on Christ, love Him above all else, then the rest will make sense.
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@@joek550 that is how I feel about my husband too. I thought we were great together too. I could tell something wasn’t right and I discovered he was talking to another woman and trying to have relations with her. We are separated now and I miss our life before it all happened. We had fun together and was in love. I feel so lost without him. I pray we can find a way to get thru this and come back stronger together.
We all go through hard times. Be the person your spouse want you to become. Most of them does not work coz it lacked effort. If its gonna take a lifetime or even more thats okay. As long as you know your spouse love you from the bottom of the heart. Even though they say they dont see the future with you at the moment do not forget to notice how hurt they are inside, just dont believe them at the time. Do not cheat stay calm. Do your thing in your career, next day you are the boss again.
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I’ve been separated for a couple of months I know I’m the one who is the problem I’m working on my issues and I’m open to her coming back but totally ready to let her go cause I know I’ve hurt her. Live and learn folks.
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She has given the best advice I've found so far.... Although it's probably too late for me. But I can see how this advice would have helped and made differences
This first saved me from depression and hopefully it saves my marriage.
I was going about it all wrong. I'm so thankful I found your video. Now I just pray and practice what was said in this video. Thank you.
The absolute ironic thing about this advice (and I’m not in anyway disagreeing with nor am I against this advice) is that in order to achieve the true S.M.A.R.T acronym status, it generally means one has come to terms with the fact that the marriage is indeed over.
It’s when we haven’t accepted it that we are most likely to have adopted the push behaviours, the inability to manage things together without asking or showing we want more, the getting your own point across, the irrational or emotionally driven responses.
To be “smart” means you have generally begun the process of moving on.
This is a lot of work for someone that doesn't want to stay! My advice, try to let go and just maybe there is someone else that will love you just as you are.
Michael Davila this is the best advice a man can hear
True
Then go MGTOW afterwards!
If you are not ready to fight for your marriage when things go south then I dont think marriage was for you to begin with.
Well, a lot of people want to fix their marriage.
Pray for communication with my wife. I want to restore my marriage to a stronger, very special one. I've managed to change my points of view and my goals and they are now very compatible with my wife's but she doesn't trust me. Pray please
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Please pray for me. This is the most painful thing I’ve experienced in my life…my husband abandoning me while he is miles and miles away in another country. Ending our marriage over the phone… I am hopeless and contemplating ending my life. How do I get through this…Lord please help me…
Hello, I'm going through similar heartbreak. How are you doing now?
Hope you are in a better place now. I also cannot cope with my separation at the moment.
Separation is a bummer, Pray, give space, don’t beg or show weakness but strength in who you are, and why you are the one for her or him through silent strength and in all things do them out of love.
My wife and I have been seperated for a month while living in the same house and we are making some progress. I failed step one for the first month, but now I realize it is the best way to go about it. Steps 2-5 have been perfect and I know I can get my wife back.
She is so amazing. I love her so much and will do anything to become the man she deserves. Celebrating 30 days of sobriety and yes there is a correlation there.
I will let her breathe and figure out herself while making myself the best version of myself that I can be.
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Great video. Great advice!
I know this is an old post but how did you guys behave together under the same roof? What helped improve your marriage? I just started separation, not my choice.
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@@rebeccatailor2727 or I could keep living my life and finding somebody better who will actually love me for me.
This is one of the best videos I've seen on the topic. I'll be rewatching it to remember all the steps and pray for the best.
Recently separated. Already fallen into doing some of the 'donts'. Glad I found your video because I had no idea how my actions were making things worse.
@hello Becky Barham after many years of being separated from my spouse,i can tell you its not an easy thing and not what one we wish for with my kids. if you love your spouse i advice you stop at nothing to get him/her back because love is life.if not for my very goodfriend at work place who gave me advice and showed me way out, i would have still be lost now. to cut the long story short ,i and my spouse are back together because i never gave up on love and i encourage you not to.if you want a way out , i will advice you reach out to the source i used and has no side effects.
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Hi, my wife and I separated in July, on Friday she called me to say she that she thinks our marriage is over, that she has started to date, I’m asking for prayer for marriage reconciliation, that God would change me to the husband she wants back in her life,
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My wife of 43 years left her hate has been very hard to deal with but I will always love her
I hear you brother
One huge key is to understand why divorce and remarriage is sin and adultery worked for us! So the only option is to make it work! There is great reward for those who perceive and stay together. So if you can see the hell and turmoil that is involved in divorce and remarriage adultery, both of them will likely to find a way to make it work, and not entertain the horrible thought of "trading up" to another perfect match. IT DOES NOT WORK. Marriage is until death do you part.
That’s your opinion, close minded one at that! Let’s say the husband is abusing the wife or is a cheater. God has nothing to with that. Praying has nothing to do with that. To tell people remarriage is a sin is blasphemy!
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My wife divorced me back in January. I wasn’t the loving, nurturing husband that I should have been. I’ve been working on myself to be the best person I can be. Please pray for my wife to give me a second chance. I love her so much.
It shall be done. In the name of Jesus.. Exodus 14:14
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Basically be a therapist. Dont judge him, be a friend. Hard to go from wife or this.
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Great advice and after a long time and many difficult months I have almost mastered the SMART communication. Much of it stems from how much time I spend with God in the Bible. My identity and worth come from the Lord and honestly I have totally and completely forgiven my spouse for everything I felt was (done) to me. This has released power to love him and not be so emotional.
My husband just drove away. I was so upset then I gave it to God. God made it very clear that my husband left him/GOD and our marriage was just a casualty . My husband is leaving GOD's will 1st. Of course if he can leave God who am I??
@@tiffanycontreras6614 My husband just basically packed up in the middle of a day when he pretended to go to work and he just drove off as well.
He later told me that he gave up on God, me and himself as a Christian. He chose to be a cheater with a new person he found. What am I to him now as he has given up on his God. It's the same story written with different names and faces, but basically the same evil story. Broken relationships, broken promises, broken faith in God. Sin has consequences though and he will reap what he has now sown.
"There's a way that seems right to a man, but in the end, it leads to death"
Bishops Corner I pray that she comes back. But please stop flirting with women online because that is cheating. But I definitely wish you well.
Bishops Corner I kinda understand her
Many woman makes the same mistake in marriage. Simply because you do not want to accept your Godly position in marriage. Remember what the bible say about God,s creation. When he brought all the animals infront of Adam so that Adam can give them names ? And God find out that its not good for a man to be alone. I have to give him a help... So Do not take Adam,s position. Play you Godly position then everything will be well. Trust God in that. ..
Rationally this all makes perfect sense...emotionally I am failing every time there is a point of contact
Right there with you. Stay strong.
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Me too
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I'm so happy I found this page. I'm currently going thru a separation, rights after my battle with cancer. I need all the advice I can soak up. Thank you!
You might want to take hint from the word separation. If it was intentional, you don’t get the fact that it’s pertains to the fact that either both parties feel a mutual intended separation or even one spouse. It implies the fact that they do not want to be around you anymore, to force the relationship to remain by mostly a lot of talk is prolonging the inevitable.
I am going through separation with my husband we both do not want divorce but we need the space to really think through before we make any drastic decisions I will apply this i pray it works... Thank you
Yes i pray for all of us our marriages restored in Jesus Name. I shall continue to stand on God s Promise
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I’m going through separation now. It hurts because I’m the cause of a lot of the dysfunction my wife and I have gone through from the lies and manipulation to not sacrificing pillars of my toxic traits. I have a lot of work to do…thank you for this video, it will help bridge the gap in my marriage
@Deondre, hey there. I can relate. I paved a path for my wife to walk down for 22 years. Her "GAF" finally broke and we went through our own crisis. I had to do a TON of self reflection during that time. I knew I needed to change, but not for my wife, for me. If I did not change, I would be in the same situation again, be that with my wife or a new relationship. Can I encourage you to dive deep and learn all you can about yourself? Change is possible. Reconciliation is possible. It's not easy, but it's not impossible. Marriage Helper helped me through this process. Control was my vice of choice. Marriage Helper has a ton of free resources and some paid resources. It took time, but eventually I was able to see my changes and my marriage was saved. I believe very strongly in the mission of Marriage Helper and volunteer with them today. Not sure where to start? Here's the first podcast I listened to. It seemed to make sense. www.marriagehelper.com/first-step-podcast
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I am trying this soon and pray that we back together after being separated for 1 yr now.
The best way to overcome pain is to let go of the things that you cant change.keep your eyes on God open up your hearts to him. he heals and he fills that void in your heart.the lord jesus christ wants to give you his true pure love thats the real love you need. i promise you when you allow him to enter your heart you will be complete healed. you will never feel the need of anything to try to fill your heart. he is the most important puzzle to your life.pray to him. start building a relationship with your creator. open up to him from your heart no empty words.
Agree
It’s so unfair.... Why am I not allowed to have emotions about what happened? Why is it all about them?
NoLongerHuman I know. It’s tremendously unfair.
Sorry for what happened to you if woman doesn't respect your feelings she didn't deserve you
NoLongerHuman I’m realizing that I was attracted to the nurturing side of women we grow up hearing about. Now I know that is simply a stereotype. Having any expectations repels many women. Also.... I don’t see any I’m attracted to now.
Men have to be strong and silent.
And we also have to be in control of our emotions.
I agree sharing with other men with some beers.
Getting it out of your system.
Men you can trust, that have good balance advice.
NoLongerHuman you’re clearly failing at relationships. That’s false. NO ONE LISTEN TO THIS
My husband just left me I feel like the whole world is coming down on me I am trying my best to hold it together please advise me I've been married for over 20 yrs
work on yourself and stay positive
My husband left me too and I felt my World was coming to an end. Now that he is gone and I have a clear mind I see that he was toxic, lying, cheating snake who is worth getting over. Put Jesus Christ first and always let him be your first husband even if your husband come back and you will never lose. He went abroad cuss me out and send me divorce papers I was devastated but God healed my broken heart and I am happy.
Same here my wife wants separation she's been lying to me but I just love her so much that I don't want to let my marriage fail
Me too.. i'm heartbroken. He's the life of my life
This only works if you have contact from the other side.
I am going through the same thing, because of all of my mistakes. I have hurt her so much, she cannot feel affection for me anymore. We just separated and I am destroyed. Having faith and going day by day, I pray to God that something or someone will touch her heart and make her reflect and give me another chance, a last chance at some point.
Same condition
The most painful and devastating thing I ever experienced was being separated from my wife of 25 yrs, it was killing me from the inside out, she of course acted like it didnt bother her at all, we never got back together but I'm ok and she seems to be ok, so all is good,
Yes my point to lots here exactly men do suffer but the women don't most of the time, they can move on without a second thought because they were already doing the dirty for a long time before found out or even sometimes you never find out. Yes it hurts been there done that in my youth but once I learned the hard way know one takes advantage and wins now I would just walk away without a word. You learn to cultivate a mindset of Indifference to protect yourself from bad people.
If you make an honest effort to make the marriage work and your spouse still walks away then you've done your part. That's all you can do. If they walk then they walk.
We would agree, but with a slant.
If you make an honest effort and do the RIGHT things to make the marriage work, and your spouse still walks away, then you can have peace knowing you've done all you can do. We are also understanding that the only person you can control is yourself. And sometimes, a spouse still chooses to walk away. That's why we always recommend you work on your PIES!
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Very informative thank you 🙏🏻 If you contact that specific person all you gonna get is ether no response or they will definitely over power you and you will feel even worse than before , when someone truly loves you from the heart they will always come to you . If they don’t. Don’t waste any more tears and let it go. That’s when miracles begin to happen. I’m heart broken myself but Thank God I just realize Things happens for a reason and we have to live life putting our trust in God and the universe. You will see magical things happen to you ✨🙏🏻
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As well as pray and stay positive. Wife of 10 years and four beautiful children is leaving, says she needs space and time apart. I just wish I had a time machine sometimes..
Good luck to you too if you’re going through it. Maybe it gets better but right now I wanna die just to escape this pain.
Pray
I just separated from my wife last night and kids haven't slept in two days,man and I truly miss my wife and kids,I no I'm a better husband and father than this, I'm so far away tore down can't explain, I have an awesome beautiful wife and kids
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Thanks Helena this process actually saved my broken home
Please pray with me for restoration of my marriage
Thank you... hope my husband had time to listen to this since he doesn't believe in counseling... I am in pain. I put my trust in God.
How are you guys now? Are you guys together now?
My wife just told me she is leaving me, I'm going to use this method. It's better than what I've been doing.
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Do you have a 1 month update for everyone?
@@MegaFinalRound she's still leaving, nothing has changed.
@Marriage Helper didn't work, she is gone. She ran off with a horrible person.
It is hard to have no contact when kids are involved.
Will recommend this video to many young couples who need guidance.
I been married 10 years. My wife,accuse me of cheating on her with a female co worker. We have a 10 year old daughter. My wife and i arr seperated for 3 years now. My wife told me to stop asking her when are we going back together becsuse we will never go back together. She said look for someone else. We are not divorce because i can not afford the divorce. I belive my marriage is not worth saving. Just pray for me maybe i will find someone else someday
And did you cheat or not? If not, maybe she is the one who did it and just wanted out. I'm sorry for your situation. It's heart breaking
Yeah, you better look for someone else and make it clear what should be counted as cheating in your next relationship.
I wonder, an accusation that lead to separation? 🤔
I have been married for 7 years to my high school sweetheart. We are separated now because i cannot control my emotions. I have anger that stems ftom frustration from employment. What some women dont realize is most men identity is assiociated with their career. We have 3 beautiful children and because i am so emotionally unstable and get angry at things that are small. Its a sick cycle... i hate being here, separated from my family. Divorce seems imminent. You can tell when someone doubts you. Calis conversation, this video is good but typing this is more therapeutic. I feel i always have to talk with someone cause i hate being by myself, to fight i sleep cause i hate being up. My family is doing their best to support but i am empty.
@Ron Garvin
That is true but i know what i did and didnt do. Feminism only takes over when we as men fail to love our wives as christ loved the church. Ask yourself, did you pray for your wife, children,etc? I know i didnt. Now im here and hurt and in a discord and she has my whold life with her meaning my children.
@Ron Garvin I understand Ron, God puts us in situations for us 2 see if we're willing to cast all your cares upon Him. I almost bet matter fact I guarantee each Time You Prayed during either one of those situations you beat them you beat which is why you were able to beat the cases and and feel better when you were going through your divorces. God put you in those situations because he tested your resilience however marriage is a matrimony brought by two people is beautiful if done right now you're absolutely right for the first comment about feminism and things like that because you know being emasculated as a man you intend to challenge the female but that's just due to headship. Things were out of order in your house although you prayed things were still out of order. As they are mine, I am unable 2 discipline my children properly. I'm unable to love unconditionally. The wife's duty is to respect the husband however when they when the husband is doing things that the wife can't respect it's almost like how. They think they could do bad all by themselves and that's the feminism birth. They can do bad by themselves why do they need us now your situation is unique bro why did your first wife feel that she could do that what were you not giving her at home that she thought she could cheat the second wife why does she feel that she can emasculate you those are questions I would ask myself verses put all the blame on feminism. Now I am not saying this to disrespect you at all.
@Ron Garvin totally agreed but remember this feminism only came about truly after World War II. Now feminism continues to be ostracized and pushed because we as men continue to manipulate and use our power and whatever we have to overstep women. Think about it Dartmouth the case going on there where the professor's use their authority to pretty much over take woman. Think about it and just stay home and watch the kids. Back in the day more domestic violence was occurring now domestic violence still does occur in at a higher rate because there's more people but back then men felt the need to take their frustrations out on women. No I want someone like my grandma mother call did not graduate college Nor high School. She relied solely on my grandpa who by the way was a minister. Good at times I feel like he used his authority to kind of rule over her yes. However he showed her love which in turn show she showed him respect. Now like you said the legal system is built to destroy all men and ripped the money from Men's pockets. Children are used as lottery tickets but we are at fault for that. Call me what you want but I don't blame myself for our separation. the reason why I said I do not blame myself is because I was not myself throughout this marriage. As you weren't as well and either one now it's how you is your perspective man like what yo I love to talk to you on the phone let's chat man
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I can’t believe how many of us are doing the EXACT SAME BEHAVIOURS….even if our marriages are past reconciliation, being “the best you” cannot be a bad thing. Especially when young kids are involved, their needs gotta be put first…and putting that other parent thru all YOUR emotions is robbing the children of both parents. Accept the new reality, don’t lean on the kids but remember YOU and your ex are all those little ones have to depend on. They need you both. We can get thru this. It’s our choice.
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My wife and I split up yesterday. Words can’t explain how much it hurts! I regret a lot of things I did. I hope by giving her space and time she will give our relationship another shot.
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going through the same thing with my wife. Last week she told me she wasn't happy in the marriage anymore and the day before our 5th year wedding anniversary she has left the house. I'm also hoping giving her a little bit of space may change things as it hurts so much.
Good luck to both of us!!!
I just moved out yesterday. I'm so scared the my marriage of 24 years is over. We are HS sweethearts and she is my best friend. I'm in so much pain and it's all my fault. She's tired of the pain I caused and wants me out to see of she still loves and misses me.
@@AlexMartinez-dy6qs I feel your pain. My fiancé just told me last month she’s not happy and wanted to seperate. I was completely blind sighted. I’ve now had to step back and give her space which is definitely killing me. I also like you made many mistakes over the relationship, that I don’t think will ever have the opportunity to fix.
It’s hard, everyday is a struggle, and it’s so sad that it got to this point.
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I'll never ever get married again.
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Please pray that my husband and I can restore our marriage and fix what is broken inside ourselves and can save our marriage . he just seems so cold and distant with me. Please pray for me as well. I send all of you prayers too. Separation and divorce is so hard and heartbreaking.
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This is complicated. If you have to do this much. That other person does not appreciate you.
This is what I fear I know, but I also know that wit Jesus, and or God, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE !!!!!!
Pray
True but, I love her. So much
But when you have made mistakes you have to.
As long as they are still in the state of mind they are in, they're NOT going to appreciate you. You have to go slow with this
Thankyou. I'm at the end of a long rope. We're separating everything down to food in the fridge. no physical contact in a year. she is still having an affair. I've been trying everything i can do, read, or anything....counsseling for months....I been working on me but we still snip or fight at times. Its a slow anxiety filled sad destruction of what was a wonderful marriage. I need to hear this and it gives me something to do in a vacuum.
I've been praying for my marriage to be restored. I'm past the anger stage and now I just want my family to be together again. In spite of the fact that he hurt me, I still love him. I know I can live without him but I don't really want to. I realized yesterday I'm not angry anymore and I still love him, so I've asked God to restore my marriage if it be His will. Then first thing this morning, I get on RUclips and this is the first video I see. 🙏🙏🙏 I watched this video and realized I have been doing everything she said not to do. I'm going to try this way and see what happens.
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"Failing and doing it over again" is really great advice. Every time I meet with my wife I say the things I think are perfect at the time, but realize immediately that my approach was anything but perfect.
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Wow, those items sound very mature and I can tell it comes from experience.
The stuff you said not to do has been everything I've been doing. If this works I will share this video everyday!!
Did it work
Idk. She did a lot of shady things so we barely speak because of my choice
I’m in a wreck my wife has left and wants a divorce I’ve begged cried pleaded your name it and she won’t let up. I don’t know what to do
I'm in between a real rock and a hard place.. I love my wife so much and I ruined everything, I need her back so badly... I pray God can help me I pray everyday
stay on the right path, period
These are good points, however are most effective when rooted in Christ through time in prayer and His Word. During my separation I would pray if the Lord would have me contact my spouse or be silent/wait. This was so helpful in building the bridge of communication that glorifies God and set us up for restoration. God led me, showed me what to do and kept His promises in restoring my marriage.
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Sometimes that person just doesn't want to make it work...
My wife and I are separated,but I’m not giving up hope to my marriage.Its just so hard for me right now because she is dating/seeing someone else but I know I’m strong inside.
Yes, it takes time to be the stronger person after being betrayed by your spouse. I am working on this & it does take time..patience. Life is not always easy but it is a learning experience. We are doing good & say I love yous. It will take time & nice gentle conversations are definitely the key.
@Angel Diamond Star , thanks. May God bless.
@Angel Diamond Star ,lol, that is ok..Happy Thanksgiving!
Allow and accept one hundred percent whatever your mate does, thinks and feels. In this way their negative feelings will weaken rapidly because their negative feelings is always looking for something in you to fight with. But when you stop fighting back, talking back and just go along with them ..just agree ..their negative feelings will have nothing to fight with. So you now no longer defend yourself . When they see this they will want to defend you.
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Hello happiness is all what you deserve and also happiness is priceless never give up on who you truly love , I can recommend you to someone great and powerful who helped me get my ex back recently and he can also help you just as he did mine too
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