PIES: The 4 Ways To Attract Your Spouse
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- Is everything you thought about attraction wrong?
Tired of feeling like you're just not attracting your spouse anymore? You're not alone. Most people think attraction is just about physical appearance, but there's so much more to it!
…Missing that magnetic pull you once felt towards your spouse? Wondering how to bring back that undeniable chemistry? Our complimentary mini-course dives deep into the secret ingredients for reigniting attraction. It's time to rewrite your love story - enroll for free! bit.ly/3UHoqzM
Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO of Marriage Helper, shares a powerful secret that can transform your relationship. It's all about the PIES of Attraction: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual.
In this video, you'll discover:
Why physical attraction is just one piece of the puzzle (and it's not the biggest one!)
How to connect with your spouse on a deeper level
The surprising way to make yourself more attractive (without even trying!)
A real-life story of how one woman saved her marriage using the PIES method
Even if your marriage is on the brink of divorce, there's hope! Marriage Helper has helped thousands of couples rekindle the spark and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.
Subscribe now for weekly videos packed with practical advice and inspiring stories to help you create a happy and lasting marriage.
Call us at 866-903-0990 or visit us at marriagehelper.com to get started on your journey to a better marriage!
••••••••••••••••••••••••
Want to learn how to stop your divorce and save your marriage?
Click here: bit.ly/3PxmDwa
Want 20% off your first month of your Save My Marriage membership?
Click the link and apply code "RUclips" at checkout!
🔥 bit.ly/3OhQJSg 🔥
Learn HOW to get them back with our FREE Mini Course: 👇
bit.ly/3m5qRv1
Thank you for watching! Be sure to like, subscribe, share, and turn on the notifications by clicking the bell!
Visit: www.marriagehelper.com/
Facebook: / marriagehelper
iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
0:00 Introduction
0:03 4 WAYS TO ATTRACT YOUR SPOUSE
1:19 THERE IS A PROCESS TO FALLING IN LOVE
2:27 PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
2:38 INTELLECTUAL ATTRACTION
4:11 SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION
4:54 IT COMES BACK TO EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION
8:30 YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOU
9:05 BECOME THE BEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE
11:23 ART OF ATTRACTION (PIES) BOOTCAMP (LINK IN DESCRIPTION)
14:29 KEEP WORKING ON YOU
Good to see that people value the sacred constitution of marriage and are willing to put efforts to make it work. I respect and pray for everyone trying. I feel marriage is a responsibility and a purification one has to go through. Its a journey of lifetimes
You mean sacred institution?
@@carolemoritz6937 yes
thank you, her vids have been helpful but i think i lost her, luv her alot! x1000
@@kassandrabarr6740 Best thing is to live close but separately, I don't know how your partner feels. Don't have any extra marital affairs or any affairs. Both of you. Its a sacrifice that will help your children also. They will also value and respect the institution of marriage. Both of you can also take up some meditation or yoga classes that can also help. Either together or separately. Take help from the lady in the video
This video should be required to view before a divorce or before marriage.
Wow! Thank you for the kind response. We have found the working on your PIES is the best thing you can do for YOU regardless of your situation or how it turns out. Thank you for the comment!
@@MarriageHelper another reality is that these kind of marriage helps (counseling) should be like you said, something you do all along. Everything has momentum, so if your marriage is not getting better, you might not realize it, but it's probably getting worse. Tips like you share here are great tips for all marriages.
I believe this is something every person in a relationship should watch. Change yourself first to see the change you want in others. Sooo good! ❤️
The power of prayer is key. I asked the LORD for help when I suspected my wife of cheating. He answered. As a result I started to look at myself more seeking to effect change. My closer examination of myself along with guidance through faith is beginning to look a lot like what you describe here. It is amazing how ones love for the other grows when one sets out to begin this process. You remember how good it is to be good to your spouse.
Amazing video! Every married couple should watch this. Now if I can get my wife to try this we can save our marriage. Praying everyday for reconciliation.
Wrong way to look at it initially. Just start with you!
Don't pray for reconciliation, even if it's what you want. Get your life together and let whatever will be to be. If she bails, you at least are ready to control your own destiny. If she comes back, then you will be a man and lead.
stop praying start reconciling... dont waste time on some BS nothingness ...
How’s your marriage going?
How did you get on?
Great video and very true. The only person you can change is yourself. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.
I have been recommending your organization to everyone who needs you!!!
This video has been enormously helpful more than your other videos combined.
I have noticed that working out is a good start and gets you on the track to focus on doing things that are good for you. Which is necessary to be happy in any relationship
This hits home for me. Thank you for the valuable information. I have forgotten how important the PIES are and my marriage has faltered after 39 years. I took it and him for granted.
@Adriene Smoldttl ?
This was fantastic and very helpful. Thank you, Kimberly!
Thank you for this video. I decided to focus on myself and pray for myself my marriage. I am so exhausted to be honest but I still want to save my marriage.
This is exactly what i needed to hear rn, that i have not gotten from any talks with my friends. Thank youu!
My wife and I are separated.. after our separation I’ve been applying this without even knowing. But to know I was on the right path, it was a Godly sign. Thank you. It helped me so much!
@madtofuboi808 update on the marriage?
Did your wife come back to you
How did this work out for you?
This was BY FAR the best advice I’ve seen. After at least 10 prior channels, I’ve stopped crying during your video. I need to work on ME. I’m gonna sub. Thank you.
I truly thank God for you! I’m just in tears at how God gave us you . I’m so thankful for the testimony of the saved marriage.
This is amazing. Been married for 32 years. Personal change. Very important stuff to help me hit the reset button
@@forte642
Can you share some good success tips of your 32 year marriage? Thanks 🙏
I love the PIES! Thank you for all the information.
Thank you so much for this insightful, game-changing information!
Thank you so much, my Sister, for this! I needed to hear this for my marriage. It just hurts so much in being in a sexless, loveless, and touchless marriage. God bless you for your advice! Peace be with you!
How is it going now, brother?
I know exactly how you feel. It hurts so much. Where is that woman that used to wrap her arms around me when I came home from work and gave me a kiss and told me she was happy to see me?
This is such an amazing video. Personal account of someone's own life /relationship
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for your testimony. This brings great insight to how I see what I need to do to fix my own personnel problems. Thank you.
One of the things is do not make a big deal out of most everything. Couples argued a lot of time with petty stuffs that amount to nothing. Think on the positive erase the negatives, life is too short compares to eternity. Our life span on earth dissipate and disappear quite fast when we look back in life. Spiritual readiness is quite important. Amen
I think this is the best video and guidance ive ever seen. And the first time ive felt any hope in my situation at all. Thank you so much.
This spoke to me- thank you for sharing your story- I am currently in a separation and I noticed I was just sitting around waiting for my spouse to ask to see me or even come back and I stopped doing for me. Now I plan to do things I love and date me.
I’m going through a divorce now and the more I focus on the PIES, the more I realize that he’s not even the kind of person I want to attract anymore. The more you work on the PIES, the more you grow, and sometimes you realize that you’re actually worth so much more than what you’re trying to hold onto...
Kendra i know o f a poweful man whol h e l p me restore my family
What's Appi
+1 2 2 6 2 8 6 8 6 7 8
+2349037563748
That’s the wrong take away
This is such great advice. SO true.
Awesome video! Love it!
Thank you so much for this valuable information!
These are honestly some of the best and most helpful videos I've ever seen. Thank you.
+2349037563748
That help me attract my ex partner back after seperation
I came across this at the right time when I am feeling like my relationship is falling apart, i need to adopt the PIES strategy
this is so great! God bless you for your dedicated work. I love you marriage advocacy ❤
My wife has met someone on line and she tells me that there is an unbelievable emotional attraction. She has fallen in love with him, even though she hasn't met him. So much so, that she wants out of our marriage to be with him. He has no money and is not good looking, but the emotional connection with him has destroyed my marriage of 35 years. I can't compete with that. It destroyed me.
Pray
@@dianachophy thank you. I am, and her friends. I have made my bathroom a "war room" where i pray when she's asleep. She wants to go and see him, so I am, amongst other things, praying for discord between them before she goes.
@@daveleighton4683 how are things now?
@daveleighton4683 Hey, how are things?
That was amazing!
Great video! TY for your real-life example
Thank you for all these beautiful words
I subscribed after hearing your testimony.
Thanks for sharing.
Thanks for making this video 😊😊😊 i learned a lot...
I have been working on all these I love you Micque you are my life.💖
Great content. Thank you.
So helpful thank you so much :)
Thank you for this video.
Best videos ever with lots of hope
Thank you for this.
Everything she says hits the nail on the head. I'm destroyed but now I have an idea of what I need to do Thank You!!!
Use law of attraction in my bio for fast result
@@HelenaHart_SPELLS thanks it helped me save my marriage
I LOVE ❤️ this!!! I really need to start working on me. Everyone tells me that, but it’s hard to know what that looks like and how to start.
I’m with you on that! “Keep busy” “work on yourself” is what EVERYONE says & I’m just like how?? But this video has given a starting point.
I was against how you started,but you shore open my eyes wow!I went through a simarlier situation.
My husband told me about a month ago that he fell out of love with me. I have been working on myself since. Ive been going to therapy and been working on my physical and emotional healing already. I'm just glad I am on the right track for myself.
it is sad to have a broken home, use law of attraction in my bio
Thanks Helena this helped me save my broken marriage
Loved this!
My marriage is broken and you give me hope! Wow this is a great video!!!!
We waiting?
Definitely going to try the PIES for Me!
thank you so much for this advice. I will be chasing this and achieving thank you!
It is sad to have a broken home, use law of attraction in my bio
Thanks Helena it save my broken marriage
Thank you Kimberly ❤
This is great advice 👏, I have done the PIES and it does work.
+2349037563748
Great video. This is helping me a lot through my own break up.
Thank you so much Serg Milli. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on RUclips. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
Blessings,
This makes perfect sense.
thank you for this
I learned too much , right now me and my husband wasn't in a good situation but coz of your program i've a lot thank you very much
Very Good Stuff!!!
What a wonderful video. This is like a softer version of the red pill. Yes; working on yourself is always the first step.
Just love this speech thanks alot 🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you so much for sharing your story it was very helpful and informative. Unfortunately I went through the divorce even when focusing on myself but he was a narcissist and drank. But going forward I will keep this saved in mind for future relationships. I’ve been single for 10 years and I really needed to hear this today to get me out of my slump and back to the vivacious woman I used to be. Again thank you 🙏🏻
Love it 😻
Thank you so much
This made me cry so hard. I'm going through the same thing and nothing is going right
So sorry to hear this friend. Please get in contact with us!! We would love to help you and be your support system during this time!! You can call us at 1 866 903 0990! And also please consider getting our free mini course to help you learn how to get your spouse back!
Free course here:
bit.ly/3FAr9Vg
We hope it helps!
This was an excellent video!
Awesome Advice ....
Thank you alot for the help
Thank you so much for this information it really help me an I been married 38 yr but you can always learn how to keep your marriage happy ❤️
Glad it was helpful!
Thank You So much❤
So grateful for your contant as I kee coming back to keep on track with my marriage
That's amazing Diane! Thank you for coming back! Please subscribe so you can be notified whenever we post new content! We post a LOT of new videos every week! We'd love to be your support system during this time. Thank you again!
Great video
Wonderful content that can apply to any couple
+2349037563748
Thanks alot Kemberly
This is amazing, i definitely blamed my wife for a long long time for not growing together, when in reality shes changing while i remained stagnant
Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. Invariably they are both disappointed. - Albert Einstein.
Thank you !
Your story with your husband is exactly what I am going through right now. The only thing is, it's too late. He is with the other woman. However this video taught me that I don't do anything for myself. I will start to do the Pies for myself. For my next relationship, but most importantly for myself
Hi friend,i really understand how you feel right now,do you really need help?
I know of someone that helped me get my husband come running back to me.
He cn hlp you get your husband come running back to you.
W.h.z.t.s.a.p.p.h.i.m....now
I really trust him so much,he cn hlp you.
Very similar to my wife and my story. I have been you. My marriage is on the brink but I believe I've started the work that needed to be done before it was too late
Shift focus is paramount I changed my life as well being married to someone with NPD... for me the question is: WHAT DO YOU WANT?
This is very wise advice that works!
Use law of attraction in my bio for fast result
@@HelenaHart_SPELLS thanks it helped me save my marriage
Thank you so much, I needed to hear this.
Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean
I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation
What.xap
+ 2348119132200
Discovering this is exactly what I need to be doing. I've come to terms with things I did in our relationship and know what needs changed. I have a vision of our future if my wife would reconsider. I have learned two emotions that make me tetter-totter. I've never been able to see what these emotions are doing to me and others before. I'm sad and feel defeated with no hope and I also see there is hope in myself to be stronger. I love my wife and want it to work out but also learning to accept it not working out. I don't want to be in a dark place again. My wife also did things and she confessed infedelity. The situation on that end I am forgiving. But I don't want to be brought down all the time for the things that I only did. I just need to be the real me like I use to be.
I can't believe how similar your situation is with mine. I'm also stuck in my little house in Korea waiting for my husbands return daily. We fight just like you did. I have recently started to work on my P and I but I never knew that I should work on the E and S as well. This is such an eye opener. I will work on myself and thank you for the video
thank you so much It's an eye opener because I'm in the situation now i do hope and pray to do what I'm supposed to do....🙏wish me luck!!!!
Thank you so much @irishey0801. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on RUclips. PLEASE Subscribe if you haven't already! We post new content regularly! And also, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. Our phone number is 1 866 903 0990! We'd love to be your support system!
Blessings,
If I'm taking care of me, maturing, learning, feeling excited about life and it's opportunities, then he's bound to be re-attracted or perhaps it will become clear that this match has outgrown one another and become time to find a new one - maybe even with myself. Find a refreshing role in my own life as the one I champion and root for.
I appreciate the idea behind working on PIES. Its true but realistically. I think it all comes down to the hearts and its intentions. Realistically too, what if either one of us is mentally ill, sickly and is dependant on the other? Will they only love us when we are at our best? What about in times of sickness and in times of bad? We come into marriage to also love our spouses even in inconvenience. Thats true love.
U r so right. Love is a commitment. Yes,,together in sickness too, but always try to improve, Don t give up
Aha moment for me, thank you for giving me so much hope .🇿🇦🇿🇦
Perfectly said
Wow...this was so true this is kinda my life
This is very true , thank you for this amazing video
Hi friend, do you need help to get your ex back to you????????
There is someone that can help you get your ex back to you
His name Dr Eseohe
Watzap him now…………
+2348084023955⏯⏯
It's a shame that my husband of 25 years didn't care if I started working on the things that I needed to change about myself he was already disconnected from me and the marriage and was ultimately ready to move on
Don’t lose hope. I send your hugs, you’re not alone
I'm single and this video is very good, it's help in the future. Thank you.
I agree 👍 very helpful
This happen to me I would work so much we lost connection 😞. She lost the feeling for me. We have 2 kids. She never talked about it she hold it in. Now im changing my bad ways she has notice it. Now she's leaving to a 1 room apartment we both gonna share the kids. Im not gonna give up on my wife she's still mad n upset with me. Ima give her space n time to heal
I'm sorry to here that I wish my partner acknowledged that I'm in a process off moving out but you keep fighting even if you have to send her a letter or flowers every day
I recommend you to a man who return my ex back
He brought my ex back..
+2349048847300
This was great, I been tryin to find out about "my husband has cheated on me what do i do" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Bonuhappad Intellectual Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off product for discovering how to understand what your husband wishes you knew about him minus the normal expense. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got excellent success with it.
I am never married but this make so much sense
great advice, thx much
Whatsspp him
+2348140610301
Thank you
I LOVE the pies!!!
You are amazing
I like that you bring up God! I really like your videos. My marriage is doing really good. It has had it’s ups and downs and it really almost went south a few years ago. I decided I wanted to keep moving forward. Sometimes even though things are good, I feel a little distance but not the suspicion that something is going on. I just want to keep things really good between us before I could do anything to push him away. I have that kind of personality at times, but I am aware of it. I am working on myself. Thanks again!
This is the best advice I had ever heard
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and make your ex come back to you????????
Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and make my ex come running back to me.
He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Whatzap him now for help..............