Spouse In Limerence with SOMEONE ELSE? - 3 Do’s and Don’ts if YOUR Spouse is Infatuated with Someone

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  • Опубликовано: 17 фев 2021
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Комментарии • 146

  • @MarriageHelper
    @MarriageHelper  3 года назад +7

    Learn more about Limerence in our Save My Marriage Course:
    marriagehelper.com/product/save-my-marriage/
    This course consists of 12 videos that tell you exactly what to do to help you save your marriage.
    We truly hope to see you on our next marriage helper support call guided by one of our coaches!
    Blessings,
    Marriage Helper

  • @anthonyanaletto8482
    @anthonyanaletto8482 3 года назад +11

    Wife almost did everything right. She tried to educate me but I had already decided this was limerence and did my own research. I found all the good and very little bad in it. She also would say things about my LO in attempts to hurt me and get me to react to her. She did the best she could with what I gave her to work with.

  • @kentuckyjustice1408
    @kentuckyjustice1408 3 года назад +53

    My wife said "I love you, you treat me better than anyone ever has and you give me everything I want; I'm leaving you." When I spoke with our family physician and a practicing psychologist (that I know and trust), telling them of her recent behavior changes (& personal medical changes), they said she's in crisis and to get her in to see somebody, suggesting a gynecologist would be the best first contact. My wife says she's not seeing anyone because there's nothing wrong with her, yet she exhibits textbook examples of a person in a midlife crisis, including a total 180° turn on everything in her life. I'd love to see a video about how to deal with that demon. I'm watching helplessly while I lose the love of my life and my best friend.

    • @organicita602
      @organicita602 2 года назад +6

      Sending positive energy your ay Kentucky. So sorry you are going through this and hoping you are n a better position with your own healing from this damage.

    • @daddydiesel8991
      @daddydiesel8991 2 года назад +8

      Going through the same. I hope everything works out for you.

    • @martiemyers2374
      @martiemyers2374 2 года назад +1

      What do you mean by medical changes? Like her psychological stressors are causing physical problems?

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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  • @TM_Stone
    @TM_Stone 3 года назад +57

    It's just incredible the disrespect nowadays. The people whining about Dr. Beam getting to the point have either low attention spans or haven't gone through this. Trust me, you want to listen to every word this man has to say plus nobody is tying you to a chair to listen.

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад +2

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @puppychow
    @puppychow Год назад

    Amazing video sir. Thank you

  • @stephaniegordon834
    @stephaniegordon834 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yes I'd like to see a video about your partner going through a midlife crisis affair and being in limerence with the affair partner

  • @markcampbell5293
    @markcampbell5293 9 месяцев назад

    Amen, Dr Beam...way down the timeline myself, 10 years, But u R right on in more aspects than Just limrence.

  • @Johnmiller-hp4mt
    @Johnmiller-hp4mt 3 года назад +10

    I'm really excited about this one....... I was expecting a little more than that

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  3 года назад +9

      We are only scratching the surface when it comes to limerence. We will actually be recording an ENTIRE COURSE diving into the little details surrounding limerence! We will definitely let you know once it's finished if you are interested in learning more about limerence!
      Thank you,
      Marriage Helper

    • @Johnmiller-hp4mt
      @Johnmiller-hp4mt 3 года назад

      @@MarriageHelper 👍

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @afiyatorres3676
    @afiyatorres3676 2 года назад +3

    I find your videos interesting thanks for sharing. Is there any other info you give me. I am a housewife in Guyana .

  • @MrJtonic
    @MrJtonic 3 года назад +10

    wish this came out earlier i feel like i did all the wrong things so far

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад +1

      Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      What.xap

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 3 года назад +10

    My wife had affair i never imagined this -it’s been two years now since they were active and things are worse now she acts like she’s missing out and brings up divorce / the ap apparently started dating someone else and it made her angry it seems - I’m not sure if she is talking to him and they are planning a reunite and she’s sabotaging our marriage again or if she’s just generally angrily bc he’s with someone else now -

    • @jackdeniston59
      @jackdeniston59 3 года назад +4

      She is gone. She left. Look to doing things you want to. Stay in the house though, she has to leave.

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      What.xap

    • @rosegimbert6213
      @rosegimbert6213 3 года назад

      + 2348119132200

  • @marleneazevedo1101
    @marleneazevedo1101 3 года назад +18

    Does limerance only apply to affairs? My husband got into a serious relationship with a woman as soon as I moved out of the house. He has changed soo much, I don't even recognize him anymore.

    • @anthonyanaletto8482
      @anthonyanaletto8482 3 года назад +3

      It does not. You can have limerence with a significant other. I had it in one form or another for 15 years with my wife.

    • @jeanetteoneil4562
      @jeanetteoneil4562 2 года назад +4

      How could a grown up find someone that quickly? Either he was already seeing her or it was an affair that was moved in as a live-in. Limerance is experienced by some many times. Then they have the big one that takes them down. That is what happened to me.

    • @marleneazevedo1101
      @marleneazevedo1101 2 года назад +5

      @@jeanetteoneil4562 he started seeing her, if i can guess, around June or July 2020. I moved out in September. I just don't understand how this relationship take off so fast. Within months they were planning on having a baby and getting married. Lucky, that hasnt happened yet.

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

  • @iamtroll8334
    @iamtroll8334 Год назад

    Does the workshop have video counseling as well or in person counseling?

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Год назад

      Hey I AM TROLL, thank you for showing interest in our Workshops! We offer a couples online and in-person workshop as well as a Solo Spouse workshop in case your spouse is unwilling to attend. You can learn more about our workshops by following this link directly! If anything works to save your marriage, this will. marriagehelper.com/workshops/

    • @iamtroll8334
      @iamtroll8334 Год назад

      @@MarriageHelper thank you so much!

  • @joannemiele3058
    @joannemiele3058 2 года назад +5

    When are you going to say what limerance is

    • @allthingshigh
      @allthingshigh 2 года назад +2

      Look up Narcissism. Narcissism and limerence go hand in hand like Godzilla and King Kong.

  • @j.james.s.2412
    @j.james.s.2412 6 месяцев назад

    Nope. Not sarcasm, hadn't heard the word limerence prior to searching what I did.

  • @triciamaevillacampa3696
    @triciamaevillacampa3696 2 года назад +4

    I had an online affair for a month I'm trying to reconnect with my husband again . It's hard
    I don't know 😪 I need help

    • @FlawleZ31
      @FlawleZ31 Год назад +2

      How is it going now?

    • @Fisva
      @Fisva Год назад

      How did it go?

  • @jaytee1194
    @jaytee1194 3 года назад +12

    My husband is in this confused state. He said he loves me and he also cant let this other woman go. We live in Australia and cant come to the workshop. How do we get the help we need.

    • @lirettezky99
      @lirettezky99 3 года назад +2

      They do it online

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  3 года назад +3

      Jay we actually do the workshop online! We will be returning to in-person workshops when it is safe to do so, but the online workshops have proven to have the same success rate. Dr. Joe Beam himself said that there are MORE benefits to attending online, rather than in-person because of different factors like saving money on travel expenses.
      Feel free to check out these resources to learn more about the workshop!
      marriagehelper.com/workshops/
      Workshop Dates:
      marriagehelper.com/calendar-marriage-workshops-seminars/
      Workshop Attendee Testimonials:
      ruclips.net/p/PLdkl7uIm4ofjZFBpPemnvGwUG5c2GlqRM
      Let us know if you have any questions!
      Also, if you'd like to chat with one of our team members to go through the details (it's free to talk to them), then you can follow this easy call scheduling link!
      your.marriagehelper.com/meetings/marriagehelper/connect
      Blessings,
      Marriage Helper

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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  • @jaworks1987
    @jaworks1987 2 года назад +5

    my wife is currently under meds coz she has depression and now in lemerence with someone else and she kicked me out.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 2 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want to recover our relationship/get ex back or a specific person.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 2 года назад

      Mr Muduguru is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he recover mine and he can also help you.

    • @ruthokpere4344
      @ruthokpere4344 2 года назад

      ±2348119132200⏭⏭
      WHAR'SAP HIM.

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 Год назад

      Update us

    • @vedinthorn
      @vedinthorn Год назад

      The one thing about my situation is that I was never going to be kicked out. Even if she wanted to kick me out I was just going to keep coming home. It's my house, too. She has no legal right to make me leave.

  • @w4447
    @w4447 Год назад +5

    this guy must be the professor of doormat university. No maybe he's the dean.

    • @stavokg
      @stavokg 25 дней назад

      This is very funny

  • @raijopullan3606
    @raijopullan3606 2 года назад +4

    My x and I have children now she is relationship with a rich guy cos I went broke in buisness and also jobless due to pandemic, what should I do

    • @bbarnett7667
      @bbarnett7667 Год назад

      Rebuild by focusing on you. Hopefully you will heal and no longer yearn for someone who walked out because things got tough for you.

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 Год назад

      Update us

    • @whodinijonas6411
      @whodinijonas6411 Год назад

      Rebuild yourself and make her regret her choice

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 Год назад

      Give us an update will you

    • @vedinthorn
      @vedinthorn Год назад

      If she's hypergamous by nature, that's a pretty normal thing for women. Doesn't make it right, though. It depends on why she left exactly. Did she worry about providing for the children and herself? Demonstrate that she has nothing to fear. Did she leave because she just wants a high cost lifestyle? She's gone. Was it due to limerence and it just happened that the person was rich? She may fall out of that soon if not already.
      There are thousands of factors to consider.

  • @RAsVault
    @RAsVault 2 года назад +18

    I know this channel tries its best to save marriages. I respect that. But they also assume that the marriage was a perfect match from the wedding. Sometimes people marry too young, in a rush, under pressure from family, etc.. Sometimes it's not even an affair partner. It's just that people grow up and grow apart and change their minds about what they want for their life. Limerance might also serve for self realization. To force people to stay together can also result in dysfunction, resentment and hold them back from a better life--for the both parties.

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад +2

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Whatsappin him 👍☝️🤘👍🤝

    • @christianmagno984
      @christianmagno984 2 года назад

      RAsVault you are a marxist! When you marry you are married forever! It's a promise! Who broke that promise commite betrayal and betrayal must be punished by death penalty.

    • @ToFishTeacher
      @ToFishTeacher Год назад +3

      Sounds like you're in limerence!

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w Год назад +2

    Dans tout circonstances je me suis déjà pris mes responsabilités à m'engage à mes propres engagements et si je que ce n'est pas vraie et réel je me désengage à mes propres intentions et je vie ma vie à ce qui me compatible à ma vie c'est tout je dis merci

  • @shrodingerscat4191
    @shrodingerscat4191 4 дня назад

    What is the point?
    There is no point

  • @christianegreller-winkler710
    @christianegreller-winkler710 2 года назад +1

    How do I apply for the workshop. I stand for my marriage, but he is confused.. Also do to the fact of limerence. I currently work on my pies, committed to forgiveness, and also smart contacts.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  2 года назад +1

      Hey Christiane Greller-Winkler, thank you for showing interest in our Workshops! We offer a couples online and in-person workshop as well as a Solo Spouse workshop in case your spouse is unwilling to attend. You can learn more about our workshops by following this link directly! If anything works to save your marriage, this will. marriagehelper.com/workshops/

    • @tyetr9853
      @tyetr9853 Год назад

      Update us

  • @voulapetrakos8336
    @voulapetrakos8336 3 года назад +4

    Are u kidding me my husband is ivolvrd with our sons mother naw! been married for 47 years to this man and have 6grown children!!!0

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

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  • @user-hn2xt7wi8o
    @user-hn2xt7wi8o 8 месяцев назад

    Monsieur s' il vous plaît arrêter vos abus ok

  • @JackieMoss
    @JackieMoss 10 месяцев назад +3

    totally annoying. not my type of advice or counseling.

  • @nories8193
    @nories8193 2 года назад +6

    Get to the point!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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  • @TJ-kk5zf
    @TJ-kk5zf 3 года назад +10

    get to the point!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

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  • @shanneajones9421
    @shanneajones9421 3 года назад +8

    You take to long to get to the point at hand

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together..

    • @wasilazakari7566
      @wasilazakari7566 2 года назад

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  • @ggjj999
    @ggjj999 2 года назад +4

    Get to the point!!!

    • @danielhappiness7972
      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

      I can recommend you to a man who helped me bring back my ex permanent he can also help you.......

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      @danielhappiness7972 2 года назад

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  • @wartits
    @wartits 3 месяца назад

    Very slow video... without any real meaningful information, just very basic advice that I'd class as common sense.