I love PIES..... down to goal weight. Lifting weights. Reading books. Listening to podcasts. Smiling. Compliments. Our marriage is renewed. Getting remarried together next April. Next year is 22 years!
SOOOO Immensely happy for you! Please pray for me (us) - I am the one pursuing the reconciliation! I am 100 percent committed! I am practicing SMART contact now. took me a while to get it. I am only a month in.
I’m a retired old dude. In my experience, P. is the least of these. It lasts the least time. It fades. However, I might suggest that if you connect on I and E and S, P will never really die. A kind, patient, joyful woman gets better looking over time. A supermodel who is self-centered can seem beautiful at the beginning of a date but ugly by the end.
This. We’re all in sales and we just don’t know it. The first thing someone sees is your physical appearance. While it obviously isn’t the most important for longevity in a relationship, it goes a long way taking care of how you look, market and present yourself.
I listen to these videos and they make so much sense .Things that should be so clear to us and we dismiss them. I am currently separated and have been watching Marriage Helpers ( more like learning from ) more about the areas that I have made mistakes but the mistakes can be fixed. I know that thru this learning phase that if my wife and I get back together it will never be the same ,but if what I learned here is applied it would 100% better!
Craig campbell praying for you, man! I’m in the same boat. These videos are awesome and really helping me work on myself to be a better version of myself in order to be the best possible husband. I miss my wife so much but am willing to work and do anything and everything it takes.
I hope you and your wife got back together and having great relationships now 2024. I’m currently separating I want to transform myself so I can be better wife for my husband
A nice example of balance. Some of us need to be conscious of not being 'too pleasing', at the expense of our own needs and comfort, as this too inevitably becomes unattractive.
I enjoyed the video. After it I still didn’t have an idea on how to get closer to a co-worker. There isn’t really anything that I’m not intrigued of with her. However when I asked her to lunch, she said yes, then kept telling me she’d let me know later regarding a day and time. Eventually I just stopped. I don’t know what to do to get her more interested in me. It’s probably important to know that I’m a bit of a people pleaser, I always to express a smile and general joy when around ppl, along with being very intimidated by women I am interested in romantically. I can’t figure this out and am feeling doomed to b alone bcuz I can’t tap into whichever process and means to become an interest to the girl in interested in…
So nice and I have tried over and over ..he will not allow me to say even the first sentence without interrupting me and over powering the conversation...no matter what I say , how I say it...I talk , he treats me like I am invisable..he talks , it's over whelming negative and he's got to be right and is willing to die on every hill ..he will overpower all conversations ...I have got to thevpoint where I just don't start a conversation unless it's about the kids and even then I usually text it now...when he does talk to me if I don't react the way he wants, say the right thing at the right tome..basically read his mind, and especially if I have a different belief or opinion..I better not voice it or say anything or I get a long lecture about how much he hates talking to me because he sees me as disrespectful..I have worked on my pies , SC, and do say I understand and accept that's what you think ..and have dropped the ...but I see it differently ending ..to just I accept that's what you believe , and he's so very nasty and in public now whispers put downsin my ear...I don't know what more can I do? I just don't engage anymore and have gone to just waiting till he is done unloading on me to leave the room...it's a hard thing to try to navigate
I am feeling very strong within since all that is taught by you and your team opens the doors of our mental set up during such situations like affairs by any of the spouse.Thanks very many thanks. Harpal from India
I need help. I'm having headaches, panic attacks, and really struggling to function. I'm doing my best to care for myself, but I feel like I'm fighting a sense of paralysis, and my heart is pounding... As I gently guide my thoughts away from unproductive places, I find intermittent moments of stability, but I feel like I'm drowning.
That’s an unavoidable phase for many. Find support through positive friends and communities. God is the answer for all things. He is the ultimate satisfaction
My one. The grass is greener syndrom. He is not interested a d looking to trade me for a younger model. I am resigned after 2 years of trying it is taking me nowhere.
Is it possible for one to be attracted and the other just bring friendly, then to go to acceptance and then get married. By passing or just going along so as not to hurt the other person's feeling. I am the one who is weak in character and doesn't want to be open, honest, and transparent. I have been lying most of our marriage so as not to hurt her feelings. What do I do?
You spend so much time explaining the acronyms for pies and smart and selling your workshop thst you never actually get into the nitty gritty And yes i have purchased both your smart and pies boot camps.
The fresh perspective of this content is enlightening. A book with like themes offered a transformative view of life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Marriage is a contract, an agreement to be together, each others one and only, also the “paper” covers a lot of legal stuff, property, money, investments, children (if any) if you can’t commit to that one person, if you’re not strong enough to control yourself (no infidelity) be 100% loyal, caring and trustworthy marriage is not for you.
I understand what you're trying to help, but the name of their channel is literally marriage helper. Their are counselors that can help you uncouple, but these are not those people. It's like asking a g.i. specialist to help you with neurological issues. They are doctors but specialize in different areas
Très important sur mes options oui je vous donne toujours mes options sont je suis vraiment honnête sur mes engagements envers vous kim soyez surtout seulement une qui est vraiment aimée par quelqu'un oui
I love PIES..... down to goal weight. Lifting weights. Reading books. Listening to podcasts. Smiling. Compliments. Our marriage is renewed. Getting remarried together next April. Next year is 22 years!
We are happy to hear your success story! :)
SOOOO Immensely happy for you! Please pray for me (us) - I am the one pursuing the reconciliation! I am 100 percent committed! I am practicing SMART contact now. took me a while to get it. I am only a month in.
@@dkgnew I hope things go well for u. Keep pursuing. Keep working on yourself regardless.
I just finished the pie right now
Sherri DeVries wow congratulations 🎊🎉
I’m a retired old dude. In my experience, P. is the least of these. It lasts the least time. It fades. However, I might suggest that if you connect on I and E and S, P will never really die. A kind, patient, joyful woman gets better looking over time. A supermodel who is self-centered can seem beautiful at the beginning of a date but ugly by the end.
True but being obese, not taking care of your hygiene is never going to be a plus
This.
We’re all in sales and we just don’t know it. The first thing someone sees is your physical appearance. While it obviously isn’t the most important for longevity in a relationship, it goes a long way taking care of how you look, market and present yourself.
I listen to these videos and they make so much sense .Things that should be so clear to us and we dismiss them. I am currently separated and have been watching Marriage Helpers ( more like learning from ) more about the areas that I have made mistakes but the mistakes can be fixed. I know that thru this learning phase that if my wife and I get back together it will never be the same ,but if what I learned here is applied it would 100% better!
Craig campbell praying for you, man! I’m in the same boat. These videos are awesome and really helping me work on myself to be a better version of myself in order to be the best possible husband. I miss my wife so much but am willing to work and do anything and everything it takes.
How did it turn out? I am in a similar boat and early in the process.
I hope you and your wife got back together and having great relationships now 2024. I’m currently separating I want to transform myself so I can be better wife for my husband
A nice example of balance. Some of us need to be conscious of not being 'too pleasing', at the expense of our own needs and comfort, as this too inevitably becomes unattractive.
I just ordered Joes book the art of falling in love and Mr Gottmans book seven principles. Anything I can learn I’m all for it! Thank you
Thank you so much, Amy! Hope you enjoy it and learn a TON! ❤️
Ok, so now we need you to put out a video teaching us how to be charismatic 😊
Steven R Covey talks about the same concept of emotional, spiritual, mental, and physical aspects of human relations.
I enjoyed the video. After it I still didn’t have an idea on how to get closer to a co-worker. There isn’t really anything that I’m not intrigued of with her. However when I asked her to lunch, she said yes, then kept telling me she’d let me know later regarding a day and time. Eventually I just stopped. I don’t know what to do to get her more interested in me. It’s probably important to know that I’m a bit of a people pleaser, I always to express a smile and general joy when around ppl, along with being very intimidated by women I am interested in romantically. I can’t figure this out and am feeling doomed to b alone bcuz I can’t tap into whichever process and means to become an interest to the girl in interested in…
So nice and I have tried over and over ..he will not allow me to say even the first sentence without interrupting me and over powering the conversation...no matter what I say , how I say it...I talk , he treats me like I am invisable..he talks , it's over whelming negative and he's got to be right and is willing to die on every hill ..he will overpower all conversations ...I have got to thevpoint where I just don't start a conversation unless it's about the kids and even then I usually text it now...when he does talk to me if I don't react the way he wants, say the right thing at the right tome..basically read his mind, and especially if I have a different belief or opinion..I better not voice it or say anything or I get a long lecture about how much he hates talking to me because he sees me as disrespectful..I have worked on my pies , SC, and do say I understand and accept that's what you think ..and have dropped the ...but I see it differently ending ..to just I accept that's what you believe , and he's so very nasty and in public now whispers put downsin my ear...I don't know what more can I do? I just don't engage anymore and have gone to just waiting till he is done unloading on me to leave the room...it's a hard thing to try to navigate
How do you have difficult conversations if you shouldn’t talk about things that might upset your partner?????
I am feeling very strong within since all that is taught by you and your team opens the doors of our mental set up during such situations like affairs by any of the spouse.Thanks very many thanks. Harpal from India
I got married on Pie day, so this was perfect.
I need help. I'm having headaches, panic attacks, and really struggling to function. I'm doing my best to care for myself, but I feel like I'm fighting a sense of paralysis, and my heart is pounding... As I gently guide my thoughts away from unproductive places, I find intermittent moments of stability, but I feel like I'm drowning.
Ojaiheather I am with you 💔
Me too since I learned of my wife’s infidelity .. it’s horrible and I still want to save our marriage
Omg, I feel like I wrote this. In fact, I wrote these exact things to my husband in text
That’s an unavoidable phase for many. Find support through positive friends and communities. God is the answer for all things. He is the ultimate satisfaction
This dudes smooth asl😭
I would like some more information on what to do if he hates me please
My one. The grass is greener syndrom. He is not interested a d looking to trade me for a younger model. I am resigned after 2 years of trying it is taking me nowhere.
Please talk about why we settle?
That's easy... desperation.
Is it possible for one to be attracted and the other just bring friendly, then to go to acceptance and then get married. By passing or just going along so as not to hurt the other person's feeling. I am the one who is weak in character and doesn't want to be open, honest, and transparent. I have been lying most of our marriage so as not to hurt her feelings. What do I do?
I thought you said the "love PATCH." meaning howto save your marriage!
You spend so much time explaining the acronyms for pies and smart and selling your workshop thst you never actually get into the nitty gritty
And yes i have purchased both your smart and pies boot camps.
How to show your spouse on board with seeing you for the attractive person that I am, when he's been in an affair with someone else
Amazing piece of information... I wish I knew it few years back...
Is emotional attraction being assertive
Hey, Carson the Butler Is real ! 😂
The fresh perspective of this content is enlightening. A book with like themes offered a transformative view of life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
The golf club scenario comes across as condescending and manipulative
Am I the only one that thinks that he looks like Foghorn Leghorn?
Aaaaahahahahahahaahahaha. Dave I actually laughed out loud!!!😂😂😂
Why don't you offer help in people breaking up. It makes more sense. Marriage is an old outdated piece of paper.
Uuh, no, it's not. Never will be. It's like saying breathing air is so old, common and outdated. 🤦🏼♂️
Marriage is a contract, an agreement to be together, each others one and only, also the “paper” covers a lot of legal stuff, property, money, investments, children (if any) if you can’t commit to that one person, if you’re not strong enough to control yourself (no infidelity) be 100% loyal, caring and trustworthy marriage is not for you.
I understand what you're trying to help, but the name of their channel is literally marriage helper. Their are counselors that can help you uncouple, but these are not those people. It's like asking a g.i. specialist to help you with neurological issues. They are doctors but specialize in different areas
Très important sur mes options oui je vous donne toujours mes options sont je suis vraiment honnête sur mes engagements envers vous kim soyez surtout seulement une qui est vraiment aimée par quelqu'un oui