TONY SAID THIS INTERVIEW IS NOT FOR THE LOW ATTENTION SPAN 😂 IF YOU WATCHED THE WHOLE INTERVIEW Y’ALL ARE THE REAL MVPS!! DROP A 🔥 IF YOU COMPLETED IT. I’ll drop the Time stamps a little later 🥰
I have noticed that you are a great listener as well. Tony spoke truth about that. You allow your guests to be authentic and honest without shifting the conversation either way. I appreciate that. I am a less than one month old subscriber but this is great content. God bless you 🙏 ❤️
@@TheDivineblessin thats cute. I hear my fiance do it while on the phone with his friends. I tell him to relax with that. But he doesn't even notice he does it 🤣
I love how he wanted to clear up he wasn’t hopping in Breeny’s inbox in that kind of way. I don’t think she came off that way & I Dnt think he felt she did but people twist things on social media so it was just very tasteful. Wasn’t trying to offend Breeny but also maintained the utmost respect for his wife. Love Breenys channel. Helps keep me grounded.
I love Tony! One thing he gone do is respect his wife at all times lol. He said “let me clarify why I messaged you.” 🤣🤣🤣 we know Tony ain’t sliding in NOBODY DMs for anything other than business.
My former fiance puts me down most of the time. I have asked him to be gentle many times. Now since yesterday I have learned I need to walk away because the truth is, he is very abusive and I am falling apart. I want more and beleive I deserve to be loved right and treated with respect
He wants to keep you small…there is something within he is clearly jealous of or insecure about like what Tony said. It’s either you set him straight everytime he puts you down or just walk because it gets draining.
I was left by a man I adored and he told me to my face” as men we always think there is better”! My confidence self esteem was literally drained from me in seconds and I spent 4 years getting surgeries trying to look perfect and realized that it was not me. I never wanted to experience that pain and I almost lost my life having these surgeries to a man who had no self confidence and wanted a women to show off to get the validation he needed from society and have status and at then end he is still alone miserable and now chasing my heart because he realized it was always him .. I am working on healing from the inside out and loving myself for me and never allowing a man to dictate my happiness worthiness self esteem etc… at some point as women we have to stop trying to look perfect and love ourselves for being perfect to ourself..
manifest- so what happens if you think there is better and your years go by and by the time you know it, your elderly and dying alone in the retirement home.
@@itsme-ih2cx you can meet 100 people and always think there is better. You will spend all your life until you’re elderly in search of the next better one. When you meet someone that loves you honors your protects you respects you is loyal to you and your purpose and you fall in love with all of who they are knowing you or them are not perfect but perfect for each other.. why be concerned about anyone else that you don’t even know .. because I know many who left an amazing person and they are still alone miserable searching for who they thought was better in regret of who they discarded and that person they left is loving some one else and being loved A very scary chance to take when you think it’s always greener on the other side. As well what if you were the one left because someone thought there was better then you.. it’s painful . We all have the right to want better For sure when the person we are with treats us like garbage..
@@Uncensoredwithsevynk but most men think that they have a longer time to date around because they are healthy, and have youth . if you ask nurses that work in retirement homes, they will tell you that women rarely die alone, its old men that die alone.
@@itsme-ih2cx for sure. Clear indication men are dumping women for all the wrong reasons and dying alone. It’s a tragic way to be and for us the women giving it our all to them Mind Body and soul and getting discarded for a better body or bigger butt or what they perceive is a a “ better option” will come with a price For them and us unfortunately which is pain resentment anguish and a series of behavior based on hurt and anger. But the sooner we know our value I mean really know our value!! Let them walk. Give them the door and our 🍑to kiss because at the end we will meet an amazing person who will be evolved enough to know what he has in front of him and that other one will Still be running in circles looking for better until better is not available and neither are you lol🙏🏼🙏🏼
Tony Gaskins needs to be prayed for. He is literally going against what the culture is saying, he learnt from his past, repented and literally evangelizing the cause of Christ for this generation 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Nah, the shoot your shot thing is B.S. If someone doesn`t talk about attachment styles and healthy behavior and talks more about gender roles than just being a decent human being, they have no place giving anyone dating advice.
i crave his realness. his wife is one EXTREMELY lucky woman, to have found herself an intelligent man, who's mind haven't been poisoned. these type of men are rare nowadays.
Awesome interview! Tony hit all nails on the head. As a married woman for 12 years...he is spot on. If you REALLY want to be married, marriage is sacrifice and it's duty. Believe that. There will be times you love it and times you hate it. Sometimes you may do things that your spouse enjoys that you don't want to do or you're not interested in bc your spouse loves it. Nothing that will hurt you but things you just may not care about. You are most definitely each others help meet. But there is absolute joy in having someone you love to live this life with. Ladies pleeeeease listen to solid sound advice and consult The Most High before going into any relationship to avoid unnecessary heartache and pain from being with the wrong person.
Out of all the guests you had, this one was the real deal. Nothing he said drew me to a place of concern or worry. I knew he was coming from a genuine place and he didn’t have an ulterior motive in his message. I remember watching the interview with the Nigerian dude. And he spoke about getting married as a prison sentence. it was something he had to do in order to go to heaven. When I heard him say that, the first thing I thought to myself is that he’ll become a serial cheater because he looks at marriage as a notch on the checklist to be in God’s favor instead of a blissful union that mimics our relationship with Christ. Unlike the Nigerian dude, Tony does not carry this misconception that women are tools to accomplish end goals or for selfish consumption. Tony has the raw outlook on what it takes to make a relationship works and I give him the ultimate props.
Nigerian here 🙋🏾♀️. I'm ashamed about all nonsense the Nigerian dude said but that's how most Nigerian men are. They don't value women as human beings. It's unfortunate.
I’m guessing you’re talking about Dozie? 😅 ..well I think that’s his name. He said a few things that sounded like living a life for Christ is torture, and everything he does is just a checklist into heaven. I didn’t understand that at all. If that’s his way of thinking, then why be a Christian? ..doesn’t sound like a man filled with the Holy Spirit but.. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ ..That was a strange interview for sure. I absolutely loved this one with Tony. He definitely knows what he’s talking about 👏🏾
Coming from another man, I couldn’t of said it any better (real recognize real) men just don’t want to accept the truth because with the truth comes hard work. I like to consider my self a man of integrity and ambition so I enjoy earning and taking care of my family and praising god. It feels good to take care of the people you love and to take care of others with not always expecting something in return.
This was such a wholesome conversation! Married coming up to 3 years and was incredibly blessed by it. “Love will help you make a rhythm of his snore so that it’s like a sound machine to helps you go to sleep” beautifully put.
Agreed.. Married 9 years almost 10 and its still hard. But its worth it and you learn to accept the crazy quirks of your spouse and accept that your crazy quirks drive him mad as well :)
You know this man is a great man by the way he finished the interview. He spoke life into you. He uplifted you. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins. And Breeny, let me reiterate those words to you. You are powerful, you are smart, you are stunning and you deserve everything you are praying for. Keep on believing in your God. He will not forsake you.
DEEP!!!!! I will be lifting Tony Gaskins and his wife as well as RC Blakes and his wife because they are truly helping women to be set free. So they need to covered in prayer 🙏🏾
Glad he was honest about his purpose being painful. A lot of purposes that people had in the bible were painful, and they didn’t wanna do it. Today people confuse purpose with their dream career or mix it with their goals/dreams. It’s really not the same thing. Purpose is romanticised even, and looks glam and glitzy. When you’re actually faced with your purpose, the first thing you’ll most likely want to do is run in the opposite direction 😅 ..but naturally, you’ll just be drawn back to it 🤷🏾♀️ #GodsPlan
This has been me for a while now. God's been telling me that my purpose is serving and supporting other people and I'm like 'what about me Lord?" It's painful but I can't run and just like Jonah, I keep getting swallowed up.
Wow men try to dominate women they fear. My ex boyfriend act really well for months and the last month he tried to dominate me by hitting me and threatening me. This was a insecure and depressed guy while I was thinking about thriving and getting better at certain things. We weren't even in serious conflict. So it makes total sense what ur saying. Thanks so much for this collab! And no worries I left him as soon as I could!
“This is what you sound like when you really work for God” yes Tony that spoke to my spirit that is so true when you really work for God you speak truth it’s the only thing that sets people free!!
Tony was such a breath of fresh air. My eyes and ears wear glued to my screen and he kept me engaged for almost 3 hours which is no easy feat. Thanks for having him Breeny. I felt convicted so many times throughout this interview... what a word.
Going through a breakup after 4 years on and off with someone I met in daycare as a child… and let me tell you! I was finally able to allow myself the vulnerability to break down and cry. Mann… thank you guys both so much for creating a safe space, always leading with the truth, and genuinely wanting the best for your viewers💛 This was the collaboration that I did not know I needed. This is where the healing begins🙆🏾♀️
Oh Breeny, Now this is the kind of men you should be bringing on your platform. I haven’t even listened to the whole interview but the intro? I’mma grab me a matcha 🍵 to digest this interesting conversation. Love from London ❤️❤️❤️ Edit: I literally have tears in my eyes after listening to this man. He is sooo deep on a spiritual level that we rarely encounter. I had literally almost thought no one like this existed but here is this rare human with spiritual insight that overrides cultural norms. So glad to have heard this message and it was worth every minute of my time. He was right, this message is not for everyone but for the one that longs to hear it. God bless.
I am shedding some tears right now because the both of you spoke into my life at different times when I needed it and changed my life!!! So this collab makes me so happy!!! Thank you 🙏🏻 💕
I love Tony Gaskins! I watch his videos damn near everyday. Hes like that uncle that will keep it real with you no matter what. I love how first & foremost he clarified why he reached out to Breeny out of respect for his wife and ensuring no one can embarrass her🙌🏾
Truth 💯 Breeny & Gaskins are the type of people we as the consumers of their content need to make Viral on the internet to push back at the toxic stuff on the internet
This collab is divine. Breeny you have been totally spirit-led with this series. You spoiling us - Stephan and now Tony - gurrrrrl 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️. [Edit] Just finished watching the whole video. This was soooooo organic and wholesome it can only be from God. Thank you both for such a thought-provoking and edifying conversation. God bless you. ❤️🙏🏾
Tony is a man. He literally says everything I always say and ppl act like I'm jealous triggered or hating.... no, I just call out fake. As tony says, real knows real. I know what it takes to be a high valuable woman regardless of what i have or don't have. Light will always understand light, fake will hate and deflect and project.
OMGOSH 🥹😱, Breeny sis you took it there! Wow wow wow! The Tony Gaskins! If you do not know this man, please get to know. He has changed my life! A powerful, wise, blessed and phenomenal man of God! God bless you both and thanks sis Breeny! 💜🔥👏🏾
Breeny, I promise you, half way through this video I thought to myself "wow, Breeny is so humble and polite. Never once has she interrupted her interviewee." Now I'm at the end of the video and Tony is saying the exact same thing I was thinking. 😊😊
I watched your episode with Stephen Speaks and was kinda disappointed with it because he didn’t seem genuine. I’ve read his book and did get some usefulness out of it because it does help a woman take accountability for her choices and actions. However, I feel Tony is more genuine in his approach to relationship advice after being in a relationship while Stephen is more or less helping women weed out guys who are not interested in a relationship. Thanks for hosting both!
Come on with the good content!!!!!!!!! Ughhhhhh I love this collab and the one you did with Stephan!!!!!! Can we get RC Blake’s next??? Yes yes please!
This was literally a dream come true for me! Tony Gaskins and Breeny Lee my two favorite coaches doing a video together! Who could ask for more, or can we 🤔lol! I love what Tony mentioned dating in quarters and evaluating your relationship every three months. There was a guy I was dating last year and I had brought up the very same thing to him and he told me he didn’t like it 🤔😟. He felt I was pressuring him. He ended up wasting my time and so it was clear he was not serious about me😥. But I will hold my head up high and continue to keep polishing myself because I know my husband is out there somewhere 🙏🏾☺️
This interview was real deep. I usually watch Tony so I did not mind watching the whole video as his videos tend to be long, but always full of substance. Well I hope your younger Uk women audience take note of what he said and replay this video over and over again so as to prevent them from experiencing any heartache. He gave women the road map to no longer being played or taken for a fool. Most important lesson here is the need for women to love themselves. I have learnt that when you love yourself you do not worry about men who do not have the capacity to love you and do right by you. You find it much easier to send them on their way as you know that you will eventually get the man you are looking for. So you are never anxious about being single. Being single you use that time to continue to pour love into yourself. You are just not fazed by men so you can reject them when they don’t meet the mark. I hope interview was a turning point for many Uk women who seem to have given away their power to men.
Awesome interview. Protect Tony at all cost. I appreciate his sincerity, and realness. Its needed and appreciated!! Definitely subscribing. Everyone needs to watch this interview. He's a real one!! SIDE BAR: the section about the dating coaches pure FACTSSSSSS..... But we can all like who we want.
Marriage is all about compromise and sacrifice- I totally agree! Honestly, as a newly married person, this has been key! This is such a great and wholesome video/collaboration thank you!
This was a powerful interview, one I wish I had heard years ago, there are so many people out there giving us women advice or critique on what we need too change to get a man that it is refreshing to hear that not all men think this way, he is teaching women to walk in their God given authority and beauty and the RIGHT man will love respect honor and cherish that. There is hope for us still. Thank you.
When I tell you , Tony is a real one! I wish I would have ran into his message in my 20’s. I doubt I would have made the mistakes that I did. However, you live and you learn. Great video.
So far my favorite conversation between a man and woman. I feel so validated because I relate to both of your views. 1) Breeny asked how can we fix this social media thing if we can’t undo it. I feel like many of us can and should take extended breaks (fast) from it. 2) Everyone on social media giving advice is not an expert. Study the Bible instead and find out what God thinks, use a study Bible to help understand what you’re reading. 3) Turns out we’re all good enough the way we are. Perfect your character, heal where you’re broken, develop love for yourself and practice it daily, get into relationship with God, get baptized and be kind with your words, comments and behavior. Had to come back and edit to say I was going to mention Rev. RC Blake 👍🏽
I like his breakdown and plan for relationship progression at the end. I don’t really hear anyone, especially men talk about timelines that often. Very insightful.
Great Interview Tony! Thanks Breeny for having Tony on your platform. Tony is the epitome of old and new school. He's young enough to relate to modern topics and worldviews but old enough to advocate for lived experiences of life's hard knocks, marital wisdom and male christian perspective in all of it. 👏🏾
After all these years of seeing his videos online, I definitely lumped him in the category of men pandering to women, but he is not that at all! I learned so much and I appreciate you both for this discussion.
2h.16-2h.20 literally sat in tears. Touched me so deeply as a mother of one and having lost a baby last year. Resonates so deep. Beautiful and real interview. ❤️
The fact that I found both of you on RUclips years apart from each other and to see you guys now doing a cross over video is confirmation that the information I’m consuming is in alignment with a high vibration. Both your brands have always resonated with me as truly authentic and raw and honest and for the greater good no matter what that looked and sounded like in comparison to popular media. Thank you both for all the information you’ve shared. You’ve helped us out in ways our families and friends could not and have not. Thank you both for all you do!! These conversations and truths are SO NEEDED in our communities to evolve.
"Nobody will know…" But I will know. Making those choices are about your character. I've heard of Tony Gaskins, but never followed him. As a married women, he is speaking truth. 🔥
I love Tony! This is such an awesome collaboration! I like Toby because he really does keep it real and comes from a place of accountability. He also has a perspective of someone living the very thing we are desiring. He gives the realities. Tony, stops us for falling for a fantasy but better able to embrace the reality.
Yassssss ! That's my mentor 👏👏.. He is really called to this, speaking effortlessly. Longest video I have watched in a very longggg while and it was totally worth it.
Love RC Blakes, love your honesty and transparency Tony Gaskins. Thank you Breenie for always keeping it REAL with authentic, transforming and inspiring information. Love your channel ❤
This incredible Breeny! I saw this with you and Tony in an interview and I was like whatttt??!! 🤩 I’m not able to watch the whole thing now but will come back to this. I love watching you continue to grow! 🙌🏼
My two cents is it's becoming obvious that both men and women need to limit the consumption of "highlight" social media. I understand part of why we watch is for escapism and to fantasize but it looks like it's becoming unhealthy for meaningful and genuine relationships. For me also, any content creator that has no empathy and understanding for both men and women's short comings, (not just finger pointing one at one sex) see where we fell short and suggest solutions, for me is not a sound person to guide anyone. I've distanced myself from a lot of these "manosphere" channels because they were negatively affecting my outlook.
Thank you! I had to back off from the extreme man hate side of things for the same reason. It doesn’t feel like either side is trying to work on a resolution. This video was a step in the right direction
@@ashdacraft I think part of the reason is because they need to keep content flowing to keep up appearances as the phrase goes and keep money coming in. Controversy sells as usual. Finding workable solutions is not good for view counts and money flow.
Phenomenal… just divine. Love that this interview happened. The fact that this happened, the way that it did…yea, God is, has been, and will be moving in this generation 🤍
If you’re giving your all and it’s not enough, then you’re probably giving it to the wrong person. 💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Breeny Lee and Tony Gaskins in the same video?! Thank you Lord! Loved loved loved this segment. Thank you for the amazing content! So much wisdom in this!
TONY SAID THIS INTERVIEW IS NOT FOR THE LOW ATTENTION SPAN 😂 IF YOU WATCHED THE WHOLE INTERVIEW Y’ALL ARE THE REAL MVPS!! DROP A 🔥 IF YOU COMPLETED IT.
I’ll drop the Time stamps a little later 🥰
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I have noticed that you are a great listener as well. Tony spoke truth about that. You allow your guests to be authentic and honest without shifting the conversation either way. I appreciate that. I am a less than one month old subscriber but this is great content. God bless you 🙏 ❤️
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Absolutely listened till the end :)
I love when a man consistently brings up his wife in casual conversation.
Its admirable.
He does it alot
I agree!!!
AMEN!!
Lol my husband is like that sometimes I’m like how did I get into this 😂
@@TheDivineblessin thats cute. I hear my fiance do it while on the phone with his friends. I tell him to relax with that. But he doesn't even notice he does it 🤣
I love how he wanted to clear up he wasn’t hopping in Breeny’s inbox in that kind of way. I don’t think she came off that way & I Dnt think he felt she did but people twist things on social media so it was just very tasteful. Wasn’t trying to offend Breeny but also maintained the utmost respect for his wife. Love Breenys channel. Helps keep me grounded.
I love Tony! One thing he gone do is respect his wife at all times lol. He said “let me clarify why I messaged you.” 🤣🤣🤣 we know Tony ain’t sliding in NOBODY DMs for anything other than business.
Facts. He does not play 😂😂
That had me cracking up🤣🤣🤣. Tony gone make sure y’all know he ain’t messing around on his Queen.
@@rosagreene4364 💯🤣
@@Michelle-1133 okay?! Period! That’s how I need my future husband to be coming about me. Lol
Period🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
The fact Kevin is more popular than Tony shows you the world we living in.
He well get there!
Right
It's the sensationalism the end message (being good spouse) is what you need to go for...
@@abenaasafo-adjaye8351 what end message?
Kevin died
"A high value man is a man of character and integrity". Another jewel of wisdom by Tony Gaskins 🙌
My former fiance puts me down most of the time. I have asked him to be gentle many times. Now since yesterday I have learned I need to walk away because the truth is, he is very abusive and I am falling apart. I want more and beleive I deserve to be loved right and treated with respect
Have the strength to do it. I wish you luck.
We support you girl, and learn to love yourself as well!
If there is no respect then there is no relationship. 😩 Praying for your strength.
He wants to keep you small…there is something within he is clearly jealous of or insecure about like what Tony said. It’s either you set him straight everytime he puts you down or just walk because it gets draining.
Leave already
WHEN DUDE MENTIONED RC BLAKES I KNEW HE WAS A REAL ONE!!!! That man has given me so much advice and I love his channel!
Yes!!! Love RC Blake's. He and Tony are real ones!!!
Right! He was the only man that could come as real as can be. Because real recognize real! 🥰🥰🥰
For real! I have been listening to him for the last year or so. My hunni loves him.
I love this man. He has integrity!
Breeny needs to bring rc blakes on one of these days💃🏽😩
I was left by a man I adored and he told me to my face” as men we always think there is better”! My confidence self esteem was literally drained from me in seconds and I spent 4 years getting surgeries trying to look perfect and realized that it was not me. I never wanted to experience that pain and I almost lost my life having these surgeries to a man who had no self confidence and wanted a women to show off to get the validation he needed from society and have status and at then end he is still alone miserable and now chasing my heart because he realized it was always him .. I am working on healing from the inside out and loving myself for me and never allowing a man to dictate my happiness worthiness self esteem etc… at some point as women we have to stop trying to look perfect and love ourselves for being perfect to ourself..
manifest- so what happens if you think there is better and your years go by and by the time you know it, your elderly and dying alone in the retirement home.
@@itsme-ih2cx you can meet 100 people and always think there is better. You will spend all your life until you’re elderly in search of the next better one. When you meet someone that loves you honors your protects you respects you is loyal to you and your purpose and you fall in love with all of who they are knowing you or them are not perfect but perfect for each other.. why be concerned about anyone else that you don’t even know .. because I know many who left an amazing person and they are still alone miserable searching for who they thought was better in regret of who they discarded and that person they left is loving some one else and being loved
A very scary chance to take when you think it’s always greener on the other side. As well what if you were the one left because someone thought there was better then you.. it’s painful . We all have the right to want better
For sure when the person we are with treats us like garbage..
@@Uncensoredwithsevynk but most men think that they have a longer time to date around because they are healthy, and have youth . if you ask nurses that work in retirement homes, they will tell you that women rarely die alone, its old men that die alone.
@@itsme-ih2cx for sure. Clear indication men are dumping women for all the wrong reasons and dying alone. It’s a tragic way to be and for us the women giving it our all to them
Mind
Body and soul and getting discarded for a better body or bigger butt or what they perceive is a a “ better option” will come with a price
For them and us unfortunately which is pain resentment anguish and a series of behavior based on hurt and anger. But the sooner we know our value I mean really know our value!! Let them walk. Give them the door and our 🍑to kiss because at the end we will meet an amazing person who will be evolved enough to know what he has in front of him and that other one will
Still be running in circles looking for better until better is not available and neither are you lol🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thanks for your honesty as it will help so many women.
Tony Gaskins needs to be prayed for. He is literally going against what the culture is saying, he learnt from his past, repented and literally evangelizing the cause of Christ for this generation 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Amen he’s amazing
Can we all agree that Tony is the best? You can feel that God is really using him…
Yes!! Him and RC Blakes. They are IT for me. THEE formula.
@@lanarose2460 definitely agree with you 👏🏾
@@lanarose2460 I’ve been following RC Blakes for about 5-6 years now, and Tony much longer, and let me tell you these two men are truly God sent.
Nah, the shoot your shot thing is B.S. If someone doesn`t talk about attachment styles and healthy behavior and talks more about gender roles than just being a decent human being, they have no place giving anyone dating advice.
Cause he panders to women who
Hate accountability
“Ever man knows that a women should not shoot her shot.” < Facts on life
I disagree anyone can shoot there shot, if you like the person then you should tell them regardless of if your are a man or women
@@kingtimmy9491 I agree
I dont agree at all
Don’t do it lady don’t
i crave his realness. his wife is one EXTREMELY lucky woman, to have found herself an intelligent man, who's mind haven't been poisoned. these type of men are rare nowadays.
Awesome interview! Tony hit all nails on the head. As a married woman for 12 years...he is spot on. If you REALLY want to be married, marriage is sacrifice and it's duty. Believe that. There will be times you love it and times you hate it. Sometimes you may do things that your spouse enjoys that you don't want to do or you're not interested in bc your spouse loves it. Nothing that will hurt you but things you just may not care about. You are most definitely each others help meet. But there is absolute joy in having someone you love to live this life with. Ladies pleeeeease listen to solid sound advice and consult The Most High before going into any relationship to avoid unnecessary heartache and pain from being with the wrong person.
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Ahhh yesss to the "help meet" reminds me of Pastor Kingsley 🙌🏾 love this post! Thank you for sharing!
Facts
Out of all the guests you had, this one was the real deal. Nothing he said drew me to a place of concern or worry. I knew he was coming from a genuine place and he didn’t have an ulterior motive in his message. I remember watching the interview with the Nigerian dude. And he spoke about getting married as a prison sentence. it was something he had to do in order to go to heaven. When I heard him say that, the first thing I thought to myself is that he’ll become a serial cheater because he looks at marriage as a notch on the checklist to be in God’s favor instead of a blissful union that mimics our relationship with Christ. Unlike the Nigerian dude, Tony does not carry this misconception that women are tools to accomplish end goals or for selfish consumption. Tony has the raw outlook on what it takes to make a relationship works and I give him the ultimate props.
You dont know about Tony Gaskins?? He is amazing, he keeps it 100%. Please watch all his videos, you will love it and learn so much.
@@healthychick9450 No I never heard of him. But I'm glad to know him now. His videos are helping me out a lot.
Nigerian here 🙋🏾♀️. I'm ashamed about all nonsense the Nigerian dude said but that's how most Nigerian men are. They don't value women as human beings. It's unfortunate.
@@evangelinemmayie6116 you’re funny. I thought you were the Nigerian dude. lol
I’m guessing you’re talking about Dozie? 😅 ..well I think that’s his name. He said a few things that sounded like living a life for Christ is torture, and everything he does is just a checklist into heaven. I didn’t understand that at all. If that’s his way of thinking, then why be a Christian? ..doesn’t sound like a man filled with the Holy Spirit but.. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ ..That was a strange interview for sure. I absolutely loved this one with Tony. He definitely knows what he’s talking about 👏🏾
Men like him are a rare breed
Coming from another man, I couldn’t of said it any better (real recognize real) men just don’t want to accept the truth because with the truth comes hard work. I like to consider my self a man of integrity and ambition so I enjoy earning and taking care of my family and praising god. It feels good to take care of the people you love and to take care of others with not always expecting something in return.
This was such a wholesome conversation! Married coming up to 3 years and was incredibly blessed by it.
“Love will help you make a rhythm of his snore so that it’s like a sound machine to helps you go to sleep” beautifully put.
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Depends how loud that snore is 👃🦻✈️
Babieeeeee...he betta know he's loved! cause dat snoring..my goodness!! 😂😂
Agreed.. Married 9 years almost 10 and its still hard. But its worth it and you learn to accept the crazy quirks of your spouse and accept that your crazy quirks drive him mad as well :)
You know this man is a great man by the way he finished the interview. He spoke life into you. He uplifted you. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins. And Breeny, let me reiterate those words to you. You are powerful, you are smart, you are stunning and you deserve everything you are praying for. Keep on believing in your God. He will not forsake you.
Amen, it was so nice. I saw an interview between a fake relationship coach and a woman interviewer and he was just arguing the whole time.
& by the way he started! He clarified why he reached out to her stand up dude
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Amen. Ditto.
A man who speaks life into me 🥰 is a love language
Ladies, this is GOLD. He's telling us the truth about these wanna be men.
DEEP!!!!! I will be lifting Tony Gaskins and his wife as well as RC Blakes and his wife because they are truly helping women to be set free. So they need to covered in prayer 🙏🏾
Only lift up God....
Both of them have helped me heal, I own some of their books as well. May God continue to bless these men of God 🙏🏽
Glad he was honest about his purpose being painful. A lot of purposes that people had in the bible were painful, and they didn’t wanna do it. Today people confuse purpose with their dream career or mix it with their goals/dreams. It’s really not the same thing. Purpose is romanticised even, and looks glam and glitzy. When you’re actually faced with your purpose, the first thing you’ll most likely want to do is run in the opposite direction 😅 ..but naturally, you’ll just be drawn back to it 🤷🏾♀️ #GodsPlan
Facts☝🏾🔥🎤
Tell me about it...
This has been me for a while now. God's been telling me that my purpose is serving and supporting other people and I'm like 'what about me Lord?" It's painful but I can't run and just like Jonah, I keep getting swallowed up.
FACCCCCCTSSSS
This is facts! Living this now in my life
I love Tony because he is thorough, raw, and respectful. 3 hours.. lemme grab my popcorn 🍿
Wow men try to dominate women they fear. My ex boyfriend act really well for months and the last month he tried to dominate me by hitting me and threatening me. This was a insecure and depressed guy while I was thinking about thriving and getting better at certain things. We weren't even in serious conflict. So it makes total sense what ur saying. Thanks so much for this collab!
And no worries I left him as soon as I could!
@Joyful n Blessed I believe this is a possibility.
Good for you. Keep moving forward. We as Woman deserve more. Require it.
“This is what you sound like when you really work for God” yes Tony that spoke to my spirit that is so true when you really work for God you speak truth it’s the only thing that sets people free!!
He’s not wrong, poor hygiene is a deal breaker. lol! Great collab Breeny!
Tony was such a breath of fresh air. My eyes and ears wear glued to my screen and he kept me engaged for almost 3 hours which is no easy feat. Thanks for having him Breeny. I felt convicted so many times throughout this interview... what a word.
Tony gasgins is THE realest relationship coach PERIOD
The interview got better and better. Worth watching or listening to the whole thing! This guy was spilling tea
He shares all the grown boy tactics
Omg best combination ever! My favorite people on RUclips, I’m crying 😭
Girl me too eeekkk 😊😊😊
Rightttt
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Literally 😭😭
Cried on the treadmill this morning 🥹
Tony Gaskins speaks the truth and common sense.
Going through a breakup after 4 years on and off with someone I met in daycare as a child… and let me tell you! I was finally able to allow myself the vulnerability to break down and cry. Mann… thank you guys both so much for creating a safe space, always leading with the truth, and genuinely wanting the best for your viewers💛 This was the collaboration that I did not know I needed.
This is where the healing begins🙆🏾♀️
Much respect to Tony Gaskins and RC Blakes Jr. These men have helped me level up tremendously!
Oh Breeny, Now this is the kind of men you should be bringing on your platform. I haven’t even listened to the whole interview but the intro? I’mma grab me a matcha 🍵 to digest this interesting conversation. Love from London ❤️❤️❤️
Edit: I literally have tears in my eyes after listening to this man. He is sooo deep on a spiritual level that we rarely encounter. I had literally almost thought no one like this existed but here is this rare human with spiritual insight that overrides cultural norms.
So glad to have heard this message and it was worth every minute of my time. He was right, this message is not for everyone but for the one that longs to hear it. God bless.
Gurrrrl I felt THE SAME. ❤️
You can suscribe to his YT page. In Each one of his videos he’s dropping gems.
I haven't even seen the video yet but reading your comment made me pleased (i read comments b4 watching videos - weird i know😊).
I’m still in shock, the level of deepening with this convo was everything.. rare but still exists..🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am shedding some tears right now because the both of you spoke into my life at different times when I needed it and changed my life!!! So this collab makes me so happy!!! Thank you 🙏🏻 💕
Exactly how I feel, couldn’t of said it better! 🙏🏾
Same! I'm not in tears but love this collaboration. They have both helped me get through some rough times.
Yes!!!!
When Tony said “take your time because the interview is for who it’s for,” that got me. It was me who needed this! Thank you Breeny and Tony.
I listen to you breeny, Tony and RC blakes yall keeping me straight after my traumatic last relationship I would be a fool to get played again!
Yup RC Blake's he is a beast..
3 of the real ones💯they sure aren't fake👍
Samen!! They changed my life
Amen ❤️💯.
RC Blake is the man
I love Tony Gaskins! I watch his videos damn near everyday. Hes like that uncle that will keep it real with you no matter what. I love how first & foremost he clarified why he reached out to Breeny out of respect for his wife and ensuring no one can embarrass her🙌🏾
That’s called character and integrity. Trust me, those are rare qualities in men these days and honestly women too.
Truth 💯 Breeny & Gaskins are the type of people we as the consumers of their content need to make Viral on the internet to push back at the toxic stuff on the internet
This collab is divine. Breeny you have been totally spirit-led with this series. You spoiling us - Stephan and now Tony - gurrrrrl 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️.
[Edit] Just finished watching the whole video. This was soooooo organic and wholesome it can only be from God. Thank you both for such a thought-provoking and edifying conversation. God bless you. ❤️🙏🏾
Agreed
This was so beautiful to watch!!!! God bless them both XxX
@@feminineblend3047 so beautiful! ❤️
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This guy is the real deal!! He and his wife are very genuine.
Tony is a man. He literally says everything I always say and ppl act like I'm jealous triggered or hating.... no, I just call out fake. As tony says, real knows real. I know what it takes to be a high valuable woman regardless of what i have or don't have. Light will always understand light, fake will hate and deflect and project.
OMGOSH 🥹😱, Breeny sis you took it there! Wow wow wow! The Tony Gaskins! If you do
not know this man, please get to know. He has changed my life! A powerful, wise, blessed and phenomenal man of God! God bless you both and thanks sis Breeny! 💜🔥👏🏾
Breeny, I promise you, half way through this video I thought to myself "wow, Breeny is so humble and polite. Never once has she interrupted her interviewee." Now I'm at the end of the video and Tony is saying the exact same thing I was thinking. 😊😊
I watched your episode with Stephen Speaks and was kinda disappointed with it because he didn’t seem genuine. I’ve read his book and did get some usefulness out of it because it does help a woman take accountability for her choices and actions. However, I feel Tony is more genuine in his approach to relationship advice after being in a relationship while Stephen is more or less helping women weed out guys who are not interested in a relationship. Thanks for hosting both!
Youre so right sis
Tony shut it down. The realest interview I have seen and I am here for it. Every woman and man need to hear this. I love it!!
Tony Gaskins is like that wise uncle who is always dropping dimes I love this episode 😌💕
Come on with the good content!!!!!!!!! Ughhhhhh I love this collab and the one you did with Stephan!!!!!! Can we get RC Blake’s next??? Yes yes please!
That would be bomb
Oh RC blakes would just blow it out of the park. Some grown grown folk advice
This was literally a dream come true for me! Tony Gaskins and Breeny Lee my two favorite coaches doing a video together! Who could ask for more, or can we 🤔lol! I love what Tony mentioned dating in quarters and evaluating your relationship every three months. There was a guy I was dating last year and I had brought up the very same thing to him and he told me he didn’t like it 🤔😟. He felt I was pressuring him. He ended up wasting my time and so it was clear he was not serious about me😥. But I will hold my head up high and continue to keep polishing myself because I know my husband is out there somewhere 🙏🏾☺️
This interview was real deep. I usually watch Tony so I did not mind watching the whole video as his videos tend to be long, but always full of substance.
Well I hope your younger Uk women audience take note of what he said and replay this video over and over again so as to prevent them from experiencing any heartache. He gave women the road map to no longer being played or taken for a fool. Most important lesson here is the need for women to love themselves.
I have learnt that when you love yourself you do not worry about men who do not have the capacity to love you and do right by you. You find it much easier to send them on their way as you know that you will eventually get the man you are looking for. So you are never anxious about being single. Being single you use that time to continue to pour love into yourself. You are just not fazed by men so you can reject them when they don’t meet the mark. I hope interview was a turning point for many Uk women who seem to have given away their power to men.
Awesome interview. Protect Tony at all cost. I appreciate his sincerity, and realness. Its needed and appreciated!! Definitely subscribing. Everyone needs to watch this interview. He's a real one!!
SIDE BAR: the section about the dating coaches pure FACTSSSSSS..... But we can all like who we want.
Marriage is all about compromise and sacrifice- I totally agree! Honestly, as a newly married person, this has been key! This is such a great and wholesome video/collaboration thank you!
This was a powerful interview, one I wish I had heard years ago, there are so many people out there giving us women advice or critique on what we need too change to get a man that it is refreshing to hear that not all men think this way, he is teaching women to walk in their God given authority and beauty and the RIGHT man will love respect honor and cherish that. There is hope for us still. Thank you.
The Tony Gaskins? Yeaa, 2022 is Your year Breeny! Thank you for this insightful session👏 so much wisdom shared in 3 hours🥳🙏🏽
Yes Breeny! Tony Gaskins is very inspiring .
When I tell you , Tony is a real one! I wish I would have ran into his message in my 20’s. I doubt I would have made the mistakes that I did. However, you live and you learn. Great video.
So far my favorite conversation between a man and woman. I feel so validated because I relate to both of your views.
1) Breeny asked how can we fix this social media thing if we can’t undo it. I feel like many of us can and should take extended breaks (fast) from it.
2) Everyone on social media giving advice is not an expert. Study the Bible instead and find out what God thinks, use a study Bible to help understand what you’re reading.
3) Turns out we’re all good enough the way we are. Perfect your character, heal where you’re broken, develop love for yourself and practice it daily, get into relationship with God, get baptized and be kind with your words, comments and behavior.
Had to come back and edit to say I was going to mention Rev. RC Blake 👍🏽
I like his breakdown and plan for relationship progression at the end. I don’t really hear anyone, especially men talk about timelines that often. Very insightful.
Very interesting conversation. The emotional intelligence and self confidence of the guest is a breath of fresh air
If you don't learn how to love yourself first, someone will give you less than you deserve and you'll accept it -Love Yourself First
Great Interview Tony! Thanks Breeny for having Tony on your platform. Tony is the epitome of old and new school. He's young enough to relate to modern topics and worldviews but old enough to advocate for lived experiences of life's hard knocks, marital wisdom and male christian perspective in all of it. 👏🏾
💎 Breeny, you are killing it girl. Tony’s been the truth. This was so necessary, we all have some work to do.
This collab is fire 🔥! Thank you two for making this happen ❤️ Hopefully more to come!
After all these years of seeing his videos online, I definitely lumped him in the category of men pandering to women, but he is not that at all! I learned so much and I appreciate you both for this discussion.
2h.16-2h.20 literally sat in tears. Touched me so deeply as a mother of one and having lost a baby last year. Resonates so deep. Beautiful and real interview. ❤️
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You both changed my life, this collab was meant to be 🙏🏾
I love Tony gaskins he has some good advice he's like a comedian also but spits facts
My mentor Tony Gaskins. The realist brother out here. I made it through entirely. Thank you Bree appreciate you for having Tony on here. 🎯🎯
The fact that I found both of you on RUclips years apart from each other and to see you guys now doing a cross over video is confirmation that the information I’m consuming is in alignment with a high vibration. Both your brands have always resonated with me as truly authentic and raw and honest and for the greater good no matter what that looked and sounded like in comparison to popular media. Thank you both for all the information you’ve shared. You’ve helped us out in ways our families and friends could not and have not. Thank you both for all you do!! These conversations and truths are SO NEEDED in our communities to evolve.
This collab… THIS 👏🏾 COLLAB 👏🏾
You have now interviewed my TOP men on RUclips . Stephan and Tony Gaskins . I’m loving this !!
Your ability to listen to others is phenomenal. This man gives many new perspectives that have to land. Good interview again 🙏😘 Time to sleep on It 😂
AMAZING interview. So raw, it's exactly what a lot of us women need to hear. May the Lord's blessing be with you both.
"Nobody will know…" But I will know. Making those choices are about your character. I've heard of Tony Gaskins, but never followed him. As a married women, he is speaking truth. 🔥
I love Tony! This is such an awesome collaboration! I like Toby because he really does keep it real and comes from a place of accountability. He also has a perspective of someone living the very thing we are desiring. He gives the realities.
Tony, stops us for falling for a fantasy but better able to embrace the reality.
Yassssss ! That's my mentor 👏👏.. He is really called to this, speaking effortlessly. Longest video I have watched in a very longggg while and it was totally worth it.
This is my second time listening to this interview. I've gained a greater appreciation for my self worth as a woman.🥰😇🥰
Agreed. My self worth changed
I have so much love and respect for Tony Gaskins! He’s like the father I never had. Thanks for this Breeny! ❤️
Love RC Blakes, love your honesty and transparency Tony Gaskins. Thank you Breenie for always keeping it REAL with authentic, transforming and inspiring information. Love your channel ❤
….I think Breeny Lee’s next interview ought to be Mr. R. C. Blakes. He’s phenomenal!
@@sammymeyers9120 I was thinking the same thing!
I agree Breeny women say it’s for other women, I believe it’s for the attention of men.
I'm 66 and I was changed, enlightened and inspired by Tony. Yes, it made me check myself.
I love how you let him talk as well. It was just a blessing the flow if the conversation
The interview we didn’t ask for , but we deserve 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you both
This incredible Breeny! I saw this with you and Tony in an interview and I was like whatttt??!! 🤩 I’m not able to watch the whole thing now but will come back to this. I love watching you continue to grow! 🙌🏼
right? 2 of my favorite people and they are talking together. Charging up the phone now so I can enjoy this chat.
This was such a great conversation. He always speaks with such wisdom and understanding. Tony Gaskins is the forever G.O.A.T! 🔥
I keep getting from every man I dated that I’m intimidating and then they end up being manipulative. Now I understand why
My two cents is it's becoming obvious that both men and women need to limit the consumption of "highlight" social media. I understand part of why we watch is for escapism and to fantasize but it looks like it's becoming unhealthy for meaningful and genuine relationships. For me also, any content creator that has no empathy and understanding for both men and women's short comings, (not just finger pointing one at one sex) see where we fell short and suggest solutions, for me is not a sound person to guide anyone. I've distanced myself from a lot of these "manosphere" channels because they were negatively affecting my outlook.
Thank you! I had to back off from the extreme man hate side of things for the same reason. It doesn’t feel like either side is trying to work on a resolution. This video was a step in the right direction
Kudos to you for realizing it before getting sucked into the vortex.
@@ashdacraft I think part of the reason is because they need to keep content flowing to keep up appearances as the phrase goes and keep money coming in. Controversy sells as usual. Finding workable solutions is not good for view counts and money flow.
I saw the thumbnail and knew God was blessing me today 😭🙏🏾❤️ - this collaboration!! I’m here for it!!!
This was the best interview I have ever listened to. It seemed like 20 minutes to me. Thank you both!!!
Tony Gaskins is the real deal! A real kingdom man is on the panel. Say it with your chest Tony!
I LITERALLY SCREAMED WHEN I SAW THIS THUMBNAIL!!!!!!!
Phenomenal… just divine. Love that this interview happened. The fact that this happened, the way that it did…yea, God is, has been, and will be moving in this generation 🤍
He the most consistent and authentic relationship speaker out there! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Women getting tricked out of their righteous mind... INCREDIBLE!
If you’re giving your all and it’s not enough, then you’re probably giving it to the wrong person.
💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Tony Gaskins CAME THROUGH with this collaboration! So many eye opening statements made here! Thank you both!
I’m so glad you did this interview with Tony. I love the content and series you’ve started.
I watched this to the end. Tony is AMAZING at what he does and God is using him soo much. I love the realness 👏🏾👏🏾
Breeny Lee and Tony Gaskins in the same video?! Thank you Lord! Loved loved loved this segment. Thank you for the amazing content! So much wisdom in this!
I’ve been waiting on this collab for some long I love Tony gaskins and RC Blake’s
Been following you both for years, I'm so happy to see this collab!!! Such a powerful conversation 🔥
This is so so good Breeny! Thank you for sitting through some uncomfortable moments for our betterment!
I'm about to watch this WHOLE 3 hours. Tony is my guy!