The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greenest where it's looked after, watered and fed. Just came across your chanel Sheila. Thank you for your ministry.
Thank you for the testimony! Just today I saw a photo of him and his friends and OW on FB and he looked like he is enjoying life without me, but his eyes looked so dark and lifeless. His face has even changed. This is sad and scary... it's been around 4 years since he moved away from God!! I pray for him every day... I miss him every day... 😢 he is in Tanzania and I am back in South Africa, where we're from. Doesn't make things easier.
Its ALL spiritual the goal is the soul as the Lord said to me. The prayer is for the estranged party to be reconciled with the Lord as well as the stander and every thing else will fall into place. Took me sometime to get this in my head even though the Lord told me more than once. Took me a minute to grasp this concept.
Happiness isn’t overrated. Everyone’s idea of what will make them happy is inaccurate. No one wants to do the work. No one wants to go inside and submit to God, submit to love!!
This was one of the best testimones I'd listen to. (My wife left me for over 8 years now...) God revealed to me (in Jan. 2016) that it was witchcraft and curses over the christian marriages.( in our local area and I'm living in a small town in the southern part of Sweden. Well, everything is small in Sweden even the hole country😁) Seriously, God lead me to pray almost one week. The 26th of Januari 2016, on that Monday I woke up to the most peacefull morning I ever experienced. The presens of the Holy Spirit was so strong and wonderful and I he said "It's done"... Long story short. I'm still standing (with an exception of 4 years) I've been tested and still are. God has tested my faith and my heart and sometimes I wanted to quit. But God... Thank You Don and Sheila! Greetings from 🇸🇪 and God bless you all🙏☝️
This was the first zoom meeting I've been able to make. This testimony was such an encouragement! Thank you so much for sharing Don. I'm so thankful to God for this ministry
When we live in sin it's normal to fall out of love with our spouse. I did my heart was hard but God changed that and I am in love with my husband more than ever
I love Don's point about how when he reconciled with the father then going back to his marriage was just part of it. That is the same reason i keep standing! I reconciled with God and cannot see boy other way!
What a powerful message , if our perspective changes our mind changes and heart will follow. What I thank God is truth for so long have been deceived and manipulated by the lid of satan , not only I’m I learning so much. How be it when the Spirit of truth comes it sets you free! Bless God now and forever more! The true Eternal God ( The Lord Jesus Christ) Bless God , bless you both ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was exactly what and all I needed to hear in this season of my life! ❤️ GOD is good! I have learned so much in this season...and how GOD meets us and we learn him in such a way in our brokenness.! Please be in much prayer for me, my family...marriage, and my Prodigal!
This is my second stand my husband hated me and fell in love with the ow but he left her and came home. I thought he was repented but it was a false start and we were separated after 6 years.
Thank uyou shiella ,thank u Don fir encouragement,I truly believed that Jedus had a great plan to savef our Spouse if you continues to trust him wholeheartedly,,God 1st and all shall be added on to you
Thank you for your testimony. My lost spouse, living a double life sits in his home office at night every night and drinks. He then starts talking to himself. It's most bizarre. Like he hears voices. He often looks really terrible on the morning. To me it looks like cried out eyes but he just says he didn't sleep well so I think he is struggling with his decisions and actions.
My husband prays and reads his Bible and journals every day but has an adulterous relationship. For two weeks he wanted to reconcile and then changed his mind though he seems to recognize what he is doing is wrong, was remorseful with me about what he's been doing but said this isn't going to work, too many obstacles. So saved but walking in sin. He loves me and misses me. Not sure what this means spiritually.
Hi Sheila. Bless you girl. I am sad I missed the zoom. It's been 3 yrs . We have 0 contact 10/26 was our Anniversary. The pain of his abandonment is still there. Not 40x but 2x3xday. I was tempted to send him a collage of us of my continued love but I deleted it. I convinced myself that God doesn't need my help. Hoping praying for God's intervention. BTW I was healed from fear 11/10/20 the Spirit of the Lord visited me and healed me. A tremendous miracle that I am forever thankful. love you. love what you do for others. thank you Don. 102689
I think for me it is a gauge to see if they are miserable without Christ or that they are just fine and dandy living backslidden. The appearance of happiness deceives to believe they are being blessed in their rebellion.
Yeah, but is there still hope after my husband getting the OW pregnant and marrying her and the OW have one child after another to keep my husband from leaving? Now all the children are grown and have their own lives. Is there still hope or am I wasting my time?
It sounds like he has been married to this other woman for a long time if their children are all grown. It would be weary and a long journey to continue to pray for a restoration after all this time, however we are to remain faithful to stay unmarried or be reconciled to our husbands (I Cor. 7). I am in a similar situation. We were married for 30 yrs and he quickly remarried, and has been remarried for 10yrs. I have remained unmarried and pray for reconciliation, some how for God to work the seemingly impossible. The question, that no one seems to address is, what if God does NOT want a marriage restored?? How are we to ever know for sure? There are many marriages that will not be restored, yet the stander has remained steadfast in prayer. Just some thoughts.
@@lindaburns9762 I had 2 customers recently in the same week that I was working at their house. One couple had been apart for 51 years and another one 50 years. The adult grown children from the second marriage helped their father move back in with his first wife. I couldn’t imagine waiting that long!
The grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greenest where it's looked after, watered and fed. Just came across your chanel Sheila. Thank you for your ministry.
The grass is not greener on the other side. The grass is dead where Jesus is not ❤
Thank you for the testimony! Just today I saw a photo of him and his friends and OW on FB and he looked like he is enjoying life without me, but his eyes looked so dark and lifeless. His face has even changed. This is sad and scary... it's been around 4 years since he moved away from God!! I pray for him every day... I miss him every day... 😢 he is in Tanzania and I am back in South Africa, where we're from. Doesn't make things easier.
Its ALL spiritual the goal is the soul as the Lord said to me. The prayer is for the estranged party to be reconciled with the Lord as well as the stander and every thing else will fall into place. Took me sometime to get this in my head even though the Lord told me more than once. Took me a minute to grasp this concept.
Good point Sheila happiness is overrated! Finding joy in doing God's plan for our life is true happiness I completely agree with your view on this.
Happiness isn’t overrated. Everyone’s idea of what will make them happy is inaccurate. No one wants to do the work. No one wants to go inside and submit to God, submit to love!!
This was one of the best testimones I'd listen to. (My wife left me for over 8 years now...) God revealed to me (in Jan. 2016) that it was witchcraft and curses over the christian marriages.( in our local area and I'm living in a small town in the southern part of Sweden. Well, everything is small in Sweden even the hole country😁)
Seriously, God lead me to pray almost one week. The 26th of Januari 2016, on that Monday I woke up to the most peacefull morning I ever experienced. The presens of the Holy Spirit was so strong and wonderful and I he said "It's done"...
Long story short. I'm still standing (with an exception of 4 years)
I've been tested and still are. God has tested my faith and my heart and sometimes I wanted to quit. But God...
Thank You Don and Sheila!
Greetings from 🇸🇪 and God bless you all🙏☝️
This was the first zoom meeting I've been able to make. This testimony was such an encouragement! Thank you so much for sharing Don. I'm so thankful to God for this ministry
When we live in sin it's normal to fall out of love with our spouse. I did my heart was hard but God changed that and I am in love with my husband more than ever
So so good!!!! Thank you!
Thanks a lot both of you. What a loving God, He gave us this platform to answer all we need to know as standers
This was wonderful!! Thank you for this!!
“Some of the hardest hearts are sitting in pews”.
Wonderful Testimonial, so transparent and honest with a happy ending ❤
I love Don's point about how when he reconciled with the father then going back to his marriage was just part of it. That is the same reason i keep standing! I reconciled with God and cannot see boy other way!
I can relate to so many things that Don said
Thank you so much for this interview!! So many great truths to hold onto and make part of my foundation during this season of standing!!
Thank you so much for this talk. I appreciate the clarity and truth. I feel encouraged and empowered!! PTL!!
What a powerful message , if our perspective changes our mind changes and heart will follow. What I thank God is truth for so long have been deceived and manipulated by the lid of satan , not only I’m I learning so much. How be it when the Spirit of truth comes it sets you free! Bless God now and forever more! The true Eternal God ( The Lord Jesus Christ) Bless God , bless you both ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Very good listen guys! So impactful! Praise God for you two!
This was exactly what and all I needed to hear in this season of my life! ❤️ GOD is good! I have learned so much in this season...and how GOD meets us and we learn him in such a way in our brokenness.! Please be in much prayer for me, my family...marriage, and my Prodigal!
This is my second stand my husband hated me and fell in love with the ow but he left her and came home. I thought he was repented but it was a false start and we were separated after 6 years.
this is the best! thank you 💟💟
Thank uyou shiella ,thank u Don fir encouragement,I truly believed that Jedus had a great plan to savef our Spouse if you continues to trust him wholeheartedly,,God 1st and all shall be added on to you
Thank you for your testimony. My lost spouse, living a double life sits in his home office at night every night and drinks. He then starts talking to himself. It's most bizarre. Like he hears voices. He often looks really terrible on the morning. To me it looks like cried out eyes but he just says he didn't sleep well so I think he is struggling with his decisions and actions.
Pray for your husband salvation and protection. He needs you.
Can you teach us to battle in prayer. Do I keep praying the same thing over and over
My husband prays and reads his Bible and journals every day but has an adulterous relationship. For two weeks he wanted to reconcile and then changed his mind though he seems to recognize what he is doing is wrong, was remorseful with me about what he's been doing but said this isn't going to work, too many obstacles. So saved but walking in sin. He loves me and misses me. Not sure what this means spiritually.
Amen!!!
Hi Sheila. Bless you girl. I am sad I missed the zoom. It's been 3 yrs . We have 0 contact 10/26 was our Anniversary. The pain of his abandonment is still there. Not 40x but 2x3xday. I was tempted to send him a collage of us of my continued love but I deleted it. I convinced myself that God doesn't need my help. Hoping praying for God's intervention. BTW I was healed from fear 11/10/20 the Spirit of the Lord visited me and healed me. A tremendous miracle that I am forever thankful. love you. love what you do for others. thank you Don. 102689
Thank you! Look forward to more Q&A with you both!
17:13 wowwww
I think for me it is a gauge to see if they are miserable without Christ or that they are just fine and dandy living backslidden. The appearance of happiness deceives to believe they are being blessed in their rebellion.
I am thinking if your spouse is happy, you wonder if you are wrong about your situation.
Okay, Sheila. I jumped the gun. How do I know if GOD is happy or not with my husband?
How long were they apart?
Yeah, but is there still hope after my husband getting the OW pregnant and marrying her and the OW have one child after another to keep my husband from leaving? Now all the children are grown and have their own lives. Is there still hope or am I wasting my time?
Never stop praying and believing. Is anything too hard for God?
It sounds like he has been married to this other woman for a long time if their children are all grown. It would be weary and a long journey to continue to pray for a restoration after all this time, however we are to remain faithful to stay unmarried or be reconciled to our husbands (I Cor. 7). I am in a similar situation. We were married for 30 yrs and he quickly remarried, and has been remarried for 10yrs. I have remained unmarried and pray for reconciliation, some how for God to work the seemingly impossible.
The question, that no one seems to address is, what if God does NOT want a marriage restored?? How are we to ever know for sure? There are many marriages that will not be restored, yet the stander has remained steadfast in prayer. Just some thoughts.
@@lindaburns9762 I had 2 customers recently in the same week that I was working at their house. One couple had been apart for 51 years and another one 50 years. The adult grown children from the second marriage helped their father move back in with his first wife. I couldn’t imagine waiting that long!
Oh ye of little faith