You can argue that someone determined how their estate is to be distributed under duress or that they weren't in the proper state of mind to distribute their estate. It's the same way that a prenup can be thrown out during a divorce. If you can show that the person who made the decision wasn't clearly thinking right during the time it was made then the responsibility for the distribution of assets returns back to how it is handled by the state as default. Therefore, next of kin rules would apply instead.
in this case its not, grandma wrote a letter that the lawyer can verify stating why no inheritance was left to the father and brother. Other ways to prevent family infighting over inheritance is to leave the people you want to have nothing $1. But if the will is vague, then families will fight over the money, claiming that the deceased was coerced etc etc.
Story 1: good on OP. He isn’t being selfish or greedy. He literally offered half the inheritance on a silver platter to mom and dad, but they didn’t take it and now they have to deal with the consequences. Hopefully the brother and OP can have a good relationship moving forward
Story 1: TBQH, even if you leave morals/ethics out of it, the brother had a right to know simply as a _medical_ matter - family medical history matters quite a bit for a number of conditions. OP is correct - his parents should have told his brother, and even gave them a reasonable amount of time to do so before he finally pulled the trigger.
According to OP's father zero times. There's only one person who decides if OP's mother should be forgiven and that is the actual victim of her betrayal. And he did.
@@RoonMian Opinions based on unreliable people are flawed, especially when he thinks cheating is a mistake, not a deliberate action. Betrayal affects the entire family and friends list, not just one person, that's why it's so hated.
I heard of this story. I can never fathom why the parents never told the bother he was an affair child? Just imagine growing up and wondering why Grandma favor your brother more than found out why from your brother of all people. These parents failed him.
My theory is the dad was afraid it would ruin his relationship with older brother if it was found out he wasn't the bio dad. Mom didn't want people knowing her dirty secret. The fact that they let the favoritism to go on for so long without interfering, makes me wonder if they allowed it as the price to pay so they could ensure dad's inheritance. Not that it worked.
OP is an awesome brother :D.. I Love that he gave them every single chance to tell him and then did it himself and shared the inheritance with him when crap hit the fan.
Yes, OP is great and even though the brother was an affair baby, still shared what he got with him and helped him out. He gave the parents so many chances to come clean, but OP refused to lie to his brother and help them keep it a secret.
The op parents accepted the reality they’re living in but wouldn’t be willing to tell their son the truth? They could make it harder yes, but still he needs to know and deserves to
OP in the second story should've divorced after the friend was a--aulted. Unhinged behavior aside, you threaten my livelihood, you're out of my life, PERIOD. And of course the cheater was the one accusing the spouse of cheating. Cheaters love to project their infidelity, because it validates their cheating.
It’s realistic though. Inflation is real. A house your boomer grandparents bought for $40k in 1950 is worth $500k today. 1million estates isn’t too far fetched, especially if you consider how easy it was to find a job back in the 1950s
Well, the fact is that if your family is poor then inheritance issues don’t appear cause there’s nothing to fight over. So when it’s an inheritance story it tends to be actual wealth
Quite realistic tho my grandpa and grandma both side had many too and when they died its turn into vhaotic mess when all the child demand all estate to be sold and the money split equally 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Yeah, he went against not one but two dead people's explicitly stated wishes there. I think OP was just talking out his ass to justify doing whatever he or she wanted to.
OP2: "I made a bunch of mistakes, and put myself in this situations with this women! I'm never getting married again." Like okay, blame marriage for you being a dumbass. Next time just leave when she BLATANTLY ASSAULTS SOMEONE! (Or you know, listen to any of the other obvious red flags there from the beginning.)
@@leksisatka6110 yes but this is called trauma bond it is caused by being attached to the person who causes you trauma he truly loved that woman that is why he did it so do not blame him
What I've learned thru past relationships, at least ONE relationship, is that the person who is ALWAYS ACCUSING you of cheating, IS THE ONE DOING THE CHEATING! For your wife to ATTACK a co-worker, WOW, I wish you would have allowed your co-worker to file assault charges against her! OP, your ex is DISGUSTING! I hope her parent's disowned her1!
Story 1 : the mother was very wrong for cheating but if I was in op’s brother’s place, I would rather not know anything because my view of my family would change and I wouldn’t want that even if it meant living in a world that’s not actually real
@@manutd316 I got my Dad arrested at a hotel when I was 14 for hitting his gf/common law wife. It shamed the family. I tried to reach out to him when I was 16 and he was drunk and said he "gut me" if I called again. He died not too long after and they didn't even notify me and I missed the funeral; found out like 6 months post death. I think by the time she died (when I was in my late 20s) I was just seen as an enemy.
I hope the first OP ends up getting a dna test done. If the mom cheated and the dad stayed with her then that possibility will always be there, and if his parents are willing to lie to his brother his entire life then it wouldnt be that hard to believe that either they're both lying to him or the mom is lying to everyone
Story 1: W OP, L parents. They were just looking up for themselves, the mom didn't want to own up her cheating and the dad didn't want to own up that he forgave her
Your parents couldn’t sue you for emotional damages just like you can sue someone for telling your child they’re adopted. You can also see someone for telling your child that they are in a fair child. It’s a legal law look it up and since you threaten them with money the natural sum would be the money, if your parents decide to sue, they could sue you and your brother for emotional damages but not really your brother
The father has no problem pretending that the child is his and talks about a second chance for the mother. Then insults and sues the son for telling the truth and to take his money. The son did not deserve a second chance? Clearly double standards are hereditary in this family.
I believe it's the worse thing in the world to keep a secret from a child who their true bio-parent is! Eventually, its found out, so do it as early as soon as the child can comprehend, especially when FAVORITISM is being displayed the way it was between OP and his half brother! He SHOULD have been told as soon as the favoritism was SO OBVIOUS!
Heck, I grew up thinking I was related to my dad. Turns out that I wasn't,cause the previous abusive relationship my mother had. That guy is in trouble rn, actually. Yknow what they did. They sat me down and talked with me. I was shocked, no doubt, hut I wasn't mad. Granted, everyone can react differently. I love my dad, cause blood is just a liquid, and a bond is stronger than anything.
Story 1: Dude, OP is a great guy. He wasn't being selfish with the money. He was going to give his dad and his brother part of the money he got. Also, the dad seems like a good dude for treating his sons equally, even if one of them wasn't his. But he was also a little dum, like I get you love her, but she cheated on you and had a child with someone else. Either way, I do think they should have OP's brother that he is the fathers son. He had the right to know. Good for OP for telling him and still treating him like a brother. He even gave half the money to him. Story 2: Dude, wtf. Your wife is a hypocrite. She's always telling you that your cheating on her, even though you're not. She attacked the person she thought you were cheating with. Then when you come back from a vacation, you find her asleep with another man. Good for you for taking pictures of them and sending them to everyone you guys know. She can't turn to any of them anymore. Also, your friends are @ss holes bro. They knew they were cheating on you and didn't say anything. Good thing you blocked them. They are horrible friends.
Story 1: Guy who inherited the money is an absolute asshole. That secret could only hurt, it would not be beneficial to anyone. So telling his brother only made him hurt and pissed on parents.
I really don't understand how it's even legal to sue someone because they got an inheritance. Simply cause the one that's gone didn't get anything. That's why people say to leave 1 dollar to the person they don't want to leave anything to. Which is stupid they even have to do that. It's their belongings they can and should be able to do with as they please and people should honor their last wills.
Story 1: The parents are trash. Not only did they keep that secret from OP's brother, but expected OP to play along too. Then try to sue for the inheritance? It looks like the parents went from having 2 children to being disowned by both. I hope they are happy with the choices they made because they only wanted to defend themselves and now they only have each other.
It is indeed very tragic matter and his dad has heart big enough to fit the whole planet but he also needs to have the heart to tell his non biological son the truth he deserves. No truth is pleasant, truth is always painful.
The grandma and grandpa are the biggest aholes in the story bet you the son had a condition for mom not to mention anything. so she waited until she died to let him know when so she didn't have to face any consequences for it. she was selfish and spiteful until the end and after
I must have never been in love because if you cheat on me AND get pregnant, we are done in every sense of the word. No contact. Also, that money was yours. If you want to give your brother $100,000 is one thing, but dont share it evenly
Story 1: I don't know if the grandma really did have a change of heart at the end, but imagine treating a kid less than the other just because he doesn't share blood with your son. As if the kid had fucking choice in the matter. I know it was different generations or whatever, I've seen tons of older people understand worse. Fuck her, dude! Good on OP for telling their brother the truth. Story 2: I honestly don't know which one is worse: The fact that she cheated on him after gaslighting him and falsely accusing him of the same, or the fact that she did it in OP's fucking bed?!
Story 2: OP is dumb af. The wife had red flags waving as big as a pirate's sail and still was like, "She's a GoOd PeRsOn". The moment his wife @ssaulted the colleague and accused him of cheating. Yeah, thats when you run the heck away.
How is she treating the brother like that. he didnt ask to be born and yet she took it out on him, if i was just the mom that she treated like that it wouldnt be so bad
Your a great brother even if you two don't have the same dad, I have two half sisters since my bio dad would beat my mom an older brother an cheated on my mom with my moms bff an a another lady. Sadly I never had a relationship with my half sisters like you do with your brother.
First story OP can keep the money but it isn't right to threaten them into telling the brother the truth. Yes they should definitely tell him but this all could've been handled differently.
@@MrArielK naturally. And let's not forget 90% of the time they find someone hotter who's better in bed and better in general and they go to the gym and lose a bunch of weight or pack muscles too between the time where they get cheated on and when the cheater comes crawling back.
Can you legally fight against the person’s wishes in regards to wills and Inheritances? Cuz I’m trying to get my name out of My grandfather’s fiancé’s Will right now. Can I legally fight against her wishes?
Honestly i dont think OP should have shared his or her inheritance with any of their family. If their brother's biological family left him something he wouldn't be obliged to share it with OP, and i doubt he would have, so i don't think OP should have shared. Not only that, but relationships aside it would go against two people's dying wishes. While it might not seem fair to OP, the grandma isn't obligated to accept the affair baby as a grandchild just because OP's dad did. It's shitty for them to try to bypass their dead relative's wishes knowing full well why they were in place. At the end of the day, they don't owe anybody their money, and it's up to them how they choose to spend it. They should have just been grateful she kept their secret all this time and didn't alienate the mother from the kids as so many other horrible relatives might. Acting entitled to other people's time and money like they are is ridiculous.
Story 2 As if should be always put women in their place. Idc whatever excuse women come up with it's the same punishment as a cheating man. No matter how hard it hurts let them know that you can play with fire as much as they did.
I don’t if it’s just me but OP(first story) ISN’T a good brother. I’m not saying the brother shouldn’t know about this bc he should but why is OP trying to force the truth onto other people in matters that he isn’t apart of. He’s literally trying to destroy someone’s reality and all they know so that his morals will shine.
Story 2: He should have sent his ex-friends who knew about the affair to court for coercion and being accomplices of the infidelity for the conspiracy of withholding information about it to get some compensation from them for the emotional trauma because they didn't speak up for him.
Mother and father carried that cross every Christmas birthday and that kids graduation and they bare that cross it was not his place to take that from them no respect or honor in that kid.
Story 1; I think the dad was a rock star. He raised a baby that wasn’t his but loved him all the same. Mad respect. The inheritance should have gone e 3 ways. The brother didn’t need to know
what a heavy balance the first story is, the grandparents that hate his family but him and his brother that was innocently caught in the middle, op keeping his share of the inheritance and having that privilege in starting his life but losing his family for it I wanted to have some pitty for op but the inheritance share game he did with his parents is super messed up, like extra levels of malevolence, I agree with the dad, share the inheritance or not if you want but it was not his secret to share with his brother, at least not like that
I disagree. When he was told by his grandmother's letter it became his secret too and OP refused to lie by omission. If someone kept a secret this big from me, you bet your ass I'd disown them and cut contact.
The first story OP is an idiot. He interfered with something that had nothing to do with him AND he shit all over his grandmother’s memory. She should have give all of them nothing.
@@MrArielK I think OP should gave kept his mouth shut and went on with his life. It was not his place to tell his brother and his grandmother explicitly told him why his father and half brother were cut out of the will. So all he did was destroy his grandmother’s and grandfather’s trust.
@@JohnDoe-h1e8l that would be unfair to the brother, OP was looking to maintain a relationship, because for him that worth more than money. Who cares about honoring the memory, grandma should had made her will know before she beat it
@@MrArielK and you think dropping a bombshell like your dad isn’t your biological father, and the reason grandma didn’t like you was because you are a bastard from an affair your mother had, and your real father never cared enough about you to be in your life and I’m telling you this because mom and “dad” didn’t think you are mature enough to know isn’t going to impact their brotherly relationship? But don’t worry here is some money.
story 1: OP is in the wrong here. its not about the money. money means nothing... its the bond of parenthood. because bro hasnt known his entire life, he has a good relationship with the parents... but once he knows, it divided the mothers relationship and have him seeing his dad as not his dad, even tho hes raised him his whole life. I had a similar scenario happen to me... trust me, i wish i never found out. u can still give your bro half the inheritance, but u telling him just split your family. YTA
He did habe to right to he told but not by OP. He(op) shouldn’t have interfered with what wasn’t his business and what if it took a completely different turn and the brother went crazy? Who’s to blame?
how is it even legal to threaten someone for not sharing inheritance ?
well it depends on the country some have laws that state for example, that all children have to get some part of an inheritence.
You can argue that someone determined how their estate is to be distributed under duress or that they weren't in the proper state of mind to distribute their estate. It's the same way that a prenup can be thrown out during a divorce. If you can show that the person who made the decision wasn't clearly thinking right during the time it was made then the responsibility for the distribution of assets returns back to how it is handled by the state as default. Therefore, next of kin rules would apply instead.
Well the government does it by "taxing" it so.
in this case its not, grandma wrote a letter that the lawyer can verify stating why no inheritance was left to the father and brother. Other ways to prevent family infighting over inheritance is to leave the people you want to have nothing $1. But if the will is vague, then families will fight over the money, claiming that the deceased was coerced etc etc.
Where I come from? It's legal
Story 1: good on OP. He isn’t being selfish or greedy. He literally offered half the inheritance on a silver platter to mom and dad, but they didn’t take it and now they have to deal with the consequences. Hopefully the brother and OP can have a good relationship moving forward
It’s okay to be selfish and greedy to an extent
this is fake btw. the original is a lot more tame and and less filled with drama
Story 1: TBQH, even if you leave morals/ethics out of it, the brother had a right to know simply as a _medical_ matter - family medical history matters quite a bit for a number of conditions.
OP is correct - his parents should have told his brother, and even gave them a reasonable amount of time to do so before he finally pulled the trigger.
The Q = quickly?
@@whatbear3804 TBQH = To Be Quite Honest.
@@rousedg Oh, will note that
Cheating is not a mistake but a deliberate action, I wonder how much she cheated on this father after that.
According to OP's father zero times. There's only one person who decides if OP's mother should be forgiven and that is the actual victim of her betrayal. And he did.
@@RoonMian Opinions based on unreliable people are flawed, especially when he thinks cheating is a mistake, not a deliberate action.
Betrayal affects the entire family and friends list, not just one person, that's why it's so hated.
@@RoonMian He isn't the only victim of the betrayal both the kids are victims of being lied to their whole life and it also being a huge lie
I heard of this story. I can never fathom why the parents never told the bother he was an affair child? Just imagine growing up and wondering why Grandma favor your brother more than found out why from your brother of all people. These parents failed him.
Simple? The mother is a cheater. Cheaters tend to care about themselves only. Hence why she refused to say anything to her son
My theory is the dad was afraid it would ruin his relationship with older brother if it was found out he wasn't the bio dad. Mom didn't want people knowing her dirty secret.
The fact that they let the favoritism to go on for so long without interfering, makes me wonder if they allowed it as the price to pay so they could ensure dad's inheritance. Not that it worked.
OP is an awesome brother :D.. I Love that he gave them every single chance to tell him and then did it himself and shared the inheritance with him when crap hit the fan.
Yes, OP is great and even though the brother was an affair baby, still shared what he got with him and helped him out. He gave the parents so many chances to come clean, but OP refused to lie to his brother and help them keep it a secret.
The op parents accepted the reality they’re living in but wouldn’t be willing to tell their son the truth? They could make it harder yes, but still he needs to know and deserves to
if your partner accuses you of cheating, its probably a good idea to suspect that theyre cheating on you
OP in the second story should've divorced after the friend was a--aulted.
Unhinged behavior aside, you threaten my livelihood, you're out of my life, PERIOD.
And of course the cheater was the one accusing the spouse of cheating. Cheaters love to project their infidelity, because it validates their cheating.
Funny how many granma and grandpas have so many mansions and estates lying around in this posts
It’s realistic though. Inflation is real.
A house your boomer grandparents bought for $40k in 1950 is worth $500k today. 1million estates isn’t too far fetched, especially if you consider how easy it was to find a job back in the 1950s
I guess they worked a lot for decades lol
Well, the fact is that if your family is poor then inheritance issues don’t appear cause there’s nothing to fight over. So when it’s an inheritance story it tends to be actual wealth
Quite realistic tho my grandpa and grandma both side had many too and when they died its turn into vhaotic mess when all the child demand all estate to be sold and the money split equally 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
This surprise you? The richest country in the world with 300 mill population? Lol
I have no idea why the parents were so hellbent on hiding the truth...
It speaks to OPs goodness, but I don't know if Grandma would have wanted him to share.
Yeah, he went against not one but two dead people's explicitly stated wishes there. I think OP was just talking out his ass to justify doing whatever he or she wanted to.
OP2: "I made a bunch of mistakes, and put myself in this situations with this women! I'm never getting married again." Like okay, blame marriage for you being a dumbass. Next time just leave when she BLATANTLY ASSAULTS SOMEONE! (Or you know, listen to any of the other obvious red flags there from the beginning.)
Right? That lady had more red flags then a Chinese parade.
Literally, the problem isn't commitment it's being committed to someone who isn't committed to you.
You do not understand true love
@@Chickennuggets8282-h4l a love that requires you to set your well-being aside is not true love at all, it's allowing yourself to be abused
@@leksisatka6110 yes but this is called trauma bond it is caused by being attached to the person who causes you trauma he truly loved that woman that is why he did it so do not blame him
i love this grandma man, may she rest in peace.
2nd story. Wow dude red flags, but she is a nice person
What I've learned thru past relationships, at least ONE relationship, is that the person who is ALWAYS ACCUSING you of cheating, IS THE ONE DOING THE CHEATING! For your wife to ATTACK a co-worker, WOW, I wish you would have allowed your co-worker to file assault charges against her! OP, your ex is DISGUSTING! I hope her parent's disowned her1!
Story 1 : the mother was very wrong for cheating but if I was in op’s brother’s place, I would rather not know anything because my view of my family would change and I wouldn’t want that even if it meant living in a world that’s not actually real
Ok, I understand cutting off mother, little bit father.
But cutting off a kid? The kid was just born. Why?
Good example of not giving the person the “opportunity” to tell their “secret”
So at the end? The mother only cared about herself. Literally proved the grandfather right. I just feel bad for the kid. He is not at fault.
Congratulations 🎉👏👏 on 203k subscribers 😊😊😊
My grandma left my brother a 5 mil estate and nothin for me or my uncle. Im over it but it rly hurts my uncle
That's messed up was there a reason why she did that to you
@@manutd316 I got my Dad arrested at a hotel when I was 14 for hitting his gf/common law wife. It shamed the family. I tried to reach out to him when I was 16 and he was drunk and said he "gut me" if I called again. He died not too long after and they didn't even notify me and I missed the funeral; found out like 6 months post death. I think by the time she died (when I was in my late 20s) I was just seen as an enemy.
Someone will stole this idea for a RUclips story video
@@manutd316 I wrote out a long response but RUclips didn't like my word choices lol. In short I got my Dad arrested for DV and it shamed my family.
“Aside from her defensive nature and inability to control her anger, my wife was a good person.”
Oh, the lies we tell ourselves. 🤣
I hope the first OP ends up getting a dna test done. If the mom cheated and the dad stayed with her then that possibility will always be there, and if his parents are willing to lie to his brother his entire life then it wouldnt be that hard to believe that either they're both lying to him or the mom is lying to everyone
Call me whatever you'd like... I wouldn't share anything. If it was willed to me, it's mine and I'd save and invest and pass it to my children.
Story 2: she was projecting as all these cheaters do
Story 1: Once she cheats, she belongs to the streets.
Is it the same when HE cheats?
@@NoahPond-tv1zd Yes. If you cheat you’re a crappy person.
@@NoahPond-tv1zdyes. End of discussion... but we are referring to op's mom
The moment they start waxing poetic... 🤦🏽♂️
Story 1: W OP, L parents. They were just looking up for themselves, the mom didn't want to own up her cheating and the dad didn't want to own up that he forgave her
Your parents couldn’t sue you for emotional damages just like you can sue someone for telling your child they’re adopted. You can also see someone for telling your child that they are in a fair child. It’s a legal law look it up and since you threaten them with money the natural sum would be the money, if your parents decide to sue, they could sue you and your brother for emotional damages but not really your brother
The father has no problem pretending that the child is his and talks about a second chance for the mother. Then insults and sues the son for telling the truth and to take his money. The son did not deserve a second chance? Clearly double standards are hereditary in this family.
I believe it's the worse thing in the world to keep a secret from a child who their true bio-parent is! Eventually, its found out, so do it as early as soon as the child can comprehend, especially when FAVORITISM is being displayed the way it was between OP and his half brother! He SHOULD have been told as soon as the favoritism was SO OBVIOUS!
Heck, I grew up thinking I was related to my dad. Turns out that I wasn't,cause the previous abusive relationship my mother had. That guy is in trouble rn, actually. Yknow what they did. They sat me down and talked with me. I was shocked, no doubt, hut I wasn't mad. Granted, everyone can react differently. I love my dad, cause blood is just a liquid, and a bond is stronger than anything.
He can't do sh** fr
W grandma and W grandpa.
Story 1: Dude, OP is a great guy. He wasn't being selfish with the money. He was going to give his dad and his brother part of the money he got. Also, the dad seems like a good dude for treating his sons equally, even if one of them wasn't his. But he was also a little dum, like I get you love her, but she cheated on you and had a child with someone else. Either way, I do think they should have OP's brother that he is the fathers son. He had the right to know. Good for OP for telling him and still treating him like a brother. He even gave half the money to him.
Story 2: Dude, wtf. Your wife is a hypocrite. She's always telling you that your cheating on her, even though you're not. She attacked the person she thought you were cheating with. Then when you come back from a vacation, you find her asleep with another man. Good for you for taking pictures of them and sending them to everyone you guys know. She can't turn to any of them anymore. Also, your friends are @ss holes bro. They knew they were cheating on you and didn't say anything. Good thing you blocked them. They are horrible friends.
GRANDPARENTS. MADE CHOICE ! YEARS AGO ! FATHER DEFINITELY ! KNOWING REASONS ! GRANDMA MADE PROMISE ! FATHER KNOWS EXACTLY REASONS
Story 1: Guy who inherited the money is an absolute asshole. That secret could only hurt, it would not be beneficial to anyone. So telling his brother only made him hurt and pissed on parents.
It benefits the brother because now he knows what shit people his parents are
17:52 this sentence is a literal living fact
Lol you must be an incel
LMFAO tell Dad to get a lawyer and try to get the money.
Grandma left you everything in her legal will and there's nothing he can do about it.
*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To The 1st Story!*
I really don't understand how it's even legal to sue someone because they got an inheritance. Simply cause the one that's gone didn't get anything. That's why people say to leave 1 dollar to the person they don't want to leave anything to. Which is stupid they even have to do that. It's their belongings they can and should be able to do with as they please and people should honor their last wills.
Story 1: The parents are trash. Not only did they keep that secret from OP's brother, but expected OP to play along too. Then try to sue for the inheritance? It looks like the parents went from having 2 children to being disowned by both. I hope they are happy with the choices they made because they only wanted to defend themselves and now they only have each other.
It is indeed very tragic matter and his dad has heart big enough to fit the whole planet but he also needs to have the heart to tell his non biological son the truth he deserves. No truth is pleasant, truth is always painful.
What a way to ruin a family you don't have nothing else better to do ruin your family just sad
The grandma and grandpa are the biggest aholes in the story bet you the son had a condition for mom not to mention anything. so she waited until she died to let him know when so she didn't have to face any consequences for it. she was selfish and spiteful until the end and after
I must have never been in love because if you cheat on me AND get pregnant, we are done in every sense of the word. No contact.
Also, that money was yours. If you want to give your brother $100,000 is one thing, but dont share it evenly
based german grandpa
Story 2: I find OP totally unsympathetic. I can’t even finish the story because of how unlikable I find the characters.
Why do you think that
Story 1: I don't know if the grandma really did have a change of heart at the end, but imagine treating a kid less than the other just because he doesn't share blood with your son. As if the kid had fucking choice in the matter. I know it was different generations or whatever, I've seen tons of older people understand worse. Fuck her, dude! Good on OP for telling their brother the truth.
Story 2: I honestly don't know which one is worse: The fact that she cheated on him after gaslighting him and falsely accusing him of the same, or the fact that she did it in OP's fucking bed?!
Story 2: OP is dumb af. The wife had red flags waving as big as a pirate's sail and still was like, "She's a GoOd PeRsOn". The moment his wife @ssaulted the colleague and accused him of cheating. Yeah, thats when you run the heck away.
How is she treating the brother like that. he didnt ask to be born and yet she took it out on him, if i was just the mom that she treated like that it wouldnt be so bad
Your a great brother even if you two don't have the same dad, I have two half sisters since my bio dad would beat my mom an older brother an cheated on my mom with my moms bff an a another lady. Sadly I never had a relationship with my half sisters like you do with your brother.
First story OP can keep the money but it isn't right to threaten them into telling the brother the truth. Yes they should definitely tell him but this all could've been handled differently.
Ops dad isnt a door mat hes the whole floor
this is such an AI story 💀 you can always tell when they use super flowery language and go overly into detail about things like “cozy kitchen”
In this case the op is the problem
Why is one of the stories always about cheating lmao?
Drama, they also rely on money as a revenge device
@@MrArielK naturally. And let's not forget 90% of the time they find someone hotter who's better in bed and better in general and they go to the gym and lose a bunch of weight or pack muscles too between the time where they get cheated on and when the cheater comes crawling back.
Grandparents re trash for real
Can you legally fight against the person’s wishes in regards to wills and Inheritances? Cuz I’m trying to get my name out of My grandfather’s fiancé’s Will right now. Can I legally fight against her wishes?
Dads a simp
Story 1: dad is a simp
Honestly i dont think OP should have shared his or her inheritance with any of their family. If their brother's biological family left him something he wouldn't be obliged to share it with OP, and i doubt he would have, so i don't think OP should have shared.
Not only that, but relationships aside it would go against two people's dying wishes. While it might not seem fair to OP, the grandma isn't obligated to accept the affair baby as a grandchild just because OP's dad did. It's shitty for them to try to bypass their dead relative's wishes knowing full well why they were in place. At the end of the day, they don't owe anybody their money, and it's up to them how they choose to spend it. They should have just been grateful she kept their secret all this time and didn't alienate the mother from the kids as so many other horrible relatives might. Acting entitled to other people's time and money like they are is ridiculous.
What if biological family didn’t left anything? Is money worth more than family?
Story 2
As if should be always put women in their place. Idc whatever excuse women come up with it's the same punishment as a cheating man. No matter how hard it hurts let them know that you can play with fire as much as they did.
Lol the father and brother would not get anything anyway as its stipulated in the ops grandmothers will
This ain't your business to tell stay out of it cuz you got a little bit of money
OP is TA
I don’t if it’s just me but OP(first story) ISN’T a good brother. I’m not saying the brother shouldn’t know about this bc he should but why is OP trying to force the truth onto other people in matters that he isn’t apart of. He’s literally trying to destroy someone’s reality and all they know so that his morals will shine.
He didn’t only try, he succeeded, also didn’t go through giving money to father like he promised
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Story 2: He should have sent his ex-friends who knew about the affair to court for coercion and being accomplices of the infidelity for the conspiracy of withholding information about it to get some compensation from them for the emotional trauma because they didn't speak up for him.
Mother and father carried that cross every Christmas birthday and that kids graduation and they bare that cross it was not his place to take that from them no respect or honor in that kid.
This was just stupid op is stupid everyone in story 1 is stupid
Story 1; I think the dad was a rock star. He raised a baby that wasn’t his but loved him all the same. Mad respect. The inheritance should have gone e 3 ways. The brother didn’t need to know
what a heavy balance the first story is, the grandparents that hate his family but him and his brother that was innocently caught in the middle, op keeping his share of the inheritance and having that privilege in starting his life but losing his family for it
I wanted to have some pitty for op but the inheritance share game he did with his parents is super messed up, like extra levels of malevolence, I agree with the dad, share the inheritance or not if you want but it was not his secret to share with his brother, at least not like that
The parents were never going to tell him it was what 20plus years
I disagree. When he was told by his grandmother's letter it became his secret too and OP refused to lie by omission. If someone kept a secret this big from me, you bet your ass I'd disown them and cut contact.
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The first story OP is an idiot.
He interfered with something that had nothing to do with him AND he shit all over his grandmother’s memory. She should have give all of them nothing.
So you think OP should had revenge?
@@MrArielK I think OP should gave kept his mouth shut and went on with his life. It was not his place to tell his brother and his grandmother explicitly told him why his father and half brother were cut out of the will. So all he did was destroy his grandmother’s and grandfather’s trust.
@@JohnDoe-h1e8l that would be unfair to the brother, OP was looking to maintain a relationship, because for him that worth more than money. Who cares about honoring the memory, grandma should had made her will know before she beat it
@@MrArielK and you think dropping a bombshell like your dad isn’t your biological father, and the reason grandma didn’t like you was because you are a bastard from an affair your mother had, and your real father never cared enough about you to be in your life and I’m telling you this because mom and “dad” didn’t think you are mature enough to know isn’t going to impact their brotherly relationship?
But don’t worry here is some money.
Tard op
OPs grandparents are terrible people and OP is a hypocrite. Doesn’t like the favoritism but has no issue with it when it comes to the inheritance
OP shared it with his brother. He gave his dad a chance to get some of it too if he just told his brother the truth.
Did you even bother listening to the story?
story 1: OP is in the wrong here. its not about the money. money means nothing... its the bond of parenthood. because bro hasnt known his entire life, he has a good relationship with the parents... but once he knows, it divided the mothers relationship and have him seeing his dad as not his dad, even tho hes raised him his whole life. I had a similar scenario happen to me... trust me, i wish i never found out. u can still give your bro half the inheritance, but u telling him just split your family. YTA
Disagree completely.
Brother has a right to know and was even royally pissed he wasn't told.
OP is 100000% NTA
He did habe to right to he told but not by OP. He(op) shouldn’t have interfered with what wasn’t his business and what if it took a completely different turn and the brother went crazy? Who’s to blame?
'Money means nothing' my ass lmfao
dad YTA for accepting mom back
mom should have faced the capital punishment