Key Learnings: - Be Grateful - Write down your desires in 2025 - Visualise/Think about your dream day in your life - Imagine yourself in 365 days, how would you feel if you achieved that. - Create a vision board; you can place it where you'll see it every day. (Wallpaper, Stick it to your wall, etc.) - Believe that it's already yours, if it's not, then something better will come for you! trust the process, and have faith. - Most people need to build discipline, be delusional and trust your self that you can achieve that. - Do the impossible until it's not impossible anymore (for e.g. wake up in the morning, work 3 times a week, etc) - Do something about your potential! YOU CAN DO IT
Steps that helped me build confidence and improve my life: Started cold approaching (it was awkward at first, but got easier with practice). Joined a martial arts gym (helped me build discipline and self-belief). Focused on improving my style (better clothes, better first impressions). Cut down on distractions like social media and started focusing on personal growth and making money. Small changes like these can make a huge difference. Happy New Year, everyone, and wishing you all the best in 2025!
Happy New Year, bro! You are a beast man.. I’m definitely gonna try these steps. Do you have any recommendations for a good book that could help with confidence with girls?
@@Fitoakio Actually the reason I want to lose weight is because of my face fat. I was around 55kg before pandemic, when quarantine came I gained weight (which is why I’m now 63kg) and my face became chubbier which is why I want to lose weight ☺️ About my body, I became chubbier too but people say they don’t see it that way and that I don’t even look fat…. But even so, I was born with round face (p.s. I love it!) and me gaining weight made my face look more “fat”… and honestly that holds me back from my fullest diva slay potential 🥹 I’ve already done my mental, spiritual, and mindset work this 2024 (still continuing doing so) and now I’m targeting my physical self this 2025 💕 Thank you so much for the kind comment, it matters a lot to me too 🙏🏻
Sometimes i realize im not in the moment. Im either thinking about my what ifs or a lot of other stuff i couldve and should've do. Its really weirdly frustrating and exhausting because i mostly daydream and self criticize myself and it affects me badly. But for 2025, im gonna change it. Im gonna be grateful for myself and im gonna try to get better in time, kaizen right?🌼 2025 is our year people. So does 2026 and 2027 and so on.. because this life is ours and we have time. I wish yall very happy new year even tho its not 2025 yet. Lets go and get our dream life's :3
Best advice I got is pretend you are right now, the person you want to be. How would you act? Be? You are them right now, starting from where you’re at and moving forward. How would the person you want to be act with what you’ve got right now? Do that b
Genuinely haven’t been able to believe I can stop smoking weed but I’ve wanted to and the visualisation of future Polly pulling me into what I see for myself has really boosted me into doing what I need to do Thankyou so much
this is the very first time i stood in my chair, for straight 25 minutes to watch a motivational (life changing tutorial). like ive been just getting bored in the first not even half of any video and then just start scrolling but girl, you totally changed my mindset. TYSM!
I usually don't really like these build your dream life videos. But I love the fact that you talked about things that maybe aren't meant for you or can take a bit longer to come into your life and we shouldn't make ourself getting so hurt by it. I'm gonna make a new attempt on changing myself and my surroundings bit by bit even if it takes much time. thank you
I got stuck in a rut at the end of November and I’m trying to claw out of it so this video came at the perfect time💗 Edit: two minutes in and you’re talking about being in a rut… MAE HOW DO YOU ALWAYS KNOW 😭
Everything from my old life is falling apart but I can already see the amazing growth made in the spaces created 💚 thank you for being so passionate about what you do and reminding those of us who need it how to maintain our intentions.
Very inspiring. Your power comes right through the computer screen! You almost make me afraid not to believe in myself more. I'm going to make myself a sign that says "Delulu Is The Solulu" : )
This is all stuff I've heard before time and time again (because it's all so true) but you saying it just hits different. I feel like I'm hanging out with the best friend I've never had!! 🥰 Definitely needed this pep talk, thank you
i'm currently dealing with phone addiction, it makes me stressed almost everyminute of the day and it's getting on my way to studying and doing things that i like. i would love to use this method to change how thing currently are and get better .
A way I have faith in myself that I can and will achieve my goals is by looking at the past. Whether that be a month, year or even 5 years. 5 years ago, I wanted, but didn't go to tims and get a ice cap when I wanted, because I was afraid, because I had never been and actually ordered all on my own. Now, I go often and order no problem! Like, the 3rd time I went, it was easy and I wasn't scared. A week ago, I got a 60 on a math test, but I wanted better, so I worked for it (even when it seemed like it wasn't going to work or help) and endend up getting a 82. I thought I was going to get a 60 again, but believed in myself the entire way and knew that even if I failed or messed up this time, its a learning experience. That I will learn from this and use it to do better next time.
This really resonates well with the main points of Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Waltz, but especially with the point to imagine that the goal we set is already present. I've been in the process of setting up my goals for the next year when I stumbled upon this video and it's a great addition to my planning. At first I was thinking that I might have shot too high with the goals I want to set, but as you said we should dare to be delulu, so delulu I shall Appreciate your insight, will look forward to the next one
Sometimes it’s hard to tell people stances apart from each other because people’s self help advice can sound so similar. So I’m glad I caught that you think the universe gives you what you want because you’re grateful, not entitled. I don’t believe that, and I also don’t think the typical person needs to work on being less entitled. I think most of us stifle our manifesting through not thinking we are deserving of our full desires, so we go for less than what we want. Also, gratitude does help with manifesting, but it is also dangerous because if you are grateful for conditions that are less than what you want. This could lead you to being complacent with not getting as much as you want, even to the point of having low standards and accepting unacceptable treatment from others.
Thank you for your advices I just accidently see your vlog today and I get inspire because I was mess this 2024. Your a great help to me because I am now planning to create my 2025 Vission Board and Prayer Board also I am Manifest and Claim it. I pray to God that this new year's coming I want to achieve them all and make it happen for real. I am lucky I find you, your vlog like this one that I am currentlu watching, thank you, and God bless you more.😊🎉🙏✨👏
thank you for your inspiring words. I was procasinating for a while and i see this video and the flame within u, wish u all the best and reach your 2025 goals
This is the energy I needed to day!❤ thank you🎉🎉🎉 and I can agree with every word, it’s true in my own experience so - everyone - take notes and go into your delulu land✨
That would actually be an interesting video, believing good things should and can happen to you vs entitlement which can actually push those things away
I loved this video so much like what a punch in My face 😂 I really need to hear that, the final part about being delulu had so much sense to me, because its all in My mind, and the gratitude feeling its all about that, Im tired of play the victim and going to nowhere, so for now Im going to do something with My life ❤️ thanks a lot for this video
"be kind and grateful towards everyone and everything" - what about those people that mistreated you? Can you tell us the best way to deal with those people and more importantly the awful memory of those people that pop up from time to time? They don't deserve a nanogram of my good energy 🤬
Be grateful that they showed you the kind of person they are. That they gave you a lesson and reminder of your boundaries and what you’re willing to take from others. Atleast that’s how I think about it.
:o thats freaky, I was literally doing some writing and I was writing on the exact same concept I started hearing at 24:00 Whilst on the topic, yea, I've noticed that in real life, it is extremely difficult to be around certain people. I started literally taking notes of them as if I'm a biologist out in the wild. Whenever I see a 'common herd-mentality belief' that limits them or try to subdue others into their lifestyle (often through mind & body manipulating substances), I write it down. Honestly, I feel kinda sad for them because they GENUINELY 'believe' what they're saying and its reinforced and 'validated' (if I can even call it that lmao) by the tribe instead of reality. Sorry for the ultra long comment, but at this point of my self improvement journey, I try to pretend to be like others and it is fine. But juuuuuust rarely people just look at me like, 'something ain't right', why you never complain, angry, eat junk food, do drugs, turn down free things we would pay for, etc. For those reading this, and think just do whatever. Yea... no, lmao, tried that and literally lost jobs because of it. There is a reason why princes, emperors and robert greene(law of power 38) suggest something among the lines, 'when in rome, do as the romans do'.
So I'm in a place where my brain's not really good at catching up... i still watch these kinds of videos cause the way they speak is very interesting to me lmao
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⭐🙌 Another inspiring video @Mae thank you!
Key Learnings:
- Be Grateful
- Write down your desires in 2025
- Visualise/Think about your dream day in your life
- Imagine yourself in 365 days, how would you feel if you achieved that.
- Create a vision board; you can place it where you'll see it every day. (Wallpaper, Stick it to your wall, etc.)
- Believe that it's already yours, if it's not, then something better will come for you! trust the process, and have faith.
- Most people need to build discipline, be delusional and trust your self that you can achieve that.
- Do the impossible until it's not impossible anymore (for e.g. wake up in the morning, work 3 times a week, etc)
- Do something about your potential!
YOU CAN DO IT
Thank you vero helpfull❤
You’re a hero for this. Thanks! 🙏🏽
I'll return next year with a straight A, heathy, rich, and looking like an Amazonian warrior. Wish me luck!
GOOD LUCK GIRL U GOT THIS!
I believe in you!!!
I believe in you, and I know you will believe in yourself this year. You will succeed. ❤🎉
Steps that helped me build confidence and improve my life:
Started cold approaching (it was awkward at first, but got easier with practice).
Joined a martial arts gym (helped me build discipline and self-belief).
Focused on improving my style (better clothes, better first impressions).
Cut down on distractions like social media and started focusing on personal growth and making money.
Small changes like these can make a huge difference.
Happy New Year, everyone, and wishing you all the best in 2025!
Happy New Year, bro! You are a beast man.. I’m definitely gonna try these steps. Do you have any recommendations for a good book that could help with confidence with girls?
Erm… is it just me or are you genuinely getting more beautiful each video? Girl, drop what you’ve been doing to manifest increasing beauty. Please 😅🙏🏻
fr 💓
simp
I noticed the same from the thumbnail and was abt to comment on it lol😂
For reeeal
Fr
I wasted my 2024, so i'm trying to make up in 2025. i did every planning and all, hopefully i achieve my goals 💞
Lowkey convinced I manifested this because I've started planning out 2025 already and was watching your videos earlier today
Me too. No idea what to even want
You DID manifest this. As did I. 😅Great job 👏🏽
✨Fake it till you make it !✨
Something a genuinely enjoyed when I was younger was cutting out magazine pics and putting them up on my wall, I really feel like bringing that back
Go for it!
my ultimate goal next year is to lose body fat! currently 169cm 63kg female, waiting to be 57 kg! I'll go back to this comment once it's time 🦋
You got this!!
@iwannakatsoupa145 thank you! 🦋💕
Your weight already is beyond perfect! You can do a body recomposition if you dont like your body shape.
u r really tall and from my own knowledge ur weight is perfect but whatever makes u feel better abt urself love
@@Fitoakio Actually the reason I want to lose weight is because of my face fat. I was around 55kg before pandemic, when quarantine came I gained weight (which is why I’m now 63kg) and my face became chubbier which is why I want to lose weight ☺️ About my body, I became chubbier too but people say they don’t see it that way and that I don’t even look fat…. But even so, I was born with round face (p.s. I love it!) and me gaining weight made my face look more “fat”… and honestly that holds me back from my fullest diva slay potential 🥹 I’ve already done my mental, spiritual, and mindset work this 2024 (still continuing doing so) and now I’m targeting my physical self this 2025 💕 Thank you so much for the kind comment, it matters a lot to me too 🙏🏻
What if the whole world turned their swag on 🌍🙏
Dooo it🎉 I am doing it. Let's!'🎉❤
TYBG
No literally
Sometimes i realize im not in the moment. Im either thinking about my what ifs or a lot of other stuff i couldve and should've do. Its really weirdly frustrating and exhausting because i mostly daydream and self criticize myself and it affects me badly. But for 2025, im gonna change it. Im gonna be grateful for myself and im gonna try to get better in time, kaizen right?🌼
2025 is our year people. So does 2026 and 2027 and so on.. because this life is ours and we have time. I wish yall very happy new year even tho its not 2025 yet. Lets go and get our dream life's :3
wooooow
.. this is my reality ...
Best advice I got is pretend you are right now, the person you want to be. How would you act? Be? You are them right now, starting from where you’re at and moving forward. How would the person you want to be act with what you’ve got right now? Do that b
Genuinely haven’t been able to believe I can stop smoking weed but I’ve wanted to and the visualisation of future Polly pulling me into what I see for myself has really boosted me into doing what I need to do Thankyou so much
commenting to this and will comeback after the year ends. This year will gonna be my year of growth and abundance! :)
this is the very first time i stood in my chair, for straight 25 minutes to watch a motivational (life changing tutorial). like ive been just getting bored in the first not even half of any video and then just start scrolling but girl, you totally changed my mindset. TYSM!
Mother has posted ❤
2025 will be my dream life
I usually don't really like these build your dream life videos. But I love the fact that you talked about things that maybe aren't meant for you or can take a bit longer to come into your life and we shouldn't make ourself getting so hurt by it. I'm gonna make a new attempt on changing myself and my surroundings bit by bit even if it takes much time. thank you
i started watching you at the end of dec. and i am already on the path to change. hoping to be all fixed by feb.
I got stuck in a rut at the end of November and I’m trying to claw out of it so this video came at the perfect time💗
Edit: two minutes in and you’re talking about being in a rut… MAE HOW DO YOU ALWAYS KNOW 😭
Praying, love🌸
Ive been in a rut for years! Working on bringing my shine back!
Im so excited to have found you. Im ready for 2025! 2024 was a preparation year!
The way you keep getting prettier and prettier!! Your videos help a lot, keep doing what you're doing 💞💞
In somehow YT always recommends me ur videos when I most need it. I have no words other than thank you ♥
Everything from my old life is falling apart but I can already see the amazing growth made in the spaces created 💚 thank you for being so passionate about what you do and reminding those of us who need it how to maintain our intentions.
your inner self change everything 🦋💞
You are one of my favourite personal growth speakers.
Very inspiring. Your power comes right through the computer screen! You almost make me afraid not to believe in myself more. I'm going to make myself a sign that says "Delulu Is The Solulu" : )
Omg!! Love this
This is all stuff I've heard before time and time again (because it's all so true) but you saying it just hits different. I feel like I'm hanging out with the best friend I've never had!! 🥰 Definitely needed this pep talk, thank you
"your voice is the only one your dreams need to hear"
i'm currently dealing with phone addiction, it makes me stressed almost everyminute of the day and it's getting on my way to studying and doing things that i like. i would love to use this method to change how thing currently are and get better .
Over here admiring the background. Your apartment is so pretty and well decorated!
So basically be delulu and work torwards your goals no matter what. Got it.
Thank you, Mae. You are helping all of us start strong and THRIVE in 2025!
off topic but your cat was so cute in the background at 5:35 😭😭😭😭😭
A way I have faith in myself that I can and will achieve my goals is by looking at the past. Whether that be a month, year or even 5 years. 5 years ago, I wanted, but didn't go to tims and get a ice cap when I wanted, because I was afraid, because I had never been and actually ordered all on my own. Now, I go often and order no problem! Like, the 3rd time I went, it was easy and I wasn't scared.
A week ago, I got a 60 on a math test, but I wanted better, so I worked for it (even when it seemed like it wasn't going to work or help) and endend up getting a 82. I thought I was going to get a 60 again, but believed in myself the entire way and knew that even if I failed or messed up this time, its a learning experience. That I will learn from this and use it to do better next time.
When i saw the title and thumbnail i KNEW I NEEDED THIS ❤
thank you Mae i accept my new lifestyle and leave my gratitud to my God
i am the best version of myself in 2025
So excited 🎉 happy new year to everyone
Thank you ❤you’re so inspiring.
I’m excited for 2025 to be the best year so far!
I just began watching you and you helping me a lot. I am definitely here to stay on this channel. Keep it up❤. you look so beautiful 😍
It's my first time watching u
I love ur energy 🩷🌷
I genuinely think that you saved me in the first 5 minutes of the video 😭
Thank you so much
i’m about to start on my own vision board and this is going to be so helpful 🤠
Change or be changed is so beautiful
Thank you for posting this. I'm grateful to be alive today and I'm looking forward to 2025. Thank you for the inspiration.
anyone else lowkey see soyeon in her?
Me🤚
Now I cannot unsee it
OMG SO TRUEE
This really resonates well with the main points of Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Waltz, but especially with the point to imagine that the goal we set is already present.
I've been in the process of setting up my goals for the next year when I stumbled upon this video and it's a great addition to my planning. At first I was thinking that I might have shot too high with the goals I want to set, but as you said we should dare to be delulu, so delulu I shall
Appreciate your insight, will look forward to the next one
Commenting 7:20 to come back to journal with some cocoa ☕️
I LOOOVE HER SO MUCH
I love this makeup look! And thank you for the well-structured advice
be the first person to fly, & show humanity that physically we can actually fly… 💐🤿
wholeness & balanced vibrations to you, yours & ours ..
Don't actually try that 😢saw my friend fall off a cliff one time
Thank you! This video found me at the perfect time 🙏🏻💞
really profound points❤
powerful speech
Thank You for your encouragement and believing in us!
“delulu is really the solulu” hit so hard 😭😭😭
Thank you for support, love from Russia ❤❤❤❤
Sometimes it’s hard to tell people stances apart from each other because people’s self help advice can sound so similar. So I’m glad I caught that you think the universe gives you what you want because you’re grateful, not entitled. I don’t believe that, and I also don’t think the typical person needs to work on being less entitled. I think most of us stifle our manifesting through not thinking we are deserving of our full desires, so we go for less than what we want. Also, gratitude does help with manifesting, but it is also dangerous because if you are grateful for conditions that are less than what you want. This could lead you to being complacent with not getting as much as you want, even to the point of having low standards and accepting unacceptable treatment from others.
The timing is crazy. THANK YOU
💖 Girl you are my favorite ❤ and you look like animie I really admire your energy and confidence I love sis ❤️ thank you so much ❤️ 💞
Thank you for your advices I just accidently see your vlog today and I get inspire because I was mess this 2024. Your a great help to me because I am now planning to create my 2025 Vission Board and Prayer Board also I am Manifest and Claim it. I pray to God that this new year's coming I want to achieve them all and make it happen for real. I am lucky I find you, your vlog like this one that I am currentlu watching, thank you, and God bless you more.😊🎉🙏✨👏
thank you for your inspiring words. I was procasinating for a while and i see this video and
the flame within u, wish u all the best and reach your 2025 goals
This helped my over thinking. Havent been able to sleep for an hour, this eased my mind. Thank u so much.
This is the energy I needed to day!❤ thank you🎉🎉🎉 and I can agree with every word, it’s true in my own experience so - everyone - take notes and go into your delulu land✨
Thank you Mae i always come out of your videos a better version of myself
Mae thanks for this video. I believe in delusional optimism i will make 2025 my best year..🎉
I recently found your channel and I am already in love with everything that you do♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️Thank you gal
well, that video just came right in timem no coincidence, thank you 🙏
In 2025 I am learning to sail and when the time is right I will have my on sailboat and get rid of my phone addiction
That would actually be an interesting video, believing good things should and can happen to you vs entitlement which can actually push those things away
girl thank you so much this gonna help me so much i already took a page of notes from this video, wish you the best💜😜
Heavenly luminaries, I apologise for saying it but you are beautiful (and not just externally) ❤
Will come back to this a year from now to tell you if it worked 😊
I loved this video so much like what a punch in My face 😂 I really need to hear that, the final part about being delulu had so much sense to me, because its all in My mind, and the gratitude feeling its all about that, Im tired of play the victim and going to nowhere, so for now Im going to do something with My life ❤️ thanks a lot for this video
I recently found your videos! They are helping me so much! Thank you for being inspirational 😊
Me watching this on New Year’s Eve 😬
girl I LOVE YOUR NAILCOLOR... help what is ittttt
Super cute 😍 omg this video is adorable 😭💖 I'm so grateful you made this! 😘✨ Love it so much! 🥰🎥
thank you bbygirl loved
the video💅💅
Yay Mae Posted ❤
As you start to walk on the way, the way appears ❤
Your words work, they have motivated me thanks much for your kindness 😁
Never been this early before 😅
Thank you for this video I needed to hear this encouragement!
Absolutely Awesome! ❤
Thank you Mae ❤❤❤
"be kind and grateful towards everyone and everything" - what about those people that mistreated you? Can you tell us the best way to deal with those people and more importantly the awful memory of those people that pop up from time to time? They don't deserve a nanogram of my good energy 🤬
Forgiveness isn’t for them. It’s for you. Your peace is more important than your ego. Let that stuff go.
Be grateful that they showed you the kind of person they are. That they gave you a lesson and reminder of your boundaries and what you’re willing to take from others. Atleast that’s how I think about it.
@@sherriwilliams8296 "Your peace is more important than your ego" - love that. Wrote it down, thank you 🙏🏻
I swear you’re more beautiful every time I seem you
:o thats freaky, I was literally doing some writing and I was writing on the exact same concept I started hearing at 24:00
Whilst on the topic, yea, I've noticed that in real life, it is extremely difficult to be around certain people. I started literally taking notes of them as if I'm a biologist out in the wild. Whenever I see a 'common herd-mentality belief' that limits them or try to subdue others into their lifestyle (often through mind & body manipulating substances), I write it down. Honestly, I feel kinda sad for them because they GENUINELY 'believe' what they're saying and its reinforced and 'validated' (if I can even call it that lmao) by the tribe instead of reality.
Sorry for the ultra long comment, but at this point of my self improvement journey, I try to pretend to be like others and it is fine. But juuuuuust rarely people just look at me like, 'something ain't right', why you never complain, angry, eat junk food, do drugs, turn down free things we would pay for, etc. For those reading this, and think just do whatever. Yea... no, lmao, tried that and literally lost jobs because of it. There is a reason why princes, emperors and robert greene(law of power 38) suggest something among the lines, 'when in rome, do as the romans do'.
Thank you so much ! I love your channel amazing vibes and of course very impactful guidance! much love! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2024 was a very tough year for me. 😔😞
I'll be my highest version in 2025 ❤
THANK U SM!!❤
rumi mentioned 🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯
You are so inspiring! ❤
Thank you ❤
Lots of love Mae
So I'm in a place where my brain's not really good at catching up... i still watch these kinds of videos cause the way they speak is very interesting to me lmao
coming back next year as the person i want to become
The year is going fast