Dating & Social Anxiety // What No One Talks About....
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- Опубликовано: 14 май 2024
- You guys asked the questions, now I’m giving my big sis advice on a topic that is very near to my heart - social anxiety + dating. if you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor BetterHelp. click betterhelp.com/alishamarie for a 10% discount on your first month of therapy with a licensed professional specific to your needs. thanks for watching my video -- love you sm!! xo -Alisha Marie
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guysss i love you so much!! please use the comments as a community and ask each other advice!! we're a little family
Love you so much Alisha❤❤❤thank you for speaking about social anxiety😘
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Love it!!🤍 and some kinda cringey but fun name ideas☺️ The darkroom, behind the eyes/behind the mind, what goes unsaid, unwinding, in her mind, the talk-in, the tired truth, real conversations, uncensored, talkback, no apologies, let’s connect, vibe w the vibe, unveiled, she speaks
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i’m so glad this is something we’re now talking about
Yes.
I'm glad too🙂
watching videos like this makes me so proud i’ve supported THIS type of “influencer” for the last 7 years
I’m crying ily
i LOVE this version of Alisha. Open, honest, no filter. Thank you, because being truthful about mental health is very brave 💓
gunna cry...thank you
As someone who doesn't have it: I just treat others how I would like to be treated while simultaneously not giving a shit about their opinions
wait thats lowkey groundbreaking advice HAHAHAh
@@AlishaMarie lol tea, at the end of the day the only opinion that matters about me is mine. I’m literally the only person in my life that knows my full story. Could you imagine giving your opinion on someone’s life without knowing all the facts? People’s opinion on your business is literally the same. Therefore they are not valid and you just shouldn’t care
I love that you mentioned experiencing social anxiety around ppl you know because that is SO real. 😅 having to hold convos with old friends who I know well but don’t get to see often and coworkers can be so stressful!!
I definitely felt that part because I feel it all the time I love that she mentioned it as well at times I do feeling it becoming stressful and feeling awkward
@@QuaDjeaThomasjust smile and nod, you'll be fine
Yessss
So real!! When I was a kid my social anxiety was way worse and family singing happy birthday to me was the worst. lol. Even thought I knew everybody it was just awful. I swear once I thought I was going to pass out. It's gotten better as I got older but it's still there. I kinda force myself to at least hey to strangers everytime Im out and it's helped me a bit
the way this is edited is making me understand things so much better idk how to explain it
stop this means so so so much
no one can do it like you girll💓@@AlishaMarie
Let’s acknowledge that you can be ready for a relationship but just don’t want one at the moment.
Being single is fun, you don’t have to live to someone else’s rhythm and it’s peaceful.
If you don’t meet someone that you LIKE and also feels like the relationship is as easy as breathing then just move on
that’s true
Alisha, I feel like you’ve hit your stride again and I love to see it!
Sit down and talk with Alisha especially about anxiety make really feel relatable. Since I was a kid you're my idol and still are it just I'm happy you're thriving
When I went on my first date with my husband I made a list of a ton of questions I had for him on my phone and basically interrogated him, and whereas someone might think that that sounds crazy and might come off as too much I was just so fed up with dating guys and the dates leading to nothing. My husband was actually very intrigued and happy to answer all of my questions and it led us to grow very close to each other quickly. My questions were very intentional about his morals to make sure that we lined up the same. I feel like it's ridiculous to go on dates and just chat about random stuff that doesn't matter when we should be dating for the intention of marriage.
Truly the most relatable video ever. I felt like I was listening to my own internal monologue the whole time. "Is it all just going to be a me problem my entire life?" took me out because same girl. Same.
experienced pretty bad anxiety in general after a very toxic breakup! went on my first date last night actually LOL since the breakup. i was sick to my stomach all day, barely ate leading up to the date but ended up having a great time! loved this series!
OMG AHHHHHH HOWD IT GO?!?!?!??!?
@@AlishaMarie it was really good !!! i think ?! definitely had those moments where i was thinking “omg why did i just say that” HAHA slowly learning how to get back in the dating game after three years!
I have no doubt you will find the one right for you. Wishing you all the best
absolutely love listening to PB and hearing u talk more about this. such an overlooked and not talked about enough topic but us anxious girlies are over here suffering 😭 ur so real for this and giving ultimate big sister vibes
I love how real she is about her mental state it makes me feel better about myself. To know im not the only one struggling and scrolling through the comments seeing everyone being supportive of each other. We need more people who are open about anxiety/depression/etc
as someone who doesn’t have social anxiety, i still appreciate these videos because it helps me understand and empathize with ppl that do have social anxiety ❤ love your vids alisha
That's so true, why are we looking for aesthetics, look for what we actually desire, what we want, don't go after the trends and be your own self
seeing videos like these from content creators make my heart so happy and especially from alisha! I’ve been watching alisha for years by this point and it’s been so amazing to see her grow, not just her content but her, as a person, ya know? I still remember when she turned 22 and the little celebration that ashley put together in their apartment.
these topics, especially, can be very difficult to discuss and that’s one of the many reasons why we need to be discussing them.
I have found out within the last several months that I’ve had anxiety for majority of my life, mostly likely since middle school, maybe even grade school and I’m just now, the last couple years, being treated for it; trying medications, seeing a therapist, seeing a psychiatrist, etc. so it’s been a MAJOR adjustment for me because I’ve gone majority of my life living with it, I don’t know what life is supposed to feel like without it.
in these last two years of trying these medications, not just for anxiety but in my case, depression and insomnia as well, I’ve learned things about myself and my body that I had no clue about beforehand.
I was officially diagnosed with my anxiety, depression and insomnia in summer of 2021, just a couple months after I graduated high school and have been working with doctors ever since then. along with everything else, I was diagnosed with sleep apnea, december of 2022. I’ve also come to find my body is incredibly sensitive to so many of these medications that doctors will generally initially prescribe for anxiety, depression and insomnia because they tend to be the ones that take well with most people.
this is still an ongoing journey for me. an incredibly frustrating journey, at that but one I know I will get through. to those of you there that are dealing with anything that’s nagging at your head, your heart, or/and your body, I see you and I empathize with you and I hope things start to look up for you when you need them to. 🖤 xoxo, sydney
been watching you for TEN years& it’s been so inspiring being along with you on just your life journey and working through your anxiety 🫶🏻 feel lucky to still be hanging with you after all this time thank you for everything!!
ALSO I think you should keep the name as is!! it’s cute & fun
I’ve never related to someone else’s anxiety habits as much as you Alisha 😂❤ relationships, social anxiety, everything. I love you so much and these videos help so many so thank you!!
Thank you so much for opening up about your mental health Alisha. I struggle so much on the daily with social anxiety and anxious and avoidant attachment and it’s honestly crippling some days. Thank you so much for showing me that other people feel like I do. I was relating to every single thing you were saying, especially with the guy at the gym where you couldn’t talk. I feel like that with a lot of people. Thank you for making me feel less alone. I love this video and have been a massive fan of you since early 2010’s. Thank you Alisha ❤️.
oh my gosh thank you alisha❣️i swear dating is a common category in “fun” but it makes me feel so much better seeing eye to eye on social anxiety and dating and how it doesn’t appear fun to anxious and introverted people like us who feel emotions more deeply and overthink every little thing and detail in dating. i set high standards and expectations too that my anxiety thinks is for my protection and can identify one date as i’m good for a couple months before another one lol. it can be tricky. but i truly appreciate the advice and coping skills we can relate to on this topic♡
This really helps!! I’ve always wanted to start conversations, but finding open ended conversations is really rough, n asking about other people gives me a way to keep the chat going!! Thanks Alisha!!❤️
I LOVE THIS ! I feel like Alisha is really connecting with us and giving us really good advice like a big sister that we always wanted thank you Alisha
Alisha, thank you so much for this video. I have battled social anxiety my whole life. It has gotten better but I still battle with it. I used to have really bad social anxiety with people I knew, for example my own cousins. I still find myself needing time to warm up but I eventually open up and feel comfortable. I find myself needing and wanting alcohol to loosen myself up and that scared me. I feel for you and anyone else who battle with severe social anxiety on the daily basis. We are all in the together and we will all be okay. Love you, Lida queen.
Alisha I would literally listen to this series for hours!!!! I love this and resonate so hard!!!
This video brought me so much comfort like when i talk to people who don’t have social anxiety I always feel like they don’t truly understand, but even tho you don’t know me at all I felt like you understood me so much❤️
omg growing up watching your videos it genuinely made me feel like youre my big sis, been watching you since I was 12 am going to turning 22 soon.
love your sit-down videos feels like we on ft chilling and having rando convos.
love you so much also its so amazing to see how much you've grown. kudos to you.
cant wait to see all your achievements.
sending loads of love from kuwait.
The fact your vids are becoming so relatable and you’re showing your vulnerability is inspiring af!
I feel you on all this!
So many younger girls in their 20’s are going to be looking up to you for vids like this. Mad props to you!
i remember hearing about this vid on the pod and vlog and i have been so excited to finally see it !! lida u are so authentic and are truly glowing inside and out ☺️
Thanks for covering this important topic of social anxiety. How this affects friendship and relationships. Was much needed.Somtging that I have struggled with as a women in her twenties this video was inspiring ❤❤
Ok but LOVINGGG these chill videos with the unfiltered era you’re in rn I am living,dying all the things 😂🫶🏼
i love how open you are alisha! please just keep being you!👏🏽💗
This series is gonna blow up! I can feel it. We all needed this. ❤
I love how open alisha is because this truly has helped me ❤️
I love this video Alisha. Honestly, it’s something we all just needed to hear. Thank you for sharing ❤
i love this and you so much. i have been watching you for a while now , since i was 13 and i used to watch you for entertainment but these kind of videos and your podcast is what i really need and love to watch now that i’m older. (20 now) thank you for putting this out there and keep making content i will always support!
i would have never guessed someone as fun as you would also struggle with social anxiety like me! thank you so much for opening up to us about this Alisha, it means the world!
I would love to hear about your battles with insecurity issues or even depressive episodes (even if you don’t have it) and how you deal with it. Love you girly!
genuinely love these type of videos sm alisha
love this new alisha youtube era
Same! I've been watching since schoolisha and I love seeing how much she's grown as a person
This video came out in such perfect timing for me! I’m going to be a freshman in college in a couple days and my social anxiety has been soaring 😭 EVEN around my own friends and people I know. I really appreciate this discussion on the topic! Thanks for the tips and advice, Alisha 💕 I’ve been watching you for 7 years now 🥹
loved everything you said in this video it was so validating and helpful; also really appreciated the really well done editing and production of the video! i loved the colorful background jt gave a chill vibey night talk with a close friend-essentially a safe space!
When it comes to dating and anxiety I'm so glad that my boyfriend is so supportive of my anxiety and helps me when I feel it coming on. When we're out and about I feel my anxiety kicking in he's gotten so good at telling the signs and getting me into a more comfortable space.
I love how open you are about your anxiety and your mental state. It's so comforting to know even well-known creators have the same struggles so many other people suffer with.
This was great Alisha! I also feel better knowing that all of these things you talked about and went through doesn’t make me feel alone. I did the exact things also when I was in my single era
i'm so glad i clicked on this video. i never have EVER relate this much to someone. social anxiety, dating, and everything about me being the problem... THANK YOU FOR THIS BIG SISSY 😭
I saw this title and clicked SO FAST. Love this honest Alisha sm ❤️ We STAN her ❤️❤️❤️
omg!! stop im literally freaking out so much - alisha answered my two questions first!! love u so much queen, saved my life xx
It feels SO!!!! GOOD!!!! to see someone with the exact same struggles as me.
I always feel SO stupid with my social anxiety, especially in the dating scene.
Thank you for putting this out there! I feel underSTOOD!
Hey girl hey… I love Real Talk With Losh… Finally an episode I’ve been waiting for… Thank you for covering mental health… ILYSM!! 🥰🤗
Loved this! And love your solo podcasts. I could definitely see how some of the things that you have contemplated/dealt with could relate to me. Just like how you wish you could have dated more in your 20’s but you also understand why you didn’t. I’m 28 but I have no dating experience but a big part of that was because I was busy working and going to school,so I didn’t put much focus in my dating life. Even now I want to get to the point where I’m happy with myself and where I’m at before I put my all into dating and sharing myself with someone else. Also I totally experience social anxiety and awkwardness with social situations. It’s nice hearing someone else’s experience with it and how you deal with it/overcome it ❤️🙂
THANK U ALISHA this is like my 3rd time listening to this ep and i feel like i learn smt new every time
I grew up with you, so so proud! Thank you
KILLED IT GIRL!! Seeing how much you grown makes me so proud of you...and makes me proud of myself !!haha following you sence school alisha era....looking forward for more episodes of this series..love you!!
I’m loving this little series! It feels like we’re friends on facetime
I love this video. Including the editing. The editing is so good!
This video made me feel so validated Alisha❤️❤️ I’ve been really trying to put myself out there and meet more guys but I’m still soooooooo scared to do it!! This made me feel less alone and to get out of my head!! Thank you Alisha your incredible!!💗💗
these videos are so nice to watch and just so helpful too! I love you so much!!!!
Yesss please do more real talks like this about mental health, dating, body image, self love etc❤
Gosh I am just loving these videos and this editing style! ❤ Go queen!
I’m really glad you’re talking about this loveee you alisha
i love you! big sis energy so much! also the lights are so pleasing to look at! ❤
I haven’t watched one of your videos in so long but this title drew me in!!!!!!
Please do more videos like this! This is a topic so many can relate to but no one talks about enough!
these are honestly my fav vids you do!!!! PLEASE DO MORE
love watching your videos!! you give such good advice ❤️❤️❤️
i love this smm
Omg this video confirms everything my therapist says as well. I started therapy a year ago and just didn’t understand when he would tell me certain things or ask myself is this a fact. Wow mindfulness is key
I absolutely love the vibes of this video 😭🫶🏻🥰🥹
you look happier and more in peace, and I'm so happy for that. Thank's for this video, it helped
I needed those words about social anxiety. I totally related to how Alisha said that she feels nervous around people she knows well. I’m a teacher and went back to work this week and the social anxiety was so real and I have worked with these people for years. Definitely going to chat with my therapist about this at my next session. 😊
The editing is so on point it makes it so engaging on top if liking the topic
we love these types of videos. so helpful tysm ❤️
this video makes me feel seen, I feel like I’ve struggled so much this year with putting myself out there and just being anxious omg
Girl I really can relate to everything you say and feel , are we living the in same life or what , the connection between our thoughts and feelings is so similar that is insane
I feel the “it’s a me problem, is this going to be like this for the rest of my life” sentiment so strongly. It feels really hopeless a lot of the time. I feel detached from my life, like everything is happening to the outside version of me and the inside version is just freaking out all the time.
I LOVE THIS
You doing honest talks is my fav thing ever, I’m super interested in what you have to say because I can totally relate to you therefore it helps me
Please keep on doing them ❤❤❤❤❤
alisha is so pretty and has the best energy
The content lately IS AMAZINGGG
I know you've talk about social anxiety and dating on the pod, but I love you made a video about it. Im in my 30s and trying to date with social anxiety and I feel everything you've said and saying.
🙃 i think we all can really appreciate this video! The editing and the way you really explain things are amazingly done! Keep going girl ✨️🫶
I love this new series. I struggle with social anxiety, and I felt the "is it all just going to be a me problem my whole life?" On a personal level. It's really hard knowing everything wrong in your life and mental health, but not knowing how to fix it 😔
oh yes, me just brushing off my social anxiety my whole life until recently!! good to feel seen lol and i'm with you on being delulu
Hi Alisha I know you might be taking a break from vlogmas but happy New Years to everyone but can you plz continue doing these types of chit chat plz more about anxiety you have really helped me so much and I really would love if you continue to do it
I'm at work about ready to throw hands, went to lunch and watch thus to relax so thank you Alisha!
you don’t know how happy i get when i see there’s a new main channel video😭🙌🙌 so proud alisha
Loving this series so much!
These videos are seriously by far my favorite. Please Please please do more of these!!!
i didn't find this video. this video found me.
this is so relatable, i'm gonna cry. thank you!
I absolutely love this series
I remember one time when I had a dress on, it was just a simple blue sun dress. And I needed a few things from Target but my social anxiety would not let me go in! I told my mom who I was with to go in. I felt awful but I just couldn’t go. She even said “your shyness is taking over your life” I wasn’t scared people would judge me it was just my brain saying “I don’t feel safe”. But I love how honest Alisha is and it really inspires me to be more braver and tell my brain “no I’m fine” and “nothing bad will happen”
i didnt know i needed this video. ty queen omg. love these
You should do a video on how you overcame your social anxiety. For example when you talked about getting anxious around people you actually know well but have a hard time getting past your anxiety to know them on a deeper level is something I struggle with DEEPLY and this is the first time I’ve ever heard someone other than me put it in to words and it’s so nice to know I’m not the only one lol. It would be so helpful if you talked some more about your ways to overcome social anxiety :)
Not Shylisha 😂😂 perfect pod name
BAHAHHAHA
i loveee these chill heart to heart videos. the lights always set the mood too LMAOO
Im loving these real videos
The editing is absolutely everything, and it’s giving just internet vibes, and I love it
Girl I love the style and set for this video !!!!!!!! Love the colors and sharp cuts.
As someone who struggles with social anxiety, this video made me feel less alone. Thank u soo much for this video!!
Thank you for talking about anxiety all around. I'm struggling but my meds are helping sort of 😊.
Msss Alisha, you are so so so talented. This video made my day!❤
I so appreciate you talking about this. ❤